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| 3 | It took a woman getting killed for people to take ICE seriously.It still didn't change anything. Honestly I think the country is cooked. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/01/26 09:54 AM |
| 23 | Toxic masculinity and patriarchy being only enforced by men is a myth. It is ingrained in our psyche, we need to collectively oppose it.Patriarchy is used to avoid race, race is used to avoid class, class is used to avoid race | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/11/25 10:39 PM |
| 6 | To what extent is the contention that men are falling behind in life accurate?In my office the only readers are male. An adult butt It's also kind of been my life experience that the woman that I know that are readers are very specific and the men that are readers have broad interests. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/09/25 09:02 AM |
| 1 | The left lost the culture war with young men due to overcorrecting for toxic masculinityI think it's less interesting than that I think all the people presented by the left like from a cultural perspective are awkward weirdos that people don't want to hang out with. I'm not saying that the right doesn't have awkward weirdos that people don't want to hang out with because they definitely do But there's also a lot of people that are just semi-normal sounding or looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 11:38 PM |
| 1 | Why are men putting less effort in pursuing women than before?I've dated both so my pool is different from the normal Mans pool. Everything's more expensive People are either work in way more not at all so if either stressed out from work or stressed out looking for work Going online you used to worry that you were talking to a person that didn't look like their picture. Now you have to worry about going to line and talking to a person who's really a chat box and it's not even a picture of somebody else but a picture generated by somebody by the company it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/09/25 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Those who use the phrase "if men want the same sex opportunities as women, then just go for the gays" - you simply confirm all the claims about high female standardsAlso as someone that engages in MM relationships I dislike being some social political tool in a gender war I care less and less about day by day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 10:30 AM |
| 1 | Ted Lasso, Tim Walz, and the condescension of "positive masculinity"Toothless male positivity. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/07/25 01:35 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand why some men in the manosphere complain that men lose a lot in a divorce but also say they don’t care about a woman’s education, job, earnings etcThose 'men' care in a abstract way about Divorce payments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/25 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Men’s dating problems is mainly due to men fumbling.I date men and women. I don't think this is it. If I had to put my finger on it I think one of the big issues is fear and for some people the fear is found that because they're not an attractive person and personality or in looks but for other people isn't unnecessary fear. Some men are afraid but they're attractive enough either in personality or in looks or in the combination that women approach them anyway. Others don't have the benefit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/25 06:23 PM |
| 2 | There are 2 harsh truths that men and women have accept sooner or later.That's true. I live basically in NYC so Im surrounded by people from my perspective if no one offers that is says something. But I guess small town, not a lot of Internet posting. Sure no opportunity to test if you are a hook up guy / gal.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 04:12 PM |
| 5 | There are 2 harsh truths that men and women have accept sooner or later.I agree but I will say it is one thing to not get hookups is another thing to not be offered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 03:51 PM |
| 2 | The Provider Man Model No Longer Works in Modern Western Relationships. It's a scam.The entire nature of human civilization no longer works. But yeah this is specifically true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/25 12:32 PM |
| 1 | Modern feminism has caused damage to the healthy romantic dynamic between men and women.I think actually economics has done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/25 10:00 PM |
| 2 | People are so weird when it comes to the porn industry and it just makes them sound weak or insecure about sex and their own sexualityI'm not necessarily anti-porn but I do get some of the arguments. I do think in some ways porn is an industry that takes advantage of a lot of the people that participate; in it drug abuse and self-harm plague the industry. A lot of the scenarios (when it has scenarios): * reinforced racial stereotypes, * basically awful power dynamics (I mean a lot of bosses I having sex with their underlings), * cheating, * the normalization of incest to a degree (at least in modern porn). Not to mention some … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 03:06 PM |
| 16 | The Reaction To The Insurance CEO's Assassination Is Dispositive Proof The Election Was Won And Lost Due To Populism, Not Misogyny Or Racism As FD Among Many Others Have Claimed. The Misandry On The Left Manifested By Insisting That They Are Misogynistic And Ignoring Male Issues Drives Men AwayThat's because the modern political left has abandoned class conscious for identity rhetoric. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/12/24 09:28 AM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyI believe class solidarity is mostly a myth outside of the intellectual class. While working-class people may unite in response to shared struggles, they don't necessarily view each other as allies beyond those circumstances. A working-class Black man and a working-class White man might fight their boss together, but they don't always support each other's broader needs. To create a better society, we need an intellectual framework that transcends pre-installed identity politics. Without this, re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 10:13 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyFair enough. I'm not a socialist I'm also not a capitalist I used to say that I was a centrist but I think that's just code word for coward at this point. If I had to describe my political position I would consider myself since I have to make up a term a Secular Reformist | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 09:21 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyHow? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 09:12 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyYes. I don't think the masses are capable of being a revolutionary group in pretty much in any era in most of human history including the current moment. I think the masses are capable of reactionary moments of action such as sort of unplanned riots or even unplanned protests but I don't think that they'll be able to effectively change anything politically. Anything of any value that's ever been produced by human beings whether it's a physical item or a political ideology requires general leader… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 07:45 PM |
| – | Me Too Has Been a Disaster for Feminism and SocietyThe truth, as I see it, is that protests, in their current form, hold little political value. That could change in the future, but for now, meaningful political change happens behind closed doors. It’s about convincing the right people—those with power—to back a decision. Once you have their support and funding, you can influence outcomes, especially during elections when public opinion matters. At that point, the people become relevant. Historically, many feminist victories weren't achieved thr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 05:29 PM |
| 3 | Rosa Luxemburg vs “bourgeois women”, or how anti-capitalism is conspicuously (and predictably) absent from all the most visible claims for equalityAll identity based movements are Bourgeois by their nature. Class is supposedly secondary is a core doctrine. It's because these movements want to replace the leaders of the current social order with themselves. In a way I miss the Unapologetic Black capitalists, Female Capitalists, etc. They at least told you they buy into the current political cultural system and want to participate. This brand of Gucci Revolutionaries want the bag capitalism gives you and the martyrdom prestige socialism give… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/11/24 02:30 AM |
| 1 | The Democratic party had a strong coalition of working class males who gladly called themselves Bernie Bros. They threw them away.Chasing corporate money is why they ran from Bernie. But that didn't help. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/11/24 10:54 AM |
| 5 | Trump winning the election is very bad for men and men need to be concerned about trump winning.I mean clearly this is true but I'm not completely sure what to do. I suspect next year is going to be an awful year. I think just looking at the demographics liberalism is cooked in America. The population isn't educated enough or interested. Clearly. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/24 04:16 PM |
| 8 | If harris/walz lose, and insofar as they are losing male votersIt's crazy that could be what cost her the election. But I guess you right. Personally I think the party should have still had a primary even if it was short one. But the party the Democratic party was so terrified of an actual progressive candidate being pushed forward that they wanted to not lose the support of their corporate donors that they put someone that would be inoffensive to the corporations but the corporations don't vote. And ads don't do anything anymore. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 06/11/24 01:40 AM |
| 1 | How did you realize you don't live in a real patriarchy?I came to realize that we don’t live in a true patriarchy but rather a class-based society with gender-based enforcements. My understanding is shaped by both media representations and my own lived experiences. For instance, when I watch TV shows depicting individuals with tangible jobs—like factory workers or cooks—I notice that men and women often occupy much closer roles and relate to each other as equals. These roles not only have a direct impact on people's lives but also allow workers to se… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/11/24 02:08 PM |
| 3 | I father of 2, got called incel at work here is whyI feel that many modern feminists—especially those from privileged backgrounds—tend to distance themselves from their race or class identities and elevate their gender as if it's the primary defining factor. This approach often overlooks how their race or elite status actually impacts how they’re perceived and treated in society. For example, a wealthy white woman’s experiences will differ significantly from those of a working-class person, male or female, but these differences are often downpla… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/11/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | CMV: There's no actual problemNo I think the spirit of people is broken. It's not so much that people are happy about the current circumstance. I very rarely meet someone that's happy about the political or economic or social, or really, anything that's happened in this world, they might like a few things, but most people have real deep concerns.It's just their spirit's broken.They no longer believe that they can affect change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Your son is unsuccessful with women, would you get him an escort for his birthday?As someone who grew up one foot into the latino community and one foot into, like it, just sort of quasi, I guess, rich suburban community, I know people who've done something kind of like this. I've talked to people who've had their father or uncle (usually is not a parent). It's like an uncle or an older cousin pays, like a prostitute, or like a girl that they know was willing to have sex with people without much question to have sex with someone that they know as a virgin or generally inexper… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 01:14 PM |
| 1 | The opposite side of the War Bride dynamic is that men are natural rapists under certain circumstancesNature doesn't care about moral arguments. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 06:18 AM |
| 1 | People who like both sexes, do you find that it is easier to form/maintain a relationship with the same sex?Yes. Dating is easier for me in my own sex. Boundary setting is easier. Sex (communication and encounters) is easier. I enjoy women's company and still find them beautiful and funny. But I don't bother with relationships with them at this stage of my life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 06:13 AM |
| 1 | Attending a rap concert was a humbling experience as an average guy.Really? There's no genre of music or art form or book that's free for misogyny or racism or really any sort of negative aspect, so you kind of have to pick your poison. I like horror and metal, and there's a bunch of nazis in both those groups, and I'm at the cross section of a lot of different identities that make me a target for nazis, but yeah. Yeah, i'm still a fan of what i'm a fan of I still have a h p lovecraft book in my collection and some metal bands in my collection that, uh, i said s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 10:52 PM |
| 2 | Climate Change Is Changing Women’s BodiesI'd like to make you feel better. The Fish are dying because the acidic level in the ocean water is rising. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/06/24 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Why don't more men read womens' romance novels?From a literary perspective, it's not a very good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 11:39 AM |
| 4 | The reason women have stronger communities/support networks than men is pro-female bias and male disposability.People do that innately and try to self correct afterwards | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Does Gamma Bias Lead to Supporting Genocide? A Question About Amy SchumerDifferent generations are the main users of certain online services and prefer echo chambers over diverse discourse. While I think personality is more crucial than generational factors, I acknowledge that generations influence how conversations are understood, but it's not the complete picture. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/06/24 04:07 AM |
| 3 | I’m starting to worry that the discourse is pulling me to the Right.One of the failures of left-wing politics is their tendency to oversimplify complex ethnic or cultural conflicts by viewing them through an oppressor-oppressed lens. They often assume their allies are always good actors, which hampers nuanced political discussions, especially in geopolitics. This approach can make it difficult to have in-depth conversations about important issues. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/06/24 03:47 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If you want women to be open about their preferences, stop treating them as dealbreakers.What's not a deal breaker? Race is a deal breaker, height is a deal-breaker age is a deal-breaker, Money is a deal breaker, If someone wants children that is a deal breaker, Sexual history is a deal breaker, If sexual orientation is a deal breaker, Religion is often a deal breaker, but really negotiable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Single women are happier... Whats your perspective on this?For most people, relationships are based around necessity or novelty.The necessity is now handled so now.All relationships are based off of novelty.But novelty wears off its easier for someone to come to some sort of sense of self-worth or being by themselves.Then it is using another person to justify their existence. It doesn't faze me one way or another. I just wish more men, gaining the sense of comfort being themselves by themselves rather than trying to search for meaning In a relationship … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/06/24 12:45 PM |
| 6 | I’m starting to worry that the discourse is pulling me to the Right.I don't identify with the left, center, or right. My views align mostly with the 2010 liberal principles, I support the right to own guns, and I don't identify as a feminist. But that I'm no supporter of the sort of right.Leaning woman hating people that have popped up since 2019 | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 09/06/24 11:05 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men need to lower their standardsAlone Is better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/24 10:56 PM |
| 1 | Will the gender divide in the West get as bad as we see in South Korea?I do believe that nerds care Nerds are people with obsessive personalities. What they choose to obsess on could be as meaningless. As a comic book created in the 1900s about a blue man with red underwear or it could be about the social economic future of humanity for the next 1000 years its very broad group and some people really do have a concern about what the future of humanity looks like I do, but I accept that. Humanity's not gonna look anything like what we are right now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 12:19 PM |
| 1 | Will the gender divide in the West get as bad as we see in South Korea?What you're describing is not a nerd.That's just someone that took a liberal arts degree.Or some psychology degree like a fake science something like that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 12:16 PM |
| – | Moral character has no bearing on sexual successPhysical attraction determines whether or not someone is physically attractive.Moral character determines the character of the persons will to put up with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/24 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What do you think about shaming people for having synthetic SOs?While the brain's consciousness may be influenced by changes in function, a computer's function remains constant despite varying conditions. A human's ability to perform tasks or calculations can be influenced by various factors, including the current state of their functionality. In contrast, a computer will consistently produce the same calculation, albeit with potential differences in efficiency based on processing power and other factors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 07:49 PM |
| 2 | We are getting closer to ‘Her’ and JOI from BladeRunner. How will social dynamics and loneliness be affected?I'm not saying that sex didn't fuel some of the nerdy stuff in the nineties but I think people vastly overestimate it because the stuff that was deeply sexual didn't do as well as the stuff that was only slightly sexual like suggestive | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 03:45 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: What do you think about shaming people for having synthetic SOs?No consciousness is a biological phenomenon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Polls results from UCSB students (from yik yak)Realistically, speaking, colleges isn't as important as it used to be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/24 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Based on the "logic" of the Sexual Revolution and women's observed behavior there is nothing wrong with men wanting casual sex and not settling down. We should anticipate this behavior.I said generally, and I think I am right just like statistically speaking. I mean, maybe you're one in a million and you have like ability to empathize with people, which causes you to act in a truly selfless way. But like I said, Most people act based on impulses or fear of consequences. Some people are a little bit more long-term. And that thought process and think about consequences ten years from now rather than ten hours from now other people don't in most of my interactions with people pre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 01:56 PM |
| 4 | Based on the "logic" of the Sexual Revolution and women's observed behavior there is nothing wrong with men wanting casual sex and not settling down. We should anticipate this behavior.Yeah, but it's also something that has social consequences, 9 times out of 10 a person leaves or the relationship slowly degrades with the absence of consequences. People don't act morally one act. I'm not saying people are inherently evil. I'm saying people are amoral, not immoral | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 12:57 PM |
| 9 | Based on the "logic" of the Sexual Revolution and women's observed behavior there is nothing wrong with men wanting casual sex and not settling down. We should anticipate this behavior.In my experience, people don't really have a moral code unless there some sort of social or legal consequences we pretty much do whatever we want | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/24 12:34 PM |
| -1 | Is renaming Boy Scouts renamed to “Scouts” another example of institutional misandry?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/24 08:57 AM |
| 5 | Dating would be a lot easier if men would NOT settle for women they aren't attracted tooMaybe compared to the 30s, but it's not as good as the 70s or 80s or 90s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/05/24 09:03 AM |
| 1 | Killing “it” or killing “us”?The preference is for wealth redistribution through inheritance split among more siblings, rather than state mandates, to avoid resentment and physical resistance. Encouraging wealthy individuals to have more children, who will inherit their wealth and continue the cycle, aims to disperse wealth more evenly across future generations. Adoption is also supported as a means to increase the number of children under the care of those with the means to provide for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/24 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Killing “it” or killing “us”?I'm not really talking about people who make money from nothing.I'm talking about people who kind of come from money and also make money after the fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 04:30 PM |
| 0 | Killing “it” or killing “us”?It's fair to suggest that people who make more money should have more children. Shouldn't those who can't support themselves have fewer children instead? Personally, I believe that if I make over $100,000 a year and I'm in a heterosexual relationship, when we decide to have children, we should probably have twice as many as we're planning to have. Conversely, if I make less, we should probably have only one child, maybe two if we can afford it later on. Doesn't that largely solve the issue?The f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 03:12 PM |
| 0 | Killing “it” or killing “us”?I don't think that's statistically true. I'm pretty sure the statistics for men that have part-time.Custody is better than women.That just have a child full time custody without any paternal guidance | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 03:07 PM |
| 5 | Killing “it” or killing “us”?We know statistically for pretty much every racial demographic. The results are generally better. I do think it's better to have a good man in the household VS just anyone. But outside of abuse which is extreme the results are better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/04/24 03:03 PM |
| 1 | So why do feminists say that when men have problems, they should create their own movement, but then actually hate when we make our own movement?That's definitely an issue but real. A group that focuses on men's issues is going to diverge politically and financially from a group that is geared towards women's issues.There are certain issues that don't immediately overlap , such as paternity fraud | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/04/24 12:56 PM |
| 9 | So why do feminists say that when men have problems, they should create their own movement, but then actually hate when we make our own movement?In my view, feminists are divided between the concept of intersectionality and specific organizations. I don't believe that one large union can address all issues for workers; specific unions for industries and companies are essential. American organizations tend to consolidate goals, but historically, success arose from separate yet coordinated efforts within various movements. I think it's crucial to maintain independent action while collaborating on overlapping issues. I feel that many femini… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/04/24 12:53 PM |
| 4 | Biden's due process thingAmerican culture produces a bunch of liars and thieves. This will get some criminals, but is also going to be used as payback against people that people don't like in a college campus setting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/24 01:31 AM |
| – | Study finds feminists don't hate menI don't believe this study. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/24 06:56 PM |
| 5 | The best person to vet a man is another manI disagree, men act differently around each other.I once met a female friend's boyfriend and I thought he was a really good guy. And then, like 6 months down the line. We find out that he was beaten the crap out of her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 10:45 PM |
| 5 | Women's infatuation with the lives of celebrities is a male ickI watch sports but I don't care personal lives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/24 11:48 AM |
| 1 | Young Black men are dying by suicide at alarming ratesNope | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/04/24 12:48 PM |
| 1 | What do you think is contributing to the male loneliness epidemic?Death of male only places for heterosexuals | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/24 10:53 AM |
| 1 | Is there any hope in fixing gender relations?I think in all likelihood it will get worse and then eventually we'll all become very apathetic to the differences between the genders. Some people will go traditional to try to solve the problem through that method. But ultimately, I think we're gonna go our separate ways Which I think is for the best? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Is there any hope in fixing gender relations?Nah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/24 02:34 AM |
| 1 | The "quiet" male revolution.I think by the time it's twenty forty we'll see that becoming more of a political issue but at the current moment people are still operating by old models is sometimes an community a long period of time to realize that previous system no longer have any virtual or value | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:35 PM |
| 1 | The "quiet" male revolution.Sure animal people I know men that have full custody of their sons A man who behaves like an animal will have multiple children with multiple women and abandon.Ed, but a man who wants to take responsibility for his children.Will have fewer children with fewer women and is far more likely to fight for costy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 01:27 PM |
| 1 | The "quiet" male revolution.That's just because most pregnancies are not really planned and most people are still just like animals.Breeding in an uncontrolled fashion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:56 PM |
| 1 | The "quiet" male revolution.I'm not a socialist. Sure, I believe in a mix of free-market capitalism with some social controls, rather than socialism. I've noticed that in relationships, people now focus more on novelty than on convenience or necessity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:54 PM |
| 1 | The "quiet" male revolution.Really doesn't have to be that extreme that you have some sort of major technological development that sort of produces food like something out of Star Trek. You just need a bunch of overlapping systems that are not dependent on social relationships which means you can go about procuring things that you normally would have had to negotiate through familiar contacts and a sense of community via an impartial transaction like money or an assured government policy If you look at it from that perspec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:49 PM |
| 1 | The "quiet" male revolution.Adopting children as a gay couple (ex-boyfriend looked into it )difficult.You think it'll be easier for a single heterosexual man That's just silly and you know it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:42 PM |
| 1 | The "quiet" male revolution.For now, I don't think any of the previous social institutions that we created are going to survive long-term. We're not going to have a democracy at some point. But I don't think we're gonna default to some sort of monarchy. Because it's even more ancient and useless system. At this point we're probably not gonna have at least amongst the elite a lot of marriages in the far future. I'm thinking like a 100 years from now. I've seen individuals deciding to have children based off of their own per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/03/24 12:37 PM |
| – | Can men just not be loved for who they actually are?In heterosexual relationships, my view is that love tends to be approached pragmatically, focusing on attributes suitable for family building and union preservation. This perspective emphasizes biological and societal factors, leaning towards transactional considerations rather than purely personal dimensions of love. As a result, I perceive it as challenging to experience a deep, non-transactional, or intellectually driven love within the framework of heterosexual relationships. On the other ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/24 05:25 PM |
| – | you can be bigger and still be healthy for both men & women.In theory. Sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 12:02 PM |
| – | Part 1: The future is femaleDo people have a born right to reproduce? Let's say that this is a model for society. What does the society offer to people, what makes it necessary for individuals to fight to defend it? I'm all for artificial insemination artificial wounds because I view human sexuality as pointless possibly maybe evil but you need to have a reason for why this model of society will exist beyond it being a trend towards it because the society has to be able to maintain itself is this a society that would be ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Women are just as redpilled as men.Social media is mostly just scams. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/24 08:47 AM |
| 3 | Have tradcons taken over the redpill?It is telling that they have embraced that message. People like that are always seeking some sort of validation or legitimacy. The fact that we decided to attach themselves to the pseudo traditionalist moment is still telling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Is Argentina's President Javier Milei Red-pilled without coming out and directly saying it?Sure but I think certain dating ideologies sort of overlap with political ideologies like most people that I meet that are polyamorous with a positive perspective on male bisexuality are liberal and most that are polyamorous with a negative perspective for male bisexuality are more conservative I would even consider them paleo conservative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 08:36 PM |
| – | Are women the primary motivator in most men's lives?No. I don't think women are anywhere close to the top five in most men's life really for motivators outside of an individual woman. I think a lot of men expect women to be a prize for whatever their life goal and achievement is. Like a man gets in shape or makes a certain amount of money or gets a certain status they expect that this achievement will end with them getting women but women in and of themselves are not the goal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 08:33 PM |
| – | Which one is correct?Both are. If you don't have your own inner life you will have a deep misery which will poison any relationship you develop with any person. We are social species and isolation causes us to become depressed (in general) finding a relationship works to build a deeper connection. If the Question which is the thing that you should go for first it's probably an inner life with hobbies then at least gives you the ability to develop a sort of sense of self. But you're not just some mind floating out in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/24 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Artificial womb in the next decadesI'm Not trying to be a jerk I'm legit. Is there at least a site you'd suggest. I know most people on the internet when they talk about looking for sources generally they'll say that just as an excuse to try to destroy an argument (which I've been guilty of that too) but in this case I'm actually interested in the idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 03:34 PM |
| 0 | Artificial womb in the next decadesI'm not necessarily disagreeing with you (or agreeing ) I just want to know what the basis for that is is there any data that supports it. What are the outcomes for the children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 03:29 PM |
| 1 | Artificial womb in the next decadesLook at how many gender confused couples there are. Same sex. You think a homosexual couple is inherently inferior to a heterosexual one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 11:45 AM |
| 0 | Artificial womb in the next decadesHuman beings have already been biologically altering other species as well as ourselves for basically all of human history with only observation as our data set now we have the ability to actually change DNA structures it was inevitable that this would happen. I THINK IF THE MAIN GOAL IS TO PRESERVE THE RIGHTS OF THE CHILDREN THAT ARE INEVITABLY BORN THROUGH THIS PROCESS WE'RE BETTER OFF FIGHTING TO MAKE SURE THAT THEY HAVE THE SAME RIGHTS AS EVERYONE | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 11:43 AM |
| 2 | Artificial womb in the next decadesWe know the process can work the ethics of it is dubious but it's inevitable I think. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Artificial womb in the next decadesDon't change something some people will use it specifically to have children some women will use it to have children so they don't have to worry about pregnancies or mortality some men will use because they don't want a female partner. Game changer for gay couples, trans People, especially if you can turn eggs into sperm or sperm into eggs. Some trans people will be able to have children that are biologically there's. Parents with adult children that die could use it give themselves grandchildre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/24 11:37 AM |
| 11 | Sexual Selection in Men and WomenThe real difference I've noticed in women is enthusiasm , like physical fitness, flexibility, and tightness but there's not really a major difference no. Some women are more fun and smell better. But with very little exception none of my female like sexual partners have been specifically more impressive like as far as sexual ability it kind of evens out some have been awful but none have been great most have been average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/24 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Debating women's preferences won't lead to women changing themGen Z's not that fat. Most of the guys are managing z have jobs even like in communities where the men are generally doing that well. This just online dating and Instagram which is really online dating for people who don't want to use tinder which is probably most people over being honest it's just more competition and more distractions. I don't know if you've noticed but you know video games got really good lately and there's a lot of stuff on TV and there's a lot of ways to communicate with yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Debating women's preferences won't lead to women changing themMadam.. Madame how dare you! You've forced me to have to argue with you for hours on this issue and well at least for another 2 hours until my job starts I have to go to the office but but I swear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 01:29 PM |
| 1 | I Think There's Room for a Men's Liberation Front - Let's Talk About ItModern warfare is becoming more and more drone warfare. Also we're not fighting with swords we're fighting with gardens it's very rare that combat gets hand-to-hand (it happens sure). You can train a woman to shoot just as well as you can train a man to shoot a woman can fly a drone just as well as a man could fly a drone and we've had women participating in flight pretty much just the beginning of flight just not really in a military capacity until relatively recently. Maybe you can argue speci… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 01:15 PM |
| 1 | I Think There's Room for a Men's Liberation Front - Let's Talk About ItI don't know where I heard this but one person said a long time ago "it takes one generation to change , two generations not to stare, and five generations not to care" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 01:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV, women have a low tolerance for male vulnerability which perpetuates men not expressing their thoughts and feelingsWhen I still dated women .... I talked to some artsy types that preached the virtues of openness and vulnerability. They were better than most women sure. But they just fetishized other stuff. I found while they were more comfortable with you having emotions they wanted to control when you showed them and that nothing was said in confidence or with the agreement that it was just you two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/24 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Is there a double standard when it comes to women and men being single? Does one have it worse than the other?I think it depends I think if you're a woman and you kind of average for whatever your culture is it's viewed kind of strange and if you're a man and you're an exceptional person physically or economically it's also viewed kind of strange. To Women: "you are so normal, why are you single". To Men : *you have desirable traits why are single". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Reproducing older is creating a generation of disabled kids, and it is morally abhorrentIt should still be diagnosed differently in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Reproducing older is creating a generation of disabled kids, and it is morally abhorrentThe autism diagnosis is still too broad and a lot of the people that we say have autism now 20 30 years from now we're probably going to diagnosed with something else we know that there's something that makes them different from the general population. You have people who are completely nonverbal and people who just have a limited ability to pick up verbal cues. If you compare something like autism to epilepsy we know that not everyone with epilepsy is going to have the same level of sensitivity… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/24 07:02 PM |
| 10 | Have any of the men here just stopped bothering with dating?Switched teams. Well more like took a exclusive contract. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 02:46 PM |
| 1 | For men who do get approached, do you mostly get approached by women you actually want?'white women' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/23 12:37 AM |
| – | To what extent did globalism create the modern dating world? And to what extent will de-globalization reverse it?A return probably to something like the 1920s ideas. More racist, more homophobic, more sexist but not as bad as the 1890s. If what you propose is accurate. I think if the global sort of system of diplomacy breaks down the nature of the wars are going to be extremely different while it is necessary for occupation to build very large army and we're seeing that and multiple different parts of the world the truth is for defense you don't really need that big of an army you need a big arsenal. I thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 09:39 AM |
| – | To what extent did globalism create the modern dating world? And to what extent will de-globalization reverse it?It's easier to replace white collar work. Factories will downsize but they won't fully automate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 09:27 AM |
| – | Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rightsWhat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 03:25 PM |
| – | Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rightsYou can't say that with a straight face. How many people have been cheated on that committed to their partner fully and unaware? Countless. You're assuming fault but fault might not be meaningfully measurable. You can only know the intentions of another person to the degree in which we believe that that person is knowable. But since we do not have the ability to look into each person's mind or soul or desires with full clarity we're basically guessing more educated guesses than like a lottery gu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 03:16 PM |
| – | Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rightsHaving dated both sexes its really difficult sometimes to tell who is being honest at all times men and women are very good at being liars especially when reputation or money is on the table.. If we agree that a child's life is important that a relationship to a child is important this should be a really simple solve we have the technology to prove that this person is related to this other person why not just have that be the case? You can mandate that someone has to take a driving test and pass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 03:06 PM |
| – | Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rightsHaving dated both sexes its really difficult sometimes to tell who is being honest at all times men and women are very good at being liars especially when reputation or money is on the table.. If we agree that a child's life is important that a relationship to a child is important this should be a really simple solve we have the technology to prove that this person is related to this other person why not just have that be the case? You can mandate that someone has to take a driving test and pass… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/23 03:06 PM |
| -1 | Affordable paternity tests should be a mandatory part of the birthing process CMVThe goal of mandatory paternity tests is paternal identification. What you're talking about the population control which I'm not against either necessarily I just think that the process you're talking about is not as necessary but I'm not opposed to it in principle. Vasectomies are not traditionally reversible to my understanding but I need to do more research on it. We could if it was a larger social goal normalize libido suppressors or other less invasive methods. Paternity test is drawing som… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 02:04 PM |
| -1 | Affordable paternity tests should be a mandatory part of the birthing process CMVI believe in contracts rather than arguments of trust. It's the legalist in me. The only people I've met that trust fully in word of mouth personal appeals are criminals and liars. Contracts are necessary as form of civilization. It binds people to a agreement. It kills me how people can come up with an excuse to not try to formalize a process which brings a new person )into the world (birth) but will fight just as hard to formalize a process which could be broken by two people at a bar after a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 01:37 PM |
| -1 | Affordable paternity tests should be a mandatory part of the birthing process CMVWhy not. Other procedures get covered by taxes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 01:30 PM |
| 0 | Affordable paternity tests should be a mandatory part of the birthing process CMVIn countries where medical is covered it will be added to package. In countries where it isn't it would be added to the package. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 01:29 PM |
| 0 | Affordable paternity tests should be a mandatory part of the birthing process CMVhuge blow to individual freedom I'm was born after the 1980s I think that concept as an argument is nostalgic rather than practical . I believe in interpersonal privacy. But I don't particularly care about the government. CCTV, smartphones, social media, facial recognition software, and better and better genetic testing have helped solve crimes. Anyone who believes that individual freedom are what our society believes is the most important is completely lost track of what's happened in the last … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 01:28 PM |
| -1 | Affordable paternity tests should be a mandatory part of the birthing process CMVYou want to forcibly test all newborns Yes. It's practical and it eliminates all need for trust based paternity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men are more likely than women to be attracted to only one gender?I think it really just comes down to the fact that the physical act is different. I think might both can appreciate the attractiveness of their own gender but that act of sex is different. With men at least in the common understanding of the same sex bedroom clear roles exist: penetrator - penetrated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 03:53 PM |
| 2 | Why do you think men are more likely than women to be attracted to only one gender?Maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/12/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Dating is not a meritocracy and it's toxic to suggest single men should "work harder"I wonder about that. Sometimes I think that's inaccurate I think the person who's likely to go to school is more likely to get up a high paying job because going to school means you probably already have some sort of financial backing and if you have that you'll probably have family connections that can help you in searching for a job but if you have none of that and you just go for a job with the college degree and no family history to back you I don't know if you'd be successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/23 10:31 PM |
| 1 | What sort of music do you think the girl who would be interested in a romantic or sexual relationship with you listens to?The people I know that like them were slightly edgy Christians. I don't really like them that much but I guess that's how I see them . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | What sort of music do you think the girl who would be interested in a romantic or sexual relationship with you listens to?What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 04:36 PM |
| 6 | What sort of music do you think the girl who would be interested in a romantic or sexual relationship with you listens to?Really I guess I've noticed it in stages when I was a teenager like most of the women that were interested in me really I guess you would call them punk adjacent. Or slightly Christian metal like nine inch nails and Fall out boy that kind of edgy suburb music. Later on I got a lot more women that were interested in like I guess Hip Hip and Pop music but never anything current always something 10 years behind or vaguely I guess you would call underground. More recently the women that have shown a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 08:57 PM |
| 2 | What sort of music do you think the girl who would be interested in a romantic or sexual relationship with you listens to?Okay.. that's a harder question hmm give a second | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Women are as creepy as men. Society just prefers to overlook their behavior.That's a dangerous assumption. Trust your instincts not you prejudices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Karen are just normal women that lost their halo effectNah. Not all of the women that have been called in video are ugly or old it really is just a set of upper middle class sense of superiority. And it's a false sense of superiority because they don't actually have the expertise or education to back it. The one thing that the majority of these women have in common is that they usually work some sort of office job or maybe retail but usually from an office setting. They operat as minor managers and don't have to do anything in terms of labor or stra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 07:30 PM |
| 10 | What sort of music do you think the girl who would be interested in a romantic or sexual relationship with you listens to?Portishead is marriage material. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 07:22 PM |
| 1 | If a man is the type to always want a paternity test, he should make that clear to his partner BEFORE they decide to have kids.Depending on the state using the paternity test without both parents permission to fight child support payments can be impossible. Using in divorce proceedings is difficult to fight against alimony. N | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 01:23 PM |
| 1 | If a man is the type to always want a paternity test, he should make that clear to his partner BEFORE they decide to have kids.It complicate certain things legally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 12:57 PM |
| 1 | If a man is the type to always want a paternity test, he should make that clear to his partner BEFORE they decide to have kids.Yeah that's perfect. The woman isn't offended and the man is assured. You can even have two birth certificates. A initial birth certificate proving you were their at birth. And the verified birth certificate proving parentage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 12:47 PM |
| 1 | For men who do get approached, do you mostly get approached by women you actually want?No. I like a lot activities and music that is frequented by certain demographics that I appreciate as people but have no interest in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 12:33 PM |
| 1 | What sex act permanently taints a woman?Pee stuff. That's truly degenerate to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 12:29 PM |
| 2 | Hookup culture is insidious and most people aren’t cut out for itMost people aren't participating. A few men and maybe twice as many women participate in hookup culture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/23 12:08 PM |
| 1 | The disturbing yet unavoidable final solution to the collapse of birth rates in the WestPoorer countries still have traditions that bind communities together. I've taken a very hard anti immigration stance which is difficult because I'm a product of immigration. If your country is not producing enough young people you shouldn't be able steal away another countries. I personally wish to see a standardization of living standards so we begin to see negative immigration rates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 07:39 PM |
| 1 | The disturbing yet unavoidable final solution to the collapse of birth rates in the WestI think we could run this economic system with a fraction of the people currently in it. Yes we are seeing a decline in birth rates but it is more extreme in wealthy countries. The truth is the solution is accepting we'll have less people. Not using immigration as a bandage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/23 04:06 PM |
| – | The “Higher-Testosterone Men Like Thicker Women” meme is based on literally nothingI don't think that's the case. I think physical preference is sorta built in as far as weight and height goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 02:42 PM |
| 4 | Q4M - would you date a woman who has limited themselves to the same grooming/self care regimen you have?Yes. Im very clean multiple showers a day, scheduled shaving routines, multiple lotions, occasional steaming, and face masks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/23 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Is Monogamy Natural?Human jealousy and the inate concept of fairness leads me to say, kinda. I think we naturally pair bond and seek exclusivity in our partners. I think that we embrace polyamory when it's convenient (you know they won't leave). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/23 04:44 PM |
| 1 | What incentive someone who belongs to a negatively stereotyped group like men has to behave well or he's still going to be judged by the stereotype?The more negative the stereotype the less leeway you have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/23 07:24 PM |
| 1 | "AI girlfriends contribute to the epidemic of young male loneliness"Media will fail corporations are not permanent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/23 10:54 AM |
| – | I've never understood why famous male celebrities chose to date/marry other female celebritiesSee this is why I break from a lot of red pill guys in general in my experience most men tend to date women from their class, education and income. It never works out if you date a truly poor girl or super rich girl (if you're neither). It's true a rich mans wife might not work but she usually comes from money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 12:31 PM |
| 1 | Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself?Yes , bilingual is hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 10:09 PM |
| 0 | Would you date the opposite gender versiomof yourself?Mixed race, lightskin, bisexual, artistic, athletic, tall, and secular. Yeah that's basically my unicorn (dream partner) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/23 10:09 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: If you had the chance to be reborn as a man, would you do it?Women it's straight up no or yes. Mostly no. Guys will say yes I'm ok with it but you can feel the distance in the relationship almost immediately. But the community is Smaller so actual straight up rejection is not what you get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 10:28 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: If you had the chance to be reborn as a man, would you do it?Don't want to build a life with a guy who's holding out for his "real" family. That would suck. 100% And the more "masculine" presenting the more worrisome a fem guy can be. And the guys that are ok with being a secret aren't what I'm interested in. So you can get sex (very easy) but you'll won't be taken seriously. Almost like a defense mechanism: "this guy is just going use me for sex, fine. But I'm not going to invest in him to hurt me" It's so much worse when you admit to liking women, too. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 05:18 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: If you had the chance to be reborn as a man, would you do it?I think at least in my case and in the case for guys like myself I present very masculine. Like if meet me in person and heard my voice and saw my face you'd would not assume I'm interested in men at all Add that to the fact that my male preference are feminine.. There are a lot of guys who are on more feminine the end of the spectrum who attracted to men on the more masculine end of the spectrum who are terrified of being left for a woman. Basically "what happens when you want children?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: If you had the chance to be reborn as a man, would you do it?Thankfully there is always the option of dating a man if I kept said bisexuality in this hypothetical scenario. Depends. Im bisexual. I tend to downplay telling dudes I dated women for a while just so I get taken seriously . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 10:45 AM |
| 1 | It’s important to party/date/socialize in high school. Those people are more successful than the nerds who studied all 4 years.No it depends on the type of people you want to hang out with not everyone drinks alcohol or listens to the same type of music some people like a slower setting with conversations and maybe talking about a particular subject really you need to find the group that matches your speed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 03:22 AM |
| 1 | Do you think you would exist if your parents had to endure modern dating?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 01:56 AM |
| 12 | Men experience more loneliness because they don’t form any meaningful relationships in their life.We literally destroyed all male spaces. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/23 01:25 AM |
| 4 | Do you think people are naturally attracted to people that look like them?Colored? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/23 12:18 PM |
| 1 | What makes you optimistic about the future of dating?True and I don't see that going away or lessening because I depends on technology will only increase his time goes forward and technologies access to us will increase exponentially. Right now only the most socially awkward or emotionally traumatized people truly escape into online worlds or spaces. But eventually we'll lose people who are slightly more social people who are just awkward. People that are just odd not bad just odd. I fear we are moving the bar of shut-ins to people who can be more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 04:19 PM |
| 2 | What makes you optimistic about the future of dating?I think we like to think that's the case but I don't actually think that is the case. I recently went outside and I did like a run and I didn't listen to music because I didn't bring my headphones. It was a meaningfully different experience then listening to something while doing effectively the same activity I wasn't talking to anyone in either situation and I was alone. Yet I got a different experience. I'm not anti-technology I'm generally pro technology both professionally and personally. Bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 04:04 PM |
| 2 | What makes you optimistic about the future of dating?It won't be anything like medieval societies because of medieval societies workers were paid by task instead of by hour. So socially worse probably. But with fancier toys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 03:51 PM |
| 3 | What makes you optimistic about the future of dating?Yea but still on their phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 03:42 PM |
| 1 | What makes you optimistic about the future of dating?I can point to no trends socially politically economically or sexually that paint a brighter future in my opinion. I think things in general will get worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/23 03:41 PM |
| 1 | If We Live In A Patriarchal Society, Why Aren't Men Thriving?No it's feminists are not marxists. But these Marxist theory to explain gender Dynamics. One of the things that really made me change my opinion on feminists in relation to Marxism or at least examining class is the surrogate complaints against gay men and the silence on nanny's. Basically they're willing to complain about a man or two men paying a woman for pregnancy that last at most 9 months but they're almost completely silent on a woman or a straight couple paying a woman to take care of a … | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/10/23 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Are men more willing to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to them?Of course. What we find attractive is pretty consistent within our age or racial group. Few people truly fit into that usually narrow path. So people try to find a another type reason to make a relationship so they don't have to deal with crippling loneliness. So for men (some at least) they are willing to trade love and genuine desire for sex and companionship from a consistent partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 11:24 AM |
| 5 | Are men more willing to be in a relationship with a woman who is not attracted to them?Some do a lot don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 11:10 AM |
| -1 | Being short it s a huge problem in malesSure but height is weird short man do have tall sons. But I get the frustration. I'm four inches taller than my father at 6'2. The average man in my mother's Maternal family is 6'1-6'7. For my mom's family Im short. I'm taller than her siblings children but shorter than my second cousins. I've always been conscious of height in my female partners I generally sought out women 5'7 or up. Mainly because it's my preference. But partially because I didn't want short children.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/23 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Why are so many men not willing to properly move on from women? (Serious question)Men that give up don't complain. Men that try complain.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/23 04:58 PM |
| 1 | Discussion : Am I wrong in saying I’m noticing more attractive men settling for less attractive women these days?No you are . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/23 02:33 PM |
| 1 | If somehow all guys turned gay what would happen to the Dating scene?Gay white twinks in there 20s. Once you get outside of that group it's really personal attraction. | /r/AllPillDebate | 04/10/23 01:37 PM |
| 1 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menI personally agree but I also date men (now exclusively). So I have wider network of lovers and friends. Plus being alone is truly voluntary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menIn my experience a man will put up with a really shitty behavior from Friends actually. Most men make friends out of happenstance. We work at the same job, we both the only people of (race, age, class) at a school. Or we both laughed at joke someone else made before being introduced. So most men have school / sports / gym friends when young. Later when after 35 the friends from work or maybe a bar (if they drink), maybe meeting at work convention / vacation. Most male interactions with anyone wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 12:13 PM |
| 1 | Women who are "done with shitty men" have helped create a whole new class of fuckboys by having "situationships" with a minority of menMost heterosexual men don't know better behavior because they don't have the experience with women or other experiences as a counter example. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/23 10:15 AM |
| 1 | In an age where you’re damned if you try to get sexual too quickly and damned if you stay platonic for too long, what’s the best approach?Pursue relationships? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/23 12:24 AM |
| 5 | I'm I the only one who noticed some feminists do this odd thing where they want the best of 3 worlds?Really what comes down to it is a lot of feminists believe that women are morally Superior intellectually equal and physically inferior. If you have moral superiority you should be in charge. If you are mentally equally you shouldn't be looked down apon. If you're physically inferior any act of aggression or danger of aggression is beyond foul. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/10/23 06:53 PM |
| 1 | "AI girlfriends contribute to the epidemic of young male loneliness"AI isn't human. AI lack the ability for original spontaneous thought. They are really good calculators so they can produce a message or image that may not be predictable but that's it.. It's magical powers are limited and overstated by Computer nerds and scientifically illiterate. 2% and 90% of people respectably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/23 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Do you think it's possible that some couples divorce when they shouldn't?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/23 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Do women resent men who are late bloomers?If you're attractive you can honestly say and be believed as being selective. If you are not it will be seen as a copy or a red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 11:21 PM |
| 0 | Do women resent men who are late bloomers?Here's the thing you have to be very attractive to get away with being a very late boomer as a man. You have to be so attractive that its clear you are saying no and not hearing no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 11:43 AM |
| 4 | Why does it seem, the lack of “Workplace Romance” is the “Elephant in the Room” as to why dating is so hard in American Society?Every job I had from office to factory, law firm some was cheating on a spouse with a co worker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 11:25 AM |
| 9 | Women's preferences in men wont allow us to reckon with toxic masculinity anytime soonDated and stopped dating them. Loved women. Definitely talked to them . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 11:05 AM |
| 2 | Women are not attracted to liberal men or feminists, no matter what they sayWomen are attracted to attractive men that's it,: * If a man is attractive and is conservative a woman might hate herself for being attracted to him but she'll be attracted to him. * If a man is liberal and he's attractive and she's conservative she might hate herself for being attracted to him but she'll be attracted to him. In general at least in my experience with women sharing the same ideological beliefs isn't as important as physical attraction. I've been pretty outspoken against Christian… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/09/23 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Women admitting the crushing reality for most men in dating, would not change anythingBoth are true people would spend more time at bettering themselves or at least trying to achieve their own goals but it is a human need and the fact that they're not achieving that is still a failure that doesn't negate the other one the other one doesn't make up for it it's both are true. Teaching a bunch of people to learn to love themselves or not jump even if they get an f in biology doesn't change the fact that they got an f biology but that doesn't mean I want people to hate themselves bec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 06:54 PM |
| 1 | Women admitting the crushing reality for most men in dating, would not change anythingSee I disagree I think it would change the expectations that families put on their children. Especially young men in dating. If you are raising a boy and you know dating will be difficult you might approach certain issues differently. Like learning to accept rejection, feel genuine joy in the face of ones own failures. Maybe parents would learn to love their children for the person they are rather than the person they wished to create. Creating a environment where a boy feels seen and loved rath… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Getting sex isn't an accomplishment, or something to be ashamed ofThis is silly. Sex is a accomplishment. Just not a very big one generally. But it's literally how we reproduce and everyone doesn't reproduce so .. it's a thing. I don't think it's as valuable as writing a book on ancient history or even fighting in a war... but it's something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Why do think so many single and childless women get hated on when they showcase their daily livesWomen that resent their choices in having children, men that resent women they can see but can't control or have access to. And general resentment to childless adults. But that's my guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/23 03:26 PM |
| 1 | The Paradox of Self-Improvement and Attraction: Finding Unity in DualityThis is American nonsense. You are a thing or you aren't. Attractive, Interesting, Funny, etc. You either are that for a person or people in general or not. You may become so of you choose but that's on you. All the finding yourself magical talk nonsense is just crazy . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Why do men find it attractive when women have no body hair?I don't like the friction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/23 10:00 AM |
| 3 | why are American so obeseMeat, cheese, and less exercise. Lower wages and higher rates of depression. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/09/23 05:54 PM |
| 3 | why are American so obeseSugar. If you grew up eating non-american food when you start eating American food the first thing you notice is everything's sweet and if you talk to an American and you give them a piece of candy or a piece of pastry from a different country they say it's not sweet even though it's the sweetest thing you've ever eaten before. Americans are eating sugar with everything. The meat has sugar in it... Every meal has meat in it if you talk to an American almost every other meal has cheese in it ever… | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/09/23 12:53 PM |
| 3 | “Why settle when I can get exactly what I want?”That is some psychopathic American nonsense. "If you're unloved love yourself it's the same" | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/09/23 12:50 PM |
| 2 | The average man is shamed when he has standards. How to make someone understand that this is not cool?Personally there's no way for you to voice your standards in a way that's not going to hurt someone's feelings or cause some sort of form of condemnation. The best you can do is know what your standards are and when you run into someone that doesn't fit your standard it's just reject them the real issue comes from voicing it. I know it might seem counterintuitive but the truth is people don't like honesty (or a honest person) most would rather believe that they have a chance then know that there… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/23 12:33 PM |
| 1 | When was the last time you were vulnerable with someone?I don't believe in vulnerability so I say years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:17 PM |
| 2 | Does cheating happen because of bad morals, and not because of lack of attraction?Depends on the marriage. For some I truly think it's impulse control others its a lack of genuine physical attraction to a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/23 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you think marriage will die out completely once Women start out earning Men on average?I guess. But as a bisexual man that previously dated women exclusively but has basically switched completely to men, I don't think it's that. All sexual relationships and really all relationships are based on necessity and novelty. When you remove necessity, leaving you to lean on novelty. Most people aren't novel (interesting) beyond a certain point, so we see shorter relationships for people in general. Better relationships for people, specifically: The Professional Elite class, Educated liber… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 05:12 PM |
| 3 | MGTOW influence on dating tendsmay well be one of the rare MGTOW's whose not always bitching about women. That's honestly the best kind and what that movement should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Q4ALL: How would you react if you found out your son was...Everyone is online that's just normal now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 04:49 PM |
| 4 | Men certainly don't need to be more in touch with their emotionsPlenty of flowery artist types also kill themselves. It's not all repression that causes suicide. Honestly, I think it's just not having the reason not to do it when the thought hits you. Anyone that's been depressed, victimized, or humiliated has thought of it but fear , guilt, or a legit reason to live pulled them from the ledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/23 04:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: neurodivergent/guys on the spectrum should seek partners on the spectrumIts not like race. People aren't dating with the desire to pass down specific traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/23 08:57 AM |
| – | Marriage 2.0 is much better than Marriage 1.0If you belong to the upper class, it is better. If you belong to the lower class, it's worse. Most human relationships are based on necessity, not novelty. If you base all human relationships on novelty, only those who live in circumstances that are already decent will have any meaningful benefit. The poor, simple, and common will be worse off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/23 03:49 AM |
| 2 | Developed countries and the context of the us place in birth rate declineMaybe and don't get me wrong, I'm all about complaining about the world, but also we're just more comfortable. Generally, people have kids because it fits in emotional or social desire. Or it was necessary for survival. Or they had no means to stop pregnancies. If the only reason a person will have kids, it's because you have ideological or personal reason to do so. Then the numbers gonna decrease because once you have one kid, you fulfilled that desire. And if there's no specific gendered prefe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:05 PM |
| 1 | How often are women marrying men they have little sexual desire for (or far little compared to other guys they’ve been with)? Are they cognizant of the long term effects of such decisions?I went to a family gathering and overheard a woman. That is the same age as my grandmother. Admitting to her daughter that she never loved her father. Still, even with that being said I think it's probably rare that there's no Attraction at all.. But it's common enough that you probably know someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/23 07:01 PM |
| 2 | To the non-red pill men, do you agree with the notion that women ‘age out’ of their prime by 25? Why/why not?Same. I also have white relatives and the women age very different than the black women or the hispanic women of my family. It's Really interesting to me it seems to be a skin difference not really so much weight difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 06:23 PM |
| 1 | To the non-red pill men, do you agree with the notion that women ‘age out’ of their prime by 25? Why/why not?I firmly believe that that only applies to white women (and not all). And generally white women that don't take care of themselves and drink a lot of alcohol. But I know a lot of black women Asian women and Hispanic women (of the more native & mixed background) that age very well into their 40s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Most relationships are transactional and aren't based on real love.Love isn't necessary for a long term relationship, but it's nice | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/23 10:47 AM |
| 4 | Karens are just common women that feel angry they lost the pretty privilegeA lot of the women that get caught on camera are UMC. But you'll catch a woman that are definitely not, even lower middle class sometimes even probably close to homeless that are going to have the same attitude and approach to dealing with people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 09:12 PM |
| – | Male and female sexuality difference?It's not really that complex the drive for sex is different for men and women for the most part so the outcome is different. But the impulse itself is the same. So men on average might want sex more but when a woman wants sex she wants sex as much /(probably) as a man would want sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Question for Purple/BP-ish: What are your Purple views?I take a bit from everything blue, black, Red, pink. Relationships for some people truly is just putting themselves out there and treating everyone with respect,(Blue) Your looks will completely determine how people treat you in this life and how people view your interactions both in the moment and after the moment (Black) If you want to live a particular sort of life as far as sex goes you do need money you do need to be in shape you do need to be an interesting person and you probably should c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Settling is not a bad thing. It’s just a thing.Can you say with honesty that you would be happy with a woman you know dating a man she knows has no interest in her sexually he'll do it out of duty but there's no real interest? I think not. If that's the case for women why shouldn't it be case for me . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/23 05:38 PM |
| 3 | Patriarchy 2.0 Is ComingThe west isn't Islamic. It's barely spiritual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/23 11:09 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI believe constant self evaluation is better in the long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadExpression isn't handling it. It's displaying it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 04:37 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm going to take the opposite stance I think anyone showing their emotions is a negative in general. Outside of joy and curiosity most emotions are really negative. I think the issue that we have in societies that we've told women to embrace their emotions but to suppress their desires and we've told men the opposite when the truth is we probably should be suppressing both to some degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't men hypergamous?Heterosexual men don't generally have the ability to be as selective. I on the other hand as a bisexual am selective on women and because that's the case I find the majority of women unattractive in the same way that the majority of women find the majority of men unattractive. All the things you've listed I care about I don't want to date a woman under a certain height I don't want to date a woman that doesn't belong to the same class that I grew up in I don't want to date a woman that doesn't h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/23 12:20 PM |
| 1 | What's stopping men from posting nudes and thirst traps online?I had a profile on Instagram that was just work out pictures. And me in tight shirts on a beach and in a library. Pulled it down so cringe | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/23 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many men here want casual sex?Maybe some people find the sexual component of the relationship more compelling than the emotional component and if you're just interested in the sexual part one partner can get boring over time for some people not everyone but enough people for it to be at least 5% of the population. I know from personal experience I prefer sex with women over relationships with them and I'm not particularly even that interested in sex quite often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/05/23 08:31 PM |
| – | Newbie Question: Why did Roosh V and Andrew Tate only got popular after saying "Shocking" and "Controversial" statements is that a reflection as to what it takes to be "popular" in American Culture?For Americans over the age of 35 I could definitely say I would suggest books for Americans under the age of 35 I would suggest maybe a few YouTube channels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 07:05 PM |
| – | Newbie Question: Why did Roosh V and Andrew Tate only got popular after saying "Shocking" and "Controversial" statements is that a reflection as to what it takes to be "popular" in American Culture?Sure. It's my personal opinion (coming from observation) that Americans dislike esoteric ideas outside of a religious context (Probably the reason all of these guys are "Religious" now). We as a culture view knowledge in two contexts as Practical/ Professional , or Religious/ Metaphysical . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/05/23 09:43 AM |
| 3 | Newbie Question: Why did Roosh V and Andrew Tate only got popular after saying "Shocking" and "Controversial" statements is that a reflection as to what it takes to be "popular" in American Culture?That's not the reason why I think they got popular I think they got popular because Americans resent philosophical intellectuals. We view women with those traits as annoying and men with the trait as weak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 09:18 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMorning squats and a cold shower. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 09:14 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe problem with that philosophy isn't that it's wrong it's just that you're thinking about it if you just decide well I'm just not going to make this a part of my life and don't think about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Most men are not socialized to be good potential partnersThe number of people you participate with when you're training in a combat sport is different from a team sport yeah your socializing with people but it's much fewer people so while you might be gaining skills you're gaining skills to talk to specific personalities (fighters) rather than a broad pool of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 08:27 PM |
| 1 | All humans (to variable degrees) value something that is more scarce. And all humans say that they value authenticity. Which is the way in the context of dating?I don't value authenticity. I value effort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/23 01:52 AM |
| 21 | Men would be alot less frustrated in the dating effort if they were given brutally honest and often politically incorrect truths about what most women expect from a man.Nope. I know women that are obese who only date skinny tall men. The men are just broke. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Would you give up video games for sex?I actually don't like video games (anymore) but I also think sex is stupid so I give up either for either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 01:51 AM |
| 9 | What is your opinion of male celebrities who despite being found not guilty of their sexual assault allegations are still canceled and banned from their industries?They still have jobs, fans, supporters, and income, just not a good reputation. Sometimes I remember a football player that lost everything and went to prison only for his accuser to contact him later on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/23 01:50 AM |
| 5 | It appears that women don't want menOnce you get out of the courting stage dating men (generally) is easier than dating women. Speaking as someone that's dated both. When a routine starts up men just kinda fall in line and you settle into habits. We do this at this time , we meet these people this day, etc . Once you got a guy you're comfortable with it's easy to settle in. That's what most heterosexual relationships are settling in. Makes sense in a way because that's the group that's going to be making the people you know the ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 12:14 PM |
| 6 | It appears that women don't want menWell I no longer have date women. But I think this is a oversimplification. Not inaccurate but too General. I've said it before here and I've said it before in real life men have a broad set of tastes. Women having more narrow set of tastes. That doesn't mean all women share the same tastes it's just that where a man might like nine different types of bodies a woman likes three different types. 3 to 1 difference in preference means as men we are more open in relative terms to women . Personally … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/23 12:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "Approaching women" is dumb and a waste of time.If you are attracted to women you have to approach women. Unless you are very attractive in which case women will approach you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Q4everyone: Is your type into you?I mean sex sure. But sometimes getting like a date with sex off the table is difficult. You know the old saying about lesbians and U-Hauls | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 02:41 PM |
| 3 | Q4everyone: Is your type into you?I mean sex sure. But sometimes getting like a date with sex off the table is difficult. You know the old saying about lesbians and U-Hauls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 02:41 PM |
| 5 | Q4everyone: Is your type into you?Sucks. I thought dating women as woman would be easier than dating men as a man. As far as Romance goes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Q4everyone: Is your type into you?I do pick it with my personality type that I prefer both physical type its opposite. I prefer ethnic or mixed race women (brown). I usually get asked out or looks from white or very light skin women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:48 PM |
| 4 | Q4everyone: Is your type into you?Even wlw? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 01:46 PM |
| 3 | What is your opinion on the sub “Mens Lib”?Nothing. Any group that wants to help men has to be a group based around men any connection to feminism is automatically going to make the group weaker not necessarily because feminism is some great evil but because feminism has its own particular set of interests that do not necessarily overlap with male liberation interests. The paternity issue, the conscription issue, the social expectation issue., The presumption of threat issue, and depictions in Media. On a lot of these issues men that mig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Would you donate an organ for your partner?Sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/23 01:08 PM |
| 1 | From Andrew Tate to Sneako to JustPearlyThings to Fresh&Fit, virtually every major Red Pill creator is right-wing or leans that way. Meanwhile young men, their target audience, continue to vote overwhelmingly for the left. This shows that TRP isn't working and will never be mainstreamIt's a generational divide. You will see left leading red pill guys I predict probably in the next 2 years. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Is Western society going to become more attractive in the next 100 years due to women having more choice than ever before?word. If I'm wrong let me know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/23 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Is Western society going to become more attractive in the next 100 years due to women having more choice than ever before?No. Everything in America has sugar in it. Bread, meat, cheese, tea, coffee. America has a sugar addiction and that's why people are fat not because of any social conditioning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Is Western society going to become more attractive in the next 100 years due to women having more choice than ever before?That won't happen either. As a few third world countries become stable labor will shift to them because its less alienating to move to a neighboring society than to a truly alien one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Is Western society going to become more attractive in the next 100 years due to women having more choice than ever before?No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 07:01 PM |
| 1 | The Biggest Mistake When Looking At Sexual Marketplace Data On Men Is Looking At The Average/MedianIt's going to filter into something else. Too many people even if each one of those people only spend $10 on something there's too much material benefit for a person to gain from trying to to milk these people for it to have no impact you just need one ambitious or dangerous person to try to attach themselves to this in some way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:57 PM |
| 2 | The Biggest Mistake When Looking At Sexual Marketplace Data On Men Is Looking At The Average/MedianThat might be true and if are population was less than 10 million we could disregard it. Once you have anything over a population of 100 million even 1% of people behaving in any particular way or having a particular opinion is a city's worth of people. This multiple cities worth of people. I'm of the opinion that at the end of the day the percentage doesn't matter once you get past a certain number of people. If it was only 2% of people it would still be millions of people that's going to have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:30 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't other countries Passport Bro-ing over to the west?Name a rich country that's not a Western Country at this point is there any country in Africa that's a rich country is there any country in Asia besides South Korea or Japan that are rich countries are there any countries in Latin America that are rich countries? Western women are not more beautiful than African women or Asian women or Latin American women for most men that prefer women that are brown such as myself what's the women are outside of what appeals to us because when most people hear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Why aren't other countries Passport Bro-ing over to the west?Men that already moved to the west for job. Not seeking German wives. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Why aren't other countries Passport Bro-ing over to the west?The West is white. If you are not into white women it doesn't make sense to go to the West whatever group of women you're into is a minority there and probably already dating someone that's local. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 11:17 AM |
| – | What are the implications of infinite AI-generated porn?Women have a cultural preference for romance but I don't think men dislike romance it's just all of the presentations of romance in recent history and have been female focused as far as marketing goes. I know from gay media a desire for romance definitely exists gay or straight men are men if you get a large enough sample size you can find a good idea of what is romantic for most men and then tailor for specific demographics and eventually the individual.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 11:02 AM |
| -1 | The Biggest Mistake When Looking At Sexual Marketplace Data On Men Is Looking At The Average/MedianTo me it's a distinction without difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 10:36 AM |
| 1 | The Biggest Mistake When Looking At Sexual Marketplace Data On Men Is Looking At The Average/MedianIf we judges genes based on quality (which I prefer) we'd have probably a 12th of the population we have now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 10:35 AM |
| 1 | The Biggest Mistake When Looking At Sexual Marketplace Data On Men Is Looking At The Average/MedianIn America that's 33-49.5 million men roughly. Just to put that all in perspective . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 10:33 AM |
| 1 | The Biggest Mistake When Looking At Sexual Marketplace Data On Men Is Looking At The Average/MedianPeople have a tendency to even things out in their heads when it suits their ego or world. Women tend to be bad judges of other women's attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 10:29 AM |
| 2 | Men, how long is waiting for sex too long?Wait? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 10:20 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLuck I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/23 10:53 PM |
| 2 | American capitalism has destroyed datingI have a hard disagree I think New York City is different from the rest of the country in a meaningful way in that it's a real city. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/23 07:01 PM |
| 1 | This sub doesn't actually seem to be about discussing gender issuesExactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 01:13 PM |
| 1 | This sub doesn't actually seem to be about discussing gender issuesWe have less skin in the game. And we know from experience our gender is not an angel or some demon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 12:37 PM |
| 1 | This sub doesn't actually seem to be about discussing gender issuesHey I remain reasonable. But I'm bi so I don't really care as much about it as most people who I presume are straight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 12:17 PM |
| 1 | How different would historical gender dynamics and modern dating be if the size/strength difference between males and females were reversed, but everything else had remained the same?The disposability of sperm would probably maintain the dating greater we should probably eventually lead to differences in gender at least from a cultural context if not from a biological one. But initial societies will probably be more egalitarian and there's some evidence depending on who you talk to that suggests that men and women had much more similar roles in a pre-agricultural Society even the pre-tribal societies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 12:12 PM |
| 2 | Why didn't #PassportSisters trend before #PassportBros?The difference is the passport bros are going to non-european countries and for most people in the west they've always assumed European countries or Western countries or white countries are what all men assume view as the most attractive people. I asked a question here once about this issue which I really have no concern about but I got no answer I'm asking again. What if the reason people are picking these countries besides the the arguments of traditionalism or of submissiveness which I think … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/23 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Is the idea of being rejected by men you are interested in for shallow reasons hard to accept?Speech to text. I have a hand injury so I use it but it sometimes awful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Is the idea of being rejected by men you are interested in for shallow reasons hard to accept?I understand that sentiment when it comes to guys who make up all of these sort of false narratives about women because he belong to a specific ethnicity. Or if they hold women responsible for their negative interactions with women that happen to have the same racial characteristics in the past. But the Michael B. Jordan thing did bother me a little bit and I'm saying this to someone who has no interest in white women now or in the past. But I have been accused of dating white women that were my… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Is the idea of being rejected by men you are interested in for shallow reasons hard to accept?You want me to 2% of men to react to poorly because 100% of men have been rejected on the first approach at least once. So let's say out of 100 million men 97 million get rejected swallow their pride bow their heads and tucktail and scurry out. 2million loose their head and say something out of pocket. Half a percentage actually do something that is unforgivable or at least inappropriate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 10:48 AM |
| 5 | Is the idea of being rejected by men you are interested in for shallow reasons hard to accept?When I still dating women I had a girl follow me to my house and wait outside. I don't know what the thought process was maybe she was thinking she'd wait me out and I'd fold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/23 10:44 AM |
| 2 | The amount of economically, emotionally, & physically viable men in society is declining. How do we change this?Nah. There is no politician that was really interested in that. Those jobs have strong unions in this country (historically, nowadays they'll throw you under a bus for a wink and a smile). Both the Democratic and Republican parties have no interest in having strong unions because they kind of make their jobs useless. Unions help with Housing, Cost of Living, often help with education of their members children, oh let's not forget healthcare. And let's not forget they also hire legal Advocates . … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 10:11 AM |
| 2 | The amount of economically, emotionally, & physically viable men in society is declining. How do we change this?No it's an efficient system and with efficiency you don't need as many people to operate it some people fall through the gaps. I blame the cultural fetish of constant population growth if you don't need people for the jobs you shouldn't push for more of them to be made. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/23 12:26 AM |
| 7 | The amount of economically, emotionally, & physically viable men in society is declining. How do we change this?We can bring back manufacturing but if that's not the case then you don't and that's just going to be the case. Maybe if the population drops under a certain amount you'll negative unemployment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 09:46 PM |
| 5 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDBabies get switched at the hospital occasionally it can be useful for them to in some ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 04:14 AM |
| 11 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDThat's the only reason I can come up with people not liking the idea it simplifies everything a guy can't say that the baby's not his or didn't know that the baby was his because he got the test results. A woman can't claim that the baby's one guy just because he has better financial circumstances because she knows who the real father is. It's simple we have the tech and it hurts no one except a few feelings probably in just the first year. After that society adjusts. It wouldn't even take a gen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:11 AM |
| 0 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDTo be fair none of the issues you listed are actually a government concerns. Security (Military), Education , Traditions (usually Religious, and laws) These are the natural concerns of a state. Everything else including my proposal is Quality of Life not issues of state. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 02:01 AM |
| 9 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDWhy not? And most western countries have some sorta child support system established. This eliminates the human error or dishonest factor. Simple he is or he isn't. With emerging tech it will be cheaper every year. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:34 AM |
| 15 | Arguments against Paternity Test at Birth are WILDNo important system should be left up to dubious concepts like trust. Everything in the modern world is basically verifiable... Why not this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/23 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Q4M - Is fit, feminine, friendly, and cooperative REALLY all you're asking for?I like intelligence and secular. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Why Are You Single?I'm picky and what I'm surrounded by I'm not into either Physically, emotionally or intellectually. Sometimes all three at once if not two. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:09 PM |
| – | Most people are just children in adult bodies.No. Children are curious about the world around them. Most people don't even have a basic desire for knowledge. They just don't want to be perceived as ignorant or foolish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/23 08:06 PM |
| 7 | Discussion: Ugly PPD members, why are you using dating apps?I love a positive story every once and a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/23 06:41 PM |
| 21 | Has anyone else noticed a lack of "mixed gatherings" post Me too?You were broke but a hamburger was $1.00 Now is $2.50 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 02:18 PM |
| 1 | Why should women want traditionalism? What's in it for them?Summer Camp? Cram School? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits.Last I sat through was about essential oils | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/23 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits.That's not completely true. Some American groups are more involved in their childrens mate selection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Women lie about their partner preferences. They self-report preference for intelligent and ambitious men, but they chose the most attractive ones ignoring other traits.Probably America | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Why should women want traditionalism? What's in it for them?That's nice but I run into a lot of people who think that they're a jeweler somehow because they can put a bunch of stones on the string that look kind of pretty. Or at least somehow get involved in one of those multi-level marketing schemes and try flood you with emails. A lot of unofficial 'Bakers'. These are women I know that don't work a "real job". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 06:57 PM |
| 0 | Why should women want traditionalism? What's in it for them?I don't know maybe because I'm from Long Island if a man could afford to take care of a family on a single salary he usually also could afford to pay for a maid. Which is the most common thing I've seen. Usually those women and those relationships they either had some sort of very little career which was like the salt like a trinket thing or they got really involved in the community or church / temple or after school programs with the kids... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 06:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you all have these PurplePillDebate conversations and not get depressed/triggered? Genuine question (New Here)Nothing matters pretending it does is cringe. At the end of the day you have to live your life stressing over things you can't control or things you don't like doesn't help you try to change things that you can to give you better results and know the limitations that that will give you so that you're not disappointed and you just keep it moving.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 06:03 PM |
| 2 | whats the problem with a woman getting with a beta bucks?It's been my experience that most people aren't good people. Not evil or bad just not good good is actively trying to do good. Same applies to parent's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 06:00 PM |
| 0 | Male settling is as responsible for dead bedrooms as female settlingWell it really comes down to one basic principle who's going to blink first you or her? If you're attracted to women exclusively you are having sex based off of their standards in relationship. You can have your own standards which is your own filter but really your filter only works if you're attractive enough that you have a large enough pool of women that you can filter if you don't you kind of just you know... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 05:52 PM |
| 1 | "Insecure" led to an interesting conversation on gender and dating success.I honestly believe that personality doesn't increase the amount of date you get it just makes the dates you have better. Now if the argument is that quantity is better than quality which I kind of actually agree with at least in theory, it's better to not have a great personality and just be seen as attractive because then you can filter for personality traits you don't like versus having a personality trait that people generally like but not having the ability to filter because you don't have t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/23 05:48 PM |
| 2 | If men were less horny, what would happen?I think we are seeing a little peak of that. Male testosterone levels have been on a decline for decades. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men tend to accept bisexual women far more than women accept bisexual men?The issue is the AIDS crisis of the 1980s. Before that bi men had a completely position in society. Famous Poets, Movie stars, leaders were different degrees of open and view semi neutral. Why because their other partner wouldn't give them a baby. So common it was joke about English school boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Why do you think men tend to accept bisexual women far more than women accept bisexual men?That's not why that's the case, if homosexuality or homosexual desires are a function of inheritance which I'm not convinced it is. For most of history people were expected to reproduce independent of whether or not they desired their partners that goes for men that are homosexual women that are homosexual bisexuals asexuals etc so if it is a biological trait there is no natural filter I mean maybe a thousand years from now there might be a lot less gay people but in the past pre 1960 the idea t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Apparently Women are joining the Passport Bros CrewI understand the sentiment of that but what if you're not into white women. I mean I know at least looking for my perspective to find a woman that's vegan who's secular and has the same education and cultural interests I have the likelihood of her being white is high. Yet not into white chicks. Thus cutting down my dating pool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:56 PM |
| 3 | Apparently Women are joining the Passport Bros CrewI fundamentally disagree I think culturally people dislike the idea of men having no fundamental attachment to their culture and sexual attachment is number one. It's like aif you notice any show that's written by a woman (or at least most show) very rarely do you see a positive representation of a man from her ethnicity dating outside of their ethnicity if heterosexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/23 04:52 PM |
| 2 | Why not look for a woman with a career?Certain Career paths accumulate intelligent people but not a lot of money Academia, Literature, Journalism, etc. I don't think a real estate agent or a wall street bro could have a conversation with me that wouldn't bore me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Why not look for a woman with a career?What I'm saying is men have to learn to be comfortable when they are wrong of they want to date someone with higher intelligence Making more money doesn't make you more intelligent. To think otherwise is so American it makes my heart hurt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 09:41 PM |
| 0 | do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement?Which brand of Feminists? The Capitalist Apologists (Girl-boss squad) Neo Marxists Terfs Anti-theistic Divine Woman (Anthropological Religious-Revisionism) Catholic Women's Groups Any group you join with get you 6 opponents. An alliance buys a little support but more enemies. That's why it has to be independent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:24 PM |
| 0 | do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement?That's Why I believe in small group efforts based around other Characteristics. Race, Occupation, Sexuality, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 08:00 PM |
| 0 | do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement?Not yet but I've been in communication with different people. Forming movement is difficult and requires courage. But efforts are being made even if it takes a decade . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 07:59 PM |
| 3 | do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement?I like term Gendered Expectations. Or the Gender Cage. Mainly because it doesn't seem like it's an attack on somebody's self-proclaimed identity in relationship to their gender. But rather talks about the fact that belonging to that gender or at least identifying as that puts them in a cage of expectations or specific paths. It's capable of being used for multiple different types of people as Well and Even has a the ability to evoke the image of oppression from above rather that judgement from a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 07:40 PM |
| 1 | do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement?Independent groups are necessary. Alliances are nice but they tend to favor a more powerful group. At the moment at least Neo-Lib Feminist are the more powerful group and long-term alliance is effectively Vassalization inherit disagreements are bound. Even in the LGBT community we have: Trans issues, Racism and Anti-Racist debates, Issues about international organization and asylum seeking, not to mention the class issues in representation and organizing. If you cant come to consensus in a group… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 07:37 PM |
| 0 | do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement?I don't think that would make a difference and I've always had a problem with the concept of toxic masculinity. Not because I disagree with the idea that certainly traits or behaviors are negative but I think that the terminology in itself already creates a circumstance in which you create defensiveness. I think a men's right group especially a left leaning one would probably be better sympathetic but not overly invested in feminist Institutions. I believe along ethnic groups and class groups en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 07:25 PM |
| 0 | do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement?No. A Black men's group or Asian man's group, ethic in general wouldn't have that issue of image because the needs clear.. I could see a White (specifically white) group having issues. But it would just require more specific marketing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 07:19 PM |
| 1 | do you think men interested in men’s rights and protections will ever form a cohesive movement?Yes. But along ethnic and Class lines. A Man's Movement will always be seen as a directly oppositional to Feminists and Traditionalists. But if Separate groups form independent groups you'd see group consolidation via Shared Philosophies. I do think the movement is always going to be split between left and Right. I don't think a Mennism (just a idea of a name) would be Captured completely under one Political Faction unless completely rejected by the other.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/23 07:16 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWe'll see | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 06:59 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's hater logic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSo what? If he's a Knicks fan he won't cheat? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/23 11:45 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'd have to see a list of the books and get a chance to reveal them to believe that fully. Definitely some would be inappropriate but that's inevitable given the shear volume of books that go up for review. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 05:32 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThose guys cry about free speech while trying to close libraries | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/23 04:42 PM |
| 2 | Is there a net positive or negative to these discussions that we're having?I think so but others might disagree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Men aren't checking out of society.The truth is we really don't need that many people to make the system work. Buying in is high and pay out is low unless you're very lucky or you're very intelligent. Under those circumstances a lot of people are going to make a decision to try to spend as much time as possible pursuing their own specific goals or wants over some sort of idea of a collective. It doesn't matter if a bunch of men, women, or whatever check out. As long as they pay taxes, and work we'll be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 10:28 AM |
| 2 | Is there a net positive or negative to these discussions that we're having?It's entertaining but its completely changed my perspective on dating and relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 10:18 AM |
| 0 | Chasing women is a waste of time.That's not accurate necessarily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 10:07 AM |
| 1 | The people who say “women should settle down in their 20s and doing that in their 30s is a bad idea” are manosphere guys, bible thumpers, and successful conservatives. In general, it’s a bad idea.Once again I'm not saying I agree with the argument I'm saying this is what the argument is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 01:42 AM |
| 3 | The people who say “women should settle down in their 20s and doing that in their 30s is a bad idea” are manosphere guys, bible thumpers, and successful conservatives. In general, it’s a bad idea.I know you're being facetious but I grew up around some real crazy Christians this is an argument I have heard for why 14-year-old girl shouldn't have an abortion. Have the baby as punishment. No lies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 12:56 AM |
| -1 | The people who say “women should settle down in their 20s and doing that in their 30s is a bad idea” are manosphere guys, bible thumpers, and successful conservatives. In general, it’s a bad idea.I don't see the value in a long term relationship with a woman... But I can think of a reason for why someone might say that: Basically I guess the idea would be it's better to get people used to the idea of responsibilities before they have too much worldly experience so that they can mature into it rather than when they're older and their negative habits have become hardened and probably won't change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | With rising AI people will use "flirt optimizers" to maximize their date counts on dating platformsFor now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Looks will get your foot in the door, but these days the door is on the top floorModern relationships between men and women in the west or really any modern country cuz it's not just west is really a function of novelty. In order for you to be someone that is valued as being a potential partner you have to have some novel traits for some people that's: a talent, that's a physical/creative ability, and for most people its looks. Just think of it in this terms if you really want to you can have a child without having to have sex you can find someone who carriage health return … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 09:30 PM |
| 1 | With rising AI people will use "flirt optimizers" to maximize their date counts on dating platformsNo that's done too you can already mimic your own voice with AI there's some really interesting technology that's going to come out in the next couple of months that is almost terrifying how close it is to a real person's voice. . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 09:24 PM |
| 1 | With rising AI people will use "flirt optimizers" to maximize their date counts on dating platformsI kind of think we're done with online dating at least formal sites I think Instagram is really the place that most people are going to try to meet people. I think what a will probably be used for is filtering DMs I could definitely see women or some feminine men using AI to filter DM chats to get rid of the grossest man according to whatever they believe is gross as an intro message so that you only deal with the people that have written something nice and then they filter personally by the pic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 09:22 PM |
| 1 | Men need women more than women need men.Nobody needs anyone. Social expectations poisons the mind and prevents people from accepting their situation at hand. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 06:50 PM |
| 13 | Chasing women is a waste of time.Unless you're bisexual or super attractive you have no choice but to to try with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/23 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Why have women always found it so hard to tell me they only see me as a friend?You're not unattractive enough for her to understand why she not interested. But she isn't. Sorry dude that's just how it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/23 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo one's afraid of death. They hate it and assume that hate is fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 11:06 PM |
| 1 | We need structured, classroom-based real-life adult/young adult education on social skills and datingWhat does that mean when you have FaceTime texting artificial intelligence online chats and New slang coming out every 15-13 weeks. Don't get me wrong I do think some sort of structured socialization is necessary but I think if you try to create a class it will automatically become corny and outdated within 5 weeks of its creation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/23 10:55 PM |
| 9 | Why does romance and sexuality come naturally to some people and not others?neurodivergent brains, attractiveness, lack of overlapping common interests , and weak effort | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/23 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo. It did Shift my dating strategy a little but not by much. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 11:44 PM |
| – | "There is no easy cheatcode for men"I'm actually bisexual this is silly. And kinda messed up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/23 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Being attracted to 18 year old's is comparable to a high n count womenFair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 12:29 PM |
| 5 | Being attracted to 18 year old's is comparable to a high n count womenWhen I was like 14 I had an adult woman 40 something that knew my family asked me if I wanted to go into her bedroom. I mean we could play this game if you want but I'll tell you straight up front women are just as creepy as a matter they just don't often get caught as often unless they're a teacher or they're not successful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/23 12:23 PM |
| 1 | What can restore the divide between men and women in America?No solution solution is to date the highest standards you possibly can date and to accept nothing less no matter who you are even if that means dating no one. Unless you have a standard you are willing to relax. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/03/23 03:08 PM |
| 2 | What can restore the divide between men and women in America?I think a bunch of people are just kind of punks and unwilling to deal with conflict and any real meaningful way. As I see it the relationship between men and women is the same as the relationship between someone with a college degree and a job, you have an option. You have the option to stay because it provides you some benefit or to leave because you decided that the benefit that's offered you isn't enough for the headache. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 06:03 PM |
| 2 | What can restore the divide between men and women in America?That's not a solve that's just avoiding the problem at the moment. The truth is men and women just have to accept that from a cultural perspective they have to play the same role you can negotiate your relationships on your own terms but they're negotiation each time there's no preset role you have to figure it out each time that's it. The previous generations were able to be I say emotionally lazy and just fall into positions no you have to negotiate with your relationships going to be: * what … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAlmost every primate species with a few exceptions uses violence to achieve some social goals so it's probably a little bit of an instinct that's made worse by negative socialization or reduced by positive socialization. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/23 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Passport IreIn my experience westerners don't self analyze they never look at their own behaviors and try to figure out why they have the opinions that they have or where biases come from the presume that there are theories are correct unless convinced by an outsider but they never come to a conclusion contrary to their first conclusion on their own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 11:14 PM |
| 0 | Passport IreSuper common, super exploitive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the majority of women are significantly more open to experimenting sexually depending on a man’s perceived status/value?Yes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/23 03:40 PM |
| 6 | Do you think the majority of women are significantly more open to experimenting sexually depending on a man’s perceived status/value?I've never been asked to use a condom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 09:44 PM |
| 4 | 60% of young men are not chronically single because they "lack emotional skills"Men voluntarily give up sex with women all the time that's not the issue the issue is the social expectation to reproduce the concept of personhood and responsibility being attached to the heterosexual relationship rather than asexual leave it homosexual relationships which side has gotten slightly better at.. Personally I think people will just get used to the idea of someone not having sex. If we could get used to the idea that two men might choose to have sex or two women might choose to have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/02/23 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Does quantity equal quality?Kind of. If you have access to quantity you have the ability to filter for quality. If you do not have access to quantity you will always be operating under a certain quality for the most part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 07:31 PM |
| 1 | For people who were/are on dating apps looking for a relationship: What's your attitude towards sex?I personally dislike sex a little (not asexual) but that's what people want if want to find a meaningful relationship. So here we are.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/23 07:23 PM |
| 2 | Theory: dating apps have irrepairably damaged Collective Unconcious Sexual Selection (CUSS) health.No poverty is a spectrum dependent on a nations general fortunes. You can't eliminate poverty. What I will say is this if you belong to an ethnic minority group you can mitigate the effects of poverty by having a very concrete plan for what your children will do with their future. Once you have two generations of people that have become experts in a particular field you create the ability to use nepotism positively. Which means that people that come from a particular family will have a higher li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 04:17 AM |
| 1 | What female body time do men actually like??Yes she is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Modern day dating is basically a winner takes all market…I think the solution to this is probably something like a Netflix / Hulu for prostitution.. Where men pay a certain amount per month and that allows for them to have sex with certain amount of prostitutes and they can get to pick and choose which prostitute they have sex with the money collectively added and all women that are open to the system are paid a percentage of the income those that had get more clients will receive more pay those who start getting no clients get pushed out of the syste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Boyfriend/Husband Material Men Getting Less Than What Other Guys GotThe easy way to think about it and it was explained to me by a gym teacher so I didn't come up with this analogy. Human fat is like cello human muscle is like rope the amount (mass) of jello it takes to weigh the same as a pound rope is physically bigger by in comparison. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Theory: dating apps have irrepairably damaged Collective Unconcious Sexual Selection (CUSS) health.If that's the case the argument is valid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 09:54 PM |
| 2 | Do you think people can have meaningful relationships with AI?I think what I'm going to say is controversial. I think people can have a emotionally and personally fulfilling relationship but I think any relationship had with a non-human is by its nature meaningless. So you can feel all the emotions and value from a AI but it will be the same as being alone from a objective perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 09:04 PM |
| 2 | What female body time do men actually like??I like the Kelly Rowland look if that's a hint. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Has dating really got worse, or is it always been the same?No it got worse people got creepier. Get me wrong people have become more comfortable stating their boundaries and their preferences so there's less a thickness to some degree but it the nature of how sexuality works I think at least in The Last 5 Years is creepier. And that spills out into all of the rest of dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 09:01 PM |
| 1 | The “female delusion calculator” RP men use is flawedMaybe I have a bias because I live on long island but,... New York city is in a place where high value men live it's a place where they work. In general people go to New York City at least from the surrounding areas of the state to work in the financial district and some other industries that pay a pretty penny and indeed go back to New Jersey or some of the surrounding counties or Nassau or Suffolk to live and take care of their families. In my experience to only men that decide to live in New … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Theory: dating apps have irrepairably damaged Collective Unconcious Sexual Selection (CUSS) health.What percentage of the population of black men died due to homicide in that period versus now that's a better indicator of whether or not life is better it might have changed politically so now the state no longer has a policy of open discrimination. But if the material conditions have remained that the same or gotten worse then you can't make that argument. I think for African Americans who exist in a non-traditional space meaning they are part of the LGBT community or are women of higher educa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 08:56 PM |
| 5 | Theory: dating apps have irrepairably damaged Collective Unconcious Sexual Selection (CUSS) health.No it doesn't . We need a better method for distributing resources. Probably a fusion of capitalism and socialism. I think something like a international socialism where there's a general standard that every state has to guarantee its employers and citizene that all countries pay in a certain percentage of the GDP to make sure that no one drops under a certain level so that people can't move companies to a different location so that they can get cheaper labor but internal State capitalism so tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 08:27 PM |
| 10 | Theory: dating apps have irrepairably damaged Collective Unconcious Sexual Selection (CUSS) health.Unfortunately it seems like for the last 20 years of both parties are pro Monopoly. I think it just makes it a lot easier for them when they're campaigning if there's one major donator it's a lot easier for them to fulfill a promise rather than if they're 20 competing donors. It's like the idea of demographics based voting was applied to lobbying. If collect all industries into a fewer hand you can better game this system to win reelection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Are women really not able to love unconditionally?Nobody loves unconditionally. We just have different conditions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 08:14 PM |
| 8 | Dating is just a waste of time and money these days.It's not just dating everything in America is like that. Family, friends, jobs, it's a nation that feels like one big office job. Empty shallow at every level to get a genuine opinion that's not just a copy of a "official" stance is impossible.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Where did "women couldn't get a job" notion come from?Yes. And if that's the main method for reproduction for many men, if you control access to funds you control men. If men no longer can rely on using resources as a bargaining tool the bosses loose power.. It's interesting that so many people have taken a more openly socialist perspective to bosses and even housing. Previous generations of men were terrified because openly being slightly socialist could cost a job and ruin long term mating prospects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/23 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Where did "women couldn't get a job" notion come from?I don't know if you've been paying attention to the news at least in America but they've been some significant changes in the way that unions are perceived by the general public at least in the last I say 16 months. I don't think it's a coincidence that now that the relationship between men and women have changed and employers can no longer dangle the prospects of men potentially losing out when do you have to play the role of provider and protector in order to sort of fit into a model of what i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 06:58 PM |
| 0 | Where did "women couldn't get a job" notion come from?No.. The previous social structure was about maintaining the position of those who are effectively the ruling class or the patrician class in the Republic. The reason why women were ultimately left out of social orders is because women are not an effective Force for violence. I'm sure women would do the same thing human beings basically act on the same stimili with the same basic social principles applied to them but they're not as effective as a bullet shield or as a bludgeoning tool didn't rea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 12:30 AM |
| 0 | Where did "women couldn't get a job" notion come from?equality That's not actually the reason. The reason is the social hierarchy requires a certain amount of people who belong to the same angle to hold specific positions if it drops under a certain percentage the social order ends up having issues if you have a social order in which only one group of men from one specific race from one specific class will effectively end up being the rulers you have to make sure that a certain percentage of people who belong to the same group despite not belonging… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/23 12:20 AM |
| 4 | Why don't more young men learn how to validate their own masculinity instead of always depending on the stimuli of women, other men and society at large?Self validation is a myth made up by narcissistic American self help gurus.. If you are not a psychopath you care about the opinion this is caveats there's some people you despise and therefore their opinions mean nothing whether they are affirming you or dismissing it. Really the best advice is to learn to live with disappointment and dissatisfaction without needing false hope or anger. Just live, it is what it is "c'est comme ça" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Who is more successful in dating: conservative/right wing men or liberal/left wing men?Too many factors to say out right. If I had to guess any group of men being more successful than other men at dating heterosexual women I would say moderates people who might have some conservative perspectives but they don't have Confederate flags on the back of their car and who might also hold some liberal opinions but they don't have a rainbow flag on the back of that car. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Do humans need to be in relationships to be happy and healthy or is being single for life healthy?This could just be a bad observation but I tend to think that's more of a western issue and especially a western Big country issue. Like I hear men not having friends and I think about my Jamaican friends or my friends from the Caribbean or from Africa and the fathers may not necessarily be social in the way that I understand but they tend to have pretty close friendships or at least pretty close relationships with the cousins. I think in the west men have a tendency if they get married to get m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Dating and biology - why women don't want men/relationships anymoreIt's so simple I said this I don't know how many times here the relationship between men and women is based around two basic concepts necessity and novelty. If the necessity decreases will disappears then it becomes wholly a factor of novelty or desire or a whim. The majority of people independent of sex or race or age are boring and forgettable so they do not really have a novel Factor so that means for a large portion of people they are not novel a small portion of people are novel they're ver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:21 PM |
| 7 | I don’t think dating gets easier for men in their 40’s and beyond.I don't know. I think when men get past a certain age they become more comfortable with themselves and are usually making more money. So if they are in shape and attractive thus their is less competition and less fear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/23 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTate, Sneako, Fresh and Fit would not be popular. So that's bullshit. They present a image of being desired by attractive women (I'm not saying they actually are) and despised by feminist (we can agree they definitely are). Both appealing to young heterosexual men seeking unashamed male confidence and older male guidance. they pull this "I want to be desired by people I despise" BS. People are complicated I guess it's not that surprising to me. People are attracted to what their attracted to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think culture based shame and guilt. Also the desire to be desired. I think men (some) find it difficult to be sexually fulfilled if they're desired or have some emotions from a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:53 PM |
| 1 | A Common Sentiment These Days is That Men Are Generally Trash Partners. But If a Man Works to No Longer Be Trash What Incentive Does He Have to Now Commit To a Woman?Okay I'll rip the bandage off that a lot of these people are having trouble with. There is no reason. It's a decision you make because you either decided to commit to one person out of an emotional impulse or your fulfilling some sort of religious quasi social expectation. That's it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:50 PM |
| 4 | having sex while moderately drunk isn't rapeIt's too close to risk if you ask me . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/23 08:46 PM |
| 1 | "Be her friend first" or "Make your intentions known" - Which is it?Being friends works if attraction is mutual and developed by both over time. But if you as a man start out with the attraction and try pursue a friendship in the hopes of a relationship it's pointless and a waste of your time. Making intentions known works or fails depending on you attractiveness (overall qualities) to the girl. Personally I chose the later. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Misogynists and Misandrists deserve each otherThey often create each other via dating and / or child rearing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 11:14 AM |
| 7 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?No very little Iis automatic actually. But a few people can do a lot more than previous generations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 11:09 AM |
| 11 | What, or when, do you think the breaking point will be?No breaking point and a reversal will do more harm than good. I suspect society will have to take a new approach besides shame or duty (another type of shaming) to convince men to participate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/23 11:07 AM |
| 3 | "Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate"I didn't say that you did.. I just suggested the importance of looks is being underrated. It's core not end all be all but for most functional people it's the first 10 pages or Prologue in a 400 page book. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 10:18 PM |
| 1 | The Red Pill believes in a concept called Hypergamy - the idea that women are biologically or naturally inclined to pursue men of higher status than themselves. Yet, statistics show that almost 40% of women earn more than their husbands. This proves Hypergamy is a myth and TRP at its core is a shamI think what this person was trying to say though honestly kind of clumsily. In general don't necessarily specifically men are more attracted to a personality than to a profession. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 08:53 PM |
| 3 | "Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate"That's not what happening what's happening is that natural resources are overused and populations in the west which generally have smaller populations and those resources tend to go to waste at least when we're talking about food if you're talking about oil and other products that's not necessarily going to be solved by having lower birth rate. Is the nature of how we consume goods rather than the number of people who are a lot of people will starving or not necessarily starving but living below… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 08:43 PM |
| 2 | "Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate"What no. That's transforming the relationship between a brother and sister into effectively the same relationship of a husband and a wife which I am morally against. I think too many of you people have been watching game of thrones | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 08:40 PM |
| 2 | "Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate"I said this with all respect to that group of people but I think taking the approach of a defeated culture is symbolic of Doom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 08:38 PM |
| 5 | "Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate"I think you're missing a very important point what a lot of these men are talking about what they're saying is sexual relationships which are the fundamental foundation of heterosexual and all relationships between people who are sexually active. If a man is not attractive enough to ensure potential access to a sexual relationship he probably get the deep emotional connection either. For most people unfortunately it's a package deal. Now for some men they do have access to the emotional relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 08:36 PM |
| 3 | "Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate"Let's not be too dismissive of this it always bothers me when people completely ignore the possibility that someone could just not be attractive it's not always personality yes personality is a factor. But it's possible for someone's looks there ethnicity the age and the cultural context that they live in to work against them even if they have a generally good personality (whatever that means). Statistically it's inevitable that some people will be romantically unsuccessful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 08:25 PM |
| 5 | "Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate"Society is always progressing and advancing That's not absolutely accurate. I will agree that change is inevitable I don't necessarily believe that the changes going to be progressive I could see Society work wrestling and some really significant ways but it's inevitable that what exists now in the 2020s will not be the same thing in the 2060s. Some similarities alot of difference.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 08:22 PM |
| 11 | "Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate"Agree. I think Western governments or modern governments just need to accept that the old economic model is over constant growth is probably done we're going to be moving towards smaller populations for at least two generations maybe three generations. I think the thing that makes a lot of people terrified is that a lot of our government programs are wrapped up in taxes levied on the young / working class. We probably should shift to taxing industries and price management. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 08:20 PM |
| 2 | "Why a shortage of Mr Rights means single mothers hold the key to the falling birthrate"This will just increase the amount of people who are below the poverty line. Increase the likelihood of men from America and Lesbians too seek partners outside of the country.. This eventually chases people out of the country I think in a lot of ways that they presume won't be the case. If I make 250,000 a year and the statistics shows single parent households produce more violent children (in general) and I'm single. One I'm going to pursue relationships with non American women. Two, I'm going … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/23 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Do men have ANY advantages when it comes to dating?I've been thinking about what I would describe male sexuality as in terms of attractive and unattractive I think the average man would be willing to have sex with an unattractive woman and still acknowledging their head that the woman's unattractive the threshold isn't this type of body or look is attractive straight up it's it's attractive enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Do men have ANY advantages when it comes to dating?If you're an attractive heterosexual man I say anywhere between 6'3 and 6'6 with sharp features you have the best dating options of anyone on the planet you are the general preference for all women now you might have some things that racially might divide that or you might have your own personal age restrictions like you might not be willing to date a woman 10 years older than you or two years younger than you but in general you have the best dating options anyone's ever had. Otherwise no. I don… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/23 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Curious, who here was reading red pill content pre 2018?Was identifying as Hetero now no longer does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/23 12:38 AM |
| 1 | Many female users here claim that they commonly see "attractive" women dating "less attractive" men. Does makeup explain this?It has been my experience in general that women over inflate other womens attractiveness. I have had women I know and love and dearly in my life tell me that they think a particular girl is pretty and I don't mean to say that she's ugly but when I think of the term pretty it's more specific and that particular person would be excluded from said definition within my own eyes and the eyes of most men.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/23 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Curious, who here was reading red pill content pre 2018?However, the usual case of angry young men is extremely unlikely due to them being placated by porn and video game That's not the reason. The real reason is more interesting. It's because nobody really believes anything matters. Have children why for them to be: * indoctrinated into left wing ideology (right) * Die due to climate change (left) * Experience societal collapse (center) Get married: * Divorce (men) * Loose freedom (women) Etc.. There is no single place currently in society that is r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/23 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 09:36 AM |
| 1 | What even makes a woman unattractive, really?Facial structure. Voice type, extreme heights too short to tall, body hair, smell (if bad), skin health (if poor), unnatural appearance (looking unreal) Just the basics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/23 09:23 AM |
| 1 | AI will make the porn sick men problem 10x worseMaybe. I'm not fully convinced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 02:56 PM |
| 1 | What do the two genders gain from even engaging with each other?The gender war is real but people online are in my opinion functioning sociopaths. Things are not usually as extreme as their presented online but it is people's honest opinion. Most people don't post so it's not necessarily a direct brain dump of the opposite sex. If you are heterosexual desire to be sexually and romantically active you will find a reason to date or engage with the opposite sex because it is necessary for you as a human being if you are not then you don't really need to. It's t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 06:45 AM |
| 4 | Cop Orgy Controversy WEEKLY DISCUSSION THREADNah | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 06:35 AM |
| 4 | AI will make the porn sick men problem 10x worseMaybe their partners just not good at sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 06:34 AM |
| 1 | AI will make the porn sick men problem 10x worseGood! "Omg, people who squeezed themselves into the cracks in the system and sucked on its imperfections will have to actually work", the horr That's most jobs. Most of the modern economy is busy work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/23 06:32 AM |
| 1 | You must pick oneI perfer the second. I'm so so on sex. I'd prefer something like a peaceful relationship with mutual respect with sex as a non factor.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/01/23 01:58 AM |
| 1 | QWA: What was the best sex you ever had?Who was it with? A guy I worked with What age were you? 27 What happened? Really intense. A lot of kissing before and after. In a office basement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Issues in the West are just as much a social issue as they are a dating one.It's natural human value calculations. Human relationships, whether they be between men and women, men and men, or women and women, are based on necessity first and then novelty second. When necessity is removed, the relationship becomes weaker and must rely on more novelty to sustain it. In order for a relationship to have value, it must have unique value. However, most people are not unique, leading to a decrease in potential engagement with others. This phenomenon exists at all levels, includ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Why do American women seem to be dissatisfied with the quality of American men?Everything you talking about is depending on the housing prices remaining stagnant. Truth everyone has to work. People don't have time to form relationships based on meaningful things so we all operate at a more shallow level. If we fixed housing prices for a max and minimum for different layouts and areas something more like buying a cellphone in it's process we'd see a radical change in every aspect of our relationships Dating, Race, Political, etc.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/23 02:05 PM |
| 0 | RP men what is your age and what is the age range of women you’d be willing to *seriously* date?31 For men 27-41 For women 27-35 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/23 07:21 PM |
| 7 | Young men provide in peace their labor to the society, in war their blood; in exchange they get to get a wife to have children and he is deeply invested in the well being of society, modern society destroyed this social contract and expects young men to uphold a society that gives them NOTHINGI'm pretty liberal but i believe that really, the society's maintained by a series of unspoken contracts. Why should a man who is 6'3 physically fit Work for anyone that is physically weaker than them or someone if you don't like them; why because just straight up punking someone has social consequences and we incentivize you to work rather than just take what you want. You can see this pretty clearly in a society where any portion of the population won't suffer consequences from sort of they're… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/01/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Can the difference between the female sex drive and the male sex drive be evidenced by the stark differences between gay male sexual patterns and lesbian sexual patterns?Well I tend to like the fems just not exclusively. I'm a top so really it comes down to me being attracted to someone and someone being equally attracted to me I filter based off of ... I don't want to say class because that that suggests something about myself that's not true let's say they're based off of shared interests. Which is to say whether it would be a man or woman I tend to only like to deal with people that have some sort of education someone that reads books someone with similar tas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Mainstream Feminism is a female supremacy movementMost modern left wing ideology I find is Marxism but without any class character or class consciousness which means that the use the rhetoric and the logic of marxist to explain the nature of society but the ignore the concept of class solidarity because the people who are talking about it have no interest personally in seeing meaningful change in the condition of the people that the mean to represent they don't come from the same class. To a certain degree that was true even for Marx and for Le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Can the difference between the female sex drive and the male sex drive be evidenced by the stark differences between gay male sexual patterns and lesbian sexual patterns?Part of the community. It means I have dated women in the past, and despite attraction I no longer do. I only date men now. Still have sex with women but no dating. At least for the foreseeable future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/23 08:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If you're contented being single, then a romantic partner/relationship is already redundant.No just being funny I guess you never saw The Big Lebowski? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 09:44 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If you're contented being single, then a romantic partner/relationship is already redundant.I guess I just feel it’s better to have loved and lost than not loved at all. That's like an opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Young, feminine men have much more success compared with young, masculine men.These are all tall white dudes with decent jaw lines. I wouldn't call either of those things or any of those things is being inherently feminine. In general for both men and women I don't know what your facial structure looks like broad features are viewed negatively and sharp features of you more positively. Is not a masculine future it's just a type of feature sharp is not a feminine feature it's just a type of feature in general sharp features are considered more attractive broad features of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Straight and gay men/women cannot ever have a true understanding of men and women, like bi men/women canFrom personal experience I agree. At least if you date both not if you're only having sex with both. If you date both you grow to not be as precious about supposed innate divine magic gender traits both genders believe at their convenience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 05:54 PM |
| 2 | There are 50/50 male/female to hookup with each other but somehow there's a mass of men that are struggling but women are chilling. How does this make sense?Distribution is not even: five men five women does not mean that each woman is equally attracted to each of the five men that each of the five men is equally attracted to each of the five women I think it's more like five men they'll probably share attraction to at least one woman and two women will be a variable in which half of the men might be attracted to the same two and another half might be attracted to a different two which means out of five women three will be attractive but they'll be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/23 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Can the difference between the female sex drive and the male sex drive be evidenced by the stark differences between gay male sexual patterns and lesbian sexual patterns?If you're involved in heterosexual relationship I think it's like a back at the brain if she's having sex with other men this might not be my baby if there is a baby even if you don't want to have babies. Some people don't have that other people do I think the majority of men that are interested in having sex with women exclusively or at least open to it will have some degree of it. On the flip side of it if your man you're dating other men exclusively or you're just open to it you're probably n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Can the difference between the female sex drive and the male sex drive be evidenced by the stark differences between gay male sexual patterns and lesbian sexual patterns?To some degree but I also think that the gay man thing also has a cultural context in general we have a when you created a framework for a person to define their life based off of an innate characteristic a certain portion of people are going to fall into it .... well in more simple term I guess to say: "is when The stereotype exists even if the stereotype is not inherently true individuals will find a way to mow the life to make it true for themselves if it's beneficial". I wonder if Society ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 04:17 PM |
| 1 | If a population doesn't want to lose the genetics of its most intelligent women, paying for those women's eggs is the best option.That's not whats happening. People who have excess resources don't want to mate they're not wanting of resources. They personally have too much, poor people that have a similar background as far as a direct visual similarity in ethnicity and age don't have the same problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/23 10:45 AM |
| 1 | When sex dolls and sexbots are nearly indistinguishable from humans, will they make fat ones with blue hair?Yep | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 08:37 PM |
| 1 | To those of you who believe men and women can't be friends - how does this rule apply to homosexuals and bisexuals?If you live in the west which is to say United States of America Canada the UK Germany and I'd say Italy and France any friendship you try to establish with an adult after the age of 20th already is going to be based on work sex or alcohol consumption. It's very rare that you can establish a friendship based off of your mutual love of poetry or discussing theoretical systems of government. Therefore oncd your past a certain age being able to establish real friendships that do not have a sexual b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 08:32 PM |
| 1 | If a population doesn't want to lose the genetics of its most intelligent women, paying for those women's eggs is the best option.Well it's true that there's a genetic component towards IQ environment was a very important role and having an intelligent parent is not going to prevent certain disabilities we even remove the possibility when it comes to things like schizophrenia dyslexia etc.. Get the most intelligent women or people in general don't want to reproduce then it's a genetic debt in propagating it is like forks and pandas to breed they're not really a part of the environment and a meaningful way and this is a was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Dating women within your ethnicity as a male is relatively easierSame | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/23 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Take responsibility for your own outcomeBoth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Take responsibility for your own outcomeMost. I truly believe some (less than 3%) people are completely lost causes you can look someone in their eyes and say they will never be anything and you will be 100% right without any evil intent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/22 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat no Hanukkah shoutouts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 12:11 PM |
| 1 | How to be more attractive as a man?See I have a similar experience but generally if a woman is into black or white men and but not both she has no interest in me if women's is interested both I have a chance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/22 11:43 AM |
| 1 | Human behavior is consistent across multiple domains(from jobs to seduction). So rejection isn’t personal. It’s human natureSee I take a different stance I think all rejection is personal but so what. If I'm not attracted to you I'm rejecting your genes I'm rejecting the potential of your personality I'm rejecting a certain degree of a relationship with you I'm rejecting you completely but so what you have to live your life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 05:04 AM |
| 2 | Which sex provides more sexual satisfaction to the other?Just being honest women have never been anything other than okay. You've never been really that awful with the exception of like maybe one or two and none have been great or really impressive. Even the ones that talked up a good game. Men have been everything from awful to a amazing but mostly middle. My best experience was men my worst experience was men. So I guess the best and the worst, Men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | What reasons would you NOT date a fellow PPD user?I only date bisexual people really at this point in my life. And most of the men here seem to be straight so they are ruled out most of women here don't seem to really necessarily be bisexual so nah.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 07:10 PM |
| – | Gay guys prove that male sexlessness is a personality problem, not looks problemThat's not how that really works out at least not in my experience having sex with men as a man. Sex is easy but it's not because it's a personality issue it's because the flexibility that men have in sexual taste is more broad in general. Sure some people have a type some people only like white or black or skinny or chubby or big butt or other big items. But the community is also small and hyperselection only really works if you're very attractive and you're in a location that has a lot of peop… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 07:04 PM |
| 21 | The whole "women want relationships, men want sex" cliché is not only a gender stereotype, but also a subtle variation of the "women are good, men are evil" narrative.As someone who's dated both this is a stereotype but it's not a completely inaccurate stereotype it's just not 100%. But in general in a communication with a man who's roughly around the same age as me which is to say I guess I don't know how to describe early 30s late 20s I want to say it's young but it's also old usually the conversation centers around sex.. With women around the same age or even a little bit younger like let's say mid-20s 25 or 24 even if sex is immediately open the conversat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 07:02 PM |
| 2 | Modern society kinda shows why virtually all historical civilizations were Patriarchal.As standard of living increases the standards that will be centered acceptable as a minimum for the producing of children will increase the communities that have the lowest standard of living have the lowest standard for acceptability in the economic and social condition for producing children the communities that have the highest standard of living have a higher standard for which they believe they need in order to produce children independent of the fact that you can produce children really at… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 09:41 PM |
| 2 | Artificial wombs are the only way to achieve gender equality with everyone preserving their freedoms.Why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | The modern equivalent of a "strong, independent" women is unattractive to menDepends on the career. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 04:13 PM |
| 1 | The reasons women show for not wanting to date a bisexual man are pretty similar to the reasons behind not wanting to date a high N woman. But somehow only the second case is sexist.As a bisexual man I could tell you the more attractive you get the higher your standards get and the more people become undesirable to you as time goes on especially as you start to add in other factors such as intelligence and interests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 04:05 PM |
| 2 | Artificial wombs are the only way to achieve gender equality with everyone preserving their freedoms.When a technology comes to existence on market forms around it the size of the market is variable but I think it'd be very surprising if not 3% of men looked at the option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 03:56 PM |
| 0 | Artificial wombs are the only way to achieve gender equality with everyone preserving their freedoms.There's no situation where it wouldn't. In the immediate it would be meaningless but as a potential option it would completely change the way people see relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 03:52 PM |
| 5 | Artificial wombs are the only way to achieve gender equality with everyone preserving their freedoms.True but we've never lived in a situation where men didn't need to have sex with a woman or at least convince a woman to carry their child the gender dynamic and the sexual attraction overlap for heterosexual men or at least men who potentially want to be fathers but what happens if you completely remove that.. What about all the potentially bisexual men (such as myself) that may have forgone a sexual encounter with men to potentially have children at a later date. This technology could be a gig… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 03:50 PM |
| 1 | On population growth and Malthus’s DevilThe population doesn't need to increase what you need is a sustainable population which should be the goal for any community we should be researching into how big or how small your community can be before it falls apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/22 03:41 PM |
| 2 | which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating?Have you tried Long Island? I've seen tons of Indian dudes dating white women black women Asian women Indian women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 09:31 AM |
| 5 | which MOC Men of color face the worst difficulty in dating?I don't know how times I have to say this but the majority of black men are not into white women if you were to gather around a large amount of black men and ask them which group of women they were interested in the most other than black women it'd probably be Latin women. In general the more attractive a black man is the less likely he is going to be with a white woman and if you're a white woman being with a black man who's not attractive is kind of unlikely to be seen as desirable. Unless oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/22 09:30 AM |
| 1 | Can the "equal power-dynamic" relationship work? Is it common?No. A power imbalance is always inevitable between two people independent of any sort of relationship. But you can have a relationship where the leverage is not used. Which I think is the best you can get if one person has more money has more options they can just not discuss their money as a contribution and ignore options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | The rise of Red Pill ideology in younger generations.Text to speech sucks sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 03:41 PM |
| 1 | The rise of Red Pill ideology in younger generations.I think this is a bit of an over reach but even if what you're saying is true we have artificial insemination and probably in 10-20 years we'll probably have artificial wombs. Traditional meat mating May no longer be necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 11:30 AM |
| 1 | The rise of Red Pill ideology in younger generations.No classic gender rules are reductive . Already see it in men who are not traditionally masculine Bryson not being traditional masculine but there are some men that are inherently traditionally masculine that's just how their body is built that's just the level of those testosterone that they build up naturally but for men who did not fit into society is traditional idea of men the the freeing from traditional magical enrolls is evident but for The Men who clearly fit into it we have not known h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/22 11:01 AM |
| 4 | Are Men and Women Truly Compatible?Sure on a large enough scale it has to be true. But generally speaking no it's only specifically true. To make it simple the average man is really not going to have that much in common with the average woman but he will have a lot in common with a specific woman and the amount of women that are going to fit into the specific category of being compatible with a specific man are going to be a minority same would be true vice versa.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/11/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Anyone notice that in a lot of male-oriented space, the general consensus is that they hold themselves accountable for their self improvement, while in female-oriented spaces, they focus on placating their members?The Male idea of self-improvement is at the moment you are nothing you are less than dirt you have to mold yourself into something that's beyond acceptable by Society but now a selfmade thing of beauty based off its effort and it's ability. The Female idea (to me) seems to be what about trying to reveal someone's inner truth that what you are dealing with right now is not true of the dignity that is inherent to you rather than the respect you will gain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/22 05:14 AM |
| 0 | Why should men still be the ones to pursue?It's really not that difficult actually. I stopped dating women and I still get approached. You just have to keep yourself in pretty decent shape dress relatively nice for your body and skin type and pursue interesting hobbies genuinely and have a pleasant disposition. That will attract women or whoever you like. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 03:15 AM |
| 7 | Why should men still be the ones to pursue?Well actually in nature this seems to be two main ways men pursue women in nature The Lion Approach. Direct competition usually involving fighting for territory to gain greater access to mates. The peacock strategy. Displaying physical traits that makes themselves more desirable to females . If our goal is a society is to move towards a more polite universally kind and less violence Society I think there's some value to the peacock strategy. But I'm out of that game all together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 03:11 AM |
| 8 | Why should men still be the ones to pursue?I think that's less true now. I think Millennials and Zoomers are a lot less sexual than previous generations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 03:06 AM |
| 4 | What characteristics would a young beautiful woman need to have in order to struggle with dates and don't be desirable by straight men?It's really not that complex you just have to not have traits that fit with the demographic you're most likely to run into and thus date. For some people that's ethnicity they're in a certain line of work or in a certain economic position or I guess class though some people treat that like a dirty word that makes dating more difficult given their ethnicity. For some people it's temperament they tend to engage in activities that require a very specific personality but they're presented personalit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/22 02:42 AM |
| 13 | Q4M: Would you rather add two inches in height, gain two inches in length, or add two figures to your income?Height. I have a inheritance and the other thing is not a concern. / s Income, duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/22 03:36 AM |
| 1 | I believe going to the gym is overrated for attracting womenNah. You don't have to go all out if you're moderately okay in the face and you're taller than most women but like a six seven inches you just have to be athletic-ish which means no big gut. Working out does help though because certain women like certain things on a man that look better when they're in shape like some women like a man with a nice developed chest a lot of women that took an interest in me like a developed butt . But I look that's not going to fail for most women is in shape stron… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Does religion still play any role in modern dating?Depends on region and religion. Living in New York I could decide to only date people who are Jewish it would limit my numbers but I would have the option if I left New York I don't think I would be able to be as exclusive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Do you enjoy being friends with someone of the opposite sex?I like being friends with bisexual or lesbian women. Straight women not so much no. I find Queer women to have more interesting opinions and are much better at maintaining the rules of a friendship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/22 10:34 AM |
| 1 | Fiction written by women for women proves The Red PillReally this is a lot less complex than you you want this to be. Heterosexual women desire men that have different traits than them men due to cultural stereotypes are viewed as being less civil and polite than women are as such since women are seeking men and men are attributed with these traits these traits become more attractive to women we see this within races as well. Its common for you to hear certain African American men state that certain traits in black men are perceived as more attract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | CMV social skills is genetic and people can't just learn game.Very few skills are genetic but I do think there's a window in which learning new skills especially social skills closes I think by the time a woman's 25 and by the time of man is 22 if you don't learn basic social skills you will always be awkward you might learn how to enter into a conversation and look somebody in the eyes but if you don't have the ability to talk to someone in a way that makes them feel that you are a human you never will be able to have a normal relationship but if you're v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Your mother didn’t “lie” to you. Women didn’t lie to you. They genuinely thought they were telling you the truth….and that most girls were not they themI was given no advice. By the time I hit 14 I was the second tallest our of all my friends. I was playing a sport and I was taking art classes at a museum I think from her perspective there was no need to have that talk other than don't get anyone pregnant not really what type of man I should be. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | a lot of high value men did not work for itUnlikeable is a choice. Everything else is genetic to some degree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/22 12:19 AM |
| 2 | why don't older men take younger men to brothels anymoreI think you have to put in consideration the nature of how we view things in the world now back in those days sexuality as well as a bunch of other social things were considered sacred nowadays these things are commodified they're sellable in a much more upfront way. Bring someone into the sexual World giving them the option to have a sexual encounter and become a man was inducting someone into something of value nowadays that doesn't mean anything the concept of manhood and the concept of sexua… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 01:21 PM |
| 1 | If you were good at sex, you'd be having it.Not to toot my own horn but I've heard I'm pretty good at sex. From both sexes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/22 01:15 PM |
| 4 | What do same-sex relationships tell us about genders?I exclusively date men now (I'm just watching the sub nowadays) but men and women are compatible the real problem is a problem of internal morality. I think men and women at least in the west at least on the East Coast there might be different in the south west or in the Northwest but it seems to be men and women do not agree on a moral philosophy. You have men that are basically liberal when it comes to most things but they're deeply conservative when it comes to a very specific thing and it ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | If you magically woke up tomorrow as the opposite sex do you think you would easily get everything you are seeking in a partner?See I feel the complete opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 09:15 PM |
| -2 | Women here constantly assert that the only alternative to their inflated value and refusal to lower their standards would be “dating men they aren’t attracted to” but in reality attraction is fluid and relative, and based entirely on one’s options and availability - hence the prison effectNo that's not accurate sexuality is way more rigid what shows that a lot of people exist in between points on the spectrum but the spectrum exists and people don't really shift that much in their lifetime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 09:07 PM |
| 0 | Women here constantly assert that the only alternative to their inflated value and refusal to lower their standards would be “dating men they aren’t attracted to” but in reality attraction is fluid and relative, and based entirely on one’s options and availability - hence the prison effectI don't know why people put such a heavy focus on the Roman Greek thing . These are pretty abrahamic pagan societies heterosexuality was still the norm. The reason why there was so much male on male sex is because men and women were separated one true but also there wasn't really a a cultural stigma so if someone experimented the experimented but they didn't mean that that person was going to consistently have sex with the same sex for the rest of their life and in fact it was considered weird i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 09:05 PM |
| 7 | Women here constantly assert that the only alternative to their inflated value and refusal to lower their standards would be “dating men they aren’t attracted to” but in reality attraction is fluid and relative, and based entirely on one’s options and availability - hence the prison effectI'm bisexual truly straight men are like super common there's just a lot of bisexual men as well I think truly homosexual men are rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 09:00 PM |
| 7 | Women here constantly assert that the only alternative to their inflated value and refusal to lower their standards would be “dating men they aren’t attracted to” but in reality attraction is fluid and relative, and based entirely on one’s options and availability - hence the prison effectI've talked to men who went to prison. Like 90% of the men who went to prison and had sex with other men in prison already had sex with men outside of prison. If the sex was voluntary. Another factor in the prison sex thing "voluntary prison sex between men" is the fact that a lot of prisoners get addicted to heroin. And if someone has heroin and you're in the prison and they want to have sex with you, a heroin addict will have sex with them to get heroin. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys think you could last dating for a man if you were given 5 years?Nah. The dynamic changes completely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 06:44 PM |
| 3 | Everyone’s entitled to their own dating preferences. But if I’m dating you, it’s going to be important I know why you have those preferences.It is what it is. If you're okay with that sort of temporary sexual relationship and you're okay with it if you're not you're not it's not much better actually even within your own ethnicity most people have racial stereotypes even when it comes to their own race they just don't view them as stereotypes. I can't count how many times I've heard someone who's white or German or Asian or Jamaican say something in a broad sense about their people that is really only specifically true when it comes t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Should a man with a low sex drive pursue relationships with women?I can't speak for everyone but I kind of have a similar drive and I would say in the long term no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/22 10:37 PM |
| 1 | ONLINE DATING STATS: The figures are in for OkCupid and Hinge, and what a surprise it's more dude fests. OkCupid is now 74% male and just 26% female in terms of users, while Hinge, despite being the most gender equal out of all the major apps, is still almost 2-to-1 men to womenI feel like Instagram is really where all the straight people meet . You can post a bunch of pictures you can send private messages you can post links to other sites it's it's is a better format for dating and really for advertising in general which is what dating is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Men have it easier and harder in datingOne can make the argument that having the option is better because it gives you the ability to take time and weigh each partner out, whether or not you choose to is on an individual call but if you only get three choices over the course of a year the likelihood that you're going to pick a bad choice goes up not down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel that being sexually successful with women will make you happy?I might make me seem like a shallow capitalist/ consumers but honestly I'm more excited by money, food, books, and events than I am by sex. Always have been. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Are men capable of raising kids by themselves?Yeah I've seen it . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Is there a married man that doesn't masturbate or watch porn?My grandfather | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Technology radically changed gender dynamics and it will only get worseIm one of the few people on here that does not believe that the situation is worse I think it's honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 02:29 AM |
| 3 | “Women make their own money now”I don't know how many times I have to say this but unless you lived in the upper middle class women always worked to some degree they just didn't have the ability to control their finances but women throughout history have been at least a source of income.. Even in Roman society women often had Jobs made money and helped contribute to the household. Only the upper middle class the smallest percentage of population lived in a situation of General abundance wherr women would not be expected to wor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/22 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Would you prefer your son be AF or BB ?Being gay is hard work but it's consistent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI knew you guys were coming for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah. Just means you're alive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 10:00 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHuman beings are built to exist in the high stress environments I mean our ancestors came from the Sahara that's filled with large amount of predators and has crazy weather patterns even if we live in a relatively comfortable life we still have the hormone structure which allows for us to deal with real stress without that real stress I think the hormone structure can go a little haywire. Now all that said the anxiety and depression those specific names are relatively recently gained traction bu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI wasn't interested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 09:54 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread6 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 09:53 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat might be true but I suspect just based on personal experience that some women will search intelligence in a man they are attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 09:38 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't see it. Not ugly, no man jaw. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 09:34 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread5 maybe 6. She's cute but not my type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 09:29 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat not true . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 09:25 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot always. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 09:20 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat traits are worth preserving and what's worth annihilating? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 09:19 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/22 09:17 AM |
| 2 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.Always Bisexual, formerly exclusively Romantically Hetero. My Half sister (different environments) is also bisexual.. I think sexuality is a series of overlapping Genes & personality traits that meet with environment to form attraction.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 07:19 PM |
| 6 | American women are some of the most overrated women on the planet.I think I've never dated anyone that isn't second generation as far as women go . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 07:06 PM |
| 1 | How should I cultivate healthy violence and aggression in myself?Boxing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/22 09:43 AM |
| 1 | 10% of people check their smartphones during sex, and 35% of them check their phones immediately after sex.Yeah I've done that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 12:40 AM |
| 1 | What is the male equivalent of daily sexual harassment as a child?Pretty standard stuff some bullying and attempted assault on me and one teacher who brought me into a room after I told her that I wanted to get into art and offered to let me draw her as long as I didn't tell anyone. Which at the time I didn't have the common sense to understand what that meant but now as an adult I see how creepy that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think?You got Vanderbilt cash? Personally no. But the collective Clan yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 11:21 AM |
| 0 | To men who want biological children: It might be better to pay a surrogate than to have children with a woman. What do you think?Even in the situation where a man calls CPS its kind of hit or miss you have to have some money or resources or the court has to be sympathetic to you. I know of cases personally where Men were seeking to gain custody of a kid because the mother was either on drugs or had a criminal history or was potentially putting the child in danger because of the people that they were associating with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 11:17 AM |
| 8 | In general do men really get better with age and become more attractive to women?People don't like to use this is the one thing that doesn't make any sense to me cuz I'm black or mostly black in appearance (though lightskin) . I know a lot of Black men and women and Asian men and women who look great people who are in their 40s who still look like they're in the 20s, people in their 50s and 60s that look like they're in their 30s I feel like this is really a white issue of aging especially people who drink a lot of alcohol. When looking at like white people it seems to me th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 10:38 AM |
| 1 | You will never be a high value man.Now to be devil's advocate not that I necessarily believe it but we could increase the standard for men overall so that the differences between low and high value are completely subjective rather than being slightly objective I mean if we had more people earning a higher wage more people highly educated and better shape you can increase the average to the degree that really comes down to personal aesthetics of the woman and timing that would give a man greater or lower status. The lowest value i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 02:01 AM |
| 5 | as hard as it might be, men have to make all the efforts if they want to be in a relationship.This is the talk of a woman who's bad in bed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/22 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Do you think men should be using social media in order to get dates and sex with women?I don't use social media I have Instagram but I mostly follow musicians I dropped Facebook years ago I don't even know if Twitter counts as social media but I also dropped that years ago. I still get approached by women in the world, so when that stops I'll just stop dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 01:00 PM |
| 5 | Men & Women OptionsMen only have relationship options if they have sexual options really men that are considered attractive have more options than women that are considered attractive . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 05:48 AM |
| 3 | Is sex actually an issue?Most men I know aren't really particularly that horn-doggy at least not in the straight world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Men's greatest desire is to feel desired and special, that's why AFBB even exists as a topic of discussion.Most people don't go to prostitutes I think a very small portion of the population in general visit them someone really in third world countries where men are taken by their family to lose their virginity is it like a common thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/22 05:12 AM |
| 2 | homosexual behaviors in women and loneliness in menI think the problem that past generations have is that they grew up in a society in which a degree of secrecy was acceptable. People hit massive parts of their lives who they were attracted to with their real political opinions were what music they listen to at home you can share all of that instantly I opened up Disney plus and it gave me the option to share watching a a 90s cartoon with a friend. If people up front are more picky and less sex obsessed in the immediate which I think would requi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 10:53 PM |
| 2 | homosexual behaviors in women and loneliness in menI think relationships will be more meaningful and less frivolous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 06:22 PM |
| 3 | What % of women sleep around when younger / engage in dual mating?Agree with you I think fundamentally what it comes down to is someone's desire for sex is not as strong as the desire to maintain the person they've developed into but they're not as good or bad. Or even more simple inertia is more powerful than sex drive. But sexual frustrations continue to exist, unfortunately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | homosexual behaviors in women and loneliness in menI don't consider poly relationships real relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Why men fall for Andrew TateGenerally I dismiss philosophical books in favor of historical books I find the practice of power more useful than the theories of powers structuralism etc. seems all meaningless excuses for very smart people to be lazy and do nothing. In regard to the prince a book that I read several times over the course of my life it's not edge lordy at all at least not in my opinion. It's practical Niccolo makaveli was in a very tough situation. He basically was riding a resume using what you know about his… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:46 AM |
| 2 | homosexual behaviors in women and loneliness in menHello nice to meet you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:32 AM |
| 1 | homosexual behaviors in women and loneliness in menIt makes them feel insecure sometimes. Using this logic would you feel comfortable justifying someone saying they wouldn't want to date someone who's attracted to more than one ethnicity.. It increases the amount of competition. They not only have to worry about someone from their own ethnicity but someone from other ethnicities. If it's different how, if not that's interesting.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:31 AM |
| 3 | homosexual behaviors in women and loneliness in menPersonally I think what we're going to see in the future is that heterosexual men are going to date more like heterosexual women which means much more picky much more exclusatory in their types and a lot more judgment on the sexual history of the partners in regards to gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Why men fall for Andrew TateIn defense of Marcus Aurelius even though I hate te the stoics to a small degree though I think I hate the nicheans even more. Marcus Aurelius lived a meaningfully interesting life and seemed to live by the principles he preached for the most part up until the end. Most philosophers or philosophical thinkers are truly boring people outside of their work and often times they don't really live up to their work Julia is a person doesn't match the things that they preach about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:11 AM |
| 4 | Why men fall for Andrew TateAndrew Tate is popular for a reason I find fascinating that I think a lot of people are going to not understand but I understand completely without being a fan.. People said it here before that he's popular because he doesn't s*** on men for being men which I think is true. But another reason and I think this is the more fascinating reason in the one respectable trait that he has is that he's decided he wants to be who he wants to be and he does not care and in fact he will fight you verbally or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:06 AM |
| 1 | My theory on why men are often so sex obsessed, and why they often equate sex with love.I'm going to take a controversial view and I'm going to be up front I don't see men as having problems expressing their emotions I think we as a society have decided that one type of expression of emotions is legitimate and other types of expressions of emotion which are more stoic is illegitimate. I think we've had we've gone from one extreme to another extreme and I hope we find it middle and the extremes I think that we've gone from is the first extreme of society saying that stoicism is the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 04:00 AM |
| 11 | Is there any social setup where both men or women aren't sexually frustrated?No there's no setup in the history of the world and whichever one is happy and fulfilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/22 03:53 AM |
| 7 | Something i noticed about tinder statisticsYep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's a nice place to visit but I wouldn't stay long term. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 10:15 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAm I honest opinion as someone from the state but not from the city the appeal of New York City is not having to drive at all. Taxis on pretty much any corner train stations under you pretty much everywhere and buses and having a very packed City in which you pretty much get anything you want within walking distance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do you, romantic men want romance in lifeI like the subtle romance more than I actually like sex . I'm not really that big fan of sex. Holding hands, reading together, long talks, flirting, stuff like that. But I feel that's become difficult to keep up especially as everyone seems to want sex to be the leading thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:13 AM |
| 1 | Would things really be "better off" if women were more brutally honest about what they like/find attractive?It make no meaningful difference for the most aggressive men but for the average man who's not completely sure why they're failing it probably would be better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/22 01:07 AM |
| 14 | The Rise of The Single Lonely MaleMaybe this is a toxic thought I don't really think you need to you're going to have to live your life anyway it doesn't matter whether or not you're happy or not you have to do what you have to do in order to survive if you're happy or not really doesn't matter. I guess if your discomfort of your dislike for your situation is strong enough that it interrupts your ability to operate in Society in a meaningful way then maybe therapy is necessary but if you just uncomfortable but you're still funct… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/22 01:06 AM |
| 5 | A huge amount of straight men are actually homo-romanticThat's not what it is. I actually have sex with men this is not a romantic relationship that you're describing you're describing the inability to communicate with women because they don't share anything in common in general. If a woman shares hobbies or activities that the specific man shares then a friendship will develop outside of sexuality if not then not. I think you might be confusing romantic with social a romantic relationship is a deeper connection a social relationship is a connection … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.I think there's a natural group of people who just see the hassle of relationships and even if they have a desire for them their desire for other things is greater so the other things become their focus I would call them natural relationship avoiders (NRA's not on purpose I promise). Other people resent the opposite gender and then come up with a better philosophy to give legitimacy to their hatred (MGTOW, etc. ,) I've said this before and I think people didn't really take it seriously but I thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Most men don't understand that women's standards are like a barrier, not a sum, so a man cannot compensate for bad traits.If you're young Height is more a issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.I can see it. I think every ten year cohort of men at least from my observation seems less sex obsessed. Something I noticed is that when I talk to men around my age group or 10 years even 12 years younger they seem to be a lot less interested in sex than men from earlier eras. A lot more of the conversations aren't about women or pursuing sex a lot more of them are about money or a particular hobby or even things that are happening in politics I think as time moves on and other things can occup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 09:19 PM |
| 6 | Chasing women is idiotic and unnecessary.I can see it. I think every ten year cohort of men at least from my observation seems less sex obsessed. Something I noticed is that when I talk to men around my age group or 10 years even 12 years younger they seem to be a lot less interested in sex than men from earlier eras. A lot more of the conversations aren't about women or pursuing sex a lot more of them are about money or a particular hobby or even things that are happening in politics I think as time moves on and other things can occup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?I'm tall (well 6'1), Artistic , Cultured, Vaguely Liberal on Social issues but present pretty Conservative in dress and temperament. Flaws: * Mixed Race (some women like that some woman really don't like that) * Bisexual * I have big family and they invested in my life so they'll definitely bother you. * I hate chocolate . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/22 10:43 AM |
| 2 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.Personal taste. Me and my older sister aren't twins we actually have different mothers but we're both bisexual. Sometimes you share traits sometimes you don't what can I say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Fetishes play a negative role in society.No we wouldn't. Looks are genetic and social markers. Looks matter because its a marker for health and social class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 06:21 PM |
| 2 | Where do we as a species go from here?The trend continues. A happy ending is not assured and looks different to a lot of people. No solution exists or is Necessary. The situation is just what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/22 01:36 PM |
| 5 | What is the general consensus of female copulatory vocalizations?Moans occur but every woman's different some women are more vocal than others some women are vocal without there being much accomplished for them personally . Some women make noises because they're discomforted, some women make noises because they're feeling pleasure, some women just make noises because someone's on top of them. Some women make noises before they start feeling pleasure and then almost become slightly silent and then you might stop and then they say to continue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Single motherhood creates violent criminal men which leads to more single motherhood which leads to more violent criminal men. This downward spiral is going to cause violent men to dominate the sexual marketplace creating a much more dystopian future.That might be true on paper but I think in reality I think it's because most child custody cases happen before the age of like six in regards to oldest child in a non divorce situation like a baby mama situation. I think most people instinctually believe that taking a baby away from a mother is unnecessarily cruel unless the mother is proven to be unfit even if the father is more financially stable. I do think you can make a really interesting argument about revisiting custody cases after a cert… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Single motherhood creates violent criminal men which leads to more single motherhood which leads to more violent criminal men. This downward spiral is going to cause violent men to dominate the sexual marketplace creating a much more dystopian future.I don't actually believe that I don't actually believe that in my experience. I know I'm more than one kid that had a really abusive father I do think that it's not as good as having a really good father but in my experience the men who grew up without fathers were not as mature or oftentimes more likely to be sexually abused in their childhood and that really s***** relationships with women. Almost all of my friends that grew up with a father in the house who are over the age of 35 are married … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 09:22 PM |
| 2 | What Is The Biggest Risk Factor That Someone Will Still Be A Virgin By 30? (Not By Choice)Okay it's true no one was born to be a winner but the truth is no one's really going to be a loser you get to decide what your life is and how you value it loser winner that's nonsense you will die there's nothing after your death so you have to make the most of your life if making the most out of your life is achieving a set of sexual accomplishments by all means try to figure out a way to do that that is the moral if it is achieving a financial status or a series of intellectual or physical ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 08:49 PM |
| 2 | What Is The Biggest Risk Factor That Someone Will Still Be A Virgin By 30? (Not By Choice)That's how all society's operate unless you live in a culture where your family will choose a partner for you which is kind of a culture I grew up in that's not going to be the case you have to be social. And even in a culture where your family gets the ability to choose a partner for you you still have to have skills to deal with the person you're marrying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | The bar for men is low. Men who have zero success with women are doing something really wrongNo you could just be unattractive or be in a place with bad demographics like for instance if you live in a community that you're not particularly attracted to the people from that community but it's financially beneficial for you to stay in that area. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 08:41 PM |
| 4 | In terms of Women's Interests, Can Men (and Monogamy) Be Saved?You don't even have to go and ask minorities or poor people if you live in the world and you operate in logistics you operate in moving products from one place to another place or you have any dealings with debt or practical nature of how Society functions you realize that it's really held together by pins. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | In terms of Women's Interests, Can Men (and Monogamy) Be Saved?Personally I say no but I have a good reason: Also There is no such thing as a "post scarcity" Society everything exists to degrees of finity. But we're moving towards is a rough culture of abundance and that's not necessarily going to be a continued trend I actually see some things that suggest that it might not be a continued trend we're already seeing Mass starvation on a very large level in poorer Nations. We're moving towards the future that is not going to be anything like the past we have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's not always true and sometimes the conditions aren't immediate they're projected conditions it is a lovable potential future condition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf I like a person enough. And the language uses the same alphabet sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 11:17 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think people are naturally kind of selfish so if you have an attractive partner or attractive body you want to keep it to yourself or share it sparingly but if you don't have either of those things what's the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLooks fade any woman that's makes enough money for me to think of it as being a lot is probably at least intellectually impressive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 05:27 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think now having had my experiences I'd go for the money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 08:04 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's neutral. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | If men could choose their sexuality, would they choose to be bisexual?Im already bisexual. Id choose to be gay honestly if that was a option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 10:15 PM |
| 2 | What type of girl do you guys hit on?Not necessarily. I tend to gravitate towards mostly Afro-latino and Caribbean Women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 10:01 PM |
| 2 | What type of girl do you guys hit on?Skinny Black Women and Latinas. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/22 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI agree with this definitely I've seen a lot of single women who are single parents on paper but the grandparents or a sister end up raising the kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 12:25 AM |
| 2 | Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below averageI like that idea let's go with the more recent movie series I guess dune is something that came out very recently I mean it's actually a very old series but it came out recently ... So let's say "everyone's on the spice now" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 12:04 AM |
| 1 | Traditional blue pill advice works for attractive people and most women, Redpill advice works for average and above average men, NOTHING works for men below averageHonestly you should. B | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/22 12:02 AM |
| 1 | The state is the problem between men and women.I've always disliked this term community at least in reference African Americans cuz I don't view them as having a community in the same senses Jewish people or Chinese immigrants or Hindu immigrants. To me African Americans are a demographic there's no Central ideology, philosophy, religio, or cultural norm that ties this l people together other than the fact that they share ancestry (but the percentage of African heritage varies widely) and some experience with racism and even then you add thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 09:50 PM |
| 4 | The state is the problem between men and women.I've always disliked this term community at least in reference African Americans cuz I don't view them as having a community in the same senses Jewish people or Chinese immigrants or Hindu immigrants. To me African Americans are a demographic there's no Central ideology, philosophy, religio, or cultural norm that ties this l people together other than the fact that they share ancestry (but the percentage of African heritage varies widely) and some experience with racism and even then you add thi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 09:49 PM |
| 4 | The state is the problem between men and women.I agree with everything you've said here but I'd like to add the "Black Community" had no internal Justification for it's Existence.. Unlike Jews, Chinese, or Later Hindu people they shared a religion, diet, language, and general culture with the majority white population. Really it only existed because of racial Exclusion instead self momentum. Soon as segregation or racial discrimination starts to lessen there is no reason for their community to continue to exist because the community artifici… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | When men complain about women dating Chad and marrying Bob, is the aim for her to marry Bob sooner?I suspect yes. The way I see things heterosexual relationships are in a really weird place in the western world and in the world in general.. Men what to be desired in order to feel that the relationship is real. And honestly I think that's true. I think it's impossible for two heterosexual people to be in a relationship with each other at least in the very early stage without attraction being a major factor and for the relationship to successfull long term. Now I disagree with the shaming langu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 08:05 AM |
| -1 | Natural selection is favoring poorer people with little education; people with higher earnings and better education are being selected againstThe immigrant issue isn't the reason why Britain is fucked. Britain like all of the other Western Powers has the same problem that the United States of America is also running into the world kinda doesn't need them to play the role that they played 60 years ago. But because the government's can't accept this they make political and financial decisions that don't make sense for their actual situation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 06:31 AM |
| 3 | Natural selection is favoring poorer people with little education; people with higher earnings and better education are being selected againstNot necessary. The truth is the problem we're going to be running into the future is going to be an excess of people rather than too few people the population hasn't dipped globally in quite some time. I'd rather be a part of a small highly educated prosperous demographic then a large poor demographic one is just going to constantly be exploited by the other or annihilated by the most nervous person in the Educated group. The situation of a moving in towards a situation similar to serfdom.. a la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 06:26 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt only looks like that because we have more media outlets that give people the opportunity to speak out then we did let's say 20 years ago but the truth is I don't see that much of a difference between Gen Z the Millennials and Gen X besides technology they kind of have the same problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/22 11:56 PM |
| 1 | If the bar for men is low, the bar for women is even lower.That may be true but that's like 90% of people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Was it a positive thing to mix boys and girls in schools together?In a situation in which you have a ball boy school and all girls school I think certain I guess learning disabilities which have a higher propensity in one gender or another or Express themselves differently when people have a heightened sensitivity because all of their students are of the same gender so if the exhibit these attributes they're not going to be as likely to be confused can be more easily solved that and I think men and women learn differently earlier in life and it evens out as ti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 10:19 AM |
| 1 | What are you and why? (Also why are you here?)To put it in more simple terms : "expect nothing attempt everything otherwise you're a coward". In the Complex (or rather the more verbose): I say I'm 50% purple pill 50% black pill. I take from the blue pill that pessimism is pointless so therefore you will have to live your life but I also think I take from the red pill that effort is necessary to achieve anything that the world does not give you anything especially in a relationship between two people. And I also take from the black pill that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/06/22 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenNo I'm not a fascist. I must suggesting anything that the government didn't do around the same period of time I descend from a group of people who have native American ancestors are people were moved over by land and we fought with the federal government. The Confederates did the exact same thing by allowing them to continue to live on their land you could say it's it it might have some moral concerns and I'd be willing to admit that to some degree but from a purely practical perspective you had… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 04:51 PM |
| 0 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenIn terms of the Civil War yes I also agree that slavery was wrong but I also have a much harsher opinion about the way that the union handled the end of the Civil War personally I would have pushed everyone off their property and forced them out west depopulated the region and repopulated it with immigrants and people who were willing to swear oaths of loyalty and executed the leadership of the Confederacy. By not annihilating the ex Confederate leadership they left an option open for them to re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 03:56 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the same thing as in Japan is gonna happen to the entire world when western lifestyle/values/culture spreads everywhere?No and I don't even necessarily think it's going to be the future for Japan forever I think the truth is when you industrialize and then you post industrialized you have population decline. If a society remains perpetually industrialized they will have sustained population growth because the industries will need more people governments will incentivize births and the social structure and Order of the society will be geared towards people who want to have large families. If you live in a technolo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenFederalization in the current ERA is a waste of time an archaic practice based off the belief that a local government will be more efficient than a centralized professional government. In my personal opinion people defend federalization because middling politicians and their cronies can give themselves a semblance of relevance because the would not be able to manage on a larger stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenVery few monarchies exist in the world at the current moment pretty much any government that doesn't have a king or some sort of sovereign is a republic. If you mean a Democratic Republic I can't really point to one that I'd desire to live in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 03:07 AM |
| 0 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenI prefer dating men at this point but the court will go after gay marriage and sodomy laws. I can promise you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 09:34 AM |
| 3 | Today is just another reason why women should be extremely picky about MenI fundamentally don't. I like when my state passes laws I like sure but I'd prefer a country with universal laws and practices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Would you take a bcp for men if it was on the market ?If I needed to sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy people descend from the deserts (Israel- Palestine) and the jungle (West/ Central Africa) so living in the Northeast is kind of against the nature that God intended for me. It's not enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadProbably. I already kind of have access to money and to nice places through connections via my family so the only thing would change is being able to contribute to my family in a meaningful way but otherwise I don't think much about my life really would be changed fundamentally. And as I am right now I prefer to be with one person rather than a thousand different people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDumb take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell there's a lot that could be said about the nature of how America is structured transportation in society and how it will inevitably lead to a certain amount of traffic deaths I think the fact that Americans are so reliant oneself for transportation creates a culture of bad driving. Some people have made the argument and even I have made the argument to some degree that if America had a much better public transportation system you probably could pass some more stringent bills on driving like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's cold in the morning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | What is a 10? What is a 5? What is a 1? TO YOUSame. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:23 AM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadEven gay bars have rules about that. So no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:16 AM |
| 1 | What are the upsides of actual dating instead of directly payingI'm going to say the quiet part out loud there is no real meaningful benefit the truth is you have to want a meaningful relationship more than you want to sex. Paying for sex even companionship is going to be an inherently shallow relationship even if you have really interesting conversations in between. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:14 AM |
| 5 | How do you feel when you see a not so attractive guy with a girlfriend?I think the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 01:02 AM |
| 11 | With male virginity rates near 30% in the USA for the 18-30 age range what impact will this have on societyHonduras also has a generally crazy homicide rate as it stands in general more men die than women in Honduras. The truth is if your country is poor you're going to have probably a high a murder rate. People with less resources under extreme stress are going to have much more fragile egos than people who are living in relative comfort that said theycan only really do so much so their victims are probably going to be limited versus someone who has the ability to accumulate a large amount of money … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:46 AM |
| 6 | With male virginity rates near 30% in the USA for the 18-30 age range what impact will this have on societystarted constantly criticizing women for their body counts That's always been issue for some. A lot of men care about dating history sometimes it's not even body count it could be race of partner it could be sexuality sexual history it could be class of partner. One guy might be completely fine with his girlfriend having sex with a hundred people half Men half women but if one guy belongs to a different race that could be a no-go. People have different filters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:40 AM |
| 3 | With male virginity rates near 30% in the USA for the 18-30 age range what impact will this have on societyMost people are selfish because we're not really trained not to be selfish we're trained to pretty up our selfishness through rhetoric and religion. Society keeps people invested because their survival is dependent on the continuation of that society and ultimately the survival of their children is dependent on the survival of that society if 30% of men aren't achieving sexually relationships by the age of 30 which is a large number and I have some questions about how exactly you get those figur… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/22 12:33 AM |
| 4 | The word !ncel has essentially become the equivalent of the N word for men, used as a knee-jerk response any time a woman doesn’t like something he saysAs someone who is black or at least part black no it isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 11:43 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy dad loves this music. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 11:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou think that's bad try not eating meat and dating mostly Italian, Caribbean, and Spanish women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 11:37 PM |
| 2 | What about love?I don't think it's real. I think what we just call Love is a bunch of overlapping emotions a degree of sexual desire and fear. I think what most people really are seeking is to sort of try to get as much of their emotional needs linked into one person and fulfilled to at least 40% of it's necessity . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 11:34 PM |
| 2 | What are your favorite/top vets?really into cars, Really? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/22 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDepends. I'd say yes but if you're orthodox probably not. Finished school have a job (a good one) I guess it's okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 07:52 PM |
| 2 | Intellectual exchange is dead thanks to the influx of social media and communication technology, as a result I expect the worse yet to come out of dating cultureMaybe in Europe like in Germany or in Russia where the average person having the ability to read was rare it was even rare for the nobility but in the English-speaking world that's not the case. The truth is the world isn't that complex when she get past a certain point in history yes you have systems of trade and travel but the average person had to understand basic mathematics General interpersonal relationships in order to sell or buy goods and he probably had to know a little bit about geogr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 02:24 AM |
| 1 | GSA (genetic sexual attraction) is so weird and seems to be against what evolution intended for us.It's not completely true generally speaking people marry in a small pool but there's a lot more planning So to avoid the worst effects of incest most people nowadays they get involved in a family relationship (incest) there is no planning they just are related to a person and they are just now start having sex with them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/22 07:57 PM |
| 1 | The patriarchy is being restoredThe average American isn't worth anything. you have no real money the entire reason why their country has the ability to be a superpower is because Europeans drop the ball and because the Soviets never really were able to completely be full imperialist. As soon as anyone has the ability to make a deal with someone other than America they will you think people actually like China or Russia or even France in their attempt to come back no they just trust the Americans they distrust the the Anglo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 05:38 PM |
| 3 | The patriarchy is being restoredNo what I'm saying is the semantics are important I believe that a true Democratic state is only way you'll ever see a population with any sort of satisfaction in its governance and in its society. By saying that your state is a democratic state but accepting that your state is going to ultimately be ruled by a aristocratic class even if it's a chosen aristocratic class their people are removing themselves for the power of policy making. Versus the state in which the people have more control of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 08:58 AM |
| 1 | The patriarchy is being restoredDating, food, music, travel, and work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 08:26 AM |
| 5 | The patriarchy is being restoredAmericans are generally stupid people but that's not specific to Americans, Canadians are also generally stupid people most Canadians are very stupid same things with Mexico same thing's true in Jamaica same things true across all of the Americas. Every time I hear an American talk about democracy I want to f****** pull my hair out of my head you don't live in a democratic state you live in a representative state if it actually was a democratic state it would probably mean left because a democra… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 08:22 AM |
| 7 | The patriarchy is being restoredCounter argument and a important one no conservative government at this current moment is worth s***. I do think that people are going to try to push for some sort of Ancient Order whether it be monarchism or patriarchy whatever nonsense people want to call it to make themselves feel like they're relevant and a future but the truth is all the orders mean nothing the kings are dead patriarchy is kind of a nonsense statement and doesn't mean what most people think it means. People deeply underesti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm healthy. I have my family and job I like. I do want to leave the country but otherwise I'm ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 10:27 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSix. Face to small for my liking.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/22 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadButts are overrated. I'm the complete opposite. My weakness is skinny Black Women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 11:42 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI love in NY. I'd leave the country before I'd move to the Law and Order states.v | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI prefer a beard because I hat shaving. But every girl that I meets says I'd look better without it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/22 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Q4M On a Scale of 1-10, how attractive does a woman have to be for you to approach?1) she'd have to be a 7 2) she'd could be a 6 3) at this point 5-6 4) meh, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/05/22 11:28 PM |
| 6 | What is your opinion if a guy doesn't initiate sex even though he enjoys being with you giving you kisses and cuddles but isn't thirsty for the sex?That sounds a lot easier than it is. My look doesn't match my sex drive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 06:18 PM |
| 4 | What is your opinion if a guy doesn't initiate sex even though he enjoys being with you giving you kisses and cuddles but isn't thirsty for the sex?I'm not gonna be happy in a relationship where it feels like I'm nagging him for sex. See that's what worries me. Trying to find a balance between my natural sex drive and the desire my partner needs to feel to feel appreciated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 06:08 PM |
| 7 | What is your opinion if a guy doesn't initiate sex even though he enjoys being with you giving you kisses and cuddles but isn't thirsty for the sex?Is that really a sign of incompatibility or just just a difference in drive? I mean I don't necessarily seek to have sex pretty much at any point in time unless I'm in a relationship with someone but that doesn't mean I'm not willing to have sex. Do you most women need the verbal push or are most willing to just accept it'd be on them to start something up? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 06:02 PM |
| 1 | The Johnny Depp and Amber Herd Mega-Thread (Again)A hundred percent people would say that. And it's foolishness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 01:07 PM |
| 16 | The Johnny Depp and Amber Herd Mega-Thread (Again)I think they both are awful people. I think Johnny was looking for someone young and pretty to sort of have as a trophy and it backfired on him. And I think Amber was looking for someone kind of emotionally weak to give her a sense of power in dealing with her insecurities. Both bit off more than they could chew. Turns out Johnny's drug problem was much more severe than she probably thought and Amber was way more abusive than Johnny realized he could handle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/22 04:22 AM |
| 4 | Pro-Choice women, is there a flaw in my argumentation for financial abortion rights?Men working off the books. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 10:55 PM |
| 9 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?I think it all comes down to the nature of what men are doing in sex with women as opposed to some of the flexibility between men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 07:41 PM |
| 18 | Why are single women more likely to be happy being single then single men?As someone who is a man and has had sex with both genders women have a lower sex drive. I can't speak for a woman but in comparison it's not even close. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Can "intentionally settling" ever work in anyone's favour?No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's a Good point but the Shootist is a Classic, undeniable in my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIs Clint Eastwood better than John Wayne? Or True Grit vs Fistful of Dollars? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 02:04 PM |
| 1 | High earners of PPD.I have an inheritance I'll just hire someone to clean I don't have time for either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 01:09 PM |
| 2 | The dating scene is designed for the benefit of ambicious smart menI'm not a peasant. My family has owned land in the USA since the 1800s (people too, not bragging) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 07:52 PM |
| 5 | The dating scene is designed for the benefit of ambicious smart menListen I'm not trying to denigrate effort and the pursuit of a better life and trying to better yourself but the truth is "peasants die peasants" as my uncle would say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | What percentage of men even want that "High Value Male" lifestyle?I just want the money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/22 11:25 PM |
| 2 | The problem is that women do not have real sexualities, and as society becomes more liberated, this fact becomes more relevant.Not trying to sound like a feminist but in general women don't enjoy sex as much as men because they don't achieve orgasms as often so it kind of makes sense that some women would treat sex and relationships even as semi-transactional versus man who anywhere from 80 to 95% of the time and see something close to an orgasm. FEMA orgasms are useful in sex because the increased the likelihood of a woman choosing to have sex with a particular partner with any consistency. This increases the likelihoo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 10:21 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAlmost nothing is constitutionally protected depending on ones reasoning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadToo thicc.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis bill won't stop with this everything's on the table Roe vs Wade been overturned same-sex marriage is going to probably be overturned they're going to bring back sodomy laws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 08:12 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on the “Karen” phenomenon?And his crew broke that guys arm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 03:17 PM |
| 2 | Are standards “too high” if they are met?I'm one of the few men on here that will tell you that I do not believe there is a such thing as too high a standard the most I'd be willing to say is unlikely standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 12:53 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on the “Karen” phenomenon?I disagree. Most situations don't require violence but some do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 12:13 PM |
| 3 | Do bisexual men have a difficult time with women because of their orientation? Would you date a bisexual man? If not, why?Not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/05/22 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?Still on the books. Just not enforceable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 09:26 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA much more complex collection with a continuity of existence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot kids. Cells. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 03:38 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHi. I also dislike chocolate. Dozens of us dozens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 03:36 AM |
| 2 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?Do you think a more conservative America would push western nations to the right in general? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 03:28 AM |
| 31 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?As a bisexual Man myself I'm worried about other laws. It's clear GOP want to go after Same-sex Marriage and they've been using Trans issues as a backdoor to undermine LGBT gains in the last forty years. I fear a return to sodomy laws (which includes oral sex), push to undermine or return to the states Same-sex Marriage decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 03:27 AM |
| 13 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?This is the opinion of an idiot. Sorry. If I had to blame something for Most of societies ills I'd blame the over dependence on escapism like video games and TVs and even fiction novels, porn, etc. Even if your anti-abortion this is not going to prevent abortions. We made laws that made alcohol illegal people still bought alcohol the alcohol just was poison we made laws that made marijuana legal people just bought marijuana from gangsters we made laws to make homosexuality illegal or at least ve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 03:23 AM |
| 11 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?Is sperm dead? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 03:15 AM |
| 19 | Now that abortion rights are overturned, will you be more wary of casual sex?No. People will just have illegal abortions. Or leave states that pass anti abortion laws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 03:13 AM |
| 3 | In a study of couples’ sexual frequency during their first 2 years together, heterosexual couples were less likely than gay couples & more likely than lesbian couples to report having sex at least 3 times a weekThe sex isn't as Consistently good (as Gay), but men have a stronger sex Drive ( than Women / Lesbian) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | would you be in a relationship with someone if sex is off the tableBi | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 04:29 PM |
| 9 | would you be in a relationship with someone if sex is off the tableI'd prefer it honestly. That's basically the spot I'm at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 02:45 PM |
| 4 | Lesbian women have an easier time getting women than most straight men do.100% | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 02:40 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI stand by my statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 02:39 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot a fan of AOC or Steve Jobs either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 01:16 PM |
| 3 | Lesbian women have an easier time getting women than most straight men do.Prince is light and Non-Traditionally black looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 12:32 PM |
| 4 | Lesbian women have an easier time getting women than most straight men do.Pale tall. Same difference in my opinion. But I guess I'd say light-White Skin not Necessarily white race. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 12:20 PM |
| 1 | What does PPD think of the Olivia Wilde / Jason Sudeikis situation?Yes Beyonce is more attractive than Jay z but I've never found beyoncé attractive and I've never understood the hype behind her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 12:00 PM |
| 1 | What does PPD think of the Olivia Wilde / Jason Sudeikis situation?Nah. She's off-putting to me for some reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Women don’t want men to even the playing field by actively cultivating back up options since it ruins their leverageThat's a crazy thought process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Contrasting 'Invisible woman syndrome' with the basic lived experience of manyHonestly at this point you don't need marriage you don't even really need sexual relationships I mean what IVF and Surrogates. I sometimes wonder why we cling to any of the old human stuff we have all this technology that sort of makes it pointless it seems like it's just nostalgia for a human past that we don't need to keep with us in the future why do people still want to pursue a sexual relationship when we don't need them? You could have two people who are virgins and both of them have child… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBam. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 11:39 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo people treat him like he's going to be Nikola Tesla he's not he's a really impressive scam artist. All of the projects that he's known for project step founded by other people that he ultimately bought in even the organization that got him his largest amount of money he was in there financing I'm not saying he doesn't have any scientific knowledge or ability he does to some degree but he's he's more Neil deGrasse Tyson of engineering vs an actual engineer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 11:34 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThere's nothing wrong with the blackpill fundamentally. I say if a person wants to try then they all redpill because they're putting in an effort in a person refuses to try or decides they're trying is no longer valuable or useless than their black but fundamentally thing the truth is the truth it looks matter where you are in the social hierarchy matters and your personality matters that's generally agreed upon. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 11:30 AM |
| 12 | Lesbian women have an easier time getting women than most straight men do.feminine and cute men. No.. maybe white but otherwise no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Do regularly unmated / unfathered men have any incentive in gathering surplus resources and sustaining their communities?While it's true that women volunteer I can't help but think that charity is less useful than just good sound policy oh you have a charity that takes care of the homeless you probably just have an organization that's a government affiliated organization that does that because it's going to be highly more professional and less likely to have Petty tyrant abuse that you see in small charities like in church charities. To me I think the the fact that women are volunteering in charity more than men I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 11:20 AM |
| 4 | Do regularly unmated / unfathered men have any incentive in gathering surplus resources and sustaining their communities?Those men are low motivation but high in sexual access they're not bothering children in the traditional sense did just accidentally producing children it's not their goal if the women didn't get pregnant they would be happy the women get pregnant doesn't matter because they're not going to be responsible. I think what this person is talking about people whose motivation ultimately comes from sexuality rather than people who have no motivation and have sexual access. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 11:14 AM |
| 2 | Do regularly unmated / unfathered men have any incentive in gathering surplus resources and sustaining their communities?General AI isn't going to get rid of manual labor machines are expensive and with the breakdown the cost a lot and they take a lot of expertise to rebuild even if you have another machine doing it it's more effective to get poor people to do that type of work so manual labor is going to continue to be done mainly by the people is always been done by the lower middle class and the poor. The jobs most likely to get rid of are middle class jobs like firmly middle class jobs like retail office work … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Males picked up?I've been asked out before. It's not so rare. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/22 12:35 AM |
| 5 | Would you ever participate in a polyamorous relationship? If yeas or no explain down below.No. I fundamentally at my core don't believe that it is a real relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/22 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Elon Musk has now bought twitter. He claims he wants to "unleash its free speech potential". Is this good or bad?No it's not. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/04/22 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Elon Musk has now bought twitter. He claims he wants to "unleash its free speech potential". Is this good or bad?I think that's 100% wrong I think a situation can always go to the worst possibility. Which just means things become an echo chamber you have enough toxic people on a platform for a long enough period of time it will push off people who will fight against them because they're going to be shouted down and it just becomes self reinforcing and because the platform itself has already become a staple for political and social discussion it will increase the sort of social decay between groups gender r… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/04/22 03:10 AM |
| 2 | Elon Musk has now bought twitter. He claims he wants to "unleash its free speech potential". Is this good or bad?Is free speech actually good in practice vs principal. Maybe. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/04/22 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Is it possible for a woman to truly love a man for who he is or will it always be attached to his money, looks, or social status?Let's stop the pretense poor people aren't happy generally speaking. That's life of constant misery and often self destruction. Relationships tend to be fraught or short-term and even family relationships are filled struggle resentment and abuse (often casual). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/22 04:37 PM |
| -1 | [CMV] Telling men that relationships aren't a source of happiness is bad advice and invalidates their feelings.I agree with what you're saying but also disagree with it principally because I believe that happiness isn't the purpose of life. Happiness is just an outcome and it's not necessarily even a meaningful outcome to pursue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Is It Cuckoldry If She Has Sex With Other Women?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/22 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Would you date or marry a single mother or father?No to single mother , maybe single father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 07:27 PM |
| 0 | [CMV] Romantic relationships with women are exhausting.I came to the same conclusion. I guess the trick is too get with Dominant but not abusive women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/22 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Your partner gets paralyzed from the neck down, do you stay?If they can still talk. I'd probably be fine. Don't know so I can't say either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Sex In LTRs Mega-ThreadOnly if necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/22 03:30 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI never was able to get into Halo I mean I like the music of it and multiplayer seemed kind of fun but also kind of toxic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen I get hungry at night I put like a cinnamon stick and some water and a piece of lemon let it sit for like 6 minutes and then I drink it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/22 03:51 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 12:54 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?No I don't believe that. I think you definitely need human interaction and friendship. I think friendship is more important than love. Seems to me a lot of people who never date long-term or have no interest in sex that seem to live complete lives I think the hyper focus on love is unnecessary as we become more technologically advanced more culturally sophisticated we'll see it as an artifact of human sentimentalism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 10:17 AM |
| 1 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?But it's not the only meaningful thing I mean you have: Research, There's taking care of people, Intellectual study, Physical training. Creating Art | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 10:00 AM |
| 5 | What do you think about not dating and only visiting sex workers?The real overlooked cost is TIME . In general women live longer lives than men we can make arguments about biological clocks in the short time frame for natural pregnancy but we have a whole bunch of artificial means now so that might not mean as much as it did 30 years ago. But you still have a very short period of time on this world and we don't have it proof that there's anything afterwards so every minute that you waste that's not meaningful you lose forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/22 09:39 AM |
| 2 | If ruminating on the "truth" is sabotaging you and making you miserable, consider that you can't handle the "truth"Probably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhy you make me hate doors and spelling? Huh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 05:27 AM |
| 1 | What’s the different between a close friendship and an emotional affair?I've never sexually cheated on my partners but I'm pretty sure I've emotionally cheated on like a at least half of them I say I know I'm emotionally cheating partner when I hide the fact that I had a conversation with someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 05:26 AM |
| 4 | If ruminating on the "truth" is sabotaging you and making you miserable, consider that you can't handle the "truth"Nihilism is better than false hope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 05:25 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe most unappreciated instrument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSome people hate it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4W: If a man likes Ska is that a deal breaker? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/04/22 09:51 PM |
| 2 | Do you think misogyny being taken more serious still than misandry has less to do with feminism's impact on industrialized societies and more to do with the physcology of white knighting?I'm not sure. It could be. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/04/22 12:06 AM |
| 8 | Do you think misogyny being taken more serious still than misandry has less to do with feminism's impact on industrialized societies and more to do with the physcology of white knighting?I think a lot of it has to do with the fact that men still view themselves as the particular group they belong to rather than is a general group. Which is to say Jewish men still view themselves as being Jewish first and then being a man so if they view a male issue is going to be from a Jewish male issue and same thing for Black men or White man or Asian men you see that a lot in online rhetoric from men talking about the gender issues. This is not to say there isn't a racial component but the … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/04/22 01:16 PM |
| 1 | Be honest, would you date the equivalent to yourself?Yes. I'm mixed race 6'1 man with dark hair and gold skin and almond shaped eyes. I spent my early life in Arts and later life in Tech and Law. My family has lived everywhere and has connections to many people allowing for alot of opportunities to change career or just travel safely. My equivalent is about as rare as I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 12:48 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI used to deeply dislike the idea. But now I see the practicality of it. If I want to date someone that has the same Religious, Racial, and Class/Financial background the pool is to small to use a tinder or any other OLD. The women I would be most compatible with are going to be women that my extended family would have some sort of connection to. Synagogue, Social Clubs, Friends of friends, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 12:28 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI thought about allowing my family to arrange a marriage because dating is a hassle. For the most part they know what I'm attracted to and not attracted to. And I'm more likely to date a woman from my Class / Similar Cultural background. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/22 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Alpha-Bux, the male unicorn, myth or rare?Yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've had Cuban food before it definitely is really good I'm not familiar with much in Chinese pop music do you have any suggestions? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAny band you'd suggest? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 01:43 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI actually dated a Ethiopian girl and I still haven't had Ethiopian food which is kind of crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadReally? Fish and chips doesn't sound that bad, maybe a little basic but still decent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 01:41 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOn a light note here I have to ask a question: When it comes to music and food we all know American music is great and Italian food is great but which countries do you think have underrated food and music? To put my cars in the table I think Jamaican food is deeply underrated I prefer it to most American dishes and I think Greek & Turkish music is also deeply underrated it's some of the best music to come out of the Mediterranean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Gender fights are based on resentment of the fact genders do not need each other anymoreAnd most of those poor countries the parents and the children work in America the children aren't working generally speaking cuz there's no jobs for them to work in a American (Civilized /Modern) environment they won't have the kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 10:27 PM |
| 2 | Gender fights are based on resentment of the fact genders do not need each other anymoreI am also an atheist. I kind of reject the hedonistic claim towards legitimacy of Life by saying that life has meaning only if you enjoy it I understand that the desire to enjoy life I actually do enjoy my life in general but I don't think it's necessary. You just need to keep doing what you're doing or whatever you need to do or sometimes what's appropriate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Gender fights are based on resentment of the fact genders do not need each other anymoreI disagree I actually think and this is coming from someone who's been pretty liberal pretty much the entirety of my life, these "people" would have a less children in general if there's no assistance and you're only other option is your children starve to death in your house you're not going to have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Gender fights are based on resentment of the fact genders do not need each other anymoreI agree that that's the goal of consumerism but I have a even more interesting take while I agree with you that consumerism puts a hyper focus on the belief that things can make you happy I think as a culture I think for the last 150 years we've had a unnecessary belief in the necessity of happiness. You don't have to be happy in fact you never have to be happy. You can live your entire life and add meaning to the world and do great and interesting things and never experience anything that ever … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/22 08:22 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou're still sus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Everyone Peaks and Hits the Wall Even A-List CelebritiesI don't know if I buy that I never was attracted to her even when she was in her I supposed highest quality stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/22 02:19 AM |
| 2 | The average man is better off paying a hooker for sex once a month than trying to date in the modern worldMeh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo you can there's a lot of people who don't listen to any music that the friends don't listen to and if you don't have a large pool of friends that come from a different community than you then you'll never have a interest in it. There's a lot of people who heard of Metallica but how many people who aren't metal fans have heard of Megadeth there's a lot of people who have heard of Jay z but if you're not a big rap fan have you heard of MF DOOM or MF GRIM? Or even better example it would be some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell feminism like many things is a middle-class movement that's not to say that lower class people were very rich people that play a prominent role but overwhelmingly is propelled by the middle class and middle class movements geared towards fascism. Why because communism is scary and they're afraid of losing things because they have something to lose like land sometimes a house or status and elite movements which I would call like Republican- politics tend to be be too exclusatory and they fee… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTo be honest with you I'm a candle person but I know it's not practical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 08:52 PM |
| 8 | If women find you funny, it usually DOESN'T mean they're attractedWhat's his dating record compared to someone like Sean Connery or any musician that was around the same age as him. He was already a celebrity so he had that going for him but if you could pair up to some of the people that were around at the time I don't think he really fares that well I mean Kissinger had fangirls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI guess maybe Green Sunglasses otherwise I got nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 01:51 AM |
| 1 | I think it's high time the men in this subreddit learn to accept reality.No women approach. I've been approached and I'm not looking at the moment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWear a sword. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:50 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI kind had one of those. It's a bit overrated but maybe they pay more wirh women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLook at a lot of people both men and women but I think they'll basically at least most of them all were born in the same month. Which is also the same month I was born. So good for you. Just out of Curiosity how Cancer, for no particular reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:46 AM |
| 2 | How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think.Well as some one who has a unique perspective on politics I have to date someone that has different political view (both right & left). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/22 12:36 AM |
| 1 | In your experience, what are the signs that somebody is unhappy in their marriage?Well I guess now I would say slapping someone on stage but.. But in everyday life I would say you don't know they're married until someone else tells you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 10:19 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of men do you actually believe are sexually active with women?50-60% percent Over 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Is being bisexual as a male a *get out of jail free card*, for all women's bullshit?No woman have their bullshit, but so do men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedOk I didn't finish the Thread. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/22 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Will Smith is a great example of how weak men are today, and why men (especially weak men) should not be getting marriedHe didn't curse because he made promise not too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 11:47 PM |
| 2 | The Oscars MegathreadThat's legally true. But if you can physically do something than it's just the consequences that you have to worry about. Aaaaaa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/22 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinityI'm not convinced that any of these arguments about toxic masculinity have anything to do with the well-being of men because if it was they would not use the term toxic masculinity. To be a man is to be masculine right to use the term is foolish if goal is to increase the living standards and self-appreciation of men to attach the concept of toxicity towards it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 02:49 AM |
| 1 | Bill Maher's recent comments on toxic masculinityThis is just going to be my blind opinion about toxic masculinity in general. There are two examples of what I would call toxic masculinity : Men who do nothing that actually gives them any claim to his masculinity and take the accomplishments of other men's sacrifices struggles and expertise as their own justification for their own weird actions. And men who don't understand what their responsibilities are so theyhave an exaggerated view of what it means to be a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/22 02:46 AM |
| 3 | How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then menSexual utility is utility. Since its one the thing that too many males will get up for, even at their own expense, thats utility It's just necessity for survival of the species. And if it's not being pursued for the purpose of procreation is really being pursued for some sort of ego trip or something that's toxic otherwise it's necessity. We dont cease to be humans with the ability to think, strategize, build skills, create and execute idea Agree All I'm saying is the way that men view themselve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Value is determined by the marketI subscribe to the belief of two value subjective value or market value and objective value. Now objective value can change in a situation but it still is inherently true so a man that has the ability to walk up a flight of stairs and pick someone up from a fire has more value than a man that's in a wheelchair and can't in a situation of a fire. It doesn't mean that the man in the wheelchair can't have subjectively more value than the man that is physically capable under other circumstances but … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 09:08 PM |
| 15 | How do men rationalize the belief that they are superior to women in every way, while also believing that women are inherently more valuable then menMEN see their value coming from their abilities their skills their personality a collection of attributes that all combines together and give them greater or lesser value in comparison to each other. Women are womb that gives birth to children inherently valuable because that's how the species continues but outside of that that's just a biological fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 09:05 PM |
| 1 | the reason why there's less female government representation and a gender gap in wages is because of hypergamy, not "the patriarchy"You need to communities even with all things even and not going to end up with the same results in all fields. Half of my female relatives can sing the other half can't almost all of my male relatives can paint or draw or Express themselves visually in very interesting ways but almost none of them have taken any interest in professional Arts besides myself. Thats in a family with resources and connections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 09:24 AM |
| 7 | the reason why there's less female government representation and a gender gap in wages is because of hypergamy, not "the patriarchy"It's more common than you think actually. If you think that this person is talking about people inheriting money from a family member that died or a cash loan at 15 no. You just have to be related to someone that has a large enough amount of money that they can influence things around you that allow for you to make money easier in a short period of time. Elon musk wasn't given a billion dollars but he was already related to billionaires (in assets ). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/22 09:21 AM |
| 3 | How important to you is a woman’s relationship to her family, especially her father? And women—how important is a man’s family life to you?I don't think I would entertain dating someone with a fundamentally different up bringing than my own. So it matters a lot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/22 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFour times in a month would be a lot for me to be honest with you. So yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 10:10 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadJust get the Skullcandy it's better trust me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm not that interested in sex so I guess as much I do now. Which is quite a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/22 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Are millennials a lost generation? Or just the start of a new normal?The Russians are in Central Ukraine. The war has not even been going on for a month that's very fast ukrainians are putting up a really good fight most people predicted that they would fall in three days but not falling as fast as people thought you would is not the same thing as winning the war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/22 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Does economic prosperity, higher standards of living and gender equality necessarily lead to greater promiscuity/ liberalised norms of sexuality?Less human error. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/22 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI actually like them too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh yeah my grandfather listens to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm bisexual. Skinny dudes with big butts and bodybuilders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm not sure I know who that is and I'm sorry I'm not in my 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think when I was 20 I definitely was though I didn't know at the timen. Now I think I'm at average but I'm just taller than most of the people around me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Does economic prosperity, higher standards of living and gender equality necessarily lead to greater promiscuity/ liberalised norms of sexuality?No I'm saying a state can decide to produce more people rather than having to depend on the population. Which probably means the end of democracy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 11:10 AM |
| 1 | What do you care for in your partner?Someone with a meaningful opinion. Not a talking point not a rehearsed approach but a honest thoughtful angel on Anything and everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Does economic prosperity, higher standards of living and gender equality necessarily lead to greater promiscuity/ liberalised norms of sexuality?Well the average age in the population is under 30 so it's pretty much right in the range of child rearing years and even though there's been some growth in economy and in education for women (and for young men) which also decreases the amount of children that they have it's not completely widespread its mostly centered in urban areas in the rural areas or the semi rural areas it's still pretty traditional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Does economic prosperity, higher standards of living and gender equality necessarily lead to greater promiscuity/ liberalised norms of sexuality?A donor is a person if you remove people from a process people are a complication and they're not a positive for a process that's intense and you know has a margin for potential failed. Gay couples, infertile couples and some singles would love the technology. It also has much larger implications for artificially increasing declining population like Japan or Russia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Does economic prosperity, higher standards of living and gender equality necessarily lead to greater promiscuity/ liberalised norms of sexuality?I say artificial wombs first. It's just a grow bag with a zygote in it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 02:16 AM |
| 1 | Does economic prosperity, higher standards of living and gender equality necessarily lead to greater promiscuity/ liberalised norms of sexuality?If you're going through the process of artificially inseminating a wound you want kids. William and want kids but are not particularly interested in a relationship with a woman. There are asexual men, there are homosexual men there are heterosexual men whom are aromantic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Should men start wearing makeup? Should women stop?I do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 11:41 PM |
| – | What brings a rise in wishing for a more trad lifestyle?Most people wish to live a life that has some sort of semblance of meaning instead of just hedonistic pleasure seeking which is ultimately empty and shallow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Tits vs. AssBoth. But I prefer legs and lips as a marker for attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 10:03 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAs a rule I don't cry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/22 02:19 AM |
| 7 | Personality matters, but don't conflate it with virtueThe ability to use ones wealth to leverage against one's looks or to increase one's looks using the wealth.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you think young men are becoming more or less sexist?No I've said this before he'll on the subreddit and I said it in the real world people are upset but you really can't negate what I'm trying to say here. The truth is the relationship between men and women historically and generally biologically is based off of necessity when you remove the necessity there is no need for the relationship to exist so the only reason it would exist is because of novelty. Women don't need to depend on the direct labor of a particular man maybe in general they need … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 08:54 PM |
| 10 | Do you think young men are becoming more or less sexist?Basically men live with the threat of violence both from the state and other men so it tempers them or they eventually crushed by a bigger force. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI aim to please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo it's kind of like real estate there's a lot of houses that are a million or $2 million dollars but very few people have a million dollars or can take out loans that will add up to a million dollars in a very short period of time so for some people they have a lot of options and for other people there's a lot to be presented to them but now they have no options so pretty much it's the best time to be a man if you belong to the highest class of men physically and financially and the best time t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThat's a woman's perspective on sex with a woman. In my dealings with both I found women not particularly good. Never the worst but not ever the best experience. Generally the same sex is better at sex when (they care). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 12:11 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNah we're good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadGaslighting, Guybossing , Gatekeeping | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis is true but the truth is from my perspective "no one is successful" except for a very few group of people most people find a place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 11:49 AM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathread65-70kg Greek Wrestling >Judo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 09:05 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadUnless you're a 6 ft 1 ( actually I'm 6'2 I just measured myself I'm actually taller than I thought ) boxer I don't it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 08:30 PM |
| 2 | A rich man might fuck broke hot young women but he'd never wife them upNo it's deeper than that I used to think of a morality In terms that you're describing here and I don't completely disagree. But I think it's important to realize that a lot of the moral decisions that people make that are in my opinion are immoral come from two places desire and desperation if you can fulfill your desires without having issues and aren't desperately grabbing any means of survival, you'll act more morally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 09:34 PM |
| 2 | A rich man might fuck broke hot young women but he'd never wife them upI won't say I grew up in the upper class necessarily. I mean from a financial place probably but the truth is morality is difficult so the easier ones life circumstances are in the immediate the more likely you are to be morals. If a person has to struggle to survive constantly or is worried to some degree about their ability to provide for their family the likelihood that they're going to stay attached to a moral perspective is low. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you think people pick partners based on how good that partner would make them look?I do wonder about people I can bring to my family like this does this person have a good education is this an ethnic matchup that would make sense would my family be okay with it. But I mean outside of that no not really random people in the street I don't care about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 12:37 PM |
| 2 | Are there any women that really believe they attract the wrong kind of men?Would still exist the numbers would just be smaller and people would just have heterosexual sex for reproduction not for fun or rarely for fun. People often times do tasks out of necessity rather than out of desire if something is necessary for the survival of the species the species will do it even if it's not pleasurable there's a lot of species where sex is a really not a pleasurable act or not even really an act that can bring pleasure because there's no physical contact between partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/22 03:28 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI've been both of these guys actually in my life with boxing and I did painting honestly, I think it depends on the demographic that you're going for I tend to prefer African-American women or Latinas and in those communities me being athletic was more immediately beneficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMe neither. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Q4M What are your physical preferences and what are your physical requirements?Preference: 5'8 -5'10 Physical Requirement: Skinny & Ethnic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 02:40 AM |
| 1 | What Would Society Be Like If Everyone Were Aromantic/Asexual?Fundamentally better | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCringe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Lots of women are pushing back against the patriarchy and trying to hold men to higher standards, but what difference does it make if they don't have children?Angela Davis - Women, Race, Class | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 01:40 AM |
| 1 | Lots of women are pushing back against the patriarchy and trying to hold men to higher standards, but what difference does it make if they don't have children?We had African American studies / history class that often went on other tangents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Q4ALL: What should a woman do if she wants to punch above her attractiveness level?Have a interesting job, be in shape (you don't have to be a model), date younger men or men from outside your country. It doesn't even have to be that exotic of like you're an American dating someone from Thailand or Korea it can just literally be a younger person from Canada or Mexico. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Lots of women are pushing back against the patriarchy and trying to hold men to higher standards, but what difference does it make if they don't have children?I did and my school wanted to teach abstinence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/22 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Here are the seven reasons why most marriages fall apart, and why quoting divorce rates is a flawed argument:Prenups aren't worth anything I know woman who's paying a husband , ex-husband right now and him and his new boyfriend are doing quite well off of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 11:13 AM |
| 0 | CMV: True freedom as a man is when you stop caring what women think about you entirelyI've never cared. But I also controversially don't believe in freedom as a concept. Me whenever someone ever says freedom I always think it's just an excuse to act on hedonism or to remove any idea of responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 11:59 AM |
| 1 | How do you view sex?A task. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 08:43 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYes. Modern world men and women don't need each other the relationship is based off of novelty not necessity. In the past a woman needed a man because she needed someone that make money or protector but we have guns in a modern world and most of them are easier enough to use that even a woman who's 90 pounds can use most firearms some are probably going to be very difficult just from a recall perspective. That in the majority of women in the modern era work. And in the past a man needed to be ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 04:51 PM |
| 1 | How does the "you need to see women as a person first" work on Tinder?No man. Women and all people are attracted to people who are attracted to them and that they're also attracted to it's just some people have different low and high bars. Most people that are stable emotionally they're low bar is are you attractive enough for me to be interested in you then the next part is are you attracted to me and then the next part is personality and job and caree. But for some people the highest bar and the lowest bars are the same thing as are you attractive enough and do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTo women it may not make a difference but I would caution to look at any community that does not have consistent co-parenting at the very least I don't necessarily think two people have to live in the same house but I do think that the kid needs another person besides one parent to depend on I think it could cause some ego issues. . The love of one parent might be very good but having two people that love you that are dedicated to taking care of you might cause you to believe that you're lovable… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 04:30 PM |
| 3 | What is an immediate “we’re breaking right here right now” dealbreaker for you?Cheating, Violence, being broke.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/22 02:22 PM |
| 1 | What is the real reason most average men have a near impressive time finding a girlfriend?I'm talking about appeal to other blacks not as appeals to other groups. I think if you ask the average black man whom is American at the very least dude prefer their partner to be also American African-American or mixed race than Latina then maybe White depending on what state you're talking about and then other ethnic groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/22 10:01 PM |
| 1 | What is the real reason most average men have a near impressive time finding a girlfriend?There is world of difference between being mixed race and being white in visual appeal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Do we really want redpill to go mainstream?Give me the red pill really just says that you need to self improve in order to get the results that you want in life whether we're talking about dating or in a career. I think it's a much better philosophy to say well you have to work hard versus well have a positive attitude cuz I've had a 'negative' (according to Reddit) attitude pretty much but I work hard and I get what I want sometimes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 11:21 AM |
| 1 | What is the real reason most average men have a near impressive time finding a girlfriend?Here a question answer how many black dudes leave America for Europe to find a white wife Vs Going to the Caribbean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 05:44 AM |
| 2 | What is the real reason most average men have a near impressive time finding a girlfriend?Most black aren't into white women fat or not. I've been Black (mixed-race actually) and Im not. Went to a white school had white friends have white relatives. It's a media narrative... You go and you look at all of the people that black people describe as attractive not white people describing as attractive for black people but they're considered attractive by black people almost none of the men are dating white women over them are dating women that aren't African-American or Afro Caribbean.. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/22 04:42 AM |
| 19 | The "friends first" route doesn't work, women actually hate itMen date in proximity. The women around you are who you date or consider dating. So a friend is even more likely to be considered as a option unless they are desexualized or no attraction is present. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Are divorce statistics believable?What class do you belong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/22 02:32 AM |
| 0 | Getting into a relationship with a woman who is slim and college educated is hard, period.Yes. Without any shame I accept the declarative retort of 'Snobbery' . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Getting into a relationship with a woman who is slim and college educated is hard, period.Exception of a few colleges overwhelmingly the more attractive woman is the more likely going to be in college and Young. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 07:15 PM |
| 2 | Getting into a relationship with a woman who is slim and college educated is hard, period.Not exactly incompatible but strained | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 06:32 PM |
| 4 | Getting into a relationship with a woman who is slim and college educated is hard, period.What do you talk to a woman that doesn't have a college education about really? I can't fathom it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 05:02 PM |
| 1 | What is a “physical type” and why is it so important to some.I have a distinct look that I like for the most part I tend to prefer women that are close to my complexion so Brown women who are taller than 5'4 but not usually taller than like 5:10. And African American or mixed race in features. Not really into Asian or white women. Anyone can be beautiful though.. In my opinion when it comes to women at the very least what I'm attracted to is much harder set than I think it is for most people like I've tried and it just there's no passion there. I think it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Is desire the root of all suffering?No suffering the suffering. Desire is just another way for a person to suffer but it's not by any means the reason for suffering. The slave suffers not just because they want freedom but because the nature of being a slave is a state of suffering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/22 12:06 AM |
| 5 | Will marriage die out entirely once Woman start to out earn men?You want me to read more about Rome. I have more than sixty books on the Empire. I've written multiple papers on the subject. You should read on the late empire Gibbons. Tacitus Maybe some Pliny to get familiar with the Light earlier history. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 11:55 PM |
| 4 | Will marriage die out entirely once Woman start to out earn men?What about this resembles Rome I want you to actually stop and tell me what about this resembles room are you talking about the Republic maybe maybe this is similar. But if you talking about the Empire which most people are talking about when we talk about the fall of Rome none of this resembles the fall of Rome Rome was too big it didn't have the ability to administrate itself properly was constantly prone to some sort of form of Civil War roughly every 10 to 20 years and eventually fell to inf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/22 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenThat's a stupid philosophy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 08:45 PM |
| 0 | Parental DNA test for all newly born childrenYou want the government to just have everyone’s dna right from birth? Yes. Many people wouldn’t be comfortable with that. Stupid people and criminals. Just buy a dna test for your kid if you are worried, nothing is stopping you. By making it a state mandate you take the onus of the decision off of the individual and normalize it as a common procedure within a generation it doesn't become a question. It's just "what's done" if you would. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/22 08:42 PM |
| 1 | How quickly can you get a boyfriend/girlfriend if you were extremely motivated?Tomorrow. Either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNone of the people on that show except for the Two slaves ( Missandei & Grey Worm ) other than that I liked the show (until season 5) but that's about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/22 10:18 AM |
| 2 | For people who are childless and unmarried in their 30/40s, do you feel regretful when you see young people starting families?No. I'm only 30 early thirties though. I think it's because I never wanted children even as a child. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 09:07 PM |
| 2 | How do you reconcile AF/BB and the fact that most men engage in sexual behavior long before marriage?It's a simple cost benefit analysis if one person (Alpha- let's say for sake of argument) requires 3 hours to have sex with one person and another person requires 60 hours (Beta)to have sex with the same person they both have achieved the same end result but have spent a disproportionate amount of time in relationship to one another. The arguments that say that these two should not be viewed the same are quality arguments. The arguments that make this statement: "that the hours spent or not qual… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4Men: what is a high value man?Purplepill: An attractive man from a good / stable family that makes a decent income something over 60,000 a year I guess if you're American, is In-Shape not married does not have children yet. Is under the age of 33 and over the age of 23. From a personality perspective someone who's educated takes interest in their partner is responsible not a cheater or a liar. Has life experience outside of work or extended family meaning travel or interesting hobbies. More specifically physically usually 3-… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 08:46 PM |
| 4 | Where have all the good men gone?Neutralizing comment personally. But I suspect it might leave some people feeling salty but that's all water under the bridge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/22 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Study on Sexually and Romantically Unsuccessful Men “Linked to Local Mating Ecology”Real solution is having a less sexual culture.. so much stuff in American and Canadian and most Western European cultures or cultures that are trying to be Western European in some way are so sexualized which is unnecessary. I don't need to see pretty people when I want to buy bounty or if I want toilet paper just show the product just write characters we should have a push in society towards the desexualization since people are going to have less sex in general per average person it doesn't mak… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/22 03:17 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] Men who don't get offers from women should stop trying to dateI've been asked out before. Multiple times. Women do make the first move they just circle around you a bit and eventually say what the heck and try it . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/22 12:30 AM |
| 5 | Have you been able to trust women since discovering the red pill? If so, how and if not, why not?I trust no one not even really close family outside of like my parents and my siblings and my closest in age cousins. That said I treat everyone with respect and expect nothing from them that way when I do get something back in return I'm happily surprised by it and I know that this person is someone that can potentially trust and when I don't get anything in return or even get a bad experience out of them I'm not particularly disappointed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 09:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4A: To those who have had a "Hoe Phase", what did you learn from it and how did it affect you?Well I never was really involved in drugs and I don't drink alcohol but I was involved in arts and sports sports and my teenage years and like 21 to 22 and art really from my childhood until my mid-20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 09:48 PM |
| 1 | How do you “date”?I usually have a girl floating around me at work or some sorta social gathering that slowly flirts with me until I get a phone number.. Exchange info on family , political views, music, etc. Then go to a movie or social gathering than start to see where things go from their. Very Jane Austen I know but it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 09:31 PM |
| – | Opinions on Men’s and Women’s Only SpacesNo medical value. Maybe some psychological value from abstaining from sex or masturbation as a hyper focus but that's about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 09:00 PM |
| 2 | How can men fix online dating? Issues from a woman's point of viewThank you so much for this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 08:57 PM |
| 3 | The Gender Empathy Gap is realDo you want a list a female sex traffickers we just had a famous case play out I the news. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 08:53 PM |
| – | The Gender Empathy Gap is realWomen aren't abducting, raping/trafficking, and murdering indigenous women/men/children. Women aren't shooting men (or women, kids) in the streets over gang/money shit. Wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Pick one: dateless or jobless. Which situation is worse to you?Jobless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/22 10:39 AM |
| 3 | What are some arbitrary things that make you immediately swipe left?Anything crystals. Any Religiousness (especially Christian). Green/Purple hair or Fake Blonde. Drinking alcohol. Weirdly sexual photos. Cats & dogs talked about like children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/22 06:03 PM |
| 2 | Do men really want a girl that "fucks like a porn star" or is that just projection from women?I hat rough sex. And all porn seems to be a variation on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadProbably reading or listening to jazz music. I can't be on Reddit 25/7. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 05:29 AM |
| 6 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI mean maybe some of this is that but in all likelihood it really probably comes down to the fact that we have less cadavers of women to practice dissections and surgery and most of the medical information that we have is based on the male body and males have different physical structures than females I mean everything's basically in the same place but sizes are slightly different reaction to chemicals are different the amount of pressure that can be applied to a particular spot is different esp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHonestly I have thought about this before. Donald Glover, George Rr Martin, Dan Harmon, The Rock, and Larry David. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/22 03:27 AM |
| – | Getting rimmed by women is great.Eww. I hate butt stuff... When it's happening to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 11:00 AM |
| – | Sex is not Charity. On a personal level, 'fairness' is irrelevant.How could society help them? I've been making this argument before and I'll be making again if a percentage of men and some women are not going to ever have sex because they're not attractive or they don't have the mental ability to reasonably engage in a relationship maybe we should produce less sexualized media and advertisements I feel like a third of the shows that I watch have more sex in them than I'm comfortable with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 10:44 AM |
| 0 | As an atheist I never understood why Western TRP members have an issue with IslamIf you're a Christian you're not supposed to use drugs or alcohol either I mean I guess you could eat bacon which is weird coming from the Jewish side of the tradition that you guys figured out a way for you not to eat bacon it's really weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/22 10:23 AM |
| 1 | Porn is a pretty good source of knowledge about the real world and sex in particularNo. Anal sex is way more common and seen as way less painful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Be Honest: Do You think Sex the Meaning of Life?No . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 12:22 PM |
| 2 | I feel like a serious population decline is the only way to curb the hyperinflation of the dating marketNah, for a long time western countries will just import workers from the third world. This will mitigate the native population decline. That's not dependable and I think that depends on these countries to remain unstable which I don't think is going to be the case I think that's part of China's long-term plan A lot of people are worried about China trying to become neo-colonial masters of Africa or even some places in South America which making deals with China really I think their goal is to ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 12:21 PM |
| 1 | I feel like a serious population decline is the only way to curb the hyperinflation of the dating marketNah. Population will stabilize.. Births will decline before meeting standard flat point but life expectancy will go up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 12:18 PM |
| 6 | Women and men can't be friendsNah we can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 12:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOut of curiosity what did you say? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 12:11 PM |
| 1 | How do I capitalize off of my white male privilege?No one said that you're accomplishment are meaningless. I find it ironic that you're so quick the throw class into the conversation and dismiss race which I find fascinating because we usually see a general overlap in the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 12:09 PM |
| 1 | How do I capitalize off of my white male privilege?I'm from a family with money and a Poc. Long term money is a advantage. But in the immediate situation Race is class at least in America. As long as you have an elected representative system that rich and popular are going to dominate. If you want to talk about erasing inheritance in the political system which is unfeasible practically speaking you'd have to change the nature of how people gain political office it would have to be something more like jury duty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 05:28 AM |
| 1 | How do I capitalize off of my white male privilege?Focusing on unearned advantages that successful people have in life is a psychological defense mechanism If it prevents you from attempting to achieve a goal sure. But inherent advantage is observable and ignoring it seems silly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/22 05:09 AM |
| 1 | How do I capitalize off of my white male privilege?No it's just a reality of in-group preference, that's the reason why I have moved away from believing in a multi-ethnic society. Pretty much where the money goes if a black singer can make a million dollars to mostly a black audience a white singer could probably make twice that to a mostly white audience just by the sheer number of Whites compared to blacks that doesn't mean it's going to be that way it's just the opportunity for income increases just because people tend to favor their own grou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Men with little to no wealth and status who are sexual desirableNothing good comes from a bad / poor environment. If something of value does come from a place it's in spite not because. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 06:31 AM |
| 1 | Casual dating/sex, one night stand and any other time when act is done out of wedlock(only for reproduction) is degenerative.committed relationships Sure but that's the point of the contract. To put a stop Gap in the process if two people don't have resources tied to each other and potential shame relationship can break and fall apart relatively easily. But if you have a whole bunch of things that act as secondary or sometimes even tertiary stops in the process of just dissolving a relationship people will reconsider and try to make things work out. Now there's still a likelihood of failure but slowing down the proces… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Casual dating/sex, one night stand and any other time when act is done out of wedlock(only for reproduction) is degenerative.If you're heterosexual it makes sense yes. Heterosexual sex leads to pregnancy pregnancy leads to children children take 18 sometimes 20 years to take care of if healthy let alone potential mental health disorders are physical disorders children are expensive a committed relationship means that you've committed to one another shows responsibility and willing to be collaborative and participation of making sure that the kids survives long enough to produce other children and provide some resource… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 04:07 AM |
| 9 | Why there is the idea that the positive impact of a great woman in a man's life is bigger than the positive impact of a great man in a woman's life?But that's not the case most people had a job the reality is women just made less the jobs just paid less. Unless you belong to the extreme upper class most women worked they worked in a family store they worked in the office work they worked in a laundromat. The jobs at Mena had in the working class just paid more construction factory work carpentry mechanics paid more than secretary and waitress. Still do infact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 04:05 AM |
| 3 | Why there is the idea that the positive impact of a great woman in a man's life is bigger than the positive impact of a great man in a woman's life?That's not a traditional setup that's the American setup. The real traditional setup is that children's spend the early formative years with their mothers that's like baby to like maybe 10 and then they spend the rest of the time shadowing their father in his job or an apprenticeship with an older man if they'll follow in the family tradition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Men with little to no wealth and status who are sexual desirableIt doesn't double every dude isn't bi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Men with little to no wealth and status who are sexual desirableNah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/21 03:46 AM |
| 6 | How common are "hobosexuals" - people who get into a relationship just to prevent themselves from being homeless?The nursing if I had to guess is the job that gives you just enough money that if you're not a person that wastes money you're probably always be comfortable but it takes so much of your time that you never really have the ability to screen for a better partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you ever adopt FDS tactics?Every human being that exists in Society is a leach because you don't have expertise in a large number of areas that you need to survive. You just don't realize it because you don't generally have to deal with the people who you need to be good at something in order for you to survive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you ever adopt FDS tactics?artificial wombs The dream | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/21 03:21 AM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What kind of environment did you grow up in - and how did it affect your view of dating?Purplepill . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 06:20 AM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] What kind of environment did you grow up in - and how did it affect your view of dating?Upper middle class mostly. I think it made picky, viewing relationships with more caution. When you come from a family that has something that you can lose like money or respect you either don't care about that and you completely become a wasteful ungrateful man or you become cautious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 06:19 AM |
| 2 | Isn't it strange how men are less sexually fluid than men? You would think that given men's thirstiness, they would be more fluid.Male sexuality doesn't work that way there's a lot of bisexual men that's what you mean there's a lot of gay men and a lot of heterosexual men but men don't really flip between one set of sexuality into another set of sexuality I think that there's a lot of bisexual men that are DL because of the current social order. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/21 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLack of pleasure from sex and often a inability to understand sexual scenarios | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNot really. Occasionally | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm pretty sure I have high T just based on my build though I've never had it tested. No drugs barely even use alcohol. Mouse utopia? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo. I physically enjoy sex. It's just not something I feel the need to start if that makes sense? I think I go back and forth between bisexuality and asexuality from time to time if term exists for that. But I'm definitely not just asexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 01:43 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHonestly I think I kinda hate sex. It's something I've done to keep people around because they things I like in a relationship aren't enough to gain exclusive status. It's not that I don't enjoy sex I just feels like a chore. With both sexes to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI know animation can be for adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 11:22 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread26 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt looks like a kid show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/21 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'd return it a buy a copy of the object if it's reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 08:54 PM |
| 1 | How will the dating scene be different in 20 years?That's just a sugar breakfast. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/21 04:18 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI do. I Stand by the statement I made of the time of treason trials and executions, After the tribunals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Would you be ok with a masculine physique women that is feminine?No . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 11:35 AM |
| 2 | How tf can such a huge and widely dissatisfaction of women with their sex life even be a thing?!Most people are bad at sex. Sometimes a partner is too; passive, aggressive, fast, slow, not equipped, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/21 09:57 AM |
| 2 | Study: Large number of straight people have had same-sex experiencesIt's not common but it definitely happens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?No Americans don't need babies the West doesn't need babies they need to change the way that the finance medical Care and taxation you need the tax production not people. If you lower the tax on the individual and increase the tax on corporations you probably shut down a whole bunch of small businesses but to be completely honest with you they don't actually do anything significant for the economy they're really for show at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Do you think that being single will be the new norm and dating/marriage will become rare in the future?No. I think sporadic short-term relationships will be the most common Norm with a few people getting into long-term relationships easily/early (20s) and most people having to string of failed relationships before they get into a relationship that encompasses the end of their life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/21 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAs someone who used to be considered hot for a good 10-year period it's not really how that works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 11:13 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm Jewish. Grew up in the culture but rejected the religion. It's very much a real community for the benefits and negatives of it which means that there is a belief in an inner core group and an outer group and of quasi members. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Less attractive women are more likely to be married and have more sex partners compared to their male counterparts.No | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Men don't have high standards. They have varied standards.Mens body types don't vary like women's so don't say be a womans body type. Not true. Different men have different amount of natural body mass the ability to drop and put on weight at relative ease of difficulty different height different leg to waste arm ratio. Two men that are both at the same height and at the same weight from two different ethnicities are going to have different body types 6'2 black dude who's 205 lb with 7% fat looks different from a 6'2 white dude who weighs 205 pounds tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/21 11:01 AM |
| 1 | One woman with 4 husbandsI'm going to record here and in my personal life that I think polyamory is stupid. It's coming from my perspective from a place of selfishness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/21 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Women with high standards of financial success in men do not 'only want you for your money'True but I don't want to date a woman who's poor or comes from a bad family. That's just me being honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Bitter Pills For Everyone: The chances of you finding that fairytale perfect princess or prince are next to nonexistentIf I'm looking for both I double my chances /s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Number of partnersWomen in the 50s men just about 22-25 Something's are sex something's aren't. But this is just penetrative sex I'm counting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:58 AM |
| 1 | Gave you ever pulled the "fake date" joke on a girl? How familiar are you with this trend? It seeks to have happened to a lot of us women based on the thread earlier...I think so but not on purpose. I had took some pictures and this was back in the early stage of Myspace just to give you an idea of how old I am someone used my picture to flirt with a girl that we went to school with and ask her out on a date but it wasn't me. So I guess you could say I used to catfish someone. Anyway the person who knows checked out and didn't show up for the date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t more men become prostitutes and porn stars?Having sex to attain resources or some sense of social security does not require one to stand on a street corner as a prostitute you just have to find someone that you're more attractive that's in slightly desperate situation who doesn't want to openly pursue. Men do that all the time especially in very poor regions. I look at something something like 90 Day fiance where you have these poor men that were marrying these overweight white women it's kind of prostitution these women could not get a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/21 10:54 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWell depends on what language you're singing in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 02:38 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOh I've not used discord in a while must be new feature or one I never used. I guess they're going for the zoom market. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 10:24 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow bad? If it's just a little bit awkward probably not that just means that you guys got to get to know each other better; but like if one of you accidentally bites the other one (which has happened), maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadAre you old enough to remember AOL chat rooms because it's basically that but a separate app. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 10:13 AM |
| 5 | As a Bisexual Guy I think that men are FAR easier to date than women BUT too many guys just don't "get it" so I see why Women tend to be pickySame | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/21 02:10 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWrong Ringo> Paul> John> George ✓ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadStop trying to please your grandparents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/21 04:26 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadyall dont even have the homeless shelters to take in you biggest idiots. You hate each other too much. That's only really true in multiethnic societies. In mono ethnic cultures fraternal feeling is strong enough that some sorta help is generally made for the unfortunate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/21 10:17 AM |
| 1 | “If he wanted to…he would”Kinda | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 07:30 PM |
| 0 | Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships?I'm not mgtow but I don't date women at this point in my life anymore. You still have to work with people and deal with people outside of sexual relationships. And often how people treat partners is reflected in how they treat other relationships (employees, coworkers, or even family members). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/21 12:01 AM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm sorry my family just gives me a bad way of looking at money when I compare it to normal people. I just mean that is nothing in the terms that it's not a life-changing it's not like you're making $200,000 and he's making $20,000 it literally is nothing there is no comparable difference .. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 09:58 PM |
| -2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread80k is nothing. Both of you are making roughly age appropriate money if you're both I guess early 30s if you don't have a degree but work full-time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 08:51 PM |
| 2 | CMV: People who say « romantic attraction =\= sexual attraction » are abusersI think it's a oversimplification of sexuality. I can have sex without deeply rooted feelings for a person and not being taking advantage of something. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 06:04 PM |
| 18 | CMV: Most of women's dating issues stem from the fact they just aren't likable to the men they get withThat's not because of men disliking socializing. It's because of the stereotyping of Homo-social relationships between heterosexual men. Men's only organization becoming gender neutral or outright being closed down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/21 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMet her at a friend's house party. Kinda ghosted each other after a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 07:41 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo just date within your class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI dated a girl like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 01:53 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadA lot of cases it predates it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/11/21 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Would a guy feel compelled to have sex with me if I bought him dinner?I'm not one of those people that believe that just because you've done something for someone that that you owe that person your body but I freely admit that I was kind of taking advantage of people (mostly women). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Would a guy feel compelled to have sex with me if I bought him dinner?No I've taken gifts , food, rides, even job opportunities from women I had no intention to sleep with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo they'll just be more women I suspect that the men that do get to mate would be more attractive so if anything male attractiveness would probably increase dramatically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:59 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo because I don't feel comfortable with those people seeing me have sex. I would as a bisexual dude have mfm with a guy I'm not attracted to in order to have sex with a woman I am, potentially. Because me and said guy aren't fucking . If I had to have sex with the dude as well I'd need to be attracted to him. Do you get it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBut they're getting off on is the sexual act that the woman is enjoying (or enduring) they're not really getting off of the man enjoying the sex as well. For the straight guys the other guy is a tool. It's not like a bisexual encounter because that requires sexual interaction between all parties. Trust me, I'm bisexual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadBeyonce . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/21 09:41 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThe crime wave happened because the economy crashed. COVID crushed the local economy alot people got desperate and criminals took advantage of a shitty situation.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadLong term vs short-term planning you can have a very well funded police force and very poorly funded services so that you feel secure but you don't actually solve any problems and a situation will probably get worse over an extended period of time or you can accept that you're not actually safe and put in process the series of services programs and actions that will make the situation better over an extended period of time. The disproportionate amount of money that's put towards police forces in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 06:10 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI understand where you're coming from but let's see what reality shows us but the age of 23 if you have entered into education but say around 17 or 18 you have finished at least generally a four year degree if you went to the military at around 18 you may have served for 5 to 4 years. If you decided not to go into the military or education you have probably been working since the age of 17 which means that if you stay on one job you have more than six years of experience. If you had a child at t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 04:49 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat kills me is that and is it a very American thing they don't know how to word a policy correctly so they use buzzwords which end up closer than being already dumb Americans to think that they understand what a policy would be. Defund the police really should have been restructure federal and state spending towards other services. Like Education, Rehab services, Vocational training, Mental services & Access. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 04:45 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't what it would be for straight dudes but us others it's Softcore Gay Romantic Comedies like Noah's arc (half a porno), Queer as Folks, Eating Out Movie series, etc. I don't know if you seen Gay Porn but it's a lot of kissing. Like a lot. Starting-During-Finish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathread23 Generally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo not recently I ate a lot of greens so for me it's been mostly green or almost really nothing.No logs really. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHunt for Red October. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/11/21 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDifferent strokes different folks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIn my experience they start a conversation with me and ask about my personal life in subtle but probing pushes to see if I'm single or have kids. That or laugh nervously and full face smile every time I Smile or look in their direction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThatcher blacked / bleached. I don't think my brain will allow me to picture this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadOn a woman ass is overrated. Tits are nice but age pretty bad. I like this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 02:23 PM |
| 4 | Q4ALL- What have you tried in a sexual context that you would never do again?Ouch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/21 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou don't hear what they're saying. What they're saying is simple. You don't know who you're dealing with. "Treat everyone with a level of General decency and give most people a wide berth most people are nice but occasionally you will run into a person who does not care about the vague niceties of civility and is willing to stomp someone out in the streets independent of gender race sexual orientation or age." It's that simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Should men try and appeal to a specific niche of women or to a majority of them?I don't know what half the people on here are saying it seems like completely nonsense to me it's simple you need generally acceptable traits physically and personality wise and then you can go for a specific niche but it's better in the long term to have traits physically and from a personality perspective that make you generally attractive to the opposite sex independent of gender but more specifically if you're a man. How do I know this I'm a bisexual, booknerd whom is mixed race. For some wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 06:37 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMy personal experience with black women has been not that but I have seen it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's a mixed bag . Most Americans are fat or otherwise unhealthy.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Are women "delusional" about penis size?Depends on the orientation of the porn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 08:10 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf you drink alcohol and are overweight yes. People often wonder why black women and Asian women age so well in comparison to white women it's not because they're genetically better it's because alcohol consumption is much less of a factor in a lot of Asian cultures and most black cultures and most black people outside of the United States of America aren't overweight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 08:04 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt's not special it's like white dude who go to Asia. You grow up in a culture where you have a specific sexual fetization this reinforced by stereotypes and pornography and then when people have a little bit of money and no one's watching them to go to a country where they can live out a fantasy for the cheap that they can't actually afford to live in their own country both because they're not that attractive to attract the partner that has the qualities that they want from that ethnic group an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/21 08:01 AM |
| 2 | Costs of Feminism Mega-ThreadVoice typing. Honestly it's kind of a miracle that it was even able to guess my words relatively correctly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Costs of Feminism Mega-ThreadI agree I think that the system's better than the previous system but I do think that this system has some negatives and one of the negatives is that I think the patience the ability to accept the faults that are innate as individuals and between the genders has dissipated. And it can only really exist for those to have the means to live good lives under all circumstances instead of just the current circumstance. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/21 12:30 AM |
| 2 | Costs of Feminism Mega-ThreadWell I'm not going to get too specific on examples necessarily but I do think there are a certain level of indecisiveness has been accepted amongst men but I see a lot more online in jest but I do think it's coming from my honest place of judgment that is negative when it comes to female indecisiveness even when it comes to very simple things like picking a restaurant. Or male borish behavior. Or poor social skills when it comes to social interactions. I think past generations had a tendency to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/21 10:42 AM |
| 5 | Costs of Feminism Mega-ThreadI think feminism and really modern society has destroyed to some degree for better or worse patience between genders. If you dated either gender or both you realize that both have innate qualities that are gender-specific not just personality specific that are annoying. I think in a pre-feminist society a lot of women because of necessity just dealt with it up front and I think in the early post-feminist society a lot of traits that men found annoying about women they accepted up front because t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Is there a good reason for men to pay on dates?Proof of disposable income, ability to choose setting (super important), show of more than superficial investment / interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Is porn ruining average sexual experiences for men by raising their expectations on how much sexual women should be with them?There might be some truth to that but I suspect a lot of women are just not good in bed. And assumed that the dissatisfaction is happening is because of a porn warp rather than them just not being a satisfying partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:09 PM |
| 0 | Dating Someone You're Not Attracted To Just To Get Relationship/Sexual Experience.It's fine. If you're completely heterosexual and won't cheat she won't notice the any difference. It's just up to you if that's acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/21 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSeems like someone didn't like you. At least that's the only reason something like this happened to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/21 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo no no you're doing it all wrong cardio is jazz, classical music, and occasionally musical soundtrack's. Every other way is heresy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/21 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadRoaming gangs. The purges twice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 11:31 PM |
| 2 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?Then we're seemingly in complete agreement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSocial wars | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 11:10 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadTo give a much more clear perspective on history so people can better analyze how we got to the position that we're in whether it's a positive or a negative position if you don't have all the information and you're just looking at history as a series of dates and wars things look like fate instead of consequences of actions and choices and choices and choices produced by philosophies and Principles. To put this in perspective to use an example that seems a lot less Controversial to most people. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 09:05 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't understand the problem people have with CRT because it's accurate. A lot of America's early laws were based around concepts of race because we decided officially to not view ourselves as a class-based society so instead of using class as a system for Differentiating people and laws we used race. Laws about who could own property, where who could test based around one's race/ ethnicity, not income or political affiliation. Hell, this even affects how we viewed and still some degree view I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?I am not saying it is. I'm saying that a person will often use race or skin color complexion preferences as an invalid argument regarding ones sexual preference . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 08:36 PM |
| 1 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?I mean legally we already have that kind of on the books but fundamentally the personal will overlap with the professional I've never not pretty much every job that I've applied for has had a female interviewer at least any initial process even some of the sales jobs I've done and I've always had a comment about my looks that was positive and affirming and I can't help but think to some degree if I was less attractive I might not get those interviews in the first place because sometimes there's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?I have a deep disagreement and this is where my classism comes out the black community isn't dysfunctional it's actually functioning pretty fine and a lot better considering is economic circumstances when you start looking about unemployment rates it's just poor it's a poor Community the issues that you see in the poor black community I have not seen in my segment of the community which has a little bit more money and more people own houses. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Why tie sexual/romantic access into value for someone’s humanity?You see this in some of the arguments about race as well as complexion within an ethnic group or sometimes across ethnic groups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 08:16 PM |
| 1 | "Attractive men have more advantage than attractive women" how much do you agree with this statement?Attractive women have to worry about sexual harassment and assault due to their desirability Everyone should worry about that it's more likely to happen to if you're a woman just because the statistics read that out but I can tell you from personal experience that doesn't disappear just by being a man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/21 10:38 AM |
| 0 | Question for LGBTQ+ people of PPD: how true is the Red PIll or the Blue Pill for you?I never said that men were harder today I just said that I don't think that they're necessarily easier I had bad experience that's me saying that it didn't work out for me. That doesn't mean that I think it can't work out for anyone or that women are inherently bad. I take my own personal experiences and I allow it for help me form my opinion and plan for myself I might give advice to other people but I'm not going to make a blanket statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 09:52 AM |
| 10 | Why don’t straight women like bisexual men?I don't really buy that because history is filled with men that engage in bisexual activity and have multiple male and female partners at the same time that are aware of each other. From Lord Byron to Me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/21 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Question for LGBTQ+ people of PPD: how true is the Red PIll or the Blue Pill for you?Bad experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Question for LGBTQ+ people of PPD: how true is the Red PIll or the Blue Pill for you?No men are not necessarily easier than a woman the nature of the relationship is just different when you're involved in someone that has a lot of similarities with yourself. Shared cultural expectations and life experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadDo you think this would taste good if I replace the chicken with like a non meat option like mushrooms or do you think the flavor would be off just out of curiosity this does sound pretty good. I always look forward to new recipes especially soups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhat's it taste similar to just out of curiosity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 10:30 AM |
| 4 | Question for LGBTQ+ people of PPD: how true is the Red PIll or the Blue Pill for you?Im still attracted to women but I don't view them as serious relationships anymore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/21 10:28 AM |
| 3 | Question for LGBTQ+ people of PPD: how true is the Red PIll or the Blue Pill for you?It has its upsides. But more a hassle than anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 06:35 PM |
| -1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt is not really that much of a complex issue her go to his racism instead of the issue at hand, him being a sexist asshole she went to he's a nigger. Sexist as he was his insults were character based insults her insult was racialized insults there's a meaningful difference between an insult that's about a person's character or actions versus an insult about a person's nature (I.e race & nationality. ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/21 10:09 AM |
| 2 | Libido, Age, and Gender DebateYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/21 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Libido, Age, and Gender DebateIt might seem weird because you know I'm bisexual, But I don't believe in Polyamorous relationships. I still believe in a monogamous relationship I just think there's a laziness to people who say well we don't match sexually but I like you as a person so we're going to try to figure out how to make this work instead of just saying yeah it seems like a shallow reason for this not to work out but this didn't work out so I'm just gonna have to try to find someone else. Or accept that I'm going to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Are some men truly content with never finding love?I think so. I also think and this is not a judgment against you because I understand the instinct trying to fix him even slightly is bad at least at this point. He doesn't need to be fixed if he's paying taxes not committing crimes not hurting or harassing anyone and he's able to establish friendships he's achieved what's necessary for him to be a functional member of society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 09:46 PM |
| 2 | Would you rather be an attractive man or an attractive woman?Attractive man, right now I'm just a slightly above average man but it was a good six-year run of me being an attractive man it's pretty amazing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNYC is fine. The one problem it might have is that it's a big hub of travel even now so a lot of people will be in the city for a short period might have 1 chance for 1 specific type of person but some so we have so many people that it's on you if you don't figure or figure or find what you want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 10:31 AM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThis might sound mean but are you sure that she's had an orgasm with you at least, because if she hasn't then she's not gonna want to and if she has she is gonna want to.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/21 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Has modern activism dismantled men's standards?That makes sense. I'm sorry for what you went through. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 11:01 AM |
| 0 | Has modern activism dismantled men's standards?I'm also stopped dating women but I still view myself as bisexual. I never claimed it was maybe I should re-word. I'm interested in the transition from Bisexual to homosexual as an identity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 10:56 AM |
| 2 | Has modern activism dismantled men's standards?I'm just saying this in an observation I'm not suggesting it as an iron-clad law. I always leave room for me to potentially be wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 10:51 AM |
| 0 | How did intersectionality go from nuance/empathy to oppression olympics?As human beings we inevitably acquaint hierarchy of importance usually when someone says hire Kay they're talking about truck or hierarchies but in this case, I'm referring to hierarchies of concern. People will philosophically look at different subsections of human identity: race, religion, income, Sexuality, and gender. Using those 5 categories people will assume that if you occupy what is considered the lowest end on all 5 at once you're probably in the worst position without considering alre… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 10/10/21 10:15 AM |
| 5 | Has modern activism dismantled men's standards?I think the problem you having here is an understanding of the nature of attraction when it comes to genders; generally speaking, when you are attracted to males it's limited which means that there's going to be a broad set of looks you don't like and a few you do. On the other end if you're attracted to women it's inclusionary which means that there are a few looks you don't like but for the most part, you generally gonna be open at least initially to multiple looks. As someone who's attracted … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 09:55 AM |
| 1 | Women like all types of guys!Oh, so you're just a racist. Ok. To each its own. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Women like all types of guys!I think you're overestimating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 10:35 AM |
| 1 | What is your preference for the physical types of men a woman dated in the past relative to you?I'm looks-wise similar to most of my ex's former lovers. I'm tall nerdy and athletic with facial hair and a ethnic look. I've never been anyone's first anything. Neither race nor personality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 10:33 AM |
| 1 | Considering that gay men can get sex ridiculously easy and yet demand for men's prostitution/OF is still thriving, would anything really change that much if straight men could get more sex?Male-male prostitution is rarely used by older dudes and due to going to far-off countries. Otherwise, it's someone you know like a coworker or a roommate. And to answer your question, I think yea. It's not uncommon to meet gay men jaded on sex very early I think that would be more common in straight men. And maybe slightly better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/21 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Do you wish men were more sexually fluid, like women?I'm already bi so .... I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Women like all types of guys!I have noticed the difference between the generations I mean I'm a millennial I'm not a gen z. But I've noticed at least amongst my younger cousins that they tend to date mixed race women & Latinas if not just black women. Maybe the old negative connotations don't apply for the newer generations the way that it still kind of apply for my generation.. I'm willing to admit I'm wrong if I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Explain to monkeI'm just giving a definition I'm not actually prescribing it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | Tell us What's on Your Mind FriendYea it's great. Easy to make & filling . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Women like all types of guys!Yeah pretty much actually I've had pretty good dealings with white women as far as like interpersonal relationships go despite not really being attracted to them generally speaking ( always a exception). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Tell us What's on Your Mind FriendSo ⅔ bubbly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Women like all types of guys!I never said that black men don't like non black women I did I just said that white women is an overrepresentation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Tell us What's on Your Mind FriendTamago kake gohan, I think it's just a general sort of East Asian dish because I've seen people from China and Korea make the same dish as well as Japan but I only know it by the Japanese name. Interestingly enough that's what I had for breakfast today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 02:59 PM |
| 3 | Tell us What's on Your Mind FriendAnd I'd make the argument that Israel is a puppet State that's a real convenient excuse for the United States of America and Britain to inact it's puppet master policy across the Middle East. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Tell us What's on Your Mind FriendOut of curiosity what's the proper way to make a mimosa? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 02:55 PM |
| 1 | People promoting male financial abortion don't understand that it's not to punish the male, it's to help the child with what's best for itSure we have that but the percentage is usually much higher it's actually a lot more similar to a divorce depending on the nature of income and region our civil system is not formal it's really up to a judge. It's much more arbitrary which means that some people get really fair estimates based off of their income and their likelihood taking care of the kid which allows for them to operate without the child support doing much damage other people get a really rough deal where they end up paying la… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 02:54 PM |
| 6 | People promoting male financial abortion don't understand that it's not to punish the male, it's to help the child with what's best for itCPS is kind of a horror story I know of a case where a man was actually trying to get custody of a child and was getting a little far but CPS wasn't really behind him and eventually the woman ended up drowning all three children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 02:51 PM |
| 3 | Men pwetty 🥺I am !?. Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Women like all types of guys!I'd make the argument there is about as many black woman White Man commercials at least recently and there's a whole bunch of white men vaguely ethnic sort of Asian Hispanic woman commercials but they go unnoticed because the couples seem ordinary. The more realistic commercials generally have a black man that's darker and taller and a black woman that's lighter and shorter Or a ethnic woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Women like all types of guys!I'm making a observation not a judgement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 12:34 PM |
| 2 | Women like all types of guys!More native looking or mixed race. But not White-white. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Women like all types of guys!Yeah I think there might be some truth to that plus I think the black man that are successful don't generally want to date white women so even if you're a white woman and you are interested in a black man and you are successful the likelihood of you getting with that successful black dude is very low. I mean think about it the most successful black man that is married to a white woman recent history and pop culture as far as public visibility goals was maybe Kanye and he's a crazy person if you'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:35 AM |
| 5 | Women like all types of guys!We're talking about two different things. I'm talking about the WHITE WOMEN + BLACK MEN interracial push that doesn't really match lived reality you're talking about racial perception in terms of I guess conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:31 AM |
| 3 | Women like all types of guys!Listen I'm in full agreement my issue I have with this statement "Black Propaganda" is that it always seems to be pushing an agenda that doesn't match lived reality or desired interest from either group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Women like all types of guys!My grandmother is married to white man. Only in America is the black man white woman relationship super common and maybe England. Is something that was put in consideration when it comes to like African Americans (assuming that's your core group) is that they are part White. So the white racial aesthetics is reviewed differently. But even there I notice a lot of men talk about white grow up around white dominant regions. But a lot of the black men that I know that date Latinas don't even have to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 11:19 AM |
| 9 | Women like all types of guys!Listen I don't I'm not trying to be negative about this I just always found it weird because it doesn't match my experience or the conversations I've had. It's like sexual gaslighting you know being told you're into something that none of your friends are into. I don't want to make this seem like I'm coming across anti white either I'm part White. It's just always seemed weird to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Let's finally settle this: why are white men at the top of the dating heirarchy?Africa and the Caribbean picture article societies women have more say than is normal sure but are dependent. I'm going to get a lot of flack for this but I don't believe that there really isn't an African American community. The "Community" exists because of racism it only exists because a whole bunch of laws were put in place to say that if you have some black ancestry you're a black person but they don't have anything that unites them as a group outside of that. There's no shared culture ther… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:57 AM |
| 9 | Women like all types of guys!Sexual attraction is instinctive. Kinda but not completely. a woman doesn't lust for black men, end of story. You can't force someone to like what they don't. Sure. You can't force someone to like what they don't. The rest is usual black propaganda. I mean I've been Black my entire life and a man and I can say with quite a bit of firmness that in general black men aren't interested in white women yet when it comes to interracial relationship that seems to be the go-to for black men on TV. In gen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:43 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Being attractive as a woman is the easiest thing in the world: just don't be fatYes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:19 AM |
| 0 | CMV: Being attractive as a woman is the easiest thing in the world: just don't be fatStop eating meat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:19 AM |
| 42 | Explain to monkeAbdicating responsibility financially and emotionally with full legal backing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:13 AM |
| 3 | How rampant is casual misandry among women?I understand what you're trying to say but I even see this with attractive women to some degree. In some ways it even affects male+male relationships. I often date men that have a lot of female friends and they sometimes pick up there talking points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 10:05 AM |
| 2 | Women are actually really fucking stupid and boring to be around, I'm not sure why everyone takes them so seriouslySome women are fun , smart, and funny. Most people in general are bores so I guess you're right , kinda. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 09:56 AM |
| 2 | Emotionalism is the antithesis of intelligence and leads to poor decisions in the 21st centuryThank you. Emotions Don't Make You humans animals have emotions , logic makes you human | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 09:48 AM |
| 2 | Self Improvement is a memeNo self improvement is real it's just hard. And I can't apply to everything you can't make yourself taller you can't change your race I mean I guess you can bleach your tan but that has limited effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 09:43 AM |
| – | [Serious] As an Indian...As someone who's Black & Jewish I can confirm.. Apparently all crime is me but I control the universe with a space laser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 09:38 AM |
| – | What color pill is God? etcI'm a non believer. I believe in all the pills at once. I just think they don't apply to all people but describe the world accurately. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 01:08 AM |
| – | What color pill is God? etcThe abrahamic religions are BLACK PILL by nature humanity is fallen and sinned. "Having moved away from goodness in his nature geared towards evil." But it preaches the philosophy towards moving towards BLUE PILL; hope, tradition, and faith. The old pagan religions like the Hellenistic Roman religions and some of the West African traditional religions are RED PILL in nature. The gods are active and exist but they're not really moralizing they just give you a set of tasks to do in order to achiev… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 01:07 AM |
| 3 | Men, Rwd and Blue and Unaffiliated alike, what stupid questions and assumptions are you tired of getting/hearing?I'm tired of the female-male orgasm equivocation every orgasm is not equal for men just because I'm going to cum doesn't mean it's great sex. A lot of times it's just a physical reaction there's nothing attached to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/21 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah that's what I do I don't have a low libido actually relatively high, but I don't find most women attractive now. So for me that has to be some sort of extreme attraction or something interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen scarcely charm their ideal they just court better or worse depending on their economic situations or proximity towards desirable partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Has Women’s Denial Of Sexuality Lead To The Rise Of Degradation KinksI think that might be something to this in a very small way but I think really when it comes to kinks and most sexual things in the modern day I think this does discussion about them in an open forum whether it be the internet or loosen moral standards has increased participation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo , two nieces. But no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadMen like a broad cross-section of traits. That's why you'll see men dating interracially across multiple different ethnic groups with a cluster around one group based off proximity. Where is with women they usually date within group or the dominant economic, political, population regional group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 07:55 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo hard disagree you need to teach kids not to cry. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 07:46 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't know if I read this somewhere or I heard this on a podcast but someone said pretty much women like crime dramas for the same reason that men like War dramas it's kind of the place where you're at your most likely to be in the most danger. So it's a human whom is safe will seek out that sorta entertainment as a way to prepare or something else like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/21 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Should men chase women?I think there needs to be some distinction made between initiating which I think some people confuse with chasing and chasing which to me is continuing to pursue a relationship even though there are presented difficulties. I've stated here before and in the real world atruism that doesn't necessarily have to apply to everything but generally it does: "nothing social that takes effort is ever worth as much as something that comes easily" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 09:37 PM |
| 1 | How much sex does a single man have?There's no average it's too broad of a concept to say. I break down people by ethnic group and then by profession/class. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSpain is actually not that crazy of a place to buy a house and I mean it sounds fancy but it's not necessarily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI think religion is bad for you, especially if you are poor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadCute. Ages better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhoa whoa I'm just here mostly for the crazy stuff and make fun straight people, occasionally correct wild speculations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/21 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYeah the Stray stuff's not great but on the other end we're having a really great time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo that's not how that works, lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 11:56 PM |
| 3 | CMV: women in relationships "setting up" their single male friends with their single female friends is complete fiction, almost never happens in reality.No it's real I've experienced this. Several times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Increased promiscuity among women leads to a higher sexual inequality for men and less sex overall for the average man.The changes are happening on the ground level. Advertising happens afterward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 11:44 PM |
| 1 | Will sex bots increase or decrease the likelihood that women are raped?No effect probably. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't know if I believe that I think if you come from a population that is used to some degree of consistent struggle and dissatisfaction in life the idea that you're going to give birth to someone that might go to the exact same issue is not as concerning but if you're used to a general level of comfort the idea that you're going to give birth to a kid that's going to have to go through extreme struggle is intolerable. I mean I guess to each his/her own I personally believe if you're going to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 01:31 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHave you not ever been to the ghetto or the trailer park? Sure but those are not communities to be emulated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/21 12:31 AM |
| 0 | Absolute dealbreakers for datingIsn't a music lover Doesn't Read Has a bad relationship with parents (only for women) Is Religious (especially the Abrahamic faiths) Not intellectually curious. Has children (women) / is a deadbeat (men) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 09:40 PM |
| 1 | RP theories about evolutionary biology and human mating are completely baseless.Investment varies. In some Societies children have had much weaker familia connections. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/21 08:30 AM |
| 2 | RP theories about evolutionary biology and human mating are completely baseless.Okay let's get this out of the way human beings do not have a optimal mating strategy. We're an adaptive species which mens that we don't have a set pattern for how we mate, we have consistent patterns based off of similar circumstances but nothing is hard set in stone based on biology in the way that it might be for lions or turtles who have a specific (or near) mating season. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 09:47 PM |
| 6 | I think a lot of male frustration comes from the lie that women are somehow nicer or kinder than us.I do.. not so much scorn but suspicion at least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 09:43 PM |
| -1 | I think a lot of male frustration comes from the lie that women are somehow nicer or kinder than us.I don't believe those studies I think they're skewed in a really messed up way and they have no real way of judging actionable compassion versus theoretical compassion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/21 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Is the 80:20 Pareto distribution real when it comes to relationships?You're right I didn't even click on this comment I don't understand what happened. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 09:07 PM |
| 0 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo it doesn't sound racist at all it's just accepting that there's a natural advantage given the circumstances of psychology and years of history and lack direct negative physical stereotypes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt might be a diet issue. It can also just be stressed last year was very intense and this year's it's been hit or miss for some people stress as strange effects on people's lipidos and people become super interested in sex other people will find it very difficult to find any excitement from it or to even perform. I'm not a doctor I would suggest a break from sex (also masturbation) for at least a month. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI don't want to stereotype people because I don't know every poly relationship but it does seem to play out that way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat Megathread24? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/21 08:14 PM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm at that eugenics generally for moral reasons but I don't agree with idea that the government would actually be bad at that I think if you had eugenics and automatic conscription universal both male and female your government would come up with some really interesting policies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadNo you need to shaming you need people to feel so ashamed of their economic or cultural state that they don't reproduce. You need people to feel so inadequate about themselves that they no longer want to see little versions of themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 12:32 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadFormula 1 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/21 12:28 AM |
| 1 | How do you think a world with significantly more women than men would play out?Neither one of those jobs are going to be important long-term those pencil Pusher jobs unless you're doing something incredibly significant and engineering or science your job is kind of doesn't need to exist it's actually a lot harder to replace a person in manual labor then it is to replace a person behind a desk. For two simple reasons: • One, physical jobs have to deal with physics which means things can fall things can shift something could sit for too long of a period of time the machines … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 11:46 PM |
| 2 | How do you think a world with significantly more women than men would play out?No most men do not want pencil pusher drops. Most men that you know work those jobs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 10:20 PM |
| 2 | How do you think a world with significantly more women than men would play out?goods such as religious fervor, nationalism, ideologies. Things that motivated the have nots to make supreme sacrifices for seemingly abstract goals beyond their lifetimes. That's stupid, sorry. You're better off promoting full materialism than promoting religion. I'd rather a generation of videogamer drug addicts over a generation of Repressed Theological Zealots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 10:18 PM |
| 1 | How long *should* it take someone mid-20’s actively trying to get a relationship?Six days to three weeks if better than ok looking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 09:54 PM |
| 2 | CMV: When young women have it harder in life, men have an easier time dating them.No poor women make bad partners. From my experience lower middle class down is bad relationship material. The level of aggression someone is used in day to day life is off putting. Also the ability to relate decreases. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 09:53 PM |
| 2 | What if women pursued average and below average men for sex the way men do for women?Sure that exists but the worst dudes get involved in that. Guaranteed hookups are much more common. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 09:49 PM |
| 10 | Dating and sex for men?Vibes is a buzzword that's too ambiguous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIf we have an exclusive relationship ofcourse if not then no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/21 04:07 PM |
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