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Impossible. She bitched about splitting water bottles, laundry detergent and everything else she felt like. I tried my best and kept receipts for everything I bought. I shouldve walked away and started my new life instead of hanging around. Would you be ok with her blaring break up music to spite you in your own house?
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/26 06:23 PM
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I completely agree. Looking back i shouldn't of gone scorched earth and am paying for it now. I should've turn my back and walked away peacefully on many things at that was definitely one of them. Im 8 months post break up and thoroughly enjoying being free.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/26 05:56 PM
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To not use mediation and go straight to lawyers. Not the best route for everyone but if she has any sort of hate for you than mediation is a waste.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/26 03:34 AM
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I spent 8k on a mediator that she chose. We didn't resolve anything. If she doesn't want to communicate with you now i'm not sure mediation is the best route. They don't resolve anything and will only be there acting as her therapist listening to her victim puke.
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/26 10:27 PM
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Would you install the same virus on your computer thinking you'd have a different outcome?
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/26 12:37 AM
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Doesn't sound much different than my ex. She also started going to church, mostly to clear her conscience from wrong doings.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 07:43 PM
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How would she know you're not compatible in the bedroom without monkey branching? My exes father just passed away and at the viewing yesterday she already had a single father from my son's basketball team there flirting with her. It sounds like you already lost her respect. There is no turning back. Heal yourself because she wants nothing to do with you.
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/26 01:42 PM
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Learn self respect. Learn self love. Stick up for yourself and your goals. Trust your gut. Learn to state and uphold boundaries once. Don't shut up and go with the flow. Learn that disappointing is needed to lead.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 05:33 PM
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My friend just got scammed 10k today actually. They spoofed every phone number they needed to and got him to withdraw 10k in cash and send it to multiple accounts while depositing it into a bitcoin machine in a convenience store. They claimed they were the cops and his accounts were involved in money laundering and he needed to do that to clear his name.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 02:19 AM
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It's like putting the same virus on your computer and hoping the bullshit doesnt happen again
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 02:35 PM
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Wow. That's a tough one on top of what you're already going through. I'd suggest CBT therapy. Do some work on your worries and learn what to spend your energy on. These two definitely aren't the ones and you will love yourself more when you exclude them from your life.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/26 06:04 PM
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I am in. Send me a link to the discord when it's available.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 07:04 PM
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Damn. I love this community. I very much appreciate all of you doing these write ups to help others.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/26 07:07 PM
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Do not be nice, no not have sex with her, do not trust her, do not go to her to talk. She does not give a fuck about you and just want to use you. Distrust is earned aswell
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 08:19 PM
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Temporary, fake, some pity, lots of disgust, lots of dishonesty, lots of fluctuations and absolutely no consistency on working together. She's not ride or die. She is leaving you in the rear view mirror.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 02:29 AM
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Wow. I should read this every morning as motivation to keep fighting the good fight even though my plans are always to stay amicable. I have to find a middle ground where I stand my ground without losing respect for myself nor disrespecting others even though they are fucking me over. I wish you all the best in your battles and I hope you find a relaxing place to enjoy your days soon.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/25 01:27 AM
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It sucks hearing the truth from a bot.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/25 11:02 PM
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What did you use to analyze and get these results?
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/25 04:44 AM
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This right here. I tried to make it work for another 5 years. It was hell that whole time. All it did was give her more time to deceive and manipulate. If you feel like a fool now you will feel it 10x more if you keep trying just to fail.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 08:32 PM
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If you stay like I did, she will cheat again and lie again. I was you 6 years ago. I begged for her to talk. She talked less and cheated more. This morning I found out thats she been texting someone at her work all the while she says she has no time to take care of anything. Im hoping you dont do what I did and stay and think she will change. She has changed already. She has chosen to not respect you and never will again. If you stay with her she will respect less even more than the point you ar…
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 01:17 AM
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It may feel that way. And its only cause you care. I just found out this morning my wife is on her 3rd affair. I blame myself. Im fighting for the wrong reasons. Im fighting for love but its not anything healthy. Im handing 7k to some lawyers later today. It may be a war but the only person who's gonna benefit is me and my kids
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 04:13 PM
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I know what I would do after going through similar and than for the next 10 years trying to fix the relationship. It got me less and less. I would take this as her telling me what she wants. And it ain't you. It hurts but it will hurt more if you continue to want her while she ignores you. It won't change. Only you can change for yourself. Don't do it for her. She will just use you going forward. Stay amicable and try to stay sane. You depend on yourself. No one else will care about what you did…
/r/Divorce_Men02/11/25 07:44 PM
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She also is also looking for those signs and I bet you show up. It's tough man. I wish I had the answers but the more we try the worse it gets it seems
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 05:41 PM
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I feel this. If this is anything like my life she will tell you that you aint accountable next.
/r/Divorce_Men28/10/25 04:34 PM
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Far from embarrassing. It's encouraging and I really appreciate hearing your story. My partner is currently working on handing me divorce papers while I concentrate on staying sane and healthy. I'm at good place 60% of the time now. Still not where I want to be but people like you help me see some more light. Stay positive and grateful
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/25 05:44 AM
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