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| 20 | Keep getting friendzoned after dates | Not_unique_enuf | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 05:07 PM | |
| 3 | The amount of Instagram follower whores on Tinder is one too many | Not_unique_enuf | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 04:09 PM |
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| 3 | 26y old girl wants more dicks. Bf denies her pussy pass and dumps her. She goes insaneYeah, I can agree with that. Since kids raised by a community is much more happier than kids raised in nuclear families. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 02/05/18 07:35 PM |
| 3 | 26y old girl wants more dicks. Bf denies her pussy pass and dumps her. She goes insaneWell evolutionary psychologically speaking. Monogamy has "shown" / "proven" to give offsprings the highest chance of success in survival. That is one of the reasons it became so popular and still is. Men who left their mates to pursue other mates did not pass on their genes. Their primary mates offsprings didn't survive because the make did not co-parent. But it was at That time...obviously you can raise a kid in any sort of relationship in THESE times. And no, I have no idea about how to raise … | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/05/18 02:47 PM |
| 11 | 26y old girl wants more dicks. Bf denies her pussy pass and dumps her. She goes insaneMight have screwed up there. I meant "shown" to have. Not "proven" | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/05/18 01:58 PM |
| 2 | 26y old girl wants more dicks. Bf denies her pussy pass and dumps her. She goes insaneDamn! That was inspirational. Good thing it all worked out in the end. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/05/18 11:26 AM |
| 48 | 26y old girl wants more dicks. Bf denies her pussy pass and dumps her. She goes insaneThats very very very far fetched sir. Monogomy has proven to be the best thing for offsprings to survive in the past but its not BIOLOGICAL. Heck wanting to have sex with others is much more biological than being monogomous. Male Humans and rats get a bigger dopamine hit when engaging in sex with a new partner. Even hugging someone releases oxytocin. So if I hug my grandma, my relationship with my gf is getting ruined? | /r/PussyPassDenied | 01/05/18 11:23 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Got my FIRST EVER Instant Date from a Mall Approach Last Night!!!I love that bloody mall! Hehe good luck m8. Keep us all updated. You give a lot of other men hope and courage by doing this. | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 02:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Got my FIRST EVER Instant Date from a Mall Approach Last Night!!!Fuck yeah! Which mall eaton or yorkdale ;)? | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 01:10 PM |
| 1 | What I've learned after 9 years "in the game": Pre-Opening, Opening, and the TransitionThanks for the wisdom! | /r/seduction | 14/03/18 12:51 AM |
| 1 | I am three dates in with a girl and this is usually when I start getting needy and overthinking, how do I stop this habit?Date other girls till you make this official | /r/seduction | 12/03/18 03:24 PM |
| 5 | Girl texted me a few weeks later after ghosting me, why?Found someone else then that someone dumped her then she went after you or she did't feel like it. Who knows man? Fuck her. Move on. | /r/seduction | 07/03/18 03:44 AM |
| -11 | What’s the hottest one night stand you’ve ever had?It was the one with my grandma. I lost my virginity and shs lost her life in the process. It was the best sex I ever had though. Love ya grandma 😢 | /r/seduction | 03/03/18 10:20 AM |
| 14 | I finally did my first cold approachGet out of my house Todd!!! | /r/seduction | 01/03/18 09:04 AM |
| 96 | I finally did my first cold approachBut you gotta do it everyday. That's the hard part | /r/seduction | 28/02/18 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Laughing at myself for this approach.How long have you been in PUA? What's your success rate if you don't mind me asking? I been involved a long time. I can help you with it. | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Laughing at myself for this approach.The indirect approaches just seem ungenuine to me. Cause it is. You are just lying to the girl. "Hey do you know where Starbucks is at" If you don't actually care about where the Starbucks is that then you are lying to her. A lot of "high level puas" do a lot of shady stuff too. I wouldn't call a lot of them real men. A real man isn't afraid to speak his truth. A lot of "Puas" are very deceptive and it's very unethical. You can open with the tinder thing then tell her honestly "I was looking for… | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 03:33 PM |
| -3 | Laughing at myself for this approach.These approaches are good for goofs and gafs. But don't seriously do this to get a girl. Just be direct "hey, sorry to bother you but you looked so pretty...I had to say hello" A real man doesn't use some pussy excuse to talk to a girl. It's not genuine. If you really needed help on tinder, maybe only then it would have been acceptable. | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 03:24 AM |
| 1 | The amount of Instagram follower whores on Tinder is one too manyTrue | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 08:08 PM |
| 1 | How to get horny before sexMaking out. | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 03:15 PM |
| 6 | RSD vs Manson - better approach?^ and that's what you get with Manson technique. | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 01:52 AM |
| 4 | RSD vs Manson - better approach?Hard to say really. Depends on what you define as higher quality women. I define higher quality women as mature, no games, direct, honest, intelligent types. | /r/seduction | 25/02/18 01:52 AM |
| 4 | RSD vs Manson - better approach?I will simplify this for you. If you want a genuine relationship use Manson. If you want to bang couple of girls at the same time use RSD. | /r/seduction | 24/02/18 08:54 PM |
| 4 | Books for Being Better in Bed?"She comes first" | /r/seduction | 19/02/18 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Tried to conquer Approach Anxiety, but it turns out I really can'tBaby steps. First try asking "what time is it?"Do that till you comfortable to move onto next step. Next step...message me and I will tell you. Good luck | /r/seduction | 13/02/18 04:46 PM |
| 8 | The same thing keeps happening to me. First or second date goes really well, then they ghost or say they’re not looking to date. I almost alway fuck/make out on the first date.You are obviously physically attractive and funny. But as some guys pointed out here. There is no depth to you, we mean that you don't show that depth to her. Get into really deep gritty and real conversations. Heck start talking about the time you got bullied, or when your mom got cancer, or any incident that changed your being. You get what I mean? Another thing I like to point out is that. I never got into a relationship via tinder. It was girls mostly goofing off. Maybe tinder isn't the best… | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Read tao of badass but how does the attraction part work?Good point | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Read tao of badass but how does the attraction part work?I would recommend Models by Mark Manson than Tao of badass. Tao has a lot of bullshit advice. | /r/seduction | 08/01/18 12:47 AM |
| 1 | Is telling a girl she’s attractive/beautiful/hot a good idea? How else am I supposed to imply I’m interested?It worked for many and myself. Most girls respond to it positively. | /r/seduction | 07/01/18 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Approached a lot last night, went home cryingCrying is good for the soul. Good job mate. But approaching 6 to 8 is not really high. That being Said, if I meet a girl that likes me then I stop approaching for the day. That could happen in any number of approaches. | /r/seduction | 31/12/17 07:40 PM |
| 1 | how to attract women when you have no friends?Yes, it's called cold approaching on the streets. | /r/seduction | 27/12/17 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Reflections and thoughts caused by girl, whose body count is so high that she does not know itListen! She wasn't the perfect amazing woman for you. You know what quality she lacked to be perfect? She didn't choose you. The perfect woman will choose you and she will have the qualities you want. It will be a hard journey to find her but anything of value is hard to find. "The most precious jewels are in the deepest depth of the ground, it is not easy to dig them up nor should it be. If it was easy to find it wouldn't be so valuable" - Harry House | /r/seduction | 26/12/17 02:53 AM |
| 1 | My main problemRead "She comes first" thank me later. | /r/seduction | 25/12/17 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Did a f*ck up?She was interested in a friendly way. Once you asked her out she wasn't anymore. | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 02:18 PM |
| 2 | What tot text your date?If she likes You, literally anything. "I have a secret to tell You, I am batman" | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 02:03 PM |
| 2 | Did a f*ck up?You didn't really fuck up. This girl wasn't interested in you from the get go. So it doesn't matter what you did or say. | /r/seduction | 21/12/17 02:01 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting friendzoned after datesI am 21 btw | /r/seduction | 20/12/17 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Keep getting friendzoned after datesI go to conferences and events that interest me. I am into personal development so you would find me in a Tony Robbins speech/event. | /r/seduction | 19/12/17 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting friendzoned after datesIkr, now I got some new friends. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Just get rejectedSo in 6 months of dating you guys didn't even kiss???????????? Huh. If that's the case. You guys were just hanging out. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Keep getting friendzoned after datesHere is a way better tactic for you. Go to meetup.com and go to events that you would like to go and ask out girls there. I am thinking of going to a personal development conference and trying to game there, maybe I will find a like minded girl. Who knows. Even if I get rejected, who cares...I would still enjoy the event. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 04:31 AM |
| 2 | Keep getting friendzoned after datesI am a 7/10 in my best days. And 6/10 at my average days. Online dating works well if you are 10/10 material. In my experience it's a huge time waste. Tinder, Ok, POF....tried All of them. Never got success. All the success I got was from cold approaching. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Keep getting friendzoned after datesSpot on advice man. I will go like a godamn beast on my upcoming date. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Just get rejectedIn six months of dating. Did you make a move? | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Keep getting friendzoned after datesI totally and wholeheartedly agree with this. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Keep getting friendzoned after datesI have been receiving some feedback and I think the best thing to do, is go for the kiss on the first date. That's how I got my second gf. I went for the make out on the first day. I have an upcoming date soon, I am gonna go for it this time. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 03:52 AM |
| 2 | Keep getting friendzoned after datesThank you for being so blunt and honest. I needed that. | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Keep getting friendzoned after datesI will give Manson another read. Thanks man | /r/seduction | 18/12/17 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Keep getting friendzoned after datesProbably brooo | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 05:58 PM |
| -3 | "I dont give my phone number to everyone"Get her fb. Get to know her more than go for the number. | /r/seduction | 17/12/17 05:08 PM |
| 1 | I feel this cycle of sadness a couple of times a week and I want to know how to cure itDo you have friends? | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 08:21 PM |
| 4 | Bored on dates. Am I doing it wrong?Do some interesting things! Like bowling or air hockey or skating etc. Also...if you date a cool girl. You can usually talk to her hours on end without being bored. | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 06:23 PM |
| 1 | I don't feel the desire to take action anymoreListen man. Take a break from pickup. Just live your life, improve yourself etc etc for a while. | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 06:20 PM |
| 10 | Girls who know eachother...Why not date them in a serial manner rather than at the same time? | /r/seduction | 19/11/17 02:54 PM |
| 1 | How not to kill attraction after the first make-out/hook-up?The amount of times I fucked up an opportunity is in the 100s. Make sure you don't make the same mistakes m8. Also don't ever rely on iois. Some girls don't ever show them even if they do like you. | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 12:47 PM |
| 1 | How not to kill attraction after the first make-out/hook-up?Not really. It might just mean she wants a place to stay. She thinks you are her friend. If I came over to stay as a friend and you kept grabbing me, I wouldn't complain but I would be massively creeped out. And no stop blaming that dude. If a girl wants to sleep with you she will sleep with you. The reason she left your bed was because you kept grabbing her when she clearly wasn't interested. The makeup thing. It's not necessarily an IOI since she doesn't even know how to apply it properly and … | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 10:44 AM |
| 2 | How not to kill attraction after the first make-out/hook-up?You just dug out your own grave. You told her you had a relationship, now she must convince herself she is a massive slut with no morals to screw you. I think she genuinely wanted to sleep. The fact that you kept grabbing her was a cringe fest. Hopefully you can now see where you went wrong. Now to salvage the situation (I don't think it's salvagable) you have to convince her first that you aren't in a relationship. Then build back the chemistry up...start making out then try to screw her. | /r/seduction | 11/11/17 10:22 AM |
| 1 | So I went on a date last night and I'm pretty sure I was too aggressiveYou should go to a therapist. I suspect you have anxiety issues. | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Why do girls never tell me about their boyfriends? (College)That's actually a good sign. This means you are attractive. If you were unattractive then the first thing they would say is "I have a bf" | /r/seduction | 27/10/17 07:35 PM |
| 1 | A List of Approach InvitationsOkay I get what is being put here and I appreciate it. But most women I been with didn't "invite" me. They literally had fuck off faces. As soon as I opened with a compliment they changed their whole demeanor. This just seems another way to pass up an opportunity for newbies. "Oh she had a fuck off face. So I didn't approach"......For average looking men like me most women have "fuck off" faces. | /r/seduction | 25/10/17 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Don't want to be too disrespectful or be just a simple rebound, how do I approach a girl who just got out of a two year relationship?Approach her like you would approach a girl normally. | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 02:14 PM |
| 3 | Is it normal for a man in his 20’s to not like casual sex/ hookups?Yes. | /r/seduction | 19/10/17 01:38 PM |
| 1 | Miserably sad after a break-up, forcing myself to go out tonight. Need helpIt's good to cry. Start your day with a good cry. Don't force yourself to go out. Sit at home and cry till you literally become numb (I am serious). It will take some time to get over it. Start working out too (if you don't). Read awaken the giant within and other self improvement books. You will decide if this is A break up or a break through. | /r/seduction | 15/10/17 02:14 PM |
| 10 | How do I deal with my sexual racism?It's preference. I wouldn't date a black chick ever but that doesn't mean I hate black people. Come on guy | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 12:04 PM |
| 3 | Girl says she's too old for me, I'm weirdly hung up about this rejection.If you put yourself out there enough time. More opportunities will come. More 10s will come. So keep putting yourself in the market. Heck fly to Sweden if you have to | /r/seduction | 01/10/17 12:00 PM |
| 9 | How do I stop dwelling on past rejections and mistakes?Have so many rejections that your brain gets confused which one to think about. Better yet....check put mindfulness techniques to get a clearer head. | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 01:08 PM |
| 2 | whats the best way to approach a girl in your class?"Hey" | /r/seduction | 30/09/17 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Why do you always hear about a hundred guys constantly going after one girl but you never hear it the other way aroundIf you read evolutionary psych...you will understand. Women evolved to be more pickier since she has a lot of burden if she is pregnant. Males must be less choosy. There are many men that have 100s or 1000s chasing them. The weeknd, Leonardo DiCaprio etc celebrities or really rich men have women running to them. | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Note to beginners: No More Online DatingI am still an introvert. I started out small. First I just asked for direction...then I just called them pretty. Then step by step I came to the level I am on. | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 12:40 PM |
| 3 | Can't get girls at university partiesCut that disgusting man bun first. Get a decent haircut. | /r/seduction | 23/09/17 08:43 AM |
| 12 | Note to beginners: No More Online DatingI was addicted to tinder and it totally ruled my day. Cold approaching is the best for me. I decide the time and text when I want. Ps: I am an introvert and prefer cold approaching rather than tinder. I get to explore the city while chatting up girls. | /r/seduction | 23/09/17 12:40 AM |
| 0 | Anxiety has never really gone away?It never does unless you are a psychopath or you have some form of brain anomaly. This won't ever go. | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 04:45 PM |
| 1 | How can I break outcome dependence, jealously, lurking behaviour?I agree with the top answer but jealousy is an evolved psychological reaction in humans. It's pretty normal. So don't feel too bad for your feelings. | /r/seduction | 14/09/17 10:43 PM |
| -3 | No longer care about flakes/ rejectionsI like kids | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 03:33 PM |
| -6 | No longer care about flakes/ rejectionsI like kids | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 03:20 PM |
| 13 | What do I say to directly ask a girl to go home with me but do so respectfully?MOST girls wouldn't be into that. They don't like being sluts or labeled as "too easy". So if you are looking for results. This is not the best way. | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 03:02 PM |
| 26 | What do I say to directly ask a girl to go home with me but do so respectfully?Unless she is autistic or really really really stupid. She knows what "Hey, wanna go back to my place after this drink?" means. | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 02:25 PM |
| 56 | No longer care about flakes/ rejectionsWait if you are rattled for days with depression. You ain't approaching enough.A girl flaked on me...right at date night. "I caught a cold, sorry can't make it". I got up from the restaurant table. Ordered a Pepsi. Drank the fucking Pepsi. Went to the nearest mall and started approaching. Then went on an insta date on the same day. Bro I don't even have time or mental energy to even think about flakes or rejections. | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 02:22 PM |
| 1 | How to approach and get her number in 60 seconds (or less)What would you recommend then exactly? I been doing daygame off and on for two years. It would be stupid for me to say that I know everything. I am always open to learn new things. So tell me...what should I change? I should do 60 sec approaches? I usually like to talk more than 60 secs. But I am always looking to adapt and change my technique if need be for more success. | /r/seduction | 12/09/17 02:10 PM |
| 3 | How to approach and get her number in 60 seconds (or less)Nah I done this in real life loads of times. It's not fake trust me. I wouldn't recommend to talk only 60 secs though. You should talk longer. | /r/seduction | 11/09/17 11:48 PM |
| 4 | How to approach and get her number in 60 seconds (or less)Very mad 😢 | /r/seduction | 11/09/17 11:21 PM |
| 7 | How to approach and get her number in 60 seconds (or less)I never did indirect in my whole life lol. I didn't say stand there and talk for 30 min. Talk for like 10 mins if you can. I always open with a direct compliment when I approach. I daygamed for 2 years and gotten a lot of success so don't pretend to know me because you didn't understand what I said. | /r/seduction | 11/09/17 07:29 PM |
| 72 | How to approach and get her number in 60 seconds (or less)This number will probably flake. (I might be wrong here). I recommend you to talk to the girl as long as possible to build trust and rapport. So getting a number in 60 secs and dipping may not be the best thing unless the girl is in a super hurry and you have no other choice. | /r/seduction | 11/09/17 04:41 PM |
| 1 | I finally did it!Hell yeah!!!! | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 12:01 PM |
| 10 | For those that approach A LOT, does it really improve the quality and success of your approaches?Go to the city's biggest mall. | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 11:52 AM |
| 13 | Stood upThe moment you get stood up is the moment you start approaching other girls right there in that same bar/restaurant/bar/mall. | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 12:59 AM |
| 3 | How do I get rid of the mentality that girls who like sex are sluts?Even your mom likes sex. | /r/seduction | 02/09/17 04:24 PM |
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