Octavera Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
26	Finally in a relationship with HVM, but it feels like the tables have turned		Octavera	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 12:11 AM
20	Anyone else familiar with the "art" of cajoling men out of a bad mood?	CULTURAL MISOGYNY	Octavera	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/03/20 11:05 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Getting to the ring in less than a year and a half No I haven't but that sounds good! Thanks!	/r/RedPillWomen	11/06/20 03:31 PM
2	Getting to the ring in less than a year and a half It is strong, but I am the planner. I plan all the trips, outings, meetings with family etc and am generally responsible for moving things forward, which is why I worry that he wouldn't take initiative. But I understand it is a stressful time for everyone!	/r/RedPillWomen	11/06/20 01:57 AM
5	Getting to the ring in less than a year and a half So if you make your timeline clear and it's not met... How much "overtime" do you allow for? Or is it time to move on?	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/20 11:09 PM
3	Finally in a relationship with HVM, but it feels like the tables have turned Ah interesting! We had talked about a timeline for marriage, and as much as it would devastate me... I would have to prepare to leave if there are no signs of that being met. Which even feels terrible to say. But there's no reason for me to stay if the real commitment isn't there	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 11:45 AM
11	Finally in a relationship with HVM, but it feels like the tables have turned To be honest, I have thought about that too. He should be excited and eager. And it's definitely not my job to make him chase me. This is going to sound bad but I feel like I've found something unique because he's never ever screamed or sworn at me or called me names (which of course I would never tolerate now). But I think I'm going to try to focus on myself more, and if it doesn't work out I will just have to deal with it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 11:43 AM
4	Finally in a relationship with HVM, but it feels like the tables have turned It's so hard not to lol but you right	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 11:39 AM
5	Finally in a relationship with HVM, but it feels like the tables have turned I agree with this as well, that I have definitely gotten away from living my own life! It's just hard being stuck in quarantine, he's like my go-to. But he is a surprisingly good communicator for a guy, like listens to me and uses reason instead of just throwing a tantrum (how sad that I have to say that). Thank you for the advice!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 11:28 AM
2	Finally in a relationship with HVM, but it feels like the tables have turned I think you're absolutely right! I have gotten to the point where I am more concerned about what we're doing together than what I'm doing for myself, and I have to remember that I have my own identity. I'd like to find a new hobby for just me and my girlfriends, whenever quarantine is lifted. And be doing it for my own enjoyment, nothing to do with the relationship	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 11:25 AM
2	Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 5/31/2020 I posted a relationship advice question (in a separate post) which was "automatically removed by the moderators" immediately. Is that not allowed? I was really looking for an FDS perspective	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/06/20 12:15 AM