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| 8 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love? | Obsidian_Koilz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:54 AM | |
| 6 | Would You Be Open to Male Companionship Opportunities? | Question For Men | Obsidian_Koilz | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/23 04:25 PM |
| 4 | Have you checked in on your high school crush lately? Did you dodge a bullet or do you wish you had shoot your shot. | Discussion | Obsidian_Koilz | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Have you checked in on your high school crush lately? Did you dodge a bullet or do you wish you had shoot your shot. | Free For All Discussion | Obsidian_Koilz | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/23 04:25 PM |
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| – | A lot of young men are leaning conservative simply because leftists/liberals aren’t making it a point to speak directly to men, like they do to other groups, which conservatives take advantage ofNeither the left or the right are offering childfree PEOPLE much of anything. There is penalization through taxation and social pressures when people choose to be childfree or are childless. There are no specific safety nets for men or women who have no children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 01:28 PM |
| 7 | Women, what is the reason you don’t do onlyfans? (not trolling)I simply have no interest in that line of work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 03:04 PM |
| – | Are Women Becoming Less Attracted to Men in General?Yes. Some women bring drama and stress to their partners. Everyone is human here, no one is without flaws. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/25 04:47 PM |
| – | Women in majority care about looks more than menThis again? Attraction in conjunction with other preferences is what makes a woman choose to be with a partner. It is what it is. You want to call it shallow? Fine. No one is hurt by this opinion. It truly stops nothing. No one should be shamed into forcing themselves to be with a person they don't want or like. This is the most simplistic thing - yet seems to be an enigma in this sub. Is the real point of this repetitive comment to insist that men are more altruistic in this regard? Ok, insist … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/11/25 12:11 PM |
| 4 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesYour original statement in no way noted the age bracket of the Black women you're making blanket statements about. Stereotypical tropes ABOUT Black women discuss them as being sexually active and having babies in their teens. So I provide you information encompassing teen years up to 50, and, to you, that's erroneous and incomplete because it doesn't follow that single 15 year old until she is 50? Sir, you're reaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 03:58 PM |
| 5 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesNo. I was asking you to posit why you benched a whole group of women who are a part of the demographic you were discussing. Which skews the perception of the whole group in negative stereotypical terms. Which promotes "baby momma" tropes that are diminishing within the demographic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 03:52 PM |
| 5 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesThe information is for women 50 and younger. Please do review it again... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 03:49 PM |
| 14 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesHow odd. A claim was made by you that was not followed up by any cite material or empirical evidence. Also, no one would ever claim that Reddit is a mecha for academia. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 03:48 PM |
| 4 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesA stereotypical perspective - not an example. So you're speaking to the majority, not the minority - while making sweeping assertions that ignore factual data and shifting procreation and dating patterns. Why is the onus on me to provide these stats? Women's Fertility by Ethnic Group Black Demographic Fertility Data | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 03:44 PM |
| 18 | Liberal/leftist women are the biggest hypocritesThere are many childfree and childless women in the Black Community as well. There are also Black women who choose not to have children until they are secure in their marriages and trust their husbands to be involved in child rearing. These groups of women don't seem to factor into your perspective. Also, there are conservative Black women who also choose their partners based on attraction, financial stability, mental health, etc... They, too, are looking for high value partners they are attract… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/25 03:27 PM |
| -6 | CMV: The reaction to the Tea App leak shows that western women don't like being held accountableI'm simply alerting you to the facts of the Teaborn apps existence, its reported substance, and its creators thoughts on its usage before it was shut down. As for Tea, I've no idea what's being displayed on the app. I'm neither a member nor been privy to any empirical data disclosing information from there. What emotional response are you looking for from me when my previous statement was only imbued with discoverable facts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 02:21 PM |
| 2 | CMV: The reaction to the Tea App leak shows that western women don't like being held accountableI'm happy to know that. However, your statement that this doxxing is a justified form of accountability ultimately implies the opposite. Someone's license, address, and location being made available to an angry group of people isn't accountability. It's a recipe for violence, danger, and possible death. Nor is it true accountability. It's simple revenge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 10:58 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The reaction to the Tea App leak shows that western women don't like being held accountableSo, accountability to you means they deserve to be traceable, and whatever life-threatening thing that happens to them is justified - because they used an app that gossiped about men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 10:46 AM |
| -1 | CMV: The reaction to the Tea App leak shows that western women don't like being held accountableSigh There was one already. It was done in by the creators because it was flooded with nudes and revenge p●rn. And before you ask... no. I've never been on the tea app. I've no reason to be there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 10:43 AM |
| -7 | CMV: The reaction to the Tea App leak shows that western women don't like being held accountableBut they did have a male version. It was called the Teaborn app. And it was full of all of those things.... as well as nudes photos, videos, and other personal information about women. Where is it now? It was shut down by the male creators with a notice that "Men need to do better" - their quote, not mine, scrap with them about it. And you're absolutely correct. Revenge p●rn doesn't sit well with women, some of the men on the app, or the creators who closed up shop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 10:33 AM |
| 2 | People have issue even when men are happy being singleThere are people who spew vitriol over ANY choice you make that is outside of what they deem moral, correct, or acceptable. Your gender doesn't exclude anyone from criticisms, opinion pieces, or becoming political fodder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 05:38 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles.Mmmm.... the curtains taken down every week. Floor waxed every two weeks. And yes, I've floors that must be waxed. Base boards must be scrubbed every Sunday, doorknobs and doors every week - especially with children( nieces and nephews) in the house. I also scrub the walls... white paint can become dingy quickly. Vent cleaning is twice a month. For my carpets, I do a carpet steam clean every week and ensure family and guests use slippers by the door. The fridge, stove, and other appliances have … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 06:35 PM |
| 1 | If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles.Me. A woman. I do all of those things... and in that grotesquely hot weather. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 06:20 PM |
| 2 | If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles.Not at all. I've met very meticulous and clean men. They kept their space clean and organized. Dishes were washed when used and dried and replaced on the appropriate shelves. No pee stains around the floor behind the toilet or under the toilet seats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 06:19 PM |
| 2 | If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles.Yes. I've also striped siding from my home, power washed the foundation, waited for it to dry, and created a stucco finish. I've been on my roof and repaired my shingles and roofing tiles as well. I've fashioned my own furniture with my woodworking skills, stained and glazed them. I've even had commissions for such work. I also make indoor repairs, snake toilets, replace pipes, re-grout bathrooms, strip tubs, and resurface them, and the list goes on. Side note, I was raised to handwash my dishes… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 06:12 PM |
| 2 | If you expect men to be: confident, dominant, approach you first, ask you out first, plan the date, drive you there, pay the bill, initiate sex even when married (to you), and give you presents (valentines, flowers): Then you support and prefer gender roles.There are women opting out out of dating. The vitriol is still present. The argument becomes " she is depriving some man of his opportunity for love, sex, a relationship, and children." Or "her standards are too high, and she only wants the top tier men." There is always a grievance whether a woman chooses to date or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/25 04:26 PM |
| 2 | Do Android phones really make you less attractive?I'm not into iPhone products at all. I own a Z Fold 6 and don't determine someone's worth by a phone logo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/25 01:37 PM |
| 3 | The Australian woman who got a very light sentence (7.5 years, but can get out after 4.5) for immolating a male friend for making a mildly misogynistic joke is an example of female privilege.It says that you use such anecdotal evidence to make assumptions that support your worldview. Not that any of your assumptions are empirical or true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/25 10:09 AM |
| 3 | Women don't care if men can get sex, Men don't care if women can abortionsAre those men then going to assume the role of sole custody from birth? I mean, as soon as the umbilical cord is cut, so is her participation and responsibility beyond a child support check. If he is going to be the sole parent and provide all of the childcare, with no participation from the woman beyond child support... including no visitation, no photos, no phone calls, or any other engagement with the child or that man... then some women might be ok with your perspective. But if that "human r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/25 10:16 PM |
| 9 | the game plan for women?Not at all. I never have. The very idea that I have to do something... because it's just "what everyone does" was off putting to me growing up. So, to expect an almost rote existence, wasn't it. My life is what I make it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 12:14 AM |
| 13 | the game plan for women?Sell off my merch biz and fold 62% of it into my Roth IRA in preparation for retirement. Then, using my sewing & tailoring skills, take commissions for bespoke suits, dresses, and other garments at my leisure. I'll enjoy the fruits of my frenzied youthful labors. Should a gentleman of similar means and capability provoke interest in me - then so be it. But, at this time, I'm quite enjoying my own company, provisions, abilities, and joy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/25 12:04 AM |
| 4 | Men are judged for pretty much any perceived lack of independence, but women are allowed (and sometimes encouraged) to be independent at their convenienceMy guy. I skipped my motorcade over the tire borders, down the grassy hill, and into a fence on a driving course at the amusement park. All the people waiting in line saw me... and laughed. The ride operators put me BACK on the course and made me finish it... in tears. I have NEVER gotten behind the wheel again. At 41 I can proudly say I take the bus, Uber, lyft, or walk... much to the chagrin of my peers - both male and female. I have to TELL them about this experience for them to get off my ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/25 05:39 PM |
| 5 | What is wrong with modern menThis is a good question. I want to give it more thought before I answer. This is simply a bookmark for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 11:07 AM |
| 2 | What is wrong with modern menI've also been receiving pelvic floor therapy and using the pelvic trainer for over a year. Seems like there are a lot more women with vaginismus than I'd originally thought. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/25 11:00 AM |
| 9 | Men embrace redpill because mainstream advice is dogshitThey believe they are giving you real actionable advice, though. Their take is to proactively get ahead of the things you can change that might improve your chances. But no one can make a 100% guarantee on this advice. Not a guarantee that you'll be successful, nor that the woman you do attract is a good match for you - or that YOU feel attracted to her. People could accept that you feel your face is undesirable - but no one who knows you wants to hurt you like that. They don't want you to feel … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 01:15 PM |
| 0 | Men embrace redpill because mainstream advice is dogshitYou simply can not be serious. Women are told to be fun, exciting, docile, agreeable, feminine, flirty, submissive, and a whole host of other things to not only get a man's attention but to also retain it. This isn't a hit out on men's mental state. It's the same ish women hear as well. Everyone is told to be better than they are. To improve on their abilities or lack thereof. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 12:46 PM |
| 4 | Men embrace redpill because mainstream advice is dogshitThe question being asked here is what do you want the world to do about it? If the advice given isn't what lonely men want to hear, don't agree with, have already been done, or are unwilling to address within themselves... what is the expectation? What are these lonely men really expecting when they are telling women they are unable to get dates? Would you agree that the expectation is for an actionable resolution? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/25 12:38 PM |
| 2 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerI get it. Having a job/career while in school for your PhD. isn't for the faint of heart. And it definitely doesn't lend itself to a full-bodied, available when you are romantic relationship. You're absolutely correct. However! That crunch time isn't forever. She, like you, has professional goals. When she has achieved those goals, they shouldn't be dismissed as insignificant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:40 PM |
| 2 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerIf that is how you wish to perceive it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:31 PM |
| 2 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerAnd yet, many of my contemporaries work full time, have actively paid down or off their student debt, have diverse streams of revenue, and all with families. There are women with laudable education and professional growth who don't approach the world with entitlement. Whose husband isn't browbeaten or beleaguered. This stereotype is completely out of control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerI can definitely understand not being able to suffer the personality of an individual. Whether or not it's because of their work ethic and professional drive remains to be seen through observation. However, many men don't want to bother with that... so they go another route and look for companionship from women who embody a different lifestyle. It's their choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 09:24 PM |
| 8 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerTrue... but I couldn't imagine too many people being attracted to someone who tells them all of the education and growth they've achieved means nothing. That their life should only be valued by what another deemed as important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:47 PM |
| 6 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerThat's true. Some women won't. Remove yourself from their company. The ones that are dismissive of your goals and abilities aren't worth the effort of trying to convince them of how it would be beneficial to you both. Your achievements aren't insignificant. The woman who hears that you're a good cook and that you love learning and asks follow-up questions, recognizes that you're someone she can cook with and/or learn from, and is interested in your many facets - THAT is who you should be taking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:37 PM |
| 8 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerIt's not so much about bringing something you don't care about to your attention - it's about how it's dismissed as insignificant and unimportant. That person is relaying how they strived to complete the qualifications to hold their degree or position. Yet, there is more information being relayed than just; "I'm employed here and have this degree." Character growth and skills are also being related when discussing career, professional growth, and educational ability. They also are talking about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 02:11 PM |
| 4 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerThis is why I did not speak on the OP's post. People are going to hold bias, appeal, and attraction when discussing relationship wants and needs. I am nobody. I can't and wouldn't want to tell a perfect stranger what they should settle for or find attractive... nor berate them for what they don't.That's not my place... nor would I ever make it my business. Career focused individuals respond to pressure, stress, and time management very differently. It also may or may not reflect in their home li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 01:39 PM |
| 11 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerSir... where did I do any dictating about what men can and can not find appealing? I defined a phrase by how some men have USED it for the person I responded to. I'm a gamer, I don't mind another gamer - who also has business about themselves. And thanks for reminding me of my WOW lapse. I got caught up on another game. I also run my own business... and I don't fall into that cache of negative qualities you've outlined. Some do, while many others don't. Success doesn't mean the embodiment of eve… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 01:15 PM |
| 4 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerHilariously fraught with self-importance. I simply don't care what your opinion is of my childfree stance. Nor does it bother me that nameless and faceless individuals waste time contemplating my life decisions. Its minutes and hours they'll never get back. And good for her! Once again, those are things that concern her as they pertain to your perspective. You and your ideals are not my problem - they are hers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 12:47 PM |
| 4 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerAnd who said it isn't? Certainly not I. The person I was responding to had a different perspective on the phrase, and I shared mine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 12:43 PM |
| 3 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerI'm so sorry that you hold that belief. It's really quite limiting. However, that's a perspective your current/future partner will have to address. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 12:40 PM |
| 4 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careerIs that all you've been able to gleen from the text? How... unfortunate. Pretty and feminine isn't the antithesis of determined, educated, and professionally successful. You can be an educated bombshell with a frilly feminine aesthetic... working as a litigator. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 12:00 PM |
| 23 | You probably should start caring about a woman’s careermost I believe just mean that a good woman is a good woman regardless of her educational or career background. What I've observed is that this phrase is mainly used to downplay and dismiss anything she "brings to the table" as insignificant. They dismiss what years of study, dedication, focus, loyalty, perseverance, and determination have honed and the character it builds. They dismiss her achievements, goals, and aspirations as trifles while still demanding an answer for what she brings to the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/25 11:36 AM |
| 4 | "Male romantic loneliness is due to women not putting up with shitty behavior anymore" take is pure BSAnd how is it that you see equity in dating be performed? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/03/25 02:23 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Would you hate a man if he divorced you for quitting your job?Listen. I'm not sticking around where I'm no longer wanted. I'm out! Tout de suite. I've family, friends, and other connections. Why would I hate him? If his motivation for our relationship rests purely on $$$... he is free to exit stage left and is entitled to an uncontested divorce from me. Though, if my $$$ was his motivation, I wouldn't have married him in the first place. HOWEVER... let me be very clear... I'll never be caught lagging with no funds. I sew, knit, crotchet, woodwork, and cook… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/03/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Men need more than women to "choose better"Precisely! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/25 08:18 PM |
| 0 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Every woman? Not at all. I'm absolutely sorry that you feel that nobody wants you. The world hasn't spoken on your worth, a few women have. Their opinion doesn't equal that of the entire planets population. Is it a delusion to pride yourself on your accomplishments? To consider yourself good at something? Is it a delusion to derive joy from your own mechinations? I think not. For every seam I stitch whether by hand or by machine, I feel joy in the exercise of the mind and creativity. I revel in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 09:22 PM |
| 0 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.I have answered you, yet you seem intent on dragging other subject matters in. Ones in which do not reflect a liner thought nor connection to the subject at hand. Conjecture and conflation do not make for clarity in conversation. I can no longer continue a dialog with an individual who is disengaged from the subject matter. I bid you a good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 08:31 PM |
| 1 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Precisely this! It's that woman's taste... not every woman's taste. That it is ok to try again. I get it, though. It's extremely painful to be told repeatedly that you're not it. I can actually say I FEEL this rejection and have been on the receiving end of it multiple times. Even from those who are in the same hue as me. Even the data will underscore the depths of my commiseration. I'm a very melaninated woman with proud roots. I make no apologies for my presence. Nor do I owe any entity one. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 08:26 PM |
| -1 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.Why do people like you keep denying that culture plays a pivotal role in beauty standards and expectations, and that dating apps and social media have skyrocketed standards ??? As if dating standards were something that was imbued into you at birth….💀 Pure conjecture. Where did I say or even allude to any of this? But let me ask; Has society made 1840s - 1910 Men's Fashion popular again? Because dammit! I am sooo attracted to the clean lines of a tailored male ensemble. I love how he presents hi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 07:41 PM |
| 32 | "Bar for men is in hell, most women just want a guy who treats them like a human being" is a hilarious lie.If she isn't attracted to you, NOTHING about you is going to change that... short of duress. And even in that situation, she still won't desire you. You aren't her cup of tea... move along. No 1 individual is sexy or attractive to 100% of the population. It is what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 05:20 PM |
| 2 | You cant expect women to help with your loneliness or give you validation when you don’t show appreciation.On the "interesting hobbies" side of things... I'll just say this.... in EVERY sartorial space, class, event, or meet-up I've ever attended - the men were quite literally inundated with attention. We could see that these men were VERY much into the craft.... and that was their purpose for being there. However, there was a side effect: the women flocked to them, included them, and showed interest in them and their ideas. There have even been marriages within that community due to meeting there. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/25 02:40 PM |
| 3 | My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time jobI was very clear when I said that he was fortunate to have inherited his home. Also said wonderful I don't understand how that could have translated as a bad thing. Everything ELSE in my post was asking for further clarification and discussed what could cause a woman to be put off by a seemingly unmotivated man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 07:13 PM |
| 3 | My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time jobOk. You've a full-time job, which is outside of the OP. How are both degrees useless? Can the skills/degree not be utilized within another field? Without attempting to be too invasive, may I ask why everything is just beginning for you at 35? Restarts and pivots are pretty common for most people, which is why I don't understand how women seem to be taking it poorly. I'd need more context. I'm not going to knock an inherited place to live. COL is astronomical where I live. That wouldn't be a dete… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 06:43 PM |
| 7 | My friends GF broke up with him because he only has a part time jobSo he's been fortunate enough to inherit an apartment where he's able to save money. Wonderful. Is he also working part-time? How nice for him. Was that the plan, or is that the extent of ability/drive/self-motivation? What ELSE is he doing? Is he exploring other educational avenues? A different vocation? Is he cultivating meaningful and serviceable hobbies and skills? Is he preparing for when that lifestyle might not be sustainable any longer? Does he have another part-time position as a backup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/25 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Can the illiterate be sexy?Merriam- Webster begs to differ. illiterate adjective il·lit·er·ate (ˌ)i(l)-ˈli-t(ə-)rət Synonyms of illiterate 1 : having little or no education especially : unable to read or write an illiterate population 2 : showing or marked by a lack of acquaintance with the fundamentals of a particular field of knowledge musically illiterate 3 a : violating approved patterns of speaking or writing b : showing or marked by a lack of familiarity with language and literature | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 12:08 PM |
| 2 | Can the illiterate be sexy?It means having very little educational prowess and an inability to read and write. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 11:26 AM |
| 1 | Can the illiterate be sexy?No. I'm sorry, but I couldn't find an illiterate person sexy. The dynamic would instantly turn into teacher and pupil. I'm a former educator who still volunteers in support of Early Childhood Education. I would probably make that man feel patronized when I inevitably reverted to using 'teacher's voice'. That's not something I'd want to make anyone feel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/25 11:22 AM |
| 1 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.There are non collegiate fraternities in various states. Could that be an answer to some of the male loneliness crisis? Would additional male clubs, groups, and available $$$ free meeting places be the answer? Or must it only be conquered by women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 07:43 PM |
| 5 | The male loneliness epidemic is worse than you think.How do you see women taking responsibility for helping men through their loneliness? I mean, empathy and sympathy are what's being said is needed... However, there seems to be an expectation for something actionable from women concurrently with empathy and sympathy. What is that actionable measure in your opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 07:38 PM |
| 2 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?No worries at all! I figured there was some miscommunication. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 12:52 PM |
| 1 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?How you've settled upon me being a "terrible" person is beyond comprehension. Your derision is misplaced as I acknowledge your comment with agreement. Anywho, I was referring to another thread here where the Victorian Era, work houses, and labor were being discussed. Based on your response here, I assumed you'd have enjoyed the discourse. If not, do enjoy your day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 11:43 AM |
| 1 | What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to women that you actually feel is valid ?Agreed! Man! Where were you earlier when the tenants of labor in the Victorian Era were being discussed. We even pulled a poor house census. I love discourse with historians and history bounders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 12:10 AM |
| 3 | Are women in (current year) forced to wage slave?Precisely. It's why I didn't bother to engage any further. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 10:30 PM |
| 3 | Are women in (current year) forced to wage slave?I gave you empirical evidence and instances that can be fact checked. There are newspapers with census numbers behind these incidents that give further edification on the actual number of women who worked. Many companies saw working women as lesser and only recorded their wages by letter or last name. Your rapid response tells me that you've not even looked at it. Do you just want to be right? Even in the face of empiricism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 01:57 PM |
| 5 | Are women in (current year) forced to wage slave?You are utterly mistaken. This is why it's important to look at data not by bias - but by objectivity. "Female employment in the 1850s, 60s and 70s appears to have been higher than any recorded again until after World War II. Family budget evidence suggests that around 30-40 per cent of women from working class families contributed significantly to household incomes in the mid-Victorian years. This might have been even higher during the industrial revolution decades, before the rise of State and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 01:48 PM |
| 10 | Are women in (current year) forced to wage slave?Do we do any research before we post these posits? Women have ALWAYS had to work. Even in the Victorian Era, some women pulled ash from alleyways to be recycled, some whitewashed buildings from the austere oversight of poor houses/work houses. Some were maids of all work, houskeepers, knocker ups (the olden day alarm clocks. Running from door to door to wake people up) Some women and children worked in cotton mills where their lungs were lined with fluff and caused early suffocating deaths. Some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 04:45 AM |
| 11 | The empathy gap is real: A photo of an enslaved woman in Libya rocks Reddit'Reading' this photo may have led to what you're now describing. The information being sent is as follows; A. The main figure in the center is of some importance. B. They are the only one of their gender singled out. C. Every other persons face is down and covered but are not bound in any way. D. Difference in staging of centered person by binding them, personalizing them by showing their face. Humanizing them by allowing their emotional distress to be displayed. E. Previous information acknowle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/25 02:33 PM |
| 1 | The promotion of gender wage parity should have been followed by a campaign to upend the importance of the primary male breadwinner roleThere are women who do this too lol, this is not gendered. Toxic people are in both sexes. I agree. However, I was simply stating a gender to remain on topic with OP. He wished this to be centered on men and men's issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/25 06:10 PM |
| 0 | The promotion of gender wage parity should have been followed by a campaign to upend the importance of the primary male breadwinner roleWhat would a "I'm still viable when you outearn me" campaign look like to you? How would other men even receive that. There are men STILL in 2025, actively resisting the idea that someone wanting and choosing to be with them (despite any shortcomings, financial or otherwise) is better than someone having to need them. How would you encompass the needs of these men with such a campaign. And how would it determine better dating outcomes? Many women don't look at just his financial bracket. There a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 04:45 PM |
| 4 | The promotion of gender wage parity should have been followed by a campaign to upend the importance of the primary male breadwinner roleNo. Her personal anecdotal case informs how she sees the potential man/ men who wishes to have a relationship with her. She isn't going to choose an individual who is showing signs of needing to "best" her at every turn because she has already observed that outcome. Her statement had nothing to do with "all men." Stop it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/25 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Who are your role models (real or ficticious)?As a child? Sailor Moon, Daria, and my cousin, who was studying to be a linguist. A teen? Dean Koontz, Stephen King ( yes, I have short stories rolling around out there) and Jane Austen. The gentility of it all was in stark contrast to anything I observed outside of my home. Still a hardcore Tilney fan - Darcy was a donkey. Maya Angelou was just coming onto my radar at the time. Was definitely into Zulu and Mansa Musa. Had to run the school principal down to demand more research material on othe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/24 07:35 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: Do you think it's sexist/misogynistic/problematic for a man to fully avoid and decenter women?Why would this concern me? He is choosing this for himself - good on him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/24 03:41 PM |
| 1 | If Cinderella is the fairytale of a low SMV woman capturing a top 20% man. Then what is male equivalent fairytale for men's struggles?The New Guy.... DJ Qualls and Eliza Dushku. Who's That Girl.... several callbacks to male fairytale couplings MallRats American Pie series... Gone with the Wind... dude hit her with a " Frankly My Dear, I don't give a damn" while walking away War & Peace - book and movie There are several of these tales - even in the ones that are meant to be for women viewers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Why are so many women in their 30s and 40s single, childless, and dissatisfied with their dating prospects?People said that! They said, "I just don't want/like children," and then society crashed over their heads, demanding that they validate their stance with reasons that SOCIETY deemed as acceptable or even responsible. Even know you've political rhetoric demanding children and denigrating those who don't have them. I mean, look at this OP. I don't want children. I don't want to give birth to one, and I don't want to adopt one. While I'm here; I don't like animals either. The idea of anything or an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Cultural changes that might help the current gender issuesAre these not already the norm? Strong political rhetoric for monogamous partnering and offspring are screamed from the White House to the coal mine. It's not that monogamy isn't the cultural norm - it's that many people don't want to get married at all. From most individual observable and anecdotal data, it reads as a zero sum pursuit. The math is not a mystery anymore. We can see that the geometry is thrown off. It's like flat pattern drafting and cutting for a tailored shirt. Everything can b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/24 05:49 AM |
| 1 | If you were a billionaire, would you still pursue a romantic relationship/marriage? Why/why not?Nope. I'd just continue to focus on my nieces and nephew. I'd continue to build their Johnny Appleseed accounts and invest so that they've a nice launching pad... same as my parents provided for us. I invest in the people in my life. But the idea of loving someone that deeply and just being a means to an end for them does not delight me. So no, romance will still be on my 'nope' list. Also, the friends I have now would be maintained - new people would fit firmly into acquaintances without any of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 10:54 AM |
| 9 | Are women in denial about dating/relationships? Mainly pertaining to their standardsNot particularly. I'm well aware that a cocobutter slathered Mr. Tilney has never existed in my lifetime - nor will he. My preference isn't that my partner be rich or have access to a profession that sees him making more than me. His ability to care for HIMSELF is what I'm after when I ask about employment. Is he actually taking care of his own needs while between relationships, or is he in stasis until the next woman comes along. I don't give a damn if a man is tall... the man I loved with all … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 12:31 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Why would I pity my sister-in-laws happiness? She seems quite content with the way they've chosen to live. It suites them both and at least seems to work for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/24 01:31 AM |
| 9 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?Exactly! My brother is the same. He does have a need to tight fist gender norms because he feels that it defines and identifies people. Meanwhile, growing up, he and I both had to tackle all manner of experiences - to the point that I have many skills and talents that are considered masculine and strenuous as well as those labeled as classically feminine. Yet, he is always praising me for my abilities and business acumen. Proudly boasts to his peers about how established I am. For his wife, howe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 04:50 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: What would you do if your male friend or partner told you he had some manosphere beliefs?My brother. He shares some of these beliefs and is a married man. I love my brother - but steer clear of conversations with him about these beliefs. He's pretty militant about them, and I know it would just lead to disagreement. However, I do engage with some Bigo manospherians. We have discussions frequently about these topics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/24 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Romantic movies and TV are worse culprits of dating struggles than dating appsI have to say, I quite enjoyed this breakdown. I whole- heartedly agree... even down to the romantic literature for women. I am a Jane Austen, Bronte, Dickens, etc... fan. So it was never the Brad Pitts and Denzels of the world for me... it was ALWAYS Mr. Tilney... Darcy was just not for me. I grew up and learned all of the skills and abilities to be of interest to a man such as Mr. Tilney. Ahem.... Mr. Tinley doesn't exist... nor the playful gentility or editorial wit. Oh, there are men who do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/24 07:11 PM |
| 5 | Men have to vote as a block because they can't rely on generosity of feminists.There has been respect shown to the male loneliness concern by women. There are articles from nearly every news source that discusses it in some form or another. All seeking to divine the reasons and lay blame somewhere. Some articles blame the economy, lack of male drive for higher education, women, hypergamy, loss of third spaces, individualism, other men, classism, and the list goes on... There have been women who have said yes, it's lonely out here in these streets. Yes, it's difficult to fi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/24 06:58 PM |
| – | The Zeitgeist of the 21st century is Socially and Economically Oppressive to Young Men.Sir... parks, drive-ins, diners, malls, strip malls, recreational centers, Dave & Busters, boys and girls clubs, big brother/big sister programs, and Rallys/Checkers still exist. There are still city socials that are advertised in local event papers/city social media. There were just events last week in most major & their surrounding cities. There are so many Expos, Niche (cars, hair, sewing, biking, sporting) shows, etc... to go to. We aren't without third spaces that even high schoolers could … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/11/24 09:51 PM |
| 7 | I need a trad husbandWhile I'm not saying that it is hard per se - if that was the only thing expected of her during her working hours. However, its not. Which means the continued monotony of daily exercises, being the child's only source of entertainment or need fulfillment, the other household tasks and expectations, the lack of another adult voice to bounce thoughts and ideas off of... all of that compounded can make things feel hard. It's just you and your child(ren) in a 24/7 monotonous daily schedule of tasks,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 09:22 PM |
| 11 | I need a trad husbandHi, former ECE educator here. How are you? The misinformation that babies sleep most of the day seems to be quite rampant. Infants sleep frequently from birth until about 4 months. From four months of age, they have become more active and interested in sights and sounds. Developmentally, they are beginning to work on gross motor skills, like holding their heads up and steady with full control, gripping objects including toys, rattles, and bottles, and beginning to roll. Some 4 month olds desire … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/11/24 06:39 PM |
| 5 | There are rational reasons for working class men to dislike female empowerment; Women irrespective of their living conditions or ideology will always be hypergamous. There is no egalitarian utopia at the end of the female empowerment rainbow, just more male disposabilityMany single women aren't 'waiting their turn'. They've decided that the peace they've created for themselves is much better than the unknowable experiences that dating and marriage will introduce. I chose additional work and responsibilities to foot the bill for an apartment during college JUST to avoid roommates. It's working class men who end up becoming perpetual bachelours and childless You're right. Surrogacy is a hugely expensive business and may come with tedious strings attached... if it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/11/24 07:04 PM |
| 0 | CMV: It's ok to end a marriage/family for your own happinessMmm.... Nope. Can't subscribe to that ideology of yours. While a goal of yours may be to have a partner and children, that is not a goal for everyone. Being unhappily shackled, for lack of a better term, to individuals or even family can cause one to create harm and toxicity. Not every emotional performance can be bottled up and hidden away. There will come a time when that discontent, anger, and caged rage will seep out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 05:20 PM |
| 10 | Fat chicks🤣🤣🤣🤣I screamed at boss music playing when you face the stairs. Tears just streaming down my face.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 04:16 PM |
| 5 | Why do men pursue women with traits or lifestyles they don’t approve of once they are in a relationship?I'm not into it either. I stood outside with friends once and bounced when I saw the line and the crush of people going inside. I don't like super crowded places, random people brushing past me, loud music banging on non-stop. I dipped off and had tea elsewhere. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/24 11:19 AM |
| 3 | What are some things you envy about the other sex that are NOT commonly talked about?Precisely. It's ingrained in societies mind that we are loud, brash, neck twisting, twerking, angry degenerates in addition to the expectations of multiple children from various different fathers. And then the negative compliments of 'Oh, you're different though.... you're not like the others' unicorn status when you don't fit the stereotype in any way shape or form. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/24 12:01 PM |
| 4 | Let's say women's standards are too high. Now what?You sound just like a well-rounded person with life goals and marked personal upward mobility. And while you may be a straight-up net positive.... some women just aren't interested in dating at all. Full stop. It has absolutely nothing to do with your looks, acquisitions, or viability. It's THEM not being viable themselves in that moment. Sometimes it has nothing to do with a standard at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 04:33 PM |
| 2 | Women Discriminate Against Single Dads Much More Than Guys Do with Single MomsI can still get dates and get girlfriends pretty easy, but I am rejected by women a lot solely for that reason. This is a great thing! They aren't trying to waste your time and resources to go on dates! They are giving you a firm no, and you know the reason(s) behind it! This is ideal, is it not? They are clearly saying that the situation and extenuating responsibilities is something they can not and will not be able to take on. Yet, not every woman is rejecting you, and you can still get dates … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 03:03 PM |
| 4 | Women Discriminate Against Single Dads Much More Than Guys Do with Single MomsWomen in their 30s are mostly out of the question for me to date. Either the woman got kids and having a Brady Bunch situation is a nightmare idea for them. Then if woman doesn’t have kids, they don’t want to have anything to do with you, because they want to have kids just their own. .... or have reached their thirties and decided they don't want to have children at all. This includes children that single fathers bring into the relationship. This isn't a mark against *you, it's the fact that th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/24 10:52 AM |
| 9 | Q4W: Which of these dating preferences is acceptable?What about this is confusing or incomprehensible? People don't date what they aren't attracted to. Period. No amount of pressure or attempted social shaming is going to force the masses into a relationship with someone they don't want. Hell, all it's going to do is reduce the people interested in dating at all. People are mad already at the numbers of men and women checking out of dating. The amount of people wringing their hands over the 'unattached, childfree, and happy about it' demographic t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 05:12 PM |
| 3 | Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depressionIf it's a choice it means that the person know she can have one if she wants, her self steem is already increased by this fact alone The crux of this opinion is that it leans heavily on the idea that sex (and how many people desire you for it) is the only 'achievement' in which validation and self-esteem are built. However, self-esteem boosts, tools for social emotional development, and 'achievement' pre-date sexual or intimate curiosity from infancy to adulthood. It's understanding that being a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 03:16 AM |
| 6 | Too many men conflate sexual frustration with depressionIt's not improbable. There are individuals who will not sacrifice their sense of self-worth or peace just for sex. They choose to abstain. Their self-esteem is not bolstered or disappated by who wants to have sex with them... especially the one who would kill their peace. They find validation and bolster their self esteem in other ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/24 10:54 PM |
| 1 | American women are way more toxic than most other womenAwesome! I'm glad you found an oasis in Scandi Countries. We all want love and respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:12 AM |
| 3 | American women are way more toxic than most other womenI just mentioned that I'm in Manchester as a point of reference and to make my point. But, I haunt many different places in Europe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 02:05 AM |
| 10 | American women are way more toxic than most other womenI'm back in Manchester for a while, and it's the same issue here. My friends complain about the state of dating and vilify each other. There is also a certain sense of 'othering' I feel here. Like I'm set apart from the censure. That's the best way I can describe it. It's like people holding onto the hope that the grass is greener on the other side and rushing in head first with blinders on. But honestly, there are toxic, awful, and despicable people in every corner of this earth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 11:12 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menExactly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 10:49 PM |
| – | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menI truly am less bothered about what a man makes VS who he is at his core. A rich abuser has zero value to me. A man with a decent job, compatibility, and is even tempered has more value to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 02:21 PM |
| 5 | In 2024, Women Are More Valued Than Ever in the Dating MarketNot particularly, no. Not having sex or intimate touch doesn't bother me or make me feel lonely. But I do have friends and family to hang out with... who value me. I also prefer to have my own space and aren't very touchy freely so... it works better for me to be single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/24 11:18 AM |
| 2 | Women: What is the truth about men's hobbies and quirkiness?I'm good with it. I'll also take an active interest and try something when invited.... I also expect him to show an interest in my hobbies as well....and take an active part if/when invited. 😈🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Women consider a woman’s company to be more valuable than a man’sSo now 'chad' includes just any man one woman finds attractive? He doesn't have to be seen as attractive by other women... just her, to be inducted into the 'chad' hall of fame? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 09:56 AM |
| 5 | Women consider a woman’s company to be more valuable than a man’sActually, I don't. The dudes many of you all swear down are 'chads' aren't particularly enticing to me. So, your idea of 'chad' level looks are 'whatever tf those are, to me. I don't see what you see. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 03:52 AM |
| 7 | Women consider a woman’s company to be more valuable than a man’sYes, I've paid for a first date, went back for a second, and stayed with the splendid man until his BP2 spun out of control, and he went back to his country. This man was 5'6, bald, and a wonderful dork. We got along great. No, I'm not a unicorn. Plenty of women don't make money, height, 'chad' level looks (whatever tf those are), and social climbing the major priorities. None of that means he won't knock a head between the washer and dryer. I prefer my relationship without DV, thank you very mu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/24 03:14 AM |
| 4 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?I understood your point. I also understand that there are other possibilities that make the woman leaving the situation the wrong or bad party. My point is that even still... the answer remains the same. She could be the devil incarnate, wrong as all hell, riddled with faults, and a complete dumpster fire - let go of the person who is throwing you away. The way some people are saying "well she isn't right all the time" to this post sounds like being 'wrong' is an indictment for her to have to re… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 07:17 PM |
| 7 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?Maybe because she thinks she can get a hotter guy. Maybe she did think that. Maybe she can. Maybe she can't. Or the sex was good but he's not rich enough Maybe he isn't. 🤷🏿♀️ He blew her back out, but his ducketts were lacking. Or she wants new dick. But if the sex was great... why would she need this? Or there's no crying because she doesn't give a fuck. Maybe she doesn't. Maybe she is shedding tears over that sunk cost fallacy... All of this makes women seem pragmatic and good, and doesn't al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 06:26 PM |
| 21 | How are women able to walk away from a guy so easily?That scenario may only work for the women who utilize OLD and other social media platforms. We've data that shows fewer women utilize OLD than assumed. The 'abundance mindset' isn't indicative of a women's relationship ideology. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/24 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Question for woman: are the good looking guys always better in bed?Nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/09/24 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Q4W who "make men wait for sex": what culture, religion, and/orcountry are you from?I'm Caribbean American. I was born and raised in New York during the fall & winter and went home to Barbados during the spring and summer. I was raised Seventh Day Adventist and attended private schools up through college. While I'm no longer a member of the church, I've retained some of the teachings. I was also raised in a two parent home - both had a vested interest in our education and electives. I've never engaged in an ONS, OLD profile, FWB, HGS, or anything of the kind. It's just how I've… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/24 04:48 PM |
| -1 | Men: what are some ways that women have treated you "horribly"?Let me preface this as I'm asking for clarity. Were these study groups or grouped project meetings? I know I was forced to be in grouped assignments (I despised group assignments with a passion) and had to work with classmates I barely knew. Those people barely put in any effort to complete the assignment because they just knew I was going to do all the work. They would call or meet up and assign the bulk of the work to me. Then, in PT, stand up there like they'd taken an active part and wanted … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/24 09:42 AM |
| 5 | More women need to practice what they preach when it comes to sex and datingI'm not missing the point. I've addressed the point. 1), be honest about what attracts them No one woman has a guide to the likes, dislikes, and aversions of absolutely all women in the world. One hypothetical woman saying, " Thanks, but I'm not attracted to you. I prefer men who are a bit more nerdy and slightly pudgy." doesn't do anything for the guy except explain why SHE turned him down. The next woman is on something different. while criticizing men for having comparable or lower standards.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Women don't want to be breadwinners, or do domestic labor.80+ hours bi-weekly. 40+ weekly... The percentage of women who work 40+ weekly? We've stats on that, yes? Women work. I don't know why this notion persists when it's clear there are more women in the workforce than are stay at home girlfriends/wives/moms. There is the notion that 'women working, being more educated, and ascending the corporate ladder, are 'causing' the low birth rate.' That doesn't sound like they aren't providing labor to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 11:40 AM |
| 12 | More women need to practice what they preach when it comes to sex and datingI don't quite know what outcome you're looking for in response to this post. Yes... some women behave in these ways. The cooled ardor after asking consent is wild to me. It's specifically what's been requested of men in showing respect. Women should also be asking for consent from the men they want intimacy with. I will say this... attraction seems to be a nonnegotiable. She isn't likely to choose, be sexually enthusiastic, or even willing if there isn't some kind of attraction. Dead bedrooms, u… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 10:42 AM |
| 4 | Women don't want to be breadwinners, or do domestic labor.How... disingenuous. That's not even remotely similar nor quantified. But, I will use your analogy; LeBron James is but one person. Fewer people will have the pleasure of seeing him in person. Whereas people, we're working in plurals now, with talents in various sports and have some of the same attributes as LeBron are more likely to be seen by MANY more people. More than 1 woman has the skills, abilities, and attributes I've outlined in my first response. Hence, there is a greater ability to co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 10:04 AM |
| 17 | Women don't want to be breadwinners, or do domestic labor.There are women out here sewing and tailoring whole wardrobes for their nieces, nephews, and themselves, working 80+ hours bi-weekly, keeping an immaculate home (this includes baseboards, walls, doorknobs, and trim). They are doing their own renovations and aesthetic upgrades. They're volunteering at institutions that support the elderly, children, and homeless. They're involved in various community events. I know more women who are very industrious and upwardly mobile. I'm not quite sure why/wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 12:44 AM |
| 8 | Question for women: Have you tried making a fake dating profile as a man to see how it would go on tinder/bumble/any other dating service?There's no need. I'm already aware of the difficulties in OLD as well as IRL. There are women who want to date, women who want casual, and women who aren't interested at all. Of the women who want to date/casual = Each individual one has their own preferences, interests, and attraction triggers. Most will not swipe for/date/sleep with men they're not attracted to, interested in, or dislike. Of the women who aren't interested in dating... well, that narrows the dating arena even further... They a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 04:42 PM |
| – | CMV: A man isn't obligated to step in and save a woman from being mugged or assaulted.I completely understand the hesitation to intervene in dangerous situations with strangers. I will still continue to call 911 and provide assistance when I see something. I would hope someone would help me if I'm fighting for my life... but I wouldn't expect it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/24 11:58 AM |
| 2 | All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathicInteresting. If it benefits him, good. If not, there is nothing more to be said. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 11:58 AM |
| 1 | All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathicThey're definitely around. Like I said; they may seem few and far between, but they exist. I work with all women. Just asked 5 of them if a 34 year old kissless virgin status is a no for them. Only 1 was averse. The other 4 were here for it. They're out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 11:56 AM |
| 4 | All things considered the best suggestion for men in USA dating wise is to be sociopathicBy some women. Not every woman. You being 34 and a kissless virgin isn't a negative turn-off for every woman. I'm not quite sure what encompasses your situation... but I'm pretty sure it's probably not insurmountable. Don't descend into the mayhem of lying and deception. Finding a person that you're compatible with, attracted to, AND burn up the sheets with is HELLA HARD! It's a trial and error combative state to be in. The people who hold all of those prior attributes are few and far between...… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/24 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Declining birth rates can't be solved by government programs because beta males won't benefit from itPrecisely my point! You need to be proactive in securing your own future. I don't just use the 403b, IRA, to host my funds. Too much future insecurity and ideas on who should be taxed more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 11:12 PM |
| 8 | Declining birth rates can't be solved by government programs because beta males won't benefit from itAre you providing YOURSELF with an alternative should that 'SS Scam' fail you in your elder years? Did you pay into a 403b, which is a part of retirement planning? How about a nest egg using your Roth IRA account? Where all of your pretaxed dollars won't be taxed again on payout. A rainy day fund that sees the amount you can afford stashed away in savings? Even the elderly today complain about the small amount of SS they receive. It's not enough to cover anything without those additional provisi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 12:32 PM |
| 13 | Declining birth rates can't be solved by government programs because beta males won't benefit from itI have a great job and pay hella taxes. My taxes go to fund others' lives, education, and retirement. And when I say 'others', I don't just mean women. There are men and young boys who also benefit from taxpayer dollars. The Unemployment Office gets that money from somewhere.... and it's not donations from viewers like you. I pay hella money to put care packages together that are passed out to the homeless, feed the homeless, and donate to shelters, many with a high male population. Both men AND… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/24 12:21 PM |
| 9 | Fairness/equality if the dating landscape could only exist if the vast majority of women’s life’s were worse if single.Are you seriously proposing that women should enter relationships that would make their lives worst? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/24 10:13 PM |
| – | Why is it so common for young women to not want kids ?I'm 40 and childfree. I never, ever, wanted to have a child. I was fiercely opposed to the idea from a very young age for a plethora of reasons. Understanding that you don't have to have children to be motivated, fulfilled, or invested in/by life is NOT a new concept. The negative connotations of a 'bluestocking' (etymology 1750). It was said that women who enjoyed reading and learning would forever be spinsters. Even the term for spinster decries your edict that it is mostly young women who cho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/24 01:30 PM |
| 10 | Do you support no longer sending women to prison ?That's absurd. Of course, this is an insupportable proposition. Prison for these criminals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 03:41 AM |
| 3 | If there is "someone for everyone out there" how do so many men struggle to find one (1) woman that likes them back?There isn't someone for everyone out there. It's a way of giving someone hope in a future possibility. I mean, the girl who might have liked him... may just be in her home, in another city, state, or continent. She may prefer a nocturnal work life and is out while he is sleeping. Some people are asexual and recognize that the guy wants his horizontal mambo frequently. Some women opt out completely. They aren't interested in dating, marriage, or sex. There are so many reasons... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/24 03:39 AM |
| 1 | Women are not entitled to anything from menGeneral 'niceties', manners, and graces are a social contract most people adhere to. A quick good morning, a head nod, wave, respectful personal space, etc... While these are socially engineered to make cohabitation on this planet more 'pleasant and genial', some do see this as a basic form of accepted... well... entitlement. You are entitled to have your personal space respected. If not, there are accepted consequences for the breech of etiquette. However, while women are not entitled to the lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/24 10:30 PM |
| – | As an east asian woman, I don't get Western women's idea of dating and marriageI'm a Black Caribbean woman in America. The 'single career-less baby momma' monolithic stereotype isn't my life. I've no children, never had a scare or an abortion, and didn't participate in casual sex or party culture. I remain single because I'm not interested in the way dating and marriage is viewed or conducted. My siblings were married before their children arrived. Something missing from the perspective shown to you....is that a lot of these single moms were married before the children arr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/24 08:33 PM |
| 14 | The bar is on the floor for a being marriage material womenLiterally, the word defined... Dictionary Definitions from Oxford Languages · Learn more adjective ready to conform to the authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive. "a submissive, almost sheeplike people" Basically, a 'yes dear' shut up and put up with it second class citizen in the home they share. Those dynamics aren't something I'm willing to subject myself to - nor subject someone I love to either. The very idea evokes "ownership" connotations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 07:41 AM |
| 1 | The key to long term marriages is woman marrying their equalHer equal financially.... but what else??? So what if our yearly income matches. So what if we are "looksmatched". 🤔 Our finances are identical, and we are in the same looks bracket.... now what else? Because I know you don't believe that this is all that's needed for a happy and healthy relationship. You can't believe that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/24 11:27 AM |
| 11 | Why are adult Anglospherian females obsessed with a man's income?Obsessed? Not at all. Demand that he outearn me to be able to date me? I've never. Match me in work ethic and help to build our proverbial 'table'? Heck, yes! AND in the mid 30's the ask is that you have built your own table so we can push both our tables together. Then we both have a say about what's SERVED on that table. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/24 07:20 PM |
| 8 | What are PPD’s thoughts on Richard Reeves’ comment that childless and wifeless men comparatively “do terribly”?Actually, that seems to be more of a USA hang-up for many men. The idea that someone will view them hugging their male bestie as anything other than platonic friendship. Ever notice, though, how bromances are highly appreciated by many women? Anthony Mackie and Sebastian Stan's bromance is so epic that there are hour long edits of them just hanging out. They are super touchy feely, compliment each other, have nicknames that are hilariously accurate, and tell each other and others how much they l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/24 04:29 PM |
| 1 | People who think being single is no big deal have no way to know how time would affect them.Not a problem for attractive guys. Indeed women love it. Are we to believe that 'attractive' men who are wildly antisocial and are removed from society by choice.... are home invaded and dragged from their couches by gaggles of thirsty women for the pleasure of their antisocial company? You do realize a lot of this loneliness on both sides is due to people NOT wanting to engage and finding satisfaction in hobbies and activities in their homes. There are so many podcast dudes talking about the wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/24 11:45 AM |
| 2 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subNot in the least. The idea of a large social circle for a man isn't supportable for many men. There is a friendship dirth and disconnected social community to contend with. Some men are having difficulties meeting, making, and maintaining social connections and friendships. Having 1 or 2 close friends doesn't make a man socially inept. It makes him capable of sustaining relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 12:43 PM |
| 5 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subSocial proof? There is nothing guaranteed in any relationship. It's a mere glimpse into who the person may be. It's a gathering of information to be better informed on who this potential partner really is. None of it is empirical... only anecdotal observations that may later be obsolete. However, it is still a necessity for that phase. Furthermore, a large group of peers just means social fluidity. How close are the members of this large friend group? Are the interactions superfluous or deep and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 11:07 AM |
| 8 | Most of what Andrew Tate says is spilled between the lines by women on this subNot particularly. Your friend group doesn't have to be large and out on the town. However, having 1 or 2 friends is important. It shows that you can form bonds and maintain them. It also allows a perspective partner to see how you talk with, compromise during a disagreement, your preferred talking points, etc... with these friends upon introduction. It's still very much an important part of the observation phase. For both men and women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 10:51 AM |
| 3 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.While I'm currently living in a white western society, I've not always. Nor am I a part of that demographic. So, it's those who most resemble me that were dealing with FGM, so I heavily empathize. I also empathize with men who find themselves in a situation where they've undergone a circumcision at infancy and had no say over their own body. Which is why I say grown men should have a choice. Guess that upsets some people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 09:10 PM |
| 2 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.I'm here for it. Draft them both and train them properly. I would love to be able to say abolish the draft. However, we all know there wouldn't be enough people willing to sign up for service voluntarily. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 09:05 PM |
| 3 | If you could pick your child’s gender, given what you know of the world, which would you go for?When I did consider children briefly, I wanted a son. I've 2 younger brothers whose lives haven't seen the hardships some of the men here lament. So, I have a different perspective of how young men can move through life. And yes, they were both successful in their relationships and are married with children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 09:00 PM |
| 1 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.In terms of life (war, drafting laws)? In terms of relationships (need vs want / lack of interest from desired partners/ acceptance for where a man is in life presently)? Which portion of this should be addressed first? I'd really like to discuss an action plan to tackle a portion of this as a starting point. Figuring this out while not overburdening another set of people is the goal. How should we begin? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 08:49 PM |
| 6 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.May I ask what's one major concern of most men that you feel needs to be tackled ASAP? One singular piece that weighs on the hearts and minds of most men yet sees no coverage or progress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:50 PM |
| 3 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.so why do feminists oppose men's shelters? Why does this misinformation still persist? Whilst I can not say who these 'feminists' are... they've not been very successful as there are exclusively male shelters for men. Homeless as well as for male domestic violence victims. I've linked some here just last week. To add to it, I also linked mental health consultants for men only... though availability is never a guarantee. deny that many accusations are false? With all of the conversations popping … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:46 PM |
| -1 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.In that case... shouldn't they begin altering their course of action if they're not seeing any positive changes? To continue in the same vein would be redundant and wasteful, would it not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:38 PM |
| -1 | The end goal of feminism is revenge, not equality. Men need to recognize this and stop playing nice.Can we just take a moment to truly reflect on female circumcision and the true reason why most MEN wanted it eradicated? The clit is a delightful ball of sensitive nerve endings that send most women into ecstasy when it's fondled just right. If that's snipped off... what woman, especially those who've never been able to climax through PIV stimulation, is going to want to have and be ENTHUSIASTIC for sex? Hmmm? There is already a complaint from men in different stages of relationships who began d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/24 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Question For Women, Which Of These Men Would You Rather Get Into A Relationship With?There are no romantic prospects here. Josh is abusive and is in a perpetual bad mood. No thanks. He is for no one until he gets himself in order. Paul was sounding good until I got to slob. That's a peeve of mine. I simply can not overlook this in terms of marriage prospects. It would make me begin to get angry and resent him for the state of our space if he can not help maintain the cleanliness of our home. He is for someone who enjoys caretaking and cleaning behind others. Adam is a HELL NO si… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/24 09:43 PM |
| 18 | Feminism cant claim moral superiority on gender issues and gender equality without giving equal importance and providing equal effort to mens issuesThen feminists can fight for inclusion of men in domestic violence shelters instead of fighting against it. Um.... there are all male domestic violence shelters in the US. US Male DV Shelter DV Male Survivor Shelter + Free Mental Health Counciling Then feminists can fight for free mental health checkup for men(and women) who are going through divorce. Isn't Universal Healthcare on the docket for most men and women? That's been an uphill battle for decades. Not that AVAILABILITY would be guarante… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/24 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Financial emancipation is not a convincing explanation for why women have become more selective in recent yearsThe issue being debated is that women want MORE than just money. That 'protect & provide' isn't the end all be all for selection... compatibility has entered the picture. If it's true that women only want to marry for income then we need to tax single women under 40 at a super high rate. For what? Tax someone because they're aiming for marriage with a fiscally responsible person? Many of these women are fiscally responsible as well and seeking their match. No one wants to entrust their funds and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 05:22 PM |
| 16 | Financial emancipation is not a convincing explanation for why women have become more selective in recent yearsHis sentiments were not the ravings of a lone madman. It's only one published work. There are various news clippings with men, photos posted, and expressing the same ideals. There seems to be some push to position selectivity as an unprecedented modern male affliction. Empirically, it simply isn't. There are even private letters that have been published illustrating selectivity even in early 1900. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 12:41 AM |
| 28 | Financial emancipation is not a convincing explanation for why women have become more selective in recent yearsSir, let me reference the 1945 published text of one Thomas D. Horton on the topic of "What Men Don't Like About Women." Right in the table of Contents, you will find guidance to the chapter on 'Their unreasonable expectations,Their unfair sex practices...and more'. Once financial emancipation was imminent for most middling class women, selection criteria for a life partner became more than just protect and provide. The poorer class women always had industry, though underpaid and overworked. Poo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/24 12:30 AM |
| 4 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.I've no idea what to tell you. I've never run into a woman whose only criteria for decency are looks, height, and money. Not even once. Even the peers who were struck by appearance have expectations of mental, emotional prowess, and a desire to have a match based on compatibility and love. However, behavioral affectation sucks for both parties. Pretending to be someone or something you aren't is taxing and mentally wearing. It's a betrayal of self. The person you're posing for may begin to see t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 06:02 PM |
| 1 | It's not mens fault that modern dating is awful.It's the "decent" which brings nuance. Your understanding of decency may just be P&P (protect & provide), which may not be the desire of the person you wish to be desirable to. P&P is nice... but who are YOU? What are your goals, aspirations, hobbies, dreams, etc. How are you with your family, friends, and children? What brings you joy and drives you? What does your attachment style look like? Do you have affection/affectation anxieties? What does emotional investment look like to you - and how … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/24 05:39 PM |
| 3 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessI literally can’t control if women take it that way then. It’s pointing out things women do that can be awful so of course they will see it that way even if it’s not. So let's address it. Some women do awful things. One is the denigration of male sexual prowess. What measures should women enmass be taking to ensure that some women don't tell a man he was bad in bed? I never said I wouldn’t. However as we know things aren’t as simple as “just leave in the case of abuse” Is that not a hurdle for e… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 12:28 AM |
| 3 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessNo. But thinks like “small dick energy” or “short man syndrome” is fowl don’t you think? By inserting "don't you think," personalized it by making it a question about my personal opinion on the subject. What’s accusatory about it? While I didn't say your OP was accusatory- I did say that the overall tone of the discourse may come out as accusatory. Which answered the statement of your OP as to why some women are taking this personally. Considering we have now extend yelling or cussing as emotion… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 12:17 AM |
| 3 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessSo I ask, how can one NOT personalize a grievance if the tone of the discussion is accusatory? When the aggrieved individual is looking for a resolution from their audience? It has personalizing tendencies. That is the answer to the statement in your OP. Also, expanding the terms of emotional abuse to include references to anything verbally shared within the relationship may be overreaching, no? Would we then add the remembrances of activities and experiences that we found negative to the new te… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 11:35 PM |
| 5 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessWhy is it all of a sudden it’s bad now? I understand you're passionate about the subject, but I assure you that my opinion isn't illustrated in that text. I was addressing the subjects proposed and asking what measures were being requested. No. But thinks like “small dick energy” or “short man syndrome” is fowl don’t you think? It is. I've never used such terms but have heard them. Have I said something? Sure did! Did it make a difference? In the moment, it might... or they double down on their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 11:29 PM |
| 5 | As long as women take criticisms personally we will never achieve equality or happinessAs long as women take criticisms personally At times, discourse may come off sounding accusatory. That may be the cause of the defensive personalization of the complaint or concern. Another point may be that the woman is interpreting this as a directive. Meaning; I have X problem. You need to get these other women to stop this, so my problem is fixed. Sounds like you're putting a battery in her back and sending her on a mission... Increasing beauty standards Yes, women prefer a hygienic man. Hai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Are most women not interested in casual relationships?I was never interested in casual sex. It holds no appeal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 12:25 PM |
| 0 | Why do you want the man to approach you?In truth, I'm not instantly attracted to anyone. I would never approach because physical appearance isn't how I am attracted. It's very different when it's a person you're exposed to regularly. Her approach may differ from expectation. Many women may ask if you're attending a social function provided by the job or place you frequent together. They may engage you in a conversation on your interests, leads you into expounding on the topic, and draw out the conversation. It may not come out as " Yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/24 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What is your personal definition of a "good man"?I truly hope that he is able to maintain a healthy and happy relationship with his children. I hope he is receiving the treatment and support he needs to build his life into something that makes him happy and content. That's all I can do for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 11:06 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: What is your personal definition of a "good man"?It definitely was. Thanks for reading. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 10:54 PM |
| 9 | Q4W: What is your personal definition of a "good man"?Honestly? Yes. But it was a bunch of things imploding at once that set it off. He met my family and got deep and entrenched into each other's lives. He proposed, and everything was set ... and then his life fell apart. He lost his job and began having issues with his ex-wife, which resulted in missed time with the children. The youngest apparently told the mom she wanted to come live with me. And he spiraled into a BP2 laced depression. I stayed supportive, listened to him, and made suggestions … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Women will defend women no matter whatFacts! People are often defensive when their personal believes, ideals, or choices are being questioned. Sometimes, they double down on an opinion they KNOW is dumb or wrong.... just to defend their stance. Nobody wants to be wrong about anything these days. No one wants to take a moment and self reflect enough to admit they're wrong, misguided, or misunderstood the situation. That's why we can't seem to get out of these gender wars. No one wants to be accountable for their actions. No one wants… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 01:53 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: What is your personal definition of a "good man"?I had a "good man" in my last relationship. Loved that man fiercely. So, I'll talk about what made him a good man to me. He was just as goofy as I am. This Irish lad was a proper dork (self labeled), and I'm a geek. M was always grabbing my hand for a 'frolic'. We'd basically be skipping through the store while shopping. He didn't care who knew how happy he was being with me. His feelings were on display, and I 100% loved that. It made it even more comfortable to be just as open about how I felt… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/24 01:43 PM |
| 37 | Women will defend women no matter whatFrom the post... I wouldn't say the guy was insecure. I'd say he was hurt about being misled and lied to. I'd say he was upset to find out the truth second hand. His choice and emotional autonomy wasn't respected in the relationship. The girl lied. Period. She broke trust with the guy. She should have illustrated that she, at one point, engaged in casual sex and felt terrible after. She attempted to roll it into a relationship, and that didn't work. She then made a promise to herself never to en… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/24 09:15 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular Opinion: Just like women, most men are demisexualI'm not well versed in the sexuality spectrum list, and I wasn't aware. TIL. Thanks. Honestly? I questioned if my lack of feeling was due to sociopathy... that didn't pan at all. So I gave up on ever being able to have those feelings. And I agree, some people use a label to differ or highlight that they are special. I had a guy tell me his; " focused interest in you is due to my sapiosexual nature. Your brain is the sexiest part of you." Most individuals want to feel special in some way. Spendin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 02:30 PM |
| 3 | Unpopular Opinion: Just like women, most men are demisexualI never said I was asexual. I'd never labeled it. However, I suppose demi would be more accurate. And I most certainly do feel attracted to a certain personality or character - not the physical appearance of the person. Their looks don't do anything for me, not even initially. Behaviors, quirks, and micro expressions are attention grabbers. Being in prolonged proximity through work, social settings, and daily engagement displays that persons' behaviors, quirks, and micro expressions. From there,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 01:55 PM |
| 5 | Unpopular Opinion: Just like women, most men are demisexualActually? I thought something was wrong with me. My friends would be able to feel attracted to guys and get excited being around them. Meanwhile, I felt nothing. Men approached, but I didn't feel anything - not even interest. Even my body has no response. Just dormant. I understand you may have run into others who've tried to convince you of their "special one" status. I understand why your response would be as it is. However, there are people who legitimately are demi. They aren't throwing it b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/24 01:25 PM |
| – | Women complain that men don't believe them when they say "penis size doesn't matter", but WHY should men believe them in the first place?Women can not give a collective answer on whether or not penis size matters to all women. We can only answer from the experiences and/or commentary from peers. While length may not factor, the girth just might. Average and thick may hit so well for some women, while others may not enjoy the "fully stuffed" feeling. Long and narrow may bump into the cervix area and miss the nerve endings along the vaginal wall. "The motion in the ocean" response may allude to that as well. That the girth is where… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 11:34 AM |
| 9 | Women, what percentage of you would "pursue your own pleasure" while your country collapsed (due to your refusal to give up some of your own time / effort to do something that would stop the collapse)?Sir, the way this is worded leaves only one possible 'sacrifice' topic to respond to. Your preoccupation seems to be on births and birth rates. No other topic is introduced. This is why everyone is responding about birth. For the sake of your.... discussion: let's posit that your country decided that mass circumcisions for ALL (babies - adults/ male and female) must commence immediately to stave off the POSSIBILITY of a rare new disease. This new disease MAY render the population sterile IF you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/24 03:47 PM |
| 8 | How bad are huble Jobs in the eyes of women? ( Ex. Garbage men)Love of my life was a plumber. 🤷🏿♀️ He is the one who allowed his personal perception of his own value to determine what he thought he deserved. His job, height, finances - none of it was the reason I chose him, let alone loved him. It was just what he did for a living, not WHO he was. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/24 05:10 PM |
| 2 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?My profile read as "spending a lot of time on Reddit " to you? Pretty presumptuous and incorrect. But, that's neither here nor there. The subject of this discussion is your abject need to convince and assure me that loneliness is going to eat me alive based on my CHOICE to refrain from dating and having children. I'm here to assure you that you're barking up the wrong tree. I'm flourishing quite well. As to work family from all those years ago.... yes. They are included in the collective "they" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 02:33 AM |
| 3 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?And yet... I'm not lonely. I really am brilliant hanging out on my own. I think there is a disconnect for those who've not accepted that being alone isn't FEELING loneliness. You can feel abject loneliness in a crowd of people who enjoy YOU. Also, my parents are across the world from me in my home country. They aren't a crutch to be used to cure a quiet moment in my timeline. When their time comes, I will most DEFINITELY miss them something fierce. But I STILL won't be alone. My soror sisters, s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/03/24 01:14 AM |
| 14 | If a lot of men can't get a relationship: Where are the surplus women?I've kept that same energy. I'm now 40 and have interested men who want to be suitors. I still prefer to be single so much that I choose not to date. As to "...the eggs start to dry up." As of June 2023, I yeeted the whole uterus. Mind you, I had tumors there, but the idea I'd be childless never struck me. I never wanted children to begin with. It's simply a personal choice every man and woman can make. To protect their peace... or gamble with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/24 12:33 PM |
| 5 | The advice women give to men here is devised to limit their chancesI don't see anything wrong with your solution. I don't subscribe to the idea that there is a person for everyone. With that being said, why would I begrudge a person settling into alternate avenues of pleasure that don't include a man or woman as a partner? No one should be forced to be with someone they don't want - nor should they be forced to keep playing the dating game if they want out. You don't want your tax money going towards gender specific benefits? Ok, my question is - is the initiat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women: Would you date somebody who was neurodivergent?Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women: Would you date somebody who was neurodivergent?I don't mind. His diagnosis included deep depression and isolation. He had an abusive marriage prior (which she admitted to), and he didn't deal with the aftermath with counseling/therapy once divorced. About 3 years later, he and I met. According to his breakdown at the alter; he didn't know what to do with me. We don't fight, I don't hit him, I don't scream at him, and it makes him uncomfortable and unhappy. He then yelled that it showed that I didn't really love him... and he left the church.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Question for Women: Would you date somebody who was neurodivergent?I did. Love of my life was ND. He was my absolute bestie. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/23 03:59 PM |
| 11 | Are men really the biggest problem or is it women?There are terrible, evil men and women. Full stop. There are mean and abusive men and women. Both sets of people who perpetuate these negative experiences are the BIGGEST PROBLEM. Avoiding them is the goal. You've had some negative experiences with women that you wish to focus on, ok. Exclusion, meanness, nitpicking. Social bullying for looks, lack of makeup, and clothing. These are the subjects you wish to address. The only answer I could give is that: Yes. There are mean and evil women out the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/23 10:08 PM |
| – | Men don't need to reveal that they plan on paternity testing.Ok. As I said before in the other post....about this same subject.... I'm all for it. I would have had nothing to hide. I would simply blink at him, pat his shoulder, and get past it. We all have moments of doubt, a few are permissible. However, if he is trying to tap every subsequent child for DNA proof, THAT looks like an utter lack of trust. For that - why in the world would you still be together? There's no trust and rampant doubt even though the 'proof' has been positively in his favor for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Paternity tests should not be used as a weapon against opposite sex, but as a logical progression of rightsHey, I'm all for it. If a man asks for a paternity test to soothe his nerves. Cool. And when it comes back, proclaiming him the father to all and sundry... just blink at him, pat his arm, and get past it. Some people HAVE to have unequivocal proof of things. They just can't sit in supposition. So, although you may be offended (because YOU know you haven't strayed anywhere), at least try to be a bit understanding of his position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 11:44 AM |
| – | The thing women don't understand is that there are millions of eligible women out there and a lot of guys can't get ONE (1) girlfriend.include something as minor as men's etiquette classes on how to dress fashionably and how to better attract a partner, This simply isn't an efficient or effective proposal. It intimates that what it takes to "net a woman" is a monolithic listing to be checked off as one accomplishes that task. Women and men are attracted to different fashion styles. I happen to like Edwardian nods and well fitting suits on men. My contemporaries don't understand and often chuckle at my sartorial interests. They … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/23 10:26 PM |
| 1 | You only think women’s standards are unrealistic because you view them as a monolith.Precisely! I'm pretty quiet, and the men I'm most interested in are the quiet, introspective ones. The deep thinkers who, when they do launch into a topic, have varied interests and conversation beyond the superficial. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/23 08:34 PM |
| 0 | Men are considered creeps not due to their actions, but due to thoughts of womenIf you want to continue to argue this, give 3 examples Ahh, but this isn't an argument. I simply correctly defined the word and then gave examples of how that word is used for and in real-life applications. Hence, there is no need to provide "examples nor evidence" to contradict the "predator" definition. The definition of the word creepy is; creep·y /ˈkrēpē/ adjectiveINFORMAL causing an unpleasant feeling of fear or unease. "the creepy feelings one often gets in a strange house" Should not the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Black women would have greater SMV if they were less ghettoishI'm not mixed, and I've 3b, 3c, and 4a curly hair. No fake hair added. There doesn't need to be a mix for their to be variation in hair texture and curl types. | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/10/23 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Black women would have greater SMV if they were less ghettoishNo, we don't all have afros. Our hair has varied textures and can grow up and out, or downward. There is an entire hair typing system that helps provide further information on care, density, texture, and products. With that being said, Black women and men have natural hair that ranges from 3's, which are loose bouncy elongated curls to tighter, packed, and shrunken curls. I encourage you to look at the Natural Hair subreddits here for further edification. I've posted photos of my natural hair on… | /r/AllPillDebate | 14/10/23 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Men are considered creeps not due to their actions, but due to thoughts of womenThough it is not limited to just being applied to predators. creep·y /ˈkrēpē/ adjectiveINFORMAL causing an unpleasant feeling of fear or unease. "the creepy feelings one often gets in a strange house" Inanimate objects such as houses, apartment buildings, etc can be perceived as creepy. A person feels uncomfortable and uneasy in a particular setting. "I felt uneasy in that situation" isn't as quick a sentence as "He's creepy" to convey a feeling in that moment. The woman felt uneasy in being alo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 11:29 AM |
| 3 | Men are considered creeps not due to their actions, but due to thoughts of womenThere are a few issues and social "norms" not observed while approaching. If these norms had been observed, he may not have been considered "creepy" by the OP of that post. 1.) He approached from behind. If any person is facing in front and a person begins to speak to them from behind- it is seen as a "strange occurrence " by society. A person is usually "expected" to speak when at someone's side, where heads can turn slightly and make eye contact.... or face to face. Both people have had the op… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 11:17 AM |
| 2 | Men should be able to get someone equally or even slightly less attractive than them, and most of them can’t. That’s a real problem.This part. There are people who don't want to follow the narrative assigned to them at birth/gender. Some people are attempting to take charge of the direction of their lives instead of just checking off socially assigned objectives. Where is the joy and happiness in that? To them, dating may not even be their prerogative at the time of approach/flirting. They (men and women) may be hyperfocused on a dream or goal their reaching for. | /r/AllPillDebate | 13/10/23 09:49 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHe's got a presence. I like that he cares for himself. I can see that in the clarity and condition of his skin. His face has a glow. In every picture, his shoulders aren't hunched - they're thrown back, and his sense of self, at least in that moment, is on full display. I like the lopsided grin in the first photo... he looks playful and open. His fingernails are cut short and are clean... he seems fastidious and goal oriented. I've no idea his personality nor his goals, morals, or attitude towar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/23 10:11 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, imagine a man with a list of no-no's this big. Yet for women this is TUESDAY! Yet why do you get so mad when men do this too?Thanks for reading it, I tend to ramble a bit, lol! | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/09/23 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, imagine a man with a list of no-no's this big. Yet for women this is TUESDAY! Yet why do you get so mad when men do this too?I never liked paying for a woman's date and always went Dutch, and a billion women turned up their nose at me, I'll never understand this "pay-to-play" mentality in today's economy and social progression. Investment needs to be shown by both parties. Women should show investment, too. And I'm excluding sex in that statement. If a guy, whose date YOU accepted, has done the planning, executing, provided the transport, and paid out of pocket... be PRESENT. Engage him, ask questions, listen, and fin… | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/09/23 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, imagine a man with a list of no-no's this big. Yet for women this is TUESDAY! Yet why do you get so mad when men do this too?She has a multitude of wild and strange requirements. She and I are not the same. She needs to go back to the drawing board and rethink much of this idiocy. But no, I actually find a man with standards attractive. There is just a presence about a man who knows what he wants, who he is, and will settle for nothing less. That is not to say that his looks and personality are then ignored... because they aren't. I like a man I find handsome. I do hear quite a few men who say that they have never rec… | /r/AllPillDebate | 23/09/23 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Rate YourselfWhat is it that you're interested in talking about? Could be that there are women out there who might enjoy the subject. Ijs... | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/09/23 10:49 AM |
| 0 | Best example of what actual female attraction looks likeMaybe what you've usually experienced. But no, that doesn't apply to us either. He made first contact, asked me out, and I said yes. Our first date was a walk and a stop at Starbucks... we both got the tea. We wound up walking the city and hung out in the park that evening. Convo never stopped flowing, and we were super goofy in our relationship. That man had my head all the way turned. Overweight, though? Nope, I'm not that either. Do I have to proof that picture, too? | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 12:00 PM |
| 1 | Best example of what actual female attraction looks likeOhhh, so you're angling for evidence? I mean, I've photos of us kissing if you're interest. No shame in my love🤣. Both of us short, him bald and bearded. You most assuredly aren't 12 years old... you seem far too jaded, disillusioned, and lacking in social resilience as it pertains to relationships. Not every woman likes or wants the same thing. Not every man likes or wants the same thing. The expressions of love differ in certain couples. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 11:50 AM |
| 0 | Best example of what actual female attraction looks likeYou've mistaken me for an individual who needs further attention. I simply don't. I eshew the attention I already receive, so your participation is unnecessary. I'll converse with others 😉 As to my statement about my aforementioned ex, yes! Loved him to bits! | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 11:36 AM |
| -1 | Best example of what actual female attraction looks likeMmm...no. I adored my bald and bearded ex. He was scrumdilliumptious... at 5'6. Never been so I'm love in all my life. | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/09/23 09:34 AM |
| 2 | The dinner club. Do you think it’s real on daring apps or imagined by salty people. If real, do you think it’s fair play or foul play.Never did it. I don't go out with anyone if I've no intentions of forging a relationship with them. I can get my own meals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/09/23 09:29 AM |
| 1 | What does Chad look like to you?Anthony Mackie!!! 🥰🥰🥰 Somebody raise him in the ranks then! Because that man is a WHOLE package! Dude has beautiful skin, a gorgeous and expressive smile, and cannot seem to STOP talking about his leg days.... which i find funny🤣🤣🤣 He is a major geek and is hamming it up with Sweet Tooth in Twisted Metal!!! He is a super friendly and engaging, imaginative person. He shows his care and affection for his friends... he and Seb were hilarious. He'd be goofy with me - with no care for how others perc… | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/09/23 04:53 PM |
| 1 | Have you checked in on your high school crush lately? Did you dodge a bullet or do you wish you had shoot your shot.What!?!? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/23 10:01 AM |
| 2 | Have you checked in on your high school crush lately? Did you dodge a bullet or do you wish you had shoot your shot.🤣🤣Got it! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Have you checked in on your high school crush lately? Did you dodge a bullet or do you wish you had shoot your shot.😰😳😬 | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/23 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Have you checked in on your high school crush lately? Did you dodge a bullet or do you wish you had shoot your shot.Ahhh, got ya. How do you think she would perceive you if she saw you now? | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/23 04:38 PM |
| -5 | I'm tired, bro🤦🏾♀️......Just to edify, there are various things that may cause weight gain in some women, including reproductive issues. Not every overweight or fat woman is indulging in a buffet every meal and snack time. I started to get a slight pudge at my waistline. Found out it was fibroid tumors and they grew to the size of a 13 week old infant - not fetus. (Check my profile if you're not too faint of heart.) Couldn't have the surgery when I was younger because they were determined I'd have children. I LITERALLY… | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/23 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Have you checked in on your high school crush lately? Did you dodge a bullet or do you wish you had shoot your shot.Traditional, hmm? Yes, I've noticed that many men say they want a trad wife. But in my experience, he got bored at the trad gf stage. I'm glad that there was a lax in the miscegenation stance as I was growing up. What would you do if you saw her again? | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/09/23 04:31 PM |
| 6 | Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at allThis! I've BEEN celibate for a while and have no social media activity striving for personal attention. It's all for my career. The attention is always there. I'm small, short, have a soft voice, etc... male attention isn't hard to come by... but I'm not interested in it. I like to be alone and focus on my crafts, my business, and hobbies. I hang out with my Soror sisters every once in a while and just exist! You're correct. We are varied individuals. Some of the loudest people are those who are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 04:22 PM |
| 12 | The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractiveBut why subject yourself to the company of a woman you abjectly dislike? You're doing yourself a disservice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 01:57 PM |
| 0 | The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractive<image> And over again.... and yet, we still wind up here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 01:53 PM |
| 0 | The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractive<image> Over, and over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 01:53 PM |
| 1 | The "spark" is just nonsense that women say when a guy is attractive<image> We keep saying it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 01:52 PM |
| 3 | if you were a young woman with no dating experience, how would you navigate the market?I was a date free virgin until I was 24. 🤷🏿♀️ I'd had boys and young men interested- but I wasn't interested in any of them. I had piano, my culinary degree, and familial duties. My parents placed extreme worth on our education and ensuring we were able to garner success in the world with multiple skills. When I did date, it was when I was 23. Didn't even like the guy, but thought I should step my toe into the dating pool. His was a warm approach as we traveled together at the end of my work da… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/23 01:36 PM |
| 2 | What is the point of saying "looks open the door but personality keeps you there" to ugly men that will never get in the door in the first place?Ok. Many times in this forum and others, women are told to "Stop lying! Tell the truth! It's his looks that got your attention! You can't see his personality from 50 paces! It's all about attraction. That's the truth" Ok. Someone has now told you a truth that supports the running theme: "looks open the door but personality keeps you there" And you're now dissatisfied with someone's (or various individuals) expressed honesty because you believe it still sets YOU outside of the dating sphere. That… | /r/AllPillDebate | 17/09/23 12:46 PM |
| 1 | If a man or woman is struggling financially who do you think will receive more help?Are these down on their luck men alerting others to their financial issues? Is he applying to the United Way? Does he call in information line/ his church for assistance with rent? I have never received any type of financial assistance in all my life. My own parents would rather deal and surmount than pull money from children in need. With that being said; I do share resources with individuals - male/female who are in need of assistance. There are also homeless shelters for men and women here. I… | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/09/23 08:47 PM |
| 0 | Why men are (rightfully) bitter.My one question is, why do men need to always adapt and change, however, women are considered fine out of the box? Women, most times, are not considered "fine out of the box." There is social, emotional, and familiar performance pressures that many women are burdened with. Some mothers withhold food from their children (but as I'm talking about women, I'll just reference them from here.) I've personally heard from at least 13 mothers I've had as clients explain to me that one ice cube of food is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/23 10:34 AM |
| 1 | You ever wonder why Reddit girls get so violently defensive of the more attractive girls we are actually criticizing when it doesn’t even involve them?🤔I'm here because I work in fields where people learn social skills, resilience, adjusting for disillusionment, and accepting change. I come here because I'm on the opposite side of a man's perspective and wish to learn what the general consensus seems to be among them. I'm also active in the subreddits for short men, SPD, and others. It is to ensure I do no harm to my clients and can understand their perspective and ideologies. I prefer Reddit because there is an anonymity available where peopl… | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/09/23 02:13 PM |
| 1 | “A strange and definitely unexpected turn of events”She wants to be "Stiflers mom" so bad. With no 1 to tell in real life, she escapes to reddit to tell us she feels like a milf now. Smh. Had it been my son, she would have been severely checked. Ol predator ass witch. Just barely legal. I do not condone it at all. | /r/AllPillDebate | 09/09/23 07:55 PM |
| 8 | Is the birth decline really only women's fault?I'd like to discuss this further. Please outline the governmental programs that primarily benefit a woman who is employed and childfree by choice/sterilized. Also, women have articulated that they don't want to NEED a man's resources or funds and are forced to be with him for those items alone. But that she wishes to WANT him for the attraction, love, happiness, joy, sexual experiences, personality, and enjoy the resources shared within the relationship. The dissolution of relations based on the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 12:32 AM |
| 6 | Is the birth decline really only women's fault?I don't care WHAT a man looks like. I don't want any children. Period. I'm the eldest daughter. Steering my siblings and being a good role model instructed me on how those minor things can feel intense and draining. For those who may wish for children, good for them - there are a multitude of variables which don't lay the blame on either gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Absolutely brutal example of an incel being rejected for being uglyThat was heartbreaking. He was eager and willing, and her body language was easily interpreted from the beginning. She was instantly disinterested upon seeing him. I only wish that he could have been able to process that and save himself from asking her. That guy needs a hug. Seriously. | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/08/23 03:26 PM |
| 0 | Women should be banned from this subUm... yes, we have. Around 12 days ago. Check your comment threads. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Reddit is becoming MisogynisticNo worries 😀 Yes, I definitely do have high standards for myself. A way in which I want to live - and that does affect the way I choose a partner. I don't smoke, do drugs, or drink. I never have. So, for me, seeing them in a guy is a deal breaker. No matter how beautiful, rich, or tall he may be. It's my standard. But that's what made me ask this question. These are unspoken standards that may get misinterpreted by others. That a man may feel like it's because I find him unattractive that he has… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Reddit is becoming MisogynisticI'm talking about HER sexual inexperience. Not his. I did say "... be misinterpreted by MEN.." Maybe I could have articulated it better. I've edited the word "her" into the question for clarity. And no, I don't expect men who have only been with themselves to be sexual experts. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 03:32 PM |
| -1 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?It really boils down to women’s standards for dating are much higher these days because they are no longer financially dependent on men to survive. Wanting a non-smoker, non-drinker, and a drug free partner are high standards?!? Jeez, what is the world coming to? I also don't use profanity - would it make me an egotistical monster if I wished my partner didn't as well? I wonder. 50-60 years ago u/obsidian_koilz may not have realistically been able to set a standard like the one they currently ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 03:27 PM |
| -1 | Reddit is becoming MisogynisticI know this isn't the thread for this, but it does raise the question; I wonder if these personal choices... childfree, no smoking, drinking, drug use, her own sexual inexperience insecurities, etc... could be misinterpreted by men as not 6ft, 6 figure, attractive, so denied? | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Reddit is becoming MisogynisticEvery woman has always known she will be seen as a less desirable option for a potential mate if she became a single mother. Also, if she chooses not to be a mother at all. There was only one accepted model for child bearing and rearing. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 03:10 PM |
| 6 | Reddit is becoming MisogynisticAs a childfree by choice and childless woman, I agree with his message. I, too, see zero reasons for me to seek a relationship with a man who has children. I don't see that as misogyny. It's more like his individual choice and his right to act upon it. His expectations and experiences are valid, and he has the right not to choose women who don't appeal to him. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 03:07 PM |
| 10 | If the average men of today live much easier lives than those in the past, why are women not satisfied?There are gray areas. Not just an either or. There are plenty of upwardly mobile well-adjusted men... who are attractive or average - and I'm still simply not interested. And there are MANY variables that can contribute to that. Most of which have absolutely nothing to do with the man himself. I've never smoked, drank, or done rec drugs. Those are "absolutely nots" for me. That counts out MANY men. No matter how tall, financially stable, peen size, or attractive he is - he won't have my house sm… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/23 02:34 PM |
| 0 | Women should be banned from this subWell, I have posted here. And engaged in conversations that produced mutual respect and understanding of said topic. I've never denigrated, denied, or mocked anyone's feelings or experiences. I'm among a few of the women who received an invitation to join here. Please feel free to check out my profile comments and posts. 🤷🏿♀️ I advocate for men AND women for an egalitarian existence. But I pull NO punches when either group focus on superficial anecdotal situations and attempt to make a monument… | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 02:14 PM |
| 0 | Women should be banned from this subYou and I have engaged in conversation that didn't follow any of the tenants you've just touted. And I'm a woman. While I agree that there are individuals here who don't debate with facts beyond anecdotal evidence, skewed 'studies' and statistics, or in bad faith - it isn't a gender locked issue. I also agree that for a debate, both sides and neutrals should be allowed to expound on the topics. | /r/AllPillDebate | 29/08/23 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Anyone ever realize desire is what matters?The desire for or the lack of desire equals inflated ego is intoned in your writing. It intimates that if she found you attractive than the outcome would be date/sex/relationship. It does not account for personal choice outside of ego and attraction. It alludes to your belief that because you've been turned down, you must have been found undesirable in her eyes. Many times, there are more factors at play in those interactions that are beyond desire and attraction. It isn't simple addition all of… | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/23 09:31 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever realize desire is what matters?People have the ability to recognize someone as attractive... and not want to drop trou for them. Not every person, male or female, is frothing at the mouth every time they see someone who looks attractive. Not everyone is itching to jump into the sheets just because someone looks nice... let alone dive head first into a relationship for that superficial reason. SOME may while many just don't function that way. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/08/23 09:11 AM |
| 5 | Why don’t men just do what women do?Some women kind of do enjoy these conversations. They talk about the genesis of forming monarchies, the nomadic state of those kingdoms (the fact that a kings canopy bed was the earliest pack and play is astounding) the state of warfare in its earliest iterations. The gorilla tactics during the war of the roses, the moment when the implications of gunpowder were realized. The musket transitions, the German ingenuity during the years of extreme poverty between Wars 1 & 2. (Literally recruited by … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/23 07:41 AM |
| 1 | My failure with women is leading me to leave earth. Being a man who has NEVER been in any form of physical intimacy with a women is mentally destroying.Have you spent any significant amount of time outside of the community you grew up in? Spent time in a different state or took a cruise? Many times, both men and women have trouble finding a match in their area. I'm asking in good faith because sometimes we (all of us) get stuck in communities where we are abjectly miserable. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/08/23 09:34 AM |
| 2 | Talked to an old woman who is nearly dying at hospital todayThere is STILL a considerable amount of pressure and diminishing when women make the choice to wait, not engage in sex at all, aren't looking for marriage, and don't want children. Whole governments are looking for ways to forcibly "encourage" dating, marriage, and having children. They scorn men and women who are choosing a different path. Many an anchor and talking pundit have attempted to decimate the childfree by choice people for waiting, being concerned for financial deficits, and slow rep… | /r/AllPillDebate | 18/08/23 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Would You Be Open to Male Companionship Opportunities?Definitely not. It's about forging male friendships which may open up new opportunities to meet women and date. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/23 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Open to Male Companionship Opportunities?Ok. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/23 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Open to Male Companionship Opportunities?I just care. That's all. I've brothers, cousins, and a nephew who will have to contend with dating and loneliness. I want them all to have the opportunity for amazing friendships as well as deep and meaningful loving relationships. I want them comfortable in their conversations and resilient with the knowledge they've a strong support system. That is why I'm in this space - I have men in my life that I love. I'm going to do everything in my power to be a support for them. That's all. Many times,… | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/23 09:43 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Open to Male Companionship Opportunities?👌🏾Haven't ever done that and was only seeking to find avenues to help. But ok, I'll leave you alone. Hagd | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/23 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Open to Male Companionship Opportunities?There is a plethora of different men. Some married and looking at job loss due to downsizing. Some talked about community pressures to perform and them feeling lost. Many of the ones who spoke up for their organization and it's benefits were married and or dating. They also said they have members who are single. I said possible stepping stone towards a successful relationship with women may be the additional exposure to these men. This is to build lasting friendships that result in hanging out, … | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/23 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Would You Be Open to Male Companionship Opportunities?I completely understand why you're thinking that. However, that isn't my motivation at all. I am concerned for those who feel loneliness. The barrier many feel that lay between themselves and others. The isolation and awkwardness that comes from a lack of exposure or a lack of appreciation for (your) - just the general your - presence, friendship, or society. I get it, I've experienced it, ... and I empathize. And yes, you're right! I would love to have seen this from a man here. But, I haven't.… | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/23 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Open to Male Companionship Opportunities?Um, I think you've misinterpreted this post. I've no hand in nor any affiliations with any male retreats. 🤷🏿♀️ I'm a woman, and it's not my space to co-opt or take over. So no, don't give your info to me or anyone else here. But yes, there are male retreats for men to gain friendships and support. However, if that's not your interest that's fine. I wish you the best in whatever your endeavors. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/23 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Open to Male Companionship Opportunities?I don't know how many of them are financed... but I wonder if there might be an option funded by a non-profit organization. That might be something to look into - or to begin. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/23 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Would You Be Open to Male Companionship Opportunities?As do I! I think each and every one of us yearns to have understanding and support in our communities. The fact that male loneliness is being not only noticed, but spoke on, AND something is being done to actively address it - is great! I'm thrilled that there are safe places for male bonding and understanding. There are also implications to meet various women with differing characters through these forged connections. | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/23 06:06 PM |
| 74 | Women who are sexually active, what’s the longest you’ve ever gone without sex and how much of a struggle was it?11 years. And it wasn't hard at all for me. My focus was on other things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/23 05:06 PM |
| 6 | Would You Be Open to Male Companionship Opportunities?You believe male support, friendship groups, and spaces are gay? | /r/AllPillDebate | 16/08/23 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Cut my life into pieces.. this is my last resortPPD is TWD... it's back. 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/AllPillDebate | 11/08/23 12:32 AM |
| 3 | How many of you would reject this guy because he is redpilled?He never stood a chance. Definitely not. The rhetoric, the ideology, and the insecurities [af/bb, short, bald, hypergamy, the spaces in which he would be socially active where some men are advocating the loss of autonomy for women so that THEY can have the "upper hand", and the constant search for ANY infraction to validate his RP beliefs] would simply destroy any kind of relationship we might have had. Not even a friendship could survive all of that for me. So nah, I'm good. He can stay right o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/23 11:48 AM |
| 5 | It's impossible for a man to express any frustrations about dating on reddit without being accused of "blaming" or "attacking" women.Na, I don't turn my flamethrower on anyone. Check my history. Many women most definitely recognize that dating is getting harder and more strenuous for some men. We recognize the loneliness and grief of feeling undervalued and unwanted. Some women are also experiencing this, so they may empathize with their male counterparts. We recognize the uncertainty of the future in relationships and careers. We recognize and empathize with wanting to form deeper connections where love, joy, peace, and happ… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/07/23 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Women, would you rather date an attractive poor man or an unattractive rich man?The guy I'm attracted to, whether he be richer or poorer than me. Besides, he wouldn't be attractive to me if he wasn't invested in his own growth. So, he would eventually find himself in a position where he is making enough where HE feels like his motivation and hard work are paying off. I already make enough, have investments, and own a condo... I'm good. I feel good. I want him to feel good about himself too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/23 07:43 PM |
| 1 | "Women these days want men who are emotionally available and emotionally intelligent"Precisely this. | /r/AllPillDebate | 25/07/23 02:42 PM |
| 1 | Question for Blackp*llsI understand. I just see a lot of verbiage misused to make a point. My bad for interrupting. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/07/23 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Question for Blackp*llsAre you looking to date her because you genuinely like her, or for the attention and status you believe would be granted by male peers for doing so? Dating a cheerleader isn't high standards, seriously. So, she is tall? Thin? Skips and flips? What else? What are her standards? Maybe I'm speaking from a 30 year old perspective but, 5'10 cheerleader isn't even a standard. It's a tall person with an athletic hobby. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/07/23 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Question for Blackp*llsOk. I'm only attracted to the guy I'm attracted to. Period. I don't like, want, or have sex with anyone else. If I find a person undesirable, I'm not dating them just to be seen as altruistic. I don't like tall guys as I'm 5'3 and don't like climbing a step ladder for kisses. I don't want an obese man- I'm 5'3 132. I've my own money and will always have it as my business is seen as an essential. (Yes, if I told you the name, you could look it up and see for yourself it's viability) So, I'm NOT l… | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/07/23 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Question for Blackp*llsSubjective Definition; 1.) based on or influenced by personal feelings, tastes, or opinions. "his views are highly subjective" So if you're their taste, then yes, they will find you attractive. However, if you're not to their taste, they may find you unattractive. Subjective only means that while some people scream at the Hemsworths, Densel, Chestnut, etc... as being handsome... others don't. They don't find them attractive at all. Meanwhile, that dorky Italian guy from Survival of the Thickest … | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/07/23 11:13 AM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?I understand. May I ask your age and if there is a goal date to be in a relationship (if you're aren't already) and a target age to have children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 01:22 PM |
| 2 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Okay. Thanks for sharing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?May I ask your age? I'm not here to try to change your views at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/23 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Women who use these types of communities.Purpose and worth do not have to come from a romantic relationship so why is there not more of an effort to focus on building and maintaining friendships? And as a woman, I would totally agree with you on this. We are socialized to believe that if someone isn't nice or treating us right... there are better friends over the horizon. We shouldn't seek validation from every person we meet. We are taught that our privates are special - as are the boys... but to a different degree. The pointed "you'v… | /r/AllPillDebate | 03/07/23 04:44 AM |
| 5 | Women who use these types of communities.The feeling of other not caring for their outcomes, needs, desires, etc. Hence they question their place, purpose, and worth. Some then deem society as apathetic and opt out of attempting further socialization. And may I ask why I'm being downvoted by doing exactly what was requested? Am I not having this discourse without falling back on patriarchy and toxic masculinity? | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/07/23 10:22 PM |
| 3 | Women who use these types of communities.I don't have empirical numbers to specify how many women do and how many don't. I went with some do and some don't. | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/07/23 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?I'm 39. I don't think I could. You're stronger than I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:41 PM |
| 3 | Women who use these types of communities.Some women participate in casual sex... others do not. Yes, they have the primary task of choosing amongst the men that approach them yes, they look for the male that suites their desires in that time the best. Whether it's looks, funds, love, sex, attraction, etc... she is looking to acquire what is in HER best interests. And no, she may not take into account that the guy she isn't sexually attracted to may be a better outcome for love and marriage. Because she wishes to date and explore the wo… | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/07/23 09:40 PM |
| 5 | Women who use these types of communities.Ok, so let's discuss it. What should we begin with? Addressing male loneliness can start at a very young age. Socialization, approved gendered behaviors, educational formats, and ND may cause young men to feel ostracized as young as 5 years of age. The schoolroom set up and vibe predated the attendance of girls. Meaning this model and setup as well as expectation hasn't changed in hundreds of years. Although time, expectations, and social norms have progressed - the expectation for little boys a… | /r/AllPillDebate | 02/07/23 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Ok, thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Would you have had those children or... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Ok, your primary reason is that you want children. Ty for sharing your views with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Interesting. Thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:11 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Thank you for sharing your views. I completely understand your perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?May i ask some follow up question? Why do you view that lifestyle as irresponsible or selfish? Would you kindly expound on this idea. I mean, what if they aren't financially secure enough to provide for children - even with a partners assistance? Wouldn't it be irresponsible or selfish to still have them? What if they truly don't like children and have no patience for them - is it still irresponsible or selfish to refrain from having them? What if these people abuse these children once they have… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Thank you for sharing your views with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Cool. I understand how someone trying to seem superior due to a choice can seem tiring or leave you feeling bemused. As a normal person who is not into having their own or raising a child, I get ya. I'm in education (about to leave, though), and service children and families through that venue. There are many different types of family dynamics... and so many children who feel unwanted and unloved by their bio parents. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:29 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?I get it. Thank you for sharing your views with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?I understand. Thank you for sharing your views with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?The age of the child(ren) you would be seeking? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Ok. Would you choose to adopt multiple children at once, stagger it, or only one. Also, what age range would you prefer in considering adoption. Would you prefer if the child had similar physical attributes to yourself and your wife, or would any child in need of love and family be welcomed by you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Could this also be another reason for increased loneliness in men? That the social change surrounding family makeup and misaligned childfree desires and needs is causing a rift in today's dating and relationship scene? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:55 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Interesting. For clarification, I used these well-worn terms to embark on a specific and pointed conversation about these things in particular. While I'm not in the habit of pigeon holing myself as this or that... some people find comfort in that. They enjoy labeling and creating communities for moms, dads, gamers, boy mom, girl dads, couples, etc... At times, THESE socially accepted labels consume their whole lives and become their entire identity. They call themselves a community of concerned … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:52 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?What if you marry her and she is infertile... or you're infertile? What choices would you make then? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Tysm! It's been a journey. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Thank you for sharing your views with me. May I ask some follow up questions? May I know your age? If your partner is childfree and asks you to do the sterilization process with them, would you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?You're absolutely correct. You have to ensure people know your stance on children and your family structure ideal. A compromise of that magnitude could compromise an otherwise loving relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 02:08 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?You're absolutely correct. 💯 These men were not an option due to that very reason. I was curious to see how other people feel about this topic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 02:06 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Thanks for sharing your perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Does this stance extend to those who are childless due to infertility or sterile due to tumors and other health related issues that required surgery? Are their lives without children meaningless to you as well? Do you take into account chosen family? I'm just wondering, as I've been told that value is determined by reproductive ability by some men in conversation. What is your opinion on this? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 01:57 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Thank you for asking. My first choice and preference would be a man who is childfree completely. IF he had a child previously... I would really have to consider it. I've previously dated a man who had 3 from his previous marriage. I met his children, and we made a connection. When the relationship ended... it also affected the relationship built with the children. I'm skittish to head in that direction again. In my community value is also assigned by how fertile and submissive a woman is to her … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?I appreciate you're being open to this dating group. Childless may be the group that is most receptive to you having children. Thank you for sharing that with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 01:44 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?This! Contentment in your choice. Awesome to hear. Thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?I respect that very much. I appreciate that you're sharing with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 01:07 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Thanks for sharing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 01:05 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?I'm so happy to hear that. Thank you for sharing that with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Thank you, I appreciate the advice. I'm childfree and childless. I just had an operation on Wednesday for tumors and can no longer have children. I was just wondering at the perspective of individuals who are dating now. What opinions people have about childfree life, love, and relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 12:21 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?May I ask what made it good for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Ahh, I understand. Thank you. PPD is a group of varied individuals who have their own ideology as it pertains to relationships and love. I knew I would get all manner of answers here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 12:17 PM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?May I ask your experience? Did you find it different from child having goal relationships? If so, how? Did they last longer? Were you happier and felt more connected or less? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:58 AM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Heard! I'd also have a struggle dating someone who wanted children. Bio or otherwise. I'm unable and I'm childfree by choice. Fine either way can be a daunting ambivalence that could change at anytime as desires are altered. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:57 AM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?That's amazing. I'm happy to hear you've found someone who is like-minded in wanting to be childfree. May I ask when you realized you were childfree and what that catalyst was? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?You're correct. And while it may have translated as being judgmental, that wasn't my intention at all. I was interested in the plethora of answers I might receive and how the childfree dating group may be perceived by blue, red, purple, and Black pilled individuals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:51 AM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Awesome! Glad to hear your perspective and experience. Not milestone heavy... but there are still goals there I'm sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Heard. I can definitely understand opposing desires and drastic life changing compromise being the catalyst that ends it all. Great relationships are so fragile and difficult to come by. Makes asking these questions so much scarier. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 10:56 AM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Thanks! I asked here because of the pointed desire for a specific type of individual and being blind to the rest. I wanted to see from an anthropological standpoint how this would play out. If it might be seen as an opportunity for love, relationships, sex, and marriage - or if it would be dismissed. If these individuals would be denied worth in the eyes of the people here due to their unwillingness to have children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 10:50 AM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Thanks! I have read many an account where partners have changed their minds. It is good to hear that there are other more successful outcomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 10:47 AM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?I understand. I'm late 30's and have been taking the temperature of the new dating "class" I'm in now. I'm sterile now due to huge tumors I've had removed Wednesday. Although I'm not looking to get into dating right now, I do wonder what people think on the topic. No, I have no children as I've always been childfree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 10:43 AM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Thanks for answering. I definitely respect your desire for children with a loving marriage to a like-minded person. May I ask, what would be your approach if the person you're dating and preparing to marry reveals they are childfree? Fear of losing the relationship, not being seen as a viable person to you, or fear of upsetting the accepted social norms has kept them on the fence until now. How would you address this person who now has realized they absolutely aren't prepared for children? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 10:40 AM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Cool. Thanks for answering. Have you found that that dating pool has upheld those notions of childfree and marriage free when in serious relationships? I know many childfree men and women are crushed when their partner changes their mind and then wants to have children - with them. May I ask what your experiences have been? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 10:36 AM |
| 1 | Would You Be Willing to Date/Marry a Childfree by Choice Person to Have Love?Thank you for answering so thoughtfully. May I ask some follow ups? May I ask your age? I think age has a lot to do with acceptance of a childfree life or childfree people. Would you be ok if your partner was sterile or asked you to be sterilized? If not, May I ask why? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/23 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Work colleagues in their mid twenties talking to each other how getting Babys at this age would end their lives.I DO have a future. One filled with the things I enjoy vs indentured servitude I deem unacceptable for MY life. Feel free not to listen to me. I'll be having the last laugh... no poverty shelling out coins for children I don't want, life fulfilling experiences, and joy on my terms. No children necessary. And my gene pool? 🤣🤣🤣 I've siblings to carry on the joys of this family. But thanks for your concern. | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/06/23 07:00 PM |
| 3 | Work colleagues in their mid twenties talking to each other how getting Babys at this age would end their lives.🤣🤣When people are concerned about someone else's childfree life. Naa, these women who clearly don't want children, (right now) should be saddle with children so that some stranger can feel contentment in their misery? 🤣🤣🤣 I'm screaming! If this isn't the most egotistical take. Because surely THEY know what's best for them in THEIR own lives. Smh... | /r/AllPillDebate | 26/06/23 02:47 PM |
| 4 | CMV : You could make the most academically in depth and heartfelt argument in the world about mens lack of sex and relationships, but it doesn’t override needing a WILLING woman to give that to themNot everyone WANTS a child. 🤷🏿♀️ Some people have saved up funds over the years so that when they DO have a child, it won't be as overwhelming. Some people have been planning for life and retirement with the financial information and foundation from their parents. Mine created a Johnny Appleseed account when we were born. The money is STILL in there. It gave me a starting point that quickly developed into a Roth IRA, 403B, Legacy account, retirement account, nest egg, and a rainy day - all lock… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 05:13 PM |
| 2 | Understanding the Attraction to K-Pop Masculinity: A New Trend?Um no. I've been well into kdramas since AZN was a network channel. Lee Sun Kyun from Coffee Prince was it for ME!!! He was a dorky, emotional, and multifaceted fleshed out character. He wasn't a paragon of all things perfect... but someone who was seeking a happy life and finding someone who He thought he would be happy with. He wasn't even the lead character- Gong Yoo was. From there, I've enjoyed many a Kdrama and have rooted for or found attractive characteristics in many of the leading men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/23 05:21 AM |
| 6 | Most women can’t admit that they care about looks just/nearly as much as men because they see themselves as the sophisticated and non-primitive gender as opposed to men.This!! No one is denying that women have a looks threshold. But when you say that none of the Chris's, Morris Chestnuts, Denzel, Edris, etc, are attractive to YOU, you're argued down. Yes! I want to be attracted to the person I'm with. Yes! I want sexy time to be a visual, audio, and tactile adventure.... but I ALSO want to like the guy for who he is. We are going to HAVE to get out of bed and spend time and interact with one another. If I don't care for who you are as a person, cannot have a co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/23 06:47 PM |
| 3 | CMV Online Dating is the primary reason why today superficial things like (Looks Money Status) are more valuable then genuine things (character, charisma, humour etc) and i wanna discuss this.This! Idk why people seem to forget this and romanticize a past that empirically didn't exist. Take Molly Ringwalds Pretty in Pink. Damnit, I wanted it to be Duckie! I adored Duckie from day one... and so did the writers and producers and made Duckie her choice. Then came the viewing... and the crowds rooted because both the men AND women of the 80's wanted it to be boring ass Blaine. So, to please the crowds they changed it to her choosing Blaine and the Duck Man had to suck it up. They then as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/23 03:43 PM |
| 3 | why should women date you?When you say "sharp dresser" is it closer to Peaky Blinders or Mall Rats? Like... can we get a reference pic? 🤷🏿♀️ I'm curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/23 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Lack of modesty is not a good look on modern womenThis! It's why I got into sewing and tailoring. You're stuck with what the "trend setters" Temu, Fashion Nova, and Shein push out each month. (Don't even g3t m3 started on the pitfalls of fast fashion and women's clothing) It can be difficult trying to locate your own personal aesthetic outfits when no store is willing to even carry something outside of the current trends. Ladies; Mood Fabrics has free clothing patterns for various sizes if you're interested in building your own wardrobe. <image… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/23 06:24 PM |
| -5 | Look at the virtue signalling in r/dating why cant they admit that majority of people are shallow?I don't. I don't need it. I said, SOME people do... to avoid the generalizations or speaking for a particular person. So, you're outside of that SOME. That's you and others who feel as you do. And if that works for you, cool. It doesn't work for all people. And that's ok too. I'm not the type to kick someone when their down, unsure, or disappointed. I keep it honest, but don't set out to decimate anyone's self-esteem. i would done the best to not turn ugly So, things CAN be altered in your opini… | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/06/23 03:22 PM |
| -5 | Look at the virtue signalling in r/dating why cant they admit that majority of people are shallow?People are shallow. Your looks can be a gateway to conversation, dating, love, sex, and relationships. Your looks can also cause derision, preconceived notions, distaste, disdain, social/sexual loneliness, perpetual virginity, othering, stereotypes, and ostracization. Ok. We know this. Doesn't mean SOME people don't want encouragement, some positive feedback, or even a mollifying pat on the back. SOME people are looking for comfort or solidarity. It is what it is. | /r/AllPillDebate | 10/06/23 02:49 PM |
| 5 | Female women, would you forgive if your significant other cheated on you?Oh, they're forgiven...but we aren't together. That form of betrayal isn't something I can just ease on by. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/23 01:59 AM |
| – | When women say that older men are repulsive, what do they mean?Some older men are very handsy, touching you as they speak to you. I've had that happen personally. Some of them look you all over and give you that " mmm mmm mmm MMM!! Yes, you are fine girl" appraisal... which can be discomforting from strangers. I'm 39. I'm from the cold approach control group (lol) I'm used to individuals approaching and have had ltr start in that manner. But some of these older men can have a very... oily approach. Black, White, Asian - doesn't matter. There are greasy indi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/23 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Ultimate accountability would make men's and women's life easier.I agree. People should be accountable for choices and outcomes. Those outcomes may be mitigated (if lawful or is affordable) should there be an agreement etc. However, I don't have the progeny issue. My body shut that down and forced me to have to have it all surgically removed. So, I'm unbothered. As to being accountable for my body medically opting out of childbearing, I have to wade through men who are looking to build a "village". I can't and never wanted to do that. So, my dating experience… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/23 12:28 AM |
| 7 | How many women are hereHonestly? I'm interested in the thoughts, ideals, priorities, and values of men. 🤷🏿♀️ Simple. I want to provide a different type of tactile teaching model that reaches young men. That gives them a love of learning and motivation to achieve their dreams. I also take into account the mental health of young men. I observe interests, drives, and activities to better address social groupings and social problem solving skills. I read these posts, because the teenagers actually choose me as their conf… | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/05/23 05:35 PM |
| – | Most men and women are really bad at detecting flirtingNope. I seriously can not tell. I literally just think a man is being nice or friendly. My mind doesn't even say; "Mayday, Mayday, Mayday! This guy seems to be into you." I had a guy just flat out tell me when he realized I didn't get his intentions. Dude was like; " OK, listen... I'm flirting with you and am asking you out." Not gonna lie, I was stuck like... ooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Ok. Deer in the headlights dumb. And my best friend is just cackling at me because she KNOWS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 01:41 PM |
| – | Most men and women are really bad at detecting flirtingNope. I seriously can not tell. I literally just think a man is being nice or friendly. My mind doesn't even say; "Mayday, Mayday, Mayday! This guy seems to be into you." I had a guy just flat out tell me when he realized I didn't get his intentions. Dude was like; " OK, listen... I'm flirting with you and am asking you out." Not gonna lie, I was stuck like... ooooohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh. Ok. Deer in the headlights dumb. And my best friend is just cackling at me because she KNOWS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/23 01:12 PM |
| 3 | "Infantile men"Guys hanging out is something I LOVE to see. Shane and Ryan, Sebastian and Anthony! It's my absolute favorite. Shane and Ryan are goofy and are comfortable with each other. They challenge one another and humor each other. I love it! Meanwhile, Sebastian and Anthony are supportive besties. Able to compliment each other, hang out and be silly, and simply enjoy their friendship. I'm a STAN for these types of friendships. I support them. These relationships take maturity and is the antithesis of "in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 05:54 AM |
| 2 | Most men are not socialized to be good potential partnersYes, Websters has been hijacked for vocabulary but they left the original definitions behind. Gay used to mean happy and ebullient. Groom used to mean well dressed, raised well and prepared for life. Grooming used to mean the level of hair coiffed to perfection. Words have changed it seems. And those who aren't loquacious or knowledgeable in verbiage only acknowledge the more... colloquial definitions of antiqued words. Forgive them. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/23 03:23 AM |
| 1 | If your not chad i cant see how men cant be "bitter" it logically doesnt make sense and i s a trap by definitionAhh, so you're wishing to meet positive reinforcement with a negative defeatist outlook. Ok 🙂 That's up to you. I'm happy we had this little chat. I now understand your objective quite clearly. To those who are looking for something a bit more than the bottom of a defeatist well; I hope my comment is a form of encouragement and support for you. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/05/23 10:38 PM |
| 1 | If your not chad i cant see how men cant be "bitter" it logically doesnt make sense and i s a trap by definitionAnd I again haven't cast any denial about the differing "modes" of men and women as it pertains to pretty privilege. The video essay I linked addresses that as well. I guess, at this point, I'm wondering what response you're wanting me to give you... | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/05/23 10:20 PM |
| 1 | If your not chad i cant see how men cant be "bitter" it logically doesnt make sense and i s a trap by definitionOk. I've not offered up a denial to this perspective. | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/05/23 09:42 PM |
| 6 | If your not chad i cant see how men cant be "bitter" it logically doesnt make sense and i s a trap by definitionOk. Yes, pretty privilege is a thing. It works in the favor of those who are considered classically beautiful - MOST of the time. It can affect finances, relationships, social connections, social acceptance, career goals, etc... Essay on Topic I've inserted an essay on the topic from a Black woman who does speak on the aforementioned topics, but also as to how it pertains to race. She does also give her own anecdotal parallels to support her topics. The idea that one should allow bitterness to b… | /r/AllPillDebate | 24/05/23 03:05 PM |
| – | Will women overlook flaws for a wealthier manNo? What's your hypothesis? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 02:30 AM |
| – | Will women overlook flaws for a wealthier manBelieve me, I know. I've many options. Still. Even at 39. I like geeks and dorks because I am one. 🤣🤣🤣 I'm extremely selective, not going to lie. HOWEVER, my selective criteria is NOT how tall or rich a guy is. And Michael is a normal guy. He is just multifaceted and human. I'm not saying to find an ogre. I'm saying I don't look for a man's wallet - I look for a man who goes to the cons with me, skips through Walmart with me, can laugh at our collective silliness, is willing to continue learning… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/05/23 01:55 AM |
| 9 | How many times have you guys had sex this year?I'm not in a relationship by choice and I don't practice casual sex. I prefer books, movies, sewing, to common social stomping grounds. So, no sex. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/05/23 10:52 PM |
| 12 | How many times have you guys had sex this year?Zippo, zero, zilch | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/05/23 10:32 PM |
| – | Will women overlook flaws for a wealthier manI've my own money. Im all about compatibility. The dude I fell in love with was a 5'6, bald, plumber that skipped through the stores with me. Dude was neurodivergent and hyperfocused. But, we played with each other and genuinely enjoyed each other's company. He made way less than I did. 🤷🏿♀️ But I wasn't there for the money. Some women ARE though. Some women are conditioned from observation or parents that an upwardly mobile, wealthy or financially responsible man is all you should want. Some h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/23 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Does eye color raise your SMV?I'm partial to brown eyes. I like the way they look when the light hits them. 🤷🏿♀️ Blue and green are for other people. | /r/AllPillDebate | 22/05/23 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Is this what it is like being on a date with a woman?I'm sure there are women out there that behave in that manner- but I don't know any of them. 🤣🤣 As to content and quality of the conversation; depends on if you are talking to a woman who prizes intellect. Many men DO dictate that they don't believe that a woman's mind, career, drive, and education level matter. They prize her body, sexual ability, and her drive to please him and traditional social standards. MAYBE this young woman is being taught that uninformed and bumbling = "I'll be loved an… | /r/AllPillDebate | 20/05/23 11:37 PM |
| 1 | Why are brown men considered unattractive?Sir, I'll simplify it for you. An exception to "the rule" means that "the rule" is NOT all consuming. It means that there IS a bit of hope as "the rule" isn't followed 100% of the time. So yes, I know what exception means as I used the word correctly in my previous statement. I just take a less nihilistic approach to "the rule" when I know definitively that there ARE exceptions... meaning hope. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/05/23 08:40 PM |
| 2 | Why are brown men considered unattractive?True. But we cannot dismiss that there ARE exceptions. That there ARE women who are interested in Brown men. Apathy for Brown men is NOT an absolute. That is all I seek to make understood. There are Brown men who are discussed in conversation with women in positive terms, with acute sexual interest, with knowledge of their cultures and tradition - or seeking to learn it. More movies (US/UK) are coming out with Brown men being the lead love interest. Shazad Latif was just in one. The normalizatio… | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/05/23 11:16 AM |
| 1 | Why are brown men considered unattractive?What's copium about this? I'm (and others) are huge fans of Shazada Latif. I also think the Tamil actor Dhanush is handsome and charismatic. One of my handsome high school friends name is Zeeshawn.... who was HIGHLY sought after by the girls in school. It is what it is. No cope, just what it is. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/05/23 10:21 AM |
| 0 | Why are brown men considered unattractive?He is definitely a brown man with a HUGE following. There are plenty of deeply brown men who receive lots of love. | /r/AllPillDebate | 19/05/23 02:05 AM |
| 3 | How many men have you told that "looks don't matter?"None. Because looks most definitely matter. Especially for the younger generations. It's a simple and blatant fact of life. I believe the disconnect is that it's about MORE than just looks - not the exclusion of them. It's the ADDITION of personality, drive, morals, goals, compatibility, and attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/23 08:06 PM |
| 6 | How would you feel if a guy didn't take you on the same quality of dates as previous suitors?I'd be excited to go! I would interpret it as him applying his knowledge of me. I'm not into all that posh dining mess. It doesn't provide the possibilities that an outdoor picnic does. It would make me look at him as a thoughtful and intentional planner. Not only did he plan the date, he prepared/ordered the food, he set the scene, and is SHOWING his care and intentions based on his knowledge of my enjoyment. I'd be looking at him even closer and considering this as a positive in building a rel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/05/23 12:17 AM |
| – | Who is your celeb crush?Mr. Darcy!!! I will say yes... but Mr. Tilney is my favorite. 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:56 PM |
| – | Who is your celeb crush?I hear you about Cillian Murphy - for me it's the Peaky Blinders Cillian. Not behavior or attitude... just the fashion, confidence, and the bespoke look of the outfits. I wish we had a resurgence of bespoke fashion for men. Soooooo sexy...🥵🥵🥵 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:53 PM |
| – | Who is your celeb crush?Luv Gugu!!! ❤️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:51 PM |
| – | Who is your celeb crush?🤣🤣Yes.... sorta lol. I'm a geek 🤓 🤪 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 06:43 PM |
| – | Who is your celeb crush?Let's see: Shazad Latif- Just comfortable and confident in his own skin. Has his own way of doing things and doesn't seem afraid to express himself in whatever he is wearing. Aneurin Barnard- Another gent who isn't afraid to let his sartorial flag fly! He is charmingly shy and enjoys the weird and quirky aspects of characters he plays. 1899!!! Lee Soo Hyuk- Dude looks like an owl and is a super model - but that's not the crush. I've caught him on a few variety shows (Birds of a Feather) this guy… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/23 04:18 PM |
| 3 | Taylor Siwft's "You Belong with me" is simply complaints men have about women but since it is gender flipped it is respected and celebrated instead of mockedI enjoyed this song... still in the play list to this day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 08:48 PM |
| 3 | The Friendzone is a thing because the average woman doesn't find the average guy attractive enoughHit the Cons (ALL OF EM!) gaming Brunches/lunches/dinners Head out to games (I get game tickets for free) House/garden/pool get together where he (they) is/are exposed to more women, social connections, professional networking, and more opportunities. I have male friends who I absolutely love - as friends. Who I hand out with, design cosplay outfits with/for, and whose opinions I value. However, it isn't their looks that put us in the friends "zone" it was that I don't smoke, drink, or go clubbi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/04/23 05:40 PM |
| 7 | "men should support their children"Men should support their children emotionally, physically, mentally, and financially. They helped to make em, they should help to raise em. Which is another reason to leave men/women with families to their family. Not to mention when parents date around introducing their children to every partner that gets them off. CRINGE! I'm not saying sacrifice your life - but be mindful of how you're throwing that thang around - your children are watching, judging, and emulating you. IF, however, you choose… | /r/AllPillDebate | 08/04/23 05:42 PM |
| 6 | If women used the word "compromise" instead of "settle", things would be better.Yes. And often. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/23 01:29 PM |
| 5 | How do women honestly feel about guys that are genuinely going about improving themselves but still can’t get laid?So then, may I ask, what solutions have you thought of that may contribute to the issues of sexless men... Because according to fact, men have the opportunity to have sex through sex workers. Which means these sexless men are holding out for more - accommodation, acceptance, love, relationships, and fulfillment with the woman of their choice. That indicates more of need of what one wants how one wants it VS an inability to have ones needs or wants met. A person being kidnapped, sold, and violent… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/23 09:05 PM |
| -1 | The “modern woman” is changing, and the “modern man” needs to adapt to the changeNearly all the women I know do. They are mostly collegiates and some have hubbies (whom they seem to adore. I don't live with them, I don't know the day to day dynamics) who earn less than them. They pay for the majority of the bills. I just helped one to plan an extravagant date for her hubby. He was a complete Saint when she was sick. According to her - he took care of everything including her. She is now showing him how she appreciates him. I LOVE that for them. Some women, who are financiall… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/23 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Where did all the good women go?I've been focused on building a business, gathering my various degrees that led to different revenue streams, purchasing my condo (Finally!), creating business contacts in other countries for expansion, and keeping myself to myself. I'm 39, unmarried, childless without any scares, abortions, or what ifs. I'm financially stable, have a supportive mixed friends group and have seen a few marriages amongst the people in that group. There ARE good women out here who don't just hussle for a "chad" or … | /r/AllPillDebate | 21/03/23 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How are short man supposed to date?I'm 5'3 and my love is 5'6. His height was never a factor for me... not even when he mentioned it was one for him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/23 08:32 PM |
| 4 | [imgur gallery link] Q4W - how can you talk about love and empathy and then be like this?However, you will note that I attributed men with the same individual autonomy. So no. One man isn't responsible for the actions or behaviors of another man. That perception is beyond irrational. Accountability is an individual mantle. Sidenote; some education tropes did punish the collective for the antics of an individual. This might have helped to promote this 'All because One' thought process for some people. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/12/22 06:55 PM |
| 1 | [imgur gallery link] Q4W - how can you talk about love and empathy and then be like this?If that is how you wish to take my comment. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/12/22 04:47 PM |
| 5 | [imgur gallery link] Q4W - how can you talk about love and empathy and then be like this?Women are not a monolith. Reactions and perspectives differ for each woman... as they do for men. Some women may behave in the aforementioned manner, some might wring their hands and call the police, others might enlist the help of other men in the area, and others might jump in and throw hands herself. With differing thought processes and reactions - you'll find conversation from women about love and empathy that are steeped in realism, fantasy, selfishness, want, desire, and/or envy. | /r/AllPillDebate | 30/12/22 04:10 PM |
| 1 | How many sexual partners have you had within the past 5 years?My fiancée. And before that 0 for over 10 years as I was celibate. 🤷🏿♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/09/22 01:01 PM |
| 1 | r/AllPillDebate LoungeH | /r/AllPillDebate | 31/08/22 03:37 PM |
| 3 | If men are expected to put up with women's hormones, why aren't Women expected to put up with men's hormones?In 1964, President Lyndon B. Johnson signed the Civil Rights Act, which legally ended the segregation that had been institutionalized by Jim Crow laws. And in 1965, the Voting Rights Act halted efforts to keep minorities from voting. After the 1964 Civil Rights Act desegregated public accommodations, municipalities followed different strategies intended to keep the racial peace through maintaining segregation. Some simply filled their pools in, leaving more affluent residents the option of putti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 05:14 PM |
| 2 | If men are expected to put up with women's hormones, why aren't Women expected to put up with men's hormones?These are not equal scenarios you're attempting to compare. A period is the breaking down of the thickened lining of the uterus. She is actively shedding her insides in a slurry of blood, cells, and mucus. For 3 - 7 days straight a woman is breaking apart on the inside. This causes cramping and pain - that may not be assuaged by pain relievers. No woman can be 'cured' by the body of a man or woman during this painful cycle. Finger or penis cannot end her pains... and may cause further discomfort… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/22 04:57 PM |
| 5 | Do Men Need (or believe in) Love more than Women?Love and romance doesn't have to be about children. 🤷🏿♀️ Many women can't have one, don't want one, or having a child might create a medical emergency for her. As the eldest child in my family; I NEVER even pretend played the role of 'mommy'. Ever. I didn't like baby dolls or Barbies and used to cut off the hair and drop them in my toy box to be forever forgotten. However, I used to EAT up the classics such as offerings from the Brontë sisters, Jane Austen, and a few others... I also watched my… | /r/AllPillDebate | 28/08/22 12:27 PM |
| -1 | Women of PPD, if you had a son...Whatever and whoever he is. 🤷🏿♀️ I just want him to be respected, loved, appreciated, and happy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/22 04:41 PM |
| 1 | Women demand Men as "Allys" and then completely leave us hanging when we bring up mens issuesAddress it by means of a gigantic reality check about what to expect of a consumer based system that has an imperative to lie its ass off about what to expect out of life. Women need to really get this. They're probably similarly aggrieved and are trying to get the system to work for them. It doesn't. For anyone. Full stop. Oh absolutely! Women are not outside of the Hegemonics. There is Hegemonic Femininity (submissive warmth and acceptance in all things as detailed by one's father, brother, an… | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 06:39 PM |
| 0 | Women demand Men as "Allys" and then completely leave us hanging when we bring up mens issuesI definitely appreciate your response! No worries about the length of the text as it gives a fuller understanding of your thoughts on the subject. Thank you also for the compliment. I actually have kept the information I had written on Hegemonics on standby (as that was a LOT of writing 😂) and because I've noticed that many of the male concerns I hear about directly connect to that particular Social Construct. As to this particular concern; I'm not quite sure how I could affect change on this pa… | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 06:01 PM |
| 2 | Women demand Men as "Allys" and then completely leave us hanging when we bring up mens issuesNo worries. 👍🏾 | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Women demand Men as "Allys" and then completely leave us hanging when we bring up mens issuesThe reply is addressing blatant misinformation and misrepresentation.. It is also alerting the other party that further misrepresentations will not recieve a reply as its intentions are not for edification or growth. And yes, I'm interested in engaging with informed individuals on a subject in which could benefit the people I work with. 🤷🏿♀️ | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 02:45 PM |
| 1 | Women demand Men as "Allys" and then completely leave us hanging when we bring up mens issuesWait. You read that and got 'blaming men?!? How?!? All I talked about was the social construct created TO diminish masculine self value. I spoke to how said construct needs to be broken apart - and how difficult it might be for some men to let it go. Does that sound at all like assignment of blame on men? Wow. Who said I knew what men go through in relationships, biology, sex, and/or how they are preceived by other men? I defy you to quote the passage in which I made such a gross statement. I ev… | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 01:15 PM |
| 0 | Women demand Men as "Allys" and then completely leave us hanging when we bring up mens issuesThank you for your reply. I can be quite verbose and was attempting to be less wordy.🤣 Father's In Action is a male driven initiative. It is headed by men. It is to model for boys what male behavior can be. What positive male relationships can be. What positive social interactions can be. It is also meant to model how to deal with lack of dividends, what to do when faced with inequality, and how to advocate for yourself. The women are there to support this initiative but aren't the front runners… | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 11:57 AM |
| -2 | Women demand Men as "Allys" and then completely leave us hanging when we bring up mens issuesOn which specific male issue would you like women to ally with men on first? I ask, because I am active in Father's In Action. An Early Education initiative focused on men and boys. I remain in Education, although I don't have to, to advocate for children. I address and question how practices can foster equal positive outcomes for ALL children. Boys and Girls. Address social constructs being taught to boys and help foster positive relationships. One social construct being Hegemonic Masculinity a… | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 11:11 AM |
| 1 | Telling a feminist the truth.I don't tell or treat ANYONE as though they are perfect. That would be me lying and setting them up for future failure. Both men and women are fallible, flawed, and imperfect. Yes! Men and boys most definitely deserve positive reinforcement and to feel appreciated by those in their lives. Everyone does. It doesn't diminish or take from one group if the other also feels complimented and appreciated. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 10:01 AM |
| 1 | If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change?Well, Sis it was a simple experience = prospective. I don't believe that men are a mental monolith - so I included another prospective SOME men have in regards to this subject. And nowhere did I advocate that men need to change. 🤷🏿♀️ I'm in no way responsible for his choices or their outcomes, nor do i want to be. Why would I tell some random man he needs to change? If I'm not interested, it is what it is. I'm not interested. If other women aren't interested either... well... it's on him to dec… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 03:44 AM |
| 3 | If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change?Um🤔 There is a plethora of men who at this very moment are viciously upset because they say women DON'T let them lead. What isn't enough? Enough to do what exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 03:23 AM |
| 5 | If women are fed up with dating men, isn't it on the men to change?Ok... so she has choices that willingly SEEK her out. She chooses not to indulge as she is happiest without. 🤷🏿♀️ Let's call it a privilege as you've been saying. She knows that a man is available. Ok. But she still isn't interested in being with him. As you say, men are not so privileged in women seeking them out or engaging them or even being receptive to their advances. Ok... I guess I'm just trying to understand which party you believe needs to approach these issues proactively - and how. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/22 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: Do you prefer to get asked out directly or indirectly?A and B work for me. Inform me of of your interest and intentions. 🤷🏿♀️ If my interest and intentions are similar I will accept the date. If not, I politely decline. Simple and straightforward. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 09:26 AM |
| 1 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Thank you! I'm grateful that I was able to...and that the interest was mutual. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 09:07 AM |
| 2 | what age should you prioritize marriage?I did actually. It's not Wars he nudges me to watch... it's an old Irish sitcom called Father Ted. I do not see the humor that he finds in it... but the way it hits for him is adorable. Are we absolutely perfect? Not by a long shot. We disagree on things, have times where we go to our respective spaces... him to his man cave or me to my office. Sometimes I have to bring out the aegyo to convince him to try events and activities outside of his purview. And I find ways to please him daily... and h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 08:56 AM |
| 4 | what age should you prioritize marriage?To meet someone compatible to me and enjoy their company? A fairytale? Then I must have been extremely fortunate... because at 36 I met my dork. I met this extremely hilarious and smart frolicking nut. He asked me out one day and WOW. I had never felt so at ease, interested, and happy to spend time with another person. I thoroughly enjoy being with him. I promptly wrapped myself around his legs and refuse to let go.🤣 We have our days... lemme tell you. There is nothing perfect about us... we are… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 08:46 AM |
| 2 | what age should you prioritize marriage?Forgive me. I did not know. This is a exception. It's ok. A bit of a sore subject for me, so I apologize if I came across as upset. Well I did not know that you didn't have casual sex. When you said you didn't date seriously, I figured any possible sex would have actually been more casual. Miscommunication there, sorry. Yes, I can see how this statement would have led to a miscommunication. I didn't date seriously because... I never wanted to date anyone at the time. I was too preoccupied with a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 03:16 AM |
| 3 | what age should you prioritize marriage?I don't have any children, nor am I a person that practiced casual sex. And I wouldn't have made long term plans for children because I cannot have them. As to marriage or serious feelings; YES it does align with MY prospects as the only children I'd be able to have would be adopted. MEANING, I'd have to factor seriousness of dating and marriage and how HE would feel about adoption. And children are a product of sex... consequences sounds so negative and indicative of some type of punishment. Je… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 02:55 AM |
| 6 | what age should you prioritize marriage?It wasn't until I reached 34 that I even thought about marriage or dating with any real seriousness. Children were never a part of my long term plans, so it didn't factor into my choices. Honestly speaking, I wanted a certain kind of man. A gentlemen who had explored the world and was ready to carve a life with me. I'm a geek, so dorks, nerds, and fellow geeks have always been my thing. 🤷🏿♀️ I like an interesting intellectual guy who knows how to have fun as well. Who catches my LOTR references… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/08/22 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standards😒And they just might get it. There were no absolutes in my statement which begs the question of vexation. I suppose the context of the Op's diatribe was lost as you read my response and inexplicably chose to disregard his quoted text. The object of contention was whether to shame or not to shame an individual who wanted without attempting to succeed. To expect without some form of self improvement. His composition; to sustain that women who will not improve themselves expect as their due what an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 11:16 PM |
| 0 | Q4W: how many compliments do you get per day in real life?I'm often complimented. Not just recognizing looks or styling... but on proficiency, work ethic, the esthetics of my projects, my documentation and record keeping, also about the visuals of my products. I receive compliments and I also give them... even to strangers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 05:31 AM |
| 1 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsSimply put, we all have wants... things that we desire for ourselves. Doesn't mean we will achieve them no matter how hard we work towards them. Doesn't mean I'll ride that person for their wants. As to the person that wants but makes no effort to achieve... it's really their business. They can want all day long but probably won't get the object of their desires. Not my place, nor do I take the time, to shame these people. Life is already browbeating... and I'm deep in the trenches achieving my … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Q4All: Would you rather marry your average looking best friend; or a really hot person you have nothing in common withPretty in Pink 1986 I believe. Always despised that the screening peeps hated the Duckie HEA and wanted Blane 😒 Blane bored me and wasn't what I considered 'beautiful' aggrieved sigh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 02:45 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: Would you rather marry your average looking best friend; or a really hot person you have nothing in common withMy Bestie!!! I always rooted for Duckie... he absolutely adored Andie just the way she was. Plus, Duckz was fun, colorful, similarly minded, interesting, and interested in her. Of course I would want that for myself.😁 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/22 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Women claim all guys, even below average men, struggle because they all want "hot supermodel stacies" and yet they defend women who have delusional, unrealistic standardsCan I became an obese, err I mean big beautiful broke man and aim for a beautiful fit woman in her early 20s without being shamed for it? You sure can! You can aim for whatever you want, doesn't mean you're going to get it. But, you shouldn't be shamed for wanting someone/something despite your own shortcomings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/22 07:28 PM |
| 3 | men and women need to work synchronously (not asynchronous) to improve market for everyone. but the men must make the first move.I feel like some of these posts should indicate the age bracket the OP is speaking to/of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/22 09:12 AM |
| 3 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Seriously? My upbringing and the plan I have for myself. My parents raised me to view sex and marriage in a certain way. It stuck. So I just never considered it or consider it now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:12 PM |
| 1 | Two part question: Men, if you were a woman would you be a sex-worker? Women, have any of you seriously considered/have done sex-work?Nope, never considered it at all... let alone partook. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 09:09 PM |
| 1 | The fact that in almost any discussion about dating there is an overriding implication that women are the prize and men are lucky to win them suggests women are superior to men and is symptomatic of the misandry and gynocentric sentiment that is rampant in western cultureMy guy knows he is truly appreciated. I tell him. He who finds a wife, finds a good thing. She who gains a husband, gains a good thing. That how we live. I've heard women ask other women how their "better half" is doing... Women DO recognize that a good man can add to the joy of their life. And they tell their man. But to further answer your question, historically men have been the one to approach. They would engage the woman who piqued their interest. So the tone is "I like you (already) let me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Intra-Sexual Competition Mega-ThreadHiiii!!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 05:33 PM |
| 5 | Intra-Sexual Competition Mega-ThreadI speak to people. 🤷🏿♀️ I literally just say "Hi!". I compliment people. I tell a man he looks handsome. If a guy seems to have taken extra care with his suit, I tell him and wish him a happy day at work as I move on. I have complimented women on their hair, etc... Not to be seen in a sea of women, to compete with anyone, nor do I feel unseen.... but because that's just who I am. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 05:18 PM |
| 2 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?I'm in education as an Inclusion Program director. (As well as a business owner) Staying home and playing with children isn't my idea of retirement. That MAY be the intention of my significant other... but the finances dictate if it could be afforded. As to my early retirement; I have plotted, planned, and stored funds since I began working at 13. My retirement plans are for traveling the world, and enjoying the proceeds of decades of hard work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 05:10 PM |
| 2 | How many today would be down for a stay home dad?I couldn't do it. Financially it would be an unmitigated drain. Yes, I am comfortable now. With a SAHD, the funds would be tight. Depending on how many children, the financial noose would tighten even more. I would have to dip into my legacy, nest egg, T&T, and retirement accounts to raise said children and send them to school. College would obliterate my early retirement stocks. I couldn't possibly afford a SAHD... on the flip side, I could never be a SAHM. I've way too many ambitious goals and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/22 02:17 PM |
| 9 | Men - what makes you a catch and why should a woman give you a chance?From here: Could be pro or con: I don't drink whatsoever, though I do enjoy the occasional cannabis. Quiet type, and don't like to go out and party at all. No interest in having kids. I'm almost a neat freak... clean up after myself immediately, house is basically always clean. I don't have a huge menu of recipes that I know, but the things that I can cook come out excellent. Cons: Fully bald and shave my head. I remember before being bald and hearing in high school "oh this and that girl have a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 05:57 PM |
| -1 | Utilitarian solutions for men who face continuous rejection:How would you go about solving it? Because honestly, people have to be OPEN to help to recieve it and benefit from it. And when I say help... that doesn't mean giving them what they want. Because we can't. No one is out here with the ability to legally force someone into a relationship when they don't want to be. So, bow would you go about rectifying these issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 10:15 AM |
| 1 | Utilitarian solutions for men who face continuous rejection:Your arguments are IRL vs OLD. And yes IRL we give clues to our personality to strangers when we don't even know it. Anecdotal; a guy came over to a long bench I was sitting on. There was an older gentleman on the opposite end from me. Guy comes over, sits down extremely close to me, then spreads his legs as wide as they will go, and spread his arms over the back of the bench. His leg is pressing up against mine at this point. Meaning he now has stopped one more person from sitting on the bench,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 10:09 AM |
| 1 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?And that is where you're wrong. Because it's not just you, and you're not the only one receiving bad reactions, rejections, and feel lonely. EVERYONE wants a fair shot sir. Everyone. Most everyone wants to be loved... and MANY of us have a hard time finding that love. Others may be speeding down the highway and you feel you're the only one being ticketed... with no idea of what is happening further down that stretch of freeway. They could have been ticketed a mile up the way... but you don't see… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 03:25 AM |
| 4 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?Its been done numerous times. There are women who have written posts trying to find out HOW to resolve the issue. Asked for male imput and ideas as well as women's imput and ideas. And the calls for solutions are met with silence, rude, derisive, and dismissive comments. Women are ASKING men what they think could be realistic solutions to male issues and how men see women aiding in the initiative... so, what ideas would you contribute for improvement in male issues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 03:05 AM |
| 3 | So what do men want women to say / do when they face continuous rejection?I've been around girls who respect/like me before but as soon as you try to turn that into something else they get weirded out they think you've "fucked zone" them like your interaction where all just to get to sleep with them If you weren't 'laying in wait' to guage her interest... then tell her so. If, after that, she says she isn't interested... then she isn't interested because she isn't attracted to you in that way. OF COURSE if it's a guy she already likes who reciprocates her feelings....… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | What would your advice be for undesirable women?Hold up... I'm 38, pretty (you can check my profile), petite, desirable, and never been on the CC. This gripe and attempt at shaming really needs to be checked. It isn't empirical at all. Not every woman has engaged in casual sex or even want to engage in such a thing. Don't allow yourself to be steered where you dont wish to be. Just because you haven't found a compatible match YET doesn't make you undesirable. Nor is this "hit the wall" thing a forgone conclusion for every woman. And my advice… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 01:54 AM |
| 0 | What would your advice be for undesirable women?Sir, the comment was for the OP to illustrate that things aren't as foregone a conclusion as some individuals try to make it seem.... and to answer her question about what she can do to better her position. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/22 12:23 AM |
| 3 | What would your advice be for undesirable women?IF you believe that no one wants to be with you... then yes, your belief is that you're then undesirable. But, it's not a fact driven summation... because you've not been exposed to enough people to be deemed as everybody finding you undesirable. However, the OP may not be interested in the type of gents who have found her desirable. Or, she wants to be desirable to a certain demographic. Either way, not undesirable. 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/22 11:18 PM |
| 0 | Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sexI graduated from university decades ago. As did I. I'm 38... took me until 36 to find my first loveable dork. All the other guys that asked me out... were not my intellectual cup o tea. 🤷🏿♀️ It may yet happen for you. Don't give up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sexIt's called "The Shaft" 🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sexI can't speak for other people. Which is why I said 'for myself'. And as you've said.... you have YET to meet her. Doesn't mean she doesn't exist. Also doesn't mean that a woman isn't interested in it... try speaking about things simply first. Then use the correct labels or terminology for it. Try sedimentation, great oceanic basins, volcanic undersea eruptions... etc... even small stories ... like the underground cavern with a waterfall and massively deep oceanic structures you can only get to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Intelligence is not a positive trait if you want to have sex🤷🏿♀️Can't say I agree for myself. I love intelligent and informed men. I have never dated or had sex with a imbecile or mediocre man. Not once. The stimulation of my brain makes anything else a possibility. No mental stimulus....no dating or sexy time. That's just how I'm set up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 08:55 PM |
| 1 | The True Importance of Men’s Height: a discussion/debateI'm 5'3 and petite. A guys height really doesn't indicate his VALUE to me. I've dated a guy who was 5'6 and was skippy go lucky happy to have him in my life. I think it's a man's preoccupation with his supposed 'negative' traits that may cause him to miss out on the love that may be right in front of him. Sidenote: The 5'6 guy told me that he didn't think I would date him because of how he PRECEIVED me to be. He thought because I look the way I do, a different race, have a thriving business that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?Another one of you? Kindly find your way alllllllllll the way down to the end of my thread where I indicated that I said what I said. 😉 You have a good day now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 08:53 AM |
| 3 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?And I said what I said. I will not be dating a bi gent. Period. Someone else can do the honors. Now that we've exhausted the topic.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?Continue to read the remaining thread. I've answered all manner of inquiry and have typed my final thoughts there. 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?I hear you. I'm sure that gentleman will find someone who is open to someone who is bi. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 01:11 AM |
| 2 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?But he isn't with me. I believe that dating is the observation and information period That's something we would have discussed before he would be 'with me'. We may part ways at that time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 12:23 AM |
| 0 | Are heterosexual women who won't date bisexual men bi/homophobic or is it just a preference?When did I say he would? I SAID I'm not up for sharing period. That I wasn't interested in anyone who may feel the need to play with others... even if they ask for permission. Also, said bi gentleman has experienced pleasure in places and in ways I may not be able to adequately replicate. That may cause him to feel discontent and disinterest in our sex. 🤷🏿♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/22 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Debate: I would much rather be an average woman in an America than an average man.Eh, you're welcome to it. Being a woman in America (period) can be stifling, demanding, annoying, and monotonous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 11:49 PM |
| 1 | The #1 reason women are so selective and flake so easily is because they simply aren’t as interested in men or dating as the reverse which inflates their options and in turn their egos, not because of the “danger” of dating as a woman or risk of getting pregnant.Thank you!!!!🥰🥰 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 11:45 PM |
| 2 | Do women have to choose two out of Comfort, Freedom and Life?I have all 3. 🤷🏿♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | The #1 reason women are so selective and flake so easily is because they simply aren’t as interested in men or dating as the reverse which inflates their options and in turn their egos, not because of the “danger” of dating as a woman or risk of getting pregnant.It's one I picked up years ago at an Indian shop. I believe it's Gujarat... but I could definitely be very wrong. Lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/22 05:15 PM |
| 3 | The #1 reason women are so selective and flake so easily is because they simply aren’t as interested in men or dating as the reverse which inflates their options and in turn their egos, not because of the “danger” of dating as a woman or risk of getting pregnant.Yes, I'm very much aware this is a CMV post. Instead of attempting to have this discussion yet again, constantly chewing the same concepts ad nauseum... my proactive nature prefers to look at solutions. But, if you would prefer the answer; As a 38 year old, child-free, moderately pretty business owner... I'm choosy because I can be. 🤷🏿♀️ Simple as that. I chose a man who has the same values, morals, and outlook on sustainable relationship development. Meaning we WORK together to make US work. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | The #1 reason women are so selective and flake so easily is because they simply aren’t as interested in men or dating as the reverse which inflates their options and in turn their egos, not because of the “danger” of dating as a woman or risk of getting pregnant.So it would seem. Not too many viable solutions seem to be present or considered for these unchosen men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 06:25 PM |
| 9 | The #1 reason women are so selective and flake so easily is because they simply aren’t as interested in men or dating as the reverse which inflates their options and in turn their egos, not because of the “danger” of dating as a woman or risk of getting pregnant.OK, you've your theory. The only thing left to say is; now what? Now that you've compiled your reasons for the choices women make... what are you going to do now? How does this theory benefit you/unchosen men to achieve the desired outcome.... as in sex, love, relationship? How does the continued vilification of women's choices equal to drawing their positive attention in your/unchosen men's direction? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/22 04:26 PM |
| 1 | Imagine your most controversial reddit account, posts and comments become publicly linked to you. How would your husband/wife/boyfriend/girlfriend react, as well as friends and family? Would you lose any relationships?I'd be fine. I'm the same on Reddit and real life. My opinions are discussed openly in panels, debates, and education spheres. 🤷🏿♀️ It wouldn't matter or alter opinions of me in the least. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/22 11:46 PM |
| 5 | Women here, what ways do you show interest?I maintain eye contact and tell him. 🤷🏿♀️ "You've an interesting way of ___________, I'm intrigued. Tell me more about yourself. " Men can sometimes miss queues or signals. Plus, I'm sure a guy enjoys a bit of a boost when a woman shows interest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 12:20 AM |
| 1 | Generational differences in hotness standardsYou definitely have a point OP. I too have a different outlook and ideals in answer to this relationship, sex, and love problem... but I'm in my 30's. My approach to life is probably significantly more extroverted then the younger generation. Although, I'm considered introverted by my contemporaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Reducing sexual attraction down to only physical appearance and hypergamy is oversimplified and cowardly.So don't. You've announced to all and sundry that you've no wish to problem solve a solution for unchosen men which might see them achieving sex, love, or relationships. You're not their ally. Have a monotonous millennia. Good day. ✌🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Reducing sexual attraction down to only physical appearance and hypergamy is oversimplified and cowardly.Precisely this! They are rapidly distancing themselves from any possibility of affection or sexual attachment from women. The sheer amount of women living with ovarian cysts, massive uterine fibroids, endo, etc... opens many up to options of extracted and preserved eggs, and a hysterectomy. They can knock pregnancy out in total with the removal of the uterus and ovaries. Then the 'undesired men' TRULY won't have a chance for progeny and relationships. Those women would have the ULTIMATE choice o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 07:28 PM |
| 2 | Reducing sexual attraction down to only physical appearance and hypergamy is oversimplified and cowardly.Tsk, ideas could have been cultivated... if only one might have bothered to read. These aren't my own issues... I'm a woman with choice and autonomy. Marriage and family are an option I can attain if I so choose. A simple fact I cannot deny. I'm a self employed and financially independent cutie with property and no children...yet. I may change that at some point, however I'm building quite the legacy for the progeny of the union I choose. And yet, here I was... seeking to problem solve with some… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 05:31 PM |
| 2 | Reducing sexual attraction down to only physical appearance and hypergamy is oversimplified and cowardly.First: These women may have contemplated on the idea of the men they choose to be with many times over... and still chose him. Sex isn't only about procreation. Some women don't want children at all... full stop. Doesn't mean their sex life has to die. Protection during sex can be faulty... it is what it is. Second: Top level guys? So, a guy who is (subjectively) physically attractive, moderately intelligent, employed, motivated, mentally stable, comfortable with and around women, and socially i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 05:06 PM |
| 4 | Reducing sexual attraction down to only physical appearance and hypergamy is oversimplified and cowardly.And how does that help these men? By forcing women to go through with gestation, birth, and rearing responsibilities... it gets these men what? Those women still don't choose them, are still not attracted to them, still don't want those men. Those men will still be in the same position. What next? Take away the right to work for a living? Then what? You think women will then fall all over these men? All of a sudden, under duress, women will be attracted to the men they've never even considered b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 11:41 AM |
| 3 | Reducing sexual attraction down to only physical appearance and hypergamy is oversimplified and cowardly.Men are not wrong for being upset that they get rejected for their height or other unchangeable features, and they never will be Ok, these men are upset because they've been rejected for their genetic disposition or physical appearance. So, what now? What are you proposing? What action are you thinking of that would change this outcome? What is the solution to this much discussed opinion/position? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/22 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Women here, do you expect the man to plan most/all of the dates when you’re in a relationship?No. Just like impute and initiative towards planning some of our outings and events. Not all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/22 08:31 PM |
| 5 | Q4W: let's suppose that the current state of relationships among men and women leads to the complete collapse of modern society due to so many bitter aimless single men...No. Simple. I absolutely and unequivocally refuse to give of myself to someone I detest... simply because he cannot achieve it on his own merit, looks, attitude, etc... Why would his bitterness be of higher value then my freedom of choice? Why is his sexual/relationship gratification to supercede the abject MISERY of his presence in my life if I do not like him? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/22 12:02 AM |
| 2 | What is it with women and "exceptions"?I cannot answer. I'm not one who has ever been interested in changing anyone. When people tell you who they are, BELIEVE them the first time. Then evaluate if their Sphere is where you want to be. If not, walk on. 🤷🏿♀️ However, this too can be a double edged sword. Some men do believe that a woman's 'job' is to help coax them into the best version of themselves. No, seriously... some men believe that the love of a 'good woman' can make him a 'better man'. If a woman then sees that the man's beh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 10:05 PM |
| 1 | Even if personality matters more then looks, that doesn’t make things betterYes.... it's looks that can initially make someone interested in you. After, looks are coupled with social behaviors, personality, ethics, and financial acuity that determine whether or not the interest will turn into emotion and coupledom. All of these are determining factors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?That's true. Women are given more of an opening to be engaging. And there is knowledge of that which makes some of us more at ease to start conversation. Definitely can't negate that. But it is definitely something I wish to change. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?Who called you a lonely virgin? I've not spoken to your sexuality or lack thereof at all. 🤣🤣 You're projecting. Yes, my pic clarified my gender for the person who looked. 🤣🤣🤣 A simple thing to do. Again, your response lacks an appropriate response and fails to contribute to what is ACTUALLY being said. You simply took umbrage with my personal experience. Please, once again, refrain from speaking on something when it is sorely evident you've not read everything referenced. And on this note, you h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?The cheese bites was a guy. 🤣🤣🤣 Asked me if they were as good as they smelled. I offered him a sample. 🤷🏿♀️ We had a great convo. Stop trying to drag all men down into the depths of unrelatable, lonely despair. SOME men don't waste opportunities being pessimistic. 🤷🏿♀️ But no, do stay in the mire... you seem to enjoy the dynamics. Again, my examples were not for you OR to the original point of contention. I see that comprehension and reading acuity still alludes you. Once Again; I was then ask… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?🤣 I'm also pretty friendly and chatty. People are comfortable talking to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?So, if you'll scroll all the way back up... you will see that my response is to someone who specified that PEOPLE don't meet others randomly in real life after college. I responded that I do... and where I do. I was specifically asked MY personal experience and anecdotes of these occasions. I responded to that with MY experiences. I was then asked if I am a woman. I answered yes. Your pointed response of LMAO imagine a man getting a woman’s number that way or another man’s number 😂 stop it tells… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?🤣 Idk.. I'm chatty... and people just talk to me. Always have. I just speak as I'm shopping. Maybe it's because I'm an educator. 🤷🏿♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/22 02:42 PM |
| 2 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?Yes, I'm a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 11:41 PM |
| 5 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?That's on you. 🤷🏿♀️ But I haven't sold you a thing. 🙂 You asked, I answered. You don't have to believe it... but it is my lived experience. I'm sorry that those interactions are not something you've ever experienced before. Maybe you need to try. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?I understand that. Social anxiety is most definitely a hindrance to one's social life. The thing is... if one wants a social life, they are going to have to actively deal with that social anxiety. I have anxiety (not social) so I know how debilitating a panic attack, cold sweat, and shortness of breath can be. HOW they could approach their social anxiety and beat it is something I couldn't answer to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?Yes, that's what I'm saying. The most recent was a friend I made while at Applebee's. We struck up a convo about the cheese bites and the dipping sauce it came with. Wound up kicking back and laughing and exchanged numbers. 🤷🏿♀️ Grocery store... we were going after the last package of paper towels (tissue was gone) at the start of C-19. We wound up splitting it between us and promising to give the other a heads up if we found more. He would pick up some when he found it and share with me... I w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 11:00 PM |
| 4 | Regarding rising 'sexlessness,' percentage of young people who've never had sex or a relationship do you think have never even made an effort?I'm 38. Still meet new people on day trips, the library (I'm a reader), while shopping (grocery, clothing, home shopping) at restaurants, on public transportation, at games/tailgates, MomoCon, DragonCon, Walker Stalker Con, and other various social events. There are plenty of events to attend to meet people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Do most women acknowledge the fact they have very high standards and that the man they want probably has way less and doesn’t ask for much from a woman?The "you" is a general "you". It is implied. Don't take it as a direct hit towards yourself. I don't know you or what you deem 'high' or 'low' standards. Pointed comment ---> Your (you personally) defensiveness is noted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Do men want uglier or more attractive/beautiful/hot women in long term relationships or in casual one’s?LTR still needs to have plausible attraction between the partners. So yes, he or she would most definitely want what is most attractive to them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Do most women acknowledge the fact they have very high standards and that the man they want probably has way less and doesn’t ask for much from a woman?Yes, I am aware of the educational, mental, personality, looks, and employment standards I hold. They help to ensure that I don't make classic faux pas in selecting who I spend my life with. The gentlemen (3) that I've dated also held standards of education (so that they weren't embarrassed by their partner) mental acuity (checking for mental illness and dissonance) personality( compatability, treatment, views, ideals, morals) looks(what attracts them, physical attributes)and employment (able to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 05:59 PM |
| 6 | What is your advice for the underwhelming man?This poor guy. The whole aesthetic is definitely working against him. His clothing, shoes, and hairstyle can be altered and upgraded. His body can be upgraded through exorcize. However, genetics are working against him. His facial structure... is going to be where the most work (surgical) would be done. Although, one could say that surgery would only assist him... His future children may suffer the same disenfranchisement as they would carry his genetic markers. His personality may be excellent.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/22 11:24 AM |
| 5 | So called "post-wall" women are even harder to attractIt is what it is. 🤷🏿♀️ Physiognomy may have been ousted... but it's replacement was Hegemonic Masculinity... which is practiced and taught innately from pre-kinder years, rebelled against by women in teens to twenties (futility is seems) and surrendered to in the 30's. Because Hegemony and Late Capitalism has informed on the behaviors and aesthetic of Masculinity that can be acceptable by society. Welcome to Sociology. It's the Era of aggrieved entitlement, and the lack of dividends is right on… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 06:15 PM |
| 6 | So called "post-wall" women are even harder to attractAs a 38 year old curvy allow me to give you my take. 30 and below years are experimental, observational, and capitalistic. 🤷🏿♀️ One assumes (sometimes falsely) that with age comes maturity, security, and sustainability. 30+ is generally rooted in their foundational wants and desires in a partner. They aren't there for the gents or women who are flaky and flighty. That in and of itself may take on a physical attribute. Which is why people say those with broad shoulders can take on boundaries and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 05:14 PM |
| 0 | Women don’t make less hot men wait more - women make men wait to make sure he is interested in a relationshipI can only speak for myself. I've never been one to just lay down with a man no matter if he is physically attractive, mentally stimulating, or personally engaging. I've never even entertained sleeping with someone on the first, second or even fifth date. 🤷🏿♀️ but that's me and other women who operate in the same manner. As for whether or not a woman sleeps with the attractive guy quicker than the average guy; SO WHAT!?! It's literally HER right to choose who she shares her body with... same as… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?Um, ok so the women said that the muscle men are cute. Ok. Cool. Isn't the argument that the men who are feeling disenfranchised wish for LTRs? None of the oohs and ahhs of physical appreciation in your anecdote is indicating an LTR followed with the muscled guys. Also, the anecdote of the silent friend again isn't indicative of the "goals" of the disenfranchised men. She is literally regularly pack multiple hookups in a single day. Not someone who at this time is even interested in a LTR. Now, … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:43 PM |
| 1 | When women say "height/looks/size/income doesn't matter" are we men just speaking a different language?Um. From a man's perspective he is observing what another group is doing. His observations and conversations on the matter lead him to generalize the whole of said group. When a woman is being asked about the group she is in, she is responding with information gathered through her ingroup experiences... including her own. Thus, due to the differences in the women's individual desires, wants, and needs; she is able to give a more varied and nuanced answer. Things from the outside always looks dif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 12:22 PM |
| 10 | When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky.More like I'm not a licensed therapist for someone who needs to unlock the reasons behind their self-esteem issue. Nor is it encumbant upon me to take on someone else's mental health issues... and I'm not even in a relationship with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/22 03:38 AM |
| 18 | When the subject of women’s abundance comes up women like to say they have “no good options” but this is nonsense. Women have plenty of attractive, desirable men interested in both LTR and hookups, they are just insanely picky.Just because YOU believe that these particular men are "a good option" ...doesn't mean they are to the WOMAN they are wishing to date. Her objectives could be completely different. Her values, goals, and aspirations may not align with his or his TIMELINE might be quicker or slower than hers. She may not be ready for anything that he is offering at this time. Just because someone may be a good option (subjectively) doesn't mean that the woman is even equipped to be a good partner at this time. Sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 11:11 PM |
| 3 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.What I just described is the social framework that has always been in play in America's capitalistic Dynasty. Hegemonic Masculinity was always a thing even in 1901... which is why the social education was that men were to go to work, and women were to provide a warm, rejuvenating Oasis for him to return home to. So that he could recoup from the day and return to his wage stable. The name was later coined as HM in sociology... however, it has always been present. As time has marched on, the gap b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 10:43 AM |
| 4 | An anecdote about not only women themselves abusing male sexuality, but society as a whole.The anecdote you've just shared is classic Hegemonic Masculinity and Late Capitalism. You've described unequitable dividends and aggrieved entitlement. This sociological theory (deriving from men in philosophy and psychology) is what BEGETS or gives birth to these Pill theories. A quick cap of the theory; Hegemonic Masculinity: The practice of teaching what Masculinity looks like... and what you will gain if you can successfully embody it. So, work hard, remain stoic, don't complain, sacrifice y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/22 10:04 AM |
| 2 | Women don't have to accomplish anything in life because they could always live off a manCan't see myself living like those women. I simply must be able to assure my own security. Sidenote: Gentleman- see Hegemonic Masculinity and Late Capitalism | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/06/22 09:05 AM |
| 1 | What sort of "intelligence" are women attracted to?Well, it is MY answer nonetheless. Whether your feeble disposition approves it or not is of no consequence to me. Good day. ✌🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Women seem to justify their self interest.Hello. I'd most definitely have to disagree that with your assessment that women only advocate for Men's right if it directly effects her. There are NUMEROUS women in various spaces who have spoken quite eloquently on gender equality and the concerns of men. The issue is that these women aren't just speaking to other women about their views... but also men. Yes, I know that MRA doesn't like to hear that... but it most assuredly takes place. Last evening the discussion turned to the egregious SA … | /r/MensRights | 24/06/22 09:11 PM |
| 5 | What sort of "intelligence" are women attracted to?I LOVE that! It means that communication usurps misunderstandings and silent hurt feelings. Makes the relationship stronger and more resilient. I definitely try to work on that within myself as well. I'm not the type to complain, I just kind of... handle the things I can handle and plot against what I can't. It took him sitting me down and talk to me for me to realize that it was ME who wasn't being open with my day to day struggles. I wasn't sharing with him. I'm much better at it now... althou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 08:19 PM |
| 2 | What sort of "intelligence" are women attracted to?🤣🤣🤣🤣 It is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 07:30 PM |
| 7 | What sort of "intelligence" are women attracted to?Ooohhhhh.... Emotional intellect is a big one. Not just recognizing your emotional state, but knowing how to express yourself in healthy ways. I adore when a man can say " Honestly? I'm angry because.....". It allows me to be aware of what is happening and be supportive. OR gangbust through the barriers together... like the partners we are SUPPOSED to be. I however, do not like feeling like I'm in the dark until the emotional issues have piled up and he feels like he is drowning. I don't want to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Through a red or blue pill perspective, how should this scenario be handled?I feel like this scenario is very much pushing a particular trope... but, for the sake of the post, I'll answer. I believe that Shawn should begin to observe her behaviors a ND check the validity of her new stance on sexual engagement and how it effects a relationship. Many women begin to change how they approach love and sex when marriage or lifelong partnership is their goal. Many people learn from past mistakes/approaches what works and doesn't work. If she is articulating that the men in her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/22 05:31 PM |
| 7 | Dating is dying because Men’s historical value is negatedThere is a difference between needing and wanting to be with someone. I have to say that being wanted means so much more... feels so much more significant than having some need you. Someone who is simply reliant upon you for their own good. Now yes, I believe that even in a relationship where the couple wants each other , that duty and work is to be expected. That even if you don't feel like it... doing things that make your partner happy... makes you happy. Who wants to wake up and make their p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 10:38 PM |
| 2 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?I never said that guys don't find me attractive. Just that the things that trigger attraction for me requires getting to know a person... and that romantic feelings are uncommon for me. DnD spaces aren't always the mecca of compatability for nerds, dorks, freaks, and geeks. Same as in other spaces, social emotional prowess, ideologies, values, morals, responsibilities, drive, and our end goals may differ. Not to mention some of the fetishist overtones in some of these spaces. <--- A whole bucket… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 09:07 AM |
| 7 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?Mostly, because I'm not given that opportunity. It is assumed I am those things and they keep on walking. Then when/if they have a chance to observe me... either in my career or in my daily routines I'm told; " Oh, you're adorable and so well spoken. You're not like the other ones. you're different." That kind of backwards compliment of acceptability, at the degradation of those whom are of my race, is a slap. It tells me about the ideology of that person. Derision until proven acceptable is not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 02:39 AM |
| 14 | Men struggle with dating and sex. So, what women struggle with?Dating. My preferences are for a fellow geek or dork. Someone who I can speak to and who understands my references. I'm talking weird science, LOTR, Neverending story type geekdom. Along with that type of compatibility is a need to be attracted to the person they are. Their ideology, values, morals, and goals are important things to me. If we cannot mesh in that way, it's not going to work. Sidenote; I have never just seen a guy and been attracted to him. It takes getting to know someone for any… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/22 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Has online dating ruined relationships?I understand your point. However, as much as it may seem like all women just want these 'top men', there are most definitely women with different wants. As to what a man can write down about his heinous acts and still be in demand - I wouldn't know about this. I'm not on any online dating sites. IG is where I post for my business on a business account. FB and Twitter are dead zones. So as to this Stat, I couldn't further the conversation or negate it. I would say that there are vast amounts of w… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 07:34 AM |
| 3 | Has online dating ruined relationships?I will agree that some women are choosing to remain single. They may already SEE that the men within their community are utilizing some of the more 'modern' and casual dating practices and wish to take no part. Or the men that embody the values they are looking for... have already found their match and are now married. Some women have never ever signed up to online dating and STILL are unable to gain a relationship that reflect like values, morals, respect, and love. For some reason, this demogr… | /r/MensRights | 17/06/22 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Self-conscious generation: 4 in 5 millennial men insecure about their looksUm. I hear you on these OLD statistics I suppose. I don't really have the data. However, I will say that there are some men and women who've never signed up or even downloaded an OLD app. I'm sure there is a whole demographic unaccounted for in these statistics that have become a monolith for today's dating trends. I've spoken to many people like myself, men and women, who've never felt the need to look at OLD as a means of sex or companionship. The statistics may change if this demographics dat… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 02:30 PM |
| 2 | In what ways are men that love pretty women are misogynist?Honestly? I couldn't care less about what anyone else (No matter gender, race, creed, or sexual orientation) deems their preference. We ALL practice preference and choice when considering a partner. Why SHOULD I be concerned with or by things that have ABSOLUTELY nothing to do with MY happy pairing? It's not like it's rational to be upset about another person's preference UNLESS you want that person and you're excluded from their wants. But, eww anyways! Because why try to argue or shame someone… | /r/MensRights | 15/06/22 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Women: Are you more attracted to a status-driven man or a purpose-driven man?I am very much attracted to purposeful men with specific personality markers and traits. If he has financial literacy all the better... 🤷🏿♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 12:58 PM |
| 2 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?Actually? They would be utterly shocked at first... then burst into an awkward laugh... because that's not something I would ever say. 🤣🤣🤣 They would think I was either joking... or baiting them into another research projects and collecting data. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I can practically hear all the; " Nope, uh uh you're not catching me up in another one of your case studies!! I won't fall for it again". I mean, they will eventually... but 🤷🏿♀️🤣 But no, honestly? They'd have to tell me. Me treating people as hu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 12:52 PM |
| 2 | Beautiful women, do you really doubt that most men want to f*ck you or is it just a front to seem humble?🤔As an average woman, I'm just oblivious to a man's interest. I've just always been one of the guys. A geek who shows more awareness and mental prowess during research and investigatory endeavors. 🤷🏿♀️ I just don't assume every guys intention is to form a sexual relationship or dating. Some guys may just see me as an excellent friend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/22 10:14 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: Men Are Not Here To Make You Happy in RelationshipsOh absolutely 💯. We both do. We compliment one another. His dork to my geek. I advise compatibility, goals and values, morals, drive, and the joy derived from just spending time with that person... as indicators for relationship sustainability. And honestly Gents, if a woman is with you for you... she feels joy and happiness already. Spending time with someone you love is happiness in itself. That's not to say that there won't be times of anger, sadness, and disillusionment... and your intention… | /r/MensRights | 08/06/22 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Ladies: Men Are Not Here To Make You Happy in RelationshipsOk🤷🏿♀️ Although the guy I'm with does make me happy. Very. | /r/MensRights | 07/06/22 11:05 PM |
| 1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?Na, personally I'm definitely more about personality, compatability, and if he can geek out with me. 🤷🏿♀️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 09:10 PM |
| 1 | Which group of women do short men have the best luck with?🤔 I'm 5'3 and my 🥰 is 5'6. He initially thought his height would be a boundary. He had assumed that I wouldn't even look at him and he stayed shy... until he couldn't take it anymore I guess. It never was for me though. I was hung up on his silliness and how being around him made me happy. I'd say don't take yourself out before you've even started. You never know... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 08:47 PM |
| 0 | Solving "Our greatest public-health crisis? The angry young American male"If a man speaks out about not having sex, he is a incel. If a man speaks out about penis size, he must have a small dick. If a man speaks out about having no friends, he must be a weirdo. Ok. So then the question begs; after men speak out about these issues - what is the expectation of resolution? How much if the resolution or programs needs must be for men by men. How much initiative programs or resolutions are women expected to head? Can we take a moment and look at these 3 male concerns? Let'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 12:54 PM |
| 3 | UK charities call for menstrual leave for severe painThis should also apply to men who suffer peyronies, Balanitis, priapism, lymphatic filariasis (effects the genitals as well) Inguinal hernias, hematocele, and spermatocele. There was a gentleman on a subreddit who spoke of how altering and painful peyronies is. I believe that the menstrual leave time should also apply to gentlemen with those same issues. Peyronies is a condition where plaque, or fibrous hard lumps forms in the penis and causes pain as well as bending and curving. Fibroid tumors … | /r/MensRights | 22/05/22 01:13 PM |
| 13 | Does women hate most of men?No. Most women do not hate men. Within the group of women who do not hate men, are women who genuinely care for the well-being, mental health, emotional security, and personal happiness of the men in their lives. Those women aren't overly preoccupied with the financial prosperity of their men (not that it isn't a priority for financial security- just not in the top 7). Those particular women have careers or their own business' that provides for their financial needs... so the things they are loo… | /r/MensRights | 21/05/22 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Are men becoming obsolete?No, I don't believe that men have grown obsolete. For the women who are interested in a deep, sustainable, and respectful connection - the criteria has changed a bit. Not every woman out here is warmongering in an attempt to subjugate or diminish men. Yes some of today's advances and societal changes do make economics and financial gain somewhat accessible. That just means that for SOME women the things she truly IS looking for in her partner are things that surpass superficial tropes. For deepe… | /r/MensRights | 26/04/22 10:00 AM |
| 4 | It's really fucked up how the idea of a man displaying weakness is seen as something reprehensibleI find it very disappointing and discouraging that the misandry or demeaning done by some women affect outcomes for others. EG; many women look to the male relationships and emotional expressiveness of K-pop and K-Dramas. They find that complete comfort and self-identification to be wonderful masculine traits. Some women have even left the U.S. and moved to S. Korea in the hopes of meeting such men. It's sad that those who wish to BE comfortable and emotive cannot find the women who are supporti… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 22/04/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | What in tarnation is this?This was deeply disturbing to watch. I believe that she could have kept that personal information to herself. Everything is not meant to be shared with the masses. | /r/AntiFeminists | 21/04/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | Believe all womenThat statement is sickening. There is NO way I could be convinced to believe the WHOLE of any gender or age. Adults and children LIE... they lie to gain. People lie for anything they attribute as advantageous to them. Some people are so into that work grind they will LIE to usurp a promotion or position from an innocent person. Children will lie to get what they want... I watched a 3 year old do just that nearly 3 weeks ago...and all the adults were standing around looking at this child like; Bu… | /r/MensRights | 20/04/22 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Woman are not entitled to everything of a Man.To be honest, there is a change happening in reference to shelters just for men in the U.S. About 2 weeks ago, I gave a gentleman who was frustrated at his inability to start a Male Shelter some information about getting that business started, talking to other male and female shelter directors or owners to gain information to begin. I could copy and paste my response here if you too are interested in starting that...although I'm not very knowledgeable about starting a business in Germany. I just… | /r/MensRights | 20/04/22 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Everyone knows it's wrong. Almost everyone, men and women, have the same, visceral reaction to this. Where is the disconnect in reality?Hi! [I understand this is a male space and respect it as such. I am just thoroughly DISGUSTED by the woman in the clip and will make my response quick] The complete comfort and lackadaisical manner in which she announces that she simply won't ever work because "she doesn't want to" is the stuff of nightmares. She is demanding a higher sum [as punishment] for this man's career advancement! All while acting like gainful employment is beneath her and her simple existence is deserving of the proceed… | /r/MensRights | 15/04/22 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Why do people get so upset by the word "female"?I have absolutely no clue. It is men/women, male/female, hormone/pheromone.... idk... and frankly my dear, I don't give a damn! 🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/MensRights | 10/04/22 06:33 PM |
| 2 | ‘Not all men’ and the insane level of feminist hypocrisyMonolithic and generalizing applications to ANY group puts me off. People are varied, diverse, and multifaceted. Not every woman is the same .... nor can be held accountable for what some other woman has done. Not every man is the same... nor can they be held accountable for the actions of some other man. It is GROSSLY overdone. To many groups.... And you know what else is sick? When your behavior exemplifies that you're not a part of the Monolithic trope, you're seen as 'the exception to the ru… | /r/AntiFeminists | 10/04/22 01:01 PM |
| 3 | They are always for outdated gender roles when it suits them. In this case, men being the provider.His money is his as mine is mine. However, it is a couple by couple understanding. The hubz and I sat down and made plans for how bills are taken care of and our joint and personal savings. We have a joint vacation fund and spend on each other to our hearts content. One partner shouldn't have a monopoly over the others funds when they should be in support of one another. Just the stance my 💛 and I have taken in how we deal with finances in our relationship. | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/04/22 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Why is the public perception of a "good man" always "a man who is appeasing to women"?I don't think i specified in what form of acquaintance any one individual would have with that caliber of woman. I also never said anything about the individual having a partnership or sexual relationship. I simply said; there is this type of woman out here... hope you get the experience of meeting one. Nowhere in that one sentence did i say he needed a woman, let alone that he was incomplete without one. It's not even inferred. I answered to the posited concern/question and responded with anecd… | /r/AntiFeminists | 09/04/22 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Sexual assault double standardsBill Burr actually spoke on a debasing experience he had. A female comedian flicked the head of his privates as she walked past him. He talked at length about how it effected his psyche for a long time. He discusses get back strategies, reporting her, the inevitable dismissal of his trauma, and his self doubt.... all before deciding to drop it because people wouldn't see it for the valid abuse that it was. He talked about getting through his show on autopilot, driving around town angry... even c… | /r/MensRights | 09/04/22 07:03 AM |
| 1 | rewriting the rules ; what would actually happen if parental tests at birth was enforcedI say that it isn't a bad idea at all. It gives peace of mind to the anxious father and solidifies the bond between the parents and the child. A verified unit. It also keeps everyone accountable for actions. If the child isn't the man's, he shouldn't be held responsible for that child [Unless he voluntarily decides to]. Verification isn't a bad thing within a relationship/partnership. It can actually reinforce and strengthen trust. 🤷🏿♀️ Go for it. | /r/MensRights | 09/04/22 06:18 AM |
| -2 | Why is the public perception of a "good man" always "a man who is appeasing to women"?I'm sorry that seems to be the norm in social settings with the women in your area. I've yet to have a woman in MY set or age bracket that operates on his wages being what sets him apart as a "good man". The accolades they attribute to their husbands/boyfriends seldom have to do with monetary things. Their pleasure in their partners usually stem from their personalities, silliness, or an understanding between them. The women I associate with have more mature values they seek. There are mature wo… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/04/22 09:55 PM |
| -4 | Why is the public perception of a "good man" always "a man who is appeasing to women"?I truly hope that hasn't been all of your experience. There are most definitely women who look beyond the trope of "protect and provide" and desire other qualities. However, please take note... there are [SOME] men out there who hoist that trope up as if it is the ONLY thing a woman should expect of them. That the remaining goals and objects are hers to complete as his is only to provide and protect. That doesn't exactly help either of us if the goal and aspirations are more for a partnership/co… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/04/22 07:32 PM |
| 0 | Why is the public perception of a "good man" always "a man who is appeasing to women"?Both terms are subjective to be honest. What constitutes a "good woman" or "good man" can vary between individuals or even socioeconomic backgrounds. And no, ALL women are not virtuous. This is a widely known and accepted fact simply based on the plethora of laws intending to keep women from doing "unvirtuous" things. As to what is considered a "good man" being appeasing to the inferred monolith of "Women"; it really isn't. You see, even in 2022 [SOME] men still believe that "I protect and provi… | /r/AntiFeminists | 08/04/22 07:27 PM |
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