Hi!

I'm new to this whole thing and I was basically absorbing as many posts last few months as I could. Recently I stumbled on this https://daysofgame.com/theory/types-truth-bad-vibes-and-the-redpill-attachment-style/Days of game in this post says that basically trp males are of insecure relationship attachment and thus attract and date insecure girls. Therefore their negative experiences are due to them dating a certain kind of women and therefore having a skewed perception of women (AWALT).

He says that being of insecure attachment, you project an insecure energy into the world, a bad vibe, and girls with bad vibe pick up on it and find you attractive. But healthy, positive vibed girls are repulsed. Redpillers "scare off all the sane, healthy girls".

I don't see him directly say that if you have a "good vibe" then you will attract women that will not cheat/lie/manipulate. Just that you will get "healthy" girls with "good self-esteem", whatever that means (does that mean they're loyal, for instance?).

All of this is mind-bendingly confusing. I see people screaming AWALT on one side, then this guy screaming NAWALT on the other, and that the first group is basically an insecure bunch that got burned by women, therefore sour grapes that can't see the good with their redpill glasses on. But if you're awesome and positive like daysofgame, you'll get the unicorns?

All of this is rather confusing at this stage. I don't see days of game saying that unicorn exists explicitly either. He skirts around that like an eel. Is a secure LTR possible, according to him? Or a marriage? He doesn't say.

AWALT OR NAWALT?