I feel autistic when even thinking about talking to a girl

DoubleConversation4 · 2020-06-10T17:15:41+00:00

Practice will make it perfect

There is difference between knowing something and being able to do it

Someone with anxiety would literally freeze if he doesn't have the practice even if he were completely redpilled to the end

I never had to try to flirt, it just happened because I knew my purpose

My purpose was to get in her panties

So basically my words would essentially be flirty without me even noticing

As you talk to girls you'll internalize it

Start off with Tinder if you're good looking, go gradually

MattyAnon · 2020-06-10T18:02:16+00:00

Approach Anxiety. It's fine, normal, we all get it.

Put less pressure on yourself, and try and find easy ways of getting chatting.

Random meetings is good.

Shopping, standing next to her: "Don't pick that one". Tell her you heard it's picked by monkeys in the third world. Insist that cucumbers are vastly better than whatever she's looking at anyway.

The classic is just to walk up and say "Hi, I'm X" and shake her hand, but this takes confidence and is a bit all or nothing.

Think of one standard thing to say that's fairly universal.... either bold or casual or teasing, choose your style. But you gotta talk first, and it should be at least somewhat engaging.

Fabulous-Craft · 2020-06-10T17:19:23+00:00

Stop hyping it up so much. They aren't better than you. Treat them like children.

If you're fairly attractive all you need to do is say hi and take it from there.

IXseed · 2020-06-10T17:58:58+00:00

What makes talking to a girl so special? Nothing? So why are you thinking about it as such?

dudedoodickle · 2020-06-10T22:48:49+00:00

you're pedestalizing without realizing.

Title	I feel autistic when even thinking about talking to a girl
Author	fookdishit
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Date	June 10, 2020 5:11 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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