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DiscussionObvious-Dog4249/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:07 AM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 07:06 AM
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Nah, just a ton of women literally think they are queens and treat men such as that guy he’s talking about as disposable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:13 AM
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Feel this
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 05:12 AM
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Men have the highest social pressure to obtain sex at worst or opposite sex attention at best for a myriad of reasons. Conservative men are not all prudes and are but a broad subtype of men. Devout Christian men probably use dating apps less, but not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:15 PM
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I was meaning the more conservative the woman is I meant. The more conservative the woman the less they are online?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:58 PM
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The more conservative the less women get online?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:55 AM
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This is clearly due to Asian sex workers in Thailand the phillipines and all the desperate and demented dudes that go down there.
/r/BlackPillScience09/07/24 11:16 PM
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Looks like this conversation was a waste of both our times then. No one can give you positive conclusions except yourself, they can only give you direction to it in small ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 01:33 AM
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This is incredibly self defeating. A woman will never be interested in you if you are not interested in yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:53 AM
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I certainly wasn’t very experienced when I started seeing older women. Feel like we’re beating a dead horse here. You have to level up in some ways to attract anyone so if you are in your own terms “unnattractive” you have to start with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:32 AM
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It could be those things, but it also could be that an older woman simply values the more correct and less superficial things in a partner like how tall he is or how much money he makes or how many women want to sleep with him or his status compared to others. That will vary from woman to woman what she actually values or whether she’s just trying to find a gullible man to take care of her. I guess what I’m saying is the older a woman is the less chance of being part of a monolith she is that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 12:19 AM
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What I’m saying is…your chances with older women are still better. Younger women will enjoy your money though if you want to go that route. I’m talking younger than 24-25 here when you are in your 30’s and beyond. Or date a non-western woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:56 PM
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If you haven’t had any experience at all by 30….then your lifestyle is highly unusual. I had most of my experiences from older women, but it did take courage sometimes. Had a much harder time with younger women, likely because they are all over the place with their thoughts and social conformity, which I never cared about the latest trends and such. I am lucky to have met a woman from Honduras that is on a teacher visa here and she is completely different in a good way than most any women I’ve m…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 11:38 PM
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This is wrong but only if you date 40+ with exceptions. Most older women are far FAR more relaxed on superficial qualities than younger women. I do wonder if this will change though with most women in their 30’s and younger growing up with rampant social media. I suspect it won’t change a ton though. Most older women have been burned enough to appreciate your attention even if you are not Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/02/24 09:57 PM
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All I know is I wish delta 8 was able to be bought 10 years ago from a vape shop cause I think it would have helped my nerves immensely in college. But honestly I had other problems too
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 12:55 AM
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I can tell you for a fact that’s what happened to me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 03:13 PM
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Porn doesn’t affect men’s standards as much as it does their brain chemistry. A porn addict can get with the woman of their dreams but if they are used to visual stimulation only and deathgrip on their penis they won’t get aroused regardless of the woman with him. Source: I am a recovering porn addict
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:28 AM
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Honestly it’s not affecting standards as much as it is altering brain chemistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:26 AM
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Maybe because guys are through with younger women or don’t see them as attainable so they focus on older women until they themselves are in their 30’s? 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:23 AM
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Depends on your age, if you had a lot of sex before repeated porn use, your physical fitness, and likely how many other things you do in life that stimulates you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:21 AM
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People love their porn man, and addicts only become addicts from small incremental but constant patterns of behavior done to quell boredom, anxiety, depression, guilt, their traumas, or to forget their problems. I wonder how many addicts needed scientific evidence of small details of why they became addicts?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 06:20 AM
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You should get a tape measure and see lol I’m not sure what eyelets are in a baseball cap lol. But I feel you. Average male adult hand is supposedly 7.6 inches and a woman’s is 6.8
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 01:39 AM
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How small your hands? Mine is exactly 7 inches and I’m the same height as you pretty much, maybe slightly shorter
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 12:50 AM
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Happy cake day!!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 03:00 AM
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I gave you an upvote. Men need to improve too. But something has got to give eventually or society is f’d. My dad is the primary breadwinner and does the yard work and trash, but my mom has always been the bedrock of doing most everything else. I see that side too, I really do. I plan to help my woman more than mg dad does. Women need to find a way to screen for men who will do the same and then I’d be interested if they still pick the same men they do now to complain about or if they make more …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 07:08 PM
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I guess I’m just shocked women don’t desire a good partner in their life. I was always brought up to think women want one man to give their love to and it makes the sex 10x better. So many factors but like the other guy is saying I think many women are falling for Hollywood lies.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 06:45 PM
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Both men and women have to do their parts. The truth is most women don’t think a man can improve their lives anymore. If the men are assholes and abusive then yeah don’t get with them. But if he’s a good guy but isn’t 6 foot tall or makes a little less than the median wage of whatever state he lives in it shouldn’t immediately discount him. Yes lots of men have issues they need to work on, but many men just want a chance to prove themselves dateable. Even one short term relationship barring the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:29 PM
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Men make up half the population…so it would seem it’s also better for all of society in general, not just men. Women are attached to that society you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:24 PM
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Yeah sometimes this page is crazy on its views but only half the time. The “bar is so low” for men phrase only applies to the men that are tall and attractive. Don’t date western women if you can help it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 05:22 PM
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I’m dating a Honduran girl I met here. She’s here on a teaching visa for 2 more years and was divorced once a year ago with no kids at 31. Said she’s only been in 4-5 relationships her whole dating experience. She may have hooked up before but I really don’t think much. She’s beautiful and I consider her a 10 but if she lost some weight she’d be a 11 to anyone. I’m 5’8 and sort of nerdy but not bad looking and not fat but not naturally extraverted or charismatic, but I’m a good guy and loyal and…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 04:50 PM
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I think these men are blue pilled but also I do believe there are men that are into sexually liberal women (promiscuous). They are probably more likely to also sleep around too though. There will always be outliers, and some less traditional men probably get off on having a hot promiscuous trophy wife who he supposedly can tame, kind of like what every woman tries to do at least once with a guy with plenty of options. If it’s a nice traditional guy getting with a woman like that and he knows it …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/23 02:14 AM
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Margot based on the pictures I saw was really hot, like 9 at the least. Emma Stone I wouldn’t rank higher than 8 but not lower than 7. She reminds me of a girl next door type. But I guess everyone’s ratings are different. A woman needs a good face and at least some ass and boobs to be a 9 to me. A 10 is someone with all of it. But I try to stay off porn and rating women reminds me of it so I’m going to stop now lol. I think many men are porn-brained. I say this as a former pretty severe porn bra…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 10:35 PM
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Margot Robbie is a doll, Emma stone herself is about an 8 too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:59 PM
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Yeah she’s objectively a 7.5 at the LEAST, but most likely an 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 08:57 PM
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Your title of this thread was a particularly painful lesson for me
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/23 03:58 PM
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I’m 5’7ish and make just above 40k a year and am 33, maybe slightly handsome as long as I put the effort in but lacked a lot of confidence for various reasons even though I’m pretty alright honestly but now it’s just bad habits and thought patterns ingrained that hold me back. I feel pretty average for the most part but I have struggled and agree with some posters about “getting lucky” when I find someone interested in me as a signifier of being “average”.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 03:05 AM
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I think what kind of friends matters to though. Do your friends hang out with girls or try to get girls? Or do you just play online games with them or meet at cookout once in a while and talk about nerdy interests? Not that there is anything wrong at all with the latter (most my friends and I were more like this) and I hate hanging around guys that only talk about women and sex cause yeah it’s interesting but is nothing else interesting to talk about? But guys who do only focus on women and sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:48 AM
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How’d you start being average or higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 02:46 AM
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But if you are her partner or sexual partner it does become your problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:36 AM
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Lol most likely
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 09:43 PM
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My health insurance comes out at $251 a month. So if you don’t got health insurance then just save save that for 4 months and you got money for an IUD! Lol I know terrible comment. But health insurance is expensive if you pay for it yourself. Many examinations only cost a couple hundred bucks and the insurance still makes you copay. Insurance makes everything go up.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:56 PM
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I’ve had sex with older women who definitely could no longer have children and it was part of the attraction for short term raw sex lol. I know, not safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:34 PM
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I’m 33 now and maybe when I was 23 I was still attracted to a 17-18 year old but still wouldn’t, but now I certainly do not find any teenager attractive. I did ask a waitress out once though cause we would kind of flirt back and forth some and found out she was 18 lol….she looked 23-24 to me and everyone else. So sometimes you just don’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:27 PM
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I recently slept with an older woman (I’m 33 she was 49) and she was Vietnamese and said she had never came with her ex of several years. It was so hard not to cum when she was letting it go lol. We had a ton of buildup of talking on the phone at random times and texting over like 3 years about meeting. When I helped her with information about her son getting a license she finally opened up to meeting. We watched magic mike, spilt popcorn butter on ourselves, and had very intimate sex at a hotel…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:30 PM
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And honestly man to woman oral sex has less risk of stds than penetration. The saliva kills the real bad stuff. Definitely not everything though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:17 PM
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What state you live in? Lol jk
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:14 PM
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I feel like Russian women would be the worst for some reason. Seemed like of white foreigners they were the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 11:59 PM
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Holy shit that last sentence. Grow up
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 06:38 PM
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Why weren’t women allowed to have credit? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/23 01:06 AM
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I’m not third wave feminist but I just was educated on the fact that women couldn’t have a bank account at every bank till 1974. In the 60’s it was okay for a woman to have one but a lot of banks wouldn’t do it till they had to in 1974. Social media and dating apps are a larger deal but women not being able to have their own money without husband’s permission is pretty crucial and this likely didn’t catch on immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 04:52 PM
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Gosh what depressing titles
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:16 AM
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I think mandatory military service would be a start. It would give all men a shared experience no matter who or where they are from which would be invaluable to man’s self worth and feeling like they are part of a larger community. I would be interested to see studies on men’s happiness in countries where this is enforced vs where it is not. Sounds brutal at first but it would help so many guys I think. I didn’t join ROTC in high school cause my cousin I thought was “cool” (which he wasn’t) said…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:29 AM
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That’s a blackpill cope, but you do have it in your name so
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:14 AM
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While late bloomer men do have to try to get anywhere just like late bloomer women and you certainly did a lot for yourself which is absolutely commendable, it’s still harder these days as a guy to have the kind of success you had mostly because women have a ton of support at least on surface level by other women (even though women talk behind their friends backs more on average) and women just in general have an easier time getting positive feedback loops than men do. That’s why compliments mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:48 AM
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He’s right you know. I used to work around a popular college with a lot of Asian immigrants from china and India. They mostly stayed together however while you never see Asian men with western women (hardly not saying never) it was way more common to see white men with those women but still rare if they were first generation immigrants. I also have helped some tall Swedish and Netherlands white guys through my job and I absolutely know they’d slay women here cause they were just beaming with for…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:23 PM
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There’s a good bit of truth to what you are saying. And you are also correct about her, she’s mentally unstable for sure, like really. Says she can’t clean because she’s “stressed” while her husband is working outside all day after cooking for her and the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 05:07 PM
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This is obvious when you put it that way, and I can definitely see how some men prefer this. Me personally though, I couldn’t take it if she was domineering all the time though. I want some mutuality as a guy. It definitely puts into perspective why if a guy desires a feminine woman how he’ll need to be at least somewhat more of a leader than her. I guess woman telling you what she wants is fantastic, but the line would stop if she is blunt with you about other things that might be sensitive to …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:53 PM
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I know and am friends with some guys who have a more dominant woman in the relationship. They kind of like being told what to do and even their days planned out. The only issue is if plans need to change its hard for them to put their foot down. Like for example this week we usually play cards on thursdays and one friend told us Monday that we might need to reschedule to Wednesday or Friday. Wednesday would be best for everyone except the one friend who’s girlfriend kind of runs the roost. He to…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 04:50 PM
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I feel this and although I don’t have a great career to show for it I think about everything the exact same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/23 10:18 PM
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I’m 33 now and play For Honor everyday usually. I have to admit though that games are not as fun anymore. I have played the shit out of them but long for a more fulfilling social life as most my friends are married now…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:11 AM
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For Honor is fun
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 01:09 AM
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I’ve never heard it put that way, but it’s exactly correct. If you are bad at getting women to start with and chasing them appropriately then it’s also understandable why when you finally get in that relationship after so many years it’s almost doomed to fail because you just got lucky and you’ll revert back to your ways once you get some a few times and get comfortable.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/23 05:38 PM
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I bet most men don’t agree with redpill on this but redpill certainly markets it that way
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 05:21 PM
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Me and my friends still play yugioh and we’re in our lower 30’s. Love the reference lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 06:08 PM
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I’m on OKCUPID and I bought the premium pass. I get liked by a ton of Filipina woman on there and more than half of them have pictures in crazy exotic places that are definitely not just in the Phillipines and it makes me wonder given the average economic status over there for its people how they are traveling?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 02:57 PM
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Yes I personally feel like I can’t stay on this Reddit too long before I get depressed with all the negativity. Their is a certain toxicity to redpill that is awful in a broad sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 01:13 AM
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Some would say the devolving of our culture is because of these rights. Not me but some…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/23 12:32 AM
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This thought process makes me think tinder is actually more geared towards average women than average or below average men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 10:10 PM
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I was going to agree. AvatarKang you should get some friends or some people you trust to help your style out some, and definitely turn your autism towards your appearance and how to make yourself look nice even if it’s not for anyone else but yourself so you can feel better about how you look to other people. Be sure to take a shower everyday and if you feel like it a little exercise and also help. And when you’ve done these things and feel good about yourself at least looking decent or average,…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 09:55 PM
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I fancy older women so the 23 year old. She’ll be hot forever!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/23 05:35 PM
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I just came here to say that I seen the show (not this episode) a couple times and at first I kind of liked the show, but I also know if im the kind of person who wants to listen to that show everyday then I have problems too, so I stopped. Some of the women on there are the worst examples of the XX chromosome though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/23 04:29 PM
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