Oddfiduciary Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Her dinner with guy friend? Your wife turned down a chance to spend a night fucking you, so that she wouldn't miss her date with the other guy. Oh i see where your coming from... I'll take the blame for being unclear if this is what you thought was happening. It's not. The primary conflict is her work meeting with her VP this afternoon. This is a seriously big deal and she cannot reschedule with this woman. The dinner thing was mentioned as ancillary, as if it was a yoga class... A yoga class that I was really insecure abo…	/r/askMRP	12/01/16 12:32 PM
3	Her dinner with guy friend? This sounds overly dramatic. I hand her the papers and she'd say, "you know, you could have just joined us. It's not like I knew that your boss was going to send you to that meeting last minute." How do I then climb back out of that hole by the time the baby comes? And plus, I've now fucked myself for whenever I need to network with a female contact in the future. Had she planned this knowing I'd be gone or forbade me for joining them, then yes, I would be following your action plan. But I will …	/r/askMRP	12/01/16 11:05 AM
4	Her dinner with guy friend? This is a good point. My ex who cheated on me did everything she could to prevent me from knowing who the guy was. It's the slippery slope I'm afraid of. "Well you didn't care last time!"	/r/askMRP	11/01/16 07:15 PM
1	Her dinner with guy friend? Appreciated.	/r/askMRP	11/01/16 07:10 PM
1	Her dinner with guy friend? Sigh. It certainty feels like that to me. I really think, in her mind, it's no different than hanging out with a a college girlfriend. She's always been straight up about no exes, so in her head a non-ex who happens to be a guy is ok, I guess. What do I do now though? As cholo said, it's too late to start throwing up boundaries. "Sharing my feelings" probably won't help either at this point. What specific action can I take... now or from now on that doesn't stink of insecurity? On the positive s…	/r/askMRP	11/01/16 06:51 PM
2	Her dinner with guy friend? This is awesome, thanks! It was him that initiated. And you're right, I fucked up by not getting to know this guy. He just isn't around much so I've never cared and always saw him as low value.	/r/askMRP	11/01/16 12:27 AM
1	Her dinner with guy friend? Yes, this is something that comes pretty easily to me most of the time... but I'm having a hard time thinking of how to do this without making it seem like it's been weighing on me. On another note, I need to figure out how the whole pregnancy sex thing works.	/r/askMRP	11/01/16 12:22 AM
2	Her dinner with guy friend? I'm really disappointed by this. I've seen (and just received) some of the best advice out there for men on this forum. But because I don't want to use my real name, and use an iPhone to post, I'm a BP operative. Honestly, who gives a flying shit about TBP? Anyway, I found TRP via MMSL 4 months ago. I figured out all the lingo in the first week. I've actually already read a lot of the sidebars material prior to even visiting. But what I've never found a clear answer on its the proper balance of …	/r/askMRP	10/01/16 04:06 PM
2	Her dinner with guy friend? Because I'd rather not have a moment of blubbering insecurity associated with my public real name. That's not ego, that being smart. At any rate, she had no idea I was going out of town that night. Unless, possibly, she got my CEO invoked in this who then told my boss to send me to the conference. So, should I tell her, "hey, I think you are trying to fuck this guy, please stay home?"	/r/askMRP	10/01/16 03:45 PM
3	Her dinner with guy friend? That's the point. I'm not happy about this. Now what do? Is cholo's advice wrong? Should I say, "hey babe, I'm worried that you're trying to fuck this guy. I would like it if you didn't."	/r/askMRP	10/01/16 03:17 PM
2	Her dinner with guy friend? Thank you for taking the time to respond. Is very much appreciated. Have a fantastic weekend.	/r/askMRP	09/01/16 08:50 PM
2	Her dinner with guy friend? I'm sorry if I violated ToS, but I assure you, I'm no troll. Just an anxious dude seeking some solid advice anonymously. My normal reddit handle is my real name. Hence the throwaway. The response from u/cholomite was so good that I had to come back in to thank him. Ban away if you need to.	/r/askMRP	09/01/16 08:39 PM