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People just skip Luma appare you and go straight to the Andes. Lima is a pretty modern city where there is a lot to do. The only thing about it, aside from systematic racism is the horrifying traffic. Which makes it so that you have to have 2 hours of free time to get anywhere.
/r/seduction17/10/20 02:17 AM
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You are referring to Colca. That's in Arequipa. You really shouldn't miss lima though, lots of very good street food in the capital. Its a lot like Boston, if u have ever been there. You have some good districts like Barranco, Miraflores, and Surco. The town square is a marvel and a unesco site just like the square next to it(San Martín) Just don't go to Los Olivos, San Juan De Lurigancho, Pueblos altos, or some other areas that tend to be dangerous.
/r/seduction11/10/20 05:24 PM
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I havent been there yet but my brother has. Again, the closest that I've been was Santa Eulalia. What other places have you been to in Peru?
/r/seduction08/10/20 11:41 PM
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My aunt actually hiked throughout the whole country so she knows it like the back of her palm. She took me to Ica. My dad used to ride his motorcycle through the desert with his buddies too, but I don't think he made it to the Andes. The best memories I have were in a farm that my grandpa used to own in a quiet place called Santa Eulalia which had a lot of vegetation. That place was beautiful! I would definitely recommend those places for the next time you visit, though I think that in Santa Eul…
/r/seduction08/10/20 04:09 PM
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Hey man, Peru is huge! And you would be surprised how many climates, cultures, and especially food plates that Peru has, so it's definitely worth coming back. A lot of Peruvians tend to be so proud, that you often see them fighting with Mexicans online(who are equally as proud of Mexico) since they are the only other Latin American country with as rich of a history and culture as Peru lol.
/r/seduction05/10/20 11:52 AM
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The grand majority of Japanese don't speak English or any other language aside from Japanese, so definitely get on the duolinguo, my friend. Also, learn the cultural norms of Japan, they are very different from the west and you will definitely get some stares if you don't follow them. Learning some important phrases such as "do you guys accept credit cards?" or "Where is the train station?" Is CRUCIAL. Last but not least, DONT BRING A HUGE SUITCASE OF LUGGAGE. Everything in Japan is small. I bro…
/r/seduction02/10/20 04:17 PM
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I love travelling actually. I tend to go to Peru because I am from there, but I have also been to Colombia and Japan, and there are so many countries that I want to go to like Australia, New Zealand, Mexico, South Korea, Thailand, and Spain, to name a few! I actually have family in Australia and a friend that lives in Spain and owns a house there.
/r/seduction02/10/20 03:16 AM
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Im not gonna lie, it is a bit intimidating, but I already go to the beach alone at least once a week. I think that as long as you don't do it with the expressed purpose of picking up women, it's alright. People can sense it when you are out to pick up girls and quite frankly, your mentality changes A LOT if you only focus on pleasing yourself and going there for the sake of the party. I did this once in Japan during New Years when my friends wanted to go back to their hotel after missing a New Y…
/r/seduction02/10/20 12:12 AM
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Lol AVGN is from the dinosaur age bruh.
/r/seduction27/09/20 08:02 PM
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Im guessing you got some inspiration from Angry Video Game Nerd?
/r/seduction27/09/20 06:45 PM
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So then, what should I do? It feels like I just keep going down the same emotional hole and I have to keep posting on Reddit to get answers or any sort of emotional support. It's getting rather annoying to depend on others for emotional support and I just want a way of telling those feelings to fuck off.
/r/seduction20/09/20 04:39 AM
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I know! I am just tired of seeing people treat virginity or kisslessness as a disease when there is more than one way that a person can end up dateless by the end of high school or college.
/r/seduction05/09/20 05:14 PM
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How would you go about bringing those tingling sensations? A lot of the points in this post seem very vague since there are no examples or explanations. I have had some conversations which were really boring because I simply don't connect with the woman in any way. And others where I feel like I was able to make them laugh or shock them with the opinions I have or what I think about them. Like for example, when i told a friend that she looked like casper because of her skin color(she didnt seem …
/r/seduction04/09/20 05:52 PM
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The problem about their vibe or personality is that I don't have a glimpse about their vibe from just 3 seconds of seeing them pass by, or when they are sitting alone. Usually in the mall, I see someone for 5 seconds or less before I approach usually because if I don't she leaves, I walk past be her, or I get too nervous so the only thing i can comment on, is their looks. And I could ask a question, but apparently some women don't like that because it seems dishonest since they know you have an …
/r/seduction01/07/20 03:58 PM
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Maybe they can't control what they are interested in, but perhaps if they knew more about my life they would know so many other things that would make them more attracted And understand why I am in my current position?
/r/seduction01/07/20 05:05 AM
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In a suburb of Miami. The mall however, is visited a lot by tourists but it is very dead atm.
/r/seduction01/07/20 04:59 AM
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She would know I'm inexperienced anyways when kissing her so there is no point in hiding it either way.
/r/seduction01/07/20 04:39 AM
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I don't think I should have to hide my virginity to be honest. I went through a very dark phase in the first half of college which set me back in terms of my career AND women. My third and fourth year consisted of me trying to dig myself out of the whole I purposefully put myself into. It wasn't until 2019 that I realized that I was going nowhere in my dating and professional life. I'm not sure if the girl would be a good pick if she would judge me for being a virgin because it's not like she wo…
/r/seduction01/07/20 04:33 AM
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Damn bro, I wish I was all of that. Ive been trying to work on myself for a while now doing meditation, working out hard, chasing my dreams as a programmer, but I can't seem to just accept own personality. It's really hard to not kick my soul in the nuts. I am much more tame, peaceful, nerdy(in a good way), and introverted(and thus, reserved) which makes me a not so funny or silly person. I am not socially retarded, but I simply wish that "cocky" and "funny" were not simply feelings for me and i…
/r/seduction01/07/20 03:56 AM
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I have yet to have a girlfriend, still a virgin, and have never been kissed. So yeah. You might think it is pretty pathetic, but it is true. I am a relatively handsome man that works out, has many acquaintances and a couple of friends, and yet, I am still a virgin that has never been on a date. So you said that you have to learn to like daygame but then you said that it also doesnt become fun until you start seeing results? How am I supposed to have the vibe that I need to flirt if all of the ti…
/r/seduction01/07/20 02:42 AM
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How would I call them from behind btw? me: HEY, BLACK HAIR Girl: sweats profusely And what sort of things do you ask them in an indirect approach? I always find it hard to find something to comment on.
/r/seduction01/07/20 02:30 AM
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The problem is having the vibe to make jokes. I find it hard to truly enjoy approaching but I am mostly forcing myself to do it because I know that the alternative is loneliness and despair. and because I know that you have to force yourself through pain in life to succeed. Sure, the rush when you go approach someone can be thrilling, but one bad approach is still is a downer since deep inside I still crave intimacy on a daily basis.
/r/seduction01/07/20 02:26 AM
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I wasn't attracted to anyone in high school. I viewed porn and stuff but I didn't really see a need to get out of my comfort zone. There also wasn't anyone that I can remember having a crush on. In college, I went through a deep spiritual problem which stunted my growth in every aspect of my life, and then last year in March, I started to discover PUA after feeling lonely after hearing my brother and his FWB banging hard on the room next to mine.
/r/seduction13/05/20 05:30 AM
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Don't listen to this guy. He is just projecting his own insecurities to you. There have been people who have lost their virginity at 43 years old who previously never thought they could. Don't give up my man. If you persevere and make a change, there will be a light at the end of the tunnel. There will be pain, but pain is good. I am telling you this as a 2nd Dan Black Belt in taekwondo that had to bust his ass to get there as well as a 22(almost 23) year old virgin. It might have been many year…
/r/seduction13/05/20 02:10 AM
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Enjoy life. Do what you love and make yourself to busy to be worrying about other people's lives. Maybe go to therapy too? Are you a 48 yr old virgin?
/r/seduction13/05/20 02:03 AM
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I'm still cool with the people I told I was a virgin. Of course they were guys, but one of them was a guy that got laid a lot and he still sees me as a cool friend. Ofc that guy is considered a natural with women and he was very shocked, but he was also very shocked when I told him why I was never interested in women until I was almost 22.
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:37 PM
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I don't tell everyone, just those people that think I'm cool, and when the situation is correct. When that happens, you come off as intriguing instead of weird. People want to know why you are still a virgin, and I tell them my story the best that I can. But it's not something you just say whenever you want.
/r/seduction12/05/20 06:34 PM
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It's an outdated concept which was used in medieval times to shame women who had sex. Now it's being used for that, and the opposite as well. Outdated doesn't mean that it's being used. Outdated means that it's a concept that shouldn't be used anymore.
/r/seduction12/05/20 04:38 PM
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But there are people out there that are not gonna give you shit for it. If a girl really likes you, especially if you managed to court her, maybe she will actually find your virginity even sexier and would feel excited to introduce you to sex or at worst, simply won't care.
/r/seduction12/05/20 03:59 PM
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Also, it certainly didn't feel natural to me. I never felt physically attated to anyone in high school. And I am damn sure nothing was wrong with me. I just never saw a reason to leave my comfort zone. And that wasn't entirely my fault I think.
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:02 AM
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Believe me isolation is a silent murderer! You do want to talk to people.
/r/seduction12/05/20 09:00 AM
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Accept the love that your friends are trying to give. I don't honestly know how you can live like this without actively looking for help! I am only 3 years younger than you man, and I am still a virgin. Just like you! But I try to push through the loneliness and vent(mostly through this subreddit) to look for emotiomal support. I try any form of social contact with people to help myself out. Just admit that you can't live like this and use your friends to help you out from where you are! Start s…
/r/seduction12/05/20 08:59 AM
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Yeah but the idea of virginity itself is outdated.
/r/seduction12/05/20 07:27 AM
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This seems pretty good: https://www.google.com/search?q=how+to+approach+a+girl+that+looks+busy&oq=how+to+approach+a+girl+that+looks+busy&aqs=chrome..69i57.9148j0j9&client=ms-android-hms-tmobile-us&sourceid=chrome-mobile&ie=UTF-8#kpvalbx=_9g26XqHwOoHm_Qafu7zwBg51
/r/seduction12/05/20 05:04 AM
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Actually wait. I misread your comment. Actually I don't think you can. Sex itself is not a social construct. Neither is love or compassion. Anything part of nature is not a human construct.
/r/seduction12/05/20 05:02 AM
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There should be a few ways that you can approach someone with headphones on while appearing like a high value man. Have you tried to Google some ways to approach?
/r/seduction12/05/20 02:45 AM
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This is no way to live man. Use that money to travel and get out from where you are, treat yourself mentally by meeting new people any way that you can, go into therapy, especially group therapy if you can, talk to friends, anyone, SOMEONE. ANYTHING to alleviate mental pain man! Loneliness is a secret killer!
/r/seduction11/05/20 06:01 PM
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Use tinder or hinge? Idk. I haven't approached a lot of people this past year, maybe 30 something girls and a few numbers, but no dates. I too was going to go to every meetup that I can to meet girls and then this happened. I graduated college about a few days ago and it feels like a double edged sword. I have the freedom to go wherever I want, whenever I want(coronavirus aside), so if could afford to go to a coffee shop at any point if I wanted. And once I move out, I will be able to go to any …
/r/seduction11/05/20 05:50 PM
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You seem to be placing mental barriers for yourself based on what society. Sexual exploration is meant to be young? Whoever said that? Where is that written? Sure, people can find it weird and maybe even undesirable, but as long as you are not socially retarded you can tell people that you are a virgin and, if they are good people, they will at most look really surprised because you totally shattered their perception of what a virgin is. And you can feel proud of that because the more virgins do…
/r/seduction11/05/20 05:43 PM
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Another thing, how are the other areas of your life? Your career? Friends? Hobbies? Those are crucial you know?
/r/seduction11/05/20 03:34 PM
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Why do you stress yourself out so much for something that is a social construct? There have been people that lost their virginities past their 30s man. As long as you improve your social life, there should be no unacceptable reason that you are a virgin. I know why I still am, and I know that I can't be fully blamed by it. I did a lot of shit that most people have not been and been through things that most people don't even understand or believe me if I tell th em. I only know one girl that has …
/r/seduction11/05/20 03:20 PM
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The sad part is that I was doing just that before covid-19 :(. I stopped direct approaching in the gym(some girls actually seemed to like that despite fact that they generally tend to be more cautious in the gym with men), but I found myself later sitting in the same lunch tables as the women that I wanted to talk to and eating a bit before commenting on something that they had. Those where some pretty good moments. I even ended up talking to one of them for an hour. But thoise moments can be ha…
/r/seduction25/04/20 08:55 PM
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The thing is that I am pretty anxious to do something about it now. Especially since I just finished my very last final for college and I will be graduating in CS, so I have some more free time now. Daygaming seems pretty difficult since here in Florida nobody is going out, and those that do, look really unapproachable.
/r/seduction25/04/20 12:26 AM
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I do believe that you might have done something wrong for them to dislike you. But this is definitely not always the case. I usually don't act like that around anyone. It's only girls and it's only when I felt like I might of have done something or said something that creeped them out, but have no idea if I really did. The "not knowing" is what kills me. At least if I knew for a fact that I creeped her out, I would of avoided her the rest of the shift(to avoid awkward situations).
/r/seduction08/04/20 01:14 PM
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I'm worried at this point that I embarrassed myself. I can't lose this job right now. The worst part is that I thought my self esteem has gotten better since I feel a bit more confident around the girls that I talk to after so many rejections. I have already had a childhood trauma where all the girls were against me for something I was unknowingly doing many years ago and it left me terrified. I really, really, really don't want something similar to happen this time. The last thing I need in my …
/r/seduction08/04/20 01:05 PM
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I didn't ask the other for her phone number. I was gonna let that one go for longer since I didn't feel like there was much rapport. I really don't know what I was thinking here.
/r/seduction08/04/20 12:26 PM
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I'm kinda over it. It's just that my mind starts to wonder what went wrong so that I can fix my mistakes. I hate losing in anything and not knowing why and how to do better.
/r/seduction08/04/20 07:31 AM
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Yeah, but I feel like it kills my mood to do anything because I stop believing. I have to really fight against it in order to feel better and sometimes, I really need help doing that. I can't talk to anyone feeling like that. Not only will it give off bad vibes, but it wouldn't be enjoyable. The problem is knowing how to fight against it and believe that everything will be alright.
/r/seduction06/04/20 04:06 AM
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I talked to this one girl today. She didn't seem that interested, but it's whatever. Whenever a girl doesn't have high energy, it tends to turn me off. Maybe there is a way to bring it out of them if I myself have the energy, but I don't know how to do that. I wish there were more ways to meet women. I feel like if this pandemic would not have happened, I would of already restarted my salsa lessons and gone to a few more meetups. I can be a bit of a pussy to approach women in my university, but …
/r/seduction06/04/20 03:48 AM
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It depends. One of the things that does tend to stop me is what I have to offer, since there are many situations that I have never been with women and that I don't know how to handle. Like sex, for example, how and when do I know that I can initiate it. In other words, lack of experience means that I don't know how to handle certain situations that she may expect me to know how to handle, and that is what creates fear sometimes.
/r/seduction06/04/20 12:04 AM
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The thing is that when I read posts from this subreddit, they DO seem different becaus3 they at least had some experience in college and high school, which I never did for a variety of different reasons.
/r/seduction05/04/20 06:58 PM
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What I am also afraid of is what about my inexperience with women says about me as a man. Am I worthy? Am I masculine? Do I have anything to offer women?
/r/seduction05/04/20 06:19 PM
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What I really mean is, "as consistenly as possible". I have a tendency to word things incorrectly.
/r/seduction05/04/20 06:15 PM
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Also, how can we have good conversations with women if you naturally give off negative vibes when you don't feel confident?
/r/seduction05/04/20 06:15 PM
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But it really kills my self-esteem. I can't talk, nor do i feel like talking to people while constantly comparing myself. This is starting to happen almost every day! And I don't know why. It's like I constantly need others to feel good about myself.
/r/seduction05/04/20 05:50 PM
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wtf bruh lol. What is that
/r/seduction22/02/20 05:31 AM
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Btw, holy shit I can't believe that I forgot about the open ended questions lmao. I used to ask those more often.
/r/seduction22/02/20 02:36 AM
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What do you mean by "it's a skill"? Doesn't confidence come from feeling good about who you are and embracing your faults and your current skill set?
/r/seduction22/02/20 02:24 AM
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I do, it's just that I'm very careful of not making the woman do all of the work. It is a dialogue after all!
/r/seduction18/08/19 02:50 PM
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I have trouble doing so when I don't feel like speaking or when I can't immediately comment on what the person is wearing, doing, etc... I like doing this in coffee shops because people are usually studying or doing projects there, so I use that to my advantage to ask about what they are doing and other open ended questions. If I can, I comment on what she says and maybe throw any type of joke I can(be it a stereotype or self deprecating).
/r/seduction18/08/19 03:01 AM
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Emotionally it is very draining for me to approach a woman, regardless of whether it goes bad or good. The thing is that, as an introvert, I need to do things like listen to music, drink coffee, or anything that will put me in a good mood so that I would want to approach women. I tend to have more fun doing it that way, even if I am nervous. This is why I usually go to pick up women in coffee shops, because I'm not usually there just to pick up women, but to work on side projects. I have a lot o…
/r/seduction18/08/19 12:36 AM
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Darn, I am rereading this now and I kind of realized just how much of a fucking complainer I was being lol. I can be like that sometimes but it usually goes away. It's common for me to shift mindsets every now and then but yeah, I just realized how much I was making myself the victim. It was kind of an asswhole-ish thing to call my friends "socially underdeveloped" too. They aren't, they are just introverted people that don't go to clubs and like playing video games. Nothing wrong with that....
/r/seduction17/08/19 06:58 PM
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I think that I did come across as a complainer when I wrote this lol. It's true that you can't change the hand you were dealt, but you can change how you react to it and what you do with it. As I was writing this though, I started to see just how much I improved as a human being which is why my prose becomes more positive. Basically everything that I do, I do it primarily for my enjoyment, even salsa. However, I think Salsa as well as my job got me wanting to become a leader, a thing that I stil…
/r/seduction17/08/19 05:17 AM
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And no, I would never be desperate enough to fuck a whale. I am trying to make steps to make my life better, did u not read the whole thing?
/r/seduction17/08/19 04:43 AM
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Lol I do go to the gym. I'm no Hulk but I'm pretty lean and have biceps and triceps. Admittedly my abs need work though, so I need to get on that. I didn't mean to sound pathetic as this mindset only lasts for a while.
/r/seduction17/08/19 04:41 AM
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I guess I should of made this more clear. My goal is to become better with women. Better as in being able to lead them into a relationship, understanding them, and how to just be friends with them. I also just want to become a better man, able to lead others when an opportunity arises and be respected by the people who know me, despite my virginity.
/r/seduction16/08/19 10:08 PM
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