I know stoicism, DGAF, Yada-yada but just hear me out.

Do any of you ever deal with the fact that people have a higher perception of you than you do yourself? That they elevate you to this being who’s far superior to others and “should be doing great” in life, with women, etc.? If so how did you guys realize the same potential in yourself psychologically, and fit the bill for that high standard in your mind?