Been around 3 months in college, and I know alot of people but I havent been able to join any friend circle yet. My rep among some groups is not good but not bad either. Coming from a school with 0 social life, it disappoints me alot that college is worse than that. Seeing my other friends join social groups and gain tons of new friends /ignoring me does make me a bit envious considering I have been with them for a longer part of college.

Have tried joing social groups, and since I know some people my strategy is usually to have some fun banter etc., but sometimes the banter ends up on me. I feel disrespected,and lose my frame.