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I don’t know man, I’ve seen plenty of attractive women with guys punching above their weight.
/r/seduction29/07/22 07:35 PM
24

They’re great if you’re actually banging quality women, and not some land whale off Tinder because you’re horny.
/r/seduction29/07/22 03:53 PM
5

Nashville and Vegas
/r/seduction25/07/22 03:54 AM
19

I think Tinder has the worst algorithm of the 3.
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:25 AM
42

Tinder for casual flings and hookups, and Hinge for serious relationships. I pulled many top tier women on Hinge when I came up with a quality profile.
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:07 AM
0

I always confidently told women I don’t buy them drinks unless I’ve slept with them
/r/seduction24/07/22 11:01 PM
1

Nah it gets me laid a couple times a month.
/r/seduction24/07/22 06:48 PM
1

You gotta break the touch barrier somehow. I knew it was a successful first date if we made out by the end of it.
/r/seduction24/07/22 04:12 PM
2

If you’re gonna do OLD, use Hinge
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:32 PM
1

Ask her for coffee, drinks, or ice cream asap
/r/seduction22/07/22 01:31 PM
1

Lmao did Blaine say this?
/r/seduction21/07/22 06:11 PM
22

I graduated from a party school in the US. While people definitely had sex in college, its not like the movies portray it. College parties are overrated. Bunch of people standing around drinking, and talking about life. Yeah, you might meet a girl and take her home, but the biggest “chads” I knew rarely got laid from these parties. Most of the hooking up at the parties is basically some grinding and a quick make out session before her friends pull her away from you. A lot of the girls you meet a…
/r/seduction21/07/22 02:30 PM
5

Hottest girl I ever got with told me she liked that I barely used social media. Don’t put much emphasis on this stuff.
/r/seduction18/07/22 12:16 PM
1

Anti Slut Defense. Women are conditioned growing up to be modest, and not a “slut.” Some girls get over this by high school, some later in life. Girls want sex just as much as guys, but because of social cues and conditioning, they don’t wanna be seen as slut or whore if they sleep around. I remember I was hitting it off with a girl I matched with on Tinder when I was traveling for work. She was staying at a hotel not far from me. She invited me over, but clarified over text she wasn’t going to …
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:44 AM
1

Prom night
/r/seduction17/07/22 01:12 PM
9

Stop falling into the black pill stuff.
/r/seduction13/07/22 03:48 PM
37

My buddy’s girlfriend just got back from Vegas with her mom. She cheated….. 4 year relationship over
/r/seduction06/07/22 10:15 PM
14

stop beating your meat. During quarantine, I had performance issues because I was whacking it 2-3 times a day. Take it easy, give it a few days, and you should be good.
/r/seduction05/07/22 12:16 AM
14

Even as a 24 year old, 18-19 old girls gravitate towards me. When you sleep with them, they think you’re some type of god because their high school boyfriend didn’t know what he was doing.
/r/seduction02/07/22 06:54 PM
2

Don’t feel bad. I’ve been stood up and flaked twice off dating apps in the last week.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:17 PM
1

You probably got screwed by the algorithm. I don’t know if it was dumb luck, but I found it easier to get laid off these apps back in 2020/2021 compared to now.
/r/seduction30/06/22 04:55 AM
4

Nope, it’s true. Some women are just angry and disappointed right now it seems, so they’re kinda taking a stand to not please men. I’ve already seen it on social media too.
/r/seduction26/06/22 03:15 PM
1

The algorithm punishes you if you’re constantly on the app. The key is to swipe in the morning, then check it again at night.
/r/seduction26/06/22 02:49 PM
2

It depends. I get maybe 3-5 dates a month through dating apps. It’s gives me something to do on the weekends, I enjoy the chase, and I get laid sometimes. It also feels good when you match with an absolute smoke show. It has its perks. However I’ve had negative experiences as well. Flakey girls, ghosting, etc. It’s all part of the game.
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:52 PM
6

Number, but if you’re at a bar or club, your only chance is that night. You don’t find your future wife in these places honestly.
/r/seduction25/06/22 10:33 PM
1

This is always a mixed bag. I've banged women that postponed dates 3-4 times. It didn't bother me because I keep expectations low. I've gotten the classic "so you're gonna hate me" texts an hour before dates a handful of times before. Keep options available for yourself.
/r/seduction25/06/22 09:58 PM
1

I’ve given girls a good time, and they do seem to linger around even a couple years later. A girl I hooked up with in quarantine still slides up on my stories and will ask how I’m doing despite her having a boyfriend. I always wondered if there was physiological thing involved, because she told me I was the best sex she ever had. Not sure if she was over exaggerating.
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:01 PM
2

Reddit moment
/r/seduction25/06/22 06:58 PM
33

It’s Reddit. What do you expect?
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:39 PM
373

You still need to have game in order to get the girl you want. I know a real life Ken doll that can’t talk to women to save his life. Meanwhile, my average looking, well put together friend is quite the bachelor with quality women. Don’t fall into the black pill narratives. While I do think there is SOME truth to that ideology, you should stop, and look what’s going on in real life. When I go out in public, I see a ton of average guys with girlfriends. A lot of the time, they’re punching WELL ab…
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:59 AM
25

I still go on plenty of dates with girls, but I truthfully don’t expect to sleep with them unless they’ve been giving signals leading up to the date.
/r/seduction25/06/22 04:47 AM
12

Well that sucks
/r/seduction24/06/22 03:50 PM
132

“I’ll be honest with you, I’ve been casually dating and just seeing what’s out there. I keep expectations low, but hope for the best.”
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:50 PM
4

You can say more stupid shit and get away with it when you’re drunk. At college parties, my go to line was “wanna make out for fun?” It sounds cringe, but the success rate was relatively high. If I got hot a heavy with a girl, we’d go somewhere else and do the deed. I miss college even though I graduated there 6 months ago….
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:54 AM
2

Women are emotional. You build a connection in a good convo.
/r/seduction24/06/22 01:51 AM
14

Have a deeper meaning to a conversation if that makes sense. Last girl I went on a date with is in nursing. I tried picking apart every aspect of that field, and questioned why and how she got into it.
/r/seduction23/06/22 08:10 PM
536

As someone who doesn’t drink anymore, I still get plenty of hookups sober. Instead of drinks, I suggest we get ice cream. Have a meaningful conversation, good eye contact, playful touch, etc. If I like my chances, I’ll ask if she wants to check out my apartment and watch a movie or something. If I feel like I need to warm her up more, I’ll ask if she wants to take a walk in the park or something and then sit on a bench and talk some more. I then make my move. Last time I took a walk in the park …
/r/seduction23/06/22 02:01 PM
67

I’m not gonna lie, I fucked a buddy’s ex 2 years after they broke up. Even then, it just kinda messed with the dynamic of the friend group.
/r/seduction22/06/22 03:21 PM
1

For us iPhone users, it tells you if the message was delivered or read. The messages never said it was delivered, so that means you’re basically blocked lol
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:45 AM
1

I’ve probably been on 25 dates this year so far. All from dating apps.
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:35 AM
1

I’ve done a couple 4-5s, but the women I’ve slept with were all 6+. The more confidence I built, the hotter the women I slept with.
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:28 AM
8

They’re just matches, a lot don’t translate into dates.
/r/seduction21/06/22 03:27 AM
43

Attractive men still face problems when it comes to dating. I’m truthfully an 8 when it comes to looks, and I encounter the same problems so called incels apparently have. 20+ body count, 1000 Tinder matches, and I’m still sad and discouraged with romance sometimes. I’m 23M, and have only been in two serious relationships. People do treat me nice in public, I’ve never been turned away from a job offer, and I get compliments from both men and women every now and then. If I’m lucky, I’ve had a few…
/r/seduction21/06/22 01:26 AM
13

I’ll keep that in mind next time, thanks
/r/seduction20/06/22 02:00 PM
2

Life is short, send her a pickup line in her DMs. I do this if she doesn’t post a lot of stories.
/r/seduction20/06/22 12:47 PM
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Keep expectations low.
/r/seduction19/06/22 01:03 PM
2

No, but drinking does.
/r/seduction14/06/22 07:08 PM
4

Honestly, there’s lot of good articles online. It definitely takes practice. However, the first advice I could give is to take your time. Unlike guys, women take time to warm up. Neck kisses, moving your hand on her body, and depending on the girl, gentle choking. Grab her tits, suck on her bottom lip when making out, things like that. When you get real hot and heavy, start to move your hand down towards the outside of her pants where her pussy is. Start to rub in circular motions while making o…
/r/seduction13/06/22 08:23 PM
1

It depends honestly. I’ve had success with hookups and casual dating, but sometimes it can get old believe it or not. I sometimes wish I could find a wholesome girlfriend to grow with.
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:52 AM
3

Those girls are easy lays though. I just wouldn’t introduce them to my mother.
/r/seduction11/06/22 11:40 AM
3

Not even top tier chads get a new hookup everyday.
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:32 AM
1

Because we still have soft spots for each other.
/r/seduction10/06/22 08:20 PM
3

Can’t be as bad as me. I’ve slept with 20+ women, and I’m still hung up on a girl I dated 4 years ago. We still talk….
/r/seduction10/06/22 08:15 PM
0

White 23M
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:31 AM
4

Yeah but I overcame it because I caved and bought Platinum. Pay to play I guess.
/r/seduction10/06/22 12:14 AM
1

I’d say 20 in that 3 month span. 5 lays out of that set
/r/seduction09/06/22 11:47 PM
57

If you’re feeling ballsy, you can say “Do you wanna make out for fun?” That one had a decent success rate in college.
/r/seduction09/06/22 09:45 PM
47

I honestly bought an iPhone tripod with a Bluetooth shutter clicker, and took some solid photos myself. Took a few tries, but it paid off. 1000 matches in about 3 months use. I’m not a god tier chad either.
/r/seduction09/06/22 07:04 PM
1

My body count is in the lower double digits, and I still have the same problems as these so called “incels”
/r/seduction08/06/22 12:08 PM
3

Hit the nail on the head.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:45 PM
137

It might sound too doomer or redpilled for some people, but it’s true for 90% of women. Top tier men are struggling in dating too. This is coming from a guy who has “success with women.” Lots of flings, dates, couple relationships, and a body count in the lower double digits. I’ve learned so much about women. It’s eye opening. I know their games. Wish I knew all of this as young as 17, so I could have prevented some of the hurt I went through. Life is too short to be sad over women. Just invest …
/r/seduction07/06/22 04:03 PM
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I’ll agree, some if it is dumb luck. However, if she ghosted you, or didn’t take the bait of being distant, she just wasn’t that into you. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve literally almost given up with dating as a young male in his 20s.
/r/seduction07/06/22 03:47 PM
237

In short, women have so many options these days thanks for dating apps and social media. They love the attention and validation they receive from numerous men. A lot won’t admit that. The worst part about this is, it installs the idea that’s there’s always something “better” for them out there. Before apps and social media took over, women’s options were the cute guy at work, a family friend, and maybe her neighbor. Don’t give in, and distance yourself from the girl every now and then. If she’s …
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:50 PM
-4

I’ve honestly had success with Tinder, and it’s gotten me laid a handful of times. It still made me depressed. Hookups and casual flings get old after awhile. I’m to the point in life where I’d rather have a wholesome girlfriend I could grow with. I just unfortunately can’t find one. Tinder and apps destroyed dating. A good chunk of women don’t wanna settle down, because it’s more fun to have hundreds of guys simp for them off an app. The options they have is insane. Incels for all their faults,…
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:59 PM
2

It’s a mentality high school and college guys have. I was guilty of it myself. I’m like “oh, she’s got 20 bodies, I don’t want anything to do with her.” Then I realized my body count is close to 20 as well, so it’s pretty hypocritical. I regret a lot of the casual sex I had. I really learned how much better sex is with someone you truly love, and not some girl you met at a party, and won’t see ever again.
/r/seduction04/06/22 08:22 PM
1

30 bucks a month.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:55 PM
11

I cucked and bought Tinder Platinum. I get 10-15 matches a day on a consistent basis. I'm colleged aged, and live in a tourist town. My pictures aren't professional either.
/r/seduction27/05/22 08:41 PM
6

Honestly, I learned you should keep texting minimal. Just ask her on a coffee or ice cream date early on, and then get to know each other. If you guys hit it off, then plan a second date. If you don’t, then you’re not losing out by just going on a simple easy date with someone. Never do dinner for a first date.
/r/seduction27/05/22 03:57 PM
2

From my experiences in the dating “game,” give me a 7 with a good personality any day. Those girls are usually wholesome. The 9s and 10s are only just good for a summer fling and one night stand honestly.
/r/seduction27/05/22 01:00 PM
12

Me and my buddy from high school caught up recently. Half of our conversation was about the girls who had a major glow up their later years in college.
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:58 PM
5

I banged a couple freshman when I was in college. They’d throw themselves at the “older” guys all the time. Easy lays on first dates.
/r/seduction24/05/22 04:29 AM
126

It’s always the quiet ones that want to be bent over the most.
/r/seduction22/05/22 09:48 PM
2

My friends in college were amazed I was able to get my body count in the double digits without ever having a sip of alcohol in my life. I don’t drink, and don’t ever intend to start.
/r/seduction22/05/22 12:48 PM
11

Ice cream and a good talk makes a good first date in my opinion.
/r/seduction21/05/22 10:41 PM
1

If you’re below a 5 looks wise, you’re pretty much screwed.
/r/seduction19/05/22 02:51 PM
2

I usually just stay kinda witty and then arrange a coffee date or something relatively quickly.
/r/seduction17/05/22 10:58 PM
1

Yes and no. Women between 25-30 start to “settle down” and try finding husband material.
/r/seduction16/05/22 02:07 AM
1

Had a black pill guy tell me working out doesn’t work for attracting women if you simply have an unattractive face.
/r/seduction15/05/22 05:44 PM
2

Exactly. The advice OP gave is the mentality guys use in high school.
/r/seduction13/05/22 01:40 PM
2

This is my fatal flaw
/r/seduction12/05/22 05:37 PM
23

200 plus matches? It’s more like a 1000
/r/seduction08/05/22 07:19 PM
13

If gay men hit on you, you’re good looking. Not sarcasm either.
/r/seduction08/05/22 01:35 PM
1

I put a little concealer under dark circles for special occasions, but that’s it
/r/seduction01/05/22 02:14 AM
1

This sub has hit new lows
/r/seduction29/04/22 01:29 PM
1

He has to be an 8 above looks wise for that line to be effective.
/r/seduction24/04/22 11:04 PM
1

Sounds like you don’t with that miserable attitude
/r/seduction24/04/22 02:27 PM
4

Yeah, but I get pussy
/r/seduction24/04/22 12:56 PM
145

“You seem like the type of girl I’d see in an airport, and think about my whole flight.” Works great from my experience, but I am a pilot….
/r/seduction24/04/22 04:00 AM
0

Meet up for ice cream or coffee, then ask her to come over afterwards. It’s a numbers game.
/r/seduction23/04/22 12:30 PM
3

One of the crustiest dudes I knew has an Android and bangs quality women all the time.
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:55 PM
1

I’ve always heard it’s worse with women. Pretty privilege is definitely real for them.
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:13 PM
45

After my body count hit 10, I no longer had interest in pursing casual sex. I don’t wanna be a bachelor anymore. I’d like to find a wholesome girl to settle down with.
/r/seduction10/04/22 02:43 AM
26

Haha god forbid you have a blue check mark on your profile.
/r/seduction09/04/22 09:05 PM
4

I ask to eat her asshole within the first 5 minutes of the date.
/r/seduction09/04/22 12:07 AM
85

Do you have a dog? I highly recommend the dog park. I’ve gotten a couple lays and coffee dates through there. My Golden Retriever is the best wingman.
/r/seduction07/04/22 12:02 AM
1

Sounds like a fun time. However, you had a girl in your house watching Netflix on the bed and didn’t make a move? If you don’t make a move, she’ll lose interest and consider you a friend!
/r/seduction04/04/22 07:23 PM
19

You don’t have to be jacked, but if you live a healthy lifestyle and build some muscle, you’ll definitely feel more confident, and women will find you more attractive. Women have push up bras, men wear a nice fitting T shirt that makes their arms looker bigger than they actually are. Just a pro tip as we approach the warmer months.
/r/seduction04/04/22 02:02 PM
3

My Golden Retriever has gotten me some pussy over the years lmao
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:20 PM
3

Dog park
/r/seduction03/04/22 03:42 PM
3

Went through this with my high school sweetheart as pathetic as this sounds. Went to the gym and fucked 10 other girls before I stopped caring about her. We still keep in touch and have lots of mutual respect but it doesn’t bother me another guy is fucking her and we aren’t together anymore.
/r/seduction01/04/22 09:24 PM
6

Swipe on an app for a few minutes and have them come over.
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:30 AM
27

I prefer using honey or love when flirting.
/r/seduction25/03/22 12:24 PM
2

How do you think people met before online dating?
/r/seduction25/03/22 12:13 AM
32

Kinda like how I lied to a girl about my political beliefs just for some pussy.
/r/seduction24/03/22 10:53 PM
5

The internet ruined dating.
/r/seduction24/03/22 10:42 PM
9

She actually might be genuinely busy and honestly doesn’t have time for a date or other get togethers. Everyone jumps to conclusions that she’s not into you when she’s not willing to make plans because she’s’ “busy.” I’ve slept with a handful of girls who acted super flakey and not interested in me because they were genuinely busy and didn’t have much free time due to school and work. I had to wait a little, but it was worth it.
/r/seduction24/03/22 10:31 PM
95

Honestly, there’s lot of good articles online. It definitely takes practice. However, the first advice I could give is to take your time. Unlike guys, women take time to warm up. Neck kisses, moving your hand on her body, and depending on the girl, gentle choking. Grab her tits, suck on her bottom lip when making out, things like that. When you get real hot and heavy, start to move your hand down towards the outside of her pants where her pussy is. Start to rub in circular motions while making o…
/r/seduction24/03/22 01:39 AM
5

Don’t buy boosts or anything either. Once you buy one, they’ll stop showing your profile until you buy another one.
/r/seduction19/03/22 09:42 PM
4

Grab his arm
/r/seduction16/03/22 05:28 PM
3

These cases are always mixed bags. I’ve had girls who were genuinely busy with studies and work. However I’ve had girls use this as an excuse to not hang out. Who knows.
/r/seduction16/03/22 05:10 PM
1

A lot of women don’t realize guys will hookup with girls below their means.
/r/seduction15/03/22 10:42 PM
1

Honestly, it’s not all that. Just graduated college and got my numbers in the double digits. I was sad and heartbroken after my high school sweetheart and I split up. It sounds pathetic, but I thought it would help me forget about her. It did to an extent, but it made me crave a wholesome relationship even more. Casual sex with a girl you just met doesn’t have the same value as going down on a girl you truly love. There’s nothing wrong with being a bachelor and meeting new women, but making your…
/r/seduction13/03/22 08:01 PM
6

I’ve met a lot of great girls at the dog park. My Golden Retriever is the best wingman.
/r/seduction12/03/22 02:46 PM
3

I’ve heard NYC is terrible for single young men unless you’re high status or a model. Who knows though. Anyone else able to chime in?
/r/seduction11/03/22 10:57 PM
0

You do you King
/r/seduction11/03/22 03:26 AM
5

An hour tops for me. I’ve gotten a few girls over 50 miles away to drive over and spend the night at my place. Have a fun night, and they drive home the next morning. I leave it up to them if they ever wanna follow up.
/r/seduction09/03/22 04:22 AM
1

23M
/r/seduction05/03/22 04:35 AM
20

I banged a new chick every week once I moved into my own place.
/r/seduction04/03/22 07:25 PM
1

Usually the girl next door
/r/seduction02/03/22 01:59 AM
1

You have to slowly but surely scootch closer to each other as the movie goes on. Eye contact is everything, and when there is a funny moment or something, kinda laugh and quickly touch her thigh.
/r/seduction01/03/22 11:08 PM
5

23M who just graduated college . Here’s some random points I’ve come across in my time. Women will show high interest in you, but ghost you the very next day. Some women feel ashamed when they hook up with you too fast, and cut ties with you afterwards. Hot girls are no fun if they have the personality of a brick. Give me a cute 7-8 with a good personality any day. Keep expectations very low with online dating. Good looking men, and even average women have a plethora of options. It instills the …
/r/seduction27/02/22 08:02 PM
1

Recent college graduate here. I tried doing the whole gentleman dating scene. I discovered a lot of girls our age aren’t looking for something too serious. I kinda just did my own thing, and had a care free attitude towards women. It got me laid numerous times.
/r/seduction26/02/22 04:26 AM
17

Depends how down bad I am
/r/seduction25/02/22 06:44 AM
0

If she’s like any of the girls I know, she’ll fuck 3 other dudes between now and your next class.
/r/seduction25/02/22 04:27 AM
6

I’m 23 and just graduated from college. You ask them to get ice cream, and ask her to come back to your place after. It’s building trust and some attraction.
/r/seduction24/02/22 10:21 PM
2

Be attractive
/r/seduction24/02/22 07:47 PM
1

Same boat. Dating is a numbers name. I just make my rounds until I find someone worth settling down with.
/r/seduction24/02/22 06:55 AM
8

I haven’t found a girl worth “settling down” with. Granted, I’m early 20s, and have my whole life ahead of me, but I have found very few women that were girlfriend material. Look, I don’t want to sound like an incel, but I’ve gotten to the point where I’m just about done being the wholesome stand up guy. There’s been so many times I’ve gone on great dates, built some connections with someone, all for it just to go to waste. A lot of the girls in my demographic aren’t looking for something seriou…
/r/seduction24/02/22 01:22 AM
1

I’ve been there done that with this situation before. Gotta be a little handsy on the first date and see how she responds. If she agrees to a first date with you, she’s interested in you to an extent. Don’t fumble the bag, and treat her like your sister.
/r/seduction22/02/22 11:17 PM
1

Most girls in college don’t want to settle down. Just have fun as a single guy, and get your numbers up.
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:26 AM
14

College parties are overrated. Bunch of people standing around drinking, and talking about life. Yeah, you might meet a girl and take her home, but the biggest “chads” I knew rarely got laid from these parties. Most of the hooking up at the parties is basically some grinding and a quick make out session before her friends pull her away from you. A lot of the girls you meet at these parties revolve their whole personality around blacking out drunk every weekend. Don’t want to sound like an incel,…
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:17 AM
2

College parties are overrated. Bunch of room temperature IQ people standing around drinking, and talking about life. Yeah, you might meet a girl and take her home, but the biggest “chads” I knew rarely got laid from these parties. Most of the hooking up at the parties is basically some grinding and a quick make out session before her friends pull her away from you. I went to a party SEC school, and it’s not really like the movies portray college life. Don’t get me wrong, I had fun in college, bu…
/r/seduction21/02/22 10:24 PM
27

Some of you are gonna have to cope with this, but very very very few top tier women want a fat slob. You don’t have to have a 6 pack and be jacked. Just be clean cut, healthy, and take care of yourself. I’m 155 pounds and 6’1. Definitely a slim guy who has had no problems getting women. I’m working on gaining muscle, and it’s been a great confidence boost.
/r/seduction21/02/22 10:21 PM
116

You guys ever scrolled through Instagram and see a hot girl post a photo with her boyfriend? Most of the time the guy is either average or even borderline ugly. Sounds like cope, but I seriously used this as motivation my first few months in college. It got me the courage and the “care free” attitude with women. Too many guys really overthink it. I get it, it can be intimidating and awkward. Just have to break the ice.
/r/seduction21/02/22 09:22 PM
2

23M not in college.
/r/seduction19/02/22 11:58 AM
5

You don’t want these type of women honestly.
/r/seduction18/02/22 09:23 PM
1

It’s true
/r/seduction17/02/22 04:07 PM
1

She definitely had a good time. I made her squirt.
/r/seduction17/02/22 10:48 AM
6

I understand where you’re coming from but we took things pretty slow, and I asked her multiple times through the hook up if she was okay. She said she was fine. If anything, she’s the one who started to unzip my pants.
/r/seduction17/02/22 09:53 AM
2

I’m 23M. On the younger side, but girls my demographic don’t seem into serious relationships. At least most of them. I still go on dates quite often with girls, but I keep expectations low. Sometimes I get a hookup out of it, sometimes I get a summer fling. I haven’t had a real relationship since I was 20, when me and my “high school sweetheart” broke up. I’m kinda just going with the flow.
/r/seduction17/02/22 06:43 AM
36

Good eye contact, posture, meaningful conversations, and a well toned voice does the trick. Ice cream ends, “so do you wanna go back to my place and watch a movie?” Works every time.
/r/seduction17/02/22 06:32 AM
19

I met her at the dog park and she started talking about religion during our first conversation. Her dad is a pastor and all that fun stuff. Her Instagram had a bible verse in the bio, and a couple of religious like posts. Definitely the first time I’ve gotten a girl like that pretty easily. This little ice cream hookup endeavor was our first “date.”
/r/seduction17/02/22 06:26 AM
14

She definitely did considering I got her to squirt after fingering her.
/r/seduction17/02/22 06:20 AM
45

Maybe my seduction got the best of her? Kidding. Nah, she’s super religious and I was kinda shocked we ended up going all the way. She was big on dedicating a relationship to Christ, and appreciated the bond of a significant other. Oh well.
/r/seduction17/02/22 06:15 AM
20

Possibly. She also seemed like a goody good as well.
/r/seduction17/02/22 06:01 AM
4

You’re in. Don’t fuck it up.
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:57 AM
2

Ugly people have sex too lol
/r/seduction16/02/22 07:17 PM
235

Reddit moment
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:06 AM
1

It takes time man. It took me well over a year to completely move on if I’m being honest. Really try to better yourself, and set goals for the future. Sounds like cliche advice, but it’s true.
/r/seduction15/02/22 04:24 PM
6

People typically don’t start settling down by 25 or 26.
/r/seduction14/02/22 12:41 PM
1

It’s normal on apps. The majority of women, and top attractive men have plenty of options on dating apps. Go cold approach, and use dating apps as a supplement. If you say you’re getting decent amount of matches you should get lucky with a potential date from there. Even a hookup too if the date goes well.
/r/seduction14/02/22 04:03 AM
1

Go for younger hotter women. They tend gravitate towards older guys.
/r/seduction12/02/22 09:47 PM
1

Maybe I’m a doomer, but I always thought dates in the winter were harder. You’re kinda limited to just coffee, restaurants, and movies for the average guy.
/r/seduction12/02/22 08:43 PM
5

Just be enthusiastic. Starfishes are boner killers
/r/seduction10/02/22 09:26 PM
1

Their accents would say they were from the area…
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:00 PM
51

Hinge for girlfriends, Tinder for flings and hookups. However, these apps should be used as supplements to meet women. Going out in the public and approaching is still the way to go. I’ve met a lot of great girls at the dog park, and even school. Instagram DM’s will work if you have a nice looking profile and are attractive. God forbid if you somehow get a blue check mark on your profile….
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:48 PM
6

All I’m gonna say is, it became much easier to get laid when I moved into my own place. I have somewhere take my coffee and ice cream dates after….
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:23 PM
2

I think you’re just making excuses man. You wouldn’t get girls anywhere you go with that attitude. I live in Tennessee, and many white women I know fucked Black/Latino/Asian guys all the time. Especially in college too! These were beautiful white girls with high status as well.
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:17 PM
1

Nothing is sexual over Tinder or other texting forms. Either me or her will ask what plans are for the night, and I always suggest they should come over and watch a movie. She shows up, we make small talk for anywhere between 15-45 minutes, and I eventually lean in and kiss her. We go from there, and it always leads to a smash. I always welcome them to stay over. I give them a kiss on the forehead or a slap on the ass when they walk out the door the next morning. Sometimes I never hear from them…
/r/seduction10/02/22 04:33 AM
1

It depends man. I’ve had girls match with me on Tinder, ask what I’m doing tonight, I insist they come over, and we’re smashing all within an hour of matching. Doesn’t happen very often, but I sometimes appreciate the low effort hookups.
/r/seduction10/02/22 12:53 AM
1

Well said. They’re all just girls. I’ve banged 10s, but I’ve also banged some 4’s……..
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:10 AM
-1

Similar background as you, but I’m honestly boring to most women in my demographic. I’m 23M, who just started a career as an airline pilot. I go on dates, and get women often, but nothing usually develops. My reasoning? I believe it’s because I’m not really into parties and nightlife like I used to. These girls have nothing to talk about besides parties, drinking, and sometimes their nicotine addiction. Women love the “chad” pilot background, but kinda don’t find compatibility with me once we tr…
/r/seduction09/02/22 03:09 AM
2

You should be fine.
/r/seduction09/02/22 01:20 AM
32

Never take the condom off with some woman you barely know, or don’t see the future with. I’ve banged hot Au Pairs as well, but I didn’t let them decide if I should wear a condom or not. Pregnancy is quite frankly hard to conceive, but you can never be so sure. Family friend became a dad thanks to pre cum even though he pulled out way in advance. He didn’t know the girl switched birth controls, and the new birth control hadn’t kicked in yet. Pre cum doesn’t carry sperm unless you urinate after. H…
/r/seduction09/02/22 12:46 AM
5

When the fall semester started, it was quite common for the seniors to bang new freshman their first week of moving in.
/r/seduction08/02/22 11:25 PM
25

I’m 22M, just graduated college as well. I don’t know why, but it’s much easier to pull college freshmen than graduates or even a lot of seniors. They treated me like a celebrity.
/r/seduction08/02/22 06:13 PM
9

I’ll likely get downvoted for this, but I will lose interest if a girl I’m seeing casually doesn’t put out by the 4th or 5th date. If we've made out hot and heavy before, and you're not down to go all the way, I'll move on. The hot take here is, some girls don't realize this is the reason many guys eventually stop talking to them. It means I’ve likely failed with seduction, or her values regarding sex aren’t the same as mine. I will respect them, but I'm not willing to commit to a relationship j…
/r/seduction07/02/22 10:55 PM
13

Stop watching porn and masturbation.
/r/seduction06/02/22 04:18 PM
1

I’m in college and I always insist Ice cream or coffee for the first date. Save alcohol for later.
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:40 AM
1

Facial hair
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:29 AM
3

“hey I was wondering if you wanted to get ice cream at 6pm Friday?”
/r/seduction06/02/22 12:28 AM
3

I’m a pilot and took her flying.
/r/seduction05/02/22 05:32 PM
1

This is also my current dilemma. I get quality women to go on dates with me, but I can never get past the first or second date. I’m 22, and the older guys told MOST women my age aren’t really looking for something serious, and kinda just enjoy a good time with or without hooking up. So I’m kinda in a dilemma of trying to figure out expectations with a girl. My first and second dates are simple. Things like coffee or ice cream. I’m not needy, and honestly keep expectations low. The date will go w…
/r/seduction04/02/22 09:21 PM
10

I literally banged a new girl every week once I moved into my own place.
/r/seduction04/02/22 06:47 PM
3

Yep. That’s my problem. Can’t tell what a girl is truly looking for.
/r/seduction04/02/22 02:42 AM
5

I don’t know man, the girls when I were in high school were quite open lol
/r/seduction04/02/22 12:01 AM
12

My problem isn’t getting matches, it’s building relationships after dates. I keep expectations low, and not needy. However, I’ll get ghosted after a great first or second date.
/r/seduction03/02/22 10:55 PM
5

Some of the hottest women I’ve ever met were super insecure. I grew up with girls as close friends, and they told me they “date down.” In other words, they’ll take a funny quirky guy over the Calvin Klein model. That’s not the case with every girl like this, but I’ve seen it a lot in real world experiences. I don’t mean to sound like an incel or pathetic, but there’s plenty of times I’ve said, “how did he pull her?”
/r/seduction03/02/22 01:28 AM
3

Honestly, this is stuff high school boys talk about.
/r/seduction02/02/22 11:18 PM
1

I keep expectations low with dating these days. If she’s a good wholesome girl, I’ll pursue a relationship. Otherwise, I’m just looking to lay.
/r/seduction02/02/22 05:23 AM
0

Lmao I’m not going after a particular type of girl. I’m just saying I’ve never pursued a religious girl before.
/r/seduction02/02/22 04:24 AM
70

Do you have a dog? Go to the dog park. It’s a gold mine.
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:44 PM
1

Spending thousands of dollars just for daddy’s little girl to get fucked 50 times a semester. I mean good for them, but I don’t think their dad’s would like to know lol
/r/seduction01/02/22 11:11 PM
3

Been there done that. It seems to be the nature of dating off these apps. I’ve fucked the shit out of girls who gave me the “it’s not you, it’s me.” speech. I’ve also gotten the “you’re such a great guy, but I’m not feeling it” with girls I didn’t hook up with. Dating is indeed a numbers game, and you gotta just keep going until you find one that sticks. Particularly with one that you truly like. I’m 22M, and just graduated from college. I had success with casual flings and hookups. I was trying…
/r/seduction01/02/22 10:29 PM
1

Correct!
/r/seduction01/02/22 10:20 PM
3

Probably a fake account my guy
/r/seduction01/02/22 08:45 PM
1

College parties my guy. You’ll be surprised how much the girls come on to you. There’s a decent chance you won’t have to put much effort in. I’ll get downvoted for sounding like an incel, I’m never sending my daughter to college lol. I just graduated from a party school, and I felt bad for a lot of the dad’s back home.
/r/seduction01/02/22 03:10 PM
1

I know plenty of good looking guys who lowered their standards because they were down bad. Some of the most average and crusty dudes I’ve met have bagged total smoke shows. Lots of circumstances involved
/r/seduction31/01/22 12:28 AM
24

Dude, below average looking guys got pussy in college too. Even the fat kids. You’ll just have to experiment more and be more direct.
/r/seduction30/01/22 06:02 PM
57

Bro, at college frat parties you make small talk with a girl, and literally ask her “do you wanna make out for fun?” I’m above average looking, but not the typical college chad wearing a hat backward 24/7 with a limited vocabulary. That line worked pretty well for me during my 4 years at college. I just graduated from a party SEC school. I wasn’t in a frat, but all my good friends from high school were. I was able to participate in many frat activities without being in a frat. It was quite the e…
/r/seduction30/01/22 05:21 PM
5

Yeah, attractive people get hit on.
/r/seduction30/01/22 12:18 PM
72

You know, a gay guy once told me something. If gay men are hitting on you, you’re good looking, and shouldn’t have issues getting women. It’s all about socializing. Women love guys who are charming and interesting. You’ll have to get more experience in this aspect, but it’ll eventually come to you. This is coming from a guy who was very socially awkward in high school and college. Attractive women would show interest in me, but I would blow it by acting like her brother.
/r/seduction30/01/22 10:45 AM
1

Eh, I try to keep things realistic
/r/seduction30/01/22 10:18 AM
5

Yeah definitely continue with other options. There’s a good chance you’ll never meet this chick by the sound of it.
/r/seduction30/01/22 03:49 AM
2

“You caught my attention, and I know if I didn’t introduce myself, I’d regret it” has worked pretty well.
/r/seduction30/01/22 01:51 AM
1

They want you to buy a boost
/r/seduction30/01/22 12:43 AM
12

I’m not necessarily wrong though. It works backwards with successful guys on Tinder too. That’s the flaw of Tinder. You may score a hot date, but don’t feel too special.
/r/seduction29/01/22 07:13 PM
50

Hate to say it bro, but you met her on Tinder. She’s probably talking to 10 other guys. You’re in a battle. Keep expectations low with hot women you meet on these apps. If you want me to be even more brutal, another guy will be fucking her this week because he played his cards right. I’ve been there done that man. So have many other dudes. Score a date with a total smoke show, date goes well, you follow up and she leaves you on read. Don’t take it too personally, it’s just the nature of dating t…
/r/seduction29/01/22 06:55 PM
1

Reddit moment
/r/seduction27/01/22 01:41 PM
1

Every girl has a wild side to her. Some do a much better job at hiding it.
/r/seduction27/01/22 05:56 AM
8

It’s a big party town. It’s the new bachelorette central. Lots of women come here for a good time. The bar scene on Broadway will get you laid if you play your cards right. Are you ugly? Learn to play the guitar, and women will drop their panties for you. Play guitar and are in a no name band? They’ll wanna marry you.
/r/seduction27/01/22 04:53 AM
14

Vegas and Nashville
/r/seduction26/01/22 10:29 PM
4

22M here. I’m above average looking with 500 matches after one month of starting a Tinder account. It can and will eventually get you laid, but out of those 500 matches, I think I went on maybe 5 dates. I smashed 3 of them. Tinder can be complicated. The algorithm sucks, that 10 you matched with won’t message you back, and the girl who agreed to go on a date with you looks nothing like her photos. It’s quite common for people, particularly women, to use old photos when they were 30 pounds lighte…
/r/seduction26/01/22 02:49 PM
3

Either coffee or ice cream. If you think the vibe is right, ask her to come over to your place for a movie.
/r/seduction23/01/22 12:48 AM
6

Coffee shop or ice cream is the ultimate first date. Dinner is for the second or third date.
/r/seduction22/01/22 09:18 PM
4

Girls will think you’re cute, but won’t approach you. It happens, but it’s quite rare even for model looking guys.
/r/seduction20/01/22 08:47 PM
20

Give me a 7 with a good personality any day.
/r/seduction20/01/22 04:59 AM
1

I totally get where you’re coming from, but I think it’s more of just a nostalgia thing at this point. I should have blocked her from everything once we broke up, but we remained respectable friends afterwards. It’s quite obvious both of us still have a soft spot for each other, and sometimes it gets me thinking. I’ve banged 12 other women since her, got on multiple dates with various women, had other girlfriends with no issues. I’m doing well man. I’m quite happy in life.
/r/seduction19/01/22 05:15 AM
3

I’ll get downvoted, but a lot of young guys, including myself will get bored if a girl doesn’t put out in a timely manner. Especially if we’re both seeing each other casually. Don’t get me wrong, if I truly like a girl, and want to build a connection, I’ll most definitely wait to have sex with a girl.
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:19 AM
49

Complete opposite for me. I got my first girlfriend when I was 18. She was a true catch, and I completely fumbled the bag. I wished she was “practice run” material. I didn’t understand that back then sadly. Unfortunately, this girl was truly incredible, and the most compatible girl I’ve ever met. Right girl, wrong time. We still keep in touch, but it wouldn’t surprise me if her current boyfriend proposes to her soon. It’ll sting, but I’m happy for her. I’ve dated quite a bit since her and I spli…
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:08 AM
1

Watch a movie, do homework, etc.
/r/seduction19/01/22 03:03 AM
1

Do you have a dorm to yourself? Ask a girl if she wants to hang in your dorm and hang is a simple start.
/r/seduction19/01/22 02:58 AM
3

Part of the problem is, if you have one slight criticism of a woman, you get called an incel very quickly.
/r/seduction18/01/22 10:19 PM
1

I had a lot of success on Tinder when I used it last summer. I had 3-5 dates with different women each week at one point. I was honestly looking for friends, and casual hookups. It was way too time consuming, and I couldn’t emotionally invest in all of them. First world problems indeed, but I got overwhelmed and unfortunately a few girls did get ghosted. While caught up in this mess, I ended up losing a handful of quality girls that would have made great girlfriends.
/r/seduction18/01/22 04:37 PM
13

If she’s got her headphones in, don’t talk to her. You’re just out of luck unfortunately. You can usually tell if she’s interested in small talk. Simple ice breakers work great on airplanes. If all goes well, you can transition from small talk to a meaningful conversation. If you feel like a connection was made, ask for her number once you land. I recently made conversation with a girl on a flight home. She was visiting a friend in my city. We had a good talk, exchanged numbers, and I invited he…
/r/seduction18/01/22 01:55 AM
2

Man this takes me back to high school.
/r/seduction17/01/22 07:01 AM
7

I’ve got a few Eskimo brothers. We all have a good laugh about it every now and then.
/r/seduction17/01/22 02:22 AM
6

Yes, but don’t rely on it as a primary way to meet women.
/r/seduction16/01/22 06:36 PM
1

Women at bars if you’re at least a 7 and above in the looks category.
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:07 PM
11

Pilot
/r/seduction16/01/22 12:16 PM
23

Didn’t have that luxury. My parents are nosey, judgmental people.
/r/seduction16/01/22 12:12 PM
41

I’ve only fucked girlfriends at my parent’s house. It’s a tad awkward when you have to introduce some random girl you met at a bar 30 minutes ago that you’re gonna bang.
/r/seduction16/01/22 06:21 AM
156

Just moved out of my parent’s house at 22. I’m fortunate enough to be in a career where I can afford my own 1 bedroom apartment. It’s definitely a confidence boost, and makes pulling women so much easier. I have women spend the night all the time.
/r/seduction16/01/22 05:05 AM
1

I honestly feel like a 7.5. An 8 on a good day. My pics are mediocre honestly. I have too many selfies, one decent pic of me doing my hobby. I get 2-3 matches a day. I just made a new Tinder account and got 300 matches in a month.
/r/seduction16/01/22 02:03 AM
7

Honestly, it’s somewhat of an unpopular opinion on this sub, but Tinder has gotten me laid quite a bit. I have a weird work schedule, and work in a male dominated industry. Usually all I have to do is ask if a girl wants to come over for a movie.
/r/seduction16/01/22 12:09 AM
3

Well if you’re ugly, then confidence, money, and humor will get you laid.
/r/seduction15/01/22 10:03 PM
181

These type of women are only fun to hook up with. I really don’t invest too much time into girls like this. A girl with a 7/8 looks, with a good personality, and her shit together is a million times better than the 10 with the “basic” girl personality.
/r/seduction15/01/22 06:29 AM
23

It’s always the chubby girls who give the best head. How do I know? I’ve been down bad, and girls on Tinder have a tendency to use 3 year old photos when they were 30 pounds lighter.
/r/seduction15/01/22 05:27 AM
2

If I really like the girl, and want to build something with her, I’ll give it 6 months honestly. There’s always a variety of circumstances involved. I’ve had sex on the first date a handful of times. You just gotta respect girl’s boundaries.
/r/seduction14/01/22 04:30 PM
44

“Wanna make out for fun?” worked a handful of times during college parties.
/r/seduction14/01/22 03:42 AM
2

Yeah, they’re rich with a boat though.
/r/seduction13/01/22 07:51 PM
0

Tinder for flings and one night stands, Hinge for an actual relationship. You’ll see many posts about it online, but make sure you have decent photos on your profile. Most guys, even if they aren’t the best looking, fail at online dating apps because their photos just simply suck.
/r/seduction13/01/22 02:11 PM
7

Sometimes you get pussy out of it. Can’t bang them all though.
/r/seduction13/01/22 12:33 AM
35

My worst trait when I started dating, is that I would be way too invested after 1 or 2 dates. I now keep myself realistic, and understand these women are talking to 3-5 other guys. Keep expectations low, and whatever happens, happens.
/r/seduction12/01/22 05:45 PM
35

Nashville is pretty fun. If you’re looking just to lay, there are tons of girls on vacation here looking for a good time. It’s a Southern Las Vegas. Go to Broadway on a Saturday night, and you’ll be able to get a girl back to your place within 30 minutes if you play your cards right.
/r/seduction12/01/22 01:01 PM
2

Before I get called an incel, no I don’t care for these women either. 99% of the time they never got validation from their father growing up, and now have to depreciate themselves to thirsty men on social media. Never give these type of women attention.
/r/seduction10/01/22 12:32 AM
1

Being friends with my high school sweetheart was possibly the worst thing I've ever done. I still love her god damn it. It was puppy love, but I still think of her way more than I should. I've dated other girls since, but it still never altered my feelings towards a lost love. It's been 3 years since we were together.
/r/seduction08/01/22 02:18 AM
22

Stop jerking off.
/r/seduction07/01/22 04:43 PM
19

Golden Retriever is the best wing man.
/r/seduction05/01/22 05:09 AM
139

Dog park is a gold mine
/r/seduction04/01/22 11:58 PM
0

Lift weights and bang multiple women
/r/seduction03/01/22 03:48 PM
2

Hinge for a relationship, Tinder for a fling or one night stand. I use both.
/r/seduction02/01/22 12:34 AM
10

Being a gentleman only works after 25. Women start to realize they actually have to have more than just good looks to settle down with a legitimate good guy. No I’m not an incel
/r/seduction01/01/22 01:21 AM
22

The regionals are getting some colleged aged single smoke shows though.
/r/seduction31/12/21 02:20 AM
255

Commercial Pilot here. Flight attendants bang the pilots, not passengers from my experience.
/r/seduction31/12/21 02:13 AM
9

In short, these apps are confidence boosters for average looking women, and demoralizing for average looking men. It’s not ideal for good looking men either. Women have the ability to be as picky as ever. The hottest women I’ve ever banged were from the dog park and night clubs. The “old fashioned” way will always be superior for picking up girls. Too many men rely on these apps to find women.
/r/seduction29/12/21 06:16 PM
1

How attractive are you from a scale 1–10?
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:05 PM
2

If you’re doing 20+ a year at my age, you’re probably an attractive guy in Greek life.
/r/seduction27/12/21 01:32 AM
1

Hinge for girlfriend, Tinder for one night stands.
/r/seduction27/12/21 12:34 AM
1

3-4 people
/r/seduction27/12/21 12:12 AM
3

Honestly, it’s a game of luck and being witty. You have to make some small talk then ask for her IG or Snap. You build from there and hope to get a date. If you’re trying to lay, the classic come over for dinner and a movie never fails. If you want to build something, ask to get coffee or ice cream. These apps have their pros and cons. I didn’t go to college and work in a male dominated industry. It’s gotten me laid a handful of times with no strings attached. A couple flings as well. However, t…
/r/seduction26/12/21 07:35 PM
33

King shit
/r/seduction24/12/21 05:41 PM
5

If you’re just trying to smash, have you come to your place and put on the worst movie imaginable. If you want to build something for a first date. Do a coffee date or ice cream. Pay for her. Don’t be boring and hope a second date ensues.
/r/seduction24/12/21 04:44 AM
2

Bro the girl I thought I loved at 15 turned out to be a lesbian. You’re gonna be fine. You’ll encounter many more girls. Especially when you’re 18-19.
/r/seduction23/12/21 11:02 PM
7

Be witty and make small talk. Ask her out for a simple date like ice cream or coffee. She’ll get bored quick considering she has 30 other dudes messaging her.
/r/seduction19/12/21 06:06 AM
2

I’m in a college town. I think a lot of these girl’s have heard worse from other guys.
/r/seduction11/12/21 04:00 PM
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