So, sometimes when I'm interested in a girl, instead of explicitly asking for a date, I opt to inquire if she'd like to grab a coffee. These are typically girls I know from parties, friend groups, or colleagues, with whom I haven't spent one-on-one time before. I often ponder whether it's foolish to approach it this way – to gauge the vibe over coffee – or if I should be upfront about my intentions from the outset. For instance, I recently asked a girl I had danced with at a party for coffee, as it was evident we were both flirting, albeit some months ago. I only reached out now because she recently moved to my city. However, I've also invited other girls for coffee or something casual to gauge the chemistry. Is this approach unwise?