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Mark Manson talks about this in his book Models. Women are categorized in three ways, not interested, neutral, and interested. The goal is to get the neutral women to sway one way or the other so you don't waste time with them. This is accomplished by polarizing them. Race is one way men polarize women. Of course there's always going to be girls that are turned off by asian men; however, there is a minority of women who are attracted to asian males. The goal is to find the girls that are attract…
/r/askTRP08/09/15 05:01 AM
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I'm practically a skeleton and being a vegan combined with a general dislike for eating makes it very difficult for me to put on weight. First things first your T levels are probably absurdly low. You can't have a desire to dominate a woman if you look at you couldn't dominate her if you tried. Its hard, but you're going to have to gain weight. I don't know your reasons for being vegan, but I would at least recommend introducing dairy/ eggs into your life. I can't get off when I put myself in th…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 08:05 PM
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The answer to your title is lift. On a side note, getting friends in high school is pretty easy. Get involved in clubs, societies, extra circulars and you will naturally be surrounded with social people. From there is just a matter of calling them. You're bound to find some alpha people with a similar desire to improve themselves, even if you don't necessarily want friends, spend time around them. You'll improve your social skills.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 09:11 PM
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Arch, what do you recommend instead of an engineering degree? I'm going to college either ways and I thought it would be useful to get one for job security while trying my hand in startups directly after college.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/15 03:28 AM
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Dude just ask her out. It's clear that she likes you.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 04:29 AM
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I say hi and so does she, but she walks off before I can even start a conversation every single damn time! You're either being to timid or she doesn't find you interesting. Either stop her physically (touch her), or just let go of her and find a new girl.
/r/askTRP24/05/15 04:22 AM
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Could you please elaborate a little more? Is it the self improvement aspect such as quitting video games, weed and starting to lift, etc. or is it more the outcome dependence where you would ask out any girl that shows interest? Or is it something completely different?
/r/seduction24/05/15 04:20 AM
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The problem is, she's already labeled you as a needy person in need of her validation. Getting rid of this label is more trouble than its worth, so I recommend focusing on your self and soft nexting her.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 04:45 AM
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Start thinking positive thoughts; its where it all begins. Also read a lot of books. Go to /r/redpillbooks and devour everything there.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 04:41 AM
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Every night before sleeping I drink a calorie smoothie. Also buy shit tons of string cheese, its about 6 grams of protein a pop. As for the plateau, try lowering the weight level and increasing reps.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 04:37 AM
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Increase your T levels through lifting and clean dieting.
/r/askTRP30/04/15 04:34 AM
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Another gem I found in the same thread. not understanding / refusing to understand the clear line between catcalling and a compliment What exactly is the line? attractive/unattractive Of course the last comment was down voted.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/15 04:27 AM
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Its called the Law of Attraction. Everything in your life is there because you attracted it through your thoughts.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 07:36 PM
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First of all, stop watching porn. Put the nsfw filter on in RES that will help substantially. Try limiting the amount of fapping you do. Once a week is healthy but it you have been fapping twice a day for the last 10 years you might want to try nofap for atleast a month and see how you feel. Read the book of pook. It helped me with embracing my sexuality. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill22/12/14 09:17 PM
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Idk about that girl but I'm hella moist right now.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 04:05 AM
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You can inflate you height by 1 or 2 inches on your tinder account. Once you meet her in person, she won't notice why you became so short. Girls are obsessed about the number but not about the reality.
/r/askTRP26/08/14 02:39 AM
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Taking a selfie is harmless. Taking a selfie and posting it on social media for validation is beta.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 01:01 AM
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By cheating on you she obviously doesn't respect you. Right now, she's using you as a provider/ It's time to downgrade her to plate status and pick up some new chicks.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:45 PM
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Try offering positive incentives to clean the house. Also, when she does clean the house, acknowledge it positively.
/r/askTRP22/08/14 05:14 AM
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As soon as she wanted to go, you are no longer with her. She downgraded herself from LTR to plate status. Instead of controlling her and stopping her from going, you should have let her go and immediately cut contact. She is going to feel resentful towards you because you didn't let her go. Just because you stopped her from going on this trip, don't think that she will remain clean. She wants to cheat on you but just isn't getting the right opportunities. The next time your back is turned, she';…
/r/askTRP21/08/14 06:56 PM
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Read nonfiction. Develop hobbies and use them to meet new people. Follow your dreams.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 05:07 AM
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Don't force her to go against her religious beliefs. I recommend just finding a new girl.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 05:03 AM
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I reccomend reading Models by Mark Manson. I covers some good conversational tools such as "jumping off" points and how to tell stories. Basic tips: speak in statements, choose common topics such as venue, or even weather. It's not what you say, it's how you say it. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7qsaxJCvahA
/r/askTRP01/08/14 08:38 PM
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Yes, but say something like "I hope you have a cute dress picked out," instead of "im picking you up in 2 hours, right?"
/r/askTRP01/08/14 08:37 PM
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Don't get caught up in the details. Act like you are the catch and she is the one who has to attract you. Every Red Pill behavior stems from this idea. Also, remember to wrap it up.
/r/askTRP01/08/14 05:00 AM
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If you choose to break up with her, go cold turkey. It will hurt her and you if you maintain a friendship.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 07:54 PM
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By telling you that you can cheat, she wants to cheat also.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 07:51 PM
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So I've had my sights set on this girl for a really long time and she knows it. Complete oneitis. About a week later after cutting off contact with her she texted me at 3am on a friday night if I had hated her (obviously she had a few to drink). She went on to say how awful she felt and how she didn't want me to hate her. I told her it would be silly for anyone to hate someone for that. This is a shit test. Instead of agreeing with her frame about how much you don't "hate her", a more appropriat…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 10:56 PM
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If you give a gift, and the person does not accept it, then who owns the gift? You do. If you are angry at someone, and they do not accept it, then who owns the anger? You do. If you remain angry at women, you're the one that gets burned. Women don't give a shit about your feelings.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 09:40 PM
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Watch this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=aE9QSuSxIMY Working out is extremely beneficial. It builds your inner game so you feel really fucking good about yourself. If any girls start commenting on your height, that just means they are thinking of fucking you. They are calling you out on your supposed "weakness" to see how alpha you really are.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 09:33 PM
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I would have just sent the first message and ignored the rest. But congrats to you for stepping out of a toxic relationship!
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 06:48 AM
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As long as you give the gift without expecting anything in return, it should be fine.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 06:45 AM
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she must have changed after having the kid. NO NO NO NO NO AND NO. She is looking for a provider for her and her kid. 44 guys? Jesus. As soon as she is being provided for she'll jump on the cock carousel again and fuck some more guys. Her past IS A DEFINITE indicator of what the future will be like.
/r/askTRP30/07/14 06:39 AM
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Ask yourself, is she getting a gift for you to?
/r/askTRP30/07/14 06:34 AM
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First and foremost, go to the gym for YOURSELF. If you go to the gym because you want others to notice your body, you WILL become demotivated. As long as you go because you GENUINELY ENJOY going to the gym, there will be no reason to stop. Don't expect to get jacked in 6 weeks, building a muscular body takes HARD WORK and DEDICATION. Besides becoming muscular, going to gym has many other positive side affects. You will have increased blood circulation throughout your body, your testosterone will…
/r/askTRP30/07/14 06:23 AM
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If anyone else is struggling with this, I highly highly recommend No More Mr. Nice Guy by Robert Glover.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 06:10 AM
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Be amused at anger. Don't try to rationalize with her while she is being angry. If she starts getting too emotional, look at her dead in the eye and say something to the effect of "i do not tolerate such behavior" or "stop acting like a child." And then just ignore her and stop talking to her. I also recommend stalking /u/archwinger, he has some decent stuff on LTR's and relationships in general.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 10:45 PM
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he has the skills to earn some crazy money This should be the number one priority. Convince your friend to get a job and start earning. He'll need the money sooner or later. Also, due to his wife's job, she is sometimes away for months at a time It's probably too late now. No way she is going to stay faithful. Be there for him in the upcoming divorce rape.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 10:41 PM
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I don't think its worth to jeopardize a relationship with your mom over this girl. I'm kind of nervous the whole time so I avoid eye contact. Regardless of the girl, ALWAYS keep eye contact. But don't be creepy, use your judgment.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 01:01 AM
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Go do an action date together. Any date that involves action such as rock climbing, dance class, or maybe just a walk on the beach. Don't fucking sit and talk to her for the whole date, thats what her woman friends do, YOURE THE FUCKING MAN. First and foremost, the date should be fun for YOU. Your needs come first. If you want chinese, go fucking eat chinese. Don't give a shit about her. Split the fucking bill. So you're ending in the friend zone? You're not making your intentions clear. Eye con…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 01:49 AM
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Don't validate her body. Or her for that matter. When she next comes to town, take her out. Don't ask what she wants to do, just do your own thing and have fun. She should be secondary. Escalate and take it from there. If you fuck her, great! If you don't, who gives a shit! Just find another bitch.
/r/askTRP27/07/14 01:43 AM
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There is actually a book called The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi the same guy that writes the blog. Also, read the following, most of them are torrentable. No more Mr. Nice Guy Models - Mark Manson The book of pook (this is free off the internet) Also don't limit yourself to just RP books. Read a shit ton of nonfiction and educational books. Some I recommed are Think and Grow rich by Napoleon Hill and Win Friends and Infuence People by Dave Carnegie.
/r/askTRP23/07/14 11:04 PM
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