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| 0 | Tips on “making the move”?Yeah maybe it’s cause she’s a workmate 😂 But nothing corporate, just a bunch of 19-20 year olds | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Tips on “making the move”?Leading.. makes more sense now with that word | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Tips on “making the move”?I have second thoughts in my head - where she might react in a way like “what are you doing??” Especially if I’m not smooth with it lol | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Finally lost my virginity... Or did I? FUCKlNG ED, what happened?I was gonna say death grip from jerking off too much, but.. 47 days nofap and still ED? 🤔 | /r/newTRP | 22/12/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Feeling lost and hopelessTRP looks at women in a way that’s very complex, systematic and calculated. We’re all just humans at the end of the day. I’ve been where you are right now. I saw girls as evil, fundamentally. All the red pill/pick up theory I had digested automatically made me a form of a negative opinion of girls whenever I’d see them. In addition, I’d overthink absolutely everything. The mind became incessant with chatter, anxiety and self-doubt. Nowadays, I barely think of the theory. Just a handful of succes… | /r/newTRP | 21/12/21 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Pretty much my first cold approach - a field report.Damn I can’t get myself to just approachhh. Feel regret every time I go home after uni. Just too much of a bitch. I overthink on everything including how to approach, what to say and how to end it. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 06:12 AM |
| 4 | How would you guys have handled this?Show him that there’s boundaries. And that’s not something you achieve by following TRP’s amused mastery bullshit for situations like these. You don’t get your way by being passive aggressive. You have to stand up for yourself, even if that means physical escalation. Show that you have a backbone. | /r/askTRP | 17/03/21 06:02 PM |
| 3 | Backstabbed.. by my closest friendsAll turning 19/20 this year. I know if I do that, it’ll be awkward for a very very long time. Not just between us, but the entire group. Things feel normal between us all at the moment, don’t want to unnecessarily dig myself deeper in a hole. They never really do these things. This was the first time of something of this kind. They usually mess around and are silly immature teenagers. I’m considering just letting this one moment go and from now on, I set clear boundaries. I didn’t confront them … | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Backstabbed.. by my closest friends? | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 01:21 PM |
| 2 | 22M - How do I turn my social life around?Great information here. As much as I love your attention to all the techniques, the problem is that your manager doesn’t consciously think of them. It’s natural. It’s subconscious. That’s why he can’t tell you how to be like him. That’s the problem nowadays with all these videos and posts. Giving out bullshit techniques that only grant superficial temporary change. The real magic occurs only when you rewire your inner core beliefs, and take action in real life to sustain the desirable qualities … | /r/askTRP | 22/10/20 05:51 PM |
| 1 | STATUS REPORTKill that desperation | /r/askTRP | 18/09/20 08:47 PM |
| 3 | How to take better control of my emotions?Cheers man, actually sound advice. All about perspective. And yeah, not a daddy issues sub lol, maybe I should’ve just asked how to be more stoic and control my emotions more. I think the mentality we operate with, our attitude, really makes a big impact on our overall life, so if we are easily subject to being in negative frame, it just makes life shit, but it’s something that can be controlled in my opinion. Anyways, thanks man. | /r/askTRP | 13/09/20 09:28 AM |
| 4 | Should I end a happy and fulfilling LTR because of the fear of missing out at age 22?My opinion is that you should be as free as a bird. Being in a serious LTR while you’re still young is not worth it. Time should be spent working on yourself and building your own empire. What this also means is that since you won’t be dating “exclusively”, you can go and fuck as many bitches as you want. I don’t know why all the other overdosed redpillers are complaining about the dating scene being fucked, it won’t matter anyways. Why? Because you won’t be dating EXCLUSIVELY/SERIOUSLY. You let… | /r/askTRP | 08/09/20 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Failure to stick to dietUse a TDEE Calculator online. It’s not 100% accurate but it gives a pretty good estimation to work with in the beginning. Then just track your weight after every week. Losing 1 pound a week = 3500 calorie deficit per week (or 500 per day). Adjust calories accordingly | /r/askTRP | 25/08/20 07:48 AM |
| 1 | What is with women and being utterly unable to simply ask how I’m doingWhen you show weakness to women, you become less attractive in their eyes. Does a women want a rock in the wind or a little bitch? Which one of the two can help protect and raise her kids better? With women you are tryna fuck, masculinity is what will get you there. You don’t whine to her, hope she listens and empathises with your struggles, this and that. But with friends that are girls (who you not tryna fuck), that’s okay. That’s what friends are for. It’s okay to be vulnerable with them. | /r/askTRP | 02/08/20 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Am I losing weight too fast?Cheers man, yeah I definitely got the time for it, it’s what I’m aiming for haha, think I’m making the mistake of judging my results too quickly instead of letting it pan out longer | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Am I losing weight too fast?Thank you. For someone sitting at 11-15% body fat, would losing more than 0.5kg/week contribute to increased muscle loss? | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Am I losing weight too fast?Generally (unless you are extremely overweight), shouldn’t you aim to only lose half a kg per week? Any more than that and you are not only losing fat but also losing muscle (?) | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Am I losing weight too fast?Seems very reasonable! I’ll continue through next week to see. I’m only scared about losing more muscle mass unnecessarily by losing weight too fast. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 01:09 PM |
| 1 | Am I losing weight too fast?Anything extreme is short lived - that I fully agree with. My aim is to lose 0.5kg per week, but since this is my first week, and I’m losing more than that, I don’t know if it’s normal, and if it’s too soon to tell whether I should increase calories. There are only 2 things I focus on for my diet - eating at a caloric deficit and making sure I’m eating sufficient protein each day. I don’t put myself on extreme diets that taste plain and awful. I still have chips, sweets, ice cream etc. I weigh e… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Am I losing weight too fast?I believe my maintenance calories vary from 2800-3000 using various TDEE calculators. Assuming my maintenance calories are 2800, I would need to eat at 2300 calories per day to lose ~0.5kg per week. However, I work out every day (at least 6x per week) for a minimum of one hour per day, sometimes 2 hours (resistance training + cardio), which means I can eat a few hundred calories more (eg. 2500 instead of 2300). This might explain why I’m losing more weight than normal. Though I’m not 100% certai… | /r/askTRP | 01/08/20 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Can you get stretch marks on a caloric deficit?My upper body is pretty lean, most of the fat goes to my legs. I don’t have any stretch marks on my midsection, I’m just concerned that I might get them, switching from a bulk to a cut (not sure if it’s possible unless you’re really fat in the first place but just wanted to make sure) | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Can you get stretch marks on a caloric deficit?Was your friend ever extremely overweight? (also do you mean he had stretch marks on his abs) | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Can you get stretch marks on a caloric deficit?From what I am aware of, you get stretch marks when your muscles grow faster than your skin can expand during that time. I suspect that this only occurs when you are on a caloric surplus i.e. bulking or trying to gain weight. But I’m not too sure for when you’re cutting/on a caloric deficit. Maybe it happens only to people who are severely overweight and have loose skin? | /r/askTRP | 25/07/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Best way to cut?Thank you 🙏🙏 | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Can your “purpose” be anything?Aim for the stars? ..or try to be more realistic with our purpose? | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Can your “purpose” be anything?Thanks for the amazing advice. Do you think the saying “be on your purpose” etc (as everyone says) is cliche and not really meaningful then? In all honesty, a “mission” really does sound better to me, because I don’t think we have purposes set in stone, rather changing/evolving goals and missions. | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Can your “purpose” be anything?Simple but great advice. Cheers! | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 07:41 PM |
| 2 | TRP likely banned tomorrow. What were your favorite TRP moments?Stumbled upon TRP at 16. I’m 18 now. Thank you TRP. Literally changed my life. It feels amazing to see the truth for what it really is, rather than walking around like a headless chicken. The quality of my life and what it will be like, I give massive credit to TRP. It’s been a good ride here. I’ll miss it. Kudos. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/20 08:09 AM |
| 2 | Any advice on controlling an impulsive smile?Be natural for fucks sake I used to be the same as you, would smile all the time I made conscious efforts to not but it just did more harm than good You don’t want to be self-conscious or else you will be socially awkward I’ve learned this the hard and long way | /r/askTRP | 22/06/20 03:45 PM |
| 1 | Should you pay for dinner on a first date?Who the fuck cares. Do what you want man. TRP is only there to guide you, not to give you a definitive answer for everything you do in life. Some people may say that paying on the first date is “beta”. Fuck that overthinking, do what you like, if you feel like it then pay for it. If you expect her to reciprocate the next time, then communicate it to her - enforce your boundaries. That’s what’s important. No need to overthink man. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 06:42 PM |
| 1 | How to have irrational self-confidence?Elaborate? | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 06:37 PM |
| 5 | How to have irrational self-confidence?Bring out those demons. Examine them. Determine the root causes of those issues. Then make a conscious effort to ditch those old negative thought patterns with positive new ones - until those new ones automatically become your new subconscious. Your mind is more powerful than you think. Your thoughts determine your behaviours, and your behaviours dictate your entire life. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 06:35 PM |
| 5 | How to have irrational self-confidence?Bullshit. There is no such thing as irrational self-confidence. I used to try all sorts of techniques like this. Yes, you can put up a front, but it will only be temporary. Your true self always shines through. Your best self is your “natural” self. You want to have godly confidence that is natural/subconscious and not made through “conscious” thought. If you try to act irrationally self confident (consciously), but you’re a little bitch inside (those bad subconscious thought patterns), then you… | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 05:34 PM |
| 35 | Lack of confidence with girls due to lack of social lifeSocial life is number one. I don’t give a fuck what TRP tells you. Having strong human relationships and a good social life is what truly makes you happy in life. It’s the experiences you have and the quality of your friendships. Everyone here loves to go the lone-wolf way, focus on game techniques and theories too much, and a lot of men here end up with a (destructive) women-hating mentality anyways. It’s a circus. TRP should not define the way you live. Take it for what it is and use what you … | /r/askTRP | 08/06/20 02:35 AM |
| 1 | How to win friends and influence people - finding a balanceInteresting | /r/askTRP | 03/06/20 08:15 PM |
| 1 | If you’ve got a basic competency in social situations you’re automatically way better than 50% of the competition. You don’t need any fancy pickup advice to learn this, you just need to focus on handling your social problems in a holistic manner.Haha you mad bruv? | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 07:06 PM |
| 1 | If you’ve got a basic competency in social situations you’re automatically way better than 50% of the competition. You don’t need any fancy pickup advice to learn this, you just need to focus on handling your social problems in a holistic manner.Keep crying incel | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 07:43 PM |
| 1 | If you’ve got a basic competency in social situations you’re automatically way better than 50% of the competition. You don’t need any fancy pickup advice to learn this, you just need to focus on handling your social problems in a holistic manner.You mad bro? | /r/seduction | 01/06/20 07:42 PM |
| 5 | How to remove social inhibition?Lol this made me chuckle. I actually did stupid shit in public with my friend last year. I would high-five random strangers, do pushups in public, ask strangers for selfies, do squats in public, lie down in a busy side walk for one minute. And Jesus after you do things way outside your comfort zone, you instantly don’t give a shit at all. You instantly get “in state”. At least for me I did. I truly felt like I could do anything, talk to anyone, without caring what others thought (but it is only … | /r/askTRP | 16/05/20 09:32 AM |
| 1 | We are in a masculinity crisisMen are becoming emasculated more than ever before. | /r/askTRP | 05/05/20 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Instagram is tinder platinum. Here's If/Why/How you should use itDo you have your account on private or public? | /r/TheRedPill | 02/05/20 10:39 PM |
| 3 | Which is better book?Read both | /r/askTRP | 26/04/20 08:46 AM |
| 3 | First time cutting. Any tips?Don’t cut too fast. You’ll have wasted your time and effort bulking up for lean muscle gains in the first place. 1800 calories seems too low. | /r/askTRP | 22/04/20 02:00 PM |
| 0 | Is an OCD a red flag?Why? What? How? I’m confused. | /r/askTRP | 21/04/20 11:39 PM |
| 3 | best reddit pages to observe beta behaviour?relationshipadvice dating seduction (mostly cancer posts these days tho) | /r/askTRP | 19/04/20 08:05 PM |
| 5 | Is MakeGirlsChaseYou.com legit?No lol. They tell you what you want to hear. That’s the easiest way for them to take money out of your pocket. Do you know how many courses there are that claim this type of bullshit? How do I know? Because I’ve been in your shoes before. And I very clearly understand how marketing works. I warned you here. | /r/seduction | 19/04/20 09:53 AM |
| -1 | Good (high status) casual jobs as a 18 year old?Pretty much zero. I was planning on signing up for a bartending course and getting a job as a bartender in some clubs. Or learning how to make music and work my way up to becoming a dj. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 08:24 PM |
| 6 | How do I start building a social life doing quarantine and outside of it?You genuinely have to be easy-going, fun to hang with and very social. However, in order to achieve those characteristics, you have to work on any shyness or social anxiety you currently have. And at the root of those problems is self-consciousness and caring too much about what other people think. “Excessive carefulness leads to inhibition and anxiety”. The most charismatic people are the most care-free and least inhibited individuals. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Good (high status) casual jobs as a 18 year old?What job in specific for cooking can I get into at 18? I do see immense value in cooking for life in general. Right now, I pretty much don’t have any skills in it, unless I decide to take a course for a registered certificate or something in it. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Good (high status) casual jobs as a 18 year old?You become well-known i.e. high social status. This means that you can penetrate an abundance of new social circles, and understanding female nature and hypergamy, you will instantly become more attractive to way more girls due to your position on the social hierarchy. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Good (high status) casual jobs as a 18 year old?Same, I absolutely love raves and hardstyle. I don’t see being a DJ as a good long-term job. I’m just looking for a casual job at 18, something that I could do temporarily that would both earn me money and social status. Yet is fun at the same time etc. I see DJs as bringing value to people, and thus would possibly be good for me right now. | /r/askTRP | 18/04/20 07:21 PM |
| 3 | Society and old friendsBe careful who you hang with. You are the average of the 5 people you hang around the most. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 07:32 PM |
| 2 | Be honest, what has your diet actually been like over the last 2 days? Don’t lieCannibalism. My grandpa is the last man standing and he won’t know what’s coming.. | /r/askTRP | 17/04/20 07:31 PM |
| 15 | How old are most guys in this sub?18, began lurking at 16 | /r/askTRP | 14/04/20 11:11 PM |
| 2 | If you’ve got a basic competency in social situations you’re automatically way better than 50% of the competition. You don’t need any fancy pickup advice to learn this, you just need to focus on handling your social problems in a holistic manner.Haha. Did you just imply that social skills and confidence are mutually exclusive? Good one. One cannot have amazing social skills yet have low confidence at the same time. How does that make sense? Your last statement also just proves how bad your mindset is. If you’re not getting any results, I very clearly see why. | /r/seduction | 13/04/20 06:42 PM |
| 10 | Why Didn't I Naturally Know This StuffIt’s simple. Social conditioning - ever since the day you were born. I’ll give you one example. All those Disney movies you watched, where the good guy is always shown getting the girl. It conditions you to think doing blue-pill things like being overly nice will help you get the woman. | /r/askTRP | 13/04/20 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Has anybody had success with red pill?Yes. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Has anybody had success with red pill?I would probably lose it at 85 if it weren’t for TRP. Now quit whining about not getting any results, and always keep working on yourself. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Has anybody had success with red pill?Yes. It made me lose my virginity at the age of 17. You’ve only been in it for 6 months. Stop bitching. | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 09:17 PM |
| 1 | The thing you’re most afraid to say is often what will build the most trust and attraction. Let go of any rules or techniques you learned along the way and be more human. It’s 100x more relatable and it’s what’s going to take you from intermediate to advanced.Golden advice. Thanks for sharing brother. | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Meditation appsYouTube: Guided Meditation | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 10:04 AM |
| 4 | Is being extremely tidy a turn off for women?Lol no | /r/askTRP | 12/04/20 10:04 AM |
| 0 | RSDTyler nutrition advice?RSD is full of bullshit. Feel-good wishy-washy bullshit. Have you seen the video where Tyler brought up a guy who had been watching RSD for 5+ years yet was still a full-ass chump and virgin? In regards to nutrition, I don’t know why you would want to take advice from RSD. Just take a good look at Tyler. | /r/seduction | 12/04/20 09:45 AM |
| 36 | Why do I get nervous around girls my age?Neediness. Why don’t you get nervous around old, wrinkly grandmas? Because you don’t want to stick your dick inside them. What about an ugly as fuck girl, who weights 300 pounds? Same shit. You don’t have any neediness for them, so you won’t act nervous. However, for girls your age, a lot you will want to fuck. And for that reason, you start to become overly cautious about everything you say and do. Because you’re scared of fucking up. You’re scared of doing something wrong. You’re scared of rej… | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 09:28 PM |
| 5 | Magnetism - Is Your Personality A Repellent?Depends. If you want to go the pick-up way, which is ultimately needy and phony, then so it be physical looks. All you need to do is be good-looking and have some fake confidence (outer game) and boom. But if your life was miserable, it will continue to be, unless you address your inner confidence and be developed all-round (and yes personality is an important factor, personality is charisma, and charisma will take you a long way in all facets of your life). | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 09:11 PM |
| 12 | Magnetism - Is Your Personality A Repellent?Personality is key fellas. Y’all out here trying to learn how to seduce women without properly developing your social skills in the first place. | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Fellas, I'm boned. What to do?Fuck that. Move planets. Don’t let her father see you again ever. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else who wants to keep TRP a secret?Yes. It gives us the upper hand. Let those blue-pill betas keep simping. We’re on earth for a limited time only, let’s make the most of it. | /r/askTRP | 11/04/20 09:00 PM |
| 20 | If you’ve got a basic competency in social situations you’re automatically way better than 50% of the competition. You don’t need any fancy pickup advice to learn this, you just need to focus on handling your social problems in a holistic manner.The problem is that most people here try to learn how to attract and seduce women, without making sure they have a solid foundation in the first place (social skills). It’s ridiculous. This is why pick-up is damaging. To truly be an attractive man, you need to have true inner confidence, not be some phony who remembers some tricks and only has outer game. Social skills is the key. That needs to be rock solid first. After that, you work on your game. | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 06:34 AM |
| 7 | Ending good LTRYou are young. Don’t commit. Don’t be a bird locked in a cage. Fly free. For there is and will always be abundance all around you. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/20 08:46 PM |
| 6 | Help me get over my fear of getting mugged/attackedLift and get big, learn to fight. Face your fears. And never back down (unless absolutely necessary). That should build your mental toughness for life. The way of the alpha. | /r/askTRP | 04/04/20 07:20 PM |
| 6 | Rapport Seeking VoiceGreat reminder. I’ve always thought about and experimented with this. However, recently I’ve been thinking whether to use a rapport-seeking tone instead of neutral or downwards tone when meeting new people for the first time. Using a rapport-seeking tone when meeting someone for the first time, like a friend of a friend, really helps make you more likeable and easier to talk to. However, at the same time it does feel somewhat beta. Using a neutral tone can make it harder for them to talk to you … | /r/TheRedPill | 03/04/20 06:51 PM |
| 1 | Loosing hopeSearch of Bradicus on YouTube. He is ugly as fuck but is quite successful with women. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 06:02 PM |
| 5 | Why aren't I losing weight!!?Be patient. Rome wasn’t built in a day. The results will come. If it doesn’t, you are not eating a caloric deficit. Simple. | /r/askTRP | 02/04/20 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching women while I have a gf?Yes. | /r/seduction | 02/04/20 02:48 AM |
| 10 | Cold approaching women while I have a gf?If you’re not dating for marriage, you’re dating for heartbreak. Don’t devote all your time and effort to this one girl. | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Why don't black pill guys even try?Even though they will somewhat increase their physical attractiveness if they put in the effort, they don’t believe that they will ever look “good enough” (eg. ugly face - genetics). That their maximum potential is limited, and thus they don’t see the point in trying. Who cares. Losers. | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Watch this movie, and it will change your mindset.What movie is it m8 | /r/askTRP | 28/03/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Do you think regular gym goers will get smaller because of the covid-19 lockdowns and ultimately increasing the smv of people that could afford decent gym equipment?Yeah but only for a while. Once there’s no more quarantine, it will quickly go back to where it was originally | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 02:46 PM |
| -1 | Enjoying cutting, afraid of bulkingWhy is he a liar/fraud? | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Enjoying cutting, afraid of bulkingWhat weight and bf % is ideal for you? Just wondering since I’m also 5’9” and 165 at the moment (been training 6x a week for 6 weeks so far and currently bulking) | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 02:44 PM |
| 3 | Enjoying cutting, afraid of bulkingBeing big (not fat) is better than being skinny. Personally, I prefer being big but not too big. There’s no point being ripped, with chiselled 6 pack abs if your arms look skinny as shit. Currently 5’9”, 165lbs | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 01:34 PM |
| -4 | Is it worth it to learn the Mystery Method?NO We are NOT PUA | /r/askTRP | 27/03/20 10:49 AM |
| 1 | Please help me find this **not trolling**Fuck yes i found it. Here you go: https://www.gettyimages.com.au/detail/news-photo/the-harem-by-thomas-rowlandson-news-photo/534186836 | /r/askTRP | 08/03/20 03:56 AM |
| 3 | Please help me find this **not trolling**LOL , looking for the specific painting | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 08:22 PM |
| 1 | How do I lower my SMV?When Did I Ask | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:56 PM |
| 0 | Could you "fix" a girl's fragile ego with psychadelics? (LSD, Shrooms, DMT)What the fuck | /r/askTRP | 07/03/20 07:41 PM |
| 1 | What I learned from 2 years at the gymGreat lessons. I’m almost 18 I’ve only started going to the gym seriously for less than a month now (3rd week). 6 days a week. Push pull legs. Never missed a day. Funny thing is gym doesn’t really feel like work. It’s literally made every area of my life better. Physically, mentally, socially. As of now I can only bench 0.8x my body weight. 5 reps. But with consistency, I know I can work my way up to amazing improvements. Everyone should go the gym. The benefits are incredible and all areas your… | /r/TheRedPill | 06/03/20 11:05 AM |
| 1 | Will approach anxiety always be there?Thanks, I’ve heard a lot about it before. Might just have to start doing a lot exposure therapy on myself. | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Will approach anxiety always be there?Is this coming from your personal experience? | /r/askTRP | 04/03/20 10:13 PM |
| 7 | How to ask this girl out when meeting up is kinda complicated in the first placeThat sounds like a headache. And you sound like you have a scarcity mindset. She may be good looking, attractive, vibed with you well or whatever. But I guarantee you there’s other girls at YOUR uni and in YOUR city - that are equally as good as her or even better than her. | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 05:24 PM |
| 7 | How to get blackpill and incel shit out of my head?You are not the most physically attractive guy in the world. There will always be a better looking guy than you. At the same time, there’s always going to be someone uglier than you. That’s just the truth. Now what the fuck are you gonna do about it? You can’t change your height. It is what it is. Complain all you want but it won’t make you any taller. Accept what you can’t control, and change/improve what you can. The black pill mentality is a defeatist mentality. They bitch all day about what … | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Long distance gf won't move back unless I propose. Next?Wtf next | /r/askTRP | 03/03/20 04:35 PM |
| 2 | Is it common for guys who lift regularly to still have relatively underdeveloped hamstrings?I don’t know if it’s common, but my hamstrings are also pretty weak | /r/askTRP | 29/02/20 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How TINDER (and TRP) fixed my Approach anxiety, made me more social and basically improved my lifeHow old are you out of curiosity? I’m 18 and will be starting university soon as a first year. I’m interested in using Tinder to reap some of the benefits you did - as I do experience quiet a few of the same problems. I’m not a 10, but I’m pretty good looking and I’ll use that to my advantage. Fuck the other guys hating, they’re probably ugly and fat or some shit, and just hating on your post because they feel shit about themselves. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/20 04:36 PM |
| 10 | Two bitches pestering me in schoolFuck those bitches, always put yourself first and never bend over backwards to please others. You did the right thing. As long as you didn’t get all whiny and bitchy about it, and instead just remained calm and grounded, then yes you held frame. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/20 12:52 PM |
| 4 | Creatine use?Creatine is found in meat, but in very very very small amounts. Not enough. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/20 04:40 AM |
| 8 | Creatine use?Creatine Monohydrate (3 to 5 grams a day) + Whey Protein | /r/askTRP | 28/02/20 04:38 AM |
| 3 | A Week Of Rejection - COMPLETEFucking awesome! Keep on taking action man. Also, try to be outcome-independent. Don’t worry about the result, just do what you need to do. Some of the girls might have eye-rolled because you came from a place of neediness/weakness. And they can sense it. But when you talk to them without needing anything or expecting a certain outcome, it is attractive and confident. | /r/seduction | 23/02/20 02:53 PM |
| 3 | Is A&A really that effective?Yes it is. HOW you say it matters a lot too. Not just WHAT you say. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 11:17 AM |
| 1 | I have a date in about an hour. Here are my advices i gave myself :)My god, I used to be in your shoes and think of shit like this all the time. Eg. must remember and do X,Y,Z. A shit load of theories and tactics! But it’s doing you more harm then good. And you’re most likely not going to come off as authentic. It’s all overthinking. Making you become a robot. But I hope you do well. Let us know how it goes. | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Eating at a caloric surplus instead of deficit• I have been doing weights (dumbbell and barbell) and pushups at home for around 2 years. But wasn’t intensive or anything (on and off). Ive recently started doing Reddit’s famous PPL program. (fitness subreddit) • I used several TDEE calculators to get an estimated calorie maintenance level of ~2300 calories per day. Wait holy fuck. I just did it again and got ~2500. Think I was on a 600 calorie deficit instead of 400 oops. But I did lose exactly 0.5kg in a week which corresponds to a calorie … | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 07:33 PM |
| 7 | Is approaching in gyms really frowned upon?Since when do you eat at the gym? | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 07:19 PM |
| 1 | Eating at a caloric surplus instead of deficit6 years? Holy fuck! I’ve seen transformations of 18 year olds going from skinny to swole as fuck in 3 years. (Eg. JustMerk on YouTube). And he’s fucking hugeee! Appreciate the advice bro. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Eating at a caloric surplus instead of deficitYep. So basically, in the previous year etc. I would often be eating at a caloric deficit. But I never trained properly or even hit the gym. I would do pushups, dumbbell/barbell curls at home sometimes here and there, but never had a plan. This year, I bought a gym membership and started hitting the gym 5/6 times a week - all resistance training. At first, I did this alongside eating a caloric deficit, but now that I think about it - if I want to build mass and muscle, I should be eating on a ca… | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Eating at a caloric surplus instead of deficitJust look lean and fit. But yes you are right. I realized that being lean and having abs - with chicken arms - is pointless. Even though I have noticeably big biceps from two years of dumbbell/barbell curls and pushups purely at home, my triceps need a lot of work and my arms as a whole just aren’t big. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Eating at a caloric surplus instead of deficitYep, well, even now I’m eating sufficient protein. About 1 gram of protein per lb of body weight. Minimum. But I’ve been eating on a caloric deficit, and now I want to switch it to a caloric surplus - so I can build more muscle mass faster. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Advice on a follow-up text?You’re not on her mind. If you’re the one chasing, you’ve already lost. | /r/seduction | 19/02/20 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Eating at a caloric surplus instead of deficitWhat? | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Eating at a caloric surplus instead of deficitYeah I want to focus on building more (muscle) mass overall. At first I was too concerned and obsessed with being lean. But I realized there’s really no point looking lean if your arms are skinny as shit. Even if I was lean and had 6 pack abs, I wouldn’t look as good in a shirt due to underdeveloped arms and underdeveloped muscles in general. So yeah, let’s focus on building the muscle and the mass first! Calorie surplus + Frequent Resistant Training it seems. | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 06:40 PM |
| 2 | Eating at a caloric surplus instead of deficitHow is your physique looking after 3 years of serious training? And what is your ideal physique? | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Eating at a caloric surplus instead of deficitYou were eating at a caloric deficit until November 2019, meaning you were roughly less than 125lbs? And then you gained approximately 30lbs in less than 3 months to be 154.6lbs now? What is your body fat %? | /r/askTRP | 19/02/20 06:31 PM |
| 1 | Can I gain muscle while losing fat at the same time?Thanks for the detailed insight! How long has your recomp been so far? | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Can I gain muscle while losing fat at the same time?Why do you avoid carbs? Is it bad? I personally don’t mind how much carbs I eat, as long as I have exceeded my protein intake for the day and as long as i am still in a caloric deficit for that day. I’m trying to take this slowly, so I have a small caloric deficit - because I don’t want to risk losing muscle mass, rather maintain/gain muscle mass, whilst still losing body fat at the same time. I think this is called recomp | /r/askTRP | 18/02/20 02:43 PM |
| 0 | Ignored Valentines DayWhat can you do? You can’t change the past. You wanna shower her with expensive gifts and shit to earn back her validation/approval? When you already know that she knows what you’re doing is out of guilt, not based purely on your own initiative. Just apologise to her if she’s still bitching and complaining, don’t act needy and carry on as usual. Maybe take her out for dinner or something. And don’t be a dickhead next time. If you expect to be in an LTR, this is the kind of shit that you need to … | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 05:39 PM |
| 2 | Ignored Valentines DayHonestly if it was my LTR, I would’ve gotten her something even if it was small, as a little gesture. | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 05:25 PM |
| 0 | Ignored Valentines DayDid she get you something? | /r/askTRP | 14/02/20 05:18 PM |
| 8 | What can I start doing to become high value? (18 y.o.)Thanks for the reminder, it’s not so much me being interested in LTRs - rather it’s more about finding better quality girls as opposed to dating girls I’ve met at clubs who are the sluttiest of the sluts. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 05:09 PM |
| 7 | What can I start doing to become high value? (18 y.o.)I feel like there are a lot of opportunities in college that you only have when you’re in college. And I really want to capitalize on them. E.g. much easier to build social status/social proof, hook up etc. But with that being said, thanks for bringing up long-term visions and goals. Never really thought about that and just thought about short-term goals, instant gratification etc. Gonna do everything I can to create the best life for me in 5 or 10 years time. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 04:54 PM |
| 3 | What can I start doing to become high value? (18 y.o.)Great list of recommendations, thanks! What do you think of learning boxing? Compared to BJJ/MMA? Which one be better for me for street fights or against multiple attackers? Also, why yoga? I’ve seen a lot of people recommend it, and pardon me for my lack of knowledge, but I see it being kind of feminine (I usually just see women doing yoga and hardly men) | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 04:49 PM |
| 1 | What can I start doing to become high value? (18 y.o.)Communication skills - i'm always definitely trying to improve that. Will also be studying a business/economics degree in university, so maybe some business-related books might help. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 12:59 PM |
| 7 | What can I start doing to become high value? (18 y.o.)I've always felt like learning hip-hop dancing. Like Chris Brown - fucking incredible dancer. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 12:58 PM |
| 22 | What can I start doing to become high value? (18 y.o.)I don't think anyone is bitching about having sex with club sluts, the point is that they don't make good LTRs. Like the other guy said - they're basically just good for P&D. Yeah I truly realised that there is no excuse not to work on building the best physique you can. Tremendous improvements in your physicality as well as your mentality. Charisma is something i'm really trying to develop and improve (i.e. social confidence in general) as that all helps with building higher social status. I al… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 12:57 PM |
| 15 | What can I start doing to become high value? (18 y.o.)Yeah bought a one-year gym membership and I’m already going, though I’m planning to bump it up to 6 days a week soon (PPLPPLR) And I’ve been playing the guitar for almost 6 years now. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 12:20 PM |
| 5 | Anyone here has experiences with girls wearing braces?Lol you’ll be fine. Got head from a virgin who had braces and used her teeth.. due to it being her first blowjob (no experience etc) Got much better over time though. No cuts, no nothing, ever. Even she didn’t complain or think about it. | /r/askTRP | 06/02/20 11:11 AM |
| 5 | Does anyone here have notes of roosh's book game?Honestly just read through the whole book - and do it thoroughly. Then as you read, take notes yourself. That’s the best way to absorb knowledge from books and retain it in your memory. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 07:32 PM |
| 5 | I stopped liftingHow you do one thing is how you do everything. You lost the self-discipline to keep on lifting, and so that lack of self-discipline manifested itself in all other areas of your life. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 07:29 PM |
| -1 | Cleanse my mind and change my mindTheoretically speaking, what I described above would be true right? In all honesty. It is just an example and not a general/definitive outlook on the situation. If you just picked two individuals exactly like that and compared them. This is an example of where the truth in the black pill lies. Call it an ask for a “validation”, but I’m equally welcoming anyone to try and disprove my statement. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 07:04 PM |
| 0 | Chatting with staff at a restaurantCome on bro, you know the answer. Yes of course you should have talked to them. What are you waiting for? The perfect opportunity? The right moment? Choosing signals? Well you can wait, but you’ll be waiting until you die with that mindset. Instead, create opportunities yourself. Go after what you want. Take risks. Or else you’ll never ever get the things you want. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/20 06:59 PM |
| 4 | I'm only attracted to party girlsFuck other girls | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 08:06 PM |
| 24 | Why are the most attractive women almost always single?They have egos higher than the tallest skyscraper in the world. They’re stuck up about themselves and literally have endless options to choose from. They CRAVE validation, even when they’re already getting a handful of it from all the beta males on campus and social media. But again this is basically every girl. Except the prettier ones feel more privileged. The right alpha will come along and eventually give them a good dicking. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 08:03 PM |
| 1 | I just want to learn from this.Read the “Book Of Pook” brother. One the best books I’ve ever read. Promise it will help you. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 07:57 PM |
| 6 | How could she just cut me off like that?Because she found a nigga with a dick three times your size. And one who doesn’t have a scarcity mindset. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 07:53 PM |
| 6 | I just want to learn from this.Push-pull. Tease the bitch. Every fucking guy literally filters himself and has a safe and boring conversation with the girl they like. That is pedestalizing 101. Never EVER be boring. Being boring is one of the biggest sins in game. You want to be interesting. Be different. The way you do that is by triggering her emotions. All types - anger, happiness, sadness, laughter. So remember. Push-pull. Tease. And hold frame. And don’t catch oneitis. BE PLAYFUL. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 07:50 PM |
| 20 | Does the playful, cheeky alpha win over the stoic, strong alpha?Younger women - cheeky, playful alpha Older women - stoic, strong alpha I’ll explain why. As you probably already know, women are emotion-driven creatures. They like to experience “emotional highs”. While both types of alphas can trigger these emotional highs, the playful/cheeky one can elicit these emotions to a more significant degree than the other. This specifically applies for younger women e.g in college. Because in college everyone wants to have fun. Everyone likes fun. Fun is contagious.… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 07:29 PM |
| -1 | I thought woman prefer muscle.It is an influence. Tattoo = bad boy —> risk taking, masculine, protector etc. If the tattoo was on any of the top row, I guarantee you the results would have been more skewed. But fuck what women say they want. Do what you like and she will follow along. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 06:58 PM |
| 4 | I thought woman prefer muscle.Regardless, D was the only body that had a tattoo and that affected their choice in some way or another. Bottom line is you don’t need to be ripped as fuck with 6 pack abs all year long. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/20 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on Natural Lifestyles?At the crux, women are attracted to masculinity. The price of these courses will NEVER EVER be justified. Everything you need to know is out there - and for free. You can get what you what, you just have to take action. The problem is that everyone - specifically men have been socially conditioned since birth to adopt a range of beliefs that in the future sabotage their dating lives. What you need to do as a man - is unplug yourself from a lot of the things you’ve picked up as you grew up and in… | /r/seduction | 25/01/20 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching in collegeStatus is most important. Status Looks Game Money You don’t have to be an orbiter. Just get to know them, but don’t let yourself get friend zoned. Don’t show neediness and you won’t be an orbiter. Once they see you with tons of other girls, they will chase you. The idea is to talk to everyone (even girls you don’t find attractive because they could have hot friends), know as many girls as possible. The girls you LIKE, you can game them. But the idea is that you already have high perceived value … | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 04:52 AM |
| 3 | Cold approaching in collegeImo don’t cold approach like doing pick up or something. Cold approach to make friends. Build a social circle. Social circle game. Social status = preselection = abundance of options But you can cold approach outside campus basically anywhere wherever there’s girls | /r/askTRP | 24/01/20 01:16 AM |
| 3 | Slipped up on a girl's name?Hell no do not call her and apologise. The next time you see her just act normal. On the other hand, if she’s all cranky and passive aggressive about it still, then you could apologise. But not in a beta, approval-seeking way. Just hold frame, and be playful and light-hearted. Make her feel good emotions and brush it off as if it were nothing | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 07:32 PM |
| 5 | How fast do you escalateWhenever it feels right, which comes with experience You have to embrace your masculinity and just take the risk and go for it. Only you’ll know when it’s the right time This is why the pua/pickup community is so toxic. It teaches you to become a robot, being too theory-based and overthinking every step of the way on what you should do. This means you’re not being natural and it will show through your body language, and she will see it | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 07:28 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many women confuse their nerves with an anxiety disorder?Validation | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 07:23 PM |
| 10 | Slipped up on a girl's name?Is this even a question? Of course you can recover from it. You will. It’s such a tiny and minor incident. But beware, the next time you let this happen, the world will end and humankind will cease to exist. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/20 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Social AnxietyLike any skill, yes. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 04:42 PM |
| 2 | It will awesome if we can evaluate Wong Fu Production Short, MV, & Series from the lens of Red Pill perspectiveBlue pill videos | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 09:36 AM |
| 4 | Social AnxietyTake from the video what you will, but whether you get better socially or not is entirely in your hands. And up to YOU only. You can get better at anything if you just keep practicing doing it. What do you have to lose? You already feel shitty enough like this. What are you afraid of? Is it failure? Awkwardness? Rejection? Well if it’s any of those, then you either are willing to go through them and get better or hide from them and continue to suffer. You will fail. The world will feel like it’s… | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 08:06 AM |
| 1 | If you could go back to college and start fresh again, what would you do differently?Do you think if you weren’t in an LTR, it would have been easy for you to get tons of pussy? | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Social AnxietyI tell you what will help. Taking action. You can read all you want, watch all the videos you want, but if you don’t go and put yourself out there, your social anxiety won’t get any better. I promise you. Get out of your comfort zone. Practice talking to people. Get as social as you can. Go the gym and get in the best shape of your life as that’s one thing that I guarantee will boost your confidence and make everything easier. | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 07:55 AM |
| 2 | If you could go back to college and start fresh again, what would you do differently?Were you red-pill aware back in your college days? | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 07:51 AM |
| 0 | If you could go back to college and start fresh again, what would you do differently?Well, I see your point and understand why college would be a bad idea. However, in my perspective - apart from high school, college is the last time and last place you will get a chance to make friends for life. Good friends. Yes after college you can make friends at the workplace, or join any clubs in your city or some shit, but the amount of people at college is fucking crazy (abundance there). I know to be on your purpose, your mission is what you should prioritises. However, I don’t want to … | /r/askTRP | 15/01/20 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Post College Pick UpHey man, I’m about to enter college in a month Now that you’ve finished, do you have any tips for me? Any advice - maybe regrets or things you wish you did? E.g. talk to more girls, party more etc. ~ all the best for you in the future man | /r/seduction | 13/01/20 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Should I masturbate?Do other things. Find other hobbies to occupy your time. And never stop lifting. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 04:54 PM |
| 3 | Lmao how to deal with being shot downGood job. Don’t sweat it. You learn from all your past experiences, awkward moments, failures and shit. Trust me, learn to embrace these sorts of things and you will do yourself a massive favour in the long-term and build up a lot of confidence over time. | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 04:53 PM |
| 0 | Should I masturbate?NoFap - builds your mental strength, willpower and discipline. Also when people masturbate they watch porn and porn absolutely messes up your brain. | /r/askTRP | 07/01/20 04:48 PM |
| 77 | How to smoothly shift to conversation after a DM openerYou type too much bro. Look at her one line response. Also I never use emojis unless she uses it first (wink emoji shows neediness and desire on your part even though it is subtle). P.S. typing too much is bad because you reveal too much at once (neediness). You wanna be mysterious and take it slowly. You have 3 sentences already when you could just use one sentence that is witty and go from there. | /r/seduction | 07/01/20 04:40 PM |
| 2 | I hate social media but it helps attract women. Help?Use social media as an additional tool to get more women. Yes it’s full of attention whores and girls who crave validation and shit, but it’s out of your control so who cares? Why not use it to reap all the benefits it offers. Especially to guys who are decent or above average looking, it can be really useful. Even if you aren’t that attentive, Instagram can give you more social proof. I myself am 18, which is basically ideal because a lot of hoes are using social media, Instagram - basically ev… | /r/seduction | 06/01/20 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Does jacking off reduce your confidence?What keeps you from watching porn? Is it a strong belief that it is bad for you/damaging? i.e. you can masturbate but you cannot watch porn? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Does jacking off reduce your confidence?Is it scientifically proven that not masturbating leads to increased testosterone? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Does jacking off reduce your confidence?What is your personal take/view on masturbation? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Creating an instagram....Yes basically works the same way. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Creating an instagram....Yeah that counts. Also when you have a lot of followers and you post interesting shit on your story, girls will see that you which help raises your value in their eyes. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Creating an instagram....Follow people you know and hope they follow you back (if you’re starting off). Unspoken rule: • More “followers” than “following” = higher social proof • More “following” than “followers” = lower social proof Because Instagram is all about social proof. You want to have an interesting profile, good pictures etc. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 06:04 PM |
| 7 | Creating an instagram....Tough job. You’re going to need social proof. You’re starting with 0 followers. And posting pictures from a while ago is mehhh.. not ideal. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/19 05:02 PM |
| 19 | Is this nervous thing before meeting up with new girls something I am just going to have to accept?Yes, it will get better over time the more “new” dates you go on. Keep lifting, improving yourself etc. to build real confidence in yourself and increase your self-esteem / self-image. This will help get rid of that nervousness (seems like you are putting her on a pedestal). | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 06:10 PM |
| 16 | Older guys, what was dating like pre-social media era?Yes I imagine it to be true. There wasn’t all of this feminism and me-too movement bullshit back then. Women were way more feminine and men masculine. In an interview in the late 1900s, women said that they didn’t believe in women’s rights and gender inequality or some shit. Today you bet they won’t speak the same words - this interview was posted on the main sub recently. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Need looksmaxing advice / any adviceYou don’t even look like you have a baby face. Your facial hair just looks untidy and off-putting. Hit the gym and get in shape. It will help improve your facial structure (e.g. jawline) Also, you can also get your eyebrows threaded. I don’t give a fuck, it’s not feminine. If you had some bushy as fuck brows that were growing all over the place, making it tidy would improve your looks without a doubt. Your eyebrows are okay, and you can leave them as they are but for me I just tidy them up and t… | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Need looksmaxing advice / any adviceYou look like a pedo (no offense). Shave off all your facial hair. Maybe get a haircut. And most importantly, hit the gym, eat healthy and make sure you’re not a fat fuck. | /r/seduction | 18/12/19 06:17 PM |
| 3 | Tinder Ghosting Pattern, Any Advice?It’s a numbers game, so play the numbers game. Abundance mentality. How many girls have you had do this to you? If it’s not a lot, get out of your scarcity mindset and just keep trying. Also make sure you look the best you can, have an interesting profile, have good text game (no cheesy lines, compliments or emojis). Having good text game includes not texting back instantly and not being needy. Make sure you have all these checked off at least. | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | danWho is this guy, I’ve never heard of him. | /r/seduction | 17/12/19 06:36 PM |
| 22 | Does Red Pill teach that it's GOOD to be beta in the workplace? For example, I work for an employer and he is the alpha. If I applied Red Pill at work, I'd be canned.Being alpha is situational as well. In the workplace, your boss is the alpha. Want to out-alpha the boss? Say goodbye to your job. | /r/askTRP | 17/12/19 06:30 PM |
| 16 | Have the courage to be disliked.There is actually a book called “The courage to be disliked” which I read almost a year ago. It was a fundamental mindshift and definitely helps to think in this way. Good post. | /r/seduction | 13/12/19 11:44 PM |
| 1 | I'm thinking of going on an "IDGAF" cleanse for a week where I give absolutely ZERO fucks about ANYONE'S opinions, thoughts, or views of me and to just act on instinct without any fear of consequences. Any tips? I'm releasing the shackles.Impossible. I don’t believe you can just suddenly go full IDGAF overnight. (Just like how you can’t suddenly get in state whenever you want) It is a gradual process. But good look and report back to us. | /r/seduction | 12/12/19 06:32 PM |
| 2 | Giving away Based Zeus God Approach course[email protected] Thanks so much man appreciate it 🙏🙏🙏 | /r/seduction | 11/12/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Do looks matter???????Money last or you’re dealing with gold-diggers. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 06:41 PM |
| 7 | How much do you guys drink ?No drinks mate. Sober soldier. | /r/askTRP | 01/12/19 06:07 PM |
| 2 | What to comment on girl’s im dating ig post?Whatever you do, no corny compliments. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 06:02 PM |
| 5 | How to ask someone you had a one night stand with if they'd be open to hooking up again?Yes bring it up directly. He asked you out in the first place, so I see a very low probability of him declining. He might have just felt ashamed for the early hookup (and ashamed that you might see him in a bad light because of it) so he backed off for a bit. If he says no, then it’s no. You can tell if he’s interested just by his vibe and body language to you on the night of your Christmas party anyways, so you can use that as an indicator of his interest towards you. | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 05:50 PM |
| 7 | Do looks matter???????YES LOOKS MATTER. From most to least attractive: Status Looks Game Money | /r/seduction | 01/12/19 05:32 PM |
| 1 | What is a list of what women find most attractive?Oath | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Open relationships: Cucked or Alpha?AMS preaches open relationships but I am not too sure myself. If you spin plates, would it be better to let girls know you are in an open relationship? Or do you just spin plates whilst also being in a relationship - therefore without them knowing? (Basically cheating) | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | I’m just a loser!You sound like a typical nice guy. Nice guys finish last. Period. | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | I can’t take actionAnything is possible. Anything can be achieved. It’s just these stupid mental barriers and hurdles. The brain likes to resort to comfort and doing easy shit. I guess it’s just a matter of willpower and forcing your brain to rewire itself. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | I can’t take actionThank you man. I do consider myself lucky to be red-pill aware at this age. And I realize the potential I have, and the person I can become. And it’s just that every time I’m doing something unproductive or bad e.g. playing games or eating dirty junk food, I feel a lot of guilt because it’s stopping me from reaching my potential that I dream of. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | I can’t take actionI’m a big bitch. Thanks for your words. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | I can’t take actionDamn thats so true. So are you claiming that video gaming has no benefits? I mean sure it relieves stress and all, but in the big picture it is nothing but a time-sink correct? Also, they are dangerous in that they can become extremely addictive. I’ve seen the destruction it has caused on my brother who just plays games all day at home and he is in his early 20s. Can’t stop him but wish he knew better - eventually he’ll figure out but by then he’ll only have more regrets. Anyways yeah if video g… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 08:29 PM |
| 1 | I can’t take actionThe thing is I’m on holidays for 3 months (going on a one-month vacation in less than 2 weeks) after recently graduating high school and there is nothing to do. When I was at school, I hardly if ever touched games. Because I was so occupied with school. I need to find something to occupy my time now like that instead of games. Yet the comfort and dopamine from just playing league of legends is very addictive. I feel like once I get into university next year, then I will not play games anymore ag… | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | I can’t take actionI’m always on my laptop browsing and shit bro, so it’s really tempting. Especially when I’ve had a long day or something or just want to chill. The only game I play is league of legends. That’s all. But I play it too much. I guess I have to find something to fill in the time when I stop playing. I know the urges will come back but I needa resist it. I need to actually find something that occupies a lot of my time. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 08:11 PM |
| 1 | I can’t take actionI get what you mean. And yeah it’s fantasising. But it also motivates me a bit to want to do stuff to achieve my goals/my ideal future self etc. I think the motivation to kick it off is good, but don’t you reckon discipline is the most important ingredient to achieve a lot of success? Like you can have motivation but without discipline and constant action it is just a failure. And I think I need to have this discipline in me. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 07:34 PM |
| 1 | I can’t take actionLol I wish I could just do that. But it’s a $2000 laptop my dad bought. It’s not a gaming laptop but a work/office one. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 07:31 PM |
| 5 | I can’t take actionThank you man. And yes I am so grateful to have found TRP at such a young age. I have all the tools and knowledge at hand, but I don’t want to throw it to waste or fuck it up by just mentally masturbating or not taking action. I will check out that post, thank you once again. I will overcome these shitty habits.. eventually. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Boys don’t take a deep breath, just do it.Direct texting is a big NO-NO in my books. The only way I suggest you do it online is via Instagram (sliding in DMs by replying to her story), provided you have a good-looking profile and good social proof online etc. Otherwise, approach her in real life man. If you have to wait for next week, let it be. Don’t sweat it. | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 06:39 PM |
| 4 | Boys don’t take a deep breath, just do it.Damn bro, remember rejection is better than regret. I approached a girl at my school earlier this year. I saw her sitting in the library by herself and I never talked to her ever before. I said fuck it and started to walk towards her. But then the nervousness got to me and I turned back. This happened another two times. Then on the 4th time I just truly said fuck it and approached her and sat down next to her. Was the outcome successful: Yes I gained a valuable lesson from this. And it is that n… | /r/seduction | 28/11/19 06:33 PM |
| 2 | I can’t take actionI always get these sudden surges of motivation and I contemplate hard on my life. Then I start to read feel-good bullshit and plan on taking action. Then the next day I just go back to my shitty life, video games and shitty junk-food. Then the cycle repeats. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | I can’t take actionHow can I cure my addiction or video games though? Many times, I’ve had a sudden surge of sadness and motivation and decided I was wasting my life playing video games. So I uninstalled league of legends, but within the next few hours or the next day I just reinstalled it again. It seems too hard to just ditch it completely. Fuck my addiction. Do I need to take baby steps or am I just a bitch? | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 06:20 PM |
| 1 | I can’t take actionFunny thing is I know what I need to do. It’s the matter of getting myself to do them. Such as eating a caloric deficit to lose weight. Mentally I always seem to lose. The mental hurdles I need to overcome. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | I can’t take actionHow long you been lifting? | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 06:17 PM |
| 3 | I can’t take actionDamn you right. Even if it was 3 days. That’s 3 days where I could smash out a shit ton of things. I think I rely too much on motivation and not discipline. It is hard. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 06:16 PM |
| 2 | I can’t take actionI asked him recently and he said he will get a one-year membership for me the day before we leave for our one-month vacation (to maximise length of my gym membership). Biggest problem for me is sticking to a caloric deficit diet. And also I have been to the gym once before and know close to nothing. I don’t think I can hire a personal trainer. What should I do instead? Watch YouTube vids and research on google? | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 06:14 PM |
| 1 | College Game (outside the USA)That is true. I will have to keep in mind that everyone is the same boat as me. That will make socialising and putting myself out there a lot easier. | /r/askTRP | 28/11/19 03:00 PM |
| 1 | College Game (outside the USA)thanks - any tips for being alpha of the group? sometimes there are aggressive guys, do you just have to be more dominant than them? (eg if they get loud and assertive at you, just hold frame and be even more assertive back?) or else they will not respect you and the group loses respect as well | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 06:51 PM |
| 1 | College Game (outside the USA)What’s the purpose behind this? And why do you think it works? PS. I totally agree with shit-testing everyone. You just found the missing piece to my puzzle. Bless you. I just want to see your reasoning behind why you think we should do it. | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | College Game (outside the USA)What do u mean shit test everyone? | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 05:56 PM |
| 2 | What to do when us guys feel down?Lift your pains away | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | College Game (outside the USA)Hm you got any tips on achieving this? I’d imagine you’d have to be pretty assertive by default and extroverted (which is not quite yet fully incorporated in my personality BUT I imagine I could pull it off). This was something I didn’t think of much. Instead, one of my goals was to become as SOCIAL as possible and talk to everyone. This way everyone will know me and my social status will be pretty high up there. And girls dig status more than almost anything in college, of course taking into ac… | /r/askTRP | 27/11/19 05:08 PM |
| 10 | Expert seducers i have a question for you!NEVER TAKE DATING ADVICE FROM WOMEN. Listen dude. Trust me on this. Do not self-sabotage. Women think differently to men. Their words do not match their actions. If you’re looking for somewhere to start, I highly recommend you read the book “The Manual” by W Anton. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 23/11/19 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Any good books for controlling ego?Not necessarily, but could still get some value out of it | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 04:52 AM |
| 4 | Any good books for controlling ego?Ego is the enemy - Ryan Holiday | /r/askTRP | 23/11/19 04:25 AM |
| 3 | For those who do boxing, how did it change you?What was his advice? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Would you all say it’s a bad idea to keep persuing? Tried seeding a couple date ideas, but finally went straight to the point. A little hard to match the text ratio but she usually replies almost immediatelyNot interested. Move on. | /r/seduction | 14/11/19 06:13 PM |
| 3 | Need advice on joining social groupsRead Conquer Your Campus (search google for the pdf) | /r/askTRP | 14/11/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | I am good looking, muscular, take care of me yet the girls of the other department do like they don’t see me when I walk.Maybe they think you’re a dickhead? Or You’re ugly Or They’re nervous (probably unlikely) | /r/askTRP | 13/11/19 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Regarding the use of Exclamation Points!What? This is getting a bit ridiculous. There are no rules set in stone. Stop overthinking. Just be playful, don’t be needy, use texting for logistics and to set up dates etc. | /r/seduction | 08/11/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | College Social Circle GameWhat about if you knew all the “game” and “pua” stuff as well? Eg. holding frame, teasing, kino, spinning plates etc. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | College Social Circle GameLayman’s terms? Basically I help represent the fraternity? | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 04:08 PM |
| 1 | College Social Circle GameAny tips on finding that solid friend group? I know that just “being yourself” is so important. In other words, being “authentic”. I’m just about to finish high school. As I look back at the past few years, I’ve seen how fake I was. I just wasn’t being myself. You know how real friends always tease each other and shit? Like the point you made where you said you can call up your friend and say “hey bitch, blah blah” I didn’t have that connection with a lot of people. I wasn’t “polarizing”. I inhi… | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 04:05 PM |
| 1 | College Social Circle GameCan you elaborate more on this? Sounds like really great advice. | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | College Social Circle GameWere you red-pilled back in college? If you weren’t, how do you think it may have gave you a better experience in terms of social circles, girls etc.? | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 03:57 PM |
| 1 | College Social Circle GameWhat do you mean rush a fraternity? Like join one immediately? In regards to “cold approaching” on campus, do you mean cold approaching to meet new people and increase your social circle? Or cold approaching to get numbers etc? (like you would on the streets) | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 03:54 PM |
| 1 | College Social Circle GameIsn’t cold approaching on campus a bad idea? As opposed to cold approaching on the streets where you will never see the girl again, in college you will quickly earn yourself a bad reputation as a creep. Alot of the PUA advice, even though good, is not applicable to college imo. I think it’s about meeting as many people as possible, maxing our your social value/status and the girls will come naturally. | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 03:47 PM |
| 7 | Girls getting nervousYou’re good looking And/Or You have really high social value (college) | /r/askTRP | 07/11/19 03:39 PM |
| 31 | Saw the texts my friend gets opened my eyesRule #4: not be not attractive | /r/seduction | 29/10/19 08:15 AM |
| 4 | Made plans with a 7 and now I don't feel like it anymore. Male flakes are real?Do you not find her attractive enough or something? Sounds like your ego is getting in the way and you want to lose your virginity to a 9 or 10 instead of a 7. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on going down on a woman?Oh shit never saw it as “submissive” but I see what you mean by not rewarding her for nothing. Alright. Cool, insightful read - thanks! Will still eat pussy but now I know not to give it to her for free. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 04:04 PM |
| 5 | How to get respect from fellow men?Agreed. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching in front of friends?🙌🙌🙌 Will have this is mind next time. Thank you brother. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching in front of friends?I feel like it’s more nuanced compared to just cold approaching on the streets. Logistics etc. For example, if you cold approached on the streets, the interaction is only a few minutes and you won’t see each other again after. But in this situation, because it’s in the library, we will still both be there. And I have my friends with me. Wouldn’t that be awkward? This is what I mean when I say this situation is more nuanced/complicated. | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Why do I want a girlfriend when MORE SO horny?Go bust a nut —> post-nut clarity —> problem solved | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 02:52 PM |
| 5 | How to be a playful guy?So so true, when you hold back from expressing yourself and having fun, it’s usually because you care too much what they think. More specifically you’re walking on eggshells, trying not to do anything that might offend them or make them disapprove of you/your behaviours. Just gotta be like “I don’t give a fuck if they like me or not” aka outcome independence as stated by the comment above me | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 12:56 PM |
| 4 | Thoughts on going down on a woman?Hahahahaha alright alright, made this a big deal for no reason. Still don’t know why AMS is still so against it (even kissing) | /r/askTRP | 25/10/19 12:28 PM |
| 1 | How to stop being awkward?It’s mainly about changing the internal right? Pook: “As you think, you shall become” What else can I do apart from just reading and lifting? | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 04:28 PM |
| 6 | Instagram tacticsHere’s my two cents. I don’t give a fuck what people say, Instagram can definitely help get you more girls/plates. Have a profile that looks good. If you’re ugly, sadly it will probably fuck your Instagram game (to an extent). Instagram is superficial as it is, and just mainly about looks. Ideally try to have photos and highlights of you doing cool shit, and very importantly show off your social status by photos with different people, girls etc. Never slide in the DMs out of nowhere. Always repl… | /r/askTRP | 17/10/19 11:24 AM |
| 3 | Should I contact plate againPlates break. Don’t forget - ABUNDANCE MENTALITY. Now go find other bitches to plate. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 11:16 AM |
| 3 | Could DeepFake technology enable fake social proof like never beforeHigh value can only be faked for so long. Eventually the truth will shine through. There are no shortcuts. It’s best to authentically create and live that life. | /r/askTRP | 11/10/19 11:07 AM |
| 3 | Q: How to approach direct and stack without being needy?Abundance mindset - YOU are the prize not her. You are inviting her into your life and providing her value, not trying to seek her approval or win her over. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Ok i got the whole seduction/dating thing down. My only issue is approachingLook man, the truth is you will fail, you will mess up, you will make mistakes. But that’s not a bad thing. In fact it’s actually a really good thing, because you learn from them. That’s the only way you can improve. You can sit here all day learning all the theories in the world until you feel you are ready. But if you do that you will probably never approach at all, because the truth is you will never be 100% ready or rejection-proof. You just have to go straight in and embrace the discomfort,… | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 04:56 PM |
| 5 | Asked girl out.How can you repay me? I want you to remember the advice I gave you, keep increasing your own value and letting me in on a success story once it happens. I wish you good luck. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Im looking for wisdom. Talking with 4 girls right now, but I feel like only one of them matters. I can only think about her right now. Please help me cure this oneitis.Yes, do you know how many girls are out there? More than you can imagine. Can you imagine a crowd of 100 people, what about 10000, 100000, 1 million. 100 million? And you’re telling me out of every girl in this world, she is the best? She’s only your oneitis because you haven’t talked to enough girls yet. Also never settle for less. Go for your standards or higher, not lower. If you’re talking to 4 girls right now, the other 3 clearly are not as good looking or attractive in general to you. So f… | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 04:32 PM |
| 3 | Im looking for wisdom. Talking with 4 girls right now, but I feel like only one of them matters. I can only think about her right now. Please help me cure this oneitis.Plenty of fish in the sea. If you’re only satisfied with one of the four, then what on earth are you doing? Clearly the other 3 aren’t good enough for you, so don’t just settle for them or else your oneitis is just gonna stay. Look for more girls, different girls that you find are at least as equally attractive as your current oneitis. And don’t tell me you can’t, because yes you can. There is no unicorn. Just keep looking. I know how oneitis feels like bro, but if you think she’s special and no… | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 04:23 PM |
| 2 | How can I tell if a girl is interested at the gymHow can you tell if she’s interested? Go up to her and ask for her number. Yes = she’s interested And no... well then there’s your answer | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 04:05 PM |
| 6 | Neil Strauss’ (Style) 7-Point Plan to Attract WomenStep 1: Be attractive. Step 2: Don’t be unattractive. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 04:02 PM |
| 3 | Dating apps absolutely killed my confidence as a manYou just have to expect that these things will happen using dating apps like Tinder. Getting catfished, getting flaked, getting your time wasted etc... expect them all. They can definitely work and help you get lays. The better looking you are more, the easier it will be. In the end, best to just go out in the real world instead of relying on dating apps. You don’t have to deal with all that bullshit, whilst also improving your confidence and game at the same time etc... | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 04:00 PM |
| 8 | Asked girl out.Good job. Now listen up, you’ve conveyed interest. But it’s clear that she wasn’t interested (at least not for now). From here on, DO NOT CHASE HER. LET HER CHASE YOU. Read that again. Work on yourself, do interesting shit, talk to a bunch of other girls. Increase your own value. Because she WILL she it. And she will want to be apart of your life. Don’t chase her because it means she’s already won the game and there’s no fun in that for her. At all. People want what they can’t have. And girls li… | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Uk VS UsWhat? | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Handling bad logisticsToo much effort. Girls are everywhere. There is no shortage. Just play around with all the options you have where you live now, until you can move into the city. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Is it easier for girls to approach guys?False. Girls are terrified of rejection (even more than guys). They are feminine and have fragile egos. Why would they want to risk their egos by potentially getting rejected? Also no, girls do not have an easier time talking to people. Everyone is different. One person may just be more extroverted/social than another. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Uncomfortable making eye contact on public transport?Like if there’s a person sitting directly across me, it feels fuckin awkward just looking straight ahead. So I look to the sides of them or elsewhere. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Uncomfortable making eye contact on public transport?Thanks. I’m curious, have you field-tested this? | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Uncomfortable making eye contact on public transport?Thanks, true nothing will happen if they see me looking at them/they look back at me. Wait I’m getting contradictory vibes. Say I’m sitting directly opposite to a girl on the train in a six-seater. If I look at her, and she catches me staring then I just hold it and don’t break it first? I get why you don’t break eye contact first cause that’s weak af and submissive. But my only concern is that it’s creepy BECAUSE she looked up to see you already looking at her, and you’re still holding that gaz… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Uncomfortable making eye contact on public transport?So if I look at a girl and she catches me looking, I should hold my gaze? Wouldn’t that be creepy? Also I feel sunglasses won’t help that much. Because I know that with sunglasses, obviously people can’t see my eyes so I can look at whatever I want for as long as I want. It’s because people can’t catch me looking at them. But without sunglasses, they can catch me looking at them and I feel that would be weird or awkward or some shit. The way I type this may make this problem sound “creepy” but h… | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 02:03 PM |
| 2 | How do you get over the regret of not approaching a girl?Quick/random question. Did you break eye contact first or did she? Also, learn from this bro. You can’t change what already happened, no matter what. You can’t go back in time. No one can. Next time you see a cute girl or get IOIs or whatever it is, think about the regret you felt last time for not taking the opportunity. If you fear rejection, remember that - Rejection is always, ALWAYS better than regret. | /r/seduction | 10/10/19 11:30 AM |
| 2 | The Art of Story Telling. How important is it?Didn’t finish the book but read about half of it. Some good and practical advice here and there. Was curious to see how Olivia Fox talked and sounded like in real life. Saw a video on YouTube and she did not sound charismatic at all. So I stopped reading the book - not saying the book is bad but somewhat lost a bit of its credibility to me. | /r/askTRP | 10/10/19 11:20 AM |
| 1 | I'm always smiling and I think it's a turn off for women.For me: smiling = nervousness. Now I’m not saying every time you smile you’re nervous. No absolutely not. But it is an indicator of nervousness. When there is tension, stress, anxiety then you tend to try to alleviate those factors by letting out a smile. Don’t get me wrong. Smiling is awesome, contagious and just a sign that you’re having a good time. However, it becomes a problem when smiling becomes an automatic subconscious reaction to alleviate signs of stress, tension etc... AKA nervous sm… | /r/seduction | 06/10/19 02:44 AM |
| 6 | Viewing snap and Instagram stories when you go no contact?Best to ignore her stories imo. When she sees that you viewed her stories, like the other guy said she will feel like she’s in control of you still. Remember that people what want they can’t have. It’s just human nature. Assume that you don’t need her anymore (you’re ready to move on) and develop an abundance mindset. If you don’t you’ll keep thinking about her and perhaps drive yourself crazy. | /r/seduction | 05/10/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | How to game at parties?Solid advice man. Do you have any tips on how to be charismatic/interesting and establish your presence not only in these parties but in a lot of social situations in general as well? I know part of it is just spreading good energy and fun. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 11:48 AM |
| 1 | How to game at parties?SMV isn’t the only factor though? What about game? You could have high SMV and shit game (i.e. not know how talk to girls, pedestalize them, act beta etc) and then what? Imho I think I have at least adequate SMV (genes) + lifting. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 03:27 AM |
| 2 | How to game at parties?Thanks man. Honestly yeah it’s all about taking action and learning from them to improve next time. I’ve had a lot of cringe moments from the past and I’m actually thankful for those moments as it all taught me something valuable. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 03:22 AM |
| 2 | Drugs/substances to enhance studyingI wish it was as easy as just opening my textbook and studying. Yet I feel so unmotivated, bored, stressed, distracted that I just put it off. If there was a drug/pill that could help me with this, i would really be thankful for it. I know the smartest person in my school that had graduated last year with the highest academic scores out of everyone in the entire year level had used “concentration drugs” or something. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 06:56 PM |
| 3 | I can’t get myself to just take actionWhat does it do and is it safe? I’m willing to take substances at this point to boost my concentration and what not. I need it to just power through these remaining 20+ days and ace my exams. | /r/askTRP | 03/10/19 06:43 PM |
| 5 | How to be comfortable expressing sexuality and desireYou must embrace your masculinity. A few months ago, with a girl I was seeing I was tiptoeing around her being afraid to express my sexuality/desire. While I was at her house, I was standing behind her while she was cooking food for me and I wrapped my hands lightly around her waist. I didn’t want to seem “creepy” or all this shit. Then she full on pulled my arms forward and made me grip her tight as fuck. That’s when my outlook completely changed my mindset shifted. After that I realised that t… | /r/askTRP | 29/09/19 11:17 AM |
| 1 | How To Have The Most Confidence You've Ever Had In Your LifeSo basically... meditate, take action and be present in the moment? | /r/seduction | 28/09/19 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Fuck me. How do I get out of this hole.I agree mostly with what TRP has to say. It has helped me so much with girls, confidence, social skills etc. but I completely respect your opinion. I feel like I have to uninstall league and never touch it again for good. It’s an ADDICTION. Yesterday I actually uninstalled league but I reinstalled it again within an hour, and ended up doing nothing the whole day. Also fuck those cunts at my school. I moved school 2 years after everyone made their friendship groups and shit already. I only hang o… | /r/askTRP | 28/09/19 05:33 PM |
| 2 | Let's get YOU a wingman!Melbourne, Australia | /r/seduction | 22/09/19 02:45 AM |
| 4 | Should I stop looking at girls?Just sit there doing nothing but stare? No. Be a man and approach? Yes. | /r/seduction | 20/09/19 02:14 PM |
| 20 | Kickstarting AdulthoodFirst time I’ve ever commented on a post throughout my (almost) 2 years of lurking on this subreddit. As a 17 year old who is heading into college/university next year, I want to say thank you. This is really golden advice. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/09/19 03:26 PM |
| 1 | how do i ask a guy i like out without being awkward?Simple. Just go up to him, introduce yourself and ask. You might feel nervous but don’t resist it. What you resist will persist. Don’t try to “not be awkward”. By doing this, you will instead become more awkward. Accept how you feel inside and embrace it. Feel the fear and just do it anyways. You won’t regret taking the chance. Also remember that us guys aren’t asked out often at all. We’d like to and we’d feel great about it. We wish more girls would just approach us and ask us out but unfortun… | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 04:09 PM |
| 10 | Archiving RSD Videos of RSD Max, RSDTyler & RSDJulienCan you share with us the archived videos you have? | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 04:06 PM |
| 8 | A girl is like a protein shakeAmen | /r/seduction | 07/09/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | What’s the best cologne for a guy that’s under $30?Where is this list of the “most seductive colognes”? | /r/seduction | 05/09/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you stick to your diet?I’m not taking any supplements. What’s the reason you are taking those? | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 02:28 PM |
| 5 | What style of game works best for you?Completely disagree. Looks definitely help get you in the door, but without charisma she gon wave your ass goodbye. | /r/askTRP | 24/08/19 08:53 AM |
| 1 | A Guide to Charisma & How Charismatic People BehaveGood post bro. Don’t listen to the negative comments. I’ve been working on my social skills for years now even though I’m 17. I’ve read fuck ton of books, articles, watched videos and most importantly tried shit out for myself. To add on to yours, one of the many things I’ve learned over the years is to talk not only with dominance/authority (not over the top though) but to also talk with CONVICTION. So many people talk with a passive voice, and they sound so unsure in themselves, its repulsive.… | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:07 AM |
| 1 | Abundance and Non-needinessI personally do not want to spin multiple plates though. I figured this girl really suits my personality, we have good chemistry, interests etc. Yes, it’d be nice to fuck tons of bitches, spin plates all day long etc. That was my vision before but now my perspective has changed. I want to go for a potential LTR and remain exclusive to her. Honestly it probably won’t last as I’m only 17 and I know that. But despite that, I want to enjoy an LTR. Only problem is scarcity mindset and blue pill behav… | /r/askTRP | 28/07/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Am I missing anything?Genuine question. What’s the worse that happens when someone negatively judges you? Let’s say I just be myself in front of a new group of people, and maybe I even offend them. What’s the worse that happens? They judge me negatively then what? This is better than being shy, quiet and stuck in my head right? What if I just be myself with everyone, crack jokes I find funny in class and to the whole class? I care too much what people think. This is based on evolutionary biology and fear of abandonme… | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 03:55 PM |
| 1 | How to not make her feel like a slut?Yeah being my first sexual encounter, after I got the blowjob I probably became a bit over-excited. This then led me to being needy (and thus losing frame) in the sense of asking her for sex. Maybe next time I won’t ask her, but try to touch her more sexually and test my limits - keep on going until she starts to pull back or something. Because I know when you ask girls, they don’t want to feel guilty or some shit like the responsibility was on them because they said “yes”. Thanks | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 09:25 AM |
| 1 | How to not make her feel like a slut?Thanks. I’m going to keep that in mind from now on. However that night I just asked to go to her place to watch a movie together and chill. It was probably implied that we were going to make out etc. but I didn’t explicitly ask or talk about anything sexual before hand and neither did she. We naturally made out while chilling in bed but for some reason she did not want to have sex. How else was I going to find a way to naturally lead into sex..? except ask her and tell her I wanted to take it fu… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 09:16 AM |
| 1 | How to not make her feel like a slut?We’re both virgins. I acted a bit needy for sex (to finish off and cum) after she gave me a blowjob but I guess she would have felt like a slut if she just fucked me so early in. Or maybe I was just doing things wrong or making the wrong moves. And thus I couldn’t arouse it within her enough. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/19 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Dealing with rejectionWell I could’ve got someone else but I didn’t want to take someone for the sake of taking them, or just settle for what I can get. This girl stood out from the rest and as I said I don’t want to settle for less or get one just for the sake of getting one. Why? Because that’s my ego saying that I HAVE to be with someone for prom, so I’ll just get any random girl despite not actually wanting them. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 03:43 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with rejectionHow do I get over this feeling? I almost feel as though I regret asking in the first place, as I wouldn’t be feeling all these emotions and shit right now. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Field Report: What can I learn from this experience to move on and better myself?Thanks for your advice. Really sound In regards to the approach, I walked up to the table she was sitting at, made an excuse (e.g. do you know where x is?) and then went full direct (I just wanted to tell you that i think you’re really cute and was wondering if you wanted to come prom with me). I was told that I should have framed it as “I want you to come to prom with me” but I didn’t feel like it was the right thing to say to someone shy and reserved like her. I wanted to ease it a bit especia… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/19 03:18 PM |
| 0 | Field Report: What can I learn from this experience to move on and better myself?Yeah true, that's a mistake on my behalf. I mean I only knew Rachel was single because it was her close friend who told me that she had broken up with her LTR. That close friend also told another of Rachel's friend while I was on the train with them the morning I did it, who would've told Rachel during their classes together anyways. It was bound to spread. But i don't think that would be the main reason she would have changed her mind. We had never really talked to each other before. She di… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/06/19 02:21 PM |
| 3 | If I don’t ask her out, someone else willupdate 2: she changed her mind as she said we weren’t really close (which is true as we never talked before), and that she feels it will be awkward on prom night which is very soon (next week). I offered to hang out with her a couple of times leading up to prom, but she said her decision was still concrete. I respected her decision and told her to take everything I said as a compliment. If I had to be honest, it hurts. I was a bit sad. But I guess she saved the both of us time and hassle. This w… | /r/seduction | 18/06/19 01:10 PM |
| 2 | If I don’t ask her, someone else willUPDATE: she said yes!! i was direct with her, told her I thought she was cute and if she wanted to come to prom with me. i didn’t act surprised or overwhelmed but once I got outside I was ecstatic. We’re all going to die in the end where nothing will matter anymore. Life is meant to be lived and enjoyed. I just thought of how I would regret it if I didn’t do it, and how many missed opportunities I would have that would stay with me forever. Sometimes you gotta say fuck it and just do it. I backe… | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 03:26 AM |
| 4 | If I don’t ask her out, someone else willUPDATE: she said yes!! i was direct with her, told her I thought she was cute and if she wanted to come to prom with me. i didn’t act surprised or overwhelmed but once I got outside I was ecstatic. We’re all going to die in the end where nothing will matter anymore. Life is meant to be lived and enjoyed. I just thought of how I would regret it if I didn’t do it, and how many missed opportunities I would have that would stay with me forever. Sometimes you gotta say fuck it and just do it. I backe… | /r/seduction | 18/06/19 03:25 AM |
| 3 | If I don’t ask her out, someone else willYes one of her close friends told me she’s available. Im not 100% sure on how to start off the conversation. I mean she knows me. We know each other through friend groups and stuff but we have never talked to each other. If say I approach her in the library, be direct and ask her straight away, then she says yes, do I continue to make some small talk? Or do I say something like “sweet thanks, see you around” then leave (and maybe try to talk to her more when I see her around in school leading up… | /r/seduction | 17/06/19 03:49 PM |
| 1 | How to lower social inhibition without alcohol?That’s very true. It gives me a boost in confidence but it’s only temporary and gradually fades away after. Do you have any idea why it works and why that’s the case? | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 03:19 PM |
| 1 | How to lower social inhibition without alcohol?Sorry could you explain? | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 03:12 PM |
| 6 | New ways to fuck her?Lord behold the helicopter sex position. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 04:49 PM |
| 4 | Sliding in the dmsWait until she puts up a story on Instagram, then reply with something funny or just comment on it. This is smoother and less creepy than just sliding in her dms with absolutely no context. Also don’t be needy. And don’t double text. Good luck. | /r/seduction | 10/06/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Is it okay to be shy?How is one able to be charismatic if they are shy? | /r/askTRP | 08/06/19 08:15 AM |
| 3 | itiswr1tten Answers All Your Questions Today!How do I stop being a shy little bitch and break out of my shell? I can’t seem to change my personality | /r/askTRP | 07/06/19 03:48 PM |
| 1 | How does one get over the fact that they were severely blue pilled for 36 years?Bit painful to read. I guess just accept it and move on. You can’t change the past so why bother dwelling on it. I feel you though. I’m only 17 and discovered TRP about a year ago. I’m very lucky and thankful for it and will try to make the most out of these years that I have as a teen. | /r/askTRP | 02/06/19 03:25 PM |
| 3 | Does NoFap really work?What about the benefits such as increased testosterone etc? | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 04:08 PM |
| 0 | Are positive affirmations helpful or just feel good shit?Mainly feel good shit. Someone who is confident doesn’t need to make positive self affirmations. Positive self affirmations might make you feel better but it just means you already think you are inadequate in the first place. | /r/askTRP | 31/05/19 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Is lower energy or high energy more attractive?Wow I was thinking the same thing dude. I usually try to act high energy around friends, girls and groups. But a few days ago I felt kinda tired and just began interacting with low energy. I talked slower, made more eye contact and felt more comfortable and confident. It felt like I was in slow motion. I felt grounded and cared less what others thought about me. But the thing is I don’t know which is really better. Low energy makes you seem more boring/introverted whereas high energy makes you s… | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 02:25 AM |
| 1 | How to have a more alpha personality?Why not? | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 04:49 AM |
| 1 | Holding frame in this situation?Yes he is 22 | /r/askTRP | 24/05/19 04:48 AM |
| 2 | Holding frame in this situation?I’m 17. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 07:54 AM |
| 2 | Holding frame in this situation?He is turning 22. I don’t know if he’s depressed. It doesn’t seem like it at all. He enjoys playing video games with his friends all the time. Maybe it’s just a distraction for him from his real life problems. Honestly I feel bad for him. In my eyes he is wasting his life. Plays video games every night, no job, doesn’t drive a car yet, hangs around with beta friends, introverted, hardly ever if at all goes out or goes to parties. Again I remind myself I shouldn’t be worrying about him. I should … | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 07:53 AM |
| 2 | Holding frame in this situation?Yeah I guess. Sometimes I do stay up late at night studying which is why he doesn’t want to take away the internet. Also it’s an inconvenience for him to take keep taking it away at night and reconnecting it the next day. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 07:46 AM |
| 1 | What makes someone submissive?Nah wasn’t a shit test. Think it was because i put her on a pedestal, making me act submissive or not being myself. | /r/askTRP | 23/05/19 07:44 AM |
| 1 | Anyone managed to stop being shy completely?How long did it take you to overcome shyness purely through exposing yourself to uncomfortable situations? | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 05:10 PM |
| 4 | Anyone managed to go from introvert to extrovert?What if it’s shyness? I feel like being shy and being introverted are not the same thing. I feel like I’m a shy extrovert. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 04:42 PM |
| -4 | Can I get abs by only dieting and no exercise?Nah yeah ideally I would. My mate just thinks I won’t be able to do it purely through dieting lol | /r/askTRP | 16/05/19 09:53 AM |
| 1 | How to cure disease to people please forever?Thanks man | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 03:30 PM |
| 2 | How to cure disease to people please forever?Cannot change personality? So you saying I won’t be able to stop people pleasing? I’m only 17 after all. I believe if I try hard enough, then I can improve my personality to my ideal liking. | /r/askTRP | 13/05/19 03:07 PM |
| -1 | What is Chad’s personality like?Just wanted to make it clear. Since some people are absolute douchebags or they are very quiet, telling them to be yourself is not very meaningful or helpful But if you mean be yourself as in be authentic as possible and express who you truly are, then I understand | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 03:06 PM |
| -1 | What is Chad’s personality like?What do you mean “be yourself”? | /r/askTRP | 08/05/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | How to be a “smooth talker”?Any tips for charisma? | /r/seduction | 28/04/19 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Should I stop being a people pleaser completely?What else is it apart from you signal that “you value yourself less”? I feel like I have the idea but I can’t grasp it fully enough. After all, the reason we people please is because we think it will make others like us, but how does it really do the opposite? Is it due to dishonesty? Inauthenticity? I know women probably aren’t attracted to such guys because these guys act like pussies and not dominant leaders. I need to rewire my thinking. It seems really paradoxical, because there was a quote… | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Should I stop being a people pleaser completely?I feel like it affects a lot of things that I do. If I’m talking someone, due to my tendency to people please, I won’t act like myself and i won’t feel comfortable. This might lead to some awkward shit, but I want to be the real me. (my intent is not to become an asshole, just be authentic and have fun, and not act in a way that’s fake and awkward just so I don’t cause any conflict or unease) I want to always prioritise my first as which I feel a people pleaser does not do. I don’t want to be a … | /r/askTRP | 28/04/19 10:41 AM |
| 1 | It’s so rare to see unfiltered confident peopleYou got any more info on shrooms? I’m really keen on trying them out. What’s the first step? Where can I find them and stuff? Cheers | /r/askTRP | 24/04/19 03:40 PM |
| 2 | How to be social asf?What’s the OI mentality? How the fuck do you stop being self conscious and just stop caring what other people think? It’s so hard. I’ve been trying for ages. But it’s literally wired into all of our brains. We can say that we have the IDGAF mentality but deep down inside we do care. | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 03:26 PM |
| 2 | How to be social asf?Can you delve deeper into “comfortability”?. Also confidence is just knowing that whatever happens, you’ll be fine, right? | /r/askTRP | 23/04/19 03:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you hold frame when someone annoys you?What if they don’t stop though? | /r/askTRP | 15/04/19 08:52 AM |
| 4 | Sometimes life gives you boosts without much effort.Sounds like a way for someone to end up getting their organs harvested. | /r/seduction | 13/04/19 06:02 PM |
| 2 | Should I stop pretending to laugh at things I don't find funny?I don't understand what you mean? | /r/askTRP | 16/03/19 03:17 AM |
| 0 | Scared to make eye contact with girls in public?Not necessarily but I'd prefer not to have this fear of looking at and exchanging eye contact with attractive girls on the train or in public etc.. I think it is just a fear of me getting caught looking at them and id rather avoid the awkwardness when we coincidentally look at each other (e.g. when I exchange eye contact with a cute girl on the train but then we're awkwardly stuck there until we arrive at our stops). | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 11:56 AM |
| 2 | What do girls mean they want a guy with personality?Howd you get over it and just let loose? | /r/askTRP | 31/01/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Help. Getting distracted by girlsThanks man, appreciate your advice! Do you recommend things like meditating to maintain a clear and positive mindset and to build discipline? After high school is University for us in Australia. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/19 12:41 PM |
| 2 | How to game on snapchat?No problem :) | /r/seduction | 28/01/19 12:29 AM |
| 2 | How to game on snapchat?Google "rabb.it" | /r/seduction | 28/01/19 12:01 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop giving a shit about what others think?Sounds good. Appreciate your advice. Can you explain more on what you said about just don't think about it, because I'm liking that idea. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | What is the most important thing for success with women?Do you recommend starting a daily journal? | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 02:08 PM |
| 3 | How to slide into a girls dms?Thanks haha. How far did you manage to go? | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 04:02 PM |
| 7 | How to slide into a girls dms?I definitely don't want to shower her with compliments because that is what nice guys would do and that is boring, needy and not the way (in my opinion) to go about hitting on girls. I don't want to be commenting on her posts because I barely know her. Her friends regularly comment on her post, and since she has relatively little followers, it would be weird for me (a complete stranger) to comment on her posts, without even having spoken to her as well. I'm most likely going to do what someone e… | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 03:58 PM |
| 12 | How to slide into a girls dms?Wouldn't hurt to shoot this girl a dm though. There are alot of decent/attractive girls at my school, but this one is exceptionally pretty. I mean what's there to lose. If I shoot my shot and it lands then awesome. If not, I can move on. Im still in high school anyways (turning 17 soon) so things aren't that serious. | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 03:47 PM |
| 9 | How to slide into a girls dms?Didn't mention it but I'm actually 16 (17 in a few months) haha. Figured now would still be an appropriate time to slide into girls dms. Found out she's a year below me in terms of schooling and actually lives nearby (or at least goes to a nearby school) from some of her posts. | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 03:35 PM |
| 7 | How to slide into a girls dms?Solid advice. Agreed. But never talked to nor saw this girl IRL. Just happened to discover her through a friend today, and the only means of communication possible with her is via instagram. | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone read 'The Manual' by W Anton?It starts from the very roots. You begin to understand why most men act the way they do now and why most women act the way they do today. It is mainly to do with the biological differences between a male and a female, and how we are massively affected by social conditioning. This book is not simply a straight forward how to seduce guide. It is much more than that. It addresses many of the underlying issues we have first and how we can better ourselves overall instead of just purely how we can be… | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 03:23 PM |
| 1 | What is your definition of confidence?Just wrote a few paragraphs in response but decided to delete them as they sounded confusing. I figured it'd be best if you read the book as everything is explained very well. To summarize it as briefly as I can though, confidence as stated by the author himself, is 'the ability to appear certain by tolerating uncertainty'. You see, people can't read your mind or tell exactly what you are feeling or thinking on the inside. If you appear confident then you will be perceived as confident, because … | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Tips on sliding into a girls dms?She's just extremely pretty. Real pretty. Lives in the same city, relatively nearby judging by the school she goes to from one of her posts. Never seen her nor talked to her and it is the same case for her. Want to dm her to see if I can make something happen. Never slid into a girls dms before with this kind of intention, so here I am seeking advice on how I can maximise my chances of success e.g. by avoiding doing stupid shit that others may have previously done so I don't do it myself. Even i… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 01:11 PM |
| 0 | Tips on sliding into a girls dms?I only know her because my friend mentioned her to me. I've never met her nor seen her in real life. Thus it seems the only way to get things started is to strike up a conversation online as that is the only means by which I can communicate with her. Might seem trivial, probably is, but I'm 16 and still in high school. High school is nothing serious and it is easier in general to get in touch with girls and build social circles. This girl is about my age but a year below in terms of schooling, a… | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 12:24 PM |
| -1 | Tips on sliding into a girls dms?Yeah definitely but I am interested in this girl and want to shoot my shot to see if I can get something going on. | /r/askTRP | 21/01/19 11:30 AM |
| 49 | How to slide into a girls dms?That's actually a really good idea thanks man. I was thinking about just straight up messaging her, but since there's no context it may seem out of the blue and weird. | /r/seduction | 21/01/19 09:26 AM |
| 1 | How do naturally extroverted people think?Could you elaborate more on that? | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 06:33 AM |
| 0 | Why spin plates?why not? | /r/askTRP | 06/01/19 03:15 PM |
| -1 | Feel like shit right now...Really good stuff^ but its technically a lot less than 3.66 billion girls after you account for age ranges etc. but nevertheless there is significant abundance | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 05:34 PM |
| 0 | What to do in this situationThat is some great advice that i feel would work really well. I feel like i could do this most times but not always. He might call me names for no reason and i might eventually lose my chill and get too triggered to the point that i immediately lash back. | /r/askTRP | 03/01/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | How can I start being confident as fuck in social situations right now?Some extra steps definitely wouldn’t hurt | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How can I start being confident as fuck in social situations right now?What do you mean by don’t talk a lot? | /r/askTRP | 27/12/18 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Low SMV and still getting results.Any tips for the way you talk and for being charismatic as you mentioned? Also are your extroverted? | /r/askTRP | 25/12/18 10:50 AM |
| 0 | Is smiling too much bluepill/make you look like a nice guy?Indeed | /r/askTRP | 21/12/18 07:26 AM |
| 1 | How to take action and actually improve?True, I have to acknowledge that there will always be people who won’t like me. I can’t change their minds and can’t force them to like me, so I have to accept it as it is. I guess that there is no one purpose in life for me. I have many goals that I wish to achieve. My primary goal is to have an amazing social life, be confident in everything and that will make life so much easier and more enjoyable. I will have to break my goals down into even smaller separate individual goals, and that way it… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 05:28 AM |
| 1 | How to take action and actually improve?Just added extra info (the second para) Oh but I want to be able to just stop being lazy and take action. I want to implement the things I read. I want to have a purpose and vision that I work towards. I put off homework, read self help, try to improve myself, but i procrastinate and am not doing much to actually improve myself and get the things I want | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 04:57 AM |
| 1 | How to take action and actually improve?Talking to people I’m not that close to. I’ll be able to talk to them but not express my true self, including jokes and shit, just saying whatever I want and being comfortable. I would filter myself i.e. I have thoughts but then I end up keeping them to myself. I just want to be able to treat everyone the same. Tired of putting certain people on fucking pedestals and being awkward around certain people. I want to be confident and comfortable around everyone and not give a fuck. Be assertive when… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 04:52 AM |
| 1 | How to take action and actually improve?Should it really be this way though. For example, in class I want to talk to everyone and be myself. If I be myself and people don’t like me then I shouldn’t be friends with them? I’m sure I’m just overthinking and exaggerating it because people are generally very good and I’m just making bullshit in my head. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 04:31 AM |
| 1 | How to take action and actually improve?To be honest, I will probably feel shitty (self esteem drops) and feel that I have no friends since they don’t like me. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 03:23 AM |
| 1 | How to take action and actually improve?I’ve noticed how important posture is. I used to walk with a crooked/slouched back (leaning forward) but now I walk straight, slow and relaxed and it makes me feel more confident. I also started to lift on a more consistent basis a few months back and loved how my arms have progressed so far, but I’ve still got a long way to go. In terms of my high school life, I moved to a new school this year, where I will spend my last two years of high school. First year is gone and next year will be my last… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 03:18 AM |
| 1 | How to take action and actually improve?Who am I afraid of judging me? I guess it really depends. Some people I am comfortable with and others not so much. I think I put certain people on a pedestal and when I do that i am not acting myself, and the conversation and vibe can feel awkward. If I had to specify who, I’d say that girls who are attractive, people who have a high social status, people who are more confident than me are put on a pedestal and I’m not totally myself around them because I fear negative judgement. What am I afra… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 02:56 AM |
| 1 | How to take action and actually improve?Wow that’s great to hear man. Did you have a girlfriend at the time of being 17? Was high school any good? I am in your position right now and next year will be my last year of high school. I regret not doing much in these past years and really want to make my last year of high school one of the best and memorable years ever. Would you have any advice for me? Maybe if you had to give advice to your younger self while still in high school. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 02:41 AM |
| 1 | How to take action and actually improve?Thanks for helping me really realise what probably is the actual core issue. I believe that I am much better compared to last year in terms of my shyness after discovering TRP, but it just comes back to fuck me over and it’s because I still care (mainly subconsciously) what others think. Now that i think about it, I have this inner desire to express myself and not give a fuck but subconsciously I’m afraid of making myself look awkward or make the situation awkward because I did something stupid.… | /r/askTRP | 18/12/18 02:36 AM |
| 1 | How to be more social and charismatic?Can you elaborate more on what you mean by owning your voice? | /r/askTRP | 09/12/18 09:11 PM |
| 2 | What are some good mindsets to have everyday?Do you use to-do lists? Do you have a main goal that you’re working on and so you set yourself daily goals to help achieve that ultimate end goal? | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 03:50 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome shyness?Ahh So true. I remember how outgoing, social and extroverted I was as a kid. I was truly myself. Still remember the good days. Even remembered some shit I said and did that I wouldn’t say and do now. Then when high school hit, it was all downhill from there. Strangely I notice how almost all little kids aren’t scared to do stupid shit in public. Toddlers would just stare at me on the train, mumble some words and point their fingers at others. Some kids would dance in public in the shopping centr… | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome shyness?I mainly listen to hip hop, rnb, and mainstream music in general. But I’m really starting to like rap and artists like Travis Scott, 21 savage, kendrick Lamar, j cole, future etc.. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 03:06 PM |
| 3 | How to overcome shyness?Now that i think about it - my fear is that people will judge me and negatively criticise me. I avoid doing things that potentially cause me to be judged. It prevents me from truly being myself and doing the shit that I truly want to do. It causes me to be a shy little bitch sometimes, staying quiet in social interactions and acting uncomfortable in my own skin. You’re right. It is not shyness but more so Fear. The fear of judgement. The fear of what others will think of me. Causes me not to do … | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 02:56 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome shyness?Thanks. Really like the song btw. Any other recommendations? | /r/askTRP | 08/12/18 02:47 PM |
| 1 | How has Red Pill helped you this year?Any specific tips for developing and maintaining that IDGAF attitude? | /r/askTRP | 07/12/18 12:50 PM |
| 1 | how big of an impedement do u think my looks areHonestly looks don’t matter as much as you may think. With regards to passing shit tests, remember how you say it is more important then what you say. If you act confident as fuck, you will come off as being confident as fuck. Being confident is the key to everything. Girls would rather go for a not so good looking man but who is extremely confident rather than one who is good looking but lacks confidence. | /r/seduction | 23/11/18 02:06 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop giving a fuck about what others think?Those words truly spoke to me. You couldn’t be more true. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 03:21 PM |
| 1 | How do you stop giving a fuck about what others think?I don't know. Guess i just did it on my own. Like we all did. | /r/askTRP | 13/10/18 03:02 PM |
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