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1

What you're seeking is not plausible. A quality woman will want marriage/children at some point. So your options are low quality single women and post-wall divorced women with children where you are now pseudo step parents to each others kids. If marriage and children are off the table then why wouldn't you spin plates? Your pool of women will be younger and of higher quality.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 01:10 PM
9

You are an orbiter. When you start to get distant she pulls you back into her orbit every time.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/23 12:53 PM
1

Why get wrapped up in pointless pontificating? Work because you find value in it. Work to fulfill your mission. Find a woman that you want and set your expectations for her. Don't give two shits about society and their expectations or perspectives of you.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/23 08:21 PM
9

It's a waste of time to highlight the double standards happening on the Left. They know and they don't care.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/23 12:40 PM
3

Because it's easy and people want to be told what they want to hear.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/22 12:43 PM
3

Could be your delivery. People want to talk to someone who is enthusiastic and passionate, especially when it comes to things or topics relating to the other person in the conversation.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/22 04:28 PM
1

OP's greatest flaw is not factoring in SMV of the woman. High value women (typically) don't send out IOIs randomly. Great, you have an 80% success rate with 6s, but that's not as great of an accomplishment as a 10% success rate with 9s.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 04:42 PM
1

OP's theory works great if you want to fuck 6s. High value women don't send random indicators of interest. They need to be approached first.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/22 04:38 PM
6

I don't know why some guys can't help themselves. Ghosting is literally the easiest thing you can do. Just do not respond.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/22 07:59 PM
0

Is this metaphor about banging some strange?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/22 04:49 PM
4

Stop relying on this douche and become your own expert. Won't happen overnight but put in the effort to learn through classes, books or another mentor.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 04:05 PM
1

Shredded like a Caesar salad you say???
/r/TheRedPill10/12/22 08:15 PM
1

The fact that you didn't was a big enough hint. Woman alone at bar putting up little to no resistance, that paints the picture.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/22 04:38 PM
1

Looking for the lessons here other than OP was attractive enough to bang some post wall loner. I guess the take away is open your mouth and start a conversation, escalate and don't get butt hurt if they put up speed bumps. The negatives - don't do that scarf shit. Why is she spending the night? And the hammock speaks for itself.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/22 08:29 PM
1

Her: Why are you doing X Me: Because I want to End.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/22 06:51 PM
1

Online dating once you get good at it, requires NO effort to get laid. It’s easy mode. This is mostly why you shouldn't rely on it. Banging low value women on tinder does nothing for you but drain your balls. That's fine here or there, but you can get higher value women learn/improve your game doing cold approach
/r/TheRedPill26/02/22 06:25 PM
3

You said not to do something because it "leads her on". Who gives a fuck? This moralizing itself is blue pill
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 07:07 PM
1

Much of this is just scarcity nonsense. Worried about what she tells other girls? The world is a big place with millions of fuckable women around you. And as others have pointed out, freaky girls get freaky fast. In fact, knowing you are a fling lowers their inhibitions. Now, there is something to be said for "grooming" women into the sluts you want them to be, but in my experience it's not worth the effort when there are plenty of ready made sluts.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/21 07:01 PM
1

Glad you're approaching but for fucks sake stop complimenting them.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 07:32 PM
2

Kudos on approaching. You're already better than 95% of guys. But "You're hot" is a terrible line.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 07:29 PM
24

Instagram doesn't provide enough value to offset what an incredible waste of time it is. Your time is better spent getting ripped and approaching women in real life than doing any of this shit.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/21 07:19 PM
1

You should probably do nothing
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:08 AM
1

Yes it is.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:07 AM
2

Good effort but the problem with your analogy is in marriage there is another person in the equation to fuck shit up. But your point is taken. Most marriages fail because the guy doesn’t own his shit properly.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 03:05 AM
1

Didn’t read, but she is probably just using these breakups to fuck other dudes without guilt.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:59 AM
2

I hate how people treat anxiety like a boogie man.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:57 AM
13

It’s nothing like real life.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:48 AM
2

If you have to ask this then you aren’t fucking enough women.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:44 AM
9

1000s of years where men were providers is instilled in them.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:40 AM
-1

Can’t fight biology. Once her clock starts ticking louder she will probably change her tune.
/r/askTRP18/06/21 02:38 AM
1

improve physique, read more books, complete my studies and get better at playing instruments and cooking. None of those things are a purpose. Improve physique - to what end? Want to lose 5lbs or do you want to be a professional body builder. Define your goal. Read more books - to what end? Self help books? Literature? How many books? Define your goal. Studies - to what end? You get the idea.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:34 PM
1

Treat them like toddlers. They respond to feels not ultimatums or demands. Should have kept it light and fun.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:20 PM
1

I can’t talk for shit so i didn’t know how to escalate verbally when we got home. You don't escalate verbally. Actions not words. When you escalate you need to follow the Kino ladder. Can't go from sitting on a couch to going for a kiss. Ramp up the kino one step at a time. As for this one, there is probably no recovery. You can give it a few days and invite her out.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:17 PM
3

You're an orbiter. Why are you texting her everyday? She's getting your attention for free.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:13 PM
0

Treat like a soft next. Wait for her to hit you back up, and if you aren't busy with other options then see her.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:11 PM
3

But the problem is for some reason I believe I missed a lot of experience in my early years that I can't experience the same way in my age Even if that's true, there is nothing you can do about it. Good news for you is that you haven't yet peaked. You can still be a high value man and have lots of experiences, but not if you waste anymore time.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 08:05 PM
2

In person approach is better for a multitude of reasons. I still think things like Tinder have value as a passive means to get laid. I don't think of it as something to take seriously or for you to invest a lot of time on.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 07:58 PM
27

If you "make it big" women chase you.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 07:54 PM
10

It's your stuff, if you want it back then yes. "Cool, I'll come by X to pick up my shit".
/r/askTRP21/05/21 07:54 PM
11

Don't ask women what they want.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 07:52 PM
6

Also, how do I handle this correctly so that she comes crawling back? Totally the wrong mindset. This girl shouldn't even exist in your mind. I've been on a dry spell for HALF A YEAR. Yes, you're desperate and it shows. Just move on to the next one. Going out is a good first step.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:48 PM
5

Any explanations? The sidebar is full of them.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:38 PM
2

She's not a plate if you ghosted her a year ago.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:22 PM
16

Imagine you are a woman getting dozens of thirsty dudes hitting you up daily.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 08:20 PM
9

Be busy with other women. You won't be dwelling on any one or any one thing.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 06:31 PM
1

Safe to say you didn't blow her mind. She could have always pegged you for a one and done though.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 06:30 PM
2

You know why.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:46 PM
3

I find it hard to escalate the conversation You don't escalate the conversation, you escalate physically with kino. Actions, not words.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:28 PM
1

Sounds like ASD. How long between fingering her and getting back to your place? Got to strike while she is horny. If you wait too long she'll start thinking with her head again.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:27 PM
2

You'll know in a week. Does she want to fuck again? Or just be friends?
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:23 PM
2

I think you're completely off in your interpretation of this "rule". Seems like complete conflation to compare "friends that bring out your best" with people who offer "unsolicited advice". No need to complicate what Peterson is saying. Just surround yourself with successful people who actually have an interest in your life and you'll be better for it.
/r/askTRP20/05/21 05:18 PM
2

How do you get over the need to tell her that she hurt you Experience and results. After you've emoted to women multiple times and recognize that your relationships were worse for it you come to acknowledge that this is not a personality flaw in this girl, but rather the nature of women in general.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 05:29 PM
8

Attractive men aren't dressing nice enough for you? Stop worrying about them and be glad. More pussy for you.
/r/askTRP19/05/21 05:20 PM
1

"Oh you think you fall into the original date category? You'll have to impress me over drinks before we take a pottery class together [or insert other absurd "original" idea]" Be playful but also make her qualify herself to you. Basically let her know you don't think she is as special as she thinks she is without being a dick.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 05:50 PM
2

Exactly. Just fuck her until it's not fun anymore or not worth the effort.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 05:38 PM
4

What do you want? What's your ambition? If you want to climb the ladder and make the most amount of money/have the most opportunity then yes.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 05:32 PM
3

Agreed. Your response should be something about getting to know people in person or saying you're not here or a penpal. Then setup an actual meetup.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 05:23 PM
1

It’s a lot easier for certain guys more than others Yeah. Guys who lift and genuinely swallow the pill. Put in the work and you can spin plates.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 05:19 PM
3

What are the chances you could have pulled her? Probably not good, but it doesn't matter. You have nothing to lose and just opening your mouths costs nothing. And more than anything, it would have made good practice on your approaches.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 09:03 PM
9

i.e. increase your smv and get some plates.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 08:54 PM
1

demote to plate or just next her entirely.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 08:31 PM
4

a couple of weeks and she's already being insulting/disrespectful?
/r/askTRP17/05/21 08:25 PM
7

Treat them like toddlers. No need to get upset at their tantrums. They don't know any better.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 08:07 PM
50

Because they have options. Try it, you won't have to put as much effort either.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 07:43 PM
1

Boring is just a consequence of where you bring the conversation. Avoid the boring small talk. Do plenty of teasing, challenge her, criticize her opinions in a playful way. Just don't be serious at all. And a little bit of kino is not good enough. Focus on kino and keep escalating until she stops you.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 06:50 PM
6

Never once mentioned morality. This is about efficiency. Stop wasting your time learning about "manipulation" which only works some of the time to mixed results and instead actually work on your mission that will make you a high value man. Also, work on your frame lol
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:48 PM
6

Your aim shouldn't be to seek shortcuts. Relying on manipulation and exploitation is a crutch and won't always work.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:40 PM
9

No reason to give a fuck about others insecurities.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:35 PM
1

You're a man who's in charge of his own life.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:34 PM
0

Go start going out and fucking other women. That sad lonely narrative will die really quick.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:26 PM
0

Ask your doctor. My googling says that is very low for an 18 year old. https://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/323085#typical-testosterone-levels
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:23 PM
-1

You're just being sensitive because you are upset for not measuring up to his expectations. Take the criticism constructively. But also realize you only aspire to meet your own expectations.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:20 PM
3

It's like being mad at water for being wet.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 06:03 PM
11

genuinely wants me to be gushy romantic Yeah, she wants YOU to be romantic while she gets her hair pulled and ass slapped by Chad.
/r/askTRP14/05/21 05:55 PM
12

You don't reward bad behavior. Withdraw attention and implement some dread.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 09:09 PM
5

100% right. By not trying to fuck her she either thinks you're not that into her or that you're a pussy.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:26 PM
1

Do you really think being ghosted is a shit test? Not interested anymore. She's got better options. Why didn't you try to fuck her?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 08:24 PM
1

that goes out on a girls vacation and gets adventurous. That doesn't happen if you vet and set boundaries. stop judging women while encouraging your male friends to fuck as much as possible. Projection? No idea wtf you're reading. Go fuck as much as you want. Just don't LTR a hoe if you can help it.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:56 PM
6

It's not a red flag because they all will do it. It's just a reminder to have your shit together or they will start reaching for that next branch.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:49 PM
8

You have oneitis. You can't recover from this until you forget about her and fuck some new women.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:40 PM
40

If you're spinning one plate for 1.5 years, you don't have a plate. You have a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 06:26 PM
1

Complete waste of time.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:58 PM
1

The thing about picking up and fucking women is that you need to have decent SMV. There is nothing wrong with paying for sex by itself, but you don't need to have nearly any SMV to fuck attractive women. This can lead you to fall into the trap of not working on yourself to become or stay a high value man.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:54 PM
2

Agreed. Virgins sometimes have this road block that their first has to be a 10 or the woman they are going to marry. Chances are there is nothing wrong with this girl, and OP is just scared and making excuses. Awkward? Dumb as rocks? get used to it, that is what is out there. Commit to fucking someone. Once you knock down the first the second is infinitely easier.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:49 PM
19

Depends on the situation. If you're on the apps and match with a girl at 10PM on a Saturday "we should fuck" will work just fine. Otherwise, escalating quickly and being completely non serious about everything gets the idea across.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:44 PM
1

Kino is the most important part of escalating to sex. The little touches make the bigger touches easier. Jumping from hello to making out without touching her before is difficult and awkward. No need to talk sexual at all, as that can trigger their ASD.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:39 PM
0

For the average person I don't think it passes the cost-benefit test. You can have casual sex with attractive women without paying, and without leaving your zipcode.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:35 PM
1

You only need an IQ in double digits to know the results of this "experiment".
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:29 PM
6

exactly. Interest needs to be very overt before making a move. Your workouts are too important. Plus, don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:26 PM
8

Why are you offering commitment when she's done nothing to deserve it?
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:24 PM
32

Just the broad thought that everything we were/are taught about women is a lie.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:22 PM
0

If you're worried about flaking, opt for playful rather than strictly logistics.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:19 PM
-1

of course but it's better to vet as best you can understanding that you can wind up with a slut than to just pick a known slut and remove all doubt.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:14 PM
1

I don't think your concern is without reason. The real issue is that she thinks you're the kind of man that wouldn't have a problem with it. That is already indication of the beginning of the end.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:10 PM
-1

Sluts are great for fun. But for LTR? Definitely not. Girls are all capable of being sluts but there are levels.
/r/askTRP12/05/21 05:04 PM
1

You can say whatever you want, but you'll look like a jealous butthurt bitch. If you have your shit together and are a high value man, the best thing you can do is let her go and not give a shit because you have other options.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 11:25 PM
3

Boundaries need to be set before she wanted to go. No way to push back now without losing frame.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:53 PM
2

Good luck trying to stop something that's biological. I suggest you stop looking at it as a bad thing. Despite what you say adrenaline does make you sharper in conflict. Whether you flight or fight depends on you.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:46 PM
0

Adrenaline is there to aid you in your conflict.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:12 PM
25

She gave you a glimpse at her true nature. You should remember it and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 07:37 PM
8

You only LTR chicks that pass your vetting. The ones that are covered in red flags are just for fun.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 07:27 PM
7

Let her vent, say "that stinks" (or whatever) and then invite her over to make her feel better.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 07:10 PM
8

No. The main difference is gravity. x% body fat under 1g over the course of 30 more years will have that effect.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 06:09 PM
2

She's hitting up your friend? Sounds like she's looking for drama. If you have options, why waste your time?
/r/askTRP11/05/21 06:00 PM
1

There's a sub for that: thank trp
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:17 PM
3

Should i forget about it? Yes. You made plans. Ball is in her court.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:15 PM
11

She's coming out of a breakup. She just wants to get fucked.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:12 PM
16

Monkey branching occurs before the breakup. The monkey doesn't let go of the last branch before it grasps the other.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:07 PM
5

Stop blaming others. Those setbacks are not an excuse. If you're not going to go back to school now then when will you? Figure out what you want to do and if that requires schooling then get to it.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:03 PM
3

Just be a good human and then give her space.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 04:06 PM
7

You're treating her like a sexual object; spanking her and ordering her around. It triggered her ASD. Despite what she says, she has no desire in controlling you. You're already home free, you need to ease off the gas.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:52 PM
21

This can be counter-intuitive for the current relationship. Being desired by other women will make the LTR desire him more. Becoming an awkward recluse as it relates to other women will actually make the LTR lose attraction.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:49 PM
5

It's not the shit tests, it's her ASD.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 03:46 PM
8

We're all incels until we are not. Red pill is not a magic pill. Following red pill will undoubtedly make your life better a little bit at a time. But it takes work.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:46 PM
15

If the Queen had balls she'd be King. No use pondering hypotheticals. Maybe your dad would have built a million dollar business and passed it on to you. Maybe he would have become a drug addict and treated you like shit. Who knows? You don't need a father to learn how to be a man.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:44 PM
2

Hard next.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:42 PM
3

Sounds like she wanted boxing dude but he wouldn't commit. You were her fall back.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:41 PM
9

You're not getting HIV from receiving a blowjob.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:37 PM
-1

Don't tell her.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:34 PM
7

The same reason why 5.99 sounds so much cheaper than 6 bucks. It's a psychological reality. Since online dating is the norm now, lots of girls will set their height preferences to 6' and up. So if you're 5'11" and 3 quarters you're just as invisible as the 5'3" manlets. You don't even exist.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:33 PM
2

You're a 28 year old virgin. Why would people respect you? Fix your frame. Become higher value.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:27 PM
1

Part of being a plate is never really having to dump them. Just don't call her or hangout if you consider this a red flag.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:25 PM
7

Whatever the hobby may be, I would be lessening my enjoyment by sharing it with someone I may or may not want to share it with. Instead of enjoying my hobby I'm now in my head thinking about how to initiate kino, is this "date" going on too long. etc Spending 20 minutes at a bar and then deciding if she's worth sharing my hobby is a much better use of my time and considerably less investment.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 09:19 PM
1

Shit tests. Why are you not closing? Escalate
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:12 PM
1

Did she volunteer her N count and you already know it's high? Do you know she's had X boyfriends? Was she a known slut before you got together? etc That's what I mean by insider knowledge.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:07 PM
3

Practical advice: block her, delete her number, avoid places she frequents and people she associates with. Emotional advice: closure is for chicks. She doesn't give a shit about you. Your eloquent monologue you have prepared in your head will not affect her at all and she'll find you more pathetic than ever. Life existed before her, it will exist after.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 09:06 PM
9

Is this just your perception of her past? Or do you have insider knowledge? The reality is the next girl will have an N count you're uncomfortable with too. Even if they claim they're a virgin or have been with only one guy, you'll never know for sure.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 08:58 PM
5

I don't think a two hour hike is low investment. Keep it simple: Bar and drinks. Drinking lowers inhibitions. Meeting at night is way more likely to convert to getting laid than day time. Most girls just want confirmation you are not a serial killer. If things go well you can be heading back to her place in under 40 minutes. If it goes terrible you can bail as soon as you want and you're already in an environment to meet other girls. Two hours of my day time is too valuable for that.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/21 08:27 PM
6

Have some pride. You are embarrassing yourself. Pathetic.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 08:18 PM
12

Look at all the shit you wrote about this ONE girl. You still have oneitis. Get away from this chick and don't look back. Helping her fuck other dudes on okcupid and sending her birthday presents is really gay. Just stop.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 08:16 PM
7

How do you have an LTR with her knowing she's been with a couple dudes who treated her like trash, fucked her shitless without a care? If you want a LTR, then what other option do you have? Unicorns don't exist. Do you get to declare "love" to your women because I can't imagine saying that shit to anyone again. Well now you know that "love" as you knew it doesn't exist. You can say "I love you" to your LTR knowing that it really means "you are suitable enough for me to commit to for now". And wh…
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:40 PM
2

not enough apparently, or your diet sucks
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:30 PM
2

I don't have that post committed to memory. What specifically is BS? I can't tell based off your vague description.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:26 PM
4

Hitting the gym and losing fat will up your smv.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:24 PM
23

21 year olds aren't even aware a phone's initial purpose is to talk. They are just social media texting machines to them. Don't call them. As for this chick. She's not into you.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:23 PM
6

You don't need to shit test them. You know you want to fuck them based on how they look.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:20 PM
3

Thousands of years of evolution. Men are providers. Women are baby factories.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:19 PM
9

Your SMV isn't high enough for you to pull quality women.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 07:15 PM
14

If you find yourself obsessing over a girl, just fucking walk up to her and take a swing. The real advice is to not obsess over a girl. She isn't special. There are millions more like her. Some guys will swing and land the girl if their SMV is high enough. But their blue pill obsession will only lead to failure anyway.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/21 05:04 PM
4

Unless you want the clap, wrap it up.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:52 PM
5

Don't fall into a routine. Don't just fuck every few days after binging some netflix. Fuck at anytime any place and in different ways.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:47 PM
11

What possible advice could you be expecting? She's practically trying to fuck your friends in front of you. Need to next this overt skank.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:43 PM
6

orbiter. "maybe" is just a breadcrumb to keep you in her orbit. Ignore her.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:22 PM
5

Don't make a woman your mission.
/r/askTRP14/03/21 04:21 PM
1

Don't accept that far out. "No, that doesn't work for me". You have to lead. If she can't then move on.
/r/askTRP12/03/21 02:38 AM
1

Have you met this person? I asked you what she does, not what she says or texts. Does she suck your cock?
/r/askTRP12/03/21 02:36 AM
2

communication is key /s
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:11 PM
2

In my experience, flipping it on them has had the best results. "You have a dirty mind, who said anything about sex?"
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:10 PM
1

Girls just want to have fun. Spend less time asking them what they do for a living and continuing down that boring conversation and more time asking them what they are drinking.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:07 PM
1

She's a 9, that means a hotter guy was available. You have to strike while the iron is hot. There is no reason to even respond.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:02 PM
1

What do you do when they behave badly? Withdraw attention. That means ignore her.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 10:00 PM
4

Just don't answer.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 09:49 PM
5

The problem is you. Look like a guy she would be a slut for and then treat her like one.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 09:48 PM
2

Is she still sucking you off more or less now?
/r/askTRP11/03/21 09:46 PM
7

Being called sweetie and honey is not an indication of her interest in you. Forget about what she is saying. What is she doing?
/r/askTRP11/03/21 09:43 PM
1

Being indifferent to this is very weird and incongruent. Only from a co-dependant (beta) perspective. A good woman is only the dressing to your mission. Her leaving shouldn’t phase you unless it’s a wake up call to your BP tendencies that drove her away.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 10:11 PM
1

Disdain is the opposite of indifference.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 08:28 PM
1

Damage is done. You got punched in the face and did nothing, you look like a bitch. Beating his ass won't fix that. Also stop being a shit-head.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 08:06 PM
13

You are a booty-call, nothing more. You should be gaming and plating other women anyway. Find someone you prefer.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 07:42 PM
3

Laugh, pat her head, and say "that's cute".
/r/askTRP19/02/21 07:40 PM
3

instead of seeing them as holes to fill, see them as a means of entertainment even outside of sex. You're here to have fun and they can come along for the ride.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 07:30 PM
2

where ever women are is an opportunity to meet women. The usual places will have the highest success rates: Apps, bars/clubs etc But you can meet them anywhere.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 07:29 PM
1

As opposed to what? Believing that with enough flowers and jewelry you can "win" her? Indifference is power and power is attractive.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 07:20 PM
3

Who is this post for? Does OP really think guys are passing up women they find attractive because "society". Of the list of problems that guys need to fix, this is like number 1000.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/21 07:14 PM
1

How wonderful, but this is a sexual strategy sub. If you want to maximize your attraction with the opposite sex then crying is not good. As great as it is to be "true to yourself", you can't wear sweat pants everyday, have unkempt appearance etc. That's just reality. BTW, using Alexander the Great, the ruler of a literal empire is probably not a good analogy. If you have that kind of cache then you can cry all day long.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 04:11 PM
1

Stop boring her to death and take her out.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:46 PM
1

Here's the thing, if you want to be successful at your job/career, you need to care about what your boss thinks. No need to feel guilty as long as you are handling your shit, documenting it and keeping the boss apprised.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:46 PM
1

If you believe in what you're doing, invest in yourself. Spend that decent money into smart improvements to make your product better/more cost effective. Also, in that line of work, you need to have a backup plan. Tiktok could be a thing of the past in just a year from now. You got to have options. When you start making enough money to resemble a regular salary, consider hiring an accountant.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:39 PM
2

If you're suspicious then it's already too late. You need to setup boundaries before this shit happens.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:32 PM
1

In your case, psychotherapy. Measuring yourself by the perceptions and expectations of others will lead to a life full of insecurity.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:27 PM
4

Yes. Stop "flirting" or whatever the fuck you're doing and make plans. If she flakes or hesitates then she just want you as an orbiter. Also, never be overt about other women. It should be implied but never expressly stated.
/r/askTRP19/02/21 03:25 PM
3

Of course they are. Those dry dick virgins do the same thing.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 08:30 PM
3

and now this "male friend". Safe to say there is always a few more you don't know about.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:35 PM
2

She's still a plate therefore you do not care. This is all part of the process of "vetting". Would you LTR this woman knowing she is having (probably lots of) casual sex and likely has a high N count? That's up to you.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:30 PM
2

yeah, if you're in a LTR you pretty much have to do something. But "that's it" doesn't sit well with me. It's one thing to be disappointed and put on a happy face, but when she pulls that out you pretty much have to put her in her place.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:24 PM
4

She sounds like a problem. For her to pull "that's it?" really shows her entitlement. Bring the flowers to someone who will appreciate them. The worst thing you can do is try to "make-up" for this. I know more than a few friends whose relationships ended on similar circumstances. But then again, ending this sounds like a good thing.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 06:07 PM
2

Drinking is the world's oldest and greatest pastime. Unless you live in the sticks, there are bars everywhere. It doesn't have to be the trendiest bars, though you'll have better talent there.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:54 PM
0

Unless you are in a famous rock band, chicks don't just sit outside your hotel room waiting to get fucked. You still have to try as a top % male. You still have to initiate, you will still have to pass shit tests. But as any guy who has made significant improvements to their body can tell you, it's much much easier and you'll have more opportunities with much more attractive women.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:52 PM
2

You don't owe her anything. If you're not "feeling it" then that's good enough. Just end it.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:46 PM
1

usually they are just asking if you approve of how they would look in them. Either way, don't waste too much of your time. That's what her girlfriends are for.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:43 PM
1

Getting a room together is not subtle.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:41 PM
1

She's not yours, it was just your turn.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:26 PM
1

Start by not caring if you lose her. Then tell her the truth without being too overt. "Yeah I'm dating around, but I like what we have going".
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:23 PM
1

Instead of bricking half court shots, hit a few layups.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:21 PM
2

Take "I can't" out of your vocabulary. As long as you keep saying "I can't I can't I can't", then you won't.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:19 PM
6

She talks to him or about him.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:17 PM
8

Why are people so afraid of bars? It's the ideal place to meet attractive dtf women.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:16 PM
3

She's pretty much bottom of the barrel for LTR. If you're just going to fuck around with her casually then I don't think it matters.
/r/askTRP15/02/21 05:13 PM
3

To his credit he did a couple of things right. Was attractive enough to be pursued Had his logistics in order He took the hint and initiated, first by riding together and then next by inviting over.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/21 04:49 PM
3

"Would you like to start a tab?" Hell no.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/21 04:37 PM
3

I got the picture when you didn't punt her to the curb after she kissed John. What were the other 10,000 words about?
/r/TheRedPill15/02/21 04:18 PM
1

what's going on I'm giving you objective facts while you are spinning your hamster trying to convince yourself that your girl is "special" and "different". some of the things you say are confusing. What's confusing? Read the sidebar. She's full of red flags & you don't need to settle or lock yourself down. There is no upside for you.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:23 PM
1

Women aren't perfect. No they are not. But your abortion princess doesn't even register as mediocre. I'm not talking about the women that I attract, I'm talking about women as a whole. You must not meet many. Lots of girls who are educated and successful. Do you live in the sticks? You've clearly made up your mind so enjoy your mediocre future.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 07:02 PM
15

There's no guarantees in life except death. Since you can't make her sign a contract to give you head, your best bet is to just make her horny enough to do it. Be attractive, use kino, and escalate.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:58 PM
1

It's the same old shit. So throw in the towel and go bang another dozen women. No. Go focus on your mission and maybe bang some women along the way. Why are women your focal point? Most with shit jobs like women do. Some with a good education. Most with useless liberal arts degrees. Most in debt. All broken one way or another. Like I said, billions of women in the world. If you're only attracting shit women, then that is a you problem. Most of us do not have this issue. One day I plan to get off…
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:39 PM
1

Because I'm tired So you're settling... You don't HAVE to have a woman. The fact that you think you need one shows you have a lot of work to do.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:25 PM
3

Don't waste your time on a chick who brings no value. She's essentially just a penpal and time sink at this point.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:12 PM
1

You're not capable of loving in the way you thought love existed. Now you know what "real" love is on both sides. You're just dealing with reality now.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:10 PM
1

With billions of girls walking the earth, why would you settle for one who has had one if you're a high value man with options? You just puked up 1000 words about this ONE girl. The whole posts reads like you convincing yourself this girl is good enough despite little to no evidence she is. You admit this yourself. Now you're being defensive. This is oneitis if I've ever seen it.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:04 PM
15

What's autistic are the spergs that take the phrase literally. Text for logistics doesn't even relate to LTRs. It's about potential plates.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:01 PM
1

You have no frame at all if people looking at you funny bothers you so much. Stop giving a fuck.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:59 PM
6

Your instincts are right to not listen to her. You'd be operating in her frame and she'd lose attraction. Either brush it off with a simple no thanks or tease her a little and say your are too busy watching [insert other hot youtuber here]. Then if on your terms you want to like or comment on a video here or there then fine.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:57 PM
3

She had an abortion and has a myriad of other red flags. If you had abundance I doubt this girl would even be top 3 in your plate rotation. For someone to be LTR worthy she needs to be exceptional. I don't see anything special about this chick other than she's your only option atm.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 05:54 PM
1

Asked and answered. you have no frame.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:29 PM
1

Don't want to be called an incel? Don't act like a whiny bitch. The fact that you care about these 5s shows you have no frame. Read the side bar. Here's an idea, don't present yourself in a way where you can be rejected. Strike up a conversation not about her or your interest in her. Make her qualify herself to you, not the other way around. Not interested? Bitchy? Her loss. On to the next one. Stop pouting like a bitch.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 07:20 PM
5

take it easy Eliot Rodger. You should see this as a sign that your approach/frame sucks and that your SMV probably isn't as high as you think it is.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:24 PM
1

Wear sunscreen. Sleep. Healthy lifestyle. Stay lean.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 06:14 PM
4

Short term, shower her with flowers and gifts and be a nice guy until she dumps you. Long term, fix your frame.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 05:49 PM
1

It's not helpful to you, because you refuse to accept that you're being a whiny bitch. You're not on tinder? Then why are you complaining about it? UK is going through a major corona spike. The only way you're going to get laid is by matching with bored horny chicks. The UK is not a magical place where women don't exist. If you're not getting matches and fucking them then you are not attractive enough, period.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:42 PM
-1

You seem upset.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:37 PM
0

Yes, validate yourself to me. I wonder why you can't get laid?
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:29 PM
1

Guys who say they are "decent looking" are more often than not, hideous.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:25 PM
5

If you're not hot enough to bang 6s on Tinder then stop what you're doing and go workout.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:18 PM
2

Those who stop thinking about fucking other women will soon find themselves out of a LTR.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:12 PM
5

Just calm down and bang a 6.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 04:07 PM
4

If that was the mindset then sure. But the OP is clearly written as "do this and girls will like you". If that's your motivation then you don't have the frame to attract women anyway.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 03:53 PM
9

What you call "double standards" I just call standards. Men and women are different and thus their standards are different.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:48 PM
2

School is a whole other realm. Success isn't a real metric women use yet. You got attention because you were being alpha, i.e. doing what you wanted to do despite the consequences... not because you read in a magazine that stubble is "in".
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 03:46 PM
3

In my experience, Kino and escalation was the single most important thing for getting laid. You can have all the fun and chemistry on a date, but if you're not touching her then you're not getting laid.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:44 PM
6

No, but your insecurity over this is a precursor.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:38 PM
6

This is right, but you have it backwards. It's being successful that attracts women, not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 03:36 PM
9

Sounds like a unique problem. Condoms are worse than raw but maybe making a 10/10 an 8.5/10. Only advice I can give is to keep experimenting with different brands and fit, particularly the ones that tout extra sensitivity or ultra thin.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:35 PM
5

"Yeah but Kim is busy on Thursday".
/r/askTRP30/12/20 03:28 PM
9

Caring about your looks is not the same as catering your looks to please women.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 03:26 PM
8

A guy who lifts to please women.... A guy who browses TRP to fuck women.... Etc. And? You shouldn't be doing any of these things to please women. Build muscle to be a strong powerful man. Browse TRP to reverse the brainwashing and see the world for how it is. Pleasing women is just a by-product. If you set out to do something to make people or a person like you, then you have a shit frame and that will come across. She's leading you.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 03:05 PM
1

Some good points, some shit points. To boil it down, marriage and kids is TRP on hard mode. We are literally made to pass down our genetics (if we can). Is that worth the hard trek? Up to you.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 02:59 PM
2

Can't have your life revolve around her & her family. Instead she should be trying to fit her way into your life.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 02:54 PM
7

They will if you're hot enough.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 02:43 PM
1

All signs point to a return to normalcy sometime this year. I think you can expect a new roaring 20's, at least initially. People will be trying to be making up for lost time.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 02:39 PM
-9

A guy who changes his facial hair just to please women won't be fucking them with a frame like that.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/20 02:30 PM
1

They are celibate except for the ones that don't count.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:49 PM
1

Same reason why guys in prison fuck guys.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 08:46 PM
29

Where should I go from here? You move on. The trick to 10s is to treat them like 5s. If a 5 stood you up (for any reason) would you even talk to her again? Stop wasting your time.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 07:14 PM
2

Yup. Crawling back only reinforces why you fizzled out in the first place.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 06:35 PM
1

Being a jerk is easy. Just say fuck off miss piggy.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 05:28 PM
6

Lots of betas blame their problems on their family. Too common and not at all advised except under extreme circumstances.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:56 PM
1

Say thank you and turn around/walk away. Gets the message across and you're not overtly being a jerk.
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:54 PM
5

Why are you even monitoring her social media?
/r/askTRP07/12/20 04:52 PM
3

Yeah because you were being a bitch. “Sorry I thought the picture said 7 not 730. It won’t happen again.” Chances are you wouldn’t have been written up if you acted like a professional. You’re going to need a lot more emotional intelligence if you want to succeed in sales. Yes it was a nothing job but it’s one less thing on your resume.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 11:39 PM
2

You do what you’re always supposed to do. Be a man and set something up. Nothing changes other than handling the shit test.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 11:34 PM
5

If you can’t see it clearly and don’t say anything then it’s your mistake. Also you’re not gaming your boss. You are subservient to your boss, that’s how jobs work in the real world. Stop being the cliche college kid who always thinks they’re a victim.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 11:29 PM
6

You fucked up. If it was blurry you should have asked for clarification. Then you could have just apologized and moved on. Instead you acted like a bitch and escalated things.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 10:06 PM
3

Texting is for logistics.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 10:02 PM
1

Texting is for logistics.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 10:00 PM
0

Pretty much Everyone is willing too fuck strangers from online if u seem worth it. Yeah, that's my point. "Not everyone" no shit.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:28 PM
4

Maybe. You'll have to try to find out. She already called you out when she said "is that your way of asking for my number". She basically called you a bitch, though you recovered nicely. Take the hint and be direct.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 09:00 PM
11

Yup. Same bitches crying on social media to stay home and mask up are willing to fuck strangers they meet online. But yeah, pretending that the pandemic is the reason you can't get laid certainly feels better.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:58 PM
5

You didn't escalate. As lame as the "hand size" gimmick is, at least it starts the kino process. But you stopped there.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:43 PM
17

Stop beating around the bush tell her to come to this place at this time and do this thing with you. Anymore wishy-washy shit from her and you can write her off as an attention whore and move on.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:41 PM
3

Stop feeling sorry for yourself.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:39 PM
1

Still illegal where I'm from.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:28 PM
1

Yeah, keep telling yourself that. Plates break. Don't over think it.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:27 PM
1

Probably shouldn't admit to watching underage pornography.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:26 PM
11

Lockdown/no lockdown; girls will drive through a blizzard to fuck Chad.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:14 PM
5

You treat them like a dial-a-pussy and don't care if one or more plates break. Doesn't have to be complicated.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:13 PM
2

There is a sidebar that covers this. Just be fun. Look for and pass shit tests and most of all escalate.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:11 PM
16

You should probably fuck them too to see how they stack up. Stop worrying about everyone else. Just keep working on you, never be satisfied.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:07 PM
4

Your failures are because you suck, not because your brother is chad. Stop being a narcissist and recognize the fault lies with you not the world, your brother, or whoever else you are blaming that day to feel better about yourself.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:06 PM
81

They only submit when an acceptable dominant man presents himself. That's partly the reason for the bitchiness, to scare away the boys.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:04 PM
5

"You're too young for me" is a shit test. You failed. Generally speaking if were actually rejected and see this person again you would acknowledge their existence with a perfectly friendly hello. Then ignore them completely.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 08:02 PM
1

So do I, and I don't have to take a picture in front of a restaurant to do it.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/20 04:06 PM
3

Height matters. It should be easy mode for you. Being that tall will make people notice you. It's up to you to make sure they like what they see. Lifting and dressing well will get you 90% of the way there. And like you've experienced, commenting on your height is an easy way for interested girls to open you. So figure out the best way to handle that in a fun teasing way that would allow you to pursue the conversation further.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:55 PM
1

You were right to bail, but no need to act butthurt and give her the silent treatment. Should have left to grab a coffee/drink whatever and teased her about being late. Suggesting that she makes it up to you is standard go-to.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:47 PM
1

Dread.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:44 PM
3

Wherever there is the largest number of women to game. Can't let yourself be paralyzed by this fear of risk. If you are thinking about this, you will fail.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:24 PM
1

So what do I do, stop arguing and go back to being the example? Yeah. Just like with relationships DEERing only backfires. No reason to argue. Say what you believe as if you know it to be true. Don't try to convince her, it will just come off as you trying to convince yourself.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:19 PM
12

No. Engineering dread is transparent. Continue cultivating abundance and you won't have to leave bread crumbs. BTW she should be the one convincing you to LTR her. Not the other way around.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:14 PM
4

One of the last parts of red pill theory is to internalize. That just takes time and effort. Keep reading, keep learning and being a high value man becomes part of your muscle memory (because you are continually becoming one).
/r/askTRP27/11/20 03:12 PM
1

Value is relative. If these parlor tricks are good enough to help you get laid, then you're attractive enough to not need them and could instead focus on your mission instead of tricking dumb thots to sleep with you.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/20 03:04 PM
1

Sad. They are so anxious about building HER comfort. Not realizing they are operating directly in her frame.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/20 03:00 PM
30

Title: Modern dating is fucked. that's the point.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/20 02:49 PM
1

It's not about being a cheater, it's about being an attractive man so that if she was gone tomorrow you would hardly notice because HB 9s were already blowing up your DMs. And "coming off as a cheater" is GOOD for your relationship. It's called dread.
/r/askTRP27/11/20 02:21 PM
2

Just act like a successful guy who fucks and you won't need to leave out your mother's panties for her to assume you're doing a lot of fucking.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 06:47 PM
2

Because you have no other options.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 06:45 PM
3

You need to have enough abundance to not care if she did or not.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 06:44 PM
2

Being unavailable and treating her like you only want her for sex will only make her find you more attractive. But as always, it's just your turn.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 06:42 PM
1

Yes. They are not special. Do not treat them as such.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 06:36 PM
3

Dumb pickup shit still going on in TRP 2020? The whole point of TRP is stop operating in the female frame. Let me make HER feel comfortable is pretty much anti-trp thinking. Instead you should demonstrate that you are awesome and that she is missing out. If she's not comfortable, her loss and you're on to the next one.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 04:36 PM
1

Drinking the kool-aid. You can establish rapport in just a few minutes. She only needs to confirm that you're real, fun, and not creepy. Every text you send after that only hurts you. Every match she has is trying to chat her up. Be different.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 04:25 PM
9

Amazing how it continues to shift. "They are a PRIVATE business and can censor", "Don't like it start your own". And when you do, they advocate for the dismantling of that platform.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/20 04:06 PM
4

You tell a girl to join you because it shows you are an assertive leader, and because you are doing cool stuff with or without her, not because you want to obfuscate your true intentions. If you want to go out with her to get to know her then tell her to do something with you that doesn't hide your intention. "Hey, come grab a coffee with me". "I'm going to X PUB tonight. Come have a whiskey with me"
/r/askTRP26/09/20 09:19 PM
1

Because they have to fuck someone. There are a limited number of alphas out there, and they're getting increasingly rare. An attractive simp is better than nothing. And if the good looking simps are getting laid imagine the action the alphas are getting.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 09:13 PM
1

She's just trying to get commitment out of you. It's simultaneously an ultimatum and a "look at what you'll be missing". In her hamster brain she thinks you'll be wowed and desperately want that in your life. Luckily you're a high value man with abundance so it's just theatrics.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 09:08 PM
1

Hilarious, she wouldn't require verification from Chad.
/r/askTRP26/09/20 08:48 PM
7

No thanks, I just ate.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 09:12 PM
1

Well, you've answered your own question then.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 08:57 PM
0

Because I know nobody that goes to my university And why is that? Go meet people.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 08:54 PM
1

Because you're lame. Why do you have to wait to be invited? Why aren't you making plans?
/r/askTRP25/09/20 08:51 PM
2

I’m just wondering what I should do with this block of wood. Whatever you want. But don't expect apple juice when you squeeze an orange. You're clearly not satisfied with her or the quality of woman you can attract. Be capable of attracting better woman, I think your satisfaction will increase.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 08:44 PM
3

Why not just fuck those thots with looks of 9 regardless of their intelligence? I'm fine with that. You're the one complaining about the block of wood you're fucking. What is a “high value man”? Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 08:38 PM
8

If it doesn't work for you, then you're not attractive enough. Texting is for logistics.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 08:37 PM
1

Depends on your SMV and her SMV.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 08:36 PM
4

Intelligent 9s exist and want to fuck a high value man. Try being that.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 08:32 PM
1

That's a matter of opinion and preference. But there is almost no universe where a the chick you're "dating" is considered high value. Your attitude toward women has more to do with you than them. When you're capable of attracting high value women, I suspect your attitude will change.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 08:25 PM
9

High value women are worth plenty to a high value man. Those same women that you see as self entitled would sacrifice everything for chad. If you're not getting worth from them, it's because you are not deserving of it. Even that aside, I think seducing women is worthwhile if nothing more than a feather in your cap so you know you are high enough value to attract them.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 08:20 PM
3

When you are only able to attract low value women, why would you be surprised that you find them dull?
/r/askTRP25/09/20 08:15 PM
2

She hasn't told her mother or sister (and told you this), but she told you... some dude she is casually banging? Think about it.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:51 PM
2

And don't forget to wear that collar she picked out for you like a good little boy.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:47 PM
8

If you actually had abundance, you wouldn't even remember this girl.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:38 PM
1

Do you read the main sub? There many many examples. Uncle Vasya has fucked more 20 year old HB9s then the majority dudes in their 20s anywhere.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:37 PM
1

Eat pussy because you like to eat pussy, not to please her and make her want to see you again. Coming from a place where you are seeking approval from her will make you come across as beneath her.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:26 PM
2

Most guys find it hard to stay in shape at that age. Most blue pill betas have trouble staying in shape at any age. Even pro athletes. lol no.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:21 PM
1

Again you have much to learn, and why would you be anything but "super in shape"?
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:16 PM
47

"You have a cute dog too"; "You give good back massages too"; "You make a great sandwich too" The important thing is you don't explicitly deny it.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:15 PM
7

Either make a joke of it or Just totally ignore it and carry on like normal. "Speak of the devil, I was just going to see if you wanted to get drinks on friday".
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:12 PM
1

I’m not sure I can do that just as easily in my mid 40s. You have much to learn.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:09 PM
4

Pulling you into her orbit. Next.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:08 PM
2

Why would it be a problem?
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:06 PM
2

They are very poor candidates for dating. Most have been on the CC for a loooong time and have very high N counts. Also add to the fact that this is the age where they get baby fever panic and try to lock down a man. But most importantly, if you have high SMV why would you ever choose a postwall woman?
/r/askTRP25/09/20 07:03 PM
1

Follow up day after. "Had a great time, thanks for the study session". The point is to illicit a response that she also had a good time too. Then there is no point in contacting again until you want to set something else up or if she initiates.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 06:59 PM
5

Just look at the facts. Condoms are 99% effective. The pill and UID are 99% effective Couple that with the fact that women are only likely to get pregnant 20% of the time you are looking at a one in 10,000 chance.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 06:54 PM
11

No point in dwelling on the past. You can't change it. Focus on all the crazy fun you can have right now.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 05:40 PM
1

Have abundance. Continue to fuck other women and actively acquire new plates.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 05:19 PM
3

Sex isn't that special. You don't need to have the "perfect" 1st time. You also don't need to settle on some fat hoe either. Get a girl you are attracted to and don't worry about "connecting enough".
/r/askTRP22/09/20 05:16 PM
3

It's not personal, it's biology. Don't get mad at water for being wet. Channel your anger toward lifting.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 05:11 PM
1

You don't. You acquire more plates. If you're a high value man, they won't lose interest or they'll come back.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 05:08 PM
1

Just say "sure" and go no contact unless she initiates. Hit her up next week only if you have nothing else going on.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 05:05 PM
1

Your opener sucks. Don't give them physical compliments. I'm sure covid is hurting most people's day game success rates as well.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:53 PM
5

Since i'm not a beta anymore False
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:45 PM
49

I wont fully undergo the grieving process and will carry the burden of her death with me the rest if my life. Sorry to say, but you will carry the burden no matter what. Crying won't suddenly ease the burden. You can be there for your family by grieving together, picking up the pieces and moving on.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:44 PM
2

It's not uncommon for people in a group to resent the person who is bettering themselves. Some call it, Crab bucket mentality.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:39 PM
3

Because you created enough perceived value in yourself to have sex with a woman. Whereas jerking off takes no effort.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:37 PM
4

There is nothing in RP meant to teach you to be average.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:29 PM
6

If you are a high value man capable of fucking high smv women then you probably spent a lot of time pursuing your ambition, earning money, and fulfilling your dreams. The goal isn't to chase pussy, it's to be a good enough man to make women want to have sex with you.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:27 PM
1

Hard Next.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 04:23 PM
2

If you don't set something up with a Tinder match within 24 hours then your efforts are better spent elsewhere.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:35 PM
7

Do you expect to hear anything else except "don't dig through the trash"? You're already seeing red flags about her gold digging. There are millions of girls out there, to think about one you've already used is scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP22/09/20 03:34 PM
10

Yet another Tinder experiment post. The results will shock you
/r/TheRedPill22/09/20 03:24 PM
1

She's inexperienced?
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:26 PM
8

Scarcity as in you just posted a wall of text about this one hoe who dumped your beta ass.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:15 PM
6

Scarcity mentality.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:10 PM
6

Escalate & Isolate Engage with her friends only if you want to or if you have to.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:03 PM
8

No need to read this wall of text. You have oneitis. When you have some abundance you'll wonder why you would want to do this.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 10:01 PM
23

Aesthetics is mostly diet. Hit your protein macros and eat a surplus. If you're skinny then no need to cut until you have a frame you're satisfied with.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 09:59 PM
5

Can't care about whining. Treat them like toddlers. Sometimes they whine, cry and scream. Adults don't let the tantrums of a toddler affect them. The whining stops quickly when you are a high value man with options.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 08:57 PM
3

Black pill thinking is a self fulfilling prophecy. You exude insecurity when you think this way. Stop worrying about your 300lb bench pressing friend. If you read any of the side bar, just bench pressing large volumes of weight alone won't get you laid. There are a million other factors that could affect his poor results. As for you, stop bitching until you are under 15% body fat and can dead lift 300 lbs. At 6'2" you can be on easy mode if you would just stop feeling sorry for yourself.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 08:54 PM
13

When you don't have your shit together your women will act up. Don't be wishy-washy. Want to get brunch with her? Then make a plan and do it. This "maybe" "we'll see" nonsense is seen as weakness. If you don't want to do it, just say no. Now that the damage is done, just withdraw attention and engage later. Step your game up.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 08:45 PM
5

Your best bet is to find an accomplished mentor or a peer that has gone through or is going through the same thing. Med school is it's own unique animal.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 07:38 PM
5

You can't fix her body issues. All you can do is lead by example. But why would you want to be captain save a fat hoe at 28? If her weight, diet, and emotional mood swings are bad at 25 what do you think they'll look like at 30? 45?
/r/askTRP21/09/20 07:35 PM
1

It's tinder, she wants to fuck. Invite her out and escalate.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 07:26 PM
3

Since you have limited time/days focusing on compound exercises will give you the most bang for your buck. Pick the rotation of body parts that works for you and center your workout with the compound exercise. As an example: Day 1: Chest & Arms -BENCH, Dips and curls and build around that Day 2: Legs: SQUATS add any accessory lifts Day 3: Back & Shoulders : DEADLIFT & Overhead press, add any accessory lifts
/r/askTRP21/09/20 07:24 PM
8

You don't need to be a hardo. As long as you are still leading, you're not necessarily entering her frame. Also there are ways you can insist on going there without just saying "no I won't pick another place". Remember to keep it fun. "Good so you have no excuse when I beat you"
/r/askTRP21/09/20 07:17 PM
1

Talking too much is a huge part of your problem. It's annoying, feminine, and shows too much investment. Being quiet and aloof is a good way to incorporate more "push" For 1st dates, the conversation should be mostly fun. DO NOT interview her or let her interview you. Obviously basic questions will come up, but it's your job to turn them toward something fun. Getting rejected for a kiss 75% of the time is awful. Your escalation must suck and or you are not reading her accurately. If you haven't …
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:36 PM
1

What does the "baggage" matter if you don't deal with it or put up with any affects from it?
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:24 PM
16

Sounds like you handled it well. Best course of action is to listen, give one word responses and don't do anything to illicit further elaboration. Then pivot to something fun and light as soon as possible.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:21 PM
1

She just wants to confirm you are a beta to validate her feelings/decisions. Why give it to her?
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:13 PM
2

Not being in control of your emotions is a feminine trait. Anger is a normal response to the shock of the redpill, but as you progress through the material you should understand how irrational and unproductive that is.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:11 PM
2

She'll gladly sacrifice her reputation for money. Also, being a "sex worker" is not nearly as taboo as it once was. I'm sure she has a niche of people who celebrate that choice.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:07 PM
2

Normal part of the process. You may feel depressed until you accept reality. You may find yourself over thinking things until you internalize RP teachings.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:03 PM
11

sidebar advises against focusing on one girl but... No one needs to read your post beyond this. You have oneitis.
/r/askTRP21/09/20 05:01 PM
1

Every body is different. How you store fat can affect what weight is ideal or acceptable. Just shoot for your athletic goal, and calibrate based on the attention you're getting.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 05:55 PM
5

You're an adult right? I don't buy other adults presents unless they are family or an SO. Showing up with a bottle of wine/beer/food is common practice for me.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 05:48 PM
2

You're the captain. The captain doesn't ASK his crew anything. The crew obliges because they know they can be replaced. Sounds like your LTR doesn't have that fear. Up your dread game.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 05:45 PM
2

Took too long to escalate Couldn't deal with basic lmr Mentioned her boyfriend
/r/askTRP18/09/20 05:36 PM
1

Just find younger women, lead, and vet them.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 05:10 PM
3

Stop worrying about their interest. Be a fun guy who does cool shit and they'll want to do it with you. When you want to do cool stuff, hit them up. Otherwise, there is no need to give them undeserved attention.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 05:07 PM
1

Bad assumption. "The guy you don't need to worry about" is always the guy she's fucking.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 05:05 PM
8

This is the main reason most of the people here should delete the dating apps. When you go out, you don't need to be intimidated by competition because 90% of them never even step up to bat.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 04:15 PM
7

Cliffs: banging 6s takes no effort at all.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/20 04:12 PM
3

Everybody? OP does, which is who my post is directed at.
/r/askTRP18/09/20 01:49 AM
2

How many body builders are doing weighted pushups? There's more efficient ways to build mass. If you enjoy doing them so be it, but you're getting sub optimal performance.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 08:42 PM
2

Escalation was not an issue here, my lips were numb 1 hour into the date. ...but you didn't fuck her.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 08:34 PM
9

When she becomes a gf.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 08:04 PM
3

Careful. If you let her act like your mommy she will lose attraction eventually.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:54 PM
6

Well your method failed you here. You didn't escalate enough on the first meet. Now you're scheduling "romantic dates" and checking in on her. Read between the lines. She sees you as a clinger and is heading for the hills.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:50 PM
11

Hello autist. She is being playful. You should be playful in return. Also, stop starting convos with "hey, what are you looking for".
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:44 PM
1

OP is already underweight. Calisthenics will just slow his progress towards a larger frame, which is his stated goal. If you just want to be fit and aesthetic, then I agree.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:36 PM
2

It's just inefficient. Put the same effort into your bench or other exercises and you'll get much greater results.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 07:01 PM
16

Start by turning off the video games and go do stuff. Get into a hobby that betters your life.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:48 PM
1

Starting strength (5x5) will certainly increase your strength. Especially as a novice.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:38 PM
2

Sounds like you were her only option. She's a plate and your her plate so who cares? Set something up and if you get anything short of "yes" then just ignore.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:25 PM
-4

If your goal is to gain mass then just focus on starting strength. And to put it simply, bigger weights = bigger muscles Calisthenics will burn more calories and hurt your gains.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:23 PM
5

Better off getting a belt and chain. Weighted vests put the weight in unnatural portions of your body, whereas the belt and chain hangs with gravity. Weighted pushups are pretty worthless. just increase your bench.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:19 PM
3

Trying to lure you into her orbit. Don't waste your time.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:15 PM
6

I sent her a text today to see what she's up to Why? Texting is for logistics. You come off as needy. Might be one reason she lost interest.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:14 PM
6

Stop being afraid of offending her.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 06:12 PM
2

She's a plate. Start passing comfort tests and you'll have yourself a girlfriend. No need to explain yourself. Let the plate break if you have to.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 05:37 PM
1

The long term fix is about bettering yourself, overcoming your insecurities, and elevating yourself above the trivial opinions of a woman. But that will take years and is a process that continues forever. In the short term, just remember to never DEER. And when in doubt, STFU.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 05:28 PM
1

Can't meet girls if you won't talk to them.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 05:22 PM
1

Your frame sucks. A woman can't change your mood or how you feel, only you can. Treat her like how you'd treat your son. Walking away is always an option, but you'll have to weigh that with seeing your kid.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 05:18 PM
5

Kino + isolation
/r/askTRP17/09/20 05:13 PM
5

Example, arguing with my LTR, after every fight I give her silent treatment. You don't argue with women. Treat her like a toddler, her bad behavior can't change your mood or behavior.
/r/askTRP17/09/20 05:07 PM
3

Think about what constitutes a good speaker. They come across as confident and capable.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 08:43 PM
1

put your butt hurt aside for a minute. My post isn't even directed at you. I don't give a fuck what you do. It's directed at others who are considering this approach. There are questions as to whether or not you should even want to have a direct to home hookup. Women who will do this are low value You should be vetting her almost as much as she is vetting you. You don't have the opportunity to do that when you just show up with wine and condoms. "Not every girl is going to be open to having a st…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 05:51 PM
1

If she's just giving brief, terse replies, then chances are she just wants dick. They all just want dick. It's a matter of getting over her ASD. All of this came about from getting rejected or ghosted by girls when I asked them out on an actual date. Date? Just say, I'm by (place near her) come have a drink. This can still be a right here right now approach. No need to plan, set dates and times etc. The more casual the better. But I'll tell you, this approach works very well for me I'm sure it w…
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 05:26 PM
6

Obviously. The questions from OP is in the context of getting laid. If you're already having sex then this is moot.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 05:06 PM
5

There's no need to ever talk overtly about sex. Just follow the escalation ladder.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 04:58 PM
1

You can't recognize when she doesn't want to meet you out. You never know if your proposal is going to trigger her ASD. A girl that's down to have you over right now and a girl that's down to fuck after having a cup of coffee say the exact same things in a tinder conversation. Obviously if you match at 2AM or she just says "come fuck me" then you don't need a guide. This guide is fine, but it's not the most efficient for getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/20 04:54 PM
2

Just imagine that conversation in your mind so you feel better about yourself and then forget about it. In reality, she won't give a fuck and you'll look like a bitch. You are her orbiter, she'll always see you as her orbiter. Just cut all contact and move on.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 02:57 PM
6

If a girl is willing to come over to your place alone, then she is willing to have sex with you. Just don't fuck it up.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 02:52 PM
8

You don't need to text anything. Instead you should be gaming other women. If she gets back to you and you're free then great, if not then you're already on to the next.
/r/askTRP16/09/20 02:50 PM
15

I don't know why every loser here needs a clinical diagnosis to justify their feelings toward a person. Narcissist, Bi-polar or just a bitch. Doesn't matter. Is she adding drama to your life? Yes? Then why put up with it?
/r/askTRP16/09/20 02:44 PM
4

I don't want to go for abs Not into hot women?
/r/askTRP15/09/20 08:44 PM
16

It's a red flag that she talks about her ex at all. plus more often than not "My ex treated me like shit" just translates to "i'm an alpha widow".
/r/askTRP15/09/20 08:32 PM
5

There are some companies that offer "universal gym membership". You pay a monthly membership and they give you access to thousands of gyms. Check them out to see if they have partnerships in the regions you'll be traveling in. otherwise it's worth it to pay the temporary memberships if you can afford it and serious about putting on mass.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 08:30 PM
1

Single mothers want to fuck a high value man like everyone else. The real question is, why are you lacking in options that you would consider pursuing a single mother?
/r/askTRP15/09/20 08:15 PM
32

She's holding the pussy hostage. And you should never negotiate with terrorists. When plates add drama to your life you soft next them. Either she comes back or not.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 08:11 PM
2

If you ask it as if you are sincerely interested then it hurts you big time. If you ask it just to give a playful response to her answer then it's fine.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 07:04 PM
11

If you can't even check in on the weekends then the odds are very much stacked against you.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 07:02 PM
15

Just follow the escalation ladder and calibrate. Start simple and build up. Touch her arm while making a point. Did she recoil in horror? No? Ok then go a step further. If you ramp it up correctly, going for the kiss is easy. The tension will be so palpable that she'll just be waiting for you to do it.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 06:50 PM
1

You're probably just having bad sex. If you've just been doing one night stands maybe try plating someone for a longer period of time and build some sexual familiarity. In saying that; they were both quite attractive but nothing to brag about. Also try banging someone worth bragging about.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 06:32 PM
3

How desperate and pathetic are you?
/r/askTRP15/09/20 06:28 PM
1

All you can do is withdraw your attention. If she doesn't panic and change then she doesn't care enough.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 06:17 PM
3

Have abundance.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 06:14 PM
3

dominating women is not an achievement. It's like being the smartest retard in class.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 06:13 PM
66

You've just received confirmation that she was/is on the cock carousel. To be turned off is normal. For most this would disqualify her as a LTR prospect. I wouldn't knowingly take the sloppy seconds of a friend, but if it doesn't bother you then just keep her as a plate.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 06:09 PM
3

Personally, I don't mix business and pleasure. If you wanted to pursue this, you should have escalated/flirted while she was teasing you.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 06:05 PM
4

"Of course I do, that blowjob you gave me last night was amazing". Just validate what you want to reinforce.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 06:02 PM
3

Those thoughts should turn you off from being in one. Think about it, for you to commit yourself to just one woman she needs to be extraordinary. That's why it's recommended that you just vet a plate for a long period of time. When she is worthy of your commitment then you consider it.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 06:00 PM
1

Though this guide will work, your % of success will increase greatly if you: 1. Message them some light teasing or fun banter first. 2. Offer to meet "out" somewhere Like the OP says, she just wants dick but meeting out at a bar/coffee shop or whatever lowers her ASD and allows her to vet you. In my experience the meet can last as little as 15 minutes before going back to your or her place.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/20 05:56 PM
8

There's no need to decipher anything. Maybe she's being playful. Maybe she's rejecting you politely. Maybe she never had interest and just wants you as an orbiter. Just maintain frame, and try to set something up. If she gives you the runaround then she is wasting your time and should be dropped immediately.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 07:27 PM
2

The "red pill" aspect of the ideology is that everything you've been conditioned about women is a lie. That's the wake up in the real world dystopia moment.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 05:47 PM
5

Milk, cheese, fatty red meats.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 05:44 PM
2

The faster you move the stronger the ASD. That's why it's recommended that you build comfort and change venues, it subconsciously allows her to connect you to more locations and therefore she sees it as multiple interactions and lets her justify sleeping with you. When you just meet and say "hop in my car" she'll eventually reflect and think "my god, I'm about to go home with a guy I just met. I'm not a slut".
/r/askTRP11/09/20 05:43 PM
3

When you pass a shit test she ultimately melts and becomes more submissive to you. If she doesn't fall in line, assuming you are holding your shit together, then she's just a being a bitch.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 05:37 PM
1

It's not wise to make overt ultimatums. Some things don't need to be said. Now if you even speak to this girl again (sounds like you are) it comes across as a crack in your frame. And for future reference, women are wrongfully or irrationally mad all the time.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 02:20 PM
1

Learn how to balance your mission and women. Know what your priorities are and never substitute a lower priority for another and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 02:16 PM
2

If you're thinking about banging a 4 or 5 then your SMV is already so low that you don't need to worry about this.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 02:02 PM
3

Her coming on strongly towards you, and then dumping you out of nowhere sounds like a classic borderline move. Did you read the rest of his post? He is so blue pill that she is repulsed by him. She was just being nice. We don't need to blame everything on BPD.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 01:59 PM
4

Holy shit. You will be cringing at this for decades. Going through this might be the best way to learn.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 01:55 PM
5

You'll be a failure anywhere with that mindset. I’ve lost some weight... in spite of the fact that my family tempts me with unhealthy food daily Are you 6 or 26? You're a grown man, you choose what you put in your body. You being fat or not losing weight is only your fault. I'm all for getting out of your comfort zone, but you need to be in the right frame of mind. Your victim mentality will just lead you back in the house and more depressed than before. Come up with a mission. Get job, move out…
/r/askTRP11/09/20 01:51 PM
2

The answer is any place where there are women. I recommend getting good at picking up women at bars/clubs first. They are there specifically to be approached.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 01:45 PM
2

Chick dig scars. Just don't play helpless victim or be whiny.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 01:42 PM
2

Am I just being used as her orbiter for validation and attention? This question is easily answered by taking her out and escalating. That being said, stop with scarcity mindset of getting with coworkers.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 01:38 PM
3

Sign of the times. Hilarious. If you want to have this job - "Sorry sir, won't happen again"
/r/askTRP11/09/20 01:33 PM
6

All the faces that laughed at me, that looked disgusted at me, all of the emotions hit me in one strike and I am in some form of stasis not able to think, act and respond properly. You give too many fucks. All the dance lessons in the world won't fix this.
/r/askTRP11/09/20 01:30 PM
1

Maybe she was a psycho, maybe not. But you were stepping on landmines all night. If you're looking for a wife get over your shyness and delete Tinder.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 01:21 PM
1

But it CAN'T be MY fault that I'm a failure. It's the system. /s
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 01:12 PM
8

You shouldn't bang a drunk chick, but posing the question is a terrible strategy. It makes you look scared, i.e. beta It will incite her ASD, drunk or not. Just use common sense. You won't have to ask. Slurring words, walking funny, getting sick. Most girls will be buzzed after 1-2 drinks, does that mean you can't fuck them, no.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/20 01:10 PM
1

She wasn’t really escalating sexually, unless you’re into pegging. She was being light and playful. Being sexual when a girl hasn’t gotten to that point is a major turn off. That’s why you have to build to it. Can’t just go “hi can I eat your pussy”
/r/askTRP10/09/20 01:23 AM
5

Nah, you're making excuses. She was having fun with you. That's a sign of interest, then you killed it. She doesn't have to let one thing slip, especially when you slip up within the first 5 minutes. Remember she has 20 dudes in her inbox at a time.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:05 AM
8

No need to ever be overt. Basic lite banter to prove you're a fun guy, then logistics. Simple.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:47 AM
1

You can still get plenty of pussy at that size you just have to stop being a bitch and initiate. Being that big can make you seem intimidating, but trust me, if you're that big and lean every chick is thinking the same thing. Just give them a reason
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:27 AM
2

"I was thinking more like margaritas, queso and chips at Mexican place tomorrow night". No need to over think this. Don't be fooled by time wasters, these chicks can sexual banter forever and never meet up. Put up or shut up.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:17 AM
3

Personally, I think that's a fine response as long as you completely ignore her and don't actually treat her like a friend. If she's interested, she'll reach out again. Then you can just game her like nothing ever happened. Otherwise just pretend she doesn't even exist.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:13 AM
1

How's your night game? If you can't pick up chicks at the bar, then you're already fighting a losing battle during the day.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:07 AM
6

Pro Tip: when she comes over don't actually play video games This is just her way of getting around her ASD and hooking up with you.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 01:05 AM
2

Why would you ever respond? Just block her and move on.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 06:05 PM
5

Don't ever be serious. Be playful, and make fun of them. Do things, go places.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 06:05 PM
1

No. All you have to do is get them laughing a bit. Make yourself seem fairly normal and fun. That's it. Stop with this small talk bullshit.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:48 PM
1

She's talking to 35 other guys. Stop having conversations and start planning dates.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:39 PM
2

The simple but true answer is calibration. Keep track of your macros and progress at least weekly and adjust accordingly.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:34 PM
2

You did fine. All I can think of is making sure you escalate from "a kiss" to full on makeout. Very hard for her to keep the LMR once she gets ramped up that much.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:30 PM
5

Trying to add you back into her orbit. Ignore.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:27 PM
17

Texting is for logistics. I send a follow up right after hooking up "Thanks for a coming out, had a lot of fun". The next text is either a reply to her text or me setting up the next meeting.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:25 PM
3

Don't "explain". DEERing When she said, "take care" you should have just said okay and hit her up another day like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP04/09/20 05:23 PM
1

I think self tanners look like shit but to each their own.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 11:41 PM
2

No risk, no reward.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 12:39 AM
2

add muscle mass.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 12:37 AM
7

Muscles appear more prominent on darker skin tones. So it helps in that category.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 12:34 AM
-2

You can't really build size on calisthenics alone.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 12:30 AM
58

The right move was to keep it light and fun. Like most things, it matters more how you say it than what you say. Something like "What were you going to do stay in there all night" while being jokey about it would have been fine. "I don't do doors" is confrontational and sets up a silly ultimatum.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 12:28 AM
8

For one treat them like you’ve already fucked them. It won’t feel forced if you have that mindset. And also you should follow the escalation ladder. Innocent touching turning more intimate while calibrating along the way.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/20 01:41 AM
1

True. But the op is drawing his conclusion based solely on the girls willingness to fuck him. An obvious hoe wouldn’t even have his attention.
/r/askTRP23/08/20 01:06 AM
6

It’s transparent. A high smv woman will recognize that you’re too pussy to assert yourself and initiate kino so you resort to games.
/r/TheRedPill23/08/20 01:04 AM
7

For a while i Thought i needed to find a new job to help fund this side hustle but i realized that I have money in my bank account that i never touch Your initial thoughts were correct. $660 CAD is not nearly enough to adequately invest in anything.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 06:59 PM
1

One of the most basic shit tests. You failed. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 06:56 PM
4

If you want to date this girl you have to make a move. This isn't the movies.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 06:55 PM
1

Stop being her grumpy father.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 05:55 PM
2

Get in amazing shape. Stay in amazing shape.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:58 PM
0

You're not a dumbass right? You've read the sidebar right? Then you know that: if you were a priority to this girl she would miss her own mothers funeral to hangout with you.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:56 PM
2

Sounds like you've got more important things to tackle than sexual strategy. Get out of your shit hole country, get established in a new place and then come back.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:55 PM
1

what bigger picture? The one where she flakes on you again?
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:53 PM
0

You even fuck this girl yet?
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:52 PM
1

Good then why would you even bother with someone who flaked on you? On to the next. You can come back to her later (if ever).
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:50 PM
1

acknowledge it with a thank you and move on like it was never said.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:49 PM
3

Most of that is just your low self-esteem. The fact that you immediately come to the conclusion that she is a slut because she is willing to lower herself to fuck the likes of you speaks to your shit frame. Now that being said, I don't think anyone ideally wants to fuck a slut given the choice. It's definitely a turn off, whether logical or not.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:46 PM
2

Waste of time. AWALT but now she's got extra motivation to cheat and feel justified. Most LTRs are ticking timebombs but this one has a short fuse.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:40 PM
1

You can do it. It's just going to take proper rest & nutrition. Calibrate when you start to plateau or regress in your lifts or calisthenics.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:33 PM
6

She found someone better to fuck that night but it was one and done. Hopefully you have some abundance and can put this one the bottom of the list.
/r/askTRP21/08/20 04:30 PM
12

In my experience, Kino is THE most important thing when it comes to escalating and getting laid. But you need to ditch the palm tricks and staring contests. Terrible.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/20 03:54 PM
1

No, this is just loser think for people trying to justify their behavior. Dating apps are normalized but they aren't the norm for higher quality women. Most high SMV women never touch them. And if you happen to find one on there your chances of matching, meeting, having some level of success are minute compared to what you could accomplish if you had met this high SMV woman in a different setting. From a sexual strategy perspective it's just not efficient for high quality women. It's only good f…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:17 PM
2

She agreed to come to your house. She might as well have said fuck me pretty please.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 08:31 PM
1

The other responses are based off the same false premise people spout about "text game". Think about who girls want to fuck. Would Chad chit-chat with girls on the phone?
/r/askTRP14/08/20 08:29 PM
4

Hard no. Too much investment. If texting is only for logistics, so should phone calls. Which begs the questions, why would they even be necessary when a text can suffice?
/r/askTRP14/08/20 08:22 PM
1

The best way to attract her again is to forget about her and get abundance... then you won't even give a fuck about her anyway.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 08:20 PM
1

Sounds like too much pull from you. Constantly running "game", doing most of the talking... It's clear you were trying to "get" her instead of just doing what you want to do and have fun. Your fun is primary and she is secondary. She can either join in or go home.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 08:19 PM
1

For best results you should really do something with them first. Doesn't take much. Literally a walk in the park, coffee, cocktail. That's all it takes.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 08:13 PM
3

Once you've fucked her everything should revolve around sex. Hanging out (other than 1v1 for the purpose of fucking later), going on anything resembling a real date is going to put you in that category.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 08:06 PM
1

Why would you give a fuck about what this dude says or does? Stop being a bitch.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 08:03 PM
2

I prefer to bang girls who I perceive as higher quality Then why would you be on a dating app? There is only one reason to be on tinder/bumble, easy low effort lays.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 08:00 PM
9

Girls who look like sluts are sluts. Girls who don't look like sluts can also be sluts. The only way to know is to vet them for a long time.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 03:34 PM
9

When you're down you try to make yourself feel better. Being able to attract a mate and fuck makes you feel good about yourself. But the feeling only lasts a short while, and since it's easy for a woman to get laid they just do it over and over.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 03:32 PM
43

Cliffs: OP talked to girls, called himself gay and didn't fuck anyone.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/20 03:23 PM
0

Hilarious. Maybe it's harder to have an older women be your serious girlfriend (who knows, why would you try?) But it's easy as hell to fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/20 03:14 PM
1

The real takeaway is that you don't have to try with postwall women. They are washed and have no real options with valuable men.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/20 03:12 PM
1

I don't know how you can talk about "misinformation" while living a complete catastrophe of a life. Stop repeating the cycle.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/20 03:00 PM
2

Seems like city will have more long term benefits unless your career is in academics.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 04:03 PM
8

Pretty common when you live in a trailer park.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:57 PM
2

As soon as you convince yourself that it's harder.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:53 PM
3

Find something to do more important than women.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:52 PM
2

Being the quiet guy is fine if you're a leader. If you're quiet and a follower you just look meek and shy. Since you're speaking less you have to make sure that when you do speak it's something worthwhile and said with confidence.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:46 PM
1

As a general rule, yes. Firstly I'm there to just focus on working out. I want to minimize distractions not create them. Secondly you have to think about an exit strategy. If things end badly or even worse than that, you want that drama in your gym?
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:42 PM
59

First cut out all stimulates that might be contributing to that. Energy drinks, coffee, cut it all out and see where your hyperactivity is at. Then all you can do is consciously slow yourself down. You'll have to stick with it for a long time until that becomes your new "muscle memory". Otherwise I doubt there is a way to fix that without medication.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:16 PM
14

"Not boyfriend material" -Ex gf
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:04 PM
3

A girl who has admitted to 1 or 2 ONS has had 5+
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:03 PM
5

Pussy is as easy as your SMV and logistics will allow. Most of us have our SMV peak in early to mid 30s and usually by then we are financially stable enough to have good logistics.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 02:00 PM
4

I always scratch my head at these super indepth tinder guides. Tinder is EASY. And that's why it is both a good thing and a bad thing. It's good because I can sit on my couch and line up a new fuck for later that night and it's bad because all I have to do is sit on my couch to line up a new fuck. How does that add value to my life? There are more productive things you can be doing instead of sending 50+ messages to low value thots.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 01:22 PM
3

Agreed. Funny how people get so defensive when you point out they are using a "short-cut" that doesn't even add value to their life.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 01:16 PM
3

If you're cheated on, you're not a victim. You failed to adequately choose and vet your woman and/or maintain frame.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 12:59 PM
3

You can get nudes anywhere. Talk to girls you're going to fuck.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 05:13 PM
2

I've heard this story before from multiple men. Being a huge beta is not uncommon.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:35 PM
2

What ever the risk is, it's not worth finding out.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:25 PM
4

If you're a busy high value man with abundance seeing her once per week should feel too often.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:23 PM
1

Nah, it's a useful tool when it comes to push-pull. Obviously how you neg is an important factor.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 02:05 PM
5

You couldn't have picked a worse comparison. A short skinny fat brown dude vs a tall lean white guy who dresses like a rock star. You don't need to look beyond that. Why don't you compare two similar men based solely on their body language?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/20 12:24 PM
4

Nobody needs tinder. You're almost always fucking lower than what you can pull out in the wild, even when you're a top 20%er.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 04:12 PM
3

Just keep fucking her until the plate eventually breaks. With her comments like that, it might happen sooner rather than later. Then on to the next one.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 03:48 PM
3

Doesn't take a genius to figure this out. Trying to make you jealous so you spin your hamster into locking her up.... obviously.
/r/askTRP10/07/20 03:44 PM
-1

You should delete Tinder because you can meet and fuck better women by meeting them IRL. Tinder has it's purpose. A passive way to match with girls looking to fuck. You shouldn't spend much time at all on it. Just a fall back option you can check periodically. And yes, you probably need to be top 20% to match and fuck an 8, but average guys can still fuck average women pretty easily on tinder.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 03:35 PM
0

Because she will tell me everything I want to know about women and how to get them because its a way she pleases and serves me? haha, she can't even tell you her own true imperatives.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/20 02:46 PM
2

TRP promotes productive hobbies. It doesn't have to be guns, just something that instills discipline, requires a work ethic, and you enjoy.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 06:53 PM
29

They want the same thing as every other woman. They ultimately want to be dominated and led. The real question is, what would a man want with a masculine woman?
/r/askTRP26/06/20 04:27 PM
2

Whose frame are you operating in? If you see women for what they are, then you know they are submissive and want to be led. If you're finding them boring and not fun to be around, then you are boring and not fun to be around. Being disgusted with women because of their nature is like being mad at water for being wet. Doesn't sound like you are really seeing them for what they are.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 04:09 PM
3

Anyone can be big & ripped. The genetics piece just determines how easy or difficult it can be. The simple explanation for muscles is this: You break down the muscle by lifting and repair it with rest and eating (specifically protein). To gain size and mass you have to consume more calories than you burn. Too many calories and your body will store the extra as fat. Too little calories and your body will minimize gains or even burn muscle. Calibrate as best you can. That is a VERY simple explanat…
/r/askTRP26/06/20 03:13 PM
8

Who cares why? Most guys think buying a girl flowers is a turn on. Just always wear a condom, vasectomy or no. Remember you're a Cy Young award winner and your cock is your pitching arm. Fuck that up and your career is over.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 02:08 PM
1

The redpill mindset is somewhat of a perishable skill. Gone too long and you can lose your way. It helps to listen to the stories and situations brought here that you might identify with. And you take away different things from the same content based on the where you're at in your RP journey. I learned much when I first started browsing. Years later I can read that same content and come away with a different lesson based on where I am now.
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:51 PM
7

Trying to rationalize women?
/r/askTRP26/06/20 01:45 PM
2

This has been done hundreds of times just on this board. The results are always the same.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/20 01:21 PM
24

The Red Pill is a sexual strategy sub. Understanding the nature of women and dealing with shit tests is an important part of maximizing your SMV. Whether you choose to sleep with hotter women or find a LTR is up to you.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 02:10 PM
6

I go to the gym to work out. If you have abundance then making approaches at the gym is just taking away time you should be pushing iron. Then add the fact that you'd be shitting where you eat if things went bad. Hard to justify. IOIs would have to be blatant, otherwise not worth it imo.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 01:43 PM
3

Some girls will straight up dismiss you for being "too short". Fact of life. Worst case scenario: They show up and you immediately see the disappointment in their eyes. If that's too much for you, then put your height right in your bio.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 01:31 PM
0

Has way more to do with field of study than prestige or difficulty.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 01:22 PM
0

I'm very confused by this Why? You just said you're a 4-5/10
/r/askTRP22/06/20 01:19 PM
2

Why are you "building up" to invite her out. Texting is for logistics. Why did you even ask about her laptop?
/r/askTRP19/06/20 06:49 PM
1

Just maintain frame and don't DEER.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 06:41 PM
1

You're going to have to integrate some form of longevity, not necessarily comfort. It's more like comfort through experience. Their biggest fear is having a 3some and then you disappearing because they were being slutty. Fuck em and treat em like a slut while sticking around (even if it's just FWB) and then they won't be afraid.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 06:22 PM
0

If you have sub 10% body fat and lift you are in the top 20% unless you are like burn victim ugly. Stop making excuses.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 06:11 PM
2

There's a topic on the main sub about a 4some, but same rules apply. Go check that out. Cliffs: But the easiest method of all is usually just to keep finding new plates, and ask every single one of them if they're up for fooling around with another girl. If you date the 18-23yo age group in particular, it's pretty easy to find girls who are down - especially on Tinder/Hinge/etc.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 06:02 PM
12

Analyzing a hug from a stranger sometime ago? You have no abundance. Go fix that instead of pontificating things that don't matter.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 02:33 PM
10

Just jerkoff for that post nut clarity because this is the dumbest fucking idea.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 02:08 PM
3

I think this is a pretty strong guide. Cliffs: Stoicism; Do NOT apologize.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 02:01 PM
3

Be gone THOT.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:58 PM
1

Eye contact is vital. It shows you are dominate. It allows you to express yourself without speaking. Do everything by the book instead of what I feel. Fuck your feelings. Your lack of eye contact comes from a place of insecurity not from strength. By 'forcing' yourself it will become more natural and you won't be so insecure.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:48 PM
2

Personally, I escalate more before going back to mine or her place. Ideally I have already kissed/made out before I bring her back. Then there isn't all this pressure/buildup to the kiss. When you haven't escalated to that point, it's almost as if you have to have an entire second date at your place before she is comfortable.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:39 PM
3

There's nothing to do but keep searching, keep applying and keep interviewing. Lots of people are looking for jobs right now, so you have to bring your A game. Learn something from each rejection so you're a better candidate after each and every interview.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:27 PM
4

Greed is good, hedonism is bad. Selfishly monopolizing your time and resources toward your mission and goals can be rewarding. Giving in to what ever urge is ripe for the taking can be damaging. In terms of the example you provided, just take a rational utilitarian approach and weigh the risk/reward.
/r/askTRP19/06/20 01:14 PM
2

Not really. Unless you are doing some very extreme physical activity for 8 hours a day and no amount of food could bring you to a surplus. But even then, you would want to know your calories so your deficit isn't too extreme.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 10:52 PM
2

When you have tons of options, as most moderately attractive women do, any reason is a reason to reject somebody completely.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 10:49 PM
1

There is no reason you can't be big and ripped like Jason Momoa. Yeah, you won't be a hollywood actor and can't walk into a room and go home with an A list actress. But you can be big and ripped enough to walk into some shit bar and walkout with the hottest girl there. There's a big difference between "I lift" and being ripped.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 10:48 PM
13

Want it to be easier? Lift, be hot. Chris Hemsworth is 36. Look like him and you'll pull just fine.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 07:26 PM
2

Both times you didn't fuck. I'm wondering how hard you tried, if there were shit tests that you failed or just pushed too hard with no pull.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 07:17 PM
14

DGAF attitude is attractive to most girls. alpha lite.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 07:09 PM
14

If they ask straight up, "are you looking for sex" I tell them straight up. I they ask "what are you looking for" I say something like, to meet cool people and see where it goes.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 06:18 PM
5

You're over invested and came off as a butt hurt bitch. Never double text. If you never hear from her again then so be it. There is absolutely no point in calling out female hypocrisy. Just STFU. The only thing you did right was A&A when she called you out for being a bitch which you then ruined by being butt hurt again and talking like a 14 year old. "You do you", drop that phrase from your life.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 01:42 PM
4

Pretty common to get stuck in your head when you're new to gaming women. The goal is to internalize RP methods so it just becomes muscle memory. It takes time.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 06:07 PM
1

That's where I agree. Don't feel like approaching or being approached then by all means. But lets not kid ourselves that it doesn't hinder IOIs and approaches like the OP is asking.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 04:51 PM
1

If someone wants to approach you they will I think you underestimate the importance of "being approachable". Having headphones in or sitting with a mean mug on your face is sure to limit your IOI or approaches from others. Otherwise I agree. The Simple solution is take the headphones off when you feel like approaching.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 03:38 PM
5

Sounds like a mother.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 03:15 PM
4

I just don't know how to react when she acts up and starts bitching about everything. Tell her to pack her shit. What value does she add to your life?
/r/askTRP12/06/20 02:55 PM
2

It's all about frame. Instead of presenting your car as a POS that you can't get rid of because you're a broke loser, present it as an old friend with whom you have cherished memories and you wouldn't get rid of it even if someone offered you a Porsche.
/r/askTRP12/06/20 01:39 PM
14

No.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 09:06 PM
0

I know I can’t have it both ways and feel trapped with this whole situation. Why not?
/r/askTRP10/06/20 09:02 PM
3

yeah describing the symptoms of herpes is a much better idea right before you fuck.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 08:52 PM
0

Just saying "Because I want to" would suffice.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:22 PM
6

1st meets will flake more often when you have a long lag time. If you met on Tinder she's already matched with 50 other dudes since last thursday that probably invited her out.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:38 PM
2

Stop hyping it up so much. They aren't better than you. Treat them like children. If you're fairly attractive all you need to do is say hi and take it from there.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:19 PM
1

NYC has some of the best night life on the planet. Plus the venue does most of the work for you in segregating the high value from the low value.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 05:14 PM
1

Confidence, and experience mostly. Men that take care of themselves look better in their 30s than they did in their 20s as well.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 04:03 PM
1

Kino does the job of sexualizing the situation for you.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 04:00 PM
13

Because they are women. Don't try to rationalize them.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 03:59 PM
1

Shooting the shit casually doesn't mean agreeing to her every request and hooking them up with beer while you get nothing in return.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 03:47 PM
1

As I already explained. By leading.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 09:46 PM
1

Great way to be used. It put him squarely in their frame. "Come to MY place", "Hang with MY friends", "Bring US beer". All while these chicks basically created their own version of the bachelorette.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 07:47 PM
1

By how often she fucks and how she fucks.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 07:32 PM
1

your eyes are fine. Stop nitpicking yourself.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 06:49 PM
5

This is why "going with the flow" doesn't work. Being a leader and dictating the night shows that you are a man that takes charge, helps you disqualify girls that aren't that into you, and helps you avoid doing dumb shit you don't want to do.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 06:46 PM
2

You start with whatever you're capable of pulling and willing to fuck.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 06:31 PM
4

It's not really a shit test as it is her ASD. Much better off setting up a meet anywhere else. Even just going for a walk near her place will be received much better. Girls need to vet you to make sure you're not a catfish/serial killer.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 06:11 PM
11

You have so much scarcity that you are focusing on a chick from a month ago who you were afraid to touch and then blew you off.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:52 PM
7

In what context was this thrown at you?
/r/askTRP08/06/20 05:45 PM
1

Great thing about free will is you can walk away at anytime.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 04:19 PM
50

So during these last 3 weeks 3 weeks isn't enough time for anything. Congrats on the 5lbs of water weight.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 04:14 PM
3

What's your mission?
/r/askTRP08/06/20 04:12 PM
8

Having good sex is all about leading. The kinkier you want to get the longer you will have to cultivate that. Finding a woman that's already a super kinky slut is going to have all the baggage that comes with a kinky slut.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 04:10 PM
1

Never listen to what they say. Watch what they do. You should probably read the sidebar before talking to another woman.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 02:36 PM
1

She's on Tinder. She just wants to fuck. She was all over you and was apparently out late with you. When you don't try to fuck they interpret that as you seeking a relationship.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 02:24 PM
2

Yes you fucked up by failing to escalate. Why didn't you try to fuck?
/r/askTRP08/06/20 02:19 PM
4

Can't even plate girls that self-harm. Just asking for trouble.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:49 PM
14

Block her number. Problem solved.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 01:34 PM
9

Dread? Put this bitch out of your mind.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 08:03 PM
15

I have plenty of other options Then act like it. Not only is this dumb but it screams scarcity mindset.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 07:14 PM
11

She's manipulating you. She'll be fine.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:42 PM
3

She's damaged goods. ATM, she's only good for a fuck, but she'll hit the wall and have to settle for a betabux provider. Don't let that be you.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:09 PM
1

You're 19. Relationships are supposed to be fun and easy if you get into them at all. Demote to plate or next her altogether.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:01 PM
1

It takes two to have a conversation. If you wait 2 hours to respond then it's not a conversation.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 05:59 PM
3

Social Proof/Preselection Read: Sidebar
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:28 PM
4

I did a stint at a small school. They can be fuck fests just like the big schools, but everyone will know about it. Not really a problem for a dude. Probably a benefit. Basically proceed as normal.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:08 PM
31

Get an education/credentials for a good job. Don't spend frivolously.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 03:02 PM
3

Tell her to.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 02:48 PM
5

You need someone to explain to you why some people brag?
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:08 PM
3

What do you bring to the party? Are you fun? Do you bring booze? Do you bring girls? Will girls go if they know you're there? Think about what you have to offer. If it's nothing, then you shouldn't be surprised.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:02 PM
1

You don't "try" to get people to like you. You become a guy that people like. Charismatic, engaging, interesting. Most people who whine about having no friends are losers who have nothing but negativity around them. Of course no one likes you.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 12:47 PM
1

Either she doesn't share your values in which case, that's not a good match. Or she does but she just wants to show off and virtue signal, in which case she's shallow and also not a good match. The far majority of non minority women supporting BLM fall into the latter category. Just the next trendy virtue signaling activism event they can latch on to. And if you rule out all shallow women then you there won't be any left.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 12:21 PM
6

Supply and demand Single high value men in their 30s and 40s are busy fucking girls in their 20s. So demand for post wall women is low. And with the growth of feminism, more women are waiting to get married, women are continuing to divorce, more women are riding the CC for longer periods... supply is high. Low demand, high supply.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 12:10 PM
6

You failed in your responsibilities as a man. She therefore lost attraction to you and being away weeks on end provided ample opportunity to fuck around. What is the mystery here?
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:36 PM
12

My experience says "come cuddle" is just ASD for "come fuck me". Reaching out for a booty call is good behavior for a plate. Ignoring is how you react to bad behavior. If you were busy, then fine but you should have responded with something though. Directly sending you that video is creating unnecessary drama. Soft next certainly seems warranted.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 04:29 PM
3

"Text game" without meeting is just being an orbiter.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 03:06 PM
2

I believe all those women believe they were sexually assaulted.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:07 PM
2

No. You threw a hissy fit and handed out ultimatums. But I’m not gonna try to control you. I’m not gonna be mad if you go. That's not enforcing a boundary. That's being a passive aggressive bitch.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:03 PM
1

The only logical reason, to raise a traditional nuclear family.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 02:00 PM
1

because conversations led to nowhere. Why are you expecting a different result?
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:58 PM
1

Hypergamy always wins. You need to be the better option. Showing her you're not afraid of losing her is one way to do that. Now that it's out there you could calmly reaffirm and say you're not cool with her hanging out with other dudes. The moment she even expresses a desire to do that, you need to be gone. No fights. No reasoning. Just gone. -And you set boundaries by establishing what kind of man you are BEFORE you even promote them to LTR. I would make a point of commenting on another's situa…
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:53 PM
2

So bad that I suspect this is a troll. A couple of points: Told her I wasn’t going to be in a relationship where the girl wanted to go spend alone time with another man. You needed to set this boundary BEFORE this moment. Also, you need to be able to actually enforce your boundary. I tell her if I leave I’m not coming back and we’re done. You want me to go? Ultimatums are weak ass beta shit and a sure fire way for her to lose attraction.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:31 PM
4

The chances of keeping the interest of a girl you've never met while she's away for weeks is not worth the effort to maintain that interest. Tell her to hit you up when she's back so you can focus on women you can actually fuck now.
/r/askTRP03/06/20 01:07 PM
1

That couldn't have gone worse. Read the goddamn sidebar.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 06:55 PM
1

There's really no reason to engage with rando thots online. Social media and tinder are best suited for passive engagement. Those same thots are much more attainable if you engage them in real life.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 05:29 PM
1

If you're doing everything right you should have already escalated to kiss/making out. At this point she's either going to be down or not. "My place isn't far from here, I want to show you XXXX" I would offer to give her a ride, but I wouldn't be too worried about LMR from driving over solo.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 04:06 PM
3

Sounds like he was telling the truth. Talking shit after you made out with a friend's LTR sounds pretty justified to me. If you are really taking responsibility for that fuck up you'll recognize and understand that.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 03:37 PM
1

Not all viewpoints are equal. But generally yes, if there are two arguments that are rational and based in fact, I can understand differing viewpoints.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 03:26 PM
1

Obviously it varies on your schedule and even the plates themselves. I've had times where 5 plates felt like no effort at all and I've had one plate that took all my energy.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 03:02 PM
12

Yes it would look clingy. The fact she isn't telling you unprompted means she's doing things she would rather you not know. Pretty clear indication she is not LTR worthy. Just keep plating.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:44 PM
2

Don't dig through the trash.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 02:11 PM
-2

Two dates and you've only kissed. You should have already dropped this girl.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:13 PM
11

You actively want to facilitate your own friend-zoning. You're just upset that you acted like a bitch. She saw you as a bitch and now you think you can save face by keeping her around. This is all ego. You don't need this girl in your life, and you won't be doing yourself any favors by groveling for forgiveness. Now, hit the sidebar and read about LMR, and ASD so this doesn't happen again.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 01:11 PM
9

Going no contact, working as intended. If she's this desperate to contact me maybe I should talk to her? Nope. Don't worry she'll get over this just fine.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:57 PM
1

how I can continue to keep her interested until she gets back. You can't. She'll have had many dicks by the time September comes around. Just tell her to hit you up when she's back and forget she exists.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:43 PM
1

If you think you might get "me too'd" for being skinny fat, you have no business even talking to women right now. But to answer your question, in the context of going out with a woman, if you're to the point of taking your shirt off she isn't going to throw her clothes on and run out the door.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:21 PM
3

and then read it again.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:13 PM
5

Knowing the truth should be enough. You don't need people to surround you and say "Oh wow darkkramer, you're so right. What a smart interesting person you are!". You shouldn't feel an obligation to 'correct the record'. Ideally you should treat people with dumb BP views the same way you treat women, like a child. Just think to yourself "that's cute", smile and move on.
/r/askTRP01/06/20 12:12 PM
2

Good question. Why the fuck would you want to play golf with your ex's dad? Like I said, it stinks of you trying to be in and around her life. Plenty of BP guys catch their girl cheating and then get off on shaming them for a period of time before taking them back. Hope that's not you. We call it scorched earth for a reason. Her dad has to be collateral damage.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:16 PM
2

Only for so long. If she's a high value woman, it's only a matter of time before she catches the interest of another guy she could perceive just as alpha or more so than you. If you don't promote them to LTR, the plate always breaks eventually.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:06 PM
1

He didn't do it because he's such a swell guy. He did it for his daughter. You don't owe him anything other than to be respectful as you walk out the door. If you're going to be done with her, you need to be done. Maintaining a relationship with him is just your way to weasel your way into her life. This just stinks of you trying to keep tabs on her (for whatever reason) or trying to be the salt in her wounds. Both reasons are dumb and a waste of time.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 07:01 PM
6

Why the fuck are you chauffeuring her dad around and being butt buddies? This doesn't need to be so damn dramatic. She was just a piece of ass who was in high demand. It just seems like a sad attempt to keep some kind of tiny thread in this girl's life.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 06:53 PM
2

Girls want a relationship with a high value man. If you show yourself to be high value, she is going to jump through hoops to prove to you that she is LTR worthy and lock you down. But a high value woman has options. She'll eventually find another seemingly high value man to take the bait.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 06:05 PM
4

No. It's just a difficulty factor. Life is a climb and some people walk up a gentle hill and others are climbing up a rock face.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 02:50 PM
1

All that matters is if you are attractive enough. Don't waste too much time on Tinder.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 02:19 PM
1

If you're able to keep fucking her with minimal drama then you handled it adequately.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:39 PM
5

The floodgates open as soon as she knows you're "Cool". I went out with a new chick for the 1st time. Our first meetup she spent the whole time talking about finding a longterm partner and how hard online dating is. Later on I basically texted her that I was only looking for a plate. She wrote back how she is only looking to get fucked and then was telling me about all the plates SHE was spinning.
/r/askTRP29/05/20 01:30 PM
2

All those fuck-ups aside, what do you do if you get a text like that? Saying "sorry" sort of implies you are admitting to rape. Not saying anything at all may just make her angrier and choose to report you.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/20 12:58 PM
3

Not sure why you're congratulating yourself. You matched with girls based on your pics not your bio. And you haven't even fucked them yet. The only good thing about your bio is that it's short and low effort as it should be since girls don't read them.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:25 PM
1

You can still do everything related to your training with the exception of sparring. Sounds like excuses.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 05:20 PM
4

Exactly. If you're 25 and she's 45, there is no pretense of that being a real relationship. You both know you're there just for the fucking.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 04:12 PM
1

Fuck her well and don't run out the door right after. Beware, her emotional attachment may have some negative side effects.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:57 PM
85

Considering the alternative is she just fucks guys behind your back and then comes running back to you as a provider while you're none the wiser... yeah dodged a bullet.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:45 PM
2

Post-wall women are easier to fuck because they have lower SMV and less options. Fuck em if you want to.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 03:08 PM
1

It's all diet brother.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:58 PM
210

You know what went wrong. Women don't care about "history". You're only as good as you are to her right now. You're useless to her atm and she has cock a plenty.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:56 PM
3

5'11 210lbs can still be pretty chunky unless you're bench pressing 400lbs Get leaner and you'll fuck more girls.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:48 PM
20

Ask her to go throw out the trash and lock her out.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:33 PM
5

Do you deserve respect? Respect is earned not something you inherently receive for being you. Being the annoying guy always asking "what's up" or sending lame memes that everyone has already seen doesn't make you high value. Instead of asking "what's up" why don't you make something happen. Be the person who makes the plans.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:24 PM
2

Stop communicating digitally and meet in person.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 05:00 PM
4

You're playing the wrong game. Winning = having an interesting interaction Then you can't lose. You have a conversation with someone and see how receptive they are. You don't dive in with "please please go out with me".
/r/askTRP26/05/20 04:05 PM
7

Why are you on a sub about sexual strategy?
/r/askTRP26/05/20 03:51 PM
5

It can be seen as taboo but nothing stops hypergamy. What does it matter to you?
/r/askTRP26/05/20 03:33 PM
1

Play this mental exercise: "What if she does?" Your answer should be, "I break up and life goes on as normal". If it's anything other than that, then you shouldn't be in this relationship. The fact that you're living together and mate guarding at only the 5 month mark shows where you're at.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 03:26 PM
24

21, on tinder... Virgin Hilarious.
/r/askTRP26/05/20 02:59 PM
1

The reason it's getting downvoted, as it should, is because the OP is dedicating a significant amount of his time, energy and resources to acquiring pussy. Yes, you can fake it, but that's not the point of TRP. What's OP's mission? Fuck some girls? That's not a mission.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/20 12:53 PM
20

come on. Oldest shit test in the book. A&A. and read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 07:27 PM
2

Pretty much. Nothing like getting a random text from a plate saying "I'm really horny, come over", while I'm in the middle of setting up a date with another hot 25 year old. I couldn't (really) do that when I was in a relationship.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 07:04 PM
3

Ok, you didn't give a number but it's basically just as bad. Just stick with "I'm a virgin" when you can sarcastically get away with it or "A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell".
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:49 PM
1

Does digging stuff on me help you feel more in control and calmer after what I said about you? Sure does and it makes for great entertainment. So thank you. I was just confirming you were a troll who isn't here in good faith. Tell your 7ft mommy I said "hi".
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:47 PM
5

Well you fucked up and revealed your N count, but I think you know that. No going back. You already provided comfort, you don't need to provide more. Now all you can do is ignore and carry on. When she asks dumb insecure things just A&A and be playful as usual.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:36 PM
4

You don't need to be her daddy checking in on her. She'll lose attraction fast if you do that. You set your boundaries early and stick by them. Aside from that there is no use in worrying. If she's an attractive woman, the fact is she can cheat on you at anytime for any reason. And if she does? You don't care because you're a high value man with options.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:31 PM
2

There are much better comprehensive and detailed guides in the sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:58 PM
0

All the guys who can only get desperate single mothers are mad. But this is right. Single mothers are low value. They are good for a night if you bump into them.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:44 PM
-1

A 7 adjusted for being a single mom is a 5. Why are you fucking 5s?
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:30 PM
3

Partly just by way of how you carry yourself and partly by things you've said before you promoted her. e.g. she mentions how someone she knows with a boyfriend is out with a an ex, I would comment something with "and she still has a boyfriend"? They remember things like that and it shows where you stand.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:13 PM
4

No. Why would I? Only angsty millienials and Gen Zers who blame all their problems on their parents do this.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 04:15 PM
15

Kino is everything when it comes to getting laid. All my escalation stories are pretty much the same. I'll open a girl at the bar and slide next to her. Bars are usually crowded so you can be arm touching arm for innocent kino. Then I start touching her upper arm with my hand when I'm making a point or teasing her. When bars are loud it's a good excuse to hold the small of her back to lean in and listen when she's speaking. You can start to throw in some other kino by holding her arm and looking…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 02:34 PM
3

I'm only nervous when I'm thinking about it, planning on what to say etc. -Just say whatever comes to your head -Don't care about the result
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:50 PM
2

Because you view yourself as not worthy. Sounds like you have a lot of yourself to work on.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:44 PM
8

Not saying they are the norm, but there are 20 year olds that want a kid and they don't care who the father is or how they can fool you to get them pregnant. Visit a poor town in Florida. You'll see lots of them.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 12:09 PM
3

Hell no. This is DEERing Sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:24 AM
3

She's crazy. Keep your frame and let her know she's just a plate and that whatever else you do is none of her business. Let the plate break if you have to, probably saving you from drama.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 07:49 PM
3

You care way too much about Tinder. It's only supposed to be passive supplemental pussy. Either pay for it or delete it and redownload often for best results.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 07:46 PM
2

I'd say you handled it well, but you should take this as a wakeup call. Blowjobs are very much about straight up sexual attraction. Tons of women out there who haven't given their husbands head in decades and are deep throating a hot stranger. Mind is right, makes sure the body is too.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 07:07 PM
14

As most posts go... you lack abundance. first time you have a girl who fucks well and you're mesmerized. There are other great lays out there, better even. Just be attractive enough to find them.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 07:03 PM
14

"She's not yours, it was just your turn" Now it's someone else's turn.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 04:06 PM
6

It's a self fulfilling prophecy. If you perceive that they are out of your league then you will act like it and thus disqualify yourself. Gain confidence by lifting and taking care of your appearance. When 8s are constantly giving you IOI it's not difficult to approach.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:07 PM
5

You're wrong. How long have you been here? You can't rationalize women. Also, who cares what she thinks?
/r/askTRP19/05/20 03:21 PM
8

Damn you need to read the sidebar. You don't seem to even know anything about shit tests. She does this to determine if you're a bitch. Do you cower away when faced with an obstacle, or do you take what you want? You come across as thirsty because you showed your hand. By walking away, it shows you only approached in an effort to get laid rather than having a good time. What does it say about a man's SMV if women will sleep with him even at risk of ruining their current relationship?
/r/askTRP19/05/20 03:14 PM
1

The personality that was completely phoney? The one that laughed at you behind your back? You like the IDEA of her. This fantasy version of a woman you thought you had. You are at the very beginning. You actually have to take the red pill if you want to learn anything. Read the side bar.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 03:01 PM
7

Yes you're wrong. She could still be a high value woman if this was just a shit test (i.e. she doesn't actually have a boyfriend), and potentially LTR worthy. But that aside, why are you vetting a girl for LTR at first approach? You should be spinning multiple plates and vetting them over time.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:49 PM
1

Thanks for your permission. I don't believe you are meeting and fucking attractive women. We know you don't miss your ex because of her personality since she was a skanky cheating whore. So what could you miss about her? The Sex? That shouldn't be a problem if you're actually fucking hot girls. Fucking a few HB3s isn't abundance. Just a bruised ego? That shouldn't be a problem if you're actually fucking hot girls. See where this is going?
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:43 PM
1

Does anyone believe these people crying about their oneitis who say "i've fucked six 10s and had an orgy and I still can't get over them"?
/r/askTRP19/05/20 02:08 PM
8

Pretty retarded. Mad about her watching TV shows without you? Let her watch TV while you're busy being a high value man and creating some dread. I never saw "slow texting" as a problem. That just means you get to spend less time texting her. The most important boundaries don't really need to be said. They are simply understood based on your frame and how you carry yourself.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 01:34 PM
2

It does kind of depend on the context and the boundary. Generally speaking, you need to set boundaries before they are crossed. If you do it after the fact, then it becomes an ultimatum which makes you come across as a bitch.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:42 PM
2

You haven't maximized your SMV until you are mid 30s through early 40s. If you want the best car on the lot, you have to bring the most amount of sexual currency.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:35 PM
225

This is totally the wrong mindset. We can see from the OP that you are talking to the girl because you want to get laid. This is the wrong way to approach. You should talk to women because you want to talk to them. When you're out, you should be talking to lots of people. Your goal should be having a good time. By abruptly standing up and saying "our business here is done" you're establishing yourself as a thirsty beta just looking for a mark. You want to be the fun guy who is having a good time…
/r/askTRP19/05/20 12:27 PM
1

And? Her being butthurt should have no effect on you. By changing your behavior to avoid making her "butthurt" you are operating in her frame.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 07:33 PM
5

Never take them seriously. Should have responded more playfully. "as long as you stay in line", something along those lines.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:33 PM
1

If they are responding playfully, then your opener is fine. I'm guessing not enough comfort, moving too quickly for a meetup. And the type of meetup matters too. It takes less comfort to just meetup at a public place for a drink than it does to come over to your place. Also being too quick can come off as desperate.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 06:28 PM
2

Don't dig through the trash. Next.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 05:55 PM
1

Could be lots of things You're not attractive enough You're not building enough comfort They never had any intentions of meeting up (Covid?).
/r/askTRP15/05/20 05:54 PM
0

Tinder is a totally different story. Online dating is a waste of time in itself. Better things to do than pass a shit test, but still use tinder?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 05:12 PM
3

High SMV girls shit test guys. You're fucking down if you only hooking up with girls who offer no shit tests.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:45 PM
1

Cheese.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:41 PM
1

Who said anything about getting upset? Why are you going to waste your time and have a conversation with her when you don't even like her? Just to be "nice". If you give up escalating just say, "ok well I have to catch some sleep, you better head out". its not gonna make her wanna fuck you, and if anything makes you come off as a thirsty bitch. Again, who cares about what she thinks? You're done with her. Let her think whatever she wants.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 03:14 PM
5

I'm a bar guy. I like em all except the ones that were bar/club hybrids Anywhere that serves drinks is a good enough spot in my book.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 02:29 PM
24

Yes. Sidebar: 12 levels of dread The gist is, as long as you are getting what you want, there is no reason to keep ramping up the dread.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 02:13 PM
1

yeah, you're not a dick. You're a nice guy.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 02:05 PM
1

Of course getting a room can work. But like I said it's generally not worth it. Glad it worked for you, but having her pay 100% of the room is not going to happen most of the time. Not worth the resources when you can be saving to fix your logistics.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 01:50 PM
1

If you don't care about her then why would you even care if you looked salty. Should have told her to get the fuck out.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 01:47 PM
3

Not worth it imo. Better off banging in a car and then getting a room next time.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 01:06 PM
1

I have to make her horny Yeah, that's your job. This is your biggest issue. You're not leading. She is the man in the relationship. Your fuckups are so insurmountable it's not worth it at 19 years old.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:52 PM
12

I wouldn't get a room for a 1st time hookup. If you've fucked them once already then it's easy to say "wanna get a room"?
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:31 PM
6

She's 19 and not having sex with you? This is done. Cut your losses now.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 12:16 PM
1

If you do it right, you won't come off as salty. You are supposed to act like nothing is wrong at all. She may even hound you with "is something wrong", "are you mad". You just smile and assure her everything is fine, just need to take care of (whatever you're doing). It gets their hamster spinning. It shows that maybe you don't care if you have sex with her and that other things may be more important than her.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 11:08 AM
3

Your posts demonstrate you are not redpilled. You're a naive bitch begging to be cucked. Go ahead, we won't stop you.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 11:03 AM
0

You think i go around in real life like this? I do. Go call your mommy up for this shit. While you're at it tell her someone on the internet was mean to you.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 10:11 PM
4

Because you're a whiny bitch
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:24 PM
3

Yeah, she wants you to ask so that you feel obligated to tell her yours.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:19 PM
3

huh? What method promotes not touching your date? Kino probably made the biggest difference in getting laid for me.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 06:48 PM
55

The sex is fine. Great even. It's everything else that's not great about post wall women.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 06:33 PM
2

Why are you here? You haven't just taken the blue pill, you took the whole damn bottle. You have no idea how many "good, religious women" get side dick.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:47 PM
2

I don't think it's just SJW bs. If you're operating on absolutes, then yes it's BS. Not every dude with a truck or guns is a pretender, probably not even most. But some guys absolutely wear masks of masculinity when they are anything but.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 04:14 PM
1

Conversation after being rejected? You're telling her, "hey, you can have my attention and validation even without sex"
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:44 PM
2

If her ASD stops you twice you need to do something else besides just try and kiss her again. Next time try ignoring her and doing something else.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:22 PM
3

Unicorns don't exist. Either these guys have other aspects to them that raise their SMV, or they are providing the BB while she finds her AF elsewhere.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:12 PM
3

We are named after a Matrix reference for a reason. Yes it sucks to wake up in a dystopian world where machines control the world, but that's reality. You can take your blue pill going about life as if you can win a woman's attraction and loyalty just by "love", but that world doesn't really exist.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 03:04 PM
8

1) relax, being nervous can affect you 2) stop jacking off twice a day
/r/askTRP14/05/20 02:52 PM
8

Come on now. 30 minute phone calls? Letting her pick the "date" Homemade dinner on first meet up?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/20 02:17 PM
3

Orrrrrr, she's full of shit. She recognizes she has absolutely nothing going for her, so she makes up this outlandish story to try and prop up her SMV.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/20 01:51 PM
3

My LTR of 18 months called me this morning saying she feels guilty. That's how trickle truth always starts. An innocent admission leading to more. She also told me he’s kinda fat and that I’m much better looking. Not a good sign. Just mentioning his attractiveness at all is a red flag. The only reason to bring this up unprompted is to try and deceive you. If he’s working as a nurse uh oh. Does that mean your girl is a nurse? They are crazy sluts. Something about the stress of the job, being coop…
/r/askTRP14/05/20 12:59 PM
2

Apples to oranges. Your scenario is a rando thirsty guy, which already disqualifies him as attractive, who she interacted with for 2 minutes. OP's scenario is a guy she "mentioned day one", who she maintains a close emotional connection with at work, and spends a ton of time with. Not to mention she admits to not shutting him down.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 12:46 PM
2

Same for me. Literally no physical compliments until I know that I've sealed the deal. Even making note of her shoes/jewelry etc, I'll only mention it if I can incorporate it or bridge it to a topic of conversation.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 12:22 PM
3

Only pretenders develop superiority complexes. Yes, develop yourself into a high value man so you don't have to pretend.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 12:08 PM
10

It helps to adopt the mindset of "A Lion doesn't concern himself with the opinions of sheep". Those people are beneath you and their words carry no weight. Why should it bother you? First you need to build yourself up to be a Lion.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 07:21 PM
2

You can introduce a regular diet, but you pretty much have to meticulously plan your meals to fit your macros.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 02:43 PM
15

They are your plates, you make the rules. You don't have to fuck every plate every week. There are plates that I don't even communicate with every week. If you're spinning plates correctly, there is no such thing as drama. Just let the plate break and move on. Plates are for fun. As soon as it feels like work, let the plate break.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 12:20 PM
1

Naive women get played (most men aren’t upfront with their true intentions and pretend to care about personality when all they want is to fuck) Well that's a different issue altogether. Commitment vs attraction. Anyone who is serious when they say women are evil, are newcomers who haven't really swallowed the pill.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:46 AM
0

And I agreed with that except for your insistence that guys are "EXACTLY" the same. It's similar but not the same. That's why naive men go through the anger phase. Women don't experience that same anger while dealing with the same reality because men are upfront with it. Hence the difference.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:32 AM
0

They absolutely do not want nice guys. Being a nice guy is just about the fastest way a woman will lose attraction for a guy.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:26 AM
-1

"I want a nice guy" Guy is nice to girl - Girl losses attraction for guy That's hypocrisy. Are you new here?
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:23 AM
1

I tend to believe if they are alone with you, they have already decided they are open to sleeping with you. It's just a matter of you not fucking it up.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:22 AM
0

lol, no. They may all admit to liking hot guys but almost all of them say "looks aren't the most important thing". "I want a nice guy". "Looking for a gentlemen" etc. etc. None of that is true.
/r/askTRP12/05/20 11:13 AM
10

If a woman has agreed to go in a boat with you alone, she already decided she would sleep with you. The status associated with sailing might help get you laid. But you are already well beyond that if you are getting her on your boat. Music comes to my mind as a good hobby to get laid.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 07:40 PM
7

What are you going to do? Apologize for acting like a bitch? You need to integrate more stoicism into your life.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 06:18 PM
7

it says she's mentally retarded.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 06:13 PM
0

Again, it's not exactly the same. Men are derided as pigs while women are angels while doing the same thing. It's the hypocrisy that sets them apart. We are rational creatures so we blame them for their hypocrisy, but that is actually also ingrained and them. Anyone who blames women isn't touting TRP principles anyway.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 06:08 PM
1

I see your point but men aren't exactly the same. Men are upfront about it while women claim they want a nice guy while in reality they want the opposite. That's why many people who haven't swallowed the pill get upset about women's nature.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 05:32 PM
4

It matters. No use whining about it. Be thankful you're not 5'1 or something. Not everyone's ceiling is a perfect 100/100. Just maximize your SMV as best you can. At 5'9 there are still HB 9+ you can attain.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 03:53 PM
1

She was never yours to lose. Maybe you weren't good enough, maybe she just wanted to ride the CC. Doesn't matter. You should always be okay with she or you walking away. You have a mission to focus on.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 02:54 PM
6

No. Only fuck someone you want to fuck. This mindset is part of the reason why you haven't been successful. It's a self fulfilling prophecy: if you think you're not ready to fuck attractive women, then you won't fuck attractive women. Either better yourself to the point you gain some confidence or put your anxieties aside and just go for it.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 02:32 PM
14

You didn't play it off well enough. This shouldn't have been a big deal at all. It's not like you got all the way to the main event anyway. By not acknowledging it playfully and stammering through excuses you made it awkward. She's still interested if she's reaching out. No harm in setting something up.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 02:15 PM
5

Until you realize that she wasn't actually "everything you ever wanted", you'll be stuck like this. She wasn't yours. She wasn't special. She was only an 8/10 even by your own biased rating. She's just like every other girl. You've lost nothing.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 02:08 PM
16

It's online dating. She's talking to 50 other dudes. If she's into you, she'll get back to you. Focus your energy elsewhere.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 02:01 PM
16

Don't be angry at water for being wet. This is in their biology.
/r/askTRP11/05/20 01:59 PM
2

The only way to fix your problem is to fix your logistics... Get a car, get a place. Otherwise you will be reliant on her which already puts you in her frame.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:52 PM
1

Logistics... almost as important as your game itself.
/r/askTRP08/05/20 05:44 PM
7

She's a plate. Who cares?
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:38 PM
1

Invite her over and find out.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:38 PM
8

She can never be elevated beyond plate/fwb. You've already broken up once She's cheated (at least) once already You're probably better off hard nexting her because this infatuation will lead to commitment which you'll regret.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:33 PM
7

Don't dig through the trash. Never take a girl back, no matter how short the break.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:23 PM
1

In a group setting you (usually) need to keep your kino in the realm of harmless. This is why you need to isolate, so you can make that kino more intimate which will ultimately open the door for you to close.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:21 PM
3

Probably because you perceive them as easy and you don't believe you are worthy enough for a woman that's high quality.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:18 PM
16

Not my problem. I am not specifically targeting a woman who I know has a BF. Maybe I would feel differently then. But most often it's a rando who is out at a bar looking to get picked up, then I just happen to find out she has a bf. Wonder how many there were that I didn't know about.
/r/askTRP07/05/20 06:10 PM
1

wtf? Don't be a bitch. Just dump her.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 06:58 PM
13

Come over, bring beer.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:28 PM
2

The important part is "fun". And you aren't entertaining her, you're entertaining yourself. I do this by not being serious at all, by teasing her, and by just enjoying myself regardless of her company.
/r/askTRP06/05/20 03:19 PM
5

I don’t intend to. Then why are you engaged?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 05:36 PM
3

Don't marry her.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 05:06 PM
12

You knocked up a hoe. Hoes do hoe things. Why are you surprised?
/r/askTRP05/05/20 04:49 PM
3

You're 28 years old and you met a girls parents before you even fucked her. Delete snapchat and go start reading because you are lost.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 04:25 PM
4

There is no such thing as text game. You can't build attraction through texts but you can lose attraction. Ways to not fuck up: Keep texting to an minimum, ideally logistics only Always keep your texting playful and light. Don't be serious. Do not interview them, don't let yourself be interviewed.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 12:05 PM
2

Yes. Don't dig through the trash.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 03:33 PM
4

Everything played out in textbook fashion. Why think that her coming back would end up any differently? You don't miss her. You miss the BP fantasy that there is a loving amazing sexy woman you can care for and love. They key word is fantasy, that doesn't exist. Their love/commitment doesn't work that way. It comes from working your ass off and being a high value man.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/20 02:03 PM
2

By how they interact with you. Does she still engage with you after she says this? Or does she turn or walk away? If she's still engaging then you just game and escalate as usual.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 03:26 PM
-1

I don't think you understand the nature of shit tests. All shit tests on their face are "rejection". The I have a boyfriend line can be a rejection, but not 99% of the time. Not even close.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 03:23 PM
0

Check your numbers. This is a well known shit test.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 02:42 PM
5

Anyone can get big and ripped. Chances are, your lifts suck and your diet sucks.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 01:50 PM
2

There's this one girl... Sidebar.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 01:46 PM
10

You don't need a cool slick line. I just give a sarcastic, "that's great", or "cool" and quickly move on. The important thing is to completely ignore it and carry on as usual.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 01:45 PM
3

Some men are just sad and pathetic. BP men are incapable of leading, and taking charge. Women of course still want to be lead and taken control of, so when BP men find a "mistress" it fulfills their BP fantasy.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 01:35 PM
59

I just say some derivation of "I prefer to get to know someone in person" or "I'm not one for online chit-chat". whatever. Just make it clear you have every intention of meeting, and you're not going to be their pen pal.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:58 PM
9

No. They're just trying to get you to enter their orbit.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:46 PM
2

I agree, but I think it's a good problem to have. Plus I think the competitiveness among successful men only becomes "dangerous" at the highest levels. Which again, if you are competing with the top 1% of men then that is a good situation to find yourself.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:44 PM
4

most girls I know even the hottest ones, btw I am 21 are in long term even when I tinder I ask they said they only hooked up once and got annoyed of the men on there and quit. Why do you believe them? Sure they might be in LTRs but you would be shocked how many have tripped over some cock. Maybe it happened "during a break" that only she knew about. The ones that stay faithful, hop on the CC immediately after breaking up, even if it's only for a month or two. Stop asking women how many guys they…
/r/askTRP01/05/20 12:41 PM
2

Stop trying to LTR, and treat her like the plate she is. Who cares if she's dreaming of alpha cock as long as she services you when you want.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 06:00 PM
4

What is this incel shit? Doesn't matter. If she gets "loose" from sex then it matters how many times she has had sex, not how many different dicks she's had. an 3 N count girl could be more used up than a 50 N count girl.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 04:16 PM
3

They're all the same at a fundamental level. But they all have some differences at extraneous levels. This one likes to surf, this one is really into music etc. If you truly have abundance, you should have no problem filtering out the basic bitches that just play on their phone and watch the Kardashians, and focus on the ones who have some interesting hobbies.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 03:15 PM
29

The crab bucket mentality is real. It's hard to have perspective on your high school friends when that's all you've known. Sometimes you get out in the world and realize they are all slugs. Hang around more high quality, accomplished people and less of them will have this trait.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 02:54 PM
1

For every alpha that uses her, there are 10 beta orbiters she is using.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 02:00 PM
10

Because you lack abundance. After her explanation, there is no reason to talk to her until at least after the lockdown. Maybe she'll be interested then, but she sounds more like an attention whore and you an orbiter.
/r/askTRP30/04/20 12:56 PM
1

in short the value she brought back had nothing to compare to mine. Why? Because she's an average looking girl who goes to school, has a part-time job and a couple of hobbies? You must really suck then if she blows you out of the water.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/20 05:55 PM
1

If you need to talk to someone about your problems or feelings, talk to a friend or therapist. Not your gf. Just forget you ever brought it up. If she mentions it, just say how you've overcome it and it's in the past.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:46 PM
1

If you go back to a woman's place, she already decided that she's willing to sleep with you. It's just a matter of if you fuck it up between now and then.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:40 PM
1

Kino. Innocent touching, slowly escalating to intimate touching. Which leads to kissing etc. Check out the sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:30 PM
4

I don't really speak sexually to women. It's not necessary. I just make myself a fun person to be around and then escalate. Most of the time I'll have a woman in bed without ever saying a dirty word or even giving her a compliment on her body/appearance.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 04:03 PM
3

Women are submissive and want to be lead. This is a good trait assuming you are a good leader and can mold her into the woman you want.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:50 PM
7

The cliffs version is: walk up to them and say whatever the fuck you want. outcome independence.
/r/askTRP27/04/20 03:42 PM
2

I know it sounds autistic as fuck but it's one of the few things that I have been unable to fix. Very autistic. But like everything else with cold approach, it is practice and seeing what feels comfortable. You shouldn't approach any differently than if you were walking up to a friend.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 03:21 PM
1

Put that pussy on a pedestal. So high that OP will learn a new language and pay for his Russian bride to fly home to him. Maybe framing yourself as a desperate beta bux works for you, but it's not RP.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:40 PM
2

Either ignore her until you want something from her or tell her you have "stuff" going on and you'll hit her up when you can (i.e. when she can provide some value to you). And if she isn't there when all is said and done, then oh well.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 01:03 PM
7

Can't save a man from himself. Let him make his own decisions. When they ultimately get back together, he might remember (or even tell his SO) that you were against them getting back. Could cause problems between you in the future.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:58 PM
0

Of course it is. If it wasn't you wouldn't be so desperate that you'd either leave your country or accept a green card seeking women into your life. And in response to what you said: Not every girl Why does she have to be your age?
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:55 PM
4

Translation - "I am not attractive enough to get laid here and I am willing to jump through hoops for foreign pussy". Do you think this is a RP mindset?
/r/askTRP24/04/20 12:48 PM
2

They only stop becoming sluts for lack of options. They are as loyal as their next best option.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 03:45 PM
26

Weird. Seems like she thinks this is some kind of grand gesture to show you she is LTR worthy. Which means the countdown to "the talk" has probably already begun. No reason to do anything. Just don't make her a LTR.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 03:17 PM
7

They are too busy building a fantasy around their next relationship. And when that crumbles they repeat the process.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 03:13 PM
12

"I don't want to make this a big deal, I'm happy in my relationship you know" Yes, that's an invitation to fuck. Pussy isn't worth the risk of causing drama at work.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 03:07 PM
1

You're probably just bored with the regular run of the mill 'basic bitch'.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 04:56 PM
17

No of course not. It just sounds better than, "there is another dick I would rather suck". Don't dwell on it. Even though she didn't mean it, she is actually 100% correct.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:35 PM
1

How does it serve you other than to stroke your ego? Kill your ego first.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:15 PM
34

There is nothing to take from this. Treat her like the toddler she is. Pet her head and say that's nice honey.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:10 PM
1

Just keep rereading your post to reaffirm how pathetic you sound. Put yourself in her shoes. Why would she want a man like you who acts this way? Unfuck yourself and for your own sake, stay away from LTRs for a LONG time.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 03:07 PM
1

Why do men sacrifice their whole lives for this? To raise a family.
/r/askTRP22/04/20 02:06 PM
18

Stop whining. Be the 1% of males.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:51 PM
9

Let me guess, you meet most of them online? Of course they are going to be shallow and boring. There are women everywhere. Want an interesting one? Then go to an interesting place.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:44 PM
2

It's completely scripted ahead of time.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 03:15 PM
5

The only thing an STD test will show you is that she is clean right now. She can pick up all kinds of nasty shit one week from now. She gave you Chlamydia already, why the fuck are you still talking to her? Are you that desperate?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:21 PM
4

Don't be retarded. This is just entertainment. Not real life.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:08 PM
2

It's for hookups and validation seekers. Pay attention to what time/day they are using the app. That more often than not tells you everything you need to know.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 02:01 PM
1

Sidebar has everything you seek.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:38 PM
12

Happens all the time. Best thing to do is to actually engage the fugly one too.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:35 PM
3

Wtf? Just don't reply. At the same time, I already replied, and ghosting from here on out could make me come off as an asshole. Who would think that and why would you care?
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:33 PM
1

Follow up with next date. I read a lot of "pulls" remember you need to mix in "push" as well.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:27 PM
2

There's good and bad here. Overall, this is a bad approach imo. It's good he actually approached. He wasn't phased by the barriers: waiting in line, girl was with her friend. This all shows confidence. It's good that he established that he is a busy, put the pressure on the girl. Paying is obviously bad. There was no reason to do this, his interaction wouldn't have been any different if he let them pay for their own shit. By doing so he established himself and set the expectation that he is a be…
/r/askTRP21/04/20 01:10 PM
2

Attractive women are not necessarily high value.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:48 PM
3

You don't reverse 10 years of being fat and lazy over night. Keep hitting the gym. Lift heavier weights. Keep your diet clean. No use in dwelling on what you missed out on. You're lucky enough to have discovered the RP at this young age. Only the best will be ahead of you.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:43 PM
2

There are chicks still banging randoms on Tinder right now. So no.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:31 PM
1

Like the sidebar says, Anger phase is totally normal. Focus your anger and energy into something productive, lifting/exercise. How do I know who is good and who is bad if bad people can look good and vice versa? AWALT. Focus on what you can control. Don't waste your money or your time unless they deserve it. Know that because things are good today doesn't mean it will be good tomorrow.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 12:28 PM
1

The kids even yours?
/r/askMRP21/04/20 12:20 PM
6

Even more so now. Tinder opened up their passport feature for free, which lets you set your location anywhere, so that stack of matches he sees might all be from another country.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:43 PM
5

The purpose isn't to "phase" you. It's to give you the perspective of others which you are clearly lacking, hence why people are cutting and running from you and will continue to do so. Good luck.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 07:03 PM
10

If you're a high value man, you won't have to sell her on anything.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:47 PM
6

If your post is any indication, you're full of self-pity and a total bummer to be around. I'm sure that's part of the reason. Another reason is that it's only natural for you to drift away from your childhood friends. People mature, take different paths, and become part of different social circles. Sounds like you're still stuck in your childhood. What are you doing with your life? Find a path that doesn't include co-dependency and you'll build your SMV and form your own new social circles.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 06:42 PM
27

Fact is: The more sexual partners you have, the higher your risk The more sexual partners your sexual partners have had, the higher your risk Mitigate as best you can. Vet your plates. Don't fuck everything that's willing.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 05:13 PM
56

The path is forward. Stop looking back. She used you to teach her ex a lesson. All the love and affection you showered this girl with was nothing compared to her attraction for the ex. Want peace of mind? Keep acquiring plates for more abundance. And banging whatever mess is willing to fuck you is not abundance. Test yourself and shoot for high value, attractive women. If you're F closing while putting in zero effort then you're punching down.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 03:19 PM
6

Yup. More so than most. If you're talking to other girls her hamster will start spinning "Maybe I'm not the hottest".
/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:26 PM
9

Keep a mix of comfort and being unavailable due to work/hobbies/exercise. If she's legit LTR material things should fall into place after the lockdown. If she's acting weird after the lockdown then Covid-19 vetted your LTR for you.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:24 PM
1

If she's just a plate then just play it off casually. If she's a LTR then demote her to plate for snooping.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:20 PM
5

This was posted by a woman. I'm sure she also says "I just want a nice guy". Don't listen to what they say.
/r/askTRP20/04/20 02:04 PM
2

Grats on dodging the bullet, but I don't get the elation that a girl you idealized is now a mess. Wouldn't the better mindset be, "what a shame"? Or if she managed to stay a knock out, "good for her", without it affecting you either way? The fact that you can indulge in petty revenge porn over some chick from 5-10 (more?) years ago is pretty BP.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/20 01:17 PM
0

No I don't want to fuck you.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:59 PM
1

Successul as in getting laid? Yes Dating apps should be treated as low effort and passive. Investing any serious energy or time into them is a mistake. My current tinder bio is a single shitty photo taken on an iphone. Plenty of matches. Girls swipe right because they want to fuck you, not because you pet a dolphin.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:55 PM
1

Yes. You wouldn't know since you're ugly as fuck. At least you can hit the weights and become more attractive.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:48 PM
3

Yes. Attractive people look good in photos. They don't need dumbass props, sets or locations to attract women. Instagram is rotting your brain.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:18 PM
-1

Online "dating" is just about being attractive. If you need better pictures, then you're simply not attractive enough and would be better off deleting the app and hitting the gym.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 05:08 PM
1

This is so fucking autistic. Why are you micro analyzing a trivial scenario? The important thing is that you don't get walked over and you assert yourself. This scenario should be of no consequence to you and your day that the outcome shouldn't even matter.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:35 PM
2

Use your brain. Are you going to beat a woman because she cut you in line? Stand up for yourself, and be assertive. What else can you do? There will presumably be other people in line who can confirm what happened.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:25 PM
2

You say it assertively the first time.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:21 PM
4

By talking to her.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:20 PM
5

No. You want to fuck her to repair your fragile ego.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:18 PM
8

You're doing it all for the wrong reasons.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 03:08 PM
10

Excuse me, I was next.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:51 PM
4

If she's not a LTR then what are you demoting her to?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:36 PM
4

Memorizing lines is a terrible idea. Best way is to practice. Go meet random women. There is no perfect formula and every woman will require a different level of pulling or pushing. The practice comes in knowing when to keep pulling or start pushing.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:35 PM
16

You couldn't have screened her too well if you just found this out now. Just imagine what else you don't know. You shouldn't settle for mediocrity when it comes to a LTR.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 02:29 PM
1

What do you think stoicism means?
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:25 PM
7

Yep, once you have a mission to focus on, you can add some abundance. You won't be thinking about the chick who is ignoring you when you know Mary wants to fuck tomorrow and Jane wants to Fuck on Monday.
/r/askTRP17/04/20 01:18 PM
2

Well that's different than a random tragedy. You are ultimately responsible for your breakups, and ideally you learn from them each time. Your learning experiences is what makes you more prepared and stoic.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:00 PM
1

yes. Why would experiencing something totally out of your control make you better?
/r/askTRP16/04/20 02:42 PM
10

Exhibit A
/r/askTRP16/04/20 02:40 PM
13

It's about learning from your failures, not needlessly enduring tragedy.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 02:27 PM
16

She should want to tell you. She should be afraid of what you'll think if she just leaves some place without telling you where. These are all problems with your frame.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 02:26 PM
1

There's no polite way to lose a friend. You either have a blow up or slowly lose touch. Just limit your interactions with them more and more until you don't hear from them anymore.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 01:36 PM
0

You just listen to what daddy says? Or have you done research that makes you believe his claim especially in the area you want to live?
/r/askTRP16/04/20 01:21 PM
2

Pretty much. The tried and true agree and amplify works.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:37 PM
20

Then why the fuck are you on tinder or whatever dating app you're using? Any rapport you think you are building will be irrelevant by the time quarantine is lifted. Waste of time.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:24 PM
20

It's just something autists say to justify their lack of social skills.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:22 PM
6

It would be weird to ask a girl I never met to come to my place directly. Not during a quarantine. You have plausible deniability right there. Meeting friends is something you do with a gf, not a plate. Sends the wrong message.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:19 PM
25

wtf? She says she's good in bed she's down to fuck. What's the problem? If you're not willing to meet then get off the dating apps.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 05:14 PM
3

Calling someone a fuck boy is possibly the most common shit test out there right now.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 03:24 PM
8

Do I seriously act like nothing happened when the soft next is over? Should it be over? Drunk words are often sober thoughts. Red flags all over the place. Not LTR material from where I sit. Strongly consider demoting to plate.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:47 PM
4

A 1st date is almost always drinks. I address it by saying the first round is on me and see if they follow suit. If they don't step up and get the next round, I don't throw a hissy fit about it, but it is noted.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:40 PM
2

Because you have no other options. Go get some abundance.
/r/askTRP15/04/20 02:10 PM
1

She basically just called you a pussy. So no. Hard next.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:40 PM
11

I can ramble off a list of good careers but that means nothing if you're not interested in them or not capable of learning them. There is no magic job that hires inexperienced people that pays well. Either make the investment to learn something you enjoy that isn't worthless or keep getting better at what you can do and leverage that for better opportunities and more money.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 03:34 PM
2

Life skills are like a muscle, you need to build them through hours of hard work. You aren't losing 40 hours of your week, you are building your character.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 01:54 PM
3

100% You can put absolutely anything in your bio. Be good looking match and escalate. Don't put any real effort into tinder.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 01:08 PM
3

If you sound desperate on here, you're going to seem way more desperate in real life. Go take a cold shower and clear your mind.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 01:03 PM
1

Sucks, but you have to embrace your new bald identity. Be proud of it.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:58 PM
11

Because you want a traditional family, i.e. children, and you believe your spouse will raise them well with your guidance. Otherwise, there is no reason.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:52 PM
11

Normally this is just a shit test, but if this happens "often", then red flag.
/r/askTRP14/04/20 12:26 PM
1

You're delusional. The fact you so desperately want revenge is already proof of the power she has over you. She's already won. What you fantasize as a gut punch will be less than a speed bump in the totality of her life.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 08:15 PM
2

If it's effortless then it's not worth having. Btw, even post-wall overweight women will cheat on their inshape blue pill husband.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 08:06 PM
6

Truth hurts. She had greater tingles for him than you. The only thing you can do about it is make yourself more attractive.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 06:55 PM
2

No idea why you feel this way. Saying I work security is a lot "cooler" than plenty of other jobs. Chicks dig uniforms, badges, and authority figures. Just don't come off as a try-hard mall cop.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 06:38 PM
4

Even things that are seen as submissive can come from a dominate frame. Within reason of course. If that's what you want, then go for it.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 06:21 PM
1

What's there to doubt? She just let a guy kiss her? Sure, I'm sure that's all she's done. And the first time too I bet! Then you double down and reward her behavior by seeing her secretly. This is done. Get ripped and acquire some plates.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:25 PM
19

Blue pill conditioning & corporate marketing. We knew it instinctively, then it was conditioned or brain washed out of us. But that doesn't matter now. You know the truth, how are you going to use it?
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:22 PM
91

You failed to set boundaries. Clearly not LTR material. Demote to plate, withdraw attention.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:19 PM
2

I'm new to redpill and don't have any plates yet Abundance is the cure for oneitis
/r/askTRP13/04/20 04:13 PM
8

People forget that most of these hollywood stars are all really just blue pill drama club dweebs who got rich. When you're that famous and rich you will be successful with women in spite of your blue pill tendencies.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 03:55 PM
2

Making connections and hoping they pan out later after this is over is completely pointless.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 03:43 PM
59

Sex with him isn't that important.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:36 PM
5

The cure for oneitis is abundance.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:35 PM
16

Most of them have no intention of meeting anyone during lockdowns. Stop dancing for them. No need to cultivate them for weeks in hopes of hooking up when this is over. Press them to meet and if they are not down then move on. Or better yet, delete the app altogether.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:25 PM
2

Do you value your time? Break it off.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:19 PM
3

Porn is a bandaid on the real problem: your wife not having sex with you. Check out deadbedrooms and read about all the guys who were married to women they thought "just didn't have a high sex drive" and then found out they were getting fucked by someone else. This is really only explainable by two things, she isn't really that attracted to you and you are applying no dread.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 02:16 PM
2

Your goal should be overt nothing more. "I want those dishes done". Instead what you've done is revealed that you aren't really a man you just pretend to be one. You can own and correct your mistake without bringing attention to it and explaining your rationale. Women want your actions and masculinity to be organic, not acted out like a play because you read about it online.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 01:28 PM
2

This is actually a blue pill example. Never communicate overtly with women.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/20 12:57 PM
13

Boundaries. I wouldn't be in a LTR with someone in communication with an ex. Neither should you and she should know that. If she doesn't tell him to fuck off... should I read this as a red flag? lmao, what do you think? The fact she hasn't blocked his number and wished him happy birthday means you're already fucked.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 05:21 PM
2

Spoken like a boy with no abundance. Why don't you send her flowers too?
/r/askTRP10/04/20 03:03 PM
1

Is this your bro or someone you're trying to fuck?
/r/askTRP10/04/20 02:29 PM
1

1) Practice Secondly, especially when it comes to pull ups, people do them incorrectly. If you are using wrong form, you'll be using your arms to pull yourself up instead of your back. Watch some youtube videos and pay attention to how and what muscles you're supposed to squeeze.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:29 PM
4

You don't. Plates break, that's why you have to practice abundance. If they need confirmation of exclusiveness before sex then you are not the Alpha you think you are.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:22 PM
2

You tell them to do those things. "I want to hear you moan". "Tell me you like it". "Take control" Just open your mouth and be firm.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 01:05 PM
6

Not rare at all. You just have to take the lead and let them know what you want. If you make yourself the prize they are going to bend over backwards (literally) to please you.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:51 PM
6

Hookup culture doesn't end until you are too ugly to fuck. As long as you are attractive you can "hookup".
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:40 PM
12

It takes two people to have a fight. Give her nothing. All the yelling and screaming at you doesn't need to illicit a response. Stoicism.
/r/askTRP10/04/20 12:24 PM
8

Hate and not caring are two different things. I don't see a reason to hate the man for regurgitating the same blue pill nonsense most of us were brain washed with.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 07:44 PM
1

No. I was referring specifically to the quote above. Not the whole paper.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 07:21 PM
2

I'm guessing this refers to miscarriages which are very common.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 07:08 PM
7

Tinder made "passport" free during this pandemic. It lets you change your location to anywhere you want. People are just changing their location for fun since they can't meet up with anyone. Expect to see lots of them if you're within 50 miles of a major city.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:42 PM
12

Yup. She couldn't ignore her biological clock anymore. She needs someone to plant a kid in her and provide financial stability. Something a 26 year old can't provide. The ex is clearly her beta bux, maybe OP is her AF. You could be hitting that again OP if you stop being so beta. Now you know, never LTR cheating sluts.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:36 PM
3

There's always going to be a "mental gap" between men and women, regardless of age. Just find one that suits your needs and who you can relate to when it comes to your interests and values.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 06:26 PM
145

Sadly yeah, they do. When you don't have a single female notice you in your everyday life, an attractive girl saying "Thanks gingercuck21, you're the best" is a powerful feeling to them. And a lot of the girls, exploit and cultivate this. Many of them go so far as to lie about their relationship status, or complain about being single despite being married.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 05:30 PM
242

unlike porn, sad pathetic losers can emotionally invest themselves into cam girls, streamers, etc. It's really nothing new, just a new form and seemingly more popular.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 05:03 PM
2

More or less yes. But sometimes a man is divorced causing his financial instability, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:48 PM
5

Don't you remember the Beta Bux, dynamic? Financial and emotional comfort with BB while getting sexually gratified by AF.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 04:18 PM
5

10+ dates, no sex? Why don't you take up a more productive hobby like knitting?
/r/askTRP09/04/20 03:13 PM
1

You still have to game your LTR. You can't just get into bed and say "wanna fuck". You have to still do kino, teasing, and gradual escalation. The whole deal.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:55 PM
5

Being a business owner means waking up early, working late, working holidays, putting out fires. Don't like waking up early? hahaha GTFoutta here.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:08 PM
1

AWALT She's cool with non-exclusivity because she has plenty of dick to catch. Plus if you tout your roots on the Gold Coast, you're putting a target on your back as BB.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:05 PM
3

at 18? yuck at 25? passable
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:00 PM
33

I don't think women are getting worse. Women are women. Men are getting worse. More men are rejecting masculinity and embracing being beta, to the point they are proud of their lack of masculinity. So what happens? Women are showered with beta affection even when it's undeserved. Of course 5/10s think they are hot shit because they have 99 likes on tinder with thirsty betas willing to worship them.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:59 PM
1

5 is a decent number but it depends on how old she is and what kind of 5. 5 LTRs? 5 Randoms over a 3 week period?
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:46 PM
5

Best to ignore and STFU. He doesn't exist except in her alpha widowed mind. This doesn't need to be said but, absolutely do not LTR her
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:43 PM
16

You'll know when you're not F closing. I had to re-calibrate one night after meeting a rando at the bar. It was a done deal, making out at the bar etc. But I was too much of a dick too often. When she hinted that she wanted me to buy her a drink instead of saying "no thanks" or "sure i'll get you a water" I couldn't STFU and basically implied she was a leech (true) and could go solicit another sucker at the bar. Instead of fucking her brains out I got slapped and went home alone. I don't regret …
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:39 PM
2

Both. And when I go out, I'm not going there for the purpose of pickup. I go out to drink, watch the game, hang with friends etc
/r/askTRP08/04/20 02:46 PM
3

An approach doesn't have to literally be cold. Find the ioi first and your approach numbers can be close to 100%. I have most success at bars.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 02:33 PM
135

What could he have done differently? Don't fuck crazy. Don't LTR crazy. Vet his women better. If you're Johnny Depp, don't LTR anyone.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 02:16 PM
1

If she's a plate then you shouldn't care.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 02:13 PM
20

That's because you don't have a plan or a mission. "Being productive" is not a plan. Set a specific goal and get to it. I want to learn how to play piano I want to bench press 300lbs etc.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 02:10 PM
14

In all the crap you just posted you mentioned nothing about hard work. Talent is really only small % of success, your failure is lack of effort. Want to be an entertainer? They're the most neurotic people on the planet, and you know what?It's a positive impact on their material. You don't think standups are scared when they get infront of a crowd? Do you think they are comfortable? What have you done to help achieve your goal? Done open mics? Joined an improv group? Doesn't sound like you've don…
/r/askTRP07/04/20 07:07 PM
4

Is there a question? Just politely nod and go about your business the way you want to.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 06:55 PM
5

If a girl acknowledges you she is giving you an invitation to open. Really slick move holding up your card and doing nothing.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 06:51 PM
1

because they are easy. When you get used to smashing 75mph fastballs out of the park, hitting a 99mph fastball becomes impossible.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 05:39 PM
8

I think you're confusing losing interest with cowardice. Sounds like you're afraid to escalate and fool yourself into thinking you are not interested.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:29 PM
1

If you have abundance, there are no second chances. Your best bet, besides just hard nexting her, was to STFU act like none of this happened and hit her up another time.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:23 PM
1

I don't have issues with slump busters. But don't make it a habit. Settling on these desperate girls will hurt your game in the long term.
/r/askTRP07/04/20 12:13 PM
3

Read: "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Carnegie
/r/askTRP06/04/20 04:59 PM
7

You're giving too many fucks. Just focus on your mission. Stop caring about what others think. Their perceptions will change when you continue to improve and move toward your mission.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 03:21 PM
2

But I just got pissed she took me away from her roommate. You took yourself away from the roommate. Having the other girl fawning over you would have only helped you.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 02:14 PM
3

If you're a noob, don't bother talking sexual with someone you haven't fucked. Escalate with actions not words. So get off skype.
/r/askTRP06/04/20 01:50 PM
8

So far I haven't fully verbalised and went full on " Hey, do this or that". Start.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 04:49 PM
7

Exactly the same as any other pickup up, except when she says "I'm kind of seeing someone", you ignore and continue as normal. Of course you'll find out "kind of seeing someone" translates to a 2 year long term relationship.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 02:28 PM
1

You're treating her more like a girlfriend than a plate.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:35 PM
1

I don't think this can be salvaged. You're beta bux. You don't kindly ask a leech to remove itself from your skin, you torch the fucker off of you.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:30 PM
1

As long as you're getting what you want, sex while she's in town, then why would you drop her? Is the investment not worth the pay off?
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:27 PM
9

Every time you've been dumped, they were branch swinging. Sometimes they already have the branch in hand, other times they are swinging towards it with their hand open.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:24 PM
11

Hold her down.
/r/askTRP03/04/20 12:18 PM
3

TRP says to keep your SMV high so you know you can drop your LTR and start spinning plates if need be. No need to waste time on women "just in case".
/r/askTRP02/04/20 05:09 PM
2

Sounds really fucking boring. A single text/dm a week is plenty.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 02:43 PM
1

Yes it's happened and it's always drunk or low quality women.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 01:51 PM
6

Sounds like you're investing way too much time with her without escalating. She shouldn't have the opportunity to ghost you more than once. No one took her away from you. You never had her. You are and have always been her orbiter.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 01:36 PM
3

You're afraid. Become big strong and dangerous and you'll be less afraid.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 01:33 PM
3

No need to even think about LTR until this over and you are back spinning plates. After things are back to normal for a certain amount of time, reassess.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 01:32 PM
1

If you are big and lean it won't matter. They fade over time and having tanned skin also helps cover them.
/r/askTRP02/04/20 01:09 PM
1

You went on a mini vacation with a woman you fucked once. Are you not seeing the issue?
/r/askTRP01/04/20 07:40 PM
1

Leading is a process so yeah it's going to be with someone you have a long term relationship with. If a she wants to be your woman she'll follow your lead or you'll breakup with or plate the ones who don't.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 07:02 PM
2

Oh Jesus, So you pre booked a hotel so you could fuck? A key detail you left out.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 07:00 PM
3

You can't change their nature, but you can make your woman do better by setting boundaries and leading.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:54 PM
4

Do you judge a toddler for screaming about wanting a cookie? Women are different than men. This is their nature.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:47 PM
5

So I shouldn't have apologized? For what? You didn't do anything.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:40 PM
3

One of my old teachers / college instructors was friends with a woman FOR 8 YEARS before finally working his way into a relationship Yeah, after she hit the wall and had no prospects. Orbiters can sometimes fall into some lucky pussy, but like I said she doesn't really want to fuck them.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:37 PM
7

You hit up a girl you met once 8 months later... You apologized for her being a dumbass... I HIGHLY doubt she'll be seeing you when Covid is over. I suggest losing her number.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:33 PM
2

You are right, she is dating around and has found a better option. Your focus on who paid makes you sound cheap which I'm sure came across. How did you handle the LMR? Pushing for sex is a turn-off.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:27 PM
1

No. If they are attractive they have a stable of men giving them attention and drooling over her. Good news for you is she doesn't really want to fuck those guys.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:20 PM
1

demote to plate, withdraw attention. Seems like you've accidentally did that and it's working. Set your boundaries when you talk to her.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:15 PM
14

Either meet up and go for a walk or stop texting. You become a virtual orbiter the longer you interact with her without escalating to meet up/intimacy.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 06:10 PM
2

Nothing different than what's on the sidebar. -I lifted weights and got lean -I dressed like a guy in really good shape -I initiated with women yet never pursued them
/r/askTRP01/04/20 05:57 PM
3

Putting her on the backburner is the obvious choice. But your text comes off as butt hurt. No need to be so overt. "Ok, hit me up when you're allowed out to play".
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:30 PM
20

I only care about strength Well that's your answer. Get big and strong because that's what YOU want. You can always re-calibrate if you feel as if you're getting too bulky.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:26 PM
5

This pity party isn't going to help. Go accomplish something. Anything.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 07:24 PM
3

Business as usual. Act as you would if they didn't pay their invoices normally. If they reach out to you for relief due to the crisis, try and negotiate. Still nothing? Sue. If they file bankruptcy you'll have a valid debt and may be able to collect something.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 06:41 PM
38

No real tragedies from me. I was lucky to learn and internalize RP early on. In my late teens I really put in effort and bumped up my SMV. It was very clear how different my interactions with women became. Meeting and attracting them became super easy. I was meeting a lot of women and having fun. Then I met a girl, who for me at the time, was like a 10. For whatever reason, probably because I thought she was the hottest girl I've ever dated, I wanted a serious relationship with her. Did all the …
/r/askTRP31/03/20 05:18 PM
217

Probably the same as most: Everything you were taught about women is a lie.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:50 PM
13

That's a lot of text about "this one girl". Ignore her for your own sake. Case of oneitis for sure.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:37 PM
11

The only person who might be in legal trouble is the IT guy (unless you paid him to do this). You're worried about what your GF will think? You really can't think of a way to spin this other than you spied?
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:36 PM
8

Doesn't sound like you need to do anything until the company actually makes moves against your gf. Even so, disclosing the emails only makes it look like one of the women on the email leaked it.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:34 PM
5

He's an IT guy that was snooping on them?
/r/askTRP31/03/20 04:28 PM
20

You have no SMV because you suck. You are preventing yourself from growing. You're just using your gf as an excuse as to why you can't improve yourself. If you break up with her you will still suck.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 03:32 PM
2

If they're actually going out of their way to touch you, then yes.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 02:47 PM
6

I believe in breaking slumps with chicks you wouldn't normally fuck, but you haven't even started yet. Just worry about building up your SMV until you can fuck whoever you want.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 02:43 PM
3

Just think about it like this, assuming low BF% you will look better with every pound of muscle you gain. You won't look freakish until you hit like 250+lbs. So just lift and stay lean.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 02:41 PM
3

Why didn't you extend the date and fuck after your rock climbing "date"? It seems counter-intuitive to cock block yourself just to make a point that you're not over pursuing.
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