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Wasn't there the asian guy who went on a rampage and shot a bunch of sorority girls in California?
/r/seduction15/04/24 07:36 PM
2

It's a weird way to look at it. I go to clubs for the sole purpose of having fun. If I find an incredibly cute guy who will take me home, that's part of the fun.
/r/seduction15/04/24 06:18 PM
3

Literotica!
/r/seduction11/04/24 05:49 PM
0

If you need to ask, she either doesn't like you or is way too inexperienced to be dating anyone more experienced than she is.
/r/seduction11/04/24 04:25 PM
2

Being dripping wet is our equivalent of having an erection. I worked as an escort for a while after college and I had to work with a guy that I really really did not like. I was acting like I liked him but even so I couldn't get into it. Even so after he held me down and began groping me, I still became incredibly wet.
/r/seduction10/04/24 09:12 PM
3

I had a lot of sex like this when I was younger. I didn't realize I wasn't really attracted to white men until later but I would be with a white guy and just realize I'm having a bad time but I also didn't want to show it or be mean to him. Move on, plenty of great girls out there. Date someone who looks at you like you look at her.
/r/seduction10/04/24 09:03 PM
5

I think guys, especially younger guys, don't understand how much attention we receive, especially if we're attractive. We are just as horny as you guys, the difference is that we have fwbs on rotation.
/r/seduction10/04/24 07:55 PM
8

Get in shape. I literally am better off financially than most guys I date will ever be. I really don't care how accomplished you are, just how good looking you are.
/r/seduction06/10/23 10:19 PM
5

I mean that's a little different. I think that's just confidence that comes from experience. What I'm talking about is being focused on things besides women, which will imitate what it's like if you were dating three different women at the same time.
/r/seduction01/08/22 07:52 PM
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Yeah I want to point out that we are just people too. Honestly it's a little overwhelming to be put up on a pedestal by guys who have absolutely no idea who I am. If a lot of the guys obsessed with me knew how many partners I've had over the years, they'd probably reject me on that alone. If they knew all the problems that I know I have, they'd freak out. Really no point losing yourself over one girl you barely know.
/r/seduction01/08/22 06:59 PM
12

To be completely honest with you, you really sorta can't unless you actually have abundance. BUT I have dated and I know a lot of very confident men who have developed a similar mindset by simply having a lot of interests besides women. I don't know what to label it or what goes through their heads but certainly they are not constantly scurrying behind my feet like friend zoned dudes or faux gay guys who are just happy to be around me. My advice is that if there's no abundance of women, I'm sorr…
/r/seduction01/08/22 06:26 PM
1

I've had to do that - what I said was we weren't sexually compatible.
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:36 PM
0

How is it not true? If I pick you over the other three guys I'm dating, even if there's nothing wrong with the other guys, it didn't work out with those other guys because they aren't as good a fit that you are for me.
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:36 PM
1

I frequently act this way and honestly it's because of the huge disconnect between how men live their lives and how I live my life. Guys think I'm not replying to their text messages... It's because they are one of twenty guys who are messaging me at any given time trying to get in my pants at any time, and I'm really only interested in a handful of them. Imagine being a celebrity, and all these people are competing for your attention. That's sort of how it feels.
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:15 PM
1

This.
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:13 PM
2

I lurk here because I try to help guys who are truly struggling but sometimes I see something like this posted and I'm like, ... Yeah, if you make someone feel like shit they're not going to sleep with you.
/r/seduction27/07/22 02:12 PM
2

Honestly, it's rough. I get it. I hate rejecting guys but I also can't just pretend to like someone I don't.
/r/seduction25/07/22 09:58 PM
3

I read posts about shit tests as a woman and I feel like most guys are just misinterpreting ball busting for some kind of intentional act designed to bring you guys down.
/r/seduction25/07/22 09:04 PM
2

I didn't really know him so, literally, nothing.
/r/seduction25/07/22 08:36 PM
2

I think you're overthinking it. She likes you or she doesn't. If she likes you, that's step one. Step two is you ask her out.
/r/seduction25/07/22 08:03 PM
3

I ride motorcycles, and my version of this story is the guy I met in college who tried to get into motorcycles in order to get my interest, because somehow, this was easier than just straight up asking. He ended up crashing and getting injured, and I only found out about all this through a mutual friend a month later.
/r/seduction25/07/22 08:00 PM
3

I dated a guy a while back whom I wouldn't have swiped on if I met him online. He approached me at a bar and we immediately clicked but he was not "my type" because even though he was very confident, he didn't really look the part. Agree 100% with this.
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:50 PM
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You don't need to explain or tell her what happened, just tell her it isn't working out, you had a good time, and that you want to end things. Don't just drop out of their lives.
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:42 PM
1

Yeah bumble continues to show my account and I feel terrible for the guys who waste like a premium swipe on me. I've tried to get them to delete it but it hasn't worked, obviously.
/r/seduction25/07/22 07:40 PM
1

Haha ok, I was an escort for many years so maybe I'm wired different.
/r/seduction25/07/22 06:50 PM
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When I ask guys this I'm looking to escalate. Honestly, I'm not looking for reassurance that you're not going to murder me if I'm already in your home. A little late for that. I feel like guys who ask questions like this were raised in super prudish households who think that women don't get horny. I'm horny all the time. All my girl friends and I ever talk about... is cute outfits, the bachelor, and the guys we're sleeping with. And that's because we're horny. On top of that, most girls, to some…
/r/seduction08/07/22 06:46 PM
5

This is a better question for r sex, but I'm a skinny bitch and no one has ever complained about taste down there.
/r/seduction23/02/22 10:17 PM
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Happens to us all! I get rejected all the time as a girl (I like black dudes and sometimes they're not into white girls). It doesn't hurt to walk/run away.
/r/seduction23/02/22 09:07 PM
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Sometimes I read the posts in this sub and I feel like you guys are from a different planet. Unless we're having a girl's night out or at some kind of function, I'm at a club for the same reason you're at a club. Unless I have sex, I masturbate every night. Shocker?
/r/seduction17/02/22 06:14 AM
2

Ha that's the first time I've heard anyone refer to me as innocent but I'll take it lol
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:46 PM
1

These are not what we look for in terms of high value lmao. I haven't seen his photos but if he just works out I'm sure he'd do better than staging photos. Edit: nvm I just saw he's 18
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:44 PM
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Because we are the pursued party in dating, at any given time we are inundated with attention. I expect people to give me positive attention, because I am conventionally speaking, attractive, so when a guy doesn't seem interested in me, it makes him stand out. It makes me wonder why this person isn't just groveling at my feet like most guys. And more often than not, it makes them seem interesting to me.
/r/seduction14/02/22 11:42 PM
2

You know how when a girl has been hot and cold, and you've probably gotten advice from people about her and they tell you, she just likes the attention? That's you right now except roles are reversed. This is how I've felt about a lot of guys, and it's not a kind of malicious using the guy for attention, it's more like, I crave the attention and the idea of being liked, so I accidentally end up leading this guy on, but when I actually get them interested in me, the magic sort of fades.
/r/seduction14/02/22 10:20 PM
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Girl here: she rejected you but she's aware you want to get in her pants. You don't need to constantly ask her about it. If she's interested she'll tell you.
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:55 PM
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What are you talking about lmao?
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:45 PM
4

I'm really confused by this situation. I've never ever gone to a bar with another guy when I was single. Was this like a friend zoned hanger on? Or did you like interrupt some kind of work gathering?
/r/seduction14/02/22 09:05 PM
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THANK YOU. When guys check me out, they don't see the self control that stops me from eating a cookie or the 3-4 hours I spend working out every day, between the gym and running and other physical activities. And honestly, if men didn't spend 50% of their free time on video games and stopped eating whatever they want without thinking of the consequences, you guys would be able to do it too. I can't tell you the number of men who had nice personalities and nice jobs that I couldn't bring myself t…
/r/seduction14/02/22 02:09 AM
2

She sounds mentally ill tbh.
/r/seduction14/02/22 01:49 AM
1

hahaha
/r/seduction14/02/22 01:48 AM
12

When I really want a guy to take me I like to slip a foot out of heel and step on his feet. I do that because I feel it's a little less obvious than putting my hand in his lap, which I have always felt was a little too aggressive. Like, stuff that a milf or cougar would do. It has never failed to convey my intent. So I just can't imagine... Poor woman.
/r/seduction13/02/22 11:07 PM
1

To be attractive, a guy needs to have a lot of muscle mass and a low body fat percentage. Those things are ridiculously hard if not impossible to improve at the same time. Unless you’re very fat, you can gain muscle or lose fat, you can’t do both at once. All women need to focus on is lowering their body fat %. Most guys really don’t care about muscle mass, although it can be a nice perk for some. No, you don't. I would never date a meathead looking guy, and lots of girls don't find that look at…
/r/seduction27/01/22 06:39 AM
1

Nope. She might be keeping an eye on you to make sure you don't act out of line with another girl. She might be suspicious of you.
/r/seduction21/01/22 11:51 PM
1

lol. Women generally make the first move. But we never ask, we just give men an opening to ask. Me telling a guy to spot me doesn't mean anything romantic. If he turns out to be a psycho I never have to speak to him again and I can deny I ever had any interest in him whatsoever. I just needed a hand and he was there. But if he's a nice guy and he picks up on the fact that I'm interested, then he can "make the first move."
/r/seduction21/01/22 06:15 PM
1

His endowment.
/r/seduction21/01/22 06:13 PM
1

The only time you should approach us in a gym is when we give you an opening. For example if I'm into a guy, I ask them for help or I ask them to spot me.
/r/seduction21/01/22 05:05 PM
1

I don't find Harry Styles attractive. My dreamboat is Antonio Brown, don't care how crazy he is, I'd let him knock me up.
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:29 AM
2

I picked up on that. Sad part is that honestly all most guys need is to hit the gym once in a while. You guys have it so much easier than we do, you build muscle and lose fat instantaneously compared to us.
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:20 AM
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Sure, but I thought we were talking about meeting people at bars. I have to be honest, I'm really very bothered by this framework of seduction that just totally doesn't account for what we want. It's like, by peddling this notion that if guys have "game" or a nice personality all of a sudden, women just have zero agency or little to no say in their ability to resist your advances, even if you're unattractive. But who said the guy was unattractive to begin with? You're taking how I feel out of th…
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:12 AM
7

Or, maybe because you're a guy, and you're totally straight, you're underestimating how attractive a particular guy is to a particular girl.
/r/seduction21/01/22 02:00 AM
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Surprisingly women are different than men. Men value physical attraction because that’s how our brains work. Women value personality and other qualities. And this includes very attractive women. That's what you said. That's not the same as what you're saying now. But I’m also sure you never found at least ONE of your past boyfriends / husbands / FWBs attractive initially but as you got to know him you suddenly found him to be the hottest thing ever. I have never slept with a man who I didn't fin…
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:55 AM
2

1) That's literally what I said and not what you said. 2) So do men when they're desperate. It doesn't mean we're attracted to the people we're sleeping with, it just means we're after something else. But for women, it's happening less and less. I make as much money or more money than most of the guys I date. Safety, security, money, all these considerations that I might've put before an attractive partner, have gone out the window.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:46 AM
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No we are not. We really really are not. Please stop spreading this rumor. We value physical attraction just as much as men do, the only difference is that because sex can be so consequential to us (pregnancy) we need to worry about personality too. Whereas guys will sleep with any girl regardless of her personality so long as they're attracted to them.
/r/seduction21/01/22 01:35 AM
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Context matters. The way she brought it up is not the stuff we warn against. In fact I'd say her bring that up is a good sign for your relationship. I'll give you an example: a while back I was sleeping with this guy who had a problem where he felt compelled to brag about his sexual prowess. Being a sucker I took the bait, and it was pretty awful. When he started bringing it up again while I was trying to fall asleep, I started comparing my ex to my forearm. Point being, when we do it that way, …
/r/seduction20/01/22 11:35 PM
1

It's more like we mutually acknowledge that we both find each other extremely attractive and we want to have sex, but we would be incompatible as a couple. We definitely form emotions... It's more like acknowledging that we both agree not to pursue a relationship and the other side isn't responsible if one side gets hurt.
/r/seduction20/01/22 10:49 PM
2

Friend with benefits. We are friends but we have sex without taking the relationship past the physical point.
/r/seduction13/01/22 05:00 PM
1

No, absolutely not. I've seen partners cry because their parents died, when a pet died, when his brother and cousin were murdered in a drive by shooting. I never felt less attracted to them. The only time when my vagina shriveled up and died was when a preppy, silver spoon in hand ex bf cried when his dad took away his Xbox.
/r/seduction12/01/22 08:17 PM
2

Not to mention that you can meet girls this way too... I met my current fwb doing bjj!
/r/seduction12/01/22 08:06 PM
1

Gotta keep in mind that we're constantly being pursued by dozens of men. Imagine you're a hot item computer guy and dozens of tech firms want you. Google says they'll give you X, Apple says X+5 weeks paid vacation, and then Microsoft comes back with X+6 weeks. They're all great. But, tell me what's going through your head, honestly. That's how I feel all the time, even when I'm in a relationship. It's an incessant, constant barrage. If anyone has ever had a girl's friend tell you, give her time,…
/r/seduction29/12/21 10:43 PM
3

Perceived confidence is everything!
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:38 PM
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Guys. Seriously? Who comes up with this stuff and who gives you these ideas??? I'm all for getting people to approach women with confidence, but sometimes it's like an echo chamber. 1??? Like I can't be the only woman who thinks this is just going to end in disaster right?
/r/seduction22/12/21 02:29 AM
1

What's your fetish?
/r/seduction20/12/21 09:25 PM
1

Sorry but this is like, recommending alcoholics should date alcoholics. If anyone has gone through the steps, they know this is a terrible idea.
/r/seduction20/12/21 09:24 PM
3

Cafes, bars, and clubs, generally. But you should also pay attention to context. If I'm chatting away with a bunch of girls it's probs a girls night out and you're not going to get anywhere, and you'll feel like you got rejected but it's actually like getting turned away when you try to go into the girls bathroom. If I'm in ugly sweats with headphones on trying to read something looking cranky, I don't want to be approached and talked to. I don't want to be hit on in the elevator while my boss i…
/r/seduction15/12/21 07:27 AM
5

Sounds like an excuse.
/r/seduction14/12/21 11:50 PM
11

Like I said, you seem bitter. Your reply to me is equally bitter, that guys that seem to suck are the ones that end up with girls. Believe it or not, you probably come across to others as bitter too. It has nothing to do with mind reading. You asked the internet for feedback, this is my feedback.
/r/seduction14/12/21 11:28 PM
3

Yeah. Assuming everything you're saying is true, you're complaining about being left out, but you're purposely leaving yourself out. I don't actually believe what you're saying, that all we want are fuckboys, is true. I think it's a much more complex problem that stems from the fact that women have much more agency than ever before and that has turned the dating game on its head. We can sleep around and not get stoned to death for being slutty, we can make as much or more money than guys, and we…
/r/seduction14/12/21 11:25 PM
1

If everyone is doing something that you aren't, maybe you need to keep up with the times?
/r/seduction14/12/21 10:28 PM
14

As a woman I think you need to look in the mirror a bit more. Tbh everything you typed here gives me this sense that you are kinda bitter, and that gives off a bad vibe.
/r/seduction14/12/21 10:26 PM
66

It's really simple: see if she's willing to do things for you.
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:22 PM
7

Isn't a guy using me as arm candy doing the same thing? "Look how great I am, I got a hot girl to date me?"
/r/seduction24/11/21 04:16 PM
12

I feel like pick up guides make it harder for men to do that. I've been hit on by a few guys who clearly spent hours memorizing a script in front of a mirror and it was the most unattractive thing in the world.
/r/seduction22/11/21 07:29 PM
1

Woman here: Nothing wrong with asking, but this is not likely to work because she recently broke up with him.
/r/seduction07/11/21 12:29 AM
1

I wouldn't compare your whole career with some other guys top 10 best hits list. We have a tendency to do that. I'm hot af on a good day but I have days where I'm bloated and just feel fat and down. I've been rejected by more guys than I can count - you'd be surprised by how many black guys are simply not down to date a white girl.
/r/seduction23/08/21 10:38 PM
4

Then my advice is don't get depressed. You're kinda young and it's possible that you're getting rejected because of that as well. Keep doing what you're doing, work on yourself, learn from other guys but don't compare yourself with them, be true to who you are (if you like white girls, cool, don't let other people make you feel bad), and don't fall into a pit where you start giving up on yourself. I see a lot of guys fall into a negative feedback spiral and end up spending their lives playing vi…
/r/seduction18/08/21 09:01 PM
2

Right, until you dox him.
/r/seduction18/08/21 08:56 PM
3

Or he's just embarrassed to admit he has a hard time with women or that he has a preference for non black women and doesn't want to get doxxed? I've had sex with a guy behind a bush in central park, so no shame there but I'm not putting my real social media or info out on reddit...
/r/seduction18/08/21 08:40 PM
6

I'm a caucasian woman who only dates black and asian guys, so we are definitely out there. This is going to be a touchy subject, but how tall are the women you are approaching? For example, I would unfortunately not date you because I am taller than you in heels. A girl friend of mine recently had a similar problem and I had to break it to her that she was simply... too fat for the guys she was approaching, and should consider lowering her standards a bit. For you this isn't as much of a comprom…
/r/seduction18/08/21 08:34 PM
4

Please don't. Don't s*** where you eat. Edit: if she's really interested, she'll wait until the business is over and then you guys can bump uglies.
/r/seduction18/08/21 08:17 PM
7

From my experience (and guys jump in and correct me if I'm wrong), but never has a guy who says he doesn't want to ruin the friendship actually mean that unless you guys have been friends since kindergarten. It's always been a gentle way to let the girl down. I don't think he's interested, unfortunately. Your time and energy are better spent elsewhere...
/r/seduction18/08/21 08:16 PM
1

I'm a girl, so take this with a grain of salt. Have you ever noticed that you have more success/are funnier/are more confident/are more normal around women you don't like? And then, it turns out that one of those girls is secretly super attracted to you? I think what a lot of these "gurus" and "teachers" are peddling are just ways for you to be the guy who doesn't fumble the moment he sees a girl he's attracted to because of nerves. In other words, to be you. Another general anecdote. Miraculous…
/r/seduction22/07/21 02:20 AM
4

This is good advice. By the way, this is what single girls do. We go out to bars/clubs. And the goal is to have fun, but in the back of everyone's minds is: oh maybe I'll meet someone who I'd be into while I'm out. If you're a functional, healthy guy and you're not putting yourself out there, you have nobody to blame but yourself.
/r/seduction09/06/21 05:28 PM
1

This. I'd say it's similar to approaching us when we're at the gym. If I'm smiling at you and checking you out when you're working out, approach me. If I'm running on the treadmill, please don't. I've had guys attempt to talk to me and get my number while I'm on the leg press in the middle of a set. It's really rude and even if I may have been into you, I'm not anymore. But question: I see a lot of guys ask this question or questions like this and I feel that in reality, they don't see women giv…
/r/seduction02/06/21 05:24 AM
4

Great job! Always remember that only an extreeeemly small percentage of women are going to be the type who snap at you if you approach them politely and open with a normal conversation. At worst she'll show you she's not interested via body language. I'm flattered when cute guys talk to me!
/r/seduction28/05/21 04:26 PM
2

I agree! And ultimately, I think that men who gravitate towards those gimmicks are either too lazy to improve themselves and want an "easy" fix or feel very self-conscious about themselves and believe they need to compensate for some perceived self-deficiency. As a girl, I think the best advice I can give to guys is that we aren't that different from you. What works for a girl you are attracted to, is going to work for you when you want to attract a girl. How do I go about attracting guys? Self-…
/r/seduction18/02/21 05:17 AM
2

Funny story: I watch a lot of porn. So back in the earlier 2010s (before adblock became really prevalent), I was well aware of these ads that would appear in front of porn videos where they would advertise some secret words that would make women attracted to you, set to action movie trailer music. Out of curiosity, I clicked on one of those ads, and basically was taken to this page where someone who sounded a lot like Seth Green told me that the first step to the key to seduction was to ask a gi…
/r/seduction18/02/21 01:01 AM
1

Sure, you do you. But you would be shocked by how many people interrupt me when I'm running on a treadmill/elliptical to tell me how good I look when I run. Or by how many guys will interrupt a conversation I'm having with someone else just so they can make a move. The unfortunate fact of the matter is that 50% of the guys I encounter are just plain rude because of how they try to initiate the interaction, and they get shut down when they might otherwise not get shut down if they simply, you kno…
/r/seduction18/02/21 12:20 AM
2

You're missing the point. You're just going to have a better reaction when you don't rudely interrupt someone so you can do your thing when they're doing their thing.
/r/seduction11/02/21 03:10 PM
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From a girl's perspective: as long as you take no for an answer and respectfully move on, only the shallowest, most self-loathing women will put you down for "daring" to ask them out on a date. With that said, a lot of women get a lot of unwanted attention. You have to have some situational awareness and emotional intelligence to judge whether or not to approach. If I have my airpods in, don't. If I'm talking to my girlfriend or I'm working out, please don't. If I'm in the zone in the morning...…
/r/seduction08/02/21 09:46 PM
2

Yeah this is so creepy.
/r/seduction30/09/20 08:51 PM
1

If your techniques give you enough confidence to just put yourself out there, it's better than nothing. :)
/r/seduction30/09/20 08:02 PM
9

I think that guys who look up seduction skills end up being really weird, and when they finally hook up with a girl they attribute it to the seduction working when in reality the girl was just thirsty AF (I've been that girl). But the one too here that I do like is the part about being direct. And I think this has to do with what I just mentioned: if you're reading this, you're thirsty. Your goal is to get laid. It's really counterproductive to achieving that goal if your strategy is to act as i…
/r/seduction30/09/20 07:56 PM
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I didn't watch the video but can confirm that this is basically just a fancy way of saying that desperation is not attractive to women. Can confirm that I personally view it as a red flag.
/r/seduction28/03/20 06:25 PM
1

Yeah don't do this. You're putting them on the spot.
/r/seduction13/01/20 06:55 PM
1

That's very different and I think a completely different question. Do you communicate with the girls before you start doing things? There are things I don't like but guys assume I like, and if it gets to a point where I'm showing that I'm uncomfortable and the guy doesn't stop, it's a pretty big turnoff.
/r/seduction13/01/20 05:41 PM
6

I am "that kind of girl," but when I do this it's almost always because: Scenario 1 1) I was about to leave anyway. 2) I'm not really that into you, but I'm really horny. 3) But we started dancing/talking/making out anyway because it was fun and no one else was confident enough to approach me. 4a) I want to let you down easy instead of blowing you off in public in front of everyone, or 4b) The closer we get to having sex the more I visualize it and the more I realize I kinda just want to be with…
/r/seduction10/01/20 11:07 PM
2

Agreed! It's possible to approach someone without being too clingy or pushy.
/r/seduction10/01/20 12:17 AM
1

Haha okay
/r/seduction09/01/20 11:01 PM
1

No probs. We are very different in a lot of ways but generally the golden rule holds true. If you wouldn't like it, we probably don't like it either.
/r/seduction09/01/20 10:53 PM
2

And the added insight about how we're just creeped out by clingy people just like you are. :)
/r/seduction09/01/20 09:15 PM
9

It's really simpler than that. Have you as a guy ever felt repulsed by a woman who throws herself at you? Overly attached girlfriend? That's how we feel when you chase us. There's no challenge and it's boring and not fun.
/r/seduction09/01/20 09:07 PM
2

Fortunately I was never hurt badly this way. It was almost always more of an annoyance when you realize that they are just being fucking weird.
/r/seduction27/12/19 02:04 AM
2

Personality is the tipping point for me if I'm not 100% on board with the way a guy looks or if there are other red flags (no job, living with parents). Unfortunately when I was younger I often mistook pick up routines for personality, so for me it has to take place over a longer period of time now.
/r/seduction26/12/19 04:12 PM
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This isn't my first comment here but I definitely didn't happen here on my own. Maybe my boyfriend was looking at this sub? I've seen other women post before too, however. I think it's interesting to see how far men go to attempt to attract women and how I only thought we (women) put in so much effort. Obviously it doesn't apply to all men. I also think that a lot of people here are deeply misguided.
/r/seduction23/12/19 10:52 PM
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Arrogance, being cruel/dismissive to others, being mean to waiters, lying about what you like to make it seem like we have more in common, being overweight without having a good reason for being overweight (intense job for example), being mean to animals, not being polite to my friends, hitting on my friends, not being straightforward about your intentions, talking about how great you are in bed, and being hesitant about sex. In general I think guys are bad about showing vs telling when it comes…
/r/seduction23/12/19 07:52 PM
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It popped up in my suggestions lol. Am I in the secret boys only area of Reddit?
/r/seduction23/12/19 06:07 PM
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Am a girl. I think it's only a chess game when you aren't sure about someone. Then there are lots of things about a guy that can turn me off and little things like being confident/flirting play a big part in making things more interesting.
/r/seduction20/12/19 02:49 AM
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Haha
/r/seduction19/12/19 09:01 PM
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I half expected you to be talking about a broken rib lol
/r/seduction15/12/19 10:34 PM
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Because a guy I dated liked this, I read the title literally and my brain went somewhere completely different. Just thought I'd put this here so the internet realizes how effed up I am.
/r/seduction15/12/19 10:22 PM
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I'm extremely picky on tinder. Partly because if I'm going to naked and vulnerable with someone I barely know, he better be hot af.
/r/seduction13/12/19 06:59 PM
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Guy I really liked ended up using me for sex and bragged to all his friends about how I was nothing but a slampiece to him. When I confronted him, hoping he'd say it was all a lie to sound cool, he just shrugged. I felt so destroyed and I cried for days. For months he'd hit me up for a booty call and I'd rush over hoping he'd turned around. It took meeting another guy to shake me out of the delusion that my ex liked me at all.
/r/seduction13/12/19 04:15 AM
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I don't think you're wrong. When I want to be alone I have normal gym clothes. When I want to get a guy's attention I have an outfit that's basically a bikini and these skin tight yoga pants that are kinda see through. I met my current bf at the gym, and I got his attention by wearing outfits like these whenever he was working out. If I knew he was going to be there I'd wear the sexy outfit. Before he noticed me, however, random guys would approach me, ask me for my number, ask if I was DTF, che…
/r/seduction13/12/19 03:54 AM
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