NotZormut Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
19	How to react when she brings up sexual topics?		NotZormut	/r/seduction	28/08/18 07:54 PM
10	How to say goodbye after a date?		NotZormut	/r/seduction	19/05/18 01:06 PM

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1	How to react when she brings up sexual topics? Here is another one that happened just today: She said she hates smalltalk, so I challenge her by saying "then let's skip smalltalk and tell me something you normally wouldn't tell someone you just met". She laughs and says all kinds of things come to her head. Then she gives two rather boring ones before saying this: "I went to a summer festival recently and there was a bondage workshop, so I got myself tied up". I tried to stick the conversation to the topic by asking her how she was tied. The…	/r/seduction	25/09/18 08:33 PM
1	How to react when she brings up sexual topics? In all cases it fitted very naturally in the conversation. For example, when she mentioned the wet dream with her BFF, we were talking about weird dreams we've had. When she talked about being a nude model, we were talking about jobs we've had. She actually told stories about it, e.g., one time she was posing in the middle of a big fancy venue and some business men walked by and she was a little embarrassed. In such situations I am a bit overwhelmed and don't know how to react. What would have b…	/r/seduction	30/08/18 10:44 PM
1	How to react when she brings up sexual topics? Happened on an actual date while chatting about this and that. I get other signals, such as accidental touch, i.e., our arms frequently brushing against one another as we walk side by side. So I'm sure she's trying to give me a signal to escalate, but I simply don't know how to escalate on such topics.	/r/seduction	29/08/18 09:55 PM
1	How to react when she brings up sexual topics? offline, day game, in public, [don't know what the emotional tampon zone is, hehe], probably to get my approval, no sex with her yet	/r/seduction	29/08/18 09:52 PM
1	How to say goodbye after a date? First of all, thanks for the elaborate reply! "Hey you left your panties on my dining table" This is the kind of advice I was looking for. Thank you! Unfortunately, most dates don't end in sex so I will need something else. Moreover, if we had sex, she's usually hooked already. If it was an unsuccessful date but still fun, (i.e. we didn't even kiss but we both had fun) I find it funny that you define a failed date as one where we did not kiss. I totally agree, but I only figured this out lately.…	/r/seduction	19/05/18 06:49 PM
2	Asking a girl about what exactly went wrong and turned her off? I learnt that she found me really nice and that interacting with me was pleasant, even though I generally have the impression that I occasionally give off weird vibes, because I phrase things in a clumsy way. I know that it's not all good, I am a bit of a weirdo, but our conversation taught me that it is much less than I thought. I also learnt that many dates fail due to reasons that are beyond my control, and that I should not take it personally. She had just gone through a breakup and was subc…	/r/seduction	19/05/18 12:52 PM
2	Asking a girl about what exactly went wrong and turned her off? The second most frequent excuse I hear is: "I noticed that I am not over my ex-boyfriend yet and cannot open myself to someone new". If she talks about the breakup with her ex during your date, she WILL use this excuse. You can still try to persist and ask as a follow-up question: "Assuming we had first met a year from now and you were over your ex, would you then be more interested? If no, then what is it that would still make you lose interest?" I asked this question and unfortunately got anot…	/r/seduction	20/01/18 09:33 AM
7	Asking a girl about what exactly went wrong and turned her off? I’d be willing to answer this type of question if a guy said something like “No worries. That said, I’m trying to improve my dating game. I used almost exactly this phrase not long ago and I can confirm that this works. Be absolutely cool about her not having interest in you anymore and don't sound demanding/expectant. Two more pieces of advice: Use the text message only to arrange a phone call with her. Things are usually too complicated to explain via text, plus, this way she has to answer imm…	/r/seduction	18/01/18 08:22 PM
5	Asked her out, bombed and embarassed myself from nervousness, but she said yes. Typing the number into the search box out of nervousness could have been me. :D My favorite nervous mistake is forgetting the name 10 seconds after I have heard it. I wish you best of luck to get her number tomorrow! And congrats on approaching!	/r/seduction	31/10/17 10:59 PM
0	How can I pick up girls in a foreign country if I can’t speak their language fluently? Just speak English. Seriously. I was in Paris this summer and chatted up girls on the street that looked cute (and boy, there were many of them, because apparently it is currently fashionable to not wear bras - nipples everywhere). I had better success than I ever had in my home country (Germany). The French girls giggled, blushed, and were overall really flattered. I got a few rejections (mostly due to boyfriends), but all of them were really really kind, apart from one and I believe she was a …	/r/seduction	26/10/17 07:41 PM
1	Is cold approach a scam in 2017 it's such a huge fucking confidence boost for a woman to tell you she's flattered It feels so good to make a girl blush or giggle. I have the balls to approach women I find attractive I could not have summarized it better than with these three sentences. This is what I absolutely love about cold approach and why it is so much fun, even when nothing comes out of an approach. @crc254: I think Tom Torero's statistics apply to when you are aiming for hotter girls. If you approach girls in your leagu…	/r/seduction	23/07/17 02:17 PM
1	Approaching Girls & telling them they're cute - Trying to get a date - Newbie Pick Up Dear Alex, I just found your channel and wanted to let you know that what you're doing is highly appreciated. This is the first time I can truly relate to someone and that I get to see someone else going through the exact same struggle that I am. I absolutely love that you keep everything 100% honest and transparent and that you are documenting every step on your journey - the frequent rejections, your thoughts, emotions, ... This is so much better than all the other pickup channels that edit ou…	/r/seduction	02/07/17 08:22 PM