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I found myself coming here less and less which is good.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/24 01:22 PM
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You are so fucked
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/24 08:47 PM
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At least she's asking
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 08:24 PM
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I wouldn't say that he gave her his best but he probably just loved her more recklessly which is obviously not gonna be the case after going through this hell
/r/Divorce_Men29/02/24 08:24 PM
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Haha oh yeah I am definitely a lot more ruthless while dating. Every girl I have been the one to end things.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/24 05:39 AM
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I get that a lot actually
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/24 05:29 AM
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I'm trying.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/24 08:48 AM
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I'm feeling the same way tonight. But it will pass. Give it 12 hours.
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/24 07:38 AM
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Playing hockey 4 times a week. I was the best goalie in my league a season ago.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/24 07:53 PM
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I drank way too much, was way too harsh with my words, smoked weed, and could be abusive at times. I'll never forgive myself but I will continue to always improve.
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 06:02 PM
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Oh hell naw
/r/Divorce_Men21/02/24 05:54 PM
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That's weird. She can just make tacos without refried beans in it?
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 06:54 AM
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It is a typical revenge fantasy. Just talking out of my ass. Whoever reported me is fucking gay
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 06:52 AM
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A friend of mine actually left his wife, got a much hotter wife and a big house and I still see this darkness over him whenever the subject of his ex-wife comes up. I don't think the anger ever truly stops.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 07:44 AM
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/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 04:17 AM
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That is truly horrific. Mine wasn't as much of a surprise. It was shocking, but not completely unexpected. We had some major blowouts. Lots of crying. But the weekend before she left was so good. I was so happy and relieved. I hope you have made much progress
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 10:14 AM
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I got into the swinging scene as a single male for a while, I have been to two orgies and I have been with one prostitute and I have left all of those experiences feeling very empty.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 10:11 AM
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Why do you think it takes us so long to recover but women seem to go on as if it were nothing?
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 03:19 AM
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Well the lowest point for me is knowing that she is with someone else. I truly believe that she remained faithful. Not sure what your low point will be. But on the plus side the healing will truly begin at that point.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 01:45 AM
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Ah man. You are so early in the process. You got a ways to go. It'll get worse but then it'll get better.
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 01:36 AM
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If you are average or below then you are going to have a very hard time
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/24 06:37 AM
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The pain never goes away but it does get better
/r/Divorce_Men02/02/24 08:22 PM
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Dude I tried so hard to compromise with housework until I went blue in the face. Fuck. So I just decided to do all of it. I wasn't in a partnership at all. I just had a messy roommate.
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/24 08:34 PM
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Honestly I agree with this. It is amazing to be at this point in 3 months. I haven't seen my ex-wife in almost 2 years and if I saw her I think I would just die.
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/24 05:35 PM
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Avoidant. She also uses some people. She was broke in college and manipulated a guy friend into buying her groceries. I did not know until he messaged me about it telling me that he was cutting her off. I confronted her about it and she said to not listen to him "because he's weak" I had never been so disgusted by her before... yet I still married her because we had been through so much already and I didn't think I'd find anybody else. The fear of scarcity is destructive.
/r/Divorce_Men25/01/24 01:52 AM
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I never moved from the place that we lived in together and this place is now starting to seem like my own. It's hard imagining that she ever lived here.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/24 08:19 PM
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I would be disgusted
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/24 08:28 PM
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I hit her as well. It was all toxic. Again, I am not a victim. Edit: I looked up what IC is. I did go. It was part of my plea agreement to go to individual and group counseling for domestic violence. I think I have found out a way to stop the cycle of abuse. I haven't tested it out yet. I just know how to navigate really bad situations like that.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/24 10:20 PM
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I appreciate that. I have my good and bad days. I will never be able to truly forgive myself for what happened in our marriage. Had I been a better household leader and husband this would have never happened. Some days she's the devil, some days she's the one that got away, and others I believe that this is just the flow of life. I am no victim, though. Despite the domestic violence that went on in our relationship, I miss my poopy and it sucks.
/r/Divorce_Men17/01/24 09:17 PM
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No and no. She gave one of the dogs away to a friend when I was in jail. As for the other, that was her very first dog and my third. I wasn't going to take that dog away from her. And there was a mandatory protection order placed upon my arrest. I wasn't able to talk to her for 18 months. I sent her a letter apologizing for the whole situation and wishing her the best a few months ago. It was the closure I needed.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 04:38 PM
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I did. I f***** up. When I saw that she took my two dogs I had a mental breakdown and left a death threat via email since she blocked me on everything else. I was in jail for 5 days until my family bonded me out. I had to go through 18 months of probation and go through individual and group therapy for domestic violence. I handled it very poorly but what I learned during that time somewhat made it worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/24 01:39 AM
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Huge W
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/24 05:22 PM
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Her. Worst day of my life.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/24 10:35 PM
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Looking for reason out of a woman's actions is usually a fruitless endeavor
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 11:19 PM
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It is definitely not all bad. I have taken many life lessons from it and had I learned about some of those lessons this situation would have never happened.
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 05:14 PM
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I'm 31 and I have been working in web and software development for almost 10 years
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/23 05:12 PM
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We abused each other. And I know her. She had the entire thing planned for months, even years. She is just a very practical person and wouldn't double back like that. It is done. Zero infidelity.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/23 12:01 PM
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I can say many things about my ex but a double backer she is not. The way it went down, there is zero chance of her ever coming back.
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/23 12:39 AM
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Yeah I'll stop bitching
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/23 11:36 PM
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Holy fuck
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/23 11:22 PM
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Because we lost our virginities together
/r/Divorce_Men23/10/23 09:24 AM
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That's why man caves are a thing. It is our way to be happy. We are pushed into a room of our own homes
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 11:19 PM
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You are damn right about everything else seeming like nothing. Things like starting a business seem like less of a daunting prospect. It was also under stated just how much of an undertaking inviting another woman into your life is. Ugh. Loss of solitude and constant turmoil in my life.
/r/Divorce_Men22/10/23 06:04 PM
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