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Inner Game Off2damoon/r/seduction24/05/22 11:19 AM
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Field ReportOff2damoon/r/seduction13/07/22 10:15 AM
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Field ReportOff2damoon/r/seduction20/04/22 08:25 AM
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Field ReportOff2damoon/r/seduction01/08/22 04:21 AM
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LogisticsOff2damoon/r/seduction05/08/22 06:56 PM
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Filter filter filter! Don’t go on dates with women who haven’t connected with you beforehand through a good amount of texting and (crazy concept) even a phone call. The date isn’t an opportunity for you to showcase your spending habits, it should be a continuation of a flirtatious vibe that already exists. If you’re hoping to “win” them over on the date.. especially a dinner date, you’re showing up to a gun fight with a knife my friend. Think of a date as just an opportunity to speak to her in p…
/r/seduction26/06/24 03:19 AM
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Congrats on banging 4 hot shallow women. Now in my 30s, having railed through enough women throughout my 20s and early 30s I can say the real struggle with attractive women is when they’re attractive but dumb as fukn rocks with nothing interesting to contribute. The hardest lesson to learn as a man is not wasting your time on women who are draining regardless of how they look. The hottest women I’ve been with (probably considered 9s and 10s objectively) have all had shit personalities in one way…
/r/seduction01/05/24 09:46 AM
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“Hi, I’m a 6’ 2” Chad.. here’s how to get hot women..”. I have a feeling all the non-6’2” Chads don’t have to worry about simply not reacting to attractive women when they try to challenge their egos. Also great job reciting early 2000’s Mystery Method / RSD type of advice that has been regurgitated and rehashed countless times. For anyone who wants useful advice, step 1: Be as attractive as possible with your genetics, be interesting by reading books/ learning shit/ seeking out life experiences…
/r/seduction01/05/24 09:06 AM
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I wouldn’t call this a trick so much as basic escalation lol. But i completely concur with you that you simply must evaluate one physical escalation point before moving to the next and that you are shooting yourself in the foot to not make a bold move to at the very least go for a kiss or hand hold on the first date. I’ve only been rejected for a kiss once out of well over a hundred times.. and that girl was in a weird emotionally damaged state from recently ending a sham relationship where the …
/r/seduction17/04/23 10:19 AM
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Dude don’t beat yourself up! It’s just a lesson learned, sit back and analyze for the future. This is how you grow! As for feedback - This is why the “bait and switch” line is not only cringe AF but ineffective and unproductive. Think about how you come off when you say “actually I stopped you because..”. Not to mention it rarely ever comes out smooth. Better strategy IMHO would have been to continue with the “innocuous” question opener and just dovetail it into a conversation and gradually scre…
/r/seduction01/11/22 08:06 PM
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I’m 20 and she’s 19. I did touch her, we cuddled while talking during the picnic. I know I messed up but all I can do is move forward.
/r/seduction24/10/22 12:29 PM
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Women.
/r/seduction24/10/22 12:20 PM
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Need a little context here - how old are you/ her? As many others have pointed out, the thing lacking from your date report is anything sexual. Did you kiss her? Did you hold her hand? Did you touch her at all!? If not, then yeah you done fcuked up. Your opinion of how amazing the date and interaction went is irrelevant to how much sexual attraction you built with her. She went on a tinder date with you, not a bible class. The timing and content of your text messages after the date is also irrel…
/r/seduction24/10/22 06:14 AM
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This, my fiends, is the comment of someone with very little life experience.
/r/seduction24/10/22 05:34 AM
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Here’s a lesson learned the hard way: you, as the man, are responsible for creating sexual tension and enduring the risk of rejection. Never let a date run it’s course platonically. I have made this mistake before and i can tell you that a rejection feels farrr better than the regret of wondering “what if”.. The good news is if you are relatively attractive and have have intelligence and some witty, cheeky type of charm to you, then escalation is not difficult and usually ends with great results…
/r/seduction24/10/22 02:46 AM
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Because something good CAN come out of it. Texting that he’s letting her know he’s aware of the situation, that he’s cool with it and it’s all good, and that she can feel free to hit him up if she changes her mind. If that message “made her more annoyed” and forever cemented his fate to never speak with her again then she’s probably a psychopath anyways and he’s dodged a bullet. It’s literally a win/win. LOL
/r/seduction19/10/22 11:30 AM
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You keep circling back to how he “comes off” to someone which you’re also stating isn’t interested in how he comes off. LOL. This is known as a logical fallacy. In essence: It is irrelevant how someone comes off to someone who isn’t interested so therefore it doesn’t matter. It sounds like your reasoning focuses solely on how you, as the woman, proclaiming to represent the collective thought of all women, would selfishly feel getting annoyed or bothered by a man texting you that you don’t like. …
/r/seduction18/10/22 06:19 PM
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Just talking about yourself and demonstrating high value is not enough. Escalating sexual tension MUST occur. This does not mean it starts with physical escalation but rather sexually charged conversion. It is your responsibility as the man to lead that charge, don’t believe that most women will actively approach the subject because social conditioning has groomed it out of them. Sometimes you’ll have a looser girl who is more open and volunteers to broadcast her sexuality unprovoked but on aver…
/r/seduction18/10/22 02:22 AM
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Well from a man’s perspective, I’m seeing a logic gap in your response. If you “don’t want to talk to them anymore”, how does anything after that matter? Does the sending of a text message make you really reallyyy not want to talk to them anymore? Lol TF is the difference? Are you suggesting that she’ll come crawling back but only if he doesn’t send a final message to her? I’m still trying to understand how he’s not in the same boat either way?.. please elaborate!
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:43 PM
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I disagree - who gives a shit how you come off to someone who isn’t interested in you regardless? There is zero downside to texting someone after they unfriended you as the worst case scenario is being in the same position you’re already in. Best case scenario is you the left connection with a message of closure that shows them you have social awareness of the situation, that you’re cool and indifferent to it and that the door is open for the 1% chance. Maybe you’ll never hear from them again ma…
/r/seduction17/10/22 04:14 PM
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Here’s the truth - Women are unpredictable, finicky creatures and trying to over analyze what you specifically did wrong is a fruitless effort. I’ve had women who have told me they love me after dozens of sexcapades go ghost. Girls who have shown massive interest and then act like a cold fish in person, and women who barely show any interest at all turn around and end up in bed. You will never know the reason. She could have a boyfriend that she didn’t tell you about, she could have bipolar diso…
/r/seduction17/10/22 08:30 AM
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It's only in the wake of success that you realize that failure was never your fate. Once you experience the sweet satisfaction of victory you will learn a new reality. You will truly embody the belief that you are a sexually-viable man and who knows there are women out there who find him attractive and bang-worthy. Your fears of rejection will be unfounded because you will know what is possible. Remember, 100 no's and 1 yes is still a yes.
/r/seduction26/09/22 07:05 AM
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Here's a real world story for you : Nearly every morning I go for a jog through the same path by a nearby river. I usually run shirtless and after a workout so I'm in my 'maxed out confidence' vibe and feeling good. Over the course of last year I crossed paths on my jog with this very cute brunette girl and she would always look at me intently and smile as I jogged passed. I must have crossed her path 3 or 4 dozen times, always with a smile and a stare. The attraction seemed palpable. About a we…
/r/seduction15/09/22 08:11 AM
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You sound like classic black-pill theory here lol. Cold approaching has never worked FOR YOU. Women do like being approached, if they're in the right mood, you have the right game, and if you're the 'right guy'. Being the right guy is a choice you make by constantly improving yourself but of course not every woman will be receptive. It's somewhat a numbers game in that sense as you need to keep going for it but knowing that eventually with enough self improvement, enough game, and enough attempt…
/r/seduction15/09/22 07:57 AM
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There's a bold assumption in your perceptions of other men. You may see a hot chick with a sloppy or out-of-shape looking dude and thereby assume he must be a bum and not work on himself. What is your insights to the men your describing? Did you interview them or do you personally know them to have this deep level of Intel on how shitty they are? Or perhaps, is this based on a quick glance at their appearance as you walk by them at the shopping mall? Men may have very high value in ways you woul…
/r/seduction06/09/22 04:22 AM
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Do not go with hey its x from y. Too platonic. Cardinal rule is texting is for setting up dates. Before you set up a date however you need to establish rapport and comfort. Did you do that in Target when you were spitting game irl before grabbing her number? If so, did you have any memorable moments in the conversation? If possible, think back to the conversation in person and text something witty that dovetails off of it. Otherwise, if there was nothing memorable to refer to (which probably mea…
/r/seduction03/09/22 02:27 AM
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Point out something on her hand (watch, nails, rings) and grab her hand to look at it. Works 100% of the time. Then hold the hand longer than is required and compliment the skin being soft or something to do with her touch. You have now broken the platonic barrier. Go for a walk after coffee/ drinks.. Grab the hand again. Give her a twirl, make it fun. Then randomly at some point kiss her. Don't ask for permission. Just do it. It's a binary outcome. Works 60% of the time, everytime.
/r/seduction31/08/22 07:44 AM
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The correct answer is 69. Giggity
/r/seduction27/08/22 06:49 PM
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Your post says that had sex with a hot chick, who you've found to be scarce in your life, and you're depressed because you miss having sex with her. Is there anything more to the relationship you had with her that is worth missing? You said she was on drugs but nothing redeeming about her other than her scent and body type. You may need to use your logic to get through this. Ask yourself, did you actually LIKE her? Was there something you miss other than busting a nut? Like any indulgence, sex o…
/r/seduction23/08/22 07:47 AM
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Bringing up past relationships is not a hard and fast rule. It should be weaved into the conversation if there is a natural progression into that topic and it would be weird / suspicious / creepy to actively avoid it. Let's settle this fact right now - Past relationships are not a taboo topic and in fact they are an amazing topic to discuss IF you present your past relationships in a high value manner. It is the proverbial elephant in the room. You both want to know the answer to the question "i…
/r/seduction22/08/22 04:41 AM
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Well this question depends on your intentions. Are you looking to bang or make a woman consider you as a viable dating option? For reference: I've banged women in various places outside, in a car, in a basement, in public bathrooms, at hotels, and of course at their place. Clearly the conditions of your apartment are not the determining factor in whether you'll be able to finalize the deal. If you're looking to showcase yourself as a man of higher class then believe it or not, the contents of yo…
/r/seduction20/08/22 08:41 AM
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Are you speaking on behalf of the entire female gender? Lol A woman can be approached with or without a smile. An invitation is not required for a man to come spark up a conversation and in fact many long, happy relationships have begun this way. Men have been designated into the "initiator" role while women are in the passive, receptive role. So with having the luxury of being in the passive position comes the responsibility to deal with potentially unwanted courters unfortunately.
/r/seduction13/08/22 10:30 AM
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The first problem here is expectations. You need to lose them. Every time you enter an interaction with expectations you are setting yourself up for anguish and the extent of control you possess in any interaction begins and end with you. We do not have ANY control over the actions and reactions of other human beings (Stoic wisdom) Now that that's out of the way - the second problem is with an understanding of the concept of approaching and rejection. When you approach (cold approach, online, th…
/r/seduction12/08/22 09:00 AM
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Remember young grasshopper - A woman never rejects you, she rejects your approach. She doesn't even know you yet how could she reject you.? More accurately stated, she can deny you the opportunity to show her who you are. Given this fact, is there really anything to fear? Your ego can not be touched until after she accepts your approach and you've had adequate opportunity to show her your true self. If you are as confident about your outward appearance and you conveyed in your post then you shou…
/r/seduction08/08/22 04:18 AM
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She's unsure about being available this weekend? Or unsure about if she wants to see you this weekend? Big difference. If the answer is unclear - just assume she's attracted to you and that she might not be available. Say something to the effect of "no worries, let's shoot for next week. Are you around Friday". You have to push the interaction until you know it's dead. Don't let the ambiguous, flakey nature of females deter you from your goals. Power through the bullshit and don't make assumptio…
/r/seduction04/08/22 04:18 AM
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First, this post should be in r/incels. The problem with your theory is that it's not grounded in any facts but rather your limited, and seemingly skewed, sense of reality based on your personal experiences. Not having had success is not an indicator that success is unachievable. I have first-hand (and by first-hand I mean myself in set) seen women turn from dead fish / blasay / indifferent personalities, to lighting up like a Christmas tree from the same guy off a cold approach. I have also see…
/r/seduction02/08/22 06:49 PM
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Thinking about it now I should have gotten her to invest more in the act sexually.. Had her blow me or jerk me or something. I think similar to conversation investment (her asking questions, etc.) you need some sexual investment during the act.. Just a theory but possibly a valid one.
/r/seduction02/08/22 12:12 AM
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No man.. Did you not read the story?? I bombed the set before I could commence! :/
/r/seduction02/08/22 12:09 AM
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Oh I did eat that pussy.. and it was delicious!
/r/seduction02/08/22 12:00 AM
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Just sounding like a door opening / thinking someone was about to walk in basically
/r/seduction01/08/22 06:31 PM
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Thanks for the thoughtful response! I'm not so sure the startling part was subconscious fear of attack but rather embarrassment of being ass naked in a strangers apartment living room. I guess I just like to have some semblance of privacy when I'm trying to get intimate with someone but I realize privacy isn't always possible so definitely something to work on! Interesting enough - I shot her a text this morning asking a straightforward graphic design question, callback to our conversation in se…
/r/seduction01/08/22 03:27 PM
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I personally always begin with standard make-out because that's what feels calibrated for me. There's many ways to skin a cat however!
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:13 PM
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I should have more aptly said ear "nibbling" but yes this is an incredibly sensitive area for the woman. This is not to be misconstrude as licking up and down like a hungry dog. Rather, just vibrating the tounge on the ear/ ear lobe like you would with licking a clit and this has a very powerful effect. Also sucking/ kissing the neck is powerful for her arousal as well BUT avoid giving a hickey as this will likely piss her off.
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:50 PM
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Alot of comments here saying just be upfront with intentions.. This does sometimes work but more often than not, it's shit advice and your "plausible deniability" title is more in line with the vibe of how things will go. It is unfortunately true that some if not many women play this innocence game where they want to do the same thing as you but it's the thing with the name of which shall not be named.. It's the little secret we don't want to spoil out loud. For reference - I just met up with a …
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:21 AM
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Why ask this question with the part about "what are my chances"? This frames the question as though you're begging. Stronger position is not asking a question at all, make it a statement from a position of dominance. "It was cool meeting you, I've gotta split unfortunately because I'm a busy alpha male doing busy alpha male shit but you're cute AF and I think we should grab a café or a drink sometime down the road. Let me grab your number and I'll shoot you a text". You control the interaction, …
/r/seduction28/07/22 03:17 AM
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I agree that overly complimenting is a poison pill most guys end up falling into but I also believe that it's a necessary evil to simply disclose that you find them cute / attractive upfront to establish a man/woman frame. If you avoid the subject it remains too platonic. If you over indulge in the subject you fall into supplication. Like drinking a fine scotch, you need to take a few sips to enjoy but one too many and you're waking up in the gutter.
/r/seduction28/07/22 03:10 AM
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This is the critical moment; the hook. After you give your compliment you're looking to hook her with some conversation topic where her eyes light up and she shows obvious signs of attraction. Even if she finds you attractive, just complimenting is usually not good enough. Ideally, you have context-based, witty banter to vibe off of. I.e. You're at the grocery store and you mention you found her cute. Okay cool.. Now what? Well, before you locked eyes on her what were you doing? Going for your w…
/r/seduction27/07/22 09:13 PM
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Yes unfortunately, this advice refers to women who have inherent freedoms of choice rather than indoctrinated loyalties from their cultures.
/r/seduction25/07/22 02:14 PM
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I have learned, the hard way, that women are fickle creatures who are constantly changing their minds. Both in the positive and negative direction. Just as a woman who was once throwing herself at you may wake up one day and decide to ghost you, a woman who is showing not much more than indifference towards you can be switched to light up like a Christmas tree by your presence. I've heard it said somewhere that every man starts around 0 when they first meet a woman. With each passing moment you …
/r/seduction24/07/22 10:17 AM
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Yes, Boston area. I've heard it said that if you're not living in a major metro area it's well worth moving for the experience.
/r/seduction14/07/22 02:10 AM
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In this particular situation I commented on one of her captions and said something like.. "You had me at marmite". She found it funny and replied. Conversation took off from there.
/r/seduction13/07/22 01:28 PM
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Not sure what this is worth but I've been with some objectively attractive women (dancer instructor, actress, and currently dating a very hot blonde lab researcher). I would say they were all between 8-9/10. Believe it or not, they all had very charming and caring type personalities. Their looks were not substitutes for their character but rather complimentary to it. What's the common thread here - These women all worked in professions that demand character. You can't be an instructor if you're …
/r/seduction30/06/22 12:35 AM
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I agree with you that being "good looking" matters but only to an extent. Looks, much like any other aspect of your characteristics are highly subjective, relative, and a viarable factor - NOT binary. For example: You can be in the upper middle class but not filthy rich. You can have a great health record and be in shape but would get booed off stage at a Mr. Universe competition. You can have a lot of good friends but not be famous. You can be very intelligent but never win a Nobel Prize. No di…
/r/seduction25/06/22 07:11 PM
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Well I've been told I'm attractive by a large enough pool of women to consider that substantial evidence that I am attractive. So from that perspective here is the harsh truth: It's pretty fukn sweet! If you're "unattractive" ask yourself why? Is it your symmetry? Your facial features? Or is it something within your control such as your style, your hair cut, you body type? Move the needle as far as you can to be the most attractive version of yourself, work on your confidence, your game, your fi…
/r/seduction21/06/22 02:41 AM
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This theory ties into the concept of "passive observer vs. active contributer. It is a hierarchy of fulfillment that is worth exploring. The activities you listed are solid.. My definition is simply at the minimum being an active participant but ideally being an active contributer. Being an active participant is having some sort of physical hobby like getting out in nature and exploring/ skiing/ snowboarding / surfing/ climbing / swimming/ obstacle course races/ regular races / biking/ playing a…
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:37 PM
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Girls have male orbiters for two reasons: Because they are attractive with a magnetic personality that motivates certain men to continously attempt to stay in her inner circle for the future prospects of an intimate relationship. Because they are not willing to clarify their relationship with said orbiter men who are continously lead to believe that a future prospect is possible. As you can see the first reason is positive, because she's high value so naturally men will gravitate towards her whi…
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:30 PM
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Most people are talking about fighting but how about building things? Learn how to wood work, do your own home improvement projects (if you own your own place), learn to do your own mechanical work on your car, knowing how shit works, how to build things and how to fix things is the essence of man. Fighting is cool too but won't do you as much good in the real world.
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:19 AM
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Be sociable is a fully loaded phrase.. What it really should say is have a social circle or circles, with outgoing friends who enjoy living exciting, adverturous lives. It you don't have one then start doing cool shit solo and try to pick up new friends along the way. Part of having game is having an actual cool life or at least the essence of one. If you're a depressed loner with no experiences to draw from, no missions being pursued, no platonic relationships to connect with, then no amount of…
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:01 AM
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Male orbiters might be number one
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:42 AM
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The problem with game is that it is a means to an end of sex but not necessarily a relationship or a fulfilling life. Many a PUA has come to this realization through both the self-defeating nature of having an empty arsenal of real experiences to draw from during their sarges but also coming to the conclusion that sex itself is a relatively meaningless pursuit. Synonymous to getting high or eating fast food, a quick flood of enphorines for momentary pleasure. True joy lies beyond game in a life …
/r/seduction06/06/22 03:38 AM
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Lmao, dude what's your deal? Keyboard warrior huh?
/r/seduction25/05/22 04:16 PM
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Lmao that is hilarious and brilliant.. And sad at the same time.
/r/seduction25/05/22 04:15 PM
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What are you.. a fukn troll? $1000 says you wouldn't talk shit to my face.
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:06 PM
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I meant out of my league for dating, not for fuckn. That girl was a Harvard PhD! I don't like when a woman is smarter than me, bruises my ego hah
/r/seduction25/05/22 10:28 AM
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I also think it's worth mentioning (might make a separate post on this) - My Hinge selections have seriously degraded since the initial first week. I began taking an account of how many overweight/ unattractive profiles I had to swipe through to come across a decent looking girl. The ratio is staggering! It's become something to the tune of 1 out of 80 profiles is relatively attractive / not overweight. I also noticed Hinge basically puts a selection of hot girls under "standouts" where you have…
/r/seduction25/05/22 02:46 AM
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Haha not quite but it was one of those situations where someone just wants to go home and everyone else is still in party-mode. So ultimately at the bar it was myself and one friend and tbh he was acting kind of shy that night. If this is of any value to you - I had to bring the energy by myself and did not get any assistance from a friend EXCEPT I will say it helps to at least have a friend there with you for social proof that you have friends and it's someone you can fall back on almost like a…
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:40 AM
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Thanks brother appreciate the kind words. I was out with two of my friends. One of which had some negative energy and ended up leaving which was great! Like dropping dead weight. Once he left the mood of the night actually improved and maybe that's why my inner game was on fire that night..
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:20 AM
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If you're single and horny, there's nothing to lose by hitting the streets and creating memories with your buddies. I've noticed that the success of the night is heavily dependent on your energy and attitude. You have to get yourself a few guy friends to hit the bars with and bring that high-energy, fun personality with you. Don't make talking to women the "goal" but rather just a natural part of a fun night. The mindset shift changes things.
/r/seduction25/05/22 01:11 AM
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I wrote a detailed field report on the encounter under one of the comments. I thought it was worthwhile sharing the technicals. It's definitely a matter of your energy / mood whether or not you'll be able to open up strangers but it's a tried and true method.
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:52 PM
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Maybe I should tell you how I pulled this 9 at the bar - she, like most attractive women, was in a mixed group, 2 dudes and 2 other women. I noticed her when she walked in because she was hot AF. However, I didn't approach her.. Instead I approached one of the dudes she was with who was wearing this Hawaii shirt and had a handle bar mustache. I told him that I love the Miami Vice look he has going on. And we were both laughing and shooting the breeze. Well, guess who comes over? Smokeshow.. Wond…
/r/seduction24/05/22 04:05 PM
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Studying Game is worthwhile (Todd V, Playing With Fire, John Anthony are a few of my favorites). But ultimately it comes down to asking yourself why don't you move to a sexual / flirty vibe? You might have inner resistance which could boil down to a fear of rejection. This is typical for most people. You have to find an "abundance mentality" where you truly stop giving AF about rejection knowing damn well the next fish is swimming right around the corner. There's lot of techniques with learning …
/r/seduction24/05/22 03:46 PM
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The trick with OLD in my experience has been to hold conversation with them for about 1 - 2 days max before pushing for a meet up. Making the conversation move into a flirty tone is critical as well. At the very least calling out their looks to say I find them cute/ hot and teasing them. Otherwise, you're setting up for an uphill battle if you want to "transition" to a man to woman vibe in person after having been platonic in conversation.
/r/seduction24/05/22 03:34 PM
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Well said. I found it amusing to scroll through Hinge profiles after being with this girl I met at a bar trying to see if there was equally or at least closely attractive women. It's really only in contrast that I started noticing how low - quality the majority of women are on these apps. Sure there's a few needles in the haystack who are being bombarded. The logistics of OLD are really bad..
/r/seduction24/05/22 12:40 PM
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Thanks for the feedback! Definitely could've been worse but really wanted to convey how you can go out there with a game plan and quickly divert.
/r/seduction20/04/22 11:21 AM
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