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Red Pill Theorysjswander94/r/TheRedPill29/08/19 07:58 PM
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I haven’t been on here in a minute. TLDR. If your no is pushed back on its 1 of 2 things. 1 relationship isn’t in your frame your not respected 2 she’s too far gone to fix.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/24 01:09 AM
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I haven’t been here in a while…. I found best reaction I would get was when I didn’t give an answer. I would always playfully say guess… mystery is your friend. Reveal as little as possible.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/23 11:12 AM
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Agree. I think it was meant to be this way planned if you will, the demise of our society doesn't seem organic to me. Who's ready for the 2nd American Civil War, shits getting real hot about to explode.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/20 01:37 PM
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I’ve never had this problem but it makes sense
/r/askTRP01/09/20 12:22 PM
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I see the error I made. Thankyou for the advice
/r/askTRP30/08/20 02:06 PM
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Thank you. I do as a matter of fact continue to cold approach and game other girls including her. I’ve gotten to the point where I’ve been getting approached by girls very often. She certainly knows she can be replaced as it’s demonstrated every time we hangout publicly and girls come up to me offer numbers flirt ect... I suppose my real dilemma is my own emotional stability with this situation how do I stop myself from ruminating on this
/r/askTRP30/08/20 03:23 AM
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she has the tingles
/r/askTRP07/08/20 04:02 PM
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They are subject to their emotions, and we are not or we are but not as much. Sex is only a mans weekness when he's deprived of it. Pussy holds no power over you if your getting it regularly.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 06:20 PM
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If your a beginner start with a full body workouts 2x a week for a few months. Then move to an upper lower split 4x a week. By your second year you should be doing Push/pull/Legs off 6x a week if your really dedicated. Calories in vs calories out with enough protein to retain mass is literally all that matters for fat loss. Burn more calories than you consume and I promise, you will lose fat. It makes it easier if your full so eat foods that are high volume low calorie.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 02:08 AM
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I think the setting is important. I wore this and cool shades to a boat/beach party and at one point or another everyone made comment about it. You don't need to go over the top.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 01:55 AM
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Its easy when you have enough mass on your frame and your body burns a lot of calories to maintain it. I tend to stay lean naturally, I'd say 15% bf (Chris Evans in Captain America) is where my body is at homeostasis. So if I eat low calorie high volume meals its actually very easy to stay under 10%, even with a few cheat days a month.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 09:21 PM
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10% is a good off season bf. Its best to be 8% and yolked enough to fill clothes.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 03:14 PM
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You can start by reading the side bar buddy. Get yourself in marvel superhero shape. You need to funnel more girls on to your prospective girlfriend list. Don't latch onto one girl, play the field and find out what it is you like in a woman so that further down the line when your ready you'll know what you want. You lack inner confidence you need to have that before you even think about getting into a monogamous relationship. So for now just casual dating and building your self.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 06:51 PM
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You can accept that she post pics like that, or you can find another girl who doesn't post pics like that.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 12:10 PM
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Anavar is better for power lifting just saying. I'm not going to tell you to stay away from gear even tho your way too young, but dude compete in non tested competitions. Don't be a fraud own your shit and if anyone has anything negative to say about it fuck them who gives a shit. Fuck fake nattys own your shit its nbd to be on gear....
/r/askTRP27/06/20 12:08 PM
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Its bullshit bro. I've fasted for 2 years no benefit. Started eating protein first thing in the morning and my strength improved along with my muscle retention during cuts.
/r/askTRP27/06/20 12:01 PM
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I like it re-worded and re-framed as " I'm not hers its just her turn"
/r/askTRP27/06/20 11:58 AM
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I'm an amateur bodybuilder so mine varies between 5-12%. 7-8% is the best for the beach but you lose size in clothes. Any lower than 7% scares people, 8-10% is best for the rest of the year, you'll look good in clothes and with your shirt off. 12% looks best in clothes obv you'll have good abs but not razor sharp shreds that make peoples jaw drop.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 02:46 PM
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I live In Nyc epicenter of this bullshit in the U.S.. During this whole shit show I've been approached by more women than any other time in my life. These girls are horny as fuck it's like the world was flipped upside down.
/r/askTRP09/06/20 02:37 PM
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Invite her over you place and then have sex with her...
/r/askTRP09/06/20 02:34 PM
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This. I think martial art guys make a special kind of bond. When your fighting or sparring someone daily there's a mutual respect there and its as masculine as a relationship could get. Not to mention all of your friends will be savage.3
/r/askTRP08/06/20 03:37 PM
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I didn't quit and I was never "addicted". When i have multiple girls on rotation I literally dont have time to jerk off, maybe 1 or 2 times a week as opposed to everyday or 2x a day when I wasn't getting laid. Not sure if that's a strategy, but when you have a stable sex life pieces of the puzzle tend to fall in the right places.
/r/askTRP08/06/20 03:34 PM
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I disagree. Newbs ,more than anyone, can re-comp in a deficit and a surplus most certainly isn't necessary. IMO if you don't have abs that tie into your serratus you have no business eating in a surplus. If your lean enough you can shoot for a 100-200 calorie surplus and see how your body reacts. Some people have amazing genetics and partition calories more toward muscle growth and don't gain fat , if that's the case yea eat maybe 300-500... IME most aren't that lucky and 100- 200 calories over …
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 07:15 PM
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Depends on what you think is optimal. For me its 7% ending a cut and maybe 10% in the off season. It's quite simple actually. Eating less calories than you burn in a day combined with a solid base of muscle mass and you'll get shredded.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 02:06 PM
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Truth. 100 calorie surplus is enough and to be honest you don't need a surplus to gain muscle progressive overload does the trick by itself.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 02:04 PM
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You don't appreciate the sunshine unless you've been in pouring rain. Highs and lows are a part of life, stoicism is a great practice to keep a steady baseline.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:33 PM
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I'm a bit of a psychonaut. The last thing I care about when tripping is pussy. So for me no, but it changed my perspective on other important things in my life like how I treat people ect..
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:28 PM
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If your balding was a result of some outside influence like stress as opposed to male pattern baldness then maybe your body is no longer affected by those outside influences. You can't reverse actual male pattern balding unless you use a drug like finasteride. Also increased testosterone will not make your hair grow on your head but will everywhere else.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:23 PM
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The point of not giving a fuck is to be your genuine self as opposed to acting in a way you think would make people like you. Genuine people are loved and hated, nobody is perfect and not everyone will like you so who gives a shit.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:18 PM
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Maybe he's just sharing his conquest with his boys. My friends tell stories of how they boned chicks and so do I, whats the problem?
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:14 PM
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I've had success financially in the past and lost it due to foolish choices. I can tell you first hand that $ doesn't make women want you. It makes them want your money and to get it they fuck you. Get jacked and shredded you'll be fucking the rich guys wives. Game and physique IMO are the only 2 things you need to get laid. Everything else is irrelevant when it comes to getting women. Make money for you not for them.
/r/askTRP05/06/20 01:10 PM
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So true. Also everyone neglects the fact that being sub 10% makes your face more attractive, your jaw more defined and cheek bones more angular. Here's how its done. Find a routine that has progressive overload with heavy weights and combine it with a caloric deficit. Doesn't matter if its keto IIFYM low fat ect... the one you can follow consistently is the one that will work. The world of women is different for guys who have an amazing physique.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 01:04 PM
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The ego cannot exist in the present. IMO Tolle is on the money. I’d love to sit down and have a beer with him lol. It’s not something that you can really understand. It’s only comprehended through direct experience. For example LSD,whether your for it or not, brings you to complete presence. Experiencing true ego death is ducking terrifying when it first happens. Resistance to it is what causes bad trips. Resist nothing allow your ego to die and you’ll experience profound peace. I don’t like to …
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 05:32 PM
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Controlling your emotions is something I’ve been practicing for a while. For me it creates heavy resistance and anxiety because I don’t feel in control . What actually works for me is observing my emotions and not identifying with them. You are not your emotions. Emotions are your body’s response to the thinking mind. So what truly works is to realize that you are not your thinking mind as wierd as that sounds. The thinking mind is a tool that should be used, not your identity. All pain and suff…
/r/TheRedPill23/02/20 05:11 PM
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I’m your man then. Over the past 2 years I’ve been working 60 hour weeks. Not traveling like you are but still working my ass off. Honestly it comes down to priorities. I made the gym my only priority other then work. I’d lift an hour a day at 4pm when the market closed eat my meal then work until I couldn’t anymore. Got home eat my final meal. Meal prep was a major key in helping me maintain sub 10% the whole time. Sunday night I’d cook for 4 days and Friday I’d eat out for lunch and dinner. St…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:35 PM
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Good shit. Best of luck enjoy the blast it’s hard not to be confident on 500 mgs of test .
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:22 PM
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Learn how to fight. Bjj and boxing are more then enough. Most guys think they can fight just like most guys think they can get girls. The bark is almost always worse then the bite. Continue doing whatever you want and don’t respond to threats. Avoid physical confrontation but be prepared for it.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:06 PM
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Haha my exact cut cycle as well! Test cruise. 300 winstrol/ 50mg anavar a day 8 weeks. OP if hair loss is a concern you can do a test cruise with a SARM stack. You will easily gain at least 15lbs over the next 12-16 weeks. By the time May rolls around your hair will start looking better and your physique with it. It’s going to be a dramatic over night SMV increase. In the meantime continue to buzz it maybe grow a beard if itll looked good on you.
/r/askTRP27/01/20 09:01 PM
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Having quick wits is indeed a beneficial trait for one to possess. With sales, through repetition and practice your able to take any response and rebuttal it to change the customers perspective in a favorable light. A good salesman is often extremely witty and quick on there feet. I suppose it’s different context but you still have to be able to generate responses on the drop of a dime. In seduction it’s more or less the same thing. So being out in the field recording/remembering a large amount …
/r/askTRP27/01/20 08:35 PM
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You need to recognize that your time is finite. The pain of inaction must be greater then the pain of failure. You can’t just read a book or article that will make you start doing whatever it is you need to be doing. Sometimes in life tragedy can strike at a moments notice and turn everything upside down. Recognize that, appreciate the time you have and for fucks sake don’t waster it. Yesterday when Kobe died ( of course it was sad) I felt an extreme gratitude toward what I have going for me whi…
/r/askTRP27/01/20 08:27 PM
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Yes and no. more and more men know of the red pill. Its not about knowing or being a part of the community, that’s being RP aware not red pilled. I can pretty much guarantee you the number of people who walk the path is much much lower then the number of people who know of it. Most spectate from the outside, few put in the work and take action.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 06:33 PM
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The covert communication is your lack of emotional investment and abundance mentality/willingness to walk. 99% of the girls I’ve seen ask me at one point or another if I’m seeing anyone else because of my elusive behavior and lack of investment. I always dance around the question with none specific answers like “ you know just seeing what’s out there” or “ just dating”. Better yet ignore it give her a smirk and a kiss with an ass squeeze. I do agree that using snap/insta stories can instill comp…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:34 PM
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Doubt the guy is bragging about losing his v card at 25 and not getting IOI’s despite his effort and progress thus far. Seems genuine to me.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:22 PM
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I thought the same at one point but I decided fuck it. That’ll flip the script If she comes back around I’ll play it differently but I’m not going to chase her back. Fuck that. There are plenty more out there.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 05:17 PM
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Yea that’s what happens same with me. She did all the pursuing was wild as could be begged for my dick set always initiated contact, the whole nine. I was 100 af 0 bb and I shoulda did the 80/20. Plate broke o well, but now I know better and so do you.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 04:40 PM
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Calibrated is the best answer here Op. I’ve noticed even with girls who have high interest escalating too fast can come off a bit strong and scare them. Not escalating quickly enough can make a girl think your not interested and move on. I’ve been focusing on building tension, teasing and stronggggg eye contact.It helps me gauge their interest level and buying temperature. If your a normal guy You’ll know when to escalate, you see the invitation in the eyes and body language.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:51 PM
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Big fan of h&m for muscle t shirts. Fit great, not the highest quality but super cheap.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:43 PM
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Yes. Quit literally. Delivering bombs to people isn’t the best way to have your works published and be accepted by the intellectual community. Although his ideas have merit they’ll never be accepted by the mainstream.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/20 05:30 PM
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Yes. Sprinkling in comfort here and there keeps them around. Nobody wants to do 100% of the pursuing. Yes, you should have them chasing your validation. However you want them to think it’s something they can obtain, throw the dog a bone once in a while.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/20 03:06 PM
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Yea that’s true. I’m speaking from experience. 80/20 rule is a good template. I’ve broken plates by not dangling a carrot.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/20 10:41 PM
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I think there’s a healthy medium with chasing. I make that mistake all too often. If you have high smv, from what I’ve noticed, you’ll get chased initially but at some point you need to reciprocate a little to make her feels less like your cumdumpster.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/20 08:07 PM
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Yea I agree. Red pill blue pill still cogs in the machine. Only difference is one cog lifts has frame a mission and game. Granted one cog plays by his rules, he is still a cog in the machine. It’s scary how much sense he makes when he talks about autonomy and how it doesn’t exist as long as technology does. For the intellectual who wants to read for academic purposes go ahead. For anyone thinking it’ll help them understand, id tread carefully it can definitely send you into nihilism.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/20 10:41 PM
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Yea start using logic see how that works out. There’s no logic. It’s not hard to figure out why she wants to go. She wants to see magic mike and all his boys maybe blow 2 or 3 of em. Don’t worry tho it doesn’t count if it’s just strippers and blowies “it’s not the real thing” OP whatever you do don’t use logic. Also don’t give her ultimatums. Lastly don’t ask her if your broken up? Your the captain you get to decide who’s on board. If you have boundaries then enforce them don’t make blanket thre…
/r/askTRP17/01/20 04:39 PM
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Did already
/r/askTRP16/01/20 02:35 AM
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Any single mom that needs a payday is going to see betabux as the prize. As long as you see yourself as the prize you win is a more accurate statement.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:50 AM
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I’m not a doctor by any means. [here’s another source Harvard med](https://www.health.harvard.edu/mens-health/testing-your-testosterone-its-tricky. I’m sure it’s possible but highly unlikely that OP went from 250 to 1100, that seems absurd.
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:42 AM
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I’ve heard it before from in the bodybuilding world here’s a source
/r/askTRP16/01/20 12:34 AM
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Yea I understand that dude, I’m not saying your lying just saying having 1070 test is the limit. I don’t know much about finasteride other then it helps with hair loss. Perhaps it increases your test?
/r/askTRP15/01/20 10:36 PM
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You do realize that your natural free test can’t be higher then 1070 right?
/r/askTRP15/01/20 10:26 PM
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Don’t worry about other peoples smv bro. Worry about your own. Your overthinking the fuck out of your situation. You want to hangout with high smv guys. Join the best frat on campus the one that throws the best parties with the hottest girls. Problem solved
/r/askTRP15/01/20 10:24 PM
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This is true. Those shit side effects don’t happen until your truly shredded under 7% bf. I maintain 8-10 year round feeling just fine.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 10:17 PM
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The best advice I can give to anyone trying to get in shape is this. It’s a marathon not a sprint. Stay in it for the long hall. If it takes you 6 months a year 2 years who gives a shit keep your eye on the prize and before you know it your a beast turning heads. Your future self will be grateful you had the balls and determination to stick it out. So don’t worry about how long it’ll take worry about hitting your calories and the gym TODAY. To directly answer your question, I’d say 6 months - a …
/r/askTRP15/01/20 10:12 PM
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Kind of relevant to the the political debate here. Have you ever read the unabombers manifesto. Obv the guy had a screw loose, he made some valid points in his literature about liberals/conservative and the psychological mechanisms that cause them to think and behave the way they do. Crazy thing is he wrote this a long time ago and his predictions are coming to fruition now. “The conservatives are fools: They whine about the decay of traditional values, yet they enthusiastically support technolo…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/20 12:21 PM
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Yea movies not a good date. Make your intentions known. Don’t waste your time beating around the bush. Escalate on the date. Don’t wait for signals or signs or whatever assume attraction.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 12:29 AM
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Stay away from alcohol best you can. It takes away your self control or at least It does for me. Other then that try to be more mindful. Before you do something take a minute and reflect. You won’t be able to do this 100% of the time but make the effort. Ask yourself, would I act this way (say this/do this) if I had 10 hot girls fucking me on the reg?
/r/askTRP14/01/20 08:21 PM
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Late to the party but this is savage.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 08:03 PM
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Yea that’s exaggerated but seriously tren can take you from 20% to 10-12% with more muscle in 2 months with a solid deficit.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 07:18 PM
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This. Seriously OP tren is fucking insane you can eat barely anything gain muscle and lose crazy amounts of fat in just 3 months. I’d stay away from t3 tho a lot of people have fat rebound once they come off. If you go the anabolic route don’t be stupid start with low doses have a pct ready and make sure you have aromasin to combat sides during the cycle. Also consider that tren could make you paranoid as fuck and isn’t the best for your mental health.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 07:16 PM
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It doesn’t matter what you do really. Ideally your date should be near your pull location. So pick a coffee shop park bar lounge restaurant ice cream shop whatever you want, just make sure it’s close to the Sex spot.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 07:13 PM
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If you already gained a solid amount of muscle you should cut and preserve your mass. Your not building mass while shredding up unless your new:
/r/askTRP14/01/20 07:00 PM
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More context. Why are you talking to her for weeks without setting anything up or sealing the deal?If I get a girls number I set a date quickly. If she denies or flakes she gets one more chance then no more attention whatsoever I’ll move on to another prospect.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 06:52 PM
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Test is great ain’t it
/r/askTRP14/01/20 03:03 PM
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Yes this is it OP. No need to text all day everyday. Still you should give her some attention as a reward. I don’t think there should be a certain period of time before texting her. Just don’t go overboard you’ll be good.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 01:51 PM
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Hit the nail on the head here.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/20 12:55 PM
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Yea I mean my end goal is passive income. Real estate and food chains. Lay out cash get a food chain like chipotle or McDonalds or something and expand. If I can get good locations for them I’d be set. Obviously it’ll take some money to get it going but once it’s a great source.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 02:34 PM
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I do I just started at another firm only a couple of clients transferred assets. So my money under management is 10% of what it was. So I have to rebuild.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 02:22 PM
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Idk. It’s not permanent I can always go back to my other job. I’ll just be postponing the work load I guess if I take that route.
/r/askTRP13/01/20 01:36 PM
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Yea man. I know a insta famous chick who’s dating a guy 5 points lower in the looks area but he’s a bad ass dude. He’s a race car driver and mechanic. He’s not loaded but he’s got a cool ass hobby that gives him high SMV.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 11:41 PM
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Na it’s true. Charisma is the most important attribute. You don’t have to be chad to be charming.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 11:38 PM
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Amen brother. Size is the prize and swole is the goal. Get big get shredded and your in the top 1% of men physique wise.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/20 09:58 PM
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My point is that the value given to paper is arbitrary. I agree with your idea of taking fiat currency and exchanging it for real assets 100%. Dude gold has held value forever and always will
/r/askTRP11/01/20 06:49 PM
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Yea yea
/r/askTRP11/01/20 04:38 AM
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Hold my dick faggot I’ll delete it. Not trying to circle jerk trying to encourage. Fuckin prick
/r/askTRP11/01/20 04:28 AM
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And your over hear talking about respect. Damn bro... i was just offering another perspective. Again best of luck it’s Friday and I’m heading out to approach woman and guess what. I’ll more then likely pull or seal a date for tomorrow night. Have fun being a bitch and so called “respecting” women. I hope you don’t act like a tough guy in person( probably to pussy just a keyboard warrior) you’d get smacked the fuck up. Shove it up your ass, have fun jerking off prick.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:57 AM
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I wish I could take you out with me and show you. These girls ,not all but most are so receptive to approaches. Ever think that a girl could feel sexual attraction toward you but felt stuck because she’s be slut shamed for approaching a guy. I mean they are so appreciative of men approaching them and being genuine, no beating around the bush man to woman it’s so foreign to me that you consider it disrespectful. It turns them on dude. Men are supposed take action and go for what they want. If a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:52 AM
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Losers mentality. Get some balls and approach. This is absolutely ridiculous. 2020 is some time to be alive man. No wonder I do so well my competition is fucking pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:30 AM
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What if your not around attractive women often or have mutual friends? I’ve literally had girls thank me for approaching them because they wanted to meet me and were too nervous
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:28 AM
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How do you admire her company without approaching her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:25 AM
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But why is wanting sex and thinking a girl is attractive disrespectful?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:24 AM
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You said approaching a woman is disrespectful. How else are you supposed to meet new women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:20 AM
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Respect isn’t just given it’s earned. For both men and women. You should be cordial with people in general. I’m struggling to understand why TRP is so bad. They’re are many examples of red pill dudes who aren’t bad people at all. TRP in a nutshell is about making yourself better with woman. You can’t negotiate attraction. It’s about confidence understanding female psychology and navigating social interactions. Why is it bad to want to fuck a girl and approach her. Why be apologetic for being a m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 03:17 AM
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Absolutely true.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:54 AM
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I’m a body builder so I do understand how this works very well. If I was 1 inch taller with the same development and bf I’d be 5lbs beaver.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:51 AM
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Agreed. Aesthetics over everything . I’m a body builder shooting for a pro card at the end of 2020 so I’m very well develop it was hard as fuck even with gear. Size is the prize swole the goal. I’d take being jacked and shredded at 5”10 then normal or even a little mass at 6” any day of the week
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:50 AM
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Height is accompanied by weight. If you had the same bf % and muscle development at 5”10 you’d weigh 5-7lbs heavier then at 5”9
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:48 AM
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Height usually = more weight. There aren’t height classes because weight is much more significant. I agree with that 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:46 AM
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Certainly. I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:35 AM
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Whatever works for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:16 AM
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I’m not an expert by any means. However I do have some training in boxing 2 years and jujitsu 1year. .Your hands are in a defensive position up protecting your face.Moreover having long limbs in jujitsu is extremely beneficial it helps you more easily keep opponents in your guard and also make certain locks. I have had my fair share of street fights, more than I’m proud of. Those two Disciplines have help me protect myself defend others and also win.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 01:03 AM
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Ok sure. I can see validity in that response.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/20 12:55 AM
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Wrong attitude. Women don’t owe there partner shit. It’s not a reward but rather a result of attraction. You can’t control your woman’s Sex drive but you can make yourself a more fuckable get jacked shredded prioritize yourself instead of appeasing to her. Acting like a good little boy is operating in her frame. Frame is a masculine trait. Withdraw attention work on yourself and In turn shell want to fuck. If not good riddance and find a girl who does appreciate you and wants you just as much as…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:46 PM
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The evolutionary part is only half the reason the other half is that western society has placed value on height.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 11:38 PM
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Of course it is a huge advantage that’s my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 07:19 PM
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Women just have a genetic disposition toward fat gain. Men have testosterone, testosterone means much more muscle mass which burns more calories. So it’s harder to get fat. That’d be the case for why more woman get fat later into their marriage over time. In the short term I couldn’t tell you. It’s gotta be somewhat equal but I’d lean toward men getting complacent.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:07 PM
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Perhaps. But if that were true why are their weight classes in the ufc. Why is reach an advantage?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:03 PM
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It’s not exactly a logical thing to think nowadays. Your right a trained and skilled fighter at 5”8 would fuck up a 6 pretty boy who has some muscle. But in nature without training the bigger beast is usually the winner. More mass momentum force ect... this is the reason women think this way. The brain hasn’t adapted to the circumstances it’ll take a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 06:01 PM
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I’m not exactly looking for carreer driven girls to be honest. You don’t have to be heavily invested in your appearance to be a beautiful girl. There’s an Australian hipster chick musician/artist her names slipping me atm but she’s a perfect example. She dresses like 50cent in 2002 replace the jeans with sweats and the jewelry with rope bead bracelet and necklaces. Her cloths are so baggy you can’t tell if she has curves. Throw a push up bra nice jeans and a little make up I bet she’s easily an …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:35 PM
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If your looking for a hoe you wanna fuck a round with for a while that’s cool. Tbh that’s mostly what I do. But if your looking for an LtR no.Like I said it can be done but it’s a time bomb. Ask this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:52 PM
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Oh I’m sure she had her fun that I prefer not to know about. But nowadays she’s just a sweet old lady that likes to make me pie. Unless that really was a whip and leather mask I saw in her bag the other day 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:59 PM
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Yea uhh I love my grandma so I’m gonna day no to this one. BTW she’s an excellent cook. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:54 PM
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Yea that’s very true for me as well. I get approached by 6s Everytime I go out. I consider myself the prize 10/10 but in reality I’m probably a subjective 8 or maybe 9 if I’m their type.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:47 PM
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Exactly. OPgotta girl telling you the facts hear her out. To add I’d say it’s more about frame then it is about your masculine or feminine traits. Of course strong frame is a masculine trait. Woman test your frame to see how masculine you are. They aren’t going to bully you they’ll just move on and find a real man.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:45 PM
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Dozens of times. Someone just did a post on hot guy game in the main sub. Approach a girl 2 or more points lower and you don’t really need to have game.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:41 PM
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Gold is not fiat. The amount of it is finite and determined by supply and demand. You can’t just print out gold dude. You buy stock with fiat currency. If the company is paid for its goods and services with Monopoly money it doesn’t really have value now does it?
/r/askTRP10/01/20 03:32 PM
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They keep raising the debt ceiling to avoid the collapse. It’s very simple economics here. I’m telling you read Peter Schiffs book dude. The guy is balls on accurate with his economic predictions. From 05-07 they were ridiculing and laughing at him on the financial networks. he’s right about what’s to come as well. Your right we are going to have some real serious problems in our lifetime. Be prepared buy gold and land real assets. This is going to happen virtually over night
/r/askTRP10/01/20 03:29 PM
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Alpha and beta have to do with your frame. Strong frame is an alpha male trait weak frame is a beta male trait. Woman have weaker frame then men naturally so its no surprise that beta males get laid. Its not so much about feminine characteristics. For example you can be a sensitive poet who is a romantic, have a strong frame and pull chicks just like the athlete who benches 405lbs who also has a strong frame. Douchbags do well with woman because they have a strong frame and IDGAF attitude. If yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 03:12 PM
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You cant control a bad girl homie. Maybe for a little while but eventually its gonna shatter. Can't turn a hoe into a housewife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:51 PM
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Good job. Over at TRP there is a way to view AWALT without saying all girls are eventually going to branch swing cheat and fuck chad ect.. The alternative is That all women are capable of it. That doesn't mean they will but they certainly can and you should be prepared if it happens. Like a loaded gun, it doesn't need to be fired but if it is and your in the cross hairs its game over. It's rare to find a girl with enough will power to say no to an absolute stud with killer game and consider the …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 02:41 PM
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Hot body. Make up can work wonders on the face. Can’t just make your tits and ass bigger or waist thinner with a make up bag.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:40 PM
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Woman aren’t as superficial as men. They are stimulated by emotions and we are stimulated by visual appearance. We see a hot girl and instantly we are attracted. Girls aren’t like that, except for very very good looking guys or guys with high status. It’s definitely easier to be a good looking guy I’ll give you that. Having solid game is a bigger asset. Combine the 2 and that’s what we call Chad Thundercock. To answer your question I’d say have a cool haircut good style and be in decent shape 15…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 01:35 PM
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Ok I could care less what u think go through my post history. I don’t know how you managed to get that opinion. I’m done here have a nice life I hope I fuck your mother sister and wife. It’s clear you dillisionef by the bp society. Edit: oooo I see now. Your a girl! That’s why you don’t get it haha! I’ll be in the corner if you need me sucking my thumb not procreating! Good on ya chick didn’t mean to be that harsh on you poor girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:36 PM
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I have 6. Rape are you serious?? I’m a stud . I don’t need to rape the reason I won’t get married is because your girls all cheat on you with me and I’ve seen that happen too much with good girls. I don’t wanna be on the other side. Fuckin George Clooney took how long before he gave in. You don’t know me. Your a prick I’m the furthest thing from an incel. Go to TRP main sub. There’s a post called now I am chad the destroyer of pussy. That’s a good one I relate to that shows why I won’t get marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:32 PM
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Why is that I if I want a kid all a I have to do is nut inside a plate a few times.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 12:18 PM
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Spinning plates puts you in an abundance mindset. If you have multiple options, good options, you won’t invest emotionally in them too much. Thus it helps you stop developing oneitus(crippling soul sucking disease for men)It’s really hard to like 5 or 6 girls with a deep passion when your seeing all of them semi regularly. Also it gives you a peek into female psychology if your around multiple woman your sleeping with often you’ll start to see how they think. You understand them better and it gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 05:01 AM
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I agree with the first paragraph betas focus to much on the fluff. The second I’d like to argue that they should not disregard pua material. A lot of push pull teasing is a part of natural game. How a social interaction between man and woman turns sexual naturally even if the guy never heard of pickup. A lot of pua material is gimmicky without a shadow of a doubt,you can be an alpha male and have the pua skill set as well that’s called pimpin. I agree that authenticity is paramount as well. You …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:54 AM
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The incel community giving bad advice and asking dumb shit that’s in the side bar on the main sub
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:45 AM
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Yea with the amount of people getting divorced (depending on where you live it’ll vary) it’s a raw deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:41 AM
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It doesn’t matter. They’re are plenty of chicks out there who love the bad boy type. Logically everyone of them will say no but if your game is solid wont say no. Wouldn’t exactly put it in your tinder bio.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:40 AM
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Very common. It really depends on how tight your social circle is. A small group of people probably not often. But if you have a large social circle it’s inevitable.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:37 AM
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Because society says that a man should pay. It’s called being the provider. You can buy a girl a drink if you want too it’s not a big deal. In the case of chicks at the club just tryna get free bees I wouldn’t.I always say you get the first and I’ll get the next if they don’t bite it’s a no go.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/20 04:34 AM
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Wow that’s some crazy situation you got there. Best of luck with everything. She cheated my man actions over words the “love of her life” is just her hamster rationalizing. Regardless it’s a tough break. I wish you nothing but the best.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 02:32 AM
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Here’s my case in a nutshell. The US $ is no longer a real asset, it hasn’t been since 1913 and the final nail in the coffin was in the 70s when it was no longer based on golds value. As soon as people become keen to the fiat currency everything will crumble. Every federal reserve note is literally representative of money owed debt, not an asset. The party will come to an end. This is 100 years in the making. This depression will not be anything like what we’ve had in the past. The US government…
/r/askTRP09/01/20 02:48 PM
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Btw to Idk how old you are but when I was 17/18 I worked as a delivery driver for 20-25 hours a week. I did one 10 hour shift on Sunday and took whatever hours were available to me during the week I made 300-500$ a week.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 02:54 AM
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Best response. I use this all the time and it works like a charm!
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:25 AM
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Yea noting personal but in 2020 I don’t want my name associated w TRP as a precaution I don’t know if I have clients on here or if it could potentially duck with my business reputation so I plead the 5th.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:19 AM
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Make sure your form is money. After that what you can do is isolation work. So on lay raises do an extra set on the un even side or 1 less set on the dominant side. My buddy switched from barbell to dumbbells followed that advice and fixed his asymmetrical chest.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:13 AM
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Well yes this is true but it’s not something that can’t be fixed. I body-build my back was asymmetrical because i used an over under grip for deadlift. You get more weight up that way. I switched to Romanian deadlifts. Lowered the weight until my left trap was as strong as my right. Then I trained them normal after the fix. In a nutshell asymmetrical muscle insertions can be worked around except for your abs.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:11 AM
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Bro. This is some high speed hamstering. Your not afraid to talk to girls because of your living situation. That’s the excuse your rational mind came up with because the alternative is that your a pussy and can’t work up the nerve to go after these hoes. Your ego is holding you back not your parents.
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:04 AM
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Brother man. I work 60+ hours a week. I still have time for powerlifting/bodybuilding at a high level. Planning on getting my pro card at the end of 2020 I’m a cunt hair away. I track every calorie every gram of protein carbs and fat. I cook all my own meals. I spend about 1.5 hours in the gym 6 days a week. How is this possible? Because I don’t make excuses and I do whatever the fuck I need to in order to accomplish my goals. Where there is a will there is a way my friend. Excuses are lame. 24 …
/r/askTRP08/01/20 12:01 AM
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I read it. Very interesting, overall it’s a good series. As you pointed out emotional trauma overwhelms your human brain breaks frame and causes you to act out, being victim to your lizard brain. I’m not sure how you gathered this about me but my frame is solid. Naturally my frame is solid, although I can recall a few times where my frame was shattered to the point where I had to resort to violence or my lizard brain but that was in my childhood or teenage years and the instances are scarce. If …
/r/askTRP07/01/20 12:24 PM
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Ok. I don’t know what would qualify as emotional trauma I don’t have a fucked up childhood, was never abused, addicted to drugs,cheated on ect... I’ll give it a read anyway. I have no idea what ragd is.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 03:39 AM
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I’ll be honest I have goals written down, checked off or in progress with my professional life but not for my social life. I think I’ll do the same with relationships. I appreciate the suggestion. I suppose I never considered what I like in a girl or what I should look for aside from the more basic traits.
/r/askTRP07/01/20 02:56 AM
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It’s true. I already see it. Sometimes You see some chump with an absolute stunner and think to yourself what the actual fuck.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 11:37 PM
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Only when it’s a full moon.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 10:32 PM
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Insightful. I appreciate your take. Perception really is everything. I don’t know why I let my mind wonder to the darker places. I haven’t been cheated on or experienced branch swinging. As a matter of fact I’m seeing it from the inside not the outside. One of my plates has a boyfriend of 3 years who’s a great dude( as far as I can tell) yet she still comes over 2x a month to get plowed out. I’m not arrogant enough to believe I’m invincible because I’m not. I don’t know how else to say it withou…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 10:15 PM
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Yea I see why it’s the wrong mentality. It’s definitely fear based. I read the horror stories on here and it strikes the fear of god into me. Regardless if I was to settle down it wouldn’t be on paper. I get that 90% suck,I’ve come to see it first hand. Aside from sex most of em have nothing more to offer me. One of my plates literally just laughs at everything I say and repeats my own opinions back to me whenever we have a deeper convo,I don’t think she’s had any genuine input.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 09:37 PM
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I don’t think I’m ever getting married at this point, how could I at this point lol. As far as MGTOW, I’ll never go that route. They seem like they’re bitter toward women because they aren’t getting laid, this isn’t my case. Creative release. I’m glad you mentioned that. I used to play the guitar. I haven’t in 2 years because I’m consumed by my work but now that I think about it, jamming has gotta be the most therapeutic activity for me. I’m restringing my guitar today and bringing my amp in for…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 09:11 PM
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I definitely don’t have low test I’m on a cycle of test as we speak lol. My diet is quality. Not much sugar and I hit my calories each and everyday. Again I appreciate your input and good will.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 09:03 PM
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Appreciate the input. I should clarify I’m 3 years red pill aware meaning I knew what it was, read some post but didn’t actually swallow the pill and accept it as reality. I’d only consider myself red-pilled for a year. I have read the power of now before finding TRP, I’ll give the other one a read. Yes I have read in-depth about stoicism. I try my best to be as stoic as possible .Outwardly I remain stoic, I don’t show my discontent with women. As a matter of fact you’d think I love them. I get …
/r/askTRP06/01/20 07:57 PM
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FaIr enough
/r/askTRP06/01/20 07:28 PM
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I’m growing into a better man. I put in the work at the gym, in the office and in the mirror. I feel that is separate from my anger/hatred toward woman and I would continue to improve regardless. I know you shouldn’t be angry with women because it’s their nature to act like this and they’re doing exactly what they’re supposed to. But here I am. It can’t be healthy to feel this way. I don’t know where else to channel The emotions. I feel like I’ve exhausted all outlets. My own narcissism won’t le…
/r/askTRP06/01/20 07:24 PM
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You see I’m beginning to not enjoy female company at all. The other night I’m laying next to a plate just raging inside even after getting laid It’s there.
/r/askTRP06/01/20 06:34 PM
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This is the right answer OP. Preselection is a real thing. If your surrounded by hot girls or have tons of pics with hot girls on your ig she will assume(whether it’s true or not) that you have higher value then the hotties which is why they’re always around you. If she sees you with fatties or uglies or thotties, it will certainly lower your perceived smv.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 08:15 PM
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Then try another spot man. Bar tending is a good way to get some quick cash especially at a good place . Try the clubs bars everywhere.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:34 PM
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I’d get a job at the burgatta as a bartender save every dime pay off my debts and gtfo. Bartenders can do well especially at high end places.
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:27 PM
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I can’t tell you if it will effect your finances. But I’ve always thought along the lines of “look good, feel good, do good)
/r/askTRP02/01/20 10:09 PM
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No it’s not too late most investors don’t start until mid 30s. Your better off spending the money your making to improve your lifestyle learn new skills. If you want to invest learn how to trade yourself don’t go with a broker. Develop the skills necessary to earn 6 figures then you’ll have enough room to invest and still be liquid if you need the money.
/r/askTRP01/01/20 12:37 AM
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That’s right it certainly was. I was stupid didn’t save enough for taxes spent money on stupid shit like cars and tables/bottles instead of actual assets and now I’m starting over. I’ll do it again no doubt but this time I won’t be a workaholic. I basically worked my ass off for 2 years with my foot on the gas, I worked saturdays missed social events, family parties for what? Money? Financial freedom is sweet but your not really free if all you do is work. I’ll take my vacations this year. I’ll …
/r/askTRP30/12/19 03:54 PM
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I made a lot last year I’m 25 years old didn’t save of course spent too much and the irs wanted more. So I can make it but spending is what I need to work on.
/r/askTRP30/12/19 02:30 AM
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I’ll call bullshit here sir. If it was so easy and so lucrative why doesn’t everyone substantially grow their wealth through market investments. Him hint because it ain’t easy. Sure if it was 1960 and you wanted to get in an index fund it’d be a good move. However the economic conditions are no longer the same. How about when the dollar collapses ,which is inevitable, how’s your portfolio gonna look then or 10-20 years after? I won’t get into it but it’s not looking good. Check out peter Schiff …
/r/askTRP29/12/19 11:24 PM
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You need a “look” that fits you. For me I buy nice jackets, suits accessories and shoes from name brands like Armani but everything else I bargain hunt. Nice is subjective I could careless about what store it comes from for me it’s all about the fit. H&M has decent tshirts for cheap. Express has quality nice stretch jeans that go for 40-50$ while on sale. Macy’s department store always has some type of bargain as well.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 11:16 PM
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Yes. I’d recommend getting in shape first before spending money re doing your wardrobe. Get a couple pairs of nice jeans some nice botton downs to hold you over. But you’ll be pissed if you spend an arm and a leg buying clothes you won’t fit into in 6months. Form fitting clothes that compliment your physique are much better then Gucci this or Louis that. I’ll make a 10$ tshirt look like a million bucks if it fits right no need to over spend on name brands.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 11:08 PM
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It depends on the $amount. He’s not setting himself up for a nice future putting away 1k a month 12k a year 120k a decade. That’s nothing in the world of finance especially if you consider risk and inflation. I won’t even take a client who’s worth less then 2 million or has less then 500k liquid. Because I know how difficult it is to grow a portfolio at a rate that would be a significant impact on a clients finances. There are way more lucrative investments ( start upsout there that would be muc…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 11:04 PM
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Working too hard has setbacks. Unless your enjoying it or striving toward a financial goal that is paramount on your priorities list, working long hours (60+ a week) will have negative phycological effects. Find a balance, enjoy the fruits of your labor otherwise your just a cog in the industrial machine going through life with no autonomy. Do what makes you happy. I made this mistake. I worked my ass off for 2 years 60+ hour week, sure I made some money but lost it and now I’m more upset over t…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 10:41 PM
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Everything
/r/askTRP29/12/19 10:33 PM
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This is absolutely bullshit. There are plenty of woman, mostly 28 y.o. Or older (post wall), who value financial stability more then anything else. They had they’re fun fucking chads in there 20s when money didn’t matter (only good feels and good dick mattered)and now they’ll settle for a provider because fun time is over. Easiest way to lock down a chump with money is to get pregnant. It boxes the dude in and he now has the moral and legal obligation to make sure his kid has financial support. …
/r/askTRP29/12/19 10:32 PM
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No financial advisor who’s good at their job will accept a client who is only capable of having a small account under 100k. If stocks are something he wishes to invest in he’s better off learning to trade options and take advantage of market volatility otherwise it’s a waste of time. Think about it. The best equity traders on wall street net 30%, granted its with much more capital and its harder to trade in or out of positions depending on the company’s volume. So on 1k even with compounding int…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:29 PM
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I’m a stock broker. 1k in stock is a waste of time and money. Even if you get a solid return on investments let’s say 35%for the year( which is fantastic, the best hedge funds don’t even do this) your only making 350$. You should invest the money in yourself. Vacation/traveling experiences , wardrobe, gym membership, mma/boxing classes, at your age you should be building an image and investing in your future self. Until you have a reasonable amount of cash where the return on your investment wil…
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:23 PM
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Yes and no. Putting yourself through physical discomfort isn’t the same as emotional distress. It’s way easier to endure physical pain. Give it a shot maybe you’ll placebo yourself into a stronger frame.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 09:08 PM
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Yea kinda but more absurd. Hell str8 up tell a girl she left a slug mark on his chair then hand her a Napkin and tell her to clean it.
/r/askTRP27/12/19 02:42 AM
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Keep her around for sex , demote to plate, if you don’t have other plates rn. If I were you I’d be gaming other girls lining up a roster and exit strategy. God knows as soon as her grip is tight enough she’ll drop you and swing to the next branch. Your watching it happen before your eyes.
/r/askTRP23/12/19 04:39 PM
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He should got 6 sex toys 2 cuffs a vibarator a swing anal beeds and a boob job bam
/r/askTRP13/12/19 09:05 PM
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Enough with this “building solidarity” nonsense. No1 hangs out with a girl platonically unless it’s work related or a family member. You get to know your buddy’s gf in group settings 99.99% of the time. It is not normal for this to take place. If a friend of mine asked my girl to chill bc I wasn’t available there must be a hidden agenda. Stop spewing this shit. Honestly in what world does getting to know a friends ltr 1on1 seem normal and “build solidarity. Who the fuck cares about building soli…
/r/askTRP09/12/19 03:39 PM
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It doesn’t matter. It doesn’t seem like he’s trying since he asked OP first.However, Female male relationships for the most part aren’t platonic. Unless it’s in a group setting where those types of relationships are usually formed. I’ve gotten to know my friends ltrs perfectly fine that way, sometimes one on one convos take place. It’s not normal to hang out with a girl 1 kn 1 with certain exceptions like sisters cousins if your a beta orbiter ect... It doesn’t click, men usually (and rightfully…
/r/askTRP09/12/19 12:56 AM
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I just can’t relate at all
/r/askTRP08/12/19 11:09 PM
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1st of all he should extend the invitation to all his other friends first. If he wanted to get to know his buddy’s ltr A simple one on one conversation out in a group event is perfectly normal and fine. If a friend of mine extended an invitation to hang with my girl 1 in 1 that’s wierd
/r/askTRP08/12/19 10:24 PM
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I still think it’s strange. I would never consider asking my friends gf to hangout. I get he asked him 1st but there are other ways to get to know her not 1 on 1.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 10:03 PM
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Bullshit. No1 is homies with their friemds gf. Sure they can be friends but to do shit together w out him he’s got an angle.
/r/askTRP08/12/19 10:01 PM
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She can find another yoga class, more then likely she’s going for yoga chad especially bc he’s the one who ended it with her. All you can really do is have plates ready to go just in case. Trust your instincts if you feel somethings up it probably is. Soft dread should be a constant in the relationship.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:16 PM
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2nd this. Invest in yourself OP. Invest in espiriences more then material things. You’ll cultivate friendly relationships with both men and woman. Do things you like not things you think woman would like you for.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 11:01 PM
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Congratulations on your progress. If your “friends”aren’t inviting you out with them more then likely they aren’t real friends just acquaintances. What you can do is organize events/gatherings and nights out yourself. That should/could encourage them to reciprocate and start inviting you out places.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 10:59 PM
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OP this is quality advice. Your sad you need to get mad and do something about it.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 02:46 PM
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wtf is this nonsense.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:05 PM
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Calorie dense foods. 80% clean foods 20% junk. Stuff like peanut butter or honey will be very calorie dense and won’t fill you up. Also drink milk it’s an easy way to get in calories.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 01:02 PM
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So I still have AA but it’s not severe. In I go about it by upping the approach volume. Let’s say I go to a bar with 100 girls in it. I’ll be nervous the first 5 or so approaches. By approach 10 it’s les nervous more excited. If I manage to get in a large number of approaches it’s completely gone by the end. I carry that momentum over to the next night. I’ll start with a higher baseline. IMO going out a lot and consistently beating your AA is what’s going to eventually destroy it. All together.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 12:54 PM
3

It’s weird. Now I have the same antisocial experience that you do if I smoke. In my high school days I’d smoke while out every weekend and it had no effect on my game at all.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 02:40 PM
2

Tl;dr Yes dude. Cold approach is king. IMO it’s the cornerstone of real solid game. If your good at cold approach you’ll be good in almost any social situation.
/r/askTRP24/11/19 07:09 PM
10

You probably had high status/smv relative to your co-eds in hs.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 02:18 AM
5

You were pulling off cold approach and now you can’t?
/r/askTRP23/11/19 12:53 AM
5

Yea kind of, It’s seems a little butt hurt to go out of your way to cut her off like that. I think you should only unfollow block oneitus to keep them off your mind or someone you generally don’t like.
/r/askTRP20/11/19 04:00 PM
5

He ends it with indifference. “ plates break o well life goes on”. That’s exactly how I’d expect a red pill dude to reflect on his past plates. Grateful for the experience yet indifferent to the end result. Still moving forward without ruminating on “what could have been”.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:55 PM
6

How the fuck does this get upvotes on the red pill. What could have been? He’s still the prize it’s her loss not his. Fuck.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/19 12:47 PM
1

Like it
/r/askTRP19/11/19 10:38 PM
1

Ok this is more in line with what I’d say is the solution.o suppose my own narcissistic views of myself and my inflated ego helps me get laid but also puts their gaurd up. Essentially I have to invest time here and there along with some “niceties” in order to to keep it going.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 10:27 PM
1

Ok, I suppose this would be the obvious answer but after reading the horror stories of blue pill examples I’m overly cautious and I don’t really show much affection. 90/10 isn’t a bad ratio
/r/askTRP19/11/19 10:12 PM
1

I’m aloof. 0 comfort sorry if it wasn’t clear. Dude my smv is high. I have an aesthetic physique and a good lookiing face. I get approached often. As of late the quality of girls approaching has gone up. Enough said I don’t wanna be hubris. I’m keeping them with 0 investment on my end for about a month perhaps a little longer. They always initiated contact. Not once did I send a let’s hangout or come over text. I’m definitely giving off pump and dump fuck boi vibes. My boy who I used as an examp…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 10:09 PM
1

My problem isn’t expressing that I don’t need them. They know that. My problem is that they feel like I’m just using them for a pump and dump( I kind of am) and they don’t invest emotionally. Hope that clarifies. The side bar gives some pointers but it’s not covered as in depth as shit test.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 09:49 PM
1

Ok I can do that. On a verbal level how do I express I want them but don’t need them.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 09:31 PM
1

Yes. Attraction is absolutely necessary but isn’t always enough . Get her to somewhat invest on top of the attraction and you’ll have less flakes.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 04:18 PM
1

There’s no reason you can’t can’t go out. Your making excuses. You can easily get your studies done and have more then enough free time to work on your pimp game. As far as “family limiting your time”, that’s bullshit. We all (or at least most of us) have families. It’s time to be a man and put yourself first. You don’t have to neglect them. Reserve Friday and Saturday nights for gaming. Here’s a thought. Approach when you see a hot girl anywhere. Waiting for the bus, at the coffee shop, walking…
/r/askTRP19/11/19 04:11 PM
1

Sex god method... give it a read. Your number 1 priority is pleasing yourself.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 03:59 PM
1

what she don’t know won’t hurt her.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 03:56 PM
5

10k is enough for a little smv boost. Especially with the local crowd. I can vouch for it.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 01:16 AM
8

Fake it till you make it. Start acting a certain way and you'll change your internal dialogue naturally.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 12:31 AM
5

How do you continue from unreceptive reactions? Tease for your own amusement. Don't get hung up on the bad reaction, just move the interaction forward. How do you avoid apologizing? Calibrate. Did you take it to far? Different girls like different types of humor. And what are some good ways to practice without shooting specific shots I don't want to shoot yet? The best practice is going to be actual interactions. You can take up an impov or comedy class to think off the cuff a bit better.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 12:23 AM
1

It’s only 3 months . Good luck
/r/askTRP19/11/19 12:12 AM
24

You just need more experience. The more 9s you talk to the more comfortable around them you’ll be. after you bone a few it won’t be as big a deal. They aren’t special and the only way that you’ll internalize that is through first hand experience.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 12:10 AM
1

Well that guy is around 8% bodyfat. So if your abs like or near that,Your 15% bf or higher. In that case I’d cut first. Like I said you have higher test levels and your bodies more efficient at partitioning calories toward muscle growth when your lean. You’ll look bigger with your shirt off while lean. Keep that in mind. It’s still your call.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 12:07 AM
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Pedestal. They are on a big pedestal. Take them down. You need to internalize your worth. Once you do that you’ll act right.
/r/askTRP19/11/19 12:02 AM
5

Gotta be. When I cut down to 145lbs at 5”9 my lifts would surprise you more then he’s doing besides dead lift. I had literally 0 fat on my stomach so somethings wrong here... he’s not giving us the full story
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:38 PM
1

I think it’s better to be shredded and not big then big and not cut. It’s your call really. Your body is way more efficient at putting on mass when your lean. Your test levels are higher as well. I personally wouldn’t bulk unless I was at or lower then 10%.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:15 PM
1

Play to win. If you can get the instadate go for it, don’t settle for a number. If you can make plans while in person it’s better then texting for plans. Numbers are flaky.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 11:02 PM
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How the fuck r you deadlifting almost 500lbs without a developed back. And the dead lift to squat ratio makes literally 0 sense. Strength builds dense muscle hypertrophy fills out the rest. If you want to lose stomach fat you need to track calories. Seriously it’s the only way. Eat at a 20% deficit. In 12 weeks you’ll go from 15% to 10%ish. After that eat maintenance for a month and cut again to 8% or lower. I promise if you do this you’ll get shredded. Also idk what your split looks like but yo…
/r/askTRP18/11/19 10:59 PM
3

It has nothing to do with his net worth. If he was worth nothing worked a city job and made an average salary but still raised her the right way, she’d still have all those good qualities. If she has daddy issues it’s irrelevant how much daddy was worth.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 06:56 PM
2

No tape=no reality show No reality show=no fame or (minor fame) No fame=no endorsements Who gives a shit about there success . That’s not the point I’m making. What I’m saying is that money or growing up with money does not mean the girl is going to be of high quality. It means nothing.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 06:51 PM
2

They are famous because Kim made a porn with a rapper. Everything else was off the coat tails of that event. They are the epitome of promiscuity and AWALT.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 05:54 PM
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The opposite of what she is. She’s blonde you usually go for brunettes. She’s tall you usually go for shorter girls. This question is a great way to Get her to qualify herself.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 02:41 PM
2

Open- hook-vibe-isolate-escalate-pull.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 02:40 PM
3

Don’t apologize. Idk what was said but apologizing is giving up frame. Act like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 02:37 PM
1

Idk man look Sylvester Stallone. He’s been running it(unofficially) for 20+ years. Same with mike ohearn. I think your good to run it forver as long as it’s a low dose that puts you in the normal range. My uncle in his 50s is on his 5th year with no problems.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 02:26 PM
1

I think test is arguably more important. It’s going to have an immediate effect while gh could take a while.Gh will improve your bone density skin quality tendon strength over time ect... test will obv make you gain mass, also it’s going to make you feel like your 26. People neglect that. Not only does it make you jacked it makes you feel like a young dude(more energy,higher sex drive ect...)
/r/askTRP18/11/19 02:20 PM
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100% bro. 1 iu of gh + trt= extended youth. Look at the guys who run it vs the ones that don’t. For example joe rogan is 50 and he don’t loook it.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 02:13 PM
2

Read the fucking sidebar.... Jesus Christ.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 02:06 PM
3

If you want. I think you fucked it up already but no harm in trying 1 more time. Set up a date...
/r/askTRP18/11/19 01:21 PM
4

Text only to set up for logistics for this exact reason. Text can be misinterpreted. 90% of communication is non verbal. Keep it to a minimal you shouldn’t have time to text excessively anyway. Set up date if she cancels or refuses try 1 more time then on to the next.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 01:08 PM
4

The kardashians were raised in a wealthy family. Look how they turned out. Sloots...
/r/askTRP18/11/19 12:47 PM
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If you have 10k+ followers your going to get DMed by lower SMV girls mostly, 1 out of every 10 is somewhat attractive. 100k+ and it’s your a kind of instafamous. That brings massive social proof. I think Dan bilzerian said something like money is a 10x. You’ll get laid 10x more then you would without money and fame is 100x.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 12:43 PM
4

What happened to the questions about game or theory....
/r/askTRP18/11/19 12:35 PM
1

Damn that’s gonna hurt
/r/askTRP17/11/19 05:55 PM
3

You can be a little more smooth then “hey wanna fuck?”.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 05:53 PM
4

Here’s my 2 cents. Sitting home will accomplish zero for your game. Going out alone is tough it’ll build character. It’s going to force you to rely on yourself. I don’t go out lone wolf, thinking about doing it makes me nervous. That reason alone is enough to do it. It’s not ideal but what’s better trying and failing or sitting home not taking action. Worst case scenario your having a bad night and drive home.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:30 AM
1

Agreed. However night game is better to get you in the swing of it. High volume night clubs and bars are the best place IMO for you to kill AA. There’s a level of anonymity at night clubs, which is comforting and allows you to take bolder risk.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 01:24 AM
1

Read the side bar brother man. Stop looking for IOIs just go for it. Don’t read into it just go for it.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 11:53 PM
2

A girl stood next to you... what does it mean...Nothing....
/r/askTRP16/11/19 09:27 PM
3

Stick around give her the benefit of the doubt( you’ll find out you were wrong)or next her and save yourself from the suffering. Your call....but I can say with confidence she’s looking for the exit.
/r/askTRP16/11/19 09:22 PM
2

Journaling is literally an exercise for stoicism. You don’t bottle up the emotions you allow yourself to recognize and feel them. Stoicism is about not letting your emotions control you l, it’s not about not having emotions. Read the side bar....
/r/askTRP15/11/19 09:58 PM
1

Agree and amplify. Your age is always the better age. Your not too young she’s to old. Your not too old she’s too young. Keep it light hearted.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:15 PM
1

Comes off as insecure. I’ve messed with this a bit. It’ll work sometimes but I feel like a bitch if I do that. Now I just don’t even acknowledge it. Just goes right over my head and the convo moves toward.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:13 PM
1

The only way to find out if any girl is interested is to ask her out or when you are out escalate. I had a table in NYC club mixed guys and girls. My buddy said the bottle service girl(who are always dimes) was feeling him. We said “bro she wants a tip and your cards on file”. Long story short he isolated escalated then went back to her place.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:10 PM
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Have plates ready to be spun at the very least. Always game new girls.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 01:02 PM
3

Don’t be ridiculous. Dancing is fun, it’s also a great way to escalate smoothly. Not to mention it pumps you up unstifles you and it’s generally fun.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 12:54 PM
1

Practice stoicism. Just search it in the main sub there are post with exercises outlined in them. Your investing to much into these girls emotionally .
/r/askTRP15/11/19 12:50 PM
1

Could be.It was a crowded bar, maybe some1 knocked into to her idk.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 12:29 AM
1

Staten bk are hard to find those deals but they’re out there. Jersey as well right by the tunnel just outside of Hoboken. Honestly dude just go Zillow search apartments use the filters for rent and the price
/r/askTRP14/11/19 10:11 PM
1

What the hell did I just read man. Your validating her by responding. The opposite of love isn’t hate it’s indifference. Your trying to one up her and be condescending/patronizing but what your real doing is giving her gratification. Block her from any and all contact. Move on dude...
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 09:26 PM
2

I did it.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 07:52 PM
1

Good work.You’ve got a good base you’ll blow up from the sauce.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 07:38 PM
2

Traps and calves I hit he same way. Focus on the hold at the top. So shrug up and hold for 1 Mississippi. And do 12-15 reps and 3 sets. I just pm you my gear source
/r/askTRP14/11/19 07:32 PM
4

Where there is a will there is a way. Brandon Carters schedule was so crazy he had to lift at 2am it was the only free time he had. I personally don’t see it as work. At first maybe I did. Now it’s like therapy for me. I work a stressful job and for whatever reason going to the gym really helps me maintain not only a healthy body but a healthy mindset.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 05:12 PM
5

I mean it certainly is something to consider. I still personally cold approach.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 04:44 PM
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I had a girl randomly say fuck you then throw a drink at me I didn’t even approach her, to this day I don’t know what set her off. I ducked drink hit another girl they started fighting I’m in the middle, bouncer thinks I’m responsible proceeds to choke me out and kick me out. So yeah got harshly rejected without even approaching her was my worst.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 04:21 PM
3

Dude pledge a frat. The best frat on campus. You’ll make great friends some stick with you for life. Some future business connections maybe even political connections. I think like 80% of politicians were in a fraternity. Not to mention you’ll get laid effortlessly as long as your social.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 04:13 PM
1

I can tell you this for a fact. If your at rock bottom whether it’s financially or anything else you only have one direction you can go, UP. REFUSE to accept your circumstances. Change them. If you weather this storm you’ll be a Phoenix reborn from the ashes. Keep your head up you now have the opportunity to make some character growth in your life. I know it sucks I’m in a similar situation. I don’t know you but I don’t really need to.What has been done before can be done again. You got this!
/r/askTRP14/11/19 04:10 PM
1

Visually. I never go above 10% ever.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:58 PM
3

It’s sarms. RAD140 8 weeks at 10 mg a day
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:51 PM
3

Weight gain is different then fat gain. Gaining mass is a good thing. Lean bulk 200 kcal over your maintenance calories. Use progressive over load to get stronger. Either add more weight or more reps. I don’t do cardio unless I’m cutting to 5% levels. I easily get to 7/8% without cardio just a calorie deficit. So basically cardio is not relevant unless your doing it for fun. Lean bulk for a minimum of 4 months. If you don’t want to eat in a surplus you can gain mass at maintenance but it’s painf…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:49 PM
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This is a great post for those of us who may potentially dip our toe in the water with an ltr. Fluid short to the point and cohesive well done.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/19 02:10 PM
1

Throwback
/r/askTRP14/11/19 11:16 AM
6

Past 8 years with a 2 year break in the middle so 6 total years in the gym. Tbh the past 2 years I when I perfected my cutting and bulking cycles.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 11:13 AM
3

Your shot dude he’s clearly a natty. His genetics are good don’t get me wrong but he’s not even a freak. Literally anyone can get that physique in a few years with hard work and a great nutrition plan.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 11:10 AM
1

Most people that do juice look like shit. A couple of guys in my office are just fat dudes with mass and moon face from the water retention. This dudes diet and training was in check. He definitely ain’t natty tho, still he’s got good genetics and trains hard. You can’t achieve a sick physique without diet and training. Unless your an ectomorph who can’t gain fat and blast tren like Jon skywalker.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 11:07 AM
3

Next month is my first test e at 400 mgs a week for 12 weeks.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 11:01 AM
1

Lmao that’s the ultimate. I’m to scared to do tren but running my first cycle in a few weeks test 400 mg 12 weeks
/r/askTRP14/11/19 11:01 AM
3

I’ve done rad 140 it’s a sarm
/r/askTRP14/11/19 11:01 AM
9

Maybe 1 day. Not at that level yet I need to hop on real gear to compete
/r/askTRP14/11/19 02:35 AM
11

Swole as fuck bro.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 01:32 AM
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it feels fucking great , dude it’s so worth it. The best part is almost every guy can achieve it. IOIs constantly. Dudes give you mad respect because it’s not an easy thing to accomplish. It gives you great confidence firstly because you look great second because you work your ass off to achieve it. Also it gives you the freedom to eat way more calories without getting fat. Your metabolism is higher your test levels higher. Forgot to mention being a strong as fuck lb for lb is great. I lift the …
/r/askTRP14/11/19 01:27 AM
1

I use snapchat to get them interested again. You’ll see them viewing your story of u doing fun shit maybe throw in some other girlfriends for preselection. I’ve gotten decent results doing that.
/r/askTRP14/11/19 01:19 AM
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Idk what city your in, but in ny suburbs outside the city you can get an apartment of decent size for like 1200 a month. If you can get a roommate you can get an even nicer pad and split rent ,Which on your salary is more then affordable. Workout a payment plan with your parents. Maybe pay back 20 k a year over 5 years. Or 20% of every paycheck however you want to structure it. I think your better off on your own. Stay with your parents for a few months throw some money in the bank. You should b…
/r/askTRP14/11/19 01:12 AM
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Yea it worked because she was the type of girl who responds well to shit like that and I knew it before hand. Could’ve been a disaster if it was the wrong type of chick
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:52 PM
14

I’ve snapped a girl a vid of me fucking a different girl with the caption “your next”. I was kinda drunk but it worked! Lol
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:37 PM
1

I have to beat it a few times a week. No fap is nonsense with the claimed benefits, however I think we should avoid porn.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:35 PM
1

Reply. “Photoshopped ”
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:26 PM
1

Good on ya! I’m all for self improvement getting jacked shredded helping out my friends if I can all that good stuff. Sometimes I like to do stupid shot and let loose have fun act a fool and do something for the sole purpose of entertaining myself.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:04 PM
3

On my birthday last year I went out with my boys took lsd and had a hell of a night. It’ll definitely go down in the books as one of the best nights we’ve ever had. Do whatever you want bro if you wanna chill and not go out then that’s your prerogative. If you want to go out Pimpin wit the boys that’s also an option.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 08:00 PM
7

That sucks. Gotta enjoy the fruits of your labor otherwise what’s the point.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 07:59 PM
1

Girls get nervous too. Last weekend I approached a hb8 Russian chick. She looked at me smiled looked down (avoided eye contact)and walked away. Rejection right? Wrong lol. I re-approach 20 minutes later she lit up. She didn’t say much but her body language was screaming” take me now”. 5 minutes later we r in a closed off room in the bar getting hot and heavy. Couldn’t seal the deal had to leave early. She’s been texting me every day since. Lesson to be learned here is that most girls have “getti…
/r/askTRP13/11/19 02:06 PM
1

Reserve your rants and venting for your close friends or mentor. DO NOT share your feelings with a girl.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 12:17 PM
1

Post it in the main sub
/r/askTRP13/11/19 12:13 PM
3

Unstifle yourself before you go. Try to walk into the club in a great mood and keep the momentum going. Approach girls, focus on having fun not getting laid.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 12:10 PM
2

Sex god method. Read it.
/r/askTRP13/11/19 11:57 AM
6

Ok so continue what your doing. And continue to get the same results.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 04:44 PM
12

No offense but you need to hear this.I stopped reading half way through. Your a pussy. You didn’t escalate you put her on a pedestal and now your crying about this one girl on reddit. Read the side bar. Your game is 0. I assume your at least semi good looking to have a girl invite you into her place. For other lurkers tldr:Oneitus post from a guy with 0 abundance and 0 frame.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 04:42 PM
1

No not really. Unless she’s got a good social group that she will invite out with. I see no benefits
/r/askTRP12/11/19 04:14 PM
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Here’s a thought. Maybe you should be the one approaching not the girls. Wipe the mean mug off your face for starters. Lighten up unstifle yourself and approach.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 03:52 PM
2

Wtf 5 convos in 3 months. Here’s what you do. Stop being a pussy and Ask her out!
/r/askTRP12/11/19 03:47 PM
1

It’s not the workout plan it’s the nutrition that you need to stress. Any split will work PPL or An alternating 2 day split. Eat at a slight 10% deficit everyday for 12 weeks. Being skinny fat gives you the luxury of building mass and losing fat simultaneously, it’s really the only time in your lifting career that you’ll be able to recomp effectively. 1gram if protein per lb of lean mass 20-30% fat the rest of your calories from carbs.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 03:39 PM
1

Lmao
/r/askTRP12/11/19 03:29 PM
2

They are living with you or you are living with them? If your paying the rent grow some balls and lay down the law. My house my rules. If you are living under their roof then get a job and move out ASAP. Being sheltered at 23 is fucking wack. Man up brother asap!
/r/askTRP12/11/19 03:25 PM
3

2, i love doing that. Make them do tricks for 1$ lol.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 03:19 PM
4

Great post, may I add that during my early lifting days one thing I wish I put more importance on is nutrition!! I would advise young lifters to learn how to spot there maintenance( how many calories you’ll burn in a day) and learn how to bulk and cut. Eating a lot generally results in excessive fat gainand cutting to hard is counterproductive stalls fat loss and crashes your metabolism. The icing on the cake is learn to be patient. It’s a marathon not a sprint.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/19 02:55 PM
1

Dude barb is a fossil! Lauri can get it!
/r/askTRP12/11/19 02:01 PM
2

If your a guy who’s got a lot going for him and other people notice that, they’ll assume your successful. You fit the bill but you don’t take enough action to realize your own potential. You need to start taking risk, start being bold and putting yourself out there. When you start doing this and you get results you’ll start to rewire your brain.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:47 PM
2

This is why you only text for logistics. That bit about you knowing what Korean girls are like because you’ve been with many, is basically the “ your just a player” shit test. Which you failed.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:42 PM
5

You don’t. Abusive bitch? Poof ! Your gone next....
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:39 PM
1

Your beat. Better off putting your efforts into finding a new girl. You’d know that already if you read the sidebar!
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:36 PM
3

Troll
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:04 PM
4

He doesn’t get that much work he does 2 weekends a month if he can. He told me 6k from fri-sun night.thats 12k a month and yes he does actually have a nice car and a nice apartment.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 02:24 AM
3

I don’t think you should force a personality your not congruent with. That doesn’t mean you can’t be very social but you can be in different ways. So my advice would be to learn how to express yourself and amuse yourself. That’s all he does. He’s got a kinda gross sense of humor and sometimes it’s too much. So essentially practice amused mastery. That’s the strongest part of his whole game.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 02:06 AM
5

He’s a natural. He was like this ever since I can remember. We have similar personalities. I think the difference is that he’s less attached to his ego than I am.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:48 AM
1

Good point. I’ll be weary.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:25 AM
2

Yea I guess your right. None the less it’s cool that woman would pay me just because I’m yolked lol.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:24 AM
2

You don’t need to have shit in common. Fuck you don’t even need to speak. What do you think we are all doing here, full blown interviews before bringing chicks home? 99% of my conversations are bullshit banter, teasing, laughing, telling jokes and stories that I enjoy. Her hobbies taste in music ect... mean zero to me. I
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:09 AM
1

Right that’s what I was hoping. I really don’t have any problem showing a girls genuinely good time. & Yes my SMV is high enough to do this I’m chiseled have mass with a good looking face.
/r/askTRP12/11/19 12:01 AM
3

Ok good anecdote. I’m not worried about my street cred, and I have no problem saying no at the risk of not getting paid.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 11:59 PM
2

Sound advice. Yea I already let 2 of my boys know, if I go through with it they’ll have my location on my phone and will be nearby if I need them.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 11:48 PM
8

Thanks for the input. I think long term and sometimes I have to make sacrifices short term for the greater good. I’m in sales and basically I had some shit go down at my old firm and basically had to start over. I’m only 25 so it’s not like I have kids going hungry, but still I’m feeling the financial stress. I’ve e built up the business successfully in the past I will do it bigger and better this time around. However it doesn’t happen over night and my bills are outrageous so 2k a weekend would…
/r/askTRP11/11/19 11:46 PM
2

Only thing about going solo is you legit have no backup. I could easily get myself into a shitty predicament no matter how cautious I am.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 11:40 PM
1

Fair enough good point to consider!
/r/askTRP11/11/19 11:36 PM
2

I think it’s safe to say that I’m not going to be turning to dick regardless of what happens. Never even considered that fuck. Good point. Could totally give me some fucked up trauma if I’m not cautious.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 11:32 PM
8

I’m not like that. I’d never fuck a friends ex. As a matter of fact I had the opportunity multiple times and never capitalized. I can get pussy else where no need to look through my boys trash bin.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 11:29 PM
2

Classic
/r/askTRP11/11/19 11:14 PM
12

What? You just have shitty friends. My boys aren’t desperate cucks.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 10:58 PM
3

I was hoping being “worshipped” might give me new perspective. Who knows...
/r/askTRP11/11/19 10:31 PM
1

Solid! G4p is the thing i was most worried about. That ain’t happening idc how much they offer.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:44 PM
6

He does the full weekends only books 2x a month. Bro he’s not smashing hot chicks here. Who the fuck is fucking a granny for free?
/r/askTRP11/11/19 09:08 PM
25

Lmao eyes wide shut. I’d be fucking terrified if I walked into a satanic ritual or some wild shit like that. I realize that normal woman don’t have to pa. But let’s be honest here we aren’t talking about your average hot chick using these services. In my head I’m picturing Barbra front the shark tank minus the celeb status. Old wrinkly and rich.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:27 PM
1

Thanks appreciate the input!
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:23 PM
1

Lmao
/r/askTRP11/11/19 08:11 PM
17

I’m thinking along the same lines here. Yea I’m not doing gay shit fuck that. I’m not expecting beauty queens or cougars. But if some 60 year old fat chick wants to pay me for good convo and to show me off at a charity event or something like that I’m all for it. Hopefully that’s the case,I guess will find out.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 07:23 PM
9

Na he’s escorting I know for a fact. Family friends so I know some details of what he’s been up to through his father. Basically he cut off relations with him bc of the fact he is a male escort.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 07:13 PM
9

No text would’ve been funny
/r/askTRP11/11/19 06:54 PM
4

Can’t say it does
/r/askTRP11/11/19 06:48 PM
5

Thanks! Yea that’s the goal here. I can’t imagine how much it will benefit my game. Hopefully a lot!
/r/askTRP11/11/19 06:35 PM
9

Plot twist been winging with an EC this whole time haha
/r/askTRP11/11/19 06:31 PM
16

Yea I’m not paying them shit. This isn’t an aspiration of mine just a way to make quick$.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 06:26 PM
52

Yea I’m not paying them shit to get started. Fuck that. I wouldn’t mind paying a % of the pay if they provide me with a platform and security.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 06:25 PM
1

Yea i checked it out. I’ll edit the post so everyone stops thinking I’m being set up for murder. Basically I post pics of my physique with my face blacked out. You can have re-occurring clients which is who he said he’d set me up with.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:49 PM
1

It is an agency....
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:46 PM
5

Yea dude that’s what I’m looking for. To be shot dead. The reality is that male escorts do exist. Yes it’s shady yes I should be weary. I’m not meeting in a dark ally somewhere. Hell I wouldn’t even go to a hotel only lublic venues.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:42 PM
1

But I mean. Male escorts do exist it is a real thing. I’m very cautious . You guys are making me second think this.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:40 PM
6

Actually he says that if I want to make the most I’d have to take trips to Vegas. I live in NYC so it’s not like I’m in some town in the middle of bumble fuck Nebraska. Yea that’s obv not what I want to happen. I know that he’s doing this. I know he’s making money. What I don’t know is how much and what does he have to do. I’m not willing to fuck 70 year old dried up snatch.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:38 PM
2

If I was to go through with it I would do it at public place only. I’ll see what price I get. I was told one night can be 3-6 hours and range from 200-350$ an hour. So it could be as low as 750$ and as high as 2k.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:22 PM
1

Damn thanks
/r/askTRP11/11/19 05:10 PM
1

We will see. I’m weighing my options thinking I’ll try it 1 time to verify. Like you said, you never know.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 04:47 PM
2

I agree 100%. If it was hot chicks paying for play I’d call bullshit. It doesn’t seem far fetched that a wealthy divorced middle aged woman wants a young jacked dude to hangout with. I guess I’ll have to find out myself. Either way I’ll be cautious.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 04:44 PM
3

Listen if it is as some rando I’d be like gtfo. But I’ve known this dude since I’m 10 years old. And he’s already doing it. Maybe I’m gullible maybe it’s legit.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 04:39 PM
53

I fucking hope not lol
/r/askTRP11/11/19 04:09 PM
5

Ok fair enough. Tbh I’m pretty much busy all the time as well. I definitely have no time during the week but I can free up 1 night a weekend for 2k . Iff it don’t make dollars it don’t make sense. So if the moneys real I’m definitely going to seriously consider it.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 03:51 PM
17

I will be extremely cautious. I know it’s legit he’s an old friend who wouldn’t set me up for some nonsense. He didn’t pressure me or anything basically just gave me an offer. Any experience with this?
/r/askTRP11/11/19 03:41 PM
3

Own it bro. No one has any power over you unless you allow it. Your worth much more then your dick size. Make girls cum by stimulating them mentally. Also don’t tolerate blatant disrespect like that. Fuck those cunts.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 03:16 PM
1

Paralysis by analysis. Go out and start approaching. 1 goal at a time. Start with eliminating your AA. U/Vasiliyzaitzev has a post called the faint of heart never fucked the fair lady. It’s all you need right now. Don’t start reading tons of material just go out and do it.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 03:08 PM
4

This. Lead. She should be mirroring you.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 02:55 PM
2

Ok good job. So she’s somewhat invested but nothing crazy. At the very least she thinks your attractive. For future reference text her only logistics. Practice text game on tinder with girls who don’t matter(that’s what I do). So I’d go about it like this. Wait a few days then reach out. Text her saying “ hey I’m busy mostly all week but Friday night I’m going to x you should join me”. If she accepts then don’t text her until the day of and when you do text her only to confirm the date. If she d…
/r/askTRP11/11/19 02:51 PM
1

Define fawning over you. Did you at least get somewhat physical with her? How invested was she? Text only for logistics. “ I’m going to x on Friday you should join me”
/r/askTRP11/11/19 02:27 PM
78

He brings the good feels. That’s all there is to it. My good buddy & long time wing man is the not your typical chad but gets laid like one. He rocks a 70s pornstache and he’s about to 50 lbs overweight. He’s fucking hilarious,not bad looking face,dresses nice, he’s super chill and everyone just feels good around him. He truly is the life of the party and one charismatic son of a bitch. He turns cold opens into great times. It’s because he is not trying to “get girls” he’s trying to have fun and…
/r/askTRP11/11/19 02:23 PM
4

There’s no secret here guy. You just gotta man up. It helps if you have wings that will brutally make fun of you for being a pussy. As far as rejection goes get rejected on your terms. Meaning try to flip it around so it’s funny to you. I’d actually encourage you to try and get rejected. Act like an idiot, try to get rejected the funniest way possible, its a good exercise to unstifle you and make you outcome independent. Also your young don’t do this in school go to the park or a place with high…
/r/askTRP11/11/19 02:17 PM
1

I don’t do trt I just run cycles.
/r/askTRP11/11/19 11:35 AM
1

Yea that’s odd. Well thank god it’s 2019 and we have trt. My free floating test is super high just got my bloods after a sarm cycle and it didn’t do the damage I thought it would.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 10:48 PM
1

This is false. Your smv isn’t high enough thats why it seems like it’s taking so much effort. Also it’s not suppose to seem like work if it does your doing it wrong. This is supposed to be fun...
/r/askTRP10/11/19 10:46 PM
1

Yea that sucks ever think your pct was bunk?I know guys who blast 600 test with 600 tren and masteron. They recovered from that fine and that’s a hefty cycle. In general the harsher the cycle the more intense the pct. so if you blast tren at high doses you’d need double the amount of HCG to start your balls back up. When I was young I blasted something called cut mix which is 150 test 150 tren 150 masteron a week. Yes that is a very low dose but I didn’t run a pct( didn’t know any better) and I …
/r/askTRP10/11/19 10:40 PM
1

I agree you must weigh the potential risk and benefits before making your decision. However, if you run a solo blast of test e over 12 weeks with a proper pct of hcg and nolva there is a slim and I do mean slim chance that you permanently Damage your testosterone. Test has many many years of research. All of the horror stories you hear of guys fucking their shit up, 99% of the time are guys who ran either too high of a dose or didn’t run a pct. it’s important to get blood work done to see how yo…
/r/askTRP10/11/19 10:16 PM
1

Well what are you looking to get out of it then. If you want a killer body obv running a cycle of test is going to help. I’d recommend training natty at least a year tbh it should be longer but hey it’s your call. Test will make your voice deeper and jaw wider.overall you’ll have more masculine features. Some people also get hairy on there chest and back.!
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:57 PM
1

How old are you. If your under 23 chances are your growth plates haven’t completely solidified. If that’s the case hgh can make you squeeze another inch or 2 in height and it also will help you develop muscle. It’s pricy though. A kid I went to high school with went from 5”3 to 6”0 in 2 years 17-19 on an hgh cycle. Test will make your beard thicker, jawline more pronounced and also contribute to lean mass gain. If you decide to cycle either you can get a killer physique if you have a solid diet …
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:51 PM
1

Not if you do the proper pct. HCG and nolva gets you back in no time.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:48 PM
5

AAA. Always assume attraction. Don’t be a creep but understand that if she stays in set invest into the conversation she likes you at least on some level. It’s your job to establish the man to woman frame escalate and find out. Don’t dwell to much on IOIs. They’ll become more apparent as you get better.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:47 PM
2

Bro mystery used to walk around dressed like a fucking magician. It’s peacocking, been on the pua scene forever.Full make up painted nails. Eye shadow layered clothing multiple pieces of jewelry. Obv he put time into it. Obv it’s not the masculine lumber jack macho man look. Guess what, it doesn’t matter he still slayed. Guess why. Hint hint, it doesn’t matter.... not even in the slightest.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 09:44 PM
5

3-5 grams a day. It won’t do much. Maybe 3-5% more endurance in the gym if that. Creating is nothing like gear. Don’t expect anything spectacular,your diet and training will do more for your physique then anything else.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 06:45 PM
2

You were not in a relationship if your not having sex. Your giving your time and commitment in return for nothing. You were her glorified orbiter and now you want to go after her again... yikes. -> sidebar
/r/askTRP10/11/19 06:39 PM
3

Facts I can’t sometimes with this shit. Op your problem isn’t that she lost attraction or has a busy schedule or whatever. Your problem is the fact that you don’t have more girls lined up eagerly to replace her. It’s side bar 101 . When you have abundance and multiple girls, it’s absurd how far they’ll go to accommodate you. They’ll move mountains for chad. Be chad.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 02:18 PM
2

It’s not black and white like the caveman days. It’s not your the best fighter therefore the leader therefore you get first dibs on your tribe hoes. An alpha male, in my eyes at least, is some one who goes after what he wants relentlessly despite adversity m. An alpha male has frame and is control of his own emotions. He does not seek validation from others for reassurance.
/r/askTRP10/11/19 02:13 PM
2

No1 can give you your mission. It’s yours... your gonna have to figure this one out solo brotha man. Here’s a good place to start. What do you enjoy doing, what would make your life better?
/r/askTRP10/11/19 02:09 PM
1

Yea and I eat a lot of carbs lol with a lot of meat on top of it
/r/TheRedPill09/11/19 12:46 AM
1

Get work buddy. Start lifting now. Like today if you haven’t already. I swear to you if you get a top tier physique you’ll be head and shoulders above everyone. I’m not talking 15% bf with some solid muscle... I mean get yoked and shredded. If you start now by the time your 21 you can have a physique in the top 1% and it’s awesome.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 08:29 PM
2

My health/well-being , my family, my finances, my hobbies, my friends and lastly girls.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 07:09 PM
1

Gotta be honest here. I have a friend that looks like napoleon dynamite. Without the curly hair and uglier. Buck teeth droopy looking face the whole nine. His game is fucking tight and I couldn’t be more serious it’s the best I’ve ever seen in person he’s a natural and truly does not give a fuck. He’s not slaying girls left and right but he does in fact get laid more then the average dude. He’s not pulling 10s he gets mostly 6s with the occasional 8 like his current gf.I don’t believe that being…
/r/askTRP08/11/19 07:00 PM
5

Text for logistics only. Texting even if it’s not in excess can be misinterpreted. So just avoid the possibility of painting a beta picture through text. Yes strike while the iron is hot. “I’m busy all weekend but I’m going to x tomorrow night, you should join me” “Study” at her place. Or coffee date, sit next to her not across. Other ideas: walking in the park, going to the beach/boardwalk, you can go to a fair/festival. Look shit up that’s going on tomorrow. Whatever sounds fun to you is what …
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:43 PM
2

I can’t even relate. I never and I do mean never hangout with a girl one on one as “friends”. So if you used to do this with her it’s very possible she has you in the dickless beta male friend zone boat.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:28 PM
0

I most certainly have.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:25 PM
7

Hard times create strong men. Strong men create good times. Good times create weak men. Weak men create hard times. Currently we are in the good times weak men part of the cycle.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 06:14 PM
1

Indifference. That’s the road you need to take.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:58 PM
1

Yea man that’s the difference between understanding something and internalizing it. I don’t think any of us will get to the level Tolle is at, but we can still do it. Being present is the greatest feeling we can have.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 02:52 PM
5

Yea you better. The pain of inaction is much worse then the pain from failure. Be bold. Your future self will thank you 10x over.
/r/askTRP08/11/19 01:59 PM
3

It certainly is but true freedom comes at a cost. You have to let go of everything your holding on to. In a way your killing your “old self”
/r/askTRP07/11/19 11:57 PM
2

They eat mostly carbs dude. Anything that isn’t an animal product. I don’t do it because it’s very difficult to get protein especially in a deficit. On top of that I love steak so there’s that
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 10:25 PM
2

Lead by example. Make him ask you for advice.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 07:53 PM
32

Lucky to find TRP at a young age. I would tell myself to take more risk & put myself out there.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 07:50 PM
18

Natural for you to revert back to old ways. As you pointed out your one-itus is the symptom of a need for validation, gratification and acceptance. There’s no magic in treating it. The power of now may give you some perspective here’s my favorite excerpt. A parable of the homeless man sitting on a treasure chest. A stranger walks up and the homeless man reflexively reaches out with an upturned ball cap. “Spare some change?” the homeless man asks. “I have nothing to give you,” replies the strange…
/r/askTRP07/11/19 06:54 PM
-1

Agreed. It’s amazing how much better you feel daily both physically and mentally from eating good quality food. I have experimented with every diet out there except vegan(bc fuck that). Personally I can’t gain mass on any type of low carb diet, on top of that it kills my energy. Although paleo has many benefits like anti-inflammation, it’s going to be real tough to get swole.
/r/TheRedPill07/11/19 06:44 PM
2

I was spinning plates called it “the roster”. I was decent with girls before hand so flirting was natural to me. As long as she was receptive I was good. I wish I knew about holding frame and passing shit test. If the girl was a bitch to me or not super eager I’d chalk it up as an L.In hindsight if I knew how to maintain frame and pass shit test it would have benefitted me big time.Probably would’ve doubled my n count, if not more.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 04:24 PM
2

I was not aware of the red pill concepts or “truths”. However, I got laid a lot which resulted in an abundance idgaf mentality and in turn red pill behaviors manifested naturally. To be honest idk if it would have benefited me back then. Obv long term it would have given me a head start but when I discovered shit like AWALT hypergamy branch swinging not yours just your turn I got pretty angry. I never was in denial about it I felt with all my being it was true and it pissed me off for a while. I…
/r/askTRP07/11/19 04:04 PM
2

Depends on how big your school is. I went to a school with an on campus population of more then 25,000 people. So cold approach was fine.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 03:50 PM
4

Depending on where you go to college, you’ve got some options. You can join a fraternity that has high social proof,throws great parties, it’s almost impossible to not get laid. Obv if you go to a school like Bama it’d be ideal to play football even if you can ride the bench. I wouldn’t advise sports unless you actually want to put in the work and take it seriously. It’s not worth it if your not at a big d1 school. I went to a big party school in the northeast with a d1 football team but they we…
/r/askTRP07/11/19 03:41 PM
3

I’m sure the sex was great but she really was crazy. Attacked him multiple times not a great situation.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 09:25 PM
1

Pay for play for most. Especially older single guys.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 08:39 PM
1

It’s too late. There is no way this girl sees you as chad. Do yourself a favor and actually read the sidebar. Like right now
/r/askTRP06/11/19 08:30 PM
5

Ask the other TRP sub for marriage
/r/askTRP06/11/19 06:27 PM
6

Don’t fap to her for starters.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 06:20 PM
2

Not my personal experience. But my friend was in an LTR with a smokin hot sexually repressed Muslim girl. He met her at church(she converted to Christianity). She was crazy, both mentally and sexually. She had the libido of a 14 year old boy and definitely tried to make up for missing out so many years of sex.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 06:17 PM
1

Yea i fix
/r/askTRP06/11/19 06:08 PM
1

Real men jerk off to themselves in the mirror. We also use sandpaper and acid as lubricant. The fuck is going on in this sub.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 06:06 PM
16

Lmao dude finds TRP starts slapping asses because they look good! Dude don’t do that you can’t just grab ass because it’s nice you can get in real trouble. Thankfully your young so the consequences aren’t too severe. Do this to the wrong girl when your older you could be dealing with a serious shit storm.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 06:03 PM
1

Assuming your lifting to build your aesthetics and not for a sport, here’s my advice. Avoid bro splits or anything beyond a 4 day split it’s not ideal for a new lifter. Do a PPL routine. Incline Bench,deadlift,squat as your first and main exercises. 2nd exercise should be shoulder press in push, weighted pullups or machine pull downs on pull and leg press on leg day. Shoot for strength on those as well. After your compound lifts get into accessory workouts and do hypertrophy(12-15 rep range). Fo…
/r/askTRP06/11/19 04:49 PM
2

Your frame is made of glass and it shatters when you don’t get what you want. LTR will end soon. She’s not your mother. You’ll find out the hard way
/r/askTRP06/11/19 04:21 PM
0

Yea that’s just me. Not him. He makes his own decisions I make mine. In no way shape or form would I bash the dude for doing his thing, I’m not moralizing. I have my reasons he has his.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 03:42 PM
0

No shit, as I said it’s not for me to decide or pass judgement. The way I go about my life is not better or worse then anyone else. I’m not trying to convince him to be a good little boy and shackle down.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 03:36 PM
0

I mean. Woman cheat because they’re illogical and emotional. They disregard their commitment for the next best thing on the drop of a dime. Bitches can’t control themselves but we can. If I want to fuck other girls and spin plates, I’m not getting into an ltr. If I want an ltr I won’t spin plates. Doesn’t mean I won’t have potential plates waiting for me.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:24 PM
1

I’m not against you doing it, I’m against me doing it. I hold myself to certain standards. In my mind I don’t want to “stoop to their level”. Not to say I wouldn’t keep my options open at all times gaming new girls. I just wouldn’t cheat. My word is my word. No point in giving it if it means nothing. Again it’s your call to make not mine.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:15 PM
1

It’s your morals so you decide if it’s a good idea not us. You don’t need input. If your ok with it then good for you. Personally I wouldn’t cheat but that’s just me.
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:10 PM
1

Lmfao wtf. Sub is dead when people start Asking if they can use their feminine energy. SMH
/r/askTRP06/11/19 02:08 PM
1

No I don’t actually. Use them as orbiters and for preselection. Your supposed to (as a high value man) have woman chasing you. Get used to it. Be polite and normal as long as they aren’t cockblocking with other chicks, or showing up unannounced in the middle of the night you have no problem.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 02:46 PM
1

That’s her problem. Just be nice say hi and keep it at that. I don’t understand why your invested in making sure she knows you don’t want to fuck her.
/r/askTRP05/11/19 02:35 PM
3

Wow a girl kissed you sicckkkk bro. Tf r you asking dude. If you don’t want to plate her then don’t.... respond appropriately to what? Her saying hello??? Are you kidding me? You can say hi and be polite. Stop blowing yourself
/r/askTRP05/11/19 02:30 PM
1

It’s discipline. I work 60+hour weeks probably 9 months out of the year. I like to enjoy my summer so I’ll do the typical 8 hour days so I can enjoy other stuff. Personally I have daily goals. I do not leave my office until I hit them. Don’t confuse activity with productivity. If you can come in and finish what you need to do in an hour use the rest of the day to get ahead for tomorrow and leave at a normal time. If it happens often perhaps you need to raise the bar. I’m 25 so I’m working hard d…
/r/askTRP05/11/19 02:00 PM
1

Of course it helps lol. But it’s when the going gets tough, that’s what separates the men from the boys. Energy is a luxury you don’t always have. We’re all human.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 07:25 PM
2

Being Disciplined means you do what needs to be done despite your energy. Low energy high energy don’t matter, my ass is getting to the gym or getting to work.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 07:20 PM
8

Yea with out a doubt. Taking back consent is fucked up.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 01:32 AM
18

All the signals are the same as they always been. You know how it is. A hard no is obviously a no. Who wants to fuck a girl who’s not into it,anyway. Should be obvious for most.Still nowadays your walking on thin ice and you’ll get no sympathy from a jury for making a wrong move, tread lightly.
/r/askTRP01/11/19 12:53 AM
1

Lmao. Yea beta. Woulda been alpha if you got her on the verge of coming stopped and hit up another chick.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:58 PM
-1

Walking is not enough. You need to really get your heart rate up. Intense cardio along with a high fiber diet will work wonders.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:07 PM
-1

Do cardio for your cholesterol. Also eat high fiber. That should be enough.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 08:03 PM
2

Fair enough.good stuff.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 07:52 PM
2

Where the fuck do you ECs get these sayings. Str8 gold.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 07:20 PM
2

You don’t need motivation you need discipline. Hard gainer aye? Lift heavy. Eat in a surplus. I’ve seen your gram, you need to focus on your chest and shoulders. Prioritize the incline press over flat. Go for a PPL routine 3 days a week.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:58 PM
89

I love hearing it. Translation from womanese= I wanna fuck you but not be judged for being easy. My go to is a pressure flip. I’ll say something like “don’t get ahead of yourself”
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:39 PM
9

Reschedule if she doesn’t bite then move on.
/r/askTRP31/10/19 06:15 PM
1

I can’t link because the comment will get removed. Competing is not beta. Give uncle vas’s post titles “never stop competing”
/r/askTRP31/10/19 03:26 PM
1

Dude your not big yet lol. Great progress I’m no hater credit is due you’ve made nice gains. I’m 5”9 27.5 inch waist with 16 inch biceps and the classic v shape at 7/8% bf. Thinking about competing eventually getting my pro card. With your clothes on your not getting IOIs until your shoulder to waist ratio is good. After about a year of proper training and nutrition you’ll have a great physique compared to your average dude. If you really want to turn heads you’ll need to be consistent for at le…
/r/askTRP31/10/19 01:40 PM
1

How jacked and shredded are you?Guys will blatantly admire my physique. Not my friends either like strangers will come complement me if I’m wearing form fitting or revealing clothes. Girls definitely check me out as well they aren’t as obvious about it but I still catch them.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 07:08 PM
3

What advice are you looking for bro. How to not be a short Asian virgin with social anxiety? I mean really man. Start lifting. Start practicing stoicism. Start taking action. Stop making excuses. No1 gives a fuck about your excuses. Your crying about your SMV but your not doing anything to improve it. And for fucks sake stop taking girls out on dinner dates no shit they only see you as a friend. If they went on a date with you chances are they thought you could potentially be some1 they’d like t…
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:49 PM
3

Seconded. OP who gives a shit.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:30 PM
7

Where tf you finding all these virgins. I don’t encounter LMR very often tbh. Usually I’ll get it before a date or something. She’ll say we’re not having sex tonight or I’m not gonna be just some you fuck or something else along those lines. Whenever a girl mentions Sex or not having sex with you it’s because she wants to fuck. You have to make it “just happen” escalate until they physically stop you not verbally. They just don’t want to feel like a slut that’s really all it is.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 06:00 PM
2

Check out u/Omlala post he’s got good stuff on applying Machiavellian strategy.
/r/askTRP30/10/19 05:52 PM
3

Sure your height isn’t ideal. Should that stop you? FUCK NO! Maybe see if HGH is an option for you consult you doctor your still young enough to grow your growth plates do not solidify until your like 23.You can be that guy that baffles people. Like how is this dude pulling these hot chicks? Be that guy! It might not be easy but it is possible. Start working on things you can control like your attitude and your other attributes.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 07:58 PM
6

Don’t str8 up tell her. Just don’t lead her on.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 01:40 PM
1

Yea just smile take the compliment m.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 12:22 PM
1

I had a gay dj call me candy boy in front of the whole club my boys of course started breaking my balls about it, but also I guess it’s sort of social proof.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 12:17 PM
1

Unless you have gay mannerisms o r dress flamboyantly I wouldn’t sweat it. Happens to me too. Just means you look good. At first I thought I was giving off a gay vibe. Not the case, a gay guy is just way more bold then a straight girl.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 11:59 AM
1

Occupy your mind so you can’t think about her. Go out and start building a new roster. Listen plates will break. I just had it happen your just going to have to replace her. BTW stop sobbing. Reserve your tears for something that matters.
/r/askTRP25/10/19 11:54 AM
8

Social circles are not locked in dude. Of course you can make friends...
/r/askTRP25/10/19 11:49 AM
2

I’m assuming you don’t have the problem of running out of things to say when your talking with your friends. That’s because your comfortable and unstifled. Word association exercises can help you out. Try to talk about things that interest you. Have a couple of good stories on hand. The conversation doesn’t have to be interesting to build attraction. It’s more about the vibe behind your words then what your saying.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 05:03 PM
2

Just make sure to keep the momentum. Social momentum is a huge asset in game. The more you go out and approach consistently the quicker you see success. The more success you see the more motivated you are to press forwards and simultaneously your going to be less phased by the speed bumps you’ll inevitably hit.
/r/askTRP23/10/19 04:08 PM
2

Get sex from som1 else, now she’s got no ammo.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:44 PM
1

I’d never want to live anywhere that your freedom is taken away that easily. There are obviously dudes in the UK doing cold approach so it’s not like your automatically fucked. IMO get out.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:40 PM
2

Oneitus. You need to be more concerned with how to get women in general then how to get this one girl. The advice you need is read the ducking sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:37 PM
8

Advice on what. You presented no issue you know what you need to do. Maintain frame don’t put her on that pedestal. Carry on business as usual
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:33 PM
1

I think most of us are like that. I wish I had the answer to this I’m in the same boat.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:12 PM
3

You can’t be loved by everyone and get what you want. You need to be polarizing. Be bold don’t aim to be liked. If the girl doesn’t want to go out with you it’s her loss don’t dwell on it. Don’t be attached to the outcome. Shoot your shot if you get what you want nbd if you don’t nbd.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 05:04 PM
3

Congrats on your progress. If you have achieved success at something it makes you confident. I bet your confident in the gym and at work because of your competence in those areas. Eventually you will be successful with girls if your persistent. Small successes over time build momentum to achieve greater success. Don’t hold yourself to super high standards. If you have approach anxiety and approach anyway your successfully beating your AA. If you feel nervous escalating but do it anyway your succ…
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:59 PM
1

Positive reinforcement over time will help you internalize your value and you’ll act congruent with how you perceive yourself. If your around high value people all the time eventually you’ll adapt and just act like your normal charismatic self.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:48 PM
2

TRP has nothing do do with what you wear. Just look your best that’s all. It’s not about short haircuts or skinny jeans. Wear whatever you want as long as you put effort into your own style no one can tell you it’s right or wrong.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 04:39 PM
5

I had teachers who were like this in college. Your best bet is to lead them to believe you hold the same opinions as them for the sake of your grades. When the semester ends you can make your actual opinions known if you want.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 03:19 PM
2

I wouldn’t do this with woman I am fucking. It’s her job to bring beers my job to bring dick!
/r/askTRP22/10/19 03:08 PM
4

Brad Pitt is not immune to one-itus. Guys who have harems of pussy still get one-itus because they’re looking for an emotional connection. Being a player can be lonely.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 11:54 AM
1

Bro you don’t always get shit tested. A girl will only shit test you to test your frame and take care of her doubts. If she thinks you have a rock solid frame and have high smv your not getting shit tested. Ever make out with a girl on the approach without saying anything ? If your her type she’s down it’s your game to lose she’s already compliant.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 11:49 AM
1

Number count of 6 is low dude. In this day and age girls are getting pumped and dumped all the time. A serial monogamist with 3 ltrs over 10 years is capable of cheating just as much,Maybe even a worse kind of cheating.
/r/askTRP22/10/19 11:42 AM
2

Facts I’m a stockbroker(sales), what you mentioned is called qualifying. You figure out who’s a potential buyer and weed out those who aren’t to save time.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:14 PM
1

You got it
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:12 PM
8

She’s upset that she has no power. Her pussy wasn’t enough to lock you down she laid all her cards on the table expecting to get what she wants but now she’s pissed it didn’t work.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:11 PM
1

Hmm idk see if a mod can help you out. Worst case scenario visit TRP.red it’s the back up not on reddit
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:09 PM
1

When you have access to a desk top or laptop you can go to the main sub and unblock it. You can’t do it from mobile.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:07 PM
1

Just go to the main sub and type in AWALT there’s dozens of examples.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 10:04 PM
2

I think some of the concepts are accepted and recognized by most guys. The easy ones to accept are that girls like assholes, being needy isn’t attractive, preselection ect... I knew about that before I found he red pill and most of my friends know this.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 09:44 PM
3

Not if you got 2 in the kitty. Abundance kills off beta tendencies (for the most part). Be less invested then she is. Run dread game keep her on her toes. That’s just about all you can do. At the end of the day AWALT concept always shines through. Your only doomed to become BP when you don’t have yourself as your number1 priority. Your the prize.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 09:08 PM
5

Best way to red pill somebody is by showing them with your actions not words. If your friends see you slaying and making changes(getting good aat game) they will definitely ask wtf is going on.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:51 PM
1

Go to the main sub and search abundance. Read the top post of all time on it. Also read about approach anxiety and how to get started. Btw Don’t pursue woman you work with.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:50 PM
8

I hope your trolling.Dead in the water move on. You did not read the side bar! This is beta AF. No offense man I’m not trying to hate but seriously you have oneitus for this girl you didn’t even fuck. You need to start approaching and cultivating abundance. Your way to attached to the outcome.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 08:45 PM
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Need the context of the dates. Are you setting a sexual frame? Are you escalating? What do your convos look like? Kino? I mean dude 50 dates is a lot to not seal the deal.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 07:16 PM
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Trickle truth. She knew what she was doing don’t believe the “I was blacked out”nonsense.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:04 PM
1

You need to figure out your end goal here. If your not motivated to achieve a certain physique or level of strength then why even lift? Lifting is the go to for physical self improvement because it’s the most straight forward. You can also do martial arts or high endurance running,swimming, cycling,You can choose from plenty of physical activities that will keep you somewhat lean and somewhat muscular. If you want to be jacked and shredded then lifting is a must. If you want to just be in “good …
/r/askTRP21/10/19 03:12 PM
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Connection/Disney romance/love=purple pill goals. Being red is tough because sometimes we want so badly to go back to our programing.we fantasize about being in love and having a special connection. I think an LTR is fine as long as you maintain abundance, don’t become emotionally dependent on her and you fine tune your chick to be how you want. Go for it just make sure that she is always more invested in the relationship than you are.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:23 PM
1

Haha Na man your not a jerk. Find a girl that gets your rocks off problem solved.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:46 PM
5

I hope this is a troll post. What you need to do is break up with her IMMEDIATELY and cut her out of your life.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:42 PM
1

Yes sir I got the plan for you. Alternating 2 day split was great. Hitting a muscle 5x a month instead of 4. Workout A would be a push(chest shoulders triceps) and B pull/legs( back biceps hams glutes and quads). It looks something like this. Mon A Wed B Fri A. Next week is opposite. Mon B Wed A Fri B. Fill the workouts with whatever exercises you want. I start with compound lifts and do reverse pyramid then I switch to accessory workouts and do hypertrophy.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:34 PM
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I’d wait until the next night. Definitely don’t over-compliment her( it’s fine as long as it’s not excessive). Text her and say hey had a good time last night maybe we’ll do it again soon. That’s my go to.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:27 PM
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Nutrition is key. Cardio is not necessary but can be an effective tool. Either way you can’t lose fat without being in a calorie deficit. I’m assuming your a new lifter. You will se some nice body recomp. 5x5 is good but I recommend Reverse pyramid training for strength on core lifts like bench squat dead lift and shoulder press (builds dense muscle) and higher reps on accessory workouts for hypertrophy(muscle pump). Easy way to start moving in the right direction for your diet is to simply cut …
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:22 PM
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I used to think this way. If your comfortable with it a tall girl will be as well. I had a tall girl (like 6”1) I’m 5”10 Shit test me extra hard to make sure I was worth it. She was the most submissive girl in the sack. She overcompensated for her height by being extra girly and submissive I could literally do anything , she loved to wrap her long legs around me. Amazon women can be great lays. Don’t discriminate tall girl need dick too!!
/r/askTRP20/10/19 04:02 PM
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Tom Cruz is 5”8. It’s totally subjective. Obviously it’s better to be taller but you can still have 10/10 smv under 6 foot.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 03:57 PM
3

It’s funny because they both have tried to make me jealous to commit. You know talking about other guys to show there a hot commodity. It amuses me. The I am the prize frame is flawless because you can breeze through those shit test. I didn’t flinch from the idea of a the threat which resulted in full submission, at least for the time being.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 03:48 PM
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I like this.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 12:55 PM
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Ok fair enough good advice. It’s what my gut is telling me to do but I know they’ll that 1 will break. Fucking whores do this to guys it’s fucked. I don’t feel bad for them they deserve it. I know thats kind of childish and revengeful, but there’s gotta be some justice in this world.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:12 AM
2

Maybe I should have been more specific. I live in nyc and I was at a bar in downtown Manhattan. I posted a snap which is why I think the 2nd plate showed up. I didn’t intentionally make out with p1 in front of p2. It was a surprise that she was there as far as I knew she was supposed to be celebrating her friends birthday in Brooklyn. It’s not like invited both of them and intentionally stirred up the drama.
/r/askTRP20/10/19 06:01 AM
3

Swole is the goal size is the prize motherfucker.
/r/askTRP19/10/19 05:48 PM
1

Don’t write that. Just make other plans as a backup
/r/askTRP19/10/19 05:41 PM
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I don’t understand why you would be explaining yourself to a girl you just broke up with...
/r/askTRP15/10/19 10:14 AM
0

Second this. It’s no big deal OP.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 11:50 PM
1

You should switch to something sustainable. Fasting alone won’t cause weight loss you still need to be in a deficit. Get a food scale weigh your shit out. Grandmas cooking doesn’t matter where there’s a will there is a way. My fitness pal is excellent for tracking and holding yourself accountable.You can still have meals she cooks, if you hit your calories you’ll los fat.
/r/askTRP05/10/19 02:15 AM
0

Skybar, 1 oak, up&down, meat packing district for street game& bar hopping.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:36 PM
1

No problem dude. I highly recommend IIFYM style diet. Easiest to follow IMO and you’ll be able to eat things you enjoy while losing weight. Eat at a 20% calorie deficit.Go find a nice training split and get to lifting. In one year you could make some serious changes to your physique. Pro tip: club soda/seltzer before during and after meals will keep you full and satiated while in a calorie deficit.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 07:24 PM
1

Neither will result in significant fat loss as without changes in nutrition. If your obese you may lose weight just by being active but you’ll plateau eventually. If your goal is to just be “not fat” then all you need to do is change your eating habits. If you want to get in good shape martial arts combined with a solid nutrition plan will give you a decent looking body. If you want an aesthetic physique like one of the marvel superheroes you can only accomplish this by lifting heavy weights and…
/r/askTRP04/10/19 05:10 PM
2

Yup. Having a great physique and clothes that compliment it is better then wearing name expensive shit.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:48 PM
2

Dude it is a mutual thing. When a girl says she loves you she means it. Just add the word right now after everything she says. I love you... right now. I’d never cheat on you... right now. I want to spend the rest of my life with you... right now. I have an emotional connection with you... right now. It’s still there it’s just conditional. You can be emotionally invested but NEVER more then she is. Don’t sweat it dude you don’t have to be an emotionless robot pimp. You can love your girl but nev…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:16 PM
2

It’s a girls job to find an alpha male and turn him into her provider for her and her children. It’s in their DNA. Just like it’s in our DNA to fuck every attractive woman we can. Men emotionally manipulate woman to get them in the sack. Your issue is that you don’t have a strong frame and are capable of being manipulated because your emotional investment in women is greater then your investment in yourself. If your girl knew that she could be replaced in an instant she’d behave how you wanted h…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 12:01 PM
2

Then don’t. If you can’t be manipulated who gives a shit if they try? Men are shallow too. How do you think overweight buck tooth Becky feels when every guy she fucks ghost her after? Men certainly are more loyal then woman I’ll give you that.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:49 AM
9

Unfortunately this cannot be learned. Being a good dancer is exclusive to black people.....
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:41 AM
2

Woman aren’t capable of loving you the way you want them to. Doesn’t mean you can’t have a connection. That Disney fairytale idea of what love is..... isn’t real. Enjoy women for what they are.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 11:37 AM
5

You can be a bum broke ass actor or a movie star money doesn’t necessarily make you successful though. You can be a rich surgeon who’s boring and bland or a doc without borders helping sick kids in poor countries. A high status job could be anything really if you excel at it. On the surface though doctor lawyer banker real estate and stocks give an initial impression of high status. Usually if you have one of those job titles every one will assume your at least somewhat successful
/r/askTRP27/09/19 10:23 AM
2

Nice yea it sucks that we are at our absolute strongest when we have a tiny bit of extra fat. I hate cutting so much that I maintain under 10 % year round so I’m always at most 6 weeks away from being dick skin shredded. Still nothing compares to that feeling of hitting a PR.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:45 PM
3

Facts being big and lean is one thing. But once you get shredded it’s a whole other playing field. Jaws actually drop when shirtless it’s awesome. Good physique you clearly have your nutrition in check. Why don’t you maintain sub 10% year round?
/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:31 PM
1

Wedding crashes
/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:55 AM
5

Lions are expert hunters though. I get the analogy makes sense.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 08:50 PM
12

It’s actually hilarious how successful he is with milfs compared to girls our age(20’s). The milf whisperer has no limits.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 08:03 PM
16

My buddy is the milf whisperer. A lot from okcupid but some from cold approach. He’s very bold direct and aggressive in his style of game. The milfs seem to admire him for it a lot more then girls our age. Idk if the game changes at all though just an observation.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 07:56 PM
1

Fuck those old jealous dudes. Aesthetics are meant to be admired. I wouldn’t just walk around shirtless but whenever I have the chance I’ll take it off. Basically if your at Music festival, house party that’s real wild,near a body of water, hot and sunny, cardio at the park or on campus you can be shirtless.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 07:38 PM
1

chicks at funerals are suuuuper horny...
/r/askTRP17/09/19 07:03 PM
1

You can talk about anything you want. Sports are usually a go to topic and easy way to start a convo with other guys. I think the most important thing is not coming off as a try hard. If they see you as a cool dude who can vibe with them pull chicks and add value to the frat you’ll be fine.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 07:02 PM
3

Yea idk if it’s an Asian thing but she also would rub her hair and face on my chest like a cat lmao gotta love these Asian chicks super submissive and ready to please.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 06:55 PM
4

What? Na dude I’ve had woman suck my neck in pure lust when I have them pinned down by there hands taking them to pound town, there’s nothing submissive about that. I had this little Asian chick give me hickeys all over when I was in college. The next night I was at a party every girl asked me about it.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 06:43 PM
6

I think your taking it to seriously. I never thought of it as a display of dominance. I love getting hickeys firstly cause it feels dope and secondly because it automatically gives your pre selection.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 06:28 PM
5

It really depends on the individual. I personally look much better without a beard but you might look much better with one. Grow it out see how it looks.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 06:24 PM
1

Still have them but less shredz. 7/8% bf to 10% bf at the tail end.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 06:13 PM
1

Still very visible even toward the end go from 7-8% bf to roughly 10% over 6-8 months.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 06:12 PM
1

Still very visible even toward the end go from 7-8% bf to roughly 10% over 6-8 months.
/r/askTRP16/09/19 06:12 PM
2

Facts. The attention you’ll get if you have form fitting clothes and an aesthetic physique is unreal. Must say tho I catch dudes ‘mirin way more then girls.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 07:20 PM
3

You’ll notice woman becoming attracted to you as soon as your big enough to fill out your sleeves and have any shirt fit right around your chest while having a thin waist sub15% bf. A V taper body is the aesthetic that most girls out there fawn over. For me it happened after gaining 20lbs of muscle which as a noob is possible in 1 year.
/r/askTRP14/09/19 07:16 PM
3

Yes my man you will be far more attractive when you lose weight. Woman will respond much better. Dealing with hunger is mostly pure willpower. However here are some tips that make it easier. •weigh yourself daily and get to the gym daily. Your less likely to fuck up your diet if you do those 2 things everyday. • fast with an 8 hour eating window. I don’t eat until 2 o clock when I’m cutting and never past 10. •reduce the number of meals you eat so they are bigger meals. In turn you’ll feel fulle…
/r/askTRP14/09/19 06:54 PM
1

Facts peanut butter is the most calorie dense shit in the world
/r/askTRP13/09/19 10:32 PM
2

Go game more girls.Go fuck more girls.
/r/seduction13/09/19 07:17 PM
1

My girlfriend is submissive and wants me to be a man. Be a man it’s your job to initiate.
/r/seduction13/09/19 07:03 PM
9

Need way more details to help you gain muscle bro. Here’s the simple formula for bulking. Eat 250kcals over your maintenance every day. Have 1 gram of protein per lb of bodyweight 30% cfats and the rest of your calories with carbs.Work out for strength use progressive overload to get stronger.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 06:55 PM
2

You haven’t even dipped your toe in cold approach yet. You don’t need to re-evaluate your game. You don’t have game YET. Don’t fool yourself into thinking you’ve made progress by doing 8 approaches in 9 months. You do 8 approaches easy in 1 night. Yea duh you should go to the club bro are you kidding me. Any place where there is a high volume of females in a social setting is exactly where you need to be.When a girl says she has a boyfriend it’s a polite fuck off. Here’s your course of action if…
/r/seduction13/09/19 06:31 PM
1

That’s my phone auto correct. I meant low body fat .
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:45 PM
1

Boxing wrestling and Bjj. Deadly if your good at all 3
/r/askTRP10/09/19 06:11 PM
1

Lean is always better IMO. The best scenario is both big strong with a v taper and low back dry fat. Aesthetic as Fuark
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:48 PM
1

So now is your opportunity to develop your social skills. Your not just going to magically become outgoing overnight. Go out make friends shoot the shit with dudes flirt with girls as long as your not coming across as a try hard people will be receptive. I make small talk with guys at bars just as much as girls sometimes if the dudes cool and we got along we will exchange contact info maybe go out again in the future. I’ve met plenty of people this way club promoters invite me places i get free …
/r/askTRP10/09/19 05:22 PM
1

What to look for in a frat depends on what you intend to get out of it. If it’s purely good times partying and pussy then pledge the frat that all the girls like best and also the dudes you get along with best simple as that. If you want business connections or for it to look good on a resumé then you’ll have other criteria.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 03:40 PM
2

Do you go to a big university. If so you can always cold approach on campus. You also must have some type of bar scene almost every college does. Go out.
/r/askTRP10/09/19 10:10 AM
1

I agree. Individual girls are different but in general they have a couple dudes they see.
/r/askTRP08/09/19 01:59 AM
2

Well now if he decides he wants to get back on track, he already has the tools because you gave them to him.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 07:43 PM
1

Dmt can do that. I caution you it’s not fun but it is mind blowing.
/r/askTRP07/09/19 02:26 PM
16

I relate. Nihilism ain’t the answer though. For me giving is meaningful. In whatever way I can I like to give value.for example I Helped a fat kid I work with lose 50 lbs.Seeing him become confident and determined put a big fat smile on my face. Psychedelics can give you perspective on what really matters. a nice lsd or shroom trip could help you out if that’s something your open to.
/r/askTRP06/09/19 11:00 PM
2

If she wants more tell her you don’t and it’s cool if she doesn’t want to see you you’ll understand. After sex only if she ask. That usually won’t come up right away.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 07:06 PM
1

Kangaroo pills
/r/askTRP05/09/19 06:10 PM
3

How do you know she she wants “more” if you haven’t fucked her?
/r/askTRP05/09/19 06:00 PM
3

Good job my dude that’s absolutely 100% the right call. It’s a tough thing to follow through with. Keep moving forward on to the next.
/r/askTRP03/09/19 07:24 PM
6

Skip it bruh fasting is awesome
/r/askTRP01/09/19 03:55 PM
1

Until she leaves. Don’t eject from the set unless you get blown out. Even if you do it’s almost always better to stand your ground and simply say “your free to go”
/r/askTRP30/08/19 01:50 PM
1

Stock In there and get used to being uncomfortable. When your comfortable being uncomfortable you’ll start making strides in your game.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 12:59 PM
1

Silence is good it’ll builds tension. Get comfortable with that. If she fills the silence it’s an investment from her which is good. Instead asking questions make assumptions and let her fill in the blanks. Example Where are you from? = You look like a jersey girl.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 06:40 PM
1

By getting abundance.I was in exactly the same position. I started fucking other girls to fill the void and then I realized that need for her died down naturally when your getting laid by different girls regularly. It’s the “idea” of her that your attached to. See how you feel about your “ special girl” when your killing it. You won’t give a fuck about her or any other girl for that matter.
/r/askTRP29/08/19 06:28 PM
5

Get a low taper fade on the sides and back keep it long on top. Use mold paste or clay for hold and a tiny bit of pomade for shine and use a wide tooth comb or your fringes to brush it back and to the side slightly. Look up low taper fade for men you’ll see....
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:27 AM
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Na bro the wil make your anxiety worse. Cvs won’t make a huge difference but it can help
/r/askTRP29/08/19 11:20 AM
2

You post the same shit constantly and you constantly get the same advice. You know what you need to do. Stop being a pussy and do it.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 07:48 PM
2

Strong app to track your lifts. Jeff cavalier of athleanx has plenty of videos on YouTube for free that demonstrate form. For nutrition check out IIFYM it’s a lifestyle switch. Kinobody has great programs IMO that have all of the above.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:40 PM
6

Lmao at this. Bro your in her frame. If she knew you could drop her and get sex from other women this would not be happening.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:29 PM
1

No1 is talking about one extreme or the other. I didn’t deny reading has its benefits. My point is that experience is the best teacher. Just like taking supplements won’t make you jacked but lifting will. Combine the 2 and you’ll make progress more quickly and efficiently.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:17 PM
6

Yes I had a girl take me to dinners clubs tables bottles hotel rooms all on her dime or I should say daddy’s dime. I don’t get what advice your seeking. You should have fucked this chick. She’s obviously interested.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:10 PM
2

Read the side bar. TRP isn’t based on toxic hookup culture. Red pill men existed before our culture became what it is. TRP is based on human psychology more specifically female psychology as it regards to attraction/sex/relationships and also what it means to be an attractive man. My advice is to get good with woman.Spin plates get and choose an ltr when you have abundance. Have a standard (looks,morale,values,behavior)that a woman must meet in order to receive your commitment. Don’t just wife u…
/r/askTRP28/08/19 01:00 PM
2

Yes of course no one is denying that reading is not beneficial. But to read book on escalation is overkill. Concepts are understood by reading and internalized by experience. You’ll benefit way more by consistently practicing then you would reading 10 books on escalation.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 12:28 PM
0

I’d like to add that you should prioritize your incline bench over flat you’ll get a better aesthetic.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 10:46 AM
2

Read the sidebar. You have no chance of fucking this girl. Orbiting is not fun. Fucking is fun . You are nothing but a validating beta-male cuck to this girl. Seriously what you need to do is man up cut ties or at least stop giving her attention.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 10:38 AM
5

Escalating on you ltr is the same as any other girl. Again whatever trouble your having is all in your head and will not be remedied by words on paper. Escalate the same way. You escalated to fuck her in the first place.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 10:30 AM
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A bookcan’t teach you to escalate only practice in the field can. Don’t overthink it, there really is no reason to read a book on escalation.
/r/askTRP28/08/19 10:21 AM
3

We only eat the hearts of live animals like true alpha males. No seriously if you wanna cut eat in a 20 % deficit. If you wanna bulk eat in a 10% surplus. 1gram of protein per lb of lean body mass30% fats and the rest carbs.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 08:06 PM
1

On a date I’ll pepper in some statements early in the night that will seed a reason for her to come over later. “ I just got this new x it’s pretty cool you should check it out sometime, anyway” back to convo. If the dates going well and you properly set up your logistics make the suggestion to go back to yours by suggesting you check out what you mentioned earlier. Also use a false time constraint. If a girl ask me what I’m doin later at the club that’s a good sign. After party ! Or hotel bar o…
/r/askTRP27/08/19 08:00 PM
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Get like minded friends that will put pressure on you to approach. No one wants to feel like a pussy in front of there friends.
/r/askTRP27/08/19 07:45 PM
3

Find a girl who shares similar values that you do. Clearly your girlfriend does not.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 10:01 PM
1

AWALT bruh.... it’s not a bad thing. You don’t have a negative vibe because your red pill that’s nonsense. Go out and field test for yourself. That’s the only way to be certain.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 09:57 PM
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Don’t come across as a try hard. Don’t be a class clown and take your studies seriously. You don’t wanna be the guy who disrupts class to get a rise out of people in order to impress/fit in. It’s ok to crack a joke here and there but people are paying big$ to be there so be respectful of that. Good luck.
/r/askTRP24/08/19 09:46 PM
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Yes you should 100% start learning to be social. Try to be friends with people but don’t come across as a try hard. College is a blast compared to real life. Take your studies seriously start lifting if you haven’t already. Take pressure off yourself to get laid. Try to have fun and get some social momentum going. I recommend pledging a fraternity for social proof and friends that last for life. Have a good time and break free. College is a great opportunity to put yourself in uncomfortable soci…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 09:40 PM
1

3 months isn’t long enough to bul. Also you need a minimum of 6 months to successfully bulk ideally you should do 8 months. You can only gain 2 lbs of mass a month (less if your already jacked). More over you should never IMO go over 10% body fat because the leaner you are the more efficient your body is at partitioning calories toward muscle growth. Also you never jump from a bulk str8 to a cut or a cut str8 to a bulk. You need to maintain your fat loss or muscle gains for a minimum of 2 weeks …
/r/askTRP24/08/19 08:23 PM
1

I got you bro 169lbs isn’t specific enough how strong are you do you have sufficient muscle mass? Being shredded means you have enough mass for your striations to pop if your a twerp getting to 6% body fat will not yield the shredded look. Assuming you have enough mass your looking at a 12 week cut. Go into a 20% deficit for the first 8 weeks and the last 4 go into a 25% deficit. I’m assuming you’ll need to get down to 150-155lbs. Assuming your maintenance is 2500-2600 calories w( normal for you…
/r/askTRP24/08/19 07:34 PM
2

Shredded is sub 8% bodyfat. Very lean is 8-10% and lean is 10-12% 12-15% is fit. Hope that clarifies
/r/askTRP24/08/19 07:18 PM
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I guess that’s my only option. I’d hate to see him marry her that’d fuckin blow. I got him lifting for a while when they were “off” now that there back “on” he’s been slacking. I’m gonna start introducing him to more girls I think he just needs to see what’s out there and more importantly that it’s obtainable.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 09:13 PM
1

He knows of the red pill but he hasn’t swallowed it. I know he acknowledges the validity of the content but he isn’t really on board 100.I’m sure he’s read some post but I know for sure he hasn’t read the sidebar or put it into practice which is what he really needs. Reading about it is one thing experiencing it completely different.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 09:09 PM
1

Yes if it was a stranger he’d have a problem. She also did it to another buddy of mine who’s a high smv guy. It was his first time meeting her so there was no familiarity there. I guess it could be a combination of both him not caring and him also trusting me.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 08:55 PM
4

Cheers.Hope that happens sooner then later
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:55 PM
1

Certainly does. Even though it’s not advised and I really don’t want to.I might have to start crossing friend groups with plates so he has at least the option to upgrade.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 07:21 PM
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Yes that’s true your right AWALT. She however is touchy feely with me and my other friend right in front of him , she doesn’t even hide it. That in my eyes is not acceptable. He lets it slide A. Because he knows we have no interest and B. Because he really doesn’t actually like her he’s just to lazy to strive for better. He doesn’t love her he’s with her because it’s convenient.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 05:30 PM
1

Go to the main sub and search approach anxiety. Everything you need is there uncle vas has a good post called the faint of heart never fucked the fair lady or something like that it’s a great pos.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 05:14 PM
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I get approached direct from low SMV girls. 2 weeks ago a hb6 approached me at the bar and str8 up laid her cards on the table. Last weekend I was talking to a random dude at the bar a hb8 that was checking me out earlier approached and introduced herself bc the guy was her cousin. I’m not the most experienced guy out there but I’ve noticed girls trying to get my attention by lingering in my vicinity casually glancing at me. Or being obnoxiously loud in there convos. Or sometimes I’ll get the “i…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:24 PM
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In my experience after I got big and shredded I did get approached more just not 8,9,10s. . However I did catch them checking me out and started getting a ton of IOIs. In my experience the hottest girls only approach me if I’m in the zone or if I’m talking to a mutual friend of theirs so they have an excuse.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 04:14 PM
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Your not going to get approached ofby attractive girls often no matter how big you get( it does occasionally happen)It’s your job to approach not the girls. You will however get more approach invitations.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:31 PM
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Some recommend dipping your toe in the water.Making small talk 1-2 minute convos with strangers a few times a day everyday. I say jump in head first. Approach a ton of girls and go balls out. At first I was anxious after I little while I was desensitized to the rejection and a little while more my anxiousness turned into excitement. It became fun. You have to repeat this process religiously though and keep the momentum going. It isn’t permanent and you will revert back to being nervous and anxio…
/r/askTRP23/08/19 03:23 PM
1

Sad. She’s not his ideal girl either.. he’d drop her ass for a better option. He just won’t put himself out there.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:59 PM
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That’s true but he gave me unsolicited advice and it helped me realize my short comings. At first I was bitter but I knew he was right and I made the necessary changes.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:46 PM
1

I’ve been waiting for that for years no that was the initial plan. He is TRP aware but still blue as the sky. The problem is her SMV is to low and standards to high for a successful branch swing.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 02:44 PM
3

When you get to sub 10% bf your face will look more masculine. You cheek bones more pronounced and jaw looks wider and more defined. It isn’t the only factor to your smv. Will hit help sure. Substitute for bad game no....
/r/askTRP23/08/19 12:05 PM
2

Holy shit... that’s a deal breaker in my eyes. Drop. Ghost. Spin plates. Coulda shoulda woulda smacked him in his mouth for disrespecting you like that but tbh that probably wouldn’t have been the best route I just can’t see myself not being aggressive toward this fucking guy in that situation. Still doesn’t make it the right move.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 10:14 PM
1

I Know man it disgust me 2 but I can’t drop him I’d rather help him realizes his faults so he can have an aha moment and get his shit in order. Financially he’s successful especially at our age. He’s Red Pill aware but hasn’t swallowed it(yet).He’s a good friend and has been there for me when I needed it. I thought that the last “breakup” was for good only for him to bring her back. I want to give him whatever help I can offer before I totally give up.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 08:34 PM
1

Meaning what exactly ?
/r/askTRP22/08/19 08:15 PM
2

I know that’s the killer years for guys . Right now I’m enjoying my high test levels great physique and wicked sex drive I hope I still got that at 35.
/r/askTRP22/08/19 07:44 PM
1

How do I present the truth without jeopardizing our friendship?
/r/askTRP22/08/19 07:04 PM
1

Love them. It removes the shackles of your past and allows you to become present to the moment. That alone has incredible value. Icing on the cake are the epiphanies you can have from psychedelics. I like to try to remember what it’s like to be present because quite frankly there is no better feeling in the the world then existing in absolute bliss without a worry in the world.
/r/askTRP21/08/19 03:11 PM
1

Iwake up at 6 am daily. If you take lifting seriously you need at least 7 hours of sleep to keep your hormones in check and maximize gains/fat loss.That means your ass should be sleeping by 11 pm. Realistically it’s not always that easy. On the weekends don’t set an alarm if your getting 7 hours a night you more then likely will wake up after 7 hours on the weekend. So if I go to bed at 4 am I’m up at 11 am. During the week make it a priority if you have plates see them between 7pm-10:30pm hit t…
/r/askTRP21/08/19 01:12 PM
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I’d continue to lift, continue to educate myself and continue to improve anyway I can. If I had the luxury of not having to work and have an unlimited amount of funds I’d move to Vegas immerse myself in cold approach pickup for a year. Talking theoreticals is pointless, focus on what you can do in your current situation to improve yourself.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 06:11 PM
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I would focus way less on girls and way more on myself. Lifting nutrition reading and getting a head start in life. I’d certainly be more bold and put myself out there to be rejected to numb myself to it at an early age.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:56 PM
1

Holy fuck.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:49 PM
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I’m from nyc. Acting tough and alpha the fuck does that even mean. Read the sidebar go figure it out for yourself. I really hope you you change man this is sad.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:47 PM
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Yea your right show them your credit score and big checking account you’ll start pulling left and right....
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:33 PM
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There’s a good saying. “Wherever you go there you are”. If you had all the money in the world you’d still be you. You want to IMPRESS woman? Wow that blows. Read the sidebar and start taking action.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:19 PM
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Yea those dudes are bitches ditch the incels. Put yourself out there. Don’t discriminate girls talk to hot ones ugly ones fat ones skinny ones and practice amused mastery and eye contact for starters. Do something that’s is Spurs you out of your comfort zone everyday. The second you feel resistance is the second you need to take action. Build some social momentum.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 05:15 PM
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It all depends on your personal preference. I prefer to be shredded I think I look bigger with my shirt off bc of the definition. I also get my shirts tailored to they hug your body nicely. I prefer my body to be the V shape. So the advice I gave is geared toward that. 15% bodyfat is easy and could be achieved at a recomp bulk.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 02:13 AM
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Btw that’s called a crash diet cutting at 1000 calories a day will destroy your fat burning hormones(leptin) And you will not significantly lean out. Body fat around 20%
/r/askTRP20/08/19 02:08 AM
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Buy a food scale and my fitness pal . IF you want a jaw dropping physique you need to count calories. Is that too much ? Idk what your maintenance calories are so I couldn’t tell you. Was the beef 90% lean?Were the burgers lean beef? Did you use any sauces? What about liquid calories that counts too. If your gaining too much fat on your bulk you already know that your eating too much. IMO depending on your position you could be more effective at 180. Faster and more explosive = more momentum you…
/r/askTRP20/08/19 02:04 AM
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You need to cut a lot bro. Your probably where you need to be to begin a bulk at around 180. Eating clean means shit if your eating many kcals. You need to eat slightly above maintenance and aim to gain 2lbs of muscle a month to have a successfullean bulk.You need to get very lean before bulking at least 10% bf IMO. Your body is way more efficient at partitioning your calories toward muscle growth instead of fat gain when you are a lean calorie burning machine. You need to find your maintenance …
/r/askTRP20/08/19 01:48 AM
1

Your right. A man with real abundance doesn’t even flinch.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 12:10 AM
1

Her hamster is gonna have to kick in to overdrive to rationalize that nonsense
/r/askTRP20/08/19 12:09 AM
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I’d never fight for her but good looking out.
/r/askTRP20/08/19 12:08 AM
1

Fair enough
/r/askTRP19/08/19 09:14 PM
1

I’m a bit of an autist. I didn’t think about it on the weekend or while I was out but after i like to summarize my interactions and experiences to gauge what was goin on. I feel like it’s beneficial to see through another’s eyes whether it’s a chick a business partner or a client to understand why certain actions are taken.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 07:54 PM
1

Facts.i don’t wanna bash the guy but wtf.
/r/seduction19/08/19 07:34 PM
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Fuck that if he’s getting pussy I don’t feel bad for him not one bit. I didn’t engage either I just went on with my night so he probably isn’t even aware of what she was doing.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 07:00 PM
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Cringe! I’m throwing up in my mouth reading this.Perfect girl my ass AWALT. I never understood how a dude could develop oneitus for a girl he hasn’t even fucked. All the advice you need is in the sidebar. Try reading that before posting next time.
/r/seduction19/08/19 06:45 PM
1

Obviously getting in shape is going to yield the highest results in terms of increasing physical attractiveness. Aside from that I think having good fashion is an underrated way of increasing SMV. Find what colors work with your skin tone. Check out some fashion trends and build your own personal style. Buy clothes that either hide your chubbyness or show off your lean physique once you get one. Go to a good stylist and show them a picture of a haircut you want. After take pictures and show your…
/r/askTRP19/08/19 06:31 PM
2

Natty or not still takes dedication in and out of the gym .Apply that drive towards progressing with woman you’ll be a stud.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 01:13 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP19/08/19 01:27 AM
2

A good mindset in general is the “there’s no reason I’m not enough” mindset. It takes pressure off of you to be a superstar Icey cold pimp. I may not be the tallest most jacked good looking charming guy here but..... there’s no reason that I’m not enough.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 10:51 PM
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You need to delete her number delete her social media any and everything that connects you to her. You need to start focusing on yourself instead of her or any girl. Keep yourself busy no downtime for ruminating on the past. You need to become a man. Build your physique get in the gym and if you can learn a martial art It will give you confidence and discipline Learn cold approach not by reading theory or watching videos but by practicing infield. Go out immerse yourself in cold approach Set goa…
/r/seduction16/08/19 06:49 PM
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Dude. Have you fucked this girl? Are you in an LTR. If not she’s fair game.to be honest even if you did she’s fair game she’s not yours it’s your turn. Don’t worry about your bro talking shit that makes him look like a bitch anyway.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 05:29 PM
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Depends on your goals I always pick shredz over size 14% as a goal? I’d lower that a lot man . I guess it’s personal preference but I would cut to 7-8% bodyfat shredded than lean bulk until 10-12% then cut and repeat this cycle. On your first bulk you can gain 20-25lbs of muscle in a year. Then next year will be 10-15lbs then 10lbs and it keeps getting lower once you get closer to your genetic potential. While bulking aim for 2lbs a month that’s pure muscle with minimal fat anything more is most…
/r/askTRP16/08/19 01:20 PM
1

I agree it doesn’t seem productive debate an arbitrary value of hotness perhaps saying “force myself” is painting the wrong picture for you.let’s just say I wasn’t overly attracted she was good enough but short of what would be ideal.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 10:32 PM
1

Ok so the girls I’m talking about are 5s and 6s not ugly just average ...
/r/askTRP15/08/19 09:58 PM
1

Am I gauging this right ...morbidly obese woman like precious is a 1 lowest on the scale and I’d consider Lena Dunham a 2-3 Sarah Jessica Parker a 5 ?
/r/askTRP15/08/19 07:28 PM
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I’d consider Lena Dunham a 4 and Rosie O’Donnell a 1 maybe that can give you a perspective on what I mean by a 6.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 07:11 PM
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No a little bit hot Is what I’d consider a 7. Average hot chick is an 8 and stunners are 9s and 10s. A hb6 to me is a girl that I almost have to force myself to fuck. I’m not talking hideous but a girl who is very plane doesn’t turn me on.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 03:09 PM
1

I just read it...that’s a great post. What I’m taking away is that I’m not plowing through those shit test & im leaving sets to early.... I guess I lack the reference experience to differentiate the difference between a girl being nervous and a girl being genuinely disinterested.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 08:25 PM
2

Lol yes
/r/askTRP14/08/19 03:00 AM
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What if I saw them at a club....
/r/askTRP14/08/19 01:35 AM
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There are plenty of models / Instagram models( not really actresses) who do nothing but go to fuckin clubs. There are girls I know that model and get paid for their “looks” that I personally don’t like at all so your point is moot.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 01:27 AM
5

It’s subjective... there are models /actresses that you’d consider a higher rating or lower rating then I personally would.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 01:17 AM
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There’s usually a handful of them at a bar maybe 2 or 3. I live in NYC the right spots on the right nights will have them.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 01:12 AM
1

Agree with that. Regards to the hb8 I maybe could have teased her a little more push/pull ect... I didn't move her around at all.But despite that she was into it wayyyyy more then i was.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 09:36 PM
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I’ve noticed that the harshest rejections are from 7-8s. Not that the 9-10s are bitchy they just don’t give me much to work with.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:34 PM
1

No every one has an individual personality and acts/thinks differently. I’m not talking about specific girls but rather how a level of attractiveness Correlates with certain behaviors I’ve noticed.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:28 PM
1

Makes sense
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:10 PM
2

I get what your saying and it seems obvious I know, but i hear from a lot of good puas and red pillers who pull that they aren’t harder or easier they are the same.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:05 PM
1

But the less attractive girls are objectively not on “my level” yet it doesn’t stop them from being direct with me. They get just as wet and have a much greater chance of there advances being rejected but they always go for it. They make it real easy for me and the hot ones don’t make it easy at all.
/r/askTRP13/08/19 08:01 PM
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What’s your point you obviously don’t have a ton of experience. It doesn’t matter if you make a fuck ton of money. If you only feel “good enough” bc of your income that’s weak shit. Personally I think it’s great to make a lot of money if your doing it for yourself make all the money you can but don’t expect that to make you good at game. Being charming fun bringing a wide range of emotions having 0 outcome dependence having a idgaf mentality is what gets girls wet, not your bank account.
/r/seduction24/07/19 05:24 PM
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There is no other angle to see it. Girls do not give a fuck about how much money you make unless she wants you to provide a lifestyle for her. When she wants a good dicking you think her thought process is” let me hit up sixophrenia he has great income”
/r/seduction24/07/19 05:14 PM
1

The fuck.... providers need money fuck girls lovers need nothing but dick and charm.
/r/seduction24/07/19 05:10 PM
2

Better at eye contact better at setting a vibe better at controlling the frame better at self amusement better at building a connection better at push pull better at pulling better at handling lmr better at all aspects. You get reference experience and you adjust accordingly.
/r/seduction24/07/19 04:51 PM
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Approach direct. Your suppose to suck at first that’s how you get better. Cold approach does obviously work just not for you bc you suck. That’s fine everyone sucks at first keep going and making small progress. Don’t worry about getting the girl interested. Instead think how can I make this interesting fo. Learn to self amuse...
/r/seduction24/07/19 03:46 PM
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Because girls never mean what they say or say what they mean. So while it may be casual now just know the what are we question is coming. Tbh I have never slept with a girl more 3x or more without her asking that question. I have done this 5 times in the past everyone of them agreed that it’s just fwb and will not interfere with work all eventually caught feelings wanted more then casual sex . I’ve had to deal with crying during my business hours. White knights calling me a scumbag, getting atti…
/r/seduction28/06/19 11:47 PM
1

I completely disagree. I’ve seen and been in multiple workplace relationships. Let’s be honest how often are breakups mutual and end on good terms. Not often, one party usually resents the other. Why put yourself in that situation at your place of business. Granted it eventually blows over after a few months it still fucks with the workplace for the time being. Nothing wrong with social circle game at all. The only time I’ve seen it work is when the end result is an ltr.
/r/seduction28/06/19 09:13 PM
2

Vagina rhymes with China is the biggest IOI dear god help this man.
/r/seduction28/06/19 07:22 PM
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Maybe it was her anti slut defense. If a girl doesn’t want to fuck you she won’t mention it or even go out with you for that matter. If she said I don’t want to get physical. In womanese that can be translated to I don’t want to be physical and feel like a slut after. If a girl says “we’re not having sex tonight” odds are she wants to have sex tonight it’s your job to “ make it happen without forcing it or making her feel like a slut. Don’t apologize for being a man and acting on your sexual des…
/r/seduction28/06/19 07:13 PM
1

Troll? You can’t be serious. NEEEEEEEDY
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:57 PM
1

Ok makes sense needed a little more context to understand that.
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:50 PM
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Yea she probably wanted your attention to make her feel validated now she got it and your of no use to her. Go game other girls and start building your abundance your young by the time your 20 you could be a savage.
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:48 PM
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Way to go!! Do more approaches more experiences!
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:36 PM
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“ hey I’m going to xlocation Saturday night you should come around xtime ”
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:31 PM
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Ok good attitude. I don’t see how you got over your fear of rejection after 1 approach. If you truly did good for you most aren’t so lucky and it takes dozens of not hundreds of approaches to get over that.
/r/seduction28/06/19 06:13 PM
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Wtf is with guys trying to get with girls from work on this sub. They’re is no need to potentially sabotage your career over pussy. Settle for her? Are you kidding? Can you imagine what your work situation would be like if you fucked this girl and she ghost you? You’d be fucked! Speaking from experience DONT SHIT WHERE YOU EAT. Best case scenario she’s your girlfriend.If your approaching dating and getting laid consistently(which it doesn’t sound like tbh sorry not sorry) you’ll lose interest an…
/r/seduction28/06/19 05:46 PM
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Yea don’t fuck girls you work with. Trust me it’s not worth it. Only way this could benefit you is if you get into a relationship. If you don’t and you move on from her she’ll resent you and talk bad about you to co workers. If she moves on from you and your not in an abundant mindset you’ll be forced to see her everyday of your life and I can guarantee that will fuck up your productivity. I’ve have personal experience with both scenarios. Never again
/r/seduction28/06/19 05:41 PM
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You don’t want to do this trust me. Don’t shit where you eat.
/r/seduction28/06/19 01:22 PM
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Bjj in particular can be really humbling I wish I stuck with it. When your getting checked unconscious by a 16 year old who’s half your size on the daily it really kills your ego.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:16 PM
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She didn’t flake, you never invited her anywhere. Shoot her an invite somewhere if she isn’t receptive or doesn’t offer to reschedule if she can’t make it move on. I’d invite her in person and only confirm with her through text a day prior to the scheduled meet up.
/r/seduction28/06/19 11:54 AM
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Her friend would never tell you to hookup with her if she didn’t give the ok in the first place.
/r/seduction28/06/19 11:49 AM
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Put yourself in a position where your having sex with multiple woman and see if you want a relationship or you prefer having girls come and go.
/r/seduction28/06/19 01:20 AM
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Being ignored is worse. If you get negative reaction it’s much better you can turn it around sometimes. If she says something outright disrespectful I would move on not worth it.
/r/askTRP28/06/19 01:09 AM
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Idk if they are as good as advertised or if there infield is legit. My buddy is a intermediate pua 5 years in the game and used rsd as his framework. His number count is give or take 100. It’s a mix of ugly girls, mostly hb 7&8s with a few hb 9&10s here and there.He still gets rejected every night at least once but he doesn’t give a fuck he pulls all the time and he’s not a good looking guy.On top of that going out with him is a great time. So I think what they teach works but idk if they are as…
/r/seduction27/06/19 06:21 PM
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Usually between 14-16x your body weight so if you weigh 160lbs workout 3 days a week and are at least slightly active on rest days chances are your burning 2400 kcal. Using the above example a cut on a 20% deficit you’d eat 1920 kcal. A lean bulk would be maintenance on rest days and 2900 kcal on lifting days. Depending on where your starting from could change that tho. A guy with significant muscle mass already shouldn’t eat as much while bulking because only a certain amount of the surplus goe…
/r/askTRP26/06/19 07:40 PM
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A lot of value in this comment thanks. That point about mystery is what I assume mark was referring to as fake alpha but on the same token he had deep rooted psychological issues. Style was overcompensating for his past failure and trying to feel validated but I feel in the long run that need for validation is dies down in a normal dude. The natural guy who became a rabbi is a head scratcher because if I had to guess he left girls better then he found them so why would He feel bad. Personally if…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 07:21 PM
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I agree. But for som1 like me a motivated 25 year old who is already in tip top shape who already has a great job who already has outside interest, having a bunch of girls on my roster seems to be the only part of my life that’s missing and pickup seems to be the best way to remedy it.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 06:07 PM
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I feel like pickup opens the doors for other things in life. Guys who start out balls to the wall in pickup rarely keep the momentum needed to achieve absolute mastery of the skill. Many guys take that momentum and confidence and apply it elsewhere which makes sense. I see pickup as the framework but not the whole picture.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 05:52 PM
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Yea it’s a good read with a lot of value. I personally like The Game better. Overall I think that mark stresses to much on inner game and completely disregards a lot of value in pickup
/r/askTRP25/06/19 05:22 PM
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Natural game pickup is better then canned lines and old school stuff.I like using my own lines in field it makes me feel good especially when it’s spur of the moment.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 05:10 PM
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I agree, a lot of dudes want the short term gratification but benefit long run with more expirience and perspective after being out infield. Tbh negs seem to be a very natural part of game to me. If I find myself in “state” or the “zone” I do this without thinking about it as a technique for seduction. Active dread however doesn’t seem healthy but it works time and time again. I feel like the exAFC benefit in the long run though. At first pickup can be very gimmicky and feels forced at times but…
/r/askTRP25/06/19 05:07 PM
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I agree there’s a lot of value in it. At certain parts I was scratching my head thinking wtf. I also read Neil Strauss’s The Game which was very entertaining and exciting/motivating to see his progress from his POV. Obviously Neil is a successful guy on his path doing his thing but started with all the things Mark discredits (routines negs nlp ect...). I feel like Mark would label him as a Fake alpha.
/r/askTRP25/06/19 04:58 PM
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Under certain circumstances you can achieve body recomposition(lose fat and gain muscle). If you are new to lifting it’ll work If you used to lift but have taken significant time off it will work. You will most likely end up around 12% body fat with a few lbs of mass gain and no weight change on the scale If you do not meet those conditions your gains will be painstakingly slow and fat loss will also be slow. At 17% body fat your best bet is to cut down to 10% or lower then maintain that physiqu…
/r/askTRP12/06/19 07:51 PM
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Sales is shit tier industry??? It’s the only industry where your education level is irrelevan and earning potential unlimited. Suck enough bosses dicks??? If your a closer and bring in the $$ for your company your boss will be sucking your dick.Idc how smart you or how great your product is, the Bottom line is if you can’t sell it you won’t see success. Btw the best salesmen aren’t salesmen they are actors. Act as if you you have the answers and people will believe you do, act as if your the bes…
/r/TheRedPill12/06/19 07:35 PM
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It depends on your goals if you want an aesthetic physique you’ll have to lift.Boxing has other benefits.If you want to have the greatest impact on your physique lift and eat properly. Get a routine that will work for you and stick to it. After one year of proper train and nutrition you could be 20 lbs heavier and lean. I’d also second Boxing wrestling or Bjj it will teach you discipline and give you the confidence to defend yourself if it ever came to it.
/r/askTRP11/06/19 02:27 AM
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Identify your cravings and workout a plan to include those foods on a regular basis. Assuming you know how many calories and how much protein fats carbs you have to work with you’ll be able to fit this stuff in. If your having a problem just feeling full in general have 2-3 glasses of club soda with your meal 1 before 1 during 1 after and try having 2 big meals instead of 3 medium or 4+small. I cut to 12 % bf and hit a plateau.What helped me through it was realizing that it won’t happen overnigh…
/r/askTRP11/06/19 12:49 AM
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Appreciate the advice. It’s not like she consumes my thoughts but She goes to the same bar I go to every weekend where I have a summer house. The logistics are great and I have a lot of success getting laid at this place.I’m not about to stop going bc of some girl. I do not even use social media it has no real benefits for me. I’m just gonna man up and deal with it.I will never give her the satisfaction of knowing she’s made me upset. Any advice on Miss Drama and my friend?
/r/askTRP10/06/19 08:03 PM
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Maybe I am idk. What’s wrong with using this to get laid? Tbh I’m much more interested in changing myself so petty bullshit like this doesn’t effect me.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 07:10 PM
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I’m new but I’ve read the side bar I left I approach. I get my lays here and there and I’m trying to improve. I wouldn’t say I was blue pilled as I never was never an orbiter I never went out of my way to do girls favors. I was always aware of the awalt concept before I read it here. I’ve been lifting for years I’m sub 10% bf. I’m taking what I read here and I am applying it . Or at least trying
/r/askTRP10/06/19 07:02 PM
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I mean I couldn’t tell you.I really cant see the actual dynamic between you two if it was in your head that she wants to fuck or she legitimately did. That said waiting for a Golden opportunity is never a good idea. You should have set up an after work drinks type of thing if she wanted something to happen she’d accept. imo being direct at work isn’t going to pan over well.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 01:57 PM
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Shot your shot, it’s nbd just carry on as normal.
/r/askTRP01/06/19 02:31 AM
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It’s not out of your grasp. Interest rates are the lowest they’ve been in history. Money is fucking free right now. Where there is a will there is a way go out and find a way. You want money you don’t need a fancy degree or experience you need killer instinct and a burning passion to get what you want/deserve. I know a 22 year old high school drop out that made 1.2 million last year in sales. Set goals and work toward them everyday. Be as specific as possible.You will fail again and again and ag…
/r/askTRP31/05/19 07:43 PM
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Do a recomp bulk lose fat gain mass. It’s only possible for new lifters if that’s you you’ll end up weighing the same but at 12-15% body fat with more muscle. At that point cut down to sub 10% and get shredded. Maintain that lean level of body fat for 3 weeks. Start a lean bulk gain 20lbs over 10 months then another cut. That is the roadmap from skinny fat to jacked and shredded 2 years is a good timeframe
/r/askTRP31/05/19 06:31 PM
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Because game works and cool comes from the inside. If I showed you a picture of my cousin who is a natural with women and one of me you’d never guess who pulls more girls. He is my height 5”9 220lbs not obese but definitely fat. Also he has a porn star mustache and wears ridiculous shirts and hats and shit when we go out. He is the life of the party and has a magnetic personality. Don’t get me wrong if he was shredded up, shaved his Ron Jeremy mustache and dressed with more style he’d probably p…
/r/askTRP31/05/19 05:53 PM
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Go for it bro there’s no big deal if your behavior doesn’t change around them they’ll keep thinking highly of you regardless of the outcome.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 03:43 AM
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The girls could be thinking/talking that shit anyway. I suppose You’ll just be giving them closure .
/r/askTRP31/05/19 03:38 AM
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Not quite 2 weeks gone July 1st I knew she was temporary and part time. longer time frame then your 2 weeks. Do you care more about your reputation a your job or is she worth it? Chances are if you have a good rep and you get rejected it’ll blow over nbd.
/r/askTRP31/05/19 03:30 AM
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Na she’s part time rn until August. Summers here so I’ll be going out a lot more. It’s temporary it still sucks though, don’t put yourself in that situation .
/r/askTRP31/05/19 03:17 AM
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Dude no. I have experience with this and it was very recent. If you decide to do it just know your going to regret it eventually. In my case I fucked a chick in my office when I was in an abundant mind set , I’ve recently slipped back into scarcity mind set and now have oneitus for a girl I blew off when I had options. I have to see this chick everyday it fucks with my head. I’ll get over it eventually but it’s definitely impacts my efficiency at work. Bottom line go out and approach girls don’t…
/r/askTRP30/05/19 10:53 PM
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Facts dude... I remember one girl I was friends with actually friends asked me to walk her home at night all the time probably 3x a week I always rejected it. I was like fuck no your dorm is across campus I’m not walking that far in 0 degree weather. Now I realize it was her way of getting me back to her room without overtly asking for sex and looking slutty. I’m such an idiot I have countless stories like that.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 11:25 PM
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Gotcha man I’m in peak shape I wish I could upload a picture here without imgur to prove it but honestly I’m not trying to impress any1 I know what I look like and I’m more shredded and bigger then 95% of guys who go to the gym never mind your average chump. I have my nutrition bulking cutting and maintaining down to a science. I’ll continue to improve but it’s funny that guys will come up to me at the mall Starbucks movie theater etc... and give me compliments but never girls!!! Lol
/r/seduction16/05/19 10:23 PM
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She told me the girls from work thought I was gay during pillow talk. They weren’t asking third parties as far as I’m aware. It was almost a unanimous conclusion they came to, based on what I couldn’t tell you for sure.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 07:19 PM
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Progressive overload in a slight caloric surplus. Track your lifts reps and weight and try to increase either one of them every workout.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:49 PM
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Btw I see that you have post in TRP but reddit won’t let me read it’s quarantined. Looks like a helpful read you have it posted anywhere other than reddit. Specifically the post:the moment you realized you were chad and the milestone you hit.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:23 PM
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I’m not gong to escalate on level 10 right off the bat. I was thinking slow escalation gauge the response. Like maybe some light kino see how it goes. I’m not just gonna whip my dick out and say wanna fuckkk... I’m not a master pua but I’m also not socially awkward and overly aggressive, as a matter of fact I’m not aggressive/direct at all. But then again maybe I should be more at least I’ll know for sure whether I’m sparking attraction.
/r/askTRP16/05/19 05:13 PM
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I know dude I should just take everything as an IOI at this point. Only problem is I’ve had girls who seemed like they were actively avoiding me/showing disinterest in conversation or at a party/bar later on confess I made her nervous. I guess i need to work on plowing building comfort and taking the pressure off the girl. I just don’t know how to do that without looking like a needy chode, every-time I express interest I lower there attraction it’s absurd.
/r/seduction16/05/19 04:48 PM
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No dude they won’t be the shredded looking rock hard abs without core development. You can get a flat stomach and be lean. This is the best you’ll get without lifting assuming you don’t have god like genetics. skinny guy abs
/r/askTRP16/05/19 02:00 PM
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ADR
/r/askTRP16/05/19 01:37 PM
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I just looked it up there’s no market for it company isn’t worth enough money and the volume isn’t large enoughto allocate a significant portion of assets in order to get a meaningfully return dollar wise.
/r/askTRP15/05/19 07:29 PM
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I don’t understand the question so no I guess it doesn’t .
/r/askTRP14/05/19 01:51 PM
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Dude I just started out my overhead is insane I need move 1.1 million this month at 4% commission to make a 2k paycheck. It’s not like you pass your series 7 and they hand you a million bucks. I’m in the building phase of my career which is the most difficult part once I have an established book I’ll have time to go out regularly. Keep in mind this is a rollercoaster business one day your on top of the world the next you can be in the gutter. And the way you feel comes off on the phone sometimes…
/r/askTRP13/05/19 06:50 PM
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Appreciate the input. Your right I need to enjoy myself more. I need to find wings to keep me accountable on weekends which I’m sure won’t be hard in NYC . And I definitely will not be banging any more girls from work lesson learned....
/r/askTRP13/05/19 05:57 PM
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Dude your not in love your young and your excited a girl is showing you attention don’t get attached. Advice for your date strong eye contact, smile, and be yourself don’t worry about the outcome. keep it lite make jokes have fun.
/r/seduction05/02/19 05:47 PM
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Well said keep other girls on the back burner it screams abundance.
/r/seduction05/02/19 05:37 PM
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She’s clearly investing in you, that’s certain. Is she investing because she likes you and wants you to pursue her sexually or is it because she likes the way you make her feel(validated important sexy trustworthy) and wants you to provide her with attention and validation as a platonic friend. The only way to know is to make your move and don’t ask go to prom with her until you hookup. For future reference be polarizing show your intentions but do not make them overtly clear(meaning show that y…
/r/seduction05/02/19 04:39 PM
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