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Something's going on, and I'll wager her feelings are changing somehow. You may wanna talk it out with her and ask what's going on
/r/seduction19/05/19 11:25 PM
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Flaking is definitely not cool but you already called her out on it. Does she know you see other girls too? She's okay with it? This would be easier to judge if we knew what sort of boundaries yall set for each other
/r/seduction19/05/19 09:35 PM
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So I'll try to offer my insight here based on what you told me. The TL;DR is you get the girls that come to you but are not interesting to you, but can't get the girls that you go for. You get some successes, but those typically end up in the friendzone? I'm just going off of that, so correct me wherever I'm wrong. It sounds like you aren't escalating with these girls that you approach that leave you in the friend zone. The majority of the time when a guy is friend-zoned is when the guy never ma…
/r/seduction19/05/19 07:09 PM
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Seriously, OP is lucky enough she's stuck around this long. I doubt a mother is wanting to commit to a casual fling. I wouldn't doubt it either if she was starting to second-guess their relationship.
/r/seduction19/05/19 06:42 PM
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First step, don't take it personally. We all get rejected and sometimes we never really know the answer why. All you can do is grin, bear it, and try to get better for the next approach. You say you took too long on some girls, so don't do that next time. Next time you're interested in a girl, show it. Flirt, get a number, ask for the date. The longer you take, the more likely you'll overthink, and that'll lead nowhere successful. Keep going at it, and treat every attempt as a victory. You have …
/r/seduction19/05/19 06:33 PM
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Ah oops, I see his post history now. I usually don't check out post history. Thanks for the heads up!
/r/seduction17/05/19 03:36 AM
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Hah no problem. I guess it can be easy to interpret "good eye contact" as a straight stare because that's almost what it sounds like. It's even tougher because everyone emphasizes it so strongly.
/r/seduction17/05/19 03:31 AM
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This is a lot to unpack here. Girls should not be your concern here. They should be the last thing you worry about right now. Self-improvement is undoubtedly what you should focus on right now. You're not going to attract anyone the way you are now. I don't even know if you can find the help you need from here. This is probably way out of anyone's qualifications. Find a counselor, talk this out with them. They can help you unpack these feelings and get you back on the right track. That should be…
/r/seduction17/05/19 02:14 AM
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Lol wtf
/r/seduction17/05/19 01:54 AM
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Exactly that. Just frame it in your mind that she's already into you and the date will go a lot easier for you.
/r/seduction17/05/19 01:50 AM
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This is all so vague. Is she looking visibly uncomfortable? If yes, then back off and ease back into it. If she's uncomfortable, eye contact won't change that. It'll probably make her more uncomfortable if anything. There's a difference between good eye contact and straight up staring someone down.
/r/seduction17/05/19 01:47 AM
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First of all, congratulations! I love hearing success stories and this sounds like one :) Eye contact is definitely solid advice, so keep that up. But if you want to start escalating romantically, try some kino on the next date. If you're going to Denny's again, sit next to her instead of across from her and try to make some thigh contact or brush shoulders. If you're going to be walking around, take her hand and hold it. It sounds like she's already into you and probably hoping for you to escal…
/r/seduction17/05/19 01:41 AM
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If we could all identify IOI's truly and properly, there'd be no game. It's easy to misread a lot of signals. There's some other obvious ones like her holding your thigh or caressing your arm, but other than her puckering her lips up for you, there's no way to spot an IOI. Just assume everything is an IOI and go for the kiss when you're feeling it.
/r/seduction17/05/19 01:02 AM
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True, situational awareness can go a long way.
/r/seduction16/05/19 09:04 PM
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I guess that's a fair point. If the signs are there, then it's an easy approach. But generally speaking, when you're at the gym, you just want to get a workout in without interruptions. If I was a girl working out at the gym, I wouldn't want to spend the extra 10 minutes warding off guys. I want to get my workout done and go home.
/r/seduction16/05/19 08:48 PM
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"Come with me to the top of Empire State Building for one last view of the city before you leave."
/r/seduction16/05/19 07:13 PM
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What everyone else has said, shoot your shot. Go for it. What's important here though, since you have this PT-client relationship, is if she denies your request, be cool about. Be professional. Don't make it awkward. Just say, "oh well, thought I'd try at least," and continue as normal. She could very well say yes too, and if she does, ignore what I said.
/r/seduction16/05/19 07:09 PM
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I think you're asking for a way to hit on someone at the gym, which is typically a big no-no. Let them work out and leave them be. I get how it can be tough because everyone looks good at the gym. If you don't have any other chances of meeting this girl outside of the gym, then approach her and be real brief. Wait for her to finish her set, come up, smile, get her attention with a wave, wait for her to take her headphones out, and just say something like "hey, my names Newusername11235815. I don…
/r/seduction16/05/19 07:03 PM
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Yeah just dismiss her and don't let her sour your opinion of girls. Chances are everybody thinks she's annoying 😂 especially if everyone else really did side with you. Conversations are a skill you'll have to practice. There's nothing wrong with being friendly. I'd say a friendly conversation would put you ahead of a lot of guys. Strictly keeping it friendly when you have romantic interests is the problem, I think. Get flirty! Throw in a compliment. Build off of that. Again, it'll take practice …
/r/seduction16/05/19 05:58 PM
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If a girl is acting nervous when talking with you, that's when you need to start leading the conversation. Man up and put those social skills to use! Ask a million questions and ask questions about their answers. Be genuinely interested and try to learn something about them. If it at least sounds like they're trying to talk but can't quite do it, keep guiding with more questions. Girls get nervous too, just as much as we do. I would take it as a compliment.
/r/seduction16/05/19 05:00 PM
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This is a tough one because I know you're not alone in this. Hell, I've missed a million hints that were obvious to the girl and not so much to me. Trust me when I say you're not alone, and this is not your fault. There's no for sure method of being able to read every sign. Here's what you can do though, act as if everything is an IOI. She held the door for you? She's into you. She casually brushed your arm? She's into you. You made 3 second eye contact? She's into you. And you work off of those…
/r/seduction16/05/19 04:37 PM
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Glad to help! Good luck buddy
/r/seduction16/05/19 04:12 PM
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Be aware of what you're saying and how you're saying it. I could come up and talk to a hundred girls but if I'm opening up with, "wanna hear about my new bidet?" then I'm going to get ignored too. Don't talk just for the sake of talking. Actually try to learn something about the other person.
/r/seduction16/05/19 04:04 PM
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You're already way above the majority of guys then. Keep it up bud!
/r/seduction16/05/19 04:00 PM
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I can't tell you that, it's all dependent on the situation. Exercise your best judgment. Start it easy and light then work it up if she seems receptive. Complimenting her outfit is a good start. "That dress looks good on you!" If she gives you a smile and a thanks, she's into it. DON'T come on too strong too early. Don't say something like "your lips look soft" as she's drinking. Again, use your best judgement. If it feels right, offer to hold her hand either before or after the play while you'r…
/r/seduction16/05/19 03:56 PM
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Definitely a hype-man post, but do what you need to pump yourself up. I think you're tiptoeing the line between confident and cocky though. Being a virgin has like zero impact on your game. Anyone you talk to is not going to know and it's not going to affect your conversations unless you let it. Don't even focus on that, just focus on what you want to do which is to have a good time. That's what it should all be about anyways. Just have a good time and talk to girls and your chances of a hookup …
/r/seduction16/05/19 03:44 PM
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That's an awesome idea. It's a perfect little warm-up going into the play where you won't get a chance to talk as much. Good thinking 👍🏼
/r/seduction16/05/19 03:30 PM
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I used to go online to meet girls. If I ever had a single doubt that I wasn't talking to who I was seeing on their profile, I wouldn't keep up with it. It's just not worth it. Either they're lying or hiding something. There's just more bad that can come from it than good.
/r/seduction16/05/19 03:01 PM
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First, calm down. Don't get caught into overthinking. She's already agreed to go on a date with you, so there's already some level of interest. No need to stress over that. I wouldn't try to text her too much between now and the date. I WOULD text her the day before with something along the lines of "hey, can't wait for the play tomorrow :)" just as a friendly reminder and it'll show some interest. Plus, you can judge from her response if she's going to be flakey or not. If that feels like it's …
/r/seduction16/05/19 02:55 PM
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I can respect that
/r/seduction16/05/19 01:53 PM
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Agreed. I see a lot of uni kids nowadays using facetime a lot. It's way easier to show emotions and be real that way
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:57 PM
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Trust me on this, you want to work on that deep, inner game. It'll improve not only your relationships, but your life. You'll find it'll improve all sorts of relationships: work, social, casual, etc.
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:55 PM
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Okay, first of all, don't try and blame feminism for anything. The only time it'll really affect you is if the girl is a hardcore feminist, and you can usually tell just by being around them. Stop trying to use feminism as an excuse. If your friends are telling you that you aren't good at showing interest, maybe you're not as good as you think. Get back to the basics. Start a five minute conversation with strong eye contact and friendly smiles. If you're really worried about causing drama in you…
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:23 PM
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Holy shit let the guy celebrate. It may seem obvious or insignificant to you, but may be a huge breakthrough for him. OP, you already seem happy about your mini victory. Ride that high and keep it up buddy :)
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:10 PM
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We all have our issues, but it's so much easier to heal when you embrace it. It's seriously a million times easier when you can acknowledge the problem and work on it instead of pretending it doesn't exist. Props to you. It sounds like you're on the way to becoming better.
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:01 PM
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Yeah, don't rely on it. You really only need text game to establish some base level of comfort and to set up dates. Don't go trying to have week long conversations with texts every 5 minutes. Be friendly, flirty, and direct. All you gotta do is convince this girl you're not a crazed killer and then ask her out. It's hard to give examples without knowing where you guys are at, but if you want an opinion on how to respond to a certain text, ask away :)
/r/seduction16/05/19 11:55 AM
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Just to piggy back off this comment, PUAs spend all this time developing pick-up game and forget to develop themselves as a person. They learn just enough to get some girls and feel like that's good enough that they never feel the need to improve their own skills and personality. That's why so many seem to fail in relationships. It's all surface-level shit with no depth
/r/seduction16/05/19 11:39 AM
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I guarantee that there are other guys out there that are more "alpha" than me, but I never worry for a second that she'll just "gravitate" to them because she's "programmed" to do so. Your cynical views are not okay, these are people with feelings we're talking about. You were just upset that I categorized you with all the other PUAs and yet here you are categorizing all women. You really need to step back and evaluate yourself
/r/seduction16/05/19 01:06 AM
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No I don't agree. I think what you just said is cynical and honestly disgusting. I'm sorry for what you went through, but women are not all the same. Don't let one woman taint your views of all women. Be better than that
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:55 AM
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We don't even know if she's really losing sexual attraction or not. We're only seeing one side of the story here. There could be non-sexual reasons behind all this. I'm sorry if I upset you, but the way you expect this girl to jump on this guy just because he wants it is not realistic.
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:43 AM
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I think he means break eye contact once in awhile. If some stranger stared at you without looking away for a few minutes, that would make you uncomfortable too, would it not? That's how it would feel as a girl if you were to just stare them down. When they make eye contact with you, give them a good smile, and then go back to work. If they're laughing or giggling, then try talking to them. Continuing to look at them isn't going to do you any good and will probably end up creeping them out.
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:23 AM
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I think /u/Murfdigidy hit the nail on the head in that you need to develop that self-confidence so I don't want to get into that. Your question was how to get dates, right? I was a STEM degree like you. I know that pickings are slim. I used Tinder myself and found it pretty effective. So put on a good shirt or get dirtied up at soccer and have a friend snap some pics for you. You sound like a good guy, so I'm sure you'll have a teammate or a friend willing to do that for you. And besides, it doe…
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:17 AM
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100 times in the course of 3 years? That's like one time a month. When you work 8 hour days, spend 2 hours commuting, and then spend your free time cooking and cleaning, being too tired happens and we're both adult enough to understand that. And I enjoy my relationship very much and I love my girlfriend dearly. We wouldn't be together for 3 years if that wasn't true. ​ You need to realize that sex is not the most fundamental aspect of a relationship. Is it important? Super important, and I'm not…
/r/seduction16/05/19 12:03 AM
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I used to frequent this sub a few years ago, but have since been in a relationship for 3 years. I feel like I can chime in here. Here's the thing about almost all LTR's: the sex will wind down. It's nothing personal, it just happens. I've tried initiating sex and been shot down by the usual "not today, I'm tired" line so many times that I've lost count. I feel you and know that it can feel discouraging after the 10th or 100th time. Here's the obvious answer to your question: you talk to your sig…
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:40 PM
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Yeah, I know. Just gotta get back into the right swing.
/r/seduction09/04/14 04:09 AM
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I do need to just get into the old mindset of just doing it. I can't allow myself time to think myself out of it. Thanks for your comment. I really appreciate it :)
/r/seduction08/04/14 02:10 PM
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Nice nice nice! A classic example of a successful daytime approach. I loved your opener: very basic and very easy. And then relating back to it at the end of the date was prime. I would bet that she was just as glad her mocha was bitter ;) Solid write-up. Nice work!
/r/seduction24/03/14 08:50 PM
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I completely agree! I'm only 21, but the way I compose myself and talk make me appear to be much older, in my mind at least. But once it's adopted into my mind, it shows to everyone else.
/r/seduction24/02/14 04:36 AM
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Solid lesson. If you have choices, you'll develop abundance mentality on its own.
/r/seduction24/02/14 04:33 AM
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I'm gonna have to disagree with you on this one. There is alpha, there is beta, and there is millions of varying differences in-between. No one is completely alpha or completely beta. Some of the most alpha males may still have beta tendencies, and the opposite is also true. This list isn't in any way to categorize anyone. It's more of an evaluation than a guideline to see where any individual is at. There are habits that exhibit beta behavior, and I don't see how you can argue that. If you want…
/r/seduction06/02/14 06:04 PM
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I can really relate to you, and I feel like I should throw in my 2 cents. I'm always the quiet guy in my group too. I don't say much, but when I do, it's meaningful and significant. /u/ItsNotAScam already mentioned it, but eye contact is huge. Just because you don't say much, doesn't mean you can't listen. That's why I emphasize eye contact so much, so you can show the girl you're listening. And what girl doesn't want someone to listen to them? When you're listening to them, you can either reite…
/r/seduction06/02/14 03:52 PM
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I'm glad it's helpful :) now that you can see where some faults lie, you can start working on bettering them!
/r/seduction06/02/14 03:23 PM
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Hey man, that's totally okay! Like people always say, admitting it is the first step. Now that you know what's wrong, you can work on fixing it. Good luck to you!
/r/seduction06/02/14 01:15 PM
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I know, right?! What a steal! And what a good excuse to buy one to share ;)
/r/seduction05/02/14 03:41 AM
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I'd love to tell you more :) I'll answer your question first: We are both 21. Day 2 started off with me texting her in the morning asking if she wanted to come along to get coffee with me. I could dig up the texts, but it's buried deeeeeep into our conversation. She agrees to come along and I tell her I'll pick her up. I pick her up and we drive out to a nearby Starbucks. I offer to buy her her drink, which she politely tries to decline, but I insist. [HB8]: "You don't need to buy my drink for m…
/r/seduction04/02/14 09:25 PM
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That was another thing I didn't touch on much. This girl was obviously in a struggling relationship and in a pretty bad place, so I did what I could to give her her own pick-me-up. I wanted to leave her feeling like she was worth something, so I did what I could to make her feel that way. I always try to remember to leave people better than I found them and to not just use them.
/r/seduction04/02/14 05:34 PM
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He really did! It was a real nice ego booster :)
/r/seduction04/02/14 03:28 PM
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Yeah, I won't argue that. I happened to be in the right place with the right people, but I'm still pretty glad it went down the way it did.
/r/seduction04/02/14 03:15 PM
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Thank you :) I hope you found it useful
/r/seduction04/02/14 06:14 AM
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Well the biggest point is Tyler is defending what he's doing and he doesn't back down to someone who calls him out. That's always been the biggest point: be comfortable with who you are and what you do. Of course he's going to have people who disagree with him, and that's okay. By being able to defend himself, he can show that he's firm in what he believes and won't accept the guy's uncalled behavior.
/r/seduction31/01/14 10:24 PM
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I wouldn't call it going eye for eye. The reason the guy in the video is labeled a "white knight" isn't because PUA deem it so, it's because his morals and justifications fall under what white knights claim, that PUAs are douches and shouldn't act "douchey" in front of them. The reason Tyler calls this guy out so hard isn't to "get even" with him, but rather to call him out on his own techniques and methods, and to have the "white knight" seriously evaluate them. Throughout the whole argument, h…
/r/seduction31/01/14 07:27 PM
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