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14	If women are hypergamous, doesn't this also necessarily mean that women are hypocrites?	CMV	NvrBgn4me	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/09/22 08:45 PM

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1	If women are hypergamous, doesn't this also necessarily mean that women are hypocrites? I think generally hypergamy is a term used for looks, money and status. i know that the traditional definition talks about 'social caste', although nowadays it's just 'dating up' in general. i dont think men can be hypergamous with looks though, since ugly girls can easily find decent looking guys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/10/22 05:53 AM
1	If women are hypergamous, doesn't this also necessarily mean that women are hypocrites? I see. For the purposes of my original post, I differentiate standards and preferences; for example, a man may prefer women equal or younger in age, and a woman may prefer a man equal or older in age. a man may prefer a woman shorter than he is, and a woman may prefer a man taller than she is. someone may prefer blonde hair, another person may prefer brown hair. there are all preferences. as for standards: for example let's take, say, two 5'5 women who both have a preference for taller men. one …	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 09:36 PM
1	If women are hypergamous, doesn't this also necessarily mean that women are hypocrites? when you say 'different standards' is what you mean, men and women have different preferences? because when I say 'standards' i am talking on a linear scale of demanding more/less. I think people often confuse preferences (in which case you are correct, men and women have different references) with standards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 09:00 PM
1	If women are hypergamous, doesn't this also necessarily mean that women are hypocrites? can we have actual discussions in here, please?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 08:23 PM
1	If women are hypergamous, doesn't this also necessarily mean that women are hypocrites? In my experience, only toxic/redpill men think like this. to be fair, if you look up '3/10 tinder girl experiment' on youtube, you can see plenty of men are fine with less attractive girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 05:32 PM
1	If women are hypergamous, doesn't this also necessarily mean that women are hypocrites? it's the theory that 80% of women only go after the top 20% of men in terms of looks/money/status	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/09/22 05:47 AM
1	My (Woman's) take as an observer of the red pill "the things they complain about like male suicide etc..., none of that is women's fault but they paint it like feminism is a zero sum game". tbf, blaming feminism =/= blaming women. feminism is a movement / ideology that both men and women can hold.	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/22 04:58 PM
1	A response to a video on hypergamy by a manosphere guy. to be fair, the traditional academic term 'hypergamy' is outdated and in the manosphere it's not defined as the academic definition. in the redpill community, 'hypergamy' is generally accepted to mean 'dating up' in terms of looks/money/status, leading to the '80/20 rule', the notion that 80 of women are chasing the top 20% of men. similarly, words like 'polygamy' are outdated and aren't used to represent their original academic definition. nowadays, 'polygamy' is used to mean people having mult…	/r/ExRedPill	31/08/22 12:24 PM
1	Hypergamy exists - and it will get worse most of the time you can tell if someone is an asshole, they don't even try and hide it. jeremy meeks is a great example of how women go for the 'bad boy'. he had so many girls wanting to be screwed by him despite the fact that he violently assaulted a 16 yr old. I guess you're gonna say he had a good personality? I keep hearing girls complain about their ex's, it seems pretty damn common. I guess all these girls' personality detectors broke or something? always seems like if the guy is a stud, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 09:56 PM
1	Hypergamy exists - and it will get worse I've had female friends in the past. i have female colleagues at work whom I interact with. I am not socially inept. just being able to talk to a woman isn't the same as having women lust after you or want to be your girlfriend. women absolutely do NOT select men based off their personality. that's why you keep hearing about them being abused by their partners who they chose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/22 05:11 PM
1	Hypergamy exists - and it will get worse I hear this argument of 'tinder isn't real life' ad-nauseam. thing is, it's not just tinder; whether you're on reddit, discord, insta, etc. it seems that you have to be the perfect guy to even stand a chance. and it doesn't matter if you're looking for a LTR or casual sex, the standards are so high. if you have never experienced being an average heterosexual guy on the modern dating market, i'm not surprised why this is hard to get to grips with. I once spoke with a bi dude who found it super ea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 08:03 PM
1	Hypergamy exists - and it will get worse I spent like 400 hours training myself up in the gym, but it didn't fix my bad genetics. think about how big the redpill/self-improvement community is. men do self-improve and try very hard to get girlfriends but they can't. many of these men end up just giving up, and then people look at that and say "men aren't trying". also, when do women ever have to 'try' to get laid? never.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 07:36 PM
1	Hypergamy exists - and it will get worse I think redpillers who say 'hypergamy is just female nature' are very misguided. I think it stems from biology, but also has a lot to do with culture. I think a large part of it is how men are only valued for their utility, and it takes an exceptionally good-looking man to be valued for his looks, while women are given intrinsic value, and are valued for their looks even if they aren't very good looking. ultimately it's gynocentrism overvaluing women above men. hypergamy has gotten much worse in…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 06:09 PM
1	Hypergamy exists - and it will get worse I don't think the problem is men being weird on dating apps. I wasn't weird at all on dating apps and it was still impossible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 06:03 PM
2	Hypergamy exists - and it will get worse I once had a conversation with a bisexual dude on discord. he was upset because he could easily find guys to be with, but now he wanted to try it with girls, and was confused as to why it seemed impossible for him. I found that quite telling. the only thing he was doing different was going for girls instead of guys, and all of a sudden he couldn't do it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/08/22 06:02 PM