Ocean417 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
41	Men don’t become generous once they start earning money. They are attempting to buy you.	REMINDER 👑	Ocean417	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/12/21 11:52 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
340	✨How I realised if he wanted to he would is true ✨ It’s crazy how a lot of women (myself included) won’t think about this or believe that if he wanted to he would when I see the same women doing things for men because they want to. They will buy men thoughtful little gifts on a Tuesday just because and then in the same moment will convince themselves that no one just does things like that	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/02/22 08:52 AM
26	Comments tell her to "commUNIcate", OF is Not BAd Imagine being a girlfriend with zero commitment from him yet helping pay child support. Yuck.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/02/22 08:32 PM
107	No words… Clearly wanted one more kid without commitment and then to run off and attempt to relive his youth	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 03:52 AM
216	He forgets about her bday and ignores her, but he (finally) surprises her! Is this a new rock bottom? As I started reading this I KNEW she had been forever girlfriended and then yep, 8 years. He is sponging off her and panicked and that’s why he did all that. For himself and not for her. Also the fact that he could have done this on her birthday but chose not to was clearly to ruin her birthday. Also they live together? Yet didn’t address her message?? Did he literally just ignore her?? Wtf??? BREAK UP WITH HIM SIS	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/01/22 08:46 AM
5	Groom smashes bride’s face into cake & she rightfully is leaving him I’m so proud of her!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/01/22 11:53 PM
297	How to avoid a situationship? Some of my favourite ways: don’t have sex with him/her. A lot of guys are only interested in sex and once they get it they are comfortable and won’t bother turning it into a relationship because that’s all they wanted from a relationship anyways. don’t have sleepovers: too intimate too quickly don’t cook or doing wifey things date multiple men (and make sure they all know that. Men perform best with competition). do not pay for anything do not organise anything yourself: he is the one courting y…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/22 09:55 PM
6	Be careful of this new generation of “SAHD”, who won’t do any chores, won’t take care of the kids, doesn’t contribute to earning money but will lie and cheat I sighed as soon as I saw “fiancé of 7 year” just wow. “Streaming dream” lol Also this is a lot of effort to confront him. As soon as I got a vibe I would have been done. Especially long before I was in the situation of SAHD doing literally nothing	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/01/22 07:24 AM
22	Female Dating Strategy Podcast BONUS: Lundy Bancroft, Part 2 - Dating Red Flags & How "Sexual Liberation" is Being Used to Control Women Hurt women hurt themselves: low self confidence, insecurities, anxiety, low self worth Hurt men hurt everyone around them. Domestic violence, cheating, narcissistic behaviours. They literally will traumatise future partners because some girl stole his pen in the 3rd grade so now all women “TaKe AdVaNtAgE oF mE” Also thinking about the two women I know who were coerced into being poly and both immediately went on a date with someone who has so far proven to be a HVM and ditched the scrote and are…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/01/22 07:26 PM
46	Female Dating Strategy Podcast BONUS: Lundy Bancroft, Part 2 - Dating Red Flags & How "Sexual Liberation" is Being Used to Control Women That hits so hard and is so true! Women who try a poly genuinely give it a go and enter relationships + give love. Men who do it just want an excuse to sleep around. I was talking to a male about poly relationships before and he said that while he doesn’t want more than 1 relationship because he doesn’t have time/energy (aka refuses to put in effort) he wants to “share love” and “connect with multiple people”. I asked him why he doesn’t build multiple deep friendships and he replied “because the…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/01/22 08:22 PM
10	Red flags are red flags. Not yellow or orange—they’re red. My tactic is that if I have to stop and think about it/Google it/mention it to someone for their opinion then it is a red flag.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/01/22 02:26 AM
2	Have your first impressions of men been accurate? I have NEVER been wrong. When I get a bad feeling about someone I know right away to get them away from myself. Boyfriend constantly called me judgemental, negative and catty until I didn’t warn him about someone that entered his life and it turned out awful and all the sudden he “relied and trusted” my intuition	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/01/22 08:03 AM
1	Dating 'travellers' and the Visa My friend has been in THREE relationships where all he has wanted is a visa. Heartbroken every single time. Currently in a fourth relationship with a guy who just happens to be from overseas smh.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/01/22 01:28 AM
79	Another post about Gold-digging/Sugar-babying My friend was a sugar baby. She realised something was up when he never gave her cash or helped her pay her student loans etc. he was only interested in paying for things that boosted her image (jewellery, nails, hair salon, clothes, bags etc etc).	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 03:17 AM
46	Man(27) gets 17 year old pregnant after one night stand and absolves any fault "she was drunk but she wasn't sLoPpy dRuNk" He either knew she was too young but hoped to get away with it or he didn’t realise because he didn’t have a proper conversation and just viewed her as an object to use so he didn’t take note that she was a freaking teenager. 5 min into any conversation I can roughly tell someone’s age	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 03:15 AM
8	I sure as hell enjoyed every minute roasting this scrote. Based on his response, he 100% deserved having his ass left 🤣 I’m so happy for her that she got rid of him but this is precisely why you need a prenup. So lazy scrotes don’t get payouts for being shitty.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/12/21 03:10 AM
1	Tell the world you abuse women without telling the world you abuse women 🤫🤭 They always call themselves out lmaooo if I’m enjoying sex I am not going to just lie there. Also does he think the sex robot is going to actually move lmaooo	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/12/21 09:44 PM
362	Good sense prevailing in the comments Second hand embarrassment omg but glad she is finally waking up and feeling the ick	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/21 10:51 AM
15	Things like this are becoming more and more common. Squeeze in the wrong area of the neck and she easily could have gotten real brain damage (from the lack of oxygen). Be careful out there ladies. This is so scary. The fact that he didn’t care even more so. Note her other words “I don’t want to make him angry”. She is petrified of him. He choked her out, didn’t care and she feels like she can’t bring this up or it will anger him. Horrific. Also “breath play” you have GOT to be kidding me	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/21 03:21 AM
69	This queen knows how to handle sleazy men Literally carry this energy for everything you do! Would your boss be chill if you mirrored how he treated you? My favourite is when a guy suggest a threesome I immediately go ooh yes let’s do it with [insert name of his hot male friend].	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/12/21 12:35 PM
152	What is it with men and being greedy and wanting open relationships? This happened to a woman I know! Her greedy ugly scrote demanded an open relationship and she left him soon after with an attractive, successful and respectful man. They are now married and he loves her so much it’s awesome to watch	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/21 11:03 AM
1	Any halfway decent Christmas films? The scene where he buys the other chick jewellery but his wife a CD or something and then she goes into the bedroom and has a breakdown absolutely ruins me :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/12/21 04:38 AM
35	Woman sees tornado and frantically moves her kids to safety. Husband questions her sanity, slights her for “scaring the kids,” and foolishly goes outside. I hate that tone men always get where they are like wow women are so irrational. Men are supposed to be the protectors but that is literally never the case. It is the woman who saves the kids and then somehow the husband twists things and gets the credit	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 11:59 PM
133	Is it just me or do men not know how to talk to women anymore? It seems like every conversation involves some sort of pick up artist technique instead of being genuine I feel like I need an encyclopaedia of scrote to even begin to decipher what he is trying to say	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	11/12/21 03:22 AM
3	Do you have any male friends? I have a few. They are all in relationships. I make it a rule that I will only hang out with them with their girlfriend present and I make an effort to prioritise and get to know the girlfriend more. So now I’m actually closer friends to the girlfriends than the guys. If I even hear a whisper that she feels weird about it I’m out of there because her gut is telling her that the male can’t be trusted (and I don’t want people like that in my life) and it’s just simple respect. I will never underst…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 12:50 PM
40	Men who don’t hold doors open Just wait at the door a few times. If he realises it and starts opening the door without bringing it up or making it a fuss then see how you feel about it. If he refuses or doesn’t notice throw him out quick Personally though I think you should lift the standards just a bit and end things. A HVM will anticipate everything. I swear every woman I know how watched videos or read tips on how to do the perfect first date/etiquette etc so men can easily do the same and pick up on it instantly.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 12:46 PM
80	Men will try to make their porn-sick ideas seem like a good idea for both of you I have heard of this! Years later they look back at the event and are revolted and violated and literally have trauma surrounding it that they are left to deal with. I pointed that out to a guy before and he didn’t care. He did not care. Nothing ranks higher in pornsick men than their own pleasure and they will literally break women down and potentially kill women “accidentally” to get it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 12:55 AM
31	recognize & avoid the energetic vampires in disguise: men who only target women in distress/ in difficult situations because it makes them feel superior and who act passive-aggressive when the women get better I don’t think we talk enough about how dangerous men with a hero complex are (aside from the fact that it stems from narcissism). The hero men only receive validation from being the hero and the best way for them to do it is to keep a woman in a low place. They will do everything they can to discreetly break you down so that THEY can build you up with their own “training”. This is why you don’t date when you are in a low place because I swear they can bloody sniff it out. When dating ALWAYS pres…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/21 09:52 PM
12	The insane shit men will lie about I’m sorry WHAT?! wtf 😅 helllooo narcissistic sociopath! Can I just say that I adore the posts on reddit when the woman has caught the ick and is leaving with her mind set. So much better than the posts other women make asking for advice on how to fix the relationship after he did all of these heinous things	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/21 09:43 PM
378	Pursuing men never ends well from the women's perspective All of this plus the fact that it is so utterly exhausting chasing someone and putting in all the effort. On the slim chance you end up with him ask yourself how you feel being with someone who didn’t even want you in the first place? Don’t settle for that. Plus you will then wonder if he will ditch you once you stop chasing him so much and the benefits decrease for him. It is never worth it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/12/21 11:28 AM
34	Dunning-Kruger. This is so embarrassing and I am absolutely here for it	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/12/21 11:44 AM
21	Grace Millane - Murdered by her Tinder date - This is why we vet ruthlessly “The rough sex defence” DISGUSTS me. If anything saying that rough sex led to death should increase sentencing. How vile.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/12/21 11:47 PM