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Shoulder rubs depending on his agreeableness there. The shoulder rub is the hook, and then he'll probably share some things with you voluntarily, or at least have that to look forward to all day at work. Let him go bury himself in his phone after if he wants. Jumping from work, one set of duties and responsibilities, to home, yet another set of both, without any sort of time to decompress is what's likely happening here (burying himself in the phone). Imagine how much more appealing work would b…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/25 04:00 PM
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I don't disagree. He should be decisive about his future and making it happen.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 09:38 PM
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Besides, most couples get engaged after 2 years, Based off your language it sounds like you'd like to escalate the relationship. And rather quickly. I still think this is done gently over time, not under a forced timeline. If you haven't been talking about moving into together for a while this is quite the ask to put on someone out of the blue.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 01:55 PM
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I'm going to be in the minority here but having someone move in with you is not a low-stakes change. It's a serious escalation. And it's not something decided as quickly as an off-hand ask like, can you pick me up at the airport on Thursday? And once someone moves in a whole legal mess starts if things go south and you want them out. Stuff like this needs to be discussed slowly, over time, not rushed. I have seen the exact situation you're in but the guy said yes and in less than a year everythi…
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 01:49 PM
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when the stakes are low Disagree. Having someone move in with you is not a low-stakes change. It's a serious escalation. And it's not something decided as quickly as an off-hand ask like, can you pick me up at the airport on Thursday? This is a topic discussed gently over time, not rushed. And like everything, this doesn't work like the movies. People are complex. And as you mentioned, she won't be homeless.
/r/RedPillWomen20/03/25 01:32 PM
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Oh you linked the one I meant to link. I couldn't remember the exact url, thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/25 01:03 AM
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Step one is are you even being realistic. Snarky domain name but real dataset. https://www.femaledelusionalcalculator.com/
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/25 10:03 PM
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LOL 4090s are now 3500+. Used. I want off this ride.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/25 09:11 AM
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Have you heard of the “paradox of choice”? It sounds like you might’ve encountered it, as I think many in the online dating world do Schwartz relates the ideas of psychologist Herbert A. Simon from the 1950s to the psychological stress that most consumers face today. He notes some important distinctions between, what Simon termed, maximizers and satisficers. A maximizer is like a perfectionist, someone who needs to be assured that their every purchase or decision was the best that could be made.…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 11:03 AM
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Off the charts levels of soy though
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/12/19 12:01 AM
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So that's my women fall for me so hard after i tell them to stop taking the pill
/r/BlackPillScience29/12/19 12:09 AM
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I didn’t
/r/MGTOW27/12/19 02:01 AM
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Hoes try to fuck themselves into a wedding ring and never wonder what else do men want besides sex
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen26/12/19 10:04 AM
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FYI if you want clearance you cant 1) have smoked weed in the past 2 years 2) done any other illegal drugs in the past 5 years. They will ask you that during the polygraph. This is one reason the feds and their private sector contractors can't seem to hire anyone from Silicon Valley, evvvveryone smokes weed and half of them are microdosed on mushrooms just to keep from offing themselves. You can use this to your advantage though, you're not competing against the cream of the (drugged out) Silico…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/19 12:28 AM
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I agree, 23 and looking to get married is honestly a best case scenario in today's clownworld. And her demands are not insane, except the credit score, idk when I crossed 700 but I don't think it was in my 20s. This girl is being extremely realistic and listening to her parents advice, both pluses. She may end up with a family and half-grown kids at 35 when her friends are post-wall cat ladies, good on her. I get it, the list is KINDA CRINGE, but still, credit where it's due.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen19/12/19 06:40 PM
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I’m one of 62 lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/12/19 05:28 AM
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This is like what Nicole Kidman was trying to describe to Tom Cruise when they smoked the joint in Eyes Wide Shut. In a moment, she'd leave him, the kids, the house on Central Park west, if that tall sailor in uniform came back. That movie is better the older I get.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/12/19 05:05 AM
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Yep, people need to realize this is not a new observation either. See Aristophanes and his play Assemblywomen written in 391 BCE.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/18 12:20 PM
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You did not malke an actual argument against traditional marriage and dating, all you did was use a logical fallacy by straw manning something unrelated about shitting in the water. This is Rick and Morty the post: a low IQ person who thinks they're high IQ. Oi vey. Yes I know that ad hominem, yes you deserved it.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/18 11:56 AM
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The real tradition that worked for centuries was keeping women out of politics, including voting. I unironically believe we need repeal the 19th. It also wouldn't hurt if only land owners / net tax payer were allowed to vote. I'm done being PC, i have seen the voting demographics and I can defend these points. I even known a few ex-feminists who think women should not be allowed to vote.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/18 11:43 AM
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that should be a real sub!
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/18 01:51 AM
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Another woman replies to her with this: Ha, you're me... Minus the whole pretty thing, I look like a bloated toad and I'm in my early 20's. Men over seas love American women and I have no idea why. I mean yeah we have some hot ladies, but their women? Fuck they are absolutely stunning. Travelling really racks up the number. Emphasis mine. When you see those ladies putting their "60 countries visited and counting!" in their online profiles they're basically degenerate sex tourists. Edit: More rep…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/08/18 01:32 AM
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I'm not finding anything. Can you link your sources?
/r/TheRedPill26/08/18 06:06 AM
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TRP seems to love using AWALT but what helped me see through that realize not AWALT and not AMALT is the simple fact that I have an amazing sister who married a rather average guy, had two beautiful kids and they seem to get along great 15 years later. There are good people out there, though they may be average / unremarkable and not likely to be using online dating. I'm glad my sister was able to prove to me that not AWALT, hopefully you have some figures in your life (grandpa and more) who can…
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/18 05:19 AM
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Yes I want to marry up. However I don’t want to dumb myself down in order to find any laborer or random Joe attractive. I’m gonna go as high as I can myself, then marry a man who has also had the ambition, talent and intellect to get there. I see so many women falling into this trap. Lets say you make 150k a year. A great career for anyone. Now that means you're probably going to want a guy making about 250k or more a year. Lets talk about this 250k/year guy. Can you tell me what he values and w…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 06:31 AM
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Today, we live in slutworld. Yep and the way you stand out as wife material is by not being one. Like it or deplore it, you must compete with women who offer sex. That's fine, but any man dumb enough to let go of a traditional virgin wife didn't really understand the amazing treasure he had. She will have suitors banging down her door in short order.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 06:18 AM
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100% percent desirable. Stay strong. If a woman makes me wait (but makes it clear there is romantic interest and I'm not just being used for dates) then it does nothing but raise her higher and higher in the wife material category. The longer she makes me wait before sex the more wife material she becomes. If she said not until marriage (and was a virgin) I'd probably be shopping for wedding rings the next day. This works for women with higher partner counts also. Don't try to 'hook' a guy with …
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 06:06 AM
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You may think this advice is glib, but just try it. Worked for my friend. Give him a real back/shoulder rub, I'm talking 15 minutes, real pressure. Not the limp wristed 2 minute weak shoulder squeezing trailing off into nothing and "my arm's tirrrrred" if he asks why you stoppped. 100% serious. We get countless amounts of sex in all its various forms, but you know what a man never gets from ANY women? A seriously good back massage. Stand out from the rest and do it, he'll notice.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 05:53 AM
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But the essence of the red pill metaphor is accepting the truth over the illusion, no matter how painful it might be. If you're so sure you know the truth then shouldn't it hold up to scrutiny if you tell me where he's wrong?
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 05:35 AM
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and in this case wrong. What do you think he's wrong about?
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 05:22 AM
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The women clearly aren't interested in what he's said here Respectfully, that's actually a problem for you. Why would you be uninterested in improving yourself to be what men actually want? Or do you think that's not what we actually want?
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 05:11 AM
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women become men to prove they're equal women become men women become men? We are not in an age of mass insanity among men. Men just find what we've always found attractive, and hint, it's not men or masculine qualities, it's exactly what OP described. You need to throw away every last thing feminism taught you and deprogram yourselves. You women are provably unhappy at being equal anyway, or you wouldn't continually be trying to marry up. If you're ok with being unequal, why not just fully embr…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/18 05:04 AM
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Because only something like 12% of the population is 6' or over. And women are biologically designed to select only alpha mates aka the 80 20 rule and hypergamy. Height is just an easy way for women to select into the top 20% of men before they even talk to you. Remember 100% of women think they deserve a 1 in 100 guy.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 10:57 PM
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Could be a bit of selection bias at work here. Girls at clubs are by definition a bit slutty, if not a lot slutty. I've had over a dozen long terms (i always break it off b/c im one of those oft mention commitment-phobic men) and none of my girls ever go to clubs or bars. I would never marry one who did, or who kept the company of club rat girlfriends.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 10:50 PM
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I finally, at the ripe age of 42, met the man of my dreams Do you ever think you might have been overvaluing yourself a little bit if you couldn't find a single man 'worthy' of you in your 20s or early 30s, you know, when you could actually start a family. This is redplll dating right? Just because a 'quality man' or two will use you for throwaway sex for a few weeks or months doesn't mean that's actually your long term relationship value, I see too many women hit the wall chasing dudes that wer…
/r/RedPillWomen11/08/18 10:19 PM
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grats bro. can tell how excited you are, keep up that high energy it's a new chapter in your life
/r/MGTOW09/08/18 09:09 PM
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gotcha no worries
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/18 07:17 PM
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I actually don't think anyone is going for that, at least I hope not, hence the anger and escalating hostility and demands in her profile. It feels more like a very public way of rage-quitting the dating world. And leaving her profile up on the off chance someone is dumb enough to buy what she's selling, in the same way you might call your shit-stained sheets 'Modern Art' and leave it on eBay for $100,000. Women like this only picture their ideal man, they never picture what their ideal man pict…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen09/08/18 04:30 PM
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men will have better skin at the same age from not painting and stripping their faces with harsh chemicals on a daily basis since puberty. I'm 36 and have better skin than my 21 year old ex-girlfriend when her makeup's off.
/r/MGTOW29/07/18 02:29 AM
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ctrl-f slags 0 matches tssk tssk that's what we call them
/r/MGTOW29/07/18 02:24 AM
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No man wants to raise another man’s seed. I've only met one guy who got excited about it, and he was basically an unemployed fat alchoholic stoner incel. Occasionally violent too, but only with other men afaik. The problem is women aren't used to dating down, and they need to date way down to find a man ok with raising another man's child. Like bottom 25% down, maybe lower.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/07/18 07:34 AM
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ctrl-f fat thank you. if her friends were really her friends, instead of keeping her around to make them look (relatively) more attractive, they'd tell her she needs to lose weight. sorry there's absolutely no way she is anything other than a fattie.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/18 11:41 PM
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I reget I have only one upvote to give
/r/MGTOW24/06/18 08:16 PM
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In the immortal words of Felix Dennis If it floats, flies, or f**ks, rent it.
/r/MGTOW20/06/18 09:56 PM
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even women have had enough of this stronk womym meme. That’s why it’s women writing shows like Mad Men. They desperately want to be put back into their traditional place, allowed to be women again instead of mutated, masculinized nu-women. it’s all one big society-wide shit test. And the West dies if we don’t pass it. The majority of women didn’t even want the right to vote ffs. It’s a minority of shrill feminists every time.
/r/MGTOW09/06/18 05:33 PM
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My fav review was I got free tickets and I want my money back
/r/MGTOW09/06/18 05:27 PM
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lol it’s true. I do this unconsciously with every girl it gets serious with, I simply enjoy alone time too much and that air of.. I don’t need you and I certainly don’t need your drama keeps them in check and constantly “walking on eggshells” as many of them have put it. It’s like, “no bitch you aren’t walking on eggshells, I’m just the first man to force you to stop behaving like a petulant child and think about the consequences of your actions, clearly daddy never bothered to teach you this.” …
/r/MGTOW09/06/18 05:19 PM
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yeah but it's about leverage. once the contract is signed, the ring is on, you lose all the leverage you had in the dating phase. not saying a good marriage like that can't exist, but the power dynamic shifts tremendously after the I DOs and the kid.
/r/MGTOW09/06/18 08:50 AM
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then it wouldn’t even be an issue if they found a guy they wanted (and who wanted them back). they can't though, because they're alpha widows if they turned themselves into fuckmeat in their 20s. there's a whole generation of the widows serving (hopefully) as a warning to the next batch of young women. What's the male version of an alpha widow, if any? Perhaps a guy who did really well in his 20s/30s but got too old to bang 19 year olds without it being extremely creepy, and now finds wall-aged …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/18 07:51 PM
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Women just project their desires onto us, because they can't possibly fathom a perspective that is not their own. 100% man. I have a few post-wall female friends (women i refused to fuck back in the day) who when we talk about their dating issues, haven't even considered once what their ideal man wants, let alone what he can actually get... hint it's better than a post-wall fatty with a kid. They think being career women makes them attractive, they couldn't be more bluepilled.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/18 04:15 PM
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She built her life off of Sex and the City..... https://therationalmale.com/2013/03/13/generation-alpha-widow/ In SatC the frustration was met with blunt force. The solution was to overpower men into entitled submission with spunky feminine über confidence and enrapture the only men so deserving of them – men with equal to, or preferably greater than, social status than themselves. In Girls the dynamic is an equally intense powerlessness; the mechanic of plot conflict relying on its female viewe…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/18 06:49 AM
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Ever wonder why women put exbfs in their profile pics, or in this case the bio? On the surface level they do it because they want to say "if you're not this good don't bother me" but it goes much deeper. It's the female mind trying to rationalize what the male mind would need to see to show that she is "valuable", because this is absolutely one way women judge the value of men, if other women want him. In fact it's usually a turn off for guys if they see a bunch of dudes circling a woman, since …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/18 03:23 AM
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She's an alpha widow already and she doesn't even know it
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/18 03:14 AM
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I think it does affect men's ability to bond. But for some reason it doesn't affect our rate of divorce initiation as much as women, probably because men rarely stand to gain from a divorce. You will also have a tougher time bonding when you feel like you're settling, which is uniquely a female thing. You don't find the concept of 'alpha widows' on the male side and there's a very good reason: a woman can date way above her actual SMV by requiring no commitment. Chad will happily have you for a …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/18 03:01 AM
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by not requiring commitment, she's able to attract attention of significantly higher SMV men. if she was an 8 or 9, she wouldn't have this problem in the first place. by requiring commitment, she's going to attract guys at her SMV, which are even less attractive than she is. oh i completely agree, i wasn't specifically talking about this woman, but just in general. but women who require no commitment for access to their pussy will definitely end up as alpha widows 99% of the time. In general I t…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/18 02:39 AM
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meh happens to us too though. we condemn thots but most people here probably went through a bunch of these girls in their early to mid 20s instead of finding a committed relationship. Or at least we were equally as dumb as this woman to think we could build a committed relationship with a hotbody fuckgirl. the blackpill is realizing even though these women might have recognized their mistakes as the wall approaches, they are basically irreversibly damaged goods even if they try to correct it now…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/18 01:31 AM
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the only way she's successfully locking down a guy before sex is if ... gasp... she's an 8 or 9, or he's not actually desirable to other women. I don't know about that. When you can tell there's an attraction (ie: shes not milking you for dates), but the woman makes you wait, and even tells you as much, there's nothing more attractive. That's basically where you might have found wife material. My rule is I'll never do long term with someone who slept with me too fast, if the path to their pussy …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/06/18 01:26 AM
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/r/TheRedPill, basically pick up artists
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/18 11:33 PM
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And TRP guys get so excited that they can use mindgames to bang sluts like this who are probably in the triple digits. That's like being proud you flipped a coin and it came up heads.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen01/06/18 10:22 PM
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Jesus I had no idea it was that bad. That is really insane just being fit not fat puts you into the top 25% of men. Actually being fit probably puts you in the top 10-15% of men as most that I see are skinny dudes with no muscles. I wonder what the breakdown by age groups looks like and over time. College aged women definitely seem fatter than when I was in college.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/18 05:34 PM
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70% of guys are overweight? Got a source on that, I'd swear it's gotta be 50% at the worst, at least among whites.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/18 05:41 AM
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I have some females that I've friendzoned. I see the wall approaching and try to help them straighten out their lives because we were all stupid when we were younger and could have used some sage advice. If they're the tiniest bit receptive to redpills about dating then I eventually suggest they stop giving sex up right away, it will help weed out men who aren't serious. Are most people here going to say why bother? Just let them crash and burn? If that was your daughter or sister wouldn't you w…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/05/18 05:29 AM
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Fucking married chicks is a great way to get assaulted and seriously hurt. Not at all dudes are pushovers. Karma exists, I'm honestly not sure why you're proud of yourself. Even if he's a pussy he can still blindside you someday as you leave your pad, hope losing a tooth or two is worth it.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 08:33 PM
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