Tips on “making the move”?

appmanga · 2022-04-04T20:05:08+00:00

Life isn't a porno; sex doesn't -- poof -- just happen. You build up to it. You guys were watching Netflix? You could just take her hand and hold it. After a little while stroke her forearm. After a while more, put your arm around her while you watch the program. Once you're holding her, try kissing her neck. She will let you know when she doesn't want to go further.

There's a thing called "foreplay", and it's the build up to sex. When you're in these situations you have to build up the mood. It may not lead to sex, but the makeout session you have this time is leading you into the possibility of going further the next time. Don't be afraid of being a bit bold -- she will let you know where the line is. The biggest lesson you need to learn is never be in a hurry. That's one of the biggest turnoffs nearly every woman has.

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-04-04T18:53:17+00:00

If your are a noob escalate at every opportunity. It's about leading. If you can't lead, go masturbate.

DetainTheFranzia · 2022-04-04T20:49:58+00:00

Escalate is honestly kind of a charged term. After all, "de-escalation" is something you try to do when people are on the verge of getting in a physical conflict. I like what another poster said. It's about building up the moment. Just set your sights on making out. How do you get there? Flirt, be silly, make jokes, get closer to her, touch her a little. It's about setting the scene for the moment. You're right, you dont want to just kiss her abruptly. But if you flirt, joke, tease, arm around her, eventually there will be another moment where time kind of pauses, and it will make sense to take the next step. If you aren't confident, if you are scared, that's ok, just trust that it will work, you have to be willing to push yourself out of your comfort zone. You got this

putcoolusernamehere · 2022-04-04T19:29:52+00:00

Just wait for a silence in the convo when you’re in an isolated location and go for it. Really no way about it, you just have to go for it.

Marcoscondit · 2022-04-05T07:55:05+00:00

😂

gemini88mill · 2022-04-04T18:47:24+00:00

If you and her are having fun and there is some sexual tension in the air. Wait for a lull in the conversation and go for it.

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-04-04T23:20:19+00:00

Do the palm reading trick, basically you tell her that you become really good at future reading and that you are gonna read her palm, to see what kind of person she is or what her future life will look like,… Obviously you are gonna make it up.

You start caressing the likes of her palm, her fingers while you say random predictions about her and her personality, tell her:

that this line indicates she is smart and has a bright future ahead of her, this line shows you are kinda shy at first, but really funny once people get to know you.
this other line suggests she is a really empathetic person that cares deeply for others, and has a good heart.

And then escalate sexually but in a teasing way, by saying:

this line right here suggests you are a terrible kisser, but like to pretend you are not because you’ve got a reputation to keep, or you’ll be dishonoured.

If she lets herself still be touched by you after saying this stuff, it’s a good sign that she is enjoying it and is ready to be kissed.

“You know your skin is so soft, i love it how it feels, and rd making me kinda nervous, specially because you are so different from other girls…”

If she still lets you touch her while you say this go for a kiss…. Basically touching her like that combined with your flirting, builds anticipation for a kiss, you are elevating the temperature, and if she lets you touch her, then you just have to go for it.

Extra-Boysenberry · 2022-04-04T19:23:06+00:00

Sounds like a fun time. However, you had a girl in your house watching Netflix on the bed and didn’t make a move? If you don’t make a move, she’ll lose interest and consider you a friend!

WhiteningMcClean · 2022-04-04T19:45:14+00:00

I was in a similar situation recently. Got drunk and went into "best friend" mode with this chick and completely killed any chance to set the mood.

If you're like me and seduction isn't your default mode, you've gotta actively change up your approach. Make her laugh. Don't give serious answers to her questions. Make innuendos (nothing too graphic.) Tease her. Find an opportunity to put your hand on her shoulder if you two are laughing, you're reassuring her about something, encouraging her in some way etc.

Making a move is something you have to work up to.

mightymite88 · 2022-04-05T12:03:26+00:00

Ask for consent

Title	Tips on “making the move”?
Author	polarizingpotato
Upvotes	1
Comments	18
Date	April 4, 2022 6:41 PM UTC (4 years ago)
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