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| 11 | Constantly getting ghosted after sex.You're clearly bad at sex | /r/seduction | 30/06/24 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Is this hopeless while you aren’t who you want to beI don't think the job is your problem, it's internal. I scored my amazing girlfriend with a job I not only didn't enjoy but made shit money. But I was unapologetic and had vision for where I wanted to be. Nit much is more attractive to a woman than a man with vision and drive. And confidence that is unapologetic. Sounds like you need to build yourself up either with the gym,doing good things for others, having a good social life,etc. The good news is you're in total control of making these impro… | /r/seduction | 08/06/24 04:45 AM |
| 1 | How to respond when a girl suggests dinnerEXACTLY. Once you start going in with the mindset as almost as if you're trying to get a read if she's a quality enough woman for you, it changes everything. | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 05:21 PM |
| 3 | How to respond when a girl suggests dinnerExactly this. I tell guys on here all the time I dinner is too much $,pressure,time and expectation for someone you've never met. Go buy them a 4$ coffee and sit down for an hour (if you want) | /r/seduction | 08/05/24 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Never go on Dinner DatesI tell this to guys all the time! 1 hour coffee date is perfect, see if you even vibe with them and if they're worth an actual nice date. No guy wants to be stuck with a girl that's boring for over an hour and stuck with a bill. I've even done walks in the park or an ice cream cone. Way less pressure and expectations than a dinner | /r/seduction | 05/05/24 05:21 PM |
| 2 | She pulled away after sex on first dateGirls will do this alot to test you also. Good things said here, just react just give it a break for a week or two. I guarantee if you don't say anything rn she will apologize and explain within 2 weeks | /r/seduction | 03/05/24 07:04 PM |
| 11 | For the guys who had zero experience with womenJust talk to them man. If you don't know how to talk to them, step back from dating and just try to get to know some women in a friendly way. Work on yourself, go to the gym. Become more confident and read models by Mark manson. | /r/seduction | 02/05/24 04:52 PM |
| 11 | Share your 2nd date stories. Are they worth the effort if the first one is lackluster?My current girlfriend went like like this, 1st date we talked and have good chemistry but no real secual energy. No kissing at the end just a hug, she liked me so much though at the end of the 2nd date she invited me over and we had sex. I have a theory if you're confident enough and don't make a move the 1st date they wonder if they did something wrong. So the next opportunity they will try to push it further then normal. I just don't like kissing on the 1st date because I was having so many fi… | /r/seduction | 30/04/24 04:36 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a super shy womenI would chill, girls aren't really gonna show you how they normally are until after you sleep with them. But if it bothers you too much then say something. Also if you guys aren't together this shouldn't be bothering you because you should with talking with other women. | /r/seduction | 29/04/24 05:00 PM |
| 1 | Don’t add pickup skills work on yourself.That's just one aspect of it but yeah. I'm mostly agreeing with you | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 03:31 PM |
| 0 | Don’t add pickup skills work on yourself.I look at pickup skills as tools not as an identity and I think that's maybe what you're trying to get at here. There's great advice on this sub and there's some crazy advice and I wouldn't take anything that tells you to act outside of yourself. But, you should learn some basic principles and techniques I'd say in the process of building yourself as a man and as a person. That's why models by Mark manson is such a great book because his method is becoming truly attractive and your best self. Bu… | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Don’t add pickup skills work on yourself.Look up posts dude. There's plenty of content here and this isn't an advice post | /r/seduction | 28/04/24 02:24 AM |
| 17 | “Men should always lead” gets blown out of proportionTotally agree! Also every girl is slightly different. My girl wants me to make every single decision for her like she's handicapped (her words) lol. So I order for her, tell her what she's cooking or where we're eating, pretty much everything and I love it. Other girls I've dated have wanted everything to be their idea, or at least the illusion that it was. I would say it's safest to plan things yourself though, absolutely don't make her come up with a 1st date idea or plan. You got the right id… | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Want To Date But Not Have SexAre you religious at all? If you are even in the slightest then I'd consider doing christian online dating or other religious activities to meet women. Most of them will be okay with no sexual escalation. However the the current culture most regular girls will think something is wrong with you. You are worrying about what ifs though you haven't had the opportunity to have sex with someone yet so one step at a time. | /r/seduction | 25/04/24 02:21 AM |
| 3 | 25M bout to get laid for the first time. Need helpIf it's your first time it's not gonna go amazingly. Something awkward will most likely happen just don't make a move too soon, don't be creepy and be confident | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 12:43 AM |
| 2 | 25M bout to get laid for the first time. Need helpTrue | /r/seduction | 23/04/24 12:42 AM |
| 2 | Should I block her if she is clearly online and is just ignoring my messages?People in this sub needs to seriously look into scarcity mindset. I see the same posts over and over. BTW you're in a different country now?? Pay attention to females in your own country lol | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 04:47 PM |
| 8 | Dating is kinda painful when you’re personality somehow kills their attraction.2 things. Be confident and be genuinely interested in others. Think about attractive people you've met in the past, and I mean the very attractive personalities. They can be men or women. I'm straight and I've met guys that have an attractive energy about them, not sexually but their personality just draws you in. What was it about them that made them attractive? They were who they were with zero apologies, they were kind and positive people, they smiled, they were funny, and they made me feel g… | /r/seduction | 22/04/24 04:14 AM |
| 1 | Making plans after a first dateNot true at all. Don't listen to this lol. You can say "we should do this again" at the end but you do not want to make plans during the 1st date | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 11:19 PM |
| 4 | Approached at the gym... seeking opinionsYeah you killed this opportunity hard. Pick yourself up and move on. You texting immediately was bad enough then over explaining yourself guaranteed she won't ever text you back and will feel awkward when you see her. In this situation you should've texted her later in the day with something short maybe sparking a small conversation. But less is usually better when it comes to women. I've done this exact thing and you need them to not be your priority and not make them cringe. Good news is there… | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Texting after first date after having sex?Nah bro just be direct and honest. If you can genuinely find a way to be busy and not desperate then you're in the proper state for dating. Models by Mark manson talks about this. I read it went on maybe 5 more dates and now I'm moving in with the most amazing girl I've ever met. I think deep down that's the goal for most of us here. Maybe some guys want to get their body count up first but I'm cool on that I'm at over 60 and realized passionate love making> meaningless sex all day. | /r/seduction | 20/04/24 06:15 PM |
| 7 | Texting after first date after having sex?Nah you did good man. If she texts back try to make some plans | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 11:08 PM |
| 19 | I let myself be used by a woman like a fool. Dont repeat the same mistakes like I did and how to improve your feeling of self worth.You said there was physical and kissing that's cheating by any definition bro | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Wow.It's okay man! I'd still look at it as a 90% success. Fine tune some things and get back out there killer! | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 04:25 PM |
| 0 | A confident guy shows all the signs that he likes me, but he doesn't call me out on a dateIf a guy is confident and doesn't ask you out, he's not interested. Guys will soak attention and lead girls on just as much as girls will if not worse. | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 06:44 AM |
| 6 | Wow.Honestly bro I think she got scared. She's in a guys apartment for the first time you dissappear and she had either a moment of clarity or realized the possible danger in being in someone's apartment she had just met. Don't take it personally I know it sucks. Next time get her something to drink or water and make sure she's comfortable then take a quick piss. You probably seemed nervous and she's seen too many murder mysteries lol | /r/seduction | 19/04/24 06:39 AM |
| 8 | Did reading books improve your game?Models by Mark manson. It's the purest way to approach this | /r/seduction | 18/04/24 02:47 AM |
| 8 | Did I fumble this?The only answer is stop being afraid of rejection and just ask. Just say "you seem cool, we should hangout sometime" and if they respond positively hand them your phone and say"let me get your number" If they don't who gives a fuck | /r/seduction | 15/04/24 05:52 AM |
| 1 | Seducing dirty talk resources🤣 bro now you're using whataboutisms and again saying things I never said. I absolutely didn't say that those people are as bad or worse than anyone. I didn't even say that the action is wrong. But yeah alot of us care if our faces go viral on the internet for being sexually explicit with a woman upon meeting her. Yeah do it. This is getting exhausting for me but again, I never said this doesn't work. Never said it was wrong. Girls post videos of guys approaching them at the gym all the freaking… | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Seducing dirty talk resourcesLol you can't read can you? I told you what the risks are, I never mentioned anything about a crime or it being illegal. The fact you can't acknowledge the risk in this tells me you either have no cultural/social awareness and that you've probably never even tried this method. You've been convinced this method works and are dying by it without being able to critically think for yourself. Would love some field reports from you when you get the chance lol | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Seducing dirty talk resourcesYou're not interpreting me correctly. I'm not saying it is. I'm saying in today's culture women look for any reason to be a victim. ANY. There's evidence of that all around if you can't see that I don't know what to tell you. All I'm saying is there's more risk with this method now than ever before. In that video he tells her he wants to fuck her face and to call him sir. Yes alot of girls will find this sexy and it will turn them on. But many girls will also weaponize this and post your face al… | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Coffee or Clear Intentions?It depends what you're trying to achieve. If you just want to get laid and not keep contact then coffee doesn't serve a purpose. If you want a relationship then coffee is to see if you guys even vibe or attraction. I did alot of first dates, all were coffee and I was seeing if they were worth my time. I had many 1st dates that didn't go further than that. Idk what you mean by setting your intentions if you don't really know the girl, what could your intentions be aside from getting to know them?… | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 07:17 PM |
| 0 | Seducing dirty talk resourcesThat's not what I mean. And yes words do seduce women but being that direct and explicit off the bat can get you in trouble. I don't mean blasted by commentary I mean blasted like the girl pulls out her phone and records you asking you to repeat yourself and telling the world you just walked up to her and verbally assaulted her. I think that's a shit reaction on the woman's part but you have to be realistic about the world we live in today. | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 07:11 PM |
| 0 | Seducing dirty talk resourcesThis might not work like it did in the 80s. It will work some but it will also get you blasted on the internet | /r/seduction | 11/04/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | How could I be more seductive as a “good guy”/“goofy” and be more confident.You're right here especially if what you're trying isn't working. I usually do what I'd enjoy most and try to please her by leading the way and being dominant. If that doesn't work communication is key!! Especially in a marriage they should be able to speak about their needs lol. | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 08:14 PM |
| 2 | How can I improve my texting game?Don't use run on sentences, take anywhere from half to the same amount of time they took to respond. Occasionally longer. Be playful, be direct. Don't text too much especially before 1st date. If you're not awkward then do what feels natural. If you are awkward then hold back a bit. Keep momentum after 1st date. Those are the things that come to mind rn | /r/seduction | 10/04/24 04:34 AM |
| 4 | Did I play this wrong? Did I lose frame?Chill bro. And again nobody here should come with questions about losing a girl focus on having multiple leads so the loss of one doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 06:54 PM |
| 9 | Asking out cashierThe answer is always just do it | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 04:56 PM |
| 2 | Am I massively over thinking this.Bro I'm honestly dealing with the EXACT same thing!! My past relationships were codependent and sort of toxic. This girl now really likes me were actually in a relationship now. But I also don't really hear from her 1st often. But she'll text back pretty quickly after u text her. I felt a little insecure at first but I think we just found some healthy solid women my guy | /r/seduction | 09/04/24 04:55 PM |
| 1 | How to make girls more comfortable and not nervous after pullIf multiple girls are getting anxious around you then you're making them anxious with your anxiety or your pressure. Take a deep breath, have a go with the flow attitude yet remain in control. When you get to your place ask if she wants a drink turn on the TV and get comfortable. Unless there's alot of sexual tension give it a minute or two before you start making out leading to sex. And if you can get them horny that will outweigh the anxiety. It all comes down to you they're going to base how … | /r/seduction | 08/04/24 04:46 AM |
| 25 | Girl is mad cause she wants me and i don’t want herWorthless post | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 05:24 PM |
| 3 | My Married Friends M32 F27 , Drop Sexual details alot in front of me? Is this an invite to become sexual with them ?You gotta be more specific with us. They might just be super horny and sexual people lol | /r/seduction | 07/04/24 03:30 AM |
| 1 | How do you turn the conversation sexual?All good man I can respectfully disagree. Everyone's approach is different success isn't always one path | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | How do you turn the conversation sexual?Lol okay I'm not going to argue with you. I'm guessing you're blessed with being tall and good looking so girls are already physically attracted to you. There's a way to bring up sex without being creepy and it's important to plant the thought in a woman's head especially if you're not gifted with great looks. Literally the book this sub is based off of talks about the power of suggestion | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Break down of my one-itisYeah man rejection and them ghosting is all part of the process. If you haven't read models by Mark manson yet DO THAT. Or even look up summaries of it online. It's the best way to approach this because it's genuine. Yeah bro so now I'm in an amazing relationship but before that I was doing day game and online dating with facebook,tinder and bumble. Practice your 1st dates. A 1st date should have 0 pressure and should only be to see if you guys vibe and if there's actual attraction. Don't take f… | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Break down of my one-itisOkay man you gotta slow down. I understand how you're feeling right now but right now you're chasing her away and putting pressure on her. There's so many things that can be going on, she could actually be seeing someone and feels bad about what happened with you guys. Honestly I would leave it alone for the weekend. On Monday afternoon if you haven't heard back send a final message. Tell her you really liked her vibe and am interested in getting to know her more. Tell her there's no pressure if… | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 05:20 PM |
| 11 | Will most girls ghost you if you don't make a move on your dates?You have to by the end of the 2nd date. First date I would sometimes if the moment is right. 2nd date you have to if you don't it shows lack of confidence. | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 04:14 PM |
| 5 | How do you turn the conversation sexual?Um not true man. Yes too early you will be a creep but you do want to bring sex up in a humorous way at some point after the 1st date if you haven't closed. Be a gentleman without being a pussy. Women either find guys who only want sex and don't make them feel valued, or guys who are afraid and tip toeing around it and don't make the 1st move. It's a happy medium, first date I get to know them and make them laugh and see if we're worth each other's time. 2nd date I start speaking kind-of in a se… | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 05:13 AM |
| 1 | What to do when girl wants something casual?Ask if her place is cool. Ideally though don't date until you're in a place where you can have women over. No you can't have a date in your car lol. If this was someone you've hooked up with then maybe a quickie in the car but not the 1st time man. Honestly it sounds like you need to read some books,go to the gym 4x a week for a year, do some therapy and find a hobby. And work on a good job. If she's down to have you over do it but you sound so young and inexperienced. | /r/seduction | 04/04/24 04:20 AM |
| 4 | What to do when girl wants something casual?Bro 🤦♂️ casual= netflix and chill. And just in case you're as dumb as i think you might be Netflix and chill= sex And just in case Sex= put your weiner in the hole next to her butt | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 04:32 PM |
| 2 | How to fix your mistakes after acting needy?You felt alot of pressure and you chased her a few steps back. Stop now and like it's been said find things to occupy your time. Start talking to other women. If she hits you up be chill don't push a relationship be nice but that's it. She will tell you she wants to hang out if she does | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 04:13 PM |
| 0 | I have strabismus. Am i doomed forever?Make a joke about how that eye only goes lazy when you see a cute girl or something. If you get insanely confident and funny it won't hold you back really. But the hard part is truly not being self conscious over it. And yes work toward getting the surgery. Never apologize for things especially that are currently out of your control. One of the hottest girls I know is marrying a severe burn victim, his face is totally deformed I wish I could post a pic it's as bad as you could imagine. But this … | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 03:58 PM |
| 2 | FlirtingPractice it on dates with zero pressure. I look at flirting as a state of play. Tease,make jokes, look at them sexually,smirk,eye contact,tell stories,be interesting. HAVE FUN | /r/seduction | 03/04/24 03:57 AM |
| 3 | Should I proceed with the date or just focus on improving myselfIf you have 0 $ then you don't need to be dating. Focus your time on getting a job dude get financially stable at the least. Your quality of life and women who enter your life increase the better you make yourself. | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 03:42 PM |
| 2 | She never initiates the conversationYou're still building attraction and it seems like she's starting to get bored through texting. I would honestly just not text her until you're in the same city again and can make plans. Or if she texts you first. She's not texting first because you always do | /r/seduction | 01/04/24 03:39 PM |
| 14 | How to make her your girlfriend?Chill out dude. You're gonna scare her away. Keep getting to know her don't even think relationship until at 3 least 3 dates and sex 3 times. At the LEAST. She will give you every sign for a relationship if you bring it up now you will be sending her away | /r/seduction | 31/03/24 11:25 PM |
| 11 | What pick up line works for you everytime?Actually yes | /r/seduction | 27/03/24 03:52 PM |
| 1 | What and when should I text a girl after a hookupDid you guys sleep together? How did that go? And has she texted you since? | /r/seduction | 26/03/24 04:22 AM |
| 1 | Should I not pay for the ubers for a hookup?Ok your original statement said she used someone else's photos. His original statement was catfishing then he said they were misleading photos. I think he knows he looks like a dick and is now going to try to justify himself. Regardless, be a man and do what you said you'd do. In the future, split the Uber/lyft cost. And he still got laid lol | /r/seduction | 25/03/24 05:28 PM |
| 4 | Having a hard time getting girls that are above 7/10The 8s and 9s are way too used to approaches I think it just requires better game and elite confidence. 10s are similar but I'd assume they actually get less approaches cuz people are intimated so again elite confidence. Compliment her on anything but her appearance, sense of humor, good heart. Make her laugh!! | /r/seduction | 25/03/24 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Should I not pay for the ubers for a hookup?Read the thread. He says it was pics of her she just looked way better in the photos. It's in one of his comments | /r/seduction | 25/03/24 03:13 PM |
| 53 | Should I not pay for the ubers for a hookup?That's a real weak move dude. She was the person in the photos but they were just good photos? If there weren't body shots and she was bigger, be smart and ask for a full body pic. This is 100% your fault and if you ghost karma is gonna bite you back for this I guarantee it. | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 09:14 PM |
| 14 | What to do when a girl says she has a boyfriendYeah but it's you're overall attitude about everything especially rejection that carries over into the rest of your game. If you can be genuinely unharmed by this response and be kind, you're just a generally more positive person. Not to mention what if I outside girl witnesses this interaction, this type of response would serve you. | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 03:54 PM |
| -13 | What to do when a girl says she has a boyfriendBeta shit lol | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 04:04 AM |
| 98 | What to do when a girl says she has a boyfriendBoth his and yours are good. I'm personally leave the very out just in my own head could sound a little too strong not desperate but also not passive enough. "No worries, he's a lucky dude" | /r/seduction | 24/03/24 04:02 AM |
| 1 | How important is penis size for one night stands?Idk I just don't believe small girls actually like that painful shit unless they're dealing with some heavy trauma or they're culture chasing. With porn and everything I almost think it's been glamorized for a girl to be able to take the biggest dick. And then maybe also so they can brag to their gf how big a guys dick was that she slept with | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 04:27 PM |
| 8 | How important is penis size for one night stands?Like it's been said if you're over 3 or 4 inches I'm sure you're good. I always get told i have a perfect dick and it's 6 inches on my best day lol. The only girls that go for specifically huge cocks are gross and probably have huge vaginas. Also maybe if you're tiny go for smaller,skinnier girls. And if you're smaller than 4 then learn how to eat it and use toys. | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 04:36 AM |
| 5 | What are some questions you ask someone that you like?The answers here are right it's all about play. If you're gonna ask questions try to make it fun. As long as there's some fun energy then you can ask things that are important to them like siblings, dreams and goals, relationship with their parents. But that's only after she feels comfortable and is feeling attraction. Ask her what she does for fun, how her day was. Try to make light jokes about what she did, use sarcasm. It's hard man cause you can't overthink it. When you find a girl that vibe… | /r/seduction | 20/03/24 01:10 AM |
| 2 | How should I (24F) initiate sex after a date?If he doesn't male the move tell him you're ready tonight. He might just not want to cross boundaries | /r/seduction | 18/03/24 10:56 PM |
| 2 | Is this a good text to ask out my crush?Don't ask her in a text. Either ask her in person or if you never see her call her | /r/seduction | 07/03/24 04:09 PM |
| 5 | Things I've learned over the past yearMy point was referring to the sexual energy piece. I'm still working on it but lots of eye contact, showing desire and giving fuck me eyes | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 11:14 PM |
| 19 | Things I've learned over the past yearOne of the best practical posts I've seen here yet. I was lacking having sexual energy toward these women I was seeing and they all said they just didn't feel anything romantically. Since I mindfully made the change, I've had much more success | /r/seduction | 25/02/24 09:07 PM |
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