| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 34 | Detox | Objective_Entry_2048 | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/21 04:07 PM | |
| 9 | Read FDS content to balance yourself out | Objective_Entry_2048 | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/20 05:02 AM | |
| 2 | Ideologies | Objective_Entry_2048 | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 04:20 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Is anything remotely true about RP or is it all about shock value?Just because someone can put together some logic and have people agree with it, doesn’t make it true. It’s an idea, It exists in the brains of some people, nothing more than that. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/01/21 08:01 AM |
| 1 | DetoxYeh he’s not terrible. The thing with him is he’s talking about trashy/bad woman and avoiding them. That’s all really, he’s just talking about possibilities, his goal is to come up with more content and so you can go down a rabbit hole of negative possibilities and discussions about “getting burned” and what to do about it if it’s happening to you —which ironically happened to him literally actually when he was a kid I think. I think the way out from that is just look at the girl in front of you… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/01/21 04:36 AM |
| 2 | DetoxYes I agree a main tenant is to put yourself first- and that’s not unique to red-pill either (although I admit a positive element), but then comes the blaming of society, playing a victim, and generalization of all woman and their various tendencies, which put you at risk and then you need to be alpha or do this and that, keep frame etc. it’s a strategy guide to avoid being hurt. I find it ironic that It’s become a source of pride for men to be redpilled when really it’s a form of cowardice— con… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/01/21 03:10 AM |
| 3 | DetoxExactly! That’s what I’m saying. Only the strong can afford to be gentle. It’s all complaining and pain avoidance basically. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/21 08:48 PM |
| 0 | DetoxYeah I think that’s my point— to accept it and don’t become a slave to it i.e engage in self pity forever. If you’re not in control of your mental state, well then what that woman or man did is the master no? Doesn’t mean you don’t care for that person and you didn’t feel for them, it’s just a decision not to give that person the power over you (make them so important) so you end miserable about it and suffer for a long time. Like you say, just accept it and go try again! I agree sometimes nobod… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/21 08:26 PM |
| 1 | DetoxYeah woman could use it too—it actually might create a different attitude towards red pill men. Imo I think If you’re a red pill guy “you’re a sensitive guy who’s scared of being hurt”, they don’t bother me. Instead of all the misogynist stuff etc. —Does it really matter though? You’re going to meet woman and do your thing, either way, you’ll do your best to make decisions that serve you based on the woman in front of you and forget these generalizations and ideologies. | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/21 06:52 PM |
| 2 | The red pill is the opposite of masculinityOnly the strong can afford to be gentle. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/01/21 05:47 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on nofap/semen retention?Probably because they need to justify to themselves so they don’t feel any guilt. Nothing to do with redpill, it’s only positive when you can control the sexual impulse, just like any other addiction. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/21 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Why do people listen to Coach Red Pill? He's a fool.Hahaha the wisest thing a person can say is “I don’t know” - that guy does seem to know it all | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/21 06:11 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on nofap/semen retention?The sexual impulse is one of the toughest to tame for all humans. Most people succumb to that urge and they ruin there lives you see it all the time (through crime, infidelity etc.) . Lots of benefits come from practicing discipline through semen retention and no-fap. I’ve felt the benefits for sure, mainly more energy and easier to keep a uplifted mood. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/21 05:59 PM |
| 2 | I stopped taking advice about dating and how men/women think. Shit will drive you crazy trying to figure it all out.Haha I love this post spot on. Only good dating advice out there is to be aware of approval seeking behavior (and don’t do it), which really just means be yourself and have a cheerful attitude. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/21 02:51 AM |
| 3 | As a woman looking to leave red pill concepts behind me: FDS isn't the answer to my problemsYeah you’re spot on. Both are “ideologies”, which means they are ideas. What are ideas? Ideas don’t mean anything they are just something some human thought up, nothing more (it’s not important). It’s just possibilities. The aim in both is to avoid trauma (pain) and control the other person. Both groups make the opposite sex actually extremely important, so important that they have all these strategies to improve their position lol. Positive part would be that they do encourage people to not sac… | /r/ExRedPill | 31/12/20 03:30 AM |
| 9 | Trying to leave TRP behind me as a womanI’m confused, you’ve slept with less than 10 men based on your post? You’re also talking about college I assume for most of this. You should not be ashamed at all. Any man who says that is just threatened by your sexuality and feels insecure. I think the key about it if the woman has self-respect, the capacity to be loyal, and truly is sexually satisfied by their current partner. If you’re with your current guy and he is amazing in bed, and you’re open sexually with him, he’s happy and your happ… | /r/ExRedPill | 21/12/20 05:15 AM |
| 6 | my experience with a red pill exI’m really sorry you went through that. You really did a nice job explaining the faults of the Red Pill movement. It sounds like when you told him you had slept with more men than he thought, it must have confirmed in his mind that you weren’t the “innocent little girl” he’d been dating. Then he spiraled out and just projected all the red pill nonsense onto you, meanwhile you were just a loyal, caring, and wonderful partner to him. He really messed up, and that’s sad for both of you. You sound l… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/12/20 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Men who believed RP lies about masculinity and mental health what changed your mind?Well said. It’s cool to see a woman put this out there, Ive thought a lot of this for a long time. Your description points to a man who one would respect, he is authentic, he doesn’t need anything, and he isn’t deceiving anyone. “I like who I am”, sometimes he even has faults, that’s what makes him real (and even more attractive because he’s honest). It’s ironic when guys try to change personality traits when really it’s just self-awareness, and making some mental adjustments. Then if there’s ch… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/20 05:26 AM |
| 2 | Men who believed RP lies about masculinity and mental health what changed your mind?I also find the whole “alpha” thing to be silly. Yeah, if you want to convert it into something positive like “an alpha is a go-getter who holds himself accountable to his values, takes care of his shit and is healthily self assured and centered.” That’s cool. Just wanted to point out this is incredible dating advice.. You just answered the "question" that pretty much all dating advice for men is looking for (what do woman want), but misses. you got like 2million truth seekers on reddit trying t… | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/20 04:06 AM |
| 4 | Men who believed RP lies about masculinity and mental health what changed your mind?I agree with this 100%. Great work man. "I've said it before: the real alpha doesn't give a fuck about how others see his emotions and doesn't live up to any standard that someone else makes. If he's emotional and wants to show it, he fucking will!" -- on point. This is just a free person, what everyone is really searching for. What got me to change my perspective on a "theoretical level" was that I realized relationships are not rational. Humans are not Robots. Like you can use logic for mechan… | /r/ExRedPill | 12/12/20 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on conversation?I think that “red pill success” is due to men putting on a persona to impress woman. sure there are positives about that persona, but it’s an act in the end that is really not sustainable..This guy is confused, I think maybe a part of him realizes that the content has its flaws, but he can’t get the idea out of his mind that “he’ll be beta guy with his head in the sand” if he rejects the movement, after seeing “success”. I keep saying the entire point of the rational male if you read the book is… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/12/20 04:40 AM |
| 2 | So why no Jordan Peterson on this subreddit?He’s a hypocrite. Him taking anxiety meds discredits him for giving advice. Especially when he uses pills when times get tough in his life. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/12/20 01:43 AM |
| 1 | The Real Red Pill.Well said. It’s just about taking care yourself, that’s the take away, vet people and do your best, the rest is people’s indulgence in justifying personal traumas or trying to find “why” people are the way there are. They get obsessed because they think it will lessen their chance of being hurt again. I agree a lot of these “oppressed” mentalities and dogmas are just a distraction, keeps the masses occupied while there is another agenda at play. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/12/20 11:59 PM |
| 0 | Read FDS content to balance yourself outI agree. It’s not a post about moral equivalency of the groups lol, the ideologies are similar in they serve the same purpose and have many similar parallels, like Islam is a religion and so is Christianity. One if these people is a FDS person, the other is just disgusted with the red pill community (but never read the ideology). They failed to see the purpose of the post. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/20 03:34 PM |
| 1 | Read FDS content to balance yourself outHave you read the rational male? If you read it without bias, just the language, like an objective person then look at FDS sidebar you’ll agree with me... I agree it’s precisely people’s subjective take (people are dumb), that makes it all very dangerous. The red pill books do not advocate any sort of violence, but men with trauma and a personal vendetta against woman misunderstood the message.... | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/20 12:52 AM |
| 0 | Read FDS content to balance yourself outThere is a difference between ideology and people’s personal take on it. You’re objecting to certain men’s response to the red pill and amoral men. You have to read the actual book (rational male) yourself and then read the FDS sidebar. They both are incredibly similar, and exist so that woman and men can be self-empowered in a dating context. They serve similar purpose. If we were arguing about which group of people has the moral high ground, that’s a different question, and you may be right on… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/12/20 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Read FDS content to balance yourself outYeah because the rest is an incel rant like you said lol | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/20 05:48 PM |
| 0 | Read FDS content to balance yourself outOne persons take on the ideology is subjective. part of the problem with FDS and Red pill is people take it too far. There are men (like that guy in your post) who take the ideology and go full sociopath, as I’m sure women take FDS ideology to extremes in other ways too. That’s how individual men and woman react to the ideology, that’s separate because it’s one persons flawed interpretation of the dogma as opposed to just the dogma at face value. It’s like terrorists who use Islam to justify blo… | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/20 05:47 PM |
| 0 | Read FDS content to balance yourself outYeah, there is definitely a discrepancy with the expectations they hold for themselves vs. what they hold for their partners. It's a double standard for sure... | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/20 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Read FDS content to balance yourself outYeah it’s pretty wild. I agree, it’s people who fear being hurt so they are trying to prevent it by trying to manipulate situations in their favor, at the expense of the other person. Playing the blame game is an easy Cop out. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Read FDS content to balance yourself outGot it. Makes sense. You’re right. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/20 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Read FDS content to balance yourself outHaha why do you say that? To me it just seemed to be another dogma to empower woman and protect them from “bad men”. | /r/ExRedPill | 02/12/20 02:48 PM |
| 4 | Just recently gave up the fake worldYeh you can definitely “go beyond the game” and form genuine connections with woman. You need to go out there and meet woman, form connections, and let things develop with these woman. Your experiences will help you more than any mental concept put forward by any sort of ideology. If you keep your emotions and investment/neediness in check while at the same time finding out what makes the girl tick, explore Her, show her how you think, relate to each others mental experience in life, while the e… | /r/ExRedPill | 01/12/20 03:09 PM |
| 4 | Please stop, it hurtsThis is spot on. | /r/ExRedPill | 30/11/20 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you actually have success with women?Yeah I think the awareness is enough so you can screen. Bro you’re far in, Your “realism” is just as bad as a being beta... you think it’s a good thing, but really you’re going to settle for a woman that’s far less attractive or as great as you would like because you think she will monkey branch you.. it’s self-limiting and ignores the “reality” or connections that occur In genuine relationships with humans. It’s not realism, it’s an excuse for what happened to you, when I would think there were… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/20 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Do any of you actually have success with women?Only if you leave it as a possibility of her character, it’s just your own awareness so you can screen. If you assume the girls gonna monkey branch the first time she meets someone “better” in her mind, then It becomes a problem. That’s a hopeless outlook on love and woman, one that is a disservice to yourself. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/20 09:27 PM |
| 5 | Do any of you actually have success with women?Really the broad generalizations on woman’s strategy and the focus on superficiality have to be taken with a grain of salt, because they are not always true, and when you apply it on the woman you date it becomes almost combative and very negative. It’s counterintuitive to think so negatively about woman. The point of the entire ideology, when you really break it down, is be self-interested, make sure you don’t sacrifice yourself for some woman, put yourself first, empower yourself. Be careful t… | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/20 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you actually have success with women?Yeah I hear you bro. I don't think it's red pill to acknowledge that looks, money, status, attract woman or that one needs to face harsh realities of dating-- like that woman can be ruthless (as can men). Red pill is often misunderstood and is actually often used as a cope for guys who have been traumatized and can't get any pussy, so they try a persona, which gives them mediocre (or no) success at achieving meaningless hedonistic sexual conquests, ultimately to be unfulfilled. They also act in … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/11/20 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Toxic relationship exposed me to the redpill. Hard to detox.The issue here is that she cheated on her BF with you. That’s not red pill or any pill, she has a flawed character and you were provided with red flags as to the type of person she is. Would you trust a business partner who stole from his ex partners? It’s common sense. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/11/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Red Pill coachesI think he's married with kids actually and went to Dartmouth. He's pretty smart and he realized he can make a lot of $$ doing this. He's more watered down than the rest, he has some decent things to say, but overall can't take him seriously because of his $$ motivations and need for new bullshit content for that purpose. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/11/20 02:54 AM |
| 2 | TRP is like the DENNIS system off of It’s Always Sunny in PhiladelphiaAhaha great episode | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/20 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Think RP has points but comes from a misunderstood placeYeh that’s more of the male community using the theories as a way of feeling better about their failures in dating, the concept on its own, of alpha beta is also misused and misunderstood too. Alpha is a self-interested mindset and the other is a self-sacrificing, really that’s it imo | /r/ExRedPill | 22/11/20 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Think RP has points but comes from a misunderstood placeTotally, everyone agreed!!! The red pill is woman focused however | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/20 09:48 PM |
| 2 | Think RP has points but comes from a misunderstood placeAgreed. It’s like the awareness that is all you need. Like ok woman can be ruthless, but that’s it lol don’t go any further, and vet. It’s all really focused on not sacrificing yourself for idealism | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/20 06:44 PM |
| 2 | Think RP has points but comes from a misunderstood placeExcellent, I agree with this 100%. Basically all you need to understand is that make sure you take care of you first, it’s not selfish and vet girls/be aware. The rest is just coping mechanisms for low esteem men. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/20 02:54 AM |
| 1 | What was the thing that was easiest to recognize as BS when you left TRPAgreed 100% | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/20 12:39 AM |
| 1 | I still have the same insecurities that led me to redpillbro you are not short at 5'9" lol, 100% average. | /r/ExRedPill | 20/11/20 03:17 AM |
| 2 | So I feel like my mindset is reverting...here is how. stop comparing yourself to a random girl you're not with anymore. You are not in a competition with her. her life has nothing to do with yours. being with woman is fun and enjoyable, go have fun and connect with woman (sex will be a part of that), focus on creating your own enjoyable life experiences. just make it happen. you got this | /r/ExRedPill | 20/11/20 03:12 AM |
| 3 | 1 question to completely kill the the red pill mindsetin a strange way, your post is very "red pill" haha | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/20 05:44 AM |
| 7 | What was the thing that was easiest to recognize as BS when you left TRPI agree with this forum. So much of the red pill movement is misunderstood, taken to far, and does tremendous damage to young men who become indoctrinated into the idea that they have to take on some sort of "alpha persona" in order to essentially manipulate woman to get laid. Really what's positive about the red pill is that it wakes men up to the possibility that woman are humans, with character flaws, and that if you chose the wrong one, you can get yourself in a lot of trouble. Woman can be … | /r/ExRedPill | 19/11/20 05:31 AM |
| 2 | I don’t understand the need for status and material things for getting women [Natural game]It’s both. Some guys have a natural ability with woman and don’t need anyone to help them, but others it’s a part of their character but can’t express it because of fear or some mental blockages. Society, upbringing, fucks a lot of peoples heads up that’s just a fact, not an excuse for anyone. It’s like some guys have the frame and capacity to put on a ton of muscle and athletic ability but are stuck doing the wrong excersizes because they don’t know any better. | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 03:26 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand the need for status and material things for getting women [Natural game]I think it's a fine line, if you're focused on status but lack understanding of woman and are a bitch then basically its useless, and you're basically attracting gold diggers and transactional relationships. Otherwise, it's just a bonus like a girl with bigger tits... Not necessary but it's attractive because it signifies you're competent in life and would be able to provide... | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 02:26 AM |
| 1 | I don’t understand the need for status and material things for getting women [Natural game]Actually, a lot of dudes are naturals but because of all sorts of dumb conditioning, they don't express their true natural ability, and need to get their heads sorted out and then go bang like crazy. So its both. But yeh, agreed on the other part about them not needing status etc. | /r/seduction | 19/11/20 02:22 AM |
| 5 | Why you should never fear hearing the word 'No,' and why it can often be the best place to start a conversation.This is a very smart post. I think it can be bottled down to basically not needing any sort of approval or response from a woman. It takes all the pressure off of both of you and it allows you to connect | /r/seduction | 25/10/20 10:22 PM |
| 2 | A Rant On Boundaries & Why Having Them Is KEY To Attracting WomenAgreed 100%. We’ve all been there. Once you get into a relationship this applies too, make sure you don’t lose yourself you’ll regret it later. | /r/seduction | 24/10/20 06:39 PM |
| 19 | Age Doesn’t MatterI agree 100% with your post man. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/20 02:53 AM |
| 1 | How to make my boyfriend not leave meYou want to control him, that’s manipulative | /r/seduction | 20/10/20 02:42 AM |
| 0 | How to reduce neediness?Agreed | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 03:35 PM |
| 2 | How can I get over the inequalities and double standards in favour of women in dating?No you don’t get it. When a women has sex with a man she is giving up her body to you, you’re physically stronger than she is, it’s a different situation where she could be physically hurt, get pregnant etc etc. woman orgasm intensely when they feel the thrill and comfort of giving up control of their body to a man who they know is strong mentally and able to lead. Also, you are attracted to woman, you just don’t like having to be the initiator, woman get rejected too just not right away... I wa… | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 01:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you get a pick up artist to stop trying to pick you up?If you really feel compelled just say you value genuine connections and not interested in him and his manipulative behavior— otherwise just get another guy in the picture that you’re dating | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 04:59 AM |
| 3 | I tried kissing a girl and got rejected!!Yeh at least she respects you because you went for it | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 04:54 AM |
| 1 | How can I get over the inequalities and double standards in favour of women in dating?You don’t understand female sexuality and that’s your problem. Woman want to feel like they can give up control of their body (what happens during sex) to a man they trust, respect, and feel comfortable with... would you do that with a person who can’t even make a move, or has the balls to talk to them?! Its also like you have 0 standards yourself. I expect a lot from the woman I meet. I want my woman to be confident, loving, look sexy, be nurturing, emotionally stable etc etc. Woman have there … | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 04:47 AM |
| 1 | Had girl in bed with Netflix and she just leftI agree with the above comment — I think you poorly escalated this situation. If you’re cuddling and holding hands and she’s back at your place without at least a proper make out or some sort of intimacy first she’s like all in her head about “having sex”, it’s not flowing naturally—, she wasn’t feeling so comfortable with you I think too. | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 04:34 AM |
| 2 | I don't know what toFirst of all, get your shit/head together and hit the gym and be healthy. When you come out of a breakup, it’s always a good idea to make yourself as attractive as possible, clean yourself up. If you feel strong your actions will flow from there... don’t sabotage it with this girl go for it but you’re being needy already... you don’t need anything from her or any girl, focus on yourself, build yourself up... and you’ll start to feel joy again, I’ve been there! | /r/seduction | 17/10/20 04:29 AM |
| 0 | Stop texting these hoe$Yeh a lot of guys need texting because they suck in person.. it’s so they can build a bullshit persona of themselves and maybe get a nude photo or something.. waste of time. If you’re able to handle your shit on a date you just set the next one... obviously texting to check in or whatever is nice but other than that it’s just dumb to sext when you can be having real sex lol | /r/seduction | 16/10/20 07:24 PM |
| 0 | Stop texting these hoe$I 100% agree with this... some light banter maybe but if you’re texting for long periods of time and not at least intimate with her you’re a pen pal. | /r/seduction | 16/10/20 04:09 PM |
| 1 | How do I learn to put 100% of my personality on the line from the very beginning?You don’t “learn” it. You realize you’re seeking her approval, and that makes you act different. Just stop being soft and putting the attractive woman on a pedestal, she has the same problems as you and is a human... it’s precisely the opposite of what you’re doing that makes you attractive | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 01:40 PM |
| 2 | Why the fuck do I get blocked?Your last text made no sense, the spongebob reference was just unnecessary.. it’s like your last text you called yourself a woman, why would you want a girl to picture you as the female version of you | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 03:04 AM |
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