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DebateOdd-Help6890/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 06:39 PM
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Odd-Help6890/r/TheRedPill07/12/25 03:06 PM
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DebateOdd-Help6890/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:12 AM
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CultureOdd-Help6890/r/TheRedPill18/01/26 06:06 PM
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DebateOdd-Help6890/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:38 PM
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DebateOdd-Help6890/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:04 PM
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ConversationOdd-Help6890/r/seduction14/11/25 06:08 PM
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Fundamentals Odd-Help6890/r/seduction26/10/24 06:30 PM
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Off TopicOdd-Help6890/r/TheRedPill01/02/26 09:23 PM
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DebateOdd-Help6890/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 05:07 PM
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Fundamentals Odd-Help6890/r/seduction10/05/25 02:23 PM
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Question For WomenOdd-Help6890/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 11:58 AM
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DebateOdd-Help6890/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 08:09 PM
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DiscussionOdd-Help6890/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:45 AM
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Its only a very small percentage of women (mostly low quality and trashy) that like the bad boys you describe.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/26 05:35 AM
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red pill
/r/ExRedPill27/07/26 04:50 AM
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Still far truer than the black pill which is a load of bs
/r/ExRedPill26/07/26 08:08 PM
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I absolutely don't have a problem with this. My point is simply that saying "educated women don't want marriage and children" is a bit misleading because the reality is far more nuanced than that statement suggests. Many educated women would still prioritise having a family over their careers if they met the right partner. The issue isn't that they don't want marriage or children. It's that there simply aren't enough suitable men for every educated woman who wants those things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:24 AM
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educated women don't want marriage and children. That isn't strictly true. More often, the issue is that they can't find the kind of wealthy, successful men they want to marry or who are willing to commit long term. There are relatively few of those men compared with the number of women seeking them. Look at it this way: Overwhelming majority of the wives and girlfriends of athletes, celebrities, and high-net-worth individuals have children. If these educated women partnered with those kinds of …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 08:06 AM
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even for average women 5/10, getting a decent enough guy to commit is not as easy as people make it out to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:42 AM
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You have to understand that the men on Reddit are not representative of men in real life. On Reddit, a woman can make a post asking, "Would men date or be attracted to a woman with X trait?" and many of the responses will be from men saying that not only would they date her, but that it's actually their preference. Real life often looks different. I've seen average and even below average men reject women who were clearly interested in them simply because they weren't attracted enough to pursue a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:35 AM
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Agreed. I only contribute to this subreddit to push back against the ridiculous (untrue) black pill narratives that get promoted here. They seriously expect people to believe that 80% of men have such low standards that they'd marry a 4'2", obese, single mother of three just to avoid being alone. That claim has no basis in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/26 05:51 PM
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As a man I am also not attracted to most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 02:18 PM
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Men are usually are lying when they say they have no options. Very few men have literally no options. The truth is that the overwhelming majority of men have basic standards when it comes to dating. Many of these standards are fairly reasonable. For example, a typical man may not want to date someone who is a drug addict, severely mentally unstable, significantly obese, has serious physical deformities, or is a single mother. In real life, I know a man in his early twenties who is dating a sligh…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:37 AM
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Men love telling us how desperate they are and how low their standards are And a lot of this is just bs and gaslighting towards women
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:30 AM
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Exactly. This subreddit tends to lean heavily into black-pill nonsense, and it doesn't really reflect real life. I've met plenty of average or even below-average guys who have no trouble dating, and I've also seen less conventionally attractive men reject women. One of my mates is severely obese I mean around 500 lbs. Even he was matching with quite a few overweight women on dating apps who were still much slimmer than he was and they wanted to meet up. He just flat out refused every time, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:55 PM
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No, I don't care. As a man, I have a strong preference for a certain type of woman, and I'm simply not interested in dating most women (aside from perhaps something casual). Because of that, it would be hypocritical for me to criticize women for being more attracted to some men than others or for treating men differently based on attraction when I do the same thing. Pretty much all of my male friends have standards. This subreddit seems to think men will marry any woman who gives them attention,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:47 PM
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I actually think many men are better off staying single and childfree. A lot of men who are the primary breadwinners remain in high stress jobs because they have a family depending on them, even when those jobs take a serious toll on their physical and mental health. I've seen men in those situations age rapidly, gain body fat, and become chronically stressed. Carrying the responsibility of supporting a family can make it much harder to step away from an unhealthy job, even when it's costing the…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 05:11 PM
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u/Infamous_Dish_4348 how comes you completely ignored my responses but responded to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:49 PM
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If dating is harder for men in their 30s than men in their 20s why are way more men in their 20s likely to be single compared to men in their 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:03 AM
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I agree, I found way easier to score with women in the early and in mid 20s at the age of 30 compared to when I was 22 or 25. This subreddit loves promoting black pill narratives that is 'over'.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 05:00 AM
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I found dating a lot easier in my 30s than 20s as a man. I even posted about my experience on here and it was removed for 'promoting a narrative', yet this post is the opposite of mine and I guarantee it wont get removed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 04:56 AM
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I used the discussion about weight as a proxy for race because race related posts tend to get removed here almost immediately. What I really meant is that a significant number of men remain single because they are unwilling to pursue long term relationships with anyone other than White women. Many of my White male friends openly refused to date women of color seriously, saying they simply were not attracted to them and would rather stay single than date outside that preference. I've also seen ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 04:08 PM
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The Black Pill is the most ridiculous pill, and it's basically the default on this subreddit. It's like if you're not handsome and tall, you're destined to be single and no woman will ever want you. In reality, most married guys are not the "moggers" that the Black Pill is constantly talking about. There are also plenty of guys who stay single because they're not that interested in the women they're attracting, not because they're forever alone. Women being able to attract a decent-quality long-…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 11:46 AM
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Single moms may not want to date single dads.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 06:06 PM
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I found it significantly easier to get women in real life (not bars per se) compared to online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:55 PM
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This subreddit constantly pushes black pill narratives for male issues. If someone made the opposite post, arguing that men actually have a much easier time approaching women in real life, it would probably be removed immediately for "promoting a narrative." Yet posts like this are apparently not considered narrative pushing? The double standard is pretty obvious.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 07:54 PM
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This 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 08:23 AM
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No, it isn't. Claiming that only men who are tall, very lean, have an excellent jawline, and are highly attractive facially can attract women is extremely misleading. Just go to any busy shopping centre and look around, the overwhelming majority of men in relationships do not fit that description. This subreddit discussions drift toward black pill narratives, especially in threads about attractiveness, dating success, loneliness, and online dating. You hardly see any Blue pill tier post on here.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:56 AM
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Black pill is just as bad and gives false narratives that women are all desirable for being women and 80% of men have no chance. Biggest BS I have seen even mores o than the Blue Pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:35 AM
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Thats not true at all very few men I knew literally has 0 dating options. I knew an Irish guy who had basically given up on dating. One of our friends married a woman from Thailand and another married a woman from China. I jokingly suggested he should try dating in Asia, but he said he simply wasn’t attracted to women from those regions and would rather stay single. Another guy I knew was very short and ginger, and he seemed to get a fair amount of attention from Indian and Black women here in L…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/26 07:30 AM
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exceptions exist but the rule remains the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 05:29 PM
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Women won't sleep with men they wouldn't date. Men WILL sleep with women they wouldn't date. This is the answer to why most 'relationships' do not go far end up failing. Men will 'date' women they do not find attractive or are not all that into.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/26 04:53 PM
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Social media and smartphones have, in my view, significantly damaged dating since around 2010. I also think that cheaper international travel compared with the 1980s and 1990s has reduced the incentive for people to settle down and have children. Meanwhile, house prices and other assets have risen much faster than wages, making it less affordable to start a family and harder to build stable communities and friendships As mentioned this effects young men AND women (yes women too).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/26 01:21 PM
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Most guys would rather just stay single, happily, than date an ugly girl. Stop with this false narrative that men are so desperate to just date anyone. Sure men will happily have sexs with ugly women, very few would marry one unless it is their lookmatch. These false narrative this subreddit tries to push hard, very few men are single because they literally have no options.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/26 06:08 PM
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Most relationships its the him not attracted to the she
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:31 AM
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I do not get what you are trying to say I go to similar places like Walmart and I see overweight men or men with beer bellies married or in relationships all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/26 08:21 AM
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Same reason young men still die more. There's 106 boys born for every 100 women, by age 18 the numbers are equal. And that's in the modern world with all the healthcare and relative safety. Boys are more likely to participate in risk taking behaviour, which causes them to die. Historically this was far worse as it weren't any emergency care options and there was considerably more danger around. And we haven't gotten around to wars yet with that. So lots of young men die, the women don't die as m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:58 PM
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Exactly, do people really they that 100% of babies born in 2025 are from 20% of Men. Like really 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:57 PM
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This subreddit is (falsely) very biased towards Bl*ckP*ill when it comes to Men and their related issues. Most of the stuff on here is complete crap and nonexistence in real life that only effects the bottom 10% of men. I see single men in real life pass up opportunities to date women all the time because they are not attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:55 PM
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That is not the average guy lol Why do these post not get removed for 'promoting a narrative' ? (other post that show men actually doing well instantly get 'promoting a narrative' ) . I work with uni aged students and lots of girls get ignored by men and never have men try to interact with them unless it is just unavoidable.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/26 06:51 PM
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There are many women who may not be true femcels but still struggle to attract men who are willing to commit, marry, and start a family with them. While they may be able to find short-term flings or casual relationships, securing a long-term, committed partner can be much more difficult. Very few men are true incels. Many men also have dating preferences and dealbreakers. For example, some would not consider marrying women of a particular race, single mothers, obese women, women with severe ment…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 07:15 PM
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why do you say that (genuine question) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:50 PM
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Women today are also more likely to be single than women in previous generations, yet this is rarely acknowledged on this subreddit. There has also been a noticeable increase in the number of women identifying as femcels compared with a decade ago. I am sceptical of claims that all women who say they are happy being single have completely opted out of dating. In many cases, if an attractive, successful, and genuinely interested partner came along, some might reconsider their position.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 06:47 PM
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women talk about how they see 1000 gorgeous women every day and 1 good looking man once a decade I see women saying this all the time online and I wonder if I am living in a different planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:30 PM
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I agree, women now are also more likely to be single and alone than previous generations before but this never gets mentioned on this biased subreddit. More women are also identifying as fem-cel compared to just 10 years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 02:19 PM
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Agreed. Reddit and other online spaces have increasingly become echo chambers, pushing the false narrative that even average or above-average men are so desperate for a relationship that they would happily date an obese single mother simply to avoid being alone. WHICH IS NOT TRUE AT ALL.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 05:54 PM
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Exactly, women that they are 'happy and choosing to be single' are lying. I bet if a handsome and successful (basically rich) man who will treat them like a queen chases after them, I guarantee they all will happily enter a relationship with that man.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 04:49 PM
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That’s not true. Many men would rather stay single than enter a long-term relationship with a woman they aren’t genuinely attracted to. For casual sex, sure, a lot of guys might lower their standards, but relationships are different. I knew an Irish guy who had basically given up on dating. One of our friends married a woman from Thailand and another married a woman from China. I jokingly suggested he should try dating in Asia, but he said he simply wasn’t attracted to women from those regions a…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 05:10 AM
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Its common to see women posting about a guy they dated and how they felt they were fetishised as the guy just wanted them for sex. The guys in those relationship knew they were never going to commit long term in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:20 PM
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I agree as a man I have (strict) standards too. I do not understand the Reddit has this idea men are so desperate and marry anyone. I always maintained I would rather be single than date women I am not into or fit my criteria.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/26 05:27 AM
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Its a very minuscule percentage of men that have those issues with corpses.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:55 PM
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Men should be taught they will be far happy staying single than marrying or dating women they are not even into. Society tells men who can't get women they are losers, which in turn pressures men to pursuing relationship with women they do not even want to be with.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/26 04:54 AM
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On Reddit this is common but in real life when a women gets to 35 they typically want 36-45 year olds.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:41 PM
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I do not see why women go so hard at trying to 'debunk' this idea that younger women do not want to date a man that is more than 2 years older. Personally, at 30 I get more attention from women aged in their early 20s more than when I was that age. I have also seen a few men in real life that are 28-40 (or even older) dating women 20-25. It does happen even if its only 25% of women aged 20-25 that want or is open to men a lot older, that is still a lot in raw terms.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 05:40 PM
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I think so. My social skills have improved a lot, and I am in the best shape of my life. I’ve also had a few cosmetic procedures, and I’m in a much stronger financial position, nothing extraordinary in terms of work, but I’ve saved aggressively and made some good investments. Of course, not everything is perfect. My hairline has started to recede slightly, and there’s a bit of greying but overall, the positives far outweigh the negatives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:45 PM
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As a 30 year old man, I get more attention from women in their early/mid 20s than when I was that age. Not saying this is typical but I am sharing my personal experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/26 02:00 PM
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Sure, I get that. But most of the post on their are very femcel tier.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 01:14 PM
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My feed is much more full of women voluntarily stopping dating. So your telling me if a prime Brad Pitt or a successful wealthy successful man pursued them romantically they will not date them as they have supposedly 'voluntarily stopping dating'
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/26 12:19 PM
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Why say 'Ofc', my time online I have spent so much time arguing (with other men) that men do have basic standards to having very high standard. Internet forums claim men, even above average men or any guy that is not a top 10 or 20% will just date anyone, just so they do not stay single. Their are some men for example will only date women with a Scandinavian centric look.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:04 PM
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Yes, men can be selective, and many would rather remain single than enter a long-term relationship with someone they do not find attractive or who is not their type. Online spaces like Reddit are not necessarily representative of men in real life. On those platforms, there is often a narrative that men are desperate and would date anyone rather than stay single. In reality, many men experience social pressure from other men to be in a relationship; otherwise, they risk being labelled as losers. …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/26 05:00 PM
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By that I do not mean by a guy that is 20+ years older or a guy that just wants sexs.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:08 PM
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Women male these post often claim that they make themselves approachable, where feminine clothes, have a open body language, smile and so on. But men still dont approach them unless they are like 25 years older than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:07 PM
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LOL - This is a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:05 PM
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Agreed. The new thing I have seen recently is men that are under 30 are not looking to be in relationship or settle down. A women that is struggling at the age of 28 should go for men closer to 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/26 07:01 PM
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This might seem obvious for us, but go on other subreddit, they make it seem like the typical guy is so desperate to be with women that they will just date anyone.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/26 05:48 AM
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I believe they do not have kids or plan on having kids
/r/TheRedPill18/01/26 09:44 PM
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Exactly me too. A person wrote 'Just because he ended up with a obese and unattractive woman doesn't mean he didn't win the mating game. Like really '
/r/TheRedPill18/01/26 07:42 PM
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What if a guy can get an obese and unattractive woman but chooses to rather be single, does that mean he lost the mating game ?
/r/TheRedPill18/01/26 07:22 PM
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Yes - Men on average who make more money tend to be married. Lower earning men tend to be single. https://ifs.org.uk/news/men-poor-backgrounds-have-lower-earnings-and-are-twice-likely-be-single-those-rich-families
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:43 PM
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Yes women are also pressured to be in relationships. However the ones that are single and not seen as losers like men are.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/26 06:22 PM
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I tend to find other men attack other men for being single more so than older generation and women.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/26 06:21 PM
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some are on this post.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/25 06:02 AM
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No one who actually understands dating is telling men to hang around women’s friend groups hoping something magically happens; that’s just bad advice from the start. Men that actually approach women in real life and have opportunities to do so will do significant better with real life dating vs online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:56 PM
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Exactly, but people on here like to claim men (unless they are in the top 10 to 20 percent) are screwed no matter what, even if they are in areas/fields that is super majority female.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:16 PM
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Not disagreeing with you, but on here like to claim anything more than a 2 year gap becomes creepy, not seen this sentiment in real life though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 08:10 PM
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I agree. But I have heard people on r/PurplePillDebate which suppresses these types of post claim that men are guaranteed to do bad in dating and being in female dominated areas if not going to make anything better.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/25 04:38 PM
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Fertility will drop to well below replacement rate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/25 06:38 PM
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Its East Asian women themselves that fetish white guys, white guys that do not have much options with white women just take what they can get.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 05:56 PM
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Where does skinny-fat, scrawny, obese fit in.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/25 01:02 PM
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Doesn't matter how many times you show them that average men are in relationships, they don't believe it. The black pill - 'Money doesn't matter for men its all genetic.' Also the black pill when you show a below average guy getting married to a stunning women - 'He's a beta bux and shes only marrying him for his money'
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 09:17 PM
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This community is meant to be neutral — a blend of all perspectives. However, I find it concerning that many posts and comments are one-sided. For example, people here claim that even a 4/10 woman has life on “easy mode,” that average or below-average women can easily marry handsome, successful men, or that women remain equally desirable at 24 and 44, never losing male attention. Many of these claims aren’t even statistically plausible. On the other hand, the posts from men often lean heavily to…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 08:51 PM
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Like older women date a man for him and not the benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/25 06:22 AM
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Is possible that men in unhappy marriages are more likely to divorce and, as a result, be excluded from “currently married” samples. This can artificially inflate the average happiness of married men. Also married men may report higher levels of happiness because of societal expectations that married men should be “content” or successful, while single men might understate their well-being due to stigma or social comparison. There may also be an element of publication bias influencing the literat…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 09:36 PM
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I did address it within you context. Men that were already likely to be happy anyway are selected by women to marry. Men in the lower end of social and economics ladder are less likely to get married and are on average to be unhappier to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:20 PM
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That would be the same as saying men depend on women to have a higher earning potential.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:25 AM
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Exactly, I hate how this study has been interpreted that men depend on women for happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:21 AM
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Yes and for men to get married in the first place they are more likely on average to be successful, wealthier and had a good support network from the start, than non-married men. This to a degree contributes to their 'happiness' .
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:05 AM
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Men that are married in the first place are more likely on average to have had a head start in life. Coming from wealthier families and good support network from the start. This has to do with partially with their happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 06:02 AM
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Most men especially younger adult men are just dating what they can take.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:28 PM
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Thank you for getting back to me. This community is meant to be neutral — a blend of all perspectives. However, I find it concerning that many posts and comments are one-sided. For example, some claim that even a 4/10 woman has life on “easy mode,” that average or below-average women can easily marry handsome, successful men, or that women remain equally desirable at 24 and 44, never losing male attention. Many of these claims aren’t even statistically plausible. On the other hand, the posts fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 08:21 PM
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I tried to create a post writing about my positive experience of dating when getting older, however mods removed it due to 'inducing a rhetoric'. It seems like the only posts that are accepted on this subreddit for men are those focusing on negative topics—like struggling to find a partner, having no friends, or still living in their parents’ basement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 06:42 PM
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What do you think of them dating ?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 08:55 PM
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Reddit has a problem with a 22 year old women dating a 31 year old man. I honestly do not see what the big deal is. The 22 year old is old enough to make their own decision, with milestones being delayed for younger adults they are still likely to be in the same stage in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:10 PM
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As a 30 year old man I seem to be getting more attention from 22 year old women compared to when i was a 22 year old man. Its not a myth (at least from my experience) that dating gets easier for men as they age.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:09 PM
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Sydney Sweeneys is pretty because of her genetics, most women can never get to her level even if they tried. It will be a guy that is 5ft3 competing with a man that is 6ft2. That’s why you often see women who are successful in education and their careers still feeling that, no matter how hard they work or how much they achieve, a pretty blonde waitress or nanny is considered more desirable to men and society.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 04:42 PM
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No guy (and I know a lot) thinks its their mothers job to get them laid or blame them for their lack of success in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:44 PM
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I did but they removed my post for ‘Inducing a rhetoric’. The only posts the seem to be allowed and approved on here are the ones that talk about how it’s impossible to make friends, get girlfriends, have a decent quality of life for the majority of men. Like these post are not also ‘inducing a rhetoric’
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 08:53 AM
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If mods did not suppress other post, these type of post would not feel anywhere as common.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:07 PM
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100% No way the average girl has men that are 8/10, successful and handsome chasing after them and want to marry and start a family with them as people on here make it out. When you try to counter point this mods on here remove posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:41 PM
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Dating and finding quality long term partner is not as easy for women as people on here claim. When women are not getting attention from men people insist that men don’t approach because the said woman because she is “intimidating,” or has a “resting b**** face,” or is “too pretty,” or that men assume she only dates within her culture, or that men only pursue average-looking women, or even that men just don’t approach women anymore at all or men in their 20s just do not want relationship. This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 05:35 PM
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Absolutely agree. It just feels more natural to strike up conversations with strangers in a university environment than, say, at the supermarket. In my experience, women have been more receptive at uni, whereas approaching them on the street has more likely led to discomfort or even upset reactions.
/r/seduction10/05/25 05:49 PM
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I still get nervous when cold approaching on campus. The university has a large proportion of PhD and Master's students—around 50%—so most of the people I approach tend to be 3 to 8 years younger than me, though some MSc and PhD students are actually older.
/r/seduction10/05/25 03:03 PM
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Why would anyone feel the need to openly share whether they’re a virgin or not? It’s a deeply personal matter and shouldn’t be something that others feel entitled to know or judge.
/r/seduction02/05/25 08:49 PM
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What about applying to work at a college in a job the wont create a conflict of interest - (non-student facing) ?
/r/seduction16/03/25 05:37 PM
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