NovaNivea Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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8	Don't "Next" women, keep them in your orbit. The advice is given because it's always easier and more productive to go find a new girl than to try to rekindle with a known one. If you don't see them every time you open your phone, you won't be tempted to reach out and move onto other girls. If you are going try and play the long game that they may reach out to you (probably won't), I'd recommend deleting their number and muting on social apps (you don't see their posts but are still friends). That way they can reach out to you but you can't…	/r/seduction	24/01/25 06:20 PM
4	A Girl Started To Act Different You took too long to make a move. Strike when the iron is hot.	/r/seduction	14/10/24 07:17 AM
4	Why do women say: "The bar is so low for men" yet to get any results from cold approach as an avg guy, the interaction has to be exceptional basically. And even then nothing is guaranteed I think you are getting a bit burnt out from approaching. Just like you can be burnt out from your job or the gym. It happened to me too at certain points. I think a few weeks break would be good for resetting you. Once back, It'd be a good idea for you to diagnose if the interactions in person are going well. A test I used to see if a girl is interested or just being polite/ chatty is by deliberately not exchanging names. If she doesn't ask for your name during the interaction, she's not intere…	/r/seduction	19/08/24 06:09 AM
3	50 rejections in a row wtf am I doing wrong Way too boring! You gotta add value to the conversation. Useful video - https://youtu.be/b2ehc2ZxZa8?si=P4JiwfeJcD_MnH7g	/r/seduction	14/08/24 11:18 AM
8	Cold Approach 3x Well done on actually approaching women. If I could give any advice, it's that don't be over accommodating during these approaches. #3 touching your face could be seen as flirting but I see it as disrespectful. You wouldn't tolerate that from an unattractive girl or guy? Be comfortable setting and maintaining boundaries in all interactions, because I don't think #3 was actually married and was probably shit testing you.	/r/seduction	13/08/24 05:25 AM
2	Solo dude approach 2-set or group of women's The most effective way I found of approaching a 2-set ( or any n-set) is by ignoring the other women and just treating it as a solo. By ignoring I mean no greeting, no small talk, no eye contact. Nada.	/r/seduction	13/08/24 04:45 AM
1	How do I find sugar mommas In all honesty, if you are looking for a transactional situation regardless of their appearance, you'd probably have higher success aiming for gay men than older women.	/r/seduction	12/08/24 07:28 AM
0	I asked her out today, she told me she had a coffee with a friend but they’d love If i join. What do i do? Just because you can push every opportunity to the end doesn't mean you should. Not all opportunities are made equal. And that's fine. You're allowed to fold hands that you don't think are winning. 99/100 being asked to be a last minute 3rd wheel is no a winning one. And that's fine.	/r/seduction	02/04/24 02:17 PM
-1	I asked her out today, she told me she had a coffee with a friend but they’d love If i join. What do i do? Most girls who are interested will be excited to spend time alone, not throw you a last minute 3rd wheel invite. Offer to re-schedule another time when it can be just you two, maybe even when she's done with her friend. Value your time and energy more.	/r/seduction	02/04/24 12:31 PM
6	Is it normal that sometimes chemistry online is good but in person bad? Online chemistry fizzling to nothing face to face is normal. I'd suggest aiming to set a date within a week of matching so you can't invest too much. Maybe also ask for a phone call before the date to see if a vibe is there.	/r/seduction	20/03/24 06:05 PM
1	What do you text a girl after getting her number? Good advice is typically send a text within 30 minutes of getting the number. For the first message, it used to send; Hey, it's me 👋 EDIT: I always use WhatsApp to message which has a profile picture therefore she won't be confused who sent it. It also avoids the whole Apple-Andriod green/ blue tick nonsense.	/r/seduction	01/02/24 09:42 AM
2	Checking out a woman now means you are a sexist pervert. Become attractive 🤷	/r/askTRP	11/06/21 11:40 AM
32	Does it get better? https://www.forums.red/p/TheRedPill/3509/don_t_talk_to_me_like_a_bitch	/r/askTRP	08/06/21 03:22 PM
8	Why do y’all think people refuse to acknowledge this information? The main things that lead most guys to the redpill is trauma with female e.g. I can't get laid not matter how much effort I put in, my unicorn girlfriend cheated / broke up with me, my wife won't fuck me / wants a divorce. You are more open to accepting new info after trauma.	/r/askTRP	29/05/21 08:20 PM
10	Day Game adjustments for Masks Just go for girls without masks.	/r/askTRP	12/05/21 09:24 PM
5	What can be learnt from Bill gates' divorce. The only way a marriage will ever work is with the man in a total dominant position and the women in the submissive. Any idea of 50/50 partnership or power couple is destined to fail. The charity was called Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation, but Bill was the main influencer. Without him the charity wouldn't have accomplished a tenth of what they've done. Beezos split, Gates split. I expect the Obamas to split within the next 5 years.	/r/askTRP	04/05/21 11:51 AM
9	why do some girls stare and say nothing when you approach them? See it as a way of them testing your frame. "If he can't even handle a few seconds of silence from me, how can I trust him with my life and my future children's." Daygamers say you can try a few things during this silence, stack assumptions or storytelling. Huge mountain of content on the internet about both so not going into it here. Eventually if she still remains silent, you can say "you don't really talk much do you?” and if still nothing, just leave.	/r/askTRP	02/05/21 04:41 AM
2	I need REAL Friends, NOT drinking buddies Meh. Man, woman, cat, dog. You can't get everything from one person. Some more than others, sure.	/r/askTRP	09/04/21 03:57 PM
5	I need REAL Friends, NOT drinking buddies Sounds like you have haven't purged all the blue yet. If there isn't such a things as a unicorn girlfriend, why would a unicorn friend exist? You want to get a wide network of people you have interacted with for specific reasons. If you want to talk about fitness related stuff, you join a gym and makes friends with people there. If you want to talk about dating related stuff, you join a your cities pua group and makes friends with people there. If you want to talk about music related stuff, you …	/r/askTRP	09/04/21 11:41 AM
3	Is "Software Engineer at Amazon" a high-value job title? Just put 'Engineer' as job title.	/r/askTRP	08/04/21 08:51 PM
1	That move when they sit on your lap to measure your boner, where do i go from there? You might be trolling but someone might get value from the question. Place your hand on her leg/ thigh then start rubbing it. If you are feeling brave you can move your hand slowly up the leg. Eventually she'll (probably) stop your hand but she'll know you aren't timid.	/r/askTRP	01/04/21 12:19 PM
1	Did I encounter an FDSer in real life? Man, you way overreacted. This is why they say texting is for logistics only. Next time, don't message without making plans explicitly in the same message. If you still have her details it would be worth sending a date message, but don't be surprised if she's already moved on.	/r/askTRP	31/03/21 08:20 PM
2	Did I encounter an FDSer in real life? When you say comment about clevage, did you end it with a question that required a response? Sounds like you gave a compliment and she accepted it. Did you ask to meet up?	/r/askTRP	31/03/21 04:22 PM
7	The best way to know if a girl is serious about meeting is asking for her number I wouldn't even ask, Why bother learning their name and what they do if you're never gonna met them again? You want use her to keep you entertained. You should also be escalating (touching etc) while the conversation is happening. If they aren't interested they'll make an excuse to leave. If they are, they'll stay. Then you can think about skipping the number and going for an insta-date. Escalate till you get a hard no, then leave.	/r/askTRP	30/03/21 09:02 PM
40	The best way to know if a girl is serious about meeting is asking for her number 100% agree. Has been true from my experience. A lot of people see this whole gaming a girl as a video game, like with the perfect combo you will always get the girl. They disregard that there is a another human being on the other end with their own moods, feelings and experience. I've even started to filter before I ask for the number. If you meet in person, I don't tell them my name or ask for thiers. If they don't ask, it's not going anywhere.	/r/askTRP	30/03/21 08:47 PM
2	With this tinder pics of mine, I seem to attract girls from certain race Tinder switched from elo to a new algo since 2019. Basically if you match more with a certain demographic, then it would prefer to show you more to that demographic. TLDR: You don't have the look what blonde white girls go for, either take your easy Latinas or become a tatted middle-class thug.	/r/askTRP	26/03/21 10:21 AM
16	Black men of Asktrp or honestly just men in general, do you call out hyper liberal BS? Agree and amplify. "I don't know why your telling me all this, I'm not black" and the change the topic works for me.	/r/askTRP	07/03/21 10:41 PM
1	When a chick does stuff to annoy you on purpose on social media (whatsapp, etc). What do you do? Important question, are you fucking this girl?	/r/askTRP	04/03/21 12:09 PM
8	Where do you guys keep finding all these chicks with BPD? Seeing BPD is when my bullshit detector starts beeping. Also when they say "she cooks, cleans and fucks me whenever I want" 🙄	/r/askTRP	18/02/21 04:41 PM
10	Where do you guys keep finding all these chicks with BPD? Spoilers, the chicks don't have BPD, most guys are just pushovers.	/r/askTRP	18/02/21 04:33 PM
4	GF and I won't be able to have sex for 4-6 weeks. Advice on how to fill this gap of non-intimacy to keep the mutual attraction from dying down? I'm surprised she's not looking at a boob-job or butt-lift first. There is risk she's looking to upgrade herself for her next partner. I know labiaplasty are done by Arab ladies to seem like virgins for new hubby.	/r/askTRP	18/02/21 11:47 AM
1	GF and I won't be able to have sex for 4-6 weeks. Advice on how to fill this gap of non-intimacy to keep the mutual attraction from dying down? Out of curiosity, why is she getting labiaplasty? Is she from a religious background or country?	/r/askTRP	18/02/21 11:29 AM
3	Of all the online courses, ebooks, bootcamps, men’s retreats, private communities, etc, do you think any of them are worth buying? I'd be cautious about joining communities. They can act as echo-chambers that can make very uncommon situations seem like the norm. Also most have a tendency to shill for companies or popular trends. If there isn't a meet-up aspect to any of these groups, I wouldn't bother. If you do join, don't over commit (esp financially) and go in with low expectations.	/r/askTRP	12/02/21 10:38 AM
21	Ex gf wants to talk about the break up Maybe you shared too much with this guy. It's obvious he's gonna report back and you admitting it's affecting you might be enough drama fuel for her to keeping this nonsense going. Draw a line behind all of this now, she a stranger to you now. No need to worry about how it would affect you, because it won't.	/r/askTRP	27/01/21 02:43 PM
2	When to send first text after # close The standard daygame advice is usually within an hour of getting the number. Decreases chance of a flake. Soon as if missed.	/r/askTRP	08/01/21 06:43 PM
1	29, living in Eastern Europe, stable income but small social circle. I may have thought of either the greatest or stupidest way to meet girls. I'd like some feedback I'm still not sold on it but at least you are willing to try something unlike most of this sub. Feedback with the results.	/r/askTRP	03/01/21 11:19 PM
2	29, living in Eastern Europe, stable income but small social circle. I may have thought of either the greatest or stupidest way to meet girls. I'd like some feedback On paper it's a good idea. In reality, not so much. Are going set age and gender restrictions on who can attend? What are you going to do if the wrong type of people turn up? What are you going to do if the wrong type of people keep turning up? Are you going to charge? Is it going to be face to face or over webcam? Are you going to met them at their place, your place or neutral ground? What will you do if the person cancels? If your country isn't in lockdown I would stick to the more common soci…	/r/askTRP	03/01/21 11:04 PM
0	Good reply to “Whats so interesting about you for me to have a good time with you?” I would disagree and amplify then set a time and location to met within the same message. e.g. "Don't you know, I've been voted most boring date 3 years in a row. Let's on X day, Y time at Z location". I don't know how far along you are with this chick, but if she's saying this before even meeting you then it's not a good sign. Have very low / no expectations for this to go anywhere. If she comes back with anything other than agreeing, I would move onto the next.	/r/askTRP	11/12/20 11:03 PM
1	Tips for a novice at cold approaching? https://youtu.be/pqqykkqpyhc	/r/askTRP	30/11/20 08:17 AM
19	Which martial arts would be most effective to protect you in the off chance you get jumped (if you can’t run) Firstly, you can prevent this situation happening by not looking like a guy who people can easily attack. Thugs are looking for the easiest target. Secondly, this situation rarely (if ever) happens randomly. What usually happens is the 'victim' is chatting shit or mean mugging people. Don't be that guy. Thirdly, if the scenario is completely unavoidable then your number one priority will be to stay on your feet. You don't want them to surround you. You also want to run away to safety as soon as …	/r/askTRP	29/11/20 09:12 AM
6	Things to do after finishing school? I would start making and pursuing other plans in case the Army thing doesn't go through. I hope you get the Army thing, I just know life can sometimes go left. What you don't want is to be out of options if it does.	/r/askTRP	28/11/20 04:26 PM
3	Cold approach examples? https://youtu.be/PQQYKKqPYhc	/r/askTRP	28/11/20 10:36 AM
3	Should I approach women now or should I wait until I get better? https://youtu.be/PQQYKKqPYhc	/r/askTRP	27/11/20 05:55 AM
2	Has anyone started cold approaching again? I did a few approaches some weeks back. I did it outdoor and only went for girls with no masks. I didn't wear a mask either. Not a single one brought up Corona or social distancing.	/r/askTRP	08/11/20 03:58 PM
3	Being good at texting won't get you laid I think some one you might be misunderstanding OP. By texting he doesn't necessarily mean ask to fuck from line one and nothing else. More so don't put much effort into it. I send the same copy-paste template to all of them. If you've met up and slept with the chick, sure you can text. Just don't overdo it. If you haven't met the chick in-person yet, then it's a pure numbers game and no amount of texting will increase her willingness to met, only decrease.	/r/TheRedPill	07/11/20 09:55 PM
-2	How do you handle the "That wasn't funny" shit test? "Well I thought it was."	/r/askTRP	02/11/20 10:24 PM
6	Girl I’ve been dating for 7 months and I both contracted mild case of COVID from each other tested positive. We are both isolating in our own homes. She knows I have no reason to not text her and it’s killing her interest and efforts. Do I just text less or will this come off as inconsiderate? What you should do is get yourself a hobby. Sure you can delay responses to make it seem like your doing something but it's alot better to be actually busy.	/r/askTRP	13/10/20 07:00 PM
58	Dealing with Racism Your first issue is looking like someone that people can crack racist jokes at and get away with it. Either your physique, body language or voice is off. Work on it now and I'll be better in a year times. From here on, whenever he says something racist, just ignore it. Not ignore it but look and act butt-hurt, just act like he never said it, imagine he just coughed or something.	/r/askTRP	13/10/20 06:48 PM
1	Lost cause? Sounds like you already know what could be done differently next time and how to proceed.	/r/askTRP	22/09/20 02:40 PM
18	How to answer "do you have your own place?" "Yeah, with flatmates. Where do you stay?"	/r/askTRP	13/09/20 06:49 PM
19	How to attract above average women as an Asian male? 5'10". 147 pounds. You are skinny as fuck. Someone your height should be at least 10 kgs heavier.	/r/askTRP	05/09/20 11:14 PM
1	Am I wrong for working with my mother instead of “manning up”? I think you missed my point. I'm trying to say that don't rely on the internet to figure out your problems. Especially a sub reddit all about sexual strategy.	/r/askTRP	03/09/20 06:53 PM
-1	Am I wrong for working with my mother instead of “manning up”? I'm confused, are you trying to fuck your mum or your dad in this situation?	/r/askTRP	03/09/20 05:18 PM
2	Dating an awesome girl. Problem? She just turned 30. I agree there is a time and place for morals, but not in his position. She's choosing to have sex with him. If he pushes her away, there isn't any guarantee she won't get involved with another unavailable guy. She gonna fuck someone, why not you? If she can't feel her bio clock ticking (which she probably can and is probably making multiple plans), not he's problem. Also OP, there is alot of pointless info in your question. Strip away the whole "I make 6 figures" and "she is a really great girl,…	/r/askTRP	31/08/20 07:54 PM
1	Dating an awesome girl. Problem? She just turned 30. I dunno man, that sounds like bringing morals into sexual strategy to me.	/r/askTRP	31/08/20 06:43 PM
3	Insta or number? What's a smooth way to go for the number? Overreaction. You don't use a sledgehammer to fix everything. All may not be lost yet. Useless you have a very impressive Instagram, make it private. Tell her you only follow people you know in person and are cool with. Push for the number again, pointing that it is just to arrange a hangout.	/r/askTRP	18/08/20 11:08 AM
3	is this common? (daygame) It doesn't have to be something super formal or long. You could offered a skateboard lesson or just walk with you to your next spot. Then when you do ask for the number and text for drinks in the evening, more likely to get a yes. Never guaranteed though. Keep the effort low.	/r/askTRP	11/08/20 08:14 PM
6	is this common? (daygame) Yeah, it happens in daygame. Only suggestion is if the interaction is going great, you should have asked her to hang out right then. Always keep you foot on the gas.	/r/askTRP	11/08/20 08:01 PM
2	How do i get over the feeling like i don’t fit in at bars It's all your head. If you think you aren't fitting in, it'll leak through your body language. Also realise ,like any other activity, not every second is going to be a blast of fun.	/r/askTRP	15/05/20 12:32 PM
1	What to do when a woman just outright dislikes you for no reason, or scoffs at you? Moving on is an option. However this is an opportunity to push he's comfort zone. Any reaction from a girl means there is a room to play.	/r/askTRP	24/02/20 02:19 PM
2	What to do when a woman just outright dislikes you for no reason, or scoffs at you? Shit test and you failed.	/r/askTRP	23/02/20 06:32 PM