I’m a 22M in the US. I don’t seem to have a problem getting dates. However, I’m honestly looking for a relationship, and I can never get past the first or second date. The dates are easy going, I’m pretty personable and laid back, and the girl typically seems interested. Laughs at jokes that aren’t funny, good eye contact, etc. Granted, that doesn’t mean much, but it’s typically a sign they’re enjoying themselves.

The dates end, they say they had a great time, and we make plans for second or third date, but they never seem to come to fruition. I always feel like I’m doing something wrong. I’ve had a couple people tell me girls my age aren’t really looking for commitment. Hope this post doesn’t give incel vibes, but I’m curious if any other people who have been in my position have advice.