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Best answer in this thread. You nailed it that all of those behaviors are addictions, not just the drugs. OP, use your addictive personality for your benefit. Get yourself addicted to lifting. Get into rock climbing and hang out with those dudes instead of the partiers. Retrain your dopamine receptors to fire on things that make you stronger. Not women. Not drugs. Not even feedback from random dudes on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 04:37 PM
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Man, when you say it that way, it almost sounds like some kind of instinctive behavior toward species-wide suicide. Maybe we really are seeing a psychological response to population pressure. Like a switch flipped causing people to waste reproductive energy.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 04:31 PM
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Born again, right after the wall.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 04:27 AM
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Only if you can angle it toward security and forensics. Network admin pays OK but caps out lower than some other disciplines. Security and forensics has a much higher ceiling.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/16 03:01 AM
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I have that book and couldn't make heads or tails of the additions. You just explained it to me. Now I'm going to have to reread it with that lens.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 03:44 AM
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In my edition, there's a long editors note before the chapter that explains how his wife had just died and he wasn't really thinking straight. Basically claiming that the whole chapter wasn't really him, just a grief response... almost calling it temporary insanity!
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 09:10 PM
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How would you act if she had no control over your emotions whatsoever?
/r/askMRP24/12/16 12:44 AM
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But is she like that because she sells real estate, or does she sell real estate because she's like that?
/r/RedPillWives15/12/16 04:48 AM
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There are two different parts to this whole thing. The first part is the red pill theory itself. That's the idea that our mating strategies are strongly driven by biology and evolution. The foundation of it is that male and female sexual strategies are all about reproduction. The male trategy is to spread his genes as widely as possible. Female sexual strategy is dominated by the heavy energy and resource cost of pregnancy and child rearing. That means men and women have different genetic goals …
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/16 08:28 AM
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The funny thing is that, carat for carat, rubies are way more rare and valuable than diamonds!
/r/RedPillWives10/12/16 09:13 PM
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Those are important but probably not "enough." I don't know what enough would be for the two of you. But some common issues that come up: are you keeping yourself fit? Attractive? Well groomed and feminine? Echoing an earlier comment, the way to bring value is not to remove your husband's responsibilities but rather to show him how much he is valued as a man, not just as a producer or protector. That is to say, he needs to feel valued in all of those ways.
/r/RedPillWives04/12/16 12:19 AM
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About the business... what is it for? I mean why have your own business rather than being employed? With both of you in one business then your whole family income is at risk. With two jobs you would have diversity. So that risk might be part of his burden. There must be a larger reason to have the business. Is it intrinsically fulfilling? Is it to achieve financial freedom? Or was it a dream of one, but not both, of you to have a business?
/r/RedPillWives04/12/16 12:15 AM
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What worries me is that I don't feel anything like that, not even close. I love him, I love being married to him and he has improved my quality of life dramatically. I wouldn't have my life any other way. That asymmetry says that you are getting more value out of the marriage (i.e., extracting value from him) than he is getting. The answer is definitely not to make him feel bad for feeling bad! Look for ways you can add more value to his life. This sub is a great source of ideas.
/r/RedPillWives03/12/16 11:31 PM
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This may sound weird, but you should consider it a positive that he felt your relationship is strong enough to say those things out loud. Every married man eventually has to cross the same bridge. It's an internal struggle that happens when he realizes that everyone in his life needs something from him but nobody is there just to give something to him. It's like looking around and realizing that all these people depend on him every single day. He feels stuck because his own sense of responsibili…
/r/RedPillWives03/12/16 11:28 PM
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It looks like the value is that she owns everything, up to and including his balls.
/r/askMRP01/12/16 11:11 PM
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FWIW, the enrollment deadline for most US companies really was the 30th, but man that is the least of the issues here. Her house, her daughter, her insurance... what part of your life is yours?
/r/askMRP01/12/16 11:10 PM
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You say he can't blame her if she didn't know. But why is it even a question of blame? He doesn't want a girlfriend who does that, ergo he no longer has a girlfriend who does that. Blame and fairness don't enter into it.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 05:18 PM
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Especially living in Seattle! Not enough sunlight.
/r/askTRP26/11/16 05:19 AM
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Subtly savage.
/r/askMRP26/11/16 04:40 AM
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The real message is "when you are frantic, you are not in control." Rushing someplace to get there spot on the hour? You must not be the man in charge. If you were, they would wait for you. Making a room full of people wait on you is a classic power move. Making your boss and his boss wait on you is dumb. Stressed out asshole in the security line at the airport, about to miss your flight? You are dancing on somebody else's strings. Don't show bad planning and lack of control.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/16 07:00 PM
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I have seen that play out first hand. Cleaning before the cleaning service arrives. Just bonkers, but totally true.
/r/askMRP19/11/16 02:35 PM
1

Are you gaming her? Check out the Sex God Method (see sidebar) and practice DEVI.
/r/askMRP18/11/16 09:26 AM
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Do you hunt on your own land? If not, is it a lease or a friend?
/r/MarriedRedPill17/11/16 02:10 AM
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You should read "The Gervais Principle". Figure out what level of speech you're at. Look at what level your nemesis is at. Now learn powertalk and leapfrog him.
/r/askTRP12/11/16 03:36 AM
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Understated but deep.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/16 09:40 PM
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I'm way newer here than Stoney, so I could be wrong. But I thought the intent behind the word "oneitis" was to remind us that there are 3.5 billion females on earth. The one you've got it for can be replaced. There's no abundance mentality where my kids are concerned.
/r/askMRP27/10/16 02:17 AM
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Could be depression, too. Or some antidepressants suppress sex drive. All SSRIs have that effect, probably some others too. OP: Is your wife attractive? Or has she gotten fatter with each kid?
/r/askMRP25/10/16 01:13 PM
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How bout working hard and smart?
/r/MarriedRedPill25/10/16 12:52 PM
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If shit tests make you wonder why you bother, you might still be dealing with some anger phase stuff. Shit tests only stop when she already knows you're weak. Then it's not a shit test, she's just going to give you shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/16 06:27 PM
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She flipped her shit because a) you broke with her plan and challenged her control of you, and b) she secretly knows her SMV has dropped and is going down. So she gets the idea that you are getting to be better than her. If she doesn't get iron-clad control now you might just be free. Expect escalation. Little things are going to keep blowing up until you actually manage to take the reins.
/r/askMRP21/10/16 05:33 PM
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This sounds trivial but it can help with getting up on the cold mornings. Get a programmable thermostat and start warming up the place 30min before you want to get up.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 03:15 PM
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There's something more going on here. She's bringing up a totally hypothetical baby. Have you been talking about kids? When something comes out of the blue like that, it points to a deeper unresolved issue than you going out with buddies.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/16 03:06 PM
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You're 19 and not married. An LTR should mean that she's earned your commitment. Nothing in your post indicates that she's worth it or that she values your commitment in the least. Your action plan is basically, "I'll stop doing the things that she doesn't like." Bad precedent. The number of things she doesn't like will only go up and up. When does she stop doing the things you don't like? The iron rule: whoever least needs the relationship has the power. Do you need this relationship more than …
/r/askMRP20/10/16 03:29 AM
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Serious question: is she showing signs of post-partum depression? This response sounds like anger stemming from depression and feelings of self-loathing.
/r/askMRP20/10/16 03:23 AM
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Just a clarifying question. I think I understand you but want to be sure. Do you mean that he should not make a decision now because he's not rational while not getting sex? Or do you mean that any decision about her that excludes the sex is not a rational evaluation? I think you mean the second one. But if you mean the first one then how does he get to a rational frame of mind while getting shut down for a month at a time?
/r/MarriedRedPill02/10/16 05:37 PM
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I thought about this some more. Whoever sent you here had one of two purposes: They're having a laugh at your expense by throwing you into a pack of wolves. They're trying to save your marriage and your pride.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/16 07:54 PM
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Take a few minutes away from answering comments to read the links on the sidebar.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/16 04:38 PM
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Why on earth are you posting here? Do you have the first inkling what this sub is about? You have just declared yourself to be that which we use as a grave insult: the willing cuckold. I got nauseous reading your post. If you were expecting validation, you came to the wrong place.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/16 04:36 PM
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Ignorance is bliss. Knowledge is power, but it will not make you happy. What you need is a purpose, brother. You have titanic energy. With what you have learned, you will not change course for Circe. But where do you want to go? Find something worthy of you and set a bearing. You will not regain the happiness of ignorance but you will find satisfaction with what you have wrought.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 01:33 AM
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That settles it. Don't hire anyone under 35. They're all rampant with this shit, males, females, and every other.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 05:19 PM
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Democracy. Universal literacy. The Enlightenment. The end of slave trade. The scientific method. Medicine.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/16 05:16 PM
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The best hobbies and activities are ones you do outside the house. That has two benefits. You decrease your availability (and have more ways to condition your availability on her behavior.) And you are more likely to build a circle of friends that aren't just "couples friends." Writing and app dev don't fit that mold, unless you go do it in a coffee shop or with a partner.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/09/16 02:37 PM
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It'd be manipulative if it was a couple times a year. A couple times a month is really ridiculous.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 02:47 AM
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Spend twenty minutes meditating on the concept that all suffering springs from attachment.
/r/askTRP04/09/16 02:46 AM
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I wasn't addressing the original topic, and I'm not interesting in arguing it one way or the other. I was just talking about the illogical jump to "so you want to ban it."
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 03:38 AM
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Strawman. The parent comment expressed an opinion that porn is detrimental. You put words in his mouth about banning it. It is possible to think something is unhealthy without wanting to make it forbidden.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/16 02:06 AM
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Don't wait. Do it now. Any time during the next month, she could kill one of you. Any time, she could sense her weakening control and frame you. Don't put it past her to cut her leg, arm, or head and blame you.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/09/16 04:29 PM
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You are supposed to be devastated that she broke up with you. It probably gnaws at her like a sore tooth that you can be happy. The snaps are traps. She wants you to think about how awful you feel for losing her.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 07:03 PM
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This is pretty much the textbook definition of shit testing. Keep passing them.
/r/askTRP29/08/16 01:09 PM
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Our culture claims that raising another man's child is the height of nobility.
/r/TheRedPill24/08/16 02:43 PM
1

You need to demonstrate some dominance. Go watch "Wolf" for the suede shoes scene. Then punch that fucker in the face, really hard.
/r/askTRP23/08/16 12:12 PM
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Recognizing the need for change is the first step. The next thing to learn is that virtually nobody says what they mean or means what they say. Especially in the workplace. Your boss used some words like tokens on a gameboard. Moved them around to get exactly the reaction from you that he wanted. Let's look at the results: you are staying there, probably planning to work harder, and you're unlikely to go back with another raise request nor encourage your peers to do the same. That is a total vic…
/r/askTRP23/08/16 12:10 PM
2

Go one step worse... If you're already worried about feeling bad to break up with Ol' Cap, think about what happens if the kids get attached to you. Will you be able to break the heart of a little boy or girl in the service of your own happiness?
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/16 10:23 PM
1

Sluggish or stressed out... for an armored car guard this could mean drugs or being suborned. Likely the company wants to know about that.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 01:55 PM
1

It's his biological imperative at work. If you don't pass on your genes, then his gene die out too. Not only that, but it retroactively makes all the resources he invested in raising you a waste. From the POV of his DNA, he's right. But that doesn't mean he's right for you. You are the ultimate judge of you.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/16 10:57 PM
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Clinically speaking, 44 is the low point. http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/1576872/44-is-the-age-of-depression-say-researchers.html
/r/askTRP20/07/16 05:33 PM
1

For procrastination: try the pomodoro technique.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/07/16 08:37 PM
1

Go camping in a remote place, by yourself, for one week. Take no electronic entertainment at all. Fish and eat what you catch. If the season is right, hunt and eat what you kill. Guarantee you will come back feeling more like a man than a boy.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 02:43 PM
1

In what way does visiting this dick advance your mission in life?
/r/askTRP11/07/16 02:36 PM
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Sell things or own things. Preferably both. Preferably companies. Then you don't talk about salary, you talk about profit.
/r/askTRP06/07/16 02:56 AM
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Don't engage. It does nothing to serve your mission.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 02:36 PM
1

Just take Gilly and Little Sam and leave for the Citadel.
/r/askTRP03/07/16 05:55 AM
3

Words are wind. If you blow like a flag in the wind, you let the wind move you. Your "friend" knows he can shake you with a puff of air. Let his wind slide off the impenetrable mountain instead. You are insecure and vulnerable. He sees this and uses it. You react in ways that benefit him and hurt you. If your confidence were solid, his word would be minuscule nothings to you. Like the rattle of stone against the armored hull of a battleship. You would hear him and feel nothing but faint contempt…
/r/askTRP02/07/16 09:26 PM
3

Read this post on the female social matrix. http://theredpillroom.blogspot.com/2012/05/female-social-matrix-introduction.html This is textbook stuff. They're pulling a dominance move that is straight out of middle school. What should you do? You could play the stern father. Throw the queen bee over your knees and give her a (sexy) spanking for misbehaving. Or just laugh it off and say, "go right ahead." Don't react to it as a serious threat. Don't let them pull you into acting according to the F…
/r/askTRP29/06/16 01:05 PM
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PM me and we can talk. Mentorship is a commitment from both parties. I need to know a lot more about you before I'm willing to sign up for that.
/r/askTRP29/06/16 01:52 AM
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Read more code than you write. Learn why you're writing these apps. Increased revenue? Decreased costs? Learn how to read a balance sheet and a cash flow statement. Never go into business with someone who only brings an idea to the table. Never be "the coder" in a three person business. When you're young, people will take advantage of you. Get a mentor, and ask them whenever some tells you these are "standard" contract terms. Read "Lean Software Development" and "Clean Code." Learn what a cap ta…
/r/askTRP29/06/16 01:41 AM
2

Or, it's an unknown number because one of the girls bought a SIM card at the airport.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/16 03:56 PM
0

I always thought The Incredibles had a lot of Objectivist philosophy in it. Since I started taking the red pill, I do see RP in it as well. I think it's time to go re-read The Fountainhead. Maybe RP is exactly an application of Objectivism to mating strategy. (It would explain why the mass media have been so down on Rand for the last couple of decades.)
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/16 05:53 PM
3

She's plating you.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 04:22 PM
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This is going to hurt. After the pain, you will feel anger for a long time. You have been lied to. I don't just mean the lies your girlfriend told you. I mean the lies the whole damn world has told you. The world has told you that you should be a "sensitive man" to win her love. That when women stray, you should accept them back and forgive them. You are going to have to take a fresh look at this whole situation from an ice-cold perspective. You have to look at this as sexual economics and repro…
/r/askTRP13/06/16 01:34 PM
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