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It is never right to wish harm to someone, regardless of content.
/r/MensRights19/04/26 06:38 PM
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Because women are raised to think they have the say in relationships with men. Now that men are deciding just "not to play" anymore by opting out of the relationship scene, refusing marriage and dumping the crazy ones...well, women are just plain mad. They want their way and don't like to be told otherwise. Everything depends on their looks and they spend lots of money on nails, hair, clothes, etc...and men aren't buying it anymore. The feminist radicals come on these subreddits to release that …
/r/MensRights14/02/24 04:40 AM
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I feel for ya. Being married and feeling miserably alone is worse than just feeling lonely.
/r/MensRights18/01/24 04:57 AM
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Johnny helped the world realize that male victims are real. He did a better job than any laws ever could.
/r/MensRights02/06/22 01:32 AM
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Don't date younger women or wait til they mature and realize there's way more serious things in life to get upset about. I agree that younger women are way more crazier than they've ever been. Hopefully things like this Johnny Depp trial will bring this craziness to an end. It's not cool.
/r/MensRights01/06/22 09:47 PM
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Hey, sorry dude. I have two teenage sons and I'm literally scared for their futures. They're both choosing to stay single so far and I don't blame them. It sucks that so many women have become like this. Not every woman is a man hater tho. There are some nice, kind women out there. Don't give up, the best ones are worth the wait. As for r/mensrights, I've been a supporter here for approx a year. I've been banned from other subreddits cuz of this and I don't give AF. I'd rather support a better, …
/r/MensRights01/06/22 06:11 PM
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Some sisters are not worth calling a sister. I had to tell my sister not to bother ever contacting me again. It was one of the best things I've done. Just because she's family doesn't mean she has the right to treat you badly.
/r/MensRights29/05/22 02:32 PM
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I don't understand how anyone can be sympathetic to Heard after hearing her billigerent verbal abuse and the subsequent maniacal laughs in those tape recordings. They must be as mad as Ms. Heard
/r/MensRights27/05/22 08:08 PM
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Truth
/r/MensRights27/05/22 05:10 PM
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This is such a passionate closing speech that embodies the truth behind what false accusations feel like and why the truth is worth fighting for. I think both the lawyer and Johnny were ready to cry
/r/MensRights27/05/22 03:17 PM
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Yep 100% agreed
/r/MensRights19/04/21 03:15 PM
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😀💕💕
/r/MensRights19/04/21 03:13 PM
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Sad but true
/r/MensRights19/04/21 03:10 PM
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I totally agree. It needs to be investigated by Reddit admin. No rule was broken and I was stalked by their mods to specifically exclude me for no reason cuz I never commented on their subreddit.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 03:04 PM
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This is what my 15 yr old son said too but I told him no, mensrights has grown to a wholesome bunch and it has. I've been on and off here for a year and it's really gained momentum and grown in a healthy way.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 02:58 PM
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Yes, that was it. Like I said before, I only visited that subreddit once cuz it was a highlight and I found it very depressing and negative so I never looked at it again or had any desire to join. For them to call this a redpill incel subreddit is ridiculous. What are they then?
/r/MensRights19/04/21 07:05 AM
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Thank you. That was informative. Egalitarian? What is that?
/r/MensRights19/04/21 07:00 AM
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Exactly same one!! Yes Thank you lol
/r/MensRights19/04/21 06:16 AM
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HA! Like WTF?? I don't get it. That's the same subreddit that banned me.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 06:15 AM
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Sadly, I agree with this. It shouldn't be like this but it is. They attack other women too, especially the ones that go to the gym and look hot. We're sluts and all other sorts of things cuz of our looks, right?
/r/MensRights19/04/21 06:14 AM
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Awww, thank you! My teenage boys and I actually had a lively discussion tonight about men's rights, feminism, perceived equality, history of feminism and where it's progressed to and why...and mental health issues and lobotomies too!! LMAO
/r/MensRights19/04/21 04:51 AM
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Awww, that was really sweet. I appreciate that
/r/MensRights19/04/21 04:20 AM
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Well that's bs cuz r/mensrights is actually a much needed subreddit rn I don't feel hated here. And I'm a woman. It's only viewed as this from the haters themselves which serves to validate the original message of men's rights
/r/MensRights19/04/21 03:33 AM
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Thank you. I believe strongly in treating each other with respect regardless of gender, race or age
/r/MensRights19/04/21 03:29 AM
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Well said
/r/MensRights19/04/21 03:26 AM
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Exactly what I told the mods of the subreddit that banned me
/r/MensRights19/04/21 02:53 AM
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Strange. Whhhhyyyy? Shouldn't that be against Reddit rules to underhandedly polarize opinions?
/r/MensRights19/04/21 02:48 AM
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What disturbed me is that the subreddit I was banned from had absolutely no political stance and had absolutely nothing to do with mensrights or feminism. Which to me is censorship and creating polarized subreddits which in itself should be against Reddit rules.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 02:45 AM
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Exactly. They validate the need for men's rights by their very actions
/r/MensRights19/04/21 02:35 AM
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No, it was r/offmychest Which totally stumps me SMH
/r/MensRights19/04/21 02:32 AM
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Nope it wasn't
/r/MensRights19/04/21 02:31 AM
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Good adjectives and colourful nouns lol
/r/MensRights19/04/21 02:30 AM
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No, it was some subreddit I went on only once, never even joined it. Not sure if I can list the subreddit without getting in trouble
/r/MensRights19/04/21 02:29 AM
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Thank you. I appreciate that. Polarisation helps no one.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 02:26 AM
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This is exactly what I thought was so wrong about this! Reddit is an open forum of discussion, dammit, it should stay that way. WTF is the use of an open discussion subreddit when everyone thinks the same. It's just stroking everyone's back and seeking validation. There's absolutely nothing to be learned from that.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 02:23 AM
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Haha, I did the same. I googled redpill incel. I had no idea what it even meant 😂 And then when I realized that they immediately sent me that after a comment on r/mensrights, I messaged ohhh, it's because I support mens rights? I said then I'm totally okay with being banned from your subreddit then.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 02:19 AM
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I didn't even subscribe to that subreddit! So WTF? Are they following me and watching where I comment? I don't understand. I was under the impression we had freedom of speech and rights. Maybe it was a feminist moderator that had a hate on for me? Idk but I really despise when people hide behind their internet masks, saying and doing shit that they wouldn't have the guts to say to my face. I'm a strong confident woman and I told the moderator that YES I SUPPORT MENS RIGHTS and if that means that…
/r/MensRights18/04/21 11:45 PM
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Last time I checked, I'm very female and I have the freedom to choose whom or what I support
/r/MensRights18/04/21 11:35 PM
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So just because they've been proved wrong, they respond with attack?
/r/MensRights18/04/21 11:34 PM
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I don't even know what a feminist is but I am an independent female, I vote and I'm a human fucking being... just like men are
/r/MensRights18/04/21 11:31 PM
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I hope more reports are written like this and read in front of the entire class.
/r/MensRights18/04/21 09:56 PM
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I like how she said that daughter is both of yours. Get it through your head.
/r/MensRights12/04/21 01:32 PM
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She's an immature twit with zero life experience
/r/MensRights28/03/21 05:47 PM
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True
/r/MensRights07/03/21 03:08 AM
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Holy crap! So he got 6 years as well! But how did he meet a 15 yo in a nightclub?
/r/MensRights06/03/21 02:36 PM
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Good point!
/r/MensRights06/03/21 02:35 PM
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But how much time? Is it six or ten years? I didn't take the post from that POV btw. I thought it was just showing how women can fuck up a young man's start in life.
/r/MensRights06/03/21 06:10 AM
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What are men sentenced to for similar offenses?
/r/MensRights06/03/21 05:48 AM
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The article said she was 25 (and then 35) but still yeah there's tons of single men at 25 or 35. Why she had to go fuck up a young boys start in life is despicable. I have a 15 yr old son and idk what is do if I found out that happened to him. I'd most likely be the one in jail from getting retribution.
/r/MensRights05/03/21 05:17 PM
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Disgusting. I hope she rots in jail.
/r/MensRights05/03/21 01:58 PM
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Usually other moms! As if it's alright to cuddle and kiss their princesses but not boys. It's stupid. Boys are children too
/r/MensRights10/12/20 12:57 AM
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I agree. I have two boys and I am frowned upon when I hug them in public. I just give these people the look. Lol
/r/MensRights09/12/20 01:10 AM
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You got issues, dude. Based on your comment history, people like you is what can make Reddit toxic. Take some happy pills or something. Wow, you're like the bad neighbour nobody wants to live beside.
/r/MensRights26/10/20 08:42 PM
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Wow, like umm, okay, I'll hold back the obscenities from my reply. Do me a favour, become a parent, watch your young boy get a bloody face and then come back to this comment.
/r/MensRights26/10/20 08:12 PM
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You'd think much different if it was your son getting plummelled on. What would you do?
/r/MensRights26/10/20 08:08 PM
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It was punching, not kicking
/r/MensRights26/10/20 07:57 PM
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I think sports are crudely favoured towards women and it's grossly unfair. I watched my 9 yr old son get repeatedly hit in the head (he had protection on) by a vicious young girl in Muay Thai kickboxing. He wouldn't fight back the same way he did with other males. The other parents were egging her on and the instructors were glancing back at me. I had enough and stormed into the fray and yelled at the instructors that this "training" session is OVER and he is NEVER to be teamed up with her again…
/r/MensRights26/10/20 07:25 PM
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😂
/r/MensRights26/10/20 02:57 PM
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First thing I noticed. I was like, eek, isn't that from Rosemary's Baby? Don't buy those diapers, RUN! HA
/r/MensRights26/10/20 02:56 PM
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Well said
/r/MensRights26/10/20 02:50 PM
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This is really good advice! Strong boundaries.
/r/MensRights15/11/19 08:17 PM
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You are welcome. Hang in there
/r/seduction30/10/19 06:30 PM
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Kids need their fathers
/r/MensRights29/10/19 02:39 PM
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Absolutely disgusting
/r/MensRights23/10/19 01:05 AM
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Omg! I've been living in a closet. Do women actually think this way? Disgusting. She should get a job, work 40 hours a week, pay $100 for a meal at a meh restaurant for a guy she barely knows. Then maybe she'll rethink her dating strategy.
/r/MensRights23/10/19 01:02 AM
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Exactly!
/r/MensRights21/10/19 03:47 PM
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I feel for ya. Be his rock.
/r/MensRights20/10/19 06:24 AM
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So glad to hear. Father's are so important to children. Be strong. Divorce is a tough thing to go through. Just know that it gets better. Once you have a custody agreement in place it gets a lot easier.
/r/MensRights20/10/19 06:22 AM
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Stick it out and keep fighting to get equal rights to your son. Don't ever stop fighting. You will get him if you refuse to back down.
/r/MensRights20/10/19 06:14 AM
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I agree. I think when men win more rights, then women will start behaving more like mature adults.
/r/MensRights19/10/19 12:18 AM
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I don't think he meant it in the way that you are taking it. This is exactly the problem both groups have. They get sensitive over certain wording when really its more about what you didn't like hearing. If he knew that you were sensitive about being overweight or having blue hair or being lesbian, then I'm sure he would have used a different analogy.
/r/MensRights19/10/19 12:15 AM
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It takes a lot of guts to stand up and spell out the wrongs that your own gender has done. I think you are an amazing woman and r/mensrights needs more of us. I wish for our future generations, both male and female, to grow up to love and respect each other again. To achieve this we have to stand together.
/r/MensRights19/10/19 12:08 AM
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I'm with ya. I believe it adds momentum to a cause when you have both genders, both sides of the coin fighting for the same thing. There are some women out there that want the world to be a more balanced place, filled with love rather than hatred. It takes maturity, humility and courage to accept that your gender has done some wrongs and stand up against your own gender to encourage change. Be nice to us women. If we didn't care, we wouldn't be here on r/mensrights.
/r/MensRights19/10/19 12:02 AM
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This is part of the problem. If ex wives and husbands could rationally speak to each other and negotiate in a mature manner, then really divorces should only cost $2000.00 When adults act like children then the courts have to get involved to settle matters. I have seen people show up at court without a lawyer.
/r/MensRights18/10/19 07:54 PM
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I like this article. We need to change father's parental rights to equal say 50/50 before it even goes to the courts. We need to put women under oath and prosecute for misleading information or false accusations. I am sickened by what I'm seeing women doing in divorce proceedings. This needs to be stopped. It has far reaching implications. Think about it, the children are the ones suffering as a result. They are raised thinking that messy divorces are the norm. What's even worse is that it is te…
/r/MensRights18/10/19 12:03 AM
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I think you should get her to include gender bias in divorce stats. Lots of info out there on this, google it Its a sickening trend.
/r/MensRights17/10/19 10:39 PM
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Strangers that intrude rudely on your space with derogatory comments like this, must have extremely boring lives, lol. If she had problems with her own man, she should have the guts to talk directly to him about it, not make snide comments to a complete stranger and if she doesn't have a man, she should keep her opinions to herself. I don't know why its suddenly okay for complete strangers to go mouthing off to others. That's how fights happen in the street. I loved your response to her, btw. Ku…
/r/MensRights16/10/19 04:34 PM
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So true.
/r/MensRights15/10/19 09:24 PM
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Wonderful! Thank you so much! I'm going to take a screenshot of this and text it to my boys
/r/MensRights15/10/19 05:15 AM
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Yeah, I saw that
/r/MensRights15/10/19 03:21 AM
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I so agree with this. When every single one of us accepts responsibility for our own actions, then the blame game ends. But how do we teach this to people? I think we start by teaching our children, the generation z or whatever the next one is called, to be responsible for their actions at an early age. I don't know how many times I have seen a young child scream and hit their parents, it's disgusting, maybe this is the root of the problem. If I even thought about hitting my mom or dad, I was wh…
/r/MensRights15/10/19 03:19 AM
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No worries. I believe coming up with three hard points, backed up by stats and examples, will help this movement. And to encourage more female support. I would totally be standing there with you guys.
/r/MensRights15/10/19 12:18 AM
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What is it in society that is changing? Women are given free reign to unleash? Why? I wasn't raised that way. What changed?
/r/MensRights15/10/19 12:13 AM
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This is the kinda stuff that women should be prosecuted for. That's absolutely ridiculous.
/r/MensRights15/10/19 12:08 AM
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Are you fu*king serious? A man can't grab a woman's wrists to restrain her?
/r/MensRights14/10/19 09:12 PM
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Do you restraint her? And if you do, how does a man do this without hurting her or having it turned around on him like he took excessive force
/r/MensRights14/10/19 09:06 PM
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Omg
/r/MensRights14/10/19 09:04 PM
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Thank you for this detailed response. I never really understood what a feminist meant to a man. I believe every person can choose what they want to be. If I wanted to be Prime Minister of Canada, I could do it, I have charisma, intelligence, high reasoning, quick wit and excellent financial decision-making skills. I would never do that because it limits from my life what I value most, my children and my creativity. Women make choices everyday for who they want to be and what they want for their …
/r/MensRights14/10/19 04:12 PM
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And what would that conversation entail? What would be the first three most important discussions?
/r/MensRights14/10/19 10:35 AM
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What would you describe a feminist as? I ask this in true honesty. I am a woman, I am successful, I am independent and believe that every person has the right to choose their own future. But does this make me a feminist? I do think differently about men so please don't think I am here to incite arguments. When I gave birth to two beautiful boys many years ago, I started seeing things differently. They are teenagers now and I am concerned about them growing up in a world where they cannot trust w…
/r/MensRights14/10/19 05:00 AM
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Please leave me alone.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 06:43 PM
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You are very creepy. Leave me alone
/r/MensRights12/10/19 06:42 PM
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No, I'm being real! I liked your comment.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 06:41 PM
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Your comments are so belligerent and narcissistic that it does not warrant any further response from me. You can read my other responses regarding my education. Men like you are the reason I stay away from 'men with lofty degrees'. Thanks for proving my original comment 100% correct.
/r/MensRights12/10/19 05:19 AM
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I cannot answer this question directly without possibly revealing my identity. Although I will say that I am in a stressful male dominated career within mathematics. I am currently juggling two careers. I am also a historical author. Hopefully, I will soon be able to leave the stressful mathematical career behind. Life is about so much more than just working all the time. Hopefully, this answers your questions sufficiently.
/r/MensRights11/10/19 10:29 PM
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I agree 100%
/r/MensRights11/10/19 10:22 PM
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That was just mean and belittling. And so far out to left field that you don't even see the ball. But thanks for the passionately misguided comments. No need to comment further, we all know who your audience is.
/r/MensRights11/10/19 10:10 PM
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I am currently juggling two careers, so you are so wrong
/r/MensRights11/10/19 10:02 PM
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Awesome! Hahahaha. I love this! Even though I'm the one receiving all the downvotes. I totally see what you are saying! It works both ways, there is always another side to every story, every social re-wiring, every misunderstanding, there is always another point of view. Kudos to you for bringing that out! 👍😄 Love it when you said Facts ™! Hilarious 😂
/r/MensRights11/10/19 09:54 PM
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I believe that it is probably more socially and emotionally incorrect things that men say rather than directly saying that my career is less than theirs. It doesn't matter what a woman does for a living or what position she holds, there is a general underground current of understanding among men that a woman's career is just never as important as the man's job.
/r/MensRights11/10/19 03:07 PM
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Idk, maybe, lol. I'm only 5'5" though, so most men are taller than me 😁
/r/MensRights11/10/19 03:00 PM
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I disagree. I have dated men that had degrees and awesome careers. Every single one of them turned it into a contest, trying to make me feel like my degree and my career was less than theirs. I'd rather date a guy that is kind, down to earth, a gentleman and is motivated. But then that is just me. I'm a woman, what do I know.
/r/MensRights11/10/19 07:07 AM
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I think guys should express interest, get into her head, but just dont over do it. If you say the love word too early, that's not cool. But if you just be yourself and get excited about seeing her, she will get excited about seeing you. Pretend its like a teeter totter, one push, then let her respond, good response? then give her a little bit more, until you are finally happily playing in the playground together. Sweet, I wanna go on a teeter totter with a handsome dude now, haha.
/r/seduction18/09/19 05:40 PM
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Well, maybe I'm different. A guy doesn't get my number unless there is trust and a whole bunch of interest. Strangers don't get my number. Isn't that like unsafe? Lol Anyways, just be real, dude. Stop overanalyzing things. If you like her, show it. Without interest, a pretty girl will not even remember you. But to answer your question, yes, if that guy sent me friendly good morning and gnite texts, I would definitely remember that dude. He has to get into my mind and that's like finding gold wit…
/r/seduction16/09/19 01:59 PM
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You go, handsome! 😘
/r/seduction16/09/19 07:17 AM
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I have no idea what you are trying to say. Lol. Seriously, I don't.
/r/seduction16/09/19 07:14 AM
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One thing about super hot chicks.. They usually have 3-5 guys standing in line, you are one of them. I don't say this to be insensitive, I am saying this because it's true. Now, if you want to get to the front of any line up faster, what do you do? Speak up and communicate well. Text often, get into her head on the regular, make her remember you. BAM, you get the date.
/r/seduction16/09/19 07:05 AM
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Yep. Lol. And those other guys are the ones that are texting them good morning and goodnight!!
/r/seduction16/09/19 06:25 AM
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Definitely not. But when a guy does get that far and finally gets my number... If he doesn't text me at least once a day, then I assume he's playing other women at the same time or I'm simply confused about his intentions, I will start pulling away, and often friend zone him.
/r/seduction16/09/19 06:23 AM
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Well, yeah, that's common sense in any communication.
/r/seduction16/09/19 05:44 AM
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Exactly! Idk what planet these guys are from, but if you ignore the girl you want to go on a date with for a week. Well, she's not showing up. All it takes is two texts a day. Hey, good morning, hope your day goes well Gnite, sleep well, looking forward to seeing you in a few days
/r/seduction16/09/19 05:28 AM
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So is showing interest
/r/seduction16/09/19 04:15 AM
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Yep. I love that. It's what I missed the most about being married. It shows women that you are invested and possibly the committed type. My fav kind of guy. 😍
/r/seduction16/09/19 12:04 AM
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😘
/r/seduction15/09/19 05:39 PM
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Either push to set up the date sooner or text them good morning and goodnight every day until the date, they will show up. Women suck that up. I know I'm one of them. Lol
/r/seduction15/09/19 05:35 PM
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Bad idea. Unless you are ready to quit soon
/r/seduction04/09/19 10:37 PM
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I disagree. Staying together long term takes work and effort needs to be from both parties, but there is a commitment and a future, something to work for. In a non monogamous relationship, honestly, what is the point, it's just sex. If you can leave anytime, both people start off the relationship with one foot out the door each. I have been in both types of relationships. The marriage lasted way longer and was more fulfilling. Everyone has their own point of view regarding commitment. I respect …
/r/seduction02/09/19 07:10 PM
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Yeah, I think dead bedrooms are more about sexual incompatibility than monogamy
/r/seduction02/09/19 06:06 PM
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Well, I just assumed that, I guess. I don't quite understand what non-monogamous means then.
/r/seduction02/09/19 05:13 PM
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Well then that's why you probably get rejected. Contrary to popular belief, older women do not want to be used for sex. They have a high radar for that kind of stuff. And if a milf does want just sex, she will approach you. Just make yourself available.
/r/seduction02/09/19 04:21 PM
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Keep trying. Don't get too sexual too quickly. If want something more serious, then be more serious. Don't try to make yourself look older, milfs like young men. Be yourself and most of all be a gentleman.
/r/seduction02/09/19 02:45 PM
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You are moving too fast. Slow down. Hang out with her again. Kiss her again. Keep trying. You will get there. She sounds like a good catch. Slow down. You have no idea what was going on in her head, maybe she was on her period, or maybe she's like me, she never has sex on the first date or the second.
/r/seduction01/09/19 11:43 PM
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Haha, I like nice normal good guys. It is just adjectives, don't read too much into it. Alpha males are sexy, but they usually offer 0.00 compromise and 0.00 husband type relationship potential. Of course, this is just generalization just like you have been doing all along. When I meet a nice good normal guy that is a demon in bed, stands up for himself, but compromises and allows me to be who I am in my career and my personal goals, then I will marry him immediately. Until then I will enjoy my …
/r/seduction24/08/19 09:09 PM
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I agree that physical fitness effects your self esteem positively. It is also awesome for your health, longevity and your skin. But do it for yourself not to just look good to attract partners.
/r/seduction24/08/19 09:01 PM
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I like nice guys
/r/seduction24/08/19 05:28 PM
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I'm not sexual when I hit on a guy. But I have seen women do that. I have also had guys do the same thing to me, hey, babe, you got really nice tits. It goes both ways, there are the gentlemen and the creeps. Same with women. What would you prefer a woman use as an opener? And how do we progress things so we get a date? Without appearing like we are pursuing him... Enlighten us.
/r/seduction24/08/19 04:14 PM
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You're welcome Mr. Phamtastic
/r/seduction24/08/19 07:55 AM
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Silly, hahahaha 😘
/r/seduction24/08/19 07:49 AM
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Oh, my, I'm so sorry to hear that. That was a really shitty thing for your parents to do. Continue working on yourself, your past might mold you, but only you can decide who you really are.
/r/seduction24/08/19 07:48 AM
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Aw, come on, any heterosexual woman loves what's in her bf's pants. Lol.
/r/seduction24/08/19 03:16 AM
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I disagree. I think women need to start learning more how to approach guys. Men always say they love it when a woman hits on them. It takes the pressure of off men having to do this all the time and then women don't just sit there waiting for Mr. X to come talk to her. There's nothing wrong with bringing some more equality into the "game". It is almost 2020. Maybe in 10 more years, women will learn to just walk up to the man she wants and say, hi, I think you're really cute, you wanna dance? And…
/r/seduction24/08/19 03:08 AM
3

Exactly
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:41 PM
4

I was introverted when I was young. After I moved away on my own, I actually learned that I'm a really cool well balanced chick and love making new friends. I can be extroverted on occasion but still have trouble getting stuck in my own head too. I think it's just about finding out who YOU are and what you want outta life. If you want a new sexy blonde gf, make it your mission and go get her. Don't give up until you get what you want. Determination is the best way to get anything you want in lif…
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:25 PM
19

Maybe spend some time just doing the stuff you want to get done in life, be fun, friendly and outgoing. Talk to anyone, girl or guy. Maybe you will find a good wing man or one of those girls will whisper that she thinks you're hot. Thats how I like meeting guys, in groups, parties, neighbours or randomly in public. Heck, I have met quite a few guys at the grocery store! Lol
/r/seduction23/08/19 11:10 PM
11

Yes, I believe the majority of women would be receptive. As long as your approach is polite. There's been many times, I was hoping a guy would approach me, but he just seemed oblivious to my clues. I have also approached men and I know it's hard to get over that first line but once you do, it gets easier.
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:38 PM
2

You go! It's true. Eyes are sometimes the sexiest thing about a guy.
/r/seduction23/08/19 07:33 PM
8

Attractiveness is not always what ppl think. A girl may really loooove your eyes or fall in love with your penis, lol. Women are funny that way.
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:11 PM
15

Lol. What a crazy thought, hey!
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:08 PM
4

You are most welcome! 😘
/r/seduction23/08/19 06:05 PM
246

As a woman, I can confirm this. I am more upfront than most girls, but often when I let it be known that I like a guy, he is shocked. I like really normal guys, the kind that hold your waist, keep you close and aren't obsessed with their looks. I think sexiness and confidence trumps a lot of things. Find your style, allow your sexuality to permeate your being and love who you are, it will translate into confidence. 💋
/r/seduction23/08/19 04:54 PM
2

Oh, thanks. Like why do people do that?? For what purpose?
/r/seduction07/08/19 06:57 PM
0

Gorgeous women have feelings too. They are human just like anyone else. Anyone can hurt you. The ugliest girl could hurt you too. Jump and take your chances!
/r/seduction07/08/19 06:25 PM
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Tall thin guys are awesome! Don't be silly, ask her out immediately. She will feel rejected otherwise. Then you will never get another chance.
/r/seduction07/08/19 05:28 PM
0

Lol. Why have you not picked up on these clues? She wants you to ask her out, silly
/r/seduction07/08/19 05:19 PM
1

Yeah, I see that. Then maybe try to hit her up again. If she uses the same excuse and invites you out with others, then just go.
/r/seduction07/08/19 03:28 AM
1

Why don't you just hang out with her and her friends? And show more interest to some of her friends. You never know what can happen in that kind of situation.
/r/seduction07/08/19 02:34 AM
1

Ok, I agree with that somewhat
/r/seduction01/08/19 01:31 AM
1

This gamey attitude will definitely get you sex but it most definitely will not find you love or anything genuine. Good luck on that path, let me know how it goes.
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:45 PM
2

If I am so strongly attracted to a man that I cannot wait for a few more dates, then I, now, automatically assume it will not be something long term. This is sad because I didn't always think that way. Dating has become so much about sex and so little about emotion, love, trust and all those wonderful things we all hope to find some day. So I will wait until I find a guy that is willing to wait for the awesome sex.
/r/seduction31/07/19 05:28 AM
3

Maybe try not having sex right away? Tell her that you would like to really get to know her before having sex. Let me know if it works. I know if a decent guy said that to me I would stay.
/r/seduction31/07/19 04:35 AM
0

I disagree. Women are humans too. We will think that he has not much interest if he doesn't message. Being upfront is best because if it's not meant to be then it's over quickly, everyone knows why. No lingering heartbreak
/r/seduction27/07/19 02:06 AM
1

Tell her that you think you had great chemistry and that you would really like to see her again
/r/seduction26/07/19 08:27 PM
1

Nope he was only 5'8"
/r/seduction20/07/19 03:37 AM
10

I think you should pull an alpha on her. Tell her that you are fuckking jealous of her new guy and that you want her back and if you can't have her back then you don't really want to stay friends with her, so then at least you can move on and start dating other women. Period. Then stomp away. Lol
/r/seduction18/07/19 06:09 AM
3

Library and the gym
/r/seduction20/06/19 04:50 AM
2

I know right. But people also try to be perfect. It's a pointless struggle. The perfect wife, perfect mom and perfect dad. We need to start accepting ourselves for who we truly are deep down. If everyone did this, I'm sure more long term marriages would actually be happy, not just look like it.
/r/seduction18/06/19 02:51 AM
2

So cool that a guy would see the parallels. Awesome!! You're a good man. We are all sexual beings in the end. Some of the most rigid people have the craziest skeletons in their closets. It blows my mind, haha
/r/seduction17/06/19 06:21 AM
6

Here's an honest true answer, from a woman. If I get a lot of down votes, I don't give a F. Women are promiscuous for one of four reasons: To feel wanted. Some women have such fragile self love and self esteem that when they are making love it makes them feel beautiful and wanted, so they do it as much as possible. Hormones. Believe it or not, there are some women out there with the sex drive of a man's. Not many, but it does exist. These are usually the women that hide their escapades and have …
/r/seduction17/06/19 04:37 AM
1

I originally wrote gorgeous, successful and sweet. But I changed it to be gender neutral. It was originally an affirmation that I wrote for myself to help me to see the positives when everything seemed so negative.
/r/seduction15/06/19 01:33 AM
1

Just play it cool. Ask her next week
/r/seduction09/06/19 08:34 PM
2

Don't hound her about the date. Just say, hey, what are you up to today
/r/seduction09/06/19 06:43 PM
3

Sometimes people are busy, sometimes they want to take things slower. I would play it casual for awhile. Text her here and there, don't jump to any conclusions. And go out, do things with friends, meet other people, keep yourself busy. Edit: Sometimes women have dating anxiety too. This could explain why she pulled back the closer it got to the date
/r/seduction09/06/19 06:19 PM
1

I totally agree. We all need to get back to approaching each other IRL, women and men. So many more positive things happen in real life meeting, initial attraction, motivation, get to maybe like the person for who they really are, the list goes on. And once you get the girl or the guy, it's like winning the lottery!! 😄
/r/seduction09/06/19 04:19 AM
1

Interesting article.
/r/seduction01/06/19 08:18 AM
17

Yes, definitely. When this happens, the warmth previously experienced drops to - 30C
/r/seduction26/05/19 11:18 PM
1

True. Sounds poetic
/r/seduction24/05/19 07:13 PM
1

You are most welcome
/r/seduction19/05/19 03:05 PM
2

Go to a club that has a pool table. Great way to mingle with people if you are not a dancer.
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:39 AM
1

True, true. It takes two. Both partners are responsible for their actions. And in the case of an open marriage, three.
/r/seduction15/05/19 08:30 PM
1

I'm glad for you. I did the same thing, deleted every dating profile. Best thing I could have done.
/r/seduction11/05/19 05:14 PM
2

Yeah, I know, we are ourselves the worst critics
/r/seduction10/05/19 02:08 PM
2

Holy cow! Lol. That's quite the story! Glad things worked out. I personally am not in favour of open marriages as they seem to be described but am definitely into expressing and exploring one's sexuality within a trusting relationship. I agree that there needs to be boundaries and limits and everyone needs to be honest with each other. Be careful of sexual predators though. That Dom guy sounds like one.
/r/seduction07/05/19 09:01 PM
1

I'm sorry to hear that you are having a rough time in your open marriage. Did you want an open marriage?
/r/seduction07/05/19 07:04 PM
1

I agree it is important to keep sight of your goals and continually adjust those goals because with defined purpose, life is so much more amazing and fulfilling. But along with this carries the risk of fuckking up once in a while, and that's when you have to sit down, take a deep breath and remember that we are all human.
/r/seduction07/05/19 07:02 PM
1

I know right! Gives me a boost too.
/r/seduction07/05/19 01:35 AM
1

Wonderful. Always a good thing to work on oneself.
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:56 PM
2

Life isn't easy sometimes. Keep thinking positively and continue being true to yourself. Do what you love and focus on being you. The rest will come. Seek happiness within. God speed to you.
/r/seduction06/05/19 08:55 PM
2

Glad I could do something positive 😄
/r/seduction06/05/19 01:34 PM
1

I'm glad 😄
/r/seduction06/05/19 04:28 AM
9

You are sincerely welcome. I have no idea where my path will lead, but I do know it's going to be awesome. One day, all of us will look back and understand why we had to go through certain things. Sometimes it's just patience and self love we have to learn while we are here. ❤️
/r/seduction06/05/19 03:41 AM
1

😄🌸
/r/seduction06/05/19 03:34 AM
17

Rough patches suck. Not everything in life is easy. Smile ☺
/r/seduction06/05/19 03:26 AM
20

You are welcome! Everyone needs a boost once in a while.
/r/seduction06/05/19 03:24 AM
1

Hahahaha, perfect
/r/seduction01/04/19 04:58 AM
1

I think I'd like to try both, lol. Voyeurism is hot too.
/r/seduction24/03/19 03:37 PM
1

Which position? The lion or the zebra? Lol
/r/seduction24/03/19 06:09 AM
3

Yeah, I don't think it's appropriate to play with a woman's hair on a date. After sex, hell yeah! Smooth your hand over her hair, starting at the top, slowly and continue all the way to the ends, then curl the ends a bit in your hand.
/r/seduction23/03/19 08:09 PM
2

Hahahaha, omg, so funny
/r/seduction23/03/19 06:31 PM
1

Huh?
/r/seduction23/03/19 04:57 PM
2

You can go beyond friendly banter for sure, let her know that you like her, just somehow don't let it get you all twisted up.
/r/seduction23/03/19 03:15 PM
3

'If you have a good time, a good time will find you.' Lots of truth right there.
/r/seduction23/03/19 02:59 PM
1

Exactly
/r/seduction23/03/19 02:55 PM
5

Hahahaha, Lmao
/r/seduction23/03/19 04:53 AM
3

Gives a whole new meaning to zebras.
/r/seduction23/03/19 04:40 AM
4

Silly! No you don't have to swipe right! Lol
/r/seduction23/03/19 04:38 AM
2

Definitely more than just those three! I always noticed that I get more friendly when I'm not available and I get all twisted up when I'm single. If I can somehow switch this around, then I'd be set. So would everyone else
/r/seduction23/03/19 04:37 AM
3

The internet is buggering with our social skills
/r/seduction23/03/19 04:31 AM
2

Just say, hey, yeah, I understand that I'm just some random guy. But I really think you're cute and would like to get to know you better. If I gave you my number would you call me? For sure...?
/r/seduction21/03/19 11:28 PM
4

I learned something just recently about meeting people at the gym. I was always so twisted up about talking to guys, then out of the blue, I stole the bench press from some guy accidentally, didn't even realize it, lol. I apologized, but then... He offered to share so I asked him to spot me. We ended up talking, got along really well and worked out together for an hour afterwards! We even exchanged phone numbers. It came about so easily. Once you get over that initial approach, wow, it can happe…
/r/seduction20/03/19 10:58 PM
4

I don't know about women with headphones in but I generally talk to guys at the gym when we are at the same machine or need to share it. Treadmills are a bit different though. I would just nod and smile. Acknowledge that you notice her. If she takes the headphone out, then you have your green light. Ask her how many years she has been running. Comment on her form too. Compliments go along way.
/r/seduction20/03/19 10:11 PM
2

"Ultimately, I realized we have only two choices: be a prisoner of our heartbreak or break free and choose to re-write our story on love." This is a quote from a writer on tinybuddha.com. I'm in the same boat. I typed this out and taped it to my mirror so I can read it everyday. It helps to keep focused. But alot of things about being single sucks, but hey, there is alot of things that I am finding that I sure like too. Hang in there. The best things in life are worth waiting for.
/r/seduction14/03/19 05:09 AM
7

I believe this way of thinking is strongly influenced by online dating. It's so easy to just go to the next one on the list. Or, hey, how about that cute girl that messaged you last week, haven't heard from her, guess what, she's moving on as quickly as you are. Everyone gets caught up in this. I did too. It's human nature. But at some point, in five years, ten years, heck, maybe, it'll take you twenty, you will be old, not so attractive anymore, childless and you will be wondering where all the…
/r/seduction13/03/19 05:40 AM
3

I agree as well. Being a woman, it takes alot for us to approach men. If we don't get a positive response the first time, we will treat it as an initial rejection. The feminist comments were the nail in the coffin though. I don't know if I would contact her back, but if you do I would be a bit gentler.
/r/seduction10/03/19 11:56 PM
1

Thanks. I will remove myself now
/r/seduction08/03/19 06:20 PM
1

Good point.
/r/seduction08/03/19 03:50 PM
8

Nice. It acurrate displays the steps to conquering your fears.
/r/seduction04/03/19 02:28 AM
2

Okay then. Yes, use the beeps.
/r/seduction03/03/19 10:06 PM
1

I do agree with some of the male comments here about the profanity. Tone that sshit down and you will have a bigger audience. Even if you just use beeps, they tend to invoke a laughter response, which is positive. You might lose alot of people just bc they are offended by profanity and will not be able to hear the actual message. A few times when viewing your video, I almost shut it down bc of the profanity, but I persevered and I'm glad. You have some good strong messages.
/r/seduction03/03/19 07:31 PM
1

Haha, thanks. Men are harsh, that's reality. That's why they have hair on their chest, us women need to learn to accept the bad with the good. Egos are just broken pride, that's what gets your nose broken or worse. Real self confidence is the ability to accept humility but still stand up for what you believe in. You have taught me many things. I appreciate that. I'm on a quest to learn more about men so I can be a better partner in the future someday and stop this spiral of repeated relationship…
/r/seduction03/03/19 05:15 PM
1

Oh. I see. Maybe date someone that's 30 then, no one can tell you not too.
/r/seduction03/03/19 05:01 PM
1

And I've been to New York. I loved it. I'm going back.
/r/seduction03/03/19 10:30 AM
1

Mid 40s. Why? How old are you?
/r/seduction03/03/19 10:24 AM
3

I have to comment on this video. I found it very interesting. I am a woman, but I am a mathematically inclined woman. I don't know how I turned out that way but I am, always have been. So, here's the thing. I just learned how to deal with my gfs better bc of this video! Funny, right. Actually, no, bc I could never figure out WTF I said that was so wrong. I have lost close gfs bc of my analytical thinking and it has been a LIFETIME problem of mine. I would pose a very solid analytical argument or…
/r/seduction03/03/19 05:22 AM
1

This is my take on it, from an attractive 45 yr old woman's point of view. Whenever I have been interested in a younger man or the other way around, I try to take it slow bc I know in the back of my mind that this guy just might want to use me for the experience of hot ssex. So I take it slow, to weed out those guys. No, she doesn't want to hang out with you, she is trying to assess whether to weed you out or not. Be a proper gentleman and you might be able to an amazing wild ride of your life, …
/r/seduction03/03/19 03:26 AM
2

Exactly! Leagues are only what people make up in their minds. Confidence is real
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:27 PM
2

Lol, cooking noodles!!
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:26 PM
2

This is true, partially. When a woman gets to the point in life where she is self sufficient, she begins developing the same fears as men. So she is wary of the men that make substantially lower incomes bc she is afraid of being taken to the cleaners for everything she has worked so hard for. But of course, there is always the Sugar Mommas as well as Sugar Daddys, but I truly believe this is bc they have nothing else going for them except money.
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:25 PM
2

I will remember this if I ever decide to do that again, which I don't think I will bc the physical gain doesn't balance out with the emotional losses for me. Thank you for answering honestly. I enjoy talking to men, they are honest, blunt and up front. I find talking to women is like walking on glass and men is like going for a run on the dirt. Lol, it's refreshing.
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:19 PM
1

Then here's a question for you. How often does a man think differently about a women that he happened to have casual sex with? Is it black and white for men? No emotions, walk away. Or do they think, wow, she was actually more than I thought she would be.. I often wonder this bc I don't successfully have casual encounters afterwards. I am too mushy emotionally, so if something was really good, I want more (and not just physically). Do men feel the same?
/r/seduction02/03/19 10:06 PM
1

I just got out of a relationship last year with an Alpha man that was very average looking, but also very controlling. I was talking about looks, not Alpha or Beta! But if you must start this conversation... I find a man with a bit of both, Alpha and Beta is the perfect mix.
/r/seduction02/03/19 09:53 PM
1

Hahaha, I was not saying that! Now you've just started an entirely whole new discussion!
/r/seduction02/03/19 09:50 PM
2

Interesting. Doesn't this create a social situation then? Where the very attractive men can get copious quantities of sex? And if this is true, then my personal observations of overly handsome men would be very close to being correct. Although, like I said before, every has the choice to break out of their molds. So not every handsome man is like that. But this article seems to confirm that.
/r/seduction02/03/19 09:49 PM
1

Oh, really? I never knew that these standards were so different for men and women. I always thought they were the same.
/r/seduction02/03/19 09:30 PM
2

I know that I made assumptions, I apologize for that. I was just trying to make a point. That this league the OP speaks of only exists in people's minds. Whether they choose to break free of this league and just be comfortable in their own skin, well, that's the most attractive thing in the world, confidence in who you are, regardless of your physical attributes. I'm often told that I am out of their league and I don't like that bc some women are not shallow, some actually want more than just lo…
/r/seduction02/03/19 09:13 PM
5

I disagree respectfully. I am attractive and have dated both, men that are also quite attractive and men that are more average. This is what I have found : Men that are quite attractive. These men are alluring, yes, of course, but they never seem to be the committed monogamous type men. If I am in the mood for such fun, I will definitely be receptive to a very handsome man but that's all. I have no doubt in my mind that he will move onto the next woman quite quickly and have been proved right on…
/r/seduction02/03/19 08:52 PM
1

I agree, initial attraction maybe and again depends on what is said. The examples the OP uses are belittling though. Who would like being shot down for their achievements? Would you like that? If a woman insinuated to you that your best wasn't good enough. Oh, just kidding... Right.
/r/seduction01/03/19 04:16 AM
2

I'm pretty new to reddit, but I think more guys need to read your comment and since it's pretty far down the thread, alot of guys won't see it. Is there a way to get it to the top? Or cross post it, I have no idea how to do these things on Reddit. But I definitely think that lots of guys would like to know this.
/r/seduction28/02/19 03:16 AM
2

Hahahaha! Hilarious! Yes, it worked for me like Christmas too! Who knew that all you guys needed to do was a head nod? Omg, so funny! You should link your comment to ask men. I'm not sure how to do that.
/r/seduction28/02/19 03:03 AM
1

I know right! I had this one guy that wrapped me around his little finger, starting with the nod. I went over and we talked all night. I didn't even notice another guy. But it turned out that he was 18!!! I was shocked that some guys just naturally have amazing body language. Needless to say, I had to leave quick before I got into trouble, haha
/r/seduction28/02/19 12:52 AM
3

Yes, you are overthinking definitely. Chill. The only reason you are nervous about her responses is that you actually like this woman. That's not a bad thing. Also, when a partner that you are interested in doesn't text back in a reasonable time frame, it gets your mind wandering and it keeps you unsettled. If she is truly 'busy', then that's fine. But maybe your intuition is picking up on something? Maybe she is not really that busy.
/r/seduction27/02/19 11:26 PM
2

I don't think it was a rejection. I think she was just stunned. Like how are you supposed to respond to that line about bf material? Just ask her out for a drink and a movie!
/r/seduction27/02/19 10:24 PM
3

Hahahaha, double agent! I just want dating to get real again. Women aren't going to do anything, so I'm hoping to help you guys out as much as I can. I really appreciate men! Life's not the same without you guys. And... it's sorta difficult to reproduce by yourself, lol
/r/seduction27/02/19 10:00 PM
1

A nod, a smile, acknowledging that you notice this lady on a regular basis at the gym is an awesome place to start. For some reason, men think that single women don't want to be bothered at the gym. This is so wrong. There is nothing more sexually exciting than seeing a guy with a nice body, sweating it out and grunting! I go to the gym three times a week and I wish more guys would initiate conversation. Edit: But yeah, don't interrupt her while she's doing reps, wait until she's in between rest…
/r/seduction27/02/19 07:43 PM
1

Oh! Alright then!
/r/seduction27/02/19 07:18 PM
5

I don't think it matters if it's an up or down nod. It's the acknowledgement that he has noticed a woman that counts.
/r/seduction27/02/19 06:59 PM
1

I know right! That's what I thought too! But some guys just do this light hand on the waist thing naturally.
/r/seduction27/02/19 06:57 PM
1

I did edit my comment, please reread it.
/r/seduction27/02/19 05:18 PM
2

I don't think there is a significant difference to women whether it's a nod up or down, it's the acknowledgement that counts. The nod is saying hey, sexy, I notice you!
/r/seduction27/02/19 04:05 PM
1

I've only had the nod once and it a very slight gentlemanly nod down, with a very sexy look in his eyes. I came over and talked to him immediately. He played me so well just with his body language. It is amazing how that can happen so quickly.
/r/seduction27/02/19 04:01 PM
0

Like I said before, it just depends on what kind of woman you are looking for.
/r/seduction27/02/19 02:36 PM
4

If you can get used to the light hand on the waist thing, then you're set. I have been blindfolded by that one over and over again. Sometimes I watch guys that do this just naturally, talking to the waitress! And she purrs. It truly has an amazing effect on women, we feel very feminine and protected with that light guiding touch on our waist. And, most importantly, we submit to it. I can't explain why though.
/r/seduction27/02/19 05:31 AM
10

Yeah, the nod! A guy did that to me in a pub while I was being hit on by two other guys. I broke free and actually went over to him bc I thought I knew him! Then he said hey... Really casual. But his eyes said waaaaay more
/r/seduction27/02/19 05:22 AM
1

Hmm, I never thought of it that way. I usually look away first! I guess if she catches you looking too many times or you are staring like she's a meal! Lol
/r/seduction27/02/19 05:18 AM
4

Well said
/r/seduction26/02/19 06:51 AM
-3

Whatever
/r/seduction26/02/19 06:28 AM
-2

Well, do you want to get into a fight with a woman or pick her up? Its a black and white decision.
/r/seduction26/02/19 06:23 AM
4

I totally agree! Nice guys are great, but it does get boring pretty quick if there's no debate. It's 2019, women need a bit of both, nice guy and confident bad boy. Mix it up and keep her on her toes, but always be respectful. Remember treat others as you would like to be treated. If you would start a fight over it, then don't say it.
/r/seduction26/02/19 06:19 AM
3

I have been "challenged" like that before. It doesn't work with confident women. I tell guys like that where to go immediately. When you say, oh, I'm just kidding, that means you shouldn't have said it in the first place. Edit: IRL I believe I wouldn't actually be rude and tell him where to go, bc I appreciate men. But in my mind, I would not think of him as anyone I would want to be with. Also depends on what was said.
/r/seduction26/02/19 06:03 AM
2

Hahahaha! You are welcome. I actually got roped into a coffee in a similar way. It's a good way to get the competitive spirit out of her.
/r/seduction26/02/19 05:59 AM
5

She's having a conversation with you about working out and she mentions that she heard somewhere that you should have a protein bar or something within an hour of working out. If you have heard of the right kind of protein to consume or if you should be consuming it within 20 minutes, etc... You would counter her with your knowledge. If she counters back and says, idk, I'm pretty sure that I'm right. You can say ok, let's google it. You want to make a bet? I get to buy you a coffee if I win. And…
/r/seduction26/02/19 03:03 AM
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I think men should just talk to women respectfully and intelligently. You can challenge without making her feel belittled. I guess it depends what kind of woman you are after.
/r/seduction26/02/19 02:25 AM
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"It's not about attacking either gender but recognizing the dualistic good/bad nature of both of us, acknowledging it and respecting each other." Well said. In the end, we both need each other, we couldn't reproduce otherwise! Lol
/r/seduction25/02/19 07:07 AM
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Haha, yes, try it. Waiting a month is nothing anyway. It will just help her, and you, to be more comfortable. Its what most good women want to hear, that you are willing to take it slow. You can still kiss and explore, just keep the prize til later. Be assertive too. Women like that. But don't go overboard.
/r/seduction25/02/19 05:17 AM
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Omg, hilarious! I agree that women have far more fragile egos! I have lost gfs just bc I said NO! Then I had to reiterate it three times! Women do not take rejection easily, like at all. But we girls also have different egos than men, we don't need to be built up in the same way. Like you are so strong, assertive and successful. We mostly need, you are beautiful, intelligent and loved. And, wow, yeah, we think with our "dicks" just as much as men do! Women just rarely admit it bc of that fragile…
/r/seduction25/02/19 05:04 AM
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And you know the best way to get a loyal gf? Tell her in between kisses that you don't want to rush things, that you'd like to hold off on sex for at least a month, bc you really like her. She will melt!
/r/seduction25/02/19 04:26 AM
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Wonderful, dating IRL is so much more satisfying! You go with what feels right. And don't rush it, it is sooo worth it in the end. Everything is way more amazing.
/r/seduction25/02/19 03:20 AM
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I think it could be a winter thing. When it's cold out, it effects your state of mind. I want to pretty much stay home and sleep after work and shovelling snow!
/r/seduction25/02/19 01:45 AM
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I wouldn't ask, just grab her hand next time. Body language has a strong effect on women. Then if she's still responsive, kiss her a bit later on. She wouldn't be going on that many dates with you if she wasn't interested. But, yeah, do something soon. Girls get cold when they think that they lost your interest.
/r/seduction25/02/19 01:35 AM
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Yes, it does feel sort of like a stalemate. I agree. And it doesn't always work out years later either. I had a similar experience. I met this guy through friends who was going through a really rough patch in his marriage. There was instant chemistry and we hit it off. But I put the brakes on and told him bluntly that I wouldn't do anything with a married man. So I sporadically heard from him for about two years, during that time I actually met someone and it got quite serious. About three years…
/r/seduction24/02/19 04:50 AM
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As a woman, I would like to offer my view of things. Women are sometimes not completely satisfied with the relationship they are in, actually most women just stay bc they don't want to be alone or its too difficult to leave. And yes, the beautiful women most often have a small lineup. Sometimes, this can be overwhelming and she can't decide, so she just stays. Instead of treating her like a prospect, just treat her like a friend. Try to ignore the fact that she is attractive and just treat her l…
/r/seduction24/02/19 01:39 AM
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Women play with their hair out of habit. I do it all the time. Although, if it's long and she flings it back, then I would say she's flirting.
/r/seduction22/02/19 12:19 AM
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No, it means, she actually moves closer to you or she doesn't step back when you get closer. To let someone into your space means that you are okay with that person.
/r/seduction21/02/19 11:14 PM
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I know right. That one just flowed out. Thanks
/r/seduction21/02/19 07:44 PM
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Hahahaha, that's hilarious. The same thing happens to women. She realizes that she brushed someone off when she shouldnt have bc he was really just trying to talk to her. It would be wonderful if we lived in a world where we all said exactly what we truly meant and we acted appropriately. Everyone misses cues, but when we do pick up on them, we call it chemistry, lol.
/r/seduction21/02/19 02:59 PM
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Meet women IRL. I realize it's tough (I'm in the same boat) but it's much more rewarding bc the initial attraction is dealt with right off the bat, face to face, no wasting time chatting online with someone for a month, then realizing there is no physical attraction upon meeting. I'm hoping the online dating revolution goes in the recycling bin where it belongs and we can all get accustomed to being friendly and genuine again.
/r/seduction20/02/19 02:37 AM
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Exactly!
/r/seduction20/02/19 01:50 AM
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I think it's alright. Many couples meet at work or university
/r/seduction20/02/19 12:27 AM
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Lol, cool
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:25 PM
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I totally agree. Confidence, taking care of yourself, opening conversations and creating your own special magnitizm is key to a seductive personality.
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:23 PM
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This seems to be a controversial subject. There are a few threads here where some people are completely against it and then others it works for. I think if you say it in a confident way and she's already into you, then she will respond positively.
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:19 PM
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Yes, good point! I forgot about that! I will
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:15 PM
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Sure. I will message you
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:10 PM
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No problem. Good luck
/r/seduction19/02/19 10:27 PM
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I even edited my edit bc of the misunderstanding. Thanks for pointing it out.
/r/seduction19/02/19 10:15 PM
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Thanks! I will try posting some other stuff here again.
/r/seduction19/02/19 10:13 PM
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Lol, k, nice to hear we are on the same page.
/r/seduction19/02/19 10:12 PM
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Perfect!
/r/seduction19/02/19 09:14 PM
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If she's a diva type, she may get her nose outta joint if you flirt too much with other females. Be careful with that.
/r/seduction19/02/19 09:03 PM
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Thanks
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:56 PM
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Nice
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:52 PM
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I agree. Most girls will let things slide if she's into you. But if you don't make any moves, she may walk.
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:50 PM
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I look at it as just being friendly, remove the pressure. If it doesn't work, oh, well, you've tried. If you never try, you won't meet people as much.
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:44 PM
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Maybe... When to go for the kiss, thats another future post! Lol
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:41 PM
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I agree with you, women should be more upfront. I am. I've been rejected. I have felt the sting. I was actually referencing more to gentlemanly behaviour and somehow getting out of this online dating trend, back to meeting IRL, sparking up convos with people who are real and right in front of you.
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:39 PM
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Unfortunately, this is true.
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:33 PM
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Weird, maybe she met someone else? Maybe be real straight forward... Say, hey, what's up, I thought we were going out for dinner. Do you have a bf or what? You have me confused
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:32 PM
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Hahahaha
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:29 PM
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Attraction is simple! We just need to pay attention to the cues.
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:28 PM
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If you see her again, you should just be laid back and spontaneous... Like hey, do you want to grab a coffee right now, I have a couple of hours to chat. Good luck!
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:26 PM
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I know, right? I was a bit shocked that I didn't have to put 7 numbers in it. It doesn't say much about females, unfortunately. Although, I believe that there is still good normal people left, female or male.
/r/seduction19/02/19 08:24 PM
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Women are finicky. I've done the same thing before. If women feel like they have been rejected, they will walk and never turn back. Move on to someone worth your time and effort. ONS are not the best option.
/r/seduction19/02/19 04:07 PM
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K, no worries
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:53 PM
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Yeah, it's hard to ask someone out. Just don't think about it too much.
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:52 PM
3

That's racist, wow. No, I'm Caucasian.
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:49 PM
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You're welcome. Ask her out! Don't leave it too long. She may think you're not interested.
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:40 PM
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Some girls are antisocial and won't talk to anyone. Some guys are too. Not everyone will respond friendly
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:38 PM
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Oh no, sorry about that. There's always that possibility of a rejection. It sucks, but don't let it bring you down. Women get rejected too, it's life, it's not what you've been through, its what you become from it, that matters.
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:35 PM
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Unfortunately, it sounds like you missed your opportunity. Like I said, women will get cold quickly when they think that you are not totally interested. The other possibility is that she was only interested in one night and you weren't. In that case, you were the gentleman. Hats off to you!
/r/seduction19/02/19 03:30 PM
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Umm, well, then you need to either start working out and get yourself looking hot. Or work on starting up conversations with women. Don't be too shy, get out of your shell.
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:57 AM
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I'm too new at reddit to know this.
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:53 AM
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Thank you!
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:53 AM
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Honestly, I would follow these three indicators. If she chats you up, smiles and gets close, definitely! Ask her out! These are a woman's signals. But if she answer in two word sentences, frowns and keeps her distance, don't... you will most likely will be rejected.
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:26 AM
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Yes, depends how you ask. If you are confident and all the vibes are there, you have a really good chance of a yes. And she will appreciate that you were gentlemanly enough to ask first. Bingo!
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:21 AM
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Thank you! I will!
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:18 AM
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Might be too late. Women tend to get cold when they think they have been rejected. But you could try to initiate conversation again and if she does at least one of the three things, then I would ask her out.
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:17 AM
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Come on, the post was not about my user name! Lol
/r/seduction19/02/19 11:13 AM
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I'm also pretty new to reddit. I'm still not quite sure if I know what I'm doing!
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:36 AM
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You're welcome
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:35 AM
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I didn't know what else to pick, lol. So I just picked normal
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:34 AM
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Hahahaha
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:33 AM
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As a woman, I would say that physical closeness is a big green light to ask her out. If she is closing the gap and is comfortable with you being in your space, then she is giving you a signal. Proximity does work for women also. If a woman sees you in a close way consistently, she will definitely start to notice the way you smell, the way you smile.
/r/seduction19/02/19 06:05 AM
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Bingo! You touch a woman everywhere except her pussy. Until she is begging you.
/r/seduction05/02/19 06:55 AM
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