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It’s the distance from the issue that makes the advice insightful often. Physician heal thyself
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/05/26 09:23 PM
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What even is this reply? Are you trying to share info or what?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/02/26 11:13 PM
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Yup. Said I was using "biological essentialism with no proof."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/26 05:13 PM
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Unfortunately, the mods of the sub called me a coward in the DMS and ran me out of here so I can't participate any longer. Wish you the best.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/02/26 04:50 PM
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This sounds like “parents rights” Is it a Christian conservative parents “right” to indoctrinate their child and stop them from going to school? Kinship doesn’t grant you special privilege We have standards for schooling. As long as they fit those standards, yes, it is still within their right to do whatever they want. There have been societies with communal childrearing you know? Yes, I'm not stupid, I disagree with you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/26 11:39 AM
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not youth lib oriented can approach male childrearing terrible and view it no different than a Christian or a vegan (trying to moms a child into the “right” ideology) rather than letting the child be free and think for themselves (with some guidance ofcourse) That's their child and that's their right. It's also their responsibility to deal with whatever happens with that and not mine. This society does not own the child. The society does not support the child. When the child cries, when the chil…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/26 11:30 AM
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And you are saying the men’s liberation movement wasn’t originally pro feminist? Why did it change? https://www.willem.maartenfrankenhuis.nl/wp-content/uploads/2013/06/Frankenhuis2012risk.pdf Because men match their preferences to women's. Despite all the common ideas about how men do things their own way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/26 11:26 AM
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One of the many children of gender abolition. I was worried about that. That gets into some really dangerous territory. Women really like gender abolition because it works with feminism And suggest that anything and everything is possible. Gay men do not like gender abolition because it destroys our ability to have an exclusive sexuality. The youth liberation part is also troubling. Because if parents don't have rights then they don't have responsibilities. It could be that I'm American and know…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/26 11:19 AM
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some patriarchies were literally equivalent to slavery for women and more abusive then boss worker relations now Unless it was equivalent to the actual slave trade that black people went through, don't use that. And I know it wasn't. Because white women own slaves. To this day.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/26 11:09 AM
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youth liberation What's this about?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/01/26 11:08 AM
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The answer is very simple: We are nice to people that we want to have sex with. We are nice to people we think are pretty We are nice to people smaller than us. If you leave those factors for enough generations, eventually you will get the women are wonderful effect. It starts seeping from automatic responses into logical understanding and then people believe it to be true.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/26 02:10 PM
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I don't identify with other bisexual men on that level as sexuality isn't all too important to me. Sexuality is an inherent part of your personality. Only bi sexual people who have unintegrated sexuality say stuff like that. Those who can take it or leave it, the wishy-washy kind. But for homosexual men, we know our sexuality is part of our personality, not this separate thing that we have to satisfy. This is the perfect example of the friction that happens between homosexual men and bisexual me…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/01/26 12:59 PM
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It's not fun for us bisexual men either. It's not disgust that you're into women. It's offense at your unintegrated sexuality, typically from gay men. Bi guys are a HUGE population compared to gay men. 8% (consistently through all time) vs 15-46% (varies based on how the question is asked) of all men. That means bi guys are technically the largest population of men. Until you realize how big the community is you'll forever feel subjugated. You're anything but.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/26 10:56 PM
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Getting them on board... That's a big hurdle. They know the punishment that will come from stepping out of line. It's like a billionaire heir disowning the fortune. I'm not hopeful but luckily that's one area i.can just watch with being involved..
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/26 10:50 PM
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I had to read it like five more times. But I think I get it now. Trans men are also being harmed by feminist rhetoric. Correct?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/26 12:43 PM
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expect trans men to automatically agree because of our similar experiences What similar experiences? liking men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/26 12:15 PM
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Yeah I lost most of my female friends in 2023. When I started tweeting what they said gender swapped. They absolutely hated it. It was this massive blow up online.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/01/26 12:03 AM
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As a black gay man, listening to people talk about men is a trip.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 10:52 PM
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Because if we don't then we end up echoing the same thing those ignorant feminists are saying. Can we deal with that when we get there versus shooting any starter directly in the kneecap?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/01/26 12:04 AM
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Women and people like you will not let us forget it. Every time we talk about holding women accountable, someone speaks up and makes sure that it's not just women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/26 11:35 PM
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People are already comfortable with holding men accountable. So we're looking for the extra part, not the part that they already have.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/26 11:18 PM
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. If you don't wanna acknowledge it.. Good for you? Lol. Thank you for telling me that you're choosing not to acknowledge the problems that I'm having because you think yours are more important. I don't think it's a choice to acknowledge problems if they are factual. You are going to keep deflecting forever. And the fact that you keep attacking the claims even though I'm not complaining. It's just proof that you have no intention on understanding.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/26 05:32 PM
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portray queer characters, especially gay men. White gay men are the most common And black bisexual women. By a far margin. It's actually quite hard to find a black homosexual man. And the number of roles is going down year over year. I'm still not complaining, why are you? Black people have also been getting much more representation in shows and cartoons and other areas of media in the recent years. Black women, not black men. And most often they're not actually black American. They're often Car…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/26 04:23 PM
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Lol SNL has made plenty of heightist skits. No thanks. Ridiculing short men doesn't count as good rep. This proves my point. The skit wasn't making fun of short people. The skit featured Quinta brunson who is a short person and the entire skit was about short people in Hollywood who are doing cool things. It taught me that there are far more short people in Hollywood than I realized. For example: Since most people in Hollywood are closeted, I don't really expect to know who is gay or not. But if…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/26 03:15 PM
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So you just want to complain. Got it It's almost if you don't know that even tall actors are adjusted so that everyone looks like they're the same height. Being tall is not an advantage in acting. Kai, Speed, Kendrick. Top of their game bottom of the height charts. Maybe you're just looking for white short guys and my brain knows a bunch of black short guys. They just did a skit about short people on SNL. Might be worth watching to learn how many of you there are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/26 11:04 AM
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The short man was comic book accurate wolverine. Literally another equal variant. Wolverine has not been turned into anything. He is still short in the comic books. He's supposed to be a tiny ball of muscle and fur... Like a wolverine On some level I understand what you mean. However, listening to someone complaining about a lack of representation for short men when so many actors are very short is odd. Perhaps you don't actually go look at their heights and you presume that they're tall. But so…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/01/26 05:34 AM
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Simplistically speaking, Women are risk-averse. Men are conflict-averse. Conflict averse people follow rules. Risk averse people will follow anything that makes risk feel lower.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/26 07:39 PM
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Men are generally conflict averse. I know that seems counterintuitive. But if you think about it, we all understand that conflict ends in violence. So in actuality we typically try to avoid it. Men typically prefer when things are legal and orderly and decided. The only advocacy we need is to make sure the laws protect us and then we will just kind of deal with the rest.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/26 12:32 AM
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Did you see the word misandry on their website anywhere?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 09:13 PM
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Did you see the word misandry on their website anywhere?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 09:13 PM
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From their homepage "Patriarchy has dehumanized men into unemotional creatures with no feelings, who can control their hormone secretion with a blink of a stoic eye – never needing help." Their goal is to avoid blaming women. The donate button is very high on their website. And it's my guess that this is the husband of a dedicated feminist who is simply grifting. Blaming patriarchy for the way that women demand things to be is absolutely unacceptable. It's the same discussion we had yesterday wh…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/01/26 05:21 PM
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We are genetically predisposed to having duller emotions. People take that to mean we should be emotionless. It's like men tend to be taller, so now 6 ft is this magic thing that people want. Considering the number one most attractive thing to women is prestige, that makes sense. They would want a man that is better than all the other men so that they can stunt on the other women. It's just that most people are walking around like NPCs and don't realize that's what they're thinking. They just do…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/26 03:51 PM
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In order for that number to be true, you would have to only look at Male perpetrators there would have to be a mechanism somewhere in society preventing women from being included in those numbers. Because women are the biggest rapists of children. Rafe is about power and access. Most men do not have access or power over women in 2026. Most women do have access and power to men though. They also have access and power to the elderly and to children and to the infirmed. So if you were to actually c…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/26 12:21 PM
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There was this clip of a a black revolutionary talking about men, she bemoaned the fact that he could pretend to be happy and satisfied all day at work. But when he came home he couldn't keep up the facade for her. As if both his home and work are places where he has to perform. So where does that leave him to just be himself and be honest?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/26 12:18 PM
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Most women are feminists. Because all humans are selfish. If a woman or, anyone hears that there is a group who wants to lift them up, they will take on the beliefs. Even if they're not a part of the group. Anything that benefits them, they will just absorb.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/26 12:16 PM
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It's group gaslighting even if it isn't done on purpose, because humans are selfish greedy people. And they will constantly make decisions that end up benefiting them. So if you see decisions frequently benefiting them, they're just being passively selfish. That's the secret. Women's passivity is their survival skill. Men can't pick up the problems because they're passive.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/26 12:15 PM
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Unless you watched more than me, maybe you should stop talking.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/01/26 10:02 AM
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And you think it's morally correct when men sacrifice their emotions in the service of women but expect nothing in return. You have to be trolling. Part of the reason op bothered me was because as a man, a gay man, I know that I want to be protected. That is literally one of the top requirements for a partner is to make me feel safe. She takes the time to express that men want that and he completely ignores it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 03:42 PM
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So you think men don't feel pain and sadness as much as women. Just because women are more likely to experience negative emotions doesn't mean that those negative emotions are more important. It's not our fault that testosterone makes our emotional experience slightly duller.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 03:28 PM
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I watched 3 minutes of the video and from the first 3 minutes he was not being honest. I engaged better than most people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 09:50 AM
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You are pretending that your comment was “tentative,” but invoking someone’s “mental state” as a reason to disengage is still a personal dismissal, not good-faith critique. You don’t get to question someone’s psychological stability and then claim you’re trying to have a respectful discussion. I'm not pretending - you're tone policing. I said exactly 100% what I meant. I made my statement, and I waited for you to respond in a way that proved you were not defensive or in a hyped up state.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 09:49 AM
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You're perceiving dismissal, You should be reading tentativeness. I know you said that it might be true, but I can't engage in the rest of it unless it seems like you're coming in good faith. Overlooking something that big and important right at the beginning gives me concerns about your mental state.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 09:40 AM
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You're being intellectually dishonest, probably cuz your nervous system is activated. I think you might be too angry about this. I didn't call you too angry. I said that in my opinion I think you might be. And then you continue to prove me right. Because you did not take the entire phrase into context. You got mad about one phrase.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 09:28 AM
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Calling someone too angry, is a shorthand for saying that you're nervous system is activated and you're not thinking thoroughly. Which is evidenced by the fact that you think I'm tone policing, even though everywhere I go people tell me I'm being rude. I don't care about your tone. But that is a great way not to engage with my points or think further about the situation. As I said I'm not watching the whole thing, and she might have said some stuff later on. But the fact that you did not mention…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 09:23 AM
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I think you might be too angry about this. I'm a sexual psychologist and I just watched the video, and her analysis of the study is correct. I'm not going to sit here and watch the entire thing, but at least the first 3 minutes where she's just sort of explaining what the study means is correct. Something that you failed to mention was that the study also notes that men want to be protected to. For women it's a deal-breaker and for men they just don't like it. Since we know women are more likely…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/26 08:50 AM
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Personal nitpick: hip hop was born out of the struggles of black people. Latino people were there. White people were also there. We don't give white people credit for hip hop. Even though truthfully, with how much they influence the beats and who became popular, white and Jewish people have had a much bigger influence on a hip hop than Latino people ever have. It has become popular to include people in everything, even things they didn't do. But that does not tell the full story of the world and…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/26 08:44 PM
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The father's presence improves some outcomes but not essential.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/25 06:31 PM
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She's a PsyD not a BSP. So a doctor and not just a psychologist. I include them in the group of people not to trust. I often find that they treat people's lives like a psychological experiment.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/25 03:06 PM
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Don't trust therapists or psychiatrists, but you can trust counselors and psychologists. This is a purposefully blanket statement because I'm talking to a wide swath of people. A therapist's job is essentially to keep you in therapy. A psychiatrist's job is essentially to keep you on medication. This is not what you want. A counselor's job is to counsel you on specific issues like a lawyer. A psychologist's job is to understand the simple science of how the brain and body works. This is what you…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/25 02:42 PM
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Even if he didn't have all that, he's got those old world looks and that's enough to get a following. I keep saying it and people think it's a joke. But I'm being very serious. He doesn't have the voice for radio. But he's got the face and demeanor for TV. Like the time period when television was invented.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/25 08:28 PM
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I can tell by the title it has homophobia in it. In truth gays are very good at counseling straights and vice versa. Motivations have to be in check, tho.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/25 08:24 PM
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come from a rich family That's the missing piece. I wondered why he has no personal concerns about literally anything. He's rich.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/25 04:29 AM
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It's the hair.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/25 03:30 AM
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Vaush is gay, autistic and partnered. He's not a psychologist or sociologist. He is unqualified. Vaush is a streamer who oversteps because people see him as a role model. But it's all in the hair.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/11/25 03:13 AM
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I'm glad you've got everything figured out for yourself and are living the kind of life you dreamed.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/25 08:57 AM
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You have to remember that most people just don't like you and all the excuses they give are complete and utter hogwash. So the stuff that you mentioned here is basically of no importance.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/25 07:58 AM
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I'm sure it does. But your way does not work. So, try something unnatural and maybe it becomes natural. You give it a try and the reality of it is not as weird as it sounds when written out plainly. We do love to follow rules, As autistics. And this is a repulsive impulse breaking rule for many people in Western cultures. You all are giving me the exact same complaints that everyone has given me for the last 5 years. But when people actually do what I'm saying, their life gets better. If the poi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/25 07:25 AM
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That's another common misunderstanding of fellow autistics. Is that treating situations like science or math somehow makes you a sociopath. If you know how to make people happy and you continuously make them happy, there's nothing wrong with that. Most people know what to do and simply don't do it. Us learning the rules and using them to our advantage does not make sociopaths. It makes us autistics who learn to use our skills for the better.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/25 04:05 AM
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I'm autistic. I'm sure you couldn't read that. But I did change the language to make it clear.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/11/25 04:01 AM
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If you're not on an SSRI, it sounds like you might actually benefit from one. Maybe talk to your doctor about it. Depending on your brain chemistry, it can help with caring too much or caring too little. All brain treatment stuff is experimental, we know how it works but we don't always know how it will affect each individual person since we don't have testing for brain chemicals generally. This is really a conversation you would want to have with your doctor. But my psychologist mind is telling…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/11/25 02:56 PM
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I think jealousy and paranoia is why we can't unite. I think weak men are jealous of strong men and vice versa and the same is true for women. Then men and women are also becoming envious of each other. Then all the races and ethnicities and countries are jealous of each. No one wants to work together because no one wants to give each other any leg up in the world. Everybody thinks that everybody else has the first place spot, but we're all losing.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/09/25 05:44 PM
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That's what the chorus is about. The verses she talks about wanting to be seen as she is, not used as a mannequin.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/25 03:06 AM
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No, it's a scapegoats movie. Men are just scapegoats, dogs, beasts, worse than a bear. It makes sense you'd see our struggle. Defying Gravity is Get Rich or Die Trying/Not Ready to Make Nice/Love Song by Sara Barellis/Girl From the Gutter. It's a familiar but rare trope.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/25 11:37 PM
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Disagree with this, because essentially no women understand men. They don't understand humanity? We all want the same things regardless of gender. They've been negligent in human needs not male needs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/25 11:25 PM
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I can't believe that you'd be any more comfortable with a white person telling you point blank, "I understand you as a black man just fine," without feeling like they're claiming to know things they could not possibly know. "Obviously as a white woman, I cannot know what it's like to be a black man. It's simply not possible. However, I understand black men because I understand humans. Black men are humans. After all. They want the same things that everyone else wants which is to be seen, heard, …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/25 11:24 PM
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I explained in return that I have a really hard time understanding women. Don't do that. You don't mean the same level of not understanding. The lead DEI officer told me that she acknowledges that there is a serious disconnect between men and women and says plainly she does not understand men. She needs to be fired. If a white woman said this to me regarding race as a black man, I'd be livid. Do you think I'm not human? What is there to understand? If you were in my body you'd act more like me a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/01/25 09:04 PM
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Because lefties are too often spineless, and afraid to be wrong, which is not good for a man. To be a lefty, you have to be more passive, which is often undesirable for a man. The left is altogether not made for men. I say this as a gay leftist.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/01/25 11:28 PM
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I have a Mohawk and 60% body coverage in tattoos. I'm gay. I'm also the family patriarch. My granny was a protestor against the school district her sisters worked at because they wouldn't let their black children attend where they worked. My uncles and aunts got in. My great aunts all retired from the district with pensions. Punk is in my DNA.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/25 04:38 PM
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The issue you're running into is that this group is a bunch of normies and you're wanting the behavior of punks and rebels. It's why I hate this and all mens groups: cowardice. Yes we organize in private but we need to have the balls to do things in real life or just delete the group.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/01/25 04:08 PM
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Black man in my late 30s. Welcome! There's no general leaning in true liberal men's spaces. We welcome all views unless it would fit in The Poison Mushroom or Mein Kempf. We specifically like to focus on issues versus women themselves. We do however deal with specific issues with specific women. Primarily what we are doing right now is building a list of issues, research, arguments, and then each handling the issues in our own way. Men's advocacy is personal to you versus homogenous.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/12/24 01:32 AM
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Literally my biggest opp is other men. The number of times I've been called an incel as a gay man is beyond crazy. Like dude, I'm literally meeting your dad for fun later. I'm not worried about women like that. I do however spend a lot of time with them and know the Bs they like to pull.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 01:46 PM
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I think it's a bigger issue to have so many men ready to defend women even against criticism.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/24 07:12 PM
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people automatically think you are an incel Ok? I've never been one to care what people think. Also, I'm a sexual psychologist, not a politician. Also, whenever people try to clutch their pearls, I'll make them run away.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/24 10:50 PM
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Pink tax is another way for women to blame society VS accept their nature. Females are aesthetic minded. They like cute little things and decorations. It's just how they are. Businesses will make things that appeal to women because they're aesthetically pleasing and they will cost more because of that. It's really that simple.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/11/24 02:31 PM
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Exciting!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/11/24 12:08 AM
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Would the parent who hit their kids not hit both, their son and daughter? No. There's always a golden child and a whipping boy. Notice the names of those archetypes. There's no such thing as a whipping girl. Cinderella, sure. Sleeping beauty, def. Always a princess never a servant forever. And it's always an old woman harming her with a man to the rescue. Dad is usually blind or absent working.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 09:24 PM
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There have been women caught stealing a man’s sperm and nothing happens. Because semen is a waste product they say.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 09:20 PM
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The fact that you go straight to assuming I'm a woman and questioning my right to be here just because I disagree with you says a whole heck of a lot about you, none of it flattering. You didn't answer. They were sincere questions. Finally, with all due respect, you can stop it with the self-victimized whinging about me being "frigid" considering you started this conversation by insulting my intelligence. I'm not a victim. Why are you so frigid? Are you on the spectrum? Are you a psychopath? Nih…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 05:02 PM
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I know what you meant.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 12:48 PM
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My lack of exposure to fringe takes of the terminally online says precisely jack shit about my level of "knowledge", but thanks anyway It's not fringe, you haven't seen it. Why are you even here? Are you a woman? Why are you being so frigid? Why not listen to me in a men's space?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 12:43 PM
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The mom is always pushier as a rule. Women make 80% of purchasing decisions. They are the decision makers in the family. If not by their own words then by influencing people around her to meet her needs. Dad is mean because it keeps mom happy. Single dads are much more chill. Science shows that everyone prefers women socialy and sexually except gay men. Everyone except gay men treats girls better than boys. Everyone. As a little gay boy I saw this. I hated it. "I don't even like girls, why are t…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 12:41 PM
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Question: if a man (or boy) is raped and the woman gets pregnant, how does he stop that baby from being born? Answer: He can't. Legally, his sperm has been not stolen and it's her choice of what to do with his biological material. His body her choice. 18 years of child support. Her choice. Question: if two people have consensual sex and both agree no children should come from that but later she changes her mind, how does he stop that baby from being born? Answer: He can't. Legally, his sperm has…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 12:27 PM
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It's not possible for daughters to have it worse than Sons. If you think about all the small accommodations that girls get over boys generally. It just literally doesn't make sense. The boys are made to work and the girls can go sit in the house with Mom.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 12:10 PM
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It's really unwise to let people know how much knowledge you lack.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 12:09 PM
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For the exact same reason that there's so many bad celebrities and feminists. All three of these paths attract people who look for attention and Power. Another large majority of these people are those who should be in therapy themselves or maybe a group counselor or something like that. Me choosing not to be a therapist was a strategic choice because I am self aware enough to know that certain things I simply can't deal with. Most therapists have no hard boundaries or limits. They expect themsel…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/11/24 01:55 AM
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I chose sexual psychologist, I figured it would clue me in to how people worked at a core level. I noticed kinda early that everything adults did related back to "liking each other", I was like 10. As I got older I understood I was witnessing the mating dance and how much time it takes up for adults. I ended up creating the human sexuality minor for myself in college because my school had like 20 sex related classes throughout the different schools but no actual singular curriculum. So ended up …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 09:03 PM
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Incredibly hard time =/= abusive therapist does it? Abusive, neglectful, flippant, disrespectful, mean, cold. Yes. Yes it does. You even more than me should know this. Why are you being so defensive? Does your profession make you feel important? Does it make you feel like you're being attacked personally and not your job performance? We're both professionals. You should be able to handle a criticism of your methods that you've put in public. How many classes did I have on female issues treating …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 04:49 PM
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You are the evidence. It is minor. I guarantee you that just like with any profession there are therapists who are abusive and majority who are in a job for genuine care for for their clients. Minimizing. You have no data. Logic would tell us psychology withdraw people with dark Triad traits more than other professions. So for you to be so willfully blind does not protect your patients. You are falling for a trap of social media Minimizing his experience. Such a flippant response. You can't poss…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 03:52 PM
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LMAO This is literally what my therapist said as well. I understand. But I honestly don't like this. Isn't it interesting how therapists usually talk alike but think that they are all different and unique?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 03:04 PM
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You are falling for a trap of social media where most radical polarising views get the most clicks so algorythm promotes them. You are falling for the trap of confirmation bias. Men don't complain publicly. You have no idea how big this issue is. Honestly you sound like a woman dismissing his concerns. You're doing the thing people (and me a psychologist) hate about therapists. You're not being honest. The correct answer would be more like "ya know, human nature and research says that everyone p…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 03:03 PM
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Your complaints are the exact reason why am I psychologist and not a therapist or psychiatrist. I decided that I needed to learn how things work but I needed the freedom to be able to help people how they needed to be helped. No one helped me when I needed it. Everyone told me I was too disobedient and don't like authority and was clearly just being bad. My mom, my therapists, my teachers. I had undiagnosed Autism and ADHD. Literally living in the brain of drunk person and all the adults blamed …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/11/24 02:52 PM
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im sure folks will be going mad and start making comparisons of people disagreeing with them about abortion as just like the nazis gassing the jews. It hurts because I can see it already. I try not to extrapolate stuff. But I read this in one of their voices and it make my skin crawl
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 03:55 PM
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And I'm very anti-doxxing. No you're not. You're anti doxxing people you agree with. Like all nazis.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 03:27 PM
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Obviously. But building databases is not how you solve that. Nazis did that.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 03:26 PM
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If so, then where's the line? Body hair is masculine, is being into a hairless twink bi behaviour? What about a hairless muscle bro, is that also bi still or do the muscles somehow cancel out the feminine characteristics? A lot of Asian men have less body hair than Westerners, does that mean most Western guys with Asian boyfriends are actually bi? Did you actually look up what all the sex characteristics are? Because you're wrong. Purely scientifically wrong. Body hair is not masculine nor femin…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/11/24 12:57 PM
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I'm not against any demographic (like cis people or women), or for any specific demographic (like trans men). I'm for justice and equality. I spend the most energy on helping whoever I feel is being shafted the worst with the least defense. Good. We agree actually. Sorry for your history of bullying and people not standing up for you when they should. Hugs. About the passing thing, you're... Just wrong there. For example, my experience. Let's reaxmine what I said. "It's possible to change your g…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 08:48 PM
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Think I should make a post about what it's (actually) like having a female body/brain/hormones and analyzing female abusers through that? It's... A complicated subject, and hard to discuss while simultaneously avoiding stereotype and generalizations, but I could try. Stereotypes are typical behaviors. Don't be afraid of confirming common observations. Just give your scientific self observation. Explain your experience. Explain why you would do things. How your emotions felt. Explain what happene…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 04:19 PM
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Many people who voted her in were still voting against trump not pro Harris where as people voting trump voted for trump not against Harris. Oh definitely. I only voted for her because well ... Idk. I just don't want Trump for emotional reasons. He doesn't have any particular views I hate. I didn't vote in 16 or 20. I work the elections instead usually. But I didn't this year so I actually voted.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/11/24 01:27 PM
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Honestly I mostly just do my best to kindly but firmly not accept misandry. Especially when I'm anonymously participating in leftist spaces, where no one sees my beard lol For the betterment of all of us, please take the advice in my other comment to you. This is the exact worry. We offer you support and welcome you then you, excuse my man language, act like a bitch when we need you. Come on man! Every man has to step up in his own way. You gotta do something other than this. If men can't rely o…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 09:31 PM
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I guess being trans means being subjected to both forms of sexism. Unless you're passing and in stealth, perhaps True. It's a doubly rough experience. I think you would have to drag me kicking and screaming to stop me transitioing as well. Rock, meet hard place. You have my respect, even if I disagree with this post. Shit is rough. To make this choice knowingly and keep making it, you clearly have strength of character. I hope everything goes well for you. It might seem unrelated but my absolute…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 09:27 PM
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It's exceedingly isolating being a trans man, because the right hates us for being trans and the left hates us for being men :( It's exceedingly isolating being man. People think we have it great so they treat us worse on the left. On the right we only matter for what we can produce and who we can support. Not to mention being black so we have to deal with racism and misandry. And gay so we have to deal with homophobia, misandry, and gender abolitionists. I honestly sympathize more with trans me…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 09:19 PM
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The report system is a shitshow, but the admins do ban hatred against men much more frequently than you'd think, even for some fairly mild examples I'm surprised didn't get rejected. Yes they do! That's why I'm suggesting we do this. I've seen it work. Whole misandrists threads get taken down rightfully. I had a few women rudely interrogating why I didn't go to men for help when I was molested as a literal child by women - there weren't any men in power to talk to. I'm black, I lived in a matria…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 08:46 PM
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You're othering me here as if I don't also have a Top 10% Commenter badge next to my name, just like you. Involvement is irrelevant. If your argument or tactics are wrong, I'm going to "other" you. Or as I would call it, set the terms of engagement. I'm not swooping in from outside the community to engage in shaming tactics. That's even worse. You should be more empathetic and have better tactics than the feminists. We rightly point out how mask off it is that they openly engage in so much publi…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 07:09 PM
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Report everything thats against tos, regardless of the sub. But people are allowed to rant and rave in the privacy of the sub. Not to your face. Their views don't matter, their behavior does.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 06:59 PM
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Intergroup prejudice spreads prejudice across groups. I know that to be factual without reading and it is already included in my calculations that it's beneficial for trans women to help men but men get no benefits of helping trans women. Because, the idea that a lack of support = prejudice is faulty. I'm pro trans but anti gender abolitionist. Most people are. Unfortunately the trans community has let gender abolitionists take over the entire messaging for the community. Even fellow gays like m…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 06:57 PM
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Because it will help breakdown sterotypes against men in general. How? What mechanism does that happen by? Why psychological or sociological basis do you have for this?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 06:21 PM
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think it's kinda weird and gross to frame it that way. It comes across as cold and transactional, Ok. How is that relevant? Shaming in a men's group is not welcome here. Use facts or leave. only caring about something if it benefits you, not because it's right. That's the entire premise of your post. "we should aupprt each other for mutual benefits" what are the benefits is a fair question. But if you insist on thinking about it transactionally, reciprocation is just a basic practice in transact…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 06:20 PM
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If you change the cultural attitude towards men, both groups see progress on their issues. So trans women should support men. That's logical. What do we get for supporting you? How does supporting trans women help men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 05:59 PM
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Trans women issues and men's issues are inexorably linked. Yes. But why?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 05:30 PM
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What has this got to do with trans women? Well, the trans women as preditors is a direct extension of men as predators. I know what you mean. But this messaging simply isn't going to work. That's a men's issue. Trying to give it to any other group goes against the very thing we want which is the singular spotlight men deserve on their concerns.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 05:14 PM
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Democrats loss had nothing to do with their position on male issues in the slightest. That's so very wrong. People fear a female leader not just because they think she's going to be emotional or whatever. But also because we know that she is going to have a natural bias against men. Literally everyone does. So unless she is actively expressing positive opinions about us, we know exactly where she stands. She never said anything, which is telling. And everything that her surrogate said was patron…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 05:04 PM
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Now that trump has won, no one is ever going to take men's issues seriously because people especially women won't believe men have problems based on gender. They will see this election as the ultimate sign of male privilege and will go about how women are held to an insane standard. You sound powerless. You're going to just let them rant?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 03:55 PM
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Im voting anything against women since now. Huh?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 09:05 AM
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Trickle down rights does not work. We are tired of hearing this.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 07:46 AM
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they seemed to phrase this as abortion vs the economy to their base and it worked. They did. Which simply doesn't make sense. Because men do not have reproductive rights. We don't even really have parental rights. So why do we care about abortion rights? We've been told for decades that the rights would trickle down and it would benefit us. That has never worked. Men will not complain, they will just keep voting until you change.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 07:42 AM
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That's part of what makes it so confusing. I get the oppression speech from white women. I am a gay autistic black man who grew up impoverished by definition. I get it from black women, and I'm like at what point in history did black men keep black women down? Thankfully I've never gotten it from anybody else.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/11/24 03:47 AM
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Oh also, as a gay guy. Can we dead the butthurt stuff? I'm not even a bottom but holy fuck I hate that phrase. It's dweebish. I thought the kids of my generation were losers back when we popularized it. I honestly prefer soft, weak, like a punk, mad pussy, emo, loser, lame, sissy, and like a thousand other insults. I'd even be open to new insults, as long as they are genuinely funny. That and triggered both 🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 03:57 PM
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You'd think she'd have tried something, She doesn't need us. At least she doesn't need to care about us. it would be nice to at least get lip service For once in my 40 years. It certainly would be.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 01:33 PM
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I'm not sure why you're telling me this if I'm still voting for her. She hasn't said a single thing positive about men out of her own mouth. It doesn't matter that she didn't say this. It matters that she hasn't said enough for this not to be believable. If she actually showed support of men this would not be anything related to her.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 01:22 PM
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You don't get to hand wave it away. Yes I do. You do realize I'm a grown adult and this is Free Speech America? Look at all the upvotes you You cannot be expressing Envy over less than 20 upvotes on a comment. for something that isn't happening my guy. Denying reality makes you look even crazier.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 01:20 PM
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"She's still getting my vote."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 01:09 PM
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The only dichotomy here is the purser/predator dichotomy. They like that dichotomy. Makes them feel important. Prey is the only thing that matters to predators. It's their sole reason for existing. Without prey, predators die. Prey animals always live on through pure scrappiness and over population.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 12:04 PM
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While simultaneously complaining about the Madonna/Jezebel dichotomy.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 11:47 AM
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But they are convinced that they understand us perfectly. It is the oddest thing to experience
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 11:09 AM
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What was that? In what world would that make me feel positive about having Kamala as president? The closer we get to election day the more I don't want her. She's still getting my vote. But I honestly hope she loses. I hope every female who goes up for president loses if they take this tactic. I hope any politician whatsoever that uses shame to get votes loses. I am so sick of this garbage. If you cannot be a leader for both genders, you cannot be a leader for this country.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 08:22 AM
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Yeesh "Russia deploys systematic sexual torture against Ukrainians, both civilians and prisoners of war, in “almost all” detention centres where they are held, the UN found. That includes “rape, attempted rape, threats of rape and castration, beatings or the administration of electric shocks to genitals, repeated forced nudity and sexualised humiliation”."
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/10/24 02:38 AM
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No. It's just how they process sexuality. They would typically prefer to think of themselves ie a sexy woman than a sexy man, typically. It's not like they're literally horny for women. Straight men also typically prefer to think of the sexy woman.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 08:25 PM
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Not shit. Anything useful to add?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 08:18 PM
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Research shows that many heterosexual women experience arousal from images of other women. This isn’t about wanting to date women but reflects sexual fluidity and genetic/societal influences on how women perceive desire. Some studies suggest that women may find themselves more aroused by the idea of being a “object of desire” than by their partner's attention alone, likely related to feeling safer and more comfortable imagining themselves in such roles​Psychology Today​ScienceDaily​Psychology To…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 06:55 PM
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It's not prejudice. It's understanding where you come from. Also I have no problem with you being non-binary. I also have no problem with you being a gender abolitionist. My problem with is with you trying to convince the world that your Fringe beliefs are real. That's my only problem.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 02:39 PM
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If you're sitting here telling me people 'tend' to process things a certain way I'm going to see that as an instance of majority representation, not an argument of objective fact, which is how you're presenting things. Homosexuals aren't a majority. We are a minority. Which is why we have to have this argument with people so much. If you are not one of us, you cannot argue with us about it. You're non-binary. You're not a cisgendered homosexual. Why are you so insistent that you know our experie…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 02:33 PM
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This seems consistent with being socialized in a hetreo normative/ gender dimorphic culture, as opposed to the definitive way humans process sexuality. No it doesn't. That's what you want to believe because you're a gender abolitionist and you want to blame socialization for everything. That is homophobic. Stop.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 02:10 PM
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No. But they are bisexual for being attracted to female sex characteristics.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 11:55 AM
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Ok, I think there’s a difference in language here that was tripping me up. Let's recontextualize this into scientific language with synonyms. Attraction - like, desire, want, need, Affinity, preference, hunger, exciting, thrilling, yes! Repulsion - ambivalence, distracting, unattractive, aversion, I don't like it, meh, it's ok, so so, forgetable, boring, I don't get it, it's not my thing, I guess, maybe, eh, no. It's like the concept of enthusiastic consent: if they aren't thrilled, they don't w…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 11:26 AM
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If he's not interested in them, he's repulsed. That's just how sexuality works. It's on or off. We don't really have a grey area. It's automatic. Even just having to ignore it is repulsion. but is not distinctly repulsed by female sex characteristics, is therefore not homosexual but in fact bisexual? Ask him if he would be comfortable with the smell of vagina in the room while you two were having sex. Ask him if he would be comfortable having a three-way with a woman in the room even if he doesn…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 10:55 AM
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This is not a requirement of homosexuality. It's the reason homosexuality, heterosexuality, and asexuality exists. many gay men simply aren’t interested rather than being “repulsed”. Some gay men are also open to dating trans men. Gay ≠ homosexual. Gay is a self id. It doesn't matter who you have sex with or what their sex is or what their birth sex is or anything you can say that you're gay. But homosexuality is a factual observable scientific reality that cannot change based on gender ID. It i…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 10:43 AM
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Homosexual men are the only sexuality that prefers men over everything else. They are also the only sexuality that is repulsed by female sex characteristics. Literally every other sexuality likes women and often prefers them. Homosexual men are the true sexual minority on the planet because of this. That's why when other people try to co-opt our suffering it ends up with us just being muted. Our needs are very specific. Our struggles are very specific and they only pertain to us. Not even bisexu…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/10/24 08:42 AM
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Ty!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/10/24 12:56 PM
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Toxic masculinity is not real. What they're actually saying is that masculinity is toxic. Masculinity is neither good nor bad, it just is. There are parts that we like and we don't. But that doesn't actually make them good or bad.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/10/24 10:33 PM
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Pride is an emotion. If men are not allowed to be proud, they are not allowed to be emotional. It's not factual that we're being emotional or proud about this particular issue. But that is how you get them to shut the f up about it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/10/24 05:06 PM
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Name calling. It's bulling. I'm a man. Who is human and has rights like anyone else. Why do I need to be named? How does that address or help me? How does that bring understanding? Men calling women feminists used to be the same way.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/24 10:08 PM
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obviously there is an educational process regarding men understanding what SA of men looks like We know what it looks like. We experienced it. Women need to stop calling us MRAs for anything critical.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/10/24 10:04 PM
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Last year I stopped paying attention to the news. Earlier this year I stopped being on Twitter. Last month I started recognizing bullying on here. Today I've literally watched a full season of Fear The Walking Dead and done work on my business that will help me for the next few months. I live in my own world with my own problems.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/10/24 05:26 AM
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Fixing property taxes benefits already financial stable and in some cases retired millionaires far more than it does any renter or first time homebuyer. Black men often wait until they are stable to buy a house. And we often don't start there or come from a family history of it. I feel like we should be rewarded for breaking the cycle.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/10/24 02:42 AM
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25k would cover just over 1 year of property taxes where I live. I want the property taxes fixed. My intuition tells me that is what would make me lose my house eventually. There's programs to help with down payments. You can try really hard and get a good percent interest on your mortgage. But what you cannot do is stop the government from charging you nearly 2K a month in property taxes. The people who own houses in my area are very wealthy. If we do not get those properties taxes down I don't…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/24 10:00 PM
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Psychology.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/24 08:37 PM
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None of this would impact me, a 36 year old black man from Michigan. The health initiative might but it's so non specific right now I'm not concerned. I find it amazing how people can consistently cut me out of services and even out reach meant for me. The only time I'm benefitted is when everyone gets something. How about forgiving some of our federal student loans. How about student grants, I'd love to start my masters in 2025 VS 2027. How about a tax credit or grant for businesses that have a…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/10/24 07:25 PM
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Speaking as a nonbinary individual myself, I never resonated with men and I never wanted to be one. But I feel having been born with a male sex I feel I get lumped in with them whenever they talk about men’s issues or behaviour. I'm sorry the world made you hate yourself. However you identify, You are man enough. We get lumped in with the strong and powerful adult men even if we’ve got very little in common with them except our genitalia. You are strong and powerful. Ultimately I want a safe spa…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/10/24 03:38 PM
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So the actual term objectification in the social sense just basically boils down to a ignoring someone's individual attributes in favor of a specific trait. So being attracted to someone because of their facade is not objectification. That's literally just superficial attraction. The more I think about this the more it's starting to seem like villainization of male sexuality. Because men are more likely to have fetishes which does relate to objectification but is not the same. So theoretically y…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/10/24 05:58 PM
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I had a good long talk with a random guy last night who agreed that Kamala would be great for American culture but feared her stances on immigration and taxes. This does not address either of those issues and you will not be winning him over.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/10/24 02:06 PM
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We are not talking about the BDSM version of objectification. We are talking about the small everyday version that BDSM acknowledges and makes extreme. If we did not do the smaller version the BDSM version would not exist. BDSM is purely an exaggeration of basic everyday human interaction behaviors. I think the real issue is that like a lot of things this phrase has been taken out of context and we need a different word to specify this Behavior here. Because typically in English we would have a …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/10/24 01:50 PM
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That's not how the tech works. It's a great way to view the overall morals of the people who taught it. The data is basically incapable of blaming women for things on first ask, including their own choices. It's much more level headed in response but it's learned feminism as a core concept
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/10/24 01:41 AM
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Everyone wants to be objectified. Otherwise we wouldn't make so many objects that make us desirable. That's literally a part of human nature is objectify and analyze where we can get resources from. Basically everyone on the planet does this. It's only the fake intellectuals who actually try to make it seem like a problem. Objectification is part of making a logical decision
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/24 03:24 PM
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Six-figure 6 ft 6 in is objectification. I want a tall strong husband who can do all the house chores is objectification. They love objectification as long as it doesn't impact them.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/10/24 03:05 PM
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I chose sex over sociology or economics. My theory was that you could understand everything else by understanding how we relate to and utilize sexuality. Because it is the original dollar bill. It is the most valuable thing on the planet that is constantly being renewed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/09/24 01:02 PM
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It's definitely connected. I've always wondered why we remove ID laws instead of making IDs easier to acquire.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/24 06:59 PM
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Well, feminists and female chauvinists recruited women from every culture who do it to the men of every culture internally. They don't have to do it. As a black man, I go online into black spaces and most of what I see sounds like white women's and men's racism from the 1920s to 80s. Black men are violent. Black men are dangerous. Black men are broke. Black men are repulsive sex fiends. Black men are gay. Black men are everything that we don't want. Why would they ever risk their Public Image an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/09/24 02:01 PM
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Since you deleted admitting that this comment is wrong, and won't delete this one, I'm just going to report it. I asked for an apology. That's all you had to do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 08:03 PM
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For being wrong about your assumption of misogyny. This is supposed to be a place for male advocacy. If we can't discuss our problems with women without being accused of misogyny, what is the point of being here? You were wrong. And apology would be good.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 07:18 PM
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Maybe apologize?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 06:58 PM
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I'm not afraid of other men. I'm afraid of men who aren't in control of themselves whether that be because they're enraged or whatever or under the control of a woman. In my life most of the men who have ever hurt me has been at the direction of a woman. Men don't just walking around hitting me or assaulting me. From my experience, women have.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 02:46 PM
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It's hard to drastically affect the population that's three times your size. Perhaps you're being a little over dramatic. What laws have gay people passed to stop you from being bisexual?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/24 01:02 PM
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It doesn't mean we're exempt from criticism. But it means that people in power should probably not be the ones doing it because they won't do it right. They're going to squash us because they're powerful and don't know how to control themselves.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/24 12:53 PM
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Bi folks do it just as much too. We're all human. And there's three times more bisexual people than there are gay people. You complaining about this is like adults complaining about teenagers being shit heads. There's so many more adults, in this case bisexuals and heterosexuals all people who have heterosexual sex, it does not matter. You sit with 92% of the world. You will be fine. You don't sit with the 8% of the world otherwise you would not be complaining about us. You very clearly like you…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/24 12:50 PM
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The gays are the absolute sexual minority. There's more than three times the amount of bisexuals than there are homosexuals. I think you need to stop complaining about the minority. It's kind of our right to be upset with the majority. You can complain about the Straight people but not the gays. Because if you want to get into it, most of the bisexual men I've ever had sex with have asked me why I'm not into women. So it's not as if bisexual men are perfect saints. It's unfortunate you don't hav…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/24 12:37 PM
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I think it's important to note what they are upset about is your homosexual activity only.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/08/24 12:30 PM
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Yes they earn more college degrees but they also have more debt and more evictions. They don't earn more. And Men Without college degrees often out earn women with college degrees. The truth is that men are continuing to do well because they are making better choices.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/24 04:41 PM
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Yeah but despite the fact that they told all men to stop doing it, you were supposed to know that didn't mean you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/08/24 04:38 PM
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The average 60% are.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 06:01 PM
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Not everyone wins in life. Get over it. If you can't or don't want to figure it out, just say that. But killing optimism and shitting on the success of others is not how you win.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 02:38 AM
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Not all charisma is the same. It's unique to you.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 02:19 AM
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If no one wanted average, it wouldn't be average. You're confused by media messaging. Average people date average people.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 02:16 AM
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Rizz is more common than you think. Most guys just don't know what makes them attractive. Too many mixed messages.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 02:02 AM
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Autism in men, when you're primarily functional, is often seen as you being hyper-masculine. You need things to be a certain way. You are demanding. You are pushy. You are a problem solver. You are a hard worker. You are consistent and reliable. You may be irritable but also easy to soothe. We can often be very monotone and less expressive. All of these things in a non-neurodivergent man are ideal. We have these at a more significant expression. Many of the biggest theorists or scientists or art…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 12:08 AM
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So butch. So manly. But hates gender roles. Logic is not logicing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/24 11:56 PM
-4

Oooh so manly. Just because you don't recognize the effect you have on people, does not mean that you don't have it. Whatever neurodivergency you have, as long as you are a cool person, it will be seen as charming. Cuz I also have ADHD and OCD and depression and generalized anxiety. I'm also a sexual psychologist. But still get laid and have had relationships. Obviously our life is harder because we have mental disorders, but there's nothing we can do about that. And women with mental disorders …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/24 11:50 PM
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Have you never heard of autistic Riz? It is our authenticity that makes us seem more masculine and desirable. So no we are not excluded. We just got to do with what we have.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/24 11:45 PM
-9

The average man is still bigger than the average woman. Just because they're not at the top of the food chain of men, does not mean that they can't utilize the skill.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/24 11:44 PM
4

This one is a battle that is not worth fighting. Guys being charismatic is one of our gendered skills. Our large frame and deep voice makes people listen to us automatically. If we can utilize that physical Advantage even further, we will excel in life. If we had the physicality of a woman, we could use that sort of gendered skill. We don't and we can't. Well at least most of us don't and can't. But those who can, typically do utilize those feminine powers. We all have things that make us specia…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/24 10:39 PM
9

White women were able to own property which gave them the right to vote. Typically it was inherited. Yes they did not get the right to vote constitutionally or whatever until later but they were already voting through property rights.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/24 07:03 PM
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With the exception of black women, women were not slaves. Behind every powerful man was a powerful woman and what was she doing, manipulating him to get exactly what she wanted to see in the world. Remember white women got the right to vote before black men did. If women cared so much about everyone, they would have used their opportunities to help others and they never have. The truth is humans are self-interested. Everyone does what's in their own best interests but it's only a problem when me…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/08/24 12:05 PM
0

Men want access to women more than they want so respect. Whatever women want men will make happen in order to get access to women.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/24 02:09 PM
9

I think it's dangerous to look at the randomness of life and think that you can control it. I would like to say we influence our destiny. Will never reach greatness if we don't actually work for it, even if that is our destiny. But if we do make every effort, the chances that our destiny will be fulfilled is pretty significant. I like to keep the long complicated explanation in my head because it keeps me from simplifying things into black and white thinking. If I tell myself I have more control…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/24 05:48 AM
16

I actually see him as a radicalizing tool more than a healing tool. Because he presents so sweet and kind but is actually very cruel. If you avoided red pill all this time and then run into him, you would never trust a left-wing space again. He's very dangerous. Women would back his messages.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/24 05:34 AM
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It's clear he's only a men's dating coach and not a dating coach. He's using the tried and true " work harder, loser" motivation style that draws men a lot because it says that they have more control over their Destiny than they actually do.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/24 05:26 AM
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Thats a femcel take. Everyone is happier married. If marriage makes women so miserable come, why are there so many miserable single women?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/08/24 11:20 AM
15

One pathway I see for fixing this comes from the corporate sector: I own a small business. While I never experienced any blowback or negative dog piling, a couple comments on a post I made on Instagram did cause me to change my perspective. The post was talking about how we had a mostly female staff we have a small staff so that's easy. But the response was that doesn't sound like equality. And because that is a very logical statement I immediately knew it was correct. So behind the scenes I've …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/08/24 09:31 AM
26

That's because that's what they believe. They think that advocating for women means the destruction of men. They're telling on themselves.
/r/MensRights11/08/24 08:57 AM
1

Make sense for yourself.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/08/24 08:56 PM
3

No. When you consider the fact that behind every successful man is a powerful woman, their entire argument breaks down. Before they ever started complaining about these things, they already admitted that they were complicit in the villainy of history. They Pride themselves on being able to control and manipulate men to do things that they want them to do but then also claim that they can't control men. It doesn't make logical sense and I think we all know it's not true.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 03:46 PM
1

A sexual psychologist is not a job. One doesn't make money doing that. It is my degree and specialization. But because you are very arrogant, you have no concept for what it is that I actually do. And since you've been rude, I'm not going to explain it. But I do wish you the best of life. Good night.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 05:04 AM
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I can only go by your word on that. But so far my intuition has been very good. And it has been for most of my life. So I'm going to show you the thing that is telling me that you might not have been a submissive as you think "“The woman is not maintaining the illusion that she is supposed to.” Lol. First of all we were having sex every day. I begged him to give me a reason why he broke up with me and he refused to give me one. I was always appreciative. He literally just wanted to go back to us…
/r/MensRights10/08/24 04:56 AM
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You don't know what my job is. You projecting so hard. You have created an entire narrative that I do not fit at all. I'm just a redneck and you hate how I talk. Suck it up buttercup. Yee-haw
/r/MensRights10/08/24 04:52 AM
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You don't know what my job actually is. You should stop speaking so arrogantly because you already are embarrassing yourself. I'm not a therapist or a psychiatrist nor are you my patient or are we in a professional relationship in any way shape or form. I can say what I want to say how I want to say it. Being a professional does not stop me from being a human. I just know a lot of s***.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 04:40 AM
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No I'm saying that you both want to feel important. You signed the contract because it made you feel important and special. And yet you still didn't hold up your end of the bargain on that contract. Like I said in modern women don't like to be controlled by anything. It's not just modern women though, it's modern people. Just rebellious for no reason. Willing to lose everything that you want just for a little bit of autonomy.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 04:38 AM
1

I'm saying that men, like women, require fantasy to maintain a sense of importance in life. It is not a want but a need. People will do all sorts of things to fulfill their need to feel important. Partners should work hard to maintain the fantasy and illusion of importance for their partners. Often, due to sexism, women will drop the illusion and expect men to remember what it was like. But they never really stop asking men to keep up their end of the illusion. For men's part, they often think t…
/r/MensRights10/08/24 04:21 AM
1

I wrote what I wrote for a reason.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 04:16 AM
1

From your original post and the comments that I saw. I made sure to include that line because I had an intuitive sense that you weren't doing that. I'm glad that it hit home with you.
/r/MensRights10/08/24 04:15 AM
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Is it just laziness? The only reason I can think of is that he has simply too lazy to find a real woman in the real world date her and try and have sex with her. Is it basically just convenience? (“Sugar babies” are basically high profile escorts. It comes quick and goes quick once you stop paying them.) Well, as a sexual psychologist, I can tell you that the most common reason that men cheat is for a feeling of importance. Typically their wives are not doing their job in that area. There's a lo…
/r/MensRights10/08/24 04:11 AM
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They don't love the men in their lives. You can't hold both ideas. We see the hate. It doesn't turn off for anyone
/r/MensRights09/08/24 08:29 PM
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This is a gay issue. These are two biological males who are homosexuals. It is unfortunate and striking to me that another male would do that once they've gotten female privilege. That is something that we should focus on specifically versus the trans part. When you specifically called them tr*nnies and whatnot you are harming your message. Not everybody is going to be like me and read past the anger. We probably come from the same culture where this behavior is normal, even though we're from di…
/r/MensRights09/08/24 04:01 PM
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You replied without reading the full context. Here was my last statement "You're being a whiny baby at this point. Transition if you don't want to do your damn job. Or be homosexual and pair with a man who will while you do the feminine stuff. Being bigger doesn't mean you can't. Edit. I'm being close minded. You can even find yourself a big Butch Bertha sis gendered woman to take on the manly stuff while you do the girly stuff. The world is your oyster"
/r/MensRights09/08/24 12:57 PM
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Give them the definition of nagging. Nothing else. Just the pure definition. You're not calling them a nag. But you're reminding them that they are in fact doing that thing that women do which are annoying.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 12:52 PM
0

Not doing that either
/r/MensRights09/08/24 02:56 AM
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It might help make sense of their rhetoric if you add race back to anything that they say about men. Make it about black men or immigrants. Then it will be a 100% carbon copy of jazz era and Reagan Era racism. It's actually not about hating men but about a feeling that women are constantly in danger. This concept of inherent vulnerability serves many purposes, the main one is to sell products.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/08/24 01:46 AM
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You don't actually know what I'm doing. You've said what you're doing. I've critiqued what you're doing. I haven't said what I'm doing. You're assuming. Firstly I'm gay so I'm definitely not slaving away for women.
/r/MensRights09/08/24 01:24 AM
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I think your view is misguided. But you're free to have it.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 09:42 PM
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Lead ourselves by example
/r/MensRights08/08/24 09:20 PM
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It is through venture capital as well as media. Every time they're funding startups or becoming investors or something their money comes attached with terms that you have to do certain things for certain goals. Diversity Equity inclusion was one of those for the last 10 years or so. The Big Three give those terms to the smaller companies who give those terms to the smaller companies and so forth and so forth. Eventually the bottom run gets the idea and they start aiming their own interests in th…
/r/MensRights08/08/24 07:32 PM
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You are correct about that assumption. Diversity equity and inclusion is a Investment Bank down initiative. You have to remember that at that level their goal is always profit. Chaos causes profit. They can't literally cause a war in america. But they can put the people of America at each other's throats and buying things to pledge allegiance.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 07:08 PM
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No shit.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 06:19 PM
1

Their smaller frame makes them less scary and intimidating. This allows them to be more social building connections and helping the community thrive. They're also more adept at organizing and getting people to do things. Typically you would get a man and a woman together utilizing both of their unique skills to create a whole. For people who are homosexual, you would typically find someone with a opposite personality Style.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 05:58 PM
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I disagree. Sexual dimorphism exist within humans for a reason. There is a purpose to our biology.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 05:55 PM
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Men do not need to retaliate under any circumstances. Men need to do what men are supposed to do and lead by example. We can be passionate we can have differences in culture but we do not need to be vengeful, vindictive or retaliatory.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 05:13 PM
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Men are typically more helpful to strangers that is true. Women being self obsessed with one safety will do that to you. But I do not think that we are inherently any less friendly than one another. Especially when you take it outside of American culture and spread it worldwide. Because truthfully good people are good people who will connect and be friendly with you regardless of their sex. Primarily the difference is cultural in that Yankees are very closed and rednecks are very open. It is mor…
/r/MensRights08/08/24 04:30 PM
3

There is one shelter for men in the country for this reason
/r/MensRights08/08/24 04:14 PM
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Neither of us is more friendly than the other. We have preferences for who we're friendly to. You're probably more likeable by men than women.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 04:12 PM
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Ideology over Capitalism in a publicly traded company is insane.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 02:39 PM
3

Most popular social movements are joined by hatred not progress. In this case it's hatred of men and not empowerment of women. If it was you would expect there to be more groups supporting women in Social ways. But I actually don't know of any outside of maybe menstruation. I don't know any groups for masculine women. I don't know any group for women who have been abused by women. It's all very one-sided and focused on the destruction of men's reputation and character on the whole.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 02:27 PM
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“We’re going to continue to build a world that makes small-minded, misogynist boys like you outdated,” it said." We're going to continue to build a world that makes men deeply uncomfortable and irrelevant until it collapses. Noted. Good luck with that.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 02:21 PM
1

Trickle down social power
/r/MensRights08/08/24 12:25 PM
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I wonder if women realize that men actually like to be sexually desired
/r/MensRights08/08/24 12:19 PM
47

"Any man not capable of acquiring sex is an incel" Thanks Webster.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 12:03 AM
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Men will quietly embrace one another unshakable or we will forever be in a free fall.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 03:25 PM
3

the women my age use multiple creams for this or that, so they don’t have to wear makeup. They mostly don't need it. That's self-imposed. Wash moisturize and sunscreen is literally all you need for your skin care. Everything else is a gimmick.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 12:56 PM
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Then I guess, from a merely consumerist viewpoint, I find the whole framing of gender-specific markups as "tax" absolutely nonsensical. That's basically the entire thesis of the men's Rights group.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 12:54 PM
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If we can be Auto blocked for participating in these subs, there's no reason why we can't auto block people who participate in other ones.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/08/24 07:11 PM
2

Uh, huh. Sure Jan. Human nature is suddenly going to disappear because of rules. The only way you can keep humans from having sex with one another is by locking them to a wall.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 06:01 AM
1

So one woman and one man interact. Sex work.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 05:44 AM
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Who would handle the trading? Who would protect the items and ensure that they were being traded for proper value?
/r/MensRights06/08/24 05:25 AM
1

Sarcasm is what you're missing. From what I know of various Asian cultures, mostly informed by various miscommunications between Asian game makers and American consumers, y'all don't really do sarcasm.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 05:24 AM
4

Nations trade. Can't stop it. But also this entire argument is very stupid because we all know how everything works already. So trying to prove it is a Fool's errand.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 05:17 AM
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"I'm not being literal" Is English not your first language? Are you a fellow person on the spectrum? Or something else? I can help you understand better but I have to understand why you don't understand.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 05:15 AM
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Typically you would trade with people from outside your group, because you would all have the same resources.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 05:02 AM
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I'm speaking in general terms. There are lots of issues that we need to handle. But for a gay man, on average, he is more concerned about being gay than being a man. Therefore there is nothing here for him. I'm not being literal.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 05:01 AM
4

Do you think that they are trading only Within themselves?
/r/MensRights06/08/24 04:51 AM
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If they have a trading post, sex work.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 04:15 AM
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I'm not saying that I disagree with your statement fully, but this one statement I really need to clear up. I don't know if it is internalized misandry or internalized homophobia or both that make some gay men lack of self-respect and dignity. There are no benefits for homosexual men here. Us being here is an anomaly probably because we're both rebellious. These people do not typically care about gay rights. It is only because we have already legalized gay marriage that we have the freedom to pe…
/r/MensRights05/08/24 10:15 PM
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The culture stems all the way back to Europe.
/r/MensRights05/08/24 01:06 AM
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Are you a redneck or a Yankee?
/r/MensRights05/08/24 12:55 AM
0

It's a blog but a solid choice. https://getthebutters.com/blogs/butters-life-blog
/r/MensRights05/08/24 12:53 AM
1

Not for men of every class.
/r/MensRights05/08/24 12:50 AM
10

Many words are gendered that don't seem like they are. The word parent is a mother.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 08:57 PM
1

What's a normie here? Cisgendered & heteronormative? Nah they're more accepting than that. It's a cultural thing. I don't know if you're familiar with American culture historically, but it's the Rednecks versus the Yankees. I come from a more educated redneck culture, down to earth, upfront and honest. This group is Yankees, sophisticated, exclusive, heavy on facade. It's not about politics at all. Trump and Clinton are Rednecks. Reagan, Gore, Bushes are Yankees. Idk where the Obamas sit but lik…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/24 07:52 PM
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There is not really a good place to say "this is what left-wing men think and believe." This group serves as that public facing image. They do care about many important issues, but the image matters most to them. Even if you believe the same things as they do ideologically, you will still run into issues if you talk differently. I grew up in the black Christian nationalists which is a gynocentric cult. So my perspective on a lot of things is a bit firmer than many people who grew up in mainstrea…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/24 07:05 PM
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When in reality, typically men need to be the ones who decide the standards. They are going to be less resistant to it. They also tend to do it naturally and intuitively rather than purposefully as women do. I find that women have greater skills in community building and connection that are intuitive, but not necessarily leadership. I find that working with a woman to create a good group is actually the most ideal situation for me. I own a small business and while I have had many male employees,…
/r/MensRights04/08/24 06:57 PM
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Finally, there is little consideration in a lot of women and girls of how to delegate (a leadership skill) and they end up doing the task themselves. This hits on exactly what I was talking about with the brain load thing. Rather than delegate they try to control. It is exhausting. They're like alcoholic stepdads.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 06:55 PM
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Stories like yours is actually what made me start to think that. Because house husbands are not complaining like Housewives Are.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 06:51 PM
0

A knife against the water gun is a pretty good fight. But actually I don't fight which is why I chose not to. If you want someone who's going to make sure to say everything perfectly right at all times, go over to that other sub. I don't have to suck clit constantly. That's the benefit of being liberal, I don't give a shit what other people do with their lives. Hoover as many as you want. It's not my body.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 06:04 PM
2

Go over to r/leftwingmaleadvocates if you want people to constantly coddle women's feelings. That's not what I'm here for.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 05:24 PM
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I think they do more mental work than they need to in order to keep control over the household. It stresses them out and they put that stress into their partners. If they would relax and let things happen more often, their mental load would decrease. The real issue is that they want stuff to happen how they want it to happen and when they want to happen.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 05:15 PM
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This is always struck me as a form of control. The concept that the house will fall apart if the woman does not keep it all together, is not factual. Single dads exist.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 04:39 PM
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And women have had them for almost 75 years. Why are you here if you don't care about men's issues?
/r/MensRights04/08/24 02:37 PM
1

not all pregnancies are done with the intent to have a child? Yeah that one. This is dumb. Sex is about reproduction primarily. If you're having heterosexual sex, reproduction is something that is bound to happen eventually. You have a mouth and an anus. It does not need to go in the vagina. If you choose to have vaginal sex, pregnancy is one of the risks. If you would like to abort that baby, that's up to you. But the simple fact is if you are having heterosexual sex, pregnancy is expected. Tha…
/r/MensRights04/08/24 02:02 PM
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You're trying to force me into an ideological argument that I didn't have. You're illiteracy is not my problem. I'm having the conversation that I started having. You are having a different conversation.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 01:56 PM
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I'm gay too. Get off your high horse. That does not change my perspective. Contraception can fail you are correct and you still took that risk. You still accepted that small risk of failure, when you decided to use that contraception. Abortions and removing a parental rights all required to help of someone else. You did not create the abortion pills or medication or support network or building. When it comes to parental rights someone else has to take care of that child. Because that child now e…
/r/MensRights04/08/24 01:33 PM
1

That is pure ideologic speaking. In order for you not to be a parent, you have to rely on other people to take the responsibility from you. Without the assistance of other people, consenting to sex is consenting to parenthood.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 01:27 PM
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We don't have medicinal ways to stop our reproduction. It is condoms surgery or abstinence. Whereas women have condom surgery abstinence 50 plus versions of hormonal both control, iuds, diaphragms, spermicide. It's okay if you don't actually care about our issues. But it would be better if you didn't speak about them at all.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 01:25 PM
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Pregnancy happens from sex. She's not forced to carry the child. It's just what happens from sex. Why didn't that make logical sense to you? You using the term forced makes her into a victim. But no one is the villain to consensual sex. Who are you hating nature? Menstruation? The concept of reproduction?
/r/MensRights04/08/24 01:00 PM
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Had sex. Not forced. Pregnancy happens from sex. If you decide to have sex. You are not forced to be pregnant. You weren't forced to have sex. You chose both of those things.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 12:32 PM
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We need birth control.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 12:14 PM
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Birth Control. Parental rights. Domestic violence. Child abuse. sexual assault. Financial abuse. Emotional manipulation. Hypervillainization. We need more than just this one thing.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 12:14 PM
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You had sex. You're not forced into parenthood.
/r/MensRights04/08/24 12:12 PM
1

That's because this place is not actually left wing. They're anti right wing which is a totally different thing. If you're liberal, your main principle should be Dignity of choice. There's really nothing else to liberalism or being left wing. We allow people to make the choices that they want to lead a satisfactory life for themselves. But that is not what we do here or on the left at all. It's very much about appearances and making sure that we keep up with the facade of professionalism and Aca…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/24 12:02 PM
1

Reeves has the capacity to shift his views as well as not blow his whole load and tank his career/efforts by being the radical y'all want. Normies VS punks.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/24 11:57 AM
3

Same
/r/MensRights04/08/24 11:45 AM
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Why can't you just downvote and stop harassing me? Is this Behavior what male advocacy needs? I don't think it is. Because I tell people not to come to groups like this because of your behavior. And I'm an influential person. You need to learn to be polite even to people that you don't like. This is the bad behavior of feminism that has driven me crazy. It's not that they just don't agree, it's that they never shut up about the fact that they don't agree. They don't just let you have thoughts an…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/24 12:38 AM
1

Most importantly, I believe the reason many of you are at this subreddit is because of the quality control of this sub. It's the one thing that makes me hate this sub. They do not have a good balance between actual male advocacy and image control. I'm glad that many people find this place useful, but every time I comment here, it reminds me that people don't actually want my opinion. I'm a 36 year old black gay man from Michigan. I do not fit in on the left at all. Which is a crazy concept to me…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/08/24 12:15 AM
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Female desirability. If they make it seem like we're constantly obsessed with them, then their value in the world becomes that much more. It's a part of the social manipulation.
/r/MensRights03/08/24 03:32 PM
5

Get an attorney now track absolutely everything. Have more conversations with her in text where she refuses to do things. Follow your attorney's advice.
/r/MensRights03/08/24 02:35 PM
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Down votes are the least harassing mechanism to tell you that people don't like what you had to say. If you can't even handle a down vote, you can't post on Reddit.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/24 12:07 PM
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Then why even make this post? If you don't think they want to squash men's advocacy? You literally said they want to monopolize it, which means squash our advocacy in favor of whatever they think we need.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/24 12:02 PM
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In black male spaces, one of the most common talking points is utter confusion on why black women have taken up feminism. They talk about black men like they are white men. Wherein we have been there oppressors for all this time. When in fact we got out of shackles at the same time. We got the right to vote very quickly next to each other. And we have always been locked up with each other in the fight for equality. In fact in the most extreme version of popular black American beliefs, the black …
/r/MensRights03/08/24 02:05 AM
4

I'll be 36 9/24! Also on the spectrum.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/08/24 02:01 AM
0

Context?
/r/MensRights03/08/24 01:59 AM
1

No.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 05:56 PM
1

Not an opinion. Not here to debate. You're wrong scientifically. Do whatever you want. Don't advise people to do stuff that we know is harmful.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 05:44 PM
1

It's actually detrimental. Ranting is just another form of chanting or meditation.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 05:31 PM
7

Honestly thank God for this group. I'm a 36 year old black gay man from Michigan, and feel ostracized and liberal spaces because they don't talk about things like this. This article was so enlightening and reassuring. I'm a sexual psychologist and have struggled feeling unsupported in a lot of my observations. This article primarily because it's written in such a Academic Way gives me confidence that I'm not just running off intuition and emotion. Because truthfully a lot of my concerns with the…
/r/MensRights02/08/24 12:02 PM
3

If it's impossible for you to stop ruminating over negative thoughts, you might need medication. I did.
/r/MensRights02/08/24 03:46 AM
4

Nothing that you said pushes it back against my original points. You're just rambling out of anxiety. Literally nothing in your response to my comment is a workable or fixable or even discussable issue. These are big overarching all time life destroying issues that you're only thinking about because you're anxious. If you're just going to feed into the anxious thoughts, you're not going to get anywhere. It's not hard to realize what anxious thoughts are and not feed into them like that. It is di…
/r/MensRights02/08/24 03:38 AM
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It's about female desirability. But the solution for you is going to be learning to ignore them. It sounds like you think too much about what other people are doing and thinking and not what you're doing. I'm also on the spectrum. I also have generalized anxiety. I also have adhd. I'm also 5'11. One of my greatest natural skills has been the ability to not care what other people are looking at around me or on me, because I'm focused on my goal. Tunnel vision your way through life. Use that autis…
/r/MensRights02/08/24 03:15 AM
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I'm sorry that you feel boxed in here but not everyone feels that way. You need to have a better response to this if you want to stop people from going black pill. I'm literally giving you a warning, in public that I don't feel welcome here. That people are more accepting of my style of liberalism in a conservative space. And your only response is that other people don't feel that way. You sound like a feminist. These are literally the same responses that made me leave that Community when I star…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 02:22 AM
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So you're actively harassing me because you don't like my opinions?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 01:27 AM
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At the very least they're not aggressive like this towards me. That makes it more welcoming.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 01:10 AM
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There is no organizational leadership, no party platform - anyone is free to raise discussion on any issue they wish so long as it relates to men and doesn't promote values that are antithetical to our own. Thank you for talking to me about this. I see. I don't like that. Too chaotic. It's very similar to how other left Wings spaces are run and have been run. It's a popularity contest at the end of the day. As a person who will never win a popularity contest, this is a dangerous space for me to …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 01:10 AM
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This is criticism that left-wing spaces often receive: "What about x?" "You aren't discussing x enough." I challenge you not to bind up my positions to ones you've heard before. Often I come very very close but with a critical distinction that makes it severely different. In this case it's not what about or you aren't discussing X enough. It's "I don't understand what we're doing here." Sincere and deep confusion. Although I have my particular issues that I'd like to cover, I put my money toward…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 11:56 PM
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Yeah. I think that's it, actually. That trapped feeling I mentioned relates to me feeling like I don't know where I'm supposed to be going and putting my energy in. I personally feel boxed in by my options for groups to join up with. This group is so passive that it infuriates me. But then other groups are so hateful that it infuriates me. It feels like I have no place to go. And on some level that feels purposeful, if that makes sense. It's almost like I'm not actually supposed to have a place …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 11:31 PM
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I wouldn't be surprised if the topic comes up at least once per fortnight. That just seems like not enough to me. I've been here probably close to a month now, and I don't recall one yet. I definitely could have missed it if they only happen once every two weeks. Which is why I don't think that is enough, if we actually care about that particular issue. I should also note that while I am technically new as a member to the group, I did find this group a while ago and have lurked. The reason I did…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 11:25 PM
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Did you see my edit to the original comment? I added examples I saw after going back to my homepage. I think it explains better. Also, I specifically said "I can't put my finger on it". It's not a clear thought, admittedly.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 11:05 PM
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the lack of support for men on the left and isn't representative of any wider group. Not according to the mods.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 10:46 PM
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as small as it sounds, I want to do something with my hair- not necessarily because I don’t like the way my hair is right but, but to just prove to myself that I can make decisions for myself. Doing stuff to your hair is pretty big for people throughout their entire life. This isn't small at all. But do it!!!!
/r/MensRights31/07/24 10:22 PM
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Reading these comments is part of why I hate calling myself a leftist. Our party is in absolute shambles but apparently we still think were so much better than the right? They're misogynistic, classist and racist. We're misandrist, classist and racist. I'm failing to see why theirs is so much worse than ours. Obviously the existence of this group does signal some level of difference in our movements. But we also abandoned men for decades, forcing them into the arms of the right. Based on how lef…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/07/24 10:21 PM
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To fix this feeling Within Myself I got a face tattoo. I do not recommend you get a face tattoo to explore your autonomy. I always wanted a face tattoo. In fact I always wanted to be covered but did not do it sooner because I had shame and guilt and fear. I was also a smart person and didn't want to get it until the job stopper tattoo wasn't actually going to stop me from getting a job. I imagine that the decisions you want for yourself are probably less extreme than full body coverage tattoos w…
/r/MensRights31/07/24 08:42 AM
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Femcel/Divestor
/r/MensRights30/07/24 03:49 AM
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Feminism is femcel now. For at least the Last 5 Years they've done nothing but complain about men. They're not pushing forward any laws. They're not pushing forward any social change. They're not doing anything but complaining. The fact that feminism is given legitimacy in 2024 is absolutely insane.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 02:13 AM
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I don't think there is a rape culture around women. Just like I don't think there is a wage Gap or an orgasm Gap or anything else. Most things that people complain about today, not just women, are not real issues. There's a lot of power and being a victim today. So a lot of people are simply taking that route.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/07/24 11:21 AM
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Well the first road block to getting more gay men on our side is to stop people like the one who was essentially harassing me because of their emotions. If none of yall have the strength to step up to your straight brothers, you don't have legitimacy in your cause. Just like feminists who let misandry run wild.
/r/MensRights28/07/24 02:38 AM
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It didn't reveal that there are more than previously thought. Because we have already had a hundred years of this. Before Justin Bieber there was Usher, Donny Osmond, Michael Jackson, on and an and on. The newspaper boy, the pool boy, Mary Kay La-pedo. People knew. They've always known.
/r/MensRights27/07/24 09:28 PM
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I'm an atheist. But thanks?
/r/MensRights27/07/24 01:46 PM
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You didn't read my other comments. Or you did and you're embarrassed. Either way, I wish you'd bring down the anger. You are a road block to bringing more gay men out of the feminist delusion. You're not even trying to win me over. You're just trying to bulldoze me with your feelings. This is exactly like being in feminist spaces.
/r/MensRights27/07/24 01:31 PM
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Bisexual men I'm not immune to homophobia. If you go over to gay threads you'll find that some of the worst homophobia we experience is from bisexual men. Your proximity to heterosexuality makes you abandon us whenever you feel like it. So I'm not taking your words with any weight at all. Especially considering what I'm about to say next. On the onset, you are male first, and will be treated as such; that means our problems, when it comes to the legal policies and bigotry affecting men, are the …
/r/MensRights27/07/24 01:17 PM
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but it is noticeable that claiming LGBTQ status does indeed ward off immediate criticism from the people who regularly attack male spaces. This is your homophobia talking. You think that we have it so much better than you. You think that on average women are nicer to us. Our experience is actually one of objectification and abuse. And once again I singled out the gay MALES, and you included everybody else who is not a gay male. I was very specific about who I am and you pushed it into being a co…
/r/MensRights27/07/24 11:18 AM
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Hey I don't judge what people get up to in their private life
/r/MensRights27/07/24 11:11 AM
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You're not hearing what specifically?
/r/MensRights27/07/24 02:19 AM
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Men are seen as the only predators. It's okay to name and shame predators.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/07/24 02:02 AM
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I'm not. You are traumatized from years of being pushed out of the Limelight. I openly admit that gay people have had far more press and public support than men in general. But being gay does not supersede me being a man. Neither does me being black supersede me being a man. If you can't read my words with empathy, you need a little more work on yourself.
/r/MensRights27/07/24 01:26 AM
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Solving straight men's issues would solve our issues simultaneously, because your issues are our issues. After gay marriage there is nothing really that gay men need except for men's rights. I'm not under any delusions that gays are under a mass persecution anymore. I also do think that you might not recognize how big of an overlap there is in our issues. I've never been sexually assaulted by a man. I've been sexually assaulted by five women. The most a man has ever done was shown too much inter…
/r/MensRights27/07/24 12:19 AM
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I'm not interested in people who think everyone should be second place to their own plight, just because they are gay. This is only a valid complaint if I was actually calling for us to put gay issues ahead of men's issues. I specifically said your issues are our issues, and you acting like this is the speed bump that I'm talking about. You're so terrified that someone's trying to take you off your pedestal that you won't even just commiserate with a fellow man.
/r/MensRights26/07/24 11:58 PM
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For the second time this morning, I feel the need to impress upon you not to separate gay and bisexual men from straight men. We are all under attack together. Everything that is bad for you is bad for us. In fact everything that's bad for you is worse for us, because we have to get over this roadblock. It might seem like gay men have made all these amazing strides in the world. And gay marriage was the one that we cared about and wanted most . But it's primarily people born as female who are qu…
/r/MensRights26/07/24 01:51 PM
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how do straight men build community or find places to belong? You start by not dividing Us by sexuality. That's one of the ways that women keep us apart. You think gay men have a life that's so much better, but we don't. Women hate us too. In fact they treat us worse than you, we don't even get pussy with the hatred. Just pure hatred coming from a body that repulses us. Gay men are actually probably going to be your first allies. Straight men typically will only understand their plight and be in…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/24 09:19 AM
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And this is why I didn't fight with everybody. Because I actually watched her interviews. People can tell the story however they want to tell it. But when you watch her speak and move, she cannot hide that pain.
/r/MensRights26/07/24 09:06 AM
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You are not considering how complex sent is. It's not just about what I can actually smell but about what my brain understands from that information. I'm not personally deciding whether or not I like each individual scent. I have no control over that. My brain tells me what I like.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/24 09:03 AM
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There is a secondary scent system. Pheromones do not just come from hormones.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/24 08:55 AM
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I am Pro Dignity of choice. If people want to use guns they can. I also think that there needs to be some sort of rationality there because too many guns will take away some people's Dignity of choice to not get shot. So there does have to be limit. However I don't really have a problem with guns, even though I don't shoot them. If I felt like I had a need for one I'd get one. But I'm a 36 year old black man who grew up in Metro Detroit. What I have found is that as long as you keep your nose cl…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/24 02:44 AM
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we are defining sexual orientation as being towards genitals. Incorrect. I Define sexuality by sex. Sex is defined by Gamete production, not genitals. Hence why intersex people are still only male or female. Aesthetics do play a role in attraction. But pure sexual orientation is only referring to sex. That's why I keep stressing this point so hard I as a homosexual man would be more willing to have sex with a trans woman than a trans man, because of the sex. If they are male there is a chance th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/24 02:30 AM
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I got maybe eight paragraphs into this article before I had to stop reading. Whoever is writing this is delusional. I do not comprehend why Liberals are so quick to try and emasculate Donald trump. I don't think he's like the Paragon of manhood or Manliness. Yet I also am not stupid enough to say that he's weak or a punk. You don't get to be the president being a punk. You don't get to be successful for 40 or 50 years doing what you want to do and saying what you want to say while being a punk. …
/r/MensRights26/07/24 01:57 AM
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Listen, I'm on the autistic Spectrum. I have built an apartment complex in the weeds on the corner of pedantic Avenue. Welcome to my home. I don't have many thoughts about your comment. Because it seems pretty agreeable. And even on the parts that I do disagree with, I can logically understand how you got there. But there is one point specifically that I would like to challenge. while hermaphrodites may be rare, they are real. As far as I know there is ever only been one case of an actual hermap…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/07/24 01:19 AM
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My experience with racist white men has been a much more comfortable one than interacting with many of the women I have encountered. It deeply saddens me that my head immediately agreed with this. It's not something I'd ever thought of. But a holy crap you're right. Because even a lot of the black women talk about me like they are straight from the 1980s crack propaganda. Most racist people are comfortable keeping it to themselves. They are often very condescending but surprisingly a lot of them…
/r/MensRights25/07/24 11:27 PM
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Sadly there is no guarantee of that. It's simply takes away the ads and decreases the amount of pop-ups. They do absolutely nothing to stop the amount of scammers or fake accounts. It does give you some privileges like read receipts and the normal things that you would see in a dating app. The main problem with that is often people without the premium features will not be as incentivized to come on to the app. You are correct in big cities it is definitely useful. But in big cities things like C…
/r/MensRights25/07/24 06:06 PM
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Who she didn't have a great relationship with. Admittedly I did miss speak. The concept I was trying to bring up was that she didn't have a bunch of family around her. She was a great woman and she deserved to have more family to love support and honor her and her Dying Years. But for the most part she sat at home alone without her daughter. If it turned out that her and her daughter had been spending all that time together and really bonding and whatnot, my perspective would be different
/r/MensRights25/07/24 05:37 PM
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I'm not even mad at you for your response . I can totally see where you're coming from . If it was $5mo, I would understand. I think most people would . It's $40. And without that paid membership, many of your chats get deleted after a certain time or a certain number of messages, so you'll be in a conversation and not even be able to go back and see what was said. They limit the amount of people you can see on the grid. They put bots on. They block you from seeing people's nudes . They're scamm…
/r/MensRights25/07/24 03:40 PM
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Childless and unmarried? Because if they are I'm going to be honest with you, you don't know the sadness that they experience at night when they're alone. If you live in some sort of community where everybody all lives together, that might be workable. But in the majority of American culture, not having kids or a partner is sad lonely and miserable
/r/MensRights25/07/24 02:52 PM
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We already know dying alone is miserable. She'd have to be a totally unique person to have it not be sad and lonely and miserable.
/r/MensRights25/07/24 02:45 PM
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No no she did not. She died sad and lonely and miserable. She did have a daughter but not a big family to love an honor her for the great woman that she was. No real Legacy beyond what she was able to accomplish herself. Everything that she was died with her because of that hubris. She robbed the world of getting to experience that soul one more time.
/r/MensRights25/07/24 02:36 PM
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There is a deep lack of humility in women. I've been studying this particular refusal to admit regret for a long time. The one that really strikes me is Eartha Kitt. Because you can watch the interviews towards the end of her life and while she's putting on a good show, she just seems deeply sad and lonely. I do not know why women refuse to admit that they need love and family. They watched for a century as men made that mistake, then turned around and did the exact same
/r/MensRights25/07/24 02:09 PM
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Grindr, without payment is basically unusable today. It did start as a very powerful utility for gay men to connect with one another. And at its core it is still that. But there are so many ads, so many obstacles to talking to people. They don't allow you to set preferences that you pretty obviously should be able to set like picking a specific sex that you're interested in. Because there are horny gay and bisexual men on this app, anyone who would be picked by them goes to Grindr, including wom…
/r/MensRights25/07/24 02:06 PM
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Him saying this is absolutely absurd. Because as a gay man, he certainly does not support our desires with his app. He is full of shit
/r/MensRights25/07/24 01:37 PM
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I agree with most of your points. But I did want to pull out this one section for my own sanity. there is this sexual orientation called demisexuality, I know it sounds weird guys, but stay with me here for the example. It's basically a sexual orientation where people only feel sexual attraction once they form emotional bonds with other people. Demisexuality is not a sexuality. I say that as a sexual psychologist, because this concept has driven me crazy for over a decade. There are only three s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/24 01:31 PM
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We come here to offer opinions to people who asked for it. If I want people's opinions on my thoughts or situation, I will make my own post and ask for that. We have an upvote and downvote button for opinions like yours. You do not need to comment when you disagree. You choosing to do that is a purposeful action meant to harass me out of my opinions. I don't need to have a conversation with you about that because I didn't ask.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/24 12:58 PM
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I understand where you are coming from as an American liberal who got my morals before it was Chic to be Progressive morally. In that, my main moral compass is Dignity of choice. I'm not really for or against anything in particular. I'm more in support of whatever we have to do to get people to make decisions for themselves, because I believe that will make people the happiest. On the left side we do not actually want people to make good decisions for themselves. We work very hard to make sure t…
/r/MensRights25/07/24 06:17 AM
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You're actually not allowed to criticize my comment because I didn't ask you for that. Op came here asking to be criticized. I made a comment in response to that. Everything that you have said that's against what I have said is just fighting and trolling and harassment. Because I didn't come here for a conversation with you I spoke to Op directly and that is it.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/24 04:34 AM
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You should feel vindicated. The audacity to tell me how I should feel. Being on the liberal side really pisses me off sometimes. I'm still not abandoning ship and I never will out of pure spite. But every day I become more and more embarrassed to side with you guys. We're supposed to be liberals and yet we are conservative as fuck. We literally don't allow anyone to have a diverse opinion of thought and it is going to kill us.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/24 03:31 AM
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Have you ever thought about just shutting up and letting people have multiple opinions at the same time, even ones that you disagree with? I never and I mean never participate in this harassing dog piling behavior. And yet every time I get on this app someone or multiple people feels the need to behave in this self-righteous holier than thou way to make sure that I know they think I'm wrong. But apparently you guys are the one with the moral High Ground despite the fact that you don't let people…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/07/24 03:23 AM
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We do not have the exact same issues. That's your ideological beliefs making you say that when separate can never be equal. We share similar issues. But inherited issues are never the same as ones you're born into. Even having 12 years of female socialization changes how he perceives the world. Because tbh me being a boy became an issue around 4yo. So lacking that time as a boy does make his perspective less mature. You're so blinded by ideology that you're looking for a reason for me to not be …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/24 08:46 PM
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I've seen plenty of cis men make posts like this pointing out how hard it is to be male, and your response to them isn't "yeah we know, you don't need to tell us," so why respond to him that way? You're asking me to answer for theoretical posts that I did not participate in. But I'm the one that sounds bitter. I think you need to really read both of our comments again and figure out what sort of descriptors fit more accurately.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/24 07:49 PM
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Rest assured I believe you. Unlike a lot of people on the liberal side, I don't know hate people who say things differently. I just like to give perspective on how it seems sometimes.❤️
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/24 06:46 PM
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You are fighting, because we agree. Why does it matter that my logic is different?
/r/MensRights24/07/24 05:11 PM
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You're fighting with the wind. We already agree. You don't like how I focus on it. You need to learn how to be a better compatriot so that we can actually move forward. In fighting is one of the main reasons we've made no progress in the last 50 years.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 04:55 PM
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I said the entirety of my argument. And I was very specific that the point that we don't know how long people will live is important to why I made that decision.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 04:45 PM
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I'm not infringing your rights here or saying you didn't note that. I'm not trying to fight with you. But what I'm trying to get a cross is that your comment just simply wasn't necessary at all. Any level of harshness is usually described as too harsh. If you want it to let them know how it came across to you, it could have been in its own top comment thread. But you actively chose to push back against how I chose to present my information. So while you may say that you're not doing anything but…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/24 04:43 PM
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Would you agree that this is also stupid? Yes
/r/MensRights24/07/24 04:38 PM
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People have the right to express themselves how they choose to, even if you don't like it. I'm not even bothered that you responded or how you responded. I was just pointing out that I did, in fact, note it would sound harsh without your input.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/24 04:20 PM
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"this will sound harsh because I like to cut to the chase"
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/24 04:14 PM
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I don't feel hurt and alone. Get past my bluntness and understand that we agree already.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/24 04:13 PM
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Yeah like I said logically I understand. But in context it feels different. And I was pretty certain from how you expressed yourself that you did not mean it in the less generous understanding. I only included that understanding so you would see how other people would perceive it. You may not realize this but most people live in a heavy feminist bubble. If you are in the North or are in a liberal family, it's likely that you actually grew up in a matriarchy. This is why many men have pushed back…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/24 04:12 PM
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This will sound harsh because I like to cut to the chase. No I'm not giving you tough love or anything. I'm just being honest. I appreciate your perspective. What you need to do with this perspective is go talk to other trans people and women. We already know everything you're saying. So you telling us is not making much of a change in the world. For those who will be less generous , Essentially what you said is "hey guys I thought you guys were Liars but now I see it. I literally could not empa…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/07/24 03:23 PM
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The average life expectancy does not actually work out on an individual to individual basis. If we actually wanted equality, we would have to make sure that everyone got the same amount of retirement. That means we would have to know when people were going to die. Since that's not possible we set an endpoint for our working life. Men can choose to take care of themselves better and live longer. They are not doomed too early death 100%. Your argument does not make logical sense or practical sense…
/r/MensRights24/07/24 01:23 PM
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This is a stupid argument. We have no idea when each individual person is going to die. If we did then we would just limit everyone's retirement until they had a very specific amount of retirement time. And then over the years that retirement time with shrink and shrink and shrink. You do not want to go down this route just because you're mad at women.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 12:39 PM
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Yeah that's a good price actually. 240 would be more expected as a cash price. But for a insurance payment it can be like $600 up to a thousand if not more with a deductible of still like $100. Part of the reason for that is therapists are essentially doctors. They've had to do quite a lot of schooling. They also usually have to pay for things like rent. And often the cost of the session does include some padding for patients who don't pay, insurance companies that delay, things like that.
/r/MensRights24/07/24 03:35 AM
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As a sexual psychologist, I actually agree with you. The reason I chose not to go into therapy or become a psychiatrist, was because I saw what you are noting here. Psychology works to help you understand how things work and that's really it. What I do professionally is primarily just answer people's questions and help them get what they want out of life. I don't deal with like any mental illnesses or anything like that Beyond basic living well. These things require very specific training and I …
/r/MensRights24/07/24 03:30 AM
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I'm not trying to convince him. He has an agenda.
/r/MensRights23/07/24 01:18 PM
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I own.
/r/MensRights22/07/24 01:17 PM
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I think I should say what I want to say. You're not paying me.
/r/MensRights22/07/24 01:12 PM
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I just dumped tons of studies on you This is why. You're trying to bombard me with information. I gave you my analysis. You want me to shut up. It's pretty simple.
/r/MensRights22/07/24 01:11 PM
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Sure. I'm not interested in fighting with people who clearly have an agenda they want to promote. You have a message you want to get across. I'm not going to stop you. Have fun.
/r/MensRights22/07/24 01:10 PM
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Again. You don't want to understand or be understood.
/r/MensRights22/07/24 01:02 PM
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I'm not going to explain to you why I think the way I think. I don't think you're interested in understanding it anyway. I gave you my analysis and that was the end of it. Enjoy it or don't.
/r/MensRights22/07/24 12:57 PM
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This is what is really so dangerous about these spaces. They are the only place where men can go to find support. But they're also so close to further radicalization. It's truly messed up.
/r/MensRights22/07/24 12:27 PM
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I think we shouldn't waste our time focusing on trending movements. We have real deep issues that we need to work on. And getting distracted by things like this doesn't benefit us
/r/MensRights22/07/24 12:20 PM
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Sexual psychologist here. I'm going to give you my analysis. It is likely going to sound harsh because that is how I talk. Regardless it is meant with my brand of compassion. My main job is understanding and explaining to help people get the what they want. Women & men ACTUALLY share nearly identical sex drives, This is not actually true. If it were true lesbian dead bedrooms would not be so common. Women during their fertile years are more horny around ovulation. And many women experience almos…
/r/MensRights22/07/24 12:17 PM
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In the black nationalists and many black separationist movements. Yes. That's the most extreme version of our common beliefs.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/24 10:35 PM
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Do not try to make change in Liberal spaces. Liberal spaces are governed by women wants needs and desires. For as much as they scream about patriarchy liberal spaces are full matriarchal and it's really sad. I say this as a black man who grew up in the black Christian nationalist Church which is also a matriarchy. We worshiped the black Madonna and not Jesus. Meaning we worship the mother that made the Christ and not the Christ himself. I'm an atheist now so I'm saying this just as a factual rep…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/07/24 07:17 PM
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The response to this is not facts. Anybody talking like this is victim blaming. It's essentially like asking well what was she wearing or why didn't she go to the police earlier. They know that this behavior is bad. They think we deserve pain and suffering. How I handle this is simply by saying "it's okay for you to say you don't care about this. It's okay to say you don't actually know about what's going on in men's issues because you focus on what's going on with women's issues. It's not okay …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/07/24 04:22 PM
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It's tone policing ie focusing on the delivery VS message but only if you disagree or don't like the person talking. I went the intellectual route. I'm a sexual psychologist, one of about 1k on the continent. Yet random women regularly talk down to men, like they complain about men doing to them. I gave up trying to be nice because truthfully I wasn't be authentic. I was doing what I thought would win me friends. Yet, they still mostly all became man haters to my face. It was clear they only lik…
/r/MensRights19/07/24 12:42 AM
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Was I talking to an illiterate clown?
/r/MensRights18/07/24 05:54 PM
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Nah, I wouldn't stress that. These people hate us. It's not logical. It does make us look better in some ways. But being authentic will get us further. You can't deny authenticity forever
/r/MensRights18/07/24 05:33 PM
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/r/MensRights13/07/24 02:57 AM
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Especially since he likely made multiple fake accounts to comment in support. Read through the comments, they sound like him. He also never provided the arrest records or any proof. He did that ish 100%. Making us look bad. But us calling him out shows we're not about hate.
/r/MensRights11/07/24 02:04 AM
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The public records of your arrest.
/r/MensRights09/07/24 04:59 AM
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The more you talk the more convinced I am of your guilt. And I'm a 36yo black man. Unless you offer the public records, I'm gonna have to call this one rage bait.
/r/MensRights09/07/24 04:56 AM
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Best bars for nightlife 16 days ago Is it true lawyers have an obligation to tell the da of your did a crime 4mo ago Yeah that was the exact concerns I had.
/r/MensRights09/07/24 04:52 AM
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Yes actually mug shout and arrest records would be perfect. I'd be happy to be wrong. Although not happy it actually happened.
/r/MensRights09/07/24 04:44 AM
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First, sorry that happened. It sounds harrowing and life destroying. But. I have concerns about the legitimacy of this story. It just reads like a written story and not a retelling of a experience. Can't put my finger on it but my intuition is screaming.
/r/MensRights09/07/24 04:42 AM
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