I don’t have a flair but hopefully it’s still okay to post this.

So after over a year of lurking here (and learning + leveling up like crazy) I have finally decided to post something that I wrote up in my notes for myself and basically to just remind you guys (and myself) that generosity is part of someone’s personality and it doesn’t magically happen once they start earning more money.

That guy that never pays for anything? Can’t be bothered to buy you flowers on your birthday? Doesn’t treat you to dinner? He will never be a generous man that buys you things. Even if he ends up becoming a doctor etc because generosity has never appeared out of thin air. If you look behind what generosity is it is values like kindness, respect, ability to appreciate someone and wanting to make others happy. If someone has these values money does not make them appear or go away. This is why you don’t chase potential! Because I’ve seen men on low income (my friend who is still studying-he’s 21) save up every spare cent to make their girlfriend happy. When he makes more money in the future he will still have the same energy.

If you see a male become more “generous” once he reaches a high income he is not actually being generous he is trying to buy what he wants (sex, bangmaid) with his money (taking her out for dinner) and it’s completely transactional and the focus is on getting what he wants rather than making her happy.

Avoid all men who aren’t generous-they do not change because generosity is character and money doesn’t change character-in fact money exacerbates the character. Elon musk is a good example of this. He buys women’s affection and then forces them to sign a prenup, knocks them up and then leaves them with nothing.