Why didn't I know keeping frame is a thing? It's kinda simple, stay calm cool and collected but I didn't come naturally.

I always knew to workout and always have so that was natural.

I didn't know weed and alcohol was that shitty for you until I came here and then did the research. How could I not know that?

Why did I think girls like nice guys? I'm naturally a "bad boy", I stopped acting that way(well i'm back now) in early high school cause girls kept getting upset at me. Well now I know that was just shit test

How did I not know women shit test? I have a lot of women in my family.

I just don't get how we don't naturally know this or do we and we just stopped listening to our instincts?

edit: why didn't i know life was hard for men? Don't get me wrong i don't care anymore and embrace the hard work but how did I not know I've seen war movies and history movies that shit was hard af why did i think life was gonna be an easy walk in the park?