OOGAnunoby Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
8	Changing tone (escalating) with two female friends		OOGAnunoby	/r/seduction	09/07/18 11:55 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
4	F looking for advice for M because he likes to have sex. he's been clear about his intentions and if you still want to hook up with him, he sees that as a win.	/r/seduction	10/07/18 12:18 AM
3	F looking for advice for M He senses that you're infatuated with him and this may be acting as a slight turn off. People like what they can't have, generally. I'd suggest scaling back your efforts a bit. If you truly believe you can have casual sex that doesn't make you go crazy with attraction/feels, then go for it. Otherwise, I'd give him space until he's potentially ready for a relationship. You can't force this. Be honest and up-front with firstly yourself, and continue to hook up if you want, but know it may be a tra…	/r/seduction	10/07/18 12:10 AM
2	Is flirting the only difference between coffee with a friend and coffee as a date? what's your ideal first/second date? drinks? an experience? asking for a friend ;)	/r/seduction	26/03/18 10:49 PM
1	Have had great hookup success, but not so much for anything deeper what has been the root cause behind not being able to maintain relationships? you don't want to commit? you mention over 100 women - surely some are interested in long term. without more information of what happens in your relationships, I'd suggest you look internally	/r/seduction	23/03/18 03:21 AM
1	Had Tinder date, would like to hear second opinions! you are new and you'll learn :) the biggest thing here is women respect confidence - it can be argued that it's the most important thing. always think: what's the worst that can happen? If a woman you've known for a few hours never talks to you again... so what? You ended up in the same place, so might as well have gone for it :) You were definitely overthinking it, but take it as a learning and improve for next time!	/r/seduction	23/03/18 12:56 AM
1	Had Tinder date, would like to hear second opinions! If I'm reading you correctly: she wanted you to go on the train with her??? In that case, could you have said "I can't get back to my place if I take the train... I can come with you though..." Dude, just assume she's into you and make a move in that situation. If she says no after those IOI's, you wouldn't have had to make this post. Also, why in the world did you wait one or two weeks to send her a message?? Strike while the iron is hot. Call her the next day say you had a good time and set up…	/r/seduction	22/03/18 11:55 PM
6	[FR] Tried to have fun, had fun. Sounds like you have a solid foundation. Being able to be natural and yourself around attractive women is everything. I wouldn't even suggest any changes. It just so happened that you only spoke to unavailable girls. I don't like having a goal, and would recommend you don't either. Goals create expectation, and having too much expectation creeps into your frame and affects your energy. I think you had success with engaging these unavailable women because you didn't have a goal, thus your energy …	/r/seduction	15/12/17 07:54 AM
1	How to avoid overthinking early on in the dating process? Good luck man! Remember that we have no control on a woman’s drive to spend time with us. All we can control is ourselves and presenting the best version of us when together, inviting her to enjoy your already great life.	/r/seduction	04/12/17 03:22 AM
7	I've never been the most interesting person, but I still crushed it. Here's what I've got going for me. (My personal story of how I came-up despite working 9-5). Great three main points, I've been thinking about the aspects of inner game recently and this is a perfect way to summarize simple things to focus on. I might try using these three pillars as a guide when I feel myself being pulled off track.	/r/seduction	04/12/17 12:38 AM