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I thought you were a Femcel. If your ending things your not. Your just full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/19 02:56 PM
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why aren't you more angry at anti-prostitution politicians? Because unless men are soyboys or cucks, they generally know how to stay calm. Men are not women. Throwing a tantrum at everything is not a wqay to live (unless you have breasts and a cunt hole).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/19 06:33 PM
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Looks. Gym is easier to maintain than charisma.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/19 12:58 AM
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Its still possible to meet people without using ODS.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 08:05 PM
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Its just the way it is, now neither males or females are forced into marraige. There is no point blaming people and saying its so and so's fault. It achieves nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 07:39 PM
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37 male twice. Not including a lot of crushes from when I was younger as that was just infatuation and maybe a bit of obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 01:59 PM
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Men tell women the truth but they dont listen. We dont care about your job, career, status, money, education, travels, what you daddy told you. All we care about is are you hot and how often do you nag. The End
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 01:05 PM
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If your not paying for a product, you are the product.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 02:04 AM
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I have better success in person. Ive had more than one occasion been ignored online and had the person respond positively to me when bumping into me IRL. Plus I cant be arsed with the hassle of it. Worst case, spend time messaging arranging to meetup and there is no chemistry, its awkward as hell. Meet someone you like IRL and straight the way you know if there is chemistry. Plus no guarantee the person looks like there photo's, it may be a case of "Thats my best ever pic, it was taken 3 years a…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/19 01:17 AM
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OP is actually posting decent advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 06:56 PM
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Thats the thing, you have all the great traits in the world. But if you don't have the balls to approach and stand there like that, it means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 05:41 PM
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Have you ever experienced being more charismatic when you're sick or under slept? I know what you mean. I think its probably because (sleep deprivation in particular), we stop caring. We especially stop caring what others think, because we feel like shit. So its the ultimate IDGAF attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 05:12 PM
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OK
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 04:51 PM
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uh huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 04:48 PM
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Christ man. Just because I dont like someone does not mean they are my enemy. I may just you know, dislike someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 04:47 PM
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P.S. What do you study? Computer Science. Im UK based and doing it through the Open University whilst working full time. So I am pretty busy. But do want to shift my career in a good way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 04:09 PM
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I have always viewed SMV as dynamic, its constantly shifting and changing. For example, right now I am sat at home not doing much(University work). However, if I were at a social gathering, it may be higher due to things such as pre-selection and social proof. But it may be lower, if I was stood holding a drink at chest height with my back against the wall looking anxious.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 04:02 PM
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I was pleasantly surprised by how easy it was to pick up flirting as a second nature. It doesn't happen overnight of course but if you read some the defeatists here you'd think it was impossible. Takes a couple years of practice and you're doing it without realising. I think a lot of people believe it is an overnight thing. It sure as hell is not. I spent a couple of years learning and practicing game. Ive currently had a break due to working on my career. But am soon ready to jump back in, but …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 03:04 PM
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I feel the same actually. When I came to this stuff I wasn't having trouble getting girls I was having trouble keeping things going. The general self-improvement stuff like lifting helped my depression too. These days I just flirt with girls on autopilot as you can imagine I can do much better. Same, flirting is just something I do now. Where as before I couldn't flirt for shit. A typical date would of probably seemed like a nervous interview so can't really be surprised girls were not that inte…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 02:27 PM
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Bit harsh. Not liking someone does not mean they have to suffer. Theres loads of people I don't like. But I still hope they get whatever it is they want out of life. Im just not going to assist in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 02:17 PM
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Also whether a guy who comes across the material takes it seriously really depends entirely on what his situation is like when he approaches it. He's likely to only take it seriously if he is having problems getting laid otherwise it has no utility. I was into PUA before I discovered this stuff. I read it out of interest and can see a lot of similarities to PUA in regards to Game itself. But I do like the additional focus on things such as fitness and it provides answers for a lot of things that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/19 01:56 PM
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See, women happily get with men who have a history of murdering ex-partners. Still at least she let his past be his past. I will give her that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 05:43 PM
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True, as more men become Game aware, the level of game will have to increase. We have already gone from the Golden age of PUA, where guys learned they could break the ice by just asking for an opinion, to what is now TRP. Give it another 10-20 years, Game is gonna get interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 05:38 PM
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Excspt the same thing happens. The BO society tells Obese people they are fine the way they are. The obese people listen and they never get a good life. Then if anyone does try to help obese people to improve their lives, they are shamed. We get it, BP want everyone to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 05:36 PM
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Idealistically you'd say if guys are leaving it means they've improved enough to move on. But no way does it have a 100% success rate. And there's no real way to work out what the actual success rate is. It dosn't matter. Guys find this stuff. Then they field test it. If it works they keep it, if it dosn't, they don't keep it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:53 PM
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Flat? Do I spy a fellow Brit? Yeah, this was in lovely Chesterfield.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 02:13 PM
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This is one thing I have nocticed about some BPers. Not all of them, but some of them seem to believe in RP or PUA, but there argument seems to be "That sounds to hard" or in some cases "Thats unfair". Myself, I have gotten to the point now, where I accept it for what it is. Im just like "Well no-one said it was going to be easy". I wouldn't mind so much, but when people know this stuff, then quit and THEN complain, that just irks me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 09:19 AM
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best comment
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 03:00 AM
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I hadn't heard of incels until I came here. That is some scary freaky shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:29 AM
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I can relate to that. I dont think anybody wants it to be right, but real life time and time again proves otherwise. I think BP is just mental gymnastics to avoid reality. Some people just cannot accept reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 01:11 AM
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More Red, its not as angry as TRP, so its readable. Other than the sidebar info (not read it all yet, but a chunk of it) I find TRP to be negative so I dont lurk there. I like TRP info, but not the Reddit Community.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/19 12:46 AM
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Funny Story, totally unrelated. There is a town near in the UK, near the city of Sheffield. Its called Dronfield. There was some dude many years ago who wanted to join a band. But his dad said that he wasn't joining a band, he was getting a job instead as a job has a future. So he didn't join the band. Now have you ever heard of a band called "def leppard"; Mostly bands don't make it, but sometimes they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 11:59 PM
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thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 11:53 PM
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Sorry I thought we were still on about Bill Burr and comedy. Just seen your post history, you seem a bit obsessed with Toxic Masculinity tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 11:52 PM
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What's there to listen to except "you just hate men"? Where do you get hating men from any of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 11:30 PM
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I goto the gym. I have known a few people who are into professional body building. Theres a massive difference between causal gym usage and being an actual body builder who needs to goto the gym a lot, eat set meals, is constantly shattered and needs about 10-12 hours sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:33 PM
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Last known address. Plus I found out they had been trying to kill each other. She stabbed him in the neck, so he set their old flat on fire whilst she was in it. Was a shame, because she seemed quite nice. But these things happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:28 PM
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No. I'm just wondering where you guys draw the line. Think of it like banter. Banter is all fine and good as long as someone can take it as well as they give it. If someone says something but can't take anything back, they are no longer allowed to banter. Well Im pretty sure Bill Burr can take someone making a joke about him, in fact Im pretty sure Bill Burr can take the piss out of himself pretty well. Especially considering he is a comedian and all that. So there is no line crossed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:11 PM
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Then take a leaf from Bill Burr, instead of taking it so seriously, turn it into a joke. You will feel better for it. Life is too short bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 10:01 PM
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Yeah, exactly. But that is coming from people (many men and women both) who misunderstand what feminism is all about, because the picture of it in the media and in mainstream discussion is skewed. Peoples view of feminism is shaped by feminists. If your a feminist, start taking responsibility for your movement. You know those proud feminists who post on facebook if they ever have a son, they are gonna hold em under the hot water tap until they drown. They are the problem, not other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:47 PM
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Ive had a ONS with a woman whose ex was in prison. Only he wasn't, he had escaped. Halfway through banging this woman on her sofa (the baby sitter was upstairs with the kid), the police burst through the back door because the guy had escaped from prison. I got out of their pronto.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:45 PM
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That was not the OP's question. Its if you were a man, what would be the deal breakers in dating a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:42 PM
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Nope, I just went on a rant.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:35 PM
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yep I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:34 PM
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Thats a good book
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:56 PM
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Not sure why you object to me saying overweight guys. How a person looks after themselves or does not look after themselves kind of speaks volumes to how they will treat anything else in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:52 PM
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He is taking male behaviour and amplifying it. Its kinda what comedians do.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:43 PM
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Because although females may have certain traits that are classed as toxic, its just part of life that we deal with. Feminists on the other hand, cant deal withr eality so have to try and change the world to suit them. Its not so much that "Toxic Masculinity" has been stated. Its that everyone has potentially toxic characteristics and most of us just accept that. No one wants to identify and write books on "toxic femininity" because that would make us just as pathetic as feminists. And I reckon …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:35 PM
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Felon's History of abuse Band Member (I know a few people who have been in bands and have heard the stories) Someone who gets on very well with women attracted to him, but no LTR's (player) Not in good shape (gym memberships are so cheap there is no excuse) Male-feminists Guys in the armed forces (I'm ex-army, I know what happens on camp) Drug Dealers
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:11 PM
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There are no where near as many women who game as men, so this market is as viable as finding affordable properties to rent in London ;) I was actually having pretty good banter with one not too long ago. It was just a shame about the half shaven hair and various other things that set off my "feminist" alarm bells. What kind of women are you into? Most the women I get with or are attracted to are normally described as looking very conservative, whatever that means. The exception is when I have k…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 08:02 PM
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If women are willing to date then yeah date. If you are not 100% attracted though, I would say don't do it. Your heart won't be in it and it will show.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 07:26 PM
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Ive never been able to see that far into those types of lives. I am never accepted as part of that type of group (probably a good thing). Also the guys I do know, normally get called jerks and/or assholes by these types, they probably think the same of me, but at the end of the day, who gives a f**k?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:57 PM
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Same, if a boy did cry when the little shit did happen, then he would probably get the shit beaten out of him. It may some a good idea to encourage boys to cry. But there will be a lot of horrible side effects. Also as far as bullying goes, if a boy is bullied and they react badly the bullying will get worst. If they just ignore it and dont make a fuss, it will probably stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:52 PM
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I think some people are stuck in a "The grass is greener on the other side of the fence" mode. Instead of owning the choices they make and taking responsibility for their choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:41 PM
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playing video games Im not a gamer myself. But I work with a few, they seem to have partners that are into gaming just as much as they are. So there must be a market for these types of guys. Funnily these guys all claim to be replulsed by the sorts of women I am into and complain about toxic masculinity. Yet at work does, they are by far the worst for sitting there and staring at traditionally attractive women. linux server administration Yet women don't complain about the money it may bring to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:17 PM
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I don't like the word settle. For me its more just finding someone and being in a relationship that lasts. They either last or they don't last. There are a number of reasons they may not last, be they what I expect or what a partner expects. But the way its worded on this sub at least and in other subs and communities, is looking for someone to settle with is different from any other relationship. If a woman did not have qualities that I liked, I would not start a relationship with them at all. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:09 PM
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It's would certainly explain the rage around when unsuccessful, and also why men have built everything but a male-driven support system for themselves beyond anonymous internet hidey holes. Everything else gets invaded by women. There are support systems that guys have, but they are not spoken about as we do not want women to know about these.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 05:42 PM
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Society only cares about regulating men's behavior, and is perfectly fine with women's problematic behavior This. Society is now geared towards just women. Men are a hinderence unless they provide money (Beta Bux) or provide good offspring (Alpha Fux). Other than that, if you are a man, as far as society cares you are worthless. Your mum will say how great you are though. In the next century or so, this will be such a problem. Once genetic engineering has made it to the point that men can be man…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 04:15 PM
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Yeah, I know I do. Talking about it will not change anything. But I am also aware that if I am with a woman, this is not what they want, so I behave accordingly. But if I am with male friends, no-one really cares to talk about it or listen to t. We are more interested in working out how to prevent it from happening.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 03:38 PM
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Should I talk to a girl that smiles at me on the bus or should I wait to pursue women when I am fit, with a source of income, with a car, etc ? No. You want to make socialising with women part of your daily life as soon as possible. Also, what classes as fit, good income, etc. If you are pushing yourself, you will never stop, so you may never think you are good enough. Build the habits as soon as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 02:05 PM
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The thing is, if women made their bodies beach ready, there would be more men willing to date them. For those women complaining about men not wanting to date ugly women, it is good advice. However the mainstream advice men get, is always geared towards making them as undatable as possible. If mainstream advice was useful in regards to dating, TRP and PUA would not exist. It would not need to. Also pick up a copy of Cosmopolitan (seriously, buy a copy goto a coffee shop and start asking women the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 01:59 PM
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You missed out the key point: Unless the woman finds you attractive, then she will be willing to go on an instant date or meetup later. When I was running a PUA lair, we had a member who was heavy into his Speed Seduction and I saw him stop a woman who was on a bike (something BPer's would advise against) have a 30 min chat with her, get her phone number. Later on that night he met up with her and bought 10 of her female friends (who were all hot) out with her and they met up with us. If women w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 01:55 PM
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They are probably just using you as a rebound. Are you as hot as the ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 07:33 AM
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Emotions are caused by something generally. So if we dont identify what makes us feel bad, then how can we stop it happening again.?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:49 AM
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Never really seen racism in the PUA community. When I was in a PUA meetup it was pretty multicultural. That said, we never really discussed politics. Would discussing politics improve our game?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 06:41 AM
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Never been into Kink and neither have any of the women I have been with. I remember someone mentioning it and the women I was seeing asked why I was hanging round with people like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 04:09 PM
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I don't think basing your life and your identity around fucking as many different women as possible will make you happy in the long-term, no. I think it provides a short-term self-esteem boost and can be fun for the right personality type. But I don't think it provides long-term happiness. That's more likely to come from a stable LTR. "Game is meant to enhance your life, not define it" - Erik Von Markovik (Mystery)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:06 PM
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Does pursuing above-average sexual success (especially through RP techniques) make men happy? Or is it just a way of getting more sex, which becomes an end in itself? When I discovered this stuff, I never intended to become who I have become. I had had some shitty dating experiences where I was getting some very mixed signals and it ultimately ended up in the friendzone over and over again. Despite women initially coming onto me quite strongly. Basically I was shit at reading body language and I…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:01 PM
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It really depends on the reasons. I used to know someone who had lived in a strict JW family and they did not have much dating experience due to that upbringing. When they were disfellowshipped, there family kicked them out on the street and threatened to kill her. Someone like that I can understand why they may not have much relationship experience. Or if they were fat/obese, then later in life hit the gym and got hot. Then cool. But if it was a woman who had loads of options, but almost every …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:46 PM
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I was thinking the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 10:49 AM
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Men can disqualify women for whatever reasons they want. Women can disqualify men for whatever reasons they want. Do you believe we should have arranged marraiges or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 08:58 AM
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But shouldn't a dudes past be the past. Its no-ones business but his own.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 08:40 AM
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Because men are not looking at men as potential mates. Unless they are homosexual, then this whole topic will not even matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 01:01 AM
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Because it gets boring living in a world constantly trying to fuck you over. I get people hate men who are not pussies or faggots. Just kill us off,why this torture. As you hate men so much why not just get to the end game, have the gender war, then if you wipe us out you have won. Lke seriously, we get it, you hate men and want us gone. Just be direct about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:53 AM
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So what happens when women all opt out of the female plantation and get themselves their perfect man with a bionic dick? All that will be left for the men are women that actually want men. As there will be fiercer competition, men will be forced to take their game to new levels. This will result in pulling women meaning more than it does at the moment. Players will gain more respect and men as a whole will ascend to a new level of game. Then life will go on.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:48 AM
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I may be blinded by bias, but it seems the more fraught and risky aspects of dating occur when someone has to strike out alone, Why is it risky. If someone will date you without you being vouched for, that says a lot. If someone needs to vouch for you in order for someone to date you, well that also says a lot about you, and not in a good way. Of course, how the knowledge that women in particular rely on pre-selection is interpreted can lead to dating being made easier. Ive known guys to use pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:39 AM
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The job itself does not matter. Its how tyou present that job. If asked what you do, are you enthusiastic about it. Or do you already believe it makes you low value so behave low value. Its not what you say, its how you say it. If the job does not inspire you and you are not passionate. Then find a new job.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 05:02 PM
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Sure a guy can become more beta, But I dont think its as easy to become more Alpha (in an established relationship). I believe it was David D (Double Your Dating) who said "You can go from Lover to Provider, but not from Provider to Lover". This was before the phrase Alpha was thrown about and before Dread Game existed. From what I can see, Dread Game has been a Game changer.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:53 PM
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Did you read my post about "Being Yourself works for women", all the BP folk were claiming that "Be Yourself" means improve yourself and become the best you can be. But then when someone who is a bit more red says that, they freak out and call it manipulative.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:46 PM
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I might have to give it a try.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:40 PM
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but what the heck does that have to do with this joke of a forum Thats kind of the thing. Its a joke. So why not?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 04:07 PM
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PS: I went to BC and work at a premier biotech firm in the Boston area. How about you, raging fella? Would you seriously advise Wiki? Like don't get me wrong, there reference section is good for finding information. Would you use Wiki as a Primary Source for research? Or even a Secondary source? I really hope not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 03:57 PM
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Hey this is the result of listening to BP people on Reddit. From what I read on Reddit, this is how they live.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 03:54 PM
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"Wiki" seriously. If you ever get an education, include a wiki citation and see what happens. Like get get an education, random reddit freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 03:51 PM
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Some people just dont get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 03:11 PM
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Big surprise, the guys who whine about that advice are/were losers. No shit Sherlock. The Spiritual Lesson Of Conan People who discover self-development, the red pill, spirituality, bodybuilding, entrepreneurship, or any of the other paths of personal growth discussed on this site often began their journey due to suffering. Many men take the red pill because their previous approach to women failed. They are drawn to weightlifting because they used to feel small. They are drawn to healthy eating …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 03:10 PM
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Women don't like nice guys and guys usually have a hard time understanding, men don't like sluts and women have a hard time understanding why.. Best comment here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 02:57 PM
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No one is forced to date a slut Thats the issue. Women here seem to think they are entitled to men and men should have no views of their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 02:55 PM
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Not all men are worried. Some dont care, some do. So as all men think differently or have different idea's of what a high N-Count is, there is no group collective. Men are islands. They compete, they do not co-operate.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 02:49 PM
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So men should be offered women as a token of friendship? Is that what your saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 02:24 PM
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No it just means I am not yet where I want to be in life. What other people get or dont get, do not affect where I am in life. Comparison only works when emotion is taken out of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 02:15 PM
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Just be yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 02:13 PM
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Yes and how does that choice affect his life? The choice has no negative effect on men. It does on women. The man is responsible for his future. The woman hers.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 02:12 PM
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It dosn't matter if its double standards or not. Choices we make are what shape our future.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:55 PM
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Women will happily get with male sluts. Men know this. If that changed, so would mens behavior. If a guy sleeps with a woman, he is not repsonsible for her choices. Why do you keep making woman's lives the responsibility of men. Feminism happened ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:51 PM
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Its all good, its Reddit after all.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:45 PM
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So should man grow breasts if he is attracted to big breasts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:33 PM
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I agree. Women are incapable of looking after themselves and have no self thought. So yes everything is mans fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:32 PM
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Male, Purple leaning red. 37. Friendship is when there are two people who trust each other, know each other and will have each others back.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:31 PM
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I made an assumption. You admitted it was true. What is there to back up. What did I not back up? The fact that you said that there are not loads of men who would fuck you or get involved with you. The fact you then said you could but those guys are horrible (I'm not disputing that). What should I be backing up. How should I be backing that up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:24 PM
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Well thats just what a liar would say isn't it. Based on our previous exchange, I really cant be arsed chatting. Its like drawing blood from a stone.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 01:06 PM
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Nah they got old. Just not the same. Theres younger and hotter alternatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 12:45 PM
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Ive never said Im an expert. Hang on, oh right, I get it I called you honest when really your lying. Sorry my bad, you had me fooled there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 12:26 PM
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Your actually admitting the existence of these guys now. That wasn't so hard was it. We have gone from no men like you or want anything to do with you to you have plenty of options but they are not up to your standards. This must be a first, a woman actually being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 12:19 PM
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Why do you think the men are such high N-Count? Also guys know guys do this. So they project this attitude onto high N-Count women (just my theory).
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 11:59 AM
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Those poor TRPers doing 100 approaches a night, getting rejected left right and centre, they don't realised they've already lost before they started This is not for actually finding women. Its for guys who have lots of anxiety. Its fixing trauma by overexposure. Push the guys so out of their comfort zone, their comfort zone will grow. Once theya re over their feears of talking to women, the mass approaching can and should stop, as it then has no purpose. Thats my view on it anyway. And it worked…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 11:53 AM
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What does it matter why? Thats like me saying "Why are women put off by me putting shit on my face". I know that putting shit on my face will lower my chances of an LTR, so I dont do it. If I choose to do it, then I have to accept the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 11:48 AM
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Im 6ft, my friend was 5ft 4 or so. Actually stopped hanging around with him, the only thing he was good at was scaring women away. But that said, have another friend who is same height who is great with women. And he is Indian. So defo more than just height.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 11:23 AM
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So you can get plenty of men, you just dont want them. Thats totally different to not having dudes to pick from. Which is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 11:20 AM
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None of them have some harem of dudes to pick from. Have you been on an incel sub and offered your body? Or tried Craigs list. You will have more success doing that than a man would.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 10:57 AM
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Is shyness his true self, or is it just something that prevents him from being himself around women? If being shy is his true self, then why isn't he like that when he hangs out with his friends and family? How I behave with my friends is totally different to how I behave with my family which is totally different to how I am at work. There are somethings that are not acceptable in the work place. Somethings that my family won't find as amusing or funny as my friends, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 10:56 AM
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Yep. Ive had a friend once who tried to do what I did and he got punched in the face and then had bouncers remove him from a building. When I did I got free drinks, phone numbers, etc. The women found me attractive and not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 10:53 AM
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Do you mean actually approach or just hover in the vicinity of a man and give off IOI's?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 08:50 PM
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Having to smile is probably viewed as oppression or something.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen14/01/19 08:48 PM
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You think there's loads of women out there that want non masculine men? Let alone men who go vegan? Didn't you know, Soyboi's are slaying pussy left right and centre when they are not playing on their Switches. Havn't you been to a social gathering and seen all the masculine jacked men getting no interest once the soyboy enters the room. I will let you decide if that was sarcasm or truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 08:34 PM
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Ignoring a girl in order to get her to chase you Why act in a way so that women won't chase you? Why are women entitled to my attention? If she isn't displaying any interest, why should I be interested? Making her feel like she has to act very carefully around you or else she'd be "next"d And? At least she knows the reality. What, just because she is a woman, she can be a complete bitch and men should just have to put up with that? Not being clear about what you think of her/whether or not youre…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 07:19 PM
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You sound angry of Chad getting sex. Its not Chad's fault your not Chad. Men are islands.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 07:05 PM
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Impossible to answer which I guess is the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 07:00 PM
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Thanks I found that very helpful. Im defo still not at #3 or #4 yet. You can almost always tell which guys haven't made it past the next two because they're focused on finding "the right woman." They're separating women into "women" and "not a woman" figuratively, even though they don't know it. The above really resonates with my current mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:53 PM
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Same, place I work is not female dominated. But it is SJW dominated. I just do my job and shut up.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 05:45 PM
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So the goal is less to “not be a thoughtful person” and more to remind one’s self that they don’t HAVE to do anything at all. I think we are on the same wavelength here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:57 PM
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Oh, maybe it's because they can still get a date, that's much less infuriating than not being able to support themselves. Men could just kill and rob. Or home invade. It would be Vikings all over again. Then they could enslave the women. Men would not go homeless. Especially if there are no men around to defend the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:53 PM
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Agreed plus women are taught very early to have sort of diva/princess like mentality where she expects everything done for her All PUA and TRP does is model this and flip[ the script. Its kinda shocking how effective it is. Men have to learn game, women are born into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:38 PM
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Its just setting boundries. Ive seen women do it, then they meet someone else who does not tolerate it and the behaviour stops. If a man lets a woman walk all over him, she will. If he dosn't let her and she wants him to stick around, she will stop doing it. Its more about a guy taking responsibility for his life than the woman. Oops there I go with that Misogynistic RP stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:26 PM
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Can I ask what you do with your partner when you're not having sex? I know you were not asking me. Sure there is more to a relationship than sex. But I dont believe no guy actually wants a dead bedroom. Surely no one enjoys having to "earn" fun from their partner? Some women will treat men like shit and walk all over them if they get the chance. By adopting these sorts of mentalities, firstly you are preventing it from happening, secondly you are taking responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:12 PM
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That will never happen though. We can't make a movement where no man will even consider sex with landwhales. Or where men will not tolerate being treated like an ATM. Then there are the men who encourage and promote cuckoldry. And so on... Whatever a man sets as standards, there is always some thirsty dude who does not care what he sticks his dick in. TGO is something I bleive in. Ten Game Only. If I am at a social gathering of any sort, unless I class the woman as a Ten, I will not be intereste…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:37 PM
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Depends on what you do with knowledge and skills gained from RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:33 PM
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So, allow me to rephrase my question, then: Do you view it as "a good thing" to deliberately hide certain characteristics of yourself that others might view as undesirable? I dont view it as good or bad. Its just the way it is. Im quite indifferent. If I find a woman attractive, Im just concious of the fact she will probably be wearing makeup. I dunno, Ive just always accepted it as the norm. You seem quite emotionally invested in it. Why is that? What bothers you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 03:11 PM
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Would you say a message like "Making someone happy is a reward unto itself" does not resonate with you? I will respond to this later. I have a book at home which covers all this and does contain something I resonate with.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 02:51 PM
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My fiance threatened to beat him up, how much more direct can you get? Maybe you should of said this to start with. You see a lot of us on here are not psychic so we can only go by what you say. Im beginning to understand why TRP advocates treating women like children. Communication is an adult thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 02:21 PM
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So you're of the camp? If you mean what pill. Well RP quotes Bruce Lee in its handbook to take what works for you and diregard the rest. I do just that. I'm more of a classical PUA though. I;d rather read a translation of The memoires of Casanova tbh than read angry rantings by the RP men on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 02:16 PM
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So if your other half does something you don't like, do you reward him for it? Or do you say something. Or are you just docile and do nothing?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:45 PM
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Im not punishing women. Im just holding them to their own claims. Thats not punishment. Thats called being treated like a responsible adult who is capable of communicating. Sorry, I dont view feminists as retards. Also not all women are feminists. ALso I have never forced a woman to be a feminist. Its all on their own initiative. Same as TRP and PUA, I know I will get shit for it. But I choose to associate with those cultures, the shit I get is no-ones fault but my own. Why should I treat femini…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:41 PM
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In a system where "having a preference" is viewed as "being entitled to that preference", there is no room for thoughtfulness. It creates an atmosphere of "what's my motivation?", in which both sides jealously guard their willingness to go out of their way for their partner in any way unless it's earned. This seems like a DOA sort of arrangement for a relationship to me. Just giving the feminist the same treatment a man would get. If it was a man saying what he liked, you would not be making thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:38 PM
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No I agree. Water is shaped by the container that holds it. But I would say Whiteknights and BP guys are more to blame than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:35 PM
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What I think does not matter. Im holding feminists to their own standards. If they dont like it, well maybe they should rethink their views. If they want equality, then they should start holding themselves to their own standards. Also I think she is a hypocrit if she really is a feminist. "CHivalry is oppressive" and all that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:34 PM
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If a man states what he likes in a woman, he will be called entitled. We are just giving women what they want, to be treated like a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:22 PM
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Exactly. Watch her interact with other guys and see who is drawn to. Then you will see what she likes. I dont balme her, not only does she not know what she wants, but she dosn't even know that she dosn't know what she wants. Its not her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:20 PM
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Why does it matter if TRP comes off as angry, its a mans group. Its not dating profiles?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:18 PM
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If you dont want people to form views about you. DOnt make shit like this public. As soon as something is public,the public will make views and judgements.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 01:17 PM
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I guess I'm not really surprised that feminists couldn't see the unintended consequences of that action. I dont see them as unintended. Women complained about men doing these things. If they didn't want them to stop, what was the intended consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:22 PM
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That's what I get from OP's post. He straight up asks if you'd encourage this behavior. And you would if your answer is "be safe and don't contract STD's while you work in the porn industry'. Yeah and everyone has answered. Actually not what I expected.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:20 PM
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I LIKE TO BE TAKEN OUT TO DINNER. So what. I like driving fast cars. Soz luv, you wanted Chivalry to end, you got it. Now shut the fuck up whining because you won. I LIKE MY SEAT BEING PULLED OUT FOR ME. Are you a perfect 10, who acts and behaves like a lady. No.. well there you go. I ENJOY BEING GIVEN FLOWERS. Good for you. Find someone to buy you some then. I WANT THAT SEAT ON THE TRAIN. Sure re-imburse my train ticket, its yours. Otherwise, get on the train earlier. I LIKE TO BE DEFENDED. Im …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 12:18 PM
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Which is also precisely the reason why women don't approach. I know. I dont understand why some people do not grasp this.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 09:12 AM
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Agreed. We do not have a fair world, we never have. Men have been competing over women since the dawn of time and will continue to do so. I really wish this Fair World Utopia BS would stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 08:58 AM
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The issue is that men will be rejected if they don't meet that deceptively simple criteria, but women only need to be physically attractive (and men can be very accommodating even with this) and the rest doesn't matter. The dating world is not fair. Getting a relationship is not like getting a job, there are no equality laws in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 08:45 AM
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Is that actually any good? Not sure if it is just some silly RomCom crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 08:08 AM
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You are correct. I put "Getting hit on". I didn't say "Getting Asked Out".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 07:12 AM
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Is it really that hard to just be honest with a guy instead of playing all these indirect games. Ive slept with women who have told me about their BF's/Fiancee's/Husbands. It means nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 06:40 AM
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Reality, as I see it, is that most guys are either going to have to work for it to set themselves apart From my own observations and experiences, women dont want average. If there 101 guys to choose from, they would want the one that stands above the rest (in one way or another). PUA Rule 1: Dont do what everyone else does. So average is not attractive. It's not that hard!" isn't really all that common and is more of a projection of women and attractive men, who do get that type of experience at…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 06:38 AM
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So yoiu didnt specifically tell him to stop pestering you. You just introduced your Fiancee, were you hoping for a 3some or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 06:12 AM
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By the time the advice is any good, it is not needed.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:44 AM
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Did you tell him you would never ever date him. Or did you say soemthing like "Not Today", "Im busy washing my hair" or "LJBF". All things that hint there may be a chance you may say yes one day. Even though we all know you won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/19 04:38 AM
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Makeup is a skill, and someone who is skilled with makeup, dressing themselves, etc. is very attractive to me. It's an indication that they can and have applied themselves to learning something that can advance their standing and perception in the world. I used to know someone who worked at a makeup counter in a department store. Ive seen enough to know that it takes a fair bit of skill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 09:13 PM
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Maybe they want an older man and dont want to look like jailbait.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 09:09 PM
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Ah. How astute. You were the one asking if a person who uses makeup is something I view as a misinterpretation of someone who uses makeup. Yes, of course. It is common for people to try to rationalize what they do as being "a good thing." Is it, though? I said "I" view it as a good thing. Its not really something Ive asked a person who wears it, I normally leave em to it instead of questioning their actions. Well, makeup is getting more advanced so as to appear to be natural. Of course, people w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 09:07 PM
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Whats that got to do with Domestic Abuse? It's a dumb metric. Women probably think breast size is a dumb metric for a relationship. But for some guys its not.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 09:03 PM
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Because they want someone they can flirt with. So if a guy can't flirt, then they can't communicate the way the woman wants, so they don't need to carry out any further shit-tests to weed out the shit. You sound very angry by the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 08:51 PM
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Ive never asked a GF their N-Count nor do I intend to start. I definately prefer a woman who will happily discuss sex. Not her ex's just sex itself, what she enjoys etc. However I do have other different boundries: Not been with any of my friends. Not a single mum. Looks after herself and takes pride in her appearance. No excessive amount of tattoo's or piercings. The N-Count, well I dunno I just don't think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 08:49 PM
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If someone is using makeup, or has had plastic surgery in the past to enhance their appearance, would you consider that to be a misrepresentation of themselves? No, if a woman uses makeup, she is a woman who uses makeup. There is no misrepresentation there. The only thing is a lot of guys seem unaware that women use makeup.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 08:30 PM
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You sound more Red Pill than Blue Pill to me. If you were BP you would be telling them its fine to sit in the basement being themselves as one day they will find a special woman,and dont worry if she has 10 kids, its means you have won as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 08:25 PM
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Props for being there for your mother instead of just classing her as a government responsibility and expecting the taxpayer to take care of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 08:22 PM
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Why isn't her mum subpar? She raised a child that will happily sit down and tell her mum that she is subpar and deserved to be abandoned. Or is that good mothering to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 08:21 PM
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Looking at the first guy and the 3rd guy, the situation they are in and the physical state of the woman, I can tell that they have a very different outlook on life to me and definately different idea's of fun. So I really wouldn't want any of them as influences in life as none of it would I find positive. And my outlooks and goals in life probably are not something they could relate to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 08:11 PM
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Thank you for the nightmares I am now going to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 08:08 PM
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Then why dont they say that then. It really is no surprise that guys turn to PUA and TRP when the alternitive is people saying stuff that means something different.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 07:31 PM
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He is being himself. He is shy. If he stops being shy and becomes confident, then he becomes a different, more powerful person. But he will have to fake it till he becomes it. Once he is no longer shy, he is a different person to who he was before.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 05:40 PM
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Just Be Yourself is meant to turn you into a confident, self-assured, active and motivated person. Where as I agree with all the points you make, I think you can tell that the issue here is some people read "Just be yourself" very differently. So they look elsewhere and get the same advice from elsewhere. "What most of us present to the world isn’t necessarily our true self: It’s a combination of years of bad habits and fear-based behavior. Our real self lies buried underneath all the insecuriti…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 05:38 PM
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If he is shy and acting shy, then yeah, I would say thats him being himself. A shy guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 05:18 PM
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I don't use them. I used to at one point but its too much hassle. Cold approach, possibly 1 out of 10 approaches can lead to an instant date. Dating/hookup apps, probably need a professional photographer to take decent photo's, then have to filter through time wasters who just want to chat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 05:13 PM
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True. But why would women need to approach men if they already have guys approaching them? Women can just choose the best (to them) from the guys who approach them. Unless a guy is outstandingky attractive, there is no incentive (that I can see) for a woman to approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 05:10 PM
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You don't. But theres that thing called attraction. Its a good first step. Take it from there.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:42 PM
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How many times I gotta say I'm not talking about hookups or acquiring as many women as possible?? Its not about acquiring women. Its about being able to introduce yourself to a woman you find attractive. You may be stood in a grocery store one day and the woman of your dreams is stood near you. If you are not able to introduce yourself in a non creepy way, then you would never get to know her. It has nothing to do with just banging chicks and having co commitments.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:29 PM
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Have you ever heard women and feminzis go on about how much they are approached by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:07 PM
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Thats completely different from "just be yourself". Funny how it always means something different when questioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 04:06 PM
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We live in the world of Dating Apps and Tinder. Never mind socialising in the real world. Is 5 messages a day, really that much for a woman especially if she is highly attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:57 PM
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Does it., Ive seen plenty of guys claiming this who are single. If its so effective why are they single? There is consistancy in any of the claims. If its so great. Go "Be Yourself" then write a field report highlighting how that bought you to meeting someone. Then repeat the process 20 - 30 times, to prove that it wasn't just fluke. Then maybe we will believe this advice instead of calling it out for the shit it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:36 PM
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You being serious or sarcastic? I was bought up with that shit. Its hard to reprogram but it is possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 03:21 PM
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CHrist I could walk into the city centre right now and see plenty of older guys with younger women. Where do you live.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 12:01 PM
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If I put your 32 year old self in a room filled with 100 32 years old, with how many will you have common experiences and interests? If they do not stand out physically, then it will not matter. In order for me to discover commonalities, I first have to be attracted, Commonalities are more of a comfort thing than an attraction things.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 11:23 AM
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Since you've already broached the idea that people do things because they've had experiences... who was the hot co-worker who turned you down that has now got you writing this post? I was thinking the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 07:05 AM
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If you don't get invited out with coworkers it's because they think you're weird. And? Does that affect my pay? Granted at my old job, I would get invited for drinks with the Managing Director, the CTO and some of the senior Project Managers. But that was more for networking reasons and it would help my career. Actual co-workers, I really couldn't care, one way or another, Im there to do a job and further my career not be their buddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 07:04 AM
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I'm sure I already get shit on for being quiet. I actually find it funny when women at work start thinking that guys at work are gay just because they don't show any interest towards the women in the office (god forbid someone acts professionly). Even funnier when there is a works social and I fuick off and chat to random people in the bar we are at. These women then take it personally. They seem t not realise 2 key things Once I am out of the office, the office ceases to exist. So if I am in a …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 06:59 AM
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Its just not worth the risk. Not worth the issues it may create at work. Theres a whole plkanet full of women, what makes the women at work so special? And at end of day, I am work to do a job not make friends. If you have no friends outside of work, well what the fuck does that have to do with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 06:13 AM
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Im a dude. And all Im gonna say is people should be free to marry who they want to marry. But people need to accept that if they do not find someone, then it may be their standards that are the issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 06:11 AM
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I bring this up because of the trends I see where men refuse to explain their views. They deflect, saying they don't owe an explanation, but oftentimes it's obvious their views are self-serving and purposely dismissive of others at the same time. And whats your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 06:09 AM
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As a guy, I used to share my emotions a lot. It scared women away. When I stopped doing this, women responded to me more positively. My attractiveness did not change. But hey Im just a guy, and like many other guys in RP/PUA, we know less about our own lives and experiences than you do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 08:13 PM
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Women come in a variety of forms. Improve your game Men will improve/alter their game. Thats why Daygame became a thing, stripper game became a thing, hell Bookstore game. But the reasons for the change in game, is due to what the man wants not the benefit of a woman. I don't know you, I don't know what you look like, or what your personality is like. But Im sure if a man is attracted, he will happily adjust his game (consciously or subconsciously). But if men are not attracted they have no reas…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 07:53 PM
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Not every guy wants to be dominant or a sugar daddy. I cant comment on the Sugar Daddy thing. But for me, Ive always been the guy who has had to make decisions in dating otherwise the women will melt down with having to make a decision themselves. On social gatherings, I always turn into the guy who has to decide where to go next, how long we stay blah blah blah, this is in a non dating scenario with male friends. If a night out is planned, I am the one who always has to get tickets, plan times,…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 07:34 PM
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Most women I have dated have always insisted on going Dutch, they are the ones I continue to see. A first date sets a standard of expectations and is a sign for the future. So I would rather see a woman who has no issues sharing costs. A date is one thing, a holiday is another, so don't want to set the expectation that I pay for everything. If a woman expects me to pay fully, I will, then I will leave. The end. Also as far as first dates go, I will always do something cheap. Its about getting to…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 12:30 PM
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Take our woman above who has previously had sex on the first date, but found she usually felt gross the next day, and so she stopped doing that. Does she need to force herself to keep having first date sex because of her past? No she dosn't. But guys are not obligated to wait on her either.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 07:01 AM
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There are articles online by female feminists on why its shit dating male feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/19 06:41 AM
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Where have I ever said that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:55 PM
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Of course not. If they have agreed to be exclusive then it is not. Just my honest opinion. But Im not full fledged RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:44 PM
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Well your in your prime. Best make the most of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:29 PM
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As a female, you're the guest of honor. He's supposed to win you over and chase after you, otherwise he does not respect you and will not marry you. You keep telling yourself that. I imagine the only place you are a guest of honour is "Where are the good men gone" .
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:13 PM
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Which Pill are you taking, it clearly ain't a Red One.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:14 PM
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Same as men should not take advice from women but from successful men. Women should not take advice from men but from women who have achieved what you want to achieve.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 06:47 PM
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All arguments trying to make older women look like ugly harpies No one is trying to make older women look like anything. No one cares enough about the older women. Men want to date what they find hot because they find it hot. Which part of that do you not understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 06:32 PM
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Lol, fair one. I took what you were saying the wrong way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 06:13 PM
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Lol, I think the hole "picking women up" mindset is wrong in itself. Not sure where that even came from. Even Mystery himself states that the purpose is to "Have Fun". Having Fun is contagious. But a lot of guys, especially noobs, see it as a chore, not an adventure. But I dont want to get into the Paradoxes of Game. That is a topic all in itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:54 PM
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You can do whatever you like and deal with the consequences in your social circle. If someone had such big differences in world views, they would not be in my social circle. In fact if someone made a big issue out of something like tis, they would be booted out of the social circle. Going outside the norm will cause people to question your ethics and why you can't date someone with your own level of maturity. Well if thats what they want to do with their time, good for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:17 PM
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The reasoning behind those social approvals/disapprovals is a difference in power dynamic. Dont get what you mean. All I hear is someone telling me what I should and should not do. I just do what I was going to do, regardless. If it turns out bad, I will say to the person that they were right and I was wrong. But most social views are not about well-being, its just jelousy and envy, so its a them problem not a me problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 05:03 PM
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As much as my own experiences say "PUA is 100% legit". I know my own situation was not that of a complete social inept. So I cant actually say that. If you are already able to speak to women and have had relationships. Then sure PUA may add a couple of extra tweaks and make somethings become clearer. It also has plenty of exercises for improving confidence. But all this needs a foundation to work. Before I jumped into the PUA Rabbit Hole, I had already had relationships and ONS's. So I was not a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:59 PM
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They were in social gatherings, meetups, or using Online Dating/Dating Apps. The 22 year old women were attractive and responsive. So things developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:34 PM
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Because when we are younger, women are dating older men. Or we are not as developed. Women start with their looks and beauty. Men start with nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:30 PM
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Just because it's legal doesn't make it socially acceptable to everyone. I wouldn't date someone just based on other peoples social approvals.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:29 PM
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So men should be gold diggers? Theres more to people than just jobs and $$$$$$$$.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:26 PM
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Also you get to see who is the best out of you and the other guys. Win or lose, live or die. Be rewarded with sex. Hopefully there will be beer avaliable as well. Sounds much simpler than this world.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 04:08 PM
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Yep.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 03:38 PM
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Its best as something that can be switched on and off. There are places such as the workplace where it would just cause issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 03:35 PM
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Thats what cats are for.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 03:31 PM
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Thanks for the info.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 03:19 PM
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Ok but none of that sounds like it's actually going to make you attractive to women on any level. You go from super boring / weird to just boring. There is no magic pill. You cant just become a sociable person overnight. That alone will not help. But add in lifting, meditation, grooming, having a purpose. And sooner or later, your gonna be in a better place than before. Does doing some forced standup act really work for making you funny in 1 on 1 or small group situations? Making totally random …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 03:18 PM
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Ive heard stories from my Aunt about my mum's younger years. Ive also heard stories about my dad's younger years. Thats all Im gunna say.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:59 PM
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So what are some examples of what you are going to practice? Well lets take open ended statements instead of factual yes/no answers (something basic). If that was an issue I identified, I would goto to a social meetup and anytime I was in conversation I would try to use open ended statements to answer anything someone asked instead of a simple yes/no typish answer that leaves nothing for the conversation to continue. Sure it will be awkward at first as anything new is, but keep practicing and it…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:57 PM
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Well there is the classic "How to win friends and influence people". Thats probably good for starters, but its more on becoming a "Nice Guy". Theres not really much influencing. I found "How to speak so people listen" useful. Then theres good ole "Sleight of mouth". I have an audio course on that, some hypnotist I know gave it me. Then theres the Milton Model and Meta Model from NLP. I could go on. But just reading these will not help. Join meetups, goto social gatherings and practice, practice,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:38 PM
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Maybe you should shack up with a 90 year old dude. Cuz like your gonna turn 90 eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:29 PM
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Feminism. "I dont need no man, I is a strong independent womanz". FOllowed by "Why am I single, where dah good manz goon"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:08 PM
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What does "Finding yourself" even mean? Ive done some shit in my life, but I will just say that. I don't need to give it some fancy label.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:07 PM
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Women feel slighted because in their view, the life experience gained between the ages of 23 and 33 offsets the depreciation in physical appearance. Maybe she lived in a few different cities, got a better job, took a trip around the world, had a few lovers and read a few books. What does that have to do with anything? Should i want to get with a woman because she got fucked in a different city by a different bloke whilst reading a book? Do you understand attraction?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:03 PM
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Maybe/maybe not. But the guys who say this are not looking to date guys so they don't care about how guys over 30 act (unless its to model their behaviour).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 02:01 PM
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You are asking what the PUA community thinks? It depends which pat of the comminity you ask. Hypnotica classes himself as intense and promotes it. But other parts of the PUA community would be more likely to say be aloof or at least until she has shown interest. Myself, it depends on the scenario and the woman in question. How I deal with a barmaid or dancer is different to how I would approach a girl who is in a group of other girls. Also all these are different to how I would approach someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 01:57 PM
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I went through that paradox, luckily quite a while back. I used to think that if a woman slept with me on a first date, it was just because I happened to be the guy she was on the date with. It could of been my next door neighbor she was with and would of fucked him instead. Im just an averge guy after all, so there is nothing special about me. Then later on, after being in the PUA community I realised it was more possibly because she found me attractive than because I was the guy at that point.…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 01:53 PM
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You sound very triggered. If I keep making bad choices, no amount of blaming others will change anything until I change the choices I make. Blame does not change anything, other than make a person look like they do not accept any responsibility for their life. Personally I would not want a relationship with someone who has no responsibility or understanding of the concept. Have I made bad choices, yes. Did I choose to get with a woman who hit e and throttled me, yes. Did I get with a gold-digger…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 01:20 PM
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What actually costs more? Goverment paying welfare or tracking these dads down, putting them through Court and then locking them away?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 01:05 PM
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I dont see that as a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:45 PM
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Have you ever visited a RP sub. There is a complete lack of sympathy there.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:44 PM
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Maybe she is different from most women. Maybe they want a family. Maybe they want to focus on a different part of their life other than dating. Maybe they need to get married to get inheritence money. Who knows.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:36 PM
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Are you on drugs? Im a dude and I shower every day (sometimes 2 or 3 times), I started well before I hit 30. Please stop projecting yourself on everyone. And also take women off the magical pedstal.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 12:13 PM
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Thanks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:48 AM
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if you continue to do x, y, z when you would've a, b, c'd and it becomes part of your unthinking nature then you have actually changed your personality. Yeah i agree here. However where a lot of guys go wrong (especially in PUA) is they only change their actions one night a week It needs to be constant not one off.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:45 AM
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Which men tell women that?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:39 AM
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DO you understand what "Competition" is in a market? If there were only 30+ women in existence then this would not matter. However for every 30+ woman, there is will be a new batch of women turning 18 that very day. So if a guy has options why would he pick an older woman if he can get younger? Also (this is my own opinion), this matters more in dating in the initial phases. After a relationship (if both people want a relationship) has been formed, it will not matter so much as the bonds will ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:39 AM
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Why would I want to over ride my genetic programming. It is the deepest part of what makes me me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:32 AM
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Then work on that. There are a million issues a guy can have. If he bothers himself to identify them, then there is probably something he can do to improve that aspect. Will it mean that women will be lining up at your door knocking, no. But what it does mean is that you will have a better chance than before.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 11:27 AM
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I dont think women do care about personality. They do however respond in a positive way if you make them feel a certain way.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:41 AM
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Im in total agreement. Blaming others and pointing the finger is easy to do though. It takes a rare person to accept responsibility for their lot in life. Ive had some partners who were not idea. But I use those experiences to learn more about myself and where I went wrong. Just blaming them accomplishes nothing (seriously, what does blaming someone achieve).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 10:02 AM
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Thats the complete opposite of feminism. Which encourages and promotes making oneself ugly, being a bitch and not being interested. Which then results in "where are all da good menz gone"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:58 AM
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More than.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:57 AM
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Blue Pill "Just Be Confident". Game - DO this, this and this. This then results in confidence. Imagine going to a driving lesson and being told "Just be a good driver" and that was it. Game, at least gives some tasks and idea's on how to achieve confidence (Rules Of The Game, Collection Of Confidence, etc). Where as just saying "Be Confident" is pointless.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:56 AM
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Women are always whining about how they have had it hardest. So why is going to war and being killed an issue. Should be easy compared to a womans life?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:51 AM
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AND not blame the others when we realise our standards might have been unapplicable Not sure what you mean here. If some dude gets with some women, who I wouldn't. I wouldn't care one way or another. However I would observe the type of women he goes for, and bear that in mind if said dude ever tried to give me any advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:46 AM
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Wizard = 30 yr+ Virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:26 AM
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My main issue with women complaining about TRP is that they are the ones that drive men to it in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:23 AM
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What does a 22 year old woman offer to someone who is 32? Youth, positivity, energy, general happiness. The things that older women seem to be lacking. Especially given the fact that a higher percentage of older women are single moms. So theres that stress factor. Are you really going to share a friend group? Hobbies? Why would your 35 year old friends be friends with a 22 year old woman? Most my friends date younger women anyway. So they would probably make her more welcome to the group than an…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:13 AM
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first, do you just assume she fucks everyone on the first date because wamen be like that? ? third, if you claim she's undatable do you think that automatically puts you in a position of 'datable'? No if she fucks other guys on the first date and not me, I understand its because I am not sexually attractive. Then I wondr why she is with me when she could be with a guy who is sexually attractive to her. Luckily the gym sorted that issue out in regards to dating. second, if so, what do you mean by…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 09:01 AM
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I am sure soy boys still delude themseoves they date women for who they are inside lol Its one thing for soyboys to speak. But if anyone actually pays attention to what they say, that person needs professional help.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:54 AM
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I actually worded this wrong. I meant was their any mainstream advice men give to women (not other men) that is as crappy as advice that is given to men mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:52 AM
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1st RULE: You do not talk about FIGHT CLUB. 2nd RULE: You DO NOT talk about FIGHT CLUB
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:47 AM
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Ive never had that happen (Im a guy). Normally its starts with kissing and cuddling. Or maybe she just says "Im horny" rips down my jeans and starts riding me. Thats how its been in every relationship Ive been in. Do you agree beforehand how many times he can thrust into you?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:36 AM
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Disagree. Theres that thing called AWALT. Whereby a man does not believe he is a special unicorn snowflake prince. Once you assume the worst, you can only be happily surprised. And you have boundries in place to protect yourself from making stupid choices.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:25 AM
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Be yourself. There is someone for everyone. Just be nice. Treat women with respect. Blah blah blah. Then along comes the bad boy who beats women and treats them like shit. Guess what, he wins. Women are full of shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 08:19 AM
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Not enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 07:59 AM
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I learnt along time ago that just chasing after sex will lead to no sex. It also gets me the compliment "Your not like all the other guys, your not just after one thing".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 06:28 AM
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If I see an attractive woman I will want to know more about her and her experiences in life. Find out what makes her tick. Enjoy some experiences with her. I get none of this when I see an unattractive woman, they are just another person. But I also know they are not the be all/end all. With or without them I am happy. ME: Defo not Blue, but not fully Red.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/19 06:07 AM
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Its all about the money$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/19 08:46 AM
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The more info, the better. Do you read fiction? Do you download stuff from project Gutenberg or librivox? Fiction, currently reading George R R Martins books and also love Stephen King books. Also read Psychology, Mythology, most stuff computer related. What pill are you? Where do you stand on feminism? Im not Red but I sure as hell am not blue. More of a classical PUA. Im a dude, so no not into feminism, I dont hate myself. Also I have had to work hard in life for things, so I dont buy into the…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 11:55 PM
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If the woman wants to be exclusive she can propose that. But until the talk happens its just casual sex/dating. If she thinks there is anything else or wants anything else, she needs to start the exclusivity chat. And then, it depends on the woman and what she brings to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 11:50 PM
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