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| 3 | What do you do differently when it comes to ‘MILFs’?Thing is, I’m only 21 and I’m not sure if I should be any different, I.e. ‘act’ or present myself as more mature, even though I live with my parents and have no car. I still have this weird ‘feeling’ when I think about it, and I don’t know how to escalate, on top of that, I don’t want to ‘burn’ myself at the lessons Any advice? | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 01:13 PM |
| 1 | What do you do differently when it comes to ‘MILFs’?That’s not what I said. | /r/seduction | 18/06/22 11:33 AM |
| 4 | Did any of you do the whole “invest in yourself” and become non needy thing? Did it work? What’s your story?Any advice on making it more apparent and being more direct with what you want, especially with women who you may not have met initially with the idea of dating or anything else? That seems to be my biggest problem along with putting myself out there, and it’s really bothering me even after making such huge improvements in the past few month s | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Did any of you do the whole “invest in yourself” and become non needy thing? Did it work? What’s your story?Any advice on doing that? I’m taking great care of my looks and making sure I look above average at the very least. My problem is just based on not putting myself out there along with lack of experience especially with escalating | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 01:46 PM |
| 6 | Did any of you do the whole “invest in yourself” and become non needy thing? Did it work? What’s your story?Any advice on doing that? I’m taking great care of my looks and making sure I look above average at the very least. My problem is just based on not putting myself out there along with lack of experience especially with escalating | /r/seduction | 02/06/22 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Approached a girl at the gym next day she found and added me on instagram, next move?What should you avoid doing to not make her lose interest and actually maintain the advantage? | /r/seduction | 27/04/22 12:19 PM |
| 3 | A constant theme I've noticed among my female friends who use dating appsLol sounds like the guy experience but without sex | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 05:28 PM |
| 3 | When another man is trying to tease/bully a girl you like in front of you, do you let it slide and ignore or confront?I guess I need to work on my forwardness/directness lol. | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 09:27 AM |
| 1 | How to be exciting and how to make girls excited to meet you?I am struggling with flirting and escalating sexually. | /r/seduction | 23/04/22 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to ask a girl whether she’s taken/got a boyfriend if you know her a little?Worst part is she is great to talk to and honestly this kinda has shown me that I’m not socially retarded and actually pretty damn good at conversing, just need some work on flirting escalating etc. Yeah it’s weird, so in a way she is potentially interested a bit/keeping me in the back up plan because if she wasn’t interested she would’ve said boyfriend or something, right? I’m not gonna get my hopes up but I’m definitely gonna try to change. Should I venture less into deeper topics, cut any for… | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 04:04 PM |
| 34 | A lot of your dating problems will be solved if you just knew how to actually flirtNot OC, and although you did put in some good examples, I think what we (aka, people like me who learn best by examples) is to just throw more examples our way so that we dont memorise the lines itself but rather the thought process. Great post :) Edit - or maybe how to notice flirting opportunities, like I do dancing but I don’t know how to use that to my advantage | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 11:47 AM |
| 1 | A recap of college and a thank you.I regret not moving out for my first year at university, rest was screwed over by covid... now I’m playing catch up, making improvements and progress but I definitely have some things left to work on | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Have you met like extremely handsome guys who could walk into any place, literally any place, and girls would be all over them? Not just bars..How do you work on making yourself magnetic like that? | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to ask a girl whether she’s taken/got a boyfriend if you know her a little?Appreciate it bro, I will message later cuz something doesn’t work with more details | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 07:19 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to ask a girl whether she’s taken/got a boyfriend if you know her a little?So in this scenario she’s very engaged in conversations in person but through text she leaves me on delivered quite often even over normal questions, until it’s time to meet up again, which is quite sad aint gonna lie. She hasn’t outright said she’s with somebody, but she’s bringing a plus one who nobody knows to something :/ | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 07:12 AM |
| 1 | If you’re still seeing a girl as a friend for a hobby, should I try weaving something that tells her I know she’s not interested into the conversation?So I should kinda still be a potential shoulder to cry on as that means that the topics are meaningful and she’s somewhat open? How should I respond if she starts talking about some things like that? Keep asking questions or just listening? She probably does know I want to fuck her, I tried inviting her out for something but she didn’t respond to that (yikes), but in her room I did nothing lmao What else should I do to make it unclear what I want? Also, what do you mean by break rapport? We don’… | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 07:10 AM |
| 1 | If you’re still seeing a girl as a friend for a hobby, should I try weaving something that tells her I know she’s not interested into the conversation?What books did you study? I’ve listened to Models and I’ve got dale carnegie’s HTWFAIP, but apart from that I haven’t looked too much into it | /r/seduction | 22/04/22 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Lonely and nothing seems to be workingDoing one already :/ | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Is it a bad idea to ask a girl whether she’s taken/got a boyfriend if you know her a little?How do I know she’s in the ‘state of the moment’? Also with the scenario in my head that wouldn’t be too good if I wanted something serious with her | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | If you’re still seeing a girl as a friend for a hobby, should I try weaving something that tells her I know she’s not interested into the conversation?Having premeditated topics isn’t bad. If it pops into my head and I think it would be a good topic or I’m looking for advice from my friends, then I don’t see how it makes it weird. My intentions aren’t really hidden, and calling this ‘manipulative’ would render most of the advice on this sub as manipulative in itself, because it’s premeditated, and if that’s what you see it as then call it that way. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 12:56 PM |
| 1 | If you’re still seeing a girl as a friend for a hobby, should I try weaving something that tells her I know she’s not interested into the conversation?I’ve made an edit just as soon as you posted - Edit - also, if I’m supposed to treat her like a guy friend, then I would talk about my dating life. Sure it might be ‘manipulative’ to an extent in one way, but if she’s supposed to be a friend then why would I hold that conversation topic back? By ‘where I went wrong’ I mean if I was too slow, that would be minimal but good ‘feedback’, and it would make sense given that I was too slow before. I can see that I probably wasn’t suggestive and not as … | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 12:35 PM |
| 1 | If you’re still seeing a girl as a friend for a hobby, should I try weaving something that tells her I know she’s not interested into the conversation?Initially I think she was interested, I must’ve messed up somewhere along the way and I just want to find out at what point and what I’ve done so I can learn from it Edit - also, if I’m supposed to treat her like a guy friend, then I would talk about my dating life. Sure it might be ‘manipulative’ to an extent in one way, but if she’s supposed to be a friend then why would I hold that conversation topic back? | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | If you’re still seeing a girl as a friend for a hobby, should I try weaving something that tells her I know she’s not interested into the conversation?I see, I’m living too much in fantasy scripted land I guess. So what you’re saying is, I should try to make her somewhat jealous at least on a subconscious level by finding a replacement? I don’t know where to find new women, especially given that I like to meet people naturally, not social media, if that makes sense. If I should try to make her jealous and essentially friend zone her myself, how do I act in person? In person we’re talking about various topics on various levels of depth. Sometim… | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 10:32 AM |
| 1 | If you’re still seeing a girl as a friend for a hobby, should I try weaving something that tells her I know she’s not interested into the conversation?Fuck man, that sucks to hear but it’s gotta be done, I was literally in her room, she took her makeup off, was doing some stretches for her slightly sprained leg, turned on some of those led lights around her ceiling, folding away clothes from her bed and cleaning the bed up (hahaha I’m a fucking idiot for not making a move) but she didn’t get in my vicinity, we only got ‘close’ when I was showing her something on my phone. Fucks sake man. Appreciate the advice, but do you think I should mention… | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 08:52 AM |
| 1 | If you’re still seeing a girl as a friend for a hobby, should I try weaving something that tells her I know she’s not interested into the conversation?That’s the thing, due to my inexperience and how genuinely great her personality is (I won’t get into too many details, but let’s just say she isn’t fucking about and she’s proactive, has hobbies that don’t end of Netflix only, great conversationalist and so on, literally what I’m looking for on top of looks that I find attractive), so it’s safe to say I was kinda hoping for it to be something, but given that I’m almost certain there is a guy she’s probably with (although she hasn’t explicitly s… | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 08:17 AM |
| 1 | U.K. - where to meet more women and people in general to expand your social circles and get lays?Any hobbies you’d recommend? Currently doing dancing and thinking of doing some martial art along with active sport, maybe basketball, but I’m an absolute beginner at it, so I don’t want to join a proper team | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 08:01 AM |
| 1 | General advice on maintaining your goal in dating and PUA: Finding The "Fuck Yes!" GirlLol I’m reading this and literally one girl that I’m kinda talking to is a mix of both sides - super easy and great to talk to in person, but sometimes I’m left on delivered for days and we meet up for a hobby anyways. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Lonely and nothing seems to be workingWhat clubs or societies should I join? I’m not OP but similar position - small social circles and I want to expand. Especially in the U.K. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 07:22 AM |
| 1 | How do I start letting your guard down and show my personality?Not OP but I’m doing dancing myself and I think my last hurdle is ice breaking along with actually making new ‘bros’/close friends because my social circles are small. I have a new post that goes into more detail, any advice is more than welcome. | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 07:16 AM |
| 3 | To those who had “hoes” on social media, did you unfollow all of them when you got into a relationship?My question is where do you find these ‘hoes’? Do you just add random women on insta you find attractive or do you know them/met them? | /r/seduction | 21/04/22 07:03 AM |
| 2 | Amazing conversationalist, bad at seduction.Turning 22 in a month, VERY inexperienced but that’s definitely apparent. Do you think I should’ve made a move even though in my eyes there wasn’t a too good of an opportunity to make a move in her room? I’ll send more info in pm because I don’t want to share out in the open | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 04:26 PM |
| 2 | how come most people get pretty girlfriends without knowing anything about "game" or all the psychological stuff, just being a random joe? Is game for hookups or low-value men only?Any advice on that? I think I improved in general but I think icebreakers and actually meeting new people with them being more than couple strangers who just added each other is the last hurdle for me | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | Amazing conversationalist, bad at seduction.Appreciate the insight! Right now I’m just struggling with a new friend who I go to a hobby with together, mixed signals, was in her room one time but she wasn’t too close and was doing her routine before bed (I.e. make up off, some exercises for her sprained foot, etc), but she’s somewhat flirty, whilst leaving me on delivered few times apart from when we are asking about meeting up for the hobby lol... I think I played it too slow, faster than usual but still too slow, but now I don’t know how… | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 04:16 PM |
| 1 | Where do you make new friends in the U.K. after graduating?Any recommendations? U.K. is a bit of an odd one. I thought about martial arts and maybe rock climbing | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 04:11 PM |
| 23 | Amazing conversationalist, bad at seduction.Can someone else confirm or deny if this is something you should be doing? Imo it sounds like joke advice to an extent with the examples (rest makes sense, but the “your shirt is so soft oh wait that’s your skin” example just seems like the sort of thing that would put you on some special record) | /r/seduction | 20/04/22 04:01 PM |
| 1 | I can easily talk to girls in bars but dont know how to escalateCould you elaborate on how to do this? I think it’s something I struggle with as well as OP | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 07:31 AM |
| 1 | Quick question - if a girl initiates the hug, do you hug with one arm around or both?Appreciate it! So should I put both of my hands on the lower back area as the guy? Doesn’t that seem too ‘romantic’? Also, how strongly should I hold her? | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 04:54 AM |
| 1 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?Currently doing both, I’m getting more comfortable but with one girl I would obviously do sensual moves and then after I don’t know what to do even though the touch barrier is broken. | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 10:13 PM |
| 1 | How to break the touching barrier with a girl without looking like a pervert?One hand hug or two handed? I typically just do one hand | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 10:11 PM |
| 1 | How to be more charismatic and quick witted in conversations?Thing is I sometimes just have a blank mind when I know there is something that could be said :/ | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 08:10 AM |
| 1 | How to be more charismatic and quick witted in conversations?Thing is I sometimes just have a blank mind when I know there is something that could be said :/ | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 08:09 AM |
| 1 | How to be more charismatic and quick witted in conversations?How should I work on my expressiveness and boldness? Primarily expressiveness due to me having a VERY deep voice and it probably makes it harder/me sound more serious | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 06:20 AM |
| 1 | Any advice on surpassing those generic ass first conversations with new people?Both if I’m being honest | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Any advice on surpassing those generic ass first conversations with new people?How do I accomplish that? Any recommended reads on here on in general | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Any advice on surpassing those generic ass first conversations with new people?It’s not light, playful or a topic in which it’s easy to say something funny, it’s better for later | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 08:28 PM |
| 2 | Turn-ons for menBe attractive and don’t be unattractive, but I’ll be more specific; Have interests, make sure you’re passionate about something yourself Be able to hold conversations and if the guy is struggling at the start, lead for that tiny moment Make it a little more obvious for us that you like us Be feminine When it comes to approaching, probably just give some form of more obvious hint, instead of just looking at us or dancing near us without interacting, thinking that’s enough for all, for me that wou… | /r/seduction | 25/10/21 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Quick question about my response in this scenarioWaiting for the cue to laugh | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who hate small talk and banal conversation… how do you date?We don’t | /r/seduction | 26/07/21 05:56 PM |
| 1 | What would be a smarter thing to say?Appreciate it. So would you say my phrases are ok? I live in a small town with nothing to do, so Idk where I could invite her, especially with a busy schedule for next 2 weeks | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 06:24 PM |
| 1 | What would be a smarter thing to say?I see, think she used to be into me but we lost contact. Which line would you say is better? I don’t want to get metoo’d because she has certain people in her friends list that are very overtly feminist and toxic | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 05:17 PM |
| 1 | What would be a smarter thing to say?Nah not afraid she’ll be taken, just another girl, but it’s an opportunity that will be a bit weird to mention after some time has passed, right now it’s recent, relevant, if that makes sense. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 04:01 PM |
| 1 | What would be a smarter thing to say?What if I don’t really have time to meet up rn but could send a dm then pop up in two weeks? Could ask whether she could show me how to do x as well. Thoughts? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 03:56 PM |
| 0 | What would be a smarter thing to say?Not commenting, dming. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 03:55 PM |
| 1 | To the Polish people in this sub - Are there any websites/people you recommend checking out to learn flirting/teasing in Polish?Did you notice that in the U.K. or in Poland as well? I noticed that the U.K. culture might be the thing that is causing that - their heads get riddled with bullshit and they think they’re the shit when they ain’t shit similarly to majority of british girls | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 03:23 PM |
| 1 | To the Polish people in this sub - Are there any websites/people you recommend checking out to learn flirting/teasing in Polish?Yeah I get what you mean, the number one problem I have is word play in Polish, I can do it in English (ie. double meanings), but in Polish I find it much more difficult, including flirting, even though it’s my first language. What do you mean “ours is fucked”? As in the girls or our situation? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 01:20 PM |
| 1 | To the Polish people in this sub - Are there any websites/people you recommend checking out to learn flirting/teasing in Polish?Thanks! The Polish stand up/flirty scene on YouTube seems non existent to me, what do you think? | /r/askTRP | 02/05/21 12:32 PM |
| 2 | Is it possible to make us live in a girls head rent-free?I see, is it possible to live in a girls head rent free before you actually hook up/fuck? I am practicing with a girl at work(don’t worry, it’s not a permanent job, just something to not drain my balance whilst finishing my studies), and I don’t expect anything or count on anything as it’s just practice, but would be good to make myself aware that I can do this in the real world, if you get what I mean. I know it also sounds amateurish, and that would be on point, but small steps are still impro… | /r/askTRP | 30/04/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | Any advice on being more playful?Basically I find myself coming off as a little too serious because of my appearance and voice, and I struggle to be the one that starts conversations when meeting someone new or being somewhat playful to mitigate that seriousness. Hopefully that adds a little bit | /r/askTRP | 02/04/21 04:53 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else feel like their life is a little boringNot helpful. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel like their life is a little boringhttps://www.gov.uk/guidance/national-lockdown-stay-at-home | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 05:07 AM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel like their life is a little boringTeach me how to be so cool | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 05:02 AM |
| 0 | Anyone else feel like their life is a little boringIf you aren’t aware of how shit U.K. is when looking at those aspects then you need to do some more research before commenting. | /r/askTRP | 04/02/21 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Why exactly do women go through a slut phase?I never said they can only fuck one guy, but some form of control would be smart on their behalf | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 11:29 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel like their life is a little boringElaborate? | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 10:15 PM |
| -5 | Anyone else feel like their life is a little boringI call it being a realist. If the place where you live doesn’t even have a fucking bowling alley within 5 miles of the location, how is it not shit? Also, I’m explaining that my friend hasn’t managed to do anything during covid, but before it, so I can’t do anything towards that now. | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 10:06 PM |
| 0 | Anyone else feel like their life is a little boringI’m hoping to find something like that, U.K. is terrible in those regards though. I have no intentions on getting peer pressured into drugs or anything of that sort anyways so I’m safe in that region My hobbies aren’t necessary cool as in a show off way (so far it’s instrument(s) and cooking at a low level), apart from The obvious working iht, what else should I try? Edit- Was planning on doing dancing and some Sport but everything went to shit | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else feel like their life is a little boringUnfortunately the clubbing and dating situation in my area/U.K. in general is a disaster and I don’t have the means to move out any time soon. About plates/ getting a gf, how should I get over the mental hurdle of approaching? | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else feel like their life is a little boringThe things my friend was doing were pre-covid. I don’t enjoy a lot of alcohol so there’s that as well which puts me off clubbing along with the low quality of the clubs, or so I heard. I tend to do something productive instead of wasting time or relaxing, such as quick workout before bed and then watch something before sleep or play a game or two, I use it as a form of chilling out after doing my shit for the day Oh and my town is fucking shit | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Why exactly do women go through a slut phase?(Anthropology) Men are supposed to be fucking many women, women are supposed to have a good functioning filter for those men that approach them - getting fucked by every random guy shows that their filter is malfunctioning. A key that can open multiple locks is a master key, a lock that’s open by many keys is a shitty lock. How exactly do I take advantage of this? I suck ass at approaching and breaking ice, probably linked to having a filter on my humour with new people | /r/askTRP | 03/02/21 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Why exactly do women go through a slut phase?Got it, appreciate the advice :D, what exactly do you mean by “just to have fun”, like what should I be thinking and looking for? I know you said it cannot be scripted, but I’m just looking for a form of ‘goal’ to look forward to achieving, and how could I reform my personality so it becomes natural to me. | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Why exactly do women go through a slut phase?Yeah you’re right. Currently living in U.K. so hooking up or practicing in general is next to impossible for me, and I’m restricted to my not so good local area as I don’t own a car, and on top of that, terrible at approaches plus escalation. I’m good at deep logical topics, but anything that outgoing people do and just talking about anything is somewhat difficult for me. My plan once this shitstorm is over is to club a lot more, but not lower my standards (which are pretty high for what the ave… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Why exactly do women go through a slut phase?Makes sense. I thought that making your intentions clear was crucial, might be confusing it with a different scenario or the plate talking about ltrs, but then again I remember reading about not outright denying a potential ltr if she is HQ. Appreciate it, whilst I’m here, how can I practice my ability to be better at being less uptight at approaches? I tend to gravitate towards logical and deep topics, and whilst I’m good at them, I suck at the opposite - light hearted bantering, joking about a… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Why exactly do women go through a slut phase?Oh I thought that we should make intentions clear from the get go, might’ve confused it with something else (or maybe with ltr/plates, but then again some plates might start getting a little too close and if you want to keep them you don’t deny potential ltr but you definitely don’t move towards that, unless you want, right?) | /r/askTRP | 30/01/21 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Any advice when it comes to moving to a different country?You would think chocolate would change it for the better :/, at least Netherlands is somewhat close to you :D | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 01:32 PM |
| 2 | Any advice when it comes to moving to a different country?That’s the dream, or have a business/job and be on delegation in x country, would be the dream for me if I could do that and be in Poland - With a UK salary very comfortable life, chicks are fit and actually take care of themselves, people are friendly, plus I’ll be back home. Now the question is how the fuck do I get rich lol, even with my degree and experience I doubt it’ll be possible, at least without insane dedication. | /r/askTRP | 29/01/21 09:25 AM |
| 1 | How do I finally quit being a bitch and get a girlfriend?. | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 02:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I finally quit being a bitch and get a girlfriend?. | /r/seduction | 22/07/20 01:52 PM |
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