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Just want to add my experience here. i overheard some conversations on several different occasions between some of my female friends where they were talking about exactly this kind of situations. On several occasions the girls would be approached by a guy they actually found really attractive and despite being single they said they had a boyfriend. In the aftermath they told their friends that they were so dumb and they didn't know why they said it. Attributed it to being nervous. I myself made …
/r/seduction24/02/26 08:25 AM
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Well actually i overheard some conversations on several different occasions between some of my female friends where they were talking about exactly this kind of situations. On several occasions the girls would be approached by a guy they actually found really attractive and despite being single they said they had a boyfriend. In the aftermath they told their friends that they were so dumb and they didn't know why they said it. Attributed it to being nervous. I myself made a similar experience wh…
/r/seduction24/02/26 08:21 AM
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The age gap between me and my girl is 8 years. We have been together for 7 years now and going strong. So jeah try it. That bering said, the development difference between 18 and 24 might be too much. But it's worth a try.
/r/seduction03/02/26 04:13 PM
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I have the feeling that the escalation part does not work for me or in my country. I had a huge dry cast when I did follow these advice and I had a lot of negative comments about it. I believe in Northern Europe country's or asian country's this doesn't work well.
/r/seduction12/12/24 03:46 PM
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Totally disagree. I was devastated by my ex girlfriend cheating and getting into a relationship with a great women fixed almost all of my issues. It gave me the security and love that I needed to succeed again in my life. Every one kept telling me that a relationship would not change anything but I knew otherwise and it I live the proof for 5 years now.
/r/seduction07/10/24 07:55 PM
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Are you in the US? Because that mindset killed. My game in the EU.... It's definitely not the way to go here, or with Asian girls...
/r/seduction20/09/24 12:57 PM
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This
/r/seduction17/08/22 07:46 AM
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Jeah, don't suggest something that is too much commitment. Ask for a meeting somewhere that does not put too much pressure on her for the first date. Sth like going to star bucks or going for a walk. She does not know you yet and while she might like you, in her book you might as well be a serial killer. So give her space to get to know you in a way that makes her feel save. I did ask for a dates with too much commitment myself when I was younger. So take take the advice :)
/r/seduction27/06/22 08:15 AM
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That's actually also a thing. I never drink much so beer Googles are not a thing to me. But I met a girl at a party that I really liked. Went to her study place the next day to surprise her but was let off by her by-day-looks. She looked very different at day. So jeah, it's a thing.
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:38 AM
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Be unemotional about it and keep texting/talking like before. If she does not reschedule in the near future, drop her.
/r/seduction26/12/21 09:15 AM
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Dude, you cannot choose what you are attracted to. Attraction is no choice. Its totally OK to be into smaller women. Don't let you tell otherwise. That said, sometimes it can be worth looking beyond your own nose. Taller girls can be awesome too. But that's up to your choosing and nobody else should tell you what you are obliged to like.
/r/seduction20/09/21 08:17 AM
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Jeah you can. Although I am not sure you should... I started to get too touchy for people and mow I am back to where I was before. Although I am now more comfortable with touch. At least in g my part of Germany beeing touchy is not the way to go.
/r/seduction13/09/21 11:50 AM
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ABS? Adult balding Syndrom? Dont you mean mpb? Elon certainly did never have abs in the sense of a six pack.
/r/seduction31/07/21 07:39 AM
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It is true. Spending all your life in a dark room in front of a blue screen is NOT getting you the women you want. No matter how much you love it. And it will NOT become attractive that way. You can downvote me all you want for it, but its not how it works. Also saying "Do what you love, thats attractive", is implying that there is just a handful of stuff you can possibly love doing. Well let me tell you that: There so many things you can do that you will LOVE and that will get you into the posi…
/r/seduction28/07/21 04:48 PM
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Jeah right. If you love programming and gaming like I do, you will never ever EVER get to date the women of your dreams. Edit: Not saying that you cant find the women of your dreams if you like these things. Its just that THESE things are not the ones that will get you the women you want. You need to fill your life with the things that DO and still do programming and gaming if you like. But these 2 things alone will get you N O W H E R E.
/r/seduction28/07/21 03:22 PM
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Open up with something easy, like asking for time. Then add a compliment after that. Do that often enough and it will feel more natural to speak to people on the street. From there you can expand further, for example: sry I have to admit I just asked you so I could say hello... And after that you can get into more advanced openers. Use a canned opener. Just think about a 3 to 4 and practise them for yourself a couple of times till you feel you can deliver them. That's some baby steps I would tak…
/r/seduction26/07/21 09:03 AM
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The more they talk, the more they like you. Everybody likes hearing themselves talk. You can use this with guys as well, as for work related stuff and such.
/r/seduction18/06/21 11:51 PM
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Café dates all the way! Cafe hopping is my go to date.
/r/seduction16/06/20 10:02 PM
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Exactly
/r/seduction15/06/20 10:13 PM
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I found these 3 videos very helpful https://youtu.be/KCYe5y1R0o4 https://youtu.be/W_cnbV_OSi4 https://youtu.be/2q5AWN81-3E Hope these will help you
/r/seduction21/04/20 08:27 AM
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Still having approach Anxiety but am very successful once I overcome my blockade ;) (funny enough I am not afraid of rejection, I am afraid of socially not accepted situations.) Also one part seems to also be that I am often not sure whether I even like the girl enough. Once I saw a girl I really liked in the middle of 5 friends that was about to leave and was not afraid at all to run up and stop the whole group just to approach that girl. Funny somehow... Anyway what helps me is to warm up befo…
/r/seduction13/05/19 10:19 PM
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Girls rarely if ever escalate. That's how life is. You need to accept it. I grew up with 2 sisters and behaved like a girl in the dating world myself for a long time. It may be hard to accept but as a men you are the one that's supposed to lead. That's considered attractive by females btw.
/r/seduction08/04/19 08:06 PM
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Just for notice: most men become exponentially more attractive with decreasing body fat. Less body fat correlates with a harder and stronger facial structure which in itself is masculine. Seriously, keeping yourself fit and healthy can improve your attractiveness by a lot! And if you have an Adonis like body, even a less than mediocre face is not a problem. And even then, women are way less attracted by an attractive outside than Man. You can score a lot of points through your behavior. An attra…
/r/seduction27/03/19 04:00 PM
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I wouldn't even comment on that tbh. Take your time to reply as well with answering and don't bother mentioning it. If at all make a funny / cocky response. But I would only do that after you have allready built a connection. (a la: God dann tell your boss to let you out of the office some time, slavery has been banned if he missed it ;] ) However never sound butthurt or game over. Always be light and playfull ;)
/r/seduction26/03/19 08:34 AM
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Oh yes the texts WOULD be useful. If anything just as a baseline to draw connections from. So please post it. Actually it would be great to have its own sub only for communications that worked out.
/r/seduction21/02/19 01:56 PM
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You are f***Ing writing in an English sub. Would you like it if I tried starting a conversation in German in your post? This sub is meant to be a help for every one. You have just excluded a whole lot of people. This is rude and I am pretty sure it's against the subs rules.
/r/seduction14/02/19 10:03 AM
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I myself have receding hairline and I don't want to accept it. Gladly we live in a time where hair pieces are cheap enough and undetectable. Search for French lace hair line on Youtube and you will find some interesting stuff.
/r/seduction09/12/18 05:30 PM
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