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| 1 | It isn't even about being top 20% for Tinder. It is more like being top 3-5%.I appreciate the offer but I'm all the way in NJ. :/ Thanks though. What should I be looking for on my own? | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 11:14 PM |
| 3 | It isn't even about being top 20% for Tinder. It is more like being top 3-5%.This is gonna sound stupid, but where or how would a giy go about hiring a professional photographer for this kind of stuff? | /r/seduction | 07/11/19 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Girl only wants sex but I want more and it has me questioning the normal rulesI'm gonna be honest, I'm not sure what advice I or a lot of guys here could give you. But, I feel you. I mean most of us WISH we had this problem. But you seem a bit of a romantic at heart and that's something I sympathize with. Cause when you click with someone, you do feel a connection. And you wish there was more. I cant give any advice in good faith, but I wish you the best of luck that it all turns out good for you. | /r/seduction | 03/10/19 01:32 AM |
| 3 | Netflix's Lucifer is a women's romance novel in disguise.Not gonna lie, Lucifer is a great freaking show. And until the 4th Season they only mildly hinted at the Romance between Lucifer and the Detective Mind you, Lucifer is an absolute devil at seduction; clean, cut, in shape, willing to push the envelope with everyone around him, absolute confident and just a little cocky. He knows who he is and isnt ashamed of himself. Good role model tbh MIND YOU, he is, quite literally the devil. So... actual results may vary. | /r/seduction | 27/09/19 07:56 PM |
| 3 | I’m a woman and this sub is so misleading and it generalizes too muchIf I might chime in, at least from a personal view, there is a #5 option, and probably a few more. Some of us are guys who have spent a lot of time in relationships that didnt work out, or are serial monogamists. And for one reason or another, things just... didnt work out, or we spent too long with the wrong person. Some days, girls can be as toxic as guys can. Abuse does swing both ways. Some of us are really wholesome guys. With hobbies and social lives and have our act together career wise. … | /r/seduction | 23/09/19 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Anyone interested in developing a framework for depressed/unsuccessful guys to transform themselves?You know what, fuck it. I'll help. Cant say how good it will be, but lemme know what you need. Context: six months ago I was standing on a metro platform ready to step off infront of the incoming train. Now I'm living in a pretty solid life that's getting better and seems to be getting up. | /r/seduction | 21/09/19 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth reconnecting with someone who friendzoned you?Little bit of column A and little bit of column B. Like, I'd sincerely would enjoy a relationship with her, and for unrelated reasons for work (and the fact that theres nothing in my small town for me) I was thinking of moving to her city. Not for her, just that it's the closest city and would still let me visit my family. If the flames not there, then it wasnt meant to be. But I'd like the chance to see where the two of us could go without anything in the way, if she'd still see my that way. An… | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth reconnecting with someone who friendzoned you?I mean, we just texted and snap chatted. I'm not big on IG, but she is, but I never requested to follow and vice versa. Thank you for actually reading it btw. Thoughts on popping her a message a few months from now if I'm in her city? | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 06:22 PM |
| 1 | Is it worth reconnecting with someone who friendzoned you?So you're saying that despite it being amicable, it's not worth trying to reconnect or rekindle later if the situation changes? | /r/seduction | 16/09/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone!That didnt answer my question. :/ | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 12:07 PM |
| 1 | That’s how it looks like from most women’s POV; at best, you’re one in 10 conversations that she’s having during any particular day; keep that in mind and adjust your attitude and expectations accordingly; you’re one of 10, not 1 on 1; makes a big difference in how you talk to someone!Genuine questions: what's your statistics? Like, what sort of setting do you live (city, suburbs, etc), what's your height, physical features, age... etc. I ask because I should have most of the boxes checked off in terms of desirability but theres just nobody around me... Kinda curious to see what your set up is like that gives you so much success if you dont mind sharing with me. | /r/seduction | 14/09/19 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Best way to respond to a "Let's just be friends" text?Two hours ago. Tried calling her like I usually did, but didnt get a response. | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 05:03 AM |
| 2 | Date Tomorrow- Any Advice?Honestly, wanted to reply with "Duh" because it sounds obvious, but then remembered that this is important and wholesome advice, and really, the kind of advice I'm looking for. Thanks man | /r/seduction | 30/08/19 11:45 PM |
| 5 | I need help desperately man...Best money I've ever spent on a book, other than my short story collections. Can you find the pdfs online for free? Yes. I have 0 regrets for buying this book. It helped me, and goddammit, he earned every penny for it in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 26/08/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | I can have sex/talk/kiss girls easily but can NEVER get the girl to fall for me. What am I doing wrong?If you dont mind me asking, where/how are you meeting these girls? Day to day interactions, dating sites, clubs? A city? Suburbia? Models had an interesting bit about positioning ourselves in our desired demographics. | /r/seduction | 20/08/19 04:23 AM |
| 6 | I have confessed to my longtime crush one month ago. She took it well and even said she liked me too, we went on a couple of dates, but she is leaving in one week and I think she keeps her distance with me because she is afraid of long distance relationship. How can I make it work?Everyone here is saying LDRs will fail. LISTEN TO THEM. Holy shit, listen to them. If I could reach through the screen and shake you I would. FIVE YEARS. FIVE YEARS I wasted in one form of LDR or another. You deserve better. You both deserve better. You're hedging on the promises of a future and you're betting today. I'm sure that she's sweet and you're wonderful but you BOTH deserve the NOW. LDRs dont work and it took me till 27 to realize that. Dont make my mistake. | /r/seduction | 19/08/19 11:22 PM |
| 1 | Asking a girl out, through text, who I havent spoken two in two weeks?If she turns me down, isn't interested, or says she's busy but leaves it open, any good way to respectfully end it? Thanks for the advice btw. I do appreciate it | /r/seduction | 16/08/19 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Asking a girl out, through text, who I havent spoken two in two weeks?Not saying your wrong, just wo dering... what would I say? We're both millenials and people dont typically call unless you know each other well. And if I do call, what time? | /r/seduction | 15/08/19 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Difficult situation with girl, I need some advice on whether to move on or reapproachhas sex for three days straight inadequate in bed One of these does not add my friend. I enjoy long lovenaking myself, but a three day marathon... holy shit. Dude, I dont think shed have hung around that long for mediocre sex. Edit: floor =/= for | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Ghosted for a night out. F for respects.Noted. Was trying to borrow from a line in "No more Mr. Nice Guy" in terms of being clear that you want to go put, but dont care if they reject you. Mind you, that was done on person so... Ah well. Each mistake is a learning opportunity. What would you have done? | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Ghosted for a night out. F for respects.Ah, but I did. "Hey, its xxxxx from xxxxxx. Let me know where we're headed tonight so we can hang. If you're not interested, that's fine too." Guessing I shouldn't have added that last part? | /r/seduction | 11/08/19 01:40 PM |
| 4 | You need to reevaluate your perspective on yourselfHonestly your username just seals this deal for me. Take an upvote. That said, J can see this being cathartic. Some people just gotta get shit off their chest and have someone listen. We're all here for more or less the same reason. | /r/seduction | 08/08/19 01:29 PM |
| 2 | Actually care a bit. Just fucking try.Alright, I'll bite. What do you mean. Like, its easy for me to care about other people, but doesnt that (according to everyone else here) get you shuffled to the Friendzone? And what do you mean care about myself? | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 03:13 PM |
| 1 | When we're the Opposite of our FathersBook was loads of help. Also dug into the Book of Pook, and of course, Models. All helpful suggestions by the friendly redditors here. Dropped 35 pounds as of today from four months ago. Honestly, my career is a luxury one so that's set. Like, I cant improve anymore, I'm one of the best at what I do in the whole country. :/ Kinda boring now tbh. I'm aiming myself to be a better man every single day physically and mentally. And yeah, the book and therapy defi itely has given me a different percep… | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 11:14 PM |
| 0 | When we're the Opposite of our FathersI surenly hope you're not suggesting that the solution is a) more liquor and b) find an emotionally and socially vulnerable 19 year old who lost her family. | /r/seduction | 03/08/19 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Seduction that Led to Relationships - Success StoriesLove stories like that. Thanks for your tale! If you dont mind me asking though... willing to offer any advice/resources for text game? | /r/seduction | 01/08/19 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Why you should be going HARD on PICK UP NOW and any time period in which you are non-monogamousI take your Suzie and raise you a Chelsey. But you know what. You're right. I've had more success by keeping an abundance mentality in the past six months than I have the last three years. Keep chugging along man. | /r/seduction | 31/07/19 09:24 PM |
| 3 | Quick Men's Guide to Sexual Escalation 2019 🏆(NOT what you expect)If someone could reply to this so I have record of this post for later consultation, I'd super appreciate Great advice that I hope to have the chance to use later. Thanks mate! | /r/seduction | 16/07/19 09:14 PM |
| 3 | How to deescalate being seduced if hypergamy is strong?Okay. This is something I can step in with. For positive and for sure. Leave. This isnt seduction. This isn't about the Game. This is about basic respect and decency as lovers and humans. YOU have needs. YOU have desires. YOU are a person. He doesnt seem like an alpha. He does sound like a grade A asshole. You need someone who will treat YOU, whether it's as a lover, a boyfriend, a husband, in a way that fulfills you. Maybe they'll have chiseled abs. Maybe they'll be a little grey and thinning. … | /r/seduction | 12/07/19 04:29 PM |
| 2 | Good ways to rekindle a conversation after noncommittal responses?We've had a total of six messages over five days, with lulls between each few days. I'm not texting back the minute she responds or anything. Edit: I mean, mostly cause I'm busy with work and my job. It's something of our busy season. | /r/seduction | 12/07/19 04:21 PM |
| 2 | 27M In Need of Improving Game(s). Resources?I mean... look, I'll be honest. I've had 6 girlfriends over the years. Almost all of them had some sort of... well, really really big red flags. Honestly, the list is too long to go into right now, just now that alot of them turned into toxic and abusive relationships. But when you're young, in love and looking at everything through rose colored glasses... all the red flags just look like flags, you know? My last sexual-ish encounter was about a year ago. I admit that basically how I am right no… | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 05:58 PM |
| 1 | 27M In Need of Improving Game(s). Resources?Sorry, I feel a little lost. Can you explain the context behind this? | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 01:53 AM |
| 2 | 27M In Need of Improving Game(s). Resources?Perfect, comprehensive, and all point I can acknowledge and agree fully with. Thanks! | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 01:39 AM |
| 2 | 27M In Need of Improving Game(s). Resources?Errr... I DO talk to woman. A lot. Though my technique needs work. The point I was trying to make was that due to legitimate crisis which can and do last months at a time, and due to the very real fact that I respond to them with tunnel vision, so talking with them romantically hasnt always been "in view" so to speak. That is something I'm trying to work on, on multiple facets. Thanks for the book reference. No thanks for the needless insults. | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 01:28 AM |
| 2 | 27M In Need of Improving Game(s). Resources?Do you mind explaining a little bit further? I think ai understand what you mean, but I'd appreciate it if it was clearer. And thanks! | /r/seduction | 26/05/19 12:07 AM |
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