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You use conversation to build connection and to capture her imagination. If you're not good at flirting, don't try to flirt. Listening is more important than talking. Listening is how you get information, and you can use that information to show her you see her as she sees herself. Be curious. Be interested in what she has to say and use that as context clues to her personality and desires.
/r/seduction27/07/26 05:30 PM
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What is the difference between a conversation that creates attraction and a normal friendly one? Intent. If your intent is to create attraction you want to pick up on what motivates her; how she sees herself, and capturing her imagination. Flirting isn't always appropriate, and everyone isn't good at it. You should have an idea of the woman's perspective; that should give you a good idea about what can make them feel unsafe and uncomfortable, and sometimes that's unwanted comments some people fe…
/r/seduction20/07/26 09:46 PM
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I don't care what other people say. You're a genius Professor Frink.
/r/seduction19/07/26 04:41 PM
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This is a huge misunderstanding a lot of guys seem to have. I would say a majority of people would prefer a serious relationship over a casual one, so the number of anyone who wants a casual relationship is going to be smaller. That doesn't mean there aren't a huge number of women out there who don't care to have something serious. Lots of times when you read a guy writing about how they had such a great time with a woman, and thought a second meeting would happen, but it never did, it's because…
/r/seduction17/07/26 05:08 PM
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You don't want to do an interrogation; you want to have a conversation. Even though the guy in the video asked a bunch of rapid fire questions, the woman he was speaking with answered them. Still, those were questions with no particular purpose than to get a name and some contact info, and we all know how worthless that is if the person has no reason to want to engage with you again. I'm not criticizing "dating coaches", but a lot of those guys simply don't seem to like women, and give a lot of …
/r/seduction17/07/26 04:46 PM
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Be curious. Honestly curious. "Excuse me. I think your haircut really looks nice. Where'd you get it done? Is it something you wanted, or did someone suggest it? I once worked at a place that has issues with women having their hair styled like yours. Have ever gotten negative feedback about it?" And then, just as importantly, be a good listener. Don't make conversations just to seek out chances to be clever, especially if you're not particularly clever, or to tell how fantastic you are. Conversa…
/r/seduction16/07/26 06:48 PM
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A lot of men today are genuinely confused about dating and relationships. That's obvious because people keep coming to this sub for dating and relationship advice. So called "seduction" techniques aren't conducive to building a relationship. There are ways to build attraction, but you can't make someone who has no interest be interested, and tons of guys are too fucking scared to use the techniques even if they're made aware of them.
/r/seduction15/07/26 06:54 PM
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I noticed she’d sometimes smile to herself, rub her arm, glance at me, and look down. In terms of body language, this was big. She felt comfortable and attracted to you. I'd read it as you made an impression, and it came as sort of a surprise to her. Rubbing her arm was indicative of one of two things, or both: tempering her excitement, and unconscious self-grooming. When you get these kind of clues, you have to take advantage because how she felt at the time may fade in light of day, or she mig…
/r/seduction15/07/26 03:39 AM
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When I was in my early-20s, my brother had a friend who was not a good-looking guy by any means. I'm not movie star material myself, but this guy would walk past the church and Quasimodo would say "Man, that dude is ugly". But he got lots of girls. Fantastic looking ones. It wasn't about money because none of us had any; he just had the right talk and attitude. I'd love to be 20-years old again only because the competition is so weak, misguided, and fearful. Do looks matter? Of course. Does mone…
/r/seduction07/07/26 02:36 PM
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What you've written is fine advice for the person looking for a relationship, or even just meeting someone, but it misses the point so many people continue to miss about what "seduction" is, and what it is does involve certain techniques which the person may have no idea about. So while I understand your point, I think it's misguided in this case because you even refer to "dating advice" and "relationships". The best thing so many people who come here should understand is "seduction" is not conv…
/r/seduction02/07/26 03:45 PM
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I can't stand how seemingly everyone on this sub admits how awful dating is in 2026 yet still play along with it...The average young American man lives a desperate, lonely life void of any intimacy with women besides their mother. In extreme cases not even their mother or even some friends are present in their lives. Yet people on this sub just don't seem to care. Some people who come to this sub don't care because this isn't a sub for dating advice, but people come here for it. That's like goin…
/r/seduction02/07/26 01:25 AM
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Before making any (more) financial investments, or buying some goofball app, please watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uqQ6g6OY2tc
/r/seduction27/06/26 02:36 AM
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Getting any woman in bed requires trust and connection? You're talking here about closing on the same night. Do you "close" when it's the second date or beyond, or does it not happen at all?
/r/seduction19/06/26 11:14 PM
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For me, it's everyone else around judging me Do they know you? And what do you think is going to be their judgment? And why should whatever it is matter to you? The biggest hurdle far too many people have is worrying about what some inconsequential person is going to think about them.
/r/seduction19/06/26 03:47 AM
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Sorry. I can't be your playmate. You'll have to find somebody else. Good luck.
/r/seduction03/06/26 07:11 PM
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You're trying to build trust, and she's already shared she's had some traumatic experiences.
/r/seduction03/06/26 07:06 PM
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Touching her butt would have been the absolute wrong thing to do, so it good you didn't. Don't be in a hurry to sexualize your kino. You're trying to build trust, and she's already shared she's had some traumatic experiences. Continue to build on this by using gentle touches, holding hands, and lightly brushing her hair.
/r/seduction03/06/26 02:01 AM
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I'm going to have to go back to therapy, aren't I? That's up to you, but it sounds like you don't get a very fundamental concept when it comes to being a person other people will like: you have to like yourself. You have to love yourself. I'm far from a great looking guy, but I've been successful because I believe my best self is pretty damn good. And I learned a long time ago looks are often not the thing that's most important to women. But you have to dedicate yourself to knowing something abo…
/r/seduction30/05/26 03:39 PM
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You’re even more degenerate than the O.P. is. As if what you say should matter to me. I'm not a judge and I'm not the morality police. You live how you want and keep your blue nose out of other people's business if you don't like what they do.
/r/seduction25/05/26 04:25 PM
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Seducing married women can often be easier than seducing single woman, and much of it comes down to the same very important rule: knowing how to listen. And also knowing it may not happen overnight. Listening is how you gather intelligence. How do you find out if she's unhappy in her marriage, or simply willing to fuck around? You ask questions, and then you listen. You have to see her how she sees herself. You can use kino and affinity to achieve the same goals whether a woman is married or sin…
/r/seduction25/05/26 02:29 AM
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The simple answer is women don't trust you. A woman won't willingly have sex with a guy she doesn't trust. Add in that your country punishes this behavior, and that puts even more emphasis on that fact. Women want to have sex just as much as you do, so stop being desperate. Just be the kind of guy who women can feel comfortable around and who's interested in things other than just having sex. Good luck.
/r/seduction11/04/26 04:40 PM
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Is it true that women sense desperation and insecurity from miles away?? Yes. A woman spends most of her life interpreting situations, and sussing out the agendas and motivations of the males they encounter, and most of them get very good at it. Confidence comes from capability and belief. You have to work to be who you want to be. If you like who you are, it's easy to be confident, and comfortable in your own skin.
/r/seduction07/04/26 02:53 PM
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Gynecologist. But it's like working at an ice cream parlor. You start to hate ice cream.
/r/seduction15/03/26 03:56 PM
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Or is this something men do without thinking? We really don't know a lot about each other as men and women, do we? The man who did this did this without thinking. It was inappropriate and disrespectful. We have lots of commonalities as men, but we're not all ill-mannered, insecure jerks.
/r/seduction26/02/26 04:10 AM
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She likes you, she was horny, and felt you were worth it.
/r/seduction17/02/26 10:09 PM
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If you're not good at conversations, you should be practicing having them with all kinds of people. Learn how to make "small talk". Lots of people think that's trivial, but it's common means of social interaction (at least in the U.S.) and one of the ways you can meet people. Yes, it's stuff like "How about this weather?", "Did you see the game last night?", "Excuse me, I'm interested in seeing a good movie. Have you seen one lately?". Practice your follow ups. People don't like being interrogat…
/r/seduction08/02/26 03:06 PM
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A couple of things from what you wrote: Even though most of them haven't studied game, they naturally do the same stuff that the books teach and the coaches do. tease, pushpull, flirt etc. They get rejected lots just like the professional PUA's but eventually they approach one who likes them and they hook up. These technique are effective, but I don't care for them because they play on the insecurities and doubts of the women they're used on. To each their own, but I like women, and don't want t…
/r/seduction29/01/26 06:49 PM
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I know I’m emotionally and mentally broken and sometimes have suicidal thoughts because I can’t handle the pain. I want to change my situation so I can make friends, find a girlfriend and love myself. I don’t know how to heal myself, so I’m hoping you can suggest some ways I can do that. Please don’t tell me to go see a therapist. I'm not mocking you, or trolling you, but preferring the thoughts of a bunch of randos from the internet over a trained professional might be indicative of why you're …
/r/seduction29/01/26 06:07 PM
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Then after 5 minutes the moment felt very sexual so I asked "would you like to go somewhere more private?" This could be taken as kind of fast. Would things have changed after 20 minutes? No one can say, but that would have been better, in my opinion. Many women consider time as an investment. There was nothing wrong with your asking what you did. That's one of the keys to getting what you want. In this kind of situation, instead of serving up what was a very sincere apology, it might pay to go …
/r/seduction27/01/26 06:57 PM
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There really is no way to know unless you listen to recordings of my dates. Are you really recording your dates?
/r/seduction26/01/26 11:14 PM
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The problem is that I can only speculate, and women are notorious for avoiding conflict and being dishonest. You sound like you don't even like women, and maybe that's what's coming across. You're not going to war; you're going on a date. You're working so hard to "game", you're losing perspective on the most important thing: a woman who's interested in having sex with men will not do so without coercion unless she trusts the guy. Saying "I'll only let you leave if you do what I say" isn't the w…
/r/seduction26/01/26 11:11 PM
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I feel like this is where she got scared, and hit me with the “I should go.” I then said “yeah sure, I’ll let you go once we schedule the second date.” And you wonder what went wrong?
/r/seduction26/01/26 10:51 PM
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Tell her.
/r/seduction21/01/26 12:20 PM
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You don’t have deities to genuflect before but many treat Mark Manson and others like his face should be on a coin. What's wrong with you? No one said you mentioned any number of dates. I mentioned that as something that relevant to what you advised. I guess the detour into the writings of guys from centuries ago was supposed to be some kind of secondary point; who knows? In any case, I have to get my mule in the barn before it gets too dark. Good luck.
/r/seduction18/01/26 01:26 AM
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I don't date to swap partners lile toilet paper rolls, I date to fall in love and choose someone who'll stick around too. Stop struggling. You shouldn't use so-called seduction techniques because that's not their purpose. You're better off being yourself and letting that work for you; there's absolutely nothing wrong with that. You don't want to play games with someone you truly want to fall in love with; and it's too much work to try to continue to be someone you're not. Good luck.
/r/seduction18/01/26 01:14 AM
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And, again, like the others in your Church, you attribute to me something I never said. Forgive me for not realizing your importance. And it's certainly against the tenets of my faith to misquote, even it's the ravings of a crackpot. I'll be asking my almighty deity for forgiveness.
/r/seduction18/01/26 01:03 AM
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Avoid any expression of vulnerability. You make a decent point, but if you come out with this type of thing on a first date (or a second, or a third), most women are going to think something is wrong with you. Notes and letters are effective, but only if you've already established a high degree of intimacy, and that takes more time than most people are willing to give these days. And that's not just about being impatient, it's a lot of our worlds are much, much wider than the one in which Cassan…
/r/seduction17/01/26 10:31 PM
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I'm not going to comment on the wisdom, or lack thereof, of dating (or trying to date) someone in your workplace, but why don't just just approach her when you two are alone and ask if she's like to grab a coffee away from the workplace. If you can't ask for a date, you can't get any further.
/r/seduction12/01/26 10:51 PM
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I don't have approach anxiety. The worst thing that can happen is someone isn't interested. I don't take it personally. Rejection is a part of life; we don't get every job we interview for, so we get disappointed, but accept it and go on. Rejection doesn't kill and it's nothing to be embarrassed about.
/r/seduction12/01/26 04:17 AM
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How to approach, when to escalate, etc. Approaches are situational. Most times I simply introduce myself, say I noticed her and I wanted to meet her. Nothing overly clever, not trying to be cute or flirty. Sometimes I'll try to make small talk, and then ask something I'm curious about. Sometimes I'll give a compliment and ask something I'm curious about. For me, there isn't some standard opening line. For me, there isn't some standard opening line. And I listen because I'm gathering information.…
/r/seduction11/01/26 11:47 PM
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Do you have something that you could recommend to give some structure? I don't understand the question. What I can say right now is online dating should just be one arrow in your quiver, and you should use whatever's free. Approaching in real-life has to be part of what you do. Women want to meet guys as much as guys want to meet women, and one of the big mistakes guys make is trying so hard to impress a woman, they don't bother to listen to them.
/r/seduction11/01/26 09:55 PM
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Are there any current, ‚timeless’, and/or non-cringe programs that actually focus on fundamentals? Yes, there are. "Peacocking", if I'm understanding how you're using the term (dressing in a way that's appealing) is definitely timeless. Sometimes that means being unorthodox, but, in general, being neat and well dressed still means a lot. Using kino, affinity, and mirroring are still powerful ways to establish connection and, unlike negging, those don't require you to play on a person's insecurit…
/r/seduction11/01/26 09:22 PM
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This was a first date and you chose to criticize something very personal and meaningful. Maybe she wanted to get home before you called her a lousy lay? And, from the unsolicited advice category, most women will always appreciate slower and unrushed over the alternative.
/r/seduction03/01/26 09:59 PM
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"What was the biggest game changer for you in your life with seduction?" Realizing that women want to get laid as much as men do. "The thing that led to the most results?" Learning how to build connection. There are people, especially these days, who don't believe this is possible, or think it's some kind of trickery. I love how my life is, but I wouldn't mind being 25 again for a couple of weeks in today's world since the competition appears to be much, much, thinner.
/r/seduction02/01/26 04:58 PM
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"Unethical"? Are you kidding? We used to get girls by having parties. Nothing fancy; a few snacks, a fair amount of alcohol, and music. Eight or nine guys; eight or nine girls. It usually worked out especially well for me when I was the host. I even had a girl once help out with the clean up next day.
/r/seduction02/01/26 04:48 PM
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Why ask for advice if you're going to immediately shit on it? If you had the answer, do what you think is best and don't waste people's time.
/r/seduction07/12/25 05:56 PM
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It's different because true seduction tactics aren't sustainable, and they may also not be based in honesty, which is one the bases for a successful relationship. I constantly explain part of these tactics is to build trust, but trust should never be confused with honesty, and "seduction" advice is not relationship advice even though tons of people come to this sub for relationship advice. When I use the term "manipulation", I'm using it in its most agnostic sense. There's no trickery or magic i…
/r/seduction05/12/25 11:18 PM
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I don’t want to ask boring questions like “Where are you from?” or “What do you do?” – it just feels empty and lifeless These are literally the cliches of icebreakers. You can add little twists to them like "I hear a bit of an accent. Where are you from?" And conversations have a tendency to break down when a guy is so focused on being impressive, he doesn't take the opportunity to be curious, and then to really listen. If you're at a party, you can ask "Are you a friend of" whomever is giving t…
/r/seduction02/12/25 06:18 PM
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The answer is the same as knowing the difference between "wandering" and "wondering".
/r/seduction02/12/25 05:17 PM
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Don't be surprised if you get no answer.
/r/seduction25/11/25 12:26 AM
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how do you 'seduce' a girl who ignores you and maybe flat out tells you she's not interested and that you're not her type when you approach her or whatever? Easy answer: you can't. If you can't at least get a conversation with a girl, you can't "seduce" her. There's no magic to this stuff. The good news is there are thousands of other girls where you are who might be interested. Why would anyone with an ounce of maturity and self-respect want someone who doesn't want them? Don't dodge that quest…
/r/seduction20/11/25 06:08 PM
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You simply can't MAKE a girl attracted. You can't (without serious coercion) make a woman do something she doesn't want to. However, women who are attracted to men want to meet and date men, and want to have sex with them. These women are already attracted to men. Are you a man they'd be attracted to? You can do things to help that: being well-groomed, having a nice smile, being a pleasant person, a lots more, but if you think simple "attraction" is the point, that's misunderstanding the assignm…
/r/seduction19/11/25 11:26 PM
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Shut up, and start listening. Don't just listen to what is said, but how they say it, along with their mannerisms. And ask questions based on all that knowledge. Absolutely!! There are two huge things about being a good listener: 1) women appreciate a man who listens and isn't just using her talking as the time to formulate the next "clever" thing he's going to say; 2) listening is your means of gathering intelligence. That intel can help you build affinity, and affinity helps you build connecti…
/r/seduction18/11/25 11:32 PM
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First of all, you've barely started, and you're declaring yourself "a loser". If you want a starting point, it's this: your self-talk has to be positive. Self-talk is exactly what it sounds like; it's the dialogue you have with yourself. If you tell yourself you're a loser, it becomes self-fulfilling. It's like being the kid who's parents constantly say to him he's a loser, he's no good, and he'll never amount to anything. If that kid hears this enough, it's difficult for him not to believe it's…
/r/seduction09/11/25 08:18 AM
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Now I want to go out and pursue. I want to fuck as many as possible. I want to have loads of casual sex. But I don't know where to start at this age. You start by meeting and talking to women. Have casual conversations that don't have to be flirty. Give compliments and be curious. I see and hear guys talk about their lack of good looks all the time, but a healthy white set of teeth means a lot more. A pleasant smile is something that's very attractive. Be well-groomed. Wear a nice fragrance, but…
/r/seduction07/11/25 02:03 AM
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What started me is when one of my brothers told me I was never going to get laid while sitting in the house, and women (like men) can't read minds. Flirting doesn't work without confidence, and you may wind up never being good at it anyway if you're not fast on your feet. Canned lines can work, but they only take you so far. Learn how to make small talk, and build on that skill by making small talk with several people each day. Learn how to give compliments and ask questions. And learn how to li…
/r/seduction06/11/25 05:03 PM
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Asking a woman if she farted is definitely going to make her day.
/r/seduction03/11/25 02:57 PM
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There's a concept called "peacocking" where the person is well-dressed, or presents themselves in a way where their physical being attracts notice without them having to say or do anything. This is different from having things like body art or unusually colored hair. The "peacock" is unconventionally conventional.
/r/seduction03/11/25 01:46 PM
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But it will not work if you WANT something from them from the start. The seduction thing, if you understand what it is, is about wanting something from the start: sex.
/r/seduction29/10/25 03:37 PM
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Maturity is an issue but I don't think it's the core issue here. I'm going to go out on a limb and say you're wrong. Good luck.
/r/seduction28/10/25 03:32 AM
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Even at work, I told some female coworkers my body count You actually did this? I'm thinking you look like a chill adult, but when you open your mouth, women realize you have a maturity issue.
/r/seduction28/10/25 03:03 AM
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If it works for you, it works for me. Good luck.
/r/seduction19/10/25 01:52 AM
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Congratulations on your success sucking tits, and thank you for this interesting response.
/r/seduction11/10/25 01:34 AM
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I disagree about 'You don't want any kind of "tension" ', because that would mean you shouldn't disagree with anything a woman says, wouldn't it? Are you interested in getting laid, or are you interested in having a debate? I don't know how the concept of neediness comes into this. The only thing that should be coming across is you're a chill guy who's worth fucking. That you're not dangerous, you're not weird, and you're not going to be a future pain in the ass. Disagreeing for the sake of disa…
/r/seduction10/10/25 11:57 PM
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I think i have got my answer You think you have your answer, but it may not be the correct answer. Of course you want to show confidence and charm, and be a good conversationalist, but "sexual tension" is something from a rom-com or a TV show. You don't want any kind of "tension" in your interactions with women; you want them to feel comfort and trust. You want them to feel like you "get" them. Too many guys spend so much time trying to be clever and impressive, when they should be listening to …
/r/seduction08/10/25 09:27 PM
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If that works for you, it works for me, but most people know there are caveats and limitations, and would know it's silly for a 60-year old man who's never been an athlete to be a Super Bowl winning QB because of those limitations. And, to date, no 60-year old has done this, so it falls outside of "If someone else has done something". Still, should that stop someone from trying? I'd say "No", but people can make their own choices. Good night. Good luck.
/r/seduction03/10/25 03:24 PM
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what would be similarly good "seduction" advice then? It wouldn't necessarily involve being authentic. It could involve role play and for one simple reason: "seduction" techniques aren't really sustainable. Their purpose isn't about relationships, and that's the disconnect too many people who come to this sub don't get. "Seduction" techniques are about getting laid, not creating a relationship. This also why some people truly don't have the stomach for them; they believe there's some kind of "tr…
/r/seduction03/10/25 03:16 PM
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Unfortunately, the brain CAN tell the difference in the vast majority of cases. You're right, and the OP is a little off-base, but probably meant to say the subconscious can't tell the difference. And yes, it's theoretical, but not probable you can win six Super Bowls. But there's a 12-year old kid out there for whom that possibility exists. And while I have no way of knowing how smart Shakespeare was, he apparently didn't mind writing, which is where one would start. For less lofty goals, like …
/r/seduction02/10/25 06:52 PM
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Girls aren't looking for a handy man, they are looking for a guy that's authentic, because they can only connect with someone if that person is being authentic in the first place. That's where confidence comes in: if you aren't confident you won't be able to show your true colors. You will be hiding behind a facade, trying to sell yourself like a product with no flaws. Comments like this are why people have to understand there's a huge difference between "dating" advice and "seduction" advice. T…
/r/seduction02/10/25 01:55 PM
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It works because the human brain simply can’t tell the difference between what’s real and fake. This is the bottom line, and to say it more succinctly, you have to develop positive self-talk. If you don't like you, why should anyone else? Also keep in mind that confidence comes with accomplishment. What are the things you know how to do? How open are you to challenging yourself to do something new and not so easy? Can you competently play an instrument? Speak a second language? Fix small problem…
/r/seduction02/10/25 01:52 PM
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This is likely part of your issue. You think you're smarter than you are. I'm not doing a college course, or having a time wasting debate. Thanks for your interest.
/r/seduction01/10/25 04:29 PM
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So my question is; Will I just naturally become more dark triad and dominant by continuing with these experiences and building confidence, or is it just the case that I'm just not arsehole and can't be one. Why would you want to be? If you have to do temporarily for a sexual encounter, you should be able to pull off a little role playing, but there's nothing wrong with being a nice guy. You're getting results. Be true to yourself.
/r/seduction30/09/25 07:10 PM
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That's more whining than it is an idea. You may have well asked "Why does the sky have to be blue?". In the end, we have to deal with the realities we live in. If being "humiliated" by someone's rejection, or even their nasty comment is enough to stop you, you don't have the right stuff in the first place. Some of you guys simply need to toughen up. Dating ain't no safe space.
/r/seduction30/09/25 03:27 PM
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There a creator who's videos I watch, and from time to time she wears a shirt that says "Women don't owe you shit". And she's not some man-hater. In fact, she made a very empathetic video addressing some of the apparent issues guys today are having. But, being blunt, I can't blame the women out there because, based on so many of the posts I read here, so many of you guys sound absolutely pathetic. You can't live in fear of rejection; it's never killed anybody. You have to have resilience. You ca…
/r/seduction30/09/25 01:27 AM
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So the technique here is to master how to "manipulate" women? "Manipulate" in its most agnostic sense: to lead someone where they want to go, not to take advantage of them.
/r/seduction26/09/25 12:33 PM
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Here's what no one else is going to tell: most of these guys have a predatory mind. The know what they need, and will do what's necessary to get it, so they learn how to run game. And what helps with the effectiveness of their game is the women they get actually feel like they're the one who can turn that lump of coal into a diamond. That mindset separates them from so many guys who want to "seduce" women; these guys will be what they need to be in order to accomplish their goal, and somewhere i…
/r/seduction26/09/25 01:56 AM
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I'm sure you've heard of "kino", which involves touch. There's also "affinity". You may have heard "opposites attract". Sometimes they do, but most of the time people like people who they perceive are like them. Building "connection" is getting her to have the feeling that you "get her", you guys are on the same wavelength, and may, in fact, be "soulmates". The most important technique is the ability to build "trust". Unless she's coerced, a woman will not have sex with someone she doesn't trust…
/r/seduction23/09/25 12:43 AM
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Have you ever read or heard a woman describe a date she was on where she felt such a "connection" with a guy; they were so in sync, it was like they could finish each other's sentences? That's connection, and part of it comes from the fact you see her as she sees herself. In other words "you get her".
/r/seduction23/09/25 12:22 AM
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Any tips, tricks that you do or train to be as good seducer? There are no "tricks", but there are techniques to build trust, affinity, and connection. The biggest issue anyone has regardless of techniques and training is simply not having confidence in themselves and those techniques.
/r/seduction22/09/25 10:17 PM
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What men consider "revealing", women consider "comfortable". Someone told me a long time ago that every woman in the world is in competition with every other woman in the world. I think there's something to that.
/r/seduction14/09/25 05:04 PM
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I've read and heard other women say this. Part of it being beyond the concern of getting pregnant and not having to take a hormone to keep that from happening, along with being past menopause, and simply being more in touch with what you want, and will accept. In essence, you're feeling the benefits of freedom. It's a beautiful thing.
/r/seduction05/09/25 05:15 PM
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I'm thinking of doing a protracted push pull technique where I'm all touchy feely and affectionate, then I go to the bathroom and come back and don't touch her and rarely make eye contact. You do you, but I think this is silly. It's my belief that you have to build affinity, connection, and trust. Do those things have to be real versions? No, they just have to feel real.
/r/seduction14/08/25 03:43 PM
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Of course guys shouldn't fear rejection. Rejection is part of life, and is not fatal. Fear of rejection is another form of risk aversion, and you have to be willing to risk to gain the reward. If I could get one idea out of the head of young guys, it would be there's some kind of "creepiness" in approaching women. If you think you're a creep, you probably are. Women are wonderful, but I have yet to meet one who's telepathic. Stop looking for "signals"; we're generally too dumb to pick on them ev…
/r/seduction10/08/25 04:56 PM
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I would love to be 25-years old again with the life that I have and what I know now. Come to think of it, I might like to be 25 again anyways because of all the guys who aren't interested in women. Things were good before, it would be insane now.
/r/seduction09/08/25 02:59 AM
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Why would I tell any woman how many women I've had sex with? And why would I be interested in how many men a woman has had sex with? Some people are constantly looking for ways and reasons to fuck themselves up.
/r/seduction28/07/25 09:24 PM
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We see what you did there. Bravo.
/r/seduction27/07/25 04:49 PM
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but as a man you are the responsible to take action, to change the frame If you really believe this, then you should know that "changing the frame" doesn't mean you have to change what she's talking about. I asked you about your age, and your goal, and you didn't answer either of those. Interesting. 4 hours talking about serious stuff? No way. Cool. Sounds like you got this. I don't know why you came here. Good luck.
/r/seduction02/07/25 02:51 AM
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The conversation turned a bit serious, no playful, no flirty, no sensual... mostly about psychology, life goals, and relationships. I tried steering things toward attraction, desires, and more sexual/flirty topics, but nothing really landed. I thought she wasnot into me but at the same time she kept asking me personal questions, and she stayed with me for 3-4 hours and she had to return home to do something. Even I tried the vibe really never turned so romantic or playful. Conversations are oppo…
/r/seduction01/07/25 01:57 AM
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The best way to overcome this is create enough trust, affinity, and connection that she'll set aside her objections and give herself permission to overrule herself. That said, if these things have become hard and fast rules to the point they've become ingrained as part of her personality, you have to decide if the juice is worth the squeeze.
/r/seduction26/06/25 01:54 AM
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So my question is what am I doing wrong The issue isn't about what you're doing wrong. The issue is what else are you doing? Establishing touch is great, but what are you doing to build trust, affinity, and connection? What are you doing to capture her imagination? You can't make a cake by using flour alone. More ingredients are required.
/r/seduction25/06/25 12:18 PM
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Posts like this are why I constantly harp on the difference between "seduction" advice versus relationship advice. Someone talking about "early stages" is talking about attempting to build a relationship. If you're looking for something else, you certainly want to establish rapport. There's much to be gained from the sample conversation about the brother. Can it help you if can have her understand that you recognize that she's protective, nurturing, proactive, or another adjective? I'd say "yes"…
/r/seduction17/06/25 02:33 PM
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isn't the idea to change their mind? get the girls who aren't interested in you? The idea is to get girls who are interested in men interested in you. There's no magic that's going to make someone who doesn't want to be with you be with you, but the world is full of women looking for men in the same way men are looking for women, and quite a few of these women aren't (initially) looking for a boyfriend or fiance. This is why I emphasize what some call "seduction techniques" aren't for those who …
/r/seduction26/05/25 01:00 AM
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It kills the vibe knowing that I already paid thousands of USD to him in mostly phone call consultation. Thousands?!?! What are your goals?
/r/seduction23/05/25 01:13 PM
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you can't build attraction if there isn't any there. Okay. If they say so...
/r/seduction21/05/25 02:35 PM
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Why waste time trying to 'seduce' someone who isn't attracted to you and thus won't allow themselves to be 'sedcued' (sic) by you. You're describing someone who isn't with the person in the first place, so there's no "leaving" involved. There's a difference between "leaving her" and "leaving her alone". The first is relationship advice, the second is "seduction" advice. Find a girl who is attracted to you. The idea of "seduction" is to build attraction. If someone is already into you, you just n…
/r/seduction21/05/25 02:09 PM
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Yes, it has. It's become a relationship/lonely hearts advice column. If you're trying to use real "seduction" techniques to try to get or maintain a relationship, you're an idiot. And if you don't believe in those techniques and come to this sub to discuss something else, you're not good at definitions, and probably don't have the stomach for what this sub is supposed to be for. "Leave her and move on" is relationship advice, not "seduction" advice.
/r/seduction20/05/25 09:14 PM
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Good non sequitur. Thanks.
/r/seduction15/05/25 06:37 PM
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When you approach things with sincerity rather than selfish intent This sub has truly devolved. It shouldn't even exist anymore, or should exist with another name.
/r/seduction14/05/25 11:17 PM
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I feel optimistic and look forward to this journey of promiscuity Good for you. Half the people who want a relationship do so basically because they believe regular sex comes with it. The most effective "seduction techniques" aren't appropriate, sustainable, or good, for a healthy relationship. They're absolutely for what you're looking to do. Have fun and good luck.
/r/seduction06/05/25 09:55 PM
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There an old saying about striking while the iron is hot. You missed out. Sometimes girls just want to have fun, but you were too tired. She's probably curious about you, but she's also wondering how much of a problem you're going to be if you guys ever hook up, and has probably concluded, in the absence of liquor and loud music, it's not worth it. Leave things alone. You're better off not crapping where you eat anyway, but if she approaches you, you're back in the game.
/r/seduction30/04/25 12:50 PM
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Forget the horseshit advice about her having a boyfriend, and because of that wanting to get with her makes you a prick. I don't even know what this sub is supposed to be about anymore. Whatever you do is likely going to be futile if she's loyal to her boyfriend, and the fact he's running around on her probably won't change that. There's also the downside of you guys working in the same office. And she also might just see you as someone she can talk to as a friend, and that fits into something s…
/r/seduction08/04/25 08:38 PM
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That probably means illicit drugs. No thanks.
/r/seduction24/03/25 02:59 AM
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Anyone looking to engage with others should become competent at "small talk", which are conversations about common subjects like the weather or something in pop culture or day-to-day life almost everyone knows about. These aren't supposed to be deep conversations; they simply demonstrate, at a superficial level, you can be social. Conversations for the sake of "seduction" should be intelligence gathering and opportunities to engage a person's imagination. If you know certain things about a perso…
/r/seduction20/03/25 01:02 PM
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You don't want to "grab" anything. I can't count the number of times I've offered a "palm reading" to a woman. Or held her hand to "admire a ring" or the color of her nail polish. You can even say something like, "I've been noticing your hands". Gently lift up her hand and say her fingers look like those of a classical pianist. If you're as good a bullshitter as you think you are, you'd be using a lot more imagination. And understand why you're doing kino? Lastly, it's 2025; stop calling women "…
/r/seduction15/03/25 02:52 AM
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Replies like his are why this sub is now a joke.
/r/seduction05/03/25 06:58 PM
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I blame it on the misconception that women aren't simply other human beings who aren't here to make life miserable for men. In fact, a lot of women like men. A lot. But they don't immediately trust them, and with good reason. But it's easier to come up with juvenile rationales about how harsh women are and how you don't want to seem like a creep, which is something a creep would think. I hear as much frustration about apps as I hear about approaching, and the same kind of horror stories when it …
/r/seduction11/02/25 04:45 PM
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Don't be secretive about what pleases you, and be curious about what pleases your partner. Don't be afraid to initiate and be a participant. If you want the best outcome, that Big-O, be willing to help make that happen.
/r/seduction05/02/25 04:26 PM
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I’m being apprehensive about the idea of tailoring my profile more towards casual encounters as it’s something girls tend to resent as a habit If it's in your profile, you've made it plain about what you want. The issue with stating in a profile that you're looking for something casual is it's interpreted to mean a date is supposed to lead to sex, and most women don't want to commit to buying a pig in a poke. Also, believing women aren't into casual sex is a fundamentally flawed piece of thinkin…
/r/seduction26/01/25 10:18 AM
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And boy are your arms tired.
/r/seduction22/01/25 02:26 AM
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I was in the community years back and after a breakup was snooping around again, and I noticed it all seems different. Lots of the guys I used to watch have disappeared. Lots of the forums have gone. The topics of discussion have changed and so has the advice That's the product of a fundamental misunderstanding of what this sub is supposed to be. Now, it's taken as some kind of dating/relationship sub. One of The biggest things i've noticed is a massive push towards self improvement especially i…
/r/seduction06/01/25 03:41 PM
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Words cannot describe how resentful I feel about it. How is that doing you any good? Do you think you're automatically owed the affections of someone? I fear that even if I become attractive and girls are interested in me, It'll be very bitter sweet and I'm not gonna be that happy about it. I feel like I'll even start playing with the hearts of girls and break them out of spite for years of rejection and ghosting and having to settle as a "late bloomer". You complain about reddit not being sympa…
/r/seduction05/01/25 08:49 PM
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Sometimes these are the easiest women to "seduce".
/r/seduction28/12/24 09:02 PM
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I am a horny 18 year old virgin, willing to do anything to get laid But has the balls to laugh off meeting (and rejecting) a girl who's not your "type"? Brilliant.
/r/seduction24/12/24 08:44 PM
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Still, it fucks with me and my self-esteem. If this fucks with you, you don't have enough self-esteem. Sometimes girls just want to have fun. They don't want (you as) a boyfriend; they don't want a FWB; they want to get laid, and aren't interested in a return engagement. They're playing the game with the shoe being on the other foot.
/r/seduction16/12/24 12:53 AM
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I expected (anticipated) some of the comments you were going to get and, without fail, you've gotten them for what's been the only post I've seen here all week that's been on topic and of value. I agree and endorse every technique you've listed because they're effective and the average guy underrates how much the ability to make a women laugh is an incredible strength.
/r/seduction13/12/24 06:16 PM
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It can be tricky to gauge someone else’s boundaries and ensure that touch feels safe and consensual. It doesn't have to start out with hugs or walking hand-in-hand. You can shake hands when you meet. You can do the old chivalry hand kiss. It's your task to build her comfort level. You can touch her hand at times during your date as you converse. Your touching can start to last a bit longer and you can also start to build anchors that are associated with your touch. Taking your time is a major ke…
/r/seduction12/11/24 10:03 PM
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You might be making it complicated and difficult with your mindset. Women who are sexually attracted to men want to have sex with men. What are you doing to make yourself attractive? What are you doing to let women know you're available? What are you doing to get their interest? What are you doing to meet them? Getting laid doesn't take a pretty face, a beautiful body, or a big bankroll. If you have confidence, self-esteem, and the ability to listen and converse, you can get laid.
/r/seduction07/11/24 08:26 PM
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You're welcome. I'm not in a position to answer questions about texting because I don't do much of it. I'll make a phone call or send a note. You should only try to set up a date only if you know she's interested in a real date. You're not hanging around to stroke her ego. Continue to gather intel about how she feels about herself and reinforce that's how she come across to you. Is she the person her friends and family can lean on? Is she the leader among her girlfriends? Is introspective and in…
/r/seduction02/11/24 09:17 PM
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I must have done something terribly wrong for her to decline my suggestion and I’m ruining my head for it. The first improvement you can make is to stop being a drama queen. Nothing "terribly wrong" has to happen for a woman to reject you; she simply wasn't, for whatever reasons, real or made up, interested (at that moment) in buying what you were selling. Women make choices; she chose "no". It happens. A lot. it leaves me depressed because I don’t know the areas of where to improve. I don’t kno…
/r/seduction31/10/24 11:34 PM
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Dude is partly right, but no woman is going to have sex with you if she doesn't trust you. And your instincts are right: you have to build "connection". If she's calling you pet names and is touchy, those are very strong signs she's attracted to you. As someone else said, you need to listen, but listening should be about gathering information to foment attraction. You have to see her as she sees herself. Can you gather if she seems adventurous or highly empathetic? Those can be things you can le…
/r/seduction29/10/24 07:36 PM
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kiss close/sex close/relationship This is what I mean. "Game" isn't conducive to making a relationship. Too many guys out there don't understand the very simple proposition that "game" is about getting laid. You can't display so much of the artifice you need to project to be successful at "game" and even want to try to sustain that in a relationship. You either become exhausted by that, or you eventually become what you've projected, and that guy might not be that nice. If you're truly intereste…
/r/seduction24/10/24 02:18 AM
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I feel like it’s way too much of a hassle sometimes, and gets way too complex with all the steps The problem with so many purveyors of "game" is they make it complicated because complicated sells. And what does "getting the girl" mean to you? It could be you're using an approach that works against you getting the results you want.
/r/seduction23/10/24 09:34 PM
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A black guy in Chicago can't meet a woman? How wide is your net? Are you committed to dating women of a single race? Something doesn't add up here.
/r/seduction12/10/24 08:31 PM
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I edited my comment, but remember that "escalation" means steps. And if a girl is resisting you kissing her, that's a sign that you need to back off and go to working on establishing trust along with kino. You might have to spend an hour just holding hands and talking while looking into her eyes to establish the comfort she needs to let you take the next step. You can't seem like you're just in a hurry to get in her pants. I can't write much more right now, but I think just chilling a little wil…
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:33 PM
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I'm going to be you huckleberry despite myself. The fact you're thinking about secretly recording your interactions with a girl is a huge indicator you're not using your brain well. "Dominating" sounds like some aggression might have come across. Patience and gentleness will serve you better with a girl you're getting to know rather than some kind of caveman act.
/r/seduction09/10/24 05:19 PM
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I know she's not interested but what can I do to kind of seduce her into? You can't, at least not in the short term, because that's not how this works. You can't "seduce" someone into doing something they don't want to do.
/r/seduction08/10/24 08:50 PM
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She’s so great. She’s so sweet and attentive, talking with her is so smooth and fun, she’s the most intelligent person I know, she’s beautiful and she has a smile that’s warm and makes me fuzzy. All of that is wonderful, but what makes you think she'll ever accept you as more than a friend? You have to be prepared for the fact this might be true. If you're interested in your friend, tell her that. Then you both will have your answer and you have to be able to accept whatever the answer is. I fee…
/r/seduction23/09/24 12:19 AM
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You won't get every job you interview for. Are you going to stop looking for work? Well known actors don't get every role they audition for. They don't stop acting. Rejection is a part of trying to be successful. It happens. That's life.
/r/seduction06/09/24 12:30 AM
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You obviously don't understand the assignment. Good luck.
/r/seduction01/09/24 07:42 PM
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I don't argue with defeatism. Good luck.
/r/seduction01/09/24 07:37 PM
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what do u mean by dense and obscure pastimes? You're the one who mentioned them as something these women wouldn't likely know about. As far as I'm concerned, you can keep doing what's not working, or try something different. It sounds like you're more into you than into getting laid. If that works for you, it definitely works for me.
/r/seduction01/09/24 07:36 PM
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Beyond that I have nothing else to talk to these women about. I am interested in ancient history, philosophy, language learning, warrior-intellectual type shit. 95% of women my age care nothing about that shit. You're a black nerd (as am I) and you're blaming women for not being interested in your dense and obscure pastimes. The women aren't the problem. Your lack of confidence and interest is your problem. I have never had movie star looks, but I was very successful at your age because I didn't…
/r/seduction01/09/24 05:24 PM
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His real motivation? Making a lot of money.
/r/seduction28/08/24 09:11 PM
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But when you get to the nitty gritty where survival is at stake (on a large scale or small scale) pure biology takes place, which is utilitarian at its core for both genders. I'm reading more and more of this stuff that makes it seem like we need to revert to our basest instincts in order to succeed as if we're living in some type of dystopian Hell on Earth. Being a caveman, even an undercover one, in today's environment is fallacious thinking. It's right up there with guys who come to this sub …
/r/seduction27/08/24 09:56 PM
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In society, men are only valued by what we achieve and by what we accomplish. Competency is life to us. Anything that demonstrates or implies incompetence is death. Competence is important, and I harp on that, but this is an extreme view that reflects some 1940s notion of masculinity. Incompetence might lead to death, but c'mon...
/r/seduction26/08/24 09:22 PM
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This is a relationship question, not a seduction question. Why are you asking this in this sub?
/r/seduction26/08/24 09:08 PM
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As this psychological pain is creating a physical toll on me. Psychological pain, like physical pain, needs to be addressed by a professional. Good luck.
/r/seduction26/08/24 05:27 PM
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I can’t figure out what I’m doing wrong. You're being passive when action is required. Stop waiting for some kind of magical gaze to come from a woman. You can approach and say something as simple as "I was on the other side of the room, and I couldn't help but notice you. My name is...., and yours". While doing this you make the eye contact and give the warm smile. There's no "self-sabotage" going on here; there's just the reluctance to make something happen. One of the ways to become more secu…
/r/seduction25/08/24 09:18 PM
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Suck my nuts, incel. This ain't "The He-Men Woman Haters Club". He's the one asking for advice. Now go play with your Fleshlight while the grown folks talk.
/r/seduction21/08/24 09:45 PM
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Those aren't "girls"; those are women and you might want to recalibrate your mindset to see them as such.
/r/seduction21/08/24 09:18 PM
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I'm sorry you even bothered to answer that jackass. Some people don't understand the assignment, but come here crying about what they don't get.
/r/seduction18/08/24 07:40 PM
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Are you in the U.S.? And DM me what you think would be a fair rate.
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:45 PM
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approach anxiety We used to call this "being nervous". And there's nothing wrong with it. Have you ever had an interview for a job? Have you ever tried out for a team? You're nervous because it means something. What is the worse thing that you think would happen if you asked a woman out and she declines?
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:38 PM
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How to get on with women? Not really. I've shared a bit of advice in this sub, but most guys who come to this sub don't understand the assignment. What it is that you want to accomplish?
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:29 PM
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I've dated and had sex with lots of women.
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:21 PM
2

How much you paying?
/r/seduction06/08/24 08:19 PM
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There are many other subs that cater to questions about conventional dating and sex. Some of them even have "dating" and "sex" in their names.
/r/seduction31/07/24 10:20 PM
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Posts like this and many of the replies miss the point. If someone was already into you, you wouldn't need the techniques. And most of the guys who come to this sub come for the wrong reasons, with major hangups, conventional thinking, and a defeatist mindset. If you're looking to establish a serious relationship, you shouldn't be looking to the techniques in this sub, especially the effective ones. And in spite of the doubt and naysaying, there are effective techniques for enticing women to do …
/r/seduction31/07/24 04:38 PM
2

Sometimes girls just wanna have fun.
/r/seduction25/07/24 02:45 AM
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I fear There's your problem. Also, it's been ten days. You seem needy, you seem speedy, and don't seem to have shown much confidence. She said she wanted to take things slow, which I take to mean she's doing some kind of assessment. I don't know if you've passed or failed, but you need to relax.
/r/seduction22/07/24 09:18 PM
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I recognize English isn't your first language, so I'll try to be as plain spoken as I can. When you're 17 it's easy to see every girl as a potential girlfriend and approach them with that thought. Don't do that. Girls talk, and it will get around that you seem desperate. You have to be patient. It's more important for you to come across as a guy who's interested in being a friend who's happens to be a boy, instead of a boyfriend. The way to get girls interested at this age is not to show too muc…
/r/seduction14/07/24 02:53 AM
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Yeah, sure. Congratulations.
/r/seduction01/07/24 12:09 PM
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I think you think I’m just a fucking idiot or some shit like If he doesn't, I do.
/r/seduction01/07/24 12:00 PM
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Your value doesn't come from how much you own or how much you make. Value comes from being capable, being accountable, being reliable, and being confident you are those things. Why should anyone believe in you if you don't believe in yourself? Having stuff doesn't mean as much as too many people believe. Most women aren't golddiggers; they're looking for the same things as you: having fun and enjoying life. I say over and over women aren't some type of unfathomable mystery beings. They want the …
/r/seduction29/06/24 09:33 PM
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If a 5’8” indian man said ANYTHING to a femoid he’d be seen as creepy. A 6’3” white guy can grope a femoid by her ass and she will enjoy every second of it. I find people who write and say things like "femoid" creepy.
/r/seduction13/06/24 07:39 PM
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The OP puts it in different terms, but some of this is nearly the same advice I've given over the years. It's a numbers game: you have to talk to a lot of women and be rejected a lot. The greatest hitters in baseball are successful 3 out of 10 times. Three out of ten is god level seduction success and I've never met any civilian who's come close to that kind of number. Still, women who are interested in men as sexual partners are looking for men and while everyone has an ideal, the ideal is rare…
/r/seduction13/06/24 05:08 PM
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my insecurity about my body count compared to others Forgive me if I come off a little strong on this, but this should be your last concern. Bad sex with 100 women is still bad sex. And to each their own, but I've never found a point in keeping score or ever asking a woman about her sex life previous to my being with her. This is one of those things that only matters if people make it so. It's irrelevant. There are better things on which to focus.
/r/seduction11/06/24 07:42 PM
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You get over insecurity by knowing you're going to be good at what you do when you do it. Learn what physically turns women on, a primary one is taking time to build arousal and pleasure. This is something that can be studied and applied. The goal you should have is to have her enjoy the sex so much that she's interested in doing it again and again. So that means studying up and then applying what you've learned. However, when it comes to escalating to sex or just dating I drop the ball. Escalat…
/r/seduction11/06/24 02:00 PM
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It isn't fatal.
/r/seduction09/05/24 11:15 PM
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You don't know me and you don't understand what you read. If I were afraid of stupidity, you'd be scaring me to death. See you in court.
/r/seduction08/05/24 08:53 PM
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I wish everyone would stop being so uptight about everything. As someone who knows a few lawyers, I encourage the stupidity of people do this kind of "socializing" in the workplace. I know they appreciate it.
/r/seduction08/05/24 01:45 AM
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You avoid someone who's that stupid and lacks a sense of propriety. While you may have loved it, if any of your co-workers were women, they may have felt very differently. The "Mad Men" era is over and this client is jeopardizing his job (for sure) and possibly his company's financial health with such an action.
/r/seduction07/05/24 09:27 PM
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So recently hooked up with this girl. I'd like to see her again and maybe be fuck buddies or something. If you make it worth her while by making her toes curl, then all you have to do is ask if she's down for that.
/r/seduction30/04/24 06:37 PM
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I didn't say I wouldn't like sex. I said I didn't want it. Why would you come to this sub, the whole purpose of which is absolutely antithetical to what you want?
/r/seduction24/04/24 10:11 PM
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We have to stop lying to men and giving them vague abstract advice. I agree, and am open to offering concrete, specific advice; just not in this forum. Some men will simply not be able to get casual sex. That’s reserved for physically attractive men and celebrities. And this is partly why. These statements, with all respect, are utter bullshit, and I'm not willing to spend a lot of time debating things like this. I've seen guys with faces that would make Frankenstein's creature throw up with inc…
/r/seduction19/04/24 10:36 PM
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It troubles me to read about young guys going years without being intimate. Unfortunately, I see so much in this sub that works at cross purposes to what I would think this sub is supposed to be about that it's difficult to give solid advice here. The first step to getting women is to understand and accept the very foundational fact that women who are attracted to men want to date and have sex with men. It is not always about looks. If that was the case, there wouldn't be so many not so good loo…
/r/seduction19/04/24 03:58 AM
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Brother if you're not gonna be helpful then suck my dick You've got a better chance of me sucking that micro penis long before you can get a woman to do it, you fucking idiot. You got a good faith answer and are too fucking stupid to see that. You need a different kind of help.
/r/seduction16/04/24 07:27 PM
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We've been sitting in silence for about 20 minutes. And you're on your phone. Nice. Talk about the weather. Is there a movie she wants to see? Has she seen XYZ TV show? The price of gas. How a lot of the latest music is great/sucks/sounds the same... Small talk is about common experiences. Talking to women should be about eliciting information and capturing their imaginations. You should be blending the concepts.
/r/seduction16/04/24 04:10 PM
3

Everybody knows you don't lead off with quantum. You might as well just come out and say "booty call" going with that.
/r/seduction13/04/24 01:00 AM
14

Lots of times it's particle physics, but when I want to keep it light we talk about Newtonian physics.
/r/seduction13/04/24 12:55 AM
20

As you said, it's in your head. That's where you fix it.
/r/seduction09/04/24 12:24 PM
3

should I just quit this shit? Yes, you should. But don't ever get angry or bitter because things didn't go your way. Nobody made you give up. That's your choice.
/r/seduction07/04/24 11:33 PM
4

"Just like the ones your mother laid out for you...".
/r/seduction31/03/24 02:33 PM
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Most girls def are more hesitant to fuck a guy they just met then guys are to fuck a girl they just met lol. Just because she's hesitant doesn't mean she's not willing to have sex. And nothing says "dimwit" like saying something's "not true" as if you know something beyond nothing and ending with "lol". Your experiences are your reality, but they're not reality.
/r/seduction26/02/24 01:48 PM
47

It depends. Keep in mind women want sex as much as you do, but being pushy or all about sex is a turnoff, even though the women you know may want the same thing.
/r/seduction26/02/24 05:24 AM
1

The words soup of your post makes me think you're more interested in being clever than getting the girl. You should be interested in gathering intelligence, which means being invested in listening instead of impressing through words.
/r/seduction18/02/24 12:06 AM
20

And god help you if you’re a loud chewer or don’t have good table manners, you’re screwed. Maybe someone shouldn't be dating until they fix these issues? Just saying.
/r/seduction29/01/24 11:39 PM
0

The issue with black American women however is that over half of them are overweight or obese. Not to mention the other factors that leaves them undesirable such as the ratchet/ghetto behavior and masculine traits. Taking all of this in account, this leaves black American men with a very limited dating pool. Maybe non-black women think the muscular black guy has the propensity to become a violent thugs? Dumb shit happens when people get stereotyped. Good luck as a sex tourist.
/r/seduction17/01/24 10:42 PM
7

It never fails to amuse me when I hear the term "victim mentality". It's hard to get more head-up-the-ass than saying or thinking that. I'm also black, and in my experience no matter what your race, getting women is a challenge for most of us non-extraordinary looking guys. If you're specifically talking about getting dates with white women, yes, that can be tough, and there's no one reason why that may be. I live in the southeast and it's certainly easier to interracial date in Atlanta than pla…
/r/seduction13/08/23 05:58 PM
4

I can't trick a woman into initially liking me regardless of how much game I have. The tactics and techniques aren't "tricks"; the fact some think of them as such is part of why you can read about so much failure in this sub. When a woman wears makeup is that a trick? I don't think so. I think she's putting effort into presenting the best version of herself. Are using shapewear and Wonderbras manipulations? I don't think so. All they do is get a person who's inclined to be interested in a woman …
/r/seduction16/10/22 08:09 PM
1

All these techniques and tactics almost feel like manipulation That's because seduction techniques are about manipulation, and when I write that I always have to state the word "manipulation" is used in its agnostic sense. This ain't Trilby/Swengali stuff; it's about using techniques to get a person who's inclined to do something to follow through. Similar techniques are used in business and media everyday, and not always for ill. Many guys have an aversion to what they think is trickery so they…
/r/seduction15/10/22 05:24 PM
38

After they finish a sentence and they’re waiting for you to respond I just stare at them blankly for 2-3 seconds then say “Sorry, your eyes completely distracted me, what did you just say?” Again it’s hella corny, but I have a pretty crazy high success rate with these two lines in particular. Nice.
/r/seduction13/10/22 09:48 PM
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I'm a 34yo dude and I've literally met my gf by saying 'Hi my name's Peter' I used to use that line, but end it with "... and I've got the biggest one you've ever seen". Never failed.
/r/seduction11/10/22 07:36 PM
5

"A bird in the hand gets you into the bush". First of all, you guys may not be on the same page. What "stuff" means to you might be different from what it means to her, so make sure you're not trying to do something she's not willing to do. Keep in mind that "stuff" can lead to unwanted outcomes, so practice safe "stuff", which also means asking her if she's on contraception. Even if she is, you wearing a condom is a good idea. Finally, temper your expectations. One of the reasons girls seem to …
/r/seduction03/10/22 11:58 AM
3

Why some people thinks this is a relationship sub is indicative of why they have some of the issues they have. As they used to say in the '80s: "Reading is fundamental". A seduction sub is not a relationship sub.
/r/seduction03/10/22 11:28 AM
1

That's too bad. Good luck being someone else.
/r/seduction02/10/22 02:24 PM
3

Here's the thing: you want to come off as curious, but you should also be asking questions to gain intelligence about her feelings. This can allow to mirror her in an emotional way. What you can find out about her family dynamics, not just her family, can work in your favor. Is she the youngest? Is she the oldest? Is she an only child? How does feel to be any of those that you don't have experience with? Or if you guys are in a similar state, how does she deal with that, because sometimes it's a…
/r/seduction01/10/22 04:24 PM
2

You can't beat the classics.
/r/seduction01/10/22 04:09 PM
97

Be yourself. Acting is exhausting.
/r/seduction01/10/22 03:21 PM
0

Your condescending tone in your comment makes me think you got some arrogance issues lmao. As if I should care what you think. And that doesn't come from arrogance, that comes form the knowledge you don't know what you're talking about.
/r/seduction30/09/22 03:40 PM
4

I still can’t bring myself to talk to a classmate or a pretty girl I see just sitting around. I don’t have prior experiences to draw confidence from to do it. My mind just overthinks and it causes me to just not say anything at all. Likely because you're putting some grand strategy on just having a conversation. Until you get more tools in your toolbox don't make approaching girls about trying to pick them up; just make it about having a conversation. Learn to make small talk. Be curious and a g…
/r/seduction30/09/22 03:38 PM
0

That's "arrogance". Confidence is reality based. Build your capabilities, and you build your confidence. Build your knowledge base, and you build your confidence. Build your accomplishments, you build self-esteem. Confidence and self-esteem go hand-in-hand. Arrogance is a huge indicator of a lack of self-esteem.
/r/seduction30/09/22 03:21 PM
5

From a person: you're boring.
/r/seduction24/09/22 01:19 AM
4

Ok so let's suppose dating is a skill, where do babies come from? This is a non-sequitur. Humans, like other animals, have a primal instinct to procreate. In fact, your whole post is a bunch of meaningless word salad. One of the best things a person can learn is thinking you're clever and being clever aren't the same thing.
/r/seduction24/09/22 01:11 AM
1

What is the most true thing you know about anything more or less related to seduction? That so many people who claim they want to "learn" seduction don't have the brains, guts or stomach for it. And brains are the least necessary component.
/r/seduction24/09/22 01:07 AM
1

It's your world, and we're here for you.
/r/seduction20/09/22 06:42 PM
4

Thanks for your seduction question.
/r/seduction20/09/22 03:21 PM
4

You hit a home run. There are plenty of other subs for relationship advice, sex advice, and pretty much any other advice. When you can't even discern that there's an appropriate place for other issues, that says a great deal about an ability to understand the unsubtle and non-nuanced. That being the case, how are you going to take on the kind of mindset you need to be successful at getting women when you don't understand or respect the very unsubtle and non-nuanced aim of this sub? Amen for this…
/r/seduction10/09/22 06:15 PM
0

I can't constantly ping pong info of something I know absolutely nothing about and still have something interesting to say about it. Okay, you don't get it. Good luck.
/r/seduction04/09/22 12:11 AM
1

u/epimpstyle definitely has a point, but you don't have to act silly if that's not who you are. What you should do is develop a healthy curiosity and not kind of exasperating kind you're exhibiting here. Someone telling you what they say could be meaningless to the situation in which you'd find yourself, so that's the wrong kind of curiosity. Sometimes someone's talking about something they like and I'm just like "yeah I don't have a clue about any of that stuff but it sounds neat". Since you do…
/r/seduction03/09/22 09:47 PM
1

A bit of both. His technique depended on mastering Neuro-Lingual Programming (NPL) and that requires a lot of study and a lot of discipline. NPL is supposed to use the power of suggestion through the use of language; in other words, hypnosis of a sort. It's hard to totally dismiss it because language is powerful and can be used in subliminal ways, but hypnosis or suggestion has never gotten anyone to do something they don't care to do. He made a ton of money by effectively marketing his concept,…
/r/seduction31/08/22 02:15 PM
1

A guy name Ross Jeffries came up with a concept called "Speed Seduction". While there was some merit to it, it took a lot of work, and I'm not sure if it was any more effective than other techniques. If you can get a woman to laugh, it's not ever too soon to ask for her number.
/r/seduction30/08/22 10:35 PM
1

it's honestly depressing and exhausting. Man, the fragility. "Depressing and exhausting" is applying to dozens of jobs and not getting a response when you have bills to pay. The shit people say is the shit people say. Social media isn't reality and you shouldn't take it as such.
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:41 PM
2

If you're going to the club on Thursday go ahead and check her out if she's there. Thursday is her chance to "vet" you; to see how you interact with her and her friends now that things are a slight bit different with the two of you. She wants them to see you, and she's going to ask for their feedback. Be your regular chill self and don't press her about Sunday. Enjoy yourself. Make eye contact with her with a smile, and maybe utilize a few touches (lightly brushing "something" off her shoulder -…
/r/seduction24/08/22 02:07 AM
2

Not a seduction question, but for a neighbor from the north, I'll do it. I don’t want to lose the friendship. Then don't jeopardize it. Good luck.
/r/seduction23/08/22 02:59 AM
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Everyone's journey is different and we're all fucked up. No, we're not. Some people use the fact they're "fucked up" as a mitigation for not trying, or for the negative results they get. If I had a dollar for the amount of times someone's written "and I have anxiety". Being nervous isn't "anxiety", which is a debilitating psychological disorder; being nervous is being normal. Some people have issues with seduction because they think it's too hard or it's some kind of unfair trickery. It's as muc…
/r/seduction22/08/22 02:04 AM
1

Calm down. She's probably just getting her bearings after being out. I'm sure she has responsibilities that require her attention. Stop trying to be "funny guy" and show some maturity the next time you reach out, and she might be waiting for you to do so. Until something happens with you guys you should be meeting other women. Good luck.
/r/seduction21/08/22 06:17 PM
6

It's only awkward if you feel awkward. It's easy with hindsight to have a comeback ("Yes...you're the girl of my dreams"), but you don't have to try to be clever. I think truth is just as effective ("I don't, so I wanted to introduce myself"), but whatever you do, do it with confidence knowing that nothing very bad is going to happen to you. And that's true; nothing bad is going to happen because a girl rejects you. You will be alive tomorrow, and your life will not have been destroyed. You trie…
/r/seduction20/08/22 11:55 PM
1

I'm not going to get into that type of speculation because it's really off topic for this sub.
/r/seduction15/08/22 02:23 PM
1

There's a lot of "The first thing to know..." stuff that gets thrown out, but the actual, true, first thing to know is women want sex just like men do. Women who like men are looking for men to have sex with. If someone can prove a woman said something to them about "physically escalating", I'm buying them a steak dinner.
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:23 PM
1

How long is appropriate to start initiating some touch here and there? You start as soon as you can. This isn't "sexual" touching; it's simple contact. I've done things as silly as early on asking to read her palm. You can gently brush "something" off of her arm. Don't be self-conscious about doing these things, but also don't be the bull in the china shop. she says “You didn’t escalate physically so you must not really be attracted to me if you don’t touch me” Has a woman ever said anything lik…
/r/seduction15/08/22 01:12 PM
3

The key part that I see missing from many advice posts in this forum is the equality and respect without an ulterior motive. The key thing too many post that come here don't seem to understand or respect is that this sub is about seduction. It's not about finding your dream woman, or fixing your relationship, or learning how to have sex. Your post is yet another that comes to this forum to offer what this sub doesn't claims to be about. I have no issue with what you're selling, but in selling it…
/r/seduction15/08/22 12:06 AM
1

First things first, "sow" doubt in someone's mind. Second, as another poster pointed out, women ask this question out of a concern for their safety. While it might seem irrational, there is a seriousness to this question, which is why a guy who's looking to be with a woman who asks this shouldn't be flippant. Being flippant is to not take her concern for her safety seriously. Lots of guys have no idea how vulnerable women feel. The thing to do is reassure her that you're not dangerous and, more …
/r/seduction14/08/22 11:36 PM
12

Don't take this is an opportunity to be a wiseass. This isn't a "shit test"; it's a semi-serious attempt to judge if she can trust you, and trust is the key. Simply say "No. You'll never have to worry about that".
/r/seduction14/08/22 04:10 PM
6

You don't know how sorry I am I gave your mom the d, and you were the product. It really shows rape is not a good thing.
/r/seduction13/08/22 06:18 PM
3

Not a seduction question, but since you're 17, I'll be your huckleberry. While you're making out, just take her hand and put on your cock. If she doesn't pull her hand away, and is alright with rubbing it through your pants, you should feel comfortable about letting little Petey get some air.
/r/seduction13/08/22 05:39 PM
53

"Hey, Clit!" "The name's Clint, but you still shouldn't rub me the wrong way".
/r/seduction13/08/22 05:25 PM
1

Drinking this early can't be good for you.
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:46 PM
1

Some modern women are very savage with rejections. Dude, grow a pair. "Sticks and stones...".
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:41 PM
3

We know that... The issue is we think women think: "why is this ugly motherfucker talking to me? Uhh go away" Guys make too much of looks. Most of us care about looks, but looks are not the be-all, end-all for a lot of women. Every now ant then you'll see a great looking woman with the ugliest, doofiest, gargoyle. You wonder, but there's something there she likes.
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:41 PM
1

Obviously it does not but it kills ego for most men. If you're this fragile, you shouldn't be approaching women.
/r/seduction13/08/22 04:35 PM
9

Women are having sex with anyone and everyone they want. If you are not included then give up. Sounds personal.
/r/seduction12/08/22 07:19 PM
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The first thing to realize is there are women looking for men the same as there are men looking for women. The second is embarrassment has never killed anybody, neither has hearing "no".
/r/seduction12/08/22 07:12 PM
6

One big thing I disagree with is that the focus of the conversation should be the girl, not the guy. Dave says that ideally the girl should do most of the talking while the guy should sit back, relax and indulge in active listening. Hell no, it should be the other way around! You are not her free therapist/psychologist after all! Moreover, when you constantly try to learn more about her without talking much about yourself, she will feel like your date is an interrogation and become closed-off. T…
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:58 PM
1

Though you wouldnt know this if its your first time meeting them If it's a brief first meeting, no, but on a date or an extended conversation (like 10 minutes) you need to take the opportunity to be curious enough that you can tap into what you can learn. Learning to quickly synthesize what you see and hear so that you can make it work for you is an important part of establishing connection. And if you read a few dating threads and other sites you'll see the the phrase "but there was no connecti…
/r/seduction09/08/22 01:43 PM
1

I wouldn't explain it in that way. Affinity is where people feel like they have things in common and are on the same wavelength. Even though we're told "opposites attract" people tend to like people who are like them. "Connection" is a product of affinity. If a person believes you see them as they see themselves and you share some similar qualities, that fosters affinity. Confidence is a trait that people tend to admire, and women admire confidence in a guy for lots of reasons, conscious and unc…
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:41 PM
3

Trust is the most important emotion, because a woman will not willingly have sex with someone she doesn't trust, but if you have just 10 minutes you'd want to evoke affinity. What many people are talking about when they refer to "a connection" is affinity.
/r/seduction09/08/22 12:58 AM
1

They think cheese is the answer to everything. It's not.
/r/seduction08/08/22 01:54 AM
1

What is a high value men He is unapolegethic (sic). Has sets of values, principles, view of world. His own set of beliefs. He acts according to them. And he knows that some of them might be wrong, maybe he is not perfect but he realizes that is okay. To each their own, but is there really a lot of value to being an intransigent asshole? The only thing I can wholeheartedly agree with in this lengthy post is women want sex. They do. There will always be some women who gravitate to guys who engage …
/r/seduction26/07/22 12:47 PM
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All of that is sad. I've never categorized people in this way and I believe everyone is worthy of respect until they prove they're not.
/r/seduction24/07/22 09:01 PM
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What do women consider "connection"? It's the feeling "He gets me". You might hear it sometimes described like "It was like we could finish each other's sentences". Kino is very powerful which is why you hear so much about it, but what are you doing to establish affinity? Think about what you talked about on this date. What kind of questions did you ask? What did you learn about her? Is she an only child, or does she have siblings? If she's an only child, you could tell her you've heard how only…
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:16 PM
1

I’d like to fuck her again but to what extent will I lose my respect and ego What in the world are you guys made of? A woman just wanting to have sex is blow to your ego? I wish people would realize the purpose of this sub is to give advice on how to get women to have sex with you. If something like this messes with how you see yourself I think you've come to the wrong place.
/r/seduction15/07/22 04:22 AM
2

Just like guys, sometimes the women just want sex and no commitment. And just like guys, women plays games, and lots of them are damn good at it. What are you going to do if she calls you up, or sees you again, and she DTF? Are you going to turn her down?
/r/seduction14/07/22 09:56 PM
4

Yes, it is.
/r/seduction14/07/22 01:02 AM
3

I’ll escalate with her and she doesn’t pull away but she also isn’t reciprocating what I’m doing. I’m confused because I don’t want to go too far but it’s hard to tell because she is neutral about it. Keep escalating. She'll let you know when you've gone too far.
/r/seduction13/07/22 09:25 PM
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Life isn't about keeping score or being obsessed. If you're not enjoying what you're doing, you doing it wrong. There's no Hall of Fame for sexual conquests. You need to have a holistic view of life and not assign too much value to any one thing. When you do that, it will generate empty negative feelings. You should strive for your life to be bigger than this.
/r/seduction09/07/22 08:09 PM
2

And yet...
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:53 PM
2

Thanks for the clarity. She was definitely looking for company, though.
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:49 PM
3

If they left you alone with her, she (and they) assumed you were safe. She had a plan to meet someone, and probably do more than converse. She gave off a lot of signals, which you didn't bite on. Guys aren't the only ones looking for a hookup.
/r/seduction08/07/22 10:43 PM
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Congrats. Yes, it can be that easy. You don't need clever lines. You don't need "negging". You don't have do some kind of alpha caveman bullshit. Just have the balls to approach, and the respect to absorb the hit when you hear "No thanks". The word "no" doesn't have the capacity to kill, and just like you're looking for a girl, millions of girls are looking for a guy. Not a model or a movie star, just a good dude. The only other thing I'll say is rate movies, not people.
/r/seduction01/07/22 10:09 PM
1

Until you're no longer confused you need to not interact with this person. Good luck.
/r/seduction01/07/22 07:14 PM
1

Be a black man for a while and you'll get used to it.
/r/seduction28/06/22 04:24 PM
-1

This is why Archie Bunker got all the girls.
/r/seduction28/06/22 03:59 PM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction27/06/22 12:03 PM
1

Doesn’t look your way, barely even acknowledges your existence. Or even worse when they look at you and shoot you a almost disturbed face. I know the answer here is just don’t give a fuck, but honestly every time it happens it throws me off my game for like 10-20mins. It’s hard for me not to take it personally. Why? She obviously doesn't know you, and it's one interaction in a lifetime that's going to filled with such things. She, and no one else, owes you civility or courtesy. Stop giving peopl…
/r/seduction27/06/22 12:05 AM
1

Why do you think she mentioned her kid before mentioning being married?
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:18 PM
3

u/ChosenbyTheGods has touched on it, but I'll go a little further. OP says she was talking about the papers she was grading and her students. Instead of being bored, he could have asked her if she ever has problems with her students. She's likely to give an example of a difficult kid and how she made the situation better, or how she had to draw the line. In the former instance you say you can feel that she's a caring person, in the latter you can admire her being strong enough to do what needed …
/r/seduction23/06/22 01:11 AM
6

This is another non-seduction question, but it's worth answering. If you're actually interested in seduction, one of the most valuable things in your favor is a girl talking about herself. Instead this setting you off you should be welcoming it. You should be listening as if you are gathering intelligence because that's what you should be doing. You should be taking what you hear to give her validation and endorsement. The girl who was nervous and seemed self-conscious was the textbook candidate…
/r/seduction22/06/22 08:13 PM
4

I've said in this sub more times than I can remember that "trust is the key". It can happen quickly, or it can take a while, but a woman will not have sex with you if she doesn't trust you. And I always follow that up with saying "Don't confuse 'trust" for 'honesty'".
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:51 AM
1

Those are most important ingredients for making a Fat Albert. Thanks, Mr. C.
/r/seduction22/06/22 01:32 AM
9

I know the problem. You're too humble.
/r/seduction20/06/22 09:09 PM
1

"Dear Penthouse Forum:"
/r/seduction20/06/22 03:17 AM
1

My only social media is reddit. I don't have the time or inclination to be bothered with other social media, and I'm easing up on the time I spend here. I try to meet people in the real world. I believe in phone calls over texting, and I'm not tethered to my phone all day. My work requires concentration and attention, and I can't let a cell phone drive my life.
/r/seduction19/06/22 12:03 AM
6

Contrary to some beliefs, women do not like sex as much as men. I don't what you study, but this is flat out wrong.
/r/seduction18/06/22 03:03 PM
1

the dating problems never end One of the issues with this sub is people come here with dating and relationship issues and not seduction questions.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:08 PM
1

the dating problems never end One of the issues with this sub is people come here with dating and relationship issues and not seduction questions.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:08 PM
1

the dating problems never end One of the issues with this sub is people come here with dating and relationship issues and not seduction questions.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:08 PM
1

the dating problems never end One of the issues with this sub is people come here with dating and relationship issues and not seduction questions.
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:07 PM
1

Don't fetishize her. Treat her the same as you would a woman your age. Don't expect her to take the lead, although if she does, roll with it. It seems like if you just come across as an okay guy, you're in. So just be a chill version of you and I think you'll be closing.
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:46 AM
0

First of all, you should mind your own business. You're on the outside looking in; you have no idea what your aunt and uncle's marriage is really like. Second, is she worth hurting your uncle over? Making him miserable doesn't undo anything and no have no business doing that. You would not be a hero. You have a life to live and a long way to go. Focus on you becoming your best you and keep your nose out of other people's relationships.
/r/seduction08/06/22 09:45 PM
1

And you don't do that by talking. And you've been married how long?
/r/seduction07/06/22 10:38 PM
1

If you don't believe seduction requires manipulation (and this word has very negative connotations, but I use it agnostically), you're probably doing it wrong. I do think there are plenty of elements of seduction that can be meaningful to the foundation of the relationship You're right to a degree. The caveat is the relationship must already be healthy. No amount of romantic gestures will recapture a woman when she's no longer interested in you in that way.
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:20 PM
1

You can't talk your way to a healthy marriage. He has to be a masculine man in order to bring out her femininity. If he can make her feel attracted again, the rest will be a lot easier to fix I have to respectfully and profoundly disagree with you. If you want a healthy marriage you'd better be doing some talking and a whole lot of listening. YMMV
/r/seduction07/06/22 09:11 PM
1

When we see it on TV, it looks like Canada has a lot of forests. Are they just making that up?
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:53 AM
0

It not about being obese, it's more about if you're going to talk about losing weight knowing how to spell "lose".
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:48 AM
1

Nice one.
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:03 AM
2

Most times a cigar is just a cigar. All the candlelight and flowers in the world won't do as much for a long time partner as just listening.
/r/seduction06/06/22 11:46 PM
2

You really don't want to seduce your wife because true seduction involves manipulation and some degrees of dishonesty. If you really want to "seduce" your wife, sit down with her and tell her how you've been thinking that you haven't been listening enough to what she's been saying and would she mind telling you what's on her mind, and all you're going to do is listen. And then listen. Don't offer solutions. If she tells you things you weren't aware of, let her know you weren't, and you want to c…
/r/seduction06/06/22 10:06 PM
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Approach anxiety is real and everybody experiences it. Even the smoothest of operators feel it and It’s actually quite normal to feel that anxiety. As you later say it's being nervous, and yes, it's normal. Anxiety is a mental health disorder characterized by feelings of worry, anxiety, or fear that are strong enough to interfere with one's daily activities. I'm sick of hearing people say they have "anxiety" when all that's going on is they a case of nerves. Nervousness is normal. Anxiety is som…
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:26 PM
0

You become an adult. No one owes you time, goodness, best wishes, or a conversation. What people do for you is their choice. Rejection is part of life. If you can't handle it, that's not a woman's problem and they don't want it to be.
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:15 AM
60

Why do women think it's normal and acceptable to ignore the guy approaching them on the street? It's called "sending a message" and the message is "No thanks", even with friends. Women for the most part try to be as non-confrontation as possible with men because they have no idea what the extent of their reaction to being rejected might be. It's a defense mechanism, and you have to get beyond taking it personally.
/r/seduction03/06/22 07:00 PM
11

Is getting rid of this anxiety I get around attractive girls. I swear, I know I sound like a crotchety old man, but do you know what we use to call what you folks are calling "anxiety"? Fucking "being nervous". Anxiety is a debilitating mental illness. You're NERVOUS which mean you're NORMAL. The thing you have to do is manage your nervousness and not let it stop you. Take some deep breaths and put aside the fear because the worst thing likely to happen is you'll be turned down. So what. YOU WIL…
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:51 AM
7

I admire you for caring about this young lady, and this, at best, is tangentially about seduction, but I'll add my two cents. If you pass up on sex because you're not attracted to a girl you're an idiot and a chump. This is how a 24-year-old virgin becomes a 25-year-old and beyond virgin. I hate to be so harsh, but what are you proving by passing over this kind of opportunity? This doesn't mean you can't care about her, but the point of seduction is to get sex. People come to this site for what'…
/r/seduction23/05/22 10:23 PM
1

There are a few girls at my salsa class and I want to ask them out Choose one, and only one, to approach. Choose wisely, because if you miss, the only way you get another chance is if one of the others approaches you (which may very well happen if you handle it right), or makes it obvious they're interested. How do I get over it and just ask her out? And, what do I do in the case of rejection in light of the above problems? If you ask her out and she says "No", will you die? Will the IRS come an…
/r/seduction22/05/22 11:44 PM
4

This asshole publishes this spam on a continuing basis and has done so for years because he's an incel with a small penis who believes this gives him some type of veneer of cleverness. He's a dumbass and should be ignored and reported.
/r/seduction22/05/22 11:09 PM
2

This fucking bum, again.
/r/seduction22/05/22 11:04 PM
3

I don't have to worry rape (sic) Probably among the stupider things I've read and I read this whole post.
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:55 PM
1

Maybe this is the wrong sub to ask this Winner, winner, chicken dinner!
/r/seduction22/05/22 07:10 PM
1

It's a stupid fuck who's been publishing shit like this for years. Every time he's banned, he crops back up due to lack of a life.
/r/seduction21/05/22 04:15 AM
1

How can I call myself amazing and think good about myself and etc when I’m lying to myself and can’t even believe the lie when I know I’m full of disappointment and failures in my occurring and past history? You can just do it, or keep doing what you've been doing. It's that simple.
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:54 AM
1

re u telling me that me actually appreciating and loving myself, the same people who ignore me don’t like me don’t pay attention to me and don’t fw me , will start liking me? Nope, not telling you that. U saying people will sense that I love myself, hence me attracting what I want? Yep. Im just so used to failure and disappointment then I just want answers now bro. You just got some, and jumped right back into you same old bag. Money and fame doesn't cover up what's "wrong" with people; it exace…
/r/seduction20/05/22 12:07 AM
1

I been depressed and filled with anxiety for a long time. A failure for a long time...It feels like nobody ever appreciated me...I feel so alone...Feels like my life is cursed. My life seems so fake. Everyone either turned their back on me or never appreciate or don’t really appreciate me like I do to them. this week I even asked people and my own friends what’s wrong with me. I asked God for answers and I try to look into my soul and ask what’s wrong with me, I guess I just want everyone to lov…
/r/seduction19/05/22 11:47 PM
8

what made the biggest impact for you? Realizing you can just say (ask) for what you want, and you're quite likely to get it.
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:43 PM
1

It is similar to why you didn't ask those women out yourself. Why didn't you? Because of your age? Not particularly. I sussed each of them out, and they weren't buying what I was selling. I'm pretty certain age was part of that, but it didn't mean that I wasn't willing to see if they might have wanted to go for it anyway. And I wasn't looking to date them; I was looking to bed them.
/r/seduction17/05/22 05:27 PM
1

It's the same clown. Makes you wonder how sick you have to be to keep this going for all these years.
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:20 PM
1

How should I ask if she’s still interested in focusing on US Keep up the insecurity, and she won't be. Do what you need to do to be the guy she wants to be with, which means not being needy and suspicious. Don't ask questions if you can't deal with the answers. Lastly, this is a relationship advice question, not seduction advice, and I wish people would stop doing this.
/r/seduction16/05/22 12:08 PM
2

Buy a cheap pink pen from Target or wherever. The next time she gets on the bus, wait for her to get in her seat. Bend down behind her seat and pretend to pick up the pen. Say to her "I think you dropped this". She'll say it's not hers, and you'll say "Okay. I could have sworn it fell out of your bag. Anyway, I'm Josh. Do you mind if I sit next to you this morning?".
/r/seduction14/05/22 01:02 AM
8

Never splurge for a first date.
/r/seduction13/05/22 03:07 PM
2

You so silly.
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:42 PM
6

I was out this past Friday, and I talked (at least 30 minute conversations) with three women under 30. All three of them said the same thing: they hate men. They weren't serious, and each of them, unsolicited, make a point to say they weren't lesbians (which was almost a given because I've never met a lesbian that hates men). All three were talking about guys they've left in the rearview mirror and how they were moving forward with their lives. I'm sitting there wishing I was at least 20 years y…
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:37 PM
3

Since you're looking her right in the face, do you think it might at least be an idea to ask her while, you know, standing in front of you? If not for this girl, maybe the next one?
/r/seduction12/05/22 11:04 PM
6

Pussies ghost. Man up and tell her it's not working for you.
/r/seduction12/05/22 10:55 PM
1

I really do like this girl, but I feel like such a dick towards my friend since he was planning on making a move. Has anyone here been in a situation like this? That's the flaw of planning while others are doing. If he's really your friend, he'll understand, wish you the best, and move on with a lesson learned.
/r/seduction06/05/22 03:52 PM
27

Nobody ever said sex with a condom was better than without it, so it's never been overrated.
/r/seduction02/05/22 09:12 PM
1

First of all, if you go into a situation thinking you're "out of your league" you're screwing yourself up. You are good enough to be in any league, and if you don't believe that you cannot get to what you want. If you don't have confidence in yourself why should anyone have any confidence that you can be a good friend or lover? If you don't like who you are, there are things you can change, but you fundamentally have to believe in yourself and your capabilities. Most of all, be true to yourself.…
/r/seduction01/05/22 10:28 PM
3

This asshole has literally doing posting this same shit for years, and is constantly banned, only to reappear because he doesn't have a life. I used to wonder what makes jackasses like this tick and I realized what made them tick is they're jackasses.
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:20 AM
1

Definitely don't let her know about your pet rabbit.
/r/seduction23/04/22 08:20 PM
0

And that's why they call her "Doorknob": everybody gets a turn.
/r/seduction23/04/22 08:18 PM
1

Most women learn to be highly perceptive as a part of their upbringing. I would say they pick up on what your replies to the replies to your post indicate, so they're right to not find you as someone to be interested in. Based what I've read, their lack of interest is abundantly sensible. Sometimes there are people in life who are unlucky in certain ways, and this appears to be your cross to bear. Too bad.
/r/seduction23/04/22 03:40 AM
2

This is probably the same clown who's been asking some version of this question for years. Years. Several of them. The next time you even vaguely think you might be fucked up, think about this guy.
/r/seduction23/04/22 02:35 AM
40

Tell me she worked at a Waffle House and still had all her teeth, then I'll believe anything is possible.
/r/seduction22/04/22 02:45 AM
1

The difference here is that I bring up wanting something serious in the future, this leads nowhere and doesn’t get past 1-2 months. Then don't do that.
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:53 PM
0

It would be cool if you answered the questions I asked you.
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:10 PM
1

My wordplay is just off. It comes across to even myself as a robotic or generic reply. Don't focus on being clever, just be content to make good conversation. Once you're more relaxed, the real you will come through. Don't put pressure on yourself that you don't have to.
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:05 PM
1

This why you give context. What does "practically living with you" mean? How long has she been "practically" doing this? She could be sharing a legitimate fear/issue. That said, this is why I sometimes chide people about posting what are essentially relationship issues in a seduction sub.
/r/seduction20/04/22 10:01 PM
3

Nothing ventured, nothing gained. People do get sick. If she cancels, she cancels. Go out anyway and maybe someplace where you might be able to chat somebody up.
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:56 PM
1

"Commitment issues" is another way of saying she's not looking to jump into a relationship, so don't expect a relationship anytime soon. Could it happen? Maybe. If you can't deal with the fact she doesn't want to be a one man woman right now, move on.
/r/seduction20/04/22 09:48 PM
1

One of the things I did is I started really taking care of my hygiene and I have to say that I really started getting more attention from women. Who knew not stinking could make such a difference? On the serious side, good for you for working on yourself and realizing there's no great mystery to women. A lot of confidence comes from accomplishment. Keep up the good work.
/r/seduction19/04/22 08:32 PM
3

please don't judge me entirely on my comments I have nothing else to judge you on. And what's interesting to me may not be to Joe or Jeff. I find intelligence interesting, but someone telling me how smart they are isn't interesting. To be honest, I don't know how to answer your questions because I don't know how serious you are. Are you actually rejecting guys who are interested in you hoping to get guys who have no interest in you? The whole idea of seduction is to get people to have sex with y…
/r/seduction13/04/22 02:27 AM
2

As I said, it's not just this post: you have a posting history and not all of those sound like jokes. You may very well have a lot to offer but based on the little I've read, that doesn't come across. You think your interesting means about as much as me thinking I'm 6'4"; the rest of the world is probably not going to see it that way. If you want to be taken serious when it comes to the important stuff, you have to be serious when it comes to the important stuff.
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:29 AM
7

If you come across in the wild like you do in your posts it would give me pause for thought, and I'm a pretty brave guy when it comes to sex and women. You seem to be thirty as hell and come across like a horndog guy who thinks he's a gift to the kind of women who wouldn't touch him with a barge pole. There's simply too much incongruity for a guy who has the least amount of decent things going on in his life. You might be good looking, funny (to you), and smart. You just don't seem that interest…
/r/seduction13/04/22 01:09 AM
1

Stop fucking texting. Make a phone call. Talk to people. If she doesn't have time for a phone call, she doesn't have time for you on the real.
/r/seduction10/04/22 12:26 AM
3

Men are dumb. We either think every woman in the world is coming on to us, or no woman in the world is interested in us. Put aside the cutesies and just approach because subtlety is very often lost on us. Few things are more sexy for a guy than being chosen.
/r/seduction09/04/22 04:35 PM
5

There are no dumb questions, but this is damned close.
/r/seduction08/04/22 04:36 AM
19

Anyone can be the accused and too often people are ready to jump to conclusions based on nothing more than that accusation. I'd say what happened to you is unusual and rare. Being a prisoner to your past (and I apologize for the metaphor) does you no good. I hope you'll be able to move on. Good luck.
/r/seduction08/04/22 03:10 AM
1

The thing is you're getting another chance. This sounds like a situation where expecting too much too soon is the wrong way to go. It's obvious she wants to get to a place where she's more comfortable about you. You don't need to be in a hurry, unless you've got some better prospects. Be chill and build: build trust and confidence. Use kino and eye contact along with it, and don't put pressure on yourself. Nothing serious will happen if she doesn't trust you. And don't confuse trust for honesty.
/r/seduction07/04/22 08:14 PM
2

Have you dated this girl before? If not, going out with her and her girlfriend (and probably another guy) is typical stuff. This gives her a chance to see you're capable of being social, you're not a creep (unless you are), and she can feel good about taking a chance of being alone with you. There's nothing to escalate. Go on the date, act like a human being. You have to make the right level of investment to get the returns you want.
/r/seduction07/04/22 06:33 PM
9

The advice can be different because people are different. The reason I don't get as many women now is I'm now in an age bracket where women come with a lot more complications. I now have more interest in exercising preferences instead of just getting laid. But I'm still not dumb enough to turn down sex. The primary thing I try to get guys to know is women want men as much as men want women and women aren't some unfathomable mystery beings. I would love to be 20-years old these days when half the…
/r/seduction07/04/22 06:23 PM
2

If you feel like it's something you want to do, don't let some rando from the Internet discourage you. As others have said, these women get hit on all the time, and they're at work, so it's tough to be the guy who gets their attention. I'd hate for you to think because the situation is tough it means you don't have a chance. The worse thing that can happen is she says "no". The important thing is you thought she was worth approaching and you did it. You can make your life be more like you want i…
/r/seduction05/04/22 02:28 AM
6

I don't have anyone or social circles Why would she date a guy who doesn't know anybody and has no friends?
/r/seduction04/04/22 09:16 PM
1

If she's asks what you're doing, tell her: "I'm trying my best to... whether it's hug her, kiss her, hold her. DON'T say something as crass as "...get in your pants" if you don't have that kind of understanding. What do you think she would do if she asked you "What are you doing?" and you simply, gently said "I'm trying my best to hold you, so come here"? As someone else said, act with confidence. Not arrogance. Make it seems like you're asking her to dance, except you're not asking. You're maki…
/r/seduction04/04/22 08:15 PM
11

Life isn't a porno; sex doesn't -- poof -- just happen. You build up to it. You guys were watching Netflix? You could just take her hand and hold it. After a little while stroke her forearm. After a while more, put your arm around her while you watch the program. Once you're holding her, try kissing her neck. She will let you know when she doesn't want to go further. There's a thing called "foreplay", and it's the build up to sex. When you're in these situations you have to build up the mood. It…
/r/seduction04/04/22 08:05 PM
1

So if you're not near those places, once you add in travel costs, this makes sense how? There's nothing new about being a sex tourist. but going on vacation to get laid is a different subject than game.
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:36 PM
2

It can make you care less about sex as an outcome when meeting women. Beyond that, and what you get out of the transaction, I don't see any huge advantage as far as seduction/game is concerned.
/r/seduction04/04/22 01:36 AM
6

I would say the majority of escorts are amongst the hottest girls you'll ever see. Where do you live?
/r/seduction04/04/22 01:33 AM
0

This sounds like something a man would say.
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:58 PM
1

Media is a huge influence, as much as some try to discount it. There's also the teaching almost all guys get about persistence being part of accomplishing things and getting what you want. Sometimes we're a sorry lot.
/r/seduction31/03/22 11:58 PM
1

But it works in the movies!!?
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:29 PM
2

She didn't humiliate you; you did that to yourself. But, so what? It's not the end of the world, and if this is the worst thing you ever do, you're going to have an exemplary life. If this is what you needed to really move on, then good. Don't be too hard on yourself and look forward to better days. Good luck.
/r/seduction31/03/22 10:28 PM
2

That's only because it is.
/r/seduction29/03/22 11:22 PM
65

Don't forget to practice safe sex -- no glove, no love.
/r/seduction29/03/22 01:16 AM
1

You love yourself by knowing you have value. If you don't love you, why should someone else? If you have nothing to offer someone but anxiety, neediness, and doubt, why should someone be attracted to your problems? You gain value by being capable and self-sufficient. You gain value by realizing no one else is responsible for your happiness or well-being except you. You gain value by knowing it's your life, and it's up to you to work to make it what you want it to be. If you love yourself, you're…
/r/seduction28/03/22 01:10 AM
1

If the penalty is a lot less severe how come so few people can get over approaching? Also do you think you can weed out a trait that has been useful for hundreds of thousands of years in a few centuries? Most people still used to live in small villages. Some people don't get over their fears because mitigations like the claptrap you offered makes them feel like giving in to that fear is reasonable. People don't have to "weed out a trait", they just have to realize they're not locked into some be…
/r/seduction27/03/22 06:25 PM
1

It's not as complicated or hopeless as some people project. It simply takes practice. When you encounter people, make small talk. It can be about the common topics: weather; it's Monday again, something non-political in the news. Usually these will be brief conversations, but do it as often as you can, and you'll get used to talking to people. Politicians, actors, and spokespeople aren't that when they come out of the womb; they develop their talents. Confidence is knowing who you are is good en…
/r/seduction27/03/22 05:37 PM
1

The only people who can be confident a.k.a fearless all the time are psychopaths. No. Since the penalty is a lot less severe, it makes no sense not to be confident when meeting others. To associate that with psychopathy is interesting, but absurd.
/r/seduction27/03/22 05:18 PM
8

Women do like attracting men, so that's part of it. The thing I mostly see these days are women dressing for comfort, regardless of what does or doesn't show.
/r/seduction27/03/22 05:09 PM
27

Moral of the story: I'll never get those two minutes back it took to read this.
/r/seduction27/03/22 05:03 PM
2

Don't waste money on a casket.
/r/seduction27/03/22 02:16 AM
-2

Before you jump, can I have your stuff?
/r/seduction27/03/22 01:42 AM
-6

No worries. I have a fix.
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:57 PM
-10

Thanks. Now fuck off.
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:46 PM
-16

If he wants to vent and cry in public, I can spout my opinion. Feel free to downvote and move on.
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:38 PM
-9

Seduction and dating for a relationship aren't the same thing, and that's an issue with this sub. And because it happened to you, or you feel a certain way, that doesn't make it apply to others.
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:31 PM
36

This isn't seduction advice, it's relationship advice. Good luck.
/r/seduction26/03/22 06:02 PM
1

Boring.
/r/seduction26/03/22 05:51 PM
7

Rejection hurts, but it's like falling down and scraping your knee: it hurts for a bit, but you go on. Approach means you're going to be rejected. You can't make too much of it no matter how you liked the person, or how much time you invested. If a woman doesn't want you, there's really no changing her mind my continuing to pursue her; that only works in romcoms. Move on. The world is full of women looking for guys. Grow a thicker skin, and get going toward new horizons. Good luck.
/r/seduction26/03/22 04:33 PM
3

Grab her hand, put it on your dick, look her in the eye, and say "Do girls have this?"
/r/seduction25/03/22 04:26 PM
2

Touching is a sign of intimacy. Touch her in a similar way on her forearms and shoulders. Take her hand and look into her eyes. Play with her hair: this is called "grooming" (the uncreepy kind), and it's also very intimate. If she allows you to do these things, it's an indication you likes you and trusts you. Don't be in a rush, just continue to escalate. Good luck.
/r/seduction25/03/22 04:25 PM
4

This. Good luck.
/r/seduction24/03/22 09:40 PM
2

No. Plump people never have sex. It's almost like there's a rule against it. Those fat people you see together? They're not fucking. Never have. Never will.
/r/seduction18/03/22 06:46 PM
4

You go to visit for a weekend. You were on her turf. I don't know how things went when she was in your town, but I'm assuming you stayed at her place during your visit and that time with you showed her something she really didn't care for. You even said something very telling in your post: She said I was acting like we were already in a relationship and it was overwhelming. That doesn't necessarily mean she's seeing someone else. It means, for whatever her reasons (and I'd be inclined to take he…
/r/seduction18/03/22 12:25 AM
3

This dumb. Forget that it's "slut-shaming" (a term as idiotic as this opinion), but it's a juvenile assessment. Then again, it's more likely the product of another bridge dweller with too much time on their hands.
/r/seduction17/03/22 08:39 PM
1

If you're into seduction and dishonesty bothers you, give up game.
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:44 PM
1

It doesn't make sense, but you do you.
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:05 AM
1

It’s easier to hold a convo in person since there aren’t any other distractions. I don't understand. Are you saying a phone call can't be distraction free?
/r/seduction07/03/22 01:01 AM
1

When do you expect to see her again? And why do you think that's something that needs to be done face to face? Just ask if she'd like to grab a cup of coffee or a bite to eat. If you're interested, show interest.
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:54 AM
6

She takes more than a couple of days to usually respond but every reply is a well thought out response that always carries the conversation on. How about just having a phone call?
/r/seduction07/03/22 12:44 AM
1

I'm not here to argue, but I don't expect the OP to have much success just bothering women on the street. But y'all go for it. Good luck.
/r/seduction03/03/22 10:42 PM
1

How would you feel if you were on your way somewhere and someone stepped in front of you to sell you car insurance? I've found you seldom go wrong by being respectful, but also being aware that approaching where the woman doesn't feel like she's being isolated off from everyone else in the vicinity takes away what you call the "creep factor". Beware of idiots who tell you you shouldn't care what a woman thinks when it comes to her safety.
/r/seduction03/03/22 04:54 PM
1

The need for attention and the begging for it is so pitiful.
/r/seduction02/03/22 01:29 AM
2

I'd say if a woman in her early-20s is on a dating app, she's getting a lot of chances to date, so she's not dating to find a mate, she's dating to have fun and, if things go well, get laid. It sounds like you're looking for romance and then sex when they're looking for the opposite. This is the difference between young dating and old dating. You have to develop your skills so that some serious making out is the worst outcome of your dates. If your escalating is working well start working on cap…
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:28 PM
2

Who? Edited to add: challenging a woman's self-respect like this when you're trying to meet them might work if you're basically buying them, but for most people it's going to equal "fail".
/r/seduction01/03/22 10:47 PM
1

The only way to know is to ask. And you shouldn't be afraid to say what it is you want. The worse thing that can happen is he says he's not interested. The one thing women need to know about men is we're thick and not very good at picking up on subtlety, so hit us over the head. We'll be alright.
/r/seduction27/02/22 05:57 AM
2

Something is very VERY wrong with me. I belong in a mental hospital in a straight jacket honestly That said, why would a girl be interested in you? You low-rate yourself, so why should anyone else put any value on you? When you do this, even if you "think" you don't mean it, your mind doesn't know the difference, so you become what you say you are: a "worthless" "dumb ass" who hates himself. Being autistic doesn't mean you can't change your self-talk. What is the worst thing that's going to happ…
/r/seduction24/02/22 02:30 AM
0

I don't have to be nice to assholes. You and your high school pals need to find something else to do besides coming here with your teenage trolling. Fuck off, twerp.
/r/seduction23/02/22 04:17 PM
0

Okay, I get it now. You're not serious. Ha ha, you got me. Good luck.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:20 AM
-5

Fuck you, you idiot stooge incel. If you to accost women on the street, have at, but I hope your dopey ass gets the shit pepper-sprayed out of him for blocking somebody's path, you Neanderthal thinking motherfucker.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:19 AM
1

I don't have any more time for you. Have a nice evening.
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:16 AM
1

What's the rush? Why don't both of you give things a chance to develop? However either of you feels, there's nothing wrong with asking "Can we just take a little time to see where this goes?". That said, the fact she was willing to "kiss and tell" usually points to being more than fwbs.
/r/seduction22/02/22 11:53 PM
-6

First of all, chances are she's on her way to somewhere, so you're probably an unwelcomed interruption, not to mention how vulnerable a woman walking alone can feel even on what you (as a man) see as a safe, well-populated street. Some public places are better for outdoor approaches, such as parks or beaches, but what you're describing isn't giving yourself the better chance for success.
/r/seduction22/02/22 11:23 PM
1

While there have been reports of this type of thing, unless you have some substantiation of what you're saying (news story, police report), you're doing what folks used to do when they put out fake virus alerts or tell stories about flashing your lights at a car driving in the dark with it's lights off is an invitation to get killed by people trying to join a gang. People should always be wary and skeptical of strangers, and, thankfully, many women are very good at this.
/r/seduction22/02/22 11:07 PM
0

PUA nonsense and “game” nonsense is not seduction. This is dead ass, and what these "coaches" are selling was being sold years, upon years, upon years ago in the same way you continue to see "miracle" weight loss treatments that are sold just like they were years, upon years, upon years ago. No methodology that leans on disliking women is going to get you women of any substantial self-esteem. The crybabies and self-declared losers see women as mercurial, mysterious beings who are here to make th…
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:53 PM
2

Your comments tell everything that's wrong with you and shows just how perceptive women are.
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:32 PM
1

Well at least 90 percent of living people are breathing, so I guess that's the point.
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:51 PM
1

Was born and raised in NYC. Not only were there literally millions of women, but so much variety. If you believe you have to be rich and incredibly good looking to get women that's a huge part of your problem and for those who think like you. I only wish I was 20-years-old again with so many of you guys now in the world. It improves the odds for the other guys who know better than the defeatist drivel you're spewing. You're not being gaslit, you're being self-sabotaged.
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:50 PM
4

I agree with the OP to the extent that some of what purports to be "seduction" is framed in a misogynistic context, it's a person's choice as to what they want to do with their money. Real seduction does involve manipulation, which is why some guys have issues with it and can't truly get into it. I will say anyone who describes women as "bitches", "hos", or "cunts" shouldn't get the time of day, much less a dollar, from you.
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:33 PM
3

Okay. Good luck.
/r/seduction21/02/22 06:40 AM
43

Having been black for longer than you've probably been alive, and having lived in the Atlanta area for over 20 years, I don't know what to tell you except it was just encounter that, from the sound of it, makes it seem like you were looking to buy some. Atlanta is a town filled with younger women, and lots of them are black. All you can do is be your best you and it will work out.
/r/seduction21/02/22 02:15 AM
3

Unless you guys have committed to being in an exclusive relationship it's none of here business. You don't have to lie, but you don't have to tell her things you don't want her to know.
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:14 AM
14

The greatest advantage a person can have besides wealth is youth. A person in their late-20s has many more dating opportunities than someone who's older.
/r/seduction21/02/22 12:12 AM
1

See a mental health professional.
/r/seduction20/02/22 09:29 PM
1

You can always talk about your work, and how much you love it and are good at it. But the thing you like best about it is give you the opportunity to afford to go to places that interest you. Talk about how you can't wait to be on a sunny beach of white sand and the blue water over a bright blue cloudless sky. And then ask her if she ever thought about being with someone on a beach like that in Aruba, Panama City, Tahiti, or wherever, and then reiterate how much it's something you want to do wit…
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:51 AM
3

If I told you some of the things that have worked for me, you'd either wouldn't believe it, or be astounded. Yes, this has worked for me, but understand the context. This is a situation where there's little doubt sex is on the table. This can also be effective in a "seduction" scenario, and has been. What has to be realized is most often the worst thing that's going to happen to you is "No". "No" will not kill you. If you choose to be embarrassed, know that embarrassment will not kill you; you w…
/r/seduction20/02/22 05:23 AM
9

A person who's there to do the deed, and you're trying to be clever about the "first move"? Try this: look straight into their eyes, go up, gently, but forcefully, grab the hair at the back of their head, and still looking right in their eyes say "My God...what I'm going to do to you...", and go from there.
/r/seduction20/02/22 03:02 AM
21

You're kidding, right? This is either trolling or some 4-D level compliment fishing. You are gorgeous and I'd be proud to have you on my arm anytime.
/r/seduction18/02/22 12:00 AM
1

Make your dates about enjoying yourself. Collect intel by ask her about herself. Try to suss out who she thinks she is. Where did she grow up? Does she have siblings? Was she the protective big sister, or the constantly teased youngest of the lot? Did she play sports in high school? If she didn't, be surprised because "she looks athletic". If she thinks she's a klutz, tell her that's hard to imagine because she seems so steady and self-possessed. If she tells you how great she was, express how y…
/r/seduction16/02/22 02:59 PM
1

It sounds like you were too passive and have countered that by being a bit too aggressive. Do you ever ask your platonic girlfriends why they think you're not having success? Some people talk against getting advice or feedback from women; I say "bullshit". Ask three of them in one-to-one conversations what they think. If they all say the same thing, you have something to work with. It sounds to me like you must be looking for a relationship because you're being plenty picky. If you're looking fo…
/r/seduction16/02/22 03:20 AM
14

To see if you'll fuck around with her.
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:54 PM
12

It's likely she's testing you. Touching of any sort indicates comfort and intimacy. Do you know anything about her relationship with her boyfriend?
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:38 PM
2

I think you're doing the right thing. All the things you mentioned are just too big and overwhelming for those who lack the least amount of courage, fortitude, and perspective, to overcome. Despite my lying eyes seeing hundreds of women in public, it must be true that no one goes out anymore. And the notion that people like good looking people didn't start with computers or the Internet, but, somehow, guys who could make a squirrel throw up its nuts could get girls that would make you salivate. …
/r/seduction14/02/22 02:37 PM
5

You're worse than a selfish pig. That's just being a flat-out dick of a swine. Why are you even in this sub?
/r/seduction10/02/22 11:27 PM
1

They think he can look better than he does.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:14 PM
13

If a girl will consent to any physical contact, do it. Holding hands is a very intimate and meaningful gesture. It's powerful because it's intimate and "innocent". "Creepy" my ass. I say "Well done. Carry on".
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:20 AM
-1

I generally like humor with my jokes. YMMV.
/r/seduction05/02/22 06:28 AM
3

I guess you're not in the boroughs.
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:59 PM
2

For context I would say around 75% or more of my year are virgins so people don’t seem to have sex very much. I don't know where you are, but it can't happen if people aren't doing it. Not to mention girls have a lot more to consider when it comes to having sex, pregnancy being one of the biggest concerns, so if they aren't using birth control it's smart for them to not have sex. You might just have to be patient.
/r/seduction03/02/22 09:44 PM
1

But i’m a bit confused is that ok that she is taller than me? No, it's horrid and totally unacceptable. Unless you like it.
/r/seduction03/02/22 08:14 PM
1

I hear dating apps are horrible for men and damaging to self esteem If rejection damages your self-esteem, you don't have any.
/r/seduction31/01/22 01:50 PM
57

"You a cop?"
/r/seduction27/01/22 09:18 PM
-4

confidence is sexy no matter the body shape that comes with it True dat.
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:27 AM
4

You should definitely discuss with her what she's willing to do. I would also be careful when it comes to drugs and "aphrodisiacs". You want to be sure you have consent and can prove it, and if you're using restraints, you should have a safe word.
/r/seduction26/01/22 09:26 PM
1

That's about as clever as I expect from a fabulist troll. Good luck with your lies and fantasies. Oh, and suck my ball.
/r/seduction24/01/22 12:45 PM
1

Still up dick sucker?
/r/seduction24/01/22 12:39 PM
1

You got your attention, now fuck off lying little bitch.
/r/seduction24/01/22 12:37 PM
3

i’m sorry that your intelligence is so low that you can’t properly utilize drugs as a tool recreationally when needed. Fuck you. "Recreationally" doesn't mean at work. maybe that’s why you’re stuck at a low tier company or low tier work and can’t hang with the big boys. Yeah, sure. And I need the attention of telling people I'm enough of a dimwit to jeopardize my job by being high while examining someone. You're barely a boy of any kind. Big boys don't do this kind of dumb shit, particularly tho…
/r/seduction24/01/22 02:53 AM
5

I like coke as much as the next guy who likes coke, but you're supposed to be a medical professional who was not only up all night, but was also working under the influence. I'm not judging your drug use, but I certainly have issues with your ethics, discernment, and maturity. If any of this story is true. And if any of it is true, it indicates you're not the fastest runner in the race, so you should avoid adding reaching out to this woman to your pile of incredulous stupidity.
/r/seduction24/01/22 01:56 AM
8

To have sex with 1000 people in six months, you'd have to average having a sexual escapade every four hours. Possible? Yeah. Probable? No. I call "bullshit" on that claim. There are many ways to get women to have sex with you, and it's dependent on an incalculable number of things. Sometimes it takes no more investment than a conversation, but the thing to know is there's no magic formula, no surefire script or technique. Claims like women are "more emotional" may have some truth to them, but th…
/r/seduction24/01/22 01:13 AM
1

This whole thread is full of guys talking about how they're going to quit going after women.
/r/seduction15/01/22 09:52 PM
2

After reading these posts I've never wished so much I could be 25-years-old again. The incredible lack of competition would make my past look like life in a monastery. Youth is indeed wasted on the young.
/r/seduction15/01/22 02:44 PM
5

But I have a very disagreeable personality, so when the girls start playing games I call them out, and then the situation fizzles. Im generally patient when it comes to waiting for sex, but im realizing that if she doesnt have sex then shes not invested. Do you consider a woman not wanting to have sex "a game", or are you talking about something else? Also, I wouldn't think someone with a self-described "disagreeable personality" is going to hit the jackpot a lot. I don't think there's any set n…
/r/seduction14/01/22 05:14 PM
22

If you're going to pursue guys you have to be strong enough to handle rejection. Someone passing on you, or even flaking on you, is not a death sentence; it's just another form of "No". I'm quite sure you're worthy of being desired, but what I say shouldn't be the thing that matters. You have to feel this about you. Have you considered counseling? It can be very helpful and you'd be getting feedback by someone who's interacting with you person-to-person, face-to-face. You can't expect someone el…
/r/seduction14/01/22 04:37 AM
11

Considering Amsterdam is not a U.S. city, congrats on the upvotes.
/r/seduction12/01/22 01:45 PM
1

After the third date we organised cooking and LOTR at my place, but she called me and said that she thinks a lot of our talk is just banter instead of deeper things. What did "deeper things" mean to you? Did you assume it was about sharing your feelings? Beware when women hit you with vagaries of this kind because she could have been talking about something else entirely, and probably was. Were you saying things to let her know that you wanted her in a physical way? And the kinds of things you w…
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:00 AM
15

You hear all the time that giving validation that early, especially physical, is shooting yourself in the foot. Oftentimes the simplest approach is the best approach. Don't get caught up in "the science" before being able to add.
/r/seduction09/01/22 11:29 PM
1

If you can be embarrassed by a girl turning you down, you're not ready.
/r/seduction09/01/22 05:48 PM
2

No. Once a woman has made up her mind that she doesn't want you, you're done.
/r/seduction08/01/22 10:14 PM
5

Perhaps for you, but not for everyone. But you knew that.
/r/seduction07/01/22 12:30 AM
0

still a student tho This is the absolute best quality you can possess. Not being a student, but being young. You have a much wider variety of women available to you than someone who's 50, although you may not believe that. Unfortunately, youth coupled with a defeatist mindset will not gain you what you want. You say men have the "burden of performance" but do you ever think about the effort women put into "being attractive"? You're going around with a head full of insecurities not considering mo…
/r/seduction01/01/22 11:17 PM
1

"Dear Penthouse:".
/r/seduction01/01/22 09:46 PM
22

Don't flirt. If you're in the typical school that gets around and it makes it seem like you're desperate. Just be a chill, confident guy who's not afraid to ask girls for their opinions or their help. If you're not an athlete, be in clubs or other activities where you can be involved with girls. The biggest problem guys in high school have is they don't know when a girl is interested in them. If you have enough "friends" who are girls, they'll let you know who those girls are.
/r/seduction31/12/21 07:32 AM
3

I lost interest since she tried to play mind games with me...I feel like she is living rent free in my head I don't know, it looks from here like she's kicking your ass. Joking aside, I have to say "excuse me girl" is pretty bold. She's definitely about pushing boundaries, but feels comfortable you won't take it the wrong way. I'd get bold right back, but not in front of other people, and I wouldn't try to out-macho her.
/r/seduction29/12/21 02:00 AM
16

It really could take a tremendous toll on self esteem. If someone else reaction to you severely affects you, you don't have self-esteem. Do you think guys know what the average woman goes through when it comes to dating? Even for the most attractive people dating tends to be hard, and if the only dating you're trying to do is online dating you're not helping yourself.
/r/seduction28/12/21 10:27 PM
43

I’m a virgin and have no friends or social life. I find the idea of a girl being interested in me kinda cringe and unbelievable, I still think they’re playing with me. But assuming they’re not what am I supposed to do? If you feel weird, you come off us weird. If a girl touches you that's a decent indicator she feels comfortable with you. It's really not about where you touch her, it's just that you do it. You can take her hand into yours while you make conversation. You can gently rub her bicep…
/r/seduction28/12/21 02:54 PM
9

It's very important, and it sets you apart from the guys who don't.
/r/seduction23/12/21 02:59 AM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8NalcOPBXvs
/r/seduction14/12/21 09:38 PM
26

Young guys need "game". Old guys (like you; yeah, in dating years, you're old) need to be themselves. If you see someone you're interested in, just go up, excuse yourself, and introduce yourself. No corny lines. If you're not good at clever retorts, don't try. Just tell the lady your name and you wanted to meet her. The younger ones will like your confidence, the mature ones will appreciate your candor. Good luck.
/r/seduction14/12/21 03:13 AM
3

You quickly took "no" for an answer, didn't you?
/r/seduction13/12/21 11:57 PM
4

A lot of them are scared of sex. Like terrified. Keyword - Fear. Anecdote - Comfort. Give comfort and security. I like the way you think. I might differ from you in how you express your conclusions, but you're saying things I've tried getting across several times in this sub. Where we differ here is I don't believe a lot of women are "terrified" of sex, but they are terrified of being sexually violated. A cursory study of the incidence of sexual assault and sexual abuse in just about any country…
/r/seduction12/12/21 08:55 PM
16

At first it would take months to get someone to open up. With the exception of one sentence (and I'm sure you know the one) I love this write up because it reinforces things I've advised ad nauseam. Practicing talking to people is invaluable. Learning how to make small talk because it can lead to more substantive conversations. Being honestly inquisitive is not just a form of politeness; it's how you gain useful intelligence. Some may say this is a form of grooming, or that it's manipulative. I …
/r/seduction12/12/21 08:12 PM
3

What would you say works for most of the women you've been with? Taking a lot of time with foreplay. Erring on the side of gentleness, until I hear different. I think the OP was alluding to going for a woman's G-spot, and I've done this at times, but you have to know what you're feeling for, and not all women like deep digital penetration. I've also been with women I've fisted, and it drove them to insane orgasms, but that's certainly not something I would automatically go to or advise someone e…
/r/seduction12/12/21 06:51 PM
3

I know you think your comment is helpful, but it isn’t. You don’t provide any alternative. Saying “what works for some doesn’t work for others” is the most obvious thing ever. As you said, it works for you, and if you think "the most obvious thing ever" is so well understood, you haven't spent enough time in this sub. I'll also hazard a guess that as a woman you're a lot more in tune with applying TLC to the vajayjay then the type of guy that post is looking to address. Lastly, if you want fucki…
/r/seduction12/12/21 06:27 PM
10

What's your point? Technically there is no correct method, you do what works for you, through trial and error you learn what works and what doesn't. And as long as it results in satisfaction for the lady, then it's "correct". That's the point. And I said his advice was helpful, but on that one specific point, one size doesn't fit all, and guys shouldn't just be sticking fingers in women like it's an item on a checklist.
/r/seduction11/12/21 09:31 PM
11

This move if done correctly...if you ask most experienced men or read online, this technique always gets repeated because it works. As a pretty experienced man, I can tell you what works for the women I've been with, but what was applicable to some didn't work for others. Not to mention, as you mentioned, it needs to be done correctly. I can also tell you from experience there will be guys who will follow your game plan damn near to the letter and will not do this correctly. My concern is not ne…
/r/seduction11/12/21 08:01 PM
31

All women are different, and while what you describe is helpful, it's important for those who read this to know a mechanical description like If she has indicated she is ready, use your index and middle fingers to enter her. Press up against the upper wall of her vagina with a rapid heartbeat-like rhythm shouldn't be used like a one-size-fits-all solution.
/r/seduction11/12/21 07:13 PM
6

I am ugly and...I have rotten teeth, chalazion, obesity aka inferior aesthetics also Inferior intellect. Before you start thinking about seduction you might want to focus on fixing some of these issues. Especially I you expect to be taken seriously. Good luck.
/r/seduction11/12/21 07:07 PM
0

These types don't want to hear that. They want to hear it's the women, "those bitches" who think their pussies are the crown that allows them to try to rule the world. What woman would want to deal with the guy who wrote that post? Here's the news: women aren't stupid, even though this type might believe they are. Women are discerning and perceptive because they're taught to be, and they're taught to be because they have to be. Because they're perceptive, their usual state is to be wary and skep…
/r/seduction09/12/21 03:10 AM
1

Says the guy who made a fleshlight out of a balloon and an asprin bottle.
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:16 AM
1

zzzzzzzzz
/r/seduction07/12/21 01:05 AM
1

Stop begging, little wank.
/r/seduction07/12/21 12:57 AM
1

Dinky prick.
/r/seduction07/12/21 12:54 AM
1

Pinky dick.
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:31 PM
1

Whatever you say, shorty.
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:29 PM
1

Aww. And I'm "out of material"? Poor little incel went all the way to Florida to find women still don't like him. Mostly because he's a whiny little bitch with a small pecker. He got punked out of New York, so now he spends hours on reddit fingering his asshole and smelling his finger.
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:19 PM
1

Longer than your microdick.
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:15 PM
1

Aww. The angry man with the small penis is still whining.
/r/seduction06/12/21 11:13 PM
1

Aww. Somebody learned the word "bum". "Sesame Street" continues to work wonders.
/r/seduction06/12/21 09:55 PM
1

Aww. Somebody used a dictionary. You get a gold star and a cookie, you good boy.
/r/seduction06/12/21 09:48 PM
1

Aww. Somebody needs his nappy changed.
/r/seduction06/12/21 09:39 PM
0

I lived in NYC when it was more like Dodge City and people were dying to live there. If you're willing to move because you don't want to take a vaccine I'd say don't let the door hit you in the ass.
/r/seduction06/12/21 06:06 PM
2

things are going great for me Congratulations.
/r/seduction19/11/21 11:14 PM
1

I said if it's your **primary way". It should be used as one tool, and not the most important.
/r/seduction19/11/21 08:35 PM
3

If you're under 40 and are using OLD as your primary way to find women, you're an idiot. The only way to be be stupider is to pay for the service.
/r/seduction19/11/21 09:07 AM
1

Without context, it's difficult, and even dangerous, for someone on the outside looking in really know. I will say there are women who have a rapekink, and it's not as uncommon as you would first think. You're version of rough may not be quite rough enough. Part of the kink for some is a degree of resistance, and even humiliation, to try to force you to be more forceful. The problem here is you really don't know if this what she wants, and enunciating it might "spoil" the fantasy for her. What y…
/r/seduction19/11/21 05:04 AM
1

somehow try to get a date planned which I honestly don't know how to do "This has been so cool. What do you think about meeting irl?"
/r/seduction19/11/21 04:45 AM
2

Just keep in mind there is someone for everyone, and every woman is different.
/r/seduction18/11/21 09:27 PM
0

If it's that important to you, put it out there as soon as you can. Good luck.
/r/seduction18/11/21 05:35 PM
1

Stealing is lame enough. Not bothering to really read what you're stealing is the deepest degree of laziness.
/r/seduction15/11/21 09:17 PM
164

Update: Well this was more popular than I expected it to be. No comments. No upvotes.
/r/seduction15/11/21 02:08 PM
2

Well, considering you are the original you, you've got that going for you. Ask her questions, and ask real questions to lead you to stuff you'd really like to know: has she always lived wherever she lives? Does she have siblings? Is she the oldest? "I'm the youngest in the family, it's seems like my parents gave my older sister so much trust. Were you parents like that with you?" Why were they so trusting? Or strict? Getting that kind of insight can tell you about her levels of confidence, or if…
/r/seduction09/11/21 03:29 AM
16

You confidently look her in the eyes, and you never say things like this in a mean way, but in a gentle, smart-ass, matter of fact way. Just look in her eyes and say it nicely with a smile on your face. If she looks at you and says something like "You're so crazy", you're in her head. If she taps you or "punches" you, you're definitely in her head and just be a chill guy from then on. She will make it her business to figure you out.
/r/seduction01/11/21 05:25 PM
34

nothing that I count as an indication, but she usually ignores me on purpose when we are in the group That might be an indication she's not interested in you.
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:38 PM
2

There maybe some who won't appreciate your feedback, but I thank you for sharing. It sounds like you've been put in some very difficult situations and I feel there's a lot of value in paying attention to what you have to say because it supports much of what I've said in this sub. Good luck.
/r/seduction01/11/21 12:42 PM
582

"That's good. The last thing I need is you falling in love with me".
/r/seduction01/11/21 12:34 PM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction27/10/21 01:15 PM
3

My ex-wife was Latina. Most Latinas are friendly, but please don't think this girl is some kind of caricature and don't approach her that way. Just be a chill and respectful guy. Even though I'm terrible at it, you can become conversational in Spanish in a short period of time if you work at it. I think she'll appreciate the effort.
/r/seduction22/10/21 03:56 AM
1

If maybe you just say plainly what you want, there's nothing to conflate. If you think a woman is going to get involved with you without making an investment, you don't get it. I'll say it again: the only way to get a sure result is to cheat. Anything worth it requires an investment. There are some quarters that don't like for you to refer to them as gambles, but investments, even the safest ones, are a game of chance. In any case, you sound like you know a lot. That's nice.
/r/seduction21/10/21 10:51 PM
1

Living comes down to time, energy, and resources. How do you acquire anything without those investments? Like with any investment, the results aren't guaranteed, so do you not invest in your education, career, home, family, etc. because the ROI might not be as much as you want? If you want to get women by cheating, which is the only way to guarantee your investment will be successful, there's roofie, nembutal, threats, and other unsavory ways to simply get your way. That's a whole other risk-rew…
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:51 PM
1

With that dynamic, how do you all differentiate between those inherent barriers that are screening tools for women and the opposite, which is when a woman is clearly not into you, never will be and no matter how strong your game is, will never give you the time of the day. To put it in plain language, you don't know until you try. It's not about getting the girls who won't give you the time of day; it's about the ones who'll give you that and maybe more. That's not ambiguous, it's almost binary:…
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:30 PM
1

why is it so wrong for A 15-17 year old guy to have sex with a hot lady? is it because the law says it is? 18 year olds are still are still immature and not fully grown, if the age of consent was higher would people then think that having sex with 18 year olds is disgusting? It's wrong because of the power dynamic and a teenager is much more susceptible to being manipulated, often based on their lack of knowledge and experience. Even if you don't believe most of these guys have suffered any grea…
/r/seduction21/10/21 01:23 AM
2

There also the fact there's something to the saying "Eyes are the window to the soul". When you look straight into a woman's eyes there's a very conscious effect on them as if you can see into their very being. As with many things that are psychological, it's difficult to explain why this is so. Do this with too much intensity and it can feel frightening, but doing it with warmth and confidence is very, very effective.
/r/seduction20/10/21 06:26 PM
5

First of all, it shouldn't hurt you to have sex. If you're haven't had enough foreplay to get you wet a guy shouldn't try to force his way in. If he can't take enough time for you to be ready, you guys are doing it wrong. Second, he issue could have been because of nerves, his medication, or his frustration trying to penetrate you when you weren't wet enough. None of this means he should like you less, but the two of you may need to slow down and learn a bit more about how sex works so that it's…
/r/seduction20/10/21 03:44 PM
3

They're dates, not relationships, not marriage. Dating is like a job interview: you're seeing what works for you. This is what dating used to be, and is supposed to be.
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:50 PM
0

If you try to make a switch in your mind to somehow convince yourself that you're confident you won't get very far with that because you will be met with resistance from your mind and its very easy for that resistance to win. I'm going to slightly disagree with that poster. Positive self-talk can be a very effective component of changing the way you see yourself. Of course actually accomplishing something reinforces that, but self-talk is where you can start. Your subconscious mind does not dist…
/r/seduction20/10/21 12:35 PM
6

Translation: Beautiful young lady! The young man likes you, but is too shy to ask to see you naked, so you'll have to take the lead. Part of that came from Google, but I think it's pretty accurate.
/r/seduction19/10/21 01:53 AM
1

my mind is a mess As a queer girl who kissed a guy all night and then felt bad about kissing a girl, I'd say I have to agree with your assessment.
/r/seduction16/10/21 04:28 PM
1

Or he can sign up with his local AB chapter.
/r/seduction13/10/21 12:15 PM
1

Yes, divorced ladies can still meet their love. You sound like a nice person, but you're doing your outreach in the wrong place (I think).
/r/seduction13/10/21 12:13 AM
1

Why people are willing to have these discussions is beyond me. The past is the past, and there's no reason to kiss and tell.
/r/seduction09/10/21 05:38 PM
1

So you want to be rich, but don't want to have to make investments? If the real you is unappealing (and if this post is any reflection...), you have to fake it. If the real you is appealing, you don't, but you still have to make the investment. Often, that all it boils down to, and that could be ten minutes or ten days.
/r/seduction07/10/21 04:53 PM
4

For the same reason many guys never approach.
/r/seduction07/10/21 04:36 PM
4

Dude, this is a 5th date and away from home. Are you guys going to sleep in separate beds with pillows between you? At this point, if she's not "comfortable" with you, she's playing "pull the dickie". By this point you should have been establishing familiarity through touching, mirroring, and flirting, at the least. I don't know what else to say without being indelicate, so I'm not going to say anything more except "Good luck".
/r/seduction07/10/21 04:21 PM
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Going up to her would mean I have to get past the other girl sitting beside me who may or may not be her friend. And... Go up to her, excuse yourself if she's talking with her friend and tell her how you've seen her a lot, but you haven't had a chance to introduce yourself. Introduce yourself and tell her you'd like to have a chance to talk to her sometime. She might just appreciate you have the balls to approach her in front of her friend and the whole wide world. If she shoots you down just sa…
/r/seduction06/10/21 04:42 PM
2

Why would you tell her? Is there some law? What value would it possibly bring to her, or your relationship? Honesty is a wonderful thing, and while you guys are a couple you should strive to be as honest as you can, but you don't owe anyone, even a mate, that much of a window into your past. Some things you have to live with and not make them the burden of someone else.
/r/seduction06/10/21 12:43 AM
3

Yes. And it's not like you have to stand there and just watch (although that can be hot as hell).
/r/seduction05/10/21 08:24 PM
3

Harvard Law is in a position above you. Uh, no. They are a law school. A very good one, but so is Yale, Stanford, George Washington, Princeton, et al. Regardless, there are tons of law schools, just like there are tons of women. The thing is, even if they weren't equal to you, they don't owe you their companionship, much less their pussies. You can bitch about the rules, but that doesn't change the game. It you don't want to play, that's a valid choice, but it's your choice. What woman needs to …
/r/seduction05/10/21 01:03 PM
3

And what's there to like about a bunch of entitled bitches who think they're better than you and demand you to meet a bunch of standards they don't hold for themselves. Should I be bitter at the Mets because I wasn't good enough to be their centerfielder? Should I be bitter at Harvard Law because my LSATs weren't high enough? Should I be angry at whatever for being born too soon/too late? No. Being angry about those things is irrational because, like me, they either make choices they feel are be…
/r/seduction05/10/21 12:47 PM
9

A guy stupid enough to have sex with his best friend's wife is probably stupid enough to tell him.
/r/seduction02/10/21 12:09 AM
0

Suck my Karen nuts.
/r/seduction29/09/21 02:56 PM
0

If I said I was looking for some white trailer trash dirty legs, would you be offended?
/r/seduction29/09/21 02:55 PM
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I'm not easily offended, but this is a pretty fucked up post. I guess you're the guy looking for the "big booty" women. Please go down to the West End, and good luck.
/r/seduction29/09/21 01:28 PM
1

This. This channel can help with that: https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=gentleman%27s+gazette
/r/seduction29/09/21 12:35 PM
1

And why can the big booty/full figure folks themselves be usually hard to find? In Atlanta? You say you're not downtown, you might want to get there and on the West End. You might also want to take a trip to Augusta. The whole city is like a drag queen sumo wrestling arena.
/r/seduction28/09/21 03:12 PM
4

I live in the U.S. where people of all types of different cultures are skeptical (to put it politely) about black people. There are some people from other cultures who are darker in skin tone than me who would never become involved with me on a sexual or relationship level. Is that their "privilege"? It's very easy for some to put complex issues inside of some small box. Whether it's racism, or preference, or familial or societal fear, it's not just something white people do to non-white people.…
/r/seduction27/09/21 12:37 PM
2

You also have to pay for a drink or a table (if in the club). Uh, no, you don't. You have to approach the girl and if she finds you unattractive she won't respond or will just reject you. You're equating attraction with looks, and that's a mistake. Confidence is an attraction, and if you only knew how many women wind up with a guy simply because he made her laugh you'd likely be shocked. Also, the way you smell can't be seen on an app, and the right scent can be very attractive. And being reject…
/r/seduction20/09/21 02:43 PM
7

Can I have some thoughts? Fuck people and what they think. Even it was a fetish, as long as you're not harming or exploiting anybody you're entitled to your kinks.
/r/seduction20/09/21 01:57 AM
6

Gasoline shower, lit match, and there you go.
/r/seduction16/09/21 04:12 PM
2

I like this a lot for a very specific reason: it doesn't treat women as "the enemy". Too much of what tries to pass for seduction is a bunch of woman-hating and woman-bashing. Women are assets, resources, and ultimately the raison d'etre for bettering ourselves. Bravo.
/r/seduction13/09/21 07:05 PM
2

All you need to do is remind yourself that there is absolutely nothing to be lost and everything to be gained by talking to that pretty girl. Go up and say hey, introduce yourself, tell her you think her dress is pretty and you want to buy her a drink. That's the goal. No matter if she says yes, no or screams for you to get the hell away from her, you've succeeded. So in short, just go do it. Who cares about the outcome? Rejection is part of the game. If someone tries to sell you a method that g…
/r/seduction13/09/21 06:48 PM
3

Im glad you looked. Misery loves company. And he's already in trouble.
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:56 PM
5

What should I have done in this situation? I am new to this whole pick-up thing and to dating also. Here's the good news: she likes you. Her touching you is giving you permission to touch her. Allowing you to put a hand on her hip showed she was very comfortable with you touching her and the possibility of the two of you "coupling". All of this is good. So why didn't she let you kiss her? Because you didn't, and haven't, made enough of investment for her to know where you stand. Don't take that …
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:55 PM
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Like anyone would’ve did I started snooping thru the app and holy shit I was shook. No, not "like anyone". There's a lot wrong here, and it all has to do with you. Don't be nosy if you can't handle what you find, and getting to have sex with someone doesn't entitle you to nose around. Beyond that, you violated her trust and privacy. Hopefully she'll realize it and shuts you down. In the future, act like a secure human being and mind your own business.
/r/seduction13/09/21 04:29 PM
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I have no idea what you're talking about. I'm not surprised. And I think a guy telling people to act like a deranged stalker telling me to "get a grip" might be the funniest thing I read all day.
/r/seduction13/09/21 01:59 PM
1

YMMV, but in my experience the best lie is the biggest lie. Once again this is from my experience, but I've found people will generally believe a lie before they'll believe the truth, and the bigger the lie, the easier it is for them to believe it. Unless a person has some above average level of knowledge about a particular area, you can get away with humongous lies. Try it sometime. Tell a stranger, or very tangential acquaintance this biggest lie you think you can get away with and I will bet …
/r/seduction13/09/21 01:37 PM
8

But there are times where you'll try and start a conversation, but she'll just ignore you/give you the cold shoulder. She doesn't want to talk to you. If this happens, don't give up so easily! Real life isn't some cheesy rom com. If a woman is ignoring you that's a fairly big indicator that she's not interested in you or any damn thing you have to say. Nobody likes a pain in the ass, and there are other women in the world.
/r/seduction13/09/21 12:47 PM
2

I'm rapidly coming to the conclusion that if I want any results, I'm going to have to literally reinvent the wheel and figure it all out myself - and worse, shoulder the risks that come with that. Yes, you should do that. Good luck.
/r/seduction13/09/21 12:43 PM
5

This fucks with my self worth especially when I constantly see women online and in real life complain about how awful the men in their dating lives are. men that abuse, ignore, mistreat, are rude, immature, use women for sex, etc etc. so many awful sounding men from what I hear but apparently im still not good enough? What the fuck is wrong with me that I am so ugly and undesireable to nearly every women? I'm going to say what I have to say, and you're probably not going to like it. That paragra…
/r/seduction11/09/21 02:05 AM
6

Humor is probably one of the best ways to get to a woman, but it can't be forced.
/r/seduction09/09/21 01:41 AM
2

I don't buy into everything they say, but there's a whole YouTube channel for this: https://www.youtube.com/c/Charismaoncommand
/r/seduction08/09/21 07:45 PM
1

According to you, she reached out months ago. You're frustrated by "mixed signals", but you've been doing the same thing: you're saying you're not ready, but you're flirting and teasing. I get you may not be good at reading cues, but people don't have LED displays on their foreheads that display what they're thinking. I hoping I'm wrong, and I'm interpreting the situation based on what you've written, my personal experiences, and my experiences with human nature, but it wouldn't surprise me if s…
/r/seduction07/09/21 11:14 PM
1

My mistake about the call, but she's been reaching out to you for a long time with not much coming back. How long is she supposed to wait?
/r/seduction07/09/21 10:57 PM
1

I don't know if the news is good or bad, but I'm leaning toward bad. You've been given an engraved invitation, embossed and braided with gold leaf, and you keep turning it down. A possibly horny girl desperately drunk dials you and, once again, you go "meh". By now she probably thinks you're playing whatever id the female version of "pull the dickie". The only thing she hasn't done is strip on Main Street, spread her legs and shout "Take me now!!!". She has to start believing she's embarrassing …
/r/seduction07/09/21 10:29 PM
2

AF/BB If you're not bringing what she needs in the bedroom, you're not going to get her best. This is the same old accountability-free whining.
/r/seduction07/09/21 06:13 PM
3

If women only have sex with "attractive" guys, where do all the ugly people come from? Evolution tells us that species mutate to make themselves not just more resilient, but more physically appealing. This has been the case for thousands of other different species, but not for humans. The vast majority of us aren't the notions of conventional beauty we see in media and occasionally in real life. Why not? Because less attractive people also get the chance to fuck. Sometimes with people much more …
/r/seduction07/09/21 01:48 PM
1

Being able to change HER oil is attractive.
/r/seduction07/09/21 11:21 AM
1

What do I do about this? Stay off the weed.
/r/seduction06/09/21 07:27 PM
51

Being able to do minor fixes on a car. If you don't learn anything else about a car guys, at least know how to change a tire.
/r/seduction06/09/21 03:30 PM
11

Go on with your life. If she's the type of friend you think she is, you'll hear from her.
/r/seduction02/09/21 08:51 PM
6

There's nothing worse than having to work your ass off to gain someone else's approval. Maybe that's what I've been doing wrong. You answered your own question. Stop working for someone else's approval and work on appreciating yourself. You're exhausted because you're spending a lot of time acting, and acting is hard freaking work. The reason actors get paid a lot is a) they spend a lot of time being bored; 2) and when they work, the work is hard. If you don't feel good trying to project good fe…
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:13 AM
2

Younger (and newer) have long had a cachet. That doesn't mean there's no value to the older and experienced. Women don't automatically become "invisible with age", and many become better with age. The questions you're asking and the point you're making isn't new and isn't news. No one needs to trudge away like a sick elephant and die alone.
/r/seduction31/08/21 12:01 PM
2

This isn't normal, and your boyfriend needs to be less intense. You should also never hesitate to stop things if they cause you discomfort, pain, or unwanted bleeding. Never be passive when it comes to those things. Good luck.
/r/seduction31/08/21 11:43 AM
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I want to lay the pipe to sort of "punish" her for the atrocious behavior of not doing a damn thing in her life and getting all the stuff for free. You can always count on a woman to fall for a guy you gives them that rapey vibe. I can't believe she's not falling at your feet.
/r/seduction31/08/21 01:04 AM
1

Then I definitely stand by my earlier comments. Good luck.
/r/seduction30/08/21 04:48 PM
1

I hope it all works out. Good luck.
/r/seduction30/08/21 04:00 PM
3

I guess the main point I'm trying to get at is that despite the fact that he says he's not ready for a relationship he is treating me like his girlfriend. Uh, no, he's not. I'm assuming somewhere in this madness sex was involved (in which case, the "seduction" thing would be in the past tense), leading you to think there's some kind of attempt at a relationship here. I don't believe there is, unconventional or otherwise. What I've read makes me believe you have some fairly significant issues to …
/r/seduction30/08/21 03:58 PM
1

So "T" is Tanisha? I would think she asked to bring her friend to figure out what kind of meeting you wanted. If you would have said you just wanted to meet her alone, that's closer to a date, and she knows your intention is to get to know her along that line. The only thing to do is be confident and tell her while you like T, and enjoy the times you guys hang out, you're looking to know her on a different level. From there, either she buys in, or doesn't. Good luck.
/r/seduction30/08/21 03:46 PM
0

The Molly was kicking in.
/r/seduction29/08/21 09:29 PM
2

God, can someone help me to move on? Probably not, unless you really listen. First, if a girl doesn't want you, nothing you can do will change her mind. Real life is not a rom-com. Second, you have to stop replaying and reliving what happened. It's dead, and you need to bury it. Third, don't be so hard on yourself. Everybody fucks up. We all make mistakes, and some of us have made some very, very big ones, but we persevered. You can't let regrets drive your future. Fourth: apply some context. Th…
/r/seduction29/08/21 05:08 PM
3

Anywhere between late-30s to mid-50s.
/r/seduction29/08/21 12:56 AM
9

Yes. I've spent the last couple of years in a dating desert, and COVID has made things tougher. I also don't do online dating, so I'm really challenging myself. Because of all this, I can't say I'm having spectacular results, but I'm also not interested in being as active in dating as I was in my 20s. As always, that, and other things could change, so we'll see. For now, I have no complaints.
/r/seduction28/08/21 03:07 PM
0

Even though you say manipulation isn't part of what you do, the average person should make no mistake about manipulation being a normal part of traditional seduction. That fact is why so many guys who would be capable fail at it. The world is made up entities who manipulate people with words, and some of them make a lot of money at it. People should not come to this sub to argue against manipulation. It's like going to r/babiesarecute and bitching they're not.
/r/seduction27/08/21 09:14 PM
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I think you're making the assumption every guy wants to meet a woman to have a relationship. We both know that's not true. What are the OP's reasons, he is in the right sub. If he were female, you'd be called out for "slot shaming" or whatever term of outrage is in vogue. Give it a rest.
/r/seduction27/08/21 09:06 PM
9

Damn, Don Draper!! I thought you were dead.
/r/seduction27/08/21 08:56 PM
1

Stop begging, bitch.
/r/seduction26/08/21 12:54 PM
0

You obviously can't read, or are the most talentless troll I've ever read. Go sit on your dildo and get to wanking. The rest of us have other things to do. You fucking incel.
/r/seduction26/08/21 11:19 AM
2

Two things: a) are the people in your country overwhelming white (in terms of population); and b) is it that important to be able to date someone who's white? And now your bitch ass wants to argue. You're the pussy who's whining about not being able to get a white girlfriend. It's not your color, it's the fact you're a simpering little self-conscious cunt. That's the reality you miserable fucking incel asslick.
/r/seduction25/08/21 11:14 PM
2

I guess you just want to cry. You didn't answer my questions and you act like you're the only person who's ever dealt with this. I guess where you are, you're probably right, but it might have to do with something more than skin color. Good luck.
/r/seduction25/08/21 11:06 PM
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Two things: a) are the people in your country overwhelming white (in terms of population); and b) is it that important to be able to date someone who's white? Here in the U.S,, there's a fair amount of interracial dating, and I've dated white women. I've also had the experience of being told I was someone whom they couldn't (or wouldn't) date, and the reasons were never important to me. I've also encountered women from India who are darker than me who wouldn't give me the time of day. None of th…
/r/seduction25/08/21 07:37 PM
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when you’re constantly being rejected due to your skin colour, it takes a toll on you mentally. It doesn't have to, and it shouldn't. While it's a worst reason on the spectrum of rejection, it's still just a rejection. It's incredibly painful, but allowing someone else's prejudice and cowardice to mentally affect me is giving them a hell of a lot more control than they merit. The world owes you nothing, that's just the fact, and you have to be tough enough to accept that.
/r/seduction25/08/21 03:48 PM
4

Last week we went out for drinks and ended up having sex in the car. We kept talking everyday all day since (more than usual). But when I tried to be a bit flirtation she immediatly rejected it. Have you ever met someone you admired, and it turned out they were an asshole with bad breath? You ever heard sometimes it's best to never meet your heroes? I'm hoping this makes sense.
/r/seduction25/08/21 02:00 AM
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Before you say to a woman you don't know: "Nice tits", think about saying to the guy in the urinal next to you "Nice dick". Or better yet, think about that guy saying to you "Nice dick". Does any of this sound like a great idea?
/r/seduction25/08/21 01:51 AM
1

"Thank you".
/r/seduction23/08/21 01:49 AM
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That definitely read like it was from someone unconscious.
/r/seduction23/08/21 12:36 AM
2

I'm sure there are many resources on the Interwebs, but a bar setting is a good place for establishing kino. If she's wearing a bracelet, be curious about it and ask to get a closer look at it. When she offers it, take her hand and look at it. Casually touch her forearm from time to time when says something funny, or something you like. If you are close enough to smell her hair, tell her how nice it smells, and give it a few strokes. Don't overdo any of this, and it all should come out of natura…
/r/seduction22/08/21 12:05 AM
13

You've gotten some very interesting advice, most of it good, especially that about establishing touch. Here's where I differ from what some have told you, but ultimately it's your choice. Someone said something about saying you want to make out in the forest, and others talked about establishing some type of sexual something while on the hike. I say DON'T DO THIS!!! This is the absolute wrong venue for going there. What you're doing on this date is establishing trust and kino. The last frame you…
/r/seduction20/08/21 01:54 PM
4

I know if i wanna find the 10/10 women i must be very attractive man You said you've tried it all, yet you operate from the same old ignorance. You shouldn't bother to approach if you can't deal with rejection, and if you can't adjust your belief system, you're setting yourself up for disappointment and failure.
/r/seduction19/08/21 12:48 AM
1

You probably wont respond to me. Only because you and this ridiculous "study" both fall under the category of "Who gives a shit?".
/r/seduction16/08/21 12:26 PM
1

"Scientifically proven" but posts no links to sources. That disqualifies this from any serious discussion.
/r/seduction16/08/21 11:34 AM
6

Why can't I get a damn woman to say yes to a date? Because you sound like a problem. Where's the joy here? Where's the fun? It sounds like living around you would be an extension of a Dickens novel. No one except a masochist needs an over-analyzing mope to be part of their life. You seem like you come with more baggage than an airport carousel. It's not interesting, and it's not impressive. Try getting over being a member of the walking wounded and just get on with trying to enjoy life without l…
/r/seduction15/08/21 05:40 PM
1

Guess what? Everything in life that's worth getting take effort to get. Of course it's not easy, but it's not as hard as you think. In the same way you're looking for a girlfriend, girls are looking for a boyfriend. It's going to be the same when you get in your 20s, 30s, and beyond. Have confidence. Come across as the type of person other people want to know and be around. Be a guy who listens to girls, especially girls you aren't interested in. Be the guy who can give girls a genuine complimen…
/r/seduction14/08/21 04:40 AM
1

You should have had no other expectation than getting her number. When a woman invests that much time with a guy at the very least she wants to find out more about him. Never be reluctant to ask for a number. Rejection will not kill you. While you're out and looking to seriously interact with women never drink to the point of being "hammered" or anything like that, or past that.
/r/seduction14/08/21 04:27 AM
1

She talked about how she doesn't like to wash dishes and i said " so im supposed to watch the kids while youre at work?" I'm trying to figure out what type of seduction frame you thought you were setting with this. What was supposed to be going through her mind upon hearing this? Conversations are for gathering intelligence and setting frames. There are things I'm reluctant to say, but something I want you to focus on is the need to capture her imagination. And what I'm about to say is also true…
/r/seduction12/08/21 05:32 PM
1

we were together for 6 hours and i was the one that ended the date because it was late. Did you let her know that you felt you could spend the whole night talking with her and would she like to go back to your place to continue? That's a pretty lengthy investment from a woman. Or maybe you just felt it wasn't going anywhere?
/r/seduction12/08/21 03:07 PM
3

I've read what you've said in the comments, particularly about the girl who did a lot of talking while you were trying to be funny. What was your quality of listening? If you're not showing interest in her, why should she be interested in you? You were in a situation that was ideal for picking up the kind of intelligence you could use in your favor. The more she talks, the less you need to be clever or try to carry the conversation. Is your agenda to be clever, or is it to get the girl? You have…
/r/seduction12/08/21 01:52 AM
1

If any of this happened with the girls it was likely because they saw you as a harmless (because their boyfriends were there) bozo who was acting like an ass and they wanted to play with you. If no one else ever tells you, take it from me, drunks aren't fun. They aren't funny, charming, or attractive. Don't screw yourself into thinking confidence found in a bottle is better than confidence developed by being someone you would like. Good luck.
/r/seduction11/08/21 11:38 PM
2

Your opening hits on the head something I've been trying to get across for years, and the reasons involved. As to the "push/pull" theory, that can be effective but it can also bring about a huge amount of confusion, and that confusion can become an unmanageable issue. Confidence, along with emotional and physical strength, can be more positive substitutes for this type of tactic. Having the persona of a calm, capable, emotionally available man can be as effective as "push/pull" and is something …
/r/seduction11/08/21 02:07 PM
2

The old "just fuck her brains out" advice. That's as timely as a stagecoach. Before you can have sex with her, you have to get her into bed (or wherever). That's the "seduction" part. The simple truth is you will not get women by being at war with women, and a lot of what claims to be seduction is just weakly disguised lustful misogyny hiding out in word soup.
/r/seduction10/08/21 01:47 PM
1

Why would you do this if you're a poor cook? With that asked, this fella tends to feature fairly simple, one pan dishes: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YEaueE9Hl20
/r/seduction10/08/21 12:32 AM
1

Im (sic) always trying to create deep connection with my dates. I'm not going to read through the ton of comments to see if someone else has told you this, but I hope they have: sometimes a girl is just looking to get laid. They're not looking for any more connection than connecting your dick to their vagina. To be honest I feel used because this happens me a lot. Somewhere out there is a woman who's laughing her ass off and singing "Cry Me A River".
/r/seduction08/08/21 08:20 PM
1

Order cranberry juice.
/r/seduction08/08/21 08:15 PM
7

I have had security called on me before when I used ploughing techniques on a 17 year old girl. I've read some creepy stuff, but this make the Hall of Fame. Are candy and Happy Meals part of your technique?
/r/seduction05/08/21 03:29 PM
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r/thathappened
/r/seduction31/07/21 10:56 PM
1

I'm going to try to explain this as simply as possible since it appears I failed before: she wants to "date" you for sex, not for a relationship. A relationship might happen, but that's not part of her current agenda. You seem like the kind of guy who'll find a $100 bill and wonder himself to death thinking "why should I be so lucky?".
/r/seduction25/07/21 04:51 PM
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Maybe someone else will give you a better answer and indulge your ridiculous attempt at a pity party, but these are the types of silly posts that really make me wonder why someone would post something so pathetic. You're 25-years old. You're at the front end of life, there's no "catching up" for you to do. Why would any woman be interested in someone who doesn't think they're an interesting or decent enough person for a woman to be interested in? Where to meet girls? The whole wide world is fill…
/r/seduction25/07/21 04:40 AM
1

You've asked too many questions, the kind that sound like you want a relationship. This young lady sounds like she's just looking to quench her thirstiness, and needs someplace to do it away from home. She's not looking for a relationship; this is one of the few times when a girl is only looking for some reasonably decent sex. And if she can get it from someone with less questions and concerns, and a reliable place to get her freak flag flying, the better. That's probably why you're not hearing …
/r/seduction25/07/21 03:33 AM
1

This is probably the wrong sub for your question. The only advice I'll share is if you do have sex, please have safe sex and be on, or using, effective birth control. Good luck.
/r/seduction23/07/21 02:46 AM
3

Here's something every 16-year old boy needs to understand: girls are pretty much like guys because we're all human. We have similar feelings, desires, dreams, and fears. There's no huge mystery to girls. You'll never understand everything about them, but you need to understand the same way you want to have someone who feels you're special enough to be with, there's a ton of girls who feels the same way. Do your best to approach the girls you meet as people you want to know. Make small talk with…
/r/seduction23/07/21 02:38 AM
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Nobody said "all" of anybody is anything, but alcohol, as well as being part of a group, lowers inhibitions, which means a person is more willing to do something while drunk (or in a group) they'd never do when sober (or alone). The poster sounds very young and was given some good advice. I'd like to think if he told your sister or daughter what he said, you'd be inclined to agree.
/r/seduction23/07/21 02:15 AM
1

More likely, and often because a guy knows how to exploit that vulnerability.
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:21 PM
2

Really? "Cynthia? I thought that was you. It's been a while, but we were in uni together. How have you been, and what have you been up to?" Yeah, a real nightmare.
/r/seduction22/07/21 07:06 PM
3

There's a bit to unpack here, so bear with me. While a partner is not responsible for your orgasms, they should be as good and giving a participant they can be in helping that happen. That means they are willing to listen to you and willing to try the things you feel will work to get you there. At the same time, unless you both are into the starfish thing, you're expected to be active as well. What you're asking for means sex without a relationship. Are you absolutely sure you can emotionally de…
/r/seduction18/07/21 08:47 PM
2

Where did you travel from? How was your flight? Have you been here before? How did you get interested in this? Typical small talk based on curiosity. Hopefully they'll ask questions of you. That's having a conversation.
/r/seduction18/07/21 06:42 PM
1

And in this context we're talking about the "not a murderer" one.
/r/seduction16/07/21 01:35 PM
5

Relationships are one thing; gaming is another. I didn't think this was the sub where guys who want relationships are coming. The most important factor is trust. I get pushback on this at times, but that's because those folks are doing something too many people constantly do: applying their interpretation of what's in front of them instead of actually taking in what's in front of them. Trust does not equal "honesty". No woman will have sex with you if she doesn't trust you. You can beg, you can …
/r/seduction16/07/21 02:43 AM
2

You're basically some rando she met on the street. Unless you're something along the lines of Don Draper or some other coochie magnet, what makes you think a few texts and a conversation is going to translate into a hookup? It never hurts to ask, but I'm trying to figure out why you would be her choice for some hit-and-run sexual encounter?
/r/seduction15/07/21 12:57 AM
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Since there's just one tiny tent involved, and not even a doghouse to sleep in if things go bad, I'd be damned sure about what I was trying to do before making this assumption. Good luck.
/r/seduction09/07/21 02:03 PM
3

If you were in this situation, what would you pick? I would pick being a man, and not taking advantage of someone's emotional pain for the sake of sex.
/r/seduction05/07/21 12:46 AM
2

I have a degree in engineering technology and some job experience, and I don't consider myself to be ugly, but I'm black, I have ADHD and social anxiety. This is something that I see so much these days and it translates into "Why should anybody like me? I'm fucked up, you know". That's a very valid question. I would hope you're doing something to manage your ADHD and social anxiety so that it doesn't prevent you from living a life you enjoy, and is fruitful and happy. If you aren't, you should. …
/r/seduction29/06/21 02:18 AM
2

Remember, it's not about the size of the dog in the fight, it's about the size of the fight in the dog. Do guys usually confront you when you're with a girl? I could be mistaken, and I'm speaking as someone who lives in the U.S., but I've never seen or heard about this happening a lot. Whenever you're confronted by someone looking for trouble you have to make them believe they've found it, and you don't have to be a very big guy to do that. You have to show you can't be intimidated and if you ha…
/r/seduction28/06/21 09:26 PM
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You actually have to look like you'd be able to do it. You should be fit and confident, and seem like you belong wherever you are. Have good posture. The better thing to do, beyond being fit, is to develop some self-defense skills. Krav Maga has effective techniques that concentrate on ending confrontations quickly, which is what you want.
/r/seduction28/06/21 09:09 PM
3

This should be a hard "no". The only thing to learn from something like this should already be known to anyone's who's ever heard "A fool and his money are soon parted".
/r/seduction23/06/21 12:53 AM
2

You said you know she's into girls. Does she go around broadcasting that? If you ask her to go out, and she says "no", it doesn't matter anyway, but if you want to know something, ask: "You've said you're into girls. Have you ever dated guys?"
/r/seduction22/06/21 10:05 PM
5

You ask.
/r/seduction22/06/21 08:27 PM
2

Play her. You may be surprised and she wipes the floor with you. Whichever way it goes, it's a great chance to have some quality time with a girl you like AND she into something you're into. Why would you let this opportunity get away? The way to not be a jerk is not to be a jerk. Hopefully you guys can have fun and get to know each other better. Maybe that's something she's thinking. I hope so, because you're missing the forest for the trees. Dude, she's setting up the pins. Give yourself a cha…
/r/seduction22/06/21 01:56 AM
1

Part of having success in any arena is to work from knowledge and strength. One of the things you have to know is whatever is it you're doing, it's not working. What are you doing/not doing that's making your approaches non-successful? Do you have an idea? Are you using your strengths to your advantage? Do you know what your strengths are? What are you doing in terms of self-improvement? Why should any woman want to spend time with you? What do you have to offer that captures her imagination and…
/r/seduction18/06/21 12:58 PM
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Let's put aside some of the just outright foolish replies you've gotten and talk like adults. Why is this any of your business? You have no idea what her home life is really like. You're on the outside looking in. Do you think you'd be helping her husband? Maybe he loves her so much there are some things he's willing to live with: suspicions, mistrust, jealousy, but figures what he doesn't see or really know won't hurt him. Regardless of what you think, you don't have a right to insinuate yourse…
/r/seduction18/06/21 03:24 AM
2

You're old enough to legally drink?
/r/seduction17/06/21 04:45 PM
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she was online yet still hasnt responded and its been like 3 hours Wow!! Three whole hours!! Seriously, be a little patient. Right now she has no reasons to make you a priority and it could be a bit of a shit test. Just relax and see if you hear anything. If you do, cool, if you don't, nothing lost, but never come across as pressing or desperate. Sweating her gets you nowhere. Good luck.
/r/seduction16/06/21 02:53 PM
1

I'm very socially awkward and have never dated anyone. Work on becoming more confident. Challenge yourself to speak to someone new everyday. Learn to make small talk: chat about the weather, excuse yourself and tell someone you admire something they're wearing, and ask about it. Have a smile and make pleasant eye contact. You don't have to be clever, just be curious. The more you do something, the better you can get at it. Make this a habit. As far as your best friend, you eventually have to mak…
/r/seduction16/06/21 02:46 AM
1

Those questions confused me but I was honest to her. Why? Did you asked why those things were of concern to her, especially since they confused you? These questions indicate insecurity. This was a time for you to collect intel that may have been useful for you. If something like this happens again ask if she's had guy do that to her. The more you learn the more you can assure her you're not that guy. Being a good listener and asking questions about her questions can get you into her emotional he…
/r/seduction15/06/21 11:23 PM
14

That's a great attitude. Too much of what passes for "seduction" is thinly veiled misogyny. Why would you want to be involved with anything you hate? Good on you.
/r/seduction15/06/21 11:00 PM
2

A 33-year old woman is a 23-year old woman with ten more years of dealing with life: good, bad, truth, bullshit, successes, and failures. To quote too many songs: she's a woman. Start from there. Be the type of guy a woman wants to be around, have no expectations, and everything else will work out.
/r/seduction14/06/21 12:08 PM
1

You should not ever do something that makes you feel worthless for the sake of someone else, even if it makes you happy to make them happy. It's not just okay to have boundaries, it's human. There's nothing wrong in in being GGG (see Savage, Dan), but if you don't want to do something, and you're being pressured, you need to walk away (or run) from the person doing that to you. It also pays to develop a thicker skin. People will always have something to say. You have to decide if you want to liv…
/r/seduction09/06/21 01:57 PM
1

It doesn't matter how I feel about them. The way I feel about myself precludes me from dealing with someone I find overly unpleasant. I make that choice.
/r/seduction06/06/21 06:29 PM
1

Twenty-nine is old? What is 35? Ancient? I can't believe how damn soft some of you folks are. A 26-year old says someone THREE YEARS OLDER is old and you give this a second thought? Here's how you don't get depressed about the good fortune to be able to get older: you grow up.
/r/seduction02/06/21 03:35 PM
5

This is spam. This person has done this for years. Report and ignore.
/r/seduction01/06/21 04:52 PM
2

This clown has been posting this spam for years. Report and ignore.
/r/seduction01/06/21 04:50 PM
1

Would you say to a 6'4", 240 lb guy "Nice dick"? Doesn't matter if you're gay or not, just would you say it? How do you think he'd react? A woman would probably react the same way if she had as good a chance of kicking your ass. So take this as a "No".
/r/seduction01/06/21 03:59 AM
0

Go. A 40-year old woman is a 20-year old woman in a 40-year old body. Have no expectations beyond having a fun first date. Good luck.
/r/seduction28/05/21 02:21 AM
1

This has to be a troll post.
/r/seduction27/05/21 03:16 PM
1

While discussing IQ is always a minefield, I can say yours is not an unusual issue. First: do things. Get out of the house and out of your comfort zone. Strike up conversations with small talk: current events (not politics), the weather, anything that's common. If you can learn other things, you can learn how to converse, and do it in a natural way. Like other things, if you want to improve, you need to practice. With that level of IQ you probably are interested in quite a few things, so extend …
/r/seduction26/05/21 07:52 PM
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Did you use a condom? It sounds like something traumatic has happened in the past to this woman, and the situation with you caused some emotional distress. At this point there's nothing you can do except be sure you didn't do anything out of line that would cause this something similar to happen with someone else.
/r/seduction26/05/21 12:44 PM
1

Being more gentle than forceful. You shouldn't be force feeding your tongue to a girl. Until she says different, slow and gentle is the way to go with kisses, "cuddling", and sex.
/r/seduction24/05/21 11:41 AM
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Maybe you're not a good kisser. Maybe your kissing is too aggressive. Maybe your cuddling was too aggressive. Only she knows, but bad kissing will turn off a woman faster than an unwanted dick pic.
/r/seduction24/05/21 02:00 AM
1

You sound like an 18-year old. You haven't thought about anyone but yourself, and none of the implications of your desire. You're willing to ruin the relationship your family has had with this man for the sake of sex? You obviously won't mind destroying his marriage and home life should he be stupid enough to get involved with you because you won't keep this a secret. Chances are this man won't be stupid enough to get involved with you because he has to know you're trouble, and a 54-year old has…
/r/seduction22/05/21 01:58 AM
3

Your girl's a real trooper if she can take nine inches in the pooper. Your girlfriend might be one of those people who dumps on a regular schedule in the morning and takes her shower/bath.
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:13 PM
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After one day out? You might have been better off telling her you weren't looking for anything more than just hanging out and you're not sure she's your type anyway, when it comes to that. Two things will happen: a) this will internally piss her off, and she won't want to see you again; b) this will internally piss her off, and she'll want to prove she's "your type". I don't know how old you are (yes, it matters), but I think you went a little more hardcore than you needed to. Alpha's one thing,…
/r/seduction18/05/21 03:32 AM
20

Gives a new meaning to "dating platform".
/r/seduction14/05/21 03:12 AM
1

I'm constantly amazed at the amount of people who apparently haven't encountered this troll who's posted the same garbage for years and still gets dupes to seriously reply to his foolishness. And some of you have been on reddit for years. Please ignore and report.
/r/seduction11/05/21 03:12 AM
6

This jackarse again. Please ignore and report.
/r/seduction10/05/21 01:39 AM
1

You also have to figure out how to have sex roughly three times a day, or maybe once on one day and five times on another. Anyway, it sounds like a lot of work.
/r/seduction08/05/21 12:46 AM
8

There's an old saying: "Once you can fake sincerity, you've got it made". We spent a lot of time faking kindness anyway, so why not spread the wealth? Flies, honey, vinegar...
/r/seduction05/05/21 01:31 PM
1

The real joke is how reddit threatens to "permanently ban" people who abuse the platform.
/r/seduction01/05/21 02:50 AM
1

You guys still haven't caught on to this spammer?
/r/seduction01/05/21 02:44 AM
1

Phucking phool.
/r/seduction30/04/21 05:04 PM
3

You're doing what's commonly called "Paralysis through analysis". There are some simple facts you need to have that can help you eliminate some of the noise: a) most women, like most men, like sex, and want it; b) being subtle is for the movies, in real life you have to say what you want; c) there nothing wrong in wanting to have sex with someone you really like -- when did this become an anxiety inducing circumstance? I think she's was expecting at some point you would take charge. She's spent …
/r/seduction20/04/21 05:33 PM
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She needs to feel like she’s talking to a man who is in touch with his feminine side and can understand her. I won't debate this, but I strongly disagree with this.
/r/seduction19/04/21 07:20 PM
14

Yet another way of saying if she trusts you that's how you get her.
/r/seduction19/04/21 06:49 PM
1

Pretty extreme form of seduction. Why not just ask him to join in, if that's what you guys want?
/r/seduction19/04/21 02:25 PM
1

How mentally fucked up to you have to be to waste your time in the way they do? I actually wonder if the poster is Tomi Lahren because her pussy is absolutely rank.
/r/seduction07/04/21 12:10 PM
1

I'm not here asking whether 15 is the right age or whether I am mature enough, I've had enough bullshit thrown at me from fellow Redditors in the past about being young, but that is not really relevant to this post. As you pointed out, you're age is very relevant. You've listed some of the limitations that come with that. Add to those your desire to be somewhat choosy and the fact none of the girls in your school seem to like you, and you've reduced the population within your sphere of influence…
/r/seduction05/04/21 05:00 PM
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I am really good looking, and get attention from women all the time, just to put that out there. And humble too. Do you really want to get involved in this, whatever it is? Even if they have an open relationship, or he's into being cucked, how do feel about being a pawn, who might wind up as collateral damage, in their game? And your job is part of that mix? You need to start thinking with the big head and start developing some boundaries. Good luck.
/r/seduction05/04/21 02:57 AM
5

It means you might be wasting your time if you want to hookup. Don't automatically disbelieve what a woman says. They don't like that.
/r/seduction03/04/21 06:39 PM
3

Reporting as spam. I can't believe there are so many people who haven't seen this clown's schtick. He gets off on you answering his idiot question that he's been asking day after day for years. Edited to ask: this just makes the point how silly any ban on reddit is.
/r/seduction27/03/21 03:15 AM
1

The OP is a particular loser who gets off on people answering the same stupid question, day after day, for years running. I would say more about him, but I don't want to get banned over him. I just wonder how so many people haven't seen his schtick and don't know not to encourage it.
/r/seduction25/03/21 06:34 PM
1

I would think people have something better to do than to spam a subreddit. How pathetic and worthless do you have to be to do that?
/r/seduction25/03/21 06:22 PM
1

This nut has been doing this for years. Please ignore and report.
/r/seduction25/03/21 05:55 PM
1

Yes.
/r/seduction25/03/21 03:02 AM
2

This person has been spamming reddit for years with this stupidity. Reporting as spam.
/r/seduction25/03/21 02:35 AM
3

Getting reported as spam. Please don't respond.
/r/seduction24/03/21 06:03 PM
1

Never comment on a woman's weight. Even if she asks. I wish I could make you believe how many deaths started with a woman asking "Do these pants make my ass look fat?"
/r/seduction22/03/21 02:49 AM
1

This is not how you wind up winning. You win by pursuing your happiness, not by making someone else miserable, even though they did that to you. Take it from someone who's dealt with a compulsive liar nearly all my life: they are sociopaths, and simply not worth your time. Move on. There's someone out there who will care for you and respect you, but only if you care for and respect yourself. Respecting yourself is leaving a toxic past behind and not letting it affect who you are. Good luck.
/r/seduction17/03/21 01:17 PM
1

I have tried literally every available treatment for it- conventional and fringe. So I'm assuming that includes medical and health professionals, and you've been diagnosed by one of those? I'm no expert, but I believe a chemical balance causes depression, so if that imbalance isn't regulated, the issue isn't resolved. There are new things coming to market quite often and one of the newer drugs may work for you. Consider seeing a medical professional to discuss the possibilities.
/r/seduction13/03/21 06:17 AM
2

Give her a few days like you said. She might have gotten an unexpected visit from Aunt Flo and is a bit pissed and disappointed. It might be nothing you've done or not done.
/r/seduction05/03/21 01:41 AM
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If you have dreams of making it big in music get used to people not caring until you make it, and I mean nearly everybody. When people wonder why so many celebrities act like jerks, it's partly because the people who "love" them so much now wouldn't have given them the time of day when they were trying to get somewhere. Once you make it, try not to be like that. The guys who get the girls at any age are the guys who capture their trust and/or imaginations. Lots of girls imagine the losers guys a…
/r/seduction02/03/21 05:08 PM
1

I got you. Show no weakness and hold out until the soon-to-be bitter end. I'm sure she thinks about you as much as you're thinking about her, so it's just a matter of time.
/r/seduction01/03/21 03:35 PM
3

Im not taking a woman out if she wont talk to me (sic). Doesn't she know you're wonderful and irresistible? Keep waiting, this bold strategy is bound to pay off for someone else.
/r/seduction01/03/21 01:13 PM
1

Lots, but what's the difference if you don't have a script if you get caught? Aren't you still up the shitter?
/r/seduction01/03/21 12:12 AM
2

Sex is like yogurt. You don't know how good some of it is until you try it.
/r/seduction24/02/21 08:43 PM
1

He's confusing what he sees in those idiot YouTube videos with "game". I don't blame him because he's not the only one.
/r/seduction23/02/21 01:41 AM
2

Not true. In fact, it works better on European girls than it does here. Euro guys treat their women so shitty, an American guy is like a knight in shining armor.
/r/seduction23/02/21 01:39 AM
1

It's not like I'm waiting until marriage, but I think I have more stereotypically 'girly' feeling about it in wanting to wait more than a few dates before doing the deed. There's nothing "girly" about this, it's how you feel, and it's just as valid as a woman who feels like she wants to have a lively sex life without being tied to one guy. If that's your comfort zone, that cool. Be true to yourself.
/r/seduction22/02/21 07:53 PM
1

This is dead on. Misogyny is not the secret to getting women.
/r/seduction15/02/21 02:25 PM
6

This is something men do. Should he be ogling and salivating? No, that's disrespectful, but if he looks at another girl, so what? He's still walking away with you, and he'll likely never see her again. Be confident, and don't let ego or insecurity be a drag on you and your relationship.
/r/seduction22/01/21 01:53 PM
1

There's a very thin line between persuasion and coercion, and you have no idea what that is in someone else's mind. That's the danger.
/r/seduction22/01/21 01:35 PM
2

Another major flaw with this sub that I see is the obsession with political correctness and trying to censor anything that may not be "politically correct"- seduction by definition is not a politically correct subject- seduction has elements of deceit, manipulation, dishonesty and social engineering. Until people understand these basic concepts, we will never be able to have "higher level" discussions. If there's one worn out facile term that needs to be retired, it's "politically correct". Most…
/r/seduction22/01/21 01:29 PM
2

Please don't respond to this spamming asshole. He's been doing this for years. He's a pathetic short-dicked twit who's sick sexual feelings toward his prostitute mother have irreparably warped him. Please ignore and report.
/r/seduction06/01/21 05:18 PM
1

Don't reply to this fuckface spammer. He gets his kicks from you giving a serious answer to this stupid bullshit he's been doing for years. His short dick, and the fact his mother is a pretty much beat prostitute has left him with no self-value or good sense. Please report and ignore.
/r/seduction04/01/21 03:44 AM
1

You have to be comfortable with you and confident with who you are. There are men who like and prefer women with smaller breasts, so don't think you have to be some buxom bombshell to attract men. Men have different tastes, and we all aren't the same. Yes, you should dress in a way that's flattering, but never so it appears like you're desperate for attention. The best person you can ever be is yourself. Being an introvert doesn't mean you can't learn to have interesting conversations. Being shy…
/r/seduction04/01/21 12:13 AM
1

C'mon, guys. This ignorant asshole is back from the dead, so it's time to shut him down again. This poor son of a whore has proven he has nothing better to do than to spam reddit. Please don't reply to this asshat and report him every time he comes with this nonsense. And as far as his threats, the little bitch won't tell me where to send the ticket so I can get him over here for a face-to-face. Fuck this fuckface clown, and report him whenever his tired assed garbage shows up.
/r/seduction02/01/21 11:38 PM
3

The dickhead is back.
/r/seduction02/01/21 02:39 AM
1

Please don't respond to this dickhead spammer. He's been doing this for a couple of years. The poor fuckface has nothing else to do. Please block and report.
/r/seduction31/12/20 02:04 AM
4

I used to frequent this sub until I got to know the moderators here Account less than an hour old. Some people just try to hard.
/r/seduction29/12/20 01:37 PM
1

Of course all of this is good in its own way, but regarding Numbers 5 and 6, you're better off just listening and offering no advice. Let her vent, let her know your there for her, and let the conversation move on.
/r/seduction27/12/20 09:30 PM
1

I can 4 - 5 languages, If you're saying you speak other languages, did she speak any one of them? It's fairly common for Europeans on the continent to speak at least one language other than their native one.
/r/seduction19/12/20 11:22 PM
0

And a tie is like kissing your sister.
/r/seduction19/12/20 09:22 PM
5

I've written about this several times in this sub: as much a they're guided by the same thing as men, trust is the major factor in getting her. That's one of the reasons I try to talk down the borderline and outright misogyny that's somehow crept into being related to seduction.
/r/seduction19/12/20 02:31 AM
1

Change hands? You need to realize you and your feelings are very normal and common. Welcome to the human race.
/r/seduction18/12/20 02:37 AM
1

It could be a spoonful of diamond Could be a spoonful of gold Just a little spoon of your precious love Satisfy my soul Men lies about a little Some of 'em cries about a little Some of 'em dies about a little Everything fight about a spoonful That spoon, that spoon, that spoonful It could be a spoonful of coffee Could be a spoonful of tea But a little spoon of your precious love Good enough for me Men lies about that Some of 'em dies about that Some of 'em cries about that But everything fight a…
/r/seduction18/12/20 01:20 AM
1

First of all, words can't tell you how appalled I am at your ex-boyfriend's immature bodyshaming. I'm actually angry and disgusted. He deserves to be an ex, and good riddance. Over the years, I've gone out with women of all shapes and sizes, and the ones who were the most self-conscious were always concerned about their breast size. It's never bothered me, and there are millions of guys who feel the same, I guarantee it. I can understand about not talking to more than one guy that you might be i…
/r/seduction16/12/20 04:15 AM
1

I appreciate your compliment. Thank you.
/r/seduction15/12/20 09:19 PM
2

First of all, pet peeve of mine, "lose" has just one "o". "Loose" is a different word with a different meaning. Second, what you call "boring" someone else might call "solid" or "dependable". Someone suggested you be an all-out slut in the bedroom, which is a bit over-the-top. You should be GGG ("good, giving, and game"...good in bed," "giving of equal time and equal pleasure," and "game for anything—within reason", which still means being true to yourself. The thing I would say is you may be di…
/r/seduction15/12/20 02:30 PM
1

She's 21. If she needs lube, he's not doing it right.
/r/seduction14/12/20 08:37 PM
1

GTFO liberal snowflake How original. You and Ben are genii.
/r/seduction12/12/20 12:33 AM
1

Ben's tactics of debating(i.e. destroying her argument with facts and logic) Ben Shapino wouldn't know facts or logic if they bit him on his dick. Try emulating people who aren't smug assholes. Women tend to like men who aren't smug assholes.
/r/seduction11/12/20 10:24 PM
1

Send me your address, and I'll send a ticket for you. I hope your entire family and everyone you love gets violently murdered in front of you before you die. From homicide to genocide in just one post. Wow! You are quite the sicko. I can't wait to meet you.
/r/seduction08/12/20 03:44 PM
1

Thanks for contributing nothing to the conversation. You need to kill yourself immediately, you fucking degenerate nobody. FUCK YOU and the rest of this garbage community of inbred toothless twat morons like you that pollute it. Hopefully eventually your miserable life doesn't get any better as you watch your prime years melt away, and maybe you'll pick on the wrong person who has a bullet with your name written on it. Awww, somebody needs a fresh diaper. You're so childishly pathetic, it's funn…
/r/seduction08/12/20 03:30 PM
1

Really? I'm a loser, but you're the one who wants to die. You're the one crying like a baby because one's there to pet you up. You're the guy with the great stuff who says he's a failure? But I'm the loser? Gee, I guess I should jump off that building with you? Naw. I'll pass. You want to whine and pick fights, but you can't put on your big boy pants and look in the mirror and see someone you like. What did you come here for? To be indulged when you're in a position tons of people would envy? Yo…
/r/seduction08/12/20 03:17 PM
1

Charming enough to not want to be dead.
/r/seduction08/12/20 02:48 PM
1

Well, it was nicer than saying you're a pussy.
/r/seduction08/12/20 02:43 PM
1

I can't put into words how frustrated and angry online dating makes me. My god it is a lost cause. Literally no fucking hope. You would think just being normal, not being a complete creep or a loser, and having a passion would give you a leg up in today's dating climate, but that's still not good enough for women. Folks need to start putting online dating in the context it belongs. Just like someone can play thousands of hands of poker in a week, something that used to take months, online dating…
/r/seduction08/12/20 02:29 PM
2

It's great to have goals. Good luck with that. Other people are going to pet you up and feel sorry for you. I don't. What makes you so grand that everything should just fall into place because you want it? And if you don't get it, others should be pained enough about your silliness, immaturity, and inability to manage your emotions that they should give you encouragement? Here's a thought: grow up. One app is not the whole world. You're not the only guy in the world; women have millions of choic…
/r/seduction06/12/20 04:58 AM
3

Don't be too hard on yourself: "No risk it, no biscuit". You're no clown. You showed courage, and I'm sure you'll show resilience. Be proud of yourself for being brave enough to go after what you wanted. Good luck.
/r/seduction05/12/20 07:53 PM
1

You're better off seeing a mental health professional than trying to get any good information here. Good luck.
/r/seduction02/12/20 05:10 PM
2

You should consider seeking out a mental health professional. I doubt that this sub can offer any practical help for this kind of deep-seated problem.
/r/seduction01/12/20 07:35 PM
9

Q: How do you keep a dumbass in suspense? A: I'll tell you tomorrow. Stop playing games and focus on getting to the point, getting the girl, and not being clever. Trying to figure out what anybody "really" means can keep you constantly tied in knots. Use you mental energies on more productive things like reaching out to more girls. Good luck.
/r/seduction01/12/20 02:10 PM
2

Hey, don't let me ruin your fun. Have at it, and good luck.
/r/seduction30/11/20 12:59 AM
2

TLDR: Stay single until you find the right woman, even if you have to wait until you are 40 or 50 years old. The rest of it is infantile whining, but this sentence does have merit.
/r/seduction30/11/20 12:37 AM
1

Okay, so for the last week or two I've been hanging out with a Woman, we've been getting closer: ie hand-holding, hugging, cuddling, talking endearingly, etc. This isn't your SO, this is a girl you're seeing. The answer is you've already have lost a sense of proportion of your circumstance. Maybe she wants you to work out with her so she can see what you're working with since you seem so determined to hide it. Stop thinking she's offended by you being hot for her, and stop acting like a little b…
/r/seduction24/11/20 01:58 PM
2

r/sex
/r/seduction23/11/20 05:55 PM
11

When I see a girl without a mask, it tells me she's ready to meet her maker. Dead women don't get good guys. Wear the mask.
/r/seduction23/11/20 01:09 AM
1

Who's mom are you?
/r/seduction23/11/20 12:46 AM
1

Not this asshole again. Please don't respond o this small dicked troll.
/r/seduction23/11/20 12:16 AM
1

The way your crush acts is not unusual for a girl in this age group who likes you. Unfortunately, until she allows it, you can't go further. The issues come up when she sees another really likes you; she won't commit, but she doesn't want anyone else to have you. The thing is, as much as you like her, you can't just wait for her. Continue to approach and meet girls, and go on dates.
/r/seduction22/11/20 05:01 PM
3

You're in the situation that so many people who want to date or have sex put themselves into: your expectations are out of line with your circumstances. Despite what you might think or hear, most 16-year olds are not having sex. So let's put that to the side for now. As a couple of others have said, be yourself. And there's nothing wrong with having girls as friends. You can learn a lot about relating to girls through the friendships. A huge mistake I made in my teenage years was feeling I didn'…
/r/seduction22/11/20 04:43 PM
9

This girl was easily the most attractive girl that have already displayed interest in me, and the fact that I lost this opportunity is making me full of regret. It sounds like you put a lot more value on this circumstance, for whatever reason, so you have stronger feelings about it not working out. That's normal. Don't have regrets, even if you think you made a mistake. The thing the ghoster does is leaving you never knowing. There's a meanness to that. Still, she's entitled to her decision, and…
/r/seduction20/11/20 06:08 PM
6

Yes. They ghost because they're immature cowards. That is the bottom line. This also gives the ghoster a satisfaction normally associated with someone who's gotten away with a fast one. Adults don't fear conflict, and can adeptly de-escalate it. The bottom line is to never take getting ghosted personally. That's part of what the ghoster wants. They've given you the finger, and it would very pleasing to them if you reacted to that. Don't give them that control; they don't deserve it. Don't stew, …
/r/seduction20/11/20 05:59 PM
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Argument isn't conversation. Neither is witless provocation. Continue with your therapy. Good luck.
/r/seduction18/11/20 06:48 PM
1

Put down the pipe, son. You're entitled not to like or agree with the answer, but you did get an answer, and a coherent one. It seems like you got the first part about porn, but didn't read any further. Anyways, I guess it's all about you. I guess. Continue with your therapy. Good luck.
/r/seduction18/11/20 06:23 PM
1

I'm going to disagree with some previous advice you've gotten. If you don't come across as wanting her, she is going to lose interest. You've had two dates, what the hell are thinking about flirting for? Now is the time for you to be building physical intimacy. You should be touching her in non-sexual, non-creepy ways. Touching her shoulders, her hair, her arms. You should be putting your arm around her, or holding hands. Touching her is a big step toward getting more intimate. You say you're se…
/r/seduction18/11/20 01:56 AM
5

It's the same principle: a woman will not (willingly) have sex with a guy she doesn't trust. Can you get a woman to trust you enough to have sex after you've just met her? Damn skippy. Can you use some of the pulling techniques you read about? Yes, but the bottom line is the bottom line. Trust, in this case, doesn't mean you're not lying or gaming, it simply means she's comfortable that you're not some kind of guy who'll physically harm her. You can be "alpha" as hell, you can "sarge" to your he…
/r/seduction17/11/20 10:32 PM
7

It's not a contradiction. Porn is commerce and has nothing to do with most women's reality. What a woman displays on social media is her choice, and she has distance and, perhaps, anonymity. There are guys who ask questions like this and they'll wonder "Why does she dress like if she doesn't want guys looking at her?". Let's go ahead and get off the table how close that comes to "She was asking for it", and get to the point women are trying to make: it's her choice. She can dress the way she wan…
/r/seduction17/11/20 10:19 PM
14

Women loved to be desired, but they hate being objectified. Women are just as sexual as men, but they want to be valued for more than than sex. If she doesn't know you, want you, or trust you, she doesn't want that desire projected onto her; it's creepy. Project your energy into getting her to trust you.
/r/seduction17/11/20 08:34 PM
1

It isn't weird to not be seen as sexually attractive by women. On first glance? Maybe, but looks are not the only thing that makes a guy sexually attractive. There's something here that doesn't make sense, and your tone of resignation and defeatism are likely part of your issue, but that doesn't explain women just walking away from you when you go toward them. There's something else going on here, and you need to talk to someone who can give you some insight, or you need to tell the whole story …
/r/seduction14/11/20 02:59 PM
0

Too different could be dressing too formal, out of date, or just very different from others in your age group. Maybe your interests are more cerebral and you don't keep up with the current pop culture. Anything that might make you the odd duck. What in the world would creep out a woman just by coming toward them? As I said, you need to get some female feedback because part of the story is missing.
/r/seduction14/11/20 02:46 PM
3

After 100 failed approaches you have assess what you're doing, why it's not working, and switch gears. One thousand approaches and no success points to something that's seriously repellent. There's a very big thing that works in every guy's favor and it's like the "Free Space" on the Bingo card: most women like men. So what would make you the kind of man women don't seem to like? Are you clingy? Are you pushy? Are you creepy? Are you timid? Are you too different? Have you ever asked a woman abou…
/r/seduction14/11/20 02:23 PM
1

I might be making this up
/r/seduction13/11/20 09:24 PM
1

Sometimes you do all you can do, and still don't get the win. Let it go and move on.
/r/seduction12/11/20 09:32 PM
1

Did you lick it before the dick it?
/r/seduction12/11/20 09:10 PM
2

That's the first thing you need to know.
/r/seduction12/11/20 01:13 AM
1

I don't know what's wrong. Women love bitter guys who have a low opinion of them.
/r/seduction12/11/20 01:07 AM
2

There's no doubt this can be effective on both sexes, but unfortunately can be a strong weapon in the arsenal of those who know how to do it well. I don't like the concept because it's can easily spiral into a type of abuse many men can feel comfortable with. Lots of guys who do this wind up never turning it off, especially if they have a bit of success. I continue to argue against tactics that are misogynist that have somehow part of "seduction".
/r/seduction11/11/20 03:21 AM
3

Most of us, whether we want to admit it or not, are settling for a subset of women: the subset of women who want us. It bigger for some than for others, but nobody gets every woman they want.
/r/seduction11/11/20 02:52 AM
1

Every woman isn't a size queen despite what so many men may think. There are guys with massive dicks who are selfish and inadequate when it comes to sex. Most women would trade for a guy your size in a heartbeat if she knew he was going to take time and make the effort to satisfy her. As far as I know, you're just going to have to work with what you have. You can fuck up your head about something most women aren't going to care about, or come to terms with the fact your reality isn't as bad as y…
/r/seduction11/11/20 02:50 AM
1

Have confidence in yourself. If a girl want to date around, that's her choice, and being a jealous jerk won't help you. Until she's your girl, it's up to you to keep acting like she's not the only girl in the world. Stop building a mental life around you guys as a couple. Continue to meet and talk with other women. Don't flaunt it. Until there's a commitment, you need to keep your options open. If you feel good about yourself, there's no reason to be insecure. Learn to feel good about yourself. …
/r/seduction10/11/20 07:22 PM
1

"Do you want to go out?"
/r/seduction10/11/20 06:58 PM
193

Lots of really good advice in here so far. Here's mine: Know that women like sex just as much as men. If she trusts you, she'll have sex with you. If you seems like a trustworthy good dude, you're 70 percent there.
/r/seduction08/11/20 09:30 PM
0

Didn't work for Joe Namath, and he's sexier than you.
/r/seduction08/11/20 09:07 PM
1

It's true: life isn't fair.
/r/seduction07/11/20 05:09 AM
6

Absolutely. Talk to as many girls as you can, but don't always be in player mode. But when you want to be, go for it. Be confident. Good luck.
/r/seduction04/11/20 11:35 PM
-3

This is amateurish. Up your game, and maybe I'll play. Good luck.
/r/seduction04/11/20 03:24 PM
7

This is along the lines of what I try to share here: women are not the enemy. So much of what purports to be "seduction" is misogyny and game playing. Part of it might be this latter day conditioning of not wanting to offend women by calling them "weaker", but almost every woman lives at least part of her day feeling physically vulnerable, and there's a stress to that men will never understand. Anyone can feel free to correct me if they feel I'm wrong, but I always counsel that the starting poin…
/r/seduction04/11/20 12:55 AM
2

Yes. I keep telling women we are oblivious to signals and hints. I know there's a vulnerability attached to it, but if you want a guy, let him know.
/r/seduction01/11/20 06:39 PM
1

There's a word for you: trick. There are no "signals"; you're a payday. You will never mean anything to this woman except you're a sucker who'll pay to sniff her panties. Nothing wrong with that, if that's what you want, but if you think something meaningful is coming out of this, have you ever thought how much money you could make off of a bridge? If you just charged every car that wants to cross a dollar, you'd be rich in no time. And I happen to know where and how you can get one. Let me know…
/r/seduction26/10/20 02:02 AM
1

You can do it even older than that if the 20-year old is willing.
/r/seduction22/10/20 08:29 PM
1

But, maybe you do know how to reach that guy. If so, create a post on this sub that gets people to take action. If you can do that, it would mean you know how to connect with the guy we're talking about. Let me make this clear: it's not my job to get anyone to take action. The PUAs you refer to charge a lot of money to tell guys to way to get women is to treat them like shit. And when it doesn't work, the guys wonder what went wrong. You're asking me to do something I can't do, but other people …
/r/seduction20/10/20 11:54 PM
1

My question to you is, in your experience, how do your reach a guy conditioned by the society to think he must earn women's interest? I reach him by telling him we're all conditioned to do all types of things, but we can change. The average 18-year old has no interest in killing anyone, but the Marine Corp will take him, and in a short span of time, make him quite capable of killing, and willing to do so. And once he leaves that environment, he has to condition himself, if he's been in combat, t…
/r/seduction20/10/20 11:24 PM
2

guys go out and see a guy in tattered jeans and dirty shoes kissing a girl they've worked so many years to impress "Many years", and she had no idea you wanted to be her man? The first step is to manage fear, and I know that's not easy. I'll tell anyone willing to listen that embarrassment has never killed. Rejection has never killed. Disappointment has never killed. Those things are temporary. Resentment and bitterness are lasting and do you real harm. No matter how good a guy you are, women ow…
/r/seduction20/10/20 08:19 PM
3

There could be something to that. I think it's easier for people like this to miss the subtle social cues others easily pick up on. Because these individuals tended to do well in school, and be ostracized, they miss out on learning these cues at a younger age. The thing to remember is men and women want the same things when it comes to sex and relationships. For people of this stripe it's often not knowing how to ask for what it is they want.
/r/seduction20/10/20 05:56 PM
1

Yes, it possible. Like anything else that's hard, it takes commitment.
/r/seduction14/10/20 01:57 PM
2

I don't even know how to answer a question like this without being unpleasant. You write a whole post putting yourself down and then wonder why a girl doesn't like you enough to be your girlfriend. YOU don't even like YOU. Why should anyone else? What are you offering except a bunch of self-pity, self-loathing, and creepiness. Why be jealous of others? They're no better than you. Everyone is afraid of something. Everyone has some degree of self-doubt. Everyone who's sane has some degree of fear.…
/r/seduction13/10/20 04:26 PM
1

Probably the wrong sub, but who knows?
/r/seduction13/10/20 02:56 PM
2

"Religious"? She's going to hump you for Jesus?
/r/seduction12/10/20 11:31 PM
2

You have to go at your own pace, but don't ever be afraid of being embarrassed. Embarrassment never killed anybody. It's okay to be scared, but don't let fear stop you from taking chances, especially when it comes to girls. It doesn't matter what anyone else thinks, what matters is you had enough confidence to put yourself forward to get what you want. Good luck.
/r/seduction12/10/20 06:58 PM
2

I hope you're saying that as a woman.
/r/seduction12/10/20 03:09 PM
1

But i feel like it would be so awkward. Id have to take off my backpack, then unbutton my coat and then put it on her. That makes it even cooler. You're making an effort and a sacrifice for her comfort. If guys get on the same bus, let her wear it for the ride. You can get it from her when she's getting off, or if you guys are going to the same place, when you get there. There's something else that goes on with this that I don't want to get into, but it's a good thing for you. And when say put i…
/r/seduction11/10/20 11:06 PM
1

If you have on a jacket, take it off and put it on her. Putting an arm around her might bit a bit too bold depending on how long you've known each other.
/r/seduction11/10/20 10:40 PM
1

If she unfolds it, she loses the gift. Why would she unfold it?
/r/seduction08/10/20 06:55 PM
15

Real sex isn't like porn; most women don't want to be kissed a couple of times and then jackhammered like asphalt. Focus on pleasing her. Take your time. Lots of foreplay. Lots of gentle exploration. Build up the passion. Sexual seduction is about doing those things. No special techniques. No exotic positions. It's mostly about taking time.
/r/seduction06/10/20 04:23 PM
5

Hopefully some Russian women won't take offense and will answer you.
/r/seduction05/10/20 02:28 AM
0

If you use your legs, it's not hard at all.
/r/seduction02/10/20 01:26 AM
7

Is it normal to feel just pure rage when hearing about ppls sex lives? No, it's not. It's an indication of immaturity (at best) or a serious personality/mental disorder (at worse). People feel the vibes you give off and some people, once they know something gets under your skin, make a job out of doing it. Women are very tuned in to emotions, and the vibe you give off has to be concerning. Even your user name indicates your emotional desperation. You have to change that, and you have change your…
/r/seduction30/09/20 07:59 PM
1

She likes to show off.
/r/seduction29/09/20 02:06 AM
1

You haven't heard from her? Has she heard from you? She said she was interested, what are you waiting for? Maybe she's checking out your snap to see what's going on in your life since she hasn't heard from you. What are you expecting to hear from her? You say you need to move on. Move on from what? Nothing's happened. Sometimes this kind of stuff get too clever by half. You got an opening; when do you start getting to work? Stop playing games and go for it. Good luck.
/r/seduction28/09/20 02:21 AM
2

The same things that make a man have sex. No one can confirm for you something you should feel about yourself. There are literally millions of women in this country and you're willing to kill yourself because you don't think you have the capacity to persuade people predisposed to having sex to have sex? Your first step is to stop being such a ridiculous person. Grow up and learn to take control of your life. You don't get participation trophies just for living. You're competing, so work on being…
/r/seduction25/09/20 12:42 PM
1

I appreciate this comment as more mature than your other one, but keep in mind it can be hard to take you seriously when you misspell "whole" twice. But what you say here is thoughtful.
/r/seduction24/09/20 03:48 AM
1

Maybe he's not in love with you. Love is not about a length of time, it's about how someone feels. You can tell him how you feel. My advice in any matter is don't ask questions if you can't handle the answers. Good luck.
/r/seduction24/09/20 03:45 AM
9

She wants to crush you like a bug.
/r/seduction23/09/20 05:22 PM
1

I guess you think what's supposed to happen here is a bunch of people tell you how life is worth living, you're so young, and you haven't given yourself a chance to live. You've already said that won't do any good, so why are you writing this? And why would any girl want to be around a guy who, when he doesn't get his way, wants to kill himself? That has to be scary for her. All you care about is what you want. You don't even care about yourself, you just care about what you don't have. If you d…
/r/seduction21/09/20 04:52 PM
3

It stings, but it doesn't kill. People in high reward careers constantly face rejection. Those who persevere reap the rewards. Shake if off and continue on. Good luck.
/r/seduction19/09/20 09:31 PM
14

Another common piece of advice presented on this sub is "Don't listen to women when it comes to getting women". So, yes, some of the advice is absurd, and it tends to objectify and cast women almost as the enemy. However, the advice about approaching as many as possible is not bad advice, but we always need to keep in mind we're all human beings, and are looking for similar things.
/r/seduction19/09/20 07:58 PM
1

Mostly down deep, proxy.
/r/seduction18/09/20 03:29 PM
1

hello joe biden, I am a russian man who lives over 6000 miles away from you and knows nothing of your politics or achievements Yeah, right. This is straight from the GRU troll farm (I guess you don't know about that either). All that text just to serve up this piece of propaganda. Nice job. Vlad must be very proud.
/r/seduction18/09/20 03:09 PM
2

Dude, choke that chicken. Buff the old bishop. Pound the old pud.
/r/seduction16/09/20 08:18 PM
2

I'm also one of those guys who doesn't care for lingerie but I wouldn't be spitting on your efforts because it appears to be very meaningful for you. I love seeing a woman in a camisole or even one of my shirts. For some reason, that does it for me more than lingerie. Is there anything I can do to get him out of his head? Probably not. To be honest, he doesn't sound like much of a partner. He's actually ignoring you. That's not being dominant, that's being an asshole. You're expending a lot of e…
/r/seduction16/09/20 03:11 AM
1

How old are you?
/r/seduction15/09/20 01:49 AM
3

Just be yourself. If she wants to know, she'll ask. And if she asked, tell her you don't kiss and tell. That's being grown up.
/r/seduction15/09/20 01:36 AM
1

If you're trying to grow up start keeping certain things to yourself. One girl isn't impressed that another girl gave you a hummer and you talking about it makes you come across as an immature jerk who will kiss and tell. Girls don't like that.
/r/seduction15/09/20 01:29 AM
1

How would they know? Why would you share? Grow up.
/r/seduction15/09/20 01:24 AM
1

Someone here said pickup lines are bullshit. Not true. Bad pickup lines are bullshit. Women do like wit and cleverness, but most people aren't witty or clever. And a line is great, but you have to be able to follow it up. But if you really want a line, just go up to her, look straight into her eyes and say "Excuse me. I'm not really clever, but I know what I want, and I want to meet you". Shows seriousness, a bit of vulnerability, confidence without being over the top, and you're not straying ou…
/r/seduction15/09/20 12:37 AM
2

"Wow, you're reading Dickens?" Phrasing.
/r/seduction15/09/20 12:25 AM
1

Yes. And as you've learned, that's no guarantee things will work out. So you have to move on.
/r/seduction14/09/20 04:24 PM
4

I agree with what you're saying, but there's still a strong social construct that a woman should never be seen to be "easy". Many women have no idea that most men are just not tuned into subtlety, or as brave or patient as they think. I believe many women don't approach men because they don't want to be rejected. Yeah; the very same reason why so many men don't approach. In fact, it's not really about rejection so much as humiliation, but humiliation never killed anyone who could take it. What d…
/r/seduction14/09/20 12:37 AM
1

What did I do wrong and is there still any way to fix it? Who knows, and probably not. Very likely the sex was very unsatisfying for her. I don't care to know the details, but I would guess something happened too fast, too rough, and then too quickly, and there was ultimately no payoff for her. She also may have felt you have no concern about that, and you didn't display any creativity or variety that could have helped the situation. Whatever happened, she gave you an opportunity and she wasn't …
/r/seduction13/09/20 04:54 PM
1

Some people just aren't into texting or being tethered to their phones 24/7. Give her some space and maybe make a call.
/r/seduction13/09/20 05:48 AM
1

I want her to feel comfortable and not put pressure on her to have sex with me because I genuinely think I like this girl. If this is where you're coming from, an afternoon date is perfect. For some reason there's less of a notion of a daytime date leading to sex, so there's less pressure for her. It's also a way to show some creativity. Almost nothing crushes it like a little picnic, and you don't have to do anything fancy. Since it's early days, don't do the food prep. Buy a couple of salads, …
/r/seduction12/09/20 10:34 PM
5

Anyway most women are not as bold as you and will rather give out subtle hints And if there's one thing men don't get, it's subtlety.
/r/seduction12/09/20 07:36 PM
1

Plus Tomi looked fine before plastic surgery, assuming she actually had it. I asked the person to research the different between how those two mofos were as ugly on the outside at one time as they are on the inside. Go jerk yourself somewhere else.
/r/seduction09/09/20 11:38 AM
1

Do you want to have sex every day? That can be a tough pace to maintain, and it can be difficult to find that kind of sexual compatibility. It can be like having ice cream every day: it stops being a treat and becomes a routine.
/r/seduction08/09/20 05:08 PM
1

I'm a very well-off guy, great career, financially secure, have my own apartment, car, etc. I know you didn't ask for advice, but go the interwebs and see what some famous people looked like pre-plastic surgery -- Tomi Lahren comes to mind, as well as her fellow bigot David Duke. If you've got the money, and you think it's just looks, make the investment.
/r/seduction08/09/20 12:22 PM
1

You need to pull back a little, not so she'll miss you, but because you're coming on too damn strong. You're starting to make her think you feel like she's nothing but a pussy on a pair of legs. If she has feelings for you (and you for her) at least let her know you think of her as more than a sex toy. Otherwise, why should she be interested? She's there, and you're not, and you're not even taking the opportunity to build on keeping her attracted to you. I don't think you have to do much of anyt…
/r/seduction02/09/20 06:51 PM
2

He probably gets banned for serially submitting this tripe as if it's interesting.
/r/seduction02/09/20 12:24 AM
1

PATH
/r/seduction27/08/20 12:39 AM
2

Usually I would lean against approaching a woman at her job like this, but you guys seems to have a bit of rapport and familiarity. You can even frame an invite in a humorous way: "I bet you'd hate it if I wanted to take you out for coffee". If she laughs, and says something like "no", the door is wide open. She probably doesn't have time to chat, so give her a note with your number. Good luck.
/r/seduction24/08/20 03:57 PM
1

Message her once in a while. Let her know you're thinking of her. If you hear back, ask how's she doing, and if she feels good enough about it, you'd like to see her. If she flakes, then you know for sure to move on.
/r/seduction24/08/20 02:26 PM
2

I'm afraid I'll lose her if I don't text for a long time. You can't lose what you don't have. It's really up to her at this point. It sounds like she's not over her old bf, and there's nothing you can do about that. Keep your options open, and that includes meeting other girls. If she's into you, she'll make the effort. Stay in contact, but don't press her. Good luck.
/r/seduction24/08/20 01:07 PM
1

I'm insecure and, even if that sounds edgy, I hate most of who I am. In the face of this comment, I really can't be moved to say any more than I've already said. Good luck.
/r/seduction24/08/20 12:46 PM
0

Why should we have to constantly keep moving forward, trying to be the best you can be, etc. Can't we just enjoy life as it is ? I don't have much ambition, I'm just looking out for any potential problem and doing my best to avoid it, and I'm fine with it. And that's fine. How's that working out for you? Whether it's a girlfriend, a job, or anything else of value, what you get is commensurate with the effort you put into gaining it. Low effort equals low returns.
/r/seduction24/08/20 12:33 PM
42

Keep your feet on the ground. That will help. Good luck.
/r/seduction23/08/20 08:54 PM
4

I'll be the one to break it to you: you're normal. You're excited about things that should excite you. You're disappointed by things that should disappoint you. That fact that the feelings are strong? There's nothing wrong with that. As long as you continue to manage them and not let them overwhelm you, you're doing just fine. What you have to be careful about is putting too much emphasis on being romantically involved. Women can sense when you want that too much, and it makes them apprehensive.…
/r/seduction23/08/20 07:04 PM
2

It’s not only illegal to be anything but straight but also it’s a taboo topic. It would be easy to tell someone to be brave and take a chance from half a world away. I'm telling you the opposite. I don't know where you are, but if you're going to risk your freedom or your life, you need to be sure it's for someone who feels the same as you. If you're not sure, don't do it. As to not being sure about your sexuality, I don't know how that works. Either you're sexually attracted to the same sex, or…
/r/seduction23/08/20 05:07 PM
3

Everybody's different in term of what they're willing to do sexually. I think it's fair if a guy not doing oral is a dealbreaker for a woman. I wouldn't want to be with a woman who refuses to perform BJs. I can't speak for others, but I don't find anything gross about vaginas. I like women, and I like sex. Part of the fun part of sex is pleasing your partner. I've had gay friends, but, as with my straight friends, we've never discussed their sex lives.
/r/seduction20/08/20 04:47 PM
2

It sounds like you get highly invested in girls you either don't know, or barely know. Women are very wary of guys who develop feelings very, very fast. It's a huge red flag. Why do you become attached so quickly? It can come across as desperate and needy, and even obsessive. You have to come to terms with the fact that rejection is part of the deal. It stings, and it should only sting. If it makes you feel emotionally crushed, you need to learn how to get these things into perspective, even if …
/r/seduction20/08/20 02:22 PM
2

I guess the whole point of this post is does this intellectual need help me or hurt me with women and how I can use my intellectual nature to improve myself with women. My advice to anyone is to be true to yourself. Some people aren't good at small talk, or aren't interested in the latest reality show or semi-talented band. There's nothing wrong with that, but most people aren't interested in intellectual pursuits. That can hurt you simply because your dating pool is smaller, but you should embr…
/r/seduction20/08/20 01:36 PM
1

This painful, and unfortunately not new. I'm not going to share any of my sad stories, but some of them sting to this day. Parents tend to be highly protective of their daughters, and putting aside things like religion and race, some feel the best way to protect them is to keep boys away. Since these girls depend on their parents to take care of them, going against them is a big problem, and is unlikely to happen. The only thing you can really do is to move on and hopefully you'll find someone w…
/r/seduction20/08/20 01:14 PM
2

What I would have done was try to get to know them a little better and make it seem like I was interested in more than sex. Women like and want sex as much as guys, but, unless they say so, most of them aren't willing to move as fast you seemed to have wanted. Even if they were looking for a hookup, they would want to have a chance to figure out whether or not you're some kind of creep or weirdo. You're going to have to slow it down. Good luck.
/r/seduction18/08/20 10:15 PM
1

I sent both of em a shirtless pic, with my abs chiseled, with the caption 'wanna have steamy car sex?" Were you too shy to send a dick pic? I'm going to take your question at face value. You moved too fast. What made you think these women were down for for "car sex" with some rando? And sex in a car is fairly uncomfortable, and not something most women look forward to. How old are you anyway?
/r/seduction18/08/20 09:16 PM
2

I'm sure there's a point to posting this. What the hell is it?
/r/seduction16/08/20 08:40 PM
0

Would a man think women knew more about men than men do?
/r/seduction16/08/20 04:29 PM
1

i mean ugly people still fuck right? New ugly people have to come from somewhere. Being serious, to give you an example of what I mean, there's a professional golfer name Jim Furyk who's nobody's version of a movie star, but he met his gorgeous wife long before he was successful. His face isn't conventionally handsome, but it's full of character. The expressions of strength, gentleness, humor, and honesty come straight through. I think your face has that similar quality which it's why it importa…
/r/seduction16/08/20 04:08 PM
2

plus my cock is only 6" and girls don't seem to be impressed with anything under 8" anymore because they're used to seeing BBC and shit in porn The biggest thing wrong with you is you have a distorted view of reality. If height and good looks were all that turned women on most of us would be SOL. Your face is full of character, but the scruffy beard isn't helping. You have to stop with the self-pity; it comes through in the same way confidence does. Focus on being well-groomed. Smell nice. Smile…
/r/seduction16/08/20 01:56 PM
4

Trust your instincts. If losing your virginity isn't something you're ready for, don't date a guy who's interested in sex. Young guys, and I have been one, will say anything for sex. Old guys will say anything for sex. They will promise to kill their moms if you have sex. If a guy has expressed he's interested in sex, and only sex, and you're not ready for it, don't date him. Also, there really isn't much a 17-year old can teach you other than sex can be really quick.
/r/seduction15/08/20 10:30 PM
1

There's just something about skating and that phallic symbol board.
/r/seduction15/08/20 09:25 PM
2

Btw, that goes for women too, and they tend to have a lot more options.
/r/seduction15/08/20 02:54 PM
1

Online dating is all about numbers and the ROI tends to be low for most. You're better off approaching women in real life. That is also a numbers game, but you're getting immediate feedback which allows you to make adjustments. If you simply want to get a hummer, a pro is certainly an option, and you're guaranteed (I guess) to get what you want. If you go this route you should still wear a condom. Good luck.
/r/seduction14/08/20 01:18 PM
6

Please don't judge me Judge you? We don't even know you. We'll be just fine. Don't be so tough on yourself. What happened to you could happen to any man. Put it behind you and move on.
/r/seduction07/08/20 02:32 AM
6

I have one piece of advice for you: grow up.
/r/seduction05/08/20 02:27 PM
2

Don't reply to this asshole spammer. Ignore. Report.
/r/seduction05/08/20 12:36 PM
3

Do not respond to this asshole spammer who's been running with this nonsense for maybe a couple of years. This useless piece of vermin thinks your serious replies are funny. He's a deranged incel who has serious mental conflicts about his erotic attraction to his mom, who happens to be a prostitute. This is part of his sexual dysfunction. Please ignore and report.
/r/seduction04/08/20 01:48 PM
1

Don't play this idiot spammers game. Ignore and report this wanker twit and son of a whore.
/r/seduction27/07/20 12:04 PM
1

I get it, but if they have no better strategies and tools for dealing with intrusions, it's going to bite them in the ass in a more serious way someday.
/r/seduction26/07/20 11:27 PM
1

Please don't reply to this asshole spammer who thinks your serious replies are funny. The real joke is reddit, which threatens "permanent bans" but this dickhead pops in with this infantile garbage for two years. He's an incel wanker with no life and the acute psychological baggage of being sexually attracted to his prostitute mother, who is his sole means of financial and emotional support. Please report and block.
/r/seduction26/07/20 09:31 PM
0

"I'd love to continue this conversation. Would you like to go to my place?"
/r/seduction26/07/20 07:40 PM
4

The poster I replied to called him "boring". If you're content with his style of "boring", that's all that matters. Good luck.
/r/seduction26/07/20 04:25 PM
4

Maybe she enough of a whole person that she's not needy. She can be with someone and not rely on him to raise her moods, or for her self-esteem and validation. Maybe he's "boring", but it's the type of "boring" she likes. YMMV. Stop hating.
/r/seduction26/07/20 04:15 PM
1

He just a dumbass with no friends and a bad home life. He's been doing this for at least a couple of years, and, from what I understand, does it in other subs.
/r/seduction26/07/20 04:09 PM
1

Don't respond to this asshole spammer. He thinks it's funny you give serious replies to him inane inquiries. He's an ignorant incel fuck who has nothing better to do. Other than fantasizing about having sex with his whore mom, this is his only hobby. Ignore and report.
/r/seduction26/07/20 03:23 AM
5

It depends on who you're talking to. The issue Indians have when talking with Westerners is they speak too fast. I think a lot of American women like Australian and South African accents the same way Australian women like American accents.
/r/seduction25/07/20 11:09 PM
9

In my experience, it's been the opposite. Lots of people are turned on by accents.
/r/seduction25/07/20 10:57 PM
2

It's not worth taking the chance. There is no excuse any court in this country will accept for anyone having nude photos of an underaged person. Since you will have no legal defense, if they are found and reported, you will be convicted of a crime. It's harsh, but the law is an ass.
/r/seduction21/07/20 11:40 AM
1

The allusion to a "self-cleaning oven" is a good one, and I hope more women follow the advice in this article. A woman's natural scent is definitely a turn on, and that natural scent, in a healthy vagina, is not very pronounced. If your vagina smells like Tomi Lahren's, then you definitely have a problem.
/r/seduction20/07/20 04:23 PM
1

You're an asshole.
/r/seduction16/07/20 12:28 PM
1

Please don't reply to this asshole spammer. He's been doing this for years: submitting these ridiculous questions and photos. He apparently thinks getting answers is funny. This ignorant fuckface disappeared for a while, but it now back because he still hasn't been able to find a life. He's a mentally addled incel and a putz. And his mom is a whore.
/r/seduction16/07/20 12:27 PM
2

This asshole is back? I thought his mom had given him the clap, and the Nation Health was too busy with COVID to help him.
/r/seduction16/07/20 02:08 AM
1

It did.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:32 PM
1

I guess it went way over your head.
/r/seduction14/07/20 04:54 PM
1

If you don't feel you're ready to settle down, don't. And the sex tapering off isn't uncommon, but you need to keep in mind that the quality of the sex is probably more important to her than the quantity.
/r/seduction14/07/20 12:11 PM
0

No risque, no reward.
/r/seduction13/07/20 07:27 PM
2

What do you want? If you're still interested in her, answer the questions. If not, just be a good guy and let her down gently. Ghosting people is immature.
/r/seduction09/07/20 05:33 PM
2

"I don't know what that means".
/r/seduction04/07/20 05:05 PM
1

Being good looking is an advantage, but it's not the be all/end all, as can be easily told from the many times you'll see an incredibly attractive woman with a guy Quasimodo calls ugly. Confidence and character will often prevail over looks. Having the ability to capture a woman's imagination is a big part of keeping her interested. Can you get her in a frame where she sees herself having fun with you? Dancing with you? On a sunny beach with you massaging sunblock on her shoulders and back? Are …
/r/seduction02/07/20 06:43 PM
1

Three months later? I don't care.
/r/seduction01/07/20 12:43 AM
4

Codpiece.
/r/seduction24/06/20 11:46 PM
2

What you do is scam. Don't get mad for getting called on it, tits on a bull.
/r/seduction24/06/20 02:46 AM
1

I would advise anyone event thinking about making a call: DON'T! Not just because payment has to come before the call (pig, meet my friend, poke), but there's something very telling in this post that gives away the game. Let's be careful out there.
/r/seduction24/06/20 02:42 AM
2

Some people have an almost musical voice. Some woman have these lower range, breathy voices. Accents are sexy too.
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:05 AM
2

Just pack it in then. You sound like a quitter, so quit. Stop asking for advice and then shitting on it. You're wasting people's time.
/r/seduction10/06/20 12:37 PM
27

"Peak" =/= "Peek".
/r/seduction07/06/20 02:22 PM
2

Maybe she wants you to dominate her? Maybe it's her giving you a hint about her kink?
/r/seduction07/06/20 03:34 AM
8

If that's all she means to you, what's the difference?
/r/seduction26/05/20 02:41 AM
3

Atlanta is definitely a young person's city with a lot of variety and a huge tech footprint. The drawbacks are a huge increase in cost-of-living and brutal traffic coupled with a pathetic mass transit system.
/r/seduction22/05/20 02:57 PM
2

Please don't reply to this asshole spammer. He thinks serious replies to his repeated posted inanity is somehow amusing. I used to feel sad for him because of his warped home life and his depression over having a mom who's a prostitute, his disturbing erotic attraction to her, and his micropenis, but it's difficult to be patient with a sick individual who resists getting help for hie mental illnesses. While he can't grow a bigger penis, he could get help for his other afflictions, but he'd rathe…
/r/seduction22/05/20 01:54 AM
1

Please don't reply to this spammer asshole.
/r/seduction21/05/20 07:28 PM
1

I felt deep inside that maybe I led him on and shouldn't have done what I did although I'm still mad at his behavior. And there's your answer. Even is a guy never says he's interested in you, there's a good chance he may be, and this guy told you way up front. You played him, straight and simple (went on dates; met his parents(?!?)). You don't sound like you're a particularly naive person. Maybe you felt like somebody needed to pay for what happened between you and your ex, and you kicked this g…
/r/seduction21/05/20 07:23 PM
4

Don't reply to this jackass. He posts this kind of crap several times a day, day after because I thinks serious replies are funny. He's an unmitigated asshole. A sphincter. A bunghole. A rectum. And his mom is a low grade prostitute.
/r/seduction20/05/20 03:17 AM
1

Just hit "report". It's boring. It's annoying, but he's an asshole, so you get what assholes do. And his mom is a prostitute.
/r/seduction19/05/20 08:53 PM
2

Don't answer this pathetic twit. He thinks your serious answers are funny, so he posts this tripe endlessly while his mom is out turning tricks to keep his ugly fat ass fed. He's a bum, a momma boy, and a idiot mope. Ignore and report.
/r/seduction19/05/20 12:25 AM
1

Mom's out peddling the rations, so Junior jumps on the Interwebs. This poor mentally defective twit is so starved for attention, he publishes this tripe thinking it's funny. When you have a sub-60 IQ, this type of thing is amusing, but to everyone else, it's the epitome of stupid dumbfuckery, but that doesn't stop our kid because there has to be some huckleberry that will give him the serious answer he craves for his brain addled chuckles. All because he can't deal with his mom being a whore and…
/r/seduction18/05/20 10:47 PM
1

I'm not even going to go through the thing about this being an asshole troll and how when his mom leaves him alone to go out selling her snatch, he takes the time to get on the computer to try to get serious answers to his juvenile, repetitive, funny to no one, one-trick (I probably shouldn't have used that word, considering) dumbass query. He's pathetic. He's mentally defective, but don't indulge him. Ignore him. Report him. Thank you.
/r/seduction18/05/20 02:26 AM
7

Other than the divorce papers?
/r/seduction18/05/20 02:18 AM
1

This is the same asshole spammer who posts this idiocy because he thinks that fact you give him serious answers is funny, or cute. He's mentally disturbed and socially stunted because he can't deal with the fact his mom is a streetwalker, and he's ashamed of that and his warped erotic feelings about her as his wanks. A sad case. Please ignore and report.
/r/seduction16/05/20 01:28 AM
2

You don't have to say anything. Put his arm around you, snuggle in close. There's nothing wrong with being nervous. And one thing you need to know and remember: never count on a man picking up on hints.
/r/seduction14/05/20 12:33 PM
2

If you're sitting next to him, take his arm and wrap it around you.
/r/seduction14/05/20 12:25 PM
2

Works every time.
/r/seduction13/05/20 12:27 AM
1

This is the same asshole spammer. Mom's out hooking again. Ignore. Report.
/r/seduction13/05/20 12:10 AM
1

Not with many guys. And by that, I mean me. Don't undersell yourself. I'm sure you're just fine. Good luck.
/r/seduction11/05/20 06:54 PM
1

By definition, most people are average. As a guy, I wish I could get away with wearing makeup, but being comfortable with who you are is more important.
/r/seduction11/05/20 06:53 PM
1

There's a lot of paralysis through analysis in here. First of all, start getting comfortable with the truth. You may have lucked out because asking to be a sub in a BDSM relationship without having ever been in one, perhaps not knowing how to set and enforce limits, could have left you in a very difficult, if not dangerous, position. Don't do that to yourself. Be honest with yourself. There's nothing wrong with being nervous or even anxious about the beginning of a possible relationship. It's ex…
/r/seduction11/05/20 12:36 PM
2

And shows how much of a joke it is that reddit can ban anybody. I guess it basically works on the honor system.
/r/seduction11/05/20 03:34 AM
3

Report and ignore this asshole spammer.
/r/seduction11/05/20 03:08 AM
3

Please ignore this asshole spammer. While his mom is out getting rooted for coin, he's stays out home being stupid on the computer. He thinks your serious replies are funny. He has nothing better to do with his limited cognitive abilities, so he does this dumb shit day after day (hour after hour sometimes) because his short dick leaves him no chance at sexual acceptance from anything like a real person. He can't even save up enough money to screw his mom. And she's cheap. Report and ignore.
/r/seduction11/05/20 02:23 AM
2

Please don't indulge this asshole spammer. He thinks your serious replies are a joke. He's a pathetic piece of shit who thinks this is clever. It's his way of coping with his mom being a whore who can't bring herself to throw his bum ass out, so continues to sell her body to keep him at home. Please ignore and report this idiot piece of shit.
/r/seduction10/05/20 11:49 PM
3

Mum is out walking the streets again, so this asshole doofus gets to sneak on the computer to engage in his juvenile foolishness. His pea brain thinks your serious replies are funny. He's a mentally stunted freak who'll never be whole, and never appreciate the sacrifice of a mom who gets her mouth, asshole, and coochie worn out trying to keep a roof over his lamebrained head. Please report and ignore.
/r/seduction10/05/20 08:20 PM
1

This asshole spammer is left at home alone again while mom is out being the town pump. He thinks serious answers to his idiotic spamming is funny. He's a short-dicked mentally challenge moron. Please ignore/report. Don't play along.
/r/seduction08/05/20 11:59 AM
4

The easy thing to say is get a new boyfriend, but we know there are complications to that, but you're trying to make an uninterested horse drink water. It doesn't work (see r/deadbedrooms). If you've tried everything you can think of, take the hint. It's time to move on. Good luck.
/r/seduction07/05/20 12:23 PM
2

This asshole spammer is home alone again. While his mom is a trollop walking the streets to keep him in Hot Pockets and chips, he gets on the computer and sends out this stupidity because, well, he's fucking stupid. He thinks serious replies are funny and he thinks he's making a joke of you. Don't play along. Report. Ignore.
/r/seduction07/05/20 11:54 AM
3

If you know "Fast and Furious" isn't real then you should know the same thing about porn.
/r/seduction07/05/20 03:25 AM
2

First of all, how did you find out it's a lie? Second, do you think she was a toy sitting on a shelf in cellophane wrap waiting for the day you came to get her? Third, why are you so interested in this aspect of her past anyway? Lastly, you're both 18; how much of a "relationship" could it have been? Grow up. Focus on the present and the future, and don't bypass something that can be wonderful for something that you can't change. Good luck.
/r/seduction06/05/20 12:19 PM
2

Whenever his mum goes out to peddle the poonaanny, this asshole loser goes on the Interwebs to post this because your serious replies give the short-dicked wanker a level of amusement. The kind of thing you'd expect from a pitiful slob who's mum hits the stroll just to keep a roof over his head and anti-depressant drugs in his mouth. Please ignore this asshole, and report him.
/r/seduction06/05/20 01:18 AM
56

This is the first thing you must know: subtlety doesn't work on guys.
/r/seduction04/05/20 03:22 AM
3

Please don't reply to this asshole spammer. His mom is out selling blowies for bob, so he gets to use the computer for this idiocy. He thinks your replies are funny because he's a fucking fool. Please report/ignore this short-dicked weasel faced fucker.
/r/seduction04/05/20 03:13 AM
1

Please ignore this asshole spammer. His mum tries hard to make money, but skank-ass is out of fashion with the pandemic and all. When you see his spam, simple report it so he can slink off and have him daily wank without making fun of you.
/r/seduction04/05/20 01:15 AM
1

Well, I guess mum is out sucking for shillings and selling quim for quid, so asshole boy can use the computer. Please report and ignore this asshole spammer.
/r/seduction03/05/20 02:06 AM
1

Please don't reply to this asshole spammer. He thinks it as funny as his tiny dick that he gets serious replies to his idiotic post. Please ignore.
/r/seduction30/04/20 01:37 AM
1

Please don't reply to this asshole spammer. While his mum is out selling the rations, he gets on here, posts this idiotic crap ninety times a day, and thinks serious answers are funny. Don't be his fool. Ignore.
/r/seduction30/04/20 12:36 AM
2

Do not reply to this asshole spammer who gets off on you answering his ridiculous questions. He only gets to use the Internet when his mom is out giving blowies, and he wastes that time re-submitting idiocy. Thanks.
/r/seduction28/04/20 12:41 PM
2

Don't reply to this asshole spammer, who's mom must still be out sucking head.
/r/seduction26/04/20 11:16 PM
3

Don't reply to this small-dicked wanker who spends his time thinking your replies to his idiocy is funny. Everytime his mom leaves home to go turn tricks, he takes the opportunity to use their net connection for stupid shit like this.
/r/seduction26/04/20 08:04 PM
2

Ignore this asshole spammer.
/r/seduction24/04/20 12:19 PM
1

Mom left this asshole spammer alone again. Don't reply.
/r/seduction23/04/20 11:53 PM
2

Don't reply to this asshole spammer.
/r/seduction23/04/20 09:35 PM
3

Don't reply to this asshole spammer. Thank you.
/r/seduction23/04/20 12:43 PM
1

Not according to your mom.
/r/seduction21/04/20 01:36 AM
2

Don't answer this spammer asshole. When you see one of his short-dicked idiot posts, please hit "Report", and report as spam. Fuck this clown.
/r/seduction21/04/20 01:18 AM
5

Don't reply to this asshole spammer.
/r/seduction20/04/20 07:54 PM
1

Keep on pulling on your small pee pee, lubing your bum, and smelling your finger. Night night wankerboy.
/r/seduction16/04/20 01:19 AM
1

And your mom is out turning tricks. That's how you're able to sneak on the Internet. YousShort dicked wanker. Sitting at home fingering your asshole while you beat your meat.
/r/seduction16/04/20 01:00 AM
2

Please don't respond to this shit eater.
/r/seduction16/04/20 12:55 AM
1

Don't respond to this spammer turd. Whenever his mom leaves him home alone he gets on the computer to engage in this stupidity. His mental deficiencies make him think you replying to him is funny.
/r/seduction16/04/20 12:23 AM
3

It's great to be excited, but he has to be a part of your life, not your life. If he doesn't text as much, don't sweat it. As long as you're not getting ghosted, it's all good.
/r/seduction14/04/20 03:15 AM
5

Calm down. Slow down. Don't get clingy. Don't let a guy become your "be all, end all". I'm probably going to have my man card suspended for a couple of weeks, but I'll risk it: you're on the verge of showing desperation, and once he sees that, you're either wind up being abused or/and being dumped. he may be sensing this already. What's up with the rest of your life? Please don't do this to yourself. Good luck.
/r/seduction14/04/20 02:49 AM
4

It's very normal and there's nothing wrong with it. You want to exercise self-control as far as expressing it to women, but it's nothing that should worry you or make you feel strange.
/r/seduction13/04/20 03:09 AM
1

Keep providing evidence asshole. The fines can only grow.
/r/seduction12/04/20 02:15 AM
1

Please don't reply to this asshole spammer.
/r/seduction12/04/20 01:54 AM
4

Don't reply to this spammer asshole.
/r/seduction11/04/20 11:41 PM
2

I can't wait until you get caught and fined. Keep supplying evidence asshole.
/r/seduction08/04/20 02:15 AM
2

Don't give this asshole clown spammer a reply. He gets off on people taking this crap he posts nine times a day seriously. Have you never seen this before?
/r/seduction08/04/20 02:14 AM
1

Don't indulge this asshole. He thinks the fact you reply to him is funny.
/r/seduction08/04/20 02:12 AM
2

What was the vibe you were giving off? Did you feel like you were smiling, even just slightly? Do you think you looked open to conversation, or do you think you might have looked annoyed, or cool to their presence? How did you answer the questions they asked you? Were you giving abrupt, one word answers? This is counter-intuitive, but you might be so attractive, many guys will be intimidated by your looks. It's very common for guys to think there's no way they're going to have a chance with you …
/r/seduction07/04/20 11:43 PM
1

I appreciate the difference in viewpoint, but I did point out this was just an option, and not my favored one. This young man has a specific goal, and asked me more about one of those options. I will disagree with you about this being desperate; this is something that's common and effective. That's just the fact. I don't think it's the better thing, but we live in the world as it is, not the way we wish it were. And if you're telling me you would lie to get laid, I find that admirable, if not cr…
/r/seduction07/04/20 11:51 AM
2

They have laws against this in your home country. I think I'll just go ahead and drop a dime on your sorry ass.
/r/seduction06/04/20 11:18 PM
0

Lie about what will impress the girls you know. Lie about making a lot of money. Lie about the kind of car you have. Lie about your background. Lie about how rich your family is. Whatever will appeal to the girls you're going after, feel free to lie about having a lot of it, the best of it, more of it, whatever. You can't be particularly lazy, but substantiating your lies is not as big a problem as you might think. Many people will believe a lie long before they'll accept the truth. There's some…
/r/seduction06/04/20 04:16 PM
0

You can't be too shy. You have to step out of your comfort zones and go for it. I'm also shy and introverted, but no one can read your mind; you have to speak up. If you are what you say, you should be able to muster up enough confidence to approach girls you're interested in. Just as importantly, you have to be able to deal with, and bounce back from, rejection. If you talk to a lot of women, you're going to get a lot of rejection. You can't let that get you down. It would be great if there was…
/r/seduction06/04/20 03:33 PM
1

Fuckface. Please ignore.
/r/seduction06/04/20 01:57 AM
3

I guess you guys aren't here often enough to know this turd posts this daily several times a day. Please ignore this asshole.
/r/seduction05/04/20 10:52 PM
1

This jackass gets off on you replying to his stupidity. He's posted crap like this hundreds of times. Reddit "bans" people from subs all the time, but they can't block this asshole's IP address.
/r/seduction04/04/20 02:41 AM
2

Asshole spammer.
/r/seduction04/04/20 02:40 AM
8

This asshole publishes this spam day after day. He gets his kicks by you answering his stupid questions. He's a short-dicked, mentally challenged fuck-faced fool. Ignore him.
/r/seduction02/04/20 06:32 PM
1

Please don't answer this spamming asshole. Thank you.
/r/seduction02/04/20 06:03 PM
2

Don't answer this asshole. This is his idea of being clever. It's spam he puts out nearly everyday, several times a day.
/r/seduction02/04/20 03:11 AM
6

It has nothing to do with you. He's indulging some fantasies while not cheating on you. Unless you're doing it with him, his masturbatory habits belong to him, and you need to respect his privacy. Don't hose up your relationship over this bag of nothing. Good luck.
/r/seduction31/03/20 03:56 PM
2

More like 700. He's an attention craving small dicked idiot. Somehow, this is amusing to him. Fuck this bum.
/r/seduction30/03/20 03:32 AM
1

Please don't reply to this idiot spamming asshole. Thank you.
/r/seduction27/03/20 02:19 PM
2

Asshole.
/r/seduction26/03/20 10:51 PM
2

And it's not like they'd ever be able to prove it. Freaking brilliant.
/r/seduction26/03/20 01:21 AM
1

If anyone hates you, they've never been married. There are two schools of thought to cheating: 1) you should never do it; 2) there's nothing wrong with it if the terms of the marriage contract has changed. If you were in a dead bedroom, with a wife who's decided sex is no longer part of your relationship, you'd be justified in restoring that part of your life, but that's not your situation. You did the right thing by walking away. You have a lot to lose and can inflict a lot of pain on a lot of …
/r/seduction24/03/20 02:04 AM
1

You guys don't recognize this is the same asswipe who posts to this sub asking his inane questions with idiotic photos? Please pay attention and stop encouraging this twerp who thinks your responses are either funny, or gives him material to masturbate to.
/r/seduction23/03/20 02:05 AM
4

Do you guys not recognize this is the same trolling schmuck with the girl from five years ago? He's a spam artist who gets off on you answering his idiot queries. Stop giving this short dicked moron the attention he craves. He's an asshole of galactic proportion.
/r/seduction22/03/20 10:01 PM
2

Stop answering this mentally ill spam merchant wanker. He post this crap on a near daily basis for months. He has no brains and he has no life.
/r/seduction22/03/20 07:52 PM
1

Ask her for her number.
/r/seduction22/03/20 05:58 PM
1

If you had something going on, you be doing this juvenile bullshit. Save up and buy a new Fleshlight, and waste your time with that.
/r/seduction18/03/20 09:14 PM
1

Please ignore this asshat. He's a moron and a troll. And his dick is small. That's his real problem.
/r/seduction18/03/20 09:09 PM
1

Please don't reply to this dumbass. Between wanks, he posts this crap because, well, because he's a mentally damaged, small-dicked twit. Don't play along.
/r/seduction18/03/20 09:07 PM
1

You shouldn't be attempting any type of moves. If she wants you, let her make the move. You're really setting yourself up to be her "break in case of emergency". Do you want that? Do you really need that? You're going to get strung along until she finds who wants to replace you with. Stop holding out hope and be real about your situation. Good luck.
/r/seduction18/03/20 03:09 PM
1

This poor, pitiful, asswipe has nothing better to do. Pathetic.
/r/seduction13/03/20 12:59 AM
1

Safe sex is a must, and she might not have been on birth control. Like you said, see what happens. Good luck.
/r/seduction05/03/20 10:17 PM
5

No glove, no love. And considering you gave her oral, she could have at least given you a handy. If she wants to go out again, why not? You guys have some unfinished business. Make sure you bring your raincoat.
/r/seduction05/03/20 09:52 PM
1

Yes, you are an overthinker. What's all the fear about? What do you care what other people think? They get it wrong most of the time anyway. Successful people have no fear of failure. What are the the consequences of hearing "no"? And other people's judgment is meaningless if you don't buy into it.
/r/seduction05/03/20 08:41 PM
2

"The best things get better with age".
/r/seduction05/03/20 08:27 PM
2

This asshole posts this spam everyday because he's limited in cognitive functionality, so he gets some kind of amusement from people answering him. Why does he do it? He's a moron with no life. The nice kids don't want to be seen with him, and the ones on the here don't want to play with him either.
/r/seduction03/03/20 08:13 PM
1

This turd spams this under different handles. He's a low IQ buffoon who's easily amused by people responding to this same question, with the same photos, for months on end. It's probably somebody else's picture. He's an idiot punk. And if his bitch ass is serious about stabbing me, I'll send a ticket for him to come see me.
/r/seduction03/03/20 01:29 AM
1

Aw, did I hurt your fee fees, Wi-Fi tough guy? You want attention? You've got it, you low-life, short-dicked asslick.
/r/seduction02/03/20 08:13 PM
1

Oh, so the asshole speaks. What's the point of this, you time wasting moronic fuck? You couldn't get pussy from a pet shop.
/r/seduction02/03/20 08:10 PM
1

Don't encourage this asswipe. He's been posting this spam for months. He's a low function weapons grade idiot.
/r/seduction02/03/20 08:05 PM
2

I don't. You basically have to follow her lead on this. Right now it's hard to know if she finds you attractive or you're in the "in case of emergency" glass. She might be testing whether she still has "it", or you're the diversion that will keep other guys from approaching her while she sorts out her feelings. Give her some time, don't press, and see what happens. Most importantly, don't put all your eggs in that basket. Don't stop pursuing or seeing other girls. Just make sure it's something s…
/r/seduction02/03/20 06:25 PM
2

Keep it on the friendship tip for about a month. If nothing's happening by then, it's time for the conversation as to where, if anywhere, this is going. Then decide what works for you. Good luck.
/r/seduction02/03/20 05:07 PM
1

This asshole gets his jollies from sending this spam under different usernames. I have no idea what he's trying to accomplish, but he has to have one sad existence to think this is interesting, funny, or original.
/r/seduction01/03/20 03:29 AM
1

He probably doesn't high a high sex drive, and it also sounds like he doesn't very much care about your sexual satisfaction. Unless there's something going on here that so much fulfills the other aspects of your life, I don't understand why you're staying in this situation. And I call it a "situation" because it sounds nothing like a relationship. Life is too short and you can do better. DTMFA.
/r/seduction29/02/20 12:47 AM
2

If you got three hummers out of it, I'd say you came out....ahead.
/r/seduction27/02/20 04:10 AM
2

You sure she was a girl?
/r/seduction27/02/20 02:54 AM
2

What's the problem? Is she going to punch you in the face? Either she wants to, or doesn't. "No" has yet to kill anybody, and there's nothing wrong in asking. Some girls actually say "Yes".
/r/seduction22/02/20 07:46 PM
5

Because so much of what is being thrown out there as "pick up" is ugly and misogynist. The way these guys talk about women (never without at least one utterance of the b-word) makes you cringe that any woman would wind up in bed with that kind of cretin. They make women sound like the enemy and come close to dehumanizing and objectifying them, and justifying it by saying they deserve it because they treat the "good guys" like shit. Cold approaches can work because if a woman is out looking for a…
/r/seduction18/02/20 12:11 AM
1

Now I think I get where they're coming from.
/r/seduction17/02/20 10:12 PM
1

If they're touching you and giving you compliments in "sexual ways", maybe they're down to fuck right then and think you're playing hard to get.
/r/seduction17/02/20 10:03 PM
1

Who knows? She and her friends were probably doing a girl's night out away from their boyfriends. She gets all the validation of being desirable, and may even be willing to test that further, but that's why the girlfriends are there. There always seems to be one girl in the group her friends know they have to save from herself, and they do it. You went out, had a good time, got an opportunity, but not much came of it. Doesn't mean you did anything wrong; you just weren't part of their plans. The…
/r/seduction16/02/20 04:48 PM
9

"Pickup" is starting to become synonymous with "women hating". Some of the "advice" being given is poisonously vitriolic and downright dangerously misogynistic. Women, and your inability to get them, is not why your life is miserable; it's the fact you're putting so much value on another person validating you and your existence. Once you're able to be a person who values yourself for who you are, and have a belief in what you can be, you can accept other people as being "people"; another person …
/r/seduction10/02/20 10:08 PM
1

It could be you're that dick in the case marked "Break Glass In Emergency". It could also be she does value you as a friend. The fact you guys are still flirty gives her a boost in her value, something she may not get from her boyfriend. It may also be a boost for her to know that despite you having a girlfriend, she stills has a hold on your attention. A man can go crazy trying to figure out the actual motives of a woman. As for why you entertain the conversations, it may likely be for the same…
/r/seduction02/02/20 07:35 PM
1

My usual answer is "I can show you, but you won't like it". Setting aside the snark, your girlfriend is the person best equipped (no pun intended) to tell you what works for her. Ask her what feels good. What does she like? What would she like you to do more of? We men often don't ask, we just assume and take on the responsibility as if it's solely ours. You can also bring a small vibrator into your activities. Good luck.
/r/seduction29/01/20 10:32 PM
1

So you're just learning the secret...
/r/seduction26/01/20 02:32 AM
2

phased *fazed
/r/seduction19/01/20 08:33 PM
1

Probably the wrong sub, but if you have to ask you're not "the straightest guy of all time".
/r/seduction19/01/20 02:38 AM
1

Personally, it's a question I wouldn't ask or answer. I never understood the value of asking or answering this question. As far as I'm concerned, there's no good answer or upside to this.
/r/seduction09/01/20 03:14 PM
6

"Will you marry me?"
/r/seduction08/01/20 05:19 PM
1

IOI Indication of interest.
/r/seduction06/01/20 10:31 PM
1

Getting old. If you keep getting old, you're not dead.
/r/seduction02/01/20 03:13 AM
1

This asshole has nothing better to do than to spam reddit. They should ban his IP address. He's a pathetic little shit who couldn't get pussy if he bought a litter of cats.
/r/seduction01/01/20 02:22 AM
1

This is the same clown with new spam. Please ignore him.
/r/seduction31/12/19 01:14 PM
1

There are few things better than buffing the old bishop.
/r/seduction28/12/19 07:23 AM
25

"I'm the plumber and I'm here to lay some pipe".
/r/seduction28/12/19 07:16 AM
4

It doesn't sound like you're here in the States, but there are states where a former student can't be involved with a former teacher until the student has turned 21 or been out of that school for a significant period of time.
/r/seduction28/12/19 04:24 AM
1

Old men are people too.
/r/seduction23/12/19 05:52 PM
1

This simpleton spams reddit with this bs on a near constant basis using ever changing handles. Obviously this is an easily amused asshat with little better to do. Please don't indulge this shitheel by taking his spam seriously. This is a stupider version of Rickrolling, so please don't encourage this fucking schmuck.
/r/seduction23/12/19 03:14 PM
7

This clown motherfucker is back. Ignore him, please.
/r/seduction22/12/19 02:57 AM
54

"Barley work". You should have been making beer.
/r/seduction22/12/19 12:37 AM
1

I'm no movie idol, and I'm picky but, as an older guy, my field has thinned considerably. That said, I'd be hard pressed to find a woman uglier than me.
/r/seduction18/12/19 11:17 PM
2

Entitled? That's a new one. It's great to feel confident, but you're not entitled to any woman. It's likely that level of arrogance is incongruent with your personality, and that's going to come across. You start feeling more attractive when you start liking yourself a lot more. Small talk is called that because it's not serious. Talk about the weather. Talk about a tv show. Talk about something uncontroversial in the news. Ask her opinion on something. Does she consider herself a dog person or …
/r/seduction18/12/19 01:10 AM
1

It's good that someone has come out said it. If you're out you'll see the most incredible women with guys who look like they came out ugly stick battle unarmed. It's not about looks. It's not about money. It's not about what you drive. Yes, those things will attract a certain kind of woman, but you're not getting her anyway because of her game plan. The world if full of women. Lovely, wonderful, funny, smart, passionate, desirable women. I die a little bit every time I read a missive here by a 2…
/r/seduction17/12/19 11:13 PM
1

What makes you the type of guy a girl would like? The kind of guy that she would trust? Just from the way your question is formed, you don't sound like that kind of guy. You don't sound like you could pretend to be that guy, which is a big part of the secret to getting laid.
/r/seduction13/12/19 10:36 PM
8

Sometimes I wonder what the hell's wrong with some of you. Life doesn't end at 30. You're in the sweet spot in your late 20s. You can reach out to women in their early-20s to mid-30s and beyond. You should be what's going on in your life. Everything social doesn't cost a lot of money. Have you tried a coed hiking club? Does your community offer cheap seminars or classes? Use some creativity, and continue to do things to improve yourself, but make some of those activities ones where women are inv…
/r/seduction10/12/19 04:18 AM
1

If she just broke up with someone else, she could still have feelings for him, she needs time to grieve, she's exhausted from the break up; all these things and others are common reactions to a break up. They have nothing to do with you. She's just not ready for something with someone else right now. Spent your time in wiser ways and move along from this.
/r/seduction09/12/19 04:50 AM
1

What makes you think she just didn't want to have sex? If you guys didn't hook up, and she's ghosting, don't take it hard or personally. Are you saying she just broke up with someone else?
/r/seduction08/12/19 09:38 PM
1

It sounds like your approach is good because those replies tell me you have them off-balance. They're not questioning you and your motives per se, they're questioning why would someone like you be interested in someone like them. They have negged themselves. When you're asked if it's a joke, that's when you become as serious as an undertaker and give your reply. Don't become the joke. Don't use humor to break the tension; be serious to amp it up a little more ("I never joke about meeting women")…
/r/seduction08/12/19 05:56 PM
1

ironic and rye (sic) That's what makes me love stuff like this.
/r/seduction08/12/19 05:10 PM
2

Sorry to hear that. Good luck.
/r/seduction07/12/19 06:15 PM
1

Just remember girls want sex as much as you do. And, like you, they most times want it without the baggage of a relationship.
/r/seduction07/12/19 12:25 AM
1

It's not simply about reciting lines, it's about Neuro-Lingual Programming: using language to induce women to have sex with you. It can be effective, but learning the techniques is time consuming, and it takes a lot of practice.
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:54 PM
2

Takes a lot of study and effort. I think it has value, but it is a bunch of work.
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:47 PM
2

It's not needy if she busts meeting you and you have fun on your own. Right now you don't have any power; she has you off-balance. If she's brings it up, okay, but you don't. That's the shit test: seeing how you respond to her flaking. Don't give her that. You've got enough going on that you don't have time to be annoyed by silly bs. This girl is interested in you, but she's kicking the tires. Keep being alright with her, but don't play her game. If you're alluding to having a relationship, shut…
/r/seduction06/12/19 03:53 PM
2

Keep your options open, but don't develop any feels. She's actually working a push/pull frame on you. Now that you know what's going on, use that knowledge as power. Continue to engage, because she is interested, but I think she's looking for a test drive, not a relationship. Don't go cold. If she wants to flirt, go with it. Be casual in confronting her about the no-show, let her know while you were willing to meet up, when it didn't happen, it was cool because you went ahead and had a fun night…
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:54 AM
1

"Conservative thinking"; you don't think this has anything to do with your lack of success? "Conservative" implies being risk-averse, so you're challenging their mode of thinking and possibly their worldview. You're asking a lot. Maybe too much.
/r/seduction06/12/19 10:35 AM
2

A new body and plastic surgery won't make a shy guy into a stud, or an awkward duckling into a swan. You wouldn't believe some the guys I've known who were all-time slayers, guys who would make Quasimodo say "Man, that dude is ugly". The truth is there are many ways to achieve the goal of sleeping with women, but most guys prefer to lean toward being honorable and sincere. Yes, looks mean a lot, but if only good looking people got laid, we'd all be gorgeous. Your humblebrag is nice, but most of …
/r/seduction03/12/19 11:02 PM
8

You need to read the comments you just wrote. Would you want to know that guy? Nobody wants to be around a depressed mook with no self-confidence. Why should anyone else feel good about you if you don't feel good about yourself? You're emitting negativity. You sound like you want a participation trophy. You have to stop that. You have to feel good about yourself no matter how tall you are or how homely you may think you are. Physical attraction is part of it, but most women are willing to forgo …
/r/seduction03/12/19 10:07 PM
18

I would make champagne out of this lemon. Good luck.
/r/seduction03/12/19 09:48 PM
0

There's a place for this, but it should be used sparingly.
/r/seduction03/12/19 01:48 PM
6

Individuals vary, but if she goes to a door and doesn't expect you to open it, she has low expectations. She's willing to settle for just about anything that's ambulatory. If you're trying to open the door for her, but makes the effort to keep you from doing it, she's going to be unappreciative of the small things that matter in a relationship, and probably even of grand gestures. This is the kind of woman I won't invest a second date into. If she pauses and lets you open the door, she's been ta…
/r/seduction03/12/19 02:06 AM
3

I'm flabbergasted, but not shocked. What he said is absolutely great for the immature selfish prick who sees women as cunts attached to legs. If you're dating a single mom, unless you guys are on the cusp of getting married, you should be a non-entity to her kids; they shouldn't even know you, and if they do, you're just another one of mommy's friends. You don't sleep over; you don't shack up. These are the situation that determine whether you're really a man, or some asshole wearing pants. Of c…
/r/seduction02/12/19 10:24 PM
18

Women value confidence and someone they can trust. Confident guys aren't afraid of being conscientious or polite. That doesn't make you a doormat, and the reaction you get when you hold a door open for a woman can tell you a lot about her mindset and how she values herself. Guys constantly claim they're looking for a window into the women they meet, but they throw away chances like this for the sake of being "beta". Don't be like that.
/r/seduction02/12/19 10:06 PM
6

There are guys sitting here just waiting to downvote anything that isn't completely feel good and PC. As much as I despise the term "PC", I agree with your sentiments. But throughout reddit, subs become like this because of the mods, not in spite of them. The subs become the havens of idiotic know-nothings who goad those who have something to offer until you're pushed to reply in a way that gets you banned by said mods. Eventually, the mediocrities and the mendacious wind up brigading sub after …
/r/seduction24/11/19 09:07 PM
2

SIR, YES SIR!!
/r/seduction24/11/19 07:48 PM
0

He says "palm reading" doesn't work. He's wrong.
/r/seduction24/11/19 07:36 PM
3

I'd love to know from a woman if it's true, but I've heard some women can become sexually aroused from riding a bike. If there's any truth to that, it only makes sense to at least try to approach. Then again, maybe it's their thinking guys believing what might just be old lie brings on the cold shoulder you mentioned.
/r/seduction22/11/19 01:57 AM
1

Your username may have something to do with it? What went into that choice? Maybe you make odd choices or do things that a girl might see as inappropriate and unfunny in your dating life, and they decide they don't want to go further with you? Do you use this handle elsewhere in your life?
/r/seduction22/11/19 01:46 AM
1

Don't.
/r/seduction21/11/19 10:14 PM
2

Keep it simple. Limit your investment; emotionally and financially. Haven't lived in NYC for nearly 30 years, but there are always great places to eat. Find a mid-scale restaurant to take her to. One of my favorites use to be a restaurant called "Chelsea Place". It was an old speakeasy, and kept up that facade; if you didn't know, you'd never know a first class restaurant was behind this storefront. Impress her that way. Find something affordable off the beaten path. Let her see you know somethi…
/r/seduction19/11/19 03:42 AM
3

"I think you have a great smile, and I wanted to meet you. My name is...".
/r/seduction16/11/19 11:26 PM
1

What's the situation?
/r/seduction11/11/19 04:31 AM
0

Life is hard. Excuses are easy. I don't think you're a villain. Either you're lazy or you're trolling. I guess answering a simple question is too hard.
/r/seduction08/11/19 04:47 PM
1

Nope. You're dealing with the complexity of a human being and an infinite number of variables. It sounds like you want some kind of script or perhaps a magic spell? If you're simply lazy, just go up to the next five women you encounter and ask them if they want to get out of here and go somewhere and fuck. You haven't said anything about yourself, and it comes across as your only interested in women is as sex objects, and you're not even interested in pretending otherwise. I'll say it again: you…
/r/seduction08/11/19 03:50 PM
1

Create the opportunity. And then go for it.
/r/seduction08/11/19 01:32 PM
1

Also I usually avoid asking women dating advice. They usually suck at giving advice to men. I thought most seduction guys knew that. I'm going to mention two guys who were in a families where they were the only boy and their siblings were girls. Now the two guys are good looking and they're celebrities, but I've met guys like this, and they learn a lot about women from their sisters, and they have a lot of success connecting with women. Tom Cruise and Tom Brady were probably not going to have a …
/r/seduction08/11/19 12:28 AM
3

Really? Ask women for dating advice? That's not what I said, but, yes, do that too. Women know what women like and what women are like. When I say ask women what they think, I'm saying ask them what they think about the weather; last night's game; the price of gas; the stuff you'd ask a guy about. Maybe you see a girl in a store. Ask for her help. You're looking for a gift for your/mom/sister/boss. Do you think something like this is too much/not enough/inappropriate? Is it just you, or do women…
/r/seduction07/11/19 11:02 PM
3

Have you ever seen "Mad Men"? Look like that guy. If you don't look like that guy, just talk to women. Ask them what they think. Ask them for their help. Don't take things too seriously. Don't be afraid to ask for sex. Women like sex too.
/r/seduction07/11/19 10:37 PM
3

At least. I don't keep a diary, but I'm pretty sure it's been at least 120. It's definitely over 100.
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:59 PM
5

Haven't you?
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:43 PM
2

I'm here with you. I don't dwell on the past.
/r/seduction07/11/19 09:10 PM
4

Keeping a straight face while telling a lie.
/r/seduction07/11/19 08:58 PM
3

TL/DR, but just from the title, if you have no confidence or initiative you will not a great partner or boyfriend. You will be a burden. You will be needy. You will be aimless. None of that is good stuff. Good luck.
/r/seduction01/11/19 10:16 PM
50

I can show you, but you have to bring her over, and you won't like it.
/r/seduction28/10/19 01:25 AM
2

These are women in their sexual prime, oftentimes having found professional success, and they know what they want. You're missing out on a lot if you're passing up these opportunities.
/r/seduction27/10/19 12:10 AM
2

No. But it's really borderline, and there could be legal consequences depending on where you are.
/r/seduction11/10/19 01:12 AM
3

No. Men look at women just like women look at men.
/r/seduction07/10/19 12:31 AM
1

That's straight up creepy.
/r/seduction29/09/19 07:10 PM
4

I've pushed everything away from (sic) and abandoned my therapy and medication... I don't think this is the best thing to do. If you're seriously suffering from depression, being off your meds is very risky. First, you shouldn't exercise and eat well to get women; you should do this for you. Success in that area is not how many women you pick up, but how you feel about yourself. Hopefully, you like enough of what it does for you in terms of feeling better and having confidence that you continue …
/r/seduction28/09/19 10:08 PM
1

DM me... ...but seriously, you have to put yourself out there. Not necessarily looking for a bf, but simply meeting people.
/r/seduction24/09/19 02:34 PM
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We'd have to see the pics to really be able to explain it.
/r/seduction24/09/19 02:45 AM
1

I like it.
/r/seduction15/09/19 09:05 PM
1

Unless you've got the cojones to flirt with some of the neighborhood MILFs, it's going to be a heavy lift to meet "women".
/r/seduction15/09/19 08:59 PM
1

If she's coming over for a smoke, it's easy to find out. If nothing else happens, you can tell you have an early day tomorrow, and send her out the door. Don't not let her come over.
/r/seduction15/09/19 08:54 PM
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You're human. But rejection has yet to kill anyone, so always know the worse thing that will happen is "No". Success means you can't be afraid of humiliation. That also has yet to kill someone.
/r/seduction15/09/19 07:41 PM
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If that's the case, and the sex is worth it, roll with it. Just know where you stand and make sure you're seeing other people so you don't get caught up by feelings. Good luck.
/r/seduction15/09/19 07:07 PM
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When she started talking about her old boyfriend she was testing your interest in commitment. You didn't show it, so she pulled back. Her continued interest in you appears to me she sees you as someone she wants to be in a relationship with. The talk about "complication" is an offer for you to "simplify" things. The simplification: you tell her she's with you, and he's out of her life. You say you have feelings. Are you ready for the relationship?
/r/seduction15/09/19 05:23 PM
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