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Definitely speak with legal - position himself to be as well protected in a divorce Connect him with therapist / support group - ideally ones that have focus on life post deployment. Firefighting from the standpoint of a team that has each others back and common goal doesn’t sound too bad. Avoid pregnancy (not much you can do here other than tell him to be careful and maybe talk him into a vasectomy). Pocket hidden cam - protects him from false accusations
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/22 05:02 AM
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Similar situation for me many years back now. A lot of the fear was of the unknown - my life just didn’t work without her (or so I thought). The things that saved me: (1)Focused on my health - started running and leaned how to enjoy it - read “Born to Run” by C McDougall seriously inspiring (2) Ton of therapy - cost a lot but was worth it. (3) Got connected spiritually So when I see / hear someone going through this - I say focus three pillars (physical, mental and spiritual health). Some are mo…
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/22 03:57 AM
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No worries about multiple replies - you’re processing a lot as it is. Glad to hear you have equal claim to the house IN WHICH CASE there’s no reason you should fear being “kicked out”. You should however fear the antics of someone that feels they have no accountability and no respect for you. I would have a low threshold for audio (video if you can) recording all future interactions.
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/22 04:58 AM
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Lot to unpack here. Some thoughts: (1) You need to know your rights. What this means is you need to speak with a lawyer and ask all your questions - what claim do you have to the homes? What’s in the prenup? Is it enforceable ? Who’s on the hook for alimony? (2) No mention about children together - this is good if so - allows an easier separation (3) Loss of attraction - this happened because something changed. What was it? Not her - it was YOU that changed. She was attracted to the you that she…
/r/Divorce_Men06/10/22 04:19 AM
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Yes. Honestly I think it’s a form of PTSD - known to affect long-term cognitive ability.
/r/Divorce_Men04/10/22 04:37 PM
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I was in a very similar situation and know exactly the rage and pervasive thoughts of ruining their lives as much as they had ruined mine. It was to the extent That I was looking at “code of conduct” violations hoping I could get the AP fired / ruin livelihood etc. In the end - I didn’t do any of it. I did however - rack up a pretty good therapy bill (worth every penny), lost 15 lbs and gained it back in muscle, started paying attention on my finances /investing and now on track for what I hope …
/r/Divorce_Men23/08/22 12:12 AM
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Hopefully the assault was witnessed - otherwise it’s just your word against hers. And with time - this event either never happened or was clearly “your fault”, or even worse you were the one that assaulted her Find a way to record a conversation or text messages to “talk about what happened” and that you don’t feel that she should be hitting you during an argument. You don’t ever need to let the recording see light of day - but if you ever need to - you’ll be so glad you did.
/r/Divorce_Men15/08/22 11:54 PM
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I totally understand you wanting to maintain good ties especially with a child that you share. Your lawyer has likely seen too many instances of bad outcomes despite both parties starting out with the best of intentions. I would use the lawyer (or a second one) to explore the “what if’s”… if not enforceable at least you know what you’re getting into.
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/21 06:38 PM
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Agree - the point is OP - you need to understand what you are entitled to under the law. Regardless of how much each party “contributed” to a jointly purchased home - you have equal rights to ownership. Speak with an attorney. You are giving up not just home equity, but also a place to live, ALSO any future appreciation of the home. You are paying more in school costs. You are paying child support: What if the plan is to send your child to a $$$ private school you don’t agree with? What if your …
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/21 04:26 PM
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I wouldn’t engage in the discussion. You live your life the way you want to. Otherwise if you are having an existential crisis about the title statement - look at it from a species view. While yes as a species our goal is to propagate, it’s not as if individual members who are past child bearing years or who are otherwise sterile are unable to live fulfilling lives or be contributing members to society.
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 06:14 AM
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You got two options: (1)To keep attraction: tell her the truth that you need your own space and you want her to move out (2)To have her break up with you and move out on her own: start cooking / cleaning, ask her to marry you and cry no matter the answer Both have the potential to backfire - but you’ll be happier faster with (1).
/r/MGTOW227/02/21 09:20 PM
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Don’t be afraid to ask for help. And be proactive about self improvement. CBT is cognitive behavioral therapy - I had no idea either so I googled it. Start exercising. Best upper body exercise are pull ups / chin ups. You can get equipment that lets you do this at home. Best lower body exercises are squats. Get kettlebells - start with a 25 lb and learn how to use that and heavier ones for other home workouts.
/r/MGTOW210/04/20 04:27 AM
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This is why red pill awareness for men - whether it’s a prelude to MGTOW or just redpill is so essential. It’s not just about reaching out for help when you feel suicidal - it’s also about not being vulnerable to the person you believe is your “soulmate” when they’re actively whispering poison into your ear.
/r/MGTOW29/10/19 04:02 AM
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Her comments sounds like she’s been westernized. Your attitude in response to her criticism that you “just want her to do as you say” should be OF COURSE that’s what you want. It’s thrown around a lot - but doesn’t make it less true. You are the f*ing prize. Start believing it,
/r/askTRP25/09/19 07:06 AM
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https://www.autoblow.com
/r/askTRP20/09/19 04:15 AM
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Some girls go crazy even without getting to the pump.
/r/MGTOW18/09/19 05:56 AM
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If he’s red pill - he’ll thank you. Eventually. If not, it’s a good wake up call.
/r/askTRP17/09/19 06:26 AM
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Agree - just like trying to lead any good buddies to the red pill - they just aren’t ready to see it. The only thing I can think of is throw your sister into this mess - if she starts (correctly) thinking that another woman will limit her resources that would at least give your dad pause or be open to putting a assets into a trust.
/r/MGTOW17/09/19 02:23 AM
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Sent you a message - based on the timing I don’t think it’s yours.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:59 PM
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Yes. Probably patting themselves on the back for creating something brave and new.
/r/MGTOW10/09/19 01:27 PM
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Only made the change because I started respecting myself more - meaning I put deliberate though into what I would / would not eat - exercise, how I spent my time (playing video games vs self improvement reading, cutting out toxic relationships)
/r/MGTOW07/09/19 03:21 PM
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I totally misread this as a mini-orgy of 4 orifices, Back on topic - if porn is bad for men - there are more ways easy access to sex for females warps their brain.
/r/MGTOW07/09/19 07:25 AM
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It’s difficult once your eyes have been opened to NOT get annoyed by blue pill friends. I struggle between wanting to help vs spending way less time with them.
/r/MGTOW04/09/19 03:52 AM
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It’s like wanting to eat another donut when you’re a diabetic - and then initiating a purge (vomiting) so that the calories don’t take. More explicitly : Breeding with the alpha male is the “lizard brain” always lurking and guiding behaviour. Emergency contraception is the higher level brain function influenced by social dynamics (shame of being caught) although even here lizard brain still wins out.
/r/MGTOW19/08/19 05:58 AM
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Saw this before. First time I saw it - took a moment to see the skull. Just now - now I first see skull - and it takes me a good hard squint to see anything else.
/r/MGTOW10/08/19 10:30 PM
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And don’t cave to pressure to “do the right thing” and marry. Because then in the eyes of the law you ARE the father regardless of what any subsequent confession or DNA test would say to the contrary.
/r/MGTOW06/08/19 02:28 AM
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All good man - part of MGTOW is solidifying how we manage money / investments. The best thing to do is read up on this and become as knowledgeable as you can - talk with accountants to fill in the details - and don’t make spur of the moment decisions. Here’s a link to get you started. backdoor Roth Since you just started the IRA it sounds like now would be ideal to convert - again though read up on this and be your own expert before you pull the trigger. One thing I didn’t mention - funds that s…
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 03:28 PM
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You can do a backdoor Roth to bypass income limits on a Roth contribution - basically making a usual annual contribution to an IRA then converting it to a Roth for that year. The only issue is that if you have a sizable amount in a traditional IRA - this will proportionally negatively impact the tax free part of the Roth when you finally retire. You CAN address a sizable IRA by doing a mass conversion to Roth - this would trigger however taxes on the amount you are converting. May be worthwhile …
/r/MGTOW05/08/19 03:18 AM
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In this case - she tried to destroy 12 men’s lives. Unbelievable.
/r/MGTOW28/07/19 07:18 PM
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Just suddenly connected a bit of lore to Paternity Fraud. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Changeling
/r/MensRights18/06/19 06:10 AM
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Best time to identify as female.
/r/MGTOW04/06/19 06:24 PM
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Fair point. Still - My feet don’t require more than shoes yet I still drive a car.
/r/MGTOW18/05/19 09:23 PM
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I think it’s harder for men in healthcare because (by nature of the profession) your temperament and how others treat you is geared towards being the beta provider and exhibiting beta personality. Nevertheless - where you are is where many of us have been before - moving on from your oneitis even when you KNOW it’s the right thing is damn hard. Focus on yourself - sounds like you got the career path planned out. Work on other parts too: (1) Mental - try meditation (suggest the head space app for…
/r/askTRP06/01/19 08:39 PM
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However / whenever you break up - Stay strong - your SMV in medicine will skyrocket as you get through training and become a full fledged physician. Besides you will have your hands full with your upcoming post medical school career.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 07:55 PM
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No chain of custody. This means she could have submitted samples from other people who really were father / child and then post this.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/19 12:43 AM
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If she’s already pregnant (or getting pregnant from someone else who’s not as careful) then no condom will save you from being told some months later you’re a baby daddy. Unfortunately my best recommendation is you freeze your sperm at a local sperm bank, get a vasectomy and circle back to the single mom (and the many others) when you know you’re in the clear.
/r/askTRP30/12/18 07:08 PM
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Don’t go for drinks. The last thing you should do is go somewhere that makes you vulnerable to false accusations. Having to find a different job is a pain. Having to defend yourself against false accusations is hell.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 07:05 PM
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You ever try Headspace? Meditation app. May help.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 01:58 AM
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Save a back up of the conversation. In case your phone is lost / misplaced this is your only defence against future false claims.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:55 AM
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Diet is a key part. Look into one meal day.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 04:48 AM
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Not sure what you are asking. If you are asking how to get back together - It’s the wrong question. What you should be asking is what do you need to do to focus on YOU - whether that means making sure you stay in medical school (or pursue the career of your choice) General mental / physical / spiritual health.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 09:29 PM
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For me it was self guided meditation - apps like Headspace. Have a concerning thought / emotion —> helps train you to acknowledge it and then let it go.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 10:22 PM
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Flip the genders and this is sexual harassment.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 06:13 AM
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You did well with the initial plan “meet at a pool” then from there it was downhill where every suggestion she made you went along with. Next time remember you are the prize / abundance mentality - you’re suggesting going to the pool because it’s damn hot and YOU want to cool off. She can’t make it - her loss.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 07:25 PM
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Agree - first doubling times are critical and better the younger you start. The key point (as pointed out above) is this needs to be EARNED income - ie from a paycheck.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 07:20 PM
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As you are sensing - sounds like she has lost her attraction for you. At this point there will be anything that will be used as a reason for breaking up. Focus on her actions not her words. Best advice is to move on. Stop making anyone other than yourself the prize.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 10:14 PM
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Try cold showers. Add zinc and vitamin D as supplements.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 08:28 AM
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Agree with others - (1) avoid porn (2) no fap (3) use a guided meditation app (headspace or aware) is actually quite good for this sort of thing
/r/askTRP09/04/18 01:22 AM
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Take ownership of your action and thoughts. When you say “wife made the decision” for this or anything - you’re actively being a doormat which no one can respect. Was in a similar situation years ago. I understand that you love your wife. Yet - when someone treats you poorly this is not the right person to have oneitis for.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 07:44 PM
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Gave an ex money to fly to see me (from overseas). She put it into a long term CD at a bank and then refused to use it get a ticket because it would engender an early withdrawal penalty. Best part was that she then got angry at me because evidently I was all about money and of course the only way to prove I wasn’t was to give more. Fuck was I stupid.
/r/MGTOW01/04/18 12:12 AM
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Look at intermittent fasting (IF). I tried running which worked for a little while until my gout kicked in. Now I maintain by IF and body weight exercises at home (pull up bar) and mildly weighted squats. Squats might not work with your knee - but I’m definitely looking way better now than when I was running.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/18 04:56 AM
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The child will have citizenship but not the mom. She’ll have to abide by the terms of her travel visa which for Japan is pretty forgiving.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:27 AM
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Never too late. Cost of retirement is also dependent on where you live. Don’t forget that investing for the future involves your health. Some things you f* up is hard to ever get back.
/r/MGTOW24/03/18 07:26 AM
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I don’t know how to advise you on this. I was thinking though - what would the blue pill fantasy be? That somehow is easier to answer and it’s where due to your love for each other you stand up and fight for “your woman” no matter the circumstance and White Knight your way into her heart and top of said Mafia. So - trp answer is f* that. Move on.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 03:27 AM
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Herbivore men
/r/askTRP22/03/18 01:21 AM
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Because somehow the WAY you told her /delivery / body language you lost your frame. Saying “I like you” and (naturally) wanting to hear it back means there is a vulnerability. If she wanted that she’d have replied differently. Saying “I like you” and be of the mindset that her response doesn’t matter - because no matter the response the most important thing in your life is you. You are on a constant Mission to improve yourself mentally, physically and spiritually, You allow her into your life to…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 12:21 PM
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Documentary “the red pill” https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Red_Pill
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:07 AM
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As one of the other poster implies - you can’t do anything to stop her from going. The only thing that would is to be so alpha she wouldn’t dream of it in the first place. Learn from it and move on. Be ready for criticisms about “insecurity”. Be strong in your mind that you’re not wanting to be in a relationship when you’re not the priority.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:59 AM
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No. Her inner hamster will lead to one of two outcomes: she cheats on you again and/or she feels she is being “forced” into a sexual relationship with you - she ends up with a “metoo” badge courtesy of YOU. That my friend you do not need. Either way she will feel completely justified in her action and society will likely support her narrative. Go plate someone else.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 07:42 AM
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Her reaction including panic attack are due to her worrying about whatever it is you have on her. Best thing to do is hard next. If you keep her in your life she’ll be looking to get equal dirt on you.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 08:11 PM
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