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She is shutting it completely with her actions. Keeping it open with her words. “Medium is the message”.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 12:30 AM
2

A great opportunity to take that emotion and apply it to your passion and some kind of mission/purpose. It’s a great time to take more social risk because your tolerance for rejection is so high since your One has rejected you. How could it get worse? Don’t go making chasing women the purpose of your life but you should utilize the space to spin plates, which, along with pursuing some mission, will increase your value and maybe someday she’ll perceive it as at or above her level and want to reki…
/r/askTRP11/03/20 12:00 AM
23

All that time “investing”, focused on her and her behavior instead of just living, spinning plates, pursuing something valuable. What a waste.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/20 08:32 PM
3

Lol for sure. IG is just a digital opium tent for women to get high on validation.
/r/askTRP04/02/20 05:02 AM
1

You thirsty?
/r/askTRP04/02/20 04:36 AM
3

I’d be willing to bet she’s not hurt at all. Probably laughing and showing her friends.
/r/askTRP02/02/20 09:49 PM
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Your little doggy needs boundaries. They can’t function properly without them. Set them and be ready/ok if she leaves because she can’t adhere to them but her respect for you will grow either way ironically. Her behavior is a reflection of the respect and value she has placed on your attention. You seem cool enough but you’re getting clowned man. Good luck.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 11:20 PM
1

“(Hand holding pen emoji) (notepad emoji)”
/r/askTRP28/01/20 04:16 AM
1

Have you read NMMNG?
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:49 PM
2

I believe you should treat a girl you have oneitis for the “worst” because otherwise you’ll care about fucking it up too much. Your behavior will become needy and unattractive. If I was 17, I would give zero friend-type attention and just hook up with her. Keep her at arms length. Keep hooking up with other girls I was attracted to. Get that Pre-Selection momentum going and repeat.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:47 PM
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This is a valuable lesson for all of us in that, if you have to ask this question, you can recognize the oneitis in yourself. The answer to this question is easy. What makes it hard is that you want it to work with this ONE girl. It makes me question why you called her a “plate” as if there’s others. This is 101 for guys with plates, PhD for guys with Oneitis
/r/askTRP20/12/19 06:57 PM
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What an opportunity bro. You're kicking ass, not wasting time chasing girls. I know it's tough at times you feel like you're missing out but the party gets better. The way you live creates natural time constraints and this shows value and is attractive. You should be approaching anyone you like and make them accommodate your schedule. They will.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 03:41 PM
1

Irrational and unconditional self confidence
/r/askTRP29/11/19 03:28 PM
4

Read Rollos essay on Vulnerability
/r/askTRP29/11/19 05:22 AM
5

In your mind, your value is too low and the women you’re attracted to is too high. You need to flip that.
/r/askTRP26/11/19 10:58 PM
9

Why is this guy so special?
/r/askTRP26/11/19 10:50 PM
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I’d be interested to see what advice a midget, incel, faggot would offer
/r/askTRP25/11/19 01:43 AM
2

Her : “Is it ok if I bring my Boyfriend and sister” You : “Idk, are they going to try and cock block me”?
/r/askTRP25/11/19 12:23 AM
6

Orbiter Collector
/r/askTRP24/11/19 06:58 PM
2

You’re good man. On to the next.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:50 AM
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I guess there’s a concept in stand up comedy that of you’re bombing, the last thing you do is start to try and appease the audience. You fucking DOUBLE DOWN on your shit and plow through because at least it shows you do what you do and say what you say with conviction. Ultimately, the audience slowly comes back and the set is saved. This was an opportunity to do the same. When she accused you of not knowing it was snowing you play dumb and still pretend you don’t know it’s snowing like an idiot …
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:06 AM
2

Realize it was a shit test
/r/askTRP22/11/19 02:44 AM
3

Be more outgoing
/r/askTRP22/11/19 02:30 AM
9

In regards to her telling you another guy hit her up: This is just her way of telling you she has options and not necessarily some sign of loyalty or nobility on her part. She’s using dread on you and it’s working.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 02:13 AM
5

I don’t know if a response to that is needed. Just be prepared for the giant shit test gauntlet you’re entering. They’ll throw the book at you.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 08:38 PM
2

How long in LTR?
/r/askTRP21/11/19 08:17 PM
28

Get reps at getting rejected. It’ll bother you less and less.
/r/askTRP21/11/19 08:11 PM
2

When you apply resistance to your muscles they break down and a get bigger to adapt to the new requirements. It's the same when it comes to talking to bitches. The more you expose yourself to rejection (resistance) the tougher you will become and the fear of it won't be an issue preventing you. Your question is literally the same as me asking you, "Hey man I how do I get big muscles"? You are going to crush once you internalize you already have what it takes. Apply resistance, adapt
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:37 PM
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STFU
/r/askTRP21/11/19 06:24 PM
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I feel like she thinks me as a beta provider and went to have sex with her alpha for one last time. Your gut doesn't lie. You cannot demand anything of them you have to inspire them. Its on you to set your boundaries and enforce them with action instead of words. If she doesn't want to live in your world, next.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 07:00 PM
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I’m just saying you’d have to have an idea of her motives before you made a move. If you say your company is your family, I don’t see how this conversation is avoidable. I think it’s definitely an in person convo when you run into her, no need to reach out before.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:08 AM
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If it was me and it goes through, I’m saying some version of “Not everyday you get to work with your ex, uh”? and see how she reacts. It’s not clear whether you’re for or against it and she will practically forced to qualify her decision to put her self in such a uniquely awkward situation.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 03:38 AM
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It might be best to pull her aside and address the elephant in the room. At the very least get a feel for her intentions and motives. At least you’ll know what kind of game you’re in going forward. I’m not sure if you’re on good terms but if she’s going to be working at a company you’re heavily invested in, you might as well get some good work out of her if possible. Is she trying to be an ally or sabotage ? Make your moves once you got a feel for this answer.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 02:58 AM
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I think you're asking how to keep your bitch from fucking other dudes?
/r/askTRP19/11/19 10:07 PM
3

Probably not with this particular girl unless you’ll still see her around and she can see you have other options or candidates. When she sees or sense this she will reach out to you. You make yourself scarce and make her earn it. She will love it. Most importantly, you need other candidates. You’re only 19 brother keep recruiting.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 02:26 PM
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You’ve presented yourself to her as a long term option she can afford to keep on the bench just in case. It’s not good for you that her mom likes you either.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 01:48 PM
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Brilliant. Always treat the orbiters trying to disparage you like a little toddler kicking your shin. It’s adorable.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 01:17 PM
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It makes them feel better to believe they seduced you with their uniqueness and bubbly personality or whatever bullshit she’d like to identify with. If they feel like it’s any Ole’ Pussy you’re after, to even take the time to try and overcome LMR is demonstrating a lack of options and this neediness dries it up just enough.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 04:19 AM
2

This.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 03:33 AM
18

“You look like your breath stinks” -Patrice O’Neal
/r/askTRP16/11/19 03:29 AM
1

I’d focus on dominating your studies and diving deep into whatever it is you’re passionate about. Dominate your field and you will gain social proof and people will seek you out. Pretty soon you’ll attract like minded people and the social group will form naturally and it will be self sustaining. I think it’s hard for some because they approach making friends like it’s a problem to solve. It’s not. People/personalities are not static and variables are in constant flux so almost any thinking is o…
/r/askTRP15/11/19 07:37 PM
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Right on mate. Good luck
/r/askTRP15/11/19 03:08 PM
1

Ding ding ding
/r/askTRP15/11/19 03:03 PM
2

What are the 16 Rules of Poon?
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:58 PM
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You’re cool to the younger girls because you seem more mature. You’re cool to the older girls because their hitting the wall and trying to settle down and all the high qualified men in their age bracket are fucking the girls your age lol. Read Rollo
/r/askTRP15/11/19 02:37 PM
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The concern you should have is not how to deal with your girl getting so much attention from males, your concern should be why she's willing to risk losing you by continuing to put herself in that position by working at "hooters" and thirst trapping on Instagram. Nobody is holding a gun to her head to do those things. It bothers you because you need her more than she needs you. She knows this too. She's in the perfect situation. She knows you're waiting for her to get home and do all kinds of co…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 07:13 PM
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Assuming you want to be in a particular social group, you have to pass their tests and bring some kind of value to that circle. Right now your value is being an object to joke about for the entertainment of the group because that's the only value they feel you are providing. Why would they want to carry you along? They have to at least get a chuckle from your leaching presence. A pack is only a strong as it's weakest link. You're probably an easy target. You NEED a social group and people can te…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 04:57 PM
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If you’ve already fucked her I’d say go if you want. Try and sneak in her room after her dad makes you sleep in the guest room lol If you haven’t fucked I would not go because I think you’re gut is saying something for a reason and you’d be doing a big bf type move before she’s earned it by giving bf rewards. Spit ballin
/r/askTRP14/11/19 05:25 AM
3

A simple little mind trick in this situation is to actually go out with the intention of getting rejected. Sounds counter intuitive I know but it relieves the pressure of feeling like you need a good interaction for some kind of validation. Understand too, even if you get IOI's and interactions go well for you, you will eventually fuck it up anyways because you care too much. Neediness is blinding. Exposing yourself to rejection makes your skin thicker and you adapt.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 10:08 PM
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I've been in a similar situation. NEVER show anger or frustration. This is a win for her. Be amused by her behavior. Bring attention to her obsession with you and infer that she's flirting with you or is just being that way because she likes you. I straight up said to this chick "please stop flirting with me, not gonna happen". Everyone around laughed and she got red in the face and never said shit again because she knew her ass-holery would be seen as her trying to flirt again. Whether it was t…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 09:53 PM
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Give him advice then. He didn't come here for that tho, he came here to leach some attention and pity. DEF not what this sub is about. He'll be back in a week talking the same shit.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 09:43 PM
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Take her off the pedestal.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 09:39 PM
0

OP: Im so lonely guys, feel sorry for me Also OP: Haven't talked to a real person in 6 months You're a fucking ass hole man
/r/askTRP13/11/19 09:16 PM
3

This is a lesson in what happens when you make women the focus of your life
/r/askTRP13/11/19 09:07 PM
6

And your LTR seeing other girls check you out will get some dread going too. Just have to make sure you’re leading the workout and not following her around like a lost puppy.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 07:21 PM
1

Confidence in social situations is just giving yourself permission to feel and move how you want to. The foundational flaw in your mindset is basing your confidence on conditions (being more muscular) that aren’t realized yet. Trying to fix inside by changing the outside first never works because confidence and is a pre-requisite. Good on you for lifting and doing BJJ but recognize that you’re not after more muscle you’re after that permission from yourself to enjoy your fucking life. You’re big…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:04 AM
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I think you played it right. Being in an LTR especially as long as she has been, she might just want to see if she still got it. By you trying to kiss her, she gets her jolly’s from getting the attention of another man.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 06:24 PM
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shows me off to family and friends. When a girl is showing you off to her family and friends she's put you in the 'relationship material' category. She's basically saying 'everyone look at this Beta fish I caught that i'm not going to fuck'. Stay the fuck out of this category. We're not here to say stay or go. It just helps to understand how she see's you. First, you devalued yourself by even entertaining an LTR with her. You cut off your ability to have options so in her mind she 'Tamed' you, e…
/r/askTRP07/11/19 04:51 PM
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I don’t think the push to “lose the baby weight” would be a thing if they didn’t know damn well their SMV has dropped.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 02:47 PM
2

it’s probably seen by some as a sign of insecurity. Who gives a fuck?
/r/askTRP06/11/19 09:30 PM
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I know I’m not that much of a catch You're not even ready to discuss plating ugly bitches until you address this
/r/askTRP05/11/19 08:38 PM
3

I went through a very similar situation and learned a lot. In hind sight, I realized doing things like making her block her ex and going through her phone is a mistake. Low value thing to do that inspires the opposite behavior. The fact that you're threatened by her ex and other men, she will become more confident she can do better than you. Ruthless but righteous. She can't like you more than you like you. Just visited my LDR for the weekend What is the ratio of you coming to her vs. her coming…
/r/askTRP05/11/19 07:02 PM
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can’t help but think this girl is the hottest I'll get Yikes. You're fucked. But that's ok. This will be a solid learning experience and you're only 23. It will be your emotional investment in her opinion of you that does you in before your cul-de-saq head does. She can smell your neediness and looking to her for validation. This is infinitely less attractive than a bald fucking head. I'd read the sidebar and start to learn game. You can practice on her until you guys break up and you wont be to…
/r/askTRP05/11/19 05:36 PM
5

Sounds crazy, but you need to get your ass kicked. Dabble in the Martial Arts. I recommend Jiu Jitsu specifically because you can get the feeling of getting your ass kicked without the head trauma of things like Kickboxing, MT, or Boxing. We could go on all fucking day about the benefits of martial arts but here is the main ones IMO: -Hand to hand combat requires your full attention so you have none to spare for your problems/mental chatter. (Flow State) -Getting your ass kicked will increase yo…
/r/askTRP04/11/19 09:54 PM
2

Is this a case of failing to overcome LMR if she was never planning on fucking him in the first place? Seems like she knew long before the “last minute”.
/r/askTRP04/11/19 07:28 PM
1

Should've titled this post "HOW TO DRY UP A PUSSY"
/r/MarriedRedPill24/10/19 08:49 PM
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