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DebateOk-Archer-5796/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:02 AM
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Ok-Archer-5796/r/ExRedPill27/02/26 05:57 PM
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Ok-Archer-5796/r/Divorce_Men20/05/25 09:52 AM
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DebateOk-Archer-5796/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:03 AM
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Question for BluePillOk-Archer-5796/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 11:38 AM
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RantOk-Archer-5796/r/Divorce_Men23/04/25 10:38 AM
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Need SupportOk-Archer-5796/r/Divorce_Men22/07/25 10:31 AM
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Question for BluePillOk-Archer-5796/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:00 PM
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DebateOk-Archer-5796/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:11 PM
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DebateOk-Archer-5796/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 01:13 PM
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Ok-Archer-5796/r/RedPillWomen17/03/26 08:15 AM
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DebateOk-Archer-5796/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:59 AM
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DebateOk-Archer-5796/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 08:43 AM
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DebateOk-Archer-5796/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:38 AM
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DebateOk-Archer-5796/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:22 PM
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DebateOk-Archer-5796/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:28 AM
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Men often do die earlier than women without medical intervention. It was relatively common for our grandfathers to die at 55, while their wives went on to live 40 more years.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/26 09:25 AM
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Instead of trying to fix the gender divide lets just encourage everyone to become further alienated. What could possibly go wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 03:24 PM
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I think there are a lot of women who would be willing to become single mothers if the government covered the costs. The question is, is it worth it for the government to invest billions in order to further marginalize men in the dating market just to slightly raise the birth rate?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 02:44 PM
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Because there's nothing more powerful than male solidarity and they fear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/26 06:20 AM
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Midern men would be fools to want a dependent women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 02:32 PM
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I think people conflating being open with your emotions with being weak. Women are not attracted to weak men, however, I would argue that women like it when men show emotion. If you pay close attention to abusers and manipulators (who are never single by the way and women flock to them) you will notice that they're far from robots and they know how to use emotion strategically. They will often cry and make the woman feel sorry for them. Later they will start small acts of violence and control to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/26 01:01 PM
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By modern standards of what rape is, a good 30% of all sex happening in the 90s would be rape. Just saying. I've seen people say that merely persistently asking for sex is coercive and rape..
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 09:42 AM
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Women: The reason men can't get women is that they're misogynists. Also women: https://vm.tiktok.com/ZN8JsntQE/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/26 03:49 AM
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The black pill talking points are not as fringe as you think. In the OP, I link a study from Cambridge that paints average men as undesirable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:31 AM
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If literally any other demographic faced these problems, leftists would treat it like a serious issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:29 AM
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You would think so but apparently studies show that men are more likely remain childless than women. My guess is that a small number of males have children with lots of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 09:21 AM
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Try to find a single movie about a relationship/marriage where the man is not portrayed as the bad guy. Even when they try to be balanced they still somehow make the male character worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 10:47 PM
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What people don't understand is that men and women have different sexualities. There are maybe 30% of women with a high sex drive. The rest have lower sex drive than the average man. Women also go through menopause which greatly affects many women's libido and often in a negative way. Many women view sex as currency and not as a mutually enjoyable experience. Of course they feel "used". And before someone mentions lesbians, I will point out that lesbian couples have sex more infrequently than ga…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 09:19 AM
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Something that women don't get: From a mechanical perspective, sex is significantly harder for men than for women. Men need to get it up, make it stay up, make sure it lasts long enough, but not too long, cum in the right time. Women need to open their legs and take it. When it comes to performance it's just harder for men. Keep this in mind the next time you judge a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/26 06:35 AM
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People who deny this have to be troll at this point. Women marry nice guys for resources and parental commitment and subject them to sexless marriages while they masturbate to Chad characters from fictional novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 08:21 PM
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Sure. Sounds awesome to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:52 PM
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https://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/women-men-femosphere-new-statesman-poll-b2958208.html
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:17 PM
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There are actually many stats that show that young women are more man-hating than ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/26 02:14 PM
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Do people remember the good, old days where 50 Shades of Gray was considered shockingly rapey? Have people checked out what women are reading nowadays?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 03:03 PM
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I find it funny that under normal circumstances, the Odyssey would be seen as a conservative film about a man slaughtering a bunch of dudes who invaded his home and then restoring the patriarchy in his kingdom, but because Nolan got a black woman to play Helen for lile 4 minutes of screentime, everyone decided that it's "woke".
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/26 05:40 AM
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I've been reading the Iliad and it's amazing how often the uber-masculine warriors burst into tears. From book 9 of the Iliad: The son of Atreus in dismay bade the heralds call the people to a council man by man, but not to cry the matter aloud; he made haste also himself to call them, and they sat sorry at heart in their assembly. Agamemnon shed tears as it were a running stream or cataract on the side of some sheer cliff; and thus, with many a heavy sigh he spoke to the Achaeans. "My friends,"…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 10:28 AM
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Transhumanism and artificial wombs are perhaps the only way to completely eliminate gender. As long as wonen give birth and breastfeed, there will be some gender roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/26 08:35 AM
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I sometimes think that the extreme aversion to anything that could even be perceived as homosexual, has turned western men into total simps. Men were more likely to ignore women when they could fuck a dude on the side in pre-Christian societies. Nowadays men are afraid of even kissing their bro on the cheek because they could be perceived as gay....This shit has destroyed male friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/26 08:05 AM
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Lol at conservatives crying about The Odyssey. I'm Greek btw and the only thing I'm offended about is that our idiotic government gave 7 million euros for the production of this film instead of investing this money in more productive ways. However, while there are certain parts I didn't like, I thought The Odyssey overall was a pretty masculine and conservative film. It's a shame we've let the leftists claim this film as their own when they hated Nolan until like 2 seconds ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 07:13 AM
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Obviously. But it's not something that comes naturally to most men. It's something you have to cultivate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:46 PM
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Studies show that women consistently score higher in empathy and conscientiousness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:39 PM
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So I think thay the Red Pill is correct about almost everything, but you're right that women are not naturally submissive to random men. They're submissive to Chad and view average males as their servants. I also don't buy that men have a natural instinct to protect women. Men protected women of their kin in order to protect male honor, not because of the women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 02:20 PM
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1) the idea that men have an obligation to protect women. 2) Female empowerment leads to birth rates collapsing, which weakens economies and the society as a whole. Just the other day, there was a study about how liberals have fewer children than conservatives. Female empowerment also leads to feminized societies that that are demilitarized and weak. Germany recently tried to bring back conscription for men only. They send around 300,000 invitations and only 500 responded positively. If someone …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:59 PM
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I agree with his analysis on the Christian origin of chivalry. I agree that female empowerment destroys civilizations. I don't care about his moral conclusions because I view the world in an amoral way. After all, women have no moral obligation to maintain civilization, which is a male concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:45 PM
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I didn't say whether it's better or worse. (That's Yukio Mishima saying it and I don't agree with everything he says even though his insights are interesting) I just care about what is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:38 PM
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Look at how birth rates are collapsing and how western economies are stagnating. Even immigration is just a temporary solution.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:35 PM
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Men have a natural aggression in them and a tendency to dominate their environment. We can see it in young males especially before society snuffs it out. I believe Yukio Mishima is trying to make a case for a sort of pre-Christian morality where a man could exercise his power in the world, as opposed to the Christian slave morality that protects the weak and the oppressed. I don't agree with everything he says but it's an interesting thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:33 PM
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Well yes he's right about that. I just disagree that men have a natural instinct to peotect women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:15 PM
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Read very carefully and you'll see that I'm saying the opposite of that. Men in groups are naturally violent and only protective towards women of their kin for selfish reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:13 PM
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I disagree with rape but it's a pretty natural and cross-cultural practice. You think we shouldn't discuss stuff just because they're uncomfortable?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 01:08 PM
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Well, there's a reason why women were not seen as fully human in almost every civilization. It has nothing to do with women themselves, it just doesn't work. Maybe this time it's going to be different because of technology but the signs are not very promising. The Western world is really going to shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 10:11 AM
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I actually agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:25 AM
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I'm sure women were doing their own stuff WITH OTHER WOMEN. This has nothing to do with male groups that had their own hierarchies and moral code.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:21 AM
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Ukraine? Finland, Greece. They recently tried to bring back military service in Germany for men only. Of course men didn't sign up for it because who would want to fight for a gynocentric society.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:19 AM
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Alternatively look at how many counties, even in the West, are still drafting men only.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:15 AM
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Look at how Stephen Miller was ridiculed for supposedly not properly protecting his wife during the recent shooting. https://www.yahoo.com/news/articles/stephen-miller-pregnant-wife-fires-160543535.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAAJtaDjbElKuRVFO14IVM4BcohhiHZC_KZx7IiqhJwFnKMB5FQFiYcUmSss1Csf9kJNV38a7-hw27UlMsMnifIDSML5nTRlSS0sNBm3Hgd80978z2YoTlOuNi1u6-oZmSDW9Xzj2UrnSkRBqZMZMj51RHaRsJNu2cf80pqi5K7_5m
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:13 AM
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Unfortunately men are still shamed by gynocentrists for not putting themselves in the line of fire for women. Even trading and red pill men fall for this. And maybe in a properly patriarchal society men would have an obligation to do this, but we haven't lived in such a society for a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 09:10 AM
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Why on Earth would a grown man expect empathy from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/26 04:22 AM
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Read Yukio Mishima's Discourse on Misogyny to understand how women came to be considered morally superior.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:35 AM
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Women are superior, BY THE STANDARDS OF CHRISTIAN SLAVE MORALITY that favours the weak and the oppressed. For some reason people think that this way of thinking is universal when it's clearly not. There have been multiple societies where to be moral is to be male and the only thing women were good for was obeying their men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/26 07:30 AM
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I predict that it's only a matter of time before they introduce a childless tax but it will be for men only. They wil argue that women shouldn't have to pay because of the pink tax and because tampons are too expensive. Feminists and simps will defend this and blame men for the low birth rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/26 05:56 AM
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Sure, I didn't mean to say they are equivalent.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:10 PM
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Maybe not criticism but at least we,as a society, should be honest about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 03:00 PM
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The problem isn't so much that the mainstream criticizes masculinity, it's that they absolutely refuse to criticize women in any way shape or form. Lets take the movie Obsession for example. Yes, there are many many men who would be happy with mind raping women and making them their slaves as long as they could not get caught. I estimate that a good 30% of men would be seriously tempted. However, what about a woman that criticizes women? Why don't they show us that a good 80% of women would neve…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 02:56 PM
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No it's a retarded idea. Instead of trying to increase pair bonding they propose to make things worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/26 12:08 PM
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Blue Pill: The idea that women are not interested in most men is incel propaganda! Meanwhile, Cambridge University: https://www.cambridge.org/core/journals/politics-and-the-life-sciences/article/toward-individualistic-reproduction-solving-the-fertility-crisis-could-require-a-further-marginalization-of-men/F26A4750B666344157278B72CFC5D223 Almost all women still want to reproduce, but many struggle to find a good-enough partner. This article argues from an evolutionary perspective that many men’s …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:09 PM
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Traditionally, men didn't even expect wives to love them, they expected them to respect and obey them. This is because men always knew that women will never love men in the doting way that men love women. But apparently we have forgotten that simple truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 03:17 AM
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I literally never said that women are evil succubi. They have defects just like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/26 02:18 AM
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If you're a man why on Earth would you expect sympathy from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/26 09:58 AM
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You got me there.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:06 PM
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I love how everything that decenters women a little is interpreted as hateful.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:32 PM
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You wouldn't want to be a serial killer but you would want to be powerful and have real agency. Be honest with yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:28 PM
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50 shades of Gray is literally based on a Twilight fanfic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:26 PM
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Yes, if immortal, ageless vampires were real there would be tons of women who would want to fuck them. Anything else is wishful thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:05 PM
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Male and female sexuality are different
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 02:40 PM
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How about "don't make women the center of the universe"?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:24 PM
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This is because men's mentality, even within the Red Pill, is entirely based on the fantasy of settling down with a nice girl. This is why men get so frustrated when things don't go as they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 01:14 PM
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This is literally me encouraging men to only worry about themselves and not about women's perception of them. If it was up to me, I would encourage men to not get married at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:53 PM
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Men who fight for custody usually get some custody unless there are good reasons why they shouldn't get it. I have a lot of experience with divorce to know this. Your second point is simply a gynocentric mindset that men should value themselves based on what women want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:38 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:31 PM
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Probably true but if you're not a woman why do you care?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:30 PM
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The only pieces of media that push the idea that you can be a meek, fat, "nice" guy and still get a hot girl are created by men for men as male fantasy. When you read actual romance novels by women for women, the male love interest is usually a tall Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 12:06 PM
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People complain about Lupita playing Helen, meanwhile I'm more worried about the film being anti-male just like most of these modern adaptations of Greek mythology. They always choose the version of the myth that paints the men in the worst light possible and the women in the best light possible. See: Any book by Jennifer Saint, Clytemnestra by Costanza Cassati that portrayed Agamemnon as a literal sociopath even though they Greeks thought of him as morally complicated, A Thousand Ships by Natal…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 08:39 AM
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Maybe where you live it's unlikely to be drafted. Here in Greece, it's not at all out of the realm of possibility. Also, look at Ukraine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 07:53 AM
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If you're a red pill aware man and still support gynocentric notions like the male-only draft, men being providers, men being responsible for protecting women and that men should get married and have kids, you're a huge part of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 05:45 AM
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Here in Greece they will just send the men to fight and women would leave the country and talk about how "women are the real victims of war". We already have mandatory military service for men only. In other countries that are even more feminized, I imagine they would try to find some compromise to delay the war. Assuming the US doesn't help at all, the European countries would definitely lose in the long run. This is because European men are totally emasculated, migrants have no incentive to fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/26 03:59 AM
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The way the Midsommar movie is framed it's like the ending is somehow triumphant for the female character. I'll check out the other shows you mentioned.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:52 AM
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There's nothing pro-incel in this movie. If anything this movie totally validates the feminist idea that men feel entitled to women's bodies. And I actually didn't mind the protagonist being kind of a dick, but they also went out of their way to portray his male friend as unsympathetic too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 10:10 AM
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Unfortunately, Obsession is yet another "Men bad" movie as if there was a lack of them in 2026. Notice how both the protagonist and his male friend are unsympathetic while the two female characters are pure and innocent. More "Men bad" movies and shows: House of the Dragon: They even went as far as to whitewash the evil stepmother from the book because god forbid a woman is bad. The male characters however are extremely evil. Adolescence: A show about how the manosphere is bad and the funny thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/26 09:41 AM
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Aren't like 50% of pro-life advocates women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:26 AM
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I literally don't give a shit if Erdogan decides to conquer us. This shithole of a country deserves to fall.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 05:26 AM
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Here in Greece there is 12 month mandatory service for men only and women still expect fully equal rights and act like they're oppressed. Not that I blame them. I blame the men of the country for still enforcing the draft.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:13 AM
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I literally don't care about what feminists support in theory when I don't see them backing it up with action. I blame men primarily though for still clinging into traditional masculinity instead of letting it all burn.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 04:07 AM
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Nobody should have to die for gynocentric society. I support the Ukrainian draft dodgers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/26 03:52 AM
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There were lots of criticisms about how he was low-key stalking her.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 08:26 AM
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Remember that 50 shades of gray was criticised as shockingly rapey at the time. Now in 2026 it is basically mild compared to what gets published out there. Female love for dominant bad boys is not even secret anymore and anyone who denies this is willfully blind.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/26 07:20 AM
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There's nothing to discuss. The information is there for anyone who wants to find it. Men are more likely to be homeless, commit suicide or generally die earlier in life. And the stats are pretty consistent across most cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 05:05 PM
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Many people think I hate women but I really don't. Most men would do the same or worse if they had the sexual options of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/26 01:40 PM
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There was legit a case just a while ago where a female prison guard was trying to get pregnant with an incarcerated rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/26 06:20 AM
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The whole point of the phrase is to NOT see women as property.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:30 PM
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True. If Elliot Rogers hadn't killed himself he would be getting love letters right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:28 PM
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Dahmer was gay. We were talking about women. And the people she listed were not rapists.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 04:26 PM
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But if men say "she's not yours its just your turn" that's seen as misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:43 AM
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There are not enough violent misogynistic around to be able to tell. I will say though thay I've noticed that abusive men are almost never seen without a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:42 AM
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True.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:36 AM
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"All men are privileged". "I would choose the bear" (because men are dangerous and violent)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:27 AM
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If feminists can make large, unfair generalisations about men, why can't we do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 10:08 AM
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They don't have to try. Europe is so weak that it'll happen naturally at some point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:44 AM
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Me: I love Muslims and want them to take over Europe. You: That's racist!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 09:13 AM
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Red Pill aware men who oppose mass immigration in Europe to "protect women" are still cucks who place women on a pedestal. Why do you wanna fight for a society that hates you? I personally welcome our future Muslim overlords at this point.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 06:04 AM
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I think there are plenty of men who would gladly date a woman who makes more than them. There are also men who would love to be stay-at-home dads. The question is whether women like these guys or go for the more ambitious men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:46 AM
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It makes sense doesn't it? To be a rapist you need a certain level of arrogance and aggressiveness that incels don't have because it has been beaten out of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 09:51 AM
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What I find interesting is that most famous rapists are not the ugly , incel kind but handsome and charming men. In fact, some of them not only weren't incels but they actually had girlfriends and wives at the time when they committed their crimes. (think of Paul Bernando, Ted Bundy and the Toy Box Killer, all of them were in committed relationships) Really makes you think doesn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/26 08:50 AM
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Women are sheep who follow social norms. (men are sheep as well, but there is a bit more variation in men) If the social norms of the society they live in include patriotism, they will be patriotic. If the social norms promote ethno-nihilism and hatred of their own nations, they will hate their own nations.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 10:08 AM
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Schopenhauer's On Women vs. Yukio Mishima's Discourse on Misogyny. Vote for the best essay!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 06:58 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/26 03:55 AM
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I honestly love this. We should be promoting this because it's just so funny. I'll just wait for even the Women's chess champion to be trans.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:23 PM
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Imagine being the physically vulnerable sex that bleeds every month, suffers from PMS and gets sexually harassed by perverts from the moment you hit puberty. I can't blame them for being who they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 01:21 PM
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No the point is that men should wake up and stop complaining all the time because none of this shit is new
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 12:03 PM
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Their love for Chad is still based on admiration and respect.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:55 AM
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I never said it was easier. I have said before that now it's the best time to be a man if you play your cards right.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:53 AM
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The position is that men shouldn't have unrealistic explanations if they don't want to be disappointed. Also, yes we should bring back male friendships. Nowadays married men ignore their male friends and act like their wife is their friend. Guess who ends up with no support network when the divorce comes?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:48 AM
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It's just a post for the men who have unrealistic expectations of women. They want women to love them the way they love a puppy. This will never happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 11:46 AM
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I don't support the idea that we should return to the old patriarchy. It's unrealistic and unethical for many reasons. However, from a purely theoretical perspective we can now see why our ancestors chose to oppress women the way they did. Women simply can't love and respect men unless they fear them a bit.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/26 03:48 AM
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I'm seeing many feminists here in Europe campaigning for women getting extra paid leave days because of periods. We're going full circle, from "women are just as capable as men" to "women are biologically weaker and need special treatment". I am not against it on principle because I do recognize women's biological differences but you do see the irony, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:43 AM
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Western Europeans are already there and prove 50/50 can work. Men should just swallow their delusions of masculine pride and make women pay.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:34 AM
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That's not an argument it's just a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:27 AM
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I literally said in the OP that feminism is good for men. Men are just idiots for still following traditional gender norms. They should just say fuck it all and see what happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:21 AM
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Because these men are idiots, plain and simple. However, more and more men are waking up. Here in Greece, there's an increase of men looking for loopholes to avoid conscription.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 07:03 AM
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It's not caused by feminists but feminists never do anything to fight male conscription but they are happy to say we live in a sexist anti-woman society, when women literally have more rights than men. (In countries with mandatory male conscription like Finland or Greece)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:52 AM
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I have said it before and I'll say it again. Feminism is the best thing that happened to men. These men who complain are just idiots because they still try to live up to traditionally masculine values while living in a society that actively hates traditional masculinity. Recently, in Germany they tried to get men to volunteer for conscription. Out of the 300,000 men who were called, only 500something responded positively. If you ask me, I think 500something is still too many men. Men should outr…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:40 AM
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I am not a fan of feminism, mainly because they refuse to accept sex differences exist, but there seems to be some truth to the idea. Men are overall the aggressive, violent gender and depression in men often leads to aggressiveness. Just like feminists are idiots for not admitting simple biological differences, red pillers are equally idiotic for refusing to accept how dangerous men can be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:12 AM
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Until people admit that male and female sexuality is different, on average, we can't have an honest discussion about this.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/26 06:06 AM
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Gaming is simply too time wasting. People who watch reality TV don't need to be absolutely concentrating on it. Many women do chores while watching reality TV. The same can't be said about video games where you need to concentrate 100% (at least for most games)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 11:51 AM
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Ok why do men absolutely lose their minds when you tell them that playing video games is unattractive? As a woman with tattoos I don't give a fuck when men say that tattoos are unattractive. And I haven't seen women lose it like that when men make fun of them for watching reality TV. Men why are you so sensitive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/26 10:21 AM
5

I love it how men shame women for not being honest about their preferences but then lose their minds when a woman says that it's unattractive for a man to play video games.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 09:24 PM
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I think there are some women who not only ignore blatant red flags but actively choose bad men. (Because of hybristophilia? Emotional masochism? Self-hatred? Who knows)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/26 11:05 AM
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I started watching Euphoria for the first time and Iegit hate how modern TV shows tend to demonize everything masculine. Of course the hypermasculine jock is the most irredeemable character. And he's also secretly gay because of course the masculine guy has to be a closeted case. The other characters are treated with more nuance and compassion even when they're flawed. It would be fine if this wasn't the case with every single show these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/26 11:49 AM
2

So just accept that everything is shit? No attempt to improve things?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 07:52 AM
3

Does it work though? Everywhere I look, I see unhappy married couples that barely tolerate each other. It's very rare to find a married couples that looks like they have a genuinely loving relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 03:56 AM
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Every single time, no matter how involved the stepdad was, he gets dropped like a hot potato when mom breaks up with him.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/26 06:49 PM
1

Exactly my point
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 02:16 PM
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I truly think men should pick up some romance novels for women. The male love interest is almost always described as a Chad looking dude with male model physique. Books for guys that have romance are actually way more likely to feature a girl next door type, which should tell you a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 10:31 AM
2

That's total bullshit. Just say no. Say no to their drafts, the societal obligations. Never become a provider. Spout back the woke bullshit if you have to, it's easier than ever to dodge responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:50 AM
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And this is why men have the power.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 09:14 AM
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Good luck stopping people from doing what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:59 AM
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There's nothing stopping you from having a long term relationship, just be aware that women can always leave for any reason and plan accordingly. Never date a woman who doesn't have a job and don't fall for the provider mindset. Any divorce lawyer will tell you that stay-at-home wives are the worst when it comes to divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:47 AM
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Unless you're deformed or mentally disabled, you have no excuse to not level up. Just learn game and not be a fat slob.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/26 08:38 AM
5

Most disabled don't have to go, they get exceptions. But I heard that in some cases it's harder to get a government job if you get an exception so I know some parents who try to get their disabled sons conscripted anyway. They don't care if you do well or not. If they think you break the rules during service they can send you to military prison.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/26 02:10 PM
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I live in a country where there's mandatory military service for men only. Men get no "perks" and their careers are often hindered by the wasted time.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/04/26 09:33 AM
1

I just feel like it's always like this. He always seems influenced by other people and this is a turn off.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/26 03:10 PM
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He's due to inherit the money but in my opinion he appeases her way too much.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/26 11:44 AM
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He has a wealthy childless aunt who is like a mother figure to him and she has immense influence in his life. It was little things like changing some things about our wedding just because his aunt said so. I meant what I said but I still have feelings and we've been together for a very long time.
/r/RedPillWomen17/03/26 09:15 AM
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This was exactly me including the stalking part.
/r/ExRedPill28/02/26 02:24 PM
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Yea man, at best they will stay "neutral" and try to be friends with both you and the ex. But you won't be able to trust them with anything because you will never know what they're telling your ex. Better find new friends.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 10:43 AM
1

You should expect your entire relationship to change, it will be all about the kids for at least 10 years. It's not a bad thing, it's just what it is.
/r/Divorce_Men27/12/25 06:50 PM
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Been there. Total waste of time my man.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 08:21 PM
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You don't have kids, so what you waiting for? Just leave. No point in wasting your short life with someone you're not compatible with. Don't feel sorry for her, this person made the decision as an adult to not have a job. You're not responsible for her well-being anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/25 09:55 AM
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Don't expect any justice, you won't get it. As cliche as it sounds , the best revenge is living your best life.
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/25 05:21 AM
5

No, just child support.
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/25 10:53 AM
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It's to be expected. Another thing is that even if you think the bio dad is a deadbeat, a useless bum and an asshole, there's still a huge chance the stepkids will prefer him over you. This is why I don't think men should be emotionally invested in SKs. Be more like mom's friend to them than a parental figure.
/r/Divorce_Men12/09/25 04:30 AM
2

I'm struggling with this too because I have found that my man has major blind spots in certain areas. Like I want to trust him and let him do his own thing but I fear he'll mess up.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/25 07:12 AM
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What's even worse is that all of those couples who were your and your wife's "mutual friends" will end up siding with the wife post-divorce regardless of what happened. This is because the women will side with the women no matter what while the men will obediently follow their wives to avoid any nagging. Even if they were originally your friends you shouldn't be expecting much.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/25 04:08 AM
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I agree. No matter what the man does it will be painted in a negative light. Edit: You find a new girlfriend="wow he's abandoning his kids". You give up on dating all together="your father is a loser that no woman wants which is why I divorced him". You're a great father=she'll feel you're overshadowing her and making her look bad. You're a deadbeat dad=wow what a monster. You pay the maximum amount of child support=still not enough.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/25 04:10 AM
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It´s not about gaming them, it´s that nobody respects a man who is perceived as weak, not even his own kids.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 09:22 AM
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Go to the gym, take care of yourself, start dating other women. Your daughters are going to come closer to you once they feel like their inheritance could be threatened by a potential new child or your girlfriend. But don't make a mistake to date a woman who will actually ruin your relationship with your daughters because those exist too. You should always have an abundance mindset.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 06:21 AM
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I started dating my boyfriend when he was divorcing because of his ex wife's infidelity. 4 years later, this is what we've learned. a) Don't try to talk about the mother's infidelity to the kids, even if they're older. 9/10 they will take her side and you will be the bad guy. b) Most so-called "mutual friends" will take a neutral stance and even eventually welcome the AP. This is why I think men make a huge mistake when they make their wife responsible for their social life. c) Be patient, try t…
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/25 07:10 PM
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Ok I was thinking about this post. I think your main problem is that you´re not attracted to this women. If you were attracted to her then the issues you mentioned would be unimportant. Be honest with yourself and don´t lead her on. Get therapy if needed.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/25 09:54 AM
2

Like how old is she? Does she want kids? I am dating a divorced man with kids and we´re still on the fence about having an "ours" baby. I lean towards remaining childfree because of issues of neurodivergence.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/25 09:44 AM
2

I am not one of the "therapy solves everything" people, but in this case I think it could help you figure out what you want.
/r/Divorce_Men19/05/25 08:51 AM
6

My boyfriend had his daughter at 44. My uncle had his son at 47.
/r/Divorce_Men17/05/25 11:40 AM
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People make fun of this, but I legit know a man who left his wife and mother of his kid for a MARRIED woman with kids who is also 12 years older than him. They both cheated on their spouses with each other and then divorced and got together.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/25 07:16 AM
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Unfortunately, there´s a lot of prejudice when it comes to single men being around kids. My boyfriend has kids from a previous marriage and he´s facing similar prejudice from the parents of his daughter´s friends. Luckily, the father of one of his daughter´s friends is his homeboy, so he still organizes some sleepovers and events with that particular friend.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/25 07:42 PM
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