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I do the same thing. I gauge her reaction to it to determine how to proceed. If she doesn't even smile or respond then back down. If she smiles or seems receptive keep at it. Best case scenario: she smiles, laughs, and says "yes, that sounds amazing" or something very sexual back. Then you know it's on.
/r/seduction16/01/14 09:37 PM
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Gotcha. Get the yes on something more "innocent" which makes it more likely to get the yes on the nude. Thanks.
/r/seduction16/01/14 01:26 PM
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How do you ask a girl to send you nudes? Obviously you have to do the ground work first but when you have a sexual text going how do you prompt them to send nudes?
/r/seduction16/01/14 05:35 AM
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Hey, nice to finally meet you. You are even more gorgeous in person. Can I get you something to drink? (while getting drink ask her about something you recently texted about) You've now transitioned back towards a conversation and setting you were both comfortable with and you can work your game. Don't be nervous, she's lucky to be meeting you! Let us know how it goes.
/r/seduction16/01/14 05:13 AM
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Thank you. I was browsing other threads but couldn't find what I was looking for. Could you link me to a few solid posts about Relationship Management? Just from what you said I'm already beginning to see where I've been going wrong. I've always been more interested in LTRs until recently getting out of one. I need to shift my frame and attitude so that I'm sending the right message.
/r/seduction12/01/14 11:12 AM
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Do what you think is best. If you want to fuck her then have at it. If you don't want to, then let it go. There is no wrong answer.
/r/seduction12/01/14 05:28 AM
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I will keep that in mind. Not sure if it'll work for this particular girl, but it may be useful another time.
/r/seduction06/01/14 04:08 AM
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I'm in school to get my Master's so I think my priorities are in order. I'll be moving out once I am done and have a full-time job. A hotel room would be nice, but I don't see a way where asking her to a hotel with me doesn't make me seem desperate for sex.
/r/seduction06/01/14 04:01 AM
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I agree. This was one of the toughest things to overcome in college. Get her number and set up a movie night at your place. Guaranteed bone-fest
/r/seduction06/01/14 03:58 AM
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But....the implication. But seriously, this is a terrible idea. Maybe if we were already date, but at that point I wouldn't have to close her.
/r/seduction06/01/14 03:54 AM
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I wish this was an option, but there are no drive ins near me.
/r/seduction06/01/14 03:53 AM
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None near me...
/r/seduction06/01/14 03:52 AM
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That's an option when I gets warmer but considering it will be subzero for the whole week I don't think that will be an option for a few months.
/r/seduction06/01/14 03:52 AM
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Not possible right now. I do not make nearly enough money to support myself.
/r/seduction06/01/14 03:51 AM
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Yes.
/r/seduction05/01/14 11:13 PM
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Took me 4 years to get to where I'm at. It sucked because the rejection anxiety was terrible and it threw me into depression more than once. However, I don't think we are ever done transforming. You will make mistakes, do stupid things, and ruin relationships. You live and learn and keep improving.
/r/seduction02/01/14 11:02 PM
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This may go against everything in this thread, but try politely telling them no to sex. In college I had a high success rate but no one wanted to get serious. I was so pissed off because I had the same reputation, "player". The one night I was watching a movie with a girl and we started making out. We moved to the bed and when she went to grab a condom I caressed her from behind and whispered "not this time". We ended up dating for a year. It's all about delivery and the girl. You can't make it …
/r/seduction02/01/14 10:58 PM
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Neither of us is looking for anything serious. But we are both into each other and I'm not gonna throw that away. She's a sweetheart and a total babe too. I think we are both looking for the same thing right now. She came with a group and they all kind of collectively decided to leave. I don't know if she was actually upset at me, that was just what 1 person that was there thought. Who knows, girls are confusing. I'm still trying to get my game back. I haven't dated much since breaking up with m…
/r/seduction02/01/14 10:05 PM
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I didn't ask her friends anything, they just started telling me about her. It's fine if she wants to try and keep me on the hook and lead me on because I'll cut that tie right away. I spent 2 years on 1 girls hook and will never do that again. You're right though, I need to be more alpha. That's why I am here, to learn and get advice. I am going to nut up and take control from now on.
/r/seduction02/01/14 09:58 PM
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Fuck dude, you were completely right. I guess she is into more of the type of guy that takes control (according to her friends). Lesson learned. Bit of a setback, but that doesn't mean I can't still get her back.
/r/seduction02/01/14 05:09 PM
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Didn't go great. Apparently she is a huge attention whore and when I wasn't focusing entirely on talking to her she got upset and left. It's fine though because I was able to talk with a few of her friends while we all played cards and they gave me the low down on how to keep her interested and full close. Her friend also hinted that it is "her time of the month" and that is most likely why she declined sex the other night. She told me to give it a week. I guess she's been into me for quite a wh…
/r/seduction02/01/14 05:07 PM
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Fingers crossed.
/r/seduction02/01/14 04:32 AM
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I get what you're saying. I'm going to give that a try.
/r/seduction02/01/14 04:31 AM
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This was the plan. Feeling good about it. Gonna try to not be such a "nice guy" and be more aggressive. I think I'm being too passive right now.
/r/seduction02/01/14 04:31 AM
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After she turned down sex last night I took the opportunity to get to know her a little better by asking her about herself. She seemed to really appreciate it and make her feel comfortable. We won't be getting drunk tonight like last night so I think it'll be a good opportunity to get to know her.
/r/seduction02/01/14 02:57 AM
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A mutual friend is having people over tonight and she asked if I was going and seemed very excited when I said I was. I told her I'd bring a bottle of wine for the 2 of us because she told me she loves wine last night (which I do too). Hopefully that shows I was paying attention to her and not just wanting sex.
/r/seduction02/01/14 02:19 AM
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Thanks! We are going to the same party again tonight!
/r/seduction02/01/14 02:17 AM
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I disagree with you on the first point. By asking her I feel I established that I respect her boundaries while still showing I'm interested. Had this been a 1 night thing then I agree that you just go, but knowing that I'd like to do this again I chose to take the route where I'm guaranteed a make out session again soon. I ended up doing what the one guy said and just tell her I had fun. She asked me if I was going to a mutual friends house tonight and I told her yes and she seemed excited. We w…
/r/seduction02/01/14 02:17 AM
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Hmm. Interesting. You make a good point.... Edit: I like your suggestion, I think it leaves the conversation more open for her to respond and for us to get a conversation going.
/r/seduction01/01/14 09:42 PM
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