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ConversationNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction02/09/20 12:29 PM
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FundamentalsNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction13/09/20 07:17 PM
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ResourcesNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction26/10/20 12:25 PM
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ConversationNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction29/02/20 10:35 PM
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ConversationNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction13/09/20 10:28 AM
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ConversationNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction16/09/20 12:08 PM
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ConversationNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction11/10/20 10:35 PM
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ConversationNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction21/09/20 07:25 PM
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ConversationNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction13/03/20 10:13 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction09/09/20 02:39 PM
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ConversationNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction20/03/20 12:29 AM
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ConversationNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction27/02/20 02:53 PM
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ConversationNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction10/10/20 11:31 PM
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ConversationNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction27/11/20 07:00 PM
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ConversationNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction20/09/20 02:42 PM
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Field ReportNot_Okie_Dokie_/r/seduction24/09/20 08:52 PM
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Based on the replies i got, i really came off as haveing bad intentions. I want to tease her, keep her on her guard. I don't want to actually lower her self esteem.
/r/seduction28/11/20 12:28 AM
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Shit, never thought of that. Thanks.
/r/seduction26/10/20 05:10 PM
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Hmmm, i need to rethink.my joke then. Do you have any ideas ?
/r/seduction26/10/20 03:12 PM
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I don't actually mean it when i say those things, because this whole thing is a joke. Im pretending that it's a big deal and that I'm shy.
/r/seduction26/10/20 03:04 PM
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Please explain, I'm about to do it.
/r/seduction26/10/20 02:29 PM
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Yes i know it's not an actual insult, it's just how i phrased it.
/r/seduction26/10/20 12:58 PM
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Well, maybe i will do that someday, but we really dont know each other that much, i feel like i should wait a hit more. Thanks a lot.
/r/seduction12/10/20 06:04 PM
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But i feel like it would be so awkward. Id have to take off my backpack, then unbutton my coat and then put it on her. Plus we mostly see each other at the bus stop so she's gonna have it on her for like a minute. And she has out her arm around me before, and it was likw a day after we first talked, it was to show me what someone had done to her but still.
/r/seduction11/10/20 10:43 PM
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Any idea why it works well ?
/r/seduction11/10/20 07:51 AM
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Jesus...
/r/seduction11/10/20 07:45 AM
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Are you male or female ? Im male. (i dont entirely understand your comment it feels like you misgendered me im misgendering you)
/r/seduction11/10/20 07:44 AM
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Why is her being too comfortable too fast a bad thing ?
/r/seduction11/10/20 07:43 AM
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We really don't know each other that well sinc like i said, it was fast. But are you just implying she doesn't like me or does this have somethinh to do with my question ?
/r/seduction10/10/20 11:51 PM
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I'll see how it goes
/r/seduction25/09/20 11:21 AM
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Ok i see but since we've only talked for like 3 hours total (max), i think im gonna wait for a bit more, keep talking to her, and then maybe ill start flirting or just straight up say it.
/r/seduction24/09/20 09:45 PM
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But she just made the "first move". We aren't friends, and she did what i mentioned above. I get what you're saying, but i dont think ill ask her on a date ever, bcs dates aren't a thing here, unless youre already a couple. Also wdym it'll be "too late" ?
/r/seduction24/09/20 09:38 PM
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Should i start talking to her or wait for her to come to me ?
/r/seduction24/09/20 09:05 PM
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Nah i liked it, but i wouldn't know.
/r/seduction24/09/20 08:59 PM
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Im not afraid of rejection with her in particular, cuz i dont have a crush on her... yet ?
/r/seduction21/09/20 09:04 PM
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Nothing sexual, we're 16 after all.
/r/seduction21/09/20 08:40 PM
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I will, i just dont wanna look too desperate yknow ?
/r/seduction21/09/20 08:20 PM
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Eye contact and teasing. We don't talk to each other wich is why I find it weird. She just started doing eye contact and i was already suspicious so i stroke up a conversation on snap and she started teasing me and stuff. Im trying not to start new conversations bcs idk how to proceed. Im still figuring out if shes flirting or not so i kinda panicked earlier today when i saw her, i could've talked but i just made a silly comment about the convo on snap and went to my friends.
/r/seduction21/09/20 07:58 PM
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Oh okay, makes sense, ill try not to approach too much and play distant. If she'll come to me if she wants something with me.
/r/seduction20/09/20 04:36 PM
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Yeah, i'm doing that. But am i 100% sure she likes me if she's teasing ? I dont wanna get the wrong idea.
/r/seduction20/09/20 04:33 PM
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I'll do my best !
/r/seduction20/09/20 03:39 PM
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I will, i just gotta wrap my head around the fact that a girl is flirting with me aaaaaaaaa
/r/seduction20/09/20 03:13 PM
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Fuck, i understand now. But a girl is flirting with me this has never happened aaaaaaaaaaaa
/r/seduction20/09/20 03:02 PM
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Ugh, i kinda like it ngl. Is this why it works so well ?
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:59 PM
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Wait so she's flirting with me ? This makes it a thousand times weirder.
/r/seduction20/09/20 02:49 PM
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Oh good. She's actually kinda nice, a bit out of my league but whatever.
/r/seduction16/09/20 12:19 PM
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Ok ill do that
/r/seduction14/09/20 05:05 AM
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"can i give you a hug" or "do you want a hug" ?
/r/seduction14/09/20 04:57 AM
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How would something like "good, youre following social distancing rules" sound ?
/r/seduction13/09/20 07:53 PM
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Yeah i just dont wanna react like im sad/frustrated she didn't hug me.
/r/seduction13/09/20 07:41 PM
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All right. That makes sense, i'll try to work up the courage to do it. What should i do if she refuses (i dont think she will but i need a plan b) ?
/r/seduction13/09/20 07:31 PM
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I forgot to mention, there's a specific person, ill edit my post
/r/seduction09/09/20 02:53 PM
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Should i open my arms and wait for her to come to me ? You said its relative to how confident i am about hugging her, im telling you, im not very confident about this so now you can tell me the best thing to do right ? cuz i dont wanna stand there arms open like a fool
/r/seduction03/09/20 09:19 PM
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UPDATE : We did not see each other bcs we both dumb, we will see if we can tomorrow. So, can you reply to my other comment ?
/r/seduction03/09/20 06:04 PM
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idk man some people think in weird ways, i really just like her a lot and want this to work out chill guys
/r/seduction03/09/20 06:03 PM
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thank you this helped a lot
/r/seduction03/09/20 04:51 AM
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i was thinking of making a teasy joke like "huh youre smaller than i thought, hugging you isn't as simple as i thought it would be" is that good ?
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:56 PM
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okay, so after that i just let go ?
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:54 PM
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well she is shy, so maybe she'll say no but still be interested anyway, lets assume she hugs me, for how long do i hug her ? do i let go before she does ? i haven't hugged anyone in years, sorry.
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:51 PM
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I dont care about covid, i want to know of she'll think its too soon or im a creep or i got attached too quickly yknow
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:46 PM
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okay, what if she says no ? what do i say to calm the atmosphere
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:45 PM
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ill be with her tomorrow, i hope it goes well, i just have to figure out if i hug her or not now. thanks for the good luck
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:26 PM
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Should i open my arms and wait for her to come to me ? You said its relative to how confident i am about hugging her, im telling you, im not very confident about this so now you can tell me the best thing to do right ? cuz i dont wanna stand there arms open like a fool
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:20 PM
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Yeah, i get it, but i should also be the best of myself to up my chances right ? Chris brown isn't gonna go up to her and say "you got a nice ass bitch"
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:17 PM
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how do i know if im friendzoned already ?
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:10 PM
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holy shit, okay uhhhh do i just hug her instantly after we meet or do i say hi first and all that and then go for a hug ?
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:10 PM
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wait i just straight up hug her ? wont that be "creepy" or "too soon" ? dont get me wrong, i would love to do it
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:06 PM
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Thanks this is all very helpful, could you please edit your comment and leave two blank lines between each sentence ? if you leave one it doesn't work on mobile so your comment looks like a big block of text.
/r/seduction02/09/20 09:02 PM
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ok that's interesting. how do i raise her interest ? keeping in mind we will talk irl for the first time tomorrow, and that i now have a new range of skills to use, body language, facial expressions, eye contact ect...
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:43 PM
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so what do i do exactly ?
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:36 PM
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If i act too much like her friend wont i be friend zoned ? Yeah i mostly initiate texting but dont tell me that's a bad thing, she's like that even with her closer friends. Plus we talk to often i dont always have to "initiate" cuz we kinda talk continuously. I do kinda carry the conversations tho but i think she's just shy or really bad socially speaking. None of our conversations are sexual because we are sixteen.
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:31 PM
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is that good or....
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:13 PM
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if someone read our messages, idk if they could tell if im a man and shes a woman. ignoring all the pronouns and stuff. i kinda text her like a close friend with some flirting or teasing once in a while
/r/seduction02/09/20 08:10 PM
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nah
/r/seduction02/09/20 07:36 PM
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not GAF ?
/r/seduction02/09/20 05:01 PM
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lets dm
/r/seduction02/09/20 04:38 PM
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lets take this to the dms, your advice seems interesting but you're kinda missing the point
/r/seduction02/09/20 04:37 PM
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i understand what youre saying but sex isn't the main goal ?
/r/seduction02/09/20 04:32 PM
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bro we're sixteen, we're both virgins. is it weird to simply want to be in a relationship with her ? sex comes a bit later, sure.
/r/seduction02/09/20 04:31 PM
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btw please read some of my other replies it'll help you understand what the situation in more detail. it is complicated
/r/seduction02/09/20 04:26 PM
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and the rest of my comment ?
/r/seduction02/09/20 04:24 PM
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1) I don't wanna have sex with her, man. Or at least that's not the main goal. 2) I know but we couldn't see each other and it felt wrong to ask her on a date and not talk to her that much afterwards. 3) What L word ? 4) Again, fucking isn't the goal. 5) I know but the force os strong with this one. I want to have a relationship, i don't want sex. I just don't wanna be her friend, i wanna be her boyfriend. Nothing more, nothing less. 1 again) does that mean have sex asap ?
/r/seduction02/09/20 04:24 PM
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I couldn't walk up to her and talk, i was entering a class, we just saw each other and smiled idk what to say man. It lasted 2 seconds max i was going into class. What do you mean by "where the fuck did the energy" and "it's all her just read ur replies" ?
/r/seduction02/09/20 04:17 PM
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I asked her on a date, that's the first thing i told her. Flirting ? Yes sometimes Teasing ? Yes sometimes Eye contact ? No, we haven't seen each other until... today actually, it was so nice even if it was very short. Touching ? No, how do you touch someone through texting ? Will i do those two things now that we will finally see each other ? Yes, absolutely. Do i want to be her boyfriend ? Yes, how do i become the person that can "dick her down" to quote you.
/r/seduction02/09/20 04:00 PM
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yeah its too late to text her less often now thanks
/r/seduction02/09/20 03:42 PM
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bro read my post, school started, we will see each other tomorrow, we saw each other in the hallway today. btw i kinda panicked cuz i didn't expect to see her and i was talking to my friend and entering the classroom at the same time so i panicked, and it was very brief, im pretty sure we locked eyes and smiled at each other. idk if my smile was as obvious as hers through the mask, i hope so.
/r/seduction02/09/20 03:40 PM
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holy fucking shit man
/r/seduction02/09/20 03:33 PM
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sure if i remember i'll update. you can remind me, i pbbly wont remember tbh.
/r/seduction02/09/20 03:13 PM
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Duuude, what's so hard to understand ? We could NOT see each other. Her mom is a nurse she couldn't leave ever. We were supposed to go on a date but we cancelled bcs quarantine was too long. How do i "not friendzone myself" ? What's NOT to do and what's to DO.
/r/seduction02/09/20 03:12 PM
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I won't do this in the future it's just that we couldn't see each other at all. Am i gonna ask her on a date and never talk to her again ? for like 6 months wtf ? We have a weird friendship + some flirting. Why would this make me her beta gay friend ?
/r/seduction02/09/20 03:08 PM
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I forgot to mention, we are sixteen, and neither of use has been in a relationship before. I HAVE been flirty and teasy, not all the time but sometimes yeah. And how exactly does that kill my chances ?
/r/seduction02/09/20 02:48 PM
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Well, i have difficulties but im sure after some tike ill find another one. It's just that I've gone so far with this one and i really like her.
/r/seduction02/09/20 02:37 PM
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No, I did not explain myself well, this is complicated as fuck. We did mot go on the date, because of quarantine. So we just kept talking, every day, for half a year. Then a weird subject came up and she said she didn't love me, to wich i replied, i dont love you either because we don't know each other that well. She thought i loved her, and she kept talking to me wich makes me think she was interested, but now we both know we don't love each other, at least we didn't at the time of that convers…
/r/seduction02/09/20 01:25 PM
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I hope so, she seems very cold through text but i saw her today in the hallway and she gave me the warmest smile even though i couldn't see ot through her mask. I swear i was smiling for the rest of the next class. Sorry i had to tell someone about that.
/r/seduction02/09/20 01:05 PM
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Well i wanna get her to like me obviously, our situation is complicated, bcs she agreed to go on a date with me before we talked for months. So she might be interested. but after a few months we talked and she said she doesn't feel anything for me, but we still talked everyday for months so im in this weird middle ground and gotta make sure i do the right things.
/r/seduction02/09/20 12:53 PM
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well obviously im not as shy on snap then irl, but she's the same way. she also pretty shy i think.
/r/seduction02/09/20 12:50 PM
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welcome to high school.
/r/seduction16/08/20 07:03 AM
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This seems to be for people you don't know. Does it work to try to seduce someone you e talked to before ? I can specify my situation if needed. Its weird.
/r/seduction15/08/20 11:27 PM
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None. We've talked briefly before and i have her snapchat.
/r/seduction13/03/20 10:17 PM
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Ok, thats better. Thanks.
/r/seduction01/03/20 08:09 AM
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Well it's ... rude ?
/r/seduction29/02/20 11:42 PM
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But how ? I dont wanna just say "ok." Thats rude ! We're in the same high school I dont wanna be rude.
/r/seduction29/02/20 10:48 PM
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Really ? Let's assume it's by text then.
/r/seduction29/02/20 10:37 PM
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