NotUrmillenial Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	Coincidence that Ex contacted me the same day after over a year? Either way, how vulnerable are AppleIDs/iCloud accounts 😳	SEEKING ADVICE	NotUrmillenial	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/20 06:23 PM
10	Future doctors lack empathy and mock our fears	MALE DEPRAVITY	NotUrmillenial	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/20 06:28 AM
1	Time to block and delete... OLD strikes again	#JustLVMThings	NotUrmillenial	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 07:49 AM
0	Why do we bother with OLD...	#JustLVMThings	NotUrmillenial	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 07:51 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
-1	Why do we bother with OLD... No I think there’s a way to teach without “being a bit brushed off” but hey go ahead and gaslight me, ya know, for my self esteem...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 09:51 AM
-2	Why do we bother with OLD... Thanks hun, I posted this in a weak moment of self doubt. I didn’t need your attitude though.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 08:21 AM
2	Why do we bother with OLD... Thank you, was doubting myself there for a bit. He’s blocked now	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/10/20 08:20 AM
5	Idk if this is a joke or not but regardless it’s disgusting. You named it perfectly, that’s definitely what it is! And on the rare chance a guy calls him out on this, then he’s a “simp” apparently. I swear I’m going to “die alone” and I’m fine with it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/10/20 05:57 AM
203	Apparently I wasn't actually having fun because I didn't drink. “Ethanol (aka alcohol)” - a mentally challenged iNtElLeCtUaL	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/20 11:53 AM
41	I just ordered her book, ngl. Pre-ordered on Amazon	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/10/20 07:51 AM
-1	This woman posted about her ex threatening/stalking her, contacting her family, breaking into her house, etc., this smooth brained waste of oxygen decides to bring up the fact that “men can’t be violated when girls go through their phone” and some stupid pick-me agreeing with him. Seems like overkill, but live your truth I guess	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 05:10 PM
0	This woman posted about her ex threatening/stalking her, contacting her family, breaking into her house, etc., this smooth brained waste of oxygen decides to bring up the fact that “men can’t be violated when girls go through their phone” and some stupid pick-me agreeing with him. What do you get out of this site? It’s mostly women talking about dating men?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 01:44 AM
7	This woman posted about her ex threatening/stalking her, contacting her family, breaking into her house, etc., this smooth brained waste of oxygen decides to bring up the fact that “men can’t be violated when girls go through their phone” and some stupid pick-me agreeing with him. Really? I don’t think this is the sub for you	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/10/20 12:04 AM
5	Scrote cant stand that his plan to embarrass gf on social media has made her successful What a sad Weirdo. Why doesn’t he break up with her if he dislikes her this much???	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/10/20 07:36 AM
13	So many things wrong with this 🤦‍♀️ This. Is. Abuse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/10/20 06:14 AM
14	Another reason to ditch OLD: Tinder refuses to remove literal rapists from their app, high percentage of female users sexually assaulted If you don’t want to be judgmental don’t fucking comment judgmental shit. Are you a mental health professional? No? Then shut up about other people’s psyches. FDS is not a place for your victim blaming BS	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/10/20 05:26 AM
3	Have I gone too far? Finally, an accurate vid male tinder bio!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/10/20 01:37 PM
6	How we handle LVM Lol or I could ask my gyno not to trim the IUD string so he can just get stabbed in the...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/10/20 12:28 PM
17	How we handle LVM I’ve heard from men they literally don’t like it as much when we’re wet/ properly lubricated... “it’s not enough friction” uhh because they’re pornsick jerking off with a dry calloused hand for years! SO disturbing! This means they physically enjoy hurting us, and enthusiastic participation not as much.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/10/20 11:56 AM
96	Guy asks people with expensive car what they do for a living. Her response is 💯. I wish this for all the HV sisters here! This guy is such a loser. For all we know she’s a SAHM and losers just can’t understand that domestic labor is in fact very valuable even though it goes uncompensated so often in our society	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/10/20 12:06 AM
45	When guys post shit like this on their feed I just laugh. I just find it so cringey😆 Am I the only one who notices this influx of men comparing themselves to animals? This is so hilariously ironic 🤣🤣🤣 male medical students in my experience are often straight up dangers to public health and safety.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/10/20 04:20 PM
3	Male med student wants to be able to examine female patients against their will. LVM are everywhere. I bet you’re spot on. Medical students don’t really have time to date, (not that anyone would be able to tolerate this guy).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 06:12 AM
3	Male med student wants to be able to examine female patients against their will. LVM are everywhere. This is absolutely horrific!!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 01:24 AM
2	Male med student wants to be able to examine female patients against their will. LVM are everywhere. I’ve had a similar experience, unfortunately that doc is now retired. He was an anomaly for sure.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/20 01:11 AM
5	This was censored in r/Australia. Searchable database of Domestic Violence Records in Australia. Stay woke ladies 💫 It’s a joke hun. But also literal python snakes are a problem in Florida.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/20 06:21 AM
7	This was censored in r/Australia. Searchable database of Domestic Violence Records in Australia. Stay woke ladies 💫 Florida python population is concerning indeed	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/20 03:11 AM
45	This was censored in r/Australia. Searchable database of Domestic Violence Records in Australia. Stay woke ladies 💫 Please tell me the USA has something similar!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/10/20 02:38 AM
195	This is why the six month period before declaring someone a HVM is a MINIMUM. Strap in ladies, this is fun. I absolutely love how you handled this entire situation. Wish I had been that smart at 20! And wtf is with men thinking they can call us assholes while also begging for us to stay? Hilarious how unhealthy people sound in a conversation with a healthy person.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/10/20 03:49 AM
7	Why even swipe on me when he can obviously see what I look like! This is hilarious! He went out of his way to neg you & you beat him at his own game🤣 did he reply?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/20 07:25 PM
4	Why even swipe on me when he can obviously see what I look like! You missed the point	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/20 07:24 PM
2	Ugh. 30, the new 15. My response to him would be “then go fuck yourself” 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/20 04:44 PM
2	Ugh. 30, the new 15. Hahahaha 🤣	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/20 04:43 PM
25	Real Classy “I miss the days when men went to war and died”	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/20 02:06 AM
2	What would I cook? I feel ya, I’ve gone through similar phases. And good luck with the roaches, takes so long to get rid of bug infestations 😫	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/09/20 04:17 AM
48	I’m (19f) pregnant due to my lvm bf (20m) his reaction to finding out was so upsetting Yes! 100% he’s being emotionally manipulative and will do a 180 depending on when he is or isn’t getting what he wants	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 10:05 AM
3	Men on OLD that lie about wanting a relationship. My profile says "casual" and my pic is of a drunk passed out woman. He says he “Only has weekends off” ummm that’s more freetime than a lot of us have	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/09/20 09:32 AM
5	I got this attached to my tips from one of my coworkers. (It normally just has date/my name) When I was a teen working at various restaurants... ugh it still traumatizes me to this day the sexual harassment and “ hostile workplace” situations that I had to put up with. And it seems very common in the industry.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/09/20 10:08 PM
1	Five types of man-centered friends So I’m #5 I have to enable my friends irresponsible drinking and babysit her/ go put her to bed for the night?! But then “abandoning” her for a guy also sounds bad. Feels like I can’t win.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/09/20 11:39 PM
33	'THIS IS PARIS' Paris Hilton documentary on YouTube...shows how she was manipulated and pressured into filming sex by an older man at 18 I think being a survivor of abuse and not letting it ruin your life is some pretty talented shit	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/09/20 07:23 AM
14	Notice how he’s always gaming. Let’s pray for her. Haven’t slipped up since	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/09/20 12:37 AM
133	Notice how he’s always gaming. Let’s pray for her. This is so degrading. :( I was this girl at one point. I’d feel depressed & empty not knowing why.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/09/20 07:01 PM
17	Glamour serving up some good content! That’s was actually a great read! Not the glamour content & tone I remember reading as a teen almost a decade ago	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/09/20 09:55 PM
32	OnlyFans is sex work and pornography — stop calling it ‘empowering’ I read an article and I believe it said she was sexually abused, in addition to having exploitative parents. No one should have anything but sympathy for her at this point. People do stupid shit because of past trauma.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/09/20 09:50 AM
2	Always Beautiful Wait why was she in a local news article??? 😳	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/09/20 02:49 PM
2	I have chronic trust issues. I feel like trusting others is stupid and that it's no one's fault but your own when you get lied to or deceived. By trusting, you train your SO that he can lie to you, and you'll always silence your inner voice to believe him I 100% agree with you but I’m also lonely now as a result :/	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/09/20 10:41 PM
8	Free or low cost birth control with no Doctor visit. I’m not sure how well known this service is, but maybe it can help some Queens out there Not in TX :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/20 09:15 PM
10	If you suspect a man got a vasectomy but is lying that he didn't, what are phrases or ways he will lie about it/divert the topic to hide it? Suspect that someone I know is in this position. Wow men are so awful	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/20 02:08 AM
16	If you suspect a man got a vasectomy but is lying that he didn't, what are phrases or ways he will lie about it/divert the topic to hide it? Suspect that someone I know is in this position. Wait, why would a man lie about getting one? 😬	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/09/20 01:51 AM
19	Guys who swear a lot seem low value to me I curse often too. Prudish men and women have told me it’s unladylike and unattractive. Jokes on them cause I found every single one of those people to be painfully ordinary and simple minded.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/09/20 04:15 AM
6	I feel insecure Also a 5’11” gal, I understand growing up with the height shaming. I never had clothes that fit my legs either, my baggy poor-fitting outfits so didn’t help me not get bullied. As an adult working in corporate America now, I feel like height does help me come off as less “cute” and therefore a little more respected by some of the close minded folks (old men). 100% agree with what everyone already said about short insecure LVM being rude and weeding themselves out for us. Saves us time!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/20 07:10 AM
99	(TW) Men have no empathy. And there are a lot of comments siding with the boyfriend. I wish I was gay when I read things like this. Men invented evil.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/09/20 09:29 AM
14	I liked you better when you were miserable I feel that. It has literally taken over 2 years and I’m currently single.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 02:47 AM
89	I liked you better when you were miserable I take pride in the fact I’m difficult for abusive/toxic people to love.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/09/20 01:49 AM
3	The Sad Tale of The Girl With No Will-Power: A Warning For Younger Girls And Women The other comments here need to wake up. Reality is harsh. This past friendship and this girl’s story is very relatable to me. People from my high school that bullied me, spread rumors about me, and generally saw me as beneath them now call me stuck up for not giving them the time of day. I had a best friend very similar to this that I eventually just ghosted. And I do not care if people think ghosting is immature. I don’t think some people deserve respect after denying you respect repeatedly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 02:25 AM
120	Am I just a bitch? The amount of times he mentioned my school drive me bananas. I think I may just suck at this online dating thing. He’s insecure and angry at you for being a happy & content person	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/08/20 02:10 AM
13	Even the posts on Reddit decrying rapists are full of not all men, women rape too, and what about false accusations comments 😤🙌🏻	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/20 07:24 PM
63	Girlfriend pranks boyfriend by leaving porn open on his laptop, while knowing he also watches porn. The way he reacts shows that men know how that it’s wrong to be placed in second place sexually. Please leave him and go live a happy life. He’s a hypocritical child. I think you saved yourself a lot of time with that prank!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/20 07:20 PM
25	The Real Reason He Should Pay for Dates BEST EXPLANATION I’VE SEEN	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/08/20 05:32 PM
2	Coincidence that Ex contacted me the same day after over a year? Either way, how vulnerable are AppleIDs/iCloud accounts 😳 We broke up over 2 years ago, for good has been out of my life since last summer.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/20 04:59 AM
4	Coincidence that Ex contacted me the same day after over a year? Either way, how vulnerable are AppleIDs/iCloud accounts 😳 Lol he’s in medical school. (Yes depraved men make it into med school sometimes 😳) You’d think he’d have better things to do with the education schedule. He’s pretty high on the narcissist spectrum & can’t stand being lonely. Addicted to validation	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/20 04:57 AM
9	Coincidence that Ex contacted me the same day after over a year? Either way, how vulnerable are AppleIDs/iCloud accounts 😳 SAME. But knowing him he must be absolutely miserable and lonely to find messing with me entertaining.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/20 01:48 AM
6	Coincidence that Ex contacted me the same day after over a year? Either way, how vulnerable are AppleIDs/iCloud accounts 😳 Good idea, forgot about the passcode. Well I only have an iPhone, but I had my Apple ID account open on my windows laptop and it looks like no one but me has access now at least. They had a few hours to read my iMessages if they wanted to I guess.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/08/20 01:44 AM
10	Coincidence that Ex contacted me the same day after over a year? Either way, how vulnerable are AppleIDs/iCloud accounts 😳 Someone hacked into my AppleID in the morning a few days ago. The next notification said this user had accessed my iMessage on their device! I quickly removed this random iphone6 user, spent an hour at least changing all my passwords/AppleID/security questions. Apple support offered no further help from there. That night, my abusive ex LVM sent me a rude/odd message, that I of course ignored. We haven’t spoken in over a year, I forgot to re-block him last time we talked I guess. TL;DR: could my …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/08/20 06:24 PM
12	My sister just got this exciting dude, he asked her on a date and then decided to switch up on her??? Thank you for not covering this loser’s name! Might save a woman from assault or death, at the very least, possibly saves other women from wasted time.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/08/20 08:27 AM
1	Getchu a man who screenshots your convos and makes fun of you to gain fake popularity points from strangers! LVM mocks “gf” who definitely exists 🙄 I actually once thought several meant 7 too... I have a masters degree and work in a very stable line of work	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/08/20 08:12 AM