I’m totally oblivious and I know I should just escalate regardless. It helps my game out tremendously if I know a chick is at least physically attracted to me.

When was in college I met 2 girls in a cab who later became friends in my Social circle both hb8.5. A year after I met them one of them told me when we first met they both thought I was hot. But when I first met them I was with my buddy and I thought they liked him. It didn’t bother me but they would engage in friendly convo with him and ignore me not hold eye contact or give me any indicators that I’d notice.

Another similar situation happened recently at work. I wind up banging this chick from my office and after the sex she tells me all the girls in my office thought I was gay, i don’t dress flamboyantly or have feminine mannerisms my voice is deep I’m in great shape so it it didn’t bother me so I didn’t ask why but I assume it’s because they were interested and I didn’t notice or try to flirt with them.

I know I’m an above average looking guy I’m 5”9 my body is a a - I’m sub10% body fat and have a good amount of mass my face probably an 7.5 or 8 at best. This has happened to me countless times where I missed opportunities because I felt like girl where not interested at all. Here’s the thing when I have a girl hold eye contact laugh at things I Say grab my arms or hover around me all night I notice and escalate and close. But that rarely happens and when it does it’s usually a girl I’m not interested in. I don’t plow often because I feel it gives off a needy vibe when I do. If Anyone with similar experiences could shed some light on what I’m missing I’d be eternally grateful.